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The day I confessed happened in March. On the bus ride home, he said "Hey let's sit together!"He really likes making things awkward. (I'm so glad no one knew how embarrassing that moment was)
I tried to hug him the other day (it was the last day of school) and he was a big meanie and pushed me away. meanie /j
The same day, he asked me if he could sign my shirt and now my shirt says "Jonina" (joe-nee-nuh)
His real name is Jonah and I was one of the few ppl who got my shirt signed Jonina lol
One time he got called a s-l- you knoe the rest ;-; | Crushes |
He said he would appreciate if I made a batch, and even if I didn’t the thought still counted 😗😗 he’s one of my bsf so idk if he likes me but if he sees this pls make the first move 😭😭 | Crushes |
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my bsf who happens to beh meh croosh is coming over soon
yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaass
slay gurlboss me | Crushes |
So, he really likes to talk to me
But he really doesn't like talking about howww
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i like him ;-;
He probably hates me, but I'm wondering lol | Crushes |
Hi all, so I 25/m went to see a doctor for the first time in forever yesterday. I will preface this with I hate taking myself to see doctors as I'm usually an ignore it type of guy. But anyway I was shocked when my Doctor walked in, I was expecting a cold and distanced person who was just going through the motions of my appointment. But when she walked in she talked with a voice that showed actual human and caring emotion. I quickly started to feel off guard I was trying to keep a straight face as I couldn't help but notice her. I'd never really been attracted to older women before but something about her was calling to me. And the whole experience of her examining me was crazy I told her personal things I would only tell a doctor or significant other but they way she responded made me feel cared for it was insane. Then when we got to the part where she touched me I got butterflies in my chest and I was so confused over the whole scenario. I am hard-core crushing over my sweet gentle doctor and I can't wait for these next 6 months to be over so I can see her again. I just wanted to share this. | Crushes |
me and my crush were texting ofc, he asks me if ive ever been on a date so i say no and also include ive never had a boyfriend. he texted back and didnt respond to what i had said. totally changed the subject LOL does that mean he doesnt like that ?
for more background, were lightly flirty with each other and hes invited me to places. help🧍🏻♀️ | Crushes |
I need your guy’s opinion on this | Crushes |
hes pretty loud and extra but idc. hes literally soooo super smart and also sings sooooo hmu dude. his yearbook photo is so fuckinsdhjeh pretty i basicaly died. how does everyone sleep on him like cmojn ;;
having a dilemma my bsf thinks hes weird and annoying but idr care lmao | Crushes |
this is just for fun !! | Crushes |
I have finally built up the courage to do this. I am gonna ask her out tomorrow on my last day of school. I have had a crush on her since the start of the school year and I just haven't had enough courage to ask her yet. Tomorrow is my chance, and I'm gonna take it. I am super nervous, so, WISH ME LUCK!!!!! | Crushes |
Im on mobile so sorry for any weird formatting. So I’ve liked this guy a while and I finally had the balls to become friends with him. Tonight we met for a walk and we talked a lot. He went as far as to tell me that my hair looked nice and I had an amazing laugh. On the way back home we talked about love and stuff, which really made me feel like he liked me. I was totally convinced. I told him personal stuff and how love is a very personal and emotional subject to me (I’ve been an emotional mess lately, so that’s my fault). He told me with such happiness in his eyes that he likes another girl. I know he wasn’t lying. He really does love her. After that I insisted I walked home by myself and then cried the way home. I’ve never had a boy like me back. I think I’m pretty unloveable. He’s the coolest guy I’ve ever met so I don’t want to stop talking to him. I can’t talk to him anymore. Do I continue being friends with him and feel terrible every time I see him or what? | Crushes |
how could i hint to him i like him??? google and wiki how have not been helpful yall | Crushes |
So there’s this guy that I used to talk to and things kinda ended badly with us hating each other, but he’s changed since then so I added him back on snap.We’ve texted a bit but we’re really just only snapping.I also know he has an interest in me bc he was texting my friend saying “she got hotter” and he was texting my girl bsf like “I’m snapping ur friend rn LLL” tryna make her like jealous *dw my friend thinks it’s funny and she was the one who encouraged me to talk with him* so how should I start a conversation with him without being overly friendly?? | Crushes |
We are G12 students in a boarding school. Boys are completely separated from boys, even in classes. I never got to talk to her. I text many of her close friends on WhatsApp, but she doesn't have my number. It would be too weird if I texted her without having a real subject to bring. She also isn't that easy-come-easy-go girl. We are friends on Facebook and follow each other on Instagram, but still haven't spoken yet, as she also rarely posts a thing. Please if you guys have any ideas on what I can do to start a conversation with her.... | Crushes |
so i’ve had a crush on this guy for nearly the whole school yr and i told him that i liked him and he rejected me. three months later, however, he asked me to the graduation dance and i said yes. yesterday at the dance a bunch of our friends kept pushing us together to dance and we finally did (twice !) and it was so great. later that night he sent me a text that basically said thanks for letting me dance w him and how much it meant to him and i’m screaming like actually omg | Crushes |
So my crush said that her friend(our classmate) had a crush on her.. and I made it really awkward by said "welp 1+ lezgo" and she got mad .. I just did not want to trouble her by being jealous.. well that was the wrong thing.. idk anymore.. I tried to say I just said that to not trouble her by my jealousy but I think she needs some space so I moved to my alt acc for now.. I'll probably not say anything until the time to pass our modules comes so tommorow-...hmmm wtf should I do-? | Crushes |
What does it mean if a guy touches your waist?
This guy in my grade is so strange. I’m a bi male. And he always used to say hi to me, slide up on my stories sometimes, and start awkward conversation. And then he just stopped. Idk why but I always thought he was attracted to me I just got that vibe even though he’s very much been with women. And I didn’t reciprocate. Because I wasn’t interested. So maybe that’s why he stopped? Idk. But then at prom he didn’t even say hi to me he just walked right past me. And he was basically following me around the dance floor all night. And then he grabbed my waist from behind while I was dancing with my friend. And just stayed there for a good 5 seconds. What does this mean? | Crushes |
the girl that i've liked since freshman year (i'm a junior) is now my girlfriend AAAAAAAAA
i'm insanely socially awkward, if i could do it so can you. to the person reading this, you GOT this | Crushes |
okay, so i (14f) met this boy(14m) a few weeks ago when school started back.
from the moment i saw him i thought he was cute, so i spoke to him. we sit next to each other in some of the classes that we share, so it was very easy to find reasons to talk to him.
we’re now friends, and we have so much in common. he’s also very sweet and kind of innocent.
when he talks to me he has this smile and it makes my heart flip, and he always focuses his full attention on me when we’re in a conversation. if he sees me he’ll always say hi, even if he’s with someone else.
i like this boy so much, but i’m pretty sure he only sees me as friend. his birthday is coming up, so maybe i could invite him to do something??? | Crushes |
My life felt has felt like a constant repetitive day, a day I could not escape, an abyss I do not remember entering and no way of exiting, an endless maze of numbness and unhappiness with crumbs or distracting joy I felt slip between my fingers no matter how how I grasped at its trails, you entered my life like a passerby , someone who I accepted into my mind but payed little attention to except thoughts of who you were under the shy persona I perceived. Back to the maze I entered forgetting about my thoughts and distractions as I do. Then you entered my life like a slice of ecstasy that I consumed for 2 hours twice a week, ur jokes acting as maps through the maze your advice acting as a reminder that hope is there. Although my venture is at a short pause and I still have a long way of work you are my smile. | Crushes |
She just told me about a crush she has on one of our other friends 😭 I somehow thought I had a chance 😭 I’m so stupid | Crushes |
I would post in one of the relationship advice subreddits, but their rules are kinda strict, so here i am..
Shes my girlfriend, but.....
Whenever i see her in the halls, she doesnt even say hi. I think she notices me, but no way to know for sure
When my class goes outside and shes waiting for her friends, she runs right past me and doesnt even look at me.
We dont have any classes together and im pretty sure the only time I've talked to her in past few days is her trying to trade goldfish for a slice of pizza at lunch
I dont sit with her at lunch because they always run off before im done eating, sometimes into the gurls bathroom (the ONE place i cant go)
Im starting to question whether this relationship was meant to be.... | Crushes |
Yesterday I was with a friend and a female coworker. We regularly go for a drink together. My coworker regularly gives me hugs and always sits next to me. My friend(also friends with my coworker) asked me if I would “do her” right in front of her.
I didn’t realy respond do that eventough I would do her I don’t want so say that in front of her but I also don’t wanna say no. She also makes jokes about us being together, having s** etc. When my friends asked if he could sit between us, she said “yes, come sit between mom and dad”. We both burst out in laughter while my friend was like wtf did you just say.
She and my friend also told me about her having a boyfriend. I thought by myself “shit I’ve waited to long again”. I just responded with “realy” in a let down voice. Then she looked at me and told me she was just kidding.
She started acting like this after I broke up with my old crush. | Crushes |
Title explains it | Crushes |
We're still basically strangers. One day a while ago I complimented her on her hair, and I've never even seen her before that day. The next day she walked up to me, "Hey, you didn't say anything about my hair today"
It became a thing for me to just tell her it looks nice. Wasn't crushing on her before... but uh... yeah. Didn't even know her name for a while. Sometimes when I comment she's flourish it as she says thank you, or one time she "I was hoping you'd say something, I braided it, see?"
"Oh. Just for me?"
"Just for you, yeah"
The other day she had it up in a ponytail. She didn't say anything, but I walked up, "Nice ponytail"
"Thanks, just kinda felt like doing this today"
"Well, if you want my honest opinion, it looks nicer when you have it down and it's all wavy and curly"
She just said ok as she was trying not to laugh. Next few days she was going around with it in that described manner. Day before yesterday it was extra fancy with a couple braids in it, but never had the time to say hi to her. Yesterday was talking to her, "Hey good to see you"
"Good to see you, happy friday"
"As for your hair yesterday-"
Her eyes LIT UP "Oh so you did notice, why didn't you say anything?"
"Well there didn't seem to be the time, I'd love to comment especially when it's clear you put effort into making it look nice and pretty"
"I actually had a really bad day because you didn't say anything about it"
"Well don't think I didn't notice. And before I miss my chance today, I think it looks nice"
"Aww, thank you"
Next time I saw her I was going to propose trading numbers, because we're not going to work again together for almost 12 days, but basically I checked her out mid-conversation, she started trying not to laugh and after I realized I fucked up I just walked away silently (long story). But, yes/no? Ask her number next time I see her at work? We're still strangers, just know each others names. | Crushes |
We text a bit and she always give a good response and asks me questions as well but I dunno if she likes me that way, example: I complimented her dog and said “ cute dog, bischon ?” And she responded no actually cavishion. Is it a bad sign she avoided the first part. We’ve only met once or twice irl as we went to different schools, she also can take a while to open and respond to my snaps/chats. Could she ever like me or does it seem like she isn’t interested | Crushes |
we’re friends and apparently he really likes me. | Crushes |
For background context I had a crush on my girl best friend and I think I just let her go a week ago. He kinda confessed while I liked the girl so I was very confused and now I’m unsure.
I was in denial for like 2 days after he confessed that he actually liked me. Then once I got out of denial, I liked going to school to see him, I got super happy and overjoyed when I was out of denial. I never blushed or my face never got red around him like how I liked the girl. But I did get nervous around him. Then summer break hit. New school year. He impressed me and I stare at him kinda a lot. We aren’t in any classes but that’s ok. I still see him during school and cross country. I know he still likes me I think, but idk. I think my problem is, I am on and off about how he looks. I either think he is pretty or average. But I also have no intention of dating someone and far too nervous to try and be friends with him first. I may be against dating a boy for some reason but idk, it keeps going on and off, either I like him or I’m unsure. Maybe I just am more physically attracted to that girl and not him?
Oh also like every night I remember my dreams, and he is in most of them | Crushes |
So i have this huge crush on this dude. But the thing is, i never ever talk to him. at all. i’ve only talked to him a few times and whenever he’s near me i freeze up. i look away and i make sure i don’t see him. yesterday during school was sorta interesting.
lemme tell u a few more facts about him and me bc i’ll be posting a lot more abt him and my journey.
1) he plays baseball
2) i love baseball huge fan of yankees
3) my brother plays baseball
4) he’s white, german
5) i’m half white half japanese , with a german last name
6) both jewish
7) he is pretty popular, but he’s the quiet one of the popular boy group.
8) he’s very smart
9) he has an ex who is a year older than him
10) he knows someone in the school likes him
11) the only class i have with him is german (language)
now, here are all the conversations i’ve had with him
1) i gave him paper and he said thank you (does that count as a conversation idk)
2) i made him fall. yup. he tripped over my foot and so i texted him “hey sorry i tripped you u alr?” and he replied “lmao yea” and i said “ok lol”
3) we bump into each other A LOT
THATS ALL IM SORRY YALL BUT THATS ALL!!!!!
so yesterday when me and my friend group were walking back to our lockers after recess, (me and my friends are farely popular, like i have a lot of popular friends and i get invited to things and stuff but i don’t eat lunch with them) the popular boy group started singing behind us and so we looked around and started singing with them. We all were laughing and stuff and then i noticed my crush was just walking with them, not singing but just smiling. i realized my locker past so i had to push through the big group and then i bumped into him. 💀 he didn’t say anything, as he is very quite. when someone’s makes jokes in class and the whole class laughs, he doesn’t really laugh. that’s what i really like about him. but i was like “haha we always bump into each other, right?” Because we do!!! and he said “yeah it’s pretty funny by now.” and we both started laughing and he said “see you later!” and walked away.
THE END
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ALSO ANY TIPS FOR ME TO TALK TO HIM???? | Crushes |
I need help, my distance crush wants to see a film with me but idk any web or app to see them 😭😭😭 it’s now or never
If you know any ^^ | Crushes |
that they like me back. but god. I'm really feeling it | Crushes |
He always helps me if I do something wrong or if I don't know something. Last week we stared at each other a lot more than other times.
Sometimes we would smile at each other. I sometimes notice him staring me and I'm scared to look back, and when he looks away I see him smile.
He sits at the window side and I at the door side. He always comes up to me to talk about something or just to say hello. He usually doesn't leave my side even when we are in silence.
This week he sat in front of me. I mean he could sit anywhere else or stay at his desk, but he didn't. He remembers smaller details about me like where I live and what I like.
I always wonder why is he talking to me all the time, because I don't think my company is that good. Nobody did that before. I'm also an introvert so our conversation doesn't flow really well, but it's getting better.
So, do you think he likes me, or just sees me as a friend? I won't get my hopes up, but I'd like to know your opinions as well.
Thank you for you answer, and sorry for spelling mistakes :) | Crushes |
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we were dating for a few days and after like 6 days he unfollowed me and since his account is private I had a feeling he's hiding something so I followed him with my spam acc that no one knows abt and he posted something on his stories the first thing I saw was honestly disgusting he literally posted lying abt his age, I'm not sure if that's his real age or not and I saw him flirting with another girl.. I was honestly in shock and what made me upset is that he didn't even have the guts to break up with me but oh well I honestly dgaf anymore
at least I can like my other crush without feeling guilty 😍 | Crushes |
I've never been so proud of myself. if you read my last post you know how amazing this is... | Crushes |
Yesterday I went to a professional basketball game and one of the new players caught my eyes. I was sitting courtside and we made eye contact quite a few times :) as a former basketballer myself I think me and him would have a lot of common intrests so should i go talk to him next friday after his game? I need tips on how to approach him without looking like a massive fan girl or desperate
UPDATE: i found out his practice schedule so I can “accidentally” bump into him and start a convo someday this week!!! Still don’t know what yo say tho |: | Crushes |
Okay, let’s get things started off. I work with this guy and he barley talks to me. One day at a friend’s party, he randomly comes up to me and goes, “Hey! Sorry I didn’t get to say hi to you earlier, blah blah blah.” And was clearly drunk. We made small talk before he went back to drinking with his pals.
Second time, I go to a work friend’s birthday party and I get a little tipsy, and I spot him and ask him if he wants to take a shot with me. Later on the night, one of his friends, who he was watching, had blacked out on the couch so I had to go and help him up and put him in a guest room. He follows after me to the room and some other friends to help his blacked-out friend on the bed in the guest room. While I’m the room trying to settle his friend down, he keeps insisting to go back outside to drink, but knowing myself, I had to check to see if this person was doing okay before leaving him behind. My other friends had got the situation handled, so him and I went back outside to take another shot. I left the party and got super tipsy and told him that it was nice getting to know him because we barley talked and knew eachother. He goes to say that it kind of hurts his feelings that I’ve said that because we work together. I didn’t really mean it like that, but since I was tipsy I didn’t realized what I said and how I said it. I give him a hug and say goodbye to everyone else at the party.
After the party, I come into work and have a little small talk with him and he was sort of distant. This is the first time we’ve actually talked to eachother at work. He was kind of nervous and probably shy because I’ve been told he is really awkward around people. I tried to get to know him and possibly start some small talk, but this guy was kind of giving me quick answers. I could tell he was kind of nervous because he would clasp his hands around his mouth and sort of look away and then back to me when we talked. Later that day, some coworkers and I came together to refill some sauces and someone had asked how the party went. He goes and says “it was fun because I got to drink with (my name).” I’m not too sure what this means, but I’m guessing it’s because we got to hang out with eachother. During that same day, he kept standing close to me. Whenever I would stand somewhere restocking things, he would be close by and I mean really close by. Like, there is a very big open space, but he stands super close by me. Sometimes when I’m busy packing up food, he would come around and wash his hands and I can sort of see from my peripheral vision that he’s sort of looking at my direction. At times he would joke around and go, “haha, I like that.” But I caught him saying that to other people too. He is always sort of quiet whenever I see him, but he’s always standing close by me whenever he has nothing to do. And sometimes tries to joke around. I want to try to respond back to him, but idk what to say because whenever he says something to me, I reply back with something quick and make it seem like I’m uninterested.
I kind of like him too, but I’m not too sure if he’s just a weird dude with awkward social skills who wants to be friends, or has sincere feelings for me? I’m not too clear about his sexuality too because I am a guy.
What do y’all think? Personally I feel like he might like me, but at the same time, this guy is socially awkward. I told my sister about it and she goes and says that he’s probably just trying to be friendly. So, now I have no clue. | Crushes |
Sadge | Crushes |
There’s a girl who’s in the same friend group as me, I like her a lot but I’m not sure if I like her romantically or as just a really good friend. Feeling sprang up while moving on from a crush that gave many mixed signals and ended up not liking me back. I am wondering if this is because I used her as a rebound and now my heart is confused as f- | Crushes |
So I, 16m, met this amazing girl, 17f, in this summer camp like thing and we bonded almost instantly, having loads in common. By the end of it we got each other’s details and chat relatively often, and she’s now a member of my dnd group to. I fell hard and because of pressure from my friends, who had very little hope it would arise to anything, I told her how I felt. Her response wasn’t what I had expected though. Instead of a flat out no, it was more of a “not yet”. She essentially said she wanted to get to know me more and see how things went and initially I was satisfied with this, seeing it to be quite fair but I’ve been thinking more on it and don’t know if I should be very hopeful or not. What do we think? Any and all help is greatly appreciated. | Crushes |
I (17M) texted a really great girl for a pretty long time through lockdown and the conversations were all either deep, flirty, fun, meaningful, or funny. We fell out of contact after she broke her phone, and I've had next to no good opportunities in the last ~10 months that lockdown has been over to spend time with her.
Last school year, and this year, we had no classes together and she came to almost none of the out-of-school activities (class parties, events, etc) where I looked forward to hanging out with her and maybe even asking her out. What's worse is that when I am around her, I get tongue tied, so the conversation is always pretty short and light. My crush isn't an introvert, but she has a pretty small friend circle and I only have one class with one of her close friends that I hardly know, so I can't really ask her for help. To pile onto everything else, her parents are also quite strict, so she only goes out (malls, restaurants) with her friends.
I feel so hopeless and don't even know where to begin. I also don't just want to give up on her, because I've never felt this way about someone before. What can I do? | Crushes |
I love her so much, but I get so incredibly nervous around her that I get quiet and don’t say anything. I’m afraid I come off as uninterested and/or depressed to her, when in reality I try to hide I’m blushing like crazy and my pulse is so high when around her.
My friends just tell me to talk more to her and I want to, I truly do, but I just freeze up and barely say anything to her. Is there any way I could calm down? Can I change my mindset or something?
I want her to know that I like her but that won’t happen if I can’t even talk to her. This is killing me inside. | Crushes |
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Still debating if I should reach out to him and what I would even say. It’s been 3 years since last time I saw them and maybe he’d get weirded out or creeped out by me. Would it be selfish of me? | Crushes |
Please help me I really love this girl | Crushes |
My online friend Ian said he likes someone in our gc but won’t tell me who. How do yk if it’s you? Ps: don’t ask for his @ cuz he’s not on Reddit | Crushes |
I know I shouldn't be in a relationship with him as my parent would never accept him but my feelings for him are way too strong so I'm ready to face all the consequences and so is he. So I'm wondering how I can successfully hide our relationship from my parents. Also, if you've been in a secret relationship please tell me about your experience. Thank you! | Crushes |
Honestly I am so confused right now, I don't effing know what I did wrong.
On a ceremony I asked him in front of his friends to take photos with me, and I also asked him to walk for a slight distance to take photos for me and my parents. His friend made comments of "you're so pro". It was pretty awkward.
After that day, he literally was avoiding me like he didn't even look at me when I am the one doing talking. Before that it was all good like we would chitchat about random staff, I feel like that day was the turning point. But honestly I don't know what I did wrong. Why is he avoiding me?
I realised that and I apologised to him for making him feel awkward and I don't want to lose a friend, and he said it's alright and he has always treated me as a good friend. But to be frank what he's doing rn is not definitely an act of treating me as a good friend: avoiding eye contact and basically avoiding any occasions of staying alone with me. Suddenly losing a close friend makes me feel so bad because I thought he's trustworthy and reliable.
Any advice and solutions? | Crushes |
So i (M20) confessed to my best friend(F19) that i like her but she didnt feel the same. We were kinda in a flirtation-ship like we used to talk as if we’re a couple,i knew that but i caught feeling and she didnt.Now the part that hurts the most is that maybe i ruined the best friendship ive had in years.She says nothing’s gonna change but i feel like the friendship will die out in a week or two.
Im just so heartbroken for my friendship.
I haven’t felt hungry for the past 20hrs..could only sleep for 5 hours when I usually sleep for 8+ hours.
I dont know how to cope with this. | Crushes |
so like we used to be in the same club in uni like 2yrs ago n he randomly added me on fb so we started chatting n we’ve gone out to eat a couple times (like today will be the 4th in 2 weeks…)
we text quite a lot daily n likke how do i tell if he likes me back | Crushes |
Title explains | Crushes |
and, also important - in how long do you become distant if the girl doesn’t initiate hanging out/convos?
my issue is that this guy I like has shown interest for a while (it’s been very up and down tho- one day i’m everything to him and the next day i’m a stranger??!), but recently, in general it’s really gone down. it’s made me realize that he is always the one initiating everything, and i think it’s because i’m so traumatized from past relationships where i’ve been called needy that I feel like he will find me annoying if I reach out or want to hang out. I really like him and I think I will ask to hang out this weekend, but idk. i’m just insecure that he’s over me and will just find me to be a pest. advice? | Crushes |
So, I confessed to my crush last week and she accepted. Now, I'm unable to talk. For some context, she confessed to me last year and I couldn't talk to her. I'm making an effort to attempt to but I got nothing good. She's usually with at least one of her friends andi don't know how to approach that. I'm trying to make an effort but I don't think it's good enough. Any advice? | Crushes |
So me and this girl like each other and she doesn't want to date bc my friend is an ass to her, which is reasonable bc I wouldnt want to date her if her friends were assholes to me, so last night we were on call and I confronted my friend about being a dick to her and one thing that came up was this night me and him got in a big argument over her and he changed our friend groups groupchat name to something rude about this girl, it stayed like that for probably 1 month or so and I never thought to tell her and I didn't change it bc I didn't want them to bring anything up about her again. Well then last night I told her about this name and everything and she got mad at me which I also understand, but this girl has been my best friend for years and she said wants to kind of distance herself from me now bc I fucked up really really bad this time. I need to make it up to her and it needs to be really good but im not good at this stuff so I need help really bad. I can't lose this girl and I might drive off a bridge if we aren't friends anymore, I can't talk to anyone else the way I talk to her and she means more to me than anything or anyone else on this planet. I have to find a way to make it up to her. | Crushes |
man howtf am i gonna survive for next three years see him sit w her, be with her, MANNNNNNN howtf whatf
I don't wanna attend college
I can't see this right infront of my eyes everyday | Crushes |
she just- wow. I, Male 16, Just had my first ever crush this year. im a popular dude at my school- everyone knows me. but anyways, This girl, in my history class, shes a loner-girl, but a total beauty around friends! her confidence, Her personality is to die for! Shes so bubbly, fun. She dresses..I guess emo? Punk? I dont know but i dont care how she dresses. She has dirty blond, long, fluffy, messy hair. She has the most gorgeous hazel eyes ever! She has pale skin, porcelain like. She wore a sex pistols shirt today, with a short black leather skirt with a spike choker, Bright blue and pink ice cream socks And a blue scrunchie on her wrist. Shes SUPPERRRR smart to, I spoken to her a lot, shes so cool. Im gonna ask her out but idk how! everytime she walks in, Its almost like I seen an angel. Shes a goddess, Shes so Perfect. My friends like to say shes weird, But shes awesome. I love her. shes dropped hints shes liked me also, Im not quite sure though. Shes so amazing i cant explain! Shes super cute, And to be honest, Shes my type. Shes so lovely. Shes amazing to be around. She never judges you at all! 🥰 | Crushes |
I saw a post where someone said girls like that, like when we are near each other I could walk past her and gently brush my hand against hers, should I do it? | Crushes |
Like what. All of them flirt with him. No offense to him he isn’t even like the most attractive person neither of us are. We are always together and make friendships with the same people and have like identical personalities. So confused. Though, his ex has started with me which I don’t know how I feel about that. He also has a girlfriend and I’ve always been single. Why do they go at him. Note: I don’t blame any of this on him. His ex is also very pretty, which adds to my torn-ness. I’m also really good friends with her brother. It’s a mess. Good luck fellas | Crushes |
We text a bit and she always give a good response and asks me questions as well but I dunno if she likes me that way, example: I complimented her dog and said “ cute dog, bischon ?” And she responded no actually cavishion. Is it a bad sign she avoided the first part | Crushes |
Theres this guy I really like, I’ve been crushing for a year now and I finally asked him to twirp! He said yes, and we are even planning matching halloween costumes now, and have had lunch together regularly since then.
He always accepts my invitations, our conversations are so easy and enjoyable plus his body language just screams attraction. When we talk he asks a lot of questions and remembers little details about me (I know cause he randomly brings them up). Everything is going well but the thing is, I have initiated almost everything so far. Don’t get me wrong, in school he does initiate conversations a bunch (I actually first noticed him when he randomly started talking my ear off in class), and he invited me to lunch first… I’m just not sure if I’m too forward, or he isn’t very interested in more than friendship.
I don’t mind initiating! I’m just not sure if the fact he hasn’t called me first, or made the first move means he isn’t interested. I really like him and want to go somewhere with this if theres a chance things could bloom. Some other opinions besides my biased (and uncertain) opinion are very much appreciated!! | Crushes |
*TL;DR**: I have been crushing on this boy for over 9 months now, but I never had a good opportunity to make a big move. I was going to soon, but now I’ve just learned that he’s now officially dating another girl. Ever since I’ve learned I’ve felt down. Moving on will be a struggle because of how long this has been going on and the fact that he’s only my second serious crush. Send. Help.
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I am sorry in advance for how long this will be, I need to vent so badly. My romantic life is… non-existent. Finally, I felt like I was starting to get somewhere with a boy I absolutely adore(d). I’ve never met a guy like him before as guys like him are practically non-existent around my small town. So naturally I developed quite the crush on him. I made small hints along the way, and looking back so did he (which I was oblivious to), but, ever since it was confirmed that he’s started dating another girl, I feel hopeless when it comes to love. I’ve felt more down than usual, and I’ve been thinking about it a lot.
I just feel like I’m going to miss him a lot even though I never dated him in the first place. I miss daydreaming of us being together. I miss positively remembering the times we made contact. I miss the hope that I had. It’s just sad that whenever I see him now, I just feel an emptiness in my chest
It sounds so stupid, because it was just a crush. I promised myself I’d never get upset if a boy like this. But at the same time, it was nice to have some hope. To have some positive emotions. And now I don’t really know what to do.
With the last and only other crush I had, I had to befriend them so I could just see them as a friend, but this is what everyone says not to do. I don’t want to just shut off my feelings for him, because (1) I can’t and (2) I’d be lying to myself. I honestly have 0 clue on what to do, and any comments or advice would be so very appreciated | Crushes |
Im a boy, hes a boy
Im bi, hes probably straight.
We're not even friends
Before school ended today, i gave him a note saying i had a small crush on him
I ran away before he opened it
Im nervous for whats going to happen on monday
Edit: Guys I'll have an update at around 4pm pst because I'm not allowed to use my phone during school and not very good at hiding it
Update: Sorry for late update! I dont think he cares that much, he didnt look at me weird or anything. However i think he told someone because i overheard someone saying "didnt some guy ask you out" to him today right after language arts. I will update y'all if anything else happens? | Crushes |
all the nice girl's out here pls don't call for a fboi
I did the fucking same shit and i hate him sm now or mayb i HATE MYSELF for liking him sm
But i don't think I'll ever be able to like any other guy in my life
I can't and i won't
I'm done man
This shit sucks asf
So today I have to see him , look at him in the eyes , smile and pretend that nothing happened and everything is okay while seeing him w her
Seeing him sit w her, hold her hands, be touchy w her
I can't
I'll cry
These three years r fucking shitty asf man I'm done i wish he disappeared in my life
I wish he was actually a dream
I wish I woke up from this dream | Crushes |
Whenever we talk/text she never says much (kinda dry) and is always non-committal when I try making plans. But she also pins plans I make in our messages and keeps a snap streak with me (which I know is sorta irrelevant). I just wanna know what I should do, cause I like her a lot and dont want to give up if theres hope. | Crushes |
my crush and I flirt SOOO MUCH. But I tend to over think things so I need motivation to make the first move!!!! | Crushes |
Currently freaking right now over something that happened yesterday that's probably not a big deal haha
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I'm a freshman in high school at the moment, and there's this girl I like (I am a girl myself). Let's call her N. We're having this Halloween dance at my school in a couple weeks, and a lot of kids are asking each other to the dance. I considered maybe asking N to the dance but decided against it, knowing she would probably reject me. I have math class with N, and I saw a sign on her desk that read "will you go to the dance with me?" I immediately assumed it was for someone else, considering that we weren't very close friends at all. This didn't really bother me since I've never been in a relationship, much less had a crush who liked me back, so I was used to my crushes being with other people. But during class while we were supposed to be working on an assignment the topic of the dance came up, and she held the sign up to me jokingly asked if I wanted to go to the dance with her. I freaked out and didn't know what to say, so I just panicked and said "wait so people are actually asking other people to got to the dance?" and she just responded with "yeah," and put her head down and didn't really talk much for the rest of the period.
Plus, I'm not sure if she also likes girls or not, so yeah.
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Do you guys think she was trying to ask me out for real?
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tldr: a girl I like may or may not have asked me to a dance help | Crushes |
So last school year I met this boy. I had never really talked to him or even knew who he was. It was later that our seats got moved and got assigned a project in a group together. That’s when we hit it off. After that assignment I got way closer to him. As we started talking it moved to us walking in the halls together and then to us texting nonstop. I was super happy cuz he was super funny, super smart, and incredibly nice. And he was the type of guy that wasn’t a jerk or a guy who had so many girl friends. Also we had so much in common. We eventually got separated for a group project and our seats got moved. Either way he would always come and tap my shoulder or mess with me. and sit next to me even when we got separated. We would gift each other things and surprise each other. We also got matching cat keychains. It was around May on a Friday that we were talking about video games to which led him in calling me cute and that we should continue to play together. I was so happy cuz that had never happened to me. That weekend I got the balls and asked him to go to the fair with me and he responded by saying that he was gonna go with his gf. My heart dropped. When I asked him that Monday he told me that she had asked him that Thursday. I was confused as to why on Friday he didn’t tell me he had gotten a gf. While he was telling me he looked really bothered and sort of sad. During lunch our friend groups sat around the same place and I would see that when she was talking to him he kind of seemed annoyed but yet again he would give her hugs, etc. After that he would continue to text me he still kept the matching keychain. And he never talked about his gf to me. I just sort of gave up cuz it would be wrong to interfere with that. He graduated and now we still keep in touch and we text each other. But I mean ever since everything happened I always wonder so did he like me or what? What do you guys think?
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I invited her to go on a date to the mall just something casual because there not much to do where i live. Today at school I ask her what she doing this weekend and she said probably nothing so I invited her on a date to the mall.fast forward are day I wanted to make sure the date was still a thing so I text her if she still has no plans and still wanted to go and she said "omg bet I let you know k -omg bet lykk'' but it been 3 hours and I don't know if she still wants to or I just got to late for her to ask her parents what do you guys think plz tell me your thought. Ps if you needore background I wrote more about this on my account if you need it | Crushes |
Okay so I (14m) like this girl (14). We have been friends for about 3 weeks now and we have like 4 classes together. She says "That's cute" to many things I do.
A few days ago, when we were hanging out, a friend whispers into my ear "(Crushes name) likes you" and he did the same thing to her, saying i like her. The next 10 minutes we were just walking around, she was blushing a little bit (I think) and just kept saying "I have no idea whats going on right now" and giving a little chuckle afterwards.
She likes to randomly pull my hair, and just randomly try and pry my hand apart.
She has been doing this thing recently where she just randomly takes something from my backpack, and doesnt give it back until the next day.
There have been a few instances when we were walking together in the hallway where a friend of mine would ask if she was my gf. Most times she didnt deny it until after i did.
I may be oblivious, or i may be just crushing on a girl that has no interest in me, please help. | Crushes |
So, basically, she rejected me without ever saying it. How? Let me explain...
Tl;dr: My enemy says that my crush doesn't like me, my crushes best friend verifies it. Crush doesn't talk to me till I bring up the fact that I respect her decision.
So, lunch. Usually the better part of the day, especially after PE. Well, it wasn't. So, I wasn't really doing much, just trying to start a conversation. Eventually, a girl I'll call E (my enemy) walked up to me and started saying that some people had a question for me. I said "Look, considering that you told me to, and I'm trying to do something else, I'll do it later." And this girl had the **AUDACITY** to go "She doesn't like you. There. Now, go answer the question"
Naturally, I stood there slackjawed for a couple seconds. Then, I said "FUCK OFF" and started gearing for a punch, but my friends restrained me. So, I went away from them and ate my lunch (it tasted like shit btw.) Once lunch finishes, I walk out and see Y (see previous post for more info on her) standing there, waiting for me. Then, she basically says, paraphrasing, "Yeah, so, like, A doesn't like you" because of a bunch of reasons, most of which I forgot, but one sticks in my head, clear as day. "Yeah, so, like, you've liked a lot of people before, so, like, she thinks you're flirty with everyone, so, like, that's an issue"
Bro I WAS A SEVENTH GRADER yall understand how annoying they are. But in that sentence, I realized that my trivial past will come back to get me in the future. **Every time.** So, after a couple minutes of crying in a bathroom stall (and calming myself tf down) I leave to go tell her I respect her decision. That garners a bit of attention, because 8th graders, so I leave almost immediately.
The funniest part? Literally ***1*** person asked if I was OK. ***1.*** ffs they weren't even my friend.
So yeah, sorry if the formatting or grammar is weird, I typed this on mobile and I'm still pretty sad by what happened. What's your guys' opinion on this? | Crushes |
Ok a new start from today and m done w him :) | Crushes |
I (20M) went to elementary school and high school with this girl. We’re both 20 now. We didn’t talk to each other back then because we stuck to our own crowd.
Last week I asked her on Instagram to go see a movie in December with my friends and I and she said yes. And then a week after I asked if she was single and she said ‘yeaaa I am’. Then she asked me why I was asking and I was coy but then I said if it wasn’t obvious I kinda liked her. And then basically she asked why her and what caused me to feel this way about her. I said that I suppose I want more friends but it so happens I’m lonely too. And then she followed with she thought I had a girlfriend this whole time. I recently got out of a relationship a few months ago. I told her it didn’t work out. But I noticed she didn’t directly ask me if I had a girlfriend. Anyways, by my friends advices I asked her if she was free to hang during reading week when I don’t have school to walk with me and my dog. She said ‘shore’. I ended our dm with ‘okay, see you then :)”, and she heart the msg.
Ik I’m such a loser and pathetic for over analyzing but i would really appreciate your guys input. Were these good signs?
Thanks for reading, I’ll respond to comments as quickly as I can. | Crushes |
Whats a very subtle way to flirt or tell someone u like them? | Crushes |
sorry if there are any typos! im bad at typing quickly and accuratley sometimes D':
so i, (f 14) have been crushing on the guy who sits next to me in my english class (m 14) that's the only class we share, and he sohws no signs of romantically liking me at all... i think he's amazing- hes smart, funny, kind, and has pretty hazel eyes and fluffy brown hair...
so i need help finding a way to ask him to hoco without being weird about it, and hopefully he says yes , even if it's only as a freind! i'm currently planning to go with a group of my friends, and my crush is pretty close friends with someone in that group
should i do it? pls help!!
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if you have any questions pls feel free to ask in the comments, ik i didn't put many details in thsi post :') | Crushes |
i can’t tell if he keep looking at me on purpose or accident because lately i’ve been seeing him look at me and i can’t tell | Crushes |
So I finally asked my crush out to homecoming but she was already going with her friends. She did however invite me to tag along with the group and said that we could try and split off later in the night. I’ve got two questions 1. Does her going out of her way to try and split off from her best friends indicate she likes me? And 2. Should I ask her out on an actual date when we split off? | Crushes |
Read this then let me know how good this plan is
This is a 5 step plan I'm on 3 rn
Step 1 ask her if she's going to hoco✅️
Step 2 indirectly ask her what's her favorite candy✅️
Step 3 checking if I have time to go hoco ✅️
Step 4 get the candy
Step 5 ask her
Idk if I should make a card or something bc my plan is just to give her favorite candy and ask her to hoco. Is this a good plan for this?
My plan is to ask her to talk in private and then pullout the candy while asking her to hoco I plan to say something around the lines of " ive been thinking about this for awhile and i would like to know if you would want to go to homecoming with me" btw while say this I'll pull out the candy.
So is this a good idea? | Crushes |
I fucked up. I should've taken my chance when I could. Now I only have one class with him, and he's never been more distant. He sits two seats behind me so I can't really tell if he's looking at me or not, but it's just... sad. If I had done *something*, anything, maybe things would've worked out. Maybe I could've at least been friends with him.
Shoot your shot, folks. Don't be like this doofus (aka me).
Edit: formatting | Crushes |
so i've liked this person for like a long time and idk if it's because i'm horrendous at reading tone because of my nuerodivergency so i have no idea if she likes me back.
she sends me those tiktok's that are like... "your outfit, my outfit, the weather, the movie, etc" that have the "i just stay in my room too long but i finally got a girlfriend and she's the bomb.", we also talk like all the time, i'm at her house like every weekend and usually we like hold hands, i'm also the only one who's been to her house out of all her friends, also I asked her if she liked me in a half joking way she just looked around in silence and didn't say anything. not in a nervous way but i think she was maybe trying to be funny. also when i said "no" on impulse when she asked me the same question she acted offended kinda. also i asked her to go to this concert for this artist she hates (i'm extremely hyper fixated on this artist so i talk about him a lot) and she said she would.
but she posted me on one of those "they're my best friend" type tiktok's and she acts a lot differently when we're out in public than in private i guess. so i'm a bit confused
i plan on asking her tomorrow to homecoming but i'm just worried i'll ruin things since were like best friends | Crushes |
I 16M crushing on 16F... So recently I told a girl I like her on Instagram... she replied back, "I barley know you". She has a lot of guys for friends. There's one guy I always see her with after class, I don't think they're dating. For some reason the dude is being nice to me for no reason. I should probably state I have never talked to her in person... | Crushes |
Hey there! I'm Jimmy. So, I(14NB) have a crush on this guy(probably 14/15, presents masc) I see at lunch p much every other day, and the thing is, it's more of an interest. I like how he dresses, his hair, stuff like that. I wanna talk to him and maybe see if we have anything in common, but p much every time I see him I chicken out and end up saying nothing- how could I at least start a conversation without coming off as weird since thats the only time I see him? I mean, in class makes sense. But talking to someone out of nowhere at lunch or in the halls seems a little unusual. I don't want to make him immediately dislike me, I just wanna see if we have anything in common and maybe strike up a conversation! I am usually p good at introducing myself to people but for some reason can't with him. So if anyone has any tips on how to keep calm and just talk to him that would be cool! Thanx :) | Crushes |
This is super random especially with how my day has been but I'm considered attractive at my school I've noticed girls love talking Me and are not afraid to compliment me but I have realized most girls who do compliment me I have found way more physically attractive than my crush witch it doesn't matter but I think it's kind of funny that girls my school considers super duper hot who have hit on me I've not cared but then my crush who to most is average looking and short I just can't keep myself together obviously personality takes a huge part in it but still | Crushes |
I've recently been really tired and sleepy (for reasons even i don't know)Yet for some reason whenever I talked to my crush today All my worry just melted away and I felt sort of (For lack of a better word) Safe around her I felt like I could actually smile and it made my day when we talked,She's got such a soft voice I just can't help but relax when I'm around her and I just can't get enough. | Crushes |
advice is v v welcome but i dont think there's any way for me to get outta this without hurting myself in the process-
for context i and my 2 bfs r all polyamorous. and i have the most intense crush on this friend i have. its perfect- our personalities r compatible and i fit his type pretty well. AND he's single. the problem is, hes strictly monogamous. so ik that he would NOT be okay w me dating him and staying w my 2 bfs.
theres no way for us to work out unless i break up w my bfs. and i cant choose- this is a literally impossible choice. the internal conflict im having over this is tearing me apart.
i want him SO bad and it hurts SO BAD that no matter what i will never be able to have him. it doesnt matter what he thinks of me. | Crushes |
It’s killing me. | Crushes |
My wife cheated on me about 3 years ago. We were together for 15 years prior to the affair. I stayed in the relationship because we have very young children. While working I met this beautiful young lady while starting a new job. She has expressed unhappiness in her marriage but we both are similar in the idea that staying in the marriage for the children is best. But I do have feelings for her and I don’t want to ruin our friendship. But everyday I want to say something, however I refuse. I don’t want to ruin our friendship or make her husband suffer the same way I did. Additionally I am not 100% sure she feels the same way. I just needed to get off my chest how I feel about her. Thanks for listening.
PS.: Would you people say anything to see if she feels the same or do I just keep things to myself? | Crushes |
I 14 F, have known who I'll call Steve 15 M for a a very long time, and i have really shit memory but I remember we used to like each other but nothing happened since we where like 10 and my feeling faded over the years. For a long time now i have had suspicions that he's liked me, but I've been trying my best to convince myself he doesn't like me. i think its because im really insecure in my looks, and feel it would be stupid for someone to find me attractive. Plus he hasn't actually SAID anything flirtatious, so im not 100% sure he does like me. As annoying as this would be if i didn't like him, its so much worse as i really really don't know if i like him. (Side note: You cant say "give it time" as this hole situation has sorta being going on for about a year) when i think of his face im not attracted to it, but whenever i talk to him i second guess myself. He's so funny, caring and friendly, and we get along really well. He's done things in the past like pick me up from behind when we where playing which gave me huge butterflies or recently we drew on eachothers hands and arms, and when touched my hands i also had pretty big butterflies. i also remember we where all hanging out at the park and he tied my hair up with a plant. Obviously i have more examples but this is a few. Just being near him makes me nervous. Which would make you think i like him right? BUT IDFK. Like i said, i think he's attractive but im not attracted to his face. And i dont think i would like the idea if kissing or anything with him. Im so stuck and i don't know if I'll ever figure it out honestly. If you have any advice it is GREATLY appreciated | Crushes |
So, quick backstory.
I have a crush who I barley know, and I was going to try to talk to her.
That fell through.
I went to talk to her while we were waiting for the bus, and I chickened.
I suck.
how do I become more confident.
Thats not something I am! I'm anything but confident!
anyway, I chickened out, and I feel terrible.
UGHHHHH! | Crushes |
So after what I’ve said in comments about my crush, I just feel like this.
I like her way more now
But…
1. She is always in school late
2. I can never find her outside of school (after school)
3. She’s always with her friends in school
4. Whenever she’s not it’s hard cuz there’s so many people around
5. I noticed if I got rejected she legit has connections to all the other cute-ish girls at my school. So I’ll be fucked if I get rejected
6. Only time she’s usually alone is when she goes to the bathroom in classes and if I ask right after ofc it’s gonna be weird, if not going to the bathroom she’s next to me in passing period and like I said too many people.
7. She lives close but there’s no other way there besides a fucking huge road w/o sidewalks.
8. I think she likes me but I don’t know how to ask.
Reddit pls help, should I take my chance when I can or not? Should I get more hints first???
(Sorry but I got major anxiety…) | Crushes |
So yea, I went out with her today. Everything was going all according to plan until something terrible happened.
So for some reason, in the entire world, my mum and my dad, decided to go to the same mall I was going. Yes, my parents doesn't know I'm dating. And for whatever reason again, my mum decided to tell EVERYONE that I'm dating.
I'm not home yet, and my sister told me this, so here am I, sitting at the bench, thinking what kind of lie I'm gonna tell my parents about. | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this boy since last year and we’ve been best friends for at least 3 years. I was the first person he came out to like a week ago and it really made me feel special. I just really have the urge to hug him, kiss him, and just love him, but I also know that I’d be okay if we were just friends. If I would be okay with that, does that mean I really have a crush on him or do I just, idk. I’m so confused. | Crushes |
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So theres a guy who I’m friends with. I know he likes me. Let’s call him ‘J’.
I know he likes me because him and i went on a date. I really tried to like him back, but I just don’t. I like someone else too much to try to like J.
It sucks because he posted something about hating being told ‘can we still be friends?’ As a rejection and I don’t want to lose J as a friend by rejecting him.
My friend, E, and her partner, O, are both rooting for J and i to get together. O’s always saying ‘when’s the wedding?’ And ‘are the babies coming?’
I don’t even want kids. I hate it every time O says that. I’m not close with O at all because they’re my friends partner.
When I told E that I didnt like J back, she was a bit pushy at first, but backed off after a bit.
The last time I rejected a guy i was friends with, it didn’t end well at all. He hasn’t spoken to me since.
J’s always saying stuff abt being suicidal and I don’t want to hurt him, but I know it’ll hurt him more if I fake it.
I don’t know what to do, i feel like I’m trapped. | Crushes |
i was at this introduction for school like just now and i met this cute guy, i asked his name TWICE bc i didn’t understand him the first time, second time i fully understood BUT I FORGOT HIS NAME BRUUUUUH IM DEAD. i remember it sounds smth like chris, like the same vibe 💀 i’m dead plz somebody help me with figuring out his name or with memory skills😭🥴 | Crushes |
so i’ve liked this guy for some time and ya he likes me back (he confessed first) but we’re kinda young so we’re not dating. yesterday he told me that he didn’t exactly want to go out with this someone but didn’t want to lie to not go so he just went. apparently it’s a girl from his tuition and asked him out with some friends. she asked him out again to go together alone. he wanted to reject her politely and asked around so yeah i found out about it. i tried asking him about it but he dodged the question,,ANYWAY he wants to reject her for me but like i don’t want him so crush her heart just for me and she had the courage to ask him out like twice wth i actually for once could never. so anyways i think she’s most probably like smarter and prettier than me (never saw her before but i’d guess so) and like we’re graduating soon and most likely going to different schools and i feel like we’d forget about each other over time if we went to different schools touch wood tho
so what do i do cause like i don’t want him to reject her just for me i feel really bad about it and she’s probably better than me so ya honestly i’d rather he push me away than reject someone | Crushes |
Work has been so boring lately without my crush. Its so boring that I decided to get a piercing. He went back to his hometown and work hasn’t been the same since. He comes back on Tuesday thank goodness. Before he left though I mentioned to him to have fun on his trip since he’s been going through some deaths in his friend group and I was honestly sincere when I said it too. He just gave me a blank stare and looks away but all of the sudden he turns back to me and says thank you in a VERY cheerful manner that actually surprised me lol | Crushes |
My crush and I spend every night playing minecraft together. I know he likes me but he doesn’t know I like him. Somewhere around the 1 hour or 2 hour mark of us playing minecraft, I started calling his mining method ass and he started getting defensive and we laughed for the rest of the two hours we were playing. Something about this gives me serotonin. It feels like I can’t be myself around certain people so I just change my personality depending on who i’m with but last night I felt like MYSELF around him. I dunno, cute little story | Crushes |
So I told this colleague that I think this boy looks cute, and then during the break in the cafeteria, she secretly took a photo of us and his brother sat next to her 😳😳😳 so he might also saw that she texted me his age, cuz I was wondering. Now I'm afraid that he told him that this girl texted me a photo of us and his age. I wasn't even crushing that much on him or anything and wasn't anxious before all of this happened. Now I'm afraid to look him in the eyes, just because I'm afraid he knows. Bruhhh during today's break he sat next to me and I was sitting so stiff, so afraid of scrolling through my phone, cuz idk, afraid of judgement? I didn't look at him once. I heard that people can feel when ur anxious and now I ffed it up a bit. Now trying to comfort myself by saying it might have looked cute. | Crushes |
I have zero idea why I'm only jittery and nervous around my crush now but I can't focus she sits less than a foot away from me in class and yesterday was only the second day of highschool | Crushes |
Howdy guys, So my crush and I been texting for like 3 months now nearly every day, met a couple times on small parties and see each other at school, we really like each other, yk she does this ":)" only when shes happy and she does it often lately,
Now heres the problem: about a month ago she told me that we wouldnt know each other well enough to start a relation ship and that we match each other more in a friendly way, so basically the friend zone Since this time we texted even more and really got close yk with same interests and stuff, and even had a few deep talks,
My friend told me i should go for it at the last party, yk she started talking to me, often followed me and sat next to me, but im to scared, yk what if shes just friendly or thinks of me as a close friend, i dont want to ruin the things like checking up on each other and talk till she falls asleep and stuff, but i dont want to get more in the friend zone to yk, I would really appreciate advices :)) | Crushes |
So 3-4 months ago, I (17) confessed to my crush (turning 18) on insta that I have a huge crush on her. It was a short n sweet paragraph, she didn't say anything (i told her it's okay if she doesn't) just liked the text. Coming Sunday is her birthday and I'm wondering if I should gift her something or just a sweet happy Birthday text. A little help would be great.
P.s. - we went to the same school, she even blocked me from her old id because of my certain dumbness once | Crushes |
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