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Tommorow is our last day of school life and probably the last time I see her so I decided to confess. I will either be saddest or the happiest person tommorow. If she says no then i will delete my reddit account as an update | Crushes |
So she approached me first and wanted to be my friend I didnt give her that much attention back then cause I was going through some stuff.. she was clingy and seemed desperate, looked really good and had a charming energetic personality and caring everything I could ask for a few weeks later I saved her ass and we both got really close cause of that incident for a fact i became her bestfriend lmao, like a million texts a day after a 3 months of talking non stop I realized that I developed a crush on her their were high chances she liked me back too so I decided to start making some moves cause I knew in 3 months school would be over but i didnt even start and everyone in our class started to ship which made it awkward for us to talk in school before it was over I got caught up in another personal family related problem and I kinda stopped going to school ,she stopped texting me that much cause exams and she has really strict asian parents ,she seemed distant whenever I tried to talk to her in school ever after the ship thingy she told me that she felt uncomfortable around me now cause of my serious face (yes my personal life did fuck up my mental health too) that kinda put me off...
after that I had 5 convos with her in the past 3 months and she didn't text me for about a month ,she didnt talk to me at the farewell party and then I was later informed by her through her email that her parents had read our chats and she is not allowed to talk to me anymore (yep havent talked to her for 1 month now ,from talking daily with a thousand msgs a day to this)
our last exam is in 12 days after that I wont get to see her ever again.. should I go and try to talk to her or should I just let it be.. | Crushes |
I’ve posted on here a bunch, I don’t have a crush rn I just haven’t in a while and I’ve been browsing here to remember cause I’ve been sad. So if you’ve noticed that you’ve seen the same guy asking questions that’s why 👍🥲 | Crushes |
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It’s sucks so much but I’m still hopeful | Crushes |
Just curious because I always see these but I feel like everyone has different definitions of these :) What’s yours? :) | Crushes |
Second post in a row because. I swear to god she knows me. Every day she’s doing something that fits my type perfectly. She came to school with 3DS today. What in the heck. | Crushes |
We watched a documentary about one of his favorite rappers and were just laying in bed together <33 now my pillows still smell like him. aaaaa I miss him | Crushes |
So I have a crush. Haven’t spoken to her, planing on it though. Thing is, she’s in a grade below me, and I’m going to high school in a few months. So yeah I’m probably never going to see her again. Don’t know if I should even try if I’m just gonna go away in a little bit. | Crushes |
I don't even know anymore if it's a crush only. I feel like I've become so emotionally attached since we're quite close and super vibe. He/she became my crush the moment I heard his/her voice on a virtual meeting. To be exact, 1 year and almost 5 months I've been crushing on this person. We knew each other first online, then we got to meet one another f2f just recently.
The moment I met him/her personally, I thought he/she would not notice me since we met online only BUT NO, he/she approached me and I got the feels fr. Sooo the thing is, it is not long when I heard from a mutual friend that he/she is not single aaaaaaa I'm confused now on what to do and what I'm feeling :(
Given that we're quite close, should I distance myself already since my feelings could grow deeper or continue the friendship with the risk of hurting my feelings badly? | Crushes |
I just want him to love me. I know he loves his boyfriend, and I can't get the strength to ask. I dont even talk to him often. I just want affection and to be cared about. After my ex, I've just been so alone. Me and my ex were gonna kiss. I could've had my first kiss in 2 days. But he dumped me. Like everyone. | Crushes |
So I like this girl very much. She notices things about me. She always sits close to me and yesterday she literally sat beside me in the back bench even though her friends were sitting in front of me with empty seat. On Thursday she was hurt so I playfully held her hand and she was smiling so much. She laughs at my stupid jokes. I also made a poem for her and she was so happy and asked me if she could keep it. I'm afraid of being friendzoned. So should I ask her out guys? | Crushes |
Honestly the story is stupid as fuck. It's essentially a series of unfortunate events that keep getting worse. Okay so the saturday after valentine's day, my friends and I went to the park. It was a whole group of us and essentially my crush was there. It was pretty late so no one was at that park at all, and it was just us drinking and playing stupid games like 20 questions \[im in uni\]. look i was pretty drunk, but i kept hanging out around my crush and their friend; literally for my crush and my crush only...but somehow their friend thought otherwise. we are like all dancing to this song, and all of a sudden their friend kissed me \[FRIEND OF 9 YEARS AND THEY CROSSED THE COUNTRY TO GO TO UNI TOGETHER\]. and instead of saying ew, my dumbass GIGGLED. now their friend was like pressed up on me, just hanging out with me all night. for one second i got back to my crush, they asked if i liked their friend, and i was like no i like someone else \[as a HINT; they did not get it ig :/\]. that night ended, i went back to my house and screamed for hours, and brushed my teeth 20x. But now their friend is in love with me, and wants to hangout 24/7 \[i hung out with them like 4 times after and we ft but that's because i feel bad like im leading them on; even though that's litterally what im doing by continuing this nonsense\]. But they have explicitly said they wanted to date me, and also talk about me with all our mutual friends; but i like THEIR FRIEND. my crush, also has been awkward. they don't say my name a lot anymore, or stare at me, or text me random sweet things. they gave me mixed signals before, and their friends did not know about me \[we have been habitually chatting since october mind you; not talking stage since it wasn't explicit but yeah\]. so i figure my crush was unrequited, and they did not like me at all. but now i feel like they hate me, because they've been ignoring me until randomly 3 days ago when they texted me out of the blue. it was like more than usual, but not like back before. the worst part is i like that person so much, i did not even care about that kiss, all i cared about was my crush. but i don't know if my crush likes me the same way. im so confused and lost i don't know what to do. Im sorry if my writing is a mess, im just frantic and anxious because i low-key want my crush so badly, and i don't want to break their friends heart \[i told the friend recently, lets be friends and see where it goes, but they've been telling people we are taking things slow...\]. what do i do in this situation, and can and how do i get my crush to like me :/
Ps. I texted my crush after the drunk park incident, and i was super annoying texting them "sorry" and "how i don't want things to change" \[just like that, with no context for them\]. i also talked to them after to ask if we were cool, and how to get their friend to not like me \[like the week after the kiss...\]. Lastly, I know my crush was a flirt, like they flirts with everyone. But not that much with me, because we used to 'play bully' each other a lot. | Crushes |
I like this guy and we are on the same wrestling team and have math class together,i talked to him but rarely and he dated my friend so yk i got to know him a tad bit.But they broke up and now i talk to him a lil more at practice and on snap with a groupchat,So we had a wrestling meet and i was up next but this little kid wanted a chair so i gave her my chair in varsity and just sat on the ground but as soon as i sat down he got up held his arms toward his chair and said “___ here you can sit here” i was so like flustered and wad insisting he sat there and that i was fine but i eventually did sit there and he told his friend to scoot over and sat next to me.Only problem is some really pretty girls keep asking for his snap and i don’t think i have a chance with him. | Crushes |
I have a crush on a guy I always see and sometimes sit next to in cafeteria at college. We've never spoken to each other and I don't know his name but we both eat alone most of the times and often end up sitting at the same table. I want to introduce myself but I have no clue how, please give me some advice. | Crushes |
I had tried to convince myself I don't like this guy (he is quiet and an upperclassmen). I won't say he is "out of my league" cause I have my fair share of glow up in terms of mentality and looks to a certain point, but I still feel that way because of growing up ugly ! But bro's majestic looking. Defo one of the most beautiful men I have ever laid my eyes on. And he stares at me all the time ??? My friends say that all the time and some even think he likes me. I have tried talking to him but I am so so scared of it. I have only ever texted him tho. But he is so so confusing. I think I have gotten to a point where I really know I like him although I was deadly afraid to admit this. I only have 6 more months before we graduate and I don't know how to get close with him. | Crushes |
So after school i visited her at work and just chilled with her and her friends then we all went to a show and her friends forced me to hold her hand. I love her friends thank you. | Crushes |
I (18f) am incredibly disappointed, and while there is still a chance for a relationship, I am kinda depressed that I wouldn't be his(18m) first love like he is mine.
I went on a field trip yesterday with him and another random girl, and while we were there he started talking about his ex (who I did know and actually really disliked), she moved to Florida to be in the navy and that's why they couldn't be together, and he said he actually really misses her.
I am actually double confused because last year we both ran into her, and he was super friendly to her, so I asked if they were dating and he said, "no, no we're just friends". So what should I even think now???
When I was next to him talking to the random girl when he saw me look at his phone when he was showing random girl a picture of his ex, he actually got quieter and held the phone away, which is unusual for him btw. I think this either means he felt embarrassed because he remembers he lied to me about his ex, or he was embarrassed because he just generally didn't want to talk about exs infront of me because I do think he has a crush on me?
At this point though I don't even know if I want to be in a relationship with him though. I mean he lied to me (which is really out of character for him). But also I have never been in a relationship and I want to date someone of a similar status. I may be being too picky though because I'm an 18 yr old senior and soon I'll be way too far behind in terms of dating if I don't date anyone soon. I won't at this point ask him out, but I'm not sure what I should say if he asks me out? Any advice is appreciated
Also p.s. while there is all this crush trouble, me and him are still friends also, and I feel like the field trip made our friendship stronger. | Crushes |
Ever just looked at each other for a couple secounds. Anything really, | Crushes |
There’s this girl she’s really nice and affectionate and we started talking not so long ago. I’ve fallen for her but I’m not sure it would ever happen. I feel like the only reason she’s nice is because she still sees me as a girl (I’m a trans man). She’s also nice to everyone but I wish she actually likes me. Should I ask her out? | Crushes |
So I had a crush on this person in like spring of 2019, thought it was no big deal and it went away after a few months. But I had a crush on them again later that year and a few more times between spring of 2019 and now, is this normal? Also, I'm friends with them and we don't talk a lot and only see each other 2-3 times a year cause of school stuff but we do sometimes talk about it and we both care about the other the same amount as when we went to the same school and saw each other daily. | Crushes |
ok so this guy friend of mine i met at the beginning of the college i started to have a crush on from the very beginning but i ended up finding out like 2 minths into being good friends w him that he has a gf and it made me very sad but fortunately it was christmas break so i wasnt seeing him for a month and i thought i was over him (which i wanted to be cuz i dont wanna have a crush on a taken guy) but then january rolled around he was saying how he has problems w his gf and i didnt think much of it cuz i was pretty much over him but then exam season rolled around and i was studying w him all the time. we were acting like "bros" like i would say he didnt think of me as a women ever but then last week he started being touchy w me and playful and gave me compliments and i was like oh 😳 his touch was so soft and it felt really good so i kinda started feeling attracted to him again but i tried to play it cool cuz he still didnt officially break up w his gf and i didnt want him to think that i like him but then 3 days ago he stopped being playful or touchy and now im like huh 😃 i kinda miss it 😃 i think i like him again 😃 and its just like WHAT DO I DO?????? im thinking did i play it too cool and was i too harsh by saying he was like a brother to me just bc i didnt want him to flirt w me while he still didnt oficially break up w his gf 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 IM SCARED THAT I SCARED HIM AWAY BUT ALSO I DONT WANNA MAKE HIM THINK I WANT HIM cuz im just down if hes down if yk what i mean anyways i was thinking of having a convo w him ab this and telling him everything the way it is and just to make it clear to me if he wants something more from me or if he just sees me as a friend.... do u guys think its a good idea? PLEASE HELP | Crushes |
A coworker’s birthday was yesterday. I got invited to go out drinking with a large group, which included my crush. I’m dumb when it comes to alcohol so sure enough I drank a bit too much. We went to a second bar and i proceeded to throw up while we were seated on our booth. Thankfully my crush was sitting in another table but I’m not sure if the witnessed the moment or the aftermath. I’m horrified. What is he going to think of me now?! I can’t show my face at work. I just needed to get this off my chest. Oh the horror. | Crushes |
I had THREE seperate dreams and she had the audacity to play the main role in every one of them. I dont have that many dreams of her so that was quite unusual for me!
(one of them was with a friend of hers who made me jealous soooo yeah... that was definetly something) | Crushes |
I’ve been dating this girl for about 15 days now and we had our first kiss together about three days ago and we had a great night and just hung out and talked. She was open to it, it was her idea and I didn’t force her into it so I don’t think it’s about the kiss that she’s mad. But I don’t know what it is, she just hasn’t liked my story at all either and she usually does every time I put anything on my story. She was also great that night and laughing so I didn’t say anything. Before I went to bed she even texted me goodnight and I said “Goodnight, thanks for being my first kiss” and she liked the message but didn’t respond back to that. Then I hearted three memes on her story and said something like “That’s so true😭🤣” and she left me on seen. She even told me on the day that we kissed that she’s had a crush on me for months. The only good thing she texted me was two days ago and that is that she can hangout with me on our school lunch. But that was before she left me on seen after I replied to those memes. Right after that message about her being free I said “How has your morning been” and she replied with “sorry busy ttyl”
But yesterday I said “Good morning!” And she just replied with “morning”
She’s usually much more enthusiastic.
I feel like it might be because I don’t say I love her enough because she’s said it to me before through text but obviously It’s nicer to hear in person. The only thing close to saying I love her in person is after we kissed and I said “Im really thankful for you” and she said she was too.
I’m really worried. What should I say to her? Should I ask her how she’s feeling?Any ideas what’s going on? Any advice? | Crushes |
I (F) am crushing on this girl that i’m 80% sure likes me back but i’m so messed up in the head about my feelings towards her. We haven’t met in person but we started talking about 3 months ago, met on tik tok. We have talked about meeting up. I kind of hate her for some reason. It’s not that she’s a bad person, she’s so kind and sweet and i love talking to her everyday but for some reason i feel uncomfortable with the concept of having a crush. then again I’m wondering if I actually like her or if i just want a girlfriend. | Crushes |
So I text him 'if I am second choice, I feel like it' his response was 'how could you be my second choice if I never said I like you' and the conversation continued to find out that one of the friends I sit with in the group told him 3 day ago he said he likes me, today I text him said " you and k (not going to said her real name) would be great together', just to get asnwer that k likes him but he doesn't like her. I know she didn't like me for reason. I just want to update reddit on what's happening. | Crushes |
so basically,me and my crush are ‘sneaky links’ basically. and me and him were talking last night on how we feel abt each other and like horniness and stuff, and he was like ‘i like you but i could never date you’ and he also said ‘i will always like you’. but we were private messaging and our friend left the call we were on and we were showing each other stuff and he said ‘ *my name* wanna see my muscles?’ i said yes ofc and he took his shirt of and showed me my jaw dropped and then today he texted me saying he’s dating one of MY best friends that knew i liked him, what he said to me was ‘im dating *her name*’
‘bit random’
‘but yeah’
‘dont tell anyone im so sorry cos i knew you liked me’
‘like i always said i will always like you abit’
REDDITORS OLS HELPP | Crushes |
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Hi there, first post here. \[English isn't my native language\]
**Crush**
\[\*Pass this part if you don't want to hear I man in love's story\]
I'm \[M\] someone quite picky I think. I was approach by a (I think) significant amount of girls in the past but always (gently) reject hers insofar as... I wasn't in love with them. I had some crush in the past however, even if I have a good esteem of myself and I'm not affraid to talk to people at all, I had always feared not the rejection but the akwardness.
Seriously I can talk to a hundred people if I invested in a debat but just the idea of being one time the "strange guy out-of-context who disturb other" scare me. owning to this fact, I NEVER accoste anybody and when I have a good reason to (ask for something like a document by example), I weigh every word to avoid confusion and misunderstanding.
And... There is this girl at work who is just... WOW. She have nice hairs, don't seem superficial, and have this eyes... Gorgeous. She look really badass and maybe a bit cold. She don't smile a lot as far as I can see even with her friends but she have a super-cool vibe.
Still, we work at the same place but not in the same service so I just encounter her in corridors. And when had like to hang around her, it's in situation wher I'm busy and can't lost \[\*use\* would be more appropriate, she is clearly worst more then five minutes of my life\] five minute to talk a little in a unakward situation, and I HATE it ;\_;.
At work, we work with pretty regular shedule so I encounter her at the more or less same hours and day in the week and I uncounsciently record them in my brain. So often I surprise myself thinking "Ok she took that corridor at the same time as me in 3/2/1h and will be able to admire her one more time" moreover the idea make my heart flutter :3.
By some logic thinking I now know her service but not her job yet (don't know if I will have any opportunity to work directly with her in the futur what would be a chance to get closer). Since I know her service I can barely tell what shift she take (when she is at work).
**FBI**
Now is the time to introduce you my friend "J" and the friend of J, "K" who I don't know well. Two girls of the kind of indecisive girls who both have short-crush on people and love talk passionatly together of theirs crushs of the time. (They found each ogher well :z). So they have the abits to share informations on the other crush and act like conplice child... But like... MANY INFORMATIONS. K work in the same service as my crush.
J and K simp alot with their crush a do thing wich look like "smooth-stalking" understand get all informations achievable by legal way including follow them in street (no harassement of them but... gosh).
And find it creepy in many way but, 1- There is nothing illegal 2- They are cool and not a thread for anybody
In casual conversation I said to J I had a crush (and she very probably said it to K) without drop the name. And \*SHE PROPOSE TO HELP ME\*
\[tl;dr\]
**Pandora box**
You my understand now. I have a the shady way to know quite everything about my crush and if I accept I would be able to get: all her schedule, all her social network, the place she live, the busline she take, probably her favorite supermarket, place she go to, her personnality (in great lines), if she does sport, IF SHE IS IN COUPLE, the name of her dog and probably her bank number /s.
I don't want to stalk anybody, I don't need her dog name if she don't tell me first. I will NEVER get to her front door with rose neither try to break a potential couple. I'm not of that kind I swear it! But... Well I \*would like some way to now if I have a chance \* (Providing it was a No I would take it as a No! I have a dignity, I respect human freewill fu\*\*!) \* with her and to get closer to her \* (I don't ask out people I have barely never talk to! How can you fall in love without speak with them at least one time?!) \* and help the stars to align\* you know.
In addition, I think K migh like me (remember, inconsistant lover) and I can't just ask to J information on my crush's/K's service without goddamn ambiguitys and potential false hopes. If I accept, K will be my main source of information but I don't want to take advantage of her.
So, hey Reddit, what you think? I take informations of my friendly-FBI-members or I avoid what could be relate to fishy "stalking". I don't want to be the bad guy. And toxicity in relationship make me explode in anger so...
What do you think I must do?
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I (F14), have feelings for her (F17). Now, I understand the age difference is weird. But we both agreed to not do anything sexual because it is against the law, and also because we are both not interested in it. I told my friends about the age difference, they did got weirded out about it, but understood my feelings and gave me advice.
My main problem here is I deal with very bad anxiety, I’ve tried every tip my therapist gave me to help with the anxiety, but it hasn’t helped at all. She is asking me out on a concert, but I’m afraid to go, because it’s going to be crowded, I’m scared I’ll throw up in her car (because of anxiety), and I’m also scared something horrible will happen :/.
That fear is mainly in the way. I’ve dealt with a lot of sexual assault as a kid, and I don’t want it to happen. I also haven’t been in a real relationship for years. My friend keeps bringing up the age difference, and it’s making me re think my choices. But I just really love her and really wanna go out with her. It’s just my anxiety. I’m also new to seeing someone quite older than me. I’m not experienced.
(Yes, my parents are fine with the age gap. But they told me to know more about her before I go out with her because of the age difference.) | Crushes |
When COVID policy was/is in place in your schools/places of work, did/do you prefer to keep your mask on in front of your crushes? | Crushes |
So I have a crush on a guy I met a few months back. For the first month or two nothing happened, no feelings whatsoever. Then a few weeks back I caught sudden feelings for him. Mind you, we both have talked only a few times as we share only two classes.
At first he was ignoring me whenever we were with his friends, and showed no signs of mutual feelings. Then last or last-to-last week this happened:
His friend group (which is very close) was talking to each other, me and my friend were at a distance chilling. Then I heard the entire group go" OHH", and they all looked at me at once. I pretended nothing happened. I did saw my crush staring at me ( he stares at me even when I stare back).
Then his friends ( who also share classes with me) began to talk to me a lot. They were really friendly and nice. Once, I had after school activities of craft, and saw that my crush's close friends were in my group. We talked, and had fun and they asked me my name. That day, my crush was also there doing work in the opposite room, he looked at me once, and looked at me again when my group was leaving and I passed by him. His friends acted giddy when they saw that he saw I was with his close friends.
I know this is leading me somewhere, but I am incredibly shy around my crushes. Though I have been told that I have charisma which helps me make friends quickly. Advices?
Tldr; My crush has begun to show me signs and his friends are acting as "agents". (see paragraph 3 and 4) | Crushes |
All I need is emotional support...I feel so broken and Empty.
Long story short..After trying so hard with my crush..he just stopped writing me as he used to. I know that some people can be busy but..he just goes missing for long periods of time.
He used to like me back and literally the last 2 weeks. we were so close, ultra Flirtatious , loving, into each other. and now suddenly there was a change and his been treating me so different...plus his super distant with me..takes many days to get back to me..I don't feel missed or needed. From an everyday thing..now if I get one text from him is a miracle.
I told him how It made me felt! he Apologized for it but then once again..his going missing, ignoring me. now it's been 4days again that I hear nothing.
I've liked this guy since September ! he knew how much I liked him, what I wanted and now I just felt like I got totally led on... and he might've found someone idk! I miss him so much and ...his not even thinking about me at all. we cannot even finish conversations anymore since he leaves in the middle of them and starts ghosting me.
I've been trying to not let this bother me and remain strong but this has just reminded me that I cannot simply let my guard down for one minute... and with him...I let all my walls down...I went all out on him...so ... I just feel defeated, used, ignored, forgotten...all my efforts just went to waste...
I dream of him everyday...and it sucks to wake up to get reminded that he isn't fully there anymore.. I wish I was needed by him as much as I need him...
I just need to feel that everything will be okay for me...because right now ..I'm to overly depressed and alone... 💔💔💔💔 All I think about is all of our moments together...but I'm pretty sure it's over between us now and it kills me. we clicked so well, I never connected this high with someone for a long time and ...losing that now just... makes me just wanna shut down and never open up again.....
but ..this is all I wanted to say..I just needed a place to express some of my pain out...if you managed to read it all the way till the end...Thank you. | Crushes |
Earlier I noticed I don't see her active status anymore on messenger so I proceeded to check her profile and guess what, it says "Add friend". I haven't even made interactions with her on messenger, I just confessed irl so I guess she doesn't want me. Well it's fine, I'll try to not get affected by that thought. I'm not sure if I should take it as rejection but I'll just focus on studying for now. | Crushes |
i have a guy im talking to and he flirts a lot with me and i know he likes me, he has for almost two years from when we first started being friends. he did stop for a bit while he dated this other girl though. but the flirting does get annoying sometimes because i dont feel a thrill by it, its just weird and cringey i guess. i mean some stuff is cute and makes me smile but most the time i just want it to stop. he brings up serious things sometimes too, like us getting together and kissing or what not.(by the way this is all online but were meeting in two weeks) and it just disgusts me to think about. mostly the kissing part. its not even about kissing him just kissing in general. but i feel like i should be feeling something? is it him or me? do i just not like him or am i not capable of it at all? ive never been in a relationship or even does anything remotely romantic with a guy and this one wants to make our meet up a date and stuff but i really just wanted to have fun as friends. i didnt realize he pretty much loves me. everything is all planned though so theres no going back so im not sure what to say or if anything. im kinda hoping everything will come into clarity once we meet up though... he said he'll be holding my hand and kissing my forehead and cheek and stuff and i know thats cute because i read romance novels 24/7 but when i think of that happening to me im just repulsed but i dont know how to tell him that because he wants a full on date. he basically said if it wasnt a date he doesnt want to really go anymore because he really really likes me but i also really dont want to do any of that nasty stuff(would love to read about it in a book though lmao) but i also really want to meet up with him, just a normal meet up though. i dont know what to do... am i an asshole? i feel like i should be reciprocating and be excited for this "date"... | Crushes |
we were just randomly talking and he asked me if m joining them for street food
everyone were going since our exams r done today
I said no my dad is waiting and he said why what happened to bus
I said i hate bus and he said u can ride a scooter
I was like ever since I fell ( w a classmate ) m really scared to ride one and another friend asked me to explain how we fell
and I was explaining and I said I couldn't squat for a week
he was like why would u squat everyday??
😭😭😭😭😭
I was like oh noooo I was so fucking embarrassed asfu k
and then he was like okay I got it
he said that was too much info
lmao I couldn't speaaaaaak
😭😭 | Crushes |
I was hanging out with my crush and she tied up her hair with a hair clip, then randomly stuck it on my hair and then took a photo of me with the clip.
I have pretty medium/short medium hair so I don’t actually need a hair clip.
Could be this be a sign she might like me? | Crushes |
She singles me out a lot in class, always compliments me on a bunch of tiny things, will email me if I miss lecture even though attendance isn't required, if she sees me studying she'll come just start talking to me about random things, gets super close to me (like her body is practically right up against mine), will just come sit by me during lecture if we're watching something as a class, even in front of students she treats/talks to me like I'm her colleague but she doesn't do this to other students and I think they're starting to slightly dislike me because of it. I'm not creeped out or anything but I feel singled out in some way and I don't really know why she's being all buddy buddy with me.
Sorry if this is the wrong sub but I'm confused by this situation, I'm generally a good student so she doesn't have reason to have such focus on my life. | Crushes |
So basically, I've been doubting whether my crush was gay or bi, and it's not really something I ask people, because I find it a little awkward when people ask me (I'm bi).
And I got confirmation that he's gay. So I was like, at this point I might as well just say it. And we had just talked about relationships so I said "you wanna know something funny?" And I just told him, to which he responded with "I know"
We ended up laughing about it but yeah, I'm a clown. And I really have Zero luck when it comes to crushes hsbshdhd.
Anyways, in conclusion, I hate my life. ✌🏼😗 | Crushes |
So after my last post, I managed to get 0 hours of sleep total and had to make it through work like that. Throughout work, things only seemed to be going downhill even more with her saying she hasn't been feeling well and is in pain. She found out I got 0 hours and said I was alright to cancel if I needed to, obviously I didn't want to, so I survived with a couple monsters. Then, her friend found out where she was going (gonna call her H) and H decided she wanted to join us, my crush did like spending time with H and thought all 3 of us together would be nice, but, was begging H to join later so me and her could get come 1 on 1 time. H is a bit of an idiot tho, didn't seem to understand why she wants to spend alone time with me and ignored her, choosing to join straight away. After the way we were talking last night over message, I wanted to be close to her but it felt awkward with H around. My crush made H go and grab her car from a nearby carpark to pick us up and sat with me on a bench to wait for her. Because she isn't feeling well, she was really feeling the cold and cuddled up to me for warmth, she had her hands under my jacket wrapped around me and I could feel her shivering as I held her. After a while of H tagging along with us, she had to go to work and it left me and my crush alone. We went and sat in her favourite spot as we cuddled up together again. I teased her a little, mainly calling her cute because it makes her blush and it's adorable, I kept seeing opportunities to kiss her but never went for it because I always backed out before I did. She has cute little habits that she was doing as we sat together, one being her sat and just poking my leg. I decided I would say "if you like me one more time, I'll kiss you" I just saw her freeze, her head dropped and she went silent, she seemed really flustered by that, but then she poked me again. I got her up and sat for a second, looking into her eyes and then just went for it. I leaned in and gave her a quick kiss, I saw her smile afterwards and i smiled too. Then she ended up saying "I'm proud of you for making the first move, to be honest I didn't think you would" we both laughed a little and I went for another. After a while, she ended up pulling me in and kissing me too, we both enjoyed our time together for what she had left before her bus and kissed a few more times as well, alternating who initiated it. I walked her to her bus and we hugged goodbye as we have been recently, then she gave me a kiss goodbye too. I walked home and ended up taking a short detour to where my friend was working just to tell him how it went (he was there when I met my crush and has been invested in how it's going between us) we were both really happy about it and he broke out 2 monsters for somewhat of a celebratory drink lol. I ended up going home and texting her for the rest of the night until I went to sleep. | Crushes |
This is my last few days at work, I got a new gig and I start on Monday. I have been thinking of calling out since my last two days at work are Friday and Saturday. I want to have the weekend off so I can have some time to myself. At various points throughout the week I have consider calling out on either day but the one thing that I always think about is I know she is going to be there on Friday. About a week ago we worked together and I mentioned to another co-worker, I'm thinking of calling out my last two days. She put it out into the world, I’m here on Friday. So while the end of the week was approaching I decided to come to work on Friday. In the back of my head there was one thing on my mind and that was the possibility of seeing her. Today was very busy at work and I didn’t get the chance to see her and I wasn’t paired up with her. So I went to the location where I thought I would see her and three times she wasn’t there. Finally almost before she was to go home we happened to cross paths. She told me I didn’t know you were here today and I said Yeah, Its Friday and I work today. She responded with “Yeah but you weren’t at work yesterday.” I responded I came to work today for you. So she asked me to wait for her so that we can talk and in my brain I’m like duh I would wait a lifetime for you lol. So we got to talking and made small talk. Eventually she asked me where I was going and where I would be working at. After a few questions back and forth. She said It was great seeing you and working with you. She then said let me give you a hug and we hugged her. It was the first time we broke that barrier, it was the first time we had physical touch. Then she said I hope you come back and I said who knows bc by the time I get back you will probably be the VP. She laughed and she said maybe. There was an awkward silence and I didn’t know what to do so I hugged her again. And then I said it was great working with you. I had to go back to work and so did she. Before I left I hugged her a third time. In those few moments with her a surge of emotions. I felt love, childish love. The type of love that makes you giggle, the type of love that is compassionate, the type of love that is soft. I’ve always had a crush on her and with just seeing her my day would be so good. Now that I look back she was a distraction, we would work together and all I wanted to do was look at her. She is so beautiful. She made me feel jitters and It felt great. I wish I could live on that moment.
Somethings to note about her is that she is recently married and had a child and i would NEVER destroy that. I respect her to much to ever say anything to her but I have to say it felt good. I know we will never go anywhere but I wish I could go back to day one and say something maybe things would of turned out different. Am I wrong maybe? but for a long time I have had a crush on her and its ok to crush on someone from a far.
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some questions i have
1. Am i making this up all in my mind?
2. why do feel sad?
3. will i ever have this type of love? | Crushes |
I’m 21 (F) and this dude who is my block-mate is also 21 (M). For starters, I have no feelings whatsoever for this dude cuz a lot of girls like him, one of my friends has a crush on him and, I personally find popular guys unappealing IMO. Last Tuesday, my group was doing a report for one of our classes. Its mandatory for reporters (in our college) to wear something stylish and professional. I’d say what I wore was very basic semi-formal wear: just a polo shirt, skirt and my docs. Didn’t do my hair, at all. Just had it in a simple short ponytail. For short, I thought I just looked plain. The fishy part now starts when I was sat in my seat (beside my friends) and mentally going over my part for the report. I’m still hyper aware of my surroundings because sometimes I like to listen to other people’s conversations but act as if I’m not so, while I was busy going over my script, the people behind me were that dude’s friends (mostly girls). I assumed they probably were talking about me ‘cause one of them said something about someone wearing boots and I was the only person that day wearing docs (my college has a uniform policy and you’re only exempted if its for projects like reports). They didn’t say my name but they sounded like they were beating around the bush. Then I heard giggling after then one of them loudly exclaimed that his face was so red. People who weren’t even part of his friend group even butted in and added stuff like “Your face is so red \[redacted\]! I’m not even kidding!”. And what was I doing after hearing all that? Nothing. I just pretended I was too busy preparing to even notice. I also think it would be embarrassing to assume anything and react so, I didn’t. Days after, I was talking with another dude casually about interests we share (music, books, etc.) and one of the people who was involved during the teasing incident butted in and said, “You’re now exchanging favorite books? Come on, \[my name\]. \[His name\] is better!”.
So, now I’m stuck on assuming whether this dude actually likes me or are people just trying to match make anyone. He literally has zero rizz on me but I’d feel bothered if he actually likes me cause my friend has the biggest crush on him. What do you guys think? | Crushes |
i've been crushing on my classmate for months now and i want to make a move but i rlly don't know if he's into me. i've dreamt abt him twice; first is him rejecting me and the second is him with someone else. is it a sign and should i just move on? | Crushes |
My gosh I’ve liked him on and off for so long every time I tell myself to get over him I come back because he’s just the definition of my type sjdjksnsbsn
We were at an event recently and taking photos with everyone and when he takes photos he puts his arm around girls he’s friends with!!
And when I took one with him I felt so safe and happy wtf when he put his arm around me it felt like time stopped.
Problem is he did that to his other female friends too. And I had to ask him for a photo I think he asked the others for photos w him 😔
Not talking to him or texting or calling him drives me crazy, not being able to have dinner with him drives me crazy. Fml.
Why can’t I just move on from him? | Crushes |
ngl I hurts a lot I swear
Hurts sm
idk man hurts a lot
I just wish I could know wtf he was thinking about me | Crushes |
hi, im (f) confused. i am crushing on my friend so much i never felt like this before. he looked at me across the room many times at a party and looked away. we also exchanged smiles several times when i caught him staring.
the friend group we are in always says things like ''aw i love you \[name\]'' or ''ur so cute'' platonically, and i say that to him too (he probably considers it only being platonic). i tried flirting with him multiple times e.g. saying that his eyes are beautiful (im sorry ok) also a bit offtopic, that turned into a quite long discussion between the two of us about insecurities and such
we spend a lot of time playing games together - so when that happens i try to hint that i like him - the thing is i don't know if he considers it as just goofing around or something real.
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he's also like an extreme clown - always the centre of attention, the loudest person and maybe the most confident in the room (but it depends)
also, i doubt it means anything but he always writes uwu when i say something sweet to him/directly flirt with him. with others he just says thanks
the friend group is 14 girls including me and he is the only guy btw
i know some may say that he's gay, but he said that he isn't
im so sorry if this is chaotic but im so enamoured holy cow | Crushes |
He's trash
Had a mental breakdown for 2 hours yesterday
Cried to mom about everything
Have lot of regrets
He didn't even look at me as a friend and that hurts me the most
I was just toooo nice to everyone and hate that | Crushes |
So for the last two years I have had the biggest crush on this guy that goes to my school. Like I like him so much I would be excited to go to school just to see him. I really thought that I would eventually build up the courage to talk to him and ask for his number or something, but today I found out he’s in a relationship. I’m so upset even though I always knew it was never gonna happen so getting my hopes up was pointless, but it still hurts so much and I don’t know what to do about it. | Crushes |
How much money would you need to be paid to avoid them forever?
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So recently I transferred to this new school for the start of the school year, and in one of my classes I found this girl that I pretty much immediately fell for, but naturally (I think) she didn't notice and I haven't made any moves yet. I had the luck of being seated next to her so we talked relatively frequently during class free time, but I don't know her well enough that I can just walk up and strike up a conversation, per se. She is quite popular, and any time that isn't during one of the classes we have together she is always talking to or surrounded by a group of friends. Although I wouldn't say our relationship is close, she would still tease me by "scaring" me or good-naturedly insulting me, or sarcasm (which I appreciate, as personally, I think I'm quite sarcastic myself), so at the very least I could say we're close acquaintances. I would like to talk to her more, but I'm not sure how exactly to start a conversation or divert it to have her notice that I like her. Any advice? | Crushes |
He’s more or less the same height as me but he’s so atractive. He has blue eyes and black hair. He’s so smart in both physics and maths.
We are the same age and class. I am new in this school so im the new girl.
He and i only and rarely talk to ask questions about the subject.
He loves someone byt i dont know who, its probably not me.
2 friends didnt told me who it was and a friend told my friend it wasnt me.
I have only seen him talk to 4 girls.
But the way he talks to me Aghhh. I love his personality and everything but i wouldnt be in a relationship, for now. | Crushes |
God she's a saint she changed her humor she used to have a very innocent sense of humor still does but makes screwed up jokes now because when she laughed at something and explained the joke I said it's not my sense of humor she strated making the insensitive jokes I make witch are not very saint like making fun of her own race,tragedys,etc now I've discouraged it because I know how fucked up the jokes are and I've cut back on making them | Crushes |
I've had a crush on a guy for 10 years. He was never interested in me. A few things happened, and I started to suspect that he was into me, but I thought it was just in my head. When I find out he was actually having a crush on me I panic. I started to pretend I didn't know he was into me, but I started to be rude to him by accident, even though I'm in love with him. I started ignoring him, not talking and when he asked me to dance at a party I refused (even though I really want to dance with him)
And congratulations to me, now he ignores me. He doesn't like me anymore and it's my fault. Why am I like this? Why does the idea of him liking me disgust me? I like him, so why?
I'm stupid. completely stupid | Crushes |
Hey guys! So I’m in 10th grade and have a major crush on this guy in my bio class! I’ve known him since the start of this school year so 10 weeks now and at first we were both nervous around each other but now we are friends and have a lot of fun in class! I think he likes me as he makes fun of me like for example a few weeks ago I was telling him how if I didn’t do well on a test my dad would kill me and my tablemate sitting with us said does that mean you won’t be at school tomorrow and I was jokingly said yes and my crush said yay and I was like you dingus and he started laughing and said I was joking 😂. He also writes funny things on my warm ups like I didn’t write my name at the top and he was like let me do that for you but in my worst handwriting and he wrote it horribly at the top lol 😂. He also asks me questions, tells me stories, is super helpful if I have a question, looks me in the eyes and we both laugh or awkwardly look away! I could go on and on but I’ve really never liked a guy so much and I love the connection we have! So I have several questions (as this will be my first time asking a guy out and having a big crush)
1. Does he like me (like have a crush or just a friend?)
2. So I had asked him out once but it was poorly done I was so nervous and I asked him to study on Wednesday and he said sorry I can’t do that day and then I said Thursday and he said maybe but then the test was moved to Thursday :( I also for Halloween gave him a bag of candy with my number in it (he was so happy and told me I was the nicest person ever :) but I don’t think he ever saw the note as it was super tiny could’ve easily been thrown out. so how should I ask him out again? Should I ask for his number? What’s the best way to do that?
3. I know one of his friends on Instagram and she probably has his number but I probably won’t ask her because I feel that’s awkward unless it’s a school reason.
Please let me know your advice! I don’t want to mess anything up!! Thanks guys! | Crushes |
On text he just says “bruh” or “lol” and very small sentences. I keep trying to keep up conversation or start one but I’m texting way more than him. In person he talks way more but in text he’s very dry. Tbh he says gn to me which I’m very happy about but starting a conversation and I’m the one who has to start it each and every time it’s kinda annoying. | Crushes |
My crush of 2 years has started dating one of my bullies now me and this girl we're really good we have a great relationship but me and this guy (who has a twin btw) we're not so good he calls me a fa**ot because I don't have a girlfriend and he EXTREMELY racist but I noticed when a older year (as in the year above ours in school) comes over he gets nervous and stops what he was doing and awkwardly looks at them until theyre gone then he starts whatever he was doing again and I'm actually just feeling that my life has turned 360 because it used to be great but idk anymore there's not much point in going on | Crushes |
It feels so weird saying I like someone because I’ve already been out with them but it was an actual case of right person wrong time | Crushes |
How do I attract a guy thats never had a girlfriend before? He also acts like a dick to girls he might think are attracted to him or like him romantically.. helppp
How do I deal with a guy like this and how should I act around him? | Crushes |
So there’s this guy that I got in touch with due to a mutual friend. We tried on two occasions to hang out but both times didn’t work out due to him being terrible at texting back in a timely manner (Granted my friend told me he’s terrible at texting back) and also due to him having plans or having work. After the second time, he told me felt terrible and said it shouldn’t be this hard to make plans and that he was sorry. I told him we can hang out some other time and that it was fine. It’s been a week and it’s been radio silence. I don’t know if I should text him or just let him go. | Crushes |
He’s still in my life. But only as a friend and nothing more. I haven’t told him how I feel because it’s hopeless. He already has a girlfriend and isn’t gay so there’s practically nothing I can do. My love for him is pretty much worthless since it isn’t returned. I just wish there was an off button in my head to make me stop liking him because this has gone from being fun to just being pure torture. I just want to be with him so bad but it will never happen. Moving on and accepting our friendship is my only option but why is it so freaking hard? Why did I have to develop feelings for him? Why can’t I just stop? It’s getting to the point where I feel like my life is unbearable now. Every second that I’m not with him is pain and I can’t do anything about any of this except for suffer :( | Crushes |
but not in a creepy way….., hes so cute and i swear my heart starts POUNDING really crazy and i get nauseous whenever he talks to me…im madly in love w/ him >.<like bro sometimes the nausea makes me hav diarrhea sometimes like that’s HOW MUCH I LUV HIM, and please dont think im weird! | Crushes |
HE ADDED ME BACK ON SNAP 🤭🤭🤭 | Crushes |
So I don’t really need to know but I was curious as to what Reddit would say. But it’s long so prepare to read.
I moved with my family across the country, leaving my relatives behind. Since then, a group chat has been made to play online with people who are connected with my cousins. One boy in particular, let’s call him Adam, pays more attention to me. He is autistic but it’s quite mild. He is quite open towards me and has shown many signs of him ‘fancying’ me. I think it’s partly because I’m the only person that teases him but gets the balance right so it doesn’t offend him. (I do this to everyone I know).
Anyway, his best friend, let’s call him Jacob, is also in the group chat and is the only person he really talks to about his feelings, other than me. Adam has hinted to me that he told Jacob who he likes and whatever. I’ve met Adam in real life 2/3 times but I met Jacob for the first time a few days ago as he was visiting his relatives who live near me. He seemed to be quite curious about what I was saying. Asking a couple of questions about Adam, surprised that I knew him better than he thought I would.
Later on he started to warm up to me. We made fun of each other for different things. (He called me short, I said he was a baby because he’s slightly younger than me). Jacob has also texted me a little since then. But so has adam. He asked questions about how Jacob was acting and when I said a few things he’d say, “yeah Jacob told me that”.
What does Reddit think is going on? Is Jacob just making sure I’m alright for adam? Do are they both interested in me? Do they talk about me a lot together? I have my own opinions but I’d first like to see what everyone else thinks. | Crushes |
I’m interested in a girl, should I follow her on instagram? I don’t really know her extremely well but maybe I thought it would help, I’m having a hard time trying to explain but help me if you can. I think she’s kind and has some cool stuff about her that I’m interested in. She’s someone who has caught my eye for the first time in a while. | Crushes |
Just out of curiosity. Why yes or why not?
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For context, I like this guy and one of his close friends is also one of my friends. I told this friend about my crush and he gave me advice and is helping me try to get together with him. He gave me the guys number and was encouraging me to text it. Later in the day I ended up texting his number and just started talking about some random stuff like his cross Country meet. I found out that the dude thought it was suspicious that I started texting him and he was wondering why I had to get his number from this friend instead of him personally. Now I feel like a loser and I'm scared I messed up. I don't know how to face him anymore knowing that he thinks of me as sus. I've been told he doesn't has a bad reply game but it's been almost a day now and he hasn't replied back to the last text I sent him. | Crushes |
I think my crush knows I've been taking screenshots of him on WhatsApp status and sometimes I even took screenshots of him and his girlfriend (to compare myself to her and weep I guess, I don't know why I tortured myself like this..).
He mentioned something like "I know this one girl who took screenshots of me and my girlfriend, that's very creepy..I wonder what's she talking about me and my girlfriend". I literally froze and act nonchalant about it because I was focusing on my work.Few seconds later, I asked who was it..and he said a friend from another states and I stopped asking because I don't want to act suspicious (lol 😭).
I mentally cursed at myself but then it made sense because he's very handsome, so probably other girls been taking screenshots of him too (lmao I don't know😭)
It went spiral in my head because I misplaced my phone 2 days ago and he was the one who found it. I didn't set phone lock because it was easier and quicker if I don't have one (stupid mistake I know). However, I'll be mad though if he actually scroll through my gallery because that's my privacy!
I can't stand this, I feel like exploding..I don't want him to think I'm a creep😭😭
However, he didn't treat me any different but still the thought of it made me embarassed.
Disclaimer: I like him before he have a girlfriend. I try to move on since I know he got a girlfriend but it's so hard when I see and spend time with him everyday. Still on the process of moving on. | Crushes |
Fml. | Crushes |
I summoned all my courage, gave myself a speech in my head, and wanted to back out but no I did it I went out my comfort zone and asked her for it, and she said I’m sorry no
Guess I flew too close to the sun 😭 | Crushes |
Me and my female coworker (who I am crushing on really hard) texted me while on break, and she said “Hey Sleeping beauty”
I wanna believe this means something more than just her saying I like to sleep a lot lol. I mean, it really sounds like a flirt, and it made me feel really good! | Crushes |
So, ask me anything you want about him. Interests, likes, dislikes, anything that isn't easily identifiable. I'm confident I'll be able to answer most questions, and if I can't, then I'll just be aware of what I should ask him about | Crushes |
So lemme tell you guys the full story:
I had to get up early this morning because I had a “trunk or treat” thing to go to for my school. Me and a few others were helping out with it, so I had to be there around 45 ish minutes early. I did some cool Halloween makeup on face, and my parents dropped me off where it was held.(I’m in 9th grade btw.) I was setting up the car, and he walked over :)) I was also with my other friend and they were talking, but than he was like “hey (my name)” and we had a nice conversation. It was cool, and I’m really happy about it. I only have him one class, but I’m always a bit scared to talk to him. I sometimes see him in the cafeteria but he’s not really talking to anyone. We sometimes lock eyes for a quick second, but than we look away lol. It’s just the fact he talked to me first and made an effort to actually talk to me just feels really nice <3 | Crushes |
So we met on this tour where we both were from the same tour company package. Weird but kinda romantic- our first conversation was under the eiffel tower. There were a lot of other guys and girls of our age in the trip too. He treated them differently, tried his best to save me a seat next to him and always waited for me. He showed some skinship when he would randomly touch my shoulder when I'm taking pics of the surroundings, hiding hands sometimes, hi fives all the time etc.
We came back after spending almost an entire month together. He lives in a different city here and we're connected on social media. I've had dreams of him and I've also played games with him and some other frnds online. He is the most innocent dude who is too straight and thinks of me to be one of his best friends regardless the distance.
He said he's gonna shift to my city pretty soon and hoped to be neighbors. We also talked about meeting up. He said he could cuz his dad wasn't there. He said that specifically but I was busy atm but I rlly wished to meet him. I think I have some strong feelings for him at this point. If you wanna know more, pls lemme know. | Crushes |
Well after a lot of thought I have convinced myself to give her a phone call (not gonna ask out atm) it's about some school work tell me how do I move from the random low level friend to something higher. I need something to talk about... | Crushes |
I am a 32F and the person I like is about six years older than myself. We hung out for the first time since we met each other years ago, and it was really nice. They know I like them a lot I just don’t really know what to do or how to feel about the pace. If I’ll get shot down, I’d I should be chasing them. Any thoughts?
They’re very guarded and have not quite opened up yet and I don’t want to scare them off 😣 | Crushes |
At my(21F) dorm, there are a couple of students that work at the front office. There's a dude, let's name him Trey(21M). I've seen trey a few times before, but never interacted with him because there'd always be someone else who'd approach me first. I've always thought he was quite handsome.
A few weeks ago I made a service request for this leak I've been having to a person working at the front desk. Once the student service team came, they said they needed something and just left?? They never came back to fix it. I went again a week later and there I spoke to Trey. I told him my story and he said he'd make sure for it to get fixed. Talking to him, a guy I found attractive, obviously gave me butterflies The team never came, so I went back to the front office a couple of days later and approached this girl working there to ask about it. Trey came back and saw me and was surprised to hear that my leak hasn't been fixed. He then went and asked his boss to go and do so. A couple days later, I went to pick up a package, and he remembered my name.
Ever since then I've just created this idea of him through my own scenarios (you know how them before you go to bed thoughts be). That possibly him remembering my name out of all the residents, there's a chance he might be into me too. I know that's pure delusion because he's just doing his job. Or that I just feel like he's probably the nicest person ever just by the tone of his voice and what not. All in all I know I'm being weird.
So I want to hurry and find a way to end this crush! How did you stop and fall out of your feelings for someone that you probably have no chance with? | Crushes |
I've liked this girl for nearly a year. She's had 2 bf in that time but broke up with both. Well we've gotten a lot closer after her break up. She is more extroverted than me, so she'll walk up to me to talk while I'm talking with other friends. She always comes over to talk to me at my locker. She'll walk up to me and hook her arm around mine as we walk down the hallway. If she has to go do something around the school, she'll ask me to join her. We always try to go to the same study hall together. If she's talking to some of her girl friends she'll just leave them to talk to me. She asks me to walk her to her classes. She'll confide in me if she's having a bad day. She's leaned her head on my shoulder a couple times. She's always touchy. Because of the way she acts with me I've had a couple people ask me if we're dating. Well yesterday we were talking to a teacher we had last year and the teacher asked us if we're dating and my crush said no we're just really good friends.
Dawg wut.
Maybe she's just naturally flirtatious idk I need help. Obviously she's not gonna say we're dating if we're not dating but the fact that she said that we're really good friends is confusing. Idk if she likes me or I'm fully friendzoned. | Crushes |
Sucks but it's kinda funny actually. He's a really cool guy, I hope they're happy together | Crushes |
So there’s this girl that we knew of each other from high school and sits next to me everyday in one of my classes. We don’t really talk, I can easily count the number of conversations we had on one hand. But I have a gut feeling that she has a crush on me, and cause of that I developed a little crush on her too.
I did some cyberstalking and she’s pretty athletic/outdoorsy whereas I’m not really. The only things we have in common is that we are majoring in the same degree and I think we have the same personality type.
What should I do? | Crushes |
Been talking to this girl I really like and have really been connecting with and the feelings seem to be reciprocated. Around her I'm calm and happy with little to no anxiety but as soon as I'm away from her I'm nauseas all the time pacing unable to think. This has happened to me before with a previous gf the first week of going out I felt like I was dying but then it went away and everything was perfect. This time just talking and getting to know each other not even going out on a date and I'm like this. For someone whos very introverted this type of connection is amazing but it also feels like the end of the world even though I know this way of feeling will pass soon.
Does anyone else get this type of way? | Crushes |
I finally moved on from him. We stopped talking for awhile and now he started messaging me again randomly and is starting to get more playful and touchy again. Last night he was BEGGING me to get on the game so I got on just for him to be an asshole. I was just lost and confused because he was pushing and spamming to to get on and when I get one he’s being an asshole to me? Why are guys like this???!!!!!!!! | Crushes |
I'm not a blushing guy I'm good at hiding that I like someone a good actor and liar and I couldn't hold in how weird this felt she called me fucking sir who does that I've been called it before but the fact a girl my age called me it makes me feel very aqarward I just didn't know what to say when did it was a joke but still it made feel weird she knew it to I can't explain why she even did it | Crushes |
he doesnt like me back he likes someone else
BUT THATS OK BECAUSE I'M STILL AMAZING EVEN IF HE LIKES ME OR NOT
THATS RIGHT
HE DOESN'T MAKE ME ANY BETTER THAN I ALREADY AM! <3
HAVE A AMAZING GOOD DAY FRIENDS! | Crushes |
Okay so two months ago I started an education to be a singer and this girl started together with me.
I'm really shy to begin and have a hard time talking with others I meet the first time and especially with girls.
She's more extroverted and she started to talk to me, now we talk almost every day we see us.
During classes I noticed she sometimes looks at me till I look back and smiles. She's very supportive and encourages me and everyone else as much as possible.
Sometimes she also likes to play with my hair or flicks my head.
I don't know if she's just friendly and I read to much into it or if she may be really interested in me. | Crushes |
So recently I've been crushing on this girl at school, I've known her for about a year now, we're not friends or anything she's just knows I exist (I've known longer). Aside from a few brief interactions, we've never really talked.
Now I kinda swore off having a relationship in High School, I just feel like that wouldn't work out for me going forward. But of course, we just had to lock eyes for a brief moment. That did it for me.
I think it’s safe to say that I have feelings for this girl, I just don't know what to do with them. | Crushes |
I just don't talk to her. Idk why and what comes over me. She and i have both made so much eye contact i think for more than 10 seconds and that too stopped because she started turning red. Idk why I can't talk to her | Crushes |
He comes over almost every day, but this time it seemed like he wanted to touch me. He picked on me in a playful way a LOT, like he always does, but this time we started throwing pillows at each other and he kept tagging me. And then I hid from him in a closet and he kept pulling it open to throw a pillow at my face. And then his little sibling started attacking me and he legit tackled them off of me and told them not to touch me.
DOES HE LIKE ME? He’s 14-15, and he’s complicated. | Crushes |
like there’s this one guy I have a crush on, we talk almost everyday but he’s one of the jerks and his friend is also one. One day my friend gave him a note of mine with has the first 2 letter with his name (cringe I know) but she wasn’t suppose to give it. He ripped it apart and gave it back but it wasn’t so bad. But after that day he started talking more with me, and his friends asked if I really had a crush on him or not. He also like to scare me from behind of beside, and my friends also say he sometimes looks at me. Also when he comes to my friend and I he mostly stands beside me, also one time I was basket balling with a few guys from my class and some of my friends. My friends had to go to the toilet and so it was me and the guys from my class. But they he and his friend joined the game, and I was shook but happy. Also I heard 1 of his friends teasing him and calling me his girlfriend but also another friend of his calling someone his girlfriend but I don’t know if that was directed towards me. Do u guys think he likes me? But he doesn’t really have deep conversations with me or like really long conversations. Opinions, or maybe tips? Sorry if there are any spelling mistakes. | Crushes |
In the span of 6 months:
Some boy indirectly confessed to me, we never have talked, we were classmates
Non-binary, a friend of a friend, they don’t know what I look like and we talked for a few days then they confessed
Another boy in our big friend group, he started talking to me a few days ago, then he started talking a lot to me, and then my friend found out he likes me. My friend also said he might confess today. (I’m sadly going to reject him, I like the first boy who confessed to me)
Why do they like me? One is for personality, others arw for looks? I don’t know im xknfused why they have a crush on ME | Crushes |
Ok me and one of my guy friends who I met recently (say six months) are quite close and talk all the time consistently 24/7 across multiple socials from the day we met. Everyone who sees us interact either think we’re already dating or we’re about to. We have a flirty friendship and treat each other like bf and gf. To the point where there’s play-fighting and he apologises if he doesn’t talk to me much that day. I 100% have feelings for him But he told one of my friends last night that he only sees me as a friend and that he hasn’t really noticed that he treats me differently to everyone else. Wtf do I do? and is there any chance for us in the future? | Crushes |
Im non-binary and hes gay. He get really talkative around me and weve been friends for a while. Ive had a crush on him since last year. When I told him i was non-binary he got super excited and we got a bit closer. Hes tried to hold my hand before, we record in the mornings and he only talks to me, we walk to class after recording, stares at me sometimes while we record, always walks with me and says hi. I dont wanna describe him too much but hes got puffy curly hair and colored eyes. A couple of friends think he likes me but i got no clue.
Some friends dared me who were a grade bellow to tell him i like him and to do it right after we record yesterday (keep in mind i went in my witch halloween costume). I entered and he was acting normal and everyone noticed i was more fidgety than normal so I told the group bc the ones there were my close friends wut i was gonna do. He questioned me and I said i have to do it once were done recording but not who it was (everyone thinks i like or am dating the three other boys there but i hate two and am getting distant with one). As soon as were done recording……. he runs to class……. and bell rang 5 seconds before that so we had time….. Then I see him in the halls and hes quiet and only will wave…. and avoids eye contact…..
Plz someone help im begging yall. | Crushes |
I actually physically got close to him and was able to have a conversation looking in his eyes. We joked and stuff and we had a good time. I don't think I'll ever date him or anything buts it's nice to just be able to act like myself around him. | Crushes |
I met this amazing girl online 4 months ago and have developed the biggest crush of my life on her. Shes the most beautiful, funny and interesting person ive ever met. We have so much in common and talk almost everyday . The problem is she lives 1000km away in another city. Over time i have accepted that nothing romantic will ever come of this and I try to remind myself that at least i get to have this amazing person in my life in some capacity even if its just as a friend over the internet. Well recently shes been more distant and cancelling plans for us to hang out because shes started seeing someone. I knew this would happen eventually but now that it finally has i cant help but feel my little heart brake :(. She posted on her private insta story asking for suggestions on what outfit she should wear on their date and she looked so fucking beautiful i wanna fucking die lmao. I know the mature thing would be to cut her off so i can get over her but i cant bring myself to do it becuase shes literally my only friend :((. Just needed to vent bc i have no one to talk about this to :/. | Crushes |
The guy I was suspicious liked me requested to follow me on insta. I know I never showed up on his recommend cause he never showed up on mine. Plus he only follows 3 girls including me.
Are my suspicions correct?? | Crushes |
I have been having a huge crush on a girl for roughly 6 months, I confessed to her, And she said that she doesn't want to date anyone. But I heard what she has been saying to her friends, she is texting 3 other guys and she has a crush on one, so I decided to get give up on her, but she is soooo cute!!! But I know that we will never be together, I don't have a chance, every time I see her I just want to hug her, so she lied about the whole doesn't want to date anyone thing. | Crushes |
For some context, I had a crush on a girl, I decided to yolo it and asked her to homecoming. We went and had a great time. She followed up later that night about how she great time and we had a really small conversation and then I asked her out, I didn’t explicitly ask her out on a date, but I told her we should hang out again. She agreed, when I asked her when she was available she said not anytime soon as she needed to work on early college applications that are due next Tuesday, but we never actually rescheduled or set an official date to hang out.This was almost a week ago.
With that in mind, I’ve decided to try and start putting in more effort into talking to her and texting her in order to show that in interested in her, but it’s not going great. And by not going great, I mean we haven’t talked that much, NOT as in she outright rejected me or is being dry. we’ve only had like two text conversations and she wasn’t dry in any of them, but we haven’t had any significant 1 on 1 conversations. We do have a class together but I don’t know much else about her personally. I was wondering if y’all could give me some advice so I don’t fumble the bag I really want this to work out but don’t want to force anything😭 | Crushes |
(Corn if you see this post no you fucking didnt)
(I THINK) I've had the biggest crush on my childhood friend for the longest time now (like, since we were 12) but haven't wanted to admit it, she's such a genuinely fun, bubbly person and I really enjoy being around her. I think she's straight, but I'm not even upset about it. I'm so happy to be her friend.
My earliest memory of her was when we were at a kids' party. I was about 5-6 and she was 6-7. We were on a seesaw and I asked "Why are you up in the air??" "Because I'm skinnier than you." "I eat healthy and a LOT of fruits and vegetables." "Okay, me too." At that point I got offended and ran off, I think. We got over that eventually, lmfao
She's beautiful (one of the prettiest people I know), crazy smart (graduated high school at like 15), a bit quirky, ridiculously talented (a gifted artist, seamstress, and musician), funny, thoughtful, very kind, and genuinely a good person.
I don't even know what to say. I'm the token "disaster lesbian" in my friend group so there's so much that COULD be said but it mostly sums up in "alsjdjfhgddgf cute emo girl shes so amazing im gonna cry." | Crushes |
this is about another boy as the title says.
i kinda like him, like a little crush on him. he’s always really nice to me! he always says hi to me first, always lends me stuff whenever i ask for something, he always defends me.
everyone thinks we like each other and i honestly hope they’re right coejxijehcqow so reddit, do they like me???? | Crushes |
Finally got over him. I’ve been so extremely happy recently because of it. He started texting me again which I didn’t mind because I was over it so I would just be alittle dry like how acquaintances would text. He asks to play some games last night and after we got off, I feel like now I like him again. I wouldnt say like but I feel something for him again you know? He is an asshole with anger issues. You would think that would help the process and it does but not as much as is should. I genuinely feel so shitty this morning I don’t even want to go eat because I feel so pathetic. I finally did something good for myself and it completely crashes. | Crushes |
This is the second part of update 3 because the original post was too long 😵💫
Again, names, specific ages and aspects of my job have been changed, but the fact that their is an age gap and everything else is true.
Summary of the situation: I (32/F) have a crush on my male co-worker Steve (24/M). He’s sweet, hysterical, intelligent, and handsome. Yes, he has flaws and I can 100% see them, but this crush is not going away anytime soon. He’ll stay after work with me for hours after the work day, walking me to my car has become a daily habit (ahhhh~❤️) and yes, he is straight
Situation 2: I can’t go into the specifications as to why I have video games at my job, but I can confirm that once a week, there are video games at my job and I run a small activity for certain clients of my job to play video games. I have an assistant that helps me with this weekly activity, but one week, she bailed. I was panicking because I can’t keep these clientele unsupervised, so I messaged the one person I knew who stayed after work hours on end: my crush, Steve.
Without hesitation, he asked what part of the building I was in, and walked over. I thanked him nearly 1000 times.
Towards the end of this weekly activity, he texts me asking if the building had it’s own game system. I said no because the clients normally bring their’s in. He seemed bummed and said “after watching everyone play smash, I kind of wanted to play a few rounds after the meeting.”
I was so upset because I left both my systems at home that week 😫 I’ve been asking nearly every week if he’d want to VS me after a meeting and he always said no because of work. In fact, I gave up asking a couple of weeks prior because I knew he would just say no, And now he was ASKING ME. AHHHH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
While cleaning up after the meeting, we just sat and talked for an hour. It was really nice ❤️ we were talking about this terrible horror movie that’s coming out that we both wanted to see. I should have asked him to go with me, but i chickened out. I think the boy even gave me an opportunity but I didn’t take the bate 😫 Then he walked me to my car and we parted ways
One week later, I’m running the event again, and I brought my N64 for the clientele to try. My assistant was at the meeting with me this time, so Steve had no reason to come there. I didn’t even text him; I let him be because Thursdays were a busy day for him. I thought him getting excited to play video games with me was a one time occurrence, so I didn’t even think let the thought of him asking to play against me again even cross my mind.
But I looked over and I saw him walking over with a smile on his face. The exit from the office was on the other side of the building, closer to where his office was. He went out of his way to see me. My heart skipped a beat and I felt the blush crawl up my neck and stupid big smile curl on my lips.
“Hey Steve! What are you doing here?” I smiled
“I just wanted to see if you needed help with the meeting” he smiled. I told him I didn’t because my assistant was there and thanked him for checking up on me. He then said “I also was wondering if you brought your switch in with you so we can play smash after the meeting.”
OH. MY. GOD. THIS MAN ❤️❤️❤️
I said I only had my N64 and offered to Vs him on that. He declined and said that he has less quotas to meet next week (because of the upcoming holidays the following week) and he wanted to Vs me next week. I told him one of my clients took my physical smash game and he offered to bring his game in if I bring my system.
I smiled and said “I’m going to hold you to this, Steve.”
He smiled back and said “I’m looking forward to it.”
AHHHHHHHHHH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
We said our goodbyes and he walked away (I still had about 30 minutes left in the meeting). I couldn’t get the smile off my face for the rest of the day. It was like I was on cloud 9.
And then, of course, I slapped his hand yesterday 😳😳😳 It’s like I’m taking a step forward, just to immediately take a step back lol
But what do you all think; do you think I should go for it? If I hold these feelings in any longer, I might go insane. I just want to know where he stands or even if he sees me as an option, despite the fact that I’m not even close to his type 😔 | Crushes |
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