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Background: I am 16 F and My crush is the same age as me. Tomorrow is valentine's day for me (I live in the UK) and I want to ask him out. He looks so handsome, his personality is just fit for me and the way he talks is just too good. The problem is, on some days he responds to my text almost instantly and on others he takes 2-3 days. He's always busy on something and I really don't know what his hobbies are yet.
I hope he comes to school tomorrow. How do I start the conversation to confess to him?
Please leave your ideas down in the replies! | Crushes |
I've been seriously thinking about telling my crush how I feel, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. I've weighed out the pros and cons:
Pros:
I won't have to worry anymore one way or the other
If he likes me back, we could potentially be in a relationship
I won't have to worry about losing him to someone else because I didn't tell him
Cons:
If he does like me back, more likely than not one of us would have to leave the store
If he doesn't like me back, things could be really awkward at work.
I wouldn't tell him immediately, I still wanna talk to my therapist about it lol
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Me and my crush are friends. We are in the same group. I think that she doesn't like me back. Should I still tell her? | Crushes |
or wait till she comes back home, i missed her this morning. either or i was planning to give it to her as early as possible, or should i wait and not text and give flowers in person tonite | Crushes |
So I'll write here everything that's happening right now.
One month ago my life started getting better. I was making money, friends and working on myself a lot, but I still felt like a lifeless body. I thought I lost my soul and all my sentiments because of everything that happened recently. When I didn't expect, I met her. Since I first saw her I thought she's beautiful, even that everyone thinks she looks strange. I hang out with her a few times and I realized she's perfect. Everytime I looked at her and she looked back at me, I felt so alive. Everytime I get a message from her, I smile. I kept denying the fact that I can love someone even that my friend (that is like a mentor to me because he's older and wiser) told me that this is love. I think of her all the time. I can't do any hobbies because I think of her too much. She's my world at this moment. A friend told me something like "so you wanna sleep with her?". I didn't even thought about that sort of shit. I just wanna hug her and kiss her. I wanna lay in her arms, I wanna feel loved, I want her to feel loved. I want her to be happy. I'm going through some though times and keep thinking about ending so if she rejects me, it's possible to end up bad for me. I struggle with depression at this moment, but everytime I see her, it's the only time I feel happy. I don't know if she likes me too. Her cousin said she's hard to pick so it's challenging. I haven't felt fear in a long time, but this time, I'm terrified. I also haven't cried in almost two years, but she made me shed tears. She's my life at this moment and everything is meaningless without her. My dreams are nothing compared to her. If I end it, O want everyone to know that I wanted to be a good man, a hero, a legend. I never wanted to be the villain. | Crushes |
So my friend texted me in 6th period saying he has a gf. My friend has sixth period with him (and I think his gf) so she probably found out bcuz it’s Valentine’s Day.
I’m kinda sad ofc. But I do know his gf (we aren’t friends but we’ve talked a few times) and she’s rlly nice and pretty so I see why he likes her. I’m happy for them. His gf is really sweet and def deserves someone good like him.
I just wish I figured out on a day that was not Valentine’s Day. | Crushes |
So I’m going just be extremely blunt. Literally just a text saying “do you like me?” Just straight up. I’m very exhausted emotionally. This girl has lived rent free in my head for 5 years and that was honestly pretty warranted. We used to talk/text everyday, sit and talk at lunch everyday, now she barely looks at me when passing in the hallway. Sometimes straight ignoring me. Our lockers are literally right beside each other and she barely acknowledges my existence now.
Here I am just overthinking everything, and not wanting to go up and ask what’s up cause that seems pushy. It’s a big cycle and I’m tired.
So I plan to just be as blunt as possible, preferably over text since I don’t want to corner her in person. But if she says yes, then WOOOOOOOO. If no, I’d preferable just go completely no contact. It be easier for me to just completely forget this part of my life.
Idk why I’m making this post, feedback I guess. But maybe it really is just a very dumb idea, lmk. | Crushes |
so i’m intrested in this boy and then today he texted me and asked if we could talk while we talk to the bus, so i went and walked with him. he gave me my favorite candy and then asked if we could hang out over break!! i’m so happy rn! | Crushes |
I sent my crush an anonymous valentine’s note. I had a small talk with her today (which was kind of weird) and after school she texted me whether I was the one who sent her the note. I said it was me (in a “playful” way) and she said she is thankful, she appreciates it, but she “has eyes” for someone else right now. Since we will be seeing each other in school, I texted her whether we could forget about this and continue like nothing happened. She seemed to agree. I got rejected, but I tried and even though next days will be weird, I think it will be all right. | Crushes |
I sent my crush an anonymous valentine’s note. I had a small talk with her today (which was kind of weird) and after school she texted me whether I was the one who sent her the note. I said it was me (in a “playful” way) and she said she is thankful, she appreciates it, but she “has eyes” for someone else right now. Since we will be seeing each other in school, I texted her whether we could forget about this and continue like nothing happened. She seemed to agree. I got rejected, but I tried and even though next days will be weird, I think it will be all right. | Crushes |
I had no idea tomorrow was Valentines Day so during school I hastily wrote a note saying: Happy Valentines Day. I like you-Anonymous. I did it to see if she would look towards me more often or just give hint that she hopes I wrote it. When we were leaving I put it on her table without anyone noticing. I am so scared. I am regretting my decision greatly. Should I have done it? | Crushes |
Singles... ASSEMBLE | Crushes |
i got my crush a lollipop and he took it and then he caught up with me and said (nicely at least lmao)
“hey i don’t rly want this”
“i don’t either”
i took it back and he said he’d give it to someone and i told him i’d just eat it lmao
“yeah i was like confused when u gave it to me”
idk if this is rly a rejection rejection but imma take it as one and tbh i don’t rly care- he’s a good person and a good friend
i am surprisingly not sad, i think it’s kinda funny tbh and he knows i like him (i think 💀) and ik he don’t like me so alls well that ends well even if it’s not with you | Crushes |
She smiled the whole time and gave me a hug afterwards.
I forgot to give her the other half of her valentine but I’ll do that after school | Crushes |
So I asked my ex to be my valentines right (I’m in 6th grade) we were dating last year. I asked her twice and she rejected Me quote “I just want to spend Valentine’s Day alone” any ideas to make her crush on me also? Ps I have a HUGE crush on her | Crushes |
this is a call for all of you, I beg of you please make your move asap no metter where ar enough in life, don't wait and do the mistake I did, good luck | Crushes |
The day after tomorrow is my female friend's birthday, with whom I am in love. She had invited me to her birthday party, which I rejected. I rejected the invitation, as mainly girls would be present there.
Should give her a gift, on her birthday, as we study in the same school.
Any advice; Should I bunk school on her birthday?
Her birthday is on 16th Feburary. | Crushes |
So idk if he likes me or not. He's confusing. So I have been snapping this guy and annoying him for no apparent reason which pissed him off and he blocked me and I was dying because my friend got his snap too and we was both annoying him so I was talking to my friend and said he blocked me and my crush was a bit away and he walked over and said "Whyd (guys name) blocked you? Whos (guys name)?" And I didn't say anything and he said "a man you've been talking to?!" During this his voice was pitching in weirdly and I said No and he said Oh and walked away. When he said Oh he sounded not excited tho so idk. Opinions? | Crushes |
That's all, how it's going 14 of February for u guys? | Crushes |
As some of you knew from my previous post, today I gave my crush flowers. It was a single red rose, very pretty too. All she said was "thank you" and smiled softly before we had to go to class.
At lunchtime she pulled me to talk alone and said "Listen I am very touched by the flower you gave me but we are just besties for life you know what I'm saying?"
I already had a bunch of tears in my eyes so I just let out a "ok" and she gave me a hug before walking off.
I hate Valentine's day and so should you. | Crushes |
Holy shit guys its currently 2am but I have to update yall on what happened today. So basically after sch tdy I asked my friends if they wanted to eat lunch, but since the rest of them had plans for vday, it ended up just being me and him 💀💀
Usually I wouldnt think too much of a 1-on-1 lunch with a friend, but since today is the 14th and because it's with HIM, I was absolutely dying inside PLSSS
Also throughout the entire lunch it didn't feel awkward at all and it was so comfortable and nice, plus him being so freaking fine didn't help LOLL
Ik its not that big of a deal but imma be thinking about this for the next few days 😭 | Crushes |
From my last post I said I would confess on Sunday but since I snoozed my alarm I wasn’t able to meet him and give him his Valentines present. I think he’s a bit annoyed at me because he’s not been opening any of my messages 😭 I guess I’ll confess this weekend (we only meet once a week) | Crushes |
So as it's Valentine's Day today, I decided to tell my crush (backstory in my previous post) how I felt about him.
I saw he was active on discord and decided to first send him 'greetings from [city I'm in]' He replied with 'greetings from [city he's in]' Then I got a DM from his best friend telling me that [my crushes name] doesn't want me.( I think they're on some camp together). Then my crush dm'd me telling me that there is something wrong with his best friend. I replied with a question mark and he said that he saw the message that his best friend sent.
Idk what to do :') does anyone have any advice? | Crushes |
My gf recently broke up with me. While gradually healing from it, I take it as a chance to working on myself, getting over my fears and back into dating again.
There's this cute girl at my local gym, which I've noticed for a year now, very regularly.
I finally want to see what happens, shoot my shot and approach her. Basically, if the moment is right, and she's in between sets or so, I'd like to talk to her, tell her I've noticed her, think she's cute and like her work ethic and stuff and wanted to get to know her.
If she reciprocates, I'd ask for her number. Otherwise I'd just wish her a nice workout, tell her she can take it as a compliment and move on with my day.
Do you think it's a good idea? I'm trying my best to not bother her, if she's not interested, but I also wanna take my chance and live without the regret. | Crushes |
I noticed recently that they’re being excused from doing practice pacers in PE and I’m curious, but in a worrying type of way. Like do they have breathing problems or is there something wrong with their leg/s. I hope they’re ok. | Crushes |
we rarely talk and if we did it’s mostly about work.. I wanna be friends with him because I want to get to know everything about him without us feeling awkward :( | Crushes |
I'll keep it short.
I and her (after being close for 3 months) stopped talking on 16th Jan. She initiated conversation 2 times after that and even said sorry but at that moment I just wanted to initiate the topic over which we stopped talking but she didn't.
Now, I wanna talk to her and clear things out but we are not able to meet in real life, over text would be too bad and I don't think I should initiate it because it was her who kinda gave birth to the problem.
Advice please.
PS: more context in the comments. | Crushes |
I know this is last minute but in my last post I mentioned my gift for my crush is finished and I’ll give it to her once she comes back from her girls night out and I just thought if I should either leave flowers, chocolate or the gift (a drawing of her) is enough.
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[14M], [14F] and [14F]
For context she kinda has a gf, but they might just be ready good friends. They never confirmed it, it might be very well a joke but they are very close together. Also lgbt is very taboo here. We are all in the same class
We didn't really talk that much until my crush told me to stay with them and talk; the asked me about my love life, I told them that I broke up a month ago and that I'm single.
Next week I joined a conversation with them and my crush told me to go to the bathroom with her. I walked her to the girls bathroom. Today we played volleyball with some other girls. I told her that I don't really belong there as they were all girls and also I haven't played volleyball in my life and she told me that I'm always welcome and to not worry about it.
Also someone asked her and her gf/friend if they are gonna do something for valentine's and they got a bit offended.
Now for the bad parts; she rarely approaches me and no, she's not shy, she talks to however she wants. Second things second, I don't think I interacted with her in the last 2 months without her gf/friend being by her side. Also there is a clear somewhat romantic energy between them so I don't have hight hopes.
What do you think? Also excuse my English, I had to learn it by myself | Crushes |
So let's say I send a text message to my crush in which I say that I think she's beautiful and that I would like to know her more. If she's not interested, then there's that. But if things work out nicely and I get a positive answer, then what? What should I respond to that and where should we go from there? | Crushes |
One of my closest coworkers told me (19F) that a girl we work with (18F) is (or was, the timeline is still confusing me) interested in me, but was too scared to ask me herself out of fear that I didn’t ‘swing that way’ (i’m bi). But anyway it’s been lingering on my mind since he told me because I really wasn’t expecting her to like me because we would never, or we would just barely speak to one another, and I always just got the impression that she didn’t like me or she is just shy which I thought explained why she would keep her distance from me. But knowing that she’s interested in me makes me want to get to know her and break the ice between us, but for some reason I’m not sure if it’s a good idea. I mean, I do think she’s really pretty and attractive but i’m wondering how can I get to know her without making things awkward? Any advice? | Crushes |
I HAVE A CRUSH ON THIS GIRL THAT IM FRIENDS WITH AND SHE GOT ME A CANDYGRAM THAT THE SCHOOL OFFERS PEOPLE TO BUY AND IM LOSING MY SHIT GOD IM SO GAY (before you say anything about confessing, she has a boyfriend who im also friends with and also have a huge crush on LMAO) | Crushes |
So me and my crush have this thing where we swap teddy's it's a long story but I think it's cute but anyway we swapped for the weekend and she sprayed perfume on my elephant so I'm currently melting | Crushes |
I don't have a crush. | Crushes |
Be brave, be confident, and get out of your comfort zone!!!! You got thissss🥳 | Crushes |
she keeps going out of her way to talk to me even though im barely her friend, and like she keeps just doing cutesy stuff and i can i almost dwaikujdhaiwjhdiawhd she is being so cute bro idk if shes just being nice or what but my friend thinks she like me back i dont know what to do awoiudaowihdaiuwhd | Crushes |
I dont know if this is the right flair...
I'm beginning to think this subreddit is my therapy. I've never been a fan of valentine's day but I never took it seriously either, until now. I feel like I'm not making any kind of progress, even though I have more evidence that the guy she was hanging out with is just a friend (I think).
Thursday we are going to have a test, which makes me stay locked at home today to study. My crush texted me today with some questions about the subject that is coming up there since I am the only one who understands it (it's programming). I don't know if it's on my head but I feel like I'm entering the ultimate level of being a simp. Instead of explaining the subject like a normal person I decided to post a pdf with more than 25 pages in which I explain everything in detail, now that I think about it, am I not going too far to get her attention? I don't even know if the feeling is reciprocated.
I wish life had a relationship bar like in the sims, just to be sure lol | Crushes |
So my crush is my friend and today in class she gave me and her friend a little gift bc she’s giving small things out to her friends. I feel bad bc I wanted to get her something but didn’t wanna come off as weird. BUT NOW I WANNA GIVE HER SOMETHING. And today my school is doing candy grams. Should I ask her what class she has during lunch so I can send her one? | Crushes |
I dropped off my present while she was at school anonimously (even though you could very easily tell that it was from me). I woke up today feeling sick so i used all if my remaining energy to drive to her by bike for 1 and a half hour (the things we do for love... ). Ive been sleeping for the past 2 hours and during that she found the gift and just asked "this must be from you right?". She hasnt been online now since she said that so idk haha. Like... dont you have ANYTHING to say?
(Fyi i made her a mixtape with songs she doesnt know yet and may like)
This girl man... :) | Crushes |
Almost every time we talk or something like that she starts laughing and I love it. I can't stop smiling when I see her like that | Crushes |
it just feels so weird. he was flirting with me a bunch and i had 10 people tell me that he liked me, including my own mom. he agreed to be my valentine, and then said he didn't want anything more than that. idfk. | Crushes |
I really wasn't expecting him to come to the lecture today since he never does but he DID. ON VALENTINE'S DAY. And here's me fleeing from him because I'm too much of a coward and because he makes me blush for no damn reasons. I haven't seen him in weeks and I really looked forward to Valentine's Day to see if he would show up so I could finally utter a complete word to him but I didn't. Why am I like this. I just want to bury myself alive rn | Crushes |
Well, how did it go? Through text, I made it as casual as possible stating that I needed to get something off my chest, appreciated conversations I had with him and ended off telling him to take the long text either as a confession or a text of appreciation.
What I got in response? A sufficiently long text thanking me for the meaningful conversations and bond we hold. He appreciated the thought of me expressing my thoughts out too.
It's been 3 hours since I admitted these feelings to him. I'm genuinely so glad I decided to text these thoughts out, and for him to understand where I'm coming from too... This was definitely a win for me.
Happy Valentine's Day! | Crushes |
The numbers. I fucking have it. We talked a bit today, and man shes so adorable. The school was finished and I wanted to just confess, and oh boy that was a success. I said she was cute and if she wanted to get know each more, we then exchanged numbers and said goodbye. Hell yes | Crushes |
Started to admire this colleague after working together with him on a project, and soon my feeling grew from there. But I would like to know if he is still single, because if not then I will start to keep my distance from him before my feelings get too deep. I know the best answer is asking him directly but I would like to avoid that coz we’re in a office environment and currently still need to communicate with him for the project. Would like to avoid the awkwardness if possible and I’m still not that close with him yet to ask such personal question.
Is there any hint I can look out for? For today Valentine, I did notice he is working from home today (usually we need to be in the office on Tuesdays )and then logs off early from work at 5pm sharp (not his usual log off time, usually is later). Not sure if I’m thinking too much.. | Crushes |
Hi ! I (18) have been a little confused over something for the past few weeks. So there is this person that i think about a lot and am a lil’ obsessed of(no stalking but more like waiting to see the bits of their life on social media or a text from them). But what’s odd is that I haven’t talk to them since 5 months and at that time I didn’t feel like that about them. It kind of popped out of nowhere and it is really confusing me. And I have never felt like that over anyone before so, like, is it a crush or something else ? Idk. Please help me figure it out. :/
I talked about it with my best friends and they told me that I should maybe try and message them about the way I feel but, like, it’s been months since our last conversation so I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do.
So I am posting here to have other opinions and maybe some people that relate to me.
Thanks and have a nice day !
(Btw English is not my first language apology for the possible spelling mistakes :D) | Crushes |
The question is the title. This poll, like all of the other polls I have, lasts for 1 day.
If you haven't voted on my other polls, here are the links:
Poll One - [A Question](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/11254yd/a_question/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
Poll Two - [What is your current status with your crush](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/11257lp/what_is_your_current_status_with_your_crush/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
Thank you everyone! Have a great day! :)
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The question is the title. I have one more question, so stay tuned!
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Happy Valentine's Day! Today, I have a quick poll for all of you. The question is what are you going to give to your crush? I'm also going to ask another question soon, so stay tuned!
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happy valentines everyone
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It's been a week since I gave the letter which contained my feelings towards him and should I confront him face to face about how he feels about me? Asking advice here and may updateeee | Crushes |
Rejected, now we got 6 months gym motivation and free pre-workout.
We go JIM | Crushes |
having feelings for an old crush while i’m dating someone. i’m so awful i hate this | Crushes |
I'm a 17F I don't have a love life all I do is go to work and back every single day, well I'm starting to like this older coworker who's 20, because he always does stuff for me, if I'm too short he gets it for me,he serves me my food at work, he's funny asfffff and cute and always asks me if I'm okay I know it's just him being polite, I asked everyone what they were doing for valentines he's single and was joking he was gonna save valentines for the loves of his lives ( his dogs) 😭 I know it's a mutual attraction but I'm too young rn | Crushes |
.. | Crushes |
Ok | Crushes |
sucks as fuck | Crushes |
we confessed to each other last week, i did not like them until last week when she confessed to me first. i guess i got excited by the idea of her liking me and tricked myself into thinking i like her too, but now i think about it i definitely only like her platonically. she asked me to be her valentine and i said yes and will see her today, i will see how i feel today but i am quite sure that i only like her platonically, so after a few days should i tell her that i was confused and i am sorry but i don’t like you in such a way? because i do not want to waste her time with a relationship where i do not truly like her. | Crushes |
I got rejected he returned the chocolates and put a note saying "I cannot accept it because I am a walking Red flag"........ | Crushes |
can't get over how I was treated
whytf was I always okay with bare minimum
not even bare minimum
it was just nothing and I was treated like shit like tf
this is a fucking trauma to me now | Crushes |
She "rejected" me like last week. I cry but slowly come back to my senses and start VERY SLOWLY moving on. But then she ruins all my progress when she sends me (only me, i checked) a snap with flowers yesterday(day before valentine's). She was flirting with me at school tdy. Wtf is going on. Women are so damn confusing 😭 | Crushes |
I'm still sick and I didn't go to school today. And I'm upset of this. I waited many weeks Valentines, because I have same class with my crush in this day. And who knows, maybe something would have happened. But now I can't know. I hope something even happen in this weeks, because in this week is Valentine. But It isn't the same thing still. I don't even know can I go to school even tomorrow. So yeah, I should never get excited about anything because it always happens like this😭 | Crushes |
So I was at dnd and my friend who knows I’m bi sat on my lap for the hole 3 hour session and I fell asleep with my head on my shoulder and I’m gonna fucking die | Crushes |
just fuck it | Crushes |
this sucks
looking at someone who doesn't look at you | Crushes |
idk this fucking sucks asf
I can't believe I actually like him sm like why I mean why
he ain't even my type
here I am crying in the washroom listening to the playlist I created for him
every line which reminds me of him sucks asf seeing him sleep on her legs and them cuddling all the fucking time
breaks my heart all the fucking time all the fucking time
like all the time all the fucking time
reminds me of the first time he said hi
first time Our eyes met first time he helped me with the microscope how he looked so lost and was not rven in this world how he was feeling like he wanted to run awayfrom this place I fucking could feel what he was feeling
I hate this
I've never liked anyone this much
I really wish we never met ohgod why I mean why
it's so hard seeing him everyday the only thing I feel is pain pure pain total pain every single day I try to get better
I wakeup and think I'm gonna get better and that m gonna see him as a friend and get over him but every night I fucking dream about him
I honestly wanna get over him
it hurts a lot
today is shitty valentines day
and he loooooks so fuckimg goooooood
lol this might sound cringe but our fits look so good together I mean our fits looks like we're matching idk I just feel good I mean he's wearing black shirt n whitish pants and m wearing white tshirt and black pants
lol
ik this is gonna sound cringe
and idk what he was doing in the last seat the teacher made him sit kn first seat next to me
but then it was occupied so he went back
we had coffee together
I couldn't look at him in the eye
all the time we were talking I was looking down
he must've known that Im still not over him
another friend asked how many roses I got lol
I said 0
he said same
such a liar he is
has agf and still says same
and I said roses r cringe he said I realised that everyone who's bitchless finds roses cringe
we laughed
I said roses r waste of money
he said once in a while it's fine
lol
he was cute man
he asked me if I had plans I said no lol
idk I fucking like him sm seeing them together hurts a lot A lot A lot I can't bear with this
I should've told him and only if I didn't have fucking social anxiety fuck social anxiety
mannnnnnnn fuck valentines day
qhats a valentines day when I can't be w him fuck this day fuck everything
I wish I could disappear from his world or he could from mine
honestly I wish we never met
I'd never know what it's like to actually like someone if I never met him fuck | Crushes |
In my life I’ve only talked to one crush before and ended up in a relationship (idk how) now I’m single and I realise all my past and current crushes, I’ve never tried to talk to them or if I do, it’s just really bad and awkward for me.
Anyone else the same as me? | Crushes |
I close my eyes and all I see is you
every hi
every bye
every ( my name )
you've ever said
and when we're apart and m missing you
I close my eyes and all I see is you ♡ | Crushes |
My crush and i have liked each other for maybe over a year now. He is nerdy, sensitive, very caring and has ADHD. I haven’t fully asked him out, i have just been dropping hints that i want to go out with him, like today i asked him “what would you say if i asked you out?” And he said “I’m not sure”. My friends have also asked him for me and it’s never a yes or no answer, its kinda frustrating me because why would he still not be sure if he has liked me for so long? Should i just forget about him?, is he too nervous to admit he likes me? or should i make it more clear that i want something more with him? I’m not sure what to do but any advice will be greatly appreciated :). | Crushes |
when your crush starts to take a long time to respond to your message, do y’all think that’s a bad sign? for me in the past with the people i used to like who would lag on me, started not to be interested in me anymore. everything has been good with the person that i like. we would hang out, they would buy things for me even if i wouldn’t tell them to, hold hands, cuddle, and talk everyday. it’s just been the last 2 weeks where they started to become distant. they have been going through some problems and i’m aware of that but i wish they would tell me how they are feeling, do they need space or? they just take a long time to message me now and it’s making me upset because i know it might be a sign they don’t want to talk to me anymore. should i confront them about it or leave it alone? am i overthinking? what do y’all think? | Crushes |
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I am literally thinking of him constantly to the point it is negatively effecting my life. I would replay every single moment and interaction with him. Every single conversation we just had or every time we both laughed and had good time. Going back and forth trying to see if he likes me. I could legit lay in bed for hours just thinking about him. But this is getting me nowhere. I just want to be able to live my life without him constantly being in my head. | Crushes |
I take this as some kind of progress. I asked her "Hey, was the exam hard?", surprisingly, she answered with more than one word, therefore making it easier to continue the conversation.
It is still on-going, but I think I'm about to end it, it's midnight rn. But I'm happy it isn't one-sided. | Crushes |
Most of time in school we talk and she is always laughing, she does talk and laugh with other people too (They are closer friends, im a new friend of her). She sometimes tells me personal stuff. She added me on Snapchat after 1 month of waiting, she wanted to send me a funny picture and she found my Snapchat without even asking what it was. On Snapchat she leaves me on delivered for hours and only snaps a couple times a day, i know she snaps other guys. She has watched many of my tiktoks and commented on them however she recently unfollowed for some reason. She has liked and commented on 2 of my Instagram photos, most recent one she hasn't even liked. | Crushes |
So, in September 2021 I got into a new large group of friends, we are with around 12 people. We got really close to the point where we meet up at least 2/3X a week with most of the people in the group.
From the beginning, there was this girl that seemed very nice. With the knowledge of now I think I acted kinda distanced from her and kept our friendship on a very low level as I was afraid of catching feelings for her.
Well, it still happened this month, I like her a lot, but now I'm afraid of what I should do. Should I make a move? Im so afraid of she not liking me (or after a while we break up or something) and we cant be cool in the group of friends anymore.
Anyone had similar situation? Any advice? :) | Crushes |
I LIKE. A STRIAHGT GIRL LETTTT MEEEE OUTTTTTTTTTTTT. IVE NEVER LIEKD SOMEONE I KNEW I HAD NO CHANCE WITH SO WHY IS IT HAPPENIGNG HIGUGUUGUHH STUPID AHHHH MIXED SIGNALS UGH IM GONA CRY | Crushes |
As of late, I’ve gotten a lot closer to a girl that my mate introduced me to. We had a very rememberable night out with friends a few months back and we met a few times since then. However, for the past 2 weeks, we’ve been talking a lot. Like a lot. We game all night, and talk all night during these 2 weeks. Just yesterday we spoke for close to 8 hrs from 8pm to 4am in the morning. We talk about everything and anything. We also have plans to meet and do stuff together. But the reason why I’m asking this is because she told me about a date with a guy she met. From then, I thought I might be that guy best friend for a gurl. So I wanna know.
Girls with guy friends or best guy friends, do you do this? Or does she like me too? | Crushes |
when we talk it's like he wants nothing to do with me! agh but i see him talking to other people and he's always so smiley and invested. what is wrong with mee | Crushes |
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I was planning on confessing to him today but I didn’t and now schools over :\
I have his email so I could email him but idk if I should | Crushes |
So I asked her out for the weekend over text and she replied she was busy all weekend then asked me if I was free after the end of school to which I said yes. We didn't specify when exactly or where. I'm going to ask her in person when and where but I don't really now where to go? I was thinking of the shopping center but if you have any suggestions feel free to write it. | Crushes |
I noticed that my crushes snaps has been going up, mostly at night. Not every night, of course. He’ll chat with someone until about 1am, then send one or two more snaps when he wakes up around 7 or 8. Should I be concerned he’s talking to someone else? | Crushes |
I liked her for around 3 months and I think about her all the time but I was too shy to approach her and now the other day was the last day and she didn't even show up so I couldn't even get a last minute hello in. I felt like she talked to everyone but me like even my friend who is just as introverted as me got to talk to her a few times but I never have. it sucks knowing there nothing i can do and I just live with regret this whole summer and I just wanna cry.
Why am I such a pathetic introverted piece of shit that never gonna go anywhere in life. | Crushes |
"Hey, was the exam very hard?" Idk why though. | Crushes |
So this summer, I’m going on a trip to ITALY with my crush for THREE WEEKS. I’m so excited. It’s gonna be amazing. We’re already getting closer and talking more because of it. Now I’m curious, what would I do if we played truth or dare (or something of the sort) and crushes came up? What would you do if you were in the middle of an amazing trip and this happened? Especially since her twin brother and best friend will be there, and the brother is my best friend. What would you do? I’m just curious. | Crushes |
**TL;DR**: Hoped to make a move today on my crush, but the event was cancelled so now I won’t see him until school starts again. We have mutual friends and similar interests, so there’s a start, but I don’t know how to see him over the summer. We’ve only talked once before. Any advice would be appreciated :)
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So I’m quite disappointed. Was going to see him and some friends today at our schools band performance that he’s a part of, but it was cancelled due to weather and it won’t be rescheduled. I was really looking forward to it, picking out my outfit and daydreaming about how it would go once my friend introduced him, but now that’s not happening. Also, school ended yesterday, so I likely won’t see him until August, which is really bothering me and not starting off my vacation very well.
I feel like there’s ways I could see him, but I’m not sure they’ll work out. We have mutual friends, and we (my friends and I) agreed we needed to hang out this summer, so we could invite him along, but I don’t know how busy he is or if it would be awkward. We also have similar interests, but I don’t know how to approach him about that. The easy answer is just to text him snd ask to hang out, but we really haven’t talked much before. We’ve never actually talked face to face— all we’ve done is dance together a bit and text a bit after (very very very short conversation). So I feel that knocks out that part of the equation
I just don’t want to go so long without seeing him. It’s going to be hard enough not seeing friends almost everyday, now I’m never going to see him until August on top of that. I’m glad the stress of school is over, but omg my social life is about to drop. Any advice or comments would be so appreciated right now | Crushes |
I'm going to do it over text, because I'm too shy to do it face to face. How should I confess to her, any advice? I was thinking of going with "Hey, I need to tell you something." I like you/have feelings for you." Is that alright? | Crushes |
I feel like I can sense their energy. I feel like they definitely like me back. I feel like they’re definitely flirting with me and definitely into me. [They sent me this cute romantic art](https://i.imgur.com/S1BSDGG.jpg) the other day and it made me want to cry. But like……what if it’s all in my head. What if it’s just a really intimate platonic relationship. I’m perfectly fine with that. But like what if…...what if we could be something.
I’m so scared. I’m so scared of saying anything. I don’t even know what I would say. I have no idea how to seriously approach them. I’m scared they would be uncomfortable interacting with me if they don’t feel the same way. Their friendship is really important to me right now, and I don’t want to lose it.
I’m so scared. I don’t know what to do or what to say. Not doing anything has worked out well in the past, but this time it feels like I’m missing out on something rly special by not doing anything. But it’s like. Do I even need to do anything? It feels like we have something special already as friends.
I don’t want them to be weirded out or uncomfortable with me and not want to talk to me or reply to my messages. I have a deep fear that one day they won’t be interested in talking to me anymore, and that me saying anything would hasten that. I’m sad and scared. | Crushes |
I'm going to do it over text, because I'm too shy to do it face to face. How should I confess to her, any advice? I was thinking of going with "Hey, I need to tell you something." I like you/have feelings for you." Is that alright? | Crushes |
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So I am in a long term relationship. We have been together for 14 yrs. We have been through alot. To put it short: we lost 2 children and it left me completely nummer to all sorts of feelings. I do know I love her. But im scared all our experiences have changed us too much.
A couple of weeks ago I just woke up completely in love with a women from work. Not knowing where this suddenly came from. Since its one of the first feelings I felt since a long time, I just cant seem to let it go. I just enjoy this womens company. I just cant get her out of my head. She uses cute nicknames, touches alot and just makes my days the best they can be. So I THINK she is into me too.
She knows I have a wife and another daughter of 4yrs old. I just dont know where to go with these feelings. What are the next steps? I guess talking to her and my wife.
So I really could use some advice. | Crushes |
So, last night befire i went to bed i sent her a message, telling her how pretty i thought she was, and the next morning i got a message back from her telling how much she thought that wasnt true and then i felt bad.
then her other friend (who is by far a big dick) got in a fight with her and she wasnt gonna go to school because shes pretty sensitive and would rather have a nice day.
Apparently she was going to Curl her hair and dress nice for once (she usually just wears comfy stuff and doesn't care for looks, but she pulls it off) and then he had to go and fuck it up, making her feel so shitty that even a compliment telling her how beautiful she was as a person and physically couldn't cheer her up.
so now i really want her to feel better, since i know how insecure she is (she knows i like her, so i waited a while before giving her compliments after telling her because i didnt want her to think it was just because i had a crush on her) and that compliment was supposed to be a good thing.
so anyways i asked her to tell me what parts about her made her feel like she wasnt pretty, (i have some ideas on what, but they arent actually problems, its just as her friend i know some stuff) and she wouldn't answer, so i cant even tell her that what she thinks are flawys arent flaws, and i feel awful.
Also, its my bday on Tuesday, and usually i get some cash, so i think maybe ill take her out as a friend, maybe the night before and let her pick a few things, maybe get some soft serve downtown and stuff, but i really do want her ti be happy, and i need to fund bew ways because shes so stubborn. | Crushes |
I had such a vivid dream where we got together. I had forgotten about the real world completely. She had me feel her hair and hold her hand as she slept. In this dream it was perfect...I was happy. But then I woke up to the sad reality that I now live on. Unfortunately I won't be able to see her until the end of summer break. I have spent a solid hour just dying inside. | Crushes |
its not a bad cry, instead a good cry. she makes me so happy i cant even comprehend it. nobody treats me as well as she does. she is my best friend. i love her so much, and i just want her to be happy. she's been there for me no matter what ive done. she knows i like her too, yet she is still very close to me. when im down, she'll hug me. i was crying yesterday and she just hugged me all of a sudden. it was so sweet. i miss her. school just ended for me, so i wont be able to see her. i hope summer goes by fast. i love her so much. | Crushes |
So basically there is this girl in my class and i like her. few weeks ago we switched seats, like our teacher made us take 1 piece of paper with where you ahould sit and by some extreme luck i sat next to her. Before we sat next to each other i always caught her staring at me. And when we started sitting next to each other she always looks at me and giggles, she also started using some words i use and is always trying to make me laugh. Does she like me back? | Crushes |
Going to try and make as short as possible. I think six days ago told my crush how I feel. Have been wanting to do so for years, didn't ever seem right. Well after I told her she was responsive but didn't reciprocate any hints that maybe she felt the same. We messaged a few days, she would put little things in texts that need me think she was interested. I had explained to her she makes me physically nervous IRL and I think I messed up by not speaking to her at all event. Either way we messaged after that event but it seemed slower. My last message to her was my number and said she could message me if she'd like me to take her out for coffee. Just looking for advice. Open to DMs or questions. Obviously aimed to make short and put most important details. | Crushes |
Like the title says :)
We were supposed to see each other at the movie theater this week but I postponed it to next week because I don't have money and she works. But I ask myself should I tell her that I started having feeling for her or not ? To be honest even if it's a no I wanted to be close to her and all. 😔 | Crushes |
The last day of school already happened and I’m home now. I was going to confess to my crush today but I didn’t because I was too scared. So now don’t know what to do. I want need to find a way to contact him and talk to him over the summer without making him think I like him or being to obvious. Advice needed! What do I do?! | Crushes |
i was at prom and i seen my crush. later on at prom i seen my crush again but he was wearing a different color suit. that’s when it hit me.
i could’ve sworn he looked different when i started seeing crush 2 in the halls at school, damn. | Crushes |
You might be a dummy, but you’re my favourite dummy ❤️ | Crushes |
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