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So there's this guy that pretty much asked me out. I find it really difficult to connect with people in general, so I was really confused when he asked me on a date after only talking to me for a week. But I agreed anyways because I thought why not. I had a good time but the problem is he keeps asking me on dates and it's difficult for me to hang out because of parents. And I'm also an extreme introvert. For example I'm content with only going on dates once a month or so, but idk if he is. Anyways I'm conflicted on whether I'm being an asshole by leading him on or not? I'm going to discuss with him tomorrow, but I still feel bad.
And also I'm confused because when I asked him why he liked me, he said that I made him feel safe. I just usually take a very long time to get attached to someone, so I wanted to know if it's a normal thing to like someone because they make you feel safe and in only a week. So any advice would be appreciated :) | Crushes |
I could fit it in the slits so I put it in the crack in the door. She has practice after school so
even if she were to have seen it and she texts me it still would be later. Still excited though! | Crushes |
Please make my crush ask me out, pray for meee , I want him. How do I not make it obvious | Crushes |
I was talking to my crush the other day, and the topic of his ex came up. It seemed like he didn't want to bring her up, but eventually he ended up talking about her, and a little bit of their relationship. I felt bad for him, and even felt guilty about even liking him? I know I could've just asked him if he still had feeling for her, but i didn't want to come off as nosy lol. I have a feeling he still has some sort of feelings for her, but i stull want to ask y'all.
What are some obvious yet subtle signs someone is still hung up on their ex? | Crushes |
I (25F) have a massive crush on a guy (24M) I work with. It’s getting to the point where it is probably an addiction and unhealthy. The last time I felt this way was at school, where I think about where I’m going to see him and plan my conversations in my head. How do I not let this take over my life?! It will probably not end well if we date, it’s a very small team and people will talk.
Some days I think he likes me and some days I don’t, so I’m just going off breadcrumbs and my imagination and I know it’s not healthy.
I dream about him most nights. He makes me laugh and he makes me feel safe.
Some days he’ll get pretty close when he’s helping me with something, our hands will touch and it’s like electricity and I think there’s a vibe but I don’t know if I’m imagining it. I feel I just need to distance myself, as hard as that is, focus on myself and my work because I feel like part of the reason I like him is I want someone to take care of me.
I know this is very badly articulated but I just needed to get it off my chest. | Crushes |
So I just want some input on my situation-it may seem stupid, but my brain is very self sabotaging and it’s hard for me to come to my own conclusions. Thank you :)
But anyway here are the ‘signs:’
* He talked with me for hours on end during a summer camp we went to
* During the camp/other extracurriculars whenever we have lunch or dinner he always sits with me
* Teases me a LOT, but never goes too far. Sometimes he jokingly hits other people (not causing them harm) and other stuff, but he purposefully doesn’t with me
* His parents think he likes me, as well as everyone I know (speaking of which a girl who we know referred to us as “you two lovebirds” which was humiliating)
* Apparently he said I was funny, described my sense of humor and complimented it, and said I was cool and smart to his father. And he’s a very quiet guy at home and doesn’t compliment people at all.
* he always waits to walk next to me and slows down or just straight up stands there waiting for me to catch up
* Did a random school competition thing with me out of the blue just because I asked him if he wanted to
* Sometimes talks to me in a really sweet voice I don’t hear often
* Has apparently talked about me a LOT to his father who also says he’s never seen him laugh and smile as much as he does with me
* He is a sickeningly dry texter but once texted me asking if I needed help with something and I could tell ask him if I did (completely unprompted) all with great enthusiasm
* always turns to me to talk in class or just kind of make weird eye contact
* Asks me if I’m going to a certain teacher’s room next period, and often comes with me even if it’s just us two and seems happy
* Laughs a lot around me even when I say very unfunny things
* Makes heavy eye contact with me whenever he talks to me, and is just always looking in my general direction during a group conversation
* Gave me his jacket to wear when I said I was cold
* Stands near me a LOT to the point where it looks very obvious. He drifts over to where I’m standing constantly
* For a guy like him, makes hand contact with me a decent amount-he compared hand sizes with me randomly and also we shook hands jokingly for like 15 seconds without pulling away
* My mom has seen us talk, and she says he always looks very aware of me and looks at me in a way she’s never seen anyone look at me before
* Remembers random insignificant things I tell him
* Teases me a lot but compliments me genuinely (“you? Do bad on a test? No way!”)
* never goes too far with teasing I can tell
* in class sometimes he seems nervous? I sit quite close to him and he often looks kind of anxious in class.
* he is quite awkward when it’s just the two of us alone
* Didn’t change his seat in class even though we could, despite the fact he could choose to sit with his friends, and stayed near me
* Moved purposefully closer to where I was sitting on the bus one time
Anyway thank you :) I’m just uncertain and don’t want to get my hopes up | Crushes |
In our lab class, I said “I hate to be a parasite but could I get the notes from the other day?”She said of course and checked her backpack but said she didn’t have that binder so she would send them to me. I was so happy because I might finally get her social media info without even asking for it and she asked me to write down my EMAIL so she could send them to me. Grrrjsncw I’m almost angry laughing at how dumb this is | Crushes |
Last night I was venting to her through email (for multiple reasons I can explain in comments if someone asks) because me and her are pretty close and she was so encouraging to me
She’s so nice and she never fails to make my day better I miss her so much (another thing I can explain in comments if needed) I just want to see her and talk to her irl… maybe go to a coffee shop with her and just talk about life… I hope one day she will like me back… | Crushes |
Thoughts on this? Is he interested in me or no? I feel like there is a lots of tensions between this guy and me. So i started a new job and next to us is another company where he works at the reception. We see each other two three times a week. We havent talk much at the beginning but i liked him a lot and was looking at him often and sth has changed and we started to looking at each pther like almost staring all the time and he started teasing me like a little boy, i caught him to checking my ass as well but he never asks me for a number or he never asks me anything about myself like the other guys. He talks to me more often now than at the beginning but it doesn’t seem that thpe of conversation like when someone is into you. i dont know if he is unable to make a conversation with a girl or he is just not interested. | Crushes |
okay so dont get me wrong i rlly like this guy, hes absolutely amzaing, he's funny and kind and we get along great but i havent properly felt like this before and idk what to do. we don't rlly talk much in school but we msg a lot outside of school and have hung out a couple times but idk if he likes me back so i dont wanna say anything just in case he doesn't but i do just incase he does. i won't lie its driving slightly insane with the what ifs coz i rlly like him and i dont wanna mess it up.
advice would be nice if anyone has any | Crushes |
Settle down for a story y'all, because today was A DAY.
I was all excited because I expected him to be at work, and I wanted to see him in person to see how he would act with me after not reacting to my message. I dressed nicely but not too nicely because I didn't want to hype myself up too much, but I ran down to lunch as soon as I saw he was "away" on Teams.
It was worth running because he was there and waved at me and asked for my Nutella and washed my spoon when he was done with it. During this interaction he said "I can read" about something and I, remembering his lack of response to my text, asked "and can you write?" and THIS BITCH said "it depends..." and then went away before I could ask what it depends on.
I was not to be discouraged today, and I finished my lunch quickly and went out to smoke because I know he usually has a longish smoke break after lunch. He was there with his two coworkers and I went straight over to them and asked if I could join them at the same time as he said "come join our circle" so that was encouraging. We were chatting and he mentioned that his package got delivered quickly. His coworker was like what did you buy and he was like a makeup table, and I was like what for and he said "for my girlfriend for Christmas" and I was like O.O but also like lucky lady to be getting a makeup table.
Looking back, I think as soon as he said the word "girlfriend" I stopped having a crush on him. I just don't want to go there ever. (I'm kind of tempted with this guy but I won't because I'd prefer not to be complete trash and a home wrecker) So I guess I have a friend crush now? like someone I want to be friends with? idk but no more trying to seduce him or make him want me or anything like that.
If that wasn't enough, I couldn't help myself, and after his coworkers went inside I was like wait a sec to him, and he did wait. I asked him, well, what does it depend on if you can write, or is it just that you don't want to do it with me? he didn't really wait for me to finish so he said some joke about being drunk, and I think he then realized what I was saying. and my FOOL ass didn't even stop there, I said "anyway, a girlfriend must be respected" and he was like yeah, esp if she respects me. and then, absolute CLOWN that I am, I went on talking about my boyfriend and how he doesn't respect me, and he said but does he love you at least? and I was like yeah.
and THEN we kept chatting together. about STUFF! like the commute to work and his thesis and vegan food! he was really nice and friendly as if I was a normal person and not some pushy weirdo! we walked into the building together and I was like sorry I kept you so long and he was like that's okay and he went away into his office and that was it.
So my crush is no longer but the man is still friendly? I kind of confessed and it was okay?! I could have sworn he was flirting but what the hell. I don't feel as depressed as I thought I would after a rejection, I guess it's because he didn't actually reject me but it's just a no from him by default. I guess I'll stop being a nasty to my actual boyfriend and worship him with my tail between my legs. I do love him and focusing on that will help me not be depressed about this random dude at work. | Crushes |
I was sick today and wasn't at school and my friend told her how I feel about her. Well, she messaged me and asked if he was telling the truth, I confirmed it. Got rejected, though she was really nice about it. | Crushes |
I was gonna talk to her today but she wasn’t at college, so im talking to her tomorrow and gonna make an actual move
We’re both very shy, but like sitting near each other - so im gonna sit next to her in class and talk to her, perhaps even compliment her! Anxiety be damned I got this >:D
AAAAAAA I got this I got this !!! | Crushes |
I hated my crush until a couple of days ago- it’s so crazy. I didn’t understand my best friend being obsessed with the guy. Then Like one time this man like bares his soul and talks about all his deep feelings and I can’t stop thinking about him.
Honestly now he’s like one of the most attractive men just because he was so deep and honest about his feelings. I haven’t actually looked at someone and felt like a deep desire to like kiss them or whatever for years- but now I feel like that.
Oh well I’m never gonna act on these feelings because my best friend has really strong feelings for him and I value her way more than him- I would never do that to her. I genuinely want them to be together and be happy together if they end up both liking each other.
It’s just nice to be attracted to someone again- haven’t been in so long. I can’t tell anyone this and will never tell anyone so just thought I’d post it here on an anonymous accoun | Crushes |
What does it mean if my friend says: People like (crushes name) and (my name) need to get out of their comfort zone? We were in class when he said this. He is a good friend of my crush. My crush was also in the same class when he said this. | Crushes |
What does it mean if my friend shipped me and my crush? All of us are friends. One day in class he said: "people like 'crushes name' and 'my name' should get out of there comfort zones." He said that after our teacher discussed comfort zones | Crushes |
There’s this girl at my work and holy balls. The first time I saw her I was like “oh yeah, she’s pretty cute” and I’d see her sometimes around work. (I’m 17 and work in fast food btw). So sometimes she’d walk past me while she was doing drive thru and I was making burgers n shit in the kitchen. The more I had shifts with her, the more I took notice of her, and one day I was just looking at her smile and laugh n shit and I was like nah bro this is unreal. Like at that moment I was just invested I don’t know what came over me. Like she is honestly the most unbelievably attractive girl I’ve ever seen like the way she ties up her hair and everything. She’s just cute. Like cute girls destroy me. From then on there was basically nothing in my brain but her. I am DYING to talk to her. We work in different parts of the restaurant so I don’t really get into situations where I can just make conversation about work related stuff. And I’m not gonna just go up to her and say hello because I’d look and feel like an idiot. She seems like a pretty popular person and I heard that she may have a boyfriend. Anyway I don’t know I’m kind of delusional. I know people on reddit can’t really help me with this, I’m just getting my feelings out I guess. | Crushes |
I chat with my crush for more than a month and get along quite well. One afternoon a week ago, he told me that he was going to a friend's birthday party in the evening. The next day, I sent him a message and he didn't reply to me, I knew he was on vacation and didn't bother him.But until today I have not received any reply which made me very puzzled. | Crushes |
Does "5318008" on a calculator mean anything (**I know what it spells out**). I tried asking if it implies anything and the she just said "Well..." And I quickly dismissed it as a joke because I didn't want to put her in an uncomfortable position. Is it just friendly banter or rather meant flirtatiously?
For the people not in the know, put 5318008 on one of those "simple" calculators (the ones with 7 segment displays) and turn your calculator upside down.
Also, on the off chance that this is an advance, how do I proceed? | Crushes |
basically just what the title said lmao😭
because of our surnames we have seats pretty close to each other so i usually walk to the exam with them and wait for them afterwards where we talk for a bit.
they’re just a school friend and i barely see them so i really enjoy being able to talk to them more even just for a few mins lol | Crushes |
FML. | Crushes |
Pm me, I’ll show you what I’m going to text. Hopefully I’ll see him today if he ignores the text lol | Crushes |
Yesterday (Monday), she said Hi to me like she was very excited to see me (3 days without school). She kept calling my name to say random things. And during our practice for our dance, she kept staring at me and when she wants to talk she reaches for my arm (AHHHHHHHHH) She also leaned onto my shoulder and sorta hugged me. She kept calling me by my nickname. Today, when I had no pencil to draw for our activity, she lend her pencil to me!! (AHHHHH) She even waited for me to leave the classroom even though I told her several times to go home, but she hesitated. And lately she's been texting first. Me and her have been so close for a couple of weeks now. Should I keep doing it?
I CAN'T EVEN COUNT HOW MANY TIMES SHE SAID MY NICKNAME HOW MANY TIMES SHE LOOKED AT ME.
But no. Maybe I'm getting too dramatic. I don't even know if she likes me | Crushes |
I liked this guy for more than half a year. I thought he was aromantic, that he could never like me, but it still hurt. We have been best friends for seven years, and hanging out with him everyday and hiding my feelings was so hard.
Eventually a lot of stuff happened, but we got together :)))
We’ve been together for two months but I still can’t believe I’m dating him. Our relationship is absolutely amazing and I love him <3
Literally thought it would be impossible to ever date him but it happened :D Whatever ur situation don’t lose hope 🥰 | Crushes |
Literally just start talking to them, later on you’ll regret not approaching them sooner.
I didn’t start talking to my crush until halfway through his senior year (after knowing him for a school year and a half) and regret not talking to him sooner. Now I wish I had had more time with him, and I would’ve if I had just talked to him sooner. | Crushes |
Should I do it? | Crushes |
so ive been liking this chick whose a year older than me. today i grabbed my nuts figuratively and went to talk to her. i asked what her name was, she said it i said nice name and then i mumbled my name. then i proceeded to ask her if she had to bring 3 movies to a deserted island, what would they be and she said i dont know then i froze up said ok and walked away from her. she was waiting for her bus, i was waiting for mine. different buses. did i fuck it up? i feel like shit because it was a terrible first impression. i had something i wanted to say to her but i compeletely forgot it then. i had my throat dry, stomach was exploding with butterflies and i was shaking. i was completely mesmerized. what to do now? | Crushes |
i told my crush like 3-4 days ago that I like him and I think I'm getting played, he started to give me some attitude like "you should be grateful that i breathe the same air as you" type of shit, but also he messaged me to ask me if I'm not going to a party because he wanna have fun with. I'm confused cus idk what to do now, should I move on? | Crushes |
I (15m) have a giant crush on my classmate (15m). He’s the prettiest boy in the world. I don’t know if he likes boys too. But he has a friendly attitude towards me and sometimes iniciates conversations. But I’m shy and introverted so talking to me isn’t much fun. It may even seem boring sometimes.
So what should I do? With my level 0 communication skills. Should i go straight to the point and show him that I want to smoke his dick? Like in sign language? You know what I mean. | Crushes |
Despite being socially completely braindead, I'm planning to approach my crush with 0 preparation or any kind of advice from a therapist or people with better social skills.
Is this the right course of action? Should I practise first or at least talk to people about it beforehand?
Knowing me there's a very good chance it'll go poorly. I was sure at first but I'm starting to second guess myself now. There's also the fact that she's heavily introverted | Crushes |
Of course the stupid brat couldnt be there yesterday. Three days without seeing him! And ummm, my old crush, E, is back after like not seeing him for a month. He used to be faster than me, but I'm faster than him now. He didn't talk to me. But yeah is this how its gonna be? My old crush comes back and my new crush leaves? I get attached to my old crush and then H comes back I dont like him anymore? This is freakingg hardddd!!! What do I do? | Crushes |
So, I'm in my only class with him, and we are both alone at the moment, and not doing anything in class. How should I go about going over and talking to him? I really want to talk to him today, but don't know how to start a conversation, and don't want to annoy him.
Also, read my other post for more details... | Crushes |
So if you've seen my previous posts you'll know the situation but TLDR: My crush who I did have a date with with back in April, and who I've fallen completely in love with since, moved away for work a couple months ago. Communication since has been occasional but I've tried to keep it up. One way is by sending her posts on Instagram (usually cat videos as I knows she loves them).
So yesterday I sent her 'funny' cat video and at most expected her to like the message or reply with a 😂.
Instead she simply relyed with '❤️😊' I don't want to overthink any potential meaning but it did feel like an unusual response to what I sent. | Crushes |
So here’s a story. I liked this girl we used to work in the same company.
She has some trouble about her family and I want to help her pf course as a friend. She wants to live with me for a while so she can focus on her stuffs and I’m willing to help her if that would make her feel better.
I don’t wanna make her uncomfortable by hiding that I like her so I confessed on the day I left my job that I have a crush on her. She said she’s still okay with it and still want to live with me. I didn’t ask her to be anything I just confessed what I feel for her. I’m hoping that my confession would set boundaries between us. Cuz I don’t wanna assume and confused by her actions towards me.
We didn’t talk for 2 weeks no communication. I was worried and hurt if she finds me uncomfortable. Found out that she’s been busy, but the situation got better when she reach out to me to hang out. on/off communication. I’ve been busy with my new work and her too.
This past days we talked. She want to see my house before she move in. Of course I’m willing to show her around but the thing is…. she wants our co worker to accompany her so she have someone to go to work together after visiting me. that is fine right?but that co worker also has a crush on her….and that co worker is a friend but we’re not really close we just have a same circle of friend.
Hoping someone could help | Crushes |
I’m gonna keep this short and engaging, any questions leave a comment.
So there’s this girl my age (18)
We’ve been friends for about 2 years and our friendship as exponentially became stronger.
We hung out in a small group today and I offered to take her and her friend home.
She was telling me how her mum was talking about me on the way to our event and how her mum admires me a lot.
We always laugh together and there isn’t a dull moment.
Does she like me?
Would I ruin our friendship by asking her out?
(She doesn’t snap or text much but it’s not just me, she doesn’t talk to anyone on her phone.) | Crushes |
fuck man i really don't wanna like him but i just can't help the way i feel
i hate missing him so much rn i wanna fucking cry fuck this is not done
i wish i could spend more time w him
this shit hurts asf
i was sad cz i didn't talk to him but then i saw him he made me so happy
i love listening to him
i love how he talks a lot
I'd listen to him forever without getting bored
idk why he makes me the happiest and the most depressing person at the same time
fuck I met him few mins ago and I miss him
I miss listening to him
I miss how he says my name
fuck | Crushes |
i love walking w him
i had so much to tell and ask
i couldn't | Crushes |
So I started going to the gym at a different time. I've noticed over the past month, I've caught this guy glancing at me a few times. I didn't think too much about it because his face usually looks like this "😐" so I kept thinking it's just a coincidence. However, I've caught him glancing at me way too many times to be a coincidence. I've tried to smile at him but he looks away before i can.
Random not sure worth mentioning but 🗿: one time I didn't go to the gym for a week and when I was back we held eye contact for like a few seconds and then I looked away 💀 but this was his face "😐"
I'm not sure what this means 🤡 any advice ??? (He is very cute btw) | Crushes |
So recently I've noticed the girl that I've had a crush on for 3 years (yes 3 years I know, I'm a pussy) has started to post about me on her social media accounts quite a lot, she has three accounts on insta and she has posted a few pictures of me on her 3rd account which is like an account for her to post sceneries or her daily life (I'm the only male she regularly posts on there) and recently posted a compilation of random photos including a selfie of just me and her on her 2nd account, I'm gonna assume girls don't just post photos of their male friends this frequently right? | Crushes |
I was in class during break time (i was bored ) and i received a call from them,i answered and they told me to go outside my class.
When i was outside i couldn't see them and they came up behind me.
We talked a bit and then they went back to their class (break was over) | Crushes |
But i miss him😢 | Crushes |
I met this girl online and she's just the best, only probably is she's on the other side of the country. She wants to long distance but idk what to do.
She's so cool but I gotta be realistic. I'll probably never meet her irl. And I don't wanna meet anyone in person but be locked into her.
Suggestions on what to do? | Crushes |
So TLDR, I have a crush on my coworker and I did something stupid by confessing to him that I like him. He responded back saying that he's bad at expressing his feelings. But when I asked him out on a date he agreed.
Fast forward to now we haven't met ever since (I took a week off work) and we've been texting every day (He's a really bad texter) but he's been telling me what's going on at work and with him.
A few days ago one of our other coworkers found him sitting away from everyone (there was an outage at work) and caught him off-guard texting me. And on that day my crush told me that he likes texting me and I was like ?????? made my heart flutter.
I just feel so happy I wanted to share this update here | Crushes |
But i love crush, i didn't dare comment but i will observe him, i am not mentally tough to defence and stand up self, i regret not stand up crush when he is down cause i am too weak, i am not weak so i want to defence him emotionally, to clai i love him | Crushes |
All bs of abusive parent, i want to trt man crush like human, i only learn that when you love, you didn't give up on them, you believe in them, you trt them like puppy, that's why it is called puppy
Tell me how to love man nicely?
Concept of love? | Crushes |
me and him were texting eachother a lot today and he told me goodnight!!:D ik this might not be much but im very happy because we dont text eachother much.. ohhh im so happy!!! i hope this keeps up, eeee | Crushes |
Disrespect emotional of man
I want to learn love man nicely | Crushes |
How to show emotional support to man? How to get too know them? | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this co-worker for a while. Everyone always ask if there’s anything between us because we’re always flirting but it’s never turned into anything. She told me last week she got stood up on a date so I decided to do a romantic gesture for her. Got her favorite candy bar and left it on her car door to get after work. I was afraid she might think it was weird so I added a funny note saying “I would stand you up too ❤️” with my phone number that she already has. I thought it was obvious the note was a joke, but she told another girl at work that I was making fun of her for getting stood up and she hasn’t talked to me ever since. Bummer | Crushes |
Okay on Friday we got our English marks for an exam we wrote last month and she got less marks than what she had expected. So I recounted and turns out she was getting about 71/80 which were the highest in the class. When I told her she got vvv excited and whispered ily to me which looking serious. As the stupid guy I am I read too much into it and went crazy And. I finally told her about how I felt, she was cool about it but she didn't have the same feelings which I understood considering she's vvv pretty and well im me. However she's not talking to me as much as she did before and now I'm regretting ever telling her my feelings. Now I have to also pretend that I'm fine when it's eating me from the inside. | Crushes |
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Someone spread a rumour that I liked my crush and I knew the time wasn't right to confess So I denied it but now it's mad things really awkward and they were my best friend before this. Someone pls help I wanna go back to being friends | Crushes |
Hello, I am 17, recently I met a girl that i really like, we went out together one evening and went to her home after the party ( we talked a lot but i didn’t try any move, which is better i think). À week later went out à second time and we briefly kissed and we both told we like eachother)BUT now 3 weeks later nothing happened, we talked briefly ( like 10 seconds ) and it was a bit akward. I know i should probably ask her out but maybe she regrets what happened and I dont want to be intrusive. Any advice ? | Crushes |
The amount of times we have eye contact, without really ever actually having said anything besides a greeting is blowing my mind. We both have very piercing eyes and it's like we talk without saying anything. As well, her laugh is going to be the death of me, whenever she laughs/giggles I'm like ready to slam a wedding ring down on the desk, I want to hear it for the rest of my life and I know I could make her laugh a shit ton. She thinks I'm this mysterious guy across the room but I'm one goofy mf when I need to be. | Crushes |
(Sorry for the long post lol)
OKAY I’M GONNA WRITE THE REST OF THIS POST IN LOWERCASE BUT JUST KNOW I’M FREAKING OUT RN
Okay so i’ve been absent from school for like 2 days, which is normally pretty standard but I basically never miss school but sometimes I’ll be late because of a doctor’s appointment. Me and my crush only talk occasionally in school, and very very occasionally online on Teams (kind of like Google classroom I think) and we only talk if I have to tell him something (eg. one time a kid was recording him right before school ended, but I didn’t get a chance to tell him so I just texted him on there lol).
Anyway this man SENDS ME A MESSAGE ON TEAMS LIKE “are you okay you haven’t been at school” and my dumbass was watching fucking Mulan and I almost fucking screamed. Anyway I freak out and text all my friends panicking like omg what do I say “Yeah I’m okay, just got sick. Thanks for being so nice and checking in on me” anyway he’s like “it’s all good” “hope you get better” and I freak out for like 3 mins after idk why all I had to say was thank you but yeah and then I was like “aww thank you so much” I almost hit him with the “<3” but I figured that was too far (he knows I like him (i wouldn’t have used it just bc I like him, almost whenever I thank someone I hit them with one of those hearts))
Anyway istg this man does not even know what he does to me I’m blushing so hard omg I was literally about to make a vent post wondering if he ever cared or noticed when I was away. | Crushes |
So I'm in love with a girl I met at a music camp but we don't see each other very often as we live in different cities but we keep in touch.
The first time I saw her I thought she was very beautiful and when I got to know her I noticed that she also had a wonderful personality and after she treated me as good as she did I started to develop feelings for her.
At camp she complimented me every day and we had a few flirty conversations. And there were even more signs.
we didn't act out on it because she had a boyfriend, but she was kinda open with the fact that she likes all genders.
Quite recently I visited her and stayed with her for a few days.
She knew I had a camp crush And I kind of hinted that it was her.
On the same day that her boyfriend had broken up with her (a different one than the one she had before) we were at a Halloween party and she wanted a rebound. When she didn't find anyone I whispered in her ear "I can be your plan b" And then she looked at me and asked if it was her that I liked then I put my hands on her shoulders and said a clear yes. Then we talked for a while. She said she liked me and told me everything she likes about me. She said the only thing that would stop us from being together is that we live far apart and that she couldn't handle a long distance relationship. I said I can move anywhere I want in less than a year when I graduate and we decided we would talk more about this then and see how we feel then. After we talked, she kissed me on the cheek.
There were several signs when I was there like she asked me to sit on her lap and we were very close and hugged a lot and she opened up to me. I was happy and thought she liked me back but....
When I was on the train home, I had time to look up symptoms I had had while there. I had had a stomach ache, felt a little sick, had trouble sleeping, had very little appetite and felt that my heart was beating faster. What came up when I looked it up was love. I was in love with her! So I texted her and told her I was in love with her. But then she wrote that unfortunately she didn't feel the same and only liked me as a friend.
Why why? Why did she say she liked me and then say she doesn't like me? What is this supposed to mean? Does she like me or not? So my big question is, why do you think she did what she did. | Crushes |
I've fallen deep into this now.
I haven't had a genuine crush for a while, but I have 3 classes with this girl that's just as quiet as me, shares similar interests, and seems really nice. I've liked her since the end of August when school started but still haven't talked to her. I've been wanting to talk to her but of course we're both really quiet, there's opportunities for me to say something in between classes but I also don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Maybe I can figure this out eventually, but for now I'm just gonna contemplate everything.
Encouragement would be appreciated :) | Crushes |
I'm no whare near the type of person my crush likes the type of people she likes are out going social people and I'm the exact opposite of that I'm pretty much a loner I don't really have any friends and I'm alone most of the day and I mean I try to be social but I just don't really have any luck when making friends. | Crushes |
I like a girl who lives in my neighborhood, we've never talked with each other. We both just know each other's names and that's it.
I sent her an Instagram request which she accepted and sent a follow back request quickly. (She doesn't have a ton of followers, even though she can easily have at least 1000).
I know quite a few things about her, like both of us are studying the same course.
So should I text her or not?????? | Crushes |
There is no chance she likes me. There is really no chance anyone does and will tbh. Im too ugly for that. I can see people trying not to laugh as I pass them. I saw a photo on insta that had me in the background and just had to turn off my phone. I just sat there shaking for a half hour. It is even worse looking at me compared to my friend group. They all look amzing. Like im talking jeandrejvr level (look him up on tiktik if u don’t know who he is). She’s just so perfect too. Her smile. Her laugh. Her jokes and the way she cares for her friends. How can I get over her | Crushes |
(Really hope she ain’t on reddit bc I know she usually is)
its been 10 weeks since I started liking Her, she’s all I could ever ask for in a girl, she has a sense of humour, she’s beautiful, the way she looks at me, the way we talk, her jokes, our memories, my trust in her, our similar interests and the thinks we can relate about. Every night I wonder if she will ever feel the same way, there’ been signs that have helped lift my spirits but I mean a boy can dream. I just wish. | Crushes |
Yupp she's one lovely lady I gotta say, not really my crush but definitely my favorite person ever. She even got a cute name | Crushes |
It’s so annoying and exhausting to have hopeless optimism and giddyness of thinking they might care...
My crush has asked about me, to my friend, a couple times but not enough for me to be convinced they like me. My friend knows I like him so they tell me, knowing I’d probably be happy he even thought to mention me at all. And yes, I stupidly get happy about it. Only to crush that happiness myself, as I start to try and downplay all of it and really try to not get my hopes up way too high. As they mention of me, but never go out of their way to talk to me.
So why even mention me if they’re not gonna talk to me....? And I think surely, it’s just for convo cause idk I’m guessing it’s just a convo topic for the fuck of it, since they now me and my friend are super close. Idk anymore... sigh | Crushes |
I genuinely think I’ve made it up all in my head lmao, I think he’s just really nice and I like nice guys.
Ah oh well | Crushes |
Hello everyone, hope you’re having a good day. I’m a male, 16, and currently a junior. I’ve been starting to like this girl who is also the same grade as me and this past week I’ve tried to make that kind of apparent. I recently had a field trip and the girl was in my group. I would describe us as good acquaintances to friends as we talk sometimes and enjoy each other’s company. She’s complimented me as “very nice and helpful”. Whether that says something specific is up to interpretation— I’m still taking my chances. Anyhow, in this field trip we were both together a lot and joked around, talked, got ice cream together and shared it. I let her use my mini throw blanket as it was cold and I would adjust it on her to make sure it was providing the warmth. When we sat down to rest, I gently placed my hand on her thigh, in an appropriate manner, she didn’t react. We both went back to our bus to leave and I sat next to her. We were tired and both decided to sleep. Me, still trying to give it off, decided to rest my head on her shoulder while keeping my arm around her to hug her. I was only worried if it bothered her hair lmao. Then when arriving back I kissed on her the forehead and we got out and went our separate ways, saying goodbye in the process. This was 1 day ago, however I’ve had this crush on her for few weeks now and thought it was my opportunity. I don’t know what she’s thinking but maybe you guys can help me out? Thank you for reading this. Goodnight! | Crushes |
So basically I just realized my crush and I have had moments where... Basically I'm dumb and oblivious and just realized these things are not normal lol.
1. They wear my clothes. All. Of. The. Time. At this point I don't even know how she gets them anymore.
2. We shared cups one time while at my grandparents cabin last month. Maybe we were just too lazy to get another one but still. Indirect kiss lol.
3. We were at a scary theme park (same time as staying in cabin) and they clung to me the whole time, burring her face in my side. (for context, I'm ridiculously tall and they are short) Then, because my dumb "care for everyone and everything" instincts kicked in I ran my hair through her hair, and like calmed her some how. Basically that whole night was gay as shit lol.
4. Whenever I end up at her house we like cuddle???
5. They stay over at my house all of the time, also cuddling???
6. They fall asleep on me 24/7. For example, we both play volleyball and on the way back from late games we share seats. They fall asleep in my lap and then some form of cuddles happens lol. One time someone started playing carless whisper and leaned over the seat in front of us, it was funny.
8. She uses me as her girlfriend for excuses???
9. Texts. All of our texts. And phone calls too, really.
10. They literally ride the bus just so that they can ride with me. They've said this before. They also always ask if I want to walk home with them instead as well.
One of our friends let it slip that I like them, they haven't said anything yet, but it's only been a few days. Nothing changed though. Basically I need advice because my heart is doing summersaults and I'm constantly listening to romantic music because of them lol. | Crushes |
He doesn’t respond to my texts at all so I decided to unadd him.I might just block him too, I’m tired of being unappreciated | Crushes |
Okay so for any confused today. I have an ongoing crush on this guy. I have already talked about the gist of it on another post I made earlier in the week. I have an update. I don’t know if this is another sign or if I’m crazy but I was waiting after school to get picked up. I usually wait half an hour or so to get picked up and mostly everyone from my school left or got picked up. I had gone to the nearest store to buy an energy drink meanwhile to kill some time. I was still waiting not too long, but in the time I had been waiting I saw the guy👀. I had gotten scared so I was just playing it cool. But then he came up to me. I was dying inside because I did not expect for him to come towards me. He had approached me and said hey and I said hey back. I know I’m super awkward💀. He continued to ask me if I had been waiting for my bro in law and I said no, not today and told him I was just waiting to get picked up since we sometimes wait together after school to get picked up. He then said, “I always see you two going in the same car. I had thought you were waiting for him”. I then relied, “Sometimes we drop him off and other times he just does his own thing.” I and referred to having him dropped off his house. He pretty much nodded and said goodbye. I nodded, too nervous to say much. I’m starting to think he has a crush on my bro in law now since most of the time he has asked me anything has been about him and I. I need some feedback guys. No one bothers to ask me this and let alone him of all people. I only have a class with this dude and I don’t know if he might be finding an excuse to talk to me? I’m probably once again just imagining things. But what do you guys think? Is there a chance he likes me too? | Crushes |
HELP I DIDNT THINK I THONK IF HIM THAT MUCH | Crushes |
Basically title | Crushes |
There is some girl that I have become friends with, and will you guess what this sub is about? She randomly gets more energetic around me, and same applies with me when we talk. Tf is going on ت | Crushes |
i decided to confess over text because i felt very confident today and he rejected me nicely, he said he didn't know me that much and that he's sorry but that he still wants to be friends. i am a bit down, can't deny that, but i take it as a lesson rather than a failure. onto the next guy! | Crushes |
I finally told my crush that I liked her, but since I told her through text I’m absolutely terrified of how she’ll respond… I’m currently lying in bed and my heart is probably beating like… a million times per minute because of the anticipation… what do I do if she doesn’t reciprocate… I’m just far too nervous. | Crushes |
I want but no confidence in able handle relationship, some relationship problem, grow learn, concept of love, concept of self, i need to understand myself well but i can't do this alone, but i need this to approach crush when i prepared mentally, so that it will nice
Also i am too close minded and how to open but influence too easily which i didn't want | Crushes |
My crush replied to my msg after 3 days she was online all these days and replied me today. I haven't responded to her text yet what should I do what you all think need some advice. | Crushes |
There’s this guy I find cute, during lunch he usually hangs alone walking around the school or he’s with his 2 guy friends. He’s in a grade higher than me ( he’s a senior ) so we’ve never had classes together and I never spoke to him before.
I already found him cute the year before when I saw him in the hall but never cared much about him and didnt acknowledge his existence😭 Ik this is pathetic but he opened the door for me while walking to my next class, I already find him attractive so when he did that I kinda caught feelings for him it’s embarrassing ..
There was multiple opportunities where I could’ve spoke to him bc he was alone even my friends would push me to do it but I’m too scared and I also don’t know what to tell him. I really dont wanna seem like a creep that’s literally my worst nightmare💀.
I also saw him walk with a girl once and today with another one, these two other girls that I know saw him with each of them and told me that they seem like friends and they never did any sort of physical contact but I’m still unsure.
I told this girl that I also know thats friends with him that I think he’s cute
and I’m afraid she’ll tell him somehow.
He also is really attractive so I just think its weird that he doesn’t hang with too much people. I feel like he’ll think I’m annoying cause he seems like a loner and he seems like he’s not really interested in girls like that ykk I also literally am insecure so if he rejects me I won’t recover lmao | Crushes |
She is so sweet and cute and her voice sounds really nice and last night It took me a long time to fall asleep because I was thinking about her a lot. Also today in Spanish class she actually smiled at me which is epic. Bro she has the cutest smile | Crushes |
I want to talk to my crush’s friend if my crush likes me. I know her friend well, but I don’t know what to say to find the answer if she likes me. I feel like this could help me understand better than just straight asking my crush if she likes me. | Crushes |
Hello! High school student here! I have this huge crush on a guy and I want to know how I get his attention.
He is very funny and always makes me laugh, but we don't know each other very well, he is in my school’s band with me and we sit near each other...
How do I get him to notice me and start talking to me??? | Crushes |
He asked me if I wanted to do work together with him and I said yes!! We're planning it for tomorrow!! :D
It was a total shocker, my heart is beating so fast <33 | Crushes |
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So I work with this crush. He's so sweet and cute. We ended up quitting bc we didn't like the workplace & people. After he quits, he act so different he became more distant. Which makes me so sad asf and confused. He would talk to me one day then another day, he stops talking to me for days. I think I really like him and I can't stop thinking about him. He left me to overthink things and makes me feel a little insecure that he may talk to other girls or I may didn't show that I like him so what should I do | Crushes |
Can anyone tell me a cute story of how you dated someone you didn't expect to fall for? | Crushes |
Okay so, I am just so incredibly smitten with him. I have no clue if he likes me, and I doubt it haha... I told one of my friends, who is also friends with him and he encouraged me to confess. I asked him if he thought the guy I like knew that I had feelings for him, and he told me to just ask him. Basically confessing. To just ask him, and when I asked him why he said "Why not?" I asked if he thought it would go well in the sense that he wouldn't take confession terribly. He said he thought it would be fine. UGH...I DUNNO. And then this Friday, he texted me on insta. He has never had my insta before, he followed me the same day he texted me. He most likely had to ask for it, and I am surprised he asked me for help since we have a classmate who is just as smart a I. I was talking to that same friend and he said that he had texted me. He said "He told me he texted you. He needed to ask you something." AND HE DID. It was help for his test retake. We didn't chat much, I replied late and when he replied it was also late. He left me on seen so big fat L. I know it sounds like he has no romantic interest in me, but I kind of just need to get this off my chest. I know he cares for me as a friend, I told him "I like you a lot," when thanking him for being good to me and said "I love you too." and kind of held my hand. Yeah just.......I adore him so much. Yeah. Might confess when impulse control is at rock bottom and I have a good moment. | Crushes |
If you were offered 10k would you confess?
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It really took me by surprise. I talked to her in class because we were in the same group and she was barely responsive, and so quiet it was hard to understand her. As we left class I talked to her again. At first she acted surprised I was talking to her, then she completely opened up and had a lot to say.
I think she was interested in me, but was thinking I wasn’t interested, until I talked to her after class. That’s my best guess to why. It made my ~~day~~ week. The conversation felt surprisingly natural too by the end of it. | Crushes |
There is this girl I went to high school with that stared at me almost everyday in my English class. I would take a quick glance at her to find out she was looking at me, but I don't think she knew I caught her looking. It was really weird because I thought she had a crush on me and at the same time I was intrigued as to why she was staring at me. Wanted to wave to her, but I never had the courage to do it. I was the quiet kid so I never did talk to her. Ever since those years ago the thought still lingers in my mind if she had a crush on me or it was something else. I honestly find it hard to believe anyone had a crush on me though because I don't even think I was attractive in high school.
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Recently though, I found her Instagram and decided to follow her. Sent a her a dm asking what was the purpose of staring at me in English class years ago and it's been almost a week ago since I sent her that dm. So far as I know she hasn't seen my message yet, but I've been thinking of ways to get her attention.
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**\~** Tag her in my story related to a post about her
**\~** Like her stories(not excessive) until she notice me
**\~** Like some of her highlights
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Still though I'm not sure what to do so I need others advice on what to do and other options.
I will update with another post for the outcome of the decision I choose.
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tl;dr - I don't know if a girl that stared at me in high school had a crush on me or something else. Found her Instagram and sent her a dm asking why she stared at me, but she never replied yet so I'm looking for options to get her attention. | Crushes |
As the title suggest I took too long. To keep it short and simple recently my friend told me that my crush used to like me but no longer does. Any advice? | Crushes |
So I've known this girl for over 10 years (friends) c. Kindergarten. When we went to high school, we both went our separate ways, the catch being that I went to an all-boys school and she to an all-girls school. Just recently I've caught feelings for her that I never knew existed. Just after this, she came to one of our football games and we “talked.” it was one of those small awkward talks you have with people you haven't seen in years: “how have you been, how’s school,” etc (stuff you don't want a conversation to soly consist of with someone you have feelings for🤮). Anyways, after our “talk,” I felt defeated. I didn't know if I had missed an opportunity or presented myself as awkward by not carrying on the conversation (we were both equally awkward to each other tbf). That night, I couldn't stop thinking about our “talk” and her in general. I was not only ashamed, but now I'm honestly confused. Because we don't go to school together anymore and aren't as close as we used to be, we don't know too much about each other’s current circumstances, for all I know she has a boyfriend. I want to show her I have interest, but I have no clue how/if I even should. I can't get her out of my mind and I have no clue if its real or if I'm just lonely and seeking affection. Either way, it FEELS real. I genuinely enjoyed seeing her, but I have no idea what to do. I want to have the courage to tell her, but I value what of our friendship is left after these past years and I don't want to ruin it for her. 😕 help (I know I'm a mess) | Crushes |
So I've known this girl for over 10 years (friends) c. Kindergarten. When we went to high school, we both went our separate ways, the catch being that I went to an all-boys school and she to an all-girls school. Just recently I've caught feelings for her that I never knew existed. Just after this, she came to one of our football games and we “talked.” it was one of those small awkward talks you have with people you haven't seen in years: “how have you been, how’s school,” etc (stuff you don't want to hear from someone you think you have feelings for🤮). Anyways, after our “talk,” I felt defeated. I didn't know if I had missed an opportunity or presented myself as awkward by not carrying on the conversation (we were both equally awkward to each other tbf). That night, I couldn't stop thinking about our “talk” and her in general. I was not only ashamed, but now I'm honestly confused. Because we don't go to school together anymore and aren't as close as we used to be, we don't know too much about each other’s current circumstances, for all I know she has a boyfriend. I want to show her I have interest, but I have no clue how/if I even should. I can't get her out of my mind and I have no clue if its real or if I'm just lonely and seeking affection. Either way, it FEELS real. I genuinely enjoyed seeing her, but I have no idea what to do. I want to have the courage to tell her, but I value what of our friendship is left after these past years and I don't want to ruin it for her. 😕 help (I know I'm a mess) | Crushes |
So let's start from the beginning.
5th grade- he gave he cute cards and the standard "Do you want to be my gf, yes or no circle one". At first I tried to be polite and said that I'm too young to date and just not interested in it ( I actually just had a crush on someone else but whatever). He didn't take the hint and kept giving me cards so I straight up told him "I don't like you"
7th grade- Just as I put all that behind me I find out he likes me again. And his friend tells the whole grade. So I get teased constantly. I tell him straight up I'm not interested and I'm pretty sure he already knew he just wasn't over me.
9th grade- I go to a different high school than him. Completely forget about him. My friends befriend him. He asks one of my friends out (she kinda looks like me if it's important in any way) and she rejects him. I assume he's over me
And now I find out that he liked me in the spring. He told one of my friends (different friend group) that he still liked me
I feel really bad because I know what it's like to have a crush on someone for a long time (max 2 years tho). I can contact him but I'm just not sure what to do. We were never that close but he's close with my friends now and I'm just not sure if I should reach out or not
BTW I'm in a completely different country now so there's no way for him to see me in person.
Feel free to ask my any questions (just don't DM me please)! | Crushes |
well lads i think some context is needed for this so lets just get into this so i have a friend girl i have known for years and i have known her since i was 8\~9 i first saw her in primary school (forgot to mention im irish) and she was just another fish in the ocean and ya know we moved up through the years and slowly but surley i started hanging out with her more texting more ect when we moved up to second level teaching (secondary school middle school for you dirty forigners jk ) shit happned people changed i started to get treat like a punching bag if sombody felt like beating me up the would but not her she was always there to talk and never said anything bad behind my back (my crush in primary school started talking shit about me when i gave her a box of chocaletes and said i liked her ) so i have never ever confessed my crush on her to anybody and when is started school this year it realy ramped up texting WAY more often and last night i came this close on asking her out to a very upity resturant (nice food and drink all that jazz) but i just didnt have the guts to listen nobody will probably see this but if ANYBODY does please consult me thanks reddit david gowing edit im a dude im straight and no im not saying her name | Crushes |
Hey everyone! I wanted to thank you all for the love and support that I’ve gotten from this community. You’ve made these complicated feelings not feel so complicated. From your comments to your messages, I’m just so thankful for you all ❤️
So, it’s not happening and I’ve decided to fully accept that. I’ll post something longer later, but I’m working towards putting these feelings in a box and throwing them in the ocean. And for some reason, I’m not as upset as I thought I would be. I guess I’m at peace about it? Like don’t get me wrong, ya girl is still gonna have a sad girl night ahead of her, but it won’t be a sad girl month or a sad girl year.
The sunset on the train home is beautiful. It reminds me that with every cloudy and rainy day, there are these beautiful sunny evenings to look forward to. And I know that I can look forward to something amazing someday, I guess I just need a little more patients.
Anyways, thank you again for all the love! I know a few of you have been messaging me about your crushes and even though I’m giving up on mine, please don’t give up on yours! Please keep messaging me and keep hope alive. I believe in you all ❤️ | Crushes |
This is my first time making a reddit post but I really need advice. (I wont be using ages in this story as all people involved are in highschool) I’m a girl and so is my best friend. We met last year and became super close over the summer and bonded very quickly. We relate to each others trauma and have been through the same things and I think that’s what made it so easy for me to talk to her. She’s my favorite person and makes me feel so special and I get so excited when she text me and I get to talk to her. We’re able to have deep convos with each other and it’s so nice to have someone be there a listen to you. We have our own way to say “I love you” to each other and the fact that we only do it with each other makes it special. She’s the first person to know about anything that happens to me and the person I talk to the most. Over the summer something actually happened when we were at a friends house and we ended up kissing. I’ve kissed quite a few people by this point but this one was different and still my favorite one. I’m openly out to her and she’s never been weird about me being bi which makes me feel even more safe around her. Tbh I don’t think she’s straight based on what she says and things she’s done with me but I’m not going to make assumptions about her sexuality that’s not my place. The problem is she has a boyfriend who she likes a lot. Her boyfriend is actually a really cool guy and we aren’t necessarily friends but we get along well and he’s a really nice, funny person. I don’t want my feelings to get in the way of our friendship but this is the biggest crush I’ve ever had in anyone and what I’m writing now isn’t even how much I like this girl. I think I’m in love with her honestly and we even tell each other we’re gonna marry each other and she calls me her girlfriend. Should I try my best to move on or should I wait till I get my chance? | Crushes |
So around march I had met this guy and it was going so good. At first I gifted him a handmade bead bracelet with his initial on it and I swear he never took it off. Then I got him a cat backpack keychain thing and I had a matching one and he actually put it on his backpack. Then he gifted me a Lego parrot to build and a origami. And honestly I don’t know if that was a sign that he liked me. He would always tease me and text me everyday and at school we always sat next to each other. It was until around the end of May that a girl asked him out. We still talked and he kept the same behavior with me but I ended up finding out on the first day of June. and I asked him why he didn’t tell me and he said that she had asked him after school. But I was just curious as to why he didn’t just tell me and keep it a secret. When he was telling me he seemed kind of out of it and he never talked about his gf around me he tried to avoid any topic. So I don’t know I was confused. What do you guys think? | Crushes |
I (M) have a crush on this (F) I go to the same church. Long story short over the past year she acted so weird around me and twice I've asked her what is the issue between us and why does she act the way she does towards and around me. Each time she denied there is any issues so as time went on she continued to act in a very odd way and one of her responses to me wasn't the most mature.
So I've lost some interest in her. For months I've kept my distance and stay quiet and haven't said a word to her because of her odd behavior. I just don't want to deal with it. Yet she continues to come over to me and stare and won't even say hi or start a conversation. she talks to everyone else but me. Today I'm behind the camera for service at church. I can't go anywhere because service is going.
She comes over and stand right next to me. (Which I'm on a small stage sitting in a chair.) She then kneels on the stage I'm on. Like what the heck lady??? How about a little personal space. I haven't bothered you for months but you do werid things like this but won't talk to me. I don't get it she must like attention. | Crushes |
To start with what drew you in, Progress. Since the last post, we’ve talked a little bit more, they’ve laughed at a joke or two of mine, and we have a mutual friend.
and to the boring, life stuff.
I doubt this crush will ever go away. And I’d not complain. It gives me motivation to do stuff and be at school. It makes me hopeful for the future. I’ve been improving myself a lot from it. I’ve been eating more, trying to stay fit, much better self hygiene and all.
even if this crush never works out, I thank them for giving me a reason to stay healthy. | Crushes |
Hi it's me again. I know I basically post the same thing over and over. Sorry for that, but I just need some clarity. One moment I think he's infatuated with me, like he DEFINITELY!! likes me, another moment I think he doesn't care, to the point that I'm beginning to worry that all of the signs he shows ME might be for any other girl within my radius. He has shown signs to me specifically so I can't be completely confused, but his inconsistency feels like he's changing his mind. I know I overthink so much and I need help. | Crushes |
If your crush has seemed really busy lately, would that make you contact (like talking, texting, approaching, calling) them less?
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So me [19F] and this guy [23M] have been fwb for around 5 months now. Maybe a month and a half ago he told me he wanted to date me but not yet because i should have more experiences with guys before dating (he’s my first). He then backtracked and said he wouldn’t want me to be with other guys because he didn’t want to be replaced. I had never brought up feelings or an official relationship before this but I did tell him I would accept to be his girlfriend if he asked me to.
Well he still hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend, in fact he has become more confusing to me since then. He has become more affectionate and colder simultaneously. I’ve come to the realization that he doesn’t really like me that much. He has said and done things that make me sure of that. I also don’t think I like him anymore, I was in love with his potential.
So, with this being said, how do I end this situationship? I don’t want him to hate me but I cant do this anymore, it’s ruining my mental health. I also can’t tell him I want to “break up” due to his lack of commitment because he will probably just ask me to be his girlfriend and then continue to be a bad partner. How do I end this amicably?
Tl;dr: I still like this guy but know he isn’t good for me. How do I end things on good terms with him? | Crushes |
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