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Something sorta went down between me and them where they were being kinda critical of me over vc. (For context, we were online friends) We kept msging as if everything was normal which it probably was for them, but I couldn't stop thinking about how awful I felt during the vc and held off on asking to vc again since the convo eventually died and they left me on read. About 2 weeks passed of me chickening out about msging them again and they ended up deleting me off discord which felt really, really awful. I've decided I'm not going to make an attempt to reconcile because honestly this whole crush thing took a toll on me and if they were going to delete me without even so much as talking about what went wrong then its not worth trying. I just wish I wasn't such a coward and actually gained the strength in time to msg them again. Because of my fuck up I won't be able to talk to them anymore. I'm tired | Crushes |
i go crazy over her but 99 percent of the things she says and does are annoying to me and somehow i cant understand how i can relate crush over and find so painfully cute pretty funny bitchy and annoying as hell. its been 7 months already and the feeling hasnt gone away help | Crushes |
personally I like fantasizing about being hugged by him for a long time 🥰 I’ve hugged him once and I’m addicted now lol | Crushes |
I've had this happen with 2 girls very recently. The first was a 9 month crush the other just in the recent days, but why do some girls give their phones to their besties to just write back to the guy that's trying to get to know them? To me this is extremely rude. When I think my girl reads it, then her besties types back. And it's so obvious because of the wording and the tone change. We talked a bit, everything seemed great so I invited her to eat ice cream in town. Then her bff sends me a snap from the girls phone "Sorry I can't let you meet, she's my wife" obviously joking about the wife part but, it's just childish. I initiated firstly by saying that I'd like to get to know about her, she was just surprised but we talked about hobbies etc. And in the end I told her (not sure if it was her or bff again tbh) that don't judge me before you know me, and bring your bff to eat ice cream as well. (I'm insecure, I'm not really social, but I'm trying my best) and then she took a screenshot and deleted me. Good riddance. I don't want to date a girl anyway who isn't an individual person and relies on her bestie all the time. Sorry for the rant... | Crushes |
I keep thinking he’s into someone else. if I don’t do something soon, he’ll probably start dating someone else. | Crushes |
Warning, English isn't my native language so apologies in advance for any mistakes in my grammar.
So backstory is that I (M15) had a crush on a girl we'll call Alexa(G15). I started to like her when she played her violin during a school performance because I liked girls who are good with instruments before. I started to talk to her more and more until I learned that she also liked me too.
Fast forward to a few months and we still like each other. Our class president, who was the one to assign seats every semester, assigned us beside each other once she learned we were mutually crushing on each other. I felt pretty good during that period of time. However, things started to go down when I learned more about her.
She was a rich girl. Has a big house, has a driver, and always likes to spoil her friends, which included her giving me free food or stuff. Our mutual crushes only became a problem when I learned about her cheating. In our school, seatwork was usually graded by your classmates beside you. Usually, she would scoot to my seat while I was grading her work and change her answers so that they would be correct, then convinced me to mark them as correct. She also tried to do the same thing to my paper but I made her not to. She would also like to snoop on other people's test papers to look at them. I also learned about her confronting and degrading my female friends for hanging out with me. This was when I told her that I didn't like her anymore. She treated me so well but how she treated others and her own dignity was what made me lose interest.
Nowadays, I rarely speak to her and we only ever talk when it was concerning my group projects and when we were groupmates. I have heard more allegations of her verbally abusing my friends. This week I have had nightly dreams about her, which was probably started by her being more active nowadays on social media and posting weekly photos, being with other people, and how others around me call me jealous. I know she's deceitful but her treatment of me was the best I've ever received in my life. Are my dreams meaningful or was it just pure coincidence? | Crushes |
Okay so I (18m) have this crush on this girl (18f) and so we’ve been talking here and there and so recently she has deactivated her IG account and so I got worried as to if she blocked me or something major happened to her but her best friend told me that she just needed a break and so she deactivated the account and so her best friend tells me she talks about me a lot on how nice i am and all other stuff . So what does this meannnnn ?? | Crushes |
We were going to art class and I had my paints and I slipped, my paints fell down and broke (the thing which contained the paint was glass) mostly all of it fell but he took the recovered paints and gave them back to me, he also glances at me during class!! | Crushes |
I feel like I’ve obsessed over him to the point where it’s super unhealthy. He’s on my mind 24/7 and I think it’s because it gets me an easy dopamine boost.
This crush is pointless because I talked to him like twice but he’s just so attractive (physically and mentally) in my mind. He has shown several signs of interest (staring at me, asking questions about me, helping me in school, his overall awkwardness around me) but he seems so anxious that he hasn’t even bothered to take my number. Or he’s just disinterested in me. Btw, I’ve been crushing on him for a month but we starting acknowledging each other 2 weeks ago.
But the point is that why am I thinking so much about a person I don’t know very well? Like I really want to stop, but how?
Also not sure if I should tell our mutual friend about it but I’m sure she’s gonna look at me like “…huh?” and judge me because I’ve never talked about him and it might come out creepy. | Crushes |
She’s mentioned me to her parents. She posts about me. She talks to me. She has me pinned. She likes the same music as me. She likes the same movies that i like. She watches the movies i recommend her. She stays up all night with me. She hangs out with me. She finds me funny. She loves the same things that i like. She always looks at images and says “us.” She asks me how my day was. She wishes me goodnight every night. She tells me good morning every day. She’s the funniest girl i know. She’s the nicest girl i know. She’s the prettiest girl i know.
and She likes me. | Crushes |
I denied out of intuition, and also because I didn't make much of a progress yet(but I gave like a subtle facial expression that I was lying), but I think my reaction was sub-optimal😭😭
Today is D+84(85th day) of my crushing | Crushes |
I (F17) have had a crush on my best friend (F18) for like months at this point and I’ve finally decided I need to tell her. I’ve kinda been going back and forth on the idea because we’re already so close and I don’t want to mess that up. Sometimes it feels like we’re already basically dating so there’s no point in ruining a good thing, but I’m starting to lose sleep over this.
I’m not even particularly trying for a relationship at this rate (I doubt I’ll get one—why get my hopes up?), I just don’t want to hide how I feel anymore. I already know what I’m going to say and I plan on telling her either tomorrow or the day after. More of less making this post so I don’t end up backing out of it (I guess technically I could still back out, but I’d be disappointing the one person that read this and then immediately forgot what it says) | Crushes |
A week and a half ago, I swiped up on my crush’s Instagram story and, basically, complimented the photo she had posted to it (Note: I say “basically“ because there was a little more to it than that, but I don’t want to disclose the specifics). She responded and loved (i.e., the heart icon) my text, and we texted back and forth for a bit. Overall, I thought it was a pretty good interaction. Since then, we have only seen each other a few times, all short, but I thought all of those interactions were positive, too, if not that long. Anyway, today, she changed her Instagram profile pic to the photo that I had complimented. Does that possibly suggest that she likes me back? Or am I completely overthinking things?
ARRRRGGGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! Having a crush is for real frustrating and exhilarating at the same time. Any help would be greatly appreciated! | Crushes |
I’ll try to remember to come back to Reddit seeing as I don’t have notifications turned on but I saw people doing this and I wanted to participate. | Crushes |
we both (23) I know her since sixth grade we talk to eachother everyday since covid 19 lockdown, she's amazing a complete pakage of emotions, humour and always being genuine about her feelings we both are compatible with each other I feel like she kinda likes me but I'm not at all sure about that till now we talk everyday She never texts first, but when I text her she enthusiastically replies. What do I do? My heart just can't take it I really need her in my life | Crushes |
ok i know this sounds weird but me and some friends are in disagreements about this. In theory theres a 17F and 16F. 17F just graduated high school and is turning 18 in July. 16F is going into her junior year. The ages themselves arent too far apart but the maturity is. Would it be considered okay to be in a relationship with one another if both were interested in each other? | Crushes |
I have a crush on a guy in my class, he steals my chair in this one calss and one day he asked me "do you like it when I steal your chair?" What does that even mean??? | Crushes |
I need to tell my crush I like him tomorrow before school ends but I wanna do it in a natural way that hint really cringee. | Crushes |
It makes me smile thinking her so I want to talk to her. Ask me any questions I am a open book!! | Crushes |
there's a very beautiful guy i met and i want to compliment him in such an impactful way. the thing is though, is that i don't know what to say. apparently you can't say handsome, and i don't want to say 'hot' because he might get uncomfy. i thought about calling him beautiful, but i don't know how he'd react or if that's reaching too far. PLEASE HELP ME, BRO IS SO GORGEOUS HE NEEDS TO KNOW HOW PRETTY HE IS. | Crushes |
Since the 8th grade, I've kind of been closer to realizing that I like him. We've known each other for 10 years, 1st grade and we have been good friends since then. I've had crushes on him A LOT. It doesn't matter if I might be slightly crushing on someone else, he is always there. Like most current-age teenagers I have fictional crushes, and if he and everyone else was in a room I would still pick him. This whole year I have been saying I don't have a crush and how badly I have wanted one, trying to deny this budding idea I have a crush on him. It persisted throughout covid. Right, let me mention how I don't have his number or Instagram. I know his insta I'm just too scared to follow him...and we were in a class group chat but I left it and didn't really say who I was. Honestly, with those factors and how we don't talk or interact a lot doesn't make me a good case. But, he is one of the best people I know. I hate how much I seem to like him. I have this stupid idea to confess to him tomorrow after or before school. But, 1. before I wont make it because I will come too late and there will be people there 2. after school I wont be able to catch him
I don't want to make things awkward. I am already scared to talk to him as it is, and not just because I seem to have a crush on him. I just, god it's just such a big crush. I'll admit...he doesn't really try with school and plays on his phone and he acknowledges it too...but that doesn't matter. He is kind, generous and considerate. He isn't rash and although he doubt it, he really isn't as dumb as he thinks he is. I've been hoping this stupid little thing to go away, but it wont and UGHH... i remember I was talking about him to my mom and she teased me about how long we've been dating since I seem to know so much about him but it feels like I've only scratched the surface of him. It was a stupid teasin that made no sense but it made me happy. I don't know, I just needed somewhere to write this down. Ugh I hate I seem to have this stupid little crush on such a great guy. He deserves the world and I hope he falls in love with someone one day, or not, I just hope he is happy. | Crushes |
I’m bored and I’ve seen a couple of these so why not | Crushes |
I just want to talk about her haha | Crushes |
So basically I met her at the beginning of eleventh grade with just ended. We sat next to each other in class, and although we didn’t talk a ton, I noticed how pretty she was, how kind she was to everyone, and how soft her voice was. And along with that, the times we did talk I felt the warmest I’d ever felt inside. It was beautiful. But sadly, I was too shy to make any moves and because of the seating charts, I never got to speak to her again.
In the following months, she became a colder and pettier person. She became one of the party girls, which changed her in a very sad way. I just couldn’t imagine myself with someone like her anymore. So I moved on.
Now I’m just obsessed with a shadow from the past of someone I’m sure I’ll find eventually, but just seems so long to wait for. Although I guess that’s really all I can do know | Crushes |
I've got no clue why, but I just can't look at her. We're in two classes together, and sometimes I have the feeling that she's looking at me. The issue is that no matter how hard I try, I just can't look her in the eyes. I really, really like her, so it's not about losing feelings at all, but maybe I'm just shy, or maybe intimidated by her? She's super quiet, so I've got no clue why I would be. | Crushes |
One day we were able to talk alone and it was a great conversation, but I think I was too shy at the time. And when I'm not with her I regret the fact that I was shy, what should I do when we talk again?? | Crushes |
I have a crush on my coworker who's a very shy guy and has social anxiety, we only see each other once a week. I really want to make a convo with him but I've been scared to and only have said hi to him for the past month even tho i had many chances to say more. he never starts a convo with you you have to initiate it with him. I see him tmr and want to try and talk to him but idk if I'll get the chance bc there really isnt a chance to talk when its busy and hes working in a different area than me. I think it's weird if I walk by him on "purpose" just to talk to him lol. I've been only saying hi to him for the past month idk if he finds me annoying. I just don't know how to talk to him I get so nervous and always overthink about how he may perceive me. I have terrible anxiety. not sure when I'll get to see him at work again bc i dont have any same shifts with him for my new schedule. plus I feel like he caught me staring at him last week which is embarrasing. and also while we were working, I was doing smt then looked up and saw him looking at me, doesn't mean anything but my pessimistic self thinks he thinks I'm annoying. I also realized that i kept working in the area near his 😭 just scared he thinks I'm creepy or smt bc I can't read him at all he's so mysterious overall (his personality) and that's what makes me curious and intrigued. the older ladies at work love him bc he's so reliable and always helpful but he's just really quiet I find it so cute. sorry I'm just ranting lol
can anyone suggest me what I could talk about just to know him more and get him to talk comfortably with me (like let him know I'm easily approchable) | Crushes |
So instead of asking my crush out, because I was too scared to and realized I’m not ready to date, I decided to send him a friend request on Facebook a few days ago. He accepted!!
Then tonight he messaged me and told me he was getting a new cat. A kitten. We talked about cats, one of my favorite subject. He sent me pics of his current cat and his new cat. This makes me very happy. | Crushes |
I like this guy at work and we’ve talked a few times but he’s very popular and many girls like him. One of the girls who likes him told me that she’s going out with him and a few other people and that she’s thinking about asking him out too. I was a bit disappointed but I told her to go for it because I don’t think he’s worth fighting over but I really do like him and I’m not sure what to do.
Please help!! | Crushes |
I ASKED HER TO BE MY GIRLFRIEND NAD SHE SAID YES IM SO HAPPY | Crushes |
It’s the end of the school year tomorrow (for me at least) and I’m probably not going to have a crush on anyone for while which makes me so so so sad because I genuinely enjoy having crushes (idk if that’s only a me thing) because I get excited when I talk to them, or dressing up to look cute for them. I love it all and now I won’t be able to do that for 3months 😔I have a crush right now but he probably doesn’t like me but maybe I can see if he wants to hangout this summer since he did tell our mutual friend that he wants to be my friend :D | Crushes |
i wanna see how much i know about her | Crushes |
Ask anything I guess! Summer break right now so haven't seen him since our last day lol | Crushes |
An existential crisis
Fight this
Madness that I’m in
Drowning sin
This sea, can I dive in
Vibe in, sink into your ocean
Take me
The freeness, seeping out my soul
Out of, breathing, or control
Unfold the rhythm in your soul please tell me darling
What’s the beat that you hold?
If the feelings really neat,
Won’t you jump out of your seat?
Embrace me, in arms, the sweetest sensation.
Falling in your heart, knees weak, a good vibration.
Look into my eyes, you will see who I am.
I’m afraid to tell you, I’m your biggest fan. | Crushes |
I’m sorry if this seems like it’s written completely out of place I’m not good at writing in order. I have had a crush on a friend of mine (we’ll call them R) for a little over two months now and I for the life of me cannot get them out of my head. I met them in August but we chatted for a little bit and kinda stopped until we started back up in January. I’m a cancer and they’re a sag and our dynamic was basically me annoying the heck outta them and them just being like no and I absolutely loved it bc it would end in laughs. R is sarcastic, a little blunt, smart, independent and funny af. I’ve had a bunch of crushes before hand but I realized that pretty much all of those crushes were basically just how cute or hot I thought they were or me just wanting a love interest but with R it’s different. It happened slowly, little by little with me getting to know them more and more. I noticed that I was more anxious around them, trying to impress them, wanting to be in the classes that we were in more and really most of all wanting to make them laugh. Literally when R laughs it made my heart flutter and I didn’t understand why until two months ago. I actually have feelings for somebody for them and it feels nice. I graduated high school a couple weeks ago and they’re starting their senior year in September and I don’t want to lose contact since they don’t really text me much and they live kinda far from me. I really want to tell R my feelings but they got out of a relationship recently and they’re still affected by it. I let R vent to me before the breakup and I listened to them and basically let them know that I care and I’m here for them but I’m scared that if I tell them how I feel they’ll think that I only listened to them bc I have a crush on them and not that I actually care. Sorry if this got pretty long but that’s pretty much it. | Crushes |
So, my crush (14f) and I (14m) just graduated 8th grade about 3 weeks ago (I think, feels like longer). We were acquaintances during school, but not super close. I had a big crush on her though for a few months.
A week before the last day I put a note in her locker that can be found on my profile. She responded by texting me that she would like to hang out sometime this summer, and we hung out and ate lunch together throughout the last week of the school year.
On the last day, the whole school was out on the field and I was awkwardly standing alone, debating with myself whether or not to go up to her because she was with her friend group and I'm awful at socializing, but I did end up doing so, minutes before the final bell of the year rang. I told her I've really liked getting to know her and would love to hang out this summer, and we hugged! It was amazing.
We've been texting most days since then, but it's always super short. Just like a "Good morning/goodnight" and "how was your day?". Still nice, but I really wish I was good enough at communicating or whatever that we could have more deep conversations.
About a week after school got out we talked about going to see a movie, the scheduling didn't work out but she asked if I wanted to go to her house instead. I went over there and it was really nice, we just played card games, made music, and played on her trampoline. It was fun, but I kinda wish we made more progress romantically I guess. Idk. It's been a couple weeks and we're still texting shortly.
I just really wish I was better at communicating. How I feel and just in general. Ask me questions or something now idk.
TL;DR: I can't seem to progress past friendship, even though we've both hinted wanting to date I guess. | Crushes |
^^ | Crushes |
Ask me about my crush
Ik this is a common post but I need to talk about her lol | Crushes |
So 3 months ago I found out he liked me when I confessed to him over text. He said how he liked me too but since he was leaving soon he just wanted to stay friends. It took me a long time to actually conceptualize the meaning of his words. It meant for the next 5 or so months from now, we are not in any sort of romantic relationship. No matter how much I like this guy, he considers himself a friend. As much as I would love to get a message from him saying "hey how are you", it hasn't happened yet.
So I'm saying farewell, since I don't feel like am getting anything out of whatever have between us. I'm done stressing over non existent relationships, I'm ready to focus on myself.
If you have any insight please comment! Thanks for listening to my thoughts being poured out on reddit:) | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this guy since October of 2021, in March of 2022 I finally confessed my feelings for him. He told me he felt half and half about me because he was still scared from his last relationship 2 years ago because she pulled a “it’s not you, it’s me” card on him and he didn’t want to be in a relationship currently because it hurt him.
Skip to now (June)… me and my crush have kissed and other things as well (back in march/April), I’ve tried to get over him by being friendly towards him which didn’t work and so I sent a long message basically telling him how I have a serious liking towards him, idk how he feels, I tried to get over him but it hasn’t work, that I don’t want this to ruin our friendship because I like him. Hours later he replies saying “ you worry too much.” I’m thinking he means “you worry too much I literally feel the exact same way about you.”
Skip to two days later I find out on Facebook he has a new girlfriend (idk when they started dating) I ask him about it to confirm that they are dating which he does confirm. I felt crushed, hurt, and confused because he knew that I had special feelings for him and I honestly feel played because he would always do cute little things to lead me on by being flirtatious with me.
EDIT: I figured out how long they’ve been dating and it’s been a month so they had to start dating April/May and that’s around that we were both being flirtatious to each other and kissed a lot so now I’m even more heart broken 🥲 | Crushes |
yea that’s about it (as the title says) and this happens a second time again. i failed on getting to know him when he was single after coming out of a relationship , because i thought i had time. I’m glad i never told him how i felt. He would’ve probably would’ve rejected me. and here i go again. thinking i wasn’t good enough or tired hard enough. welp i guess this is just my life .
just a little rant, advice? on how to move forward? | Crushes |
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She asked me if I had a crush on my cousin who reminds me of her, I said no and went on to describe her, she didn't get my hints and when I gave up I just said "you're my crush". She said that she liked me back.... I was so happy that day even before knowing she likes me back because it was the first time we finally texted in the last week.
Anyway now we both know that we like each other but we're taking it slow as we agreed to have a relationship after high school | Crushes |
Need distraction cause depression kicks | Crushes |
Okay, my crush wants matching bracelets with me. Specifically those ones with magnets that stick to each other when they’re close. You may be thinking “of course she likes you” but keep in mind, we’re both females and she’s sweet to everyone, so it’s confusing. But in this conversation I just happen to mention these bracelets to her in a passing comment not expecting her to like them, but she said that she always wanted those bracelets with someone. So I was like, oh, well usually couples get those since they hold hands, and she said oh yea… oh well. Sooo, does she like me? | Crushes |
So if you haven't read my other post, i would recommend reading that first so you understand this one... [https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/vb0yh4/hes\_going\_to\_forget\_about\_me\_probably/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/vb0yh4/hes_going_to_forget_about_me_probably/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
Now as the title says, "Should I move on?"
I'm starting to debate about it heavily. My crush on him is interfering my studies, and i can't seem to think about anything else than him.
And My friends really want me to move on, my other friend moved on so now they're waiting for me to move on.
And they probably know it's for the best unlike me.. I'll probably get my heartbroken for not seeing him for the next 3 years, and he'll probably move on too... :'(
They say i'll find a new man next year, but the thing is he's perfect for me..
So, should I move on or hold my crush on him..?
sorry for bad grammar T-T
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[20F] I developed feelings for a girl [21F] (who is a confirmed lesbian btw). I asked her out on a date about a month ago. I collect Pokémon cards and usually open up four booster packs per month. To have something to talk about, I thought it'd be nice to open up booster packs together. We open up a rare holo card I didn't mind not having so I gave it to her as a treat!
What caught me off guard is that she put the Pokémon card in her clear phone case. I swear I had the butterflies swim all over me when she did that. She knows nothing about Pokémon so it really touched my heart when she listened to me explain the gist of the series.
I just saw her recently for our friend's graduation party and she still has the card in her phone case! AAAA!!! Seeing her in a dress and dressed up had me so nervous, especially when I volunteered to pick her up and drive her to the party. I don't want to overthink but I swore she gave me glances too. I told her she looked great and she told me she loved my dress. AAAAA!!!! | Crushes |
PLEASEPLEASEPLEASE | Crushes |
This may sound weird but I found this girl on TikTok and I thought she was pretty so I followed her and found out she lives in the same city as me she is very pretty but idk if I should go for it or not, if so idk how to do it I can’t just go “hey found u on TikTok, are u single” should I go for it if so how do I? | Crushes |
I said in the last post I was gonna try to meet up with her at a park she goes to that's near my house. That's still the plan, but if she doesn't go that day for whatever reason im just gonna call her and ask her if she likes me in the same way I like her. I mean she already said I was her favorite person in our class, and seems really comfortable with sitting near me. But we haven't seen each other irl in like almost a week now. Wednesday would actually be one week since we last saw each other. I've decided I just want to get it over with. If she doesn't like me then oh well, we can still be friends. If she does then that's amazing. Either way ur only gonna see one more post from me :)
Wish me luck | Crushes |
I reply to peoples posts that talk about moving on saying that they need to move on because the other person dosent care and it’s not healthy to keep caring but I knew every time I post one of those replies that I haven’t moved on from her, why do I still care about someone who has obviously moved on and dosent want anything to do with me.. please lace any actual tips from people who have gone through the same thing in the comments.. I just want it to end please.. | Crushes |
Like I just wanted a gf, but it doesn’t work with anyone | Crushes |
My crush is a stubborn person and likes to act the tough guy. I'm close to him but only really through chatting online though we go to the same school. He actually not how you would expect him to be but can be rude sometimes. He always teases me, calls me a nickname, recalls and creates inside jokes and is constantly asking me to talk to him. I am definite he likes me. One problem. He doesn't ever want to meet up in real life because he thinks it's embarrassing to because I'm not well known. I know it's quite a douchebag thing but he is really nice to me and i really like him. I feel like I can persuade him but I'd like some advice to how and what he is feeling. | Crushes |
I have absolutely no one in my life who fits both of the following criteria:
1. Is trustworthy enough to talk about this with.
2. Cares enough about petty workplace romance to listen to it all.
SO I made a reddit account:
I have a crush on a guy that I work with, (henceforth referred to as Olive) and it's kind of driving me NUTS. He's probably the most charismatic person I've ever met, and he's great with the customers. Olive doesn't at ALL fall into my usual "type". (he's tall, has a beard, is pretty built) He makes me so MAD. Who gave him the right to make it so that I can now see guys who aren't clean shaven as attractive? Who gave him the RIGHT to be so similar to me that we instantly hit it off with dumb bickering about dumber stuff? Besides my managers (who I love because I work with them so often), he's the single person I enjoy working with most. HIS OPINIONS ABOUT THINGS ARE SO WRONG AND IT'S SO FUNNY. I'm pretty sure the first thing he ever said to me was a bad pun or pickup line or something. He has the second dumbest sense of humor I've ever seen (second only to me).
It actually took me about a month to realize I liked Olive (at first I was just overjoyed to have made a friend, I don't really have friends outside of my siblings). The moment I realized was when he and I got some food and took it out back one day. We were both closely leaning over it and digging into it silently and I had the realization that "wow is this the most romantic thing that's ever happened to me?" I immediately speedran the 5 stages of grief ("I like OLIVE???") and went back inside. After thinking about it for a good hour I decided that I wouldn't mind dating him, and that I knew it wouldn't be a problem with workplace policy at the very least.
Immediately after that, I walk near some of my other coworkers who are gossiping. Turns out, the night before Olive had gone on a first date with one of my other coworkers, who I'll call Cream. (I actually developed a smaller crush on HER later on but it was minor) Cream seemed pretty happy about it, and the surprising jealousy I felt in my gut at that moment made me realize I needed to nip this in the bud. At the end of the night, I took Olive outside and bravely spat out my first ever non-text confession, basically saying that I liked him but knew that he was about to start dating Cream and that I was only telling him to smash my feelings under my heel. He was like "oh yeah i like Cream" and we parted ways.
When I tell you I DANCED my way home that day, I really did. I felt so high from the adrenaline rush of getting that whole thing sorted out that I wasn't even disappointed he rejected me, since I already knew it would happen. A few days later the disappointment did start to sink in, but I caught covid and quarantined alone which gave me a few weeks to not see him and get over it.
That was all a few months ago, and other than occasional passing thoughts about how he's cute or funny, it wasn't on my mind anymore. Until about a week ago, disaster struck. Olive and I were alone and had a really weird vibed conversation, where we talked a little about the day I told him I liked him. He also mentioned that he told Cream about it. I was like "Yeah DUH dude, of course I'd tell my girlfriend if someone liked me". He then talked about how she wasn't actually his girlfriend. He seemed kind of vulnerable for a minute when he talked about how I wouldn't know about how relationships can hurt you, that you learn a lot about the true nature of people from dating them, etc. (Which is true, I've never been in a "real" relationship.) All in all the conversation kind of had my brain running in circles trying to figure out why he told me any of that.
We joke around a lot, it's the primary nature of our relationship. Just fake arguing about stuff we don't actually care that much about, and pretending to feel scandalized at each other's opinions. Anyway, a few days ago Olive was talking to another one of our coworkers, Cream's sister, who I'll call Milk. He and Milk were arguing and it ended with her rolling her eyes and walking away. Olive grinned and asked why she's always like that, and I quipped "maybe it's because you're dating her sister." One of the new employees said "HUH??" and Olive took his leave. I laughed and explained that they had been dating for a few months, when Milk walked by again. I figured since She's Cream's sister she'd know more about it than me, so I asked her to tell the new hire about it. Milk then said she didn't think Olive and Cream were dating anymore. I INSTANTLY felt hope that I wish I hadn't, and then Milk followed with a backpedal of "well maybe they're just going out less, i haven't seen them together but it's not really my business".
Then that night I had a dream about him. It wasn't even romantic, I was back living with my dad in my tween bedroom but still an adult, and Olive was there. I talked about something and ugly cried and he just sat and listened. I don't remember the contents, but it wasn't a romantic vibe it felt very dismal. When I woke up I felt icky and tried to forget the sleep I just had. (Get out of my teenagehood HOUSE nobody invited you dude.) The night after, I had a dream about a normal workday talking to my other coworkers but when I was doing something he randomly hugged me from behind and made me FINALLY realize the full merits of dating a tall person. It was warm and enveloping and I instantly woke up feeling cold. It was one of the best hugs I've ever recieved and it wasn't even real.
I've been having morally questionable thoughts? Do I pry and see if they're done dating? If they're not dating anymore, would i even want to be the second choice? If this had any risk of putting me on a coworker's bad side then I wouldn't do it, especially if it would bother Cream since she's so sweet and beautiful and also kind of terrifying. I kind of can't get this possibly drama-inducing situation off my mind, which is weird because I'm usually a responsible person who just focuses on saving money, and kind of keeping people at an emotional distance.
Honestly there's not really anything else to this story I just felt like talking about it all. I actually have a date with a girl coming up but my heart isn't in it. He's really the only person I'm interested in dating, much to my dismay because again OLIVE IS SO DUMB. I cannot emphasize enough the weird feeling of rivalry I have with him for no reason other than "he's dumb and it makes me mad which makes me wanna kiss him." Alright thanks reddit nation I'm gonna go eat. Edited for typos + clarity. | Crushes |
I have this boy that sits in front of me in my math class, and I think about him all the time. I've never held more than a 5 word conversation with him, yet I'm so attracted to him. I always want to touch him, not in a sexual way just something light, like a poke or ruffling his hair. I don't even know this boy yet I'm so infatuated with him! Is this normal? What would you describe this feeling as? | Crushes |
So my family likes to go camping and this weekend including Friday because there was a lockdown when I was entering my high school and I said screw this I’m going home so we get to the camp and about an hour or so later this van shows up and this family gets out and I see one of the prettiest girls I’ve seen in a hot second so I go greet the family because I was trying to be nice and the mom said maybe you could hang out with my kids because they are in high school aswell and you guys might get along, so I ended up hanging out with them for the weekend and I couldn’t help but notice that the girl was constantly looking at me and playing with her hair. I honestly don’t know if I should get to know her better and just be friends for now or what so I need some advice | Crushes |
We’re both boys btw I’m a trans guy and he knows and supports me ☺️ | Crushes |
I've had a pretty good day with mine so I'm just curious :) | Crushes |
So I have a crush on my best friend and he has been giving me mixed signals but we had a conversation about some of the things that I am into and he wasn't into them, he called some of them weird.
He ends the call as soon as his friend, I'm gonna call her 'L', so he stops calling me when she asks if they can call, and he agrees.
He never says L's name to me anymore, he calls her you know who, he gets along well with most of my family, excluding my brothers, and when my mother and I are sort of arguing he will take her side of things and it really annoys me, I don't want to bring that up though.
He's my only friend and I don't want to lose him because of my stupid feelings, so I just thought it would be better to give up and move on. | Crushes |
I'm currently at the stage where I can reflect on our relationship so I'm open to questions
I just sent M the last thing I probably ever will regarding what we used to be: "I just thought I should say that it was a pleasure sharing an elephant with you while it lasted. Now let's never speak of this again lmao" I didn't tell you guys but the elephant is basically a metaphor for us liking each other that was used between us.
That was also a total lie. Save for December before she started drifting, and for some occasions like going to the movies with a mutual friend, or the club we had together, most of it freaking sucked. Like overthinking central for me. But I'm not gonna say that to her lmao, also it's not really her fault because she's not allowed to date and therefore no displays of affection and therefore my brain goes AAAAAAAAAAAA.
I'm not over her yet but I'm getting there. Got three more days of school and then the whole summer to just enjoy life without constantly thinking about her.
I'm still not gonna look for another relationship after this though. At least not any time soon | Crushes |
I miss him.At night, when I lay in bed, I realize all I’ve been thinking about is him.Why do I still care?Why do I still love? He said so many hurtful things. How can he do that to me.Since August 2021, no other boy could even get the chance to get my attention.Why am I still loyal.Everyday I’m faking my mood.I’m not happy. | Crushes |
So long story short me and my crush, A, are law students (just graduated) and are pretty career motivated. She was speaking at this Women in Law event where I attended and I was the only guy lol. This got mentioned a lot but honestly the event was great, I learned a lot and made me super motivated. Anyways.
She seemed really happy to see me and my friend N there. She was on a panel and was pretty nervous but she's amazing so of course she smashed it. We sat in her eye line so she could see us and she locked eyes with me once and smiled and I smiled back and gave small thumbs up :D.
It finished up and the three of us walked around a bit, I somehow was making them laugh by being me which idk doesn't happen a lot so I'm just really happy about that. You know that way your close with someone that it's not weird to touch their arm etc, yeah that happened too which is aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.
N and A had some "boy stuff" to talk about, long story short something I wasn't allowed to listen in which is all good with me. So I'm on my way home in the taxi now.
All in all I'm really pleased I came. She said she wants to talk to me about "my job and catch up" which was super positive since she brought it up. | Crushes |
Please do not attack me, I haven't done anything about it and no one knows | Crushes |
for context, my crush (17) and i (17) are born the same year but i’m a grade above (i’m leaving for college now and she’s gonna be a senior)
i’ve liked for so long before, then we barely kept in touch before meeting up again and forming a big and nice friend group.
by the time we started forming it and hanging out i figured that i still like her and wanted to tell her eventually how i felt about her.. but the problem was, by the second hangout we had this jan, she told me she was dating another girl in our friend group
it shocked me, but i tried to keep my cool and just said congrats.
from then on we all kept hanging out together during these past few months and my feelings for her never faded away at all.
it hurts me so bad because right when i felt like the right time has come for her to know, i was hit by reality of her being with someone else.
their relationship is (secretly) known between the others in our friend group that it’s honestly quite toxic.. her gf has a very unstable mental health and is to dependent on her to stay clean and “sane” (how she worded it) plus, my crush is so pressured by how she’s the “only one that can calm her gf down when she’s not feeling well” especially when since last week, my crush has been going through a lot and her gf just made it about herself.
anyway, we all are immigrants in the country we are in rn. my crush isn’t from the same country as me, so when i leave for college, (most likely not coming back from my home country) we will most likely never meet again.
and reality is hitting me so hard, that i’m leaving in just 11 days, and next weekend is my last chance of seeing her.
two of my closest friends in the friend group now know about me liking her, and both of them told me to tell her if i have no motive in like, trying to get with her . because i genuinely just want to let her know, it’s eating me up that she doesn’t know; that i have to keep it in.
i’m going to be giving all our friends a letter this weekend when we meet, just small memory from me..
i have a playlist made for her, things written about her, and a lot more i want to say to her. (i’m quite dramatic but c’mon man she was my first crush ffs)
(disclaimer: i’m trans ftm so my feelings for a girl were barely taken into account by me when i was younger.. i just thought that i thought she was so pretty i wanted to look like her)
anyway, i never included any of that in my letter for her yet, and i’m just thinking of telling her in it bc there’s no way i can say it to her irl.. please tell me if i should or not, it’s really killing me that i’m still keeping it in. | Crushes |
I really need help.
My friend told my crush that I like him and he told me that he doesn't like me. Yet, a lot of times he acts like he does. He said I was cute when I was angry and the day after the note he told his friend that he really likes me (we don't talk at all so it couldn't be friendship). He also goes out of his way to annoy me, and in PE class he tried to give me his hockey stick because I took someone else's. He also stares at me a lot. Do you think he said he didn't like me because he thought it was a prank or that I don't like him? I told him that I didn't like him either so that's a possibility. | Crushes |
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Hey guys,
I M14 have a girl in class that I have developed a crush on. It all started out around two months ago when our teacher suddenly decided that everybody should get a new seatmate. The teacher sat me next to a girl which I am just gonna call Sarah. So at first I wasn't too happy to be sat next to Sarah because I had been next to my best friend before. Sarah however seemed pretty happy about it but that might also be because her best friend was one desk in front of us. For the time we were next to each other we made jokes, did play silly games and made comments about other people, good or bad.(yes I know, that's not nice but who's gonna stop us :p) We did fit together and had a similar humor but in the breaks there were oftentimes boys coming to our desks and chatting with her. Also in art classes Sarah asked me if it was okay if I switched seat with her best friend for the class. Around 4 to 5 weeks later our teacher decided to change seatmates again, and while she thought about either sitting next to me or to her best friend, she decided on her best friend ;( The teacher then decided to sit me on a desk on the other side of the classroom. In front of Sarah there were two boys which she did chat with a lot, but luckily for me there isn't gonna come a lot out of that because I have found out that they were all in a friend group since 2 years and also those boys do say bad things about Sarah and made it very clear that they aren't interested in her. Even though we got seated away from each other, it is clear that she tries to have as much contact with me as possible (which I also try). Every time there is a group task/task for 2 people she tries to do it with me, every break she comes to me which I think is just to be near me, because extremely often she does write the homework off me where she has to be next to me and she does that even though she knows I am not the best at school(her neither) and she would be much more successful if she wrote it off somebody else. Also she does clearly have a lot of trust in me because everytime she has to go somewhere in school because of something she takes me with her. Recently she even asked me if I wanted to go to the nurse with her because she had hurt herself and that definitely is something that you wouldn't allow everybody. Also Sarah tries to chat with me everyday (it is very clear that she doesn't really have an important reason because a few weeks ago she never texted me and suddenly it has become an everyday thing) She even sent me a 🥰 emoji a few days ago after a "Thank you haha" after I helped her with something, but she also does that with teachers when they say that she will get the better grade for example. Now the Problem is that even though I'm 100% sure that I'm at least a very good friend to her I'm not sure if she has also developed feelings for me.
TL;DR: Got a seat next to a girl. We have fun sitting next to each other. Got a place very far away from her soon after. She visibly tries to have as much contact with me as possible. Is she a crush or just a very good friend? | Crushes |
i love her so much i just wanna go on another cute date and hold her hand and cuddle with her and watch a movie and play mario kart and go on a walk and take pictures with her and put my arm around her and give her a hug and and and | Crushes |
I SAW HERRR AND I GAVE HER THE PLUSH ALONG WITH THE NOTE YESTES
IM SO SCARED BECAYSE I SAID FOR HER TO CHECK IT WHEB SHES HOME OH MY GOD IM GOING TO FREAK OUT i was shaking the whole time and my voice qas cracking. | Crushes |
So when it comes to liking girls I tend to have really strong obsessive tendencies, the most recent example was at lunch a while back my crush who usually sits with me and our other friend went and had lunch with her other group of friends, for some reason my subconscious took it very personally and caused me to start having a minor panic attack despite the fact that my main consciousness was thinking “why am I panicking? she has every right to sit with them. she spends so much time with us so she deserves to be allowed to hang out with them” yet the feeling wouldn’t go away despite knowing for certain that she wasn’t doing it for personal reasons. I hate that it happens because I don’t like being obsessive because I know that it isn’t nice to be around since I’ve had someone I didn’t like be obsessive over me. I just want it to change but don’t know how to do so or where to start, comment if you have any advice, I really need it | Crushes |
On one hand, it would help me get over M.
On the other, y'all are amazing and I used to be cool on this sub.
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how to write a letter sating she wants to be my gf? should i say "i know this is sudden but i really like you so would you be ___" ? im planning to give her it and then tell her to open it at home | Crushes |
There is this guy i sort of like, recently i have been throwing flirts at him and stuff because i just naturally am.
He messaged me saying it’s going a little fast for him, and I completely understand i was going a bit far.
I only meant to throw some harmless flirts
But now that this has happened idk what i am going to do.
He messaged me telling me why he feels like this and i totally agree.
How do i come back from this, i don’t wanna lose him as a friend | Crushes |
I literally dream about him every other day and that’s not an exaggeration.
Last nights dream- I was at some sort of party with people from my old school who I’m not rly friends with. I texted my crush and asked him if he wanted to come.
He came and all the sudden were at the beach. We go on a jet ski to his house. His house was big and beautiful. I met his dad and 2 older sisters (he doesn’t have two older sisters irl lol) and they weren’t a perfect family. I could tell his family dynamic was a little off (it’s not irl tho).
Anyways , I was really waiting for him to make a move on me. We were on his beach house balcony overlooking a lot of greenery and water (he does have a house like this irl). And I was waiting for him to make a move. But he was giving me mixed signals. | Crushes |
we were at this botanical garden today a long with the different classes, she’s in a lower class so i had the opportunity. so while in the garden i picked a cute flower for her that matches her, im not even sure if i was allowed to pluck it :< i gave it to her and just ran away, im shy af and don’t have balls yeah i know. idk if it was cheesy, she did have a cheesed out look on her face, i asked my close friend if it was and he said not at all so maybe im just overthinking it. WE STILL DONT KNOW EACHOTHER, and im literally out of ideas at this point. she’s just so godamn charming argh | Crushes |
I am quite sure he likes me, but I overthink and have doubts. On summer break now so I can’t make a move until we meet again irl in september. | Crushes |
Taking advantage of the new flair, ask me something, can be about my girlfriend or anything else if you’d prefer | Crushes |
hi guys, so i really like this guy at work, and he pretty much talks to everybody and is really a confident person. but every time i try to talk to him, he just sounds serious and disinterested with me. and can be a little cold. and sometimes he talks really fast and runs away from me to talk to someone else. but when he's with other girls and etc. he is always friendly goofy, loud and confident. and can talk to other people like nothing. is there something wrong with me? i try to say hi and start a convo but it just seems like he hates me or something. maybe he is just not interested? but how come he can't talk to me normally if he doesn't like me. sorry if this is long lol. i just need advice because i really like this guy but i'll stop talking to him if he is not interested. thank you to everyone for all the helpful answers!! | Crushes |
Is it weird for me(15F) to want to do it with an (18M) we are both in highschool and I have been the one that is coming onto him( sending booty pics)
He hasn’t made much moves all he said was “lookin good” at the pic, Would it be weird if we did the deed is what i’m asking or for me to start flirting with him more, he is going to be a Senior in highschool this year | Crushes |
Okay, so I have a crush on my coworker right? We’ll I befriend him and we text all of the time, we have Called on the phone every night for the past week and all over 30 minutes, I invited to see a movie with me and he agreed. It was Very casual and low key. I continued to make small hints like my arm touching his and sitting there for an hour looking at all his (very funny) memes. I don’t know what else to do really. I have sent semi risky texts telling him it’s cute when he does this and that. I literally don’t know if he likes me or not. Sometimes it seems like he is dropping hints but other times it’s like ‘why would I invite my other girl friends to see this movie with us?’ Kinda thing. If you see this and have an idea, please help a hopeless romantic out🫠 | Crushes |
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I want her to need me just like I need her I want her to think of me like I think of her I want to walk past her and she’ll just get nervous because I know that if I even see her my legs would get weak it’s so weird because we haven’t spoken in since quarantine started yet I just randomly fell in love with her it’s so bad that sometimes I think she put some love spell on me because it’s outrageous | Crushes |
I keep telling myself that I’m not in love with her and that it’s all a just a joke I’m going with but it’s not I just wish I could dream of her again and lose the crush the same way I gained it I try to forget her but then audios on tiktok sound just like her it’s driving me insane we haven’t even talked in years💀she probably hasn’t even thought of me in so long | Crushes |
So my crush added my friends back on snapchat but not me, it’s obvious it’s me and we know each other personally. Any ideas why? | Crushes |
How do I ask my crush for his number (we never talked before, but I keep seeing him looking at me)? | Crushes |
5 years ago I (F) hooked up with a guy that I eventually had a crush on but I realized he’s not into me because he stopped talking to me. Fast forward to 2022 he hits me up on my DMs & wants to hangout with me AGAIN AFTER 5 DUCKING YEARS? I turned down his invites to meet up last week and this week. What does it mean? Is it a booty call? | Crushes |
My crush seemed to show signs that she likes me back, but now she has left for her holidays, and I didn't ask her out. All because I was to pussy to do anything. | Crushes |
Me (20f) has a crush (20m) but we don’t talk, we aren’t in the same class and idk if he even knows my name. Today I found out that a friend of mine (20f) also has a crush on him, they are much closer and have each other’s phone numbers (ik they are not dating or anything). I’ve had a crush on him for over a year and she only has had a crush on him for a couple of months. The problem is my friend doesn’t know I like him.
How can we get closer?/ idk what to do
Update: I found out that he liked her this morning 🥲 | Crushes |
We (Me:F16 and him:M17) aren't in the same grade so I only get to see him in breaks or after school. I have never talked to him and I guess I'd have the courage if I knew what to say to him. But he is so nonchalant. He's always on his phone and when he's not, he jut looks straight ahead. But it's not like he doesn't notice me. He sees me but he breaks eye contact after like half a second. I just want to know if he even sees my face like I can't imagine someone looking at a person for that short amount of time and recognizing something. Like when you see someone you look at their face for at least a second... Idk man I want him to look at me or smth i wanna talk to him but idk how ITS SO EMBARRASSING IM SO DESPERATE | Crushes |
He signed my yearbook like 7 times. I mean he would literally walk up to me, take the yearbook, ask me if he can sign it then do it without a response. He even asked me if he could have a whole page
(which he used to write his name really big a bunch of times) and the first time he wrote "cool person" and said it was because i was a cool person.
I would think that this is a good sign, and i know that he used to like me, but then last month he asked my friend out, and idk if he still likes her. (He also has barely spoken to her since he got rejected and only signed his name once on her yearbook and everyone else's)
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I 18f have the hugest crush on my 18m friend hes literally so dense it is so painful i feel like hitting my head on a piece of concrete. Does he actually think im like this with everyone?! I am not sure if he knows i have a crush on him but pretends not to know it or smth but whenever i say i miss him he’ll try and backtrack and say “oh ur gonna miss something else more” and when i gave him a really dumb pickupline he says he doesnt get it and makes fun of me for it and im 100% confident he sees me as a friend 😭 because he teases me so much. When i showed my friends the texts between us they’ll say im the one thats bad at flirting as well because i talk to him too much like a friend as well as not outwardly confessing i like him. But im not sure if i even wanna tell him i like him idek if he likes me back either. Lately he’s been a bit dry and doesn’t reply much but he’s online on different things so im thinking he found out and just doesnt want to continue on talking to me :( . I need Tips and advices are greatly appreciated tyyyy!!!
Update: he is dense 😭he didnt even see it coming | Crushes |
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I have been liking this guy for over a year now and with me, he was such a weirdly interesting and amazing guy when we started talking to each other throughout the pandemic. It was fun having him around to talk to when i couldn't go anywhere and he was back to his hometown just to visit his family, eventually stuck there for the past 9 months.
I had to use all of my courage just to start a conversation with him because the way of him talking is quite different from other people that i have talked to, like he was into philosophical stuffs and writing, i was the opposite of him tho. So it was hard to strike a conversation with him but we ended up being quite close for the next 2 months despite me being stupid and didn't understand him that much, i literally didn't understand him that much and I did try to. We talked for a whole day long sometimes, he sang for me, showed me his poems, stories that he wrote and helped me with a lot of things. That's why i was so in love with him and scared that he would replace me eventually because he was strangely handsome (I didn't even notice that until we had online classes together) and who wouldn't want a cute boy that could write poem and sing for you.
I guess he just thought of me as his casual friend, i did confess to him ( he said he needed time to improve himself so he wouldn't have much time to talk to me anymore so i panicked and confessed to him the next day) but he said no and said that we could be normal friends. At first i was like ok, i could accept that since i already knew his answer i just wanted to let it out of my chest but in the end i cried a lot that night.
We still talk normally to this day but not as much as before, i just interact with him when i need help with my homework. This would sound creepy but i couldn't stop looking at him during class because i missed him so much. In the same time, i hate his stupid face, he just keeps teasing me during class sometimes but he did that to every girls so i don't wanna think about it much.
This is just a rant so thanks for reading <3 i just wanna get over him sooner so that i can live a peaceful life. He doesn't deserve the love that i put out for him but i can't stop thinking about him. | Crushes |
My friend (who is neighbors with him) we’re talking about her neighbors 4 cats since she’s really close with one of them. While talking about it she brought up how before, when his (crushes)leg wasn’t broken, she saw him go on walks and he would always stop in front of her next door neighbors house and pet the cats and always plays with this one cat named peanut before continuing his walk.
That’s so cute omg. I have two cats so that makes me happy he’s a cat lover and doesn’t just disregard them. He always hangs out for a bit🤭 | Crushes |
I've been having this crush on this girl for couple months now. It's weird situation where we both don't know each other that well but have been watching each other instagram stories for over year at least, I think 2 years or more.. , we both have access to each other's close friends stories. We have similar taste in memes and video games, and just lot of things in common (at least what I can tell by her stories) I just always thought her as nice mutual , but never anything else, until we finally saw each other irl, I was just meeting her as mutual, but something about the way she looked me and smiled at me made me feel like I was really special to her, I know it could be that she was just being nice to me, but I've never seen another person look me in such admiring way. It made me really happy and I started to think of her more and then I just started to crush on her. She's such a kindhearted person ,I've never seen anyone who's so genuinely kind and it really moved my heart and I really admire her. But her problem is that she is really slow to reply, like really really slow, usually taking 2 days to get even reply because she has no energy and is overthinker, sometimes she replies faster, but usually it takes so long and sometimes she just straight up ghost me. (But I do said it was okay, if she doesn't always reply, so it kinda my fault ,but I try to be understanding, I don't mind her taking time to answer) When she answers, she always answers with long sentences and puts in effort for her answers, never seems like she doesn't care when she answers.
And she had some awful personal problems atm and break up too. I told her about my feelings and she said she can't reciprocate her feelings right now because of the break up, which I understand. We were talking about meeting up at summer and I asked her if she was still okay to meet up with me and she said she does want to spend time with me at summer, but every time I've been asking her to hang out or do something with me, she ignores it, I tried to ask two times but decided that maybe she still needs to heal because of the bad situation. (We only have met once so I understand if it can be bit scary) . She still hangs out with her friends tho, but I really want to be patient with her since she's obviously not feeling well and give her time, but I really do want to get to know her better. We don't even have to do anything romantic yet, I just want to get to know her better and be her friend, but I don't know when she is ready to hang out with me or is she just being nice even thought I said countless times that's it's okay if she doesn't want to hang out, and I understand if she doesn't want to spend time with me, but she never answered that she doesn't, it seems like she wants but has hard time right now and that's why she can't, which I understand completely.
I just want to spend time with her so bad and get to known her better, but I know that I have to wait until she's ready. Normally I would just give up and move on, but I've never felt such a spark from one person, I never felt anything like this, most of my crushes have been pretty shallow, but not this one, I genuinely think her personality is amazing and that she's amazing person, of course I find her cute too but that's not the main thing why I find her so attractive, she's just seems like extremely kind person and that's my thing, I can safely talk with her without being scared of having to hide my true emotions or having to hide my true personality, because of her kindness and it feels amazing. I don't trust many people and I think people are scary, but talking with her I feel extremely safe and I hope she could feel same way with me.
I need some advices what I should do in this situation? I'm not in a rush, but I really need outsider perspective to get full picture and understand this situation better :) | Crushes |
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The plan is to confess to her tomorrow cause we're staying back at school. I've planned it all out but I'm getting cold feet right now. The best thing to do is to be honest i think but we're really good friends and i could wait it out and see if she starts developing feelings for me.
I'm not sure what to do and I'm looking for some advice | Crushes |
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lately I haven’t been able to to get you of my mind my intention was no never hurt you or anyone or myself but I want my feelings to reach you my feelings of love I tell you I mean it when I say if I’m with you I can live smiling. If feelings aren’t mutual I will understand that and it’s not to put any pressure on you I simply want you to know how special you are to me. What Do you think Can we be together? | Crushes |
im very bored, and i love guessing games, so lets see how fast y'all can guess the name (while i pray they dont know i have reddit)
their name starts with J
edit: name was guessed correctly | Crushes |
I am out of patients I’m confessed to her tommorow | Crushes |
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