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Should I follow my crush on insta? I'm scared that he'll think I'm a stalker or sum cuz imagine someone just all of a sudden follow u at the last day of school. Idk if he knows my insta too tho... | Crushes |
I need some warm fuzzies atm | Crushes |
I was sitting behind him on the right side and he was sitting infront of me but on the left side. He kept giving me side eyes and glances. Some of his stares were at least 5 seconds long. Also, he looked back twice and this time I caught him looking away so fast. One I caught him, he looked straight into the ceiling and then faced towards his friend. | Crushes |
As I said in the title we hung out yesterday. We went to the park, got something to eat, then played mini golf. It was really fun I really like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me back but I'm not sure. There is no point to this post I just wanted to post this. | Crushes |
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I met my crush just a little over two months ago. We worked together a few times before we started talking, but eventually we conversed, and I realized that have a few things in common. Soon after, i took a look in the mirror, and decided that now was the time for a change.
Since then, i have started exercising almost daily, and focused on eating less. I feel this obligation to better myself, to become a better person at the end. Seeing her smile and laugh is enough to make me do this. Even if this doesn't evolve into a relationship, i'm doing something good for myself. | Crushes |
14 f. I have a like the biggest crush on one of my close friends, I’m like 95% percent sure that she likes me back and I can even tell that my other friends know. Last Friday was my last day at that school and I regret not telling her, and now that is all I think about. We haven’t texted since then. What do I do? I kinda want to invite her for something during summer break but that’s not something we’ve ever done together and I can’t find a way to tell her. | Crushes |
i know this is kinda niche but does anyone have their crush added on bereal? i’m constantly debating whether or not to comment or realmoji react to my crush’s post. wanted to see if anyone else has this dilemma :) | Crushes |
I was posting about my previous crush on here about 200 days ago. I’ve come back to update. For context, I don’t like her anymore. Turns out, she liked me for 1-2 years and still kinda likes me. I feel dumb I didn’t confess to her and I feel bad I don’t like her anymore. Thought I’d share it with you guys. Maybe it’ll get someone to confess before they crush changes their mind. I know I might just be lucky, but I’d hate for someone to miss their chance. | Crushes |
17 (m).So this girl has joined our friend group for the past month as she's been hanging out more and more with us. Whenever we are out we talk to each other quite a lot and I've started to fall for her more and more. The other day our group went bowling, but she went outside to speak to some guy who called her. She apparently sorta likes him which left me feeling awful. I told one of my female friends about it a bit after and she said 'she likes you' but that was just her speculation, idk if it was to make me feel better or what but I honestly don't want false hope. We speak quite a bit over text as well but man, I really like this girl. How can I switch her interest to me or maybe she is interested in me? I don't know. I don't want to just come out and say that I like her because it'll make things weird if she doesn't. Ive just gotten over my ex girlfriend and this is the first time I've felt this way about somebody in a while, and I am not just going to let it go, please help | Crushes |
okay so like i’m super confused. because my guy friend who is also my crush— well- we were texting last week and he ended up telling me about this date he went on. he told me nothing happened but she had a ‘beautiful smile’, before he said ‘but enough about me’. from there he didn’t respond for days and i decided to randomly message him on friday night just asking him a completely irrelevant question (just asking if he had ever done shisha before, told you, irrelevant) and i kid you not he responded within 10 seconds. and later on in that convo i had said ‘i was gonna say something else but i forgot’ and he goes ‘That you missed me’.
so my question is why does he do this? he doesn’t speak to me for days and then when i message him saying something he responds immediately? and now currently after we had a short conversation that night, he’s gone back to not saying anything. like what? is he bored of me or something? | Crushes |
Well, finally I'm planing to confess, I think; To give a context, I joined this year and I been crushing in this boy that it's in my class during all the semester, we became friends and we get along relatively good, but we aren't like.. ¡best friends! or something like that, just normal. And the semester is gonna end the wednesday.
I'm will see him again in 3 or 4 weeks, yeah, but I don't want to keep me, all that time, crushing in someone that I don't even know if feels the same as me.
And... I known since the start that the chances are 1% that he likes me and 99% that not, but I'm afraid of confessing to know the true; there's some things that I noticed in him.. that gave me a bit of hope in having a chance with him; but I don't know if I'm just misunderstanding the signals... Yeah, there's mixed signals also, how could they miss?
Can you tell me how to deal with the very probably rejection?
I'll update the post with whatever happens at the end, wish me luck ;)
Edit: Because I'm a coward, I didn't told him yesterday, I didn't saw a chance so I begun to wait for this day; and just today he decided not to go... T_T
I'm thinking about texting him but it isn't the same as saying it in person... | Crushes |
It's hard for me to even look at my crush because I don't want to look like a creep I can't even speak to her I'm a fool... so basically I missed my last chance because the last 2 days aren't required.. I feel sad now... I want to die | Crushes |
Just wondering if age is a strong factor in this. | Crushes |
i failed , i was in love with her for the whole year and i didnt had the balls to talk to her, next year i am going to a new school so im not going to talk to her ever again, god damn i hate myself so much . its not too late i know but i still dont have the balls to send her a message | Crushes |
Right so I’m not the type of person who is confident to just ask straight up but when she was on her phone today I think I saw a lad pinned on her Snapchat. What could this mean? | Crushes |
Currently lying home at sick and the only thing I need right now is second hand embarrassment! | Crushes |
It's summer vacation now which means I've had plenty of time. I didn't realize it then or have any intention of anything when I (f16) wrote to this guy who is one year older than me, that they're band performance was really good at the school summer graduation. I even went as far as to follow him on IG after I dm:d him, which then he followed me back. I always noticed him to be a nice guy because he's kind to all the school band members in all three grades (I'm a drummer in the 1st year band). I've seen him around school and he always seem to enjoy himself, and sometimes when I pass him in the halls we have eye contact for a second which indicates that he at least knows who I am.
In the dm I just wrote like that I thought that they're performance was really good and he replied just as enthusiastically as I did which I'm glad for. And then I just told him to have a good summer vacation and that's it.
I've kinda been stalking his insta and he's a very good guitarist and singer which is amazing, and I'm in awe of him atm. I would like to get to know him better after summer but like we aren't even in the same grade so it's hard to accidentally meet up. And also he seems quote popular like a lot of girls comment on his posts and such so it's kinda intimidating. Not only that he's older than me but also that's he's kinda popular and social while I'm definitely not popular and not very social. What should I do? Should I like dm him again? Or will that be obvious therefore awkward later on?
Idk if this means anything but he likes all the new posts i post on IG and watches my stories but also he's like quite active on insta so it's probably nothing in particular.
Anyways i would very much appreciate advice for when you have a crush who you don't really know? And who's older and i guess more popular than you? Thx for reading!, | Crushes |
We had a party/dance at school today and at one point he came up to my friend and I and just stood like hella close to me, like if I danced or moved a lil bit I would hit him. I wanted to dance with him but I didnt know the song that was playing so I just stood there 🤡
But anyway he like came up to us like he wanted to say something but he didnt
Then my friend moved to talk to another person and I went like "you seem like you wanna say something" and we just stared at each other for like 5 seconds then he smiled and walked away... like what 😭 | Crushes |
I (23M) have been dating my gf (22F) for 5 years now. I love her to the bottom of my heart, and I would do anything for her. But for these last 5 years I’be also had this terrible crush on her sister.
I don’t get why. She isn’t a supermodel or anything. Just an average-good looking 27 year old chick. Also, she isn’t really my type. Our hobbies and personalities are completely different and our beliefs differ also.
I just kinda got tired of being attracted to her. So I need advice on how to loose interest in her.
I barely see her now, so distancing has already proven wrong. Seeing her ugly side also has gone through the window, because I’ve seen how mean she can be. And also have seen her puffy face hangovers and messy hair days. She checks off a lot of my pet peeves too.
I don’t know what to do.
I’m thinking about going on a break with my gf, or discussing open-relationship. Since we both haven’t had any other relationships or hookups.
So maybe getting on with other girls might calm me down? Maybe my brain will realize that gfs’ sister isn’t anything special?
Guys, please help. I’m loosing my mind over here. | Crushes |
Ok so how do you hug someone. Idk but when we hugged it was always for like 1 second and I feel dum. First time we hugged I tried to hug her in a friendly way. welp that failed 2nd time I puller her in to my shoulder, welp sadly did not work better. Lastly yesterday. I made her ask for the hug just cause I was joking and saying that I was gon go. Then she looked so dumfounded so I just went and hugged her friendly way. Now my friend was suggesting to hug her from the waist but like.. bro I dont think she would be comfortable so I did not. Idk... just a random thing I'm problemed about and I want to make it better. | Crushes |
THIS GUY IS GENUINELY THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND MOST ATTRACTIVE PERSON I HAVE SEEN IN MY LIFE. THE PROBLEM IS THAT HE'S OME OF MY CLASSMATE's YOUNGER BROTHER AND IN THE YEAR BELOW AND I FEEL LIKE A NONCE EVEN THO ITS ONLY 1 YEAR 🙁
IM LITERALLY CRYING 💔💔💔💔💔💔
HE SAT NEXT TO ME ON THE BUS TODAY AND WE WERE TROLLING THIS GUY AND HE WAS TAKING MY PHONE M EVERYTHING IT WAS SO FUNNY <3
HE ALSO TOOK 2 WEIRD BUT CUTE SELFIES ON MY PHONE SO NOW I HAVE THOSE :D | Crushes |
So basically I got jealous so fast over some dumb reason. The reason was that she told our gc she only had 1 module left which ok cool. Then my friend asked her what module. She told the module and he told her he will help her out. And she accepted. ho lee mother of god I got jealous so badly the next day I was talkin bout different girls=-= well duckling my friend talked to me and told me to "tell her you dumbo" so I did and she well got disappointed. Well uhh how tf do I stop myself from getting jealous this fast. | Crushes |
Title might make me seem like an a@@hole but I’m not out to cause trouble for anyone. I’ve (M22) been in a serious relationship for 9 months with someone (F21) and it’s great. We have a lot in common, like the lazy lifestyle, we’re both low maintenance… Can’t fault her in the slightest.
Since college finished up, and even before that tbh, there was one woman who I had a crush on at the very beginning of college and it sort of came and went over time. Now that me and my current gf are away from each other for summer I’ve had a lot of time to myself and find myself thinking more and more about this other woman. I love my gf but I know that if this other person confessed feelings to me I would go for it :(
Really confused… | Crushes |
Hi all,
I feel kind of stupid writing all of this because it has been a while since I have seen my "crush", but I thought I would write about it anyways.
Prior to meeting my crush three years ago, I had written a long long list of what I wanted in a man including physical traits, interests etc. I stored this long list somewhere and forgot about it. Then, I took a trip to a city I'd been wanting to visit for years (this detail has its importance).
Fast forward, a week later, I see this (extremely) handsome guy at work and couldn't figure out whether he was an intern (as he looked young) or a manager (due to his expensive clothing). It was very strange. We didn't work together as we worked in different departments and was only there for a fixed-term project. Everywhere I turned there he was. I could have been working in a different office in the city and I'd wind up running into him somewhere in one capacity or another. It was as though the Universe was trying to get us to meet.
We had a few "cute" instances such as:
* Bumping into each other in the elevator (he was exiting, I was entering). I politely said "Oh sorry" and he stood there mumbling / stuttering awkwardly. He couldn't even say "sorry".
* Held the door for me a few times and always said "You're very welcome" with a big smile after I thanked him (lol - you just held the door buddy)
* If I made my way to the kitchen or downstairs, literally 2/3 minutes later, he'd be somewhere around me doing something.
He was so so cute. A lot of the times, I thought I was making this up in my head, but I honestly could not shake how many run-ins we had even when we worked in different offices. He was literally everywhere. The company employs about 3K people and he was the only one I'd see everywhere I turned. I didn't even see my teammates this much.
Funny thing is for a while, I tried to figure out his accent ... only to find out he is from that same city I visited right before I met him. Plus, he literally ticks every single box on that list I had written moons prior to meeting him including the tiny physical details. Talk about a coincidence.
This happened 3 years ago. I have not seen him since January 2020. COVID happened, I changed companies, personal things happened but I never really forgot about him. I still think of him. He probably doesn't even remember who I am, but this is the longest "crush" I've had my entire life. I'm 32 now (he is in his 30s too I think). I'm usually an "out of sight, out of mind" type of person and can forget about people easily. It's different with this one though. Too bad the Universe initiated all those "coincidences" only for it to remain as a cute memory.
This post was just meant to write how I feel about it. Nothing less, nothing more.
Thank you for reading :) | Crushes |
He sucks at texting, and usually leaves messages on seen. We had a semi-argument about him not being the best at texting (not rlly, we just talked about it) and in his words, “my brain just self implodes and i just have no idea how to respond to anything and eventually just close the app.” It’s not a thing he does exclusively to me, he just all-around sucks at texting. I try to hang out with him irl as much as I can (literally once in the last month), but I can only see him irl so often. So, any tips? We’re both guys if that matters, btw. | Crushes |
I (at the time 16/17yo) had a huge crush on my history teacher (40~ yo) in highschool and I still think about him sometimes, I mean, I think almost everyone in the class was intimidated by him, he was kind of short but a little muscular, with long gray/white hair tied in a ponytail and a beard, he had a hot deep nice voice and beautiful green eyes. He was considered the funny and quirky teacher, but he was serious when he needed to be, he talked a lot about his personal life, he traveled a lot and a lot of his anecdotes were weirdly hot and sparked my already developed crush on him. The best part is that he was bi and also very involved in LGBTQ stuff and ecology, what a good guy. Not only is he very attractive, but he is also objectively a good person, there is nothing not to like about him, except maybe his poor notion of the limits of physical contact? When students were anxious, he offered to massage them but sometimes he didn't ask and did it anyway, it's a bit weird but still very nice in my opinion. Anyway, you can be sure I wasn't the one complaining about being massaged by him lol. Now I'm an adult and recently I found his TikTok and Instagram and it's so good to jack off to him after all this time, and there are so many sexy pictures/videos of him. I love being gay. | Crushes |
So i go swimming to my local pool quite often ans I noticed a lifeguard that I find very cute. We only interacted once when I lost my locker keys and he gave them back to me, and that lasted for like a second. Then the next day when I came to the pool again he looked at me and smiled. I kinda like him but I'm way too scared and awkward to talk to him, so I really don't know how to let him know I like him. I don't think he looks at me when Im swimming ( I'm not aware of it anyway), so maybe he's not interested in me? For the record I'm quite cute, tall and slim and I swim well. I'm also always wear a Speedo one piece, so it's not that sexy probably lol | Crushes |
My best friend/crush has been away for 3 days and I forgot about him for most of today because we haven't talked since the day he left and we usually talk everyday.
So I messaged him asking how the course he's on is going and he said pretty good. Now I am not a great conversationalist and I just messaged him back saying that's good and he just ignored the message completely.
I know that we aren't going to talk much the next 3/4 days, but I just feel bad that I forgot about him. | Crushes |
If anyone didn’t see my last post on here it was about me(15M) being too scared to ask her(14F) out but I have good news. I just got a wave of confidence and decided to ask her out, I made sure to say not as a couple because I didn’t want to scare her off but too my surprise she said that she wants to go out. I genuinely could not be happier at this moment, I just feel so warm and fuzzy.
But now I must come to the strangers of the internet for more advice. I have asked her out, she has agreed but I didn’t expect her to say yes so where should I bring her. | Crushes |
To be honest, i was starting to feel pretty attracted towards this person. But i was having a hard time trying to figure out whether i had a crush on this person or i just wanted to be good friends.
I thought that the other person was rather pretty. But rather than seeking a relationship or something like that. I just felt like i wanted to be close friends.
Is it a crush, or just seeking a platonic friendship or something else?
(I'm just really confused.) | Crushes |
Just like the title. The last snap she sent was like a week ago. Does this still count as “ghosting”?
Should I send her another snap? I’ve already sent two this week, hoping she just lost me in the crowd.
I’m definitely not telling her to answer because that’s just pushy and it’ll make it seem like I’m needy and all. So uh…any advice?
EDIT: uh she just sent me a snap?? I sent her another one and she responded like 2 seconds later. Idk what’s up man | Crushes |
So my crush is moving away soon and our school's year closing event tomorrow might be the last time we meet in a while, if not ever. The place she's moving to is only an hour away by train, so if theoretically we were to get together I could visit her often. However I've never been in a relationship before and I don't know if it's a bad idea to have my first relationship with someone outside of town. I'm also not sure if I'll have a perfect opportunity to ask her out tomorrow. **So I have three questions:**
Should I ask her out?
If I do, is it okay to do it in front of her friends?
If I don't get an opportunity to ask her out before she moves is it okay to do it over text? (I've never texted her before, we've only talked in person) | Crushes |
You know she won't ever like you back in the way you do. But you don't want to hurt the friendship you have already. How exactly do you just stop liking them? | Crushes |
As the title says, I was in Paris for the weekend so I decided to write a poem about her, a crush that I won’t see again that I should move on from, but in my heart she will always be the prettiest girl. So here it goes:
Today I met the prettiest girl I have ever seen
Funnily enough I could not comprehend her true beauty at first.
But by taking just more than a glimpse,
I could admire her joyful expression.
The uniqueness in her hazelnut eyes as a they sparkled like a pair of shining stars.
I love everything about her;
Her hair in a messy bun hiding all her secrets.
Her skin gleaming smooth reflecting the warm June sun.
And her smile that could melt anyone’s heart.
Why did I feel so passionate about her?
Yet, i know, I know it is in vain…
I will never see her again after the summer.
I wished it could have been different;
In a parallel universe, where I would have the slightest chance to be with her
Where did the time go?
The moment, when I met the prettiest girl I had ever seen in my life, has gone away.
Farewell to you,
One day I will see you again in a distant land… | Crushes |
Okay so some brief background on the situation…
A guy on campus and I met through this joke valentines day matching quiz for our school
we went on a few dates for the next couple of months (lunches, dinners, a movie, stuff like that) but we hadn’t really defined anything
before spring semester ended, he texts me asking to sit down and talk about what’s going on between us, the awkward define the relationship talk
I like him, but I haven’t dated anyone and I overthink things and don’t really trust how I feel so I think I sort of friendzoned him or said I needed some more time because he was going home for the summer and I didn’t want to start something with a long distance relationship
Since then, he’s sort of stopped texting me. It’s great when we do talk but I’m the only one initiating conversations and I miss talking to him
I don’t want to come off as needy but should I reach out and ask why he isn’t texting so much? Or should I just move on because it seems like he is? I don’t know.
Maybe I should just enjoy being sort of single for the summer, but it’s not like I ever get asked out or hit on anyways so I’d just be alone like usual. | Crushes |
Ladies and gentlemen, I've done it | Crushes |
When we talk I want it to feel more natural. | Crushes |
Just askin | Crushes |
We’re friends, but I get so easily discouraged if he leaves me on delivered for more than five minutes, leaves me on opened, or initiate too many conversations. I feel like he’s thinking, “why does this b*tch text me so much? Does she like me or something?” Lol | Crushes |
So everything's going very good with my crussh, she matches me. i love everything about her. but i'm getting deppressed now, she texts me everyday send funny pics, she even has my photo on her lock screen, i can't last a day without having proper chat with her. idk i'm really scared to lose her. i'm anxious and none of this happend with any other crushes i had. what do i do | Crushes |
i don’t have the heart or emotional energy to go into details right now, but yeah. we interact in ways that i, and others i know, would consider way more than just simple friends.. and he’s not stupid. there’s no way he doesn’t know that i have feelings for him. but i don’t think he sees anything between us in the future. and i don’t think he’s over his ex girlfriend.
but i wish he would just be direct with me. i wish i didn’t have to take the information and interpret it on my own. i wish he didn’t tell me all about his ex girlfriend one night, then call me for hours, or make plans to hang out, or tell me about how much he likes me as a person the very next. and then he’ll go right back to talking about his ex. it’s exhausting, and i wish i knew how to draw the line. i’m afraid that my feelings for him might be more serious than i thought, but that he also might be leading me on- whether he’s aware of it or not. i’m afraid that i’m the emotional rebound.
and i’m just tired. i appreciate our friendship but i don’t know how much longer i can handle the emotional highs and lows. he has me sobbing in the middle of the night, and we aren’t even together! lmfao. i don’t know. | Crushes |
My crush and I are going to graduate soon and then go to different universities, which makes me sad. I want to confess but at the same time, I'm also anxious and scared. What if he doesn't like me the way I like him? Or if he does, does he like me as much as I like him? What if he's going to get interested in another girl from the university he's applying to? What if he actually finds me annoying?
My mind is a mess. I'm a crumbling mess. I know this is just the negative part of me speaking but I can't help it.
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I tried to tell a friend about this but they just don't understand. I'm really overwhelmed and anxious, it doesn't even make sense!
What should I do for now? | Crushes |
He didn't explicitly say that he didnt like me but it was pretty obvious he wanted nothing to do with me. I feel so fucking horrible and I dont know what to do. ugh | Crushes |
Hi, (sorry for my english im not native) so im 20F and he is 20M, i met him first time during my classes (In March I think) because he came back after education break and joined my group. I didn't pay attention to him other than that he is new classmate, but then after few weeks I caught him looking at me during classes, and when he saw me that I realized he was looking at me, he smiled. Ofc me, always anxious dummy didnt smile back but I made big scared eyes, and pretended that i was making notes. Right after that situation we had Easter holidays, i spent it at home thinking, and i realized he became my crush. After holidays i tried to make friends with him. He shared with me only one friend so I used this to make friends too. I know they are funny and talkative when they are talking alone(2 males) , but when I'm present my crush becomes so serious and silent like he lost all of his humor (actually same with me xD) and this makes me think he doesn't like me. His friend told me he doubts its truth, its just him so introvert. But still I have a lot of thoughts in my mind. He sometimes chats to me before classes if im already on place so he can spend this time with me, or share stuff like his fav music band concert or school notes. Also soon there are summer holidays and imma miss him for those 2 months I wish we got closer :/ | Crushes |
i find its fun to talk about each other's crushes, and im incredibly bored so i have nothing better to do, so shoot me a DM or comment below, tell me about your crush or ask me about my crush and i'll answer! | Crushes |
After a long time, I finally mustered up the courage to tell her. It was a respectful exchange, thankfully. We were both very level-headed about it. She told me she respects me and sees me as a close friend with a special place in her heart, but she doesn't feel the same way I do when it comes to romantic feelings.
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That's not all. She also added that her relationship with a platonic friend of hers turned into sth more last week, and that it's been a roller coaster and intense for her. Basically, she's deciding if she's gonna further her relationship with him (who's a friend of mine and recently broke up with his gf).
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Tbh, I'm taking it way better than I thought i would. It's kinda hard not to compare myself with the other guy. But on the other hand, I know that's not hearts work lol. I respect her decision, and I'm glad I could get that out of the way, since it'd been a huge burden to carry around. Let's hope my mental health remains stable and I don't have a mental breakdown while overthinking it :D. | Crushes |
My crush is coming to my city next week , and I was wondering if I should tell her now , or wait until she comes here. | Crushes |
I was just scrolling on instagram, and I was gonna go check out some stories, and I noticed that HIS ICON HAD A GREEN RING AROUND IT. I feel really happy right now because we aren't actually that close and we aren't in the same circle of friends, but I've liked him for a while now. | Crushes |
I was such a wuss I had to ask 10 people if I say it on call or on text.. most said call so I was like waiting for the right time.. and I said it.. well fuck I was more embarassed than she was | Crushes |
Here's some info about me so I had a lot of crushes in the past but this crush just hits diff.. like every ex crush I had is a red flag but this one is different whenever I talk to them it's just feeling I have never felt
okay guys so um I met my crush few days ago when I was enrolling in my schools music club at first it was a no for me because they seemed kinda rude to me it was just a situation I misunderstood them for a rude person but then later I thought they were older than me as their music skills were just great I called them senior in my language which is also considered as older sibling/senior just a word for respecting people few years older than you
Continued I asked about their age and found out that they were the same age as me and they were also suprised as per the analysis of their face I could tell that they were suprised too as they thought that I would older or younger than them so finding out we were the same age was a shock for both of us later the next day Also it was awkward for both of us to ask names as I just called them older sibling 😀 and I guess they also thought me that I were older than them so yeah
Later next day we both had a conversation and I just randomly asked their name they replied and then I replied so they were confused at first (fyi my name is a mess)
And they replied with huh? Is that you're name sorry I thought you were telling me stuff both of us had a great laugh
Then they talked about me telling me “ i have never seen in the previous grade” I told them “ I guess it's because of my hair lol I just experimented alot it's like every academic year I just change my hair” then they told me about their funny hair experiements which was a great laugh and then talked about the one particular stuff that middle schoolers “ say I'm gonna tell you're name to teacher about silly stuff” I replied with “ never did in my younger years ” they replied with “ oh you must be quiet back then” Idk why but this line gives me the chills
fyi during all this conversation we had a strong eye contact very close to eachother and also + the height difference I'm shorter than them they are tall + they were as trying to look back to talk to me as I'm a slow Walker also these conversations took place with two more people but still they were looking back at me they were really interested in my talkings also the two more people were their bestfriend and my classmate | Crushes |
I’m a girl in high school and met a guy from another state last week at a theatre festival. We met early in the festival and I developed a small crush on him but was too nervous to say anything. He’s funny, cute, and, unlike most of the guys I know, seemed genuine. On the last day, one of my good guy friends who had become friends with him told the guy that I thought he was cute. Apparently he felt the same way and asked for my number. We started texting and had a few witty and sarcastic conversations on the last day of the convention that had little to do with our actual lives. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to see him in person after that since my school had to leave that night. I tried to start a conversation on the bus ride back, but it, yet again, was mainly funny and not really talking about our real lives. It’s been two days since we started texting and one since we talked last. Normally, I would try to meet up, but he lives 10 hours away from me. I really don’t want this to fizzle out because he seems like a really cool person that I want to get to know. How do I make this work? | Crushes |
He said yes and now I’m super nervous he’s gonna cancel🥲. The fireworks are 45 minutes away each so that’s a long car ride with my parents and him in the car.(my parents have never met him). | Crushes |
It's really exhausting, can't get him out my head. He is always in my dreams, texting me and going on a date with me but irl I have never talked to this guy.
I don't even know if it's normal to feel attraction like this much, i don't think i love him though because of the fact that we've never talked just stared at each other from afar...
And... My friend is saying like "Just tell him at least you can get him out of your head like this" but don't want to make him uncomfortable even if the school is over and even if confession will be over text. And i didn't even confess to anyone in my life so even thinking about confessing is hard to imagine. Also it feels like I've lost my chance already...
I just don't even know what to do, i'm trying to move on and working hard on my dreams but i can't.
I wish I didn't meet and pay attention to him in the first place when he was staring.
And even if I'm not checking him on social media or smth emotions are still there :')
Vent is over...
Btw if you have a advice or experienced something similar i'd like to hear them too. | Crushes |
I recently got to hear that my frenemy has a crush on my crush. Should I stay put? | Crushes |
I hope I can help if so | Crushes |
So basically we used to talk to each other from September to November-ish and stopped because I didn't want anyone to suspect anything (I suppose cuz I'm stupid and hate when ppl are like "ooooh look at them, they're LOVEEERS") but now I feel very very bad and want to make thing go back to when (I'm pretty sure) we were flirting.
Good news is that I caught her staring at me and even try to approach me but deviated when she saw I was with people too (she brought her besties to encourage her if I'm guessing right )
And I overheard one of her friends say "You could have at least been a little more sneaky"
So I really need advice to spark at least one of our conversations back. | Crushes |
i messaged her on insta about a video call, and she said she was busy yet she's the one replying to my texts in a span of five minutes or less. | Crushes |
There is this girl that I like and she likes me back we are constantly with eachother she often puts her head on my shoulder and I even told her that I love her she also said it to me it’s amazing but these fu€ks in my school are making me angry there are 2 dudes let’s call one of them O and the other G so O always rushed to her when I go away and try’s to small talk and to flirt but fails miserably everytime and I don’t really care about him I’m 1.90 I train boxing and I am just 15 and this moron is a Rat next to me but anyways G is the problem he once tried to get to together with her and failed and now he always acts like mike Tyson when she’s next to me and insults me I want to obliterate him but I can’t I just can’t and this fu€k always tries to be alone with her I’m going to murd€er him can y’all help me I don’t know what to do | Crushes |
Basically we were hanging out with a bunch of friends and I walked her to her car when she left, felt really good and then and there I decided to ask her out, I chickened out in person so I ended up sending her a text asking if she wanted to hang out sometime “maybe get dinner, coffee (you still owe me star bucks😉😉) (it’s an long story of what that means😂) maybe bowling, go karting, up to you!” And she responded “absolutely I’d love to, maybe not a date quite yet but definitely we have to do something” | Crushes |
I'm now dating the guy at work I had a crush on! Apparently, everyone at work knew he liked me and shipped us together. I made the first move and luckily he reciprocated my feelings <3. | Crushes |
I was just bored at home and decided to text a girl that I knew had a crush on someone and ask her about it. She just gave random clues and we just chatted. I was not until we have realised that we have chatted for an entire hour. I don't know what is going on and it is confusing me.
P.S - I do not have a crush on her. I'm just asking here. | Crushes |
WE DIDNT REALLY TALK MUCH BEFORE BUT KINDA HAD A FEW INTERACTIONS AND WENT OUT WITH ANOTHER FRIEND ONCE, I THOUGHT WE JUST HAD NORMAL ‘GIRL FRIENDLINESS’ BUT TODAY THEY WERE GIVING FREE ICE CREAM DURING RECESS AND SHE GRABBED MY HAND AND WE RAN THERE, DOES THIS MEAN WERE FRIENDS NOW?????
JUST LOOKING AG HER FACE JUST MAKES ME SMILE AND HER HAND WAS SO SOFT IM GONNA MELTTTTT | Crushes |
And she enjoyed it! | Crushes |
So I've (15M) had a crush on my classmate (15F) for a few months, and I've been getting signs, but haven't done anything serious. My problem is that because I'm worried about coming off as creepy to her, I don't do enough to show her how I feel. It's mostly been her approaching me. You can see my previous post, but some of the biggest signs are:
Her interest in me learning to play the violin in our music class (cheering me on, checking on my progress)
How we gravitate towards one another during our Scouting meetings
She would sometimes stare at me, and when I'd look up at her, she'd look away
The time she found me in my after school club and chatted me up. Her friend had to drag her away!
Her offering me a can of V8 she drank
I try to justify my shyness with reasons she wouldn't be interested, like the fact that even though she asked for my number, and we added each other, we haven't texted one-on-one in two months. Do you think that if she did like me, we would be texting? Encourage me or tell me a harsh truth, good people of Reddit. I just want to move forward or move on. | Crushes |
I will try to help or listen if thats want you want | Crushes |
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it was bound to happen, but im sharing this here anyway, bc i used to post here quite a lot during november/ december, when it all started.
we still love each other, but we decided to take a step back and break up to hopefully build up the relationship anew in a few weeks. we’ll be busy with exams until the end of july, then vacation until september. i’ll hopefully get better mentally too.
im quite positive, even though i feel so empty and incomplete. i’ll get over it. | Crushes |
I realize that I’m 20 going 21 this September and i never experience any teenage romantic relationship before I always had a lot of crushes but whenever I got serious catch feelings towards them they get into a relationship so i guess i should stop liking someone to get away of pain and one sided love. | Crushes |
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So, there is this girl, lets name her Sea.
Sea is in my friend group and i know her since April, and i realized i liked her in May.
At first, we liked each other, all our friends knew it. But she was confused about her feelings, so when i confessed to her, she said that we should stay as friends, and i agreed.
Later she had a crush on a girl (lets name her Sam) out of our friend group, but Sam told Sea that she was in love with a guy, which left my poor Sea heart broken. (This happened in June)
Now, Sea and I talk almost every day, and she's been very helpful and caring about me. She hugs me almost every time we see each other too. But i don't think that she likes me because she flirts as a joke with literally everyone in our friend group (we are 10 ppl) except me. So i don't know what to think because i don't want to get my hopes up.
Something even worse is that she leaves the country on July 18th until September and i won't be able to see her, and im afraid she will find another girl and forget about me, even if we are nothing.
pls help. | Crushes |
i currently have a crush on my tablemate hahahaha. we became friends because we were in the same extra-curricular activity and grew closer after our teacher put us beside each other in class (thank god she didn’t change our seats). we have a mutual friend that we ship with another girl and we often work together to matchmake them together. kinda like partners in crime?? HAHAHA we talk a lot during lessons and he tells the lamest but funniest jokes
there was once i invited him to rollerblade with our other friends from our extra curricular and he said he would only try these kind of activities if his girlfriend asks him. another time we were talking about emojis beside contact names and he also said the first person he would give emojis will be his future gf. idk how to feel about that tbh. when i said no one has ever had a crush on me before, he said that i never know, and that there could be someone out there that has a crush on me. he hinting to something or am i just overthinking it????
sometimes i feel hopeful that he likes me back??? but he has other girl friends too so i really don’t know😭😭 im just enjoying this at the moment though… but this sucks too omg
what do you guys think??? | Crushes |
I have a friend, really pretty and really nice, her personality is pretty similar to mine but I’ve known her since I was 4 and I don’t want to ask her out because I don’t want to ruin our friendship also she moved to another country and I only see her like once a year and I’m in need of advice pls | Crushes |
i have a crush on my friend who i chat with everyday. yesterday we were chatting about crushes and stuff. he started talking about his childhood crush and how he met her recently. i asked him if he still likes her and he said yes. i feel numb. it hit me harder because he told me that while we were texting in private and he said that he likes her freckles because she has a lot of them. i dont know how to really feel. i dont wanna chat with him anymore or hangout. i know he sees me only as a friend now and nothing more. somwhere deep inside i still had some hope that he would like me. i wish my feelings could just fade away. | Crushes |
(They use she/they pronouns :D)
I really like this girl. She is amazing. But they have been through so much...
She is the most beautiful person inside and out that i have personally met. She has so many good qualities and their so easy to be around.
I struggle with not being able to keep conversation. Idk why but my mind just doesn't let me conversate properly. But her mind can speak about anything. She will naturally switch between conversations, and they would never get boring. And she isn't overbearing when she talks, she will let me step in. They will be cautious about whether are talking too much.
I get bored with people so easily and get upset at them for nothing. But I've never been like that with her. They are just so easy to be near and talk to and just sit with.
She has such the cutest reactions to things. I call her sweetie and she verbally keyboard smashes whenever i do. Im so honest with her about how i feel, but ive never outright said it. Ill tell her things like they're so cute or adorable, i tell them my favourite part of my day is calling her at night, I'm seeing her tomorrow and I'm planning to look my best.
We have something going on, idk what you would call it but we are more than friends, less than partners. Im not sure if she likes me romantically or if its more s*xual. I hope its romantic, i want them to like me romantically.
I help her. I encourage their confidence and help her feel safe in a town where people like her aren't welcomed as much. I hope this crush expands to something amazing and beautiful.
I've only had these feelings for a week or two. I don't know if they are going to stay for long enough. In the last two and half years I've known them, I've fallen like this 3 times. They have this amazing pull to them. They attract people by doing nothing but be there. But each time I've been given a distraction from her. Now i don't have one. They have me all to themself.
I like everything about her. Her looks, her mind, her personality. They're just so pretty. I want them to be my girlfriend, but they are so hurt from their past I'm scared i will hurt her again by accident. Her past relationship was heartbreaking... And i don't want her to go through more heartbreak.
With a ex that cheats and manipulates you, uses you and leaves you to suffer, of course you will be hurt and heartbroken. I would never do that to her, but im scared me just being there and possibly leaving them will hurt them.
How do i approach this relationship without hurting them. I don't want her to be hurt if something happens in life and i leave... | Crushes |
A little backstory, so I have this crush on this girl I knew for over a year now. Our relationship seems to spotty at times and what I mean by that is sometimes we talk to each other and other times we ignore each other. But recently things have been odd between us. I haven’t spoke to her in over a month now because she seems like she going through something’s so I let her have her space.
But occasionally I’ll see her at work and notice her looking at me from across the room and then she will disappear sometimes, other times now her friends have taken notice to me and will point me out to her right as I walk into her workplace and they will all give me this look odd look and I’m so confused by it because I haven’t went out of my way to speak with her in over a month and they act even odder when I talk to them. They all work at grocery store if I didn’t mention that lol. I’m honestly confused on why they would have a reason to watch me every time I see them.
I also notice there days where she not at work and they will get ahold of her to let her know I’m there so I’m really confused if they know something I don’t or what’s going on because i just feel like it making things odd between me and my crush | Crushes |
So, there are 2 of the same restaurants where I live, we both worked in different ones.
Just about 3 weeks ago he transferred to the one I work at. Let’s just be cliche and say it’s almost love at first sight, from the moment we both locked eyes and exchanged hellos and names, there was already a certain type of atmosphere build up.
First it started with just conversations and when I tell you We could talk to each other for hours, I mean, hours. When we are doing the closing down in the restaurant, we want to help each other with each other’s tasks, just so we can talk more (although it does mean we do the jobs slower and are there later than we should be)
But then it turned into gentle flirting, like throwing stuff at each other or wiping dirty fingers on each other’s uniform lol. And then onto saying how young I am and how “old” he is. And then we started talking about relationships and more private and ‘intimate’topics?
Oh also, when I go in to ask for something because something was wrong he put his arm on my shoulder and said he’ll sort it out. I know it seems little but that touch was something else it felt like he cared
Other co workers have also noticed this and keep telling us to stop flirting and one co worker even asked him when is he going to give his “mobile number” to me which makes me laugh because does anyone even do that?? Another Co worker also asked him if he’s gonna but me a drink and in a teasing way he said I’m too young.
I just don’t know what to think as I KNOW it’s wrong but I don’t FEEL ot being wrong. He’s literally older than my brother basically same age as my sister. I wonder if he finds it weird too how I’m 17 or maybe this whole thing he’s just being friendly and I’m taking it the wrong way? I really don’t know what to think.
A few months ago my friend who was 17 at the time got with a Co worker who was 23, as soon as she turns 18 they made it official. I wonder if I’m in a similar situation to her . Any opinions?
Edit: I forgot to add how he doesn’t talk to the other girls the same as how he does to me
Another edit: just remembered how he’s complimented me. Few times too | Crushes |
Okay, so I figured that if I don't ask her out this summer I am going to drive myself insane. So, soon (tomorrow ideally) I'm gonna text her, get a conversation going, compliment her a bit and then ask if she wants to go with me to a Boardgame cafe downtown. | Crushes |
(Excuse if my grammar is bad I’m frantically typing) But I’ve been liking this guy for over a year and my feelings for him has been growing stronger every time I see him and when he texts me. One day back in September I made brownies for each friend that was in my group and one friend didn’t show up and he was the only other friend I had in that class and I gave it to him and after school he went up to me and said “those were the best brownies I’ve ever had, can you make them for only me for now on?” And I agreed and up until classes ended hes been complimenting my baking and he always plays around with me. He remembers little things I like (bands, songs) and he always randomly texting me random lyrics and we both “sing” to them and the things that make me fall harder is the moments we share like when we went trick or treating with him and a few others, two of them went to the bathroom and another walked away to talk to somebody and it left us alone for about 10 minutes we stayed completely quiet looking at the stars on the grass and and one time where we went to a carnival with 2 other friends and they left us while they went to go get snacks and we decided to ride a ride (that goes in one circle fast and almost looks like sleds) and he was leaning on me with his arm around me we were both laughing and after we got off the ride we were looking for our friends and he said “if I were “x” where would I be” and I said the fun house then we quickly ran over to the fun house and we found the friend and he said “dam ur right “ and smiled at me and one day at our school dance I was wearing a nice dress that was a bit revealing(nobody expected it bc my main outfit are band shirts and cargo pants) and he went up to me and called me pretty and went away and later at a snow cone truck I was ordering and he went behind me and grabbed my waist and said to the employee “ Ill also have that flavor” and it completely caught me off guard. And man somehow always knows when I’m upset it’s actually crazy how he just knows but besides that me and him and a few other friends are going to the movies tomorrow at 4 and we haven’t seen each other all summer since the last few days of may and one of my friends know that I like him and she’s seated us next to each other and idk if I should tell him about how I feel but I’m also scared it might ruin our friendship but idk if I’m Overthinking this or not and I’m scared he’s going to reject me since I’m afraid of rejection. So should I just tell my feelings? | Crushes |
I’ve been trying to get over this silly work crush, but in fact I can’t lol
Anyways, I’m trying to be chill and be friendly with him first, tho he seems to be in his own head most of the times and very busy with his work. So he usually ignores me and it’s impossible to chat with him (and when I have the chance, I get scared like the adult baby I am, and I run away lmao)
Today we met briefly, and he smiled at me while he talked to me?? And Im like, really trying NOT to act like a smitten teen having their first crush rn, but I’ve gotten all mushy inside cause he never really smiled at me before and gosh he’s got a pretty smile aaaah!!!
So I guess I just wanted to share this lovely moment, cause I got so happy about it, it’s actually ridiculous
Also can someone please punch me before I start to overthink and get my hopes up again that maybe he likes me too 🙃 | Crushes |
I never had a crush on this girl before and I havent really seen her before either. It wasnt until I saw her at the local rodeo that I really noticed her. She looked so beautiful. A couple of days later I saw her in a dream, ever since then I haven't been able to stop thinking abt her. I've never spoke to her but since school is abt to start again maybe I'll see her there. Today was extra hard, I wanted to ask her out so bad. I've never felt so confident, but I just didn't know how. She has to be one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen. Everytime I go to her instagram to dm her, I lose the hype I had for myself and tell myself she wouldn't be into me. I feel like this girl is special and all I want is a chance with her.I'm 14 and about to be a sophomore in high school, she's probably 14 and abt to be a freshman. | Crushes |
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I got a little amount of time please I don't care if I get banned I just want her happy | Crushes |
Okay it’s over. I can’t take it.
I feel so pathetic. This dumb guy is at the center of my thoughts more then 90% of the time, and for what ???
He’s still my best friend but I can’t keep waiting on him to love me back. I have to forget it. Just love him as a brother.
I’ll admit this is not the first time I’ve tried this but I have to keep trying till it works. | Crushes |
There’s a girl I like at my mma gym, as I said before. We have a few common interests, like having some relation to a gymnastics place that I’ll call DT for short and anonymity. She teaches there, and a few years back I learned parkour there. Thats one common interest, another one is mma, since we both train there. However, there’s a little more to it. She laughs at a few of my jokes, even one of them that was pretty dumb. Earlier today, I noticed she’s got insane grip strength and I was like “oh wow” and she laughed as if she found it funny. I could be overreacting to a *laugh* but idk, the laugh sounded different, y’know? I like training with her, she’s also a little funny and just generally fun to be with. I’m not sure if she thinks the same thing or feels the same way, but I wanna know what other people think. I think she’s just a friend, but what do you guys think? | Crushes |
For a long time i have wanted to ask my crush out. I finallg did that after a couple if beers i have not seen a response yet. But it feels great to finally get it over with. I think without the confidence alcohol give i never would have. But either way i think i am happy i did it. I will most likely regret it in the morning but whatever. 🤷 | Crushes |
The other night he and I were having dinner with a couple other friends. The topic of marriage came up and he said he wanted a woman to love him for who he was and not what he had or could do.
What an idiot. If only he’d wake up and see that I love him. I loved him before I knew about the things owned. I loved him when he was living out of his car. I loved him before he got his great job. I loved him before he started picking up the tab for dinner/outings.
I love him even though he sounds like a hurt animal when he sings, even though he’s the most spoiled mamas boy on the planet, even though he’s an absolute goof.
Everyone around us can see that.
Why can’t he. | Crushes |
Does anyone else get tummy aches around their crush ??? I mean I get one good look at him and boom it starts. Not to mention when he smiles at me, or when he shakes my hand.
Ugh his hand feels so perfect around mine. It’s nice and cool while mine is always warm, it’s bigger and a bit rough from callouses (he works with his hands and plays guitar) mine is smooth and smaller.
I wanted so much to hold his hand longer and just blurt out how I feel about him. I can’t though. I know he doesn’t feel the same but sometimes when he looks at me…. Sometimes I feels like he might want to hold my hand too | Crushes |
My friend and I first met during our freshman college orientation but haven't talked to each other. We reconnected with each other during the end of junior year when we realized that we were in the same studying abroad class in Spain. During our trip, he invited me to eat lunch and his friends almost joined us. He told me that he enjoys being intimate rather than being in group settings. He offered to take some pictures of me and said that while he is working at an internship nearby my town, I can reach out to him in the summer to hang out. Also after eating lunch and for the bill, he said that he would cover the bill since he had euros that he needed to spend all. I offered to split half since this was our first meal together and I didn't want him to feel like he needed to pay it all. At the end of the studying abroad, after our class finished our farewell dinner, some of the group wanted to go to an adult store, and then as I and some others were walking back to our hotel, my friend smiled and laughed saying that's what he does alone, and he only looked at me while saying that.
Weeks later, he connected with me to get lunch and during our conversation, he said something about how being in college, people shouldn't expect that we can find friends easily and that they shouldn’t expect "they will find their wife here," which made me feel a bit different because I wasn't sure how he sees me. However, afterward, he asked if I would be interested in eating at this restaurant with trivia or live music, which sounded fun \[Going to have dinner with him this week\]. There were times that he smiled during our conversations and also laughed during our conversation but I wasn't sure if it was as a friend trying to reconnect, hang out with people who were on the trip, or a person who is interested to learn more about me and has feelings. I am thinking if there is a chance that he could be interested in me or if it is just friendship and admiration of the volunteer work I did for the school. Does it seem that he is interested? | Crushes |
SO background info: i told this guy i liked him (had a crush on him for abt 5 months, confessed then) he rejected me, i continued to still like him somewhat, three months later he asked me to the end of year dance. okay. cool. before the dance i kinda started liking someone else who also asked me to the dance but ended up liking the first guy way more; we danced a bit there and it was nice. after he sent me a nice message saying thanks for letting him dance with me. now that that's out of the way. after the end of the school year we were kinda talking but not really for like a week, then he stops talking for two days or so. never went back to what it was. anyway we started to talk a bit more, snap a bit more, but never a lot. he stops texting for like a week, then out of nowhere calls me and a few mutual friends through a group call for two hours twice. we were like jokingly flirting on the call too (he called me babe twice and said ily??) i sent him a message the day after, which he did not reply to. i get the hint, don't text him anymore. we still snap, and we sometimes "text" on snap, and yesterday we snapped kind of often, like we sent each other a snap every hour or so. but today he sent me one snap after leaving me on delivered for 5 hours first then 8 & counting. so how should i interpret this? we seemed to get along really well when we were calling but he never really texted me after. any comments are appreciated <3 | Crushes |
ok so for context i have a group of friends that i’ve been hanging out with for a couple of months now. theres B, A, and P. after we started hanging out i kind of thought i liked P, but we had kinda just met so i wasn’t sure and didn’t want to say anything before i was sure. but as luck had it, B confessed to A and me that she was questioning whether or not she liked P. so i decided it was best to just ignore my feelings bc B has had really bad experiences with friends betraying her for guys she liked. it was hard bc we were hanging out all the time so i saw P a lot but i kept telling myself it’s nothing and he doesn’t even like me so who cares. well cut to yesterday we were all hanging out and then P had to leave. he left and B was suddenly quiet which normally means she’s upset abt something so i tried asking but she said she didn’t wanna talk about it. i left it alone and us three went on tiktok for a bit bc we were all tired. after a bit , out of nowhere B said “this might just be my past issues and insecurities but i think P likes K(me).” i didn’t know what to say other than why do you think that and A asked the same. then when explaining, she said i was acting how i do when she brings up any of the people i liked. i denied and kinda went silent and the convo was mostly over. then she was asking A what P’s type was and A kind of avoided telling her and then asked us all what our types were. i said i didn’t really have one and things went on. today she texted the group asking if she could vent to someone and when i answered B said they were happy i answered bc they needed to ask me something. B started by saying that they were mad at themself for having bad trust issues and explained some of the past which i understood why she didn’t trust a lot of people bc her last friend was horrible. she said there was a certain person she wanted to trust but just couldn’t. she then said she was scared that P liked me more than her and that she hates herself for thinking about it. they then said that they know i don’t like P and like someone else(this someone is a person i have been talking to for a while but i have already told B that i wasn’t even sure i liked them) they also never asked me whether i liked P or not and i had decided that if they were to ask i would tell them the truth but they didn’t. i just don’t want to hide anything from them bc they are my best friend. at this point i don’t know what to do bc everyone is pretty much busy for the rest of the summer so im debating if i should just wait this out or tell B that i think i like P but that it doesn’t matter bc if they don’t want me and him together im not gonna do that. i also don’t even know if P likes me so ya. | Crushes |
how do i get rid of it
i want to spend the last month of my summer without worrying about whether some guy likes me back or not, and daydreaming about running into him in public | Crushes |
A girl and I have been friends since we got into Drivers Ed class in January. We began talking as friends midway through the class’s year and we honestly really like each other as friends. It’s important to note out that *she has a boyfriend* but has recently gotten me suspicious of her feelings for her boyfriend and I. When her and the driver instructor and I would meet up, she suddenly hugged me due to school being over. That hug felt very genuine and I was very confused for the rest of the day. Sitting in the Drivers Ed car with me in the back, this girl would get very close to me and show me pictures of her pets and photos she takes for fun. She even gave me a gentle slap on the arm after I made a joke which made me blush a bit. Later that day, we stopped for ice cream considering we passed our drivers ed final. I took out my photo for an ugly selfie of me to send to my friends and the girl saw me do this and said “Oh take one with me!” and so we did. She put her hand on my knee which caught me off guard but I took the picture and still have it. We had our written test for Drivers Ed earlier today and when waiting for another classmate to arrive, the girl suddenly started grasping her hands and making this really cute sound with her mouth which I knew she was asking for a hug so I gave her a really happy one.After leaving and passing the test, she asked if I could walk her home and so I did. But now Im confused-is she into me or is it just wishful thinking? I am realy curious to hear some opinions. | Crushes |
I (26F) have a crush (25M) on someone I met at a restaurant I frequent. After about a year of going there and talking to him, I finally got the courage to ask for his number. He gave it to me, but I’m struggling conversing with him. I texted him the evening I got his number and he replied when he got back from work. Then I responded by saying he can text me when he’s not busy. So I waited a couple of weeks, then he finally texted me!! He said he was sorry for not getting back sooner but he was busy and out of the county but he was back at work again. Now I’m in the cycle of the waiting game. I got word from a mutual friend that he might actually have some ownership of the restaurant hence why he might be slow to respond. I really want to get to know him better, so I’m constantly going back and forth with myself about whether or not I should text him. We really don’t know much about each other beyond the restaurant so I struggle coming up with something to say. Please help, should I be putting in more effort? I think he genuinely is busy (pretty sure he works from morning until late evening almost daily). | Crushes |
I go to a sleep away camp and this year there was this boy. I was to scared to make a move or ask for his number. I talked to him a lot tho. It’s been 2 weeks since camp and I can’t get him out off my head. He was so sweet to me and everything. I missed my chance on his number. But everything I do I wish he’s gonna be there. I just think of seeing him everywhere I go even though its close to impossible. I just can’t stop making myself think about him. So how do I get over this camp crush 😨 | Crushes |
WE MADE OUT LAST NIGHT!!! It was awesome!!! We were sitting right next to each other laughing and making some heavy eye contact. He told me my eyes were pretty and then I told him his eyes were pretty and then I started zoning out into his eyes as I described them and he got this look, and I just fell into his eyes mentally and caught myself and I went for it and wow! Best Fourth of July ever! I’ve been waiting for that for so long and he likes me back! | Crushes |
If you got with with your crush, certainly you would have a conversation about who liked whom first and when?
Personally, I don't think I'd like my crush to know I've liked him for 7 whole years, its like I'm showing how... obsessed I am.
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/vshx9c) | Crushes |
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