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Question about flirting… how can I improve my flirting ability? | Crushes |
i’ve been crushing on this guy, J from my work for a few months now. to try and summarize everything, his best friend and i are pretty close friends. i’m pretty sure his best friend R is interested in me, but i made it clear that we’re only friends. J is very quiet, but we became close for a bit and there was definitely something going on between us, at least for a little while.
R and his friends figured out that i had a crush on J, and im assuming R immediately went and told J. then i got word from one of R’s friends, that in R’s words, J hates me and i 100% have no chance with J, because “he’s already talking to a girl with a whole lotta booty and a car”. what kind of bs? i have no idea. i don’t think it came directly from J, i’m hoping not, but it does really sound like something R would say to try to steer me away from J. i haven’t heard anything directly from J yet, but thats because he keeps getting taken of the schedule every time i get the chance to work with him.
several people from our work, including R’s friends, have mentioned that J stares at me an abnormal amount, and from my perspective it’s definitely a lot. through crowds of people, through large play structures, in reflections of mirrors, and from the other side of the large facility.
the biggest problem is that J just unfollowed me on instagram. i want to get to the bottom of this, so i’m planning on asking him what R said about me next time we work together, and at least let him know i didn’t want it to be weird.
J and i also don’t work together very often anymore, and when i do get the chance to talk to him, i get cottonmouth and start stuttering really bad, so i give up a lot. this time i built up the courage, but i just don’t know if its gonna help the situation enough.
i don’t know what other questions to ask him while i have the chance. i always feel like i’ve always wasted my opportunity with him because i like him so much and im afraid of rejection. i’m not sure why he would unfollow me suddenly, maybe when he stares at me its because he doesn’t like me?? thoughts are greatly appreciated, thanks for reading :)
TL;DR: things are tense between me and this guy, for several reasons. he’s always staring at me and for a while we had a small romance forming, but he just unfollowed me and i don’t get to see him often anymore. | Crushes |
I just never really think about looking people in the eyes when I talk to them. I mean sometimes I do but usually I'm multitasking or I look away while thinking about what to say or what I just heard. But apparently girls love when you look them in the eyes and it makes them more attracted to you or whatever. So tomorrow I'm gonna use more eye contact with my crush and also I really need to get her snapchat. I know she has one I saw the app on her phone lol. I always feel like i gotta wait for the right moment to ask her but there aren't many moments so I really need to ask her tomorrow. Hopefully I'm not as anxious tomorrow as I was today. I wasn't scared to talk to her or approach her but was anxious about asking her for her snap | Crushes |
Ok so she is jealous... I wanted to apologize.. But she said she does not need it. She wants me to actually act on what I say. I always have been a dumb person. Always having negative thoughts. I don't think I can actually deal with life problems right now:,). She got jealous cause I was acting too close to my friend that was a girl.. I guess I'm just used to not rlly mind those things but now I should. I am currently not gonna talk to her since I really just don't want to mess up or make it worse by talking to her...I said "ok" after everything she said because I really don't know what to say.. I have not checked if she had messaged me since earlier. I want to make a long message and then send it to her later. That is what I am doing now. Reason I came back to this reddit is because I feel like I might get some information on what I should do:,)... | Crushes |
**I have a crush on a girl, she likes to hear to Taylor Swift, she is a huge I mean huge fan of hers, and I dont like hearing to her music at all she asks me all the time to hear to her music, what should I do?** | Crushes |
We’d never spoken during the whole school year until one day he (17M) decided to talk to me (18F). After that we were talking everyday. At first I thought he was being friendly but he was definitely flirting with me. This isn’t a asshole jock/geek girl type situation where it’s probably just a set up - I know I’m pretty and he’s genuinely kind, but I have anxiety so I overthink everything. He hasn’t explained his intentions so I’m just in a really confused place right now (are we “talking”?). We’re so similar but I don’t want to fall for him and then get embarrassed in school. This is why I always hated the idea of dating someone from the same high school. I don’t have it in me to straight up ask him so does anyone have some advice on what I could do? | Crushes |
So the guy I posted before (I asked how I could be friends with him), we're friends now and started to have a little crush on him and those feelings became deeper (I don't know if it was platonic or not), HAHA!! I know I had a crush on him so fast cause it wasn't that long since I posted a question about how I could be friends with him, he doesn't know that I like him but he sent me a message saying "what if I liked you" I felt happy about that but somehow I felt nervous, nervous because I felt like I didn't even like him anymore, I felt cold in every part in my body because of my nervouness and I didn't wanna hurt anybody, I really blushed so much at the messages he sent me, but now I feel disgusted/nervous to anything he says now like if he asked me to send my face in chat (we were wearing masks so we really can't see each others face in school so he asked that), I found it disgusting, but I really don't even know why, we're classmates anyway?? Why do I feel so disgusted??, I can't distinguish between platonic or romantic, if I was really aromantic I would have a hard time accepting myself cause I really want to love someone and what I wanted in life was just marrying someone and having kids or pets together, I want something romantic in my life, I would get jealous of people having such cute relationships because I can't have that, but I'll try hard to accept myself, I still like him but I feel like I don't. So can someone tell me if I'm aromantic or am I just not ready for a relationship? | Crushes |
So there’s an exchange student at our school. She’s been here for like three days now and I already have a really bad crush on her :’) I feel like my crush is painfully obvious too so haha good for me 😭 | Crushes |
BRO IM FREAKING OUT, WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR OVER 1 YEAR AND SHE HAS BEEN SO KIND TO ME. SHE RESTS HER HEAD ON MY SHOUKDERS, SHE ASKED ME TO THE DANCE, HUGS ME AND SHE EVEN TOOK <E ON A OVERNIGHT TRIP THING! So i chose to ask her.
Heres the message i sent
Ok. I feel like a jerk because I was trying to ask you something yesterday but everyone was yelling and I couldn't. I really value your friendship. You are the one person I want to talk to every day. When good things happen I want to tell you first. But I always want to be friends with you! So, I was trying to ask if you wanted to hold hands or be my girlfriend. If you don't that's OK. We can just be friends like we are now and go to the movies and play mini golf and do homework together. But if you do want to. then when you see me tomorrow, just give me a hug for a yes. If no then dont hug me.
Im waiting on a response now ill ujpdate yall in the morning
WISH ME LUCK! | Crushes |
I feel like it’ll be too awkward every time and I just always back off from trying to talk to her. I just want to know how to start a conversation and not be weird.
Some context: She’s really shy though we know each other pretty well (we haven’t talked much face to face, it’s mostly all online), however she avoids eye contact. We only have one class together and she sits behind me so turning around to talk to her would be weird. I feel like just texting is going nowhere and I want to develop the friendship. She also generally avoids large school events. I just don’t want to make it embarrassing or awkward, just maybe a normal conversation with a friend (I seem to forget how to talk when it comes to her).
Edit: As long as y’all’s suggestions aren’t absurd I’m just gonna go yolo and do it | Crushes |
I’ve been texting wit her for a few weeks now and I’m sure she likes me to but she never seems to text first she’s only done it 2 times even tho we text a lot and I’m confused if she likes me or not | Crushes |
Same idea I’m a 20(M) she’s a 23(F) with a kid. Should I still go for her like go far and wide to search for her since she quit the job we shared because I really liked her or is the kid a cut off? Help guys! | Crushes |
I had this crush of a year, she suddenly confessed to me a few days ago. We've been getting along really well on text, but we are gonna be meeting tomorrow. I was already so anxious around her, idk what I might do now please help meeee. I just like her tooooo muchhhh idk what to do tommorowww | Crushes |
I'm an artist and I have had a crush on this boy since the 3rd grade (I am going to the 12th grade now)
He's really nice and respectful! We've been messaging each other for half a year now. I really really like him.
The thing is we have spoken to each other in person since elementary school. Our classes are all over the place and we barely see each other during the school day.
As an artist who is in love, I'd sometime doodle and draw myself and my crush together. Talking, laughing, smiling, etc. but these are messy and you can not tell it's him and I.
Recently, I've felt touch-starved again and decided to draw us hugging. However, this time, I took the time to draw us looking like how we look in real life. After I finished, I wanted to show my friends the piece but it seems wrong to draw us "together" while we aren't dating or anything.
What do you think? | Crushes |
Pretty straightforward. Is it like body count or sth else? | Crushes |
I had a plan to get my crush's snapchat but my boss was constantly standing next to her whenever there was time to talk. And he'll just tell me to go do something if I went over there. But there was a little time to talk. It went pretty well for the most part. Just casual talking. Talking about college and stuff. Not really anything to show she likes me back but she was into the conversation and she's showed signs in the past. But next time I'm gonna just get it out my system fast and just ask her for her snap soon as I can | Crushes |
So I'm in a new school I have been there for 4 months and I have a crush on this one girl but she has a crush on my best friend and we are friends a bit and I don't know what to do because my friends don't like her so how do I ask her out or get her phone number or something like Idk update she is dating a girl but ik she is bi well now I do | Crushes |
I don’t even have a crush atm but I keep envisioning me and some girl singing/playing the violin together and it’s just kinda odd and specific but it is something I want to happen so badly rn.
I would love to play the violin with or sing with my crush or lover on stage, it would just complete my life I think.
Am thinking about someone I know who does sing and play the violin but I don’t have time to talk to her at all so I just gave up on the idea of liking her.
Anyway, does anyone else just think of/dream of oddly specific romantic things as well? | Crushes |
This isn’t about the guy I like now, it’s about the guy I used to like, ‘L’.
He’s always hated me. He’s called me weird and annoying. He’s laughed at how depressed I am. He’s yelled at me for ‘following him’. It was Tag. He’s yelled at me for wondering why he took so long to respond to me. Hes actively avoided me. I’m Trans BTW (Trans guy).
About a month after I stopped liking him, over a span of 2 weeks, he kept trying to talk to me. Using my Name each time, looking like into my soul idk the stare was very.. idk.
Then he stopped.
Then I posted something on my Snapchat story. It was a sendit (anonymously respond) “who do you ship me with?” And I’m 99% sure L responded with his own name. Weird but okay.
Then a month later I posted one that was like ‘tell me assumptions you have of me and I’ll tell you if they’re true or false’ and someone said ‘you’ve had your first kiss’ which I have and I said yes and put the caption ‘yea the only person ive dated.’
Someone spammed me with ‘you dated {ex best friends name}’ ‘you dated {good friends name}’ ‘you dated {best friends name}’ and ‘you dated {crushes name}’
I’m pretty sure L said all of those. There were 5 people who had seen my story, 3 of which I don’t talk to, one of which who’d know if I dated two of those people, and the last one being him.
And later on, on the same post, SOMEONE said ‘you think L is hot’
That someone had to be L. Only person to view my last post, only person whod care.
Today, I posted an ‘ask me anything’ and I think L wanted to know if I dated my friend ‘S’. But on that one idk. And later on the same thing, my friends started playing smash or pass. One of my friends pur ‘smash or pass L’ which I said pass to. Then I’m pretty sure he said his own name for it. Him, my current crush (who couldn’t give less of a fuck abt mine or anyone else’s snap stories), and my online friend who doesn’t know L had viewed my story.
Immediately after I responded someone wanted to know who the cutest guy on my snap was. I think L mightve sent it um like 75% sure.
But all of this is so weird because L hates me. Or he’s supposed to. | Crushes |
There was this girl in one of my college classes I had a crush on. I decided to talk to her today for the first time and I felt like I really hit it off with her. She kept asking me lots of questions about myself and walked with me after class. Normally I wouldn’t ask out a girl I just met, but I felt like she was really invested into the conversation and enthusiastic. I asked her out for coffee and for some reason she mentioned that we should study for upcoming exams together, but didn’t say anything about me asking her out for coffee. After a few minutes I asked again if she wanted to go out for coffee sometime and she said yes. She got out her phone and gave it to me so she can have my number. I only typed my first name and she wanted to know my last name too. Since our conversation she hasn’t texted me and I was wondering if I did something wrong? What should I do? Idk if she is into me or not? Why would she ask for my number but then not text me. Should I still try to talk to her next class? I also need to mention I’m a sophomore in college and she is a senior. | Crushes |
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I got some advice from a close friend in a small community that I should be straightforward with how I feel. That was the best advice I could've ever gotten. For a while it's been a standing joke in the community that I have a crush on someone else and everyone always put bets on who it was or would come to my dms to guess. Tonight before my shift at work I got a dm from them and they wanted to guess who it was. I hesitated before telling them but I feel like a girl in middle school all over again. Giddy and happy because they told me they accept my feelings and want to talk more and hang out more!! I didn't know where to go but Im sitting at work overjoyed and just needed to share :D | Crushes |
he and i were chatting together through private message until i showed him a picture of me for some reason. and he just straight told me that i look cute 😭 ofc, I didn't believe him at first until he said that ‘it's true anyways’ >< | Crushes |
So I'm taking model un this year and on the frist day of school I saw them ours eyes always meet. they give me butterflies. It's only been 2 weeks but I'm so in love we've talked and they always look in my eyes when we speak. it gets me so Flustered I've never been given undivided attention like that.Their beautiful green glistening eyes the brown redish hair their little bucket hat and cute fashion sense. Everything about them is angelic, but I get so lost for words around them. i just end up giggling or standing a little to close to them. sometimes I find myself tilting my head close to their shoulder. I want to ask them to be friends but I get so nervous, I have a feeling they also want to be friends with me. I also think the girl that sits behind them knows I have a crush on them she talks with them sometimes. Ngl it makes me jealous that she talks with them. She looks at me weirdly when I'm around them I hope I'm not being to obvious. | Crushes |
I started working a new job about 3 months ago, around the same time a guy at work started. From the start he'd always go out of his way to say good morning to me and ask how I'm doing, but I take a while to open up to people so we only just started having real fleshed out conversations. The only other people I see him talk to at work are the nice old ladies who stock the shelves. He's incredibly nice and always goes out of his way to hold doors open for me, tells me to go ahead of him even if he's carrying a big ass box, stuff like that, but I think I might be reading too much into it? How do you tell?? We haven't exchanged socials or anything yet but we've only been having steady convos for a little while.
It's been so long since I even thought of crushing on someone, but I feel so drawn to him! Honestly, he's such a good person I'd be happy even just being friends with him. He's also just really cute!! I'm just worried that if I'm reading too much into him just being nice that I'll screw up any chance of just being friends with him. | Crushes |
So basically around the ends of 8th grade i started to develop feelings for this one guy. Literally my type. Now that we’re in highschool I wanted to try and talk to him. But all the times i’ve tried i ended up just smiling or saying hi. I don’t know why i get so nervous when i approach him and it’s getting in the way of a possible conversation. i would really appreciate some advice 🙏 | Crushes |
so, i came here just to ask, there’s this girl in my class i think is pretty, she never showed any interest in me, and doesn’t do much aside from reading her books and talking to her friend
just going and talking to her would work? | Crushes |
We've been friends for a year. We have the same Spanish class together, the teacher has called my name right infront of him. We had 5th grade together and I annoyed him all the way. friends have told him "M said hi, M has a crush on you, etc".
I know he knows my name. I think he does. It's just my brain that doesn't allow me to believe he KNOWS it. idk, i probably wouldn't believe it if he said it infront of me out loud.
maybe i'll ask if he knows my name idk, but its super dumb and idk why im posting this | Crushes |
A little context, I recently started to like a girl from my school, she has been a good friend for a long time and I don't want to lose her friendship but tell her how I feel about her, what can I do? | Crushes |
I am done I don’t seek love nor rejection my task is not to confess but to state and get it over in formal fashion verbally
My Objective has split become friends or end it here | Crushes |
okay so for comtext i liked a classmate over the summer but made myself lose feelings cause i think they like someone else or could be in a relationship but now that school is back in i’m starting to think about them more again
our lockers are always next to each other because our names are together alphabetically so i see them every day now and unlike last year we have actually spoken every day so far.
can someone just give me ways to finally get fully over them 😭😭 idk what to doo | Crushes |
So there is this guy in my class and we have made eye contact during the first day of school in class. At first I thought he was looking at me because I was ugly but two days later I was walking around and I saw him. I lowkey panicked lol because he’s cute. As I walked passed him he said “I like your hair”. I was so shocked because I have low self esteem and I have never gotten compliments from a guy before. I responded with “oh thank you” with a smile. He hasn’t really talked to me but my friends say that when I ask the teacher for advice he turns around to look at me (he sits right in front of me in class).
Today at school I was quite talkative and I had a chance to sit next to him. It seemed like he noticed that I had that chance and went to sit somewhere else. I ended up sitting next to his friend and we talked a lot. He didn’t talk to anyone today and he just was so quiet. He does give me some eye contact in class but I don’t know if that means anything. I don’t know how to talk to guys I like and I don’t know how to read people. Does he like me or no? | Crushes |
I give up. She seems like the one personality wise and everything but no matter what i do she never seems to have me as a priority. It makes me heart sink and I just wanna hide away. | Crushes |
It's only 4 days in at school and I already have a crush on somebody, obviously I'm waiting it out but I just want to hear your thoughts on which of these ways of confessing is best for when I do in the future (preferably like a few weeks at least); for the specific context this is a girl that's in a few of my classes who is very quiet and I never really see with anyone else by herself (just like me) so with that in mind here are my ideas:
1. In the slim chance that in one of our classes we get randomized partners and I get her, I tell her right then and there (algebra is best oppurtunity, she literally sits right in front of me and I see and hear her the most, also it doesn't have to be partners but just like at some time in general)
2. Have one of my friends inadvertently tell her (sounds stupid but it'd be a lot easier for me if one of my friends was like "\_\_\_\_\_\_ likes you," instead of me having to do it, however this would happen when I'm not around her, obviously none of that "my friend over there likes you teeheehee" stuff)
3. Slide an anonymous note (this is stupid as well but it gets the point across and at least gives her the knowledge that somebody likes her, I wouldn't be surprised if she figured it out instantly though)
4. Tell her during some other random time (lunch, hallways, etc, all of these options are bad though and more of a last resort) | Crushes |
I wanna hear all the happy, sad and inside joke songs let's make a fun playlist! | Crushes |
I actually fully believed it when I said it but it was a lie to myself and to her. I also told the same story to my friends. Rip. Also for context we are good friends but she doesn’t like me back. | Crushes |
Like I catch him staring at me but I want him to start talking to me and you know, be friendly and stuff. Problem is we don’t talk much and I have a problem with showing emotions and stuff. I really just wanna talk to him and stuff but I afraid that he doesn’t because I may not be very approachable | Crushes |
I’m 34. i have obscure taste so i rarely like someone. Last week i matched with someone i really like. He was friendly. I don’t think he was flirting but he seemed interested and he was polite and wholesome. Eventually he asked if he could check my social media and when we finally became friends there he stopped talking to me. I havent liked someone this much for a long time and imnow i’m pinning and i dont know what to do and i feel like im too old for these feelings but here i am | Crushes |
Ever since I've told one of my "friends" I liked this guy, she's been making such an EFFORT to talk to him right in front of me. The way he smiles and looks into her eyes ONLY when she's talking to him just shows how much he likes my friend.
Funny thing is, she only started talking to him a ton when I told her I liked him and she knows I'm too scared to talk to him. She said she feels bad and doesn't want me to be mad yet she STILL talks to him.
And yes, you can talk to guys and be friends with them without liking them but another friend said she was starting to fall for him. Btw this all happened within the span of this week.
I need advice, honestly want to give up on this guy. | Crushes |
So near my house there’s some futsal trainings and me and my friend decided to spend our week visiting and watching the practices, she knows most people around that area, and there is a boy who I thought looked cute, I asked her if she knew his Instagram she told me she didn’t know him, which means I need to go there and talk with him, I just need like advice on how to get some conversation
She asked her friend if he was seeing someone and her friend told her the boy has a girl on his dms but they don’t know anything more
Should I risk it 😰🙌 | Crushes |
And god damn does that boy have talent. Like serious talent, but he doesn’t want to release it.
And I’m not blinded just by having a crush on him, he genuinely has some serious talent.
It is very bittersweet though, he wants to move to the US(we’re from Ireland) and his degree has failed him so he turned to music, and that shit will genuinely get him into the US, I want him to achieve his dreams even if I can’t be apart of it :( | Crushes |
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I know he seems like a genuinely nice, funny, cute person to be around, but a friend of a friend dated him years ago and she ended up cutting her arms down to the bone because of him. Obviously he's changed since then or else my friend would have kept me away from him, but I can't stop thinking about it. At the same time, I can't get myself to move on. | Crushes |
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Howdy guys,
So my crush and I been texting for like 3 months now nearly every day, met a couple times on small parties and see each other at school, we really like each other, yk she does this ":)" only when shes happy and she does it often lately,
Now heres the problem: about a month ago she told me that we wouldnt know each other well enough to start a relation ship and that we match each other more in a friendly way, so basically the friend zone
Since this time we texted even more and really got close yk with same interests and stuff, and even had a few deep talks,
My friend told me i should go for it at the last party, yk she started talking to me, often followed me and sat next to me, but im to scared, yk what if shes just friendly or thinks of me as a close friend, i dont want to ruin the things like checking up on each other and talk till she falls asleep and stuff, but i dont want to get more in the friend zone to yk,
I would really appreciate advices :)) | Crushes |
Why was it her but not me.. why did I have to love him harder, why did I even fall in love in the first place. I wish i never met him, I wish that I never cared about him. He made me think that he liked me, but in truth, he never really cared nor liked me the way I did. I’m so heartbroken. All I can feel is numbness and sadness. I hope I don’t ever love someone ever again, I envy those who can easily move on. I’m seriously such a fool. | Crushes |
Today we were trying to get people to join this class because if we did we would get a prize. so basically we were just talking to people about the class and then she kept touching my bicep and at one point just straight up put her arm around me and I was kinda flustered ngl, and then she mentioned this dance that were having later in the year in that class to me not to the people that we were convincing to join. And when I made jokes later on when we were talking after we were finished she was laughing HARD. Which she doesn't laugh that hard at my jokes she still laughs but not as hard. And I asked my close friends if they thought that she liked me and those friends are brutally honest and they all said yes also. She always tries to talk to me and not only that people think that we are dating which we aren't. So idk I'm pretty sure she likes me back but not 100%
and if you don't think this solid proof and you do this with all your friends then ask me some questions and I will answer and from that you can let me know if it's just platonic or not. please let me know what yall think
So does she like me??
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Around four months ago I was introduced to a girl through a group of friends. We went out that night and it felt as though we were on our own, even though there were more than 10 people in the group. The conversation was flowing naturally and it was clear we had many things in common. Our way of speaking, mannerisms, gestures, interests… Everything was similar, and we could both feel that.
The problem? She has a boyfriend. We follow each other on social media and engage with each other’s profiles on a regular basis, but that’s about it. I’ve dated other girls ever since and I don’t have problems meeting new girls, but I can’t forget her. I believe she could be the woman of my life, but I just can’t do anything about it.
I just wanted to know if any of you has experienced this before. What happened in the end?
By the way, we’re not teenagers. She’s in her early thirties and I’m in my late twenties. | Crushes |
I am an awkward person, so talking to people is already pretty difficult. But whenever I look at him, I get so nervous. I can barely even speak around him.
My friends also noticed that I look at him a lot. They soon put it together and I am not even mad that they found out. They have been trying to help me talk to him, but I get so flustered when he looks at me.
My face gets so red whenever I hear his name or if he looks at me.
My one friend actually told him for me today, and then said that I wanted his number. He actually gave it to her!! That mean I might have a chance!
But I am also terrified to go to school tomorrow. Since he is in some of my classes. I feel like he is gonna try and talk to me tomorrow.
But I am getting so flustered thinking about it. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO TALK TO HIM IF I GET NERVOUS THINKING ABOUT HIM.
Does anyone have any tips to calm yourself down when you have a HUGE crush on someone? | Crushes |
She is perfect but can't talk to her, I wouldn't know what to say to her... but I love her and I don't think she's dating. How do I start a conversation with her. How do I ask if she's single. Also is it asking too much if I walk straight up to her and asked her out to homecoming even though I never talked to her | Crushes |
I mean like just a finger or two touching theirs, some of your leg rubbing onto their leg, can that help with someone maybe forming a crush for me back? I have a feeling it HAS to at least do smt psychologically that speeds up the “liking progress”. idk man | Crushes |
She called me “my guy” over text😐. Not really sure how to feel about that one. Anyone have any previous experience with something like this? | Crushes |
Im in a very akward and weird position with almost all of the girls i know, and to be honest i caused this problem but i didnt realize where im leading myself to until it was too late.
My friends are litteral players and have tenths of female friends and when i hangout with my friends mamy of the times they invite some of thier female friemds to join us and when that happens i just stop talking. Im nervous. I sit at the corner of the table sulking and feeling like a weirdo. I dont have any female friends. I cant be my real self around them and even when i do make small talks they end after not more than a mimute and i just find myself really trying to keep the conversation flowing but im just unable to do it. Theres this girl who i really really like. This girl is like a friend of all of my best friends but not mine. I know her since first grade but i cant remember the last time i talked to her in the last 3 years. Its a bit odd that i like someone who i dont really know, but Based on my outsider expreinces, when shes with us and she talks to my friends i just feel like shes the one for me. But the thing is she dosent give a dam about me. When theres a conversation about something that relates to me in a certain manner and she knows it, she chooses to talk about that thing with my best friend sitting next to me. Im in a position where im preceived as the weirdo whose for some reason the best friend of our hot cool guy friends. I dont know what to do. I cant bring myself to talk and not get nervous and just be myself. I caused this problem by not trying to create a connection with them while my friend did. Please help.[i dont know if anyone will read this i wrote this mainly just to unpack amd relive stress but if u do read all of this i appreciate it] | Crushes |
To start off I (15f) starting developing feelings for this one guy (17m) around November I think? Maybe December? Well it was during the time of our school musical for the year. It was small at first but then I liked him more and more as musical went on (idk if this is important but I did stage crew while he was actually in it). Anyways musical is over and I have the courage to text him on instagram, hopefully to become friends, and it worked. That just made me like him even more. So one day I decided to tell him that I like him, or rather give him a note. Just to try and maybe make myself feel better? Idk. So I gave him candy and a small confession and that's when it went downhill. I say this because after a bit he wouldn't respond to my texts anymore and it kinda hurt. I mean he has a right to but he wouldn't tell me why. Or he did and I didn't realize it (cause I'm a dumb dumb). Fast forward to this year and my crush on him is even BIGGER than last year. What makes it even more worse is that me and him are in band together, marching and the same concert band, so I've seen him for half of my summer and sit next to him during concert band (I play baritone, he plays Trombone). Thinking back to it I feel like I should have never confessed the way I did or at all because I feel like I fucked everything up, which I worried that would happen when I first became friends with him. I feel like I could say more but I'm not sure. I just feel really sad and angry with myself, is there anyway I could possibly feel better? I know I'm not gonna get over him anytime soon, but just anything to try and distract myself from him?
Edit: I just realized may be hard to follow or something, really sorry | Crushes |
my crush is always with her friends. it sounds like I'm exaggerating, but im not. hallways? with friends. lunch? with friends. even going to the bathroom, she's with friends. her friends don't leave her side; hence I can't find a way to initiate a convo. it's frustrating. i don't really know how to find her alone and start a convo. do yall have any tips? since I have no ideas. | Crushes |
In my third hour I sit at a table with one girl ik and she knows me and one girl we don't know each other but we've done some group activities and today we did a game, and me and the girl I didn't know we're on teams. I don't understand what it is but I just like how she acts, it makes me wanna go back. It's also kinda werid for me because Im an introvert and shy towards new people, but not her.. idk if I have a crush on her or not yet | Crushes |
So I saw this girl in class today and I found her really cute but I had no time left to talk her (I saw her at the very end of class because she was sitting behind me)
I wanna talk to her when I have that class again on Monday, how should I start that convo? | Crushes |
About 2 weeks ago I got rejected by a girl at work who I'd fallen for. She's amazing and we get along great, but she just didn't feel the same. It hurt for the first day but I guess I had chosen to ignore the grief. We still get along great and it isn't at all awkward. Though at the same time, I feel sad. However, I don't think I feel as sad as I should. I think I've been suppressing the amount of sadness and grief I should be feeling. Especially because this is the strongest I've had feelings for someone. I'm not even sure how to grieve apart from listening to sad music. I wish things were different. | Crushes |
I have a crush on a guy in my college class who sits right in front of me. Him and I only have two days out of every week we are in class together, and this is my first week meeting him. Like, I didn't expect it at all to be liking someone this semester during my freshman year. Unfortunately, we didn't talk to each other yet (not even a "hello"), and I want to be able to have a chance to get to know him a bit better.
So, how do I talk him without embarrassing myself? I am socially awkward, have little experience talking to guys, and there are three other boys at my table. | Crushes |
Lol yet another crush and crushed heart. Fml. I seriously need to stop flirting with people and thinking more of it. It's not turning out quite so well. XD
I really tried I told myself to not care, I told myself it's just talking/banter/flirting. Don't make anything of it but my heart really does like effing with me. At least it's not a massive crush like my last one. I cried about that one, now I just feel sad. Lol.
He messaged me first and we started talking. I tried not to seem too eager to talk to him though I did message him first too just so it didn't feel like he was always starting the conversation. It died down two weeks ago and I've been pretty chill. Got tired of starting conversations when it seemed he wasn't interested anymore. At first I missed talking to him cause I really did enjoy our chats. Then now I see him chatting/flirting with this other girl and it hurts. I hate that it does because why?? This is like the second time this has happened.
Maybe I just don't like that the attention isn't on me anymore. Maybe I'm too sensitive and emotional lol. Maybe I wear my heart on my sleeve. I just know that this sucks massively.
Ah and I was enjoying my time without a crush. Take me back to those good old days please. | Crushes |
I had a dream that i was in a relationship with my crush's best friend. its been bothering me. | Crushes |
Hi :) so recently I’ve joined a gc for my uni and there was an attractive guy on there. When we put our instas in the chat he was quick to request me, liked my recent post and then when I posted a new pick late at night, liked it almost instantly. He seems nice and possibly interested? But then when someone asked for snapchats I searched him and his background was of a rainbow. I know it’s careless and stereotypical to assume that a rainbow= a member of the lgbtq+ community but I don’t know. I also realised that he follows a lot of those um sexy girl instas with the bums?😂 so now I’m confused as to whether he’s into girls or not. Any advise?😭 | Crushes |
I would honestly spend the rest of my life with him but I'm just Chubby and unwanted. Like my life is already pointless so should I end it or something. He is out of my league.
Thought I would share some moments.
He hugged me once.
He also did kiss me once but it was for a truth or dare.
He once complimented my eyes.
We usually talk a lot via text but not in person unless we have school but it's still summer break. I just want him to like me as more than a friend | Crushes |
I noticed that he keeps doing things to be next to or near me. I was in the break room one time talking to a coworker and he kept coming up 5 times. This other time I was also on break and he came in and was waiting to clock in instead of waiting in the office. He seemed a little fidgety and awkward when we were talking. He asked me if I rested well and stuff. | Crushes |
So my crush has that on her Instagram profile and I really wanna know what it means | Crushes |
Anyone else really wanna talk about them....
Edit: thank you so much for all your questions! I really love talking about her as you’ve probably guessed, and hearing about yours.
I think I’ve answered everyone’s now, sorry if it took me a while :) | Crushes |
Just some background for this: he lives in the us, I live in the Uk so ain’t no way we gunna be face to face, he doesn’t now a lot about me if anything but like he still knows me.
I have no idea how to start a convo with him out of the blue, anyone got any ideas of how I could strike up a convocation with him naturally? | Crushes |
so this was a while back (a month ago maybe) and we'd been talking and playing minecraft together before I confessed.
only in the past 2 year have I realized that I'm queer (going by lesbian, but still questioning) and she was one of the first girls that made me realize that
I had admired her from afar. She's a great painter. Editor. She's beautiful. Her glasses fit her face just right and her hair flows down her shoulders perfectly. She was everything I wanted to be, but better. And at first, before I realized I liked girls, I thought I was just jealous. That I just wanted to be her.
But then I started questioning (went by as bi for a while) and realized it wasn't really jealousy or that I wanted to be her. I wanted to be WITH her.
Then I made the decision to try to start talking to her. I talked to her best friend (a mutual friend of ours) first and told her about my crush on her and really wanted to know how to talk to her. I was a gay disaster, basically.
Eventually we did get to talking. We talked about things I never thought I could with someone else.
Our relationship with our families being more complicated than we each thought they were.
Our darker thoughts and pains that we had no one else to talk to about.
I told her stories about my life and she listened. And I did the same to her.
I once asked her whether or not she was queer. She said she was unlabeled and that she would be willing to date anyone, but she wasn't super sure.
She told me she had a crush on a girl who was her friend before, so I thought maybe I have a chance.
I was planning on how I would do it for ages. On her birthday, pull an Amity when I have to leave or something. Or on my birthday. Or next year's valentine's day or—
I confessed at 2AM on a random day.
not my best moment. she said she'd have to think about it and didn't want to say yes or no yet.
so we continued our friendship as usual.
until one day the topic came up. I said I assumed I've been rejected already. She said she isn't sure yet and didn't want to reject me yet or accept it.
I've been waiting for I think a month now. Maybe more. On one hand, I think it was a dumb decision to confess my feelings without knowing if she felt the same way. On the other hand...we have an unlabeled date on the 25th. We said we'll decide whether or not it's romantic or just a platonic date then.
so the question is, oh my god please what do I do should I try to move on and just treat it as a friendly date or should I keep pursuing her in a romantic sense?
(we are both in highschool and are the same age if that seems important) | Crushes |
Short version of the story: I’m about to leave my job of 6 years and there’s a guy there that I see once a week (deliveries) and we always have really good (unfortunately short) conversations. I’ve been crushing on him for awhile and he seems at least receptive, maybe even interested as well?
Since this Friday will be the last time I see him, I’m thinking that I should just go for it and give him my number. I am, however, lacking the confidence to do so, because I’m on the shyer side and it’s just not something that I know how to approach!
Can anyone offer advice or just tell me to grow up and go for it? | Crushes |
Like the title says, my crush (23M) invited me (25M) to his July 4th party next month.
On one hand, it was a super cool gesture on his part, and he’s always fun to be around. I’ve never been to his house, either. Plus, his friends will be there, some I haven’t seen in a long time.
On the other…he claims to be straight, and I’m gay. The last time I saw him I was a wreck for a week trying to get over him because of that fact. I’m traveling the next weekend, and I don’t want to have anxiety building up to that trip compounded by unrequited feelings. | Crushes |
Or if someone wants to share stories/vent then message me! I need to talk about him | Crushes |
Or if someone wants to share stories/vent then message me! I need to talk about him | Crushes |
HE ASKED FOR MY SOCIALS YESTERDAY?? So yeah, now we've just been sending snaps (the usual very boring kind) to each other but it's kind of dry? I don't feel like starting a convo out of thin air because then ending it will just be weird, but I don't really know what to do to be honest. I'll be seeing him again in a couple of weeks, but it always sucks because it's a professional setting so it's not like I can just go and flirt with him either? And because of the mostly professional nature of our current relationship I don't really know what to do, but I still feel like he's into me though. I'm too shy to be super blunt and straightforward with my interests, but I wanna keep the good vibe still going & hopefully at some point pursue something more serious. Suggestions? | Crushes |
So my last crush took months to even think about it liking me but this one-
We literally cuddled while watching shine yesterday and he admitted his feelings and I was like :000000
But my dad might be into his mom.
But we are now “in-like” | Crushes |
✨Dilemma✨ by Lyn Lapid | Crushes |
What does it mean if a guy touches your waist?
This guy in my grade is so strange. I’m a bi male. And he always used to say hi to me, slide up on my stories sometimes, and start awkward conversation on occasion. And then he just stopped. Idk why but I always thought he was attracted to me I just got that vibe even though he very much presents as straight. And I didn’t reciprocate. Because frankly I wasn’t interested. So maybe that’s why he stopped? Idk. But then at prom he didn’t even say hi to me he just walked right past me. And he was basically following me and my friends around the dance floor all night. And then he grabbed my waist from behind while I was dancing with my friend. And just stayed there for a good couple of seconds. What does this mean? | Crushes |
Anyone up for a chat? | Crushes |
I have the biggest crush on a close (girl) friend. One common friend of ours knows and told me i should tell her to keep sincerity even though she 90% doesn't like me back.
The thing is it's almost summer (we are in uni) and I'm worried that if I tell her we will go our separate ways completely and our friendship won't be the same when we go back for the next year. We probably won't hang out in summer even if I don't tell her, but if I do there will be an extra layer of awkwardness and I don't want to lose her friendship.
Any advice is welcome | Crushes |
I (23M) and my crush (26F) met at the musical theatre society at my university a couple of years ago but have only really got to know each other and become close over the past year. In that time I have fallen completely in love with her.
So the other day we went out for drinks and were joined by a couple of other friends later on but it was just us two for most of the night. A couple at the table next to us started chatting with us and eventually came over to our table. As it was just me and my crush when this started they assumed we were a couple and we had to tell them we weren’t, despite this the women started ranting about how we looked really cute with each other and that despite only having observed us chatting for a few minutes we looked to have loads of chemistry and there was a definite spark.
I didn't really know how to react cause I am in love with her and these compliments made me feel really good as no one had said anything like that about us before.
My crush managed to play it off and eventually the conversation moved on but I can’t stop thinking about what was said and it made me want to be with her even more.
(For context we have already been on one date but are not currently dating due to her personal/family situation meaning she’s not in a position to start a relationship right now. I understood and accepted this and she has said this is the only thing stopping her from going forwards) | Crushes |
Hi!
I have had an crush on this girl for some time now, and i've never felt so broken.
Back in the time when i got an crush on her, she wasnt extremely popular and she was the best person in the world, also we've danced together in an prom like thing.
Now, she is touchy with everyone, even with people she doesnt like. She is also together with this guy, who absolutely doesnt deserve her. (He almost got a girl pregnant when he was 14, sells drugs.)
But it seems like she doesnt care about it, nor does anyone else. The bad thing is, i have comperition for her in some guys that are also popular and more athletic than me and dont exactly have social anxiety.
Idk what to do, because i feel terrible and heartbroken everytime i see her with that Guy, and everytime she even talks to someone who is a Guy, i feel terribly jealous.
So, what should i do?
Thank you! | Crushes |
I have had a crush on my friend for a few months now, and in recent weeks she seems to be getting a lot closer with me. Two ish months ago we were at a party, and i should've kissed her, we were really close. however after that, she seemed to almost push me away, and was really close with out other friend. But like i said, recently she seems to be getting a lot closer with me, and i think she may like me back. she would let me down easy and i really want to tell her: i don't think it would ruin the friendship at all. the question is, How do i do it?
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today i am going to ask my crush if she wants to be girlfriends along with something i made her and a plush! is there anything else i should add or do?? im really nervous or should i do it over text? should i write a letter? how do i say it | Crushes |
basically i have a crush on someone, this someone likes the idea of matching jewelry with someone
now obviously my immediate idea was “oh shit! i should offer to match!”
but the thiinggg is… i’d be the one buying/making it. so what exactly am i supposed to do? offer her the other half and be like “u wanna match?”
i’m not sure why i’m so confused, but i literally have no idea how to approach her and propose the idea of it and there’s always a chance she wouldn’t want to, so that’s even worse. imagine someone literally offering you jewelry so you could match and you don’t even want to match with them 😭
advice? how should i ask her? should i buy/make it first? any plans? help me reddit, i’m really bad with romance 👍
edit: as someone asked, i’ll also explain our closeness. i think we’re decent friends, we got close very fast and ppl define us as inseparable a lot, so, yeah, pretty close | Crushes |
I saw a post about him saying he will be moving to another state this fall. I feel so stupid for believing I would get to see him again at least one more time. He’s literally the only person I feel this deep of a connection with. It’s strange. I just woke up from a dream about him and I’m trying not to cry. This is how the dream went: I got invited to this party and when I arrived, he was there. I just looked at him sadly thinking he hated my guts then suddenly he starts making jokes to me like he used to. We started talking and he said sum about how I probably hate him and I just walked over ti him and hugged him and tight as possible and told him I never hated him. I told him how much I always loved him and that I thought about him everyday since we saw each other. In the end of the dream, he was helping me get sum accessories out of my hair for whatever reason pfttt but then he gently pulled me back into him and he just held me. Then I woke up nooo. Anyways yeah Idk what to do. | Crushes |
You know where this is about to go…
Me (18F) and my best friend (19M) have been best friends ever since high school, and after we graduated from high school, our friendship became a lot closer than expected. We texted each other literally everyday, played video games together, and facetimed from time to time.
He would legit always find the opportunity to flirt with me. Let’s just say, he was attracted to me sexually but I told him that I don’t want to have any sexual relationship with him even though we both flirted nonstop. Keep in mind, this was all just texting.
But the fact that he kept me giving me attention just to receive a head made me so uncomfortable and heartbroken. But of course, he didn’t have any problem when I denied his request. And he even stopped mentioning it after that.
Sometimes, he would give me mixed signals, like me and him talk about very deep topics that only I know about him and no one else. For example, there was one time when we both talked about sex, and out of nowhere he told me that he wouldn’t have a problem falling in love with me if I were the mother of his child. This boy doesn’t believe in something that’s called love, so idk why he told me that.
Anyways, the best thing is that after I told him that I wouldn’t give him head, he started to lose interest. We even stopped talking for a fucking year and a half. One day, he told me that he’s talking to this girl, and all of the sudden, they’re in a relationship now. Then he began texting me again after I moved on from him.
Although he complained about the distance (his gf lives in another state) and how she’s not religious, he’s still with her. I even asked him if he loves her and could imagine a future with her (this time during a phone call), he seemed so unsure and replied: “what even is love? Who am I to drive miles away just to see her?” I just don’t get him…
I really thought I moved on but now I’m being attached to him once again, and I feel like there is no going back anymore. What the fuck do i do? I really love him but I can’t ever tell him that cause I’m the biggest pussy, plus he has a gf now, too…. Fuck, i hate this, i hate my life… | Crushes |
I'm short sighted so i take some time to recognise someone so sometimes i stare. A lot of times it ends up being this girl i like.
We don't talk at all in the past 4 years. She turns the other way every time i pass her and avoids eye contact and when i try texting her this year, she replies like hours or even a day later and they're kinda dry.
I think she might think i'm a creep. If you caught someone staring for too long would you think the same? Could i turn this around? | Crushes |
everyday i talk to this one girl ive known since kindergarten. to put it simply, i lost all contact with her around second grade and started making contact with her around fifth grade. one of my best friends was talking with her and she didnt like him back and found him annoying but he almost got them in a relationship. which at the time i was fine with because i didnt like her at the time. a few months later she comes to me and asks if i can help her with something. i agree and guess what the something is, she wants to try and get with my best friend. another few months pass by and i still didnt really think i liked her but the more we talked the more i started to like her. my best friend doesnt like her anymore and she has decided to give up on him which i think is a good thing because this girl is the only thing i have on my mind. she keeps giving off hints that she might like me. for example, my cousin who is in our discord server told me to change my nickname (which is “bennywenny” to something else and my the girl said not to because she thought it was funny and she would occasionally call me that. i found it awesome that she would do that. sometimes though, she texts me at random times in the night and as a 14 year old boy im awake for most of them. i basically become her therapist. i have no clue if she actually likes me back or if shes just being nice. shes an amazing person and one of the best people i know. wow i typed a lot. this is probably the wrong subreddit but i need some help here. | Crushes |
I just turned 20 and he’s 24, we’re coworkers. I liked him immediately and have now worked with him for almost 2 years already. I’ve never confessed to anyone in my entire life bc I get so nervous just being around them, I feel like I will mess up if I’m speaking, also I don’t want to watch him read it in front of me and see his reaction be like “oh 😟…” I’ll probably give it to him when I’m leaving idk???😭 But I’m scared he’ll think it’s childish or something and think less of me bc I didn’t verbally say it, which I can see why. He’s never dated anyone and ngl I’m pretty sure that he’s never been confessed to either so that gives me some kind of hope that he might not think less of me. Honestly, I don’t need a reply from him, I just want to get it out and move on, most likely never will but ykwim!? | Crushes |
### Just talk to your crush instead of staring at them. just talk to your crush instead of stalking them. just talk to your crush instead of waiting for the perfect time. just talk to your crush instead of crying. just talk to your crush. just talk to your crush | Crushes |
I had to tell him that i like him cause some things happened and he would’ve found out eventually but i didn’t want it to come out from someone else (long story)
Im a guy (and he is too) and i very easily pass as straight, i get stalked/asked out by girls a lot but never by guys
i live in a mildly-moderately homophobic country for reference
I decided to tell him any typed down a really long message which i mentioned that im gay in like 6 times
And he just responded with „you’re gay?“
I said you only got that out of my whole message? Yes.
And he said „aha“
„I wont tell anyone“
„But just dont talk to me“
He unfollowed my instagram later at night
I hate my life
I had a few final exams today and i avoided him like the plague
Im so upset about this | Crushes |
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I was listening to it last night and i was literally half crying without any noise 😭😭😭 | Crushes |
I have been going to the starbucks in the grocery store by my house for the past two years but two months constantly. They never call out or even ask for names here they call people by drink order.There is this new barista who I have a crush on and I'm not sure if she is flirting with me or just being nice.
I walked up to the counter and she knew my order before I could even say anything and I was shocked and she started laughing when she seen the look on my face. She passes me my drink and smiled and told me to enjoy the rest of my day. The next day I came in same thing then she asked my name I told her and spelled it out because I was thinking she was going to write it on the cup. After I told her I turn and look around me noticed I'm the only one here. She seen me looking and says I'm just trying to get the regulars names which made since but then I'm thinking she only seen me twice how does she know I'm a regular.
When I came in a few days later she was working and when I walked up to the counter she asked how I'm doing as always and says my name. She told me how she is getting off early and is going to the zoo and I was very nervous so I paused and then said wait did you say the zoo and she says yes and starts to laugh at me and we talk a little about them being out of oatmilk. Before she slides my drink slowly to me and smiles says my name and tells me to enjoy the rest if my day.
Next time I seen her I she was was working with another barista and he was taking orders she was making drinks. I watched a little to see how she interacts with other customers as I wait in line to see if I can tell if she is flirting with me or just being nice. I come up to the counter and she sees me says hey how are you like she is genuinely happy to see me. The guy who is working there finished making the people ahead of me drink and was about to grab my cup and make my drink. She stopped him and made it for me and then said my name and asked if I wanted whip which she knows I do then passes me my drink smiles and says my name again tells me to enjoy my day. I thought it was a little funny how she said my name 4times during that interaction.
The next time I came in same thing takes my order and as we are talking about our day she is making my drink she says my name and passes my cup to me. When I got to work I noticed she wrote my name on the cup and used the o to make a smiley face. Which really brightened my day. I thought that was a little flirty si ce I was the only one there and there is no need to write my name on my cup. | Crushes |
I don't know how to respond to him!!!!!! I mean, we already talked things over before, and idk if things will stay or whatever but like, he's adorable!!!! and so full of love!!!!!! I want him to know that, but he's goin through it and I don't want to mess things up for him. idk, I feel like I know the answer to this, but like. how do I convey to him that I still like him and think he's adorable without being obvious, lol
I'm a hopeless romantic | Crushes |
WE WERE TALKING FOR LIKE 3 HOURS BRO we talked about so serious stuff then we got goofy and im talking super goofy like goofy from micky mouse type goofy and this is not making any sense im sorry IM JUST SO HAPPYYYYH | Crushes |
ohmygosh, this guy I met at a concert is the absolute cutest guy, and he's adorable and please keep talking about the things you like!!!! it's been awhile since I've felt like this, I didn't think I would or could for abit, but I'm glad I ran into this dork
gosh he's such a cutie💖💖 I just really wanted to gush about this somewhere, lol
there's just too much care and love for this guy!!!! ohmygoodness!!!! 💖💖💖😳😳 | Crushes |
this goes back to my elementary school days. i knew him since the second grade. his name was ayden. ayden always liked learning new things and one was sign language. he learned the basics and he taught me yes and no and stuff like that. i still remember clearly to this day that it was the last of fourth grade. he told me he wanted to show me something. he signed the 🤟 gesture which means "i love you". we probably didnt know much about love then but now i know that i love him and that i will always love him. miss you, princess ayden. (he hated it when i called him that) | Crushes |
Hey I need with my crush (Whom We will be calling Nicole) and I’m bit annoying & sometimes creepy but I have a huge Crush on her I just screw up everything I disturbed her too much annoyed her too much I tried to troll with Nicole with fake st spoilers & she blocked me from every social media known to man I would go to our mutual friend (that I deeply envy because of their relationship) but he will probably think that I’m using him. guilt & sadness took over been crying like or worse than when my grandmother died (my mother figure) I feel like I just don’t simply like her I’m in love with her I feel like I would spend the rest of my life with her but I screwed up & think Won’t her get her back but I don’t wanna lose her just yet because she’s my world even tho she’s “just my crush” sometimes I don’t do a person with a crush Would but how can I win her back or did I fucked it too much I would tell her everything I feel but I told her I don’t have crush on her anymore(which it was lie) & she probably could think I’m lying & could think I’m trying to manipulate her or something but I feel like a corpse in a living body without her & Im using Reddit as a last resort… so please try to help me or just be honest P.S I drew her as Batman see r/tooafraidtoask or something like that to see that post… | Crushes |
I'm a 2022 graduate and my crush was of the same year. I didn't develop a crush on her until towards the very end of school. I hated myself for it, knowing that either I shoot my shot before graduation or I'll likely never see her again. In the end I never admitted my feelings, but I knew it was for the best. For one, I never really thought she liked me that way that I liked her and for two in the long run with both of us having different plans for our future after graduation I don't think it would have worked out. It hurt sharing classes with her until the very end of school knowing it'll never happen. She probably never knew how much I liked her and I think its for the best, but man it hurt.
Now that it's been almost a month into summer my feelings and thoughts about her has mostly faded. It's allowed me to find new passion in developing myself to be the best person I can be.
I still think about her occasionally and I secretly hopes she finds peace in her life and someone wonderful, even if that person isn't me.
Sorry for ranting, but for those of you who still have that crush I truly hope the best for you. We all deserve love and its painful to be next to the person you have developed feelings for without them knowing or reciprocating those feelings back to you.
Wishing you all the best,
-DeadlyKitte098 | Crushes |
Sometimes from the corner of my eye I can notice this girl that I like, intensly staring at me, but I act like I don't notice. What does that mean. | Crushes |
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