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So I have exams coming up in a month and I saw this short haired girl with glasses and my heart started screaming, I immediately facepalmed cause having a crush especially now is not right, so do you guys have any ideas on how to not fall into a crush(had bad experience elwhere when I told a girl she was beautiful and it was a prank, experienced love sickness for some reason, even though I never spoke to her before, felt like I was going to have a heart attack, so no I will not talk to her)
P. S - Her voice sounds so good, so most definitely will not talk to her | Crushes |
TLDR: There's this really cute guy that I see in my work all the time, as I work in his school sometimes, but because of the position I'm in at work, I can't really ask him for any information about him, so just have to watch from the sidelines which sucks.
I (19F) work with a charity. Once every two weeks, we go into a college to run a stand / information stall. Given I'm the same age as the students (mostly aged 17-21ish), and my co-workers are all 30+, I often get a lot of conversation, people asking for my snapchat etc. Even if I was interested, I'm not allowed to give it out given it's unprofessional and I'm working in a school.
Either way, there's this one boy (18M) who comes up to the stall every single week without fail. He always does the same thing. He comes over, has a joke with me for a minute or two, does one of our challenges, then leaves. And I think he is just so cute.
The thing is, given that I'm technically in a position of power because I'm working in his school, I'm not allowed to ask him any personal questions, which makes sense. It means I don't even know his name. I can't ask him for his name, I can't ask him for his social medias or number or anything. So I've just been watching from the side hopefully.
I didn't think anything of it, but my friend thinks he's purposefully finding a reason to come to talk to me. He said 'Why would he come and do the exact same challenge twice a week, and never talk to your colleagues? He did the challenge once, doesn't need to do it again. Sounds to me he's finding an excuse to have a quick chat with you everytime'.
It really really sucks. I'm not allowed to do anything so I just have to sit and be sad about it. I think he's so so cute and I'd love to have a chat with him outside the confines of me working in his school, but I'm not allowed to.
It sucks. | Crushes |
So me (15m) and my est friend (15m) have known each other for about 3 years, we've been working quite inseparable but there's just one problem.
So I'm not the kind of person who develops crushes on people left and right, like I gotta really know someone to confess to them. Well two times I've in the past year I have confessed to someone and both times they have rejected because they liked my best friend.
The worst thing about this is that I have no idea why everyone is totally in love with this guy. Like he isn't particularly handsome or anything, he's very awkward and has a stutter. He also doesn't want to date anyone and he also isn't allowed to date anyone before 17. He doesn't try to get people to like him everyone is just in love with the guy.
Meanwhile I'm really good in social situations, extroverted and funny (or so I'm told) and yet I keep trying my hardest to get people to like and they just don't because of this guy. I feel like I'm living in this dude's shadow and it's making me extremely jealous and just upset and I have no idea what the hell to do.
The first time this happened I was just really sad, the second time it was really sad but also a but funny that it happened again but if this happens again I'm actually going to lose my shit (something that hasn't happened in like 4 years) so I don't know what to do. | Crushes |
I find it really difficult to develop actual crushes on people, but I will usually find people attractive w/o any strong feelings attached. I think I recently realized how I develop feelings, bc recently I gave someone a gift— someone I did not have any feelings for, but after they said thank you and complimented my taste I suddenly could not get them out of my head. The past week has been me crushing on him, and I have also realized with my last crush that’s exactly how I developed feelings too.
Does anyone have an explanation to why I develop crushes on people I give gifts to? | Crushes |
Open for suggestions, I really am tired, not of him but of this feeling (although little encounters becomes ethereal, small gestures that lets me know he does not like me makes me feel a whole another level of sadness | Crushes |
My bad guys | Crushes |
so my crush and I am friends in fb and I usually stalk him there (he has funny posts lol, and I like him) so I usually see what he's sharing, recently tho he added me to the people that cannot see his posts (like a custom settings on shared post and/or posts in general) so idunno I'm confused why he did so.
I don't follow him there (although we're friends on FB) I did it to avoid my getting my hopes up so I usually just stalk him thrice a week. He usually posts memes, and I remember some of them, but when I got to his timeline most of it was missing and the posts date back to at least a month ago. I dont really care if he dates other people, but just curious why he did that, lol, let me know if u have any idea why.
(Sorry if this makes me sound like a stalker, I usually am busy and does not do this often, but I find myself wanting to do it most of the time so i stalk his acc. Hope u dont see this :>) | Crushes |
Everyone please report/recommend help for Colin, he is ruining the sub as well as inviting trolls, if you check his posts lots of new accounts aka trolls pop up and make inflammatory statements. He has an unhealthy obsession with Claudia and is basically just shit posting at this point.
If a reddit mod reads this, please ban him and if Claudia is reading this, don't worry the sun will try to help | Crushes |
ok i’m a 14 year old male and i like my best friend, he’s a male and 17 he’s an amazing friend,we have been friends are entire life’s my sister said i shouldn’t say anything cause he probably doesn’t like me and i would probably ruin the friendship but it hurts so much each time i see him knowing i can’t do something. what do you guys think i should do? | Crushes |
Idk what’s up with her. This girl I have a crush on has been acting weird lately. We’re friends, well I think we are but I have a crush on her. At first I would jokingly flirt with her, saying she was the most beautiful, she’s perfect, etc but I actually started developing feelings for her even though she isn’t my type. She would go along with it. She would never flirt back but would always smile and blush or burst out laughing. I would tell her that I would miss her when I would leave, and one day she surprisingly said she would miss me back. I was a little shocked to hear that but anyway, I would call her my wife and she would also go along with it. A lot of people thought we were like an old married couple because how we acted and sometimes argued. Well recently let’s say about 3-4 wks ago she started to be more quiet. First day she was like that I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing was wrong, but I had a feeling something was up she just wasn’t telling me. I asked if she was stressed, mad, annoyed, etc. And she said no to all of them. Next time we saw each other she was more distant, we only exchanged a couple of words before she left home that day and that same day I messaged and asked her if I did something to her or if she was mad at me? I did apologize even though I didn’t know what I did, but she just left me on delivered. I followed up with a different message a couple days later asking her if we were ever going to talk and she left me on delivered again so I just left it alone. Fast forward 1 wk later and I see her but she was super quiet towards me. We did eye contact and looked away super fast which I thought was weird, but I wanted to give her space because I didn’t know what was wrong with her so I didn’t talk or bother her the whole time we were there together. It was like that for like 2-3 more days until I decided to talk to her. And little by little she started to open up a little. It was starting to feel like old times where I was able to make her laugh and just be playful with her, but in reality she was still sometimes the same. Now we do talk, but every time I try to talk to her she sometimes gives me one word responses or doesn’t reply at all and I’m like okay and just walk away. It’s very confusing because one day she’s quiet, the next she’s talkative, and the next she’s just being weird. Like today she shouted out my name when we saw each other, but later on when I tried talking to her I felt like she was non talkative. Idk I find it so weird tbh. This has happened to me before with other girls but I personally never cared because I didn’t have a crush on them, but with her it’s different I actually do care why she’s acting this way.
Does anyone have an idea why she’s acting like this? | Crushes |
So I’ve been talking to this dude for a while now and we call everyday we’ve even gone to the movies together and walk to lunch together. On weekends we even talk twice a day if we’re able too. I’ve even talked to his sister who is really sweet. One of the things about him is that he streams on twitch. He’s got online friends and all that. They sometimes stream together and stuff. They’ve quite the following tbh. But the thing is that last time him and his friends streamed he mentioned It to me but then didn’t say anything. That day he asked me if I watched. Which I didn’t because I was busy. But for the past week he mentioned he had something going on on Sunday with his online friends. Then yesterday he brought it up again and told me that he’s gonna be streaming today and that if I want I should join. Since he asked and honestly was so excited about I said I would. Well today on his stream I joined and ig he didn’t see that I was on and he messaged me that he was on and that if I wanted to join. I explained to him that I was on already. It’s cute when he’s excited but I just wonder why he insisted and kept asking me if I wanted to join and watch his stream with friends. Did he want me to support him or what? What do you guys think? | Crushes |
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This is my first reddit post here and i'm not really sure how to do this but i'll try. I'm a 16m and in need of advice. This girl is the most perfect thing i've ever seen, she (16f) has an amazing smile and pretty blue eyes. I haven't talked to her yet but have “known” her since my sophomore year when she sat across from me in art class (she is really good at art). Since this new school semester started I got into a graphic design class with her, but this time she has a guy friend. I'm very confused if they are just friends or are actually dating and I don't want to just go up and ask them because I have never talked to either of them before. i need advice. | Crushes |
I have always liked them physically but not emotionally. I dont ever tell anyone this because it severely affects your social life. Anyways im primarily into girls but i just moved to a new town and i dont have much money and i dont have enough money to go socialize and do anything with my life except for work. Im not into any of my new coworkers personality wise and im bored and lonely so i havent done it in 7 years but why not now while my life is kinda meaningless until i have money saved up. My only issues with it from last time was guys getting emotionally attatched to me, some guys blowing up my phone constantly, and being paranoid that people knew or could sense it. But like i said i dont really care about anyone i work with and im there very temporarily since i dont like working there so i feel like now is the right time for me to do it. And im in a new town and not many people know me | Crushes |
I keep thinking if there was a way to make him more interested in talking to me, texting would be easier. But I can't even ask the most simple questions. A recent example:
(4 hours since my last message)
Him: "Just got home!"
(5 mins)
Me: "From the gym or work?"
(Nearly 2 hours)
Him: "From work."
(11 mins)
Me: "How was work?"
Now it's been about 3 hours. I'm tired of this "chase". I have trouble knowing my worth sometimes but I feel I can do better than this. It's a shame because I really do like him, and I'd love to get to know him better but I really don't know what else to do except stop.
He's also unwilling to share certain information with me. Not serious things but small meaningless things and it's infuriating. Texting is practically painful. | Crushes |
So, I was planning on confessing to my crush on this coming Friday, but I'm not so sure if I should now, because I'm not sure if I still like him. I don't mind being around him, but I feel like that certain something has sort of died out. The thing is tho, my subconscious still seems to like him, I dream about him a lot, I still sometimes catch myself glancing at him and I still get excited when he comes near! But for some reason, it doesn't feel as intense as it used to. I sort of want to tell him just to get it off my chest, but I'm not sure it's a good idea. Please, I'd love any advice on this situation! | Crushes |
So about two months ago I was at this dance and this guy asked me to dance. Afterwards we pretty much danced each dance together and when I said goodnight we asked if I stay after at the church we both go to. The next week we had another dance we danced most dances and chatted for a bit. I’d seen him at mass every few weeks after but neither of us said anything to the other. Finally two weeks I got up the courage to go over to his table and say hello. He asked me to pull a chair in and sit downn we talked for about half an hour and then he asked me for my number. I | Crushes |
One of my friend and I have been casually competing to get with this girl (we both have a crush on her). The other day he randomly snaps me saying "Its over" e eing confused I question it then he explains it. I'm happy for him but also really sad about it what should I do now? | Crushes |
Mines are Selena, Bobby Debarge (<3<3), Aaliyah, and Jeff Buckley. | Crushes |
I want to apologize I want to be friends again I'm sorry but I need to grow up but I still have feelings that are not supposed to be denied and supposed to be at least acknowledged it's not cool to be joked about to be made fun of or anything like that idk why u guys think I'm a bad person but I promise I would never harm her | Crushes |
Aight so my crush was into a guy but she stopped being into him and at the same time she started opening up to me more and started coming to me with more of her problems she also started talking to me a lot more. She has also been holding on to me whenever we are going to our next classes and if I said something funny she would lightly push me. She would also grab onto my shoulder and if we are talking a bunch she would even walk past her class to continue talking to me. It seems like she is flirting with me but at the same time she might not | Crushes |
im 15 and shes 16. She added me on snap, by search, and her friends told me that she talked about me. She also started the first conversation. We would talk a lot, and she replies to my texts very quickly, usually within 5 mins. However, sometimes she's dry and leaves me on delivered (if it's just a snap, not actual texts) even though she's active. Also, when I asked her if she was interested in anyone, she said no, so I'm confused if she actually likes me or not. | Crushes |
idk but everytime i see him i just get overwhelmed with such endearance.
like!! oh you lovely lovely being, may you always be blessed with the sweetest of joys in life.
he doesn't even have to do anything, i'm just so fond of him like that.
and it softens my heart even more when he does stupid shit.
like oh look at him go, the cutest dumbass ( in like, the least insulting way yk what i mean?)
i love him and all his beautifully humane imperfections.
the people who changed their minds about liking him just because of his height are TASTELESS and i will forever stand by that fact.
like fr these mfs be missing out just because of some stupid shit.
(i mean hey it's your preferences but like,, who gives a shit?)
but heyo, more of a chance for me i guess 😸 especially since i've already confessed and all that 🤺 | Crushes |
So I literally had the best dream last night. I forgot exactly how it went but I think the school year was ending and we were all getting ready to leave and go home. I saw him and went up to him and asked for his number. He said yes and gave it to me then my dream ended right after that lol. Its weird cuz i’ve never dreamt of him before and he’s been on my mind all day today. Like I literally can not stop thinking about him. | Crushes |
We've known each other for a long time, but we recently started talking a lot and we've become pretty good friends. So on Valentine's day / the week of Valentine's day, I'm going to confess to him. I'll let you all know what happens afterwards! (If I don't get too nervous and back out 😂)
Honestly, if I'm too chicken to tell him in person, I'll probably just end up texting or calling him on Valentine's Day. Will update 🤞 Wish me luck! | Crushes |
But hes another boy. Ive been posting about one boy for forever, but i think he likes another girl, and im falling hard for another guy. This has happened before but i came back to the first boy. Idk what to do | Crushes |
i snapped her w the song “superhero” and she snapped back w the song “love me”. is that a sign or was she simply sharing her music taste. | Crushes |
So I was making plans to get dinner with my coworkers but a bunch of people were busy and hella people dropped out so it was only me, him, and my friend left. I went the next day and asked him if he was still free since a lot of people had dropped out out. He said "Well me and you can just get dinner together if that's okay with you?" And ngl I was feeling butterflies 😩 upon him saying that but then I mention that my friend still wanted to go so it would be the 3 of us. Fast forward to the day of, another coworker ended coming so it was four of us, but he chooses to sit on my side of the table. And then when it's time to order he asks me "so what do you think I should get" I recommend a bunch of things and then he says "well what are you ordering?", I tell him and then he says "I'm gonna get that too" and orders it. It's not like we were good friends and I'd only ordered here once before so it's not like I was an expert or anything. He's really cute has deep dimples a nice bone structure, (half the office had a crush on him within 1 week of him being there 😭) and he dresses super nice so I'm just wondering if I'm making this all up in my head or if there was something. But part of me thinks he was just being a gentleman, cause when we sat down he poured all our waters for us, and usually holds doors open for everyone etc. I dress super bummy so ik he couldn't like me for that but when we were at the dinner he kept asking me questions more so than the others. And he dm'ed saying "bruh how'd you find me lol" after I added him. | Crushes |
my crush found out last night that i like her and said she doesn’t feel the same. but she was really nice about it and wants to still be friends. still sucks tho :’) i cried most of today | Crushes |
I have this coworker who is a year older then me and I really admire his respect for God, he doesn't take himself too seriously, I'm very religious myself and find it appealing, he's extremely attractive and I don't know him too well but the way he takes care of himself is what I'm attracted to cause I aspire to be on that level, he doesn't settle for being average and keeps pushing and as someone who is highly ambitious too oooooofff that's just so attractive 😅 I added him on instagram and he added me back we watch each others stories and I watch his YouTube videos.
These past couple months I tend to be extremely guarded when it comes to someone entering my life cause I'm working and focusing on my mental and physical health rn but something is telling my gut about this guy being different and I don't even know him that well. Like he is the type of guy I should be attracted to and aspire to be with in the future, I didn't have a father figure to teach me so my experience with boys is really bad, I don't trust myself when it comes to boys but my gut is like hmmmm.... honestly it's probably my vagina 🤣 | Crushes |
so basically everyone knows i like my crush in the class we have together and they all tease me and say “oMg W riZz” to him every time we like look at each other 💀💀
anyways, we were in class the other day and my crush comes over to dap me up and everyone is like “godly rizz omg” and then my crush like tries to KISS MY HAND and everyone is like “OOOOOOOO” and i pull away because i was NOT expecting that
the guy across from me goes, “you TOTALLY would’ve let him kiss you if we weren’t here” and i was like “no stfu” and then my crush says; “is he bullying you? don’t bully my girl” and then like SMILED AT ME AND WALKED AWAY
SIR YOU CANT JUST LEAVE WHAT I DONT EVEN KNOW WHATS HAPPENING AND I LOOK LIKE A FUCKING TOMATO
anyways i think he’s just trying to show off the rizz he doesn’t have but could this be a sign he likes me?
there’s honestly a lot more potential “signs” but that would require a whole other post
any and all thoughts and advice are appreciated <33 | Crushes |
IM SO NERVOUS UGGGGH | Crushes |
Are soft guys attractive? | Crushes |
god he’s just so pretty i love the way he talks | Crushes |
I’m going to talk to my mum to get some advice on whether or not I should ask him to be my valentine
we recently finished playing chess together and it was just aaaaaa ❤️ | Crushes |
I'm thinking of asking her out on valentines Day cause Its the perfect time, who knows, she may like me, maybe not, who knows. I'm nervous as FUCK rn. She's so fucking gorgeous and she's really nice to me. We're good friends and we glance at each other and smile and sometimes wave. Heavy fucking sign she might like me as well, but I'm so goofy, I don't have much luck, I look ok and I'm not insecure, welp, better just cross my fingers and knock on wood. Iove her so much. (Btw I'm a 13 year old male) | Crushes |
I confessed to her in an indirect way. She told me that she's not looking for something atm. She still seems willing to be friends and didn't feel uncomfortable because I like her. Whatever her reasons are, I'll respect her, remain friends and find a new "target" | Crushes |
Mine and mine only fuck everyone else | Crushes |
I've had a crush on this girl for half a month now and we are good friends, I want to ask her out, but I don't want to ruin the friendship. Any advice? | Crushes |
This girl compliments me about how tall I am and always tries to have convos w me and when I sell stuff at school she always buy from me and even her friends tell me that she thinks like I do and we have the same mindset.....WTF
And my friends tease me and always tell me that she is in love w me are they right ? | Crushes |
I'm not exactly my crushes type, but when he texts me he flirts with me. We have texted for hours before. He says things like I'm his "imaginary baby momma" and he also calls me ma. He posted about finding a girlfriend and prays God puts the right girl in his life. I do not know if he likes me or not. What do you guys think? :/ | Crushes |
My crush and I planned a study session and my friend decided to join it. We were doing our work and then I don't know what he said but she told him that he gets "no b\*tches", she kept repeating it and I can feel him glancing at ME LIKE 😭😭😭 He said "that's CRAZY" and I was like AAAAA | Crushes |
Had some flirting moments.
I'm dense to this which caused some hot/cold reactions. Now I think he's backing off and feeling like it's hopeless.
His friends aren't saying anything directly to me: but I hear how much he has talked about me to them (they're a little sick of it but still tease him) and there were a few 'is that her' moments when they're together.
...so, if he likes me, what is he waiting for? what green light from me does he need? is he waiting for a fun night event at the gym (glow in the dark) to talk? do I compliment him...
I want to do something: but I don't want to confuse him more than I have. | Crushes |
I'm not exactly my crushes type, but when he texts me he flirts with me. We have texted for hours before. He says things like I'm his "imaginary baby momma" and he also calls me ma. He posted about finding a girlfriend and prays God puts the right girl in his life. I do not know if he likes me or not. What do you guys think? :/ | Crushes |
Ig she's made it known by never once responding to any text I send that she doesn't want me around but I just wish she could come thru the door knock on my door and make all the pain go away | Crushes |
I want to know if my crush has any traits that would be dealbreakers for me (homophobia, racism, etc.). We talk a good amount online but I don’t know him too well yet. Is there any way I can discuss this with him naturally without seeming like I’m interrogating him?
Any advice appreciated, thanks! <3 | Crushes |
I met her one time, found her IG and we texted and called alot, even sometimes she texted me first. She knows i have feelings for her, and I kind think she does.
But everytime I asked her to hangout, she rejected in a good way ( made funs and stuffs). I think I showed too much how I feel for her, and that’s wrong.
After that day, I’m trying to control myself and make conversation less awkward.
But I realize that she doesn’t text me more often like she used to, even when our calling is still working, still good (only when I call first).
Did I do wrong and lost her :((( If not, what should I do to reach to her heart, again ? | Crushes |
I have a crush on a girl for months now but i didn't even try to start a conversation with her due to fear. I don't get why is it so hard for me to just approach her and talk with her about random things. Anybody got some tips ? | Crushes |
She complained to me about how she has been putting off listening to some voice notes one of her best friend sent her (while i was at her place, so she didnt listen to them then) and said "... but yeah i told him a friend was here..."
She always mentions nearly all of her friends by name when talking about them but told him that "A" friend was over?! Does that imply that she literally hasnt mentioned my name to them ever? I cant help but think about that. Mainly because as i said, i literally know all of her friends by name. It feels really weird. Especially since she refers to me as one of her best friends :( | Crushes |
Our families are close because his sister and my cousin are getting married. His family says that he’s pretty much a loner (which I HIGHLY doubt because I know he knows a lot of people and he’s extremely popular) They say that he’s actually super insecure, which I do believe because he has to live off of putting others down and constantly pretending to be this strong, OVERLY confident man at our school. My family also told me how his mother said that he apparently really liked me. But then a few months ago I overheard his other “popular” female friends say how he would text his girl on Snap and call her his “woman”.
At school he gives me the cold shoulder and flirts with other girls but when we’re alone it’s a whole other story. I also noticed that it’s hard for him to keep eye contact with me. He keeps staring at me at family events when I’m not looking and his cousin also very bluntly started questioning me if I could imagine a future with him.
Please help 😭 | Crushes |
I may or may not be asking for ideas lol. But I wanna hear your guys’ scenarios | Crushes |
Recently, I feel like I have been getting mixed signals from one of my friends who I'll call A. We're both guys (I am bi, but prefer men) and we go to the same college. I've known him for several months and I had a crush on him. I told him I liked him a couple months back, but he rejected me. Despite my fears, he was actually really understanding and wanted to keep being friends, but we've never brought it up again for good reason. I know during that time that he was interested in another boy in the friend group. I found this confusing because A had told me he was straight, but honestly, I don't think I really wanted to know what was going on between those two, so I never asked. I have heard that he has experimented with guys before that point so I don't really know if he's actually bi or what. What I do know is that the two of them are no longer dating because the other person was asking people for advice on dating apps. A mentioned how he had recently deleted all of his dating apps, but never explained why, but he seemed pretty dissatisfied with them in general. As far as I know, I believe that he is still single.
In the past month or so, I feel like he has been acting a little unusual. For the most part, it's nothing major, but it's stuff like this that he does that makes me wonder if I'm overthinking things or if there's something more going on. About a month ago, we were playing a game with friends over Discord. He said something to me and then moved his character into mine to "kiss" me. He was drunk at the time, so I kinda just laughed it off at the time, but it was surprising. I also feel like he likes to tease me more than most of his friends. Nothing too serious, but he seems to act a little more playful towards me sometimes.
I saw him at the gym recently and he asked if he could join me, and since we've worked out together in the past, I said sure. As usual, we talked about stuff, but this time, he handed me one of his earbuds and we listened to music together while we worked out. Also, I recall that for some reason I tapped my chin with my finger, and strangely enough, he mirrored that same gesture. I didn't really think much of this at the time, but in hindsight, it is a little weird.
I'll admit that we haven't been talking as much recently because I've been busy with school, other friends, and catching up on some games. But still, I'm not sure if this is his way of trying to be friendly or if there's something more going on. I wouldn't say that it's too unusual for him to act this way, but he's not really like this with most of his friends. It's weird to me that he would be so comfortable with me after everything, and we haven't really known each other for that long compared to many of his other friends, many of which he's known since high school. I don't really want to get my hopes up, and obviously I feel like I am overthinking it as I always do, but there is part of me that feels like there's more going on with him. Obviously, he is comfortable with me, but I don't want to interpret things the wrong way and have it affect our friendship. I want to know what you guys think. | Crushes |
So, me and this girl are in college and we met somewhere mid October. We only share one class (technically two, but the other class is PE and we rarely have an opportunity to talk to eachother during it, so I'm not counting it) during the whole week and stumble into eachother between the classes sometimes. We mostly talk about college stuff though and sometimes about anime and video games.
She mostly introverted, but active during our classes and maybe a bit socially anxious. So far, the following happend (or the things that stand out to me the most):
-Let me sit next to her during one of the classes (been sitting with her ever since)
-She remembered something that we talked about two or one week ago (can't remember). A small detail about me.
-Approached me and stood kinda next to me, when I was talking with a friend.
-Touched me on the shoulder to console me. Later (same day, same class), she gave me a headpat, after I leaned foward and placed my head on the desk, as a reaction to the assigment we've been given.
-Next day, she giggled and shaked her shoulder a little after I placed my hand on there (she did that after I moved my hand away, so it's not like she recoiled in disgust when I touched her). It was in the middle of a conversation, but I don't remember the context.
-After one of her classes, instead of waiting for the bus at the bus stop, she decided to spent that time by talking with me instead.
-And of course, we always say hi or hey to eachother. She even asked "What's up" once. (:
However, there's one thing that I don't know how to interpret. On the day of our final exam, we were sitting next to eachother in the class as usual. We were both pretty nervous, since we weren't sure if we are going to pass. The teacher gave the whole group an option to take a simplified version of the exam, but you could only get the lowest possible passing grade for it.
We were both considering it, but at the same time she wanted a better grade. You had to let the teacher know first if you wanted to take the simplified version and since this was an oral exam, there was a small queue of people. At some point, I decided to just take the simple version and get into the quene. I was slowly getting up from my seat, when she suddenly grabbed my arm, pulled me down and said:
-"Sit"
I think my heart stopped for a second.
Anyway, we both spent the next hour in awkward silence, occasionally having small talk about the exam and nothing else. The bizzare thing is that when we were the last two left, she decided to go first and me second, so she ended up finishing it first and didn't wait for me (she always has a bus like one minute after the class ends, so we don't have time to talk after the class. I guess she hoped to catch it last second).
She was too late though, so we ended up talking about for the next 20 minutes, while she waited for the bus. I didn't have the courage to ask what the fuck was the thing with her grabbing me, until the next day. When I asked her about it, she was clearly nervous in her voice and the answer was basically "I wanted you to take the normal version. So you don't take the easy way out."
We both ended up passing (with a good grade too, only made a few errors. I think I did a little bit better than her even), but if she cares about me that much, why she didn't wait for me? I really hope it was because she wanted to catch that bus. All the signs so far were good, but I'm not sure what to think about what happend on that day. Opinions? | Crushes |
I(14F) have been best friends with A(14F) for almost 3 years now. I realized pretty soon that I had a crush on her but was kind of in denial about it. for a while we used to say that we were both aromantic and asexual, even if deep down I knew I was probably a lesbian. I realized that I'm an asexual lesbian and that I am completely in love with my best friend and she told me she figured out that she's straight and it hurts so much. when I lay down next to her and she toches my head and hair I get butterflies in my stomach. I just wish that we could be together and cuddle and kiss, not in a sexual way, just in a cute and sweet way. I'm only 14 but I really think that A is my first love and it hurts so much knowing that we'll never be together and that she'll always see me as her friend and I can't tell her the way I feel cause that would just mess our friendship up and things would never be the same | Crushes |
Should I ask her out? I(18M) am friends with a girl(18F) called Esmee. I’m not sure if she likes me but here’s is why I think she might, she hugs me often, wants to hang out regularly, makes jokes about us hooking up. Also my ex(18F) is one of her friends and when we broke up Esmee suddenly started inviting me to parties and asking me to come over while she never bothered to do that when i had a girlfriend. She also joked about having a boyfriend because she wanted to know how I would react. The problem is that I don’t find her to be particularly attractive but she’s not ugly either. She does have an amazing personality tough, she’s always in for a good time and unlike my ex she seems to have her life in order. So it might be worth trying. I don’t really know how I should try it, it would be a shame to ruin another friendship. | Crushes |
This girl said she had a crush on me (on snap) and I like her back but I’m horrible at conversing and we haven’t talked in person and I have pretty terrible social anxiety. She also said she is scared of me lmao. How do I initiate a relationship in person without making it awkward? (In high school btw) | Crushes |
[This](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFsLVG7EAZ4) is how it's done | Crushes |
So me and him kinda clicked, we both played the same instrument and we both have similar interests I thought I had a crush on him but then when I sat down and reflected I found that I didn’t and it was just me wanting to be better friends with him. Then for a period he kinda distanced himself then when he was forced to kinda talk and interact with me he started becoming more friendly AGAIN and now I catch him starting at me in class and he acts a little akward around me and shi so uhh yeah I asked some of my friends and they said they he liked you but distanced himself so that he could t try and lose feeling but then when he interacted again he fell again so IDK PLS HELP ME IM OVER THINKING SOO MUCHKAJAJAJQSHHQVDGSVQ | Crushes |
Like 2 weeks ago I was w my colleague and she said she likes to get balloons on valentines day haha,I started to fall for her for a while now and Im thinking to ask her out on 14th and surprise her with a balloon and maybe some choc too,is it a decent idea?We have a nice bond but I didnt make any move yet so Im thinking now its good to do it | Crushes |
Yes I know the progress flair might not seem kinda odd, considering it's not I guess "positive progress", but it's progress for me, since I've been wrestling with the idea of moving on for a while now. Basically, on like January 25th, I "caught the ick" in a sense, and then it disappeared. And then on January 27th, after talking to some friends, it came back? And I realized I didn't like him anymore.
And tbh, it feels very freeing. Like I don't like anyone right now, and that's okay.
I will say that after not liking him anymore, I began to realize all the "doubts for success" that my friends had been telling me actually made sense. So the first several days after were me being frustrated at myself for not realizing it sooner, and ignoring not only the advice of my friends, but my own deep down intuitions at times. But I've come to terms with that now, and it's ok to make mistakes. Rose-colored glasses are hard to take off sometimes. (And for reference, he's not a bad person or anything, it just wasn't gonna work)
It's still difficult seeing him, because I kinda need space. And it's hard to stop little habits I've been doing for the past almost year and half.
But other than that, I'm happy :)
If anyone has any questions, feel free to leave them in the comments 👍 | Crushes |
I want you to be my girlfriend or whatever the hell u want me to be to you back I love you ok I mean it I want you and only you | Crushes |
So on Friday I asked out my crush and it went like this: I said are you doing anything Saturday Night and she said no, so then I proceeded to ask do you want to go out to dinner with me on Saturday? Then she didn't reply and I said if you don't want to you don't have to, to take off any pressure. Then she said very up beat "sure!" then we discussed where we were going. We go out to dinner and I can't tell if she knew I was asking her out. Was the way I asked obvious enough? | Crushes |
I had a crush on one guy since last semester in University. Both him and I were freshman and in the same major; about half of our classes were the same too. Last semester, I got his Snapchat (somehow, but never text him anything).
Since last semester was over, I haven’t made any conversation with him (too afraid to approach). But now, I decided to make some progress by talking to him. I was thinking about either text him through Snapchat, sit next to him in one of the classes, or maybe talk to him when I waiting outside for my friend after calculus (I saw him almost every time when I was waiting for my friend)…
If there is any other suggestions, please let me know. | Crushes |
So earlier today I was able to talk to my crush.
Convo started with me complimenting her outfits and where she gets it from. Idk if she had a BF so I ask if she had a dress planned out for Valentine's date and she said no. I asked her if she didn't have anyone to be with. She said she does have one but didn't ask her yet. I continue the conversation to make it seem natural and not seem like I went there to find out if she has a man or not.
After that I asked her if she's down to chill during break and that I asked because the people I am usually with aren't here and that I wanted to see if she would be down because I thought she was cool and the conversation we been having have been nice. She said she goes to her car and was gonna make a call then I told her okay and continued the Convo to do the same as last time.
Now here's my question. Does she actually have a man? Or does she say that so no one trying to outright hit on her or to make sure the ones that do, don't keep coming back. If not then how should I proceed? I'm kinda at a stump rn
I do want to talk to her a find out more about her because I genuinely do think she's cool and she actually talks to me. It's not a one way conversation. So if I stop flirting and try to be friends with her I can find out that way. Is that valid? Or is that too much? Or weird? Advice will be very much appreciated | Crushes |
I've had a crush on this girl for a couple months now. We met at work but now we both dont work at that place anymore. When she quit she said she was done talking to the people from there and blocked or unadded everyone from there, everyone except me. She jokes about how shes going to block me but hasn't done it. She jokes alot, that's kind of how we started talking to each other. She started talking to me randomly at work and from there it became kind of teasing, like shed say I'm bad at my job or I'd say she's slacking. And its progressed into us still messing with each other, like on my birthday she called me an old man (I'm 19) so I said I was one year closer to death, then she said cant wait. Anyway point of me talking about us joking around like that is because everyone else who's seen us do that said shes flirting with me, which I don't believe because she is in a relationship and hearing that gives my brain confusion and makes me question things. I really like this girl but I don't want to impede on a relationship so I'm just trying to be what she wants, a friend. | Crushes |
I have a crush on a girl who is also my best friend we r friends for 5yrs . I have a crush on her abt an year she has not shown any signs to me but v r close she shares every thing to me . if she has any issues I'm the one she calls first .
In our new year party v sleep NXT to each other v share the same pillow (cause there were shortage of pillow) our heads were really close and it felt super romantic for me , we spend some time one on one . She had her breakup with her x boyfriend on my birthday it was 2 yrs back (long distance relationship issue) and she didn't tell any of these to me because she didn't want to make me sad on my birthday after few months i got to know abt this and asked her and v talk abt it for a while and I told her that he doesn't deserve u and everything was for gud so to change her mind from her x we were talking about how many PPL have proposed to her and she rejected them , she told me that she doesn't like if friends propsed her . Im having deep feelings for her , I would be on cloud nine if she accepts me but at the same time i don't want to lose her friendship , so what should I do should I propose to her.
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IM SOO CONFUSED ARGHHHH
So there are 2 guys.
Boy 1 😍: One is the most attractive guy I have ever seen. I don’t just mean the type of guy you find cute because of “rose tinted lenses” I mean this guy is drop dead gorgeous. He could be a model if he wanted to. Perfect jawline beautiful smile everything is just amazing.
He’s also very attentive to everything. I changed my hair today and he complimented it. I’m quite shy and quiet and typically get ignored in a group but if he notices I said something he’ll say “wait what (my name) what did you say” “wait everyone (my name) did you say something?” It’s just so bdbsbaz
Boy 2 🤭: When I thought Boy 1 stole my heart boy 2 came along and messed everything up 💀 He’s not as attractive to me as boy 1 but his personality is so… 🤭 He’s very flirty and made his interest in me known from day one. He also has all the same interests as me. It’s making me question some things. His voice too makes me dizzy. Where we all go to we have to be very quiet so he will lean in whisper in my ear and it will make me so flustered I pretend not to care about what he’s saying anymore or else my heart would explode.
Valentines is around the counter and I’m unsure who I should confess to. Help | Crushes |
Repost cos I need help
IM SOO CONFUSED ARGHHHH
So there are 2 guys.
Boy 1 😍: One is the most attractive guy I have ever seen. I don’t just mean the type of guy you find cute because of “rose tinted lenses” I mean this guy is drop dead gorgeous. He could be a model if he wanted to. Perfect jawline beautiful smile everything is just amazing.
He’s also very attentive to everything. I changed my hair today and he complimented it. I’m quite shy and quiet and typically get ignored in a group but if he notices I said something he’ll say “wait what (my name) what did you say” “wait everyone (my name) did you say something?” It’s just so bdbsbaz
Boy 2 🤭: When I thought Boy 1 stole my heart boy 2 came along and messed everything up 💀 He’s not as attractive to me as boy 1 but his personality is so… 🤭 He’s very flirty and made his interest in me known from day one. He also has all the same interests as me. It’s making me question some things. His voice too makes me dizzy. Where we all go to we have to be very quiet so he will lean in whisper in my ear and it will make me so flustered I pretend not to care about what he’s saying anymore or else my heart would explode.
Valentines is around the counter and I’m unsure who I should confess to. Help | Crushes |
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Do you think that this type of relationship can work? Especially between ppl in their early 20s | Crushes |
I'm afraid but I really want to do it so bad! Basically I'm new to Uni and she is in her second year I guess (I'm not sure) and it's been a lot of eye contact and some smiles (She is so fucking cutee!! I melt every time). I was wondering to approach her with a compliment, it goes "Hey I know this is random, but I just want to say that you are really cute" Does that work???? | Crushes |
There’s this thing I have towards a guy who recently joined our friends group, I catch him staring at me a lot thinking I don’t notice and when my eyes meet his, he doesn’t break off the eye contact, does he like me? | Crushes |
So, for starters, for this person … so I am 99% convinced that they had a crush on me like a year ago … and now well idk. Now, we never talk prolly because when they used to try to make efforts/talk I never started new convos I was too shy and ignorant. However, I still get feelings they have a crush on me now and let me say why. Firstly, I keep catching them staring at me *constantly* but whenever I see them they immediately look away. I also heard them talking about me to a friend. And eye contact wise whenever I catch them to start looking at me when I look back they look away… also one time in the hall they were on the other side but went out of their way to be on my side to talk to the same friends?? Idk what do y’all think | Crushes |
Well, it happened, even though she was embarrassed a little she went with it, and after she gave me a hug and said thank you, and her teacher was like “Thank you Kara for having someone who cares about you,” which made me blush but nobody noticed it. Then before rehearsal I gave her the rest of the valentine which I forgot and she told me she appreciated it, and after rehearsal I gave her a hug and she told me she really appreciated it. | Crushes |
So I gave my crush a Valentine’s Day gift with his favorite candy and a drawing I did for him, along with a card. He hasn’t even texted a thank you or anything at all. I feel so embarrassed. I feel like I’ve looked desperate this whole time. Texting him first, replying immediately, and being super friendly (borderline flirty), etc. Looking back on it, I feel like it was obvious he didn’t care about me in the slightest… | Crushes |
He told me that he spent 300 bucks on his girlfriend. Not even sure what he got that was that expensive. Also he took her out as well. They’ve been together for 2 years. I’m so happy for them☺️☺️……..🥲life is just amazing isn’t it?? Isn’t it? | Crushes |
Yesterday, we were walking together after class to pick both of our younger siblings up from the same department (we're classmates). The day prior, he had mentioned wanting to buy flowers for his mother. Now that it was Valentine's Day and my guy still had no flowers, he asked me again if I knew any places where he could buy gifts. Luckily for him, right up ahead the path we were taking were a bunch of small stalls selling all sorts of Valentine's gifts.
So naturally, I accompany him. He went to one stall and then to another. He even asked me to help him choose a rose. By the end of our little mini shopping spree, he walked out with a balloon, some roses, and this thing that I'm not entirely sure what it's called... basically it's a tiny bear on a stick, trust me it's cute
After a bit, we finally reached our destination. And my younger brother decided to make small talk with him after failing to convince me to buy chocolate. (Don't worry, I still managed to buy the both of us cheap chocolate bars when we arrived home LOL)
The conversation went something like:
Brother: Buy me chocolates (semi-jokingly)
Crush: UHM..
[Insert me stopping this madness]
Crush: Here, give this to your sister
AND. HE. GIVES. HIM. THE. BALLOON. This guy just indirectly gave me a balloon and then dipped. I was too shocked to really stop him. I tried telling him that this was supposed to be for his mother but he just looked back at me with a stupid smirk on his face.
So now I'm left to overthink the whole situation with a dying balloon on my nightstand table. Why? why would he do that when he's fully aware of the fact that I like him. I thought we both understood that we were just friends so why would he do something that would surely cause confusion on my part. Maybe he was just being nice, maybe I've truly lost my marbles...
I'd rather like to think this was just a kind (and cute) gesture for helping him but a part of me wishes it was truly something more. Whatever, I don't want to keep assuming things. I just really need outside thoughts regarding this because my mind is mush right now.
Also, we're meeting again today at school for a convocation. I don't think I can look him in the eye anymore after yesterday. But as always, I'll try and be as natural as possible. We are still somewhat friends before anything after all ♡
Thank you for taking the time to read this, happy belated Valentine's Day!
TLDR: My crush (who knows I have feelings for him) indirectly gave me a balloon on Valentine's Day and I don't know how to feel about it. | Crushes |
okayy so i didnt ask bc 1. i didnt want to and 3. he doesnt seem like he likes me and plus my friends kept annoying him and saying all this stuff to him so he already knows i like him so like ummm and hes not giving the energy that he likes me so L | Crushes |
I know, it was just Valentine’s Day but I was a coward and didn’t say anything. I convinced myself I’d do it if we were both alone together but that never happened, so I missed out. We’re both pretty quiet so I didn’t really want to put pressure on her by pulling her aside from her friends, but now I wish I’d said something. She’s not one to start conversations with people really, but I’ve noticed her playing with her hair and looking etc when I walk nearby sometimes, but I don’t know if that’s just normal.
She was one of my closest friends last year, but we have our own groups so we didn’t really talk much after summer, but I joined her history class a few months back which has allowed us to sort of reform that relationship.
There’s 8 girls, 3 boys in the class. I’m confident that I’m the boy she’s closest with, and when we sometimes message we have such great conversations. I think she’s so much fun, she’s really pretty and honestly the best part of my day is talking to her. Her birthday’s 2 days after mine and there’s just so many things to like about her.
We’re going on a school trip next week, she’ll be there. We’re stopping off at some gardens at some point, and I was thinking of maybe talking to her then. It’s in the half term, so if she says no then I guess it gives us a week to get back to normal and put it behind us. If she says yes, then we can spend time together over half term and it would be great. | Crushes |
I just wish it would hug me back. | Crushes |
I’m waiting till after Valentine’s Day, but he is my close friend and we recently got closer. We don’t text much because he isn’t a texter. We see each other almost every weekend because we hang out at our best friends house. We haven’t hung out just us and we haven’t really talked one on one. There’s just tension every time. | Crushes |
I have liked him for a long time, but I can’t tell if it’s because I put him on a pedestal as a friend. Or if I actually know him because he is a friend. I don’t want to confess and ruins our friendship if I don’t like idk truly like him, but idk if that’s my nerves talking. | Crushes |
So if u saw my last couple posts u know what happened leading up to this. How I confessed was putting a small note that said “wanna date?♥️” on the bottom of the inside of the bag. I did this so when they pulled out the stuff in the bag they would see it at the bottom. I gave them 2 boxes of nerds, 3 bracelets I made, and 1 pink teddy bear. I gave it to them on the bus on the way to school and when they looked at the bottom they just smiled for a few seconds and said “sure!” And we never mentioned it we just told our friends when we got to school lol. Anyway I got the w rizz on vday so slay ig. ❤️ hope u guys got a w too | Crushes |
After years of trying with different crushes, I finally accomplished:LOVE!!! She is so cute, I confessed to her this morning then she said yes and we hugged a total of three times during the whole day. She has now made me want to go to school(I hate school) I miss her already... Lol | Crushes |
Previously: https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/111mj1j/nice_twist_of_fate/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Yesterday at the store I work at, we received fresh roses for Valentine's Day. So I said fuck it and ended up buying one for my crush, his response was "For me? I'm your Valentine?"
And then he bought one for me as well. Which I kinda have to think he did it because I got him one? But it's still nice, as I know he's trying to save money.
Also it was my first time receiving flowers and he was really surprised by that. And when we closed the store I told him we wouldn't see each other until Friday and he almost seemed sad.
He's really cute guys, my heart is melting.
AND HE KEEPS GIVING ME FOOD AND BUYING ME DRINKS. I'm such a simple woman 😭😭 | Crushes |
I still can't get over him I would like too but, I think it may be too late.
It's been almost 7 months now. | Crushes |
I don't understand anymore, I'm tired of this crap, why does this happen to me?
This girl I met at the gym initially approached me for a spot and we had a good conversation and we introduced ourselves.
Second time, I approached her a couple days later and it was another normal convo.
Third time, I approached her around 2 weeks later since the second time. I had a another amazing conversation and got her phone # and she said that she would be down for a gym workout together.
During all three interactions, I made her laugh, she had good eye contact with me, she remembered things from previous convos, and during the third time she made touch contact. At this point, I was 110% sure that she was into me.
I texted her about a day later after I got her # and f\*ck man...
She has completely ghosted me (4-5 days since text) and I have not seen her since. What did I do wrong? This has been absolutely bothering my focus and sleep, I have no idea wtf I did wrong?
She didn't even text back "I'll let you know" or anything. Just complete ghost town.
And this hurts because I will probably see this girl again in the near future, consistently. What do I do? Should I ignore her? Should I still hi to her? Please help me out here guys. | Crushes |
So, in my [Previous post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/10x8hfj/i_know_its_too_soon_but_damn_i_love_him/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) I mentioned things were going really well.
WELL, things got better and I’m so so happy!!! I asked him two nights before if he’d be my valentine and he said yes! So I asked him if he’d be free on valentines to hang out since it was his day off from work and he was so happy! So I went out and bought him a Valentines card and birthday card and got them ready in my bag.
Originally we decided we’d go for a walk outside and then go back to his den and watch films, but on the day I ended up not feeling too well (time of the month 💀) so we stayed in and he took care of me, giving me painkillers and cuddles and whatnot. I gave him his cards, asking him not to open his birthday card until Sunday. He got so happy about his valentines card and gave me the biggest snuggle ever. Then HE KISSED ME and I melted and asked him why he didn’t kiss me last time we hung out and he told me he was going to but that he thought I turned away EVEN THOUGH I WAS WAITING FOR IT. But we laughed it off and he IS THE SWEETEST GUY EVER I AM SO HAPPY.
He asked me if we wanna hang out on the weekend and hopefully the more I meet him, the closer I get to him becoming mineeee 🥰
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 | Crushes |
I gave her the note today with my number and she didn't text me, It's clear she isn't interested so I guess I have to get over it. Disappointed but not devastated but it'd still be nice to have a valentine :/ | Crushes |
I have a crush on an old friend (F) but she’s attracted to a fictional character. We are very strong friends and talk everyday. I already told her my feelings a while ago but she told me about this fictional character shes in love with. Today we met up after years of not seeing each other. Even tho she likes this character, I can’t help the fact that I like her. Is it just a Phase? Should I give up? Today she told me quietly something along the lines “you are cute” (Ik its cringe) but she may have said “you good?”. Im really on the fence now. Should I stop liking her? | Crushes |
For privacy reasons, the girl i am referring to will be named Katelyn. Ive had this massive crush on my friend, Katelyn for awhile now. I met her in my first year in middle school and almost instantly was attracted to her. I remember my first thoughts of her was "ew emo kid", however that wasn't really the case. I remember recognizing my feelings for her when i noticed how smart she was. She was without a doubt, one of the smartest kids in our class and that somehow made me attracted to her. After that, I remember how much more athletic she was compared to me. I would admire her because of how much better she was compared to me. She would also talk a lot in class which made me unable to ignore her. Moving on to current times, we are now friends for 2 years after i finally got the courage to pass a note to her. I wish i just asked her without passing a note, since now i cannot talk to her in person without feeling sick to my stomach. She plays guitar and piano, and is so goal oriented i cant help but admire her even more. Over the past two years ive given her numerous gifts for special occasions, even though she makes it painfully clear shes not interested. Ive tried blocking her on numerous occasions to get over her but somehow she always convinces me or someone else to tell me to unblock her. Im not sure if i have any reason to block her, but she has hurt me many times and i doubt shes even aware. She missed my birthday for the whole duration we were friends, despite knowing it all year up to that point. To add onto that, but some days she will say the sweetest, most couple like thing a person can say to someone, and then ghost me for weeks or even months. I can list a few reasons why she would do that but it still hurts me. Ive tried talking to her about it and i know im not her girlfriend but i still feel very hurt. Shes aware i have a crush on her, and even then she leaves without a warning. I genuinely want the best for her and if she were to tell me straight up she wasnt interested, i would respect that, but she doesnt. I feel like im being let on but dont get me wrong, shes genuinely amazing and i do believe that she isnt aware of how i feel about this. I still want to keep our friendship, but i badly want to think of her as just a friend, not someone who i would spend the rest of my life with. | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on a boy since the 1st December of 2019. Saw him ice skating with some friends and wanted to ask him for his number but wasn’t confident enough to do so. In 2021 we were confidentially but in the same class. I always asked myself whether or not he remembered the ice skating day. Many things happened between us and we were not on speaking terms for quite some time.
Today in our school you could buy roses and send them to someone, so I bought him one. I didn’t leave my name in case I’d change my mind but decided on texting him about an hour ago.
The chat reads as follows: (N = him, J = me)
(We’re both 18 if that matters)
J: I was the one who send you the flower btw
N: Thanks
J: You’re welcome :)
J: Can I ask you a question?
N: Sure what’s going on?
J: Do you remember the 01.12.2019?
N: No
J: Alright
N: What happened then?
J: (I tell him what I’ve written about on top of this post)
N: Sorry I couldn’t read minds back then
J: Oh now you can? haha
N: I’m going back to watching football now
I now finally know that he does not like me but I’m still bummed. I’ve known and dated quite a few guys and he was the first one I felt really comfortable with. :/ | Crushes |
Recently I think I've moved on from my last crush and found a new crush pretty fast. The only reason I like this new crush is because he asked me where the restrooms were and I found him pretty cute and being the delusional person that I am I started liking them ever since. This was really recent too about a week ago. Like my last crush, I don't know if this guy likes guys too but thats not what im concerned about as of right now. Im more concerned about how much its gonna hurt to never talk to him or never find out if he is gay or isn't. Theres only about 3 months left of school so time is running out for me. This time I wanna be more cautious with this crush but I also wanna be more brave. Instead talking to him over text I wanna talk to him IRL and take things very slowly so then it won't be so bad if he does end up not being gay. I really need advice on this though I'm a pretty shy and awkward person or at least I think so, so I don't think I'm good at talking to strangers. Any advice is appreciated!!! | Crushes |
I'm in 7th grade I thought this girl I liked liked me but today she told me that her friend has a crush on me (didn't tell me who the friend was and she said that her friend wanted her to tell me this) and then she didn't do anything for Valentine's Day so I have to be alone and got nothing as opposed to like everyone in the school | Crushes |
um i was just texting her have a good day at work, and she texted me back omgomgomg.
then i texted her the pics of the flowers i got her.
umm she hasnt responded yet.
i cant believe she texted me back, like she TEXTED ME BACK | Crushes |
For context, we used to be close and many suspected that he liked me and I liked him vice versa. Anyways, I noticed that when he talks to other girls he’s very outgoing and what not however, when I talk to him he seems more mellow and quiet. Why is that? | Crushes |
even though it’s valentine, i still don’t think it’s rational to confess if we never spent some alone time together.
I just adore his smile. It pretty much lights up my day. Being around him just makes my mood sooo much better.
Been trying to get to know him through mutual friends! Wish me luck <3 | Crushes |
It all started at like the end of last year
I had a really Big crush on a girl that was one grade below me in school. I never talked to her because of that and because i was nervous. one day My school made like a christmas event with games and rollers coasters and that kind of things.
It was the last day before vacation SO i knew i had to talk to her at least once. Around night most people left so there was me and some Friends who where also Friends of her and we we're together the rest of the night.
I started to give up when she started talking with a friend of mine from the group. They went to some rides together and most of the night they where talking.
By the way she looked and talked to him it was obvious that she liked him and there was nothing i could do about it, i just felt sad
When we returned from vacation they never talked to each other again until today.
at the valentines event of my school today the two of them where together all day but this time they seem to like each other back but none of them admitted it or seem to know it.
A friend of her started joking that she would marry my friend and she started to get super nervous and said no.
I told some of my Friends i liked her but they said i should give up because it was obvious that the two of them liked eachother.(also this isnt the first time my friend likes the same girl as me)
What should i do? | Crushes |
Gave her a bag of chocolates, along with a little plush dragon. I didn’t ask her if we wanted to go out, or for her number. She just said thank you, and went on with her day. On the search I am. again | Crushes |
S= crush B= friend
I got a Valentines note today in school. It was rolled up with a hair band. Here's what it said:
To (my name)
Happy Valentines Day!
I really like you and I think you're cute, kind,
funny, smart and a lot more :)
Love from
\_ \_ \_ \_ \_ \_ \_
This will post will be about the evidence it was my crush. First, the most obvious, my trusted friend told me that my crush told the person next to her, my trusted friends cousin, that she wrote the note to me. Second, the hair band apparently belongs to my crush. Third, the handwriting kind of matches. Fourth and final, I also gave her a note for Valentines Day and on Valentines Day she told other girls about it and they went to me first to ask if I wrote it either because she was hoping it was me or because she could recognize my writing. There are 7 spaces at the bottom either design OR it is her name the only problem is her name doesn't fit neither do any other girl's names. What do you think? | Crushes |
Hi im new to reddit so im not sure how to use it but heres my situation! so basically i started liking this guy last year and he found out that i liked him from a friend, ever since then i had felt that my crush liked me back. although we have never talked or had any form or contact such as following each on social media or anything.
anyways we would just stare at each other, I have always wanted to talk to him but he seems like a shy person and i don’t want to make him uncomfortable. although recently he has stopped showing me interest :( he no longer looks at me or gives me attention.
maybe i am just overthinking or maybe i romanticised the whole situation. either way i really like him, i wish i could talk to him and confess my feelings but im afraid that i will look stupid and that he will become even more distant with me.
im not sure what to do but i don’t want to move on yet :( | Crushes |
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