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4qpnd2 | legaladvice_train | 0.91 | [CA] A girl I knew has written numerous tumblr posts accusing me of raping her, to the point where it shows up when you google my name. Can I sue for libel or defamation? There was never any point in which we engaged in anything non-consensual. We never had PIV sex, and when we did drink together, nothing sexual ever happened until the morning after. Regardless, I can't prove any of this. Neither can she, of course. We haven't seen each other in two years, and it seems she's made numerous posts accusing me in that time. I'm concerned about what will happen if employers, friends, or anyone else googles me. I don't really know what to do, since looking around seems to tell me that libel suits can be very expensive and usually don't amount to anything unless you can prove that what the person is saying is false. I know I didn't do anything, but how can I prove that, especially given how long ago it was? I'm also worried that taking any action at all will just result in more attention being drawn to this. I really feel completely lost and sick to my stomach about all of this. Any advice is appreciated. | d4v07ug | d4vehd2 | 1,467,350,866 | 1,467,385,593 | 5 | 13 | You can sue but there are some issues. You would have to prove a fair bit. You have to prove by a preponderance each of the following things: * It is fact and not opinion * It is false * Tends to cause damage (Eg. you can't sue because someone lied about your hair color) This is easy because CA has defamation per se * The defendant's was at least negligent The actual hard part is the second element. The other three are quite easy in your case but you need more than he said she said to prove this. Also the SOL is 1 year for defamation. | While you may not have the best grounds for a lawsuit, nothing's stopping you from having a lawyer write a scary cease-and-desist and send it to her. Couple hundred bucks at the most, and a lot of times just the threat of a lawsuit is enough to make people back down. Couldn't hurt. | 0 | 34,727 | 2.6 |
nfbhtj | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | Guy from high school days is contacting other alumni trying to sell/trade nudes of girls from that high school. Can he be charged with CP distribution as some of these photos are of girls when they were under 18? Quite a few people that I went to high school with have been quietly cautioning against interactions with this guy in the past few weeks because of his propositioning. This morning I finally saw a screenshot of him asking if they (the person who screenshotted) knew anyone who would be interested in buying nude photos from 3 specifically named girls who were in high school at the same time as him. This guy is like 30 years old now, as are most of the people he's claiming to have photos of. One woman told me she's called the police but they weren't helpful at all. This guy lives in Virginia now but we all went to school in Pennsylvania. While I haven't seen any of the actual photos, one of the girls he named is very close with me and I know she had an issue with an ex-boyfriend of hers posting revenge photos of her on some online forum and she had only ever sent those photos to him. If this guy has THOSE photos somehow, they were taken when she was 15-16 years old. He claims to have photos of at least 5-6 other girls in his creepy collection. What is the best way to go about getting some kind of response/action from the police in his area? Do I contact the state troopers or local PD? | gyn5p8q | gymx8h7 | 1,621,387,632 | 1,621,383,381 | 5 | 4 | According to the US Department of Justice: > To report an incident involving the possession, distribution, receipt, or production of child pornography, file a report on the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC)'s website at www.cybertipline.com, or call 1-800-843-5678. Your report will be forwarded to a law enforcement agency for investigation and action. | https://www.fbi.gov/investigate/violent-crime/cac Call the fbi they will figure it out. | 1 | 4,251 | 1.25 |
u3voll | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | I can't obtain transcripts from High School. I can't get into college as a result My high school will not respond to any requests to obtain transcripts so I can apply for college. I've been attempting to reach them for several years now. Some things I've tried: - contact the district. The district and the school are the same building and have the same points of contact - contacted individual teachers. They will not answer emails or calls. - contacted the state dept of education. They told me they can't help Unless the school is defunct. I haven't tried actually going to the school physically. But the school is across the United States from me and I can't afford the travel and time off work to take a week to get there and back. This is preventing me from getting into any major university, it's preventing me from getting jobs. Even if a college did accept me I can't apply for any financial aid. I don't want to get a GED just to avoid them because I was the valedictorian and I earned it, I shouldn't have to graduate school twice because of my high school's administrative laziness. What can I do? | i4ruket | i4ryekj | 1,649,983,131 | 1,649,984,953 | 19 | 113 | Did you call the school? | Call your former congressperson (state and/or federal for the school district). They are pretty good at fighting bureaucratical BS. | 0 | 1,822 | 5.947368 |
u3voll | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | I can't obtain transcripts from High School. I can't get into college as a result My high school will not respond to any requests to obtain transcripts so I can apply for college. I've been attempting to reach them for several years now. Some things I've tried: - contact the district. The district and the school are the same building and have the same points of contact - contacted individual teachers. They will not answer emails or calls. - contacted the state dept of education. They told me they can't help Unless the school is defunct. I haven't tried actually going to the school physically. But the school is across the United States from me and I can't afford the travel and time off work to take a week to get there and back. This is preventing me from getting into any major university, it's preventing me from getting jobs. Even if a college did accept me I can't apply for any financial aid. I don't want to get a GED just to avoid them because I was the valedictorian and I earned it, I shouldn't have to graduate school twice because of my high school's administrative laziness. What can I do? | i4sjtdm | i4s3z31 | 1,649,995,601 | 1,649,987,541 | 90 | 44 | I know something similar to this was already suggested: If you are in the US, send your request certified mail, receipt requested, through USPS. | Have you tried National Student Clearinghouse? | 1 | 8,060 | 2.045455 |
u3voll | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | I can't obtain transcripts from High School. I can't get into college as a result My high school will not respond to any requests to obtain transcripts so I can apply for college. I've been attempting to reach them for several years now. Some things I've tried: - contact the district. The district and the school are the same building and have the same points of contact - contacted individual teachers. They will not answer emails or calls. - contacted the state dept of education. They told me they can't help Unless the school is defunct. I haven't tried actually going to the school physically. But the school is across the United States from me and I can't afford the travel and time off work to take a week to get there and back. This is preventing me from getting into any major university, it's preventing me from getting jobs. Even if a college did accept me I can't apply for any financial aid. I don't want to get a GED just to avoid them because I was the valedictorian and I earned it, I shouldn't have to graduate school twice because of my high school's administrative laziness. What can I do? | i4s5cel | i4sjtdm | 1,649,988,191 | 1,649,995,601 | 42 | 90 | Write a letter requesting a transcript and send it by first class mail. After 14 days without response send the same letter with return receipt requested. If you cannot wait a month, skip ahead to the second letter. Be aware they will probably ask for a fee of some sort. Does the school have a website? Maybe they only use a third-party transcript provider for a few. The most common transcript provider is Parchment. | I know something similar to this was already suggested: If you are in the US, send your request certified mail, receipt requested, through USPS. | 0 | 7,410 | 2.142857 |
u3voll | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | I can't obtain transcripts from High School. I can't get into college as a result My high school will not respond to any requests to obtain transcripts so I can apply for college. I've been attempting to reach them for several years now. Some things I've tried: - contact the district. The district and the school are the same building and have the same points of contact - contacted individual teachers. They will not answer emails or calls. - contacted the state dept of education. They told me they can't help Unless the school is defunct. I haven't tried actually going to the school physically. But the school is across the United States from me and I can't afford the travel and time off work to take a week to get there and back. This is preventing me from getting into any major university, it's preventing me from getting jobs. Even if a college did accept me I can't apply for any financial aid. I don't want to get a GED just to avoid them because I was the valedictorian and I earned it, I shouldn't have to graduate school twice because of my high school's administrative laziness. What can I do? | i4ruket | i4sjtdm | 1,649,983,131 | 1,649,995,601 | 19 | 90 | Did you call the school? | I know something similar to this was already suggested: If you are in the US, send your request certified mail, receipt requested, through USPS. | 0 | 12,470 | 4.736842 |
u3voll | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | I can't obtain transcripts from High School. I can't get into college as a result My high school will not respond to any requests to obtain transcripts so I can apply for college. I've been attempting to reach them for several years now. Some things I've tried: - contact the district. The district and the school are the same building and have the same points of contact - contacted individual teachers. They will not answer emails or calls. - contacted the state dept of education. They told me they can't help Unless the school is defunct. I haven't tried actually going to the school physically. But the school is across the United States from me and I can't afford the travel and time off work to take a week to get there and back. This is preventing me from getting into any major university, it's preventing me from getting jobs. Even if a college did accept me I can't apply for any financial aid. I don't want to get a GED just to avoid them because I was the valedictorian and I earned it, I shouldn't have to graduate school twice because of my high school's administrative laziness. What can I do? | i4s3z31 | i4ruket | 1,649,987,541 | 1,649,983,131 | 44 | 19 | Have you tried National Student Clearinghouse? | Did you call the school? | 1 | 4,410 | 2.315789 |
u3voll | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | I can't obtain transcripts from High School. I can't get into college as a result My high school will not respond to any requests to obtain transcripts so I can apply for college. I've been attempting to reach them for several years now. Some things I've tried: - contact the district. The district and the school are the same building and have the same points of contact - contacted individual teachers. They will not answer emails or calls. - contacted the state dept of education. They told me they can't help Unless the school is defunct. I haven't tried actually going to the school physically. But the school is across the United States from me and I can't afford the travel and time off work to take a week to get there and back. This is preventing me from getting into any major university, it's preventing me from getting jobs. Even if a college did accept me I can't apply for any financial aid. I don't want to get a GED just to avoid them because I was the valedictorian and I earned it, I shouldn't have to graduate school twice because of my high school's administrative laziness. What can I do? | i4ruket | i4s5cel | 1,649,983,131 | 1,649,988,191 | 19 | 42 | Did you call the school? | Write a letter requesting a transcript and send it by first class mail. After 14 days without response send the same letter with return receipt requested. If you cannot wait a month, skip ahead to the second letter. Be aware they will probably ask for a fee of some sort. Does the school have a website? Maybe they only use a third-party transcript provider for a few. The most common transcript provider is Parchment. | 0 | 5,060 | 2.210526 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eet3y17 | eetcxxt | 1,548,290,606 | 1,548,297,380 | 538 | 680 | I would gather reports from all the neighbors and (as a group) have a lawyer send a nicely worded "there's a problem here" letter to the range, city/county/ state, and anyone else who might have a say in the operation of a range. Ranges can be built (and retrofitted) with overhead baffles that keep bullets from exiting the range over the top of the backstop, so there are options which should satisfy all parties. It's more complicated if there's action shooting (shooters moving around rather than firing from a fixed position), but it is possible. | I am not a lawyer. I do live in TX (and I own guns, and have shot at several ranges in cities.) I call BS on the "we can't do anything" response from the city. Find out exactly what laws they're referring to. There may also be county-level ordinances that apply. Any range that allows bullets to escape the range and hit residences is operating in an unsafe manner. If you can't get any traction with the city (and they could be trying to cover their butts over a zoning screwup), you may be able to get somewhere with the range's insurance carrier. | 0 | 6,774 | 1.263941 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eet3bt7 | eetcxxt | 1,548,290,124 | 1,548,297,380 | 77 | 680 | Sue the gun range. Get all the documentation you can, go a lawyer, and sue them. | I am not a lawyer. I do live in TX (and I own guns, and have shot at several ranges in cities.) I call BS on the "we can't do anything" response from the city. Find out exactly what laws they're referring to. There may also be county-level ordinances that apply. Any range that allows bullets to escape the range and hit residences is operating in an unsafe manner. If you can't get any traction with the city (and they could be trying to cover their butts over a zoning screwup), you may be able to get somewhere with the range's insurance carrier. | 0 | 7,256 | 8.831169 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eetcxxt | eetasbn | 1,548,297,380 | 1,548,295,708 | 680 | 14 | I am not a lawyer. I do live in TX (and I own guns, and have shot at several ranges in cities.) I call BS on the "we can't do anything" response from the city. Find out exactly what laws they're referring to. There may also be county-level ordinances that apply. Any range that allows bullets to escape the range and hit residences is operating in an unsafe manner. If you can't get any traction with the city (and they could be trying to cover their butts over a zoning screwup), you may be able to get somewhere with the range's insurance carrier. | Texas has nutty zoning laws but even for Texas this is pretty absurd I would suggest talking to local government more. | 1 | 1,672 | 48.571429 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eet3y17 | eet3bt7 | 1,548,290,606 | 1,548,290,124 | 538 | 77 | I would gather reports from all the neighbors and (as a group) have a lawyer send a nicely worded "there's a problem here" letter to the range, city/county/ state, and anyone else who might have a say in the operation of a range. Ranges can be built (and retrofitted) with overhead baffles that keep bullets from exiting the range over the top of the backstop, so there are options which should satisfy all parties. It's more complicated if there's action shooting (shooters moving around rather than firing from a fixed position), but it is possible. | Sue the gun range. Get all the documentation you can, go a lawyer, and sue them. | 1 | 482 | 6.987013 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eete1fj | eeu9w0k | 1,548,298,221 | 1,548,335,335 | 160 | 325 | The zoning dispute has got to be interesting — developers siting new houses within range of target shooters, with stray rounds hitting the houses, and all this within city limits. How does this even happen? | In Texas, a home seller is required to disclose certain things to the buyer. Form OP-H is typically used for this. Section 6 requires the seller to disclose whether there is "any condition on the Property which materially affects the physical health or safety of an individual." Look through your closing paperwork for that form. See what Section 6 says. If it doesn't say anything about incoming bullets, then the builder has an issue. Then, you and your neighbors should go see a lawyer, You want a bulldog on this, because you want the thread of a lawsuit and bad publicity to force the builder and gun range to fix the problem. There will be a bunch of legal wrangling, and here's the solution that shoould result: the firing range increases the height of its berm. The cost of increasing that height will be borne in part by the builder and in part by the gun range owner. There's even a chance that the builder (or its insurance company) will buy out the gun range entirely. That will not help you with the sound of gun fire coming from the range -- you bought next to a gun range, and that's a risk you bear. Hopefully you paid less because of it. But, it should fix the "I'm worried I'll be shot" problem. | 0 | 37,114 | 2.03125 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu7rp2 | eeu9w0k | 1,548,332,902 | 1,548,335,335 | 120 | 325 | This is a long shot, and it would certainly not be my fist course of action, but I would suggest trying to find out who insures the gun range. I would bet the owner is not filing claims for small things like new doors, but eventually something much worse and much more expensive is going to go wrong. Their insurance company has a vested interest in making sure their client has ample protections in place that will limit expensive claims. Right now I think it's clear that the range does not have ample protections in place. Their insurance may insist they upgrade their backstops or risk losing coverage. Insurance is usually a requirement for a business license, so if they lose coverage they won't be licensed long. | In Texas, a home seller is required to disclose certain things to the buyer. Form OP-H is typically used for this. Section 6 requires the seller to disclose whether there is "any condition on the Property which materially affects the physical health or safety of an individual." Look through your closing paperwork for that form. See what Section 6 says. If it doesn't say anything about incoming bullets, then the builder has an issue. Then, you and your neighbors should go see a lawyer, You want a bulldog on this, because you want the thread of a lawsuit and bad publicity to force the builder and gun range to fix the problem. There will be a bunch of legal wrangling, and here's the solution that shoould result: the firing range increases the height of its berm. The cost of increasing that height will be borne in part by the builder and in part by the gun range owner. There's even a chance that the builder (or its insurance company) will buy out the gun range entirely. That will not help you with the sound of gun fire coming from the range -- you bought next to a gun range, and that's a risk you bear. Hopefully you paid less because of it. But, it should fix the "I'm worried I'll be shot" problem. | 0 | 2,433 | 2.708333 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eet3bt7 | eeu9w0k | 1,548,290,124 | 1,548,335,335 | 77 | 325 | Sue the gun range. Get all the documentation you can, go a lawyer, and sue them. | In Texas, a home seller is required to disclose certain things to the buyer. Form OP-H is typically used for this. Section 6 requires the seller to disclose whether there is "any condition on the Property which materially affects the physical health or safety of an individual." Look through your closing paperwork for that form. See what Section 6 says. If it doesn't say anything about incoming bullets, then the builder has an issue. Then, you and your neighbors should go see a lawyer, You want a bulldog on this, because you want the thread of a lawsuit and bad publicity to force the builder and gun range to fix the problem. There will be a bunch of legal wrangling, and here's the solution that shoould result: the firing range increases the height of its berm. The cost of increasing that height will be borne in part by the builder and in part by the gun range owner. There's even a chance that the builder (or its insurance company) will buy out the gun range entirely. That will not help you with the sound of gun fire coming from the range -- you bought next to a gun range, and that's a risk you bear. Hopefully you paid less because of it. But, it should fix the "I'm worried I'll be shot" problem. | 0 | 45,211 | 4.220779 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu7nni | eeu9w0k | 1,548,332,759 | 1,548,335,335 | 17 | 325 | Keep trying to get in contact with people more up the chain of government. If someone is hit by a bullet then the range is gonna face liability and if it gets out that this was made known to people and no one did anything, holy fire will rain down from the higher ups | In Texas, a home seller is required to disclose certain things to the buyer. Form OP-H is typically used for this. Section 6 requires the seller to disclose whether there is "any condition on the Property which materially affects the physical health or safety of an individual." Look through your closing paperwork for that form. See what Section 6 says. If it doesn't say anything about incoming bullets, then the builder has an issue. Then, you and your neighbors should go see a lawyer, You want a bulldog on this, because you want the thread of a lawsuit and bad publicity to force the builder and gun range to fix the problem. There will be a bunch of legal wrangling, and here's the solution that shoould result: the firing range increases the height of its berm. The cost of increasing that height will be borne in part by the builder and in part by the gun range owner. There's even a chance that the builder (or its insurance company) will buy out the gun range entirely. That will not help you with the sound of gun fire coming from the range -- you bought next to a gun range, and that's a risk you bear. Hopefully you paid less because of it. But, it should fix the "I'm worried I'll be shot" problem. | 0 | 2,576 | 19.117647 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu9w0k | eetasbn | 1,548,335,335 | 1,548,295,708 | 325 | 14 | In Texas, a home seller is required to disclose certain things to the buyer. Form OP-H is typically used for this. Section 6 requires the seller to disclose whether there is "any condition on the Property which materially affects the physical health or safety of an individual." Look through your closing paperwork for that form. See what Section 6 says. If it doesn't say anything about incoming bullets, then the builder has an issue. Then, you and your neighbors should go see a lawyer, You want a bulldog on this, because you want the thread of a lawsuit and bad publicity to force the builder and gun range to fix the problem. There will be a bunch of legal wrangling, and here's the solution that shoould result: the firing range increases the height of its berm. The cost of increasing that height will be borne in part by the builder and in part by the gun range owner. There's even a chance that the builder (or its insurance company) will buy out the gun range entirely. That will not help you with the sound of gun fire coming from the range -- you bought next to a gun range, and that's a risk you bear. Hopefully you paid less because of it. But, it should fix the "I'm worried I'll be shot" problem. | Texas has nutty zoning laws but even for Texas this is pretty absurd I would suggest talking to local government more. | 1 | 39,627 | 23.214286 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eete1fj | eet3bt7 | 1,548,298,221 | 1,548,290,124 | 160 | 77 | The zoning dispute has got to be interesting — developers siting new houses within range of target shooters, with stray rounds hitting the houses, and all this within city limits. How does this even happen? | Sue the gun range. Get all the documentation you can, go a lawyer, and sue them. | 1 | 8,097 | 2.077922 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eetasbn | eete1fj | 1,548,295,708 | 1,548,298,221 | 14 | 160 | Texas has nutty zoning laws but even for Texas this is pretty absurd I would suggest talking to local government more. | The zoning dispute has got to be interesting — developers siting new houses within range of target shooters, with stray rounds hitting the houses, and all this within city limits. How does this even happen? | 0 | 2,513 | 11.428571 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu7rp2 | eet3bt7 | 1,548,332,902 | 1,548,290,124 | 120 | 77 | This is a long shot, and it would certainly not be my fist course of action, but I would suggest trying to find out who insures the gun range. I would bet the owner is not filing claims for small things like new doors, but eventually something much worse and much more expensive is going to go wrong. Their insurance company has a vested interest in making sure their client has ample protections in place that will limit expensive claims. Right now I think it's clear that the range does not have ample protections in place. Their insurance may insist they upgrade their backstops or risk losing coverage. Insurance is usually a requirement for a business license, so if they lose coverage they won't be licensed long. | Sue the gun range. Get all the documentation you can, go a lawyer, and sue them. | 1 | 42,778 | 1.558442 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu7nni | eeu7rp2 | 1,548,332,759 | 1,548,332,902 | 17 | 120 | Keep trying to get in contact with people more up the chain of government. If someone is hit by a bullet then the range is gonna face liability and if it gets out that this was made known to people and no one did anything, holy fire will rain down from the higher ups | This is a long shot, and it would certainly not be my fist course of action, but I would suggest trying to find out who insures the gun range. I would bet the owner is not filing claims for small things like new doors, but eventually something much worse and much more expensive is going to go wrong. Their insurance company has a vested interest in making sure their client has ample protections in place that will limit expensive claims. Right now I think it's clear that the range does not have ample protections in place. Their insurance may insist they upgrade their backstops or risk losing coverage. Insurance is usually a requirement for a business license, so if they lose coverage they won't be licensed long. | 0 | 143 | 7.058824 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eetasbn | eeu7rp2 | 1,548,295,708 | 1,548,332,902 | 14 | 120 | Texas has nutty zoning laws but even for Texas this is pretty absurd I would suggest talking to local government more. | This is a long shot, and it would certainly not be my fist course of action, but I would suggest trying to find out who insures the gun range. I would bet the owner is not filing claims for small things like new doors, but eventually something much worse and much more expensive is going to go wrong. Their insurance company has a vested interest in making sure their client has ample protections in place that will limit expensive claims. Right now I think it's clear that the range does not have ample protections in place. Their insurance may insist they upgrade their backstops or risk losing coverage. Insurance is usually a requirement for a business license, so if they lose coverage they won't be licensed long. | 0 | 37,194 | 8.571429 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu7nni | eeuci8u | 1,548,332,759 | 1,548,337,757 | 17 | 65 | Keep trying to get in contact with people more up the chain of government. If someone is hit by a bullet then the range is gonna face liability and if it gets out that this was made known to people and no one did anything, holy fire will rain down from the higher ups | You are talking to the wrong people. Texas Parks and Wildlife is the department responsible. Edit, my guess is that the resistance to do anything has much to do with the likelihood that the police use this range. | 0 | 4,998 | 3.823529 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eetasbn | eeuci8u | 1,548,295,708 | 1,548,337,757 | 14 | 65 | Texas has nutty zoning laws but even for Texas this is pretty absurd I would suggest talking to local government more. | You are talking to the wrong people. Texas Parks and Wildlife is the department responsible. Edit, my guess is that the resistance to do anything has much to do with the likelihood that the police use this range. | 0 | 42,049 | 4.642857 |
aj6b6o | legaladvice_train | 0.98 | I purchased a house unknowingly that is directly in line of fire behind a gun range; did not know nor was I informed by my Real Estate Agent, or my Builder. Homes are getting hit with stray bullets. Builders continue to build here. What can I do? I want to keep things very generic in this post. Ok, so late last year my wife and I purchased our new build home here in TX. Unbeknownst to us, this house sits fairly close behind the firing line of the gun range. Sure, we hear the shots,and the gunfire does not bother us. However, after we closed the home we find out that some of the homes are being hit by stray bullets. Garage doors, back doors, windows, roofs, and even front doors have all been hit by bullets. Our builder did not inform us, but other builders in the neighborhood did make their customers sign a waiver. I know our builder knew about the problem. Before I signed the contract to build, my soon to be neighbor, whom I had not met yet, told me that after he got hit in his front door, he went to our exact salesperson and told him about it. So our builder had ample chance to let us know of this danger. The Gun Range even bought him a new front door. We met with the local Police, the City, and their Attorneys and was told that there is nothing they can do about the problem due to how protected the gun range is by TX state law. When the problem is reported to the police, the charge of "criminal mischief" is written, but no one is held accountable. Of course, you can say "you shouldn't have purchased behind a gun range." I did my research before I bought my home; I looked at Cell tower locations, proximity to High Voltage power lines, flood zones, proximity to fire stations, schools, etc. I would have never guessed that the City would zone this area as "residential" if there was an inherent danger to life, and I certainly wouldn't expect to have bullets hitting our homes. When we purchased, we accepted the noise, not the bullets. So, I am asking this community what they think a proper course of action would be? Of course, I can sell this property and take a loss; but I would feel horrible putting someone else in this situation. I would like to solve this issue for the safety of everyone affected. | eeu7nni | eetasbn | 1,548,332,759 | 1,548,295,708 | 17 | 14 | Keep trying to get in contact with people more up the chain of government. If someone is hit by a bullet then the range is gonna face liability and if it gets out that this was made known to people and no one did anything, holy fire will rain down from the higher ups | Texas has nutty zoning laws but even for Texas this is pretty absurd I would suggest talking to local government more. | 1 | 37,051 | 1.214286 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05gnhx | d05ep8r | 1,455,853,643 | 1,455,850,707 | 183 | 78 | YOU call the police and tell them the store has stolen your property. I bet that will fix this right quick. | I would tell them to go ahead and call the police, IOW call them bluff. What was the gift if I may ask? Sounds fucked up they would do that to you. You said your manager lost it when you showed him he reciept, how did he lose it, what did he do? | 1 | 2,936 | 2.346154 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05f7ee | d05gnhx | 1,455,851,455 | 1,455,853,643 | 56 | 183 | I am not a lawyer but if they took something that legally belongs to you, and won't return it, you could always call the police yourself. | YOU call the police and tell them the store has stolen your property. I bet that will fix this right quick. | 0 | 2,188 | 3.267857 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05gnhx | d05e765 | 1,455,853,643 | 1,455,849,972 | 183 | 5 | YOU call the police and tell them the store has stolen your property. I bet that will fix this right quick. | How was the item purchased, cash or credit? | 1 | 3,671 | 36.6 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05gnhx | d05e16k | 1,455,853,643 | 1,455,849,730 | 183 | 3 | YOU call the police and tell them the store has stolen your property. I bet that will fix this right quick. | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept** >Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | 1 | 3,913 | 61 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05e765 | d05ep8r | 1,455,849,972 | 1,455,850,707 | 5 | 78 | How was the item purchased, cash or credit? | I would tell them to go ahead and call the police, IOW call them bluff. What was the gift if I may ask? Sounds fucked up they would do that to you. You said your manager lost it when you showed him he reciept, how did he lose it, what did he do? | 0 | 735 | 15.6 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05e16k | d05ep8r | 1,455,849,730 | 1,455,850,707 | 3 | 78 | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept** >Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | I would tell them to go ahead and call the police, IOW call them bluff. What was the gift if I may ask? Sounds fucked up they would do that to you. You said your manager lost it when you showed him he reciept, how did he lose it, what did he do? | 0 | 977 | 26 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05f7ee | d05e765 | 1,455,851,455 | 1,455,849,972 | 56 | 5 | I am not a lawyer but if they took something that legally belongs to you, and won't return it, you could always call the police yourself. | How was the item purchased, cash or credit? | 1 | 1,483 | 11.2 |
46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05f7ee | d05e16k | 1,455,851,455 | 1,455,849,730 | 56 | 3 | I am not a lawyer but if they took something that legally belongs to you, and won't return it, you could always call the police yourself. | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05qlvm | d05e765 | 1,455,881,539 | 1,455,849,972 | 7 | 5 | Here's an important question: does your manager acknowledge losing the receipt, or does he deny that you ever gave it to him? | How was the item purchased, cash or credit? | 1 | 31,567 | 1.4 |
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46ihna | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | d05e765 | d05e16k | 1,455,849,972 | 1,455,849,730 | 5 | 3 | How was the item purchased, cash or credit? | *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**Job accusing me of stealing an item after I brought in a reciept** >Someone bought me a gift and my job believes I stole it. I brought in a reciept which then shortly after my manager lost it. They are now threatening my job and calling loss prevention and the police. They also kept the item and hasn't given it back. I've contacted HR and all they did was give me the number to loss prevention. What are some options for me? I need help with this. | 1 | 242 | 1.666667 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhtk4x5 | hhuc51d | 1,635,046,133 | 1,635,066,224 | 31 | 99 | Try /r/auslegal. :) | So you rent a room in a shared house? The person collecting the rent has no official title but apparently thinks they can evict you? Do they live there too? It’s a bit unusual to see 2 week evictions in Australia but it would depend on your lease. If your position I would: - read through the long text and write out your responses where you don’t think you failed the requirements, with photos. - read through the lease to see if there is anything about responding within a timeframe to rectify an issue. - contact the landlord to work out what the official role of this person is and if they have a right to evict. Explain your side and send your response in writing if needed. - seek support through a tenants advocacy service | 0 | 20,091 | 3.193548 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhuc51d | hhtvfss | 1,635,066,224 | 1,635,052,912 | 99 | 10 | So you rent a room in a shared house? The person collecting the rent has no official title but apparently thinks they can evict you? Do they live there too? It’s a bit unusual to see 2 week evictions in Australia but it would depend on your lease. If your position I would: - read through the long text and write out your responses where you don’t think you failed the requirements, with photos. - read through the lease to see if there is anything about responding within a timeframe to rectify an issue. - contact the landlord to work out what the official role of this person is and if they have a right to evict. Explain your side and send your response in writing if needed. - seek support through a tenants advocacy service | I'd contact the landlord. But here the things that come to mind that you'll need to research: > what's the lease termination rules and regs where you're at? Is it legal for a 2 week landlord notice (since you mentioned it was the property manager)? What does your agreement say? > is cleaning the bathroom a part of your lease agreement or just housemates agreement? I would think that a lease agreement would trump a housing agreement. > are there rules and regs about the time frame when a renter must respond to landlord regarding questions/comments? Was that apart of any agreement? > where I'm from there's different rules and regs if the landlord is in the home vs landlord renting an empty apartment. I'm not sure if the property manager is family and how that would tie into any termination rights they have. I'm not sure how vindictive your property manager is. If you don't vacate in 2 weeks, would they toss all your stuff out of the house? Or will they do it legally (whatever that means in Australia)? So if things go downhill, you might want to store valuables and documents elsewhere. | 1 | 13,312 | 9.9 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhuu305 | hhtk4x5 | 1,635,079,933 | 1,635,046,133 | 69 | 31 | If I'm following correctly, it sounds like this person is just a housemate that takes the responsibility of collecting the rent and pays it to the landlord. Yeah? Are you on the lease? The landlord would be the one to issue an eviction notice. A text message from a housemate is not an eviction notice. I'd take this up with the landlord. | Try /r/auslegal. :) | 1 | 33,800 | 2.225806 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhuu305 | hhtvfss | 1,635,079,933 | 1,635,052,912 | 69 | 10 | If I'm following correctly, it sounds like this person is just a housemate that takes the responsibility of collecting the rent and pays it to the landlord. Yeah? Are you on the lease? The landlord would be the one to issue an eviction notice. A text message from a housemate is not an eviction notice. I'd take this up with the landlord. | I'd contact the landlord. But here the things that come to mind that you'll need to research: > what's the lease termination rules and regs where you're at? Is it legal for a 2 week landlord notice (since you mentioned it was the property manager)? What does your agreement say? > is cleaning the bathroom a part of your lease agreement or just housemates agreement? I would think that a lease agreement would trump a housing agreement. > are there rules and regs about the time frame when a renter must respond to landlord regarding questions/comments? Was that apart of any agreement? > where I'm from there's different rules and regs if the landlord is in the home vs landlord renting an empty apartment. I'm not sure if the property manager is family and how that would tie into any termination rights they have. I'm not sure how vindictive your property manager is. If you don't vacate in 2 weeks, would they toss all your stuff out of the house? Or will they do it legally (whatever that means in Australia)? So if things go downhill, you might want to store valuables and documents elsewhere. | 1 | 27,021 | 6.9 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhuisl2 | hhuu305 | 1,635,072,017 | 1,635,079,933 | 4 | 69 | Hi, have a look on the Tennants Union NSW website and find your local Tennant advocate. Give them a call on Monday. They might be able to help you. If not, call the department of fair trading and ask them. The tenantS union also have A lot of fact sheets on their website that might help out as well. | If I'm following correctly, it sounds like this person is just a housemate that takes the responsibility of collecting the rent and pays it to the landlord. Yeah? Are you on the lease? The landlord would be the one to issue an eviction notice. A text message from a housemate is not an eviction notice. I'd take this up with the landlord. | 0 | 7,916 | 17.25 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhxjs4z | hhuisl2 | 1,635,123,375 | 1,635,072,017 | 6 | 4 | I was in a similar living situation years ago with an abusive room mate who was subleasing a room to me. He was trying to bully me out as a means to move in his friend so they could smoke pot and party together. I wasn't into partying or smoking and needed the place so I could just rest between shifts at work and classes at school. He would do some of the same shit you describe your roomie doing to you. " I didn't clean this", " I damaged that". He also had two cats that were against our lease agreement. He attempted to bully me into moving and was frequently physically abusive, backing me into corners, kicking my closed and locked bedroom doors etc. I simply recorded these instances on my phone, his partying, his smoking pot 24/7, his cats, his pounding on my door and screaming obscenities etc. He motioned our landlord to evict me on fabricated grounds and after he did, I simply forwarded all of my videos and photos of his B.S. to the landlord and she booted him out. Document everything and save a file for when it's go-time. | Hi, have a look on the Tennants Union NSW website and find your local Tennant advocate. Give them a call on Monday. They might be able to help you. If not, call the department of fair trading and ask them. The tenantS union also have A lot of fact sheets on their website that might help out as well. | 1 | 51,358 | 1.5 |
qejzif | legaladvice_train | 0.92 | My property manager sent me a 2 week eviction notice after I missed her text message about the bathroom 3 days ago Hey guys I’m in Australia - NSW. I’m not sure this is the right sub - if not please delete. I rent in a 4 room sharehouse/townhouse. The house has a person that collects rent/ deals with any issues but no official title. Three days ago she sent a message saying that I cleaned the bathroom “too fast”. I have photos of how the bathroom looked after I cleaned it and I have clearly fulfilled all the requirements of the agreement we have (also have photo of said agreement i.e. clean sink/mirror, etc). 3 days ago she sent me a long text that I ignored as I have been working 10 hour shifts. She also called me once same day - also while I was at work. This morning I woke up to a message saying I have 2 weeks to move out. When I asked her what the f* she said that I’ve been ignoring her and it’s not her problem. I’m just wondering if I actually have to move out? Should I contact the landlord? Should I get a lawyer? Thanks for reading - any input would be amazing. TLDR; I cleaned the bathroom “too fast” and didn’t answer her text within 72 hours and am now being told to move out in 2 weeks. | hhxjs4z | hhx205v | 1,635,123,375 | 1,635,114,584 | 6 | 3 | I was in a similar living situation years ago with an abusive room mate who was subleasing a room to me. He was trying to bully me out as a means to move in his friend so they could smoke pot and party together. I wasn't into partying or smoking and needed the place so I could just rest between shifts at work and classes at school. He would do some of the same shit you describe your roomie doing to you. " I didn't clean this", " I damaged that". He also had two cats that were against our lease agreement. He attempted to bully me into moving and was frequently physically abusive, backing me into corners, kicking my closed and locked bedroom doors etc. I simply recorded these instances on my phone, his partying, his smoking pot 24/7, his cats, his pounding on my door and screaming obscenities etc. He motioned our landlord to evict me on fabricated grounds and after he did, I simply forwarded all of my videos and photos of his B.S. to the landlord and she booted him out. Document everything and save a file for when it's go-time. | Not to mention there may be different procedures due to covid | 1 | 8,791 | 2 |
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3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cuckrlu | cuckldd | 1,440,308,837 | 1,440,308,343 | 255 | 48 | Prepare for some jail time. These charges aren't small. It's weird to think if the neighbor hadn't put up survellience in their back yard this entire story would be going the other way. Really makes you think how closely you should be watching your own homes. | I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this crap. I think it's good that you are not denying that your wife is wrong and you're not in denial that this is all f'ed up. In addition to getting your wife (and yourself) legal representation, please get a counselor for your kids. Even if they seem to be OK now, there are a lot of changes/upheaval to their lives and having a safe place to talk about/deal with their feeling can only help them. The morally correct thing is to offer to pay for any vet bills the neighbors have, but please do so thru your lawyer so you don't open the door to a crap-ton of legal liability that can f' up things for you and your children. | 1 | 494 | 5.3125 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjhk1 | cuckrlu | 1,440,305,474 | 1,440,308,837 | 34 | 255 | There is no easy advice we can give except listen to your lawyers | Prepare for some jail time. These charges aren't small. It's weird to think if the neighbor hadn't put up survellience in their back yard this entire story would be going the other way. Really makes you think how closely you should be watching your own homes. | 0 | 3,363 | 7.5 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjih6 | cuckrlu | 1,440,305,539 | 1,440,308,837 | 9 | 255 | Wow OP, I'm glad you seem to be staying strong. I've had situations like that too - when someone you trust completely suddenly does something you'd never expect, its really a helpless feeling. Keep on keeping on, I know you can do it. Tell your kids you love them. Good luck. | Prepare for some jail time. These charges aren't small. It's weird to think if the neighbor hadn't put up survellience in their back yard this entire story would be going the other way. Really makes you think how closely you should be watching your own homes. | 0 | 3,298 | 28.333333 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cuckldd | cucnkq9 | 1,440,308,343 | 1,440,318,637 | 48 | 127 | I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this crap. I think it's good that you are not denying that your wife is wrong and you're not in denial that this is all f'ed up. In addition to getting your wife (and yourself) legal representation, please get a counselor for your kids. Even if they seem to be OK now, there are a lot of changes/upheaval to their lives and having a safe place to talk about/deal with their feeling can only help them. The morally correct thing is to offer to pay for any vet bills the neighbors have, but please do so thru your lawyer so you don't open the door to a crap-ton of legal liability that can f' up things for you and your children. | I call troll. Consider this ama a) op was not entirely engaging in the comments of the original post - yet they are engaged enough to bring us an update? b) no location given in either post c) from original post: > After my wife testified about what happened our neighbor showed video of her backyard, which showed my wife climbing the fence and hitting the dog with a stick until it bit her... WHY would this video be withheld by the neighbour until after the wife testifies? This makes no sense to me, who is the wife testifying to? I'm no lawyer but maybe someone (OP???) can explain these details and assuage my skepticism. | 0 | 10,294 | 2.645833 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucky7g | cucnkq9 | 1,440,309,365 | 1,440,318,637 | 32 | 127 | > what she has done has shocked everyone we know When your wife first declared that your children should have a right to trespass onto your neighbor's property, did that not raise any red flags for you? | I call troll. Consider this ama a) op was not entirely engaging in the comments of the original post - yet they are engaged enough to bring us an update? b) no location given in either post c) from original post: > After my wife testified about what happened our neighbor showed video of her backyard, which showed my wife climbing the fence and hitting the dog with a stick until it bit her... WHY would this video be withheld by the neighbour until after the wife testifies? This makes no sense to me, who is the wife testifying to? I'm no lawyer but maybe someone (OP???) can explain these details and assuage my skepticism. | 0 | 9,272 | 3.96875 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucnkq9 | cucjhk1 | 1,440,318,637 | 1,440,305,474 | 127 | 34 | I call troll. Consider this ama a) op was not entirely engaging in the comments of the original post - yet they are engaged enough to bring us an update? b) no location given in either post c) from original post: > After my wife testified about what happened our neighbor showed video of her backyard, which showed my wife climbing the fence and hitting the dog with a stick until it bit her... WHY would this video be withheld by the neighbour until after the wife testifies? This makes no sense to me, who is the wife testifying to? I'm no lawyer but maybe someone (OP???) can explain these details and assuage my skepticism. | There is no easy advice we can give except listen to your lawyers | 1 | 13,163 | 3.735294 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucl4yo | cucnkq9 | 1,440,309,919 | 1,440,318,637 | 15 | 127 | what's the timeline on this? When was she arrested for perjury, Friday? If earlier why is she not out on bail? What destruction of what property and how did police investigate and charge intent to poison and acquiring drugs so quickly? Is she making statements to the police? I realize you might want to keep some of this vague for privacy purposes, but I'm just trying to wrap my head around it. | I call troll. Consider this ama a) op was not entirely engaging in the comments of the original post - yet they are engaged enough to bring us an update? b) no location given in either post c) from original post: > After my wife testified about what happened our neighbor showed video of her backyard, which showed my wife climbing the fence and hitting the dog with a stick until it bit her... WHY would this video be withheld by the neighbour until after the wife testifies? This makes no sense to me, who is the wife testifying to? I'm no lawyer but maybe someone (OP???) can explain these details and assuage my skepticism. | 0 | 8,718 | 8.466667 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjih6 | cucnkq9 | 1,440,305,539 | 1,440,318,637 | 9 | 127 | Wow OP, I'm glad you seem to be staying strong. I've had situations like that too - when someone you trust completely suddenly does something you'd never expect, its really a helpless feeling. Keep on keeping on, I know you can do it. Tell your kids you love them. Good luck. | I call troll. Consider this ama a) op was not entirely engaging in the comments of the original post - yet they are engaged enough to bring us an update? b) no location given in either post c) from original post: > After my wife testified about what happened our neighbor showed video of her backyard, which showed my wife climbing the fence and hitting the dog with a stick until it bit her... WHY would this video be withheld by the neighbour until after the wife testifies? This makes no sense to me, who is the wife testifying to? I'm no lawyer but maybe someone (OP???) can explain these details and assuage my skepticism. | 0 | 13,098 | 14.111111 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cuclp8w | cucnkq9 | 1,440,311,693 | 1,440,318,637 | 8 | 127 | OP - has your wife had any drug tests done on her? Is it possible she was on something? Sleep deprived? After a few days in jail is she showing any signs of improvement? Remorse? Just so bizarre. Sorry OP =( Hang in there. Get the lawyers, and mental help, she needs. But also take time for yourself, talk to someone. Gotta stay balanced for your kids at the very least. | I call troll. Consider this ama a) op was not entirely engaging in the comments of the original post - yet they are engaged enough to bring us an update? b) no location given in either post c) from original post: > After my wife testified about what happened our neighbor showed video of her backyard, which showed my wife climbing the fence and hitting the dog with a stick until it bit her... WHY would this video be withheld by the neighbour until after the wife testifies? This makes no sense to me, who is the wife testifying to? I'm no lawyer but maybe someone (OP???) can explain these details and assuage my skepticism. | 0 | 6,944 | 15.875 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cuckldd | cucjhk1 | 1,440,308,343 | 1,440,305,474 | 48 | 34 | I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this crap. I think it's good that you are not denying that your wife is wrong and you're not in denial that this is all f'ed up. In addition to getting your wife (and yourself) legal representation, please get a counselor for your kids. Even if they seem to be OK now, there are a lot of changes/upheaval to their lives and having a safe place to talk about/deal with their feeling can only help them. The morally correct thing is to offer to pay for any vet bills the neighbors have, but please do so thru your lawyer so you don't open the door to a crap-ton of legal liability that can f' up things for you and your children. | There is no easy advice we can give except listen to your lawyers | 1 | 2,869 | 1.411765 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjih6 | cuckldd | 1,440,305,539 | 1,440,308,343 | 9 | 48 | Wow OP, I'm glad you seem to be staying strong. I've had situations like that too - when someone you trust completely suddenly does something you'd never expect, its really a helpless feeling. Keep on keeping on, I know you can do it. Tell your kids you love them. Good luck. | I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this crap. I think it's good that you are not denying that your wife is wrong and you're not in denial that this is all f'ed up. In addition to getting your wife (and yourself) legal representation, please get a counselor for your kids. Even if they seem to be OK now, there are a lot of changes/upheaval to their lives and having a safe place to talk about/deal with their feeling can only help them. The morally correct thing is to offer to pay for any vet bills the neighbors have, but please do so thru your lawyer so you don't open the door to a crap-ton of legal liability that can f' up things for you and your children. | 0 | 2,804 | 5.333333 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjih6 | cucky7g | 1,440,305,539 | 1,440,309,365 | 9 | 32 | Wow OP, I'm glad you seem to be staying strong. I've had situations like that too - when someone you trust completely suddenly does something you'd never expect, its really a helpless feeling. Keep on keeping on, I know you can do it. Tell your kids you love them. Good luck. | > what she has done has shocked everyone we know When your wife first declared that your children should have a right to trespass onto your neighbor's property, did that not raise any red flags for you? | 0 | 3,826 | 3.555556 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucqn9e | cucl4yo | 1,440,332,436 | 1,440,309,919 | 23 | 15 | What does she say is the reason she did it when you ask her? | what's the timeline on this? When was she arrested for perjury, Friday? If earlier why is she not out on bail? What destruction of what property and how did police investigate and charge intent to poison and acquiring drugs so quickly? Is she making statements to the police? I realize you might want to keep some of this vague for privacy purposes, but I'm just trying to wrap my head around it. | 1 | 22,517 | 1.533333 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjih6 | cucqn9e | 1,440,305,539 | 1,440,332,436 | 9 | 23 | Wow OP, I'm glad you seem to be staying strong. I've had situations like that too - when someone you trust completely suddenly does something you'd never expect, its really a helpless feeling. Keep on keeping on, I know you can do it. Tell your kids you love them. Good luck. | What does she say is the reason she did it when you ask her? | 0 | 26,897 | 2.555556 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cuclp8w | cucqn9e | 1,440,311,693 | 1,440,332,436 | 8 | 23 | OP - has your wife had any drug tests done on her? Is it possible she was on something? Sleep deprived? After a few days in jail is she showing any signs of improvement? Remorse? Just so bizarre. Sorry OP =( Hang in there. Get the lawyers, and mental help, she needs. But also take time for yourself, talk to someone. Gotta stay balanced for your kids at the very least. | What does she say is the reason she did it when you ask her? | 0 | 20,743 | 2.875 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucpgyk | cucqn9e | 1,440,327,515 | 1,440,332,436 | 5 | 23 | Your wife is going to jail. Hopefully she can get the mental health assistance that she needs because she sounds unbalanced. Keep your kids safe before she tries to hurt them too | What does she say is the reason she did it when you ask her? | 0 | 4,921 | 4.6 |
3i1plj | legaladvice_train | 0.86 | Update - new charges - My wife lied to police, under oath in court and in civil court about the neighbors dog attacking her. What happens now? Part 1 is here Originally my wife was charged with 3 misdemeanors (trespassing, animal cruelty and filing a false report with the police) and a felony (perjury). An additional charge of making a threat (a felony) followed soon after and now she has been charged with destruction of property and intending to poison our neighbors dog (sorry I am not sure of the exact wording yet). The police have informed me that she could also face drug charges depending on the class of drugs she procured. I think both of these new charges are also felonies and the drug charge would be too. As I said in my first post I don't condone at all what she did and I don't defend her actions in any way. I love her and want to support her but I won't claim she's innocent here. We haven't had any money, marriage or family problems or illnesses, my wife had recently had an MRI on her head and blood work and an annual physical showed nothing. This came out of left field. I know I could be perceived as being in denial about her being mentally ill but what she has done has shocked everyone we know and no one I have spoken to can believe it. She will be having a mental health assessment by a jail psychiatrist soon. Right now I am trying to work through my confusion and doing my best to make this as easy for my children as possible. I am dealing with getting her a lawyer and trying to find a solution to the counter suit to the civil suit my wife had filed. Understandably our neighbor is extremely upset, her dog was injured and the vet bills will be quite expensive I imagine and as well there is the emotional and property damage. My children and I are staying with other family for now. Thank-you to everyone who has offered support and kind messages. None of this has been easy and there is a long road ahead. With these new charges does anyone have any idea of what kind of penalties my wife is now facing? | cucjih6 | cucl4yo | 1,440,305,539 | 1,440,309,919 | 9 | 15 | Wow OP, I'm glad you seem to be staying strong. I've had situations like that too - when someone you trust completely suddenly does something you'd never expect, its really a helpless feeling. Keep on keeping on, I know you can do it. Tell your kids you love them. Good luck. | what's the timeline on this? When was she arrested for perjury, Friday? If earlier why is she not out on bail? What destruction of what property and how did police investigate and charge intent to poison and acquiring drugs so quickly? Is she making statements to the police? I realize you might want to keep some of this vague for privacy purposes, but I'm just trying to wrap my head around it. | 0 | 4,380 | 1.666667 |
ohy6jd | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | [WA] Police are refusing to file a missing person's report for my homeless, drug-addicted, and mentally ill sister. My sister has been missing since June 9th. Despite being homeless, she always remains in contact with my family so she can visit her children. My mother found it unusual that she hasn't reached out and searched many jail rosters to ensure she wasn't locked up recently. She is not in any jail in Washington, Oregon, or Idaho despite having warrants locally and being prone to run-ins with the police. Yesterday we contacted her friend and main source of drugs and received a very scary reply. The night she was last seen by my mother, she visited this friend and was acting more strange than normal. She refused to party with them like normal, talked to herself, refused to answer or acknowledge direct questions, and ranted to them about completely random topics. She has schizophrenic tendencies and meth exacerbates this greatly. She was turned out of this drug house in the wee hours of the morning with virtually nothing: no phone, no place to go, no food, etc. Her friend asked to get her stuff and she refused and only requested a pen and paper. This is obviously highly concerning. She went completely missing from the local homeless spots after this too, which scared her friend as they would always see each other in passing even if they weren't in regular contact. My mother has tried filing missing person's reports with two different police departments with no success. They say as an adult she has a right to go missing. She has been transient for two years now and has never, ever completely disappeared - especially not from her only reliable source of drugs. We strongly believe she might have made a suicide attempt or had something malicious happen to her. She is known for being open to doing drugs with total strangers off the street. The missing person's report is very important to us. We cannot put her in the NamUS database without a case number (which would help us if her unidentified remains appeared anywhere) and we cannot post to several local Facebook groups either as they require a case number to avoid abuse from stalkers. We want to be able to do more than what we are doing now which is posters, sharing Facebook posts, checking all nearby jail rosters including state lookups, driving to places looking for her (often and exhaustively, she is definitely not still in town), and trying but not succeeding to gain possible information from local hospitals (my mom is her emergency contact anyway, but maybe she is a Jane Doe). Is there anything I can do to file a missing person's report without the support of local departments? Thank you! | h4scgns | h4sbors | 1,625,988,147 | 1,625,987,441 | 433 | 26 | I am not sure where you are located in Washington. Have as much of her personal information ready as you can. Legal name, date of birth, height, weight, hair color, eye color, scars, marks, tattoos, social security number, drivers license/ID card number last known location, last known clothing, etc. Request the law enforcement agency to add her as a missing person in NCIC (National Crime Information Center). Missing persons can be added for several reasons: NCIC Missing Person File The National Crime Information Center's (NCIC) Missing Person File was implemented in 1975. Records in the Missing Person File are retained indefinitely, until the individual is located, or the record is canceled by the entering agency. The Missing Person File contains records for individuals reported missing who: have a proven physical or mental disability (Disability - EMD) are missing under circumstances indicating that they may be in physical danger (Endangered - EME) are missing after a catastrophe (Catastrophe Victim - EMV) are missing under circumstances indicating their disappearance may not have been voluntary (Involuntary - EMI) are under the age of 21 and do not meet the above criteria (Juvenile - EMJ) are 21 and older and do not meet any of the above criteria but for whom there is a reasonable concern for their safety (Other - EMO) You seem to have a reasonable concern for her safety since she has not been heard of since June 9 and as you mentioned is mentally ill. If the officer that you speak with is not willing to add your sister into NCIC as a missing person request to speak with a supervisor. Understandably some people do want no contact with their family members, however in your case you can have an articulable list of reasons why you fear that there is a concern for your sisters safety. Be ready to articulate that. If the supervisor is not willing to help request an outside agency that still has jurisdiction over your area such as a county or statewide agency. | I am so sorry your family is going through this. I hope this is helpful via Seattle Police Department website: https://www.seattle.gov/police/need-help/report-a-missing-person | 1 | 706 | 16.653846 |
ohy6jd | legaladvice_train | 0.97 | [WA] Police are refusing to file a missing person's report for my homeless, drug-addicted, and mentally ill sister. My sister has been missing since June 9th. Despite being homeless, she always remains in contact with my family so she can visit her children. My mother found it unusual that she hasn't reached out and searched many jail rosters to ensure she wasn't locked up recently. She is not in any jail in Washington, Oregon, or Idaho despite having warrants locally and being prone to run-ins with the police. Yesterday we contacted her friend and main source of drugs and received a very scary reply. The night she was last seen by my mother, she visited this friend and was acting more strange than normal. She refused to party with them like normal, talked to herself, refused to answer or acknowledge direct questions, and ranted to them about completely random topics. She has schizophrenic tendencies and meth exacerbates this greatly. She was turned out of this drug house in the wee hours of the morning with virtually nothing: no phone, no place to go, no food, etc. Her friend asked to get her stuff and she refused and only requested a pen and paper. This is obviously highly concerning. She went completely missing from the local homeless spots after this too, which scared her friend as they would always see each other in passing even if they weren't in regular contact. My mother has tried filing missing person's reports with two different police departments with no success. They say as an adult she has a right to go missing. She has been transient for two years now and has never, ever completely disappeared - especially not from her only reliable source of drugs. We strongly believe she might have made a suicide attempt or had something malicious happen to her. She is known for being open to doing drugs with total strangers off the street. The missing person's report is very important to us. We cannot put her in the NamUS database without a case number (which would help us if her unidentified remains appeared anywhere) and we cannot post to several local Facebook groups either as they require a case number to avoid abuse from stalkers. We want to be able to do more than what we are doing now which is posters, sharing Facebook posts, checking all nearby jail rosters including state lookups, driving to places looking for her (often and exhaustively, she is definitely not still in town), and trying but not succeeding to gain possible information from local hospitals (my mom is her emergency contact anyway, but maybe she is a Jane Doe). Is there anything I can do to file a missing person's report without the support of local departments? Thank you! | h4smfu6 | h4sbors | 1,625,997,977 | 1,625,987,441 | 77 | 26 | Not a lawyer if local PD won't take a report have you tried to make a report with WSP (Washington state patrol)? I know you stated you checked hospitals did that include correners office/ city morgue ( most people don't think to check there)? This is very concerning with the heat we have had the last couple weeks. | I am so sorry your family is going through this. I hope this is helpful via Seattle Police Department website: https://www.seattle.gov/police/need-help/report-a-missing-person | 1 | 10,536 | 2.961538 |
clwskf | legaladvice_train | 0.94 | [TX] My girlfriend's car was towed from her apartment last night for no reason. Woke up this morning and her car had been towed. When she called the company to figure out what the heck was going on, the lady read her the note that said it was parked in a reserved spot without a reserve tag. She was not parked in that spot, and she has a pass to park in her apartment complex obviously. What's her recourse now? We haven't really ever dealt with towing companies. Also, I'm out of state so I'm trying to help her through this process. Thanks in advance. | evzb5df | evyupeu | 1,564,953,321 | 1,564,941,869 | 7 | 6 | Most towing companies require photos by the tow truck operators prior to towing in regards to parking lot maintenance; ask to see them. | When she picks it up have an employee walk to the car with her. Before getting into the car take pictures of the registration sticker or tag or whatever her apartment uses (closeups of the of, pics that show the whole dash/whole car, picture that shows the lot that it is in and one with the employee in it if they'll allow it). That employee is a witness that the car had the proper tags on it and they wrw properly displayed. That will at least prove your girlfriend had a right to park in the complex parking lot. As for the specific spot the car was towed from....maybe a neighbour has a camera. | 1 | 11,452 | 1.166667 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deigwsm | deigyg9 | 1,488,663,124 | 1,488,663,194 | 3 | 561 | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | Sounds like a scam to me. Did she actually have a wallet or did she just say she had one? | 0 | 70 | 187 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deih3gi | deihspi | 1,488,663,409 | 1,488,664,482 | 213 | 278 | Sounds like she's trying to get you to give her $350. Wallets don't disappear like that. | Who meets up with a stranger for sex with a wallet with 350 in it? I get uncomfortable with more than 40 in my wallet. I'm thinking scam. | 0 | 1,073 | 1.305164 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deigwsm | deihspi | 1,488,663,124 | 1,488,664,482 | 3 | 278 | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | Who meets up with a stranger for sex with a wallet with 350 in it? I get uncomfortable with more than 40 in my wallet. I'm thinking scam. | 0 | 1,358 | 92.666667 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deih3gi | deigwsm | 1,488,663,409 | 1,488,663,124 | 213 | 3 | Sounds like she's trying to get you to give her $350. Wallets don't disappear like that. | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | 1 | 285 | 71 |
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | You tell her to leave, get her number, and say you'll call her if you find it. Chances are, there is no wallet though. | 0 | 1,800 | 46.666667 |
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | 1 | 14,286 | 36.333333 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deitjvj | deiy4c5 | 1,488,682,726 | 1,488,689,891 | 17 | 103 | Call the police yourself. Who carries that much cash? | There is no wallet. This is a scam. I really do the get how willingly people invite internet strangers into their house and then get scammed like this. | 0 | 7,165 | 6.058824 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deigwsm | deiy4c5 | 1,488,663,124 | 1,488,689,891 | 3 | 103 | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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Author: /u/PMLifeStory
**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | There is no wallet. This is a scam. I really do the get how willingly people invite internet strangers into their house and then get scammed like this. | 0 | 26,767 | 34.333333 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dej29g1 | deitjvj | 1,488,698,064 | 1,488,682,726 | 71 | 17 | Everyone already pointed out this was probably a scam so I just want clarity on one point. You say "we" think my puppy snatched it but is it really "we" or did she suggest it and you think it is possible? If she said she lost her wallet and suggested your dog took it with no knowledge of how your dog acts then I would just say bs. I mean you know how your dog behaves and it is very unlikely someone would leave their wallet in a strangers house in such an open place that a dog would take it and hide it. The entire situation sounds ridiculous. | Call the police yourself. Who carries that much cash? | 1 | 15,338 | 4.176471 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dej29g1 | deigwsm | 1,488,698,064 | 1,488,663,124 | 71 | 3 | Everyone already pointed out this was probably a scam so I just want clarity on one point. You say "we" think my puppy snatched it but is it really "we" or did she suggest it and you think it is possible? If she said she lost her wallet and suggested your dog took it with no knowledge of how your dog acts then I would just say bs. I mean you know how your dog behaves and it is very unlikely someone would leave their wallet in a strangers house in such an open place that a dog would take it and hide it. The entire situation sounds ridiculous. | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | 1 | 34,940 | 23.666667 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dejk53e | deitjvj | 1,488,738,258 | 1,488,682,726 | 24 | 17 | Dog Law specialist here. If the police show up to interrogate your puppy, he should decline to say anything without a dog lawyer present. That includes the invitation to incriminate himself: "who's a good boy?" | Call the police yourself. Who carries that much cash? | 1 | 55,532 | 1.411765 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dejk53e | dej361a | 1,488,738,258 | 1,488,700,489 | 24 | 18 | Dog Law specialist here. If the police show up to interrogate your puppy, he should decline to say anything without a dog lawyer present. That includes the invitation to incriminate himself: "who's a good boy?" | Probably a ho trying to get $350 for spending the night. | 1 | 37,769 | 1.333333 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dejk53e | dejgfk0 | 1,488,738,258 | 1,488,732,971 | 24 | 7 | Dog Law specialist here. If the police show up to interrogate your puppy, he should decline to say anything without a dog lawyer present. That includes the invitation to incriminate himself: "who's a good boy?" | Scam scam scam. | 1 | 5,287 | 3.428571 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deigwsm | dejk53e | 1,488,663,124 | 1,488,738,258 | 3 | 24 | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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Author: /u/PMLifeStory
**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | Dog Law specialist here. If the police show up to interrogate your puppy, he should decline to say anything without a dog lawyer present. That includes the invitation to incriminate himself: "who's a good boy?" | 0 | 75,134 | 8 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dej9jyd | dejk53e | 1,488,720,898 | 1,488,738,258 | 3 | 24 | I'm a bot, *bleep*, *bloop*. Someone has linked to this thread from another place on reddit: - /r/bestoflegaladvice] [Tinder bedmate lost wallet containing $350 in OP's house - supposedly [](#footer)*^(If you follow any of the above links, please respect the rules of reddit and don't vote in the other threads.) ^\([Info](/r/TotesMessenger) ^/ ^[Contact](/message/compose?to=/r/TotesMessenger))* [](#bot) | Dog Law specialist here. If the police show up to interrogate your puppy, he should decline to say anything without a dog lawyer present. That includes the invitation to incriminate himself: "who's a good boy?" | 0 | 17,360 | 8 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deitjvj | dej44xb | 1,488,682,726 | 1,488,703,378 | 17 | 26 | Call the police yourself. Who carries that much cash? | While I agree this seems like a scam from the brief description, it seems like there is a distinct lack of actual legal help here. That is, assuming she indeed lost her wallet, is OP liable for replacement? OP mentioned the dog might have took it by his own admission, wouldn't that make it possible to have him liable? | 0 | 20,652 | 1.529412 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dej361a | dej44xb | 1,488,700,489 | 1,488,703,378 | 18 | 26 | Probably a ho trying to get $350 for spending the night. | While I agree this seems like a scam from the brief description, it seems like there is a distinct lack of actual legal help here. That is, assuming she indeed lost her wallet, is OP liable for replacement? OP mentioned the dog might have took it by his own admission, wouldn't that make it possible to have him liable? | 0 | 2,889 | 1.444444 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | dej44xb | deigwsm | 1,488,703,378 | 1,488,663,124 | 26 | 3 | While I agree this seems like a scam from the brief description, it seems like there is a distinct lack of actual legal help here. That is, assuming she indeed lost her wallet, is OP liable for replacement? OP mentioned the dog might have took it by his own admission, wouldn't that make it possible to have him liable? | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | 1 | 40,254 | 8.666667 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deitjvj | dej361a | 1,488,682,726 | 1,488,700,489 | 17 | 18 | Call the police yourself. Who carries that much cash? | Probably a ho trying to get $350 for spending the night. | 0 | 17,763 | 1.058824 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deitjvj | deigwsm | 1,488,682,726 | 1,488,663,124 | 17 | 3 | Call the police yourself. Who carries that much cash? | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | 1 | 19,602 | 5.666667 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deigwsm | dej361a | 1,488,663,124 | 1,488,700,489 | 3 | 18 | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | Probably a ho trying to get $350 for spending the night. | 0 | 37,365 | 6 |
5xj9xo | legaladvice_train | 0.93 | I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do? We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | deigwsm | dejgfk0 | 1,488,663,124 | 1,488,732,971 | 3 | 7 | --- > > **http://imgur.com/a/myIAb** > --- *I am a bot whose sole purpose is to improve the timeliness and accuracy of responses in this subreddit.* ---
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**I had a tinder girl I just met stay the night. She lost her wallet at my house with $350 in it. We've looked everywhere she wants to call cops what do I do?** >We've looked absolutely everywhere. We are the only 2 people in the house but we think my puppy snatched it and hid it somwehere. It's a big house and Idk what to do. Would I be accused of theft in this case? I can't afford court or to pay back $350. What do we do?? How does this look in the eyes of the law? All her bank cards and ID's are in to so she can't get into her accounts when she has bills to pay. | Scam scam scam. | 0 | 69,847 | 2.333333 |
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9o3ajb | legaladvice_train | 0.61 | Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom? Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps. | e7r7147 | e7r2yor | 1,539,535,420 | 1,539,531,818 | 378 | 298 | You need to complain to management because your girlfriend was 17 and R rated movies are restricted to ***under*** **17**, without a parent or guardian according to the MPAA. It is not 17 and under but under 17. She was allowed to see the movie and shouldn't have been harassed by the lady. You don't have to wait for your girlfriend to be 18 to see an R rated movie, she's considered old enough according to the MPAA. https://www.mpaa.org/film-ratings/ | Absolutely file a complaint with the management of the theater. If it's part of a chain, file a complaint with corporate. Other than that, not much to do. | 1 | 3,602 | 1.268456 |
9o3ajb | legaladvice_train | 0.61 | Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom? Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps. | e7r7147 | e7r3wsd | 1,539,535,420 | 1,539,532,676 | 378 | 191 | You need to complain to management because your girlfriend was 17 and R rated movies are restricted to ***under*** **17**, without a parent or guardian according to the MPAA. It is not 17 and under but under 17. She was allowed to see the movie and shouldn't have been harassed by the lady. You don't have to wait for your girlfriend to be 18 to see an R rated movie, she's considered old enough according to the MPAA. https://www.mpaa.org/film-ratings/ | > how it was illegal to have sex with her Screaming lady is wrong. In New York, the age of consent is 17. Stay away from the nude pics, though, since your girlfriend being a minor in nude photos would run afoul of federal pornography laws. > what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS Pretty much nothing. It's not illegal for you two to be together. They might do a cursory "investigation" to close out the case, but by "investigation", I mean they'd ask her age or check her ID and know immediately that no laws had been broken. Your girlfriend is freaked out, and really, what 17 year old girl wouldn't be? Have her mother formally complain to both the manager of the theater and the corporate office of the chain. Specifically, she should complain that the employee yelled at her daughter, said she dressed like a whore, berated her in front of other customers for dating someone older, and refused service based on her own conservative opinions. If I were the mother, I'd insist on both an apology from the theater management and (at the very least) disciplinary action against the employee. The company is a lot more likely to respond to a mama bear than a teenage girl who probably isn't in the right mindset right now to stand up for herself. | 1 | 2,744 | 1.979058 |
9o3ajb | legaladvice_train | 0.61 | Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom? Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps. | e7r7147 | e7qzxm9 | 1,539,535,420 | 1,539,528,916 | 378 | 4 | You need to complain to management because your girlfriend was 17 and R rated movies are restricted to ***under*** **17**, without a parent or guardian according to the MPAA. It is not 17 and under but under 17. She was allowed to see the movie and shouldn't have been harassed by the lady. You don't have to wait for your girlfriend to be 18 to see an R rated movie, she's considered old enough according to the MPAA. https://www.mpaa.org/film-ratings/ | ---
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> Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: > > So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps.
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Title: **Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom?**
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> Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: > > So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps.
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9o3ajb | legaladvice_train | 0.61 | Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom? Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps. | e7r3wsd | e7qzxm9 | 1,539,532,676 | 1,539,528,916 | 191 | 4 | > how it was illegal to have sex with her Screaming lady is wrong. In New York, the age of consent is 17. Stay away from the nude pics, though, since your girlfriend being a minor in nude photos would run afoul of federal pornography laws. > what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS Pretty much nothing. It's not illegal for you two to be together. They might do a cursory "investigation" to close out the case, but by "investigation", I mean they'd ask her age or check her ID and know immediately that no laws had been broken. Your girlfriend is freaked out, and really, what 17 year old girl wouldn't be? Have her mother formally complain to both the manager of the theater and the corporate office of the chain. Specifically, she should complain that the employee yelled at her daughter, said she dressed like a whore, berated her in front of other customers for dating someone older, and refused service based on her own conservative opinions. If I were the mother, I'd insist on both an apology from the theater management and (at the very least) disciplinary action against the employee. The company is a lot more likely to respond to a mama bear than a teenage girl who probably isn't in the right mindset right now to stand up for herself. | ---
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Title: **Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom?**
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> Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: > > So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps.
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9o3ajb | legaladvice_train | 0.61 | Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom? Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps. | e7s3ywa | e7qzxm9 | 1,539,564,265 | 1,539,528,916 | 61 | 4 | The age to see R rated movies is 17 so I don't know why she said she wasn't allowed to see it. | ---
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> Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: > > So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps.
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9o3ajb | legaladvice_train | 0.61 | Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom? Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps. | e7qzxm9 | e7ujmky | 1,539,528,916 | 1,539,657,700 | 4 | 12 | ---
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Author: /u/battlefieldguy145
Title: **Is there anything I can do about this crazy lady working at the movie theater last night for screaming at me, my girlfriend, and calling her mom?**
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> Ok here's some background info. I'm 20 and she's 17 about to turn 18 in literally 3 months. We have known each other for all of our lives and we have been dating for a little over 4 years now. Here's what happened last night: > > So me, her and one of her friends were going to go to a movie at the local movie theater. We were going to see A star is born which is rated r (didn't know at the time lol) and she offered to buy. So she walks up to this older lady who just started working there and wanted to buy a ticket and the woman working there wanted some form of id because it was a r rated move. She gave the woman her drivers license and from her DOB the lady must have figured out she was 17 and said no. We were about to walk out and go back home but then she asked me how old I was and what I was doing with her. I told her that I was 20 and that she was my gf and the lady actually got out of the booth and started flipping out on how I was using her, how I should date someone my own age, how it was illegal to have sex with her etc etc. My girlfriend told her that we have known each other forever, she really liked me and that it was none of her business to judge who she decided to be with. We started to walk out when the woman suddenly said to my gf and I quote "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". My girlfriend told the woman that wasn't her place and the woman just yelled at her again. So reluctantly my girlfriend let the woman call her mother (who I am very close to) and well her mom started to flip out on the woman on the phone. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then they hung up. The woman then told us to get out of the movie theater and as we were leaving she told my girlfriend that she should stop dressing like a whore because she was wearing one of those crop top skirt sets and that if we ever came back she would call CPS. I'm honestly not really worried that much but my girlfriend has been crying all morning about the thing. Is there any way I should go about contacting the movie theaters owners about what happened (it was at one of those chains) Also what would happen if that woman actually did decide to call CPS? She's really worried that they are going to take her away from her parents and get me in trouble for dating someone younger. She turns 18 afew days after New Years in January if that helps.
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LocationBot 4.125 | GitHub (Coming Soon) | Statistics | Report Issues | > "You aren't leaving until I get a hold of your mother or I am calling the cops". You should have just left (and then called the management later). A private business can not detain you because of your ages. The cops wouldn't respond to this because nothing here is a crime, and you would be long gone before they actually showed up anyways. It's best to just remove yourself from the altercation. | 0 | 128,784 | 3 |
9vy935 | legaladvice_train | 0.8 | My girlfriend was physically assaulted last night. She was concussed and doesn't remember 5-10 minutes of what happened. She didn't fight back. Her friends were in the bath room and helped her after. What should she do? I'm surprised this would happen in San Francisco, out of all places. Okay so here goes.. Friday Night(last night) my girlfriend, lets call her Betty ,and her 3 girl friends were out last night in the Marina and I get a call from one of them telling me that Betty had been hit in the face/theres been a fight and needed my help. I drove over to find my the group huddle together outside the bar, Betty holding an ice pack on her head and crying, somewhat hysterical and her friends comforting her all of them somewhat inebriated. She left our apartment to see them just 2 hours ago and and had only had 2 drinks, whereas they had been drinking drinking since around 5pm. It was about 1:20 am when I arrived, and the usual marina shit show. Betty is a sweet blonde from the midwest and her 3 friends are South American and they had, as they always do probably been speaking in Spanish the whole night. ​ What I was able get from the group was that while Betty's friends went to the bathroom, a group of girls and Betty exchanged words, then a drink was thrown at Betty, and before she could think twice about having water or whatever was in the glass dumped on her, she got ROCKED on the temple/eyebrow/eye. Sucker punched, seemingly unprovoked. Apparently the girls were confronting Betty because she was speaking Spanish. I honestly couldn't get any details as to what happened. It just seems crazy to me. ​ She say's after she got hit with the glass she doesn't remember what happened. When here friends got back from the bathroom they found her standing there in shock and some 5-10 minutes went by before she started crying and they took her to the bathroom...I guess they were drunk and couldn't figure out what had just happened and she was concussed. They eventually got her an ice pack and called me. ​ The girl in the group that assaulted her left the bar after like 5-10 minutes after that with her friends. No bouncers were involved because Betty and the gang spent a bunch of time in the bathroom and didn't flag any bouncer over. ​ I called the police for her and we filed a report once they arrived, and apparently there are cameras at this Bar. ​ Perhaps if the lighting and angles are right we could see what actually happened and IF that's possible maybe match times with a name if they paid with a card to find some names or names of friends of the girl who hit Betty? Also I spoke wth a guy who apparently saw Betty get hit and he gave me his number in case i needed some sort of witness. ​ We didn't go to the ER or anything, but am thinking I should take her just to be safe after reading about concussion protocols. She doesn't remember a solid 10 minutes of the night. She's doing better today but has a slight headache. ​ Any recommendations? Is she basically SOL? Should we just let it go and avoid the work of trying to press charges on some anonymous violent drunk girl? ​ TLDR: Girlfriend got sucker punched with a glass and got concussed, didn't fight back at all, doesn't remember what happened after. We don't know who did it, but maybe its on camera. ​ I'll post updates once I get back from the bar today at 4 to review the footage. | e9g1cz2 | e9g1e0e | 1,541,886,989 | 1,541,887,011 | 18 | 66 | > Any recommendations? Nothing else to be done. It doesn't appear the bar has any liability, and you can't sue a person you can't identify. For now, just get her fixed up and see what happens with the investigation. | From a medical perspective, I'd strongly advise her to see a doctor. SF police may or may not want to pursue the case. If you can get the bar to send them footage, that might push them towards doing some investigating of their own. However, it is ultimately up to the police, not you, to investigate the crime. | 0 | 22 | 3.666667 |
z45f8w | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | My girlfriend voluntarily admitted herself to inpatient. Now they won’t let her leave. When she was considering admission, she repeatedly asked if it was voluntary, and if she could leave anytime. They kept saying yes, including the final signature. Her aunt was witness to this, as she was with her in the ER. Then once she was in the facility, she wasn’t allowed to leave. She signed under false pretenses. The hospital claimed to have therapy, and that she’d have therapy everyday. It’s been 2 days, and there’s still no sign of a therapist anywhere. She’s given cups of pills throughout the day. Staff doesn’t tell her what they are. My girlfriend was once given a cup of “lights-out” pills. She thought they were sleep meds. She didn’t learn until later that they were anxiety meds. She was not suicidal or homicidal when she checked in, and she made that clear. She still makes it clear when talking to staff. Complaints can only be made after she leaves. But until then, her rights and her freedom are at the mercy of a doctor who’s only there once a day. Oh yeah, and also covid’s possibly spreading. This is in Ohio. | ixq4g4r | ixqg3f0 | 1,669,380,302 | 1,669,387,153 | 341 | 406 | If she’s not suicidal or homicidal, how did she end up in the ER and how did the ER determine she needed an inpatient admission? Inpatient psychiatric facilities typically fill up fast and are intended for safety/crisis stabilization only, so ER personnel don’t typically refer for inpatient treatment unless there is a crisis/safety concern. Once admitted, as other responses have stated, there’s typically a 72 hour hold to determine whether or not the patient presents a danger to self or others or whether they’re stable/lucid enough to care for themselves. The hospital does have a responsibility/liability to ensure safety before allowing someone to leave, and this is more than just the person stating they’re not a danger to themselves or others. Most likely those doing the evaluating (therapists and psychiatrists) are off for the holiday or if it’s accurate that Covid is spreading there, it’s possible they’re sick, so things take even longer. Yes, psychiatric hospitalization can be traumatizing in and of itself and yes, the system in general is very broken, so this can be a really frustrating and slow process. But at some point a medical doctor determined your gf needed crisis stabilization, so right now the best option is to wait it out until she’s determined to be safe to be discharged | Psych ER/ inpatient nurse here- the multiple trips to the ER with the multiple complaints of elevated heart rate and anxiety, (despite no claims of SI)are still red flags that need to be looked into further. That’s why she got admitted. | 0 | 6,851 | 1.190616 |
z45f8w | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | My girlfriend voluntarily admitted herself to inpatient. Now they won’t let her leave. When she was considering admission, she repeatedly asked if it was voluntary, and if she could leave anytime. They kept saying yes, including the final signature. Her aunt was witness to this, as she was with her in the ER. Then once she was in the facility, she wasn’t allowed to leave. She signed under false pretenses. The hospital claimed to have therapy, and that she’d have therapy everyday. It’s been 2 days, and there’s still no sign of a therapist anywhere. She’s given cups of pills throughout the day. Staff doesn’t tell her what they are. My girlfriend was once given a cup of “lights-out” pills. She thought they were sleep meds. She didn’t learn until later that they were anxiety meds. She was not suicidal or homicidal when she checked in, and she made that clear. She still makes it clear when talking to staff. Complaints can only be made after she leaves. But until then, her rights and her freedom are at the mercy of a doctor who’s only there once a day. Oh yeah, and also covid’s possibly spreading. This is in Ohio. | ixqg3f0 | ixq6ccx | 1,669,387,153 | 1,669,381,578 | 406 | 70 | Psych ER/ inpatient nurse here- the multiple trips to the ER with the multiple complaints of elevated heart rate and anxiety, (despite no claims of SI)are still red flags that need to be looked into further. That’s why she got admitted. | She can leave. Leaving AMA is a lengthy process. The medical director has to determine that she is well enough to be released because they cannot run the risk of releasing a person who may hurt themselves. It doesn't really matter whether she has been suicidal or not. She has to be evaluated before she can go. I think what you're misunderstanding is that she can begin the process to leave AMA whenever she wants to. The barriers she is running into are 1. It is a holiday week, the doctor and probably the therapists are not there til Monday. 2. She just say she wants to leave and be expected to let out. She will make the request from the medical director and meet with that person before she signs a million forms. They will let her out but there is a beurocratic process to that. Just be patient. No pun intended | 1 | 5,575 | 5.8 |
z45f8w | legaladvice_train | 0.96 | My girlfriend voluntarily admitted herself to inpatient. Now they won’t let her leave. When she was considering admission, she repeatedly asked if it was voluntary, and if she could leave anytime. They kept saying yes, including the final signature. Her aunt was witness to this, as she was with her in the ER. Then once she was in the facility, she wasn’t allowed to leave. She signed under false pretenses. The hospital claimed to have therapy, and that she’d have therapy everyday. It’s been 2 days, and there’s still no sign of a therapist anywhere. She’s given cups of pills throughout the day. Staff doesn’t tell her what they are. My girlfriend was once given a cup of “lights-out” pills. She thought they were sleep meds. She didn’t learn until later that they were anxiety meds. She was not suicidal or homicidal when she checked in, and she made that clear. She still makes it clear when talking to staff. Complaints can only be made after she leaves. But until then, her rights and her freedom are at the mercy of a doctor who’s only there once a day. Oh yeah, and also covid’s possibly spreading. This is in Ohio. | ixqg3f0 | ixq65f1 | 1,669,387,153 | 1,669,381,452 | 406 | 28 | Psych ER/ inpatient nurse here- the multiple trips to the ER with the multiple complaints of elevated heart rate and anxiety, (despite no claims of SI)are still red flags that need to be looked into further. That’s why she got admitted. | Can’t leave for 72hours minimum once admitted. | 1 | 5,701 | 14.5 |
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