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For context: I(15m) am in HS and like this girl. We have 5/8 classes together. In the beginning of the year it looked like we were getting along pretty well. It looked like things were gonna work out. I decided to take it slow and easy and didn’t ask her to be my girlfriend right away. When Homecoming came around it was the perfect time. She was with me all night. We even took a picture with her leaning on my shoulder. I had a chance, but I chickened out and didn’t say anything.
From then on she seemed to get distant and when I gave her a gift for her birthday, she gave it back and said it was too much. For a while she even seemed to hate me. She distanced herself from myself. Over time she became neutral and started talking to me periodically.
She has recently said that she had a boyfriend. She said that her boyfriend is in another country. Since then she’s remained neutral and any conversations that happen I start.
I’ve been living in deep regret ever since that night of homecoming. I feel like she liked me back and she wanted me to ask her. She would always go to me first and say something to me every morning. I just feel like she liked me back.
Today I was a little ill, she noticed and seemed concerned. It’s the first time she’s talked to me genuinely, she seemed really concerned. I don’t know what to do anymore. I still like her and she now claims to have a boyfriend. What can I do? | Crushes |
I talked to my crush yesterday and then I turned around to see that her friend was looking at us and she was smiling. It hasn’t been that long since I started talking to my crush so is her friend just happy that a guy is finally talking to her? I’m a bit confused lol | Crushes |
I was actually pretty satisfied with how things with my crush were going for a bit, but these last few days have made me feel otherwise..
I’ve honestly just started to notice how many other girls he talks to, and it makes me feel really insecure and unimportant. The worst part is I really can’t tell what his type is or if he acts differently about one of them because I’m so worried about what he thinks of me.
Are some guys just like this? Do I even have a chance? Other advice on this kinda thing would be great too. Thanks :) | Crushes |
There's this guy (17) and I (F16) have had a thing for him for like 2 to 3 months. He's in year 11 and I'm in year 9 and I wanna get to know him but I'm SO.SCARED. I would talk to him, but I'm scared he's gonna reject me and make fun of me w his friends. Does anyone have any tipssss??? | Crushes |
[https://open.spotify.com/playlist/39fdnhHDN9tdXxPILJUyPN?si=9a1c92a974a24a0d](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/39fdnhHDN9tdXxPILJUyPN?si=9a1c92a974a24a0d) | Crushes |
So, there's this girl who I haver known for like 4 years, we haver never talked much as I tend to be shy around her, some time ago we used to do streaks on snapchat, recently I have been liking some of her insta stories and started sending reactions on some stories which she always puts a like. On the latest story she posted I gave her a compliment, to which she responded "Thanks ☺". Ever since I started interacting with her some of her friends started to accept my following requests, even some followed me back, despite me sending the requests months ago.
Also her parents known me quite well, probably even better than my own parents, also she seems to be always looking at me when we meet.
There's a festival going on my town next weekend and I thought about asking her to go with me, my fear is that we have not had that much interaction before and that me asking her to go might interfere in the relation that I have with her parents. | Crushes |
I had 4 crushes in every phase of education I've been into. Nursery, elementary, junior & senior high school. Everytime I get infatuated easily, but I never got the chance to talk with them because of my crippling anxiety and my on-and-off depression, and two of them didn't liked me and I got some slight bullying from them. I was lucky with the one girl in junior high named Sara, and although she knew really quickly over how much I was infatuated by her, I pretty much dropped the act whenever we'd work together and since then she's my closest friend and the person I regularly open myself and vent my frustrations to (which people here might be weirded out but that's fine).
Now that we're both in college, I pretty much got to reflect on my past and just realized that I have been fantasizing and shooting for the stars more often with them everytime, and I just feel like that isn't a good look for me. I don't have plans to be in a relationship in my life soon (that's another story), and I just realized that being friends just seems better with them. It feels more natural and appropriate in my mind. I know it depends on you personally, but I just love the general feeling from it. I don't care if they fall in love with someone else anytime soon, if their happy, I'm happy, and I just want to move on with the day pursuing my endeavors.
Just my $10 cents on the matter. Don't take any sort of advice from this; it's not the intention of this post. Peace + love. | Crushes |
I would really appreciate anyone that reads the whole thing, I know it's long tho but I want to thank everyone who Will read and even maybe comment. 😃
Arround 2 months ago I got framed for being possesive and doing things I never did, also saying things I never did too. My crush found out in the wrong way that I like her and the person that told her made up things that made my situation even worse. She hated me after that and removed me on Snapchat which to be honest was quite hurtful but I get her perspective since she is gonna believe her "friends" that told her more than a random guy who she gets along with well and has a crush on her (essentially she didn't believe my side of the story).
Then on Thursday we went on a school trip until Friday. She is part of the ninth A class and I am part of the ninth B class. There isn't any knowledge difference between the two but we just have it on that system. But out of the ninth class only 6 people went, 3 boys and 3 girls since we are part of an astronomy group. And one of the girls was her. The things I figured out on this trip are that she acts super suspicious (seemed like signs but I don't wanna believe they were) towards me and that she doesn't hate me anymore because we got along well.😃
Here are the things that happened:
On the bus when I called my friend to look my way (he was sitting opposite of me and my crush was behind him) I took a picture and thought nothing of it and was just happy to have a good memory since we are all leaving this school in 1 week and going our own paths (the school my crush is going to is gonna be next to the one I'm going to tho). But when I checked the photo I noticed that I accidentally got her into the frame of the photo, and she had the absolute horniest look ever looking right at me without me noticing. She was eating some snacks to but the way she looked was literally so Sus to me, because I called only my friends name to take a picture and yet the only other person that looked at me was her since I got her friend sitting next to her in frame too and she wasn't looking. Plus the look was literally the horniest thing I have seen this month.
Then we went to a restaurant and we talked about some stuff and I found out she was vegetarian which I didn't even know. It was just normal talk tho no Sus things involved.
Then we got to a popular ski location which has a path in the treetops that is a really known attraction in my country. One of the stations was showing rock types found in that area and I touched the rock which surprised me because it felt super smooth (texture) and glossy which I didn't expect. But due to my crush standing beside me I was super nervous and my brain wasn't working so I accidentally said that the rock was super soft. She slightly laughed and said in the horniest way one could imagine "cmoooonnnn (my name)" with a slight smile. I just made a small joke that "it can happen to even the best" which she found a little funny too. Then I overheard her saying something about my leg being hurt in a way that seemed like she cared about me (my right leg was actually quite fucked up due to obvious reasons like falling and stuff). She also seemed worried when I almost got KO'd by my teacher (he is the best teacher on the school) because he was taking his hoodie off and accidentally elbowed me right in the head because I was too close to him. He was really sorry but I didn't even mind it (I said it is ok) I just was amazed that my crush got a little worried.
Then we got to a 4 star hotel and we went to swim since it is famous for thermal water (natural mineral water). We changed clothes and went to group in the reception room. But because the room had an XXL bathing robe I decided not to wear it since I would drag it on the floor and just took my polo shirt to the pools. At the reception she noticed that I was one of the few people that didn't have the robe (her 2 friends didn't have it because they didn't want to go in the water), so she asked me "aren't you going to come swim with us (my name)" to which I replied "no of course I'm going to I just didn't take the robe" she then didn't say anything but I was suprised that she cared about me not going in the water (which of course I did).
Then at the pool she seemed surprised when I took my shirt of since I usually wear a bit more oversized types of clothing and she didn't expect me to have a good muscular build (I have a 6 pack and good biceps plus the other muscles since I work out). my friend got hurt and didn't go into the water due to it and it was just me her and my friend (the one without any injuries). We swam together and later played volleyball too and we met two Italian girls that came to our country at the pool too. Basically when my friend got out of the water it was just me, my crush and the two Italian girls. We played volleyball in the water and when I left she stayed to talk with them for a bit. We had a really good time. Then we went to get ready for dinner.
At dinner we talked a bit but the theme changed to which schools we are going to. (One other girl will go to the same school as I and we are really good friends) my friend made a joke that we will be together on that shcool (as a couple), but my crush said "no they wont be" and after that "stop teasing him (refering to me). Then my friend made another joke and said "you guys are all going to see when (my crushes name) will come to medical school (the school I'm going to) and say that she is looking for (my name and surname) and then they are going to be together" basically making a joke about the fact that I have a crush one her even though she thinks I don't have one anymore. She just replied to him "(my friends name) then you woke up" and smiled a bit. (My self conscience was literally killing me and I was super nervous but I made myself look chill that moment)
Then we played truth or dare (in her room) and because I came a bit late the only spot for me to sit was next to her on the right side of her bed. She got a dare to run the corridor (arround 100m long) while she was wearing and I'm not kidding you a button up crop top that she had held together by only one button. She started running from left to the right side but got shy (obviously she did get shy when he did that) when my friend started filming her and kinda hid to the side of one of the doorframes then when he stoped she finished the challenge. She is normally super shy just for your information.
We then had the 2 Italian girls come to the room too and she took extra time to explain how to say my name (it's a common one but Italians say it differently than us so she wanted them to say it how people in my country do) while my friends both have unusual names and she didn't take any extra time to explain it to them (just enough for the 2 girls to remember it). Then I have made some funny questions about the Italian language and my crush said to me "you are embarrassing yourself (my name)" with a small smile. We both laughed it off. Then the teachers said we have to go sleep (they had a set hour for us).
The next morning we were at the pools and we had a good time too. We all went to the Jacuzzi and were there for a bit. But my two friends (the other one could swim due to his wound not bleeding anymore) and they said to go do something else to which I complained since I just really set down. The other friend made another joke "well (my name) you can keep (my crushes name) company" to which my crush looked at him with a suprised slightly annoyed face, he just responded "what, I'm just joking" of course I went with them since then it would be really suspicious if I was the only boy that stayed with my crush.
After that I caught her looking at me at least 3 times and rapidly looking away when I looked back. I also heard her mention my name one time at the pool to her friends.
Then throughout the day I heard her say my name numerous times and we also talked a bit. She also looked at me occasionally on the bus and I could hear her talking about me too. she even sometimes listened to what is was saying to my friends. When we came to the bus drop off we all went our separate ways tho.
Is it just me or is it possible some of those were signs? I'm probably just imagining there being a chance for her too like me tho. I doubt any of those things meant anything. Plus I have trust issues due to past stuff so I really don't believe anything even if I see it. Heck I don't even believe myself anymore and its just sad but I was played so many times by everyone even the people I trusted that that is probably the consequence. She probably doesn't like me but it is worth a try to ask Reddit.
Edit: she also played smash or pass with her friend but only when I was arround. | Crushes |
So i made a post in the past days saying how i think my crush think im ugly . and today its confirmed
He kept hinting totally unprovoked how im totally unnatractive and no one can like me .and obviously i wont be his friend anymore but seriously this shit stings .
I dont know why he said that. because i never made my crush obvious for him but i guess he kinda sensed it. and wanted to shut me down before i try.
He is acting like im so ogre or something | Crushes |
This has truly been a roundabout path. | Crushes |
There is a girl I like alot she's a 10/10 in everyway but 1 she vapes and were in highschool just wanted to know people's thoughts. | Crushes |
Every guy that my crush has been in a relationship with has always been tall and slim build but I'm more tall and big build so I'm just wondering if she would still like me? | Crushes |
Both 18 and I’ve liked her for a long time. Just recently I’ve been talking to her more, mostly her starting the convos and joining into my convos and I kinda caught her looking at me a couple times.
I confided in my friends I liked her and after a few weeks of me trying to work up the courage they went ahead and told her friend group I liked her her while I wasn’t there. I later learned about it and apparently she already said she knew I liked her. She didn’t say she didn’t like me back to them but she hasn’t talked to me since (mostly because I’m avoiding any situation to be near her out of awkwardness).
I hate how this went down. She was beautiful inside and out and I really liked her laugh, her eyes and also that’s she super smart but is super chill about it.
I’m pretty sure she doesn’t like me back and I’m super dejected about it. I never got to tell her one on one. Going to school was amazing because I got to potentially talk to her. She was my motivation to work out.
I can’t even listen to music about relationships because of that. Summer is coming up and i feel it’s gonna suck. Idk what to do. | Crushes |
so basically, yesterday was the last day of school and my crush (he/him) said that he can't attend the school next year, coz he had to move 😔 I was going to give him a letter to cheer him up, but the time the bell rang he already left 🤡 | Crushes |
I somehow got her autograph a few weeks ago and I think I lost it:( :( :( At least I have its picture tho:(
And I have some half-destroyed eraser as well. | Crushes |
so it's me again from this [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/uyb0lc/i_need_some_advice/) and this happened sometime a week ago
she asked me if I liked anyone atm and I said her but she thought I was joking around | Crushes |
The rules:
1. You can't wish for romance, meaning you can't wish for people to fall in love (This includes wishing for a potion that, when used on them, causes them to fall in love)
2. You can't wish harm on anyone
3. You can't bring anyone back from the dead
4. You can't wish for anyone's personality or appearance to change
5. You can't make any wish that manipulates the thoughts and feelings of anyone
6. You can't wish to travel back or forward in time
7. You can't wish for more wishes. The three you have are the only ones you got
8. No one else can use this genie, only you. If someone else tries to use the genie, it disappears and you lose your wishes | Crushes |
i just woke up from a dream about my crush. i don't remember a whole lot, but i do remember the end of it, where i sent a cringy pick-up line by accident and we got into a fun conversation.
the truth is, that my crush would never do anything like that in real life. i texted him once, and he never even responded to my text, yet acknowledged that he did in fact see it to his friend.
i've been trying to get over him recently, since he seems to be interested in girls not like me, or at the very least, too preoccupied with school work and extracurriculars to even care. but i always go back and forth -- what if one day, he'll come to like me? what if he'll change once this event or dance rolls around?
and always, the answer is no.
still, it's nice to dream i guess. | Crushes |
As awkward as possible. | Crushes |
So for starters, I'm in secondary school and I have a huge crush on this guy. But he's definitely toxic. Every time I've asked him out, he's said yes only to turn around and say it wasn't him (this was over text) but there have been multiple situations where he's texted me asking for nudes etc and then said he was hacked or some other excuse.
A lot of people say that he likes me, but after he let all his friends make fun of me for something I wasn't even to blame for, I can't even bring myself to talk to him. I hate him but I'm also having mixed feelings. I don't know what to do.
I like to think I've moved on, but he's still literally all I think about
Help? | Crushes |
As a woman in a male environment I'm very sensitive to the topic of harassment, to an extent I don't know if I'm being too restrictive on my own behaviours. To make me doubt even more, my stupid heart got a crush on a coworker. Even though we don't work in the same team he passes in front of my office everyday and I don't want to make him feel unconfortable with my feelings.
I've been trying to get chances to get closer to him "organically" for almost a year now. But we're both introverted, working remotely half of the time and that's just not happening. Should I try and make a bolder move? Like texting him or inviting him out? I don't want to rush things either.
Also what is acceptable in the work place in your opinion? | Crushes |
I never thought that I would be posting here because I prefer scrolling through cute stories on this sub but here goes.
For a bit of context, I'm well 13, and he's a year older. We've known each other for months and eventually I caught feelings for him and he did too. We confessed through a game of describing their crush a few weeks back and I was shook. No one has ever liked me back.
We've been "flirting" (but seriously I do not know how to,) and sweet to each other. He's sweet and really nice and compliments me alot. I really like him.
It's just online. We've been video calling alot and he lives cities away from me. (We both live in the same country.) He wants to date only if I want to and I'm curious but I'm still young and I want my first to be special. Not to be spent on an online relationship. If we do meet at some point and alot more older, I'm willing to give it a shot.
And then here's the part where I seem like an idiot.
I sent him a vid about "not being in a relationship but you're not friends either" He replied with "We love each other" and I answered with "Lmfao" because I completely panicked and didn't know what to say. He asked and said "right?" and I tried to say "love's a strong word" and he replied with oh. Like I completely panicked and went into a whole paragraph saying that I love him too but not like that yet because I'm not ready and I'm not sure if whatever we have will bloom or just stay like this and yeah.
Thanks for listening to my ranting session | Crushes |
ahhh the guy i like asked me out 2 years ago and i said no (mainly because my friends really didnt like him i kinda wanted to say yes but we were 13) now 15 i like him and i havent spoke to him in a year and idk why l like him his a bit of a d!k and hes freinds are ew and i cant stand it ive never dated anyone and i highly doubt ill do anything but this is the first time ive really admitted it coz my friends still dont like himmmm | Crushes |
To the guys, what kind of shops would you go to if you went shopping with a girl? | Crushes |
I’m at maybe 2-3 times a week, just curious if this is the average if maybe too little. | Crushes |
Ladies, what are some ways you differentiate the type of teasing you do when it comes to a guy you like as opposed to someone you just find annoying?
Also, do you enjoy teasing/bantering? | Crushes |
Me and Marta met in middle school and at first we kinda hated each other because we were very competitive, you could call us rivals. With time we kinda started to get along and always teamed up because we were the best students of the class and started to become friends, we started going out and I was always at her house to do homeworks or just to have some fun together playing just dance, this kinda of stuff. I liked her back then probably because we spent so much time together and she was the closest thing to a girlfriend I had. Our paths shifted away for almost 2 years because we went of different highschools (we were meant to go to the same school but my math/science teacher was an asshole and he discouraged me to the point of making me feel useless) and due to other circumstances connected to my private life (mainly my parents' divorce). We met again at the village festival and we talked a lot about what happened and decided to not let circumstances separate us anymore. At the start of the 3rd years of highschool (We live in Italy so I don't know what is the correspondent for the readers from the rest of the world) I moved to her school because I wanted to fulfill my dream of becoming a doctor and also to be with her. During highschool she helped me get through very difficult times and got me out of depression, if I'm still alive it's probably thanks to her. She influenced my life and my personality positively turning me from an empty shell to an happy, cool and sociable person, she always gave me lots of attention and invited me everytime she did something whether it was going to the cinema, getting a pizza, going to the beach,shopping, stroll around, relaxing evening in his garden etc...
After getting out of my dark period I deeply fell in love with her and love spending time with her even more than before. Time passes, I can't confess to her because I'm scared that if she doesn't feel the same everything would change, she would feel ankward around me and our friendship would come to an end. While I keep overthinking and behaving like a pussy she gets engaged with one of my classmates (they've been together for almost 2 years through thick and thin) that I can't stand even nowadays; our group of friends starts growing and we start and she begins to be more distant and almost indifferent towards me. I didn't really know how to feel... I felt lost, I started to feel weak and demotivated until my 18th birthday in which my mother and my friend worked together to make the party as beautiful as possible despite covid regulations and after that we became closer than ever and had a very intimate relationship: we confiding in each other, showing us weak and vulnerable by exposing our deepest selves until I decided to take some distances and tried to forget her by ignoring her. Bad decision. After apologizing for for breaking our promise I managed to get in touch with her again and we did a lot of stuff together since then(I am avoiding telling experiences such as the trip to Hungary, the days at her house on the beach or the evenings at the disco so as not to make the story more long and boring than it already is). Last week after going out on the beach once I got home in the shower I realized that these times will end, our friendship is not destined to last forever, we have chosen different university paths, she has a boyfriend with whom to share life and I will always be number 0. It's not okay for me to be this role, I want to live with her forever and see us grow old together but now I'm destined to see her more and more from afar as time passes and our destinies divide. I had my chance and I threw it away ... I don't deserve her, I'm a coward. Don't pity me, I threw my chance away
EDIT: I kinda confessed to her this Saturday but we were drunk and high on the roof of a building and both us don't remember what really happened so it doesn't count. | Crushes |
So my work mate and I have known each other for about 3 months. He has asked me to go to a festival with him for a couple days, just him and I.
But at work, he doesn't really talk to me a heap. We chat online a lot, so I'm not sure if hes just shy or if I'm reading into it too much? | Crushes |
(saw someone else do this and decided to shamelessly steal the idea) | Crushes |
Me (crying): *confesses*
My crush: do you have anything else to say? I want to go to bed
Yikes not even a we can stay friends or sum stuff like that. | Crushes |
Literally a bruh moment | Crushes |
I’m supposed to go on a first date later today. I was asked to go to dinner and said yes. Then they asked if I wanted to go to the movies after and I said I previously had made plans with my friend. They said responded with “well can we doing something before? Because just dinner sounds boring.” Now I don’t even know if I should go at all. | Crushes |
so basically my crush and I are pretty good friends we talk everyday on what'sapp and irl. but recently she told me she's crushing on another guy, to the extent she learnt a new language on Duolingo for abt a week just to talk to him. but she is still v nice to me and we still talk. we also get similar grades and humor. do I have a chance? I mean I love her and I hope she feels the same | Crushes |
I'm gonna cut to the chase and cut out the bs. I have a girlfriend right now. We've only been dating for a month but things have been going great. Except the issue is, I noticed somethings off about the relationship. I couldn't figure out for the life of me what it was but, I think I figured it out. I'm still not over my girl bestfriend. My current gf doesn't like her cuz she thinks she likes me(which i doubt she does), but the issue is that I still like her. I've known her for about a year now and a couple months ago I realized that I was catching feelings. I caught myself doing things for her I wasn't even doing for my ex(gf) at the time. I would take hour long transit rides just to go watch her rugby games, buy her food in the morning and give it to her while she was in class even though she wouldn't ask me to, would stay up late talking to her, and etc. Just the small stuff. I refused to belive I actually liked her cuz I cant. I cant like her. She's my BFF, and I think thats all she sees me as. I never told her how I felt only because I thought I would get turned down and our friendship would be ruined. So I stayed quiet. But she's also so hard to read. My friends would tell me "dude she totally likes you" , but its so hard to tell. At the time I was having relationship problems and anytime I talked to her about it, she would tell me that for my own happiness I should break up with her. She helped me alot during the time and kept telling me ill find someone better, and that she might be closer than I think. And ik off the bat you'll say she likes me. But then anytime anyone asks if me and her are dating, she goes "God no. Hes a brother to me", but then tells me ill find someone really good. And a few times I've mentioned to her that I don't think I'd be able to pull a 10 as a joke, and she responded back with jokingly "uh, me". Except she would also sound serious. I am completely lost and don't know what to do. Things with my gf are good right now and this is going to sound cringey but, she's not her. I can talk to my BFF like she's a homie, but cant do that with my gf. There's also alot of other stuff I skipped over but I just don't know what to do | Crushes |
hey reddit,
so there’s this guy i’ve been talking to for about two months. we have a lot in common, we get along really well, and he admitted he likes me and i also do. we also went on a date, and made plans for more.
however, over the past like ~3 weeks, hes been incredibly distant. he only responds to me like once a day, and the conversations just feel…off?? keep in mind, this went from talking all the time to little to no communication. i initially didn’t think much of it (after all, hes technically not my boyfriend; i can’t be upset over this), however it’s just such an abrupt change for seemingly no reason and i’m just so confused. i tried asking him about it like a week ago, and he said that he was just busy. i may just be overthinking, but im not sure. what do you guys think?? | Crushes |
Hey y’all. So I’m 19 rn and at the current moment I’m in I really wanna get productive with all the things I love to do, and when it comes to relationships I’ve tried to keep away from them cause I’m still young and have life to live and money to make. But there’s this girl who’s like the greatest and probably most gorgeous person I’ve ever met, we only became friends recently but she’s into everything I’m into and I’m yet to have a dull conversation with her, now I can’t seem to get her off my mind. Which is weird because she has a boyfriend. But said boyfriend is studying a whole 1hr and 30 minute flight away from us.
I know all the signals are pointing towards doing nothing which is why I haven’t but because of our friendship I’ve driven her around countless times when my friends and I were going clubbing, and we’ve been in situations where I felt it would’ve made so much sense to ask her out to dinner or something.Furthermore she’s described me as among the top men she’s ever known, and in most cases she’s dated/ had sex with those said men.
Now I’m just confused and don’t know anymore. I’ve left it alone till something significant pops like a break up or marriage.
But do you guys think I should say something ? | Crushes |
So the like the first problem is he happens to be my ex-"fiance's" ex and something about that doesn't seem right, I'm also just a twinge messed up in the head and I don't want to hurt him but like if I don't say anything about it in the next I'm ghosting him because idk if I can handle attachment from afar, and even though I believe he's flirting vv hard and has had a past with some girls I'm pretty sure he's only into guys so 😞. I just don't know whether to say anything or just ghost him already; we're going to get coffee for my bday tomorrow so I hope like something can happen there, but maybe he hasn't been flirting and he's just really supportive. He did say I was very desirable and the coolest girl ever, but I'm very hesitant. I've only ever been in one relationship and only flirted with that one person, so I'm hoping someone who has had more experience/wisdom has some advice? | Crushes |
I don’t see my crush anymore but I still like them, and it’s hard to get over them. How do I get over them? | Crushes |
I’m just sad and want to vent because I’m pretty sure my crush and I both like each other (or at least he liked me at one point).
but because of our circumstances nothing will come of it. No hanging out, no confessions, just friendship and then moving on when our lives inevitably part ways. I feel like if our circumstances had been different, he and I could’ve been a good match, but I’m finally starting to accept that that won’t happen, so I feel like I’m grieving a relationship that never even existed. It just hurts because I liked him a lot. I feel like an idiot for letting myself get in so deep. | Crushes |
I really like her. In fact, I love her. I only wish happiness for her. So when she tells me she’s into some douche named Tristan that is a grade A asshole, I don’t know what to think. For one, I feel like that relationship won’t work, and I don’t want her to get hurt again. On the other hand, I only want her to be happy, so if she wants to get in a relationship with some guy she started talking to, then there’s nothing I can do besides accept that and be happy for her.
It just stings because she gets upset sometimes that she doesn’t feel like anyone loves her, and here I am caring for her more than most people, but she likes some random guy out of the blue. I don’t want to be a jerk so I can’t tell her how upset this makes me, but for god’s sake this hurts like hell.
I don’t know what to do. Should I confess how my feelings for her, or just sit and watch and be happy for her? | Crushes |
Yesterday me and my crush went to this art thing and we were just talking about random things like usual. After the art thing we went to go eat and she was laughing at all my jokes and we had a great time. Another thing is that I'm looking for a job and she wanted me to work with her and actually seemed genuinely excited when I said I'd apply. But there also a chance that shes just being nice | Crushes |
my girlfriend. I have such a massive crush on my girlfriend and when she hearts my messages and we say the same thing like a second after the other it’s like we’re thinking the same thing and i love her. | Crushes |
like, have you ever seen someone’s post on here and thought it sounded weirdly similar to your situation, only to find out that it was the person you have a crush on talking about you? i’m genuinely very curious if this has ever happened to anyone here. | Crushes |
Dear Reddit, I’ve decided to give hints that I like him, but I have the social skills of a goldfish.
So I come to you asking: how do I flirt? | Crushes |
I'll go first. We were in our school bus n this dude who also i a rival for me in matter of my crush, he was acting too flirty infront of her tht day in the bus, he sat in her seat with her wraped around his arms around her n said "don't worry we r good friends right?" But she immediately pushed him n he literally fell like a mile away, he hit his head but she didn't care about him. N the bus was watching it like 0_0 cause she's one of the normal silent kid, like me, but as soon as she did tht he never tried it again. Lol | Crushes |
In an hour give or take, (whenever this musical is over) I'm going to confess to him. I don't wanna wait too long to ask him out. Really nervous but my best friend is here :] I'll tell you all how it goes!
Update 1: JUST SENT THE MESSAGE ILL TELL YOU ALL WHEN HE RESPONDS IM PANICKING
Update 2: I was left on opened, hope he's just panicking a bit and doesn't know how to respond 🥲
Update 3: sadly this might be the final update, been left on read for a long time now. | Crushes |
You guys are literally all so sweet. This is the most non toxic sub I’ve ever seen. I love every one of you guys and I wish you all good luck with your crushes! | Crushes |
We been talking for a while and we flirt all the time, and I already told him that I found him attractive and that I want to go on dates with him. So he pretty much already knows that I like him now lol no going back but I don’t regret it. Ever since then when I basically told him that I like him, I’ve been giving him little subtle gifts like bracelets and other things he likes. I always do this though with people I like for some odd reason even though we aren’t dating I just feel like everyone who is very close to me and I love very much deserves a gift just because. I’m that kind of person that goes overboard as well, my therapist says it’s in my kind nature. But I just wanted to know is it weird of me I do this even tho we aren’t dating yet? | Crushes |
For me I have about three:
The best one is when we were in gym and we had to play some tag game, I tagged her she wasn't so happy at first, then she turned around and said "I didn't mean that!" Multiple times
Another is in computer science, she hot glue the top of a paint brush on and came to my friend right next me and said "it's so hot" Then I said "can I feel?" Then she said "No! Just kidding!!" In a high pitched voice have a big smile on her face
The last one is when we were going home I said "Hi" she turned around smiling and said "Hi!" very excitedly! | Crushes |
I kinda have a crush on Samus Aran from Metroid lmao | Crushes |
There were a few things that made me think they liked me during a shared class but after it ended they became very cold and a little mean. We ran into eachother again but she didn't seem happy to see me and when we parted ways she didn't say goodbye, just walked away. As far as I know I didn't do anything to make her upset 😕. | Crushes |
I’ve been in love with my bestfriend for 3 years almost 4 now. She is the first person i have ever loved. At first i thought i had a chance with her and even thought she was in love with me as well. We are each others best friend and have a amazing friendship i cherish a lot. A couple of months ago i found out she was in love with someone else. Despite being a little spiteful of the entire thing i decided to get over her and attempt to maintain our friendship. I figured that if she thinks this person can make her happier than me then i think she should be with them. I have been pretty successful in getting over her but i’m definitely not fully over she keeps pulling me in by talking about how everyone always thinks we’re a couple, how she thinks we were destined to meet, getting us matching jewelry, putting me before anyone else etc. I realize she’s just doing these things with friendly intent but i always see it as “maybe i have a chance”. This of course is jut my wishful thinking the only method that has helped me get over her is distancing myself. We have summer break so that’s been helpful but she’s always texting me and wanting to call but lately i’ve been kind of avoiding her coming up with excuses about how i’m busy. I can tell this is bothering her and damaging our friendship what should i do?
SUMMARY: My crush likes someone else and i want to get over her the only thing that’s been helping me do this is distancing myself however this is damaging our friendship what should i do? | Crushes |
THEY SAID THEY LIKED ME, AND I ASKED THEM ON A DATE!
**THEY SAID YES**
***LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO*** | Crushes |
I’ve never really understood if this was pure egotistical or just aware. But, personally, if he wasn’t all for her, I think I’d be the one he liked. Ik his type of woman. He likes women with dark hair, grungey makeup and constant black clothes. In short, it’s very similar to me. But she’s cute makeup and bright clothes. He likes women with tattoos and piercings like me yet she has none and prefers to be as feminine as possible. He says how much we have in common, like adoring the night time city lights, and squealing over tat placements and motorcycle models. Like us fangirling over our favourite musicians that just happen to be the same people. Him being overly excited about me playing the elec guitar as if he’s the one playing. I just don’t understand. I have shaggy, dyed hair to which he constantly compliments, saying how he has always liked it yet she has curly hair with no added colours. When she has social media breaks, I’m always the one he talks to, but now that she’s back, he’s hardly replying back. | Crushes |
So, this is strange. But there’s a girl who is a barista at my coffee shop, who before I even met, I came across her RANDOMLY on Instagram. Didn’t think much of it well because I don’t know her and I was just randomly scrolling through Instagram. Three days go by, and I’m out walking around my local plaza with my parents and there’s a coffee shop there that I have never been to, like ever. I always just go to Starbucks, well weirdly enough my dad says “hey I’m just gonna grab a coffee from this place really quick I’m gettin kinda sleepy” so I go into this coffee shop with my dad, and there’s the girl working behind the counter. I was soooo beyond shocked to see her, it was so strange. Almost as if I was supposed to meet her? Anyway we exchanged glances, glances that were almost like she knew me as well? It was such an interesting coincidence. 2 months pass, I go back to that coffee shop and she is there. Staring at me even though she is not the person taking my order, but the person in the back making the drinks. She’s just nonstop staring at me, with a look of both surprise and fascination. I started going to this coffee shop, and every time I’m there, again we have these very intimate glances, and I have caught her staring a few times at me. Whenever we talk I just feel that there might be something there but maybe I am just reading too deep into things because I am attracted to her. But I feel that there is a mutual attraction there I’m just not certain. She always makes my coffee in-house, instead of to-go even though the other baristas will make my coffee to go. She smiles nonstop at me when she isn’t working behind the counter, she’ll be talking to a friend and waiting for me to look at her just so she can smile and say hi to me. And she even gave me something off the coffee shop is super secret menu before they put it on the actual menu and said “you will be the first to try this so let me know how you like it” I don’t know I’m just curious what other ppl off the internet might think lol. It’s also totally okay if any of you think she could care less for me, I’d prefer y’all to be honest lol. | Crushes |
Sometimes I see the news or all the bad things happening in the world and I get that common “impending doom” feeling. Not sure if you’d call it fatalistic thinking but it’s that thought process where the world feels like it’s ending or could end (might be dumb I know). But once I get into this line of thinking I get these impulses to just want to reach out to him however I can and just tell him how I feel. I usually am the one to spew my feelings first and lately I’m avoiding it because of the countless rejections. But when I feel that impending doom I just think what if the world did end? What would I have to lose?
Again - I am aware it’s not realistic to think this way. It’s just my anxiety talking and being swept up in bad news but it seems to always make me want to just go for it 😅 anyone else do this? | Crushes |
I've liked this guy for a couple of months now, and I feel that maybe he was attracted to me, but I'm too shy for my own good. We talked here and there about some interests... People have told me that he's probably also shy around me when I told them how our conversations would go. He also liked to stare into my eyes, but I have a bad habit of avoiding eye contact lol... also called me really cute... I'm stuck on what I should do... My heart kind of feels broken since it's been a week since I've seen him too. Can my fellow shy people help me? 🤎🌧🥺 20 years old and I've never been in a real relationship as you can tell--- | Crushes |
So I confessed 😀.
He asked if it was a prank and in what way. He said he didn’t know what to say and then told me he’ll say it another time??? Idk what “it” means and when he’s going to say that but idk. Very confused on whether I got rejected or not tbh.
Edit: Uhhh i asked him about what he was going to say and he just said idk. welp, i think i just got rejected | Crushes |
That’s it really :D
I work as a receptionist at a nail salon, it was my first day at work. | Crushes |
So let's start with the update! School ended about a week ago and I promised my good friend who I will still call L that I would get Alicia's (found out that's how you spell it) number and I had a chance but I looked down at lunch and it was that moment that she walked past and I didn't get a chance to talk to her so I pissed myself off because I knew it would be the only chance I got and it was. I'm also going to start work on a song to (when I get her number and enough courage) confess to her. I'll ask her to hang out one day and sing it to her live or I could record it all at home and send it to her. What do you guys think would be better?
Vent time. Yay. I can't get her out of my fucking head no matter what I try. I see all my friends being in relationships and I'm the odd one out that never has or will be in one and it makes me feel so shit and bitter constantly which makes me bring the mood down any time I'm around people. That's why I just stay in my room and wallow in my own regrets. I know I'll never be with her but that doesn't stop me from hoping does it. I shouldn't have hope I know I don't in any universe have a chance to be with her.
If you read this far. Thanks. | Crushes |
and what do you like the most about them now? | Crushes |
there’s a girl at work who I’ve been crushing on since she started working there and I’m not sure how to approach her. Ppl say to “just introduce yourself ask her where’s she’s from, her name” etc etc.. But what they don’t get is that the approach itself is the most daunting part of it all. and even then you gotta stay chill and coherent and not seem like a creep. she’s really pretty. and im sick of always being afraid to approach the girls i like. | Crushes |
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I’m also a guy. I’m bisexual and I’ve not really had a crush untill now. He’s also bi but idk if he likes me or not. | Crushes |
Hey to everyone reading this, I am a 19 year old girl that havent been in relationship. I didnt even had my first kiss. I got to a moment in my life where I just want my firsts to be special when it got so far, but time is passing and I am getting older. Everyone around me had sex and talks about sexual experiences and I am just where waiting for my prince to get me my first kiss. This whole story wouldnt be so hard for me until nighttime when I feel so lonely and just want someone to think about and dream and maybe experience how is it to have someone in your bed. I really do not have any contact with male population and there are days when I feel like I am not even attractive enough to catch someones eye. Nothing in my life havent changed like everyone does around me. I feel like I just stand here and watch my life pass by me. I had my first love that is kind of still my love but he lives 400km away and we dont see each other often and havent talked for years. He moved on w his life cause we never had been a thing. Its a lot going on and I just want a boyfriend a real one and I can not that let go. This thing is on my mind always. Everywhere I go I scan people and be like is here my future boyfriend. I just want to get out of this situation. As long as I think about it, nothing will happen so I just want to let it go so my prince on white horse can come without me expecting him. | Crushes |
I need some help. This guy has a crush on me and he has sent me two flame emojis (🔥), what does this even mean, does he like me or am I in the friendzone? | Crushes |
I’m bored so I’m doing this | Crushes |
So I am gonna surprise her with a movie at my place. We will watch it on my projector. She doesn't like the horror genre of films. I am planning to kiss her meanwhile of that film if that help. Any good movie suggestions? Thanks | Crushes |
Literally.
She never ever left me on seen.
She hearts my every message. "I'm traveling to Poland for 5 days" Heart. "Hey, look at this cool Challenger SRT I found" Heart. "I'm going out to take photos of some cars, text you later." Heart.
She cares (or at least she's giving an impression like she does) about me. "Hi, how did you sleep?" "Hi, how's life going? | Crushes |
I texted my crush apologizing for a best friend's attitude he kinda had towards her and she said its whatever. what does that mean? | Crushes |
like a month ago i unblocked her to ask something and started a small conversation she asked me if i still wanna be friends. i knew that if i do it was gonna get bad again. i didnt want her to feel like she's the problem because everyone was leaving her (she is the problem she hurt me many times about the same topic i talked about it and did the same) and i also didn't wanna be all alone next school year (i severely lack social skills and have about 3 friends i feel close with and one of them is her and she is so bad for my mental health).
i wish i just said no. i thought maybe if i talk about the things that im hurt about maybe she would put effort and maybe this could be a better friendship and not as damaging to my mental health as it was. honestly she did put effort but for some reason I'm still kinda hurt
i get this weird feeling whenever i see her notification and i used to be unable to breathe and feel heaviness on my chest continued with sudden crying after i see her snaps until i unadded her
im still hurt about some stuff I think its my pride this time but now it feels like a waste to talk about them thinking nothing will change and i will feel the same
now i asked if she wants to hang out and i will see how i feel irl with her (school with her was sometimes good but mostly i cried nearly everyday)
even though im still hurt a lot from some actions of her i dont think she is a bad person one part of me hates her but my other part just misses how things used to be
now its been more than 1 month since i became friends with her again and i am thinking of cutting contact again but one part of me doesn't want to (i will be mostly alone at school while seeing her completely fine even though she is bothered by people leaving her but even so when i see her i will feel extremely worthless)
but it's probably best to cut her off i just wish that i said no when she asked if i wanted to be friends again fell into the place where i tried so hard get out again | Crushes |
Love reading these :) | Crushes |
She has a pet name for me, I won't say what it is for it's a variation of my name, but it makes me feel so warm inside everytime she calls me by that pet name. It's mostly when she wishes me goodnight when she uses it, or when she is proud or happy for me. It just makes me feel so warm and happy, that I go to sleep with the biggest smile after she said: "Goodnight \[Pet name\], sweet dreams" | Crushes |
https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/w7j2vq/idk_what_the_fuck_im_doing_anymore/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share for context but basically I decided to leave her on read after she responded to something I said and ask "hbu" I left her on read overnight for around 9 hours till I realized I didn't know what the hell I was doing and answer her but the thing is... She never responded to it. She usually either always responses or at the very least like the messages I send so I thought she must be busy but more time past and then the next day/yesterday she still didn't response or even read it and... She posted a story and did a random anonymous question things and I realized I might he getting ignored. Later that night I ask her a question cause maybe she didn't know how to response to my answer but now it today and still no response.
I'm not sure why exactly she ignoring me, maybe it because I left her on read or maybe another reason but now I fucking hate myself and I wish I could change the past. I would do almost anything to get a response to her and I just wanna cry. What worst is all this shit happens right before my flight this evening in which I'm traveling out of state for the first time in my life so yeah I'm just worried about this and can't enjoy anything
I doubt she reading this but I'm sorry | Crushes |
i am desperately in love with him🥴 | Crushes |
OK so,
Ever since starting school in September, I had noticed this girl that sat behind me in my psychology class. She seemed very quiet and dismissive so I didn't really bother talking to her. After a few classes I noticed myself looking in her direction quite often, and ended up realising little things about her personality and whatnot. I even began noticing little changes she made about her appearance and even the socks she wore. Soon enough I began thinking about her occasionally outside of class.
I'm guessing this is some sort of crush. My heart flutters whenever I enter class, hoping she's there, and I sometimes look around campus to she if she's with her friends too.
Although I would approach her if this were a normal situation, I am unable to since I am also a girl. I had only come to terms with my sexuality a little while ago and have not thought about talking to people of the same gender as me before. This girl also seems very withdrawn from what I've seen, and I feel like approaching her as I am would make her very uncomfortable. The only type of contact we've had is in Instagram, where I asked what classes she was taking next year, in hopes of starting a conversation. She gave a basic reply but we weren't able to continue the conversation properly since we are basically strangers.
Does anyone have any type of advice? I've never used reddit before, so I don't know if this will work or if people will even reply, but I have a little bit of hope.
Thank you for reading :] | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on my friend for about 2 years now… it took a long time to come to terms with my sexuality and accept myself, which is also why it took so long for me to notice the signs…
When we’re together we extremely comfortable, we can easily just talk for hours and we have a ton of the same interests… not to mention there is some physical tension as well
I mean heck, I don’t even know is he’s gay … he is giving sign of it… or maybe he’s bisexual? Either way… what should I do lol? | Crushes |
she doesnt snap alot of people, like less than 20 so being lost in the inbox or whatever you call it is not possible sometimes she snaps back within 1-2 hours and sometimes a day why is she leaving me on delivered on purpose? | Crushes |
whenever i see one i always think its her but i know its not she doesnt live close especially today was walking home and i saw one im like it cant be shes on vacation away from here | Crushes |
today he sat next to this girl n kept on chatting and smiling with her he used to always sit next to me n even when he was already seated he would change his seat to sit next to mine but he doesn't say anything just good morning he texts me often but doesn't talk to me in person other than good mornings | Crushes |
Please give me some pointers | Crushes |
Is it just me or whenever y’all see ur crush there is a bg music playing back of ur head along with fake scenarios lmao. | Crushes |
So… I (21F) like this boy (19M) I do musical comedy with and I think he likes me back. We were going for a bite with other friends and he put his fingers on my hand very subtly and when I reciprocated he intertwined our fingers. He did it again when we were at the restaurant and I’ve never been more over the moon.
We’ve known each other for about two months, but we’re just starting to hang together.
Any tips on how to know him or like him?
It’s the first time I’ve been interested in a guy since my last relationship and I really don’t know how or when to make a move. | Crushes |
Hi all,
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced a situation where they had a crush on someone for a while, then life goes on and years later, they re-appear in your life or things progress and it turns into a success story? | Crushes |
Is there a difference between asking someone out and asking them to be your gf?? Just wanted some clarification on this because it’s been circling in my head for sometime | Crushes |
It really wasn’t cute, just normal. We’re collogues and we walked by each other and she said hi and I said how are you and she said surviving how are you and I said good.
It’s silly the stuff that can make your heart melt when you have a crush. Any interaction immediately makes my day. How oh how to have an actual chat though… that’s what I want now. | Crushes |
This girl i know, part of a friend group i know, got my number from a mutual friend and she wanted to make sure i was ok because i was recently attacked (story for another time) and she got people to sign cards and the like. Since then she’s been really friendly despite us not being very close and we’ve been talking nonstop.
I don’t know if she’s just a sympathetic girl or if she likes me, i also don’t know if i like her. | Crushes |
So recently my crush was showing his friends messages he sent to me??? Does that mean he likes me, we have known each other since nursery and I like him alot. Like I said in my previous post he plays footsie sometimes and he goes a bit red and we pas notes during clas so does he like me? | Crushes |
Welp, he was not flirting and I was wrong.
The end 🙃 | Crushes |
If you haven't seen any of my other posts, I went on a date with my friend Charlie whilst I still had a crush on my best friend Hannah. I needed to move on and maybe I did it wrong but it's done. This all started when I went on a Vacation and Charlie came along with me because I was going to visit Hannah in her new home state. Hannah had told me afterwards that if Charlie had told her she had feelings for me she'd have been very surprised but after this trip, she wouldn't have been
Charlie did confess to me and she was scared it'd ruin our friendship but it didn't, after awhile of consulting I decided to go out with her at least once since I did used to have feelings for her. So we did and if you saw my last post it went well and we ended the date making out. I felt something with her and some might say it's to fill the void of not being with hannah but I don't think so. She showed me it's possible to actually like someone else.
Before continuing I needed to get closure with hannah and she claims no she wouldn't date me even after all she said. If you read my other posts you can see all she said. She said she used to have feelings for me back in high school but she couldn't date anyways and now I guess we grew too close that she sees me as more of a brother. I'm completely fine with this but I guess I was worried she's lying because she doesn't want to ruin anything between Charlie and I.
She's the kind of person who'd rather put others needs before her own that's why and she's a great liar, I've seen her beforehand and know she doesn't crack easily. But oh well I asked and she answered so I'll leave it at that. I'll continue my relationship with Charlie and hope she's telling the truth about not being bothered by this | Crushes |
There is this girl (f16) that I (m17) met after summer break and I share most of my classes with her. I literally crushed her out of nowhere and I'm kind of helpless at this point. We started chatting a bit via chat and mostly talked about school during class. We met at a party on Halloween and I ended up accompanying her to her brother's car. When I got home I asked if she had arrived safely. A few weeks ago she had her wisdom teeth removed and I offered to keep her updated on the class. These events led me to chat with her about school, as I mentioned earlier. I think I need some advice on how to proceed. | Crushes |
My crush and I haven't been talking as much as we used to but I feel like she still wanted me to ask her to accompany me to homecoming. Because she seemed to be avoiding some of my texts and not irl tells me her parents surveil her phone. Unfortunately for me, I've had negative thoughts about it which lead me to beleive that she really doesn't like me at all and is just using me.This sort of prevented me from asking her.
Anyway, two weeks before homecoming I finally had the realisation that she'd been hinting at me that I should ask her. I thought it may have been too late but after consulting a mutual friend, I decided to do it. Again unfortunately we won't be seeing each other until after then so I instead opted to text her last night.
When she replied, I was expecting a straightforward answer but once she told me that her gran moments before I messaged her passed on, I was absolutely shell-shocked (one of my parents passed away when i was still quite young). She also said she'll talk to me later. I really have the urge to check up on her but because we don't chat much over text, and because I did ask her to attend homecoming with me and haven't gotten a reply yet, I feel like she's going to think I'm badgering her for a response. I don't care for a response I just want to make sure she's doing well. I really don't know what to do.
TL;DR
I have been putting off asking my crush to homecoming because of negative thoughts that I've had about myself. After realising she had been hinting that I should, I opted to text her last night (2 weeks before homecoming) because I wouldn't be seeing her anytime soon. She was going through a loss that I never knew about because we dont text much at all. She told me that she'll talk to me later. I really want to check up on her, but I feel like shes gonna think I'm poking at her for a response even though I don't care whether she responds or not. I really don't know what to do | Crushes |
It’s been a day and there is still no response from my crush I’m getting nervous | Crushes |
I’m 19 and non binary (fem presenting) and i have a really really really big, sad and stupid crush on my supervisor. They are queer and really cool and nice and i’m pretty sure they said they were 22.
To preface, i barely know this person. i know what’s on the surface—the basics, really, and a little bit into their past but nothing too personal. BUt i can confidently say that i really really really Really like them. The day i met them, my first day at my new cashier job where they trained me, i went home knowing i was in for a ride i was in no way ready for. So, i’ve decided to come to reddit for advice for the first time because i’ve talked my best friends ear off for the almost 4 months i’ve been working there.
This person and i work maybe 2 morning shifts with each other in a normal week. However, on the days where i work mornings and they work evenings, i’ll see them for a little bit at the end of my shifts while they add up the cash in my register and i fill out my float sheet. we greet each other and there’s small talk, but i get so nervous to make an effort to talk more 😔—regardless i still find myself anticipating the end of the day where i’ll see them. Their presence alone just makes me really happy.
they make me nervous and shy, but also comfortable and so so happy.
Random, but i noticed early on that this person really likes unique earrings (cigarettes, lil clown guys, daggers / etsy core ig)
And so… i like…started buying cute earrings from etsy and claires to maybe get their attention—and they do indeed compliment them, to which my heart just goes 💥💥💥
And i have so much i wanna ask them, but my mind goes 🫥 / or i hold it in and move on at every opportunity.
Like it’s so bad that i only JUST managed to hold a convo with them long enough to ask them about their age. (i should note that i have social anxiety due to my stutter—that’s pretty severe in my eyes—like words will just get Stuck and refuse to come out of my mouth and it’s EMBARRASSING YALL)
the really awesome part about this is that they have a girlfriend 🥹
**a couple days ago i scraped this whole thing, and told myself to just be rational and not wait for someone who’s in a happy, presumably healthy relationship with their girlfriend who they share an apartment with,
but then,
this morning they came in with their hair tied back some Eren Yeager type shit and holy- i felt a hundred punches to my chest
This really sucks cuz I was on a 6 year streak of not catching feelings. And then then this 5’8 (im assuming idk im like 5’) beautiful gorgeous human with a lip and eyebrow piercing who has a gf comes around and f***s me up!! and now my heart is gonna be squeezed like a caprisun all over again!!!
anyway,
we have a christmas party coming up for work soon…. they’re probably gonna go and take their gf…. (i think if i meet her, it’ll finally sink in, and ill idk, cry)
what do i do mannn 🫠 | Crushes |
Last summer my old college crush texted me to wish me happy birthday and I figured this was the best opportunity to ask him if he's doing alright to which he sounded a bit surprised
Him: Why u askin?
Him: Im in \[COUNTRY'S NAME\] at a friend right now?
I dont understand why he was so surprised of my question, I thought that maybe i was intruding too much and apologised (it backfired since he replied that he reached out first lol). He wanted to know if I'm back home or if came to back to uni where he also lives.
In our last convo that he initiated he complimented my hair and asked me if I'm ok. It's been 3 months since and the only reason why I haven't texted him again is because usually he reached out when it's a birthday, name day, holiday, etc., never randomly and I'm the only one texting him with no proper reason. I just fear I come off as too annoying and that he may not even be interested, just plainly being nice. Plus to be honest, I don't even know what to ask him without raising his suspicion:') Our communication has always been bad and messy since we've met.
He's very smart, sociable, but negative, insecure and really anxious when it comes to relationships, although he had no trouble talking to other girls from our class.
Should I simply text him out of the blue again or move on from someone who may not like me that much? | Crushes |
For context I like this girl and we both follow each other on TikTok. I was gonna post make something and post it. Not specifically for her but like in the back of my mind it was to get a conversation started since she often initiate a convo about a post I made. Idk if this is weird to do and I’m not specifically doing it for her but idk man | Crushes |
I am an international student. I met a girl in my class. Stay with her makes me feel very comfortable. She is the best girl I have seen ever! I want to see her everyday.
I just crush her, I don’t want to tell her that because I don’t want to lose her. So I choose to be a friend.
The Christmas is coming, do you think an apple watch 8 is a good present for her? | Crushes |
My crush (my work from home supervisor, I know… shhh) told me he had a stress assessment today then he signed off for a couple hours and his status was that he had some family issues. How can I say that I was worried about him without saying “you okay? I was worried”?
Bit of context, we’ve been developing this flirty-banter relationship, with a bit of emotional connection too. But only for the past 6 weeks? So I don’t want to come on too heavy but I also just want to let him know that I’m here and I was thinking about him (even though in reality it made me sad that something was up). We’ve both shared before that we have some issues with ~the mentals~ | Crushes |
A mutual friend called us cute together. We were mostly up close to eachother as it was cold and it was her time of the month yea I've been told that bye her idk how I feel about that info but I give her chocolate so I have the cure. | Crushes |
idk if anyone can relate... but i texted my crush for the FIRST TIME yesterday and he responded to me in 10 mins, and after replying to his text, he left me on delivered for a day. he finally answered today and now im doing the same back to him (leaving him on delivered for around the same time) just so i dont seem desperate/not busy 😭😭 is this a bad thing??? | Crushes |
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