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God damn I love her! | Crushes |
Okay, so I have this crush. He's called Charlie, and omg. He's so adorable. The thing Is I dont know him very well - he seems to he friends with some of my friends. I've spoken to him only a couple of times, maybe not directly at him but when he comes and joins the conversation. How do I talk to him?! | Crushes |
Going through the same waves as every time: First I get hot and sad at the same time. Then I get sick in my stomach. Now I just need to go to bed, only to lie awake, the night before a big event, just to think and reflect on everything. Then I'll get out of bed at 6 or 7 a.m., numb inside, still pushing through the day as if nothing is wrong.
I honestly don't know if I did anything wrong. It was like he lost interest over night. Then regained interest, then lost it again. He seemed so sweet, intelligent, dorky. I don't want to think that I did anything wrong, but gosh, it feels like that sometimes. Maybe I should have shown more interest. Maybe I was right to not rush my feelings.
Honestly, once the semester ended and he graduated, he changed. Or maybe he was a party-goer, man-whore this whole time and I was just dumb. I don't know? Do people go to clubs as friends? There were other girls with them... But then again, he hasn't messaged me in awhile.
All I am sure of right now is that, as much as I want to delete him from all my social media, is it really necessary? How long until I get over this one? Can we at least be friends? Do I even want to be friends anymore?
Edit: My mom just compared this girl to me and how we actually look alike :( :( :( | Crushes |
Everytime I have a crush I mess up and we end up not speaking and I hate myself because I can't stop thinking about what I could do differently and it's torment I wish having a crush was easier | Crushes |
I think I have a crush or atleast someone I like. How do I know if she likes me back? Don’t want to make it awkward as we sit next to eachother in 1/4 of our classes | Crushes |
If you haven't seen the first part of this story, it's on my profile.
But anyway, let's begin. Today my crush and I worked together for our halloween dance at school. We walked around our school, and I put my arm around her, and told her
"I don't know how to put this. This is gonna be dumb, but do you want to be my girlfriend?" And to my surprise SHE SAID YES
Later tonight, we hugged for the first time, held hands, touched each other, and said "I love you" to each other. I gave her my favorite hat, and she gave me her favorite bracelet so we could remind each other of us
I couldn't be happier right now. I hope everyone out there is having a great of time as I am with your crush, if you're not, I believe in you, the right one will come to you :) | Crushes |
we get crushes, it’s normal. We find someone or something about this person attractive and we are impersonally pulled like magnets towards them. So, I found this one co worker to be so beautiful and alluring. She made me think about her all the time and I enjoyed how close we got so to speak. I decided to put all my attention to her and got to know her in a short period of time. She could’ve had me hook!! I craved her. But i realized that I made up the thought of her and who she was initially and so I romanticized her in that way when I’m actuality she isn’t any of that. She is her own person and is someone I could never fall for because of her surprisingly unorthodox lifestyle. I will still be friends with her because I still care about her but it’s heart breaking. I wanted her to check off all the boxes that I was into and that want the case. I think that’s why it’s always important to get to know someone because with time we get a better understanding of who they are. Has this ever happened to anyone? | Crushes |
I was snapping her and I took this photo I liked but didn’t know how long she would respond for so I saved it in my camera roll to send later. Didn’t realize that it would send AS A CHAT NOT A DAMN SNAP and she opened it and I feel like disappearing now | Crushes |
Idk how to feel ever since i learned that he liked me now and his relationship status on fb suddenly changed
His bestfriend even made a side comment about him breaking up with his current girlfriend cause he found someone he can replace her with
Isn't this some type of red flag? | Crushes |
So my crush (f16) gave me (m16) something the other day and I cannot tell if it's a hint or I'm just overthinking, now she has been aware that I have feelings for her for a while now but we've just stayed friends, and now she's given me a slip of paper, folded into the shape of a heart that has an imprint of her lips on it in lipstick, this has got to mean something right?
(EDIT) She doesn't lol | Crushes |
Just want to tell you about this person so I can get it off my chest :)
I'm a junior newcomer and I believe the puppy's a senior (will call him that cos I don't know his name). I've noticed him since the first day because of his prim look and height. He always has a straight body posture, and his hair's always styled the same way which made me associate him with superman, don't know why but he has the vibe. And I always see him looking for something (most probably his friends), or he is smiling or talking to somebody. I didn't pay attention to him after a while because I felt the gap between us lol. Months passed, I frequently passed by him or saw him in the hallways (and he still has the same damn look and attitude), and maybe that's how I develop the crush.
I've started paying attention to the puppy which brought me to a not-really-sad-but-still-sad discovery, I think he has a girlfriend. But that's not surprising at all cos I always hear from my teachers about how he's like the kindest and best kid in school. And I asked my friends about him (cos I didn't and still don't know a lot cos I'm new and all), and they told me that he was famous, hot, cute, great, kind, and how lucky his girlfriend is and stuff.
I've seen him more frequently now, and I always see the puppy with who I think is the girlfriend and her friend. He's always with them and sometimes he's following them from behind—really like a puppy lol. Gotta admit that they look good together (I know this sounds bitter but it's the truth I swear) with their height, appearance, and similar popularities and all that.
Like I've said, I know that this crush won't develop into something more, and I accept it. Just wanted to share to take it off my chest and get over the puppy soon. Thank you :) | Crushes |
I usually wear black/white/gray hoodies and sweatshirts in school, but I forgot to wash them so I wore a plain lavender sweatshirt yesterday. While I was studying, his friend came up to me and said that my crush thinks my sweatshirt looks pretty and asked if I wanted to trade. I wasn't sure if that actually came from my crush or his friend just said it to tease me (his friend knows I have a crush on him) so I just smiled and went back to studying (ik, stupid move). Then his friend followed up saying very loudly: "He thinks your sweatshirt looks pretty, and so are you." even though my crush was literally just a few chairs away from us. I screamed on the inside but again I just smiled to make it seem like I wasn't affected that much. Luckily, there were only a few people in the room, most of my classmates were outside. My crush was in the same room as us. He didn't deny anything and he just quietly sat there listening the whole time. It was the first time I saw him quiet and shy, he's usually loud. I couldn't focus on the tests we had afterwards because of that. I rarely get compliments, and the fact that I got a compliment from him means a loooot to me. I was smiling like an idiot for like 20mins on my way home in our school bus. | Crushes |
Plz I need advice, I feel like I’m messing this up :(((( | Crushes |
hey everyone it’s been awhile since i’ve made a post but i thought i would share this. So basically me and my crush don’t go to the same school anymore and i miss him :( so when i was D.C this summer i got him a magnet with his name on and a baseball. as i said before we don’t go to the same school but him and my friend do so i have to her to give to him bc i can’t and she said he had the cutest response. when she walked him and handed it to him he goes “what did you get me?” she said “ew nothing i don’t like you like that 😭” so then he was like “who’s it from?” she said “read it” and then he said “oh lexi” it took him a minute to figure out that i was lexi…. but once he realized it she said he opened and when he did he had the biggest smile on his face. that just made my heart melt ❤️ seeing him happy just makes me happy especially when i do something to make him. sorry for the long gush | Crushes |
I want to ask her when we're in high school because we're in our 2nd year of middle school so far and I want to use the time I'll when I'm in high school and the fact I'll have a car to my advantage but maybe I should ask her out beforehand what do you think I should do? | Crushes |
Been crushing on her forever, we’ve hung out a ton, sometimes I think she likes me sometimes I dont. Right now, we’re really just friends. I probably see her just about every day at school, have a conversation with her every couple of days. I still love her as a friend, but I realize now I really don’t want a relationship. How do I still stay good friends with her, yet get thought of more than that out of my head? I still think about her often and don’t want to in that way. I feel like I’m so close to getting over it, but just not quite there. | Crushes |
So.... I met this guy in one of my classes and we are forced to work together in groups of fours, which includes myself, two friends and my crush, which we'll call J. So I just found out that in 2 weeks, it will be the last time I will be able to see him and I've been contemplating on asking for his insta or something else to keep in contact with him. We've talked before obviously, but it was only ever about the group assignment we had to complete before the end of the class and I don't really know him on a personal level, but I really like him and want to get to know him better. I am pretty shy and introverted but I really want to try and stay in touch with him but I'm scared of his reaction/ him just saying no cause I'll be so embarrassed😭😭. How should I ask for his insta without it sounding weird/make it obvious about my crush on him? We don't have any other classes this semester in common except for Chemistry and I'm fairly certain we don't have any classes together next semester either as we're in different majors. | Crushes |
I can't be the only one here reading everything secretly hoping it's talking about me, I don't even think she uses reddit but idc, stay hopeful lmao | Crushes |
Sorry for bad English is not my first language, my language is Deutsch. but how can I talk to my crush if have never talked to girl with intention of having her as girlfriend? | Crushes |
So I've made a post on here before but this is about a different girl who's my friend's cousin so obviously, I don't want to destroy his trust but I like everything about her her looks, her personality everything. What should I do? | Crushes |
sooo my crush (poc/f) has a specific type…white ppl. i (poc/f) am not that. someone please tell me that i should not be crushing. like her personality is so fun and she has me giggling all the time. yet, she’s made it obvious that her type is mostly that, and i can’t help still crushing. someone help me understand pls :/
also: another thing that makes it hard to get over her is that we have class together. we sit away from each other, but she’s directly in my line of sight. so i can SEE how she reacts to my text and stuff and it’s literally the cutest thing ever. like she tries so hard to not smile (cause class) and she like giggles to herself. it’s SO cute. HELP. | Crushes |
Welp here we go again I need to rant about my amazing boyfwend who makes me feel so special🥺 I told him i had a tummy ache and he was so kind to me and told me to get a hot water bottle. I love how soft and sweet rice is and honestly the past few days have felt like a dream. I fall asleep listening to his breathing and it is SOOOO soothing and comforting and it knocks me out like nothing else which is magical. Also I am not gonna tell my bf about this post I want him to discover it for himself hehe, it's fun to see his reaction when he discovers stuff like this.
Also lately he has enjoyed teasing me jokingly and it makes me feel like we are just too kids crushing on each other!!! Omg I have a crush on my bf kejfjwkfkskd I CANT GET ENOUGH HELP. Omg and we played pool today and I thought I would do pretty well but after my first turn he just wiped the floor with me. However he potted the black ball so I won hehe but I think he let me win which was really cute and I got butterflies when he spoke to me.... why is he so good at pool😭😭 he is really sweet honestly I am thanking god/ the universe for bringing this man into my life and I am so excited for all the stuff we're gonna do in the future!!!
Earlier today I was thinking how he knows me better than anyone else does in the whole world and I really am grateful to have someone who helps me open up and feel comfortable with myself. I just wanna make him feel as comfortable and happy as possible :)))) I know you have a busy day today rice with the tooth and I know you'll be great! Also I love doing long distance with you. Holding hands on videocall, falling asleep talking and laughing with you and just being present in each others lives with the small things like brushing my teeth and making sandwiches. So basically what I'm saying is spending time with you is more amazing and perfect than anything else I could think of doing and I am lucky to be doing this with you ♡♡♡ hehe | Crushes |
On a previous comment, I mentioned I have a crush on my flatmate.
And like a day or two ago, I was socialising with her and her friends and laughing to some 1D animated short series 😂 but at one point, she mentioned that if someone were to ask her on a movie night to watch ‘Eight-Legged Freak’ she would consider it as a perfect night.
And I don’t know if it’s wise to actually invite to watch it, just the two of us.
(NOTE: I have told that I do have it)
I did have an idea to send her a meme of that TikTok yes/no trend with eight legged freaks to ask her instead of just saying it in person or via text.
I’m probably overthinking it, but I’d like to hear what you guys think to see what I could do and is it wise to get try and get with your Flatmate. | Crushes |
I like the new kid, and it’s been about a month since I started. The only class we have together is gym, which was once my least favorite, but I now am excited for as it’s the only time I get to see him.
We usually sit on the bleachers as we wait for everyone to come in. He and his friends were sitting three rows below me and my friend. He moved up to the row right below me and said “move your feet.” So I did, and he sat down right in front of me.
Then, when everyone arrived and we got our instructions, he was taking his hoodie off, and somehow got it stuck on his arms, and his t shirt underneath was also stuck halfway off. He then said “stop looking” (as his shirt was partially off and his torso was visible. He sort of said this to both me and my friend, but he was looking right at me.
I know he kind of just sounds annoying, but I promise he knows how to make it funny in real life.
How do I flirt back, or at least reply without getting too worried and just laughing nervously? | Crushes |
this is an update to this post from yesterday: https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/yfdhxc/yall_i_think_he_smiled_at_me_today_idk_tbh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
so today as me and my friends was in the lunch line, him and his “female friend” walked inside the cafeteria and turns out that’s actually his gf because they were HOLDING HANDS and bro that shit made me so sad. today is my birthday to, so i basically found out on my birthday.
i shouldn’t let that ruin my special day, and also i have like 5 other crushes anyway, but that shit made me wanna cry. i shouldn’t let it get to me bro.
in the end, I’m actually glad that i found out wayy before i had the chance to talk to him or make some sort of move, so that’s good. ofc ima respect their relationship and just keep my distance from him and focus on my other crushes.
anyways but yea that’s the small update 😍 | Crushes |
I kinda asked my friend to go to homecoming and she told me she is bringing her brother (aka my crush) should ask him out at homecoming? | Crushes |
my friend has a crush on a male friend thats also my friend, and she likes him and he likes her and i really ship it (other friends of ours do to) should i tell the male friend that my friend likes him? | Crushes |
There's a joke about her liking me and she's a horrible liar so I'm planning on when the joke comes up to say just be honest it'd be funny or something like that and I can tell if she lies bam I I find if likes me or doesn't so is it good | Crushes |
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/xn4077/update_on_her_what_the_hell_is_happening/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/yahvf6/i_fucked_up_and_i_wish_things_could_go_back/ for context but just I hate this shit and I'm pretty sure she Hates me and I think should move on with my life. She also viewing my stories for some reason and just I hate that
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I think I already know who likes me but I don’t know . Either him or 5 other people, it’s one of them. They are confessing tomorrow I heard, if not, then that perosn will tell my friend and my friend will tell me who likes me.
Signs:
We have emailed, talked on TikTok, on discord, wanted to call eariler, walked to bus, and sat with eachother at lunch, he also waited for me to walk with me, so maybe? This all happened in one week and we recently got close out of no where | Crushes |
Y'all ever got that feeling when you come across your old crushes? Well, I was visiting my old teacher and surprise, my crush, was there. Didn't really think she would be one of my old teacher's students. Anyway, I had to pretend like I didn't see her and checked my phone, lol. I just wanted to say something to her, but I didn't have the courage to do it. I could have done it, but I backed out :( | Crushes |
Soo basically I like this guy. I started liking him because I noticed he was super sweet and friendly. I’ve known of him because we are in the same academy for school, but I only REALLY met and starting talking to him this year. I’d say we’re casual friends.
I’m a bit conflicted now. My friend told me he has never had a girlfriend and that he’s a “dick” when it comes to girls. I had already suspected it recently but she confirmed it. Apparently he’s an asshole when it comes to girls liking him or something I’m not totally sure what the case is but I think that’s the problem. I feel like if he knows a girl likes him or is attracted to him he will distance himself from her or be cold. There was this one time my friend went to tell him something when we were on the bleachers at a football game: She said she tapped his shoulder and gestured him to come closer so she could whisper and tell him but he nodded his head no and turned back around. When she told me that I was lowkey shocked because he didnt seem the type to just dismiss someone like that, it seemed kind of rude so again I was shocked.. He could have a reason and I know he was not obligated to listen to what she had to say but idk…. He usually talks to girls in our academy in classes we have together very nicely. It was almost impossible to see him be mean (prior to that) that’s why I was surprised.
It makes me a bit sad because it makes me feel like I have no chance or that liking him isn’t worth it. But I like him a lot :/
Every time we had a convo, it’s because he asked me a question. He’s always been the one to initiate conversations. And when I do, which is very rare, he doesn’t seem like he wants to get away and instead he keeps talking to me, asking the most trivial questions to keep the convo going I guess. He holds eye contact and listens well. But I don’t know what he’s thinking, so I can’t say anything for sure.
I have no idea what to do | Crushes |
Stuff is alot and I don't feel like explaining right now but check my post if you want but just I feel like a new crush is the only way I can get over this | Crushes |
Hey everyone, have you ever felt like you are stressing out over the person you're crushing on? I feel like I'm about to explode coz I keep developing new crushes on different people. Ahhh, I hate myself so much. It also took a chunk of my mental health, so yeah, here I am, typing this. | Crushes |
Context: we’ve never talked before and have only glanced and smiled at each other. We also only have 1 class together. I also don’t know his name or anything about him.
So sometimes we pass each other in the hall before school starts so next time that happens I’m gonna stop him and ask him if we have math together (I know we do but like I don’t know how to start a conversation lmfao) and than I will introduce myself and hope he does the same (if not I’ll ask him for his name) than I’ll say something like “hey would you like to hangout sometime?” If he says yes than I’ll offer him my phone or social media handle. That’s all that’s my plan it seems kinda bland but yeah I’m not big on taking risks especially taking risks socially so yeah. | Crushes |
(this is kinda long)
I am a brown person who lives in a white area. It took me a bit, but I realised I am not even ugly either. I am a good looking person, I am just not white/white passing. I have been hit on by everyone non-white (specifically those who have travelled and are open-minded) so I can confidently tell you this. People can say "oh I go for personalities", but the truth is, there is a subconscious factor that always plays. I don't blame any of them, it is just how they were raised. Does not change how sucky it is, and how affected I was. I was so insecure for a while. When I realised it was not my looks, I thought it was because of my personality. Maybe I was an asshole? Or annoying? Turns out it is just bias.
The truth is, after the first couple of times, I have stopped really crushing on guys. I have pretty much learned my lesson and am waiting to leave this area to a much more diverse area. I have 3 stories in total, but the one that really sticks out is this guy in my homeroom.
the first time i saw him was in my freshman english class. i thought he was cute but didn’t think much of it. last year we ended up having the same homeroom, and i just couldn’t stop thinking about how attractive he was. he’s not really anything super special if i’m honest, but idk, i just keep finding myself looking at him. he’s friendly and i kept finding little things about him that i liked. the way he talks, his chill personality (thats the biggest thing), his hair, oh my God his LAUGH. it’s so fucking cute i found myself smiling when we were doing a team building thingy because i said something in frustration and he heard it. he got a haircut once, and that usually is a turn off, but i found him to be attractive still. his fashion isn’t even anything, it’s just a hoodie and pants. he’s kinda the opposite of my type, but i can’t help but think about him sometimes. we have a homeroom groupchat (we are all kinda friends ig) and i’ve seen him shirtless so like- ik this sounds shallow, but that’s the only thing i can really point out, everything else i feel about him is so hard to describe.
he doesn’t like me though. well more like i’m just a classmate to him. nothing more. and i have a feeling he knows i like him, but i don’t really care if i’m honest. i just really wanted to get to know him at least. i have tried, trust me i have. i ask little questions in hopes he will want to continue it too, but he just answers it and moves on. i stopped after a couple of tries cause im not chasing after someone who doesn’t want me. doesn’t take away the feelings tho :( | Crushes |
There was this guy I gave sour patch to bc we have the same birthday and I think he’s cute. After school we see each other again and he sits across from and doesn’t say anything. He starts making something with a napkin and when my friend asked what it was he stayed silent. He passed it over to me and it was a heart. He then walks away. Is this supposed to mean something or am I just overthinking the situation? The same day we were at the school still waiting for our rides late at night. It was him his sister me and my friend and him and his sister left. 5mins later as me and my friend are still talking about him we see a shooting star. Is it like fate or am I insane LMAO🫣. | Crushes |
So im planning to take my crush out for lunch or smth
We occasionally chat and i often get flirty
Just one small problem in september i started a new school and my ex from this school is one of her best friends but she doesn’t mind
I really want to go out with her and also have attention around me Like “did My name go out with Crushes name”
Ps at school i am known as “my name the playboy” | Crushes |
So in December our classes change witch obviously could mean I don't see ever again so I need some advice to try to go for it | Crushes |
He has a girlfriend so my chances are practically zero. But we are still great friends. I don’t have any intention on confessing because why ruin such a good friendship? Every time I see him I just get so overwhelmed with happiness and euphoria. Just seeing him is enough to send me over the rails. It’s heartbreaking that we can’t be more but I’m just so happy that we are still friends. | Crushes |
This is probably my favorite sub reddit. Not for the topic(even though crushes are an amazing topic, but sometimes not), not even the content or solutions to problems involving crushes on here.
All of you are beautiful people who are experiencing one of the best feelings in the world. There are no trolls, or creeps just wanting to bang.
You wouldnt have any reason to join this subreddit unless you have a crush. This is a pure community full of people talking about their real crushes. I love it. | Crushes |
He checked my reddit, found out I liked him, and then told me he just wanted a platonic relationship
Which I'm fine with, but what confused me was this:
Suddenly I just... don't feel anything for him anymore?
Emotions are so strange
What is this | Crushes |
I sat with a couple of guys since that day we could sit wherever really and one of them told me to sit next to them so I did. Later we moved a bit closer so we can do math homework together.
Then I see others also grouped together as well, either doing math homework or just talking. I saw that she was alone across the room from me. I hated it so much and just wanted to like go move my desk and sit next to her and help her out. I was planning on snapping her to see if she needs help or anything but later she moved a desk and sat next to me.
It could just be because she needs help and I am the usual person she goes to for that. But my heart secretly smiled. While we sat there however... I BARELY FUCKING TALKED!!! THE ONLY THING THAT I MANAGE TO GET OUT OF MY MOUTH WERE "Hey did you finish everything for ROAR day?"
(ROAR day is basically a catch up day, the last day to hand in assignments or else they become 0%)
Then she said "Oh yea" then i said "Ah nice" AND THAT'S ITTT!!! WELL ALSO ME SAYING "Hey would it be alright if I just filled in your sheet?" she nods yes and I just fill in the notes for her.
I hated making her feel like she was excluded. I talked a bit with the others near but for the math stuff. But then when I go talk to her, I just can't think of what to say, I AM SO SHY... god damn it😮💨 | Crushes |
my crush knows i like him. (let’s call him Y) we’re not that close but we’ve talked a few times through the months. my friend who is friends with my crush apparently told my crush i like him. My friend (Let’s call him X) told me that Y knows and will ignore me. throughout the schooldays, it’s the same as usual. i don’t feel any tension but during our math class together i catch him staring at me. two days ago, X and i were talking. he saw my crush so he screamed “_____ Help me!!!” X was smiling after he said that, staring right at Y. i couldn’t see Y’s reaction, he was standing behind me. i told my friend he was very mean and left. idk what to do | Crushes |
How did you get over your high school crush post graduation? Did you ever stop thinking about them? | Crushes |
😔 why am I such an idiot? I mean, we got a good laugh out of it and he seemed shocked in like a “OMG you slapped me 😭😂” kind of way, but I knew if I slowly removed his hand from what he was doing (which I will not reveal because it will give away what my job is) I would’ve held it and I don’t think I would’ve let go.
This crush is getting bad guys. If I don’t confess and find out where he stands soon, I’m gonna lose my fucking mind 😭 | Crushes |
Hey guys.. I have been down bad for a shy smart guy in my class for over a year. We used to share glances often, sit in the same vicinity and other subtle hints.
I added him on social media a year ago and messaged me quite a few times asking things related to academia. his responses were always v dry & borderline rude..
recently i decided to delete him from socials.. i did it & next day i got his msg sharing an academic related stuff with me. Today, he was glancing me constantly but i did not look back..
tell me what should i do?? | Crushes |
I have a crush on this guy who has a girlfriend. I recently found out he has a girlfriend and loves her very much but it's such a strange thing bc he has tattooed the name of his ex on his chest and he broke up with his ex just a few months ago. He said he loved her so much that he felt like he'd love her forever and that's why he did that. But he also said he loves his current gf even more. It hurt so much. Also, they've only been dating for a few months. I wonder what's so special about her.
Anyway, i found out he has a habit of having so much physical contact with girls (probably). Like when we're sitting he keeps having his arms around my shoulder or patting my back or touching my hair or neck. I haven't seen him with any other girls other than me and my best friend and he's like this with both of us.
I love it when he touches me but i hate it too. I hate that he's so casual about it. I hate it when he touches my best friend more than me.
Tonight we were playing truth or dare and in one of the questions i said that i love it when my boyfriend (assuming i had one) kisses my collarbones bc i like collarbones in general lol. He said he feels the same. Then when we were alone in the taxi, he wrapped his arms around my shoulders and started touching my collarbone with his fingers and it lasted like 10 minutes. He never touched my collarbones before and only did it the night i said i like it. Maybe he knows how i feel. Maybe he's teasing me on purpose bc he knows somehow.
It feels good at the moment but i hate it that it makes get goosebumps. This makes it hard for me to stop having a crush on him. I hate having a crush on anyone. It makes me feel pathetic. It makes me feel inferior to everyone. It hurts my self-confidence that i get so jealous when he touches anyone else and i feel bitter when he touches my best friend but then i get excited when he touches me, like a stupid puppy. I'm afraid he'll notice and stops being this friendly with me. Then he would stop getting close to me and will only be like this to my best friend. I can't stand it. I wish he would stop doing this altogether. I wish he would stop being so pretty. | Crushes |
We have been bonding getting closer then they get in the way we're still close but we have no time to talk I don't talk to her outside of class as I know I'm not the most important thing ever I did see her stare at me she looked empathic like she felt bad as I'm anti socal and non caring of others but I've shown if I want to I can care but it's hurting I can tell she doesn't like it I've been annoyed visibly because of it to being more aggressive not to her but others I think she realized I have more problems than I let on I try not to let things get to me as i have to be strong for my family since I'm the man if my house it just erks me that the one person I have I can't talk to | Crushes |
so this guy (M17) that I (F17) used to work with who liked me, I liked him and started talking to him. it’s been almost a year and we both really like the other person so I finally said “fuck it”. We send each other snaps all day long for 11 days. Yesterday I asked him why he seemed hesitant to meet up, and he said he wasn’t. So I said “I know I’m amazing” and he left me on opened
For a very long time, so the next morning I double snapped him (I’m not proud of it but my favorite parts of the day are seeing his messages, and it was driving me insane) and he responded. Then I sent him a snap. And he left me on opened again.
did I do something wrong? how do I try to stop this from happening? | Crushes |
Basically she said she liked Me over text last night she didn't like ask me out or anything just straight up confessed. Now the thing is she knew that I liked her and stuff and I sent her a video basically asking her out like 2 weeks ago. She didn't really respond other than saying something about my ex being her best friend and I don't want to pressure her by asking her out again so idk what I should do now. | Crushes |
Long story short, Im planning on confessing to my crush soon and I want it to be just me and her when I do it. How do I get us to be alone? | Crushes |
I've known him for just over 4 years, and around a year ago, we started to become close friends. Around 15 months ago, we were sat together in a class (not by our own choice) and he asked me if I wanted kids when I'm older, which I found really weird since we talked in person relatively often but never in depth and we weren't really friends at the time. I couldn't even contact him outside of school at the time, but I can now.
Probably around May/June someone called us a couple and she also said something along the lines of 'aww \[crush's name\] is protecting \[my name\]' which no-one had ever done before (it was also in front of our friends so it was kinda awkward) but he was defending me (which he does often). And a few weeks ago one of our friends called me his girlfriend (for carrying my bag around school for me since I'm on crutches at the moment).
He's really nice to me, makes me laugh a lot and he teases me. A lot. He makes everyone else laugh, but he only teases me. However, since I went on crutches, he has been really nice to me (even more than usual). I asked him to carry my things for me when we're in the same class (which is most of the time) and he doesn't even look like he's being forced to.
He also talks to teachers for me (I have really bad social anxiety) which nobody has ever really done for me before. PLUS he has also gone to the other end of school and back just to make sure that I get to where I need to be safely (AKA so I don't fall down the 50 stairs it takes to get from one end to the other). This included escorting me from one end of school to the other in our 15 minute break, then going to his locker (which is where we came from) then back to where he left me again. For context I had to get there halfway through break but he didn't need to be there until the end. Because of this I had asked my brother to escort me but he INSISTED on escorting me. I thought he'd go to his locker first then take me but instead he wasted his break VOLUNTARILY ESCORTING ME ACROSS SCHOOL. It was the nicest thing I think anyone has done honestly.
I also have autism, which means that he can find it hard to relate to me at times but last week it was the school production. I was stood in the back corridor because things would get too loud for me and I asked him to come and get me at the end. After the first 2, he basically just told me that it was over and left, but after the last one he literally came up to me after seeing how much pain I was in, held both my shoulders and gave me a pat on the shoulder with one of his hands. I kinda felt that he wanted to hug me but it would be weird to see 2 students hugging in a back corridor.
He just seems to want to be close to me but I'm having trouble differentiating between friendship and romantic behaviour. Sorry it's so long, any help is appreciated : ) | Crushes |
So we had small groups in a class and we had to present today and before and after the presentation she wrapped one of her arms around me udsehdskjfnrsiufnsije OH MY GOD IT JUST FELT SO WEIRD AND AWESOME AT THE SAME TIME! | Crushes |
Having a crush at work and also working from home does not make for a good situation. While me and my crush we’re getting closer and closer, simple work events started keeping us apart. Basically, I had given up hope because we never had the opportunity to see each other.
Last week, I got to see her at a big work event that I’m in charge of. We smiled and chatted for a little bit but I couldn’t give her the attention she deserved because I had a lot of work to do! Technically, she was working too, so we were both busy.
This morning, however, I felt that spark again! We had an all hands on deck meeting at the office. We also had our traditional Halloween dress-up day… She was dressed as a flying squirrel and every bit as adorable as one! Anyhow, I was just standing there off to the side watching people come in with their costumes and before I knew it, she was right there beside me, smiling that irresistible smile of hers. We started to talk and I told her how much I missed our conversations. She agreed.
We were in what you would consider a café at the office, so there are bench seats all along the wall which is where I was standing. I’m not sure if this was on purpose, but she put her arm up on the wall so it was right next to me. If I would’ve moved even the slightest, She would be touching me. As chance would have it, she made some type of cute comment and I responded but when I did, I turned toward her and actually took her hand in mine on the bench. She didn’t yank it away or anything, which is a good sign! Lol!
That little touch sent electricity through me, and we continued to talk until we had to go into the meeting. Unfortunately when it was over, she had to go quickly one way and I had to do the same the other. Next week, I think I’ll follow up on missing those conversations and ask her if she would like to have lunch together. She can pick the place and we’ll see how that goes. If I get the guts enough to ask her that is… | Crushes |
a little while ago me and the guy I like a lot and some other people were messing around with a speaker and i asked him to play a random piece of classical music i like (hungarian rhapsody no. 2 by Liszt). So he put it on and whatnot, anyway a few weeks later he randomly started playing that exact song on the radio. Like he chose that song to play. I asked him what it was and he said “Hungarian rhapsody no. 2 :)” And it made me happy because could that mean he remembered I said I liked it??? Idk but it’s nice :) | Crushes |
I cant figure out if he only sees me as a friend. When we talk it seems he at least semi enjoys talking to me and smiles alot, but he also talks to other people the same way. He also is a bit quiet with me and it's usually me who initiates the convo and keeps ot going. I worry that I annoy him.
We haven't even been friends for that long and so it's a mild friendship at best or a good acquaintance at worst. our friend groups overlap in some places and we have 2 of the same classes. He has many female friends so it wouldn't be unusual for him to see me as the same way as them, and even so many of them are more attractive than me.
He doesn't really show any signs of having a crush on me except that if we are laughing in a group he will look at me even if I'm not the one who told the joke. Besides that though he doesn't glance at me in class at all. I want to give him my number (even as a friend) and guage his reaction, but I still wish he would show more signs of reciprocating my feelings.
Do you guys have any advice for me to get him to develop or strengthen a crush on me? Or even advice for me to recognize lesser signs of a crush? | Crushes |
So basically I'm new at my school and I have a crush on this guy. But his personality is making me really confused.
First our interactions:
1. Waited for an extra class together, teacher didn't show up for 45 min, we talked the entire time. He was really nice and I felt like he was really responsive.
2. I talked to him again for like 5 min, he was kinda responsive
3. I asked him a question and he responded
4. Tried to talk and joke with him and he just answered or half laughed (like smirking and letting air out through the nose)
But it's not just me that he's like this with. Whenever his friends sit with him and try to talk with him he doesn't respond. He's always really quiet and studious.
So what I don't get is, does he not want me to talk to him or is he just really shy and quiet? And also, should I keep trying to talk to him even though he gives curt replies and doesn't initiate?
Feel free to ask me any questions! | Crushes |
Hey everyone! Just curious about a lil situation. I met this guy at a bar a couple weeks ago and we’ve hung out about 5 times. Both liked each other’s personalities and both physically attracted to each other, seems like a nice guy! I stayed the night with him and of course he wanted to have s*x but I said no cause it’s too early on and i’ll get attached. A few days go by and he texted me asking how my first week of work was (new job) and we talked a bit. Last evening I texted him asking if he got a bike yet and it never delivered. Sent it as a text and it said sent as text but i’m wondering if I got blocked? He sucks at charging his phone but it’s been almost a day now 😂 kinda funny to be honest, tell me whatcha think people 🤔 | Crushes |
I Think I've Waited Long Enough And I'm Gonna Ask Her Out I Hope Everything Goes Well Thanks For The Help :) | Crushes |
I fucking hate how he's ignoring me like wtf
We literally ignore each other and we talk only if he talks to me wtfffff
Everything's so fuckinh messy and awkward
In the morning we had some sport shit thing so all of us were gathered in the school ground
I mean I was talking to everyone and him to but we were just not talking to each other
So awkward
And he doesn't even tryna look at me wtf
I mean I used to ignore him but now everytime I look at him he fucking ignores me like wtf it's k man even I don't wanna talk to him
I mean I want to but it's awkward after the way he treated
me
I was w some other friends sharing umbrella and he came in between , I was pissed so I pushed the umbrella so he doesn't get it lol
He went away
We did smile at each other smtms I mean weird but OK
He wanted to drink water and there was a queue and i was standing infront
I was getting water for myself
I just couldn't see him wait for the water in the hot sun so I gave mine to him and got another for myself
And then we had to get some drinks and there were so many fucking people and I hate it when there r so many people and also when strangers body touches against mine like wtf
So I was kinda having an annoyed face and went back and he was like why r u coming back
I said nothing
( one thing I hate about him is he talks and doesn't listen like wtf why did he even talk to me if he didn't wanna listen or if he wasn't gonna listen like wtf )
I went in to get the juice and got juices for everyone ( I didn't wanna get it for everyone honestly i just wanted to get it for him, ik the thinks m nice to everyone but m honestly not, it was just for him , got all the juices he wanted :) )
Lol he kept saying to everyone that " she won , that's a clutch " lol he cute wtf
And then I gave him his juice and I was drinking mine and he asked if he could drink mine ( I mean like he used to before, i kinda wanted to have boundaries w him this time so I said no I didn't give mine )
He asked if I wanted his I said no ( boundaries again )
Fuck it's hard looking into his eyes when he is that close to me wtffffffffffffffgeieowixnxjwosoxbdn
then we went to the school mess and this guy makes it so hard for me to breathe like wtf
I was just standing near the door for the AC and he comes and stands super close to me like wtffff
Like soooo close
Our faces r so fucking close wtfffeiwoeo29djbcjepwosbd
I tried not to smile or laugh it was v hard
He stood so fucking close to me and didn't even tryna look at me I did the same
( but it was sooooo cute I mean my hair was literally flying and all over my face lol and his hair toooo felt so cute like m in a movie wtffff )
He said they're going to a food place to have lunch and asked me if I wanna join and i said it's boring lol
But then all of us finally decided went ther
It was v awkward with this guy
I mean we were walking and nobody talked to each other like wtf so fucking awkward wtf
I mean wtf so awkward
I wanted to run awayyyyy
I was just silent lol even he was
Then we were waiting for a friend and I asked him why didn't go back to his home for the vacations and ig he didn't like me asking it
He was rude asf and said for the vibes
LIKE WTF U DIDNT HAVE TO BE THAT RUDE WTF
and then he went w another girl
wtf
I was walking w a friend
And then when we went to the restaurant, he was sitting right infront of me and she was beside him
It was v awkward
They were holding hands ig
Idk they were so close and I felt like shit
He did look at me and smiled in between I did that too but I'm too scared to even look at him when she's there w us like wtf I feel like she'll kill me
He wanted to get noodles and he said he'll get it only if someone splits it w him
Nobody responded lol
Everyone kinda ignored him
I mean he really wanted to have it so I said I'll have it w u:)
He was chill w it
I mean I'm happy he got the noodles he wanted I mean i love seeing him eat happily:)
He was happy I mean w her
They looked happy together
They were feeding each other in-between and I mean ofc I felt like shit seeing them together
Always feel like shit
But I mean him sitting right infront of me and us having noodles together was cute , the music everything seemed so perfect and cute
Ik this is so painful but that made me happy:)
He also ordered sandwich and I had a bite
I mean we were awkward but also kinda chill
while walking back to college it was so fucking awkward:")
I hate how awkward we r rn like wtf :")
the embarrassing thing while drinking water was so fucking embarrassing:")
And
When I was talking to another friend I realised I kinda ignored him lol
I mean now I realised it
He was talking to me and I ignored him:")
Idk whytf we're so awkward n weird
But this guy is really idk man I need to get over him asap | Crushes |
So this guy is always pretty friendly with me. He asks how I'm doing a lot and wants me to guve him a high five which are usually akward. It's not really a slap or whatever its more like just touching hands. I sit next to this guy in band and he complements me a lot and tries to get me to laugh aswell but yesterday in band it was all normal and then he said "You're unaware". I was caught off gaurd and I said "I'm stupid too" which then he was asking about my GPA. I'm not sure if me being unaware is an insult or what so of anyone has any ideas I'll definitely entertain them. Thanks if you read this whole thing.
Also a few days ago I was walking infront of him and he Saud "Well hello (my name) how's it going" and his friend said "Bro she doesn't like you" 💀💀 | Crushes |
*Hehehe*. | Crushes |
There’s this really cute guy on my dorm floor that I (18F) want to get to know better … basically all I know about him is is name, room number and a couple random facts. The thing is I’d be scared out of my mind to take my shot in person. I’m thinking about putting a little note under his door asking how I can get to know him better or something like that, I’m just not so sure if this is actually a good idea, I definitely need some advice. | Crushes |
I met this girl about two months ago and im afraid I'm Annoying her people have figured out I have a crush on her and have been teasing her and me for it and I feel bad because she doesn't deserve that but anyway i recently figured out she likes two people I know one of them but the other I don't know and she's strangely quiet when I talk to her irl but talks differently to other people and we don't talk the much irl bit we text semi frequently and I'm wondering if I even have a chance. | Crushes |
Perhaps it's not the person that you really like / love, but it's your "dreamed up idea" of them instead. I can kind of relate to this and I bet many people here can as well.
This article is super helpful.
https://www.loveaddictionhelp.com/fantasy--the-love-addicts-drug | Crushes |
Long story ahead.
I have been friends with a guy for 3 years(let us say tom). We are studying in the same clg. We are mostly online friends, recently we have started talking more and I actually met him last month at college. And we started talking on phone also(regarding clg stuff). I realized I'm developing feelings for him.
So,the thing I'm worried about is,I USED to have a crush on a guy(let us say harry) who happens to be my friend's bestie. So,I confessed to Harry through social media,I never admit to my crushes that I like them,I usually crush hard and let them go. I don't know why I admitted to him. He was pretty chill about it and said it's totally fine,we spoke online about a common topic for a while. I think he sees me as friend and nothing more. Eventually my feelings for him died.
Would it be an issue if harry tells Tom that I confessed to him before? Would that matter? I don't have any feelings towards him now. Tom is the only guy I currently have crush on.
Do guys tell each other about these things?
Btw,Tom's really sweet,I'm totally transparent towards him,he knows my true self,I don't need to put upon any act infront of him. I am dumb sometimes,I talk random shit,still he understands me. Since he's my friend first,crush later.
What's your opinion? Should I admit to him that I started developing feelings for him? | Crushes |
My and my partner's best friend, I've always had a crush on them. Since day 1 and I thought it was nothing because they're just an attractive human. They're like my sibling/best friend in everyway except I kinda want to kiss them. Even after they left, I smell them on me and I have to subconsciously remind myself, I shouldn't want to smell them still. I'm very much happily in love with my partner, but whenever our friend comes, I always wonder...
I know I'm not in love. I know we wouldn't work out. I don't want to leave my current partner. Even if things didn't work with my partner, I wouldn't try anything with the friend to avoid any hurt feelings. So why do I feel the need to hold on to their lingering scent after they've left? It's times like this I wish there was a way for me to 'get it out of my system' without harming my partner or ruining my friendship. | Crushes |
I am a 19yo girl and I'm taking Russian language classes , from the first session I have a crush on my teacher I don't know how old is he but he doesn't seem more than 26 , I am the only girl in class other 8 classmates are guys . I've noticed he holds eye contact with me and most of the time when I turn my head up he is looking at me but there is no more than this , it's been 3 weeks and I can't get him out of my head we have one 3 hour lecture every Thursday . I don't have his number or any social media so... please help , should I get over it or can do something..? I don't know what to do | Crushes |
I've been language exchange partners with this Korean guy for the past 2.5 years. He lives in Korea while I live in the Philippines. We chat every day about daily updates and deep conversations about faith, family, relationships, career, etc. We met once before the pandemic for about 2-3 hours. He treated me out to dinner then I paid for our coffee. When he came back to Korea, he asked if I was free for a voice call for an hour which he said he never did with anyone before. He also sent me a package from Korea (a big repatriate box) containing Korean snacks and cosmetics so I sent him back a package of Philippine snacks. I have other Korean language exchange partners, but they never sent me a gift before. I would never think of sending a gift to anyone overseas unless that person's a close friend or family member. He said I helped him not only improve his English skills but also help strengthen his faith and motivated him to read more books so he wanted to meet me when the covid restriction levels get lifted. He said he's honored to meet me and that I'm different from our peers. He did keep his word and visited the Philippines again. We finally met in person and spent 7 hours together just a few days ago. When we met, he gave me a tumbler and a keychain he brought from Korea. He also said he asked his barista friend in the cafe to help him find a tumbler with a nice design. That day, he treated me out to dinner and coffee. Meeting me was out of his way because he actually had a different trip planned the day after meeting me. He had to book additional flights as well as an accommodation. He also mentioned he chose to meet me instead of his other friends in the country. He asked me questions about my dating life, if I have plans to work abroad, and if I noticed anything different with him. I told him it's nice how he kept in touch with me when my other language partners stopped talking to me. He said that we're a "special case". Do you think this is just a friendly gesture or is it something that shows he likes me more than a friend? | Crushes |
You could pick your seats, but she wasn't here today. If you're not here you kinda just get thrown into a group. She just got thrown into a group (not mine.) Not that I necessarily think she would've sat next to me but it sucks. I knew this was coming too and I just was not prepared. I'm really sad. Now we will still see eachother in our study hall but it only happens twice a week. That class there isn't a seating chart so she pretty much always sits next, or at least near me but we won't see eachother everyday anymore :( | Crushes |
Let me start off by saying that I am fully aware this is not the typical type of post here. I just needed to get this thing off my chest and didn't really know a better place for it.
So I (M16) am really good friends with (not her real name of course) Emma (F16). We met a little over a year ago. At first we kinda hated eachother, but soon grew to become pretty close friends.
Emma is kinda pretty, but not incredibly attractive. She is a pretty average - above average looking girl. Her personality is really unique though, you either love her or despise her. Most of my friends really despise her, but I know a nice side of her.
After a few months, I started developing a crush on her. The reason was because she was the first girl to really give me attention. The crush lasted for a good half a year, before I started getting close to the prettiest girl in my class, who I quickly switched my attention to.
After this failed miserably, the current school year started. I don't know what happened during the summer, but Emma became much nicer, and much "touchier".
She hugs me all the time, and not that friendly awkward shoulder hug. A fully devoted hug that lasts several seconds. When sitting next to eachother, she would often rest her head on my shoulder, while I brush her hair. Kinda close for platonic friends.
Dont get me wrong, I truly enjoy physical touch, it makes me feel great, and I express myself with physical touch all the time. But it's the best with her, for some reason.
I really started doubting what I'm feeling last Tuesday. We had a math exam, and she failed miserably, despite devoting her life for the last few weeks. After meeting her outside the class when I finished my test, she started crying really badly.
I hugged her for some time, talked to her to calm her, she rested on me for a while, held my hand for a bit, and as a goodbye, I kissed her on the head. Not a romantic/sexual kiss, just a kiss that says "I'm here for you". (She was totally ok with it if anyone wonders)
After realising what I had done, I was almost sick to my stomach. I don't know if I truly have a crush on her, or if I'm just horny and lonely because, well, hormones. The thing is, I really do love her as a friend, and I enjoy being with her. I don't want romantic love to fucking destroy it.
What do you think? Any response is welcome, even ones I may not like. The only one I don't want to hear is something like "she's totally into you, you should ask her out". I don't want to date her. I don't plan on EVER asking her out. Even if she is into me I don't know if I will still want to be with her.
Sorry for the length lol | Crushes |
whytf do I like this guy??????????
I was drinking water and he called my name wrong ( intentionally )
I ignored he was just looking at me
I couldn't ignore him for long lol
I just looked at him and started smiling
The water from my face fell lolllll
He knows m fucking not over himmnsns
Wtwfwtwtwgwuiga hi q
He said drink it and started laughing
I said him to get my name right and he did and asked for the bottle
I threw and he catched
And then then he gave it back to me
And he was like if I throw ur gonna catch or what
I was like yea
He did I did catch it one hand lmfao
Wasn't embarrassed infront of him
Wtf do I make it too obvious? 😢 😭 😿 😢 😭
Fuck fuck fuck
I shud stop smiling and laughing around him manwtf
Fuck fuck
Heiwidbxbwowoxksnwjwoowjdbdbdhejwiwodbxb
Idk whytf I still like him like whytf | Crushes |
Omg guys, I'm soo happy and nervous, we finally texted each other! I still can't communicate both in real life and trough text, so I hope I'm not boring or anything. I feel so nervous when he texts me, like is my response good or too simple? Even if it's just a few messages, but I'm super happy!!
Sorry just wanted to share this with someone :) | Crushes |
Heyyyooo so I’m a pretty weird girl I would say. Not important but this is about my crush, let’s call him 222 (let’s not ask ahaha)
So me and 222 recently met because of our mutual friend (who’ve ive known for a long time) Riz, Riz plainly asked 222 if he was looking for someone who could love him and 222 replied with he would love to see who Riz had in mind, of course Riz being my wing man showed pictures of me to 222 to which he replied I was pretty. I get 222’s snap chat and we immediately get to talking and stuff this was like a week or so after Riz messaged me saying he got me a boyfriend jokingly thus leading to me getting 222’s social, i quickly ask 222 for his Instagram which he politely gives up and my first thought after seeing 222’s face was just plain Deja vu for me although I’ve never seen 222. My first face to face interaction with 222 was when I went with another mutual friend of mine Oak(he’s not too important to the story) and Riz and 222 were working and 222 comes out and holy smokes the picture on his social didn’t do him justice. My heart quickly danced and I spoke to him “Could you get Riz out here I would like to speak to him really quick” 222 obeyed and went to get Riz, I turned to Oak and told him 222 is the most godly looking person I have laid my eyes on, Now this is where I would like to say I am by all means not attractive nor ugly I’m just a typical looking chick with a much need for affection but that not relevant now. 222 came out quickly with Riz and I saw them passing each other a vape to which I asked 222 if I could hit it but he refused and shook his head slowly without making much eye contact and I asked Riz in Spanish “is he okay or something ? he can barely look at me but stays staring at you and Oak” Riz replied with he was just shy with females since apparently he “gets no play” I quickly laugh and look at 222 who was on the ground for some reason and he asks for Riz’s assistance to which Riz doesn’t hear as he is talking with Oak , I quickly go to 222’s side and help him and as I do we lock eyes and I help him up and as quickly as he takes my hand he lets go. (Keep this in mind please) Second interaction with 222 was when I worked where he and Riz work and basically I walked up to him and said hello we talked for a bit and I went back to doing my own job, later i was cut off for the day or i think my shift plainly just ended either way my ride didn’t wanna show up so I just casually asked 222 if we could hang out and if I could possibly spend the night, He said of course, He let me play with his hair that night and kept making jokes to him so I could see his gorgeous laugh the night was just smoking pot with him, and he was fairly nice to me and never overstepped the boundaries of being a wonderful host. After that I’ve spent the night quite a few times probably four times now? But fairly recently we have made our first contact and the difference between him then and now is still fairly the same, he texts me ever so rarely and I can’t help but just continue to fall for him harder and harder with each passing day, i just sit and think about our interactions, how the hug me and him had recently lasted a bit too long than it probably should have but in that moment I was just picturing us doing that for eternity, sadly 222 is not into me at all, Why? Because apparently his type is skinny girls. And I am not skinny nor fat just a girl with slight stomach. Honestly I wished I could change his mind about having a type and show him the greatest things about relationships since he said he doesn’t date, since apparently it’s garbage. Personally I think it’s just the girls he’s dated in the past. Either way. That’s my story of my dearest crush. | Crushes |
Hey, it's me.
You know I like you. I wish I never told *insert mutual friend's name here about it. Maybe then you still wouldn't know. But you do and that's something I have to deal with.
I know you rejected me. I promise I'm really trying to get over you. It's happening I think, but slowly.
I wish I didn't like you. You were an amazing friend before any of this happened and now I probably made it awkward. I'm really sorry. But thank you for still talking to me and not absolutely ditching me. You're an amazing friend even ignoring my crush on you.
I'm sorry I made it awkward and stuff.
I think I'm slowly getting over you but it's really fucking hard.
I care about you a lot and I hope you know that you can tell me literally anything, I'm always here. Even just in a friendly way.
That's about it I dont really know how to end this, I just hope you know that.
-papa john | Crushes |
how long should you wait before saying
“wow that was embarrassing - my bad.”
like.. i’m embarrassed rn lmao | Crushes |
Guess their name | Crushes |
So I'm a softmore in summer school, a girl sat right next to me on the first day before class started. but I feel like I blew her off because right after she sat next to me I went on my phone and didn't look at her because I was nervous, but I noticed she was also on her phone right after I went on mine, was she copying me? I see her each day because she sits randomly near me in class but we don't talk, but I do glance at her. She sat behind me today I'm not sure if she was looking at me or no... so what should I do? | Crushes |
So I was talking to my a mutual friend I have whit my crush and they said I am in a situationship whit my crush but like bruh what dose that even mean ?? 😂 | Crushes |
She’s a girl if that for whatever reason changes the answer. | Crushes |
i don’t mean to sound like a generic lovestruck teenage girl, but how do i talk to him more? he’s very sweet and we’ve talked a couple times and worked together on things but i wanna talk to him more. my friends say i’m the only girl he looks at, and we make eye contact a ton, but i wanna talk to him more 😭 we only have like two days of school left idk what to do | Crushes |
hi, sorry this this isnt one of the more cheerful posts, but i need some advice abt this situation bc idk what to do.
i have told my friends about me having a crush on a guy. they're all fine w it, but one of my friends seem to be acting weird. first of all, she used to tell me that she hated my crush and didn't like him (as a person), but she's apparently "become friends" with him and has been talking to him a lot more. she even asked for his number on the day she declared him a friend. she said that she'd give me his number but i told her it wasn't a good idea bc i thought i didnt want to make my crush uncomfortable and invade his privacy. she claims she's just being friends w him and trying to make me and him closer. i hate to sound like the 'jealous friend', but i honestly don't like what she's doing and i have a feeling that she's not being genuine and i am not ignoring that feeling.
advice would be appreciated:) | Crushes |
We’ve know each other for about a month now and like each other but neither of us have made a move.
We were joking around with each other and a few other people. I heard later from one of her friends that something I said about her went too far and made her upset. After she left, which was a few minutes after this took place, she cried.
I feel really bad and I want to know what the best thing to do is. I have her number and we text every once in awhile, but usually talk to each other mostly in person. The next time I see her will be in a day or two. Should I text her my apology or wait to do it in person. I think doing it in person would make it more genuine.
Also what are some things I should make sure to include in my apology.
Thanks everyone! | Crushes |
I cant fall out of love with my childhood friend.
Hi, I’m 18F and i’ve been hopelessly in love with this boy 19M since early middle school. We became friends due to similar hobbies and due to our advanced skills in said hobby we were basically picked as the golden children. Asked to help with everything and we did just that together. While this played out I developed an extreme crush on him for 3 years. This was all when we were 11 and 12. During those 5 years I started to not hide that crush in hopes he would reciprocate. He did not, well actually I have no idea if he did or didn’t all I knew is if he did he wasn’t going to let anyone know it. Everything he did made me love him more, how even when all of his friends were in a clique he would see that one kid alone on the side lines sit next to him and have a whole conversation with them. How we always noticed others emotions and would try to suppress his to not affect other people. This always made me look out for him. Because I did that I knew every face, response and even body movements meaning. I know the exact tone in his voice when I ask if he’s ok and what his response means. When I know he has more to say but is around to many people to say it or when his social battery is just lower than normal. Covid hit our 10th grade year and we didn’t see eachother for long. I decided it was time to get over this little crush and I attempted to move on but in the process it made me extremely distant from my friend. Even when he hated me because I liked him I still wanted to look out for him. But at the beginning of this year i decided to move on. He started dating this amazing girl who I was friends with and we became friendly again while doing our activities again. We gained our trust and friendship back becoming closer than ever. He coached me through my breakup with my long term boyfriend. I helped him get over a girl he really liked and as a good friend of mine said “You two need eachother right now.” He started hanging out with my friend group a bit more and that lead to him giving me rides sometimes now that he has his license. Today he drove me to our friends house that lives about 20 minutes away. We chatted and I watched him drive as we talked and I really saw his face again for the first time. That smile I fell for all those years ago and realized I never stopped. I tried hiding myself for so long that it ended up just suppressing into this ball that exploded in my head today. I watched him as we all swam in the pool, we gave eachother our slide glances when we are both thinking the same thing. I saw his hand waving in the air as we talked in the car and there was nothing more i wanted than to hold it. But I know he doesn’t like me and never will, i’m not his type and it’s been made clear through the years. Not only that he just finished liking this girl I think he still likes. HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS AHH | Crushes |
So, basically, I asked her out but I'm not sure is she is actually interested or not. Basically, I started a conversation and eventually interjected by saying "I know that we don't talk a lot but I think that you're very nice. Would you ever like to hang out?" She then responded with something along the lines of, "Awwww. Sure." We then continued talking for a minute or two. Mind you, I don't have her phone number nor were any specific plans made (It slipped my mind at the time but I'll ask tomorrow). I really just meant to express interest more clearly than I had before. However, I'm fairly worried that she only agreed to anything out of pity as I'm pretty sure that I was visibly anxious and she is generally just a very nice person. Am I just being paranoid here or should it be a legitimate concern.
Edit: I think that I should quickly clarify, that we do tend to talk at least a few times a week and we are friendly with each other. | Crushes |
so there’s a guy who likes me. my friends are telling me he’s always looking at me, sees me the second i walk in and is so nervous. i catch him staring at me constantly and he always follows me and looks up at me (not in a creepy way). so i thought hey he’s pretty cute why not shoot my shot.
so i did. did not end well.
but i really like him. i tend to fall for people who like me so i was heartbroken. i want to get to know him better and be with him.
why? he likes me. | Crushes |
Now I don't have a crush, but let's suppose I do. I kinda get the typical advice to befriend her (start talking about random shit in class, try to act friendly with her, discover her interests, start chatting with her (it could be about homework at first, but then start talking about more), etc). But what I'm supposed to do next? Give her signals? Ask her out? And how do I ask her out and where? Something like "hey what if we go to that Chinese restaurant on Saturday"? And if she accepts and we are eating together there, what shall I do? | Crushes |
I’ve said this like a million times but imma keep saying I have a crush on this dude my friend had a “thing” with I.e flirting and hanging out. Nothing more than that. I want to tell this friend because she still hangs out with him but platonically lol (she’s dating someone else) and I want to make sure it’s okay with her first before I start talking to him more but I’m scared to tell her, so if possible please encourage me!
Also me and my crush know each other kinda, we’ve talked a few times but nothing more, he did say he wanted to be my friend and that he thinks I’m cool :) | Crushes |
Don't really have much to say. I've posted my story a couple of times 1-2 years ago.
The ending was when I talked to her for the last time last year and told her everything I wanted, but this still hurts.
Stay strong people who are going through similar situations. | Crushes |
We attended a camp together and it’s been a week and it ended today. Our parents are kinda friends so we actually went out to eat afterwards and I’m just so happy we were able to carpool and spend a whole freaking week together and make so lowkey cute memories.
He has a thing for kicking my shoes and stealing my phone and copying me and occasionally (meaning like once ngl) patting my hair. I’m being a simp but maybe we got something going on???
But people were all like gosh are y’all siblings or whatever. And one person was like “you guys are giving off brother-sister vibes rn” idk does that mean something?? | Crushes |
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For some reason today I just lost all the feelings I had for him after months of crushing. I just feel like i’ve given so much energy to him, and it’s so hard to read whether he likes me back that I just don’t care anymore. I feel like i’ve been playing a game and losing, and that’s not what love should feel like. I shouldn’t be making major decisions out of some hope it will impress him. I just can’t do it anymore. There is a good chance he likes me back but I just can’t. I’m done giving out more than i’m receiving and letting my emotional state rest on him. I feel so stupid. I just deleted Insta and Snap and have never felt more free. I’m going to move forward and start focusing on loving myself instead and figuring out who I am. | Crushes |
This girl and I talk all the time. Let's call her molly. Sometimes she acts annoyed at me and then whenever I avoid her on purpose she'll constantly try to talk to me. She was my valentine this year. She has a friend (who was my other crush) and her older sister told me that molly likes me. Another girl in my class told me she thinks molly likes me because of the way she acts around me. At the end of the school year I started to avoid her and she spammed my messages saying she doesn't want to end the school year with me hating her and how she's sorry and everything. Does she like me? | Crushes |
My ex best friend is dating a girl I liked and me and him have been arguing for months now and it started over the topic of I'm trying to steal his girlfriend. Which I'm not. They don't even talk, only through text. Me and the girl used to be really good friends but now we don't talk and she thinks I'm annoying. I want to be her friend again, what do I do to be her friend again without starting another argument with my ex friend?
Btw: this whole thing was a 5 month situation that happened in school and now everyone knows my name because of it. | Crushes |
We met about a week and a half-ish ago as penpals and we really knock it out of the park, we were obsessed with each other, talking the whole day, good morning and good night text, and we event sext and flirted a lot, our connection was amazing, I haven’t felt like this in a long time.
Then he went into a trip and now he barely talks to me… maybe he’s really that busy or he just lost interest.
What I know is that I miss him so much but I can’t tell him anything because I don’t want to lead him on (I like him a lot but I can’t have a relationship right now, my mental health just can’t handle it, no matter how much I like him)
So I’m going to take his silence as lost of interest and move on…
But to be honest, I’m pretty sad :( | Crushes |
A girl I have feelings for said that we are *fingers crossed gesture 🤞* . I didn’t get the chance to ask yesterday what she meant, and asking two days later would be really weird. What does she mean by we are…. Fingers crossed ? | Crushes |
To be honest, I’m absolutely inlove with this person, either way I’ve been trying to see if he may likes me.
Some thing I’ve been thinking about, is he always sends me a goodmorning/goodnight message, asking how my day was, always making sure I’m alright, and he always finds a way to not make a conversation end, he texts me atleast every hour (if possible), he always tells me everything about his day, he always tries to stand close to me, and stare at me yk and he also says stuff like “I wish I had someone to cuddle” etc etc. So much around me, like he’s trying to get me to say something, or it might just be me, and he’s also low-key “jokingly” flirting with me, what do y’all think? It’s so confusing omg | Crushes |
So we’re friends and all, that’s great. But the only problem now is I can’t tell signs from platonic and romantic.
So is there anything people who like you do, that friends don’t? Sorry if that’s confusing, I can’t really word it anyway else. | Crushes |
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