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i don't know why i'm so hyped up about this. i mean she's smiled at me before like the time we first talked to each other or the time when i told her that i like anime too or the time when i gave her a chocolate and she came to my class to thank me with the brightest fucking smile on her face.
today though, i think she felt responsible(?) for us not interacting much. she knows that i like her (my friends told her) but we're both kinda introverted. i mean i am like a shy quiet kid (until i open up) so it was big news when people found out that i like girls. our friends are usually the ones getting us to talk.
anyway i'm getting off topic here. so, yesterday i saw her. she saw me. we walk past each other (2 times). neither of us say hi. i think she was expecting me to say hi but i didn't and came home and regretted it.
today our school had its christmas celebration and my friends don't have many braincells so they're going around wishing people "merry christmas" and they see my crush and they wish her and my crush doesn't have many braincells either so she's like "yeah, yeah merry christmas" (sorry for this weird behaviour. in my country, christmas is not widely celebrated and we're not christians so we barely know anything about it).
my crush sees me hiding behind my tall asf friend and she says hi (mind you she only said hi to me) with an adorable smile and says merry christmas and i'm like as red as a tomato (jk. i'm incapable of blushing) and i'm probably overly excited about this fairly small incident but WHAT CAN I SAYYY? I JUST LOVE HER SM!! (and she probably will never)
i won't see her for the next 15 days (short asf winter break) i'll miss her. | Crushes |
Baby steps | Crushes |
Is it a good sign that everytime i compliment them or something similar they send me ":D" | Crushes |
My crush unfollowed almost all guys on her Instagram. Does mean she has a boyfriend. She does seems very interested in me but iam not sure. About 2 months ago i expressed my feelings avout having guys friend but made it seem i was talking in general. | Crushes |
Turns out another girl confessed to him and then he accepted it and then they dated for around 1 month before she broke it off
And i was crushing and attempting to hint at my feelings for him during that period of time 😭 | Crushes |
I was able to speak to her today and get to know her much better, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. How do I prevent this from happening before it happens too much? | Crushes |
I like my crush(f) for around 3 years now and couldn't really know her cuz the pandemic happened and had to take online classes but before covid we had about 3-4 months of physical schooling before online schooling. In those 3-4 months, my science teacher paired me with 2 of my good friends(both boys) and the best friend(female) of my crush. I still remember those days cuz i would make jokes that would get them to laugh so loud my teacher eventually separated us.
Fast forward 2 years,
I still really like this girl and we had a performance thing going on. 1 part of the dance was like a ball room dance (like princesses and princes) where you dance with a partner. She was the dance choreographer with another friend of hers and was given the task of giving out the pairs. And out of nowhere, her friend said My name and my crushes name out loud and she started blushing. I didn't know what to make of this. It didn't make sense cuz most people are paired with the same gender except about 30% of the class. At first, i was more like "damn i was lucky, but i think i was paired with her cuz we're both quite tall I'm 6ft and shes prob a good 8-9 cm shorter than me." If it ended there i wouldn't be posting this. on the last day of rehearsal, we both had a coincidental trip to the same place and i didn't think too much of it but dressed well just in case. We ended talking quite a-bit online and i really enjoyed it. We only ever talked online but we usually throw around jokes in there and wasn't boring. I sit right behind her and when we're in a group setting i sometimes catch her looking at me and looking away when our eyes meet. We started talking physically more often around the last month of school this year. (we only really talk online when me or she posts smth on ig stories we can relate to and me and her are both shy)(i don't know what to think of this but there are slight hints too that looks like accidents but i think they happened way too many times already. | Crushes |
I’ve been thinking of her all day, again. If anyone else wants to chat about theirs, message me | Crushes |
i just wanna gush over all the interesting interactions we had today ;-; but i'm so so sleepy and im just - hearing his voice rn trying to squeeze as many minutes out of hanging out with him! i have so many questions and so much to gush about i just.. zzzzz .. he's so. so soothing.. | Crushes |
I started liking a girl and she finds me attractive as well. We have been really good friends and we talk a lot but I'm scared that if I confess we won't talk anymore what should I do??? | Crushes |
So there is this girl I’ve thought was so cute since the first day we started school (like 4 months ago). I’ve had like a few vague interactions with her but we only share one class together, she seems like such sweet person. When our paths cross or in class I’ve noticed she does look at me (I look at her as well lol), but we’ve never had a long conversation. It’s Christmas break for three weeks now, and I’m debating whether I should just say f it and ask her out online since I didn’t manage to do it irl before the break.
Kinda scared because what if she says no, and then it becomes really awkward the next 2 years we share the same school with both her and her friends? Do I just send a text or is it weird since we’ve barely talked? Do I wait till after break and try to talk irl first? Idk :/ | Crushes |
On one hand, she told me about this guy we both knew and that she thought he was rlly hot. She's also pretty slow to reply to me on snap after school (during school she's more active) and we've been friends for a few years
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On the other hand, she laughs alot when I make jokes, and she invited me to a party where she rested her head on my shoulder and then wanted me to lie on the floor with her
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Does it seem like she likes me, or just sees me as a friend that she trusts? We've known each other since we were about 10, and been friends for the last year | Crushes |
Hello 23 (M) here from India. I had a crush on a girl who was one year junior to me in school and a friend in the local badminton club around 2012 . From some of our mutual friends , I came to know that she also had a crush on me .But I was afraid of telling her what I felt . After a year or so,she stopped coming to the club , but I used to meet and chat with her in our school once or twice in week or so between 2013-2015 .
Just before our final school graduation exam , we had a social event in our school on 14 February 2015, where I was with my friends and my mutual crush came to speak with me . She had a general talk with my friends and me . While I was about to leave with my friends from the event for friends birthday party , she told me that she wanted to speak with me regarding something alone . But I suddenly got cold feet and told her that I had to go otherwise I would be late and ran away from her . I came to know afterwards that she was quite sad regarding the fact that I had ran away from her and also she thought that I dating a girl who had put some photos on Facebook with me during my friend's birthday party .
After this event , I didn't meet her again . I always felt like getting back to her in the back of my mind , but I was afraid of how she would react . I was not using social media
and I had lost her phone number as well when I changed my mobile phone .
Since June 2021 , I have been dreaming about her once a week at least .Also I realised that that my fear of embarrassment while apologizing to her and tell her what I felt was bad enough , but not seeing her again was worse.
I tried getting some recent information about her from my friends . I came to know that she is pursuing a professional course and is in contact with only 3-4 girls from school , also that she was rather aloof and didn't like to meet people she knew from school or the badminton club . Also I came to know that a cousin of mine was a good friend of her elder brother ,as they were together in the same college.
I tried contacting her since the last year by sending friend requests on both Facebook and Instagram, but I guess she had social media accounts which she didn't actually use frequently.
Two months ago, I luckily saw her walking with a friend , when I was with a friend of mine . We shook our hands and spoke with each other for around 10 minutes . She was quite polite and spoke nicely with me , unlike what I had expected . She told me that they were in a rush to go to a place and then she
left . After she left , I realised that I had forgotten to get her number from her . Her friend who was with her sent me a Friend request and Follow request on both Facebook and Instagram.
In November, she accepted my friend request on Facebook . Her birthday was on the same day ,so I wished her. I also sent her a message next day on Facebook that I would like to meet her once ,but she has not seen that message yet. I guess she only checks Facebook on her birthday probably. I plan to apologise for my behaviour and ask her out as well .
I will be grateful if anyone can advise me how I should proceed further. | Crushes |
I didn't ask them out or anything but ik they don't like me romantically but can that Change over the 18 months? We're pretty close friends. | Crushes |
Yesterday we had a good conversation about boundaries and how she wants to wait for her to initiate a hug. (No problem at all boundaries are a good thing) We have a holiday spirit week and today she showed up in really cute makeup with snowflakes and reindeer spots. Before I headed out to my first hour quickly said "Its pretty" and rushed to not be marked late. Oh and she's coming over after school. Help. | Crushes |
I (21) like this guy (20) and I've known him for at least 5 months, we met on tinder and decided to date for a bit. I asked to be friends, he accepted it. We have been great as friends so far, we have the exact same interests and very similar personalities.
The trouble came when I stared having gender issues. A few weeks after asking to be friends I came out to him saying I was a man. He only likes women and feminine bodies. But now I'm thinking I might be nonbinary with the comfortability of keeping a feminine body.
How can I flirt or test to see if he's still interested in me? | Crushes |
So I (M) asked my crush (F) out to our school dance via letter and got this response. I have removed names for anonymity.
Dear u/LordSandwich29,
You know, I really debated...but I settled on just going to the Snowflake Shake with friends. I very much appreciate that you didn't embarrass me like (my friend who also likes her) did. So thank you for that. But I'm sorry, but it's a no. But just know I thought about my answer...quite a bit.
Sincerely,
Crush
I originally took this as a rejection, but then I kept reading the last sentence and it gave me pause. I can't decide what she means. My brain is doing loop-de-loops trying to figure this out so any help is appreciated. | Crushes |
This girl that I don't run into often and never spoken to before. If I do see her it's very briefly as we are in two different departments and the company is huge.
I've only said hi to her once , and have gotten a little smile and stare from her several months ago. I'm determined to to try to talk to her if I can actually cross paths with her when I'm not busy. Maybe ask her out for cheesecake and see what happens.
We both work outside, she's an on the road truck driver, and I just move trailers around the yard, the place is big and theirs people driving around everywhere so running into her is not often and if it is it's brief.
Anyway, 3 weeks ago, when I was backing a trailer and had to wait to pull up to readjust because of the trucks going by and I'm waiting for the road way to clear up, one truck goes by and I see someone her head looking in my direction so I look back at her and as she's going past me, we locked eyes for about 4 seconds. She didn't smile or anything but had a curious anticipation look on her face and then she turned back to look at the road and sighed. I would've waved and smiled back to her but I was caught off guard and a little confused. I just haven't had that happen before if someones going past me we usually have brief eye contact if any, so I wasnt sure if something was wrong or not. Not sure if I blew my chances or what, but last Friday i saw her parked in front of her trailer waiting for it to load, and I was about to pass her, but I didn't want to look at her while I was passing her because I felt a little weird about it, but as when i passed her and was about to turn a corner I looked back briefly to sneak a peak and she was already staring at me, but I got out of sight to fast for anything further to happen.
I've just read when a girl stares because she likes you, she'd quickly look away, but if they hold eye contact and don't look bothered that you've caught them, does that mean that they're staring for a different reason? I'm not sure if she's shy or not or how her personality is, so I really don't know.
Should I try to ask her out if I get the chance? | Crushes |
So I sent her a photo of some cool fish in some water. The water was clearly tiled with marble at the bottom and you could even see reflections of trees on the surface. She excitedly asked me if they were in the ocean. I appreciate that she’s giving me room to respond by asking but no way she actually thought that was the ocean, right? | Crushes |
Just a thought | Crushes |
Does she like me? Was she actually interested in me? Am I too ugly? Why is it almost impossible to find a moment to talk to her? Way better looking than me male friend of her dropped a heart symbol under her post, she did the same, are they dating?
That's what keeps her in my head and sometimes make me slightly depressed, especially the last question that I wrote and I just can't find a moment to talk to her for multiple reasons :/
For context - highschool, 16 year olds, different classes. | Crushes |
so we are both 15 and know each other from a math tuition.
so one day she suddenly texted me after the tuition teacher showed the whole class our results and mine was terrible so she offered a 1 to 1 to help me which i agreed but i ended up not showing up because at the time i didn't know who she was even and found it weird but i just said yes cause i felt bad to reject her and i still regret it
anyway after that she still texts me for help like asking me whats the homework and stuff and she sounded excited and was using alot of exclaimation marks in her messages but after a while she never texted me again. like i said we were completely strangers and never talked irl. also i found her always looking back after class and when she sees me behind her she would turn away immediately
so fast forward almost a year later eventually i started to like her and finally i texted her to ask her out on a date and confessed but she didn't believe and thought it was a prank and stuff and i asked her why she doesn't believe (cause she asked more than 5 times whether it was a prank or not and wanted me to prove it) and she said it was because she got pranked quite badly before. finally she told me to sit beside her during the next lesson if i truly like her (we had random sitting arrangements)
i also asked her why she offered to help me last time and she said she didnt remember so i showed her the past messages and she said that she saw me struggling and wanted to help me. still i wanted an answer so i asked her directly whether she likes me or not but her reply was "well idk you yet"
so the next lesson i sat beside her as expected and when we just entered class and were settling down she turned and looked at me and made eye contact for a few seconds but we never talked. anyway later i texted her again to ask if she believes now and she said sure so i asked if she wants to go on a date again but she only replied me hours later (usually she replies quite fast) saying she is sick now and would be going overseas soon so i just said get well soon and she replied "o tysm 😚"
i thought she offered to help me because she is interested in me cause its so random?? but than why did she say she doesn't know me and sound like she is rejecting me politely later on? | Crushes |
Bro it’s Christmas break and I can’t see her I’m losing my mind | Crushes |
Few months back me and my crush decide to get together, on the 1st month everything is really nice and full of love, just recently he suddenly changes, no more long conversations asking whether im okay or not, at this point he just ignore me and ghosted me, when i ask he just went offline and dont give any damn answer. I was hurt. Idk what should i do. I already think i should end our relationship but im afraid i might lose myself in process. | Crushes |
I am currently in my sophomore year of high school. There is a pretty popular girl who sits next to me in my math and chemistry class who I’ve grown a crush on. We started off as acquaintances, but now we’ll have a bit of a conversation each class about upcoming evaluations or how we are doing in each class.
I’ve noticed on a couple of occasions that she stares at me when I’m not looking in class or when I’m in the hallways.
Also, she is constantly walking past my usual hangout spot with my friends in the hallways. Maybe she is doing this on purpose, or maybe I’m just over analyzing it. Every time she does pass me by, we both lock eyes for a couple of seconds before turning our heads away. On some occasions, when she walks past me, I’ll look back at her again and I notice that she will already be looking at me.
Finally, whenever we talk, we actually manage to maintain pretty good eye contact and it kinda feels like she is looking into my soul. I struggle a lot with eye contact since I’m really shy, so this is something quite rare for me. Also, she actually makes an effort to keep our conversations going by asking questions or making comments.
Honestly, I can’t make up my mind about whether I think she likes me. My heart is saying yes, but my really low self-confidence is saying that I’m just being delusional.
I’m hoping to get an outsiders perspective on this situation and see what you think.
If you have any questions or want any more details, just ask and I’ll respond. | Crushes |
This is a bit random, but last Sunday and Monday I was so sad because my crush was barely replying to me anymore. I was literally pushing our conversation to go on. Sometimes he would leave me on read and then I would send him a meme so he would remember to reply to me. I literally couldn't sleep on Monday night 'cause I was thinking about how tired I was of our situation and it's time I was the one who acted cold. If he tries to keep the conversation going, then good. If not, then I need to accept it.
But then on Tuesday he explained to me, I didn't ask him, that he was really busy preparing for their company's christmas party. Suddenly the heavy feeling in my chest lifted and now I'm very happy.
He's very hot and cold towards me and today he's more on hot mode. In fact, we got way too many conversations in early on today that I'm the one who doesn't really feel like talking anymore lol. Introvert things, I guess. But it just makes me happy whenever he tells me about his life without me asking. Especially when he's going somewhere, whether for work or with friends or family, or when he has events, and especially when he sends me pictures along with it.
I guess it's why one of our former officemates who still works with him thinks we have something going on. Because I don't think he saw it from me when we were all still working together because he wasn't one of the people who shipped me with him at the time. At least, not to our faces. He only mentioned it recently, which means he saw it from my crush. | Crushes |
It’s now the summer holidays and I have managed to get his phone number, so for the past couple days we’ve been texting back and forth and getting on calls with my friends,his friends and us. Recently I’ve had this feeling that my crush likes my friend who is on our call regularly. So I asked him if he liked her and he quickly responded “no”, then I asked if he liked another girl who he used to always hang out with,but stopped since there was drama in there friend group, he also said no.
I then told him that I also liked someone (him) and he immediately thought I liked a guy I always talked to, I said no. I thought that would be the end of our conversation until he started begging me to tell him my crush, he was so desperate.
A few minutes later we got on a call with a couple of mine and his friends, he started telling everyone that I liked someone and begged that I tell him, I told him that I will tell him next time but he still wanted to know, so I left the meet in embarrassment.
He also remembers every little detail about me
Does he like me?
What should I do next? | Crushes |
I wanna ask her out but im too scared | Crushes |
My crush somehow found out I liked her around 2 ish months ago and told me she didn't like me the same way I liked her then un added me
She just added me back again
Wtf is going on | Crushes |
So my crush and I basically talk everyday. We send each other little good morning message and just joke around. She's constantly asking me if I'd like to go get lunch with her or do something together, however she always cancels on me at the very last moment even tho she asked to begin with. Its the same way with video games we both play a lot of the same games and she usually askes if id want to play once i get off work and then go completely silent. the last time she canceled I brought up that she always cancels and she apologized and said it's because she has extreme anxiety. This was about a month ago. She recently just asked if I'd like to go get boba with her because she knows I love it. I said we should make it a group thing and we can invite her friends. I also mentioned that it would help with her anxiety and make her more comfortable. She said I don't make her uncomfortable and that she really hates group things (but she host tons of group events for her and her friends). I just don't know what to do at this point. Should I just stop accepting invites to hangout or give her the benefit of the doubt and believe she really does want to hangout it's just a string of really bad timing? | Crushes |
Why is it that I keep having new crushes from time to time even though I try to stop myself from developing new crushes on multiple girls at the same time? Why is it so hard to not have multiple new crushes? | Crushes |
I know it's over with my crush. It's not liked it used to be. I know he has moved on, but I haven't. I can't stop thinking about him and I hate the fact it will take time to move on. | Crushes |
So some situations happen where I'm like "they definitely like me, ain't no way" and there's situations where I'm like "nope" so now I need some clarity. They never seen to wanna hang out one on one and they have brought up other girls they wanted to hook up with which I encouraged them to pursue (as one does) so obvious I'm like "nah we're just friends" but then they do things like baby talk me, and we text all the time, and they called me cute, and they said that I told them we should be together which I did not say and they always look out for me and I told them they would look nice with their hair done one day and they did it and sent me a picture so like WHERE DO I STAND WITH THEM DAMMIT?! We're either friends or not but this situation is literally confusing me. Am I delusional? | Crushes |
Everything I have a crush, this is rare though, as I’m demisexual, which means I only get an emotional connection if I’m close or know this person a while/ know tons of things about them
Anyway when I have a crush on someone and I know stuff about them from either being close/knowing stuff about them
I get obsessed with stuff they like, I mean I even get an obsession with the area they are from, so if they are a different nationality! I will like visit this place and feel a warm way when I do, as I’m thinking about them
Is this normal crush behaviour? | Crushes |
Today i was on a school activity which involve me playing with music with classmates for the parents on a stage. After it was done i was in the backstage rooms putting away my instrument when i saw my friend that was about to leave(this was the last day till christmas break). She went and hugged me as a goodbye(we casually hug in school) but i had feeling for my friend and i felt sad when she was about to leave, I then went ahead and kissed her on the cheek she then was a bit surprised she then kissed me on the cheek with a bit of a smile(in a good way). Ive been feeling anxious ever since and each time i look at something she appears at i get more anxious. Should i take this a as a possible way make something with her? | Crushes |
Listen I’m bored and I need my mind off thing lol | Crushes |
I just randomly remembered this and I remember it being a common notion- i saw people saying this all over youtube and reddit (maybe that was when i was still in r/teenagers). Why? | Crushes |
i am so so doomed. when i have a crush, i have a crush on them for a LONG time.
this guy, we're neighbors and i see him about every week ish, that ive been liking for over a year now, that i have never really talk to is leaving for college since we're almost 18 and i want so bad to talk to him and maybe tell him i like him but i know that ill never have the strength to do that. hes so insanely kind and LITERALLY EXACTLY my type... i am homeschooled but he goes to school with my friends. and i feel like hes the type of guy that everyone likes because he is popular and so kind and so good looking lmao. i know some of his friends and he knows mine. but itll never happen and i feel like i just need to move on. how do i even do that... | Crushes |
are they intrested if they spend like a whole half hour explaining the metal-gear rising lore or am i being dumb
note : i already asked them on a date a few times they cancelled tho 😕
🤔 | Crushes |
Not a single class with him and I'm pretty sad about it, worse since It's my last year of HS. So I probably won't see him again. | Crushes |
I have had a crush on this girl for around 2y and last school year i asked her out and she said platonically but then stated she liked someone else mind you the guy she liked ditched her at the dance and left her multiple times to hang with other people but fast forward this year we have no classes together other than lunch and she hangs out with this one guy who ill just call mark and I sit across the whole cafeteria and I wanted to stick in my small friend group but it would be awkward since se basically rejected me and she still says hi to me every now and then despite me feeling awful that I act like I pay no mind when it's just a mixture of insecurity and doubt if I even have a slim chance. I feel really creepy to be honest as I should let my feelings go but this is the only girl I think ill ever like regardless of what people would say I don't want someone like her I want *her*. | Crushes |
I’m curious since I never had one before and didn’t realise it was an actual actual thing until recently :P | Crushes |
Hello, so I’ve been keeping track of how I feel around my crush when I’m around him. I saw something about setting yourself a deadline on when to confess to your crush and how long to wait. Idk if setting yourself a deadline is a good thing, but I feel like now if I don’t I’ll be too nervous to do it and never get it off my chest. Granted I’m gonna be nervous regardless but still, they say to get it done so you can move on if they reject you. Most of the time me and my crush will be in a group, but when I’m alone with him doing something together, I get butterflies. I originally set my deadline for two weeks to see if my feelings for him would develop more or decrease and so far they have been developing. Is this too early of a deadline? If so what deadline would you recommend? I feel like if I don’t set a deadline I will never get around to it because everyone who has has a crush knows how nerve racking it is to confess, so I wanted to set a deadline for myself. | Crushes |
good news: my crush followed me first on ig😭😭😭 i mustered up the courage to text him a few weeks ago. we have a few convos here and there and the longest we texted was for two hours.
but in school we don't talk and we have one class together where he sits right next to me.(still scared to talk :(*) we don't have convos like we do in texting and it's not like he outright ignores me ("can i borrow a piece of paper etc, what'd u get on this blah blah"). how do i muster up the courage to say hi to them or talk about something irl? i'm just overthinking how to do it cuz im so conscious of him. i wonder if he feels the same bc we both text comfortably but in real life we don't even say hi💀. | Crushes |
My boyfriend confessed to me a week ago. We've been dating for a week. I don't understand how one person can be so amazing but he is and I love him. We're having so much fun and I hope it continues for a long time. I'm so happy. | Crushes |
So I (16F) like a girl (16) and I've liked her for about a month now. She helped me get thru my first panic attack at a school dance and was super sweet (we were already friends) but after I had this weird feeling in my gut?? With some help from my friends, I realized I like her. A lot. The past few weeks have been filled with the usual friend jokes about her, "just date her" and "you should totally ask her out" and while I know she likes girls, the issues is EVERY girl likes her and she's nice to every girl too, so we all likely like her for the same reason. Anyway, a few things have happened lately that have been off putting me... she got back from a class trip during our lunch and so ofc I was eating and then she rested her head on my chest and told me i was a comfort?? next she started tapping the top of my head when she sees me (during passing between classes)and when I asked why she said she likes to see me look for her. And then today during lunch she asked to sit with my group (not a normal occurrence) and insisted i try some of her foods she had made. She also kept nudging her foot on my leg and then laughing about it. I was awkward the whole time according to my friends and they both said it was OBVIOUS, so I feel kinda bad but whatever. Anyway last thing! I asked one of her best friends who's also my friend why she didn't eat with them at lunch and she said it was because she told her "I have something important to do". Idk if she knows I like her and is messing with me or is just being nice. Any input would put my mind to rest! :]] | Crushes |
I’ve been told that guys are scared for fear of being called a predator or a creepy stalker. I never know if they actually have a crush on me until I clearly express my intention. | Crushes |
I watched every single show and movie with her even the ones I personally found boring. I even lost 10 pounds working out by watching edits of her. I can’t stop thinking about her I am even learning a new instrument that she learned from a show. I understand it’s unhealthy but I can’t stop myself. | Crushes |
ik everybody is doing this rn but like i really wanna talk abt him since i don't get to very often!! so, ask away! | Crushes |
I have a gf right now and before I had a crush on another girl I’ve known for six years now and I can’t stop. Help | Crushes |
So I used to be roommates with the person in question. I never really felt anything during that time, because we were not that close at first. She ended up dating another one of my roommates for a short time but that imploded quickly because well they realized they already lived with each other. Then I come to find out a different roommate tried to make a move after they broke up and he got shut down pretty hard and she basically stopped hanging out with us all because the kid made it weird. She ended up moving out and living with one of my very good friends. We have become closer as time goes on because I am always going over to see them both. I’m always thinking we could maybe be more than friends the more I hang with her but she has a lot of history with our group of friends/roommates so makes things interesting cuz she dated one of my boys and I respect him. How would one go about this situation | Crushes |
We usually text daily, sometimes more or less. But it's usually pretty generic stuff like "wyd" or discussing school, or what music to listen to. I find we really click when in person. We get along better, and have been engaged in a conversation for upwards of 1-2 hours even. Lots of eye contact, stuff like that. Sometimes there's some mild touching, although she's the one doing that mostly. Like sometimes she'll try to touch my face or my hair, but I find I shy away from it. It's not intentional, just I've never been a fan of people touching my face. Once we were standing together, and our hands brushed. Normally when something like that happens, you move your hand away. But she didn't. If anything, she pressed her hand against mine. And one event that really got me thinking was during a conversation, her face got really close to mine. (Like 1.5 inches if I had to guess) It got so close in fact, that I ended up shying away a little. I'm not sure what would have happened, had I not moved. I honestly think Im overthinking, even if she hasn't texted me in a few hours I get nervous. | Crushes |
some boys are shy and it would mean the world to them if you would just compliment them (that's me) and
some girls secretly like you but won't admit it just yet because she doesn't know if you like her or not | Crushes |
so tomorrow is the last day and after I have holidays of two weeks 🙃 I won't see him for two weeks !! God, why I have to feel this way :"( | Crushes |
I've been head over heels on my crush for almost 8 years now. Since i was 11 til 18. But suddenly i just found out one of my highschool junior had a thing for me for 3 years but she kept it a secret because she respect my choice towards another girl. She's just a year younger than me, about 19months younger. But she suddenly texted me and we went on a date to the zoo. She said she's been giving hints but i can't even see it. On the 2nd time we went out to her place. She cuddled w me while we were chilling via Netflix. At that time i thought she normally cuddles w the opposite gender as a friendly gesture. Then one day somehow i just ask her if she had a problem and immediately guessed out that she like me. I was so surprised cuz never have i ever been in a relationship or having someone who liked me. She's gorgeous and rich which is the complete opposite of me. Except I'm more of a loner nerd. Then she made a deal that if she can make me move on then I'll go out w her. And after a few weeks now, we've been to anime cons where she would cosplay and it mesmerized me and we also hang out to the mall. We both are eachother first time as in any interaction and experience. I'm so glad that i stayed alive to witness this miracle. Thank you for those who support me back then ♥️ | Crushes |
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I complimented her hair and she gave me a weird smile. Hard to explain but I'll try:
The corners of her mouth extended all the way in a weird smile like this <----> just more perked up.
Her eyes were like this emoji 😒 but looking at me
Idk why I'm thinking about this but it was kind of awkward but she wasn't mad or anything. I wish I could send an image but it was kind of a "really?" face with a smirk. | Crushes |
I've probably liked him for 5/6ish years now and I feel like he likes me back. We have always been friends and stuff but I never really talked to him due to my terrible social anxiety. I've been talking to him more recently and he's been sitting next to me, letting me go infront of him, smiling at me, teasing me and being close to me (he's never done this before and I'm not totally sure it's a sign he likes me?) But anyways idk what to do since it's the end of the semester and I probably won't see him for awhile (I mean we live in the same neighbourhood but I don't think I've ever seen him leave his house LMAO 💀) BUT THERE IS ONE PROBLEM..So my other friend uhh let's call her Ashley she recently got a crush on him and it's not just any crush..SHE'S LITERALLY LIKE FUCKING STALKING HIM AND IDK WTF TO DO she's been doing stuff like that since we met (so for like 3 years) and no matter how many times I tell her it's weird or try to stop being friends with her she tells me it's not bad and encourages me to do it. LIKE GIRL REALLY FOUND MY ADDRESS?? THAT'S WHY I AM CONCERNED ABOUT MY CRUSH she's already stalking him whenever he goes to soccer practice n shit so im just concerned about what else she could do but yeah. She hasn't taken any pictures of him like she usually does but still it's weird as hell (seems like I'm always in a damn predicament I can never catch a break) any advice on what to do and how to become closer with him? | Crushes |
We’ve known each other about 2 months. She says that I am handsome and I called her cute. We smile and wave at each other across the classroom too. Although, I might have given her mixed signals because she helped me talk to a girl after she asked who my crush was. I just suddenly developed feelings for her when I realized how sweet she was. | Crushes |
Don't know how to explain it. It was like a "really?" Face with a bit of a smirk | Crushes |
I don't know anymore | Crushes |
Oh my GOD I cannot remember the last time I crushed this hard on anyone.
I don't see him very often, but when I do I get the sense that he cares for me a lot. I believe it's just as a friend. I definitely have cared for him as a friend for a long time, but I've only just started feeling uncontrollable butterflies. My first thought feeling them was "oh no." It's so much easier when I have a crush on a stranger or unavailable person... This terrifies me because it has the potential to be really, really good or to really, really fuck up our friendship. I love this, and I also hate this.
We are both flirty people so it is impossible to read him. It's probably impossible for him to read me. Right now is the first time we've ever both been single at the same time and it's becoming unbearable.
I have to clear the air if we're going to keep hanging out in any capacity or else my anxiety about the "will we or won't we" will eat me alive. Even if he lets me down. I need to know, or else I'll compare anyone else I date to a fantasy version of him and self-sabotage.
I have no idea how to tell him. Everything I brainstorm either feels too casual or too serious. Any ideas? | Crushes |
Requested by u/pancakeryy this one is for you and everyone!
Ok so of course you have the ones that cost money like arcades, escape rooms, laser tag, and that's all fucking awesome, but what if, and hear me out, YOU yes YOU reader! Are on a budget??? Worry not! I got ideas!
•Get a cheap star shaped night light or those sticky glow innthe dark stars, make some dinner together, and enjoy a romantic dinner in space! You guys are in your own little world, and they are your whole universe! (Literally, out of this world!)
•Let's say you do have some money, but not a lot. Buy some convenience store snacks and sit by a bench and talk.
•Have some late night game nights whether it's video games or dnd.
•Get some food from a small, cheap place. Or even those food vendors (the couple/poly pair that gets food poisoning together stays together!!!)
•Roam around the neighborhood. But be careful at all times. Stay safe!
•Write poetry together, or songs together over anything! Maybe try and come up with a story together based on first things that come to mind?
•If you have a record player and records, listen to them together.
•Make yourselves playlists. If you guys are getting to know each other, do it based on yourselves. If you guys have been together for some time, do it based on what you love about them/your thoughts on them. Sweet songs that send a message about each other's feelings... just imagine that.
•Nap together. Sometimes simple is best. Do it only if you trust each other and know nothing will happen. I don't suggest doing this if you just met them. Be careful
•Pirate a movie together! Pirates are awesome!
•Doodle on each other
•Watch anime together and cuddle!
•Read manga together with a pillow/blanket fort and some instant noodles.
•Make some gourmet instant noodles. Get some ramen of your choice, toppings of your choice, mix stuff up, get some eggs, etc! Maybe play a game where you make a bowl of instant ramen based on how that person is? Like... if the person is sweet, add in a touch of sugar to enhance the ramen or if they are smooth, add butter for a rich consistency. You could do this with cakes as well, but ramen is more challenging since it's a savory dish. Maybe even add some soy sauce as a way to say they're salty for (insert playful argument you guys had earlier?)
•Go to the playground together. Bring your childhood snacks, and go be little kids in love!
•Go window shopping together! Fantasize about a vintage gothic house together!
•Make some tea at home, make some sandwiches, make some sweets or buy some, and have a tea party!
•Krotchet together!
•Youtube karaoke videos and sing (screech) together!
•Watch some horror movies and laugh at it... or cuddle up next to each other because it is soooo scary!
•Is it freezing at your house? Is it freezing outside? Aw, I guess you guys will have to snuggle up together! So tragic....
•Make up characters together!
•Look around the room together and come up with characters based on the objects in the room. What's the clock's personality? Or watch people walk by together and dub what they are saying. You can make up some funny conversations.
•Make breakfast together.
•Try and learn an activity together.
•Look at clouds together. Or the stars.
If I think of other stuff, I will update this! | Crushes |
a quick backstory:
i (18F) have been best friends with this guy(18M) for about 8 months now (ive known him since January but we got close around may). around this time he started to flirt with me by joking around with me in school(taking pictures of me when I didn’t want him to, chasing me in the hallway, etc.) after we graduated, him, my other best friend and I hung out a lot. throughout the summer we got really close and kinda flirty. he gave me hugs frequently, play fought with me, kissed me on the head, and even held my hand once during a movie. i had a good feeling he liked me but I was never 100% sure. because of his actions I started to develop feelings for him too.
anyways, almost a month ago we ended up being alone in his room. at first we were just sitting on his couch together not super close, and he gradually got closer to me. I had a headache at the time and expressed this to him, so he let me lay his head on his chest to try and relax. before this he had also kissed me on the forehead. while I laid on his chest, we watched TikTok’s on his phone together, and he would move from putting his arm around my body, resting his hand on my side or rubbing behind my ear. after about a half hour I sat up for some reason. this is when things get interesting.
we both went on our phones for a few mins and then eventually put them down and sat in silence for a solid 30 seconds. then we kinda looked at each other and then he asked me if he could “teach me how to kiss” as I never had kissed anyone before. I immediately said “what?” and he was like “yea come here and just close your eyes” so naturally I agreed bc I wanted to and I also wanted to get my first kiss over with.
anyways, we ended up kissing/making out sitting next to each other on the couch, and he told me that I was a good kisser as I proceeded to shake on the couch from being so nervous. he then made sure I was ok and then asked me to sit on his lap and kiss again and I agreed. we proceeded to kiss/mo and he kissed me on the neck a few times. and that I sat on the edge of the couch and couldn’t stop shaking bc I could not believe it happened. he kept asking me if I was alright and said he felt sorry for freaking me out, and if I was gonna be awkward around him now. I said no and I have since continued to be fine around him like normal. we haven’t talked about this since the day it happened and I have no idea why.
however, recently he has started to act semi weird and awkward around me and I don’t know why. I have tried to bring up this and he says everything is fine, but I’m not really sure what’s going on so I try to give him space. by bringing this up I always hope he will bring up us kissing but he hasn’t. idk how he feels about it at all and I really want to know. I feel awkward asking him bc idk what he’ll say/think. would he kiss me if he wasn’t interested in me? I’m super confused. please help me! | Crushes |
I want to make more progress with my crush, like potentially FT and Hanging out or something like that, we haven’t known eachother for that long but I really want to progress this even tho I don’t want to hurry, but would wouldni ask her to hangout like on winter break? Because I can’t ask for help with homework since it’s basically done. | Crushes |
when me and my classmate friend leave the room he will follow me all the time and leave too ... If I don't leave earlier he will not leave as well...also last week, my friend is absent so I change my seat but still I notice that his feet is pointed towards me like his angle is weirdly pointing at me I was like ??? Is that necessary?
In recess time I catch him staring at me but he looks away..
+ At our year end party, .he try to look for me... his view was blocked by classmates so he can't see me he tries to look for me and when I catch him he pretends that he's looking somewhere else in my direction and after that I think he change seat at least so he can freely look at me without blockings lol😭
Again when i leave the room with my friend he followed me he leave the room as well I did notice bc I look back and I see him as if he's looking for me ....
This is definitely a sign right? | Crushes |
If you happen to have found me:
I still have a crush on you. It has not gone away in these 6 months. Right now I miss you. I wish I could be your man, because you amaze me and the the more I get to know you the deeper I fall.
I am trying to control my urges to contact you. But if you want to talk you know I am down for it. | Crushes |
Kill me | Crushes |
What does it mean to guys when they tilt their head to one side while answering? Is it a sign of amusement or interest? | Crushes |
I'm scared I'm falling too hard for him too quickly. I'll see him do things, like leave things he was gonna do because he thought of something else, and I'll think something like, "I love him, but he's so disorganized." Or see him do something weirdly (such as opening a bag with a spatula) and think, "gah, I love him."
I'm really thinking I love him, huh? This whole thing is so dumb, but I really don't wanna lose him. But I don't have any options. I could just say "screw it" and tell him how I feel, but that will undoubtedly make it awkward at work.
At this point, my gut says he's interested. He just seems to act differently around me, but maybe that's just me saying that because I like him, who knows? He doesn't talk to me as much as others, but I know he likes talking to me. He gives high fives to others, but not me. He's always asking about my family and making jokes about their names (not in a mean way).
I don't know anymore, I just can't wait until I'm done with college so I can tell him | Crushes |
anyone else go through phases of being certain your crush likes you, then thinking they just see you as a friend? I'm going crazy with it. I'll have a couple of weeks where I think "there's no way she'd act like that with someone she didn't like".... and then I'm back to "oh. she obviously likes me as a friend but she's stopped instigating texting again so I guess we're just gonna be friends". Feels bad sometimes. | Crushes |
Quick background info
I've known my crush since the start of last year but it wasn't until this September that we had a class together. I remember so vividly how I sat down on the first day of school, I was seated far from the other classmates and then a few minutes later she came and sat at the only other seat next to me. So it was just us two alone and at first she would always talk with me, tell me jokes, compliment me, and ask about my day. But I never knew how to talk with her, it probably felt to her as if she was talking to a wall. Still, months passed by and she never lost interest in talking with me about stuff, it seemed as though she liked me. We even exchanged snaps but we only talked three or four times on it.
After some time I fell in love with her. Now outside of school I would say I'm extremely extroverted, I don't care about what others think of me and I feel fine expressing myself however I want, but in school it's the complete opposite. It always feels as though everyone has their eyes on me, watching and judging my every move. I was sick and tired of that feeling so I decided I would change once and for all and show my crush that I liked her back. Everyday I would work up the courage to do something as simple as greet her when passing by her in the halls. I would think of stuff to talk about with her, but when I sat down next to her for class my mind would shut down and I would just have no idea what to do the entire time. Everyday I woke up feeling like I could do this but everyday I would make the same mistakes. Out of the dozens of days that passed, I probably only had good memories with her a handful of times.
Very recently, I started to feel the slow separation between us. Day by day we talked less, after some time we stopped saying hi to each other. Each time I see her she's always with her friends and she's always enjoying spending time with them which just discourages me even more because I know that she has never enjoyed any of her time with me. This week so far has been the worst yet, we're practically strangers again and the entire time I was in class all I could think about was to just say something, do something, anything to show I cared. But I didn't, and it felt like such and easy thing to do but no matter how hard I tried I just couldn't say a word to her. It made me physically sick to my stomach and nauseous to the point that I was unable to concentrate in the class. I feel as though I've pushed her away from me and she's just accepted that I don't care about her and it's been killing me to think that the only person she'll remember me as is an awkward, quiet, heartless person.
I have two more days of school before I go on winter break and I want to do everything possible to turn this around. I just don't know how to, I have everything it takes to be the funniest, most interesting, most compassionate person she's ever met. The only problem is that I don't know how to be myself in front of her, I don't know why I can't change myself. | Crushes |
tell me about your crushes, what you admire, why you love them, etc
and tell me success stories with them (if applicable atm!) | Crushes |
So 8 years ago, I (33F) had a big crush on this guy (30m), and we dated for a little while. But I backed out twice because of doubts. Since then I found out I'm a hsp, and I think it was a fear of abandonment. Ofcourse he moved on after the second time I backed out. He got another girfriend and I felt so bad, like, I let the best thing ever just slip away. I even told him cause we were still friends, but ofcourse that didn't change anything. Because of this girlfriend and I got a boyfriend, we kind of drifted apart. He's still together with that girlfriend, for 7 years and they live together. I've since had a relationship of 2,5 years, some flings and am now in a relationship for 1,5 years. But this old crush is one of my current boyfriend's highschool friends. Last weekend, I saw him at a party. In 2017 I saw him a lot sometimes, at other mutual friend's places. I was single at that time, but didn't really feel anything towards him at that time. But last weekend at the party, all the feelings came back. I can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me insane. It's litteraly all I can think about. It feels like I want him back so much, as much as back in 2014. I can't do anything about it though, he has a long term relationship and I'm in a relationship with his friend. And I don't want to do anything about it. But in another way, I really really do. I just want to tell him how I feel and get it off of my chest. But I can't and I won't, cause it would screw up a lot. But it's eating me alive. I don't know what to do, so I just started ranting here. | Crushes |
I met this guy a while back we worked together but weren't friends, he approached me at some point and asked for my ig and number because it was his last day at work.
Fast forward a couple weeks we have been talking on and off on ig but he takes forever to reply but his replies are really long and thought out. I ended up moving the convo to imessage because i assumed he doesn't open his ig alot, but its still the same long texts with attempts to keep the convo going but very late replies.
We are suppose to meet up soon but still haven't finalised plans.
What should i do,im starting to think that he doesnt even like me. | Crushes |
I just got rejected. I think?
So I gave a guy my number and he never texted/called which was upsetting but I didn't know if I had given him the right number or he texted the wrong number etc. Today I got my confirmation.
I walked in the restaurant (my old job) and he was right there stocking stuff. He sees me and says hi, asks how I'm doing and that's it. I stood there for a second and realized he wasn't gonna say anything else so I greet everyone else, grab a coffee and chat with a few old coworkers.
Now I'm getting ready to leave and I say goodbye to everyone. This guy is standing at the register by himself and I wanna talk to him, maybe he'll say something about last week when I gave him my number. I come up with some excuse to talk to him by asking if he could hand me a straw for my drink (ugh I know) he gives it to me, I say goodbye and leave.
I had a gut feeling he wasn't interested but I held onto some hope for a week and now I don't need to stress over this. But damn it sucks and I'm embarrassed for thinking I even had a chance. He's a shy guy too so I figured making the first move would be better. It was okay I guess. | Crushes |
I really can't seem to be able to put my thoughts together oh my god. Every time she looks at me I feel so warm inside that I can barely take it, but each time, it doesn't matter if nothing really happens, I just get this paranoia that she hates me, or that she just doesn't care, idfk.
We're friends, not close, but we've hung out maybe twice, still, our schedules don't work AT ALL now, so I can't ever see her. I've thought of maybe asking to help her study, since she's doing badly even though she likes some subjects, but I'm scared. Very.
Specially since I don't see any interest from her part, a friend of hers told me that she usually doesn't show her feelings too much, but then again, my paranoia kicks in. I also thought of maybe telling her that I like her, no strings attached, and that I'd like to get to know her better, but goddamn am I terrified.
Just so you know, it's happened to me before the fact that I'm the kind of guy who is somewhat silent and with an resting bitch face, but then at home writes poetry and hugs plushies during sleep, so yeah, that. Help me pleas | Crushes |
I never really have crushes that easily. But there's someone in my university whom I find cute. We are having the same class this semester and I think that I like him.
I have never been in a relationship, it's mostly been one sided or emotionally unavailable.
Back to them. I am too exhausted to make the first move. It's always been me. I decided to let it play. So far, we have both had a lot of eye contact. Today especially, I caught them looking at me and when I looked at them, they looked away. Everytime we have a brief eyelock, I always get butterflies. I don't know if they like me, and I don't know if they're single. We have never had conversations. Should I just let it play out or take action as always??
P.S- we have this class only for another 5 weeks | Crushes |
First of all, my crush is a year younger. I just turned 16, and he is 14 turning 15. I tried talking to him online (I found out his name and managed to find him online) but realised that he probably wouldn't reply to a stranger.
I haven't had much success at school since his mates always surround him, which my social anxiety can't handle. I dunno what to do and am desperate even if it's just to get to know him. | Crushes |
man i don't know him all that well yet but him and my work bestfriend who happens to be his best friend all walk together for a bit in school and my crush walks in between the three of us and man when i was waiting for them today the guy iliked looked down at me and i don't know how to explain it but man his EYES
they're dark brown and i love dark brown eyes they look so full and he was looking at me in an amused or relaxed way and god | Crushes |
I (F 18) confessed to my crush (M18) and turns out he has feelings for me too. So what's a good first date idea? What should I wear? How to stay calm and not sweat? I'm just so excited and nervous lol. | Crushes |
there’s this guy at school that caught my attention some months ago, i only watched him from afar but nothing more. One day i decided to look up his name on socials and i followed him yk the basic stuff, i talked to him on dm and we had a small talk, then when day passed we started to talk more and more, we started to feel more comfortable with eachother but all of this was on chat. this random day i wanted to talk to him on person but the only thing i did was look at him, later when we were at home he text me saying that me looking at him made him uncomfortable, i asked why and he told me some dumb explanations and said he doesn’t want his friends to see him with me? i was ???, i decided not to ask him more explanations bcs everything would be a waste of time. later on he just kept sending me stuff and messages, his personality just didn’t sit right to me, so i decided to just stop texting him. he complained to me saying why i wasn’t responding so i had a conversation w him saying why i didn’t like his behaviour and told him that we should stop talking. im very direct with these stuff because i value my connections a lot, sorry if i sound very intense.
Right now my problem is that these days i’ve been wanting to talk to him, i want him to look at me and talk to eschother everyday :(
Usually i’m very logic with my feeling and how i’m acting right now it really pisses me off. i’m trying to understand my heart more but it just make me feel guilty. | Crushes |
Love is in the air. People are being bold and approaching others. If someone, not your crush approaches, what do you do?
Do you given it a try and go on a date?
Do you flirt?
Immediately say no?
Do you tell your crush or say it when you know they are nearby listening?
It could make them jealous but it does let them know you're available...for now and could prompt them to take action before someone else gets there. | Crushes |
There‘s someone who seems to like me, but I don‘t like them back. How should I handle it, behave around them etc. without breaking their heart? | Crushes |
She's so cute!!!! She literally made a jobless person come to Uni daily in order to see her and melt in her presence even making a fool of myself with awkward eye stares which are then brushed off with smiles | Crushes |
We hadn’t had contact for a while but he did remember my birthday even though I told him a very long time ago.
What should I do?
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I have basically pulled anyone i’ve wanted since i can remember.
I met this dude at school and at first i just thought of him as a very unattractive guy. A lot of people see it and he has never dated anyone. Slowly we became good friends and i realized i have a huge crush on him and can’t stop thinking about him. I try to text him but he doesn’t seem interested at all. i feel like he gives hints sometimes but the dry texting and being rude to me makes me doubt it. I don’t understand why he wouldn’t like me back tho like we’re good friends and i don’t think he could pull anyone ngl and i have pulled anyone i’ve wanted so i don’t understand why he wouldn’t like me back. | Crushes |
One of my best friends and I have become increasingly flirty with each other the past several months. I’m not sure how I feel about him and am terrified of making a move. Examples of flirtation include making physical contact frequently, including under the table at restaurants and in the movie theatre, long eye contact, etc. He also at least once every time I see him complains that I never “take him anywhere” even when my responses back have included “but we are friends” and “that’s a confusing statement”. I know that I am generally the type of person he would be interested in, he also points out details about his type ( physical features) which includes various characteristics that don’t apply to me. So it’s very confusing, hot and cold. I’m about at the end here where I feel like I need to clear the air. But I’m not sure how I feel as there are characteristics about him that are outside of my type. Any advice helpful. | Crushes |
I (16F) think I have a crush on this guy, who we’ll just call Joe (16M).
I’ve known of him since middle school, but just last semester we started talking more but it was a in school thing and we never really talked outside of school. We had 1st period together last semester and our teacher always changed around our table groups and whatever, and for a few weeks, him, me, and my friend all shared a table. It was nice because then I got to talk and joke around with him firsthand and get to know a little about him. At the time, I wasn’t really thinking that I had a crush on him.
Now it’s a new semester and we have two classes together, which has given us more of a chance to talk to each other whenever we’re around each other. He’s a really nice guy in general, so I feel like it’d be hard to tell whether or not he likes me, but I think I like him. I have a history of mixing my platonic and romantic feelings up, which has caused me to lie to people because I wasn’t sure about a crush/relationship. I just want to be able to be sure of my feelings before I say anything or do anything that I’ll regret.
Any tips on how to differentiate? | Crushes |
I'm usually very capable of talking to her like a normal person cause we're friends but today the English teacher told me to have a dialogue with her,and i went into full panic mode and embarrassed my self Infront of the whole ass class. I started blushing and fluffing my lines and made 3 grammar mistakes in 1 sentence. It's even worse cause usually I'm very good at English. I couldn't have chosen a worse time to screw up | Crushes |
I’ve never posted here before…. I’ve [24F] currently been crushing on this person [22NB] for about 8 months. Work circumstances prevent us from getting together romantically at the moment, but we’ve become very good friends. We spend nearly all the working day together, and text each other nearly every day (I don’t always initiate) and sometimes spend almost half an hour talking in their car after work. Almost every person I’ve dated before has had at least 5 red flags stapled to their forehead prior to dating, but this person is just so full of kindness, wonder, and love and I literally cannot get enough of them. I don’t know if they feel the same way toward me, or if they’re just humoring my interest, but they are such a beautiful person—I am so lucky to have them in my life, however that may be.
I have a lot of mental health issues, which I’ve disclosed to them, and they haven’t pushed me away in the slightest. One time while they knew me I had to be hospitalized and I apologized to them if I had acted in any way that was embarrassing or unacceptable, to which they replied, “not at all. Anyway, there’s nothing you could do to change the way I see you.” I believe that’s the kindest thing anyone has ever said to me.
Of course I will be absolutely crushed if they don’t feel the same way. I think I’m actually already in love with them. If the current circumstances didn’t prevent it, I would have already professed my feelings. I cannot wait for the day that I can. We’ll have to see what happens.
I’m so gay lol | Crushes |
So, I like this guy for about 3.5 years, he's not flawless, actually he's full of flaw (jk)
But I like everything about him, I remember not knowing him personally and defending him (we probably have never talked at that time and he's kind of popular so I've never approached him, maybe some small talks here and there, but nothing more than that) it was a weird thing for me, defending someone who I never had known personally.
I think I observed him through the times I've seen him, he's good looking so I was attracted at him by that HAHAHAH, anyways. He's great, I once saw him as someone perfect, but after getting to know him and his many moods, I found out that he, after all, is the same with others.
And so from crush, it turned into like and transcended into love, for some reason I have a hard time calling it that. It's bc of the fact that I am not that open emotionally, but when talking about him I see myself get all jittery, I stutter, and he makes me feel nervous ( in a good way). He's also very cute, lol, and am easily misunderstood. Despite not being as open as he is in person, his moods can be observed through the actions he makes, which makes him more interesting.
He's unpredictable, which is one of his charm, really. And humble. I don't feel the same as I do to him before, but I would love to let him know.
I love you, mahal taka, mahal kita, thank you❤️ | Crushes |
What's your experience? | Crushes |
So I had a dream that my crush didn't like me. In the dream, he came up to me and was like, I just wanna be friends. I dont know how he figured out i liked him, but ig he did. He said that he had never really had any feelings for me. I honestly dont know what to think of this. | Crushes |
My school has this yearly thing each Valentine’s Day. You purchase a rose from the student council which, together with a sweet message, shall be sent anonymously to your crush while they are in a lesson (with you I think, so you can see their reaction). It’s a really cute thing and many people do participate in it.
Now I’ve been more social and talkative with my crush so I think she will guess correctly that it’s me who sent it. Can’t decide to do it or not so I’m asking r/Crushes. Should I do it? | Crushes |
I just don't wanna sound desperate or show signs that I like him, I just wanna start on a friendly note and go further later, any suggestions are finee | Crushes |
MF HIS BITCHASS FRIEND JUST SENT "ask @[insert his username] if you have any struggles with physics" THEN A FUCKING WINKING EMOJI
FUCK FUCK FUCK IM IN DANGER FUCK- | Crushes |
Okay so I followed my crush on instagram almost 2 weeks back. We are in the same college, he's is my senior and we do cross each other's paths but never really make eye contact.
So I put this story on my instagram about ghibli anime boys being a green flag and he liked it. I know it's a stretch, anyone can like anyone's stories but idk why I'm feeling that it means something, maybe because I like him. Also he was the only one to like that story, it wasn't anything interesting, ig he is into anime that's why.
But idk what to do next? Should I text him? Reply to his story? Just like his stories? I really really wanna talk to him but idk how. Also the only way I can talk to him is online coz we have holidays rn
Pls help | Crushes |
I’ll level with you. It was hurtful when you abruptly got distant, and it made me look foolish trying to figure out what was up. I’m not sure I want to go through that again.
Just because I tried to test the waters with bringing the connection to another level didn’t mean I wanted the friendship to end if that level wasn’t reciprocal. Do I feel that putting an arm around the shoulder and then respectfully backing off after being told “not interested” is appropriate grounds to not want to talk anymore after we had some level of friendship established? In my opinion, no, but that’s a boundary you set and I respect that, and I understand everyone handles this type of scenario differently.
But as I said, it wasn’t the boundary you set that hurt me. What hurt me was that you said everything was cool after I acknowledged I made the wrong call and apologized, and then without warning days later, you pulled the slow fade/ghosted. Then when I addressed you being distant, you said I made you uncomfortable (when I was under the impression everything was fine as you initially said.) and didn’t want to hang out again. It made me feel like I screwed up badly and that I’m a terrible person for having tested the waters. And then when I wanted to have a talk about it, you ignored it and refused to acknowledge and accept responsibility for your part. | Crushes |
basically i will go to an amusement park soon, and i thought, what if i bought him a bracelet?
im planning to give it to him while we were hanging out together during this week (i was initially planning to give it to him on valentines but we have an important debate that day and it might stress him out)
what do you think 😭😭?? | Crushes |
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