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Ok so here are some things he does that might be hints :)
1. I was asking the gc to send me mean texts for a project i was doing, and he sent one to me on our message thread with just us (not the gc), and then he started a convo asking me what i like to do and stuff like that.
2. On the gc, when other people say hi, he’ll answer with “hi”, “hello”, or “hey”, but when I says hi, he says “HEYYY MACY”, “HIIII”, or “MACYY”
3. We were talking about horror movies on the gc and he mentioned how he only likes watching them with other people, and i said same, so he said, “macy we should watch one together on facetime.”
4. He sends me songs he wrote to get my opinion
5. he says “goodnight 😻” and not “gn”
That’s all i can think of rn but tell me what u guys think!! :) | Crushes |
One year ago I posted about having a crush on my teacher (now former teacher) and recently we met again few times (which I posted about few days ago). Today he confessed he always liked me, that he has already fallen in love with me and asked to be his girlfriend.
I was speechless and didn't know what to say, how was I supposed to have reacted? I did get guys confessed to me before but never someone I already had a crush on. I just smiled in a silly way completely red.
He's so adorable, prepares food for me, picks me up from the train station, makes sure I'm not cold and likes to cuddle as much as I do making sure to respect my wishes or boundaries. I'm just scared of ruining it all because I have a hard time expressing my feelings and I don't want him to think I don't like him as much as he likes me. Am I overthinking? | Crushes |
You tell me and I'll tell you | Crushes |
Hi. So I have a crush on this cute guy at work. He is pretty reserved and introverted but I wouldn't say he's shy. He works in a different department but we do come across each other sometimes a few times a week. So today he was actually working with my coworkers and helping them with some documents, and I noticed that when there is a distance between us, so like when we are further away he glances my way and I sometimes can't help myself so I look back, I catch him looking and he quickly turns around. But then when we were in a little circle, with another 2 coworkers, and I was literally standing the opposite of him like 3 feet away he hasn't made eye contact even once in the span of like idk maybe 10 minutes??? :( like he was only looking at my coworker friend and like totally ignored me?? Do you guys think he doesn't like me?? And I mean that like in general not as in liking a crush. Because you know, at work I usually look and smile at everyone and especially when were kind of talking in a group, I try not to ignore anyone :( But then again he always appears to be looking from a distance so I have two theories, the first one is that he is just looking in the general direction and I am deluded, or the second one, he's checking if I am looking and thinks I am weird. What do you guys think?? I try not to look on purpose but you know sometimes I get that feeling like someones watching me and I turn around without even thinking about it | Crushes |
I really like her but i dont know how to start conversations because im shy, so i think off adding her on Instagram but it might seem weird idk what to do. | Crushes |
It’s frustrating when you’re friends with them and they’re more than happy to remain that way. You eventually come to terms with it, but sometimes I look at him and I see this beautiful human being in front of me and I just want to kiss him, but I can’t.
It’s especially frustrating cause I know he finds me somewhat attractive and he says that there’s no one like me, but still something’s missing and I don’t know what it is…honestly, what am I doing wrong?
(This post is a mess, I’m sorry. It’s just I’m feeling a lot of feelings right now 😢) | Crushes |
I like texting/talking to my crush as anyone else would but for me it’s like I just feel empty and sad away from her. I text her quite often but I always feel like I’m being annoying so I try not to text too much. I overthink things a lot to the point that one text makes me think I’m being annoying but my friends think I’m being irrational. I’ve apologized to her in person and over text and she has always told me that I don’t get annoying at all. I had been telling my friend about how I wanted to call her but I was nervous. I have my friend my phone not thinking about it and he called her like four times to which she didn’t pick up and he texted her. Upon realizing I pretty much had an internal breakdown, but was just quiet on the outside. She called back later and I explained what happened and because she was at a basketball game we only talked for a little. I texted her later apologizing again and she told me not to be sorry and when I told her I just enjoy talking to her but try not to too much she told me to not ever not say what’s on my mind. Which made me really happy but I still just feel bad. It’s weird because with my other friends I don’t really care but with her I just don’t want to come off clingy or something, not that it’s even that bad because it shows I care but I can’t seem to just be normal and figure it out. If you read to the end thanks and also I wish everyone good luck and merry Christmas. | Crushes |
This happened about 7 months ago ,It was pretty bad. I got out of a fwb situation and he was still recovering from a break up . He said he was no longer interested in his ex so we easily got into the flow of flirting. I was such an idiot and horny didn’t really care about a relationship but I definitely cared about him. I would take out my vibrator and act like it was being dumb while we were on a call. He was oblivious and thought it actually was going off randomly… still flirting and I got new underwear from SHEIN and I sent him pics…
He blocked me.
Panicking cause Didn’t mean to go that far to make him feel uncomfortable. I felt terrible
After awhile though I got angry cause we were friends for a hot min ( basically best friends)and I wished he told me he felt uncomfortable instead of just blocking me. I was hurt and completely embarrassed!
But after awhile I knew he was gonna explain himself
Maybe two months later I get meek messages from someone saying they ruined things beyond prepared for our friendship and finally found out it was him. I asked him all the questions . “Did I make you feel uncomfortable?” “Did you just not like what you saw” “ was it because you were already talking to someone” “why did you block me” etc
All “no’s “ apparently he just felt bad he was making me a rebound. Which I laughed cause I thought we were letting off steam together. Ended saying “that’s it? I knew that I was horny and wanted some fun😂” then was like “no no no you don’t understand I was gonna send you a vid of me doing shit”
I told him THAT WAS THE POINT. Even when I apologize for going too far he got mad and told me I was being stupid.
So what was left though was trust cause when he blocked me it did really really hurt like shit balls. So he promised that he was gonna make it up to me. Especially since I was going through mental health issues and he felt bad he wasn’t there for me at my worst.
Present day:
He definitely has made it up. We do everything together. Games, movies , call sleep overs ( me falling asleep and him staying on the call until he knows I’m completely knocked out or we both fall asleep)
He talked how it sucks to reject someone, especially someone that was a surprise that they were interested. Which fair.
What makes me nervous is that he said things weren’t as onesided as it seemed during everything.. apparently he was also doing his thing while on those calls…
And…
We have found ourselves talking about sex freely. Even played dirty truth no dare. Ended up need to hop off the call cause ya.
There are times where he catches my feels cause he has really been there for me and has stated he truly cares about me
But I’m also trying to be kinda pessimistic about it cause the chances of anything is so small. I’m fine with being friends though just things are confusing | Crushes |
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I will use "X" to refer to them.
Their friends especially their best friend ask me whether i "like" them or not and what kind of opinions i have on them. For example, I was approached the other day by X's best friend and i was asked whether or not they'd have a chance with me if they were to come out as queer with X right next to them just observing (im gay) The next day, i am told by a friend of mine who acts as somewhat of a righthand man in this situation, that X's best friend has told my friend that X is bisexual.
I've also observed that X mirrors my body language quite often which I heard is a great indicator. | Crushes |
My hair is normally pretty basic guy hair, but this morning i woke up with it being kinda curtained, so I styled it a bit and went to my college, she said,, Your hairstyle looks good" It's probably nothing but still a good feeling | Crushes |
I don’t really have a type. I find certain people attractive, some not so much. I usually don’t try and bother talking to girls i don’t find attractive even if they are really cool because i don’t want to lead them on. But we hired this new girl at work recently and i’ve been training her. When i first saw her, i didn’t really find her that attractive, but she seemed really nice. So the first day i started training her, it was just me and her because we work at this small gas station. I thought it would be awkward and stuff, but it wasn’t at all. She’s one of the coolest people i ever met. She’s kind of like a skateboard/emo girl (idk the right term for it lol). I guess you could say i’m a basic white boy, and people like her usually aren’t my type. But she’s just so easy to talk to and she’s so funny and nice and i really enjoy being around her. And it’s like the last few days i’ve been training her i get that feeling that i like her, even though i don’t find her that attractive. Maybe her personality makes up for it? I’m not really sure. But i was curious if anyone else ever experienced something like this. | Crushes |
I got to snap with her a bit more today, but it it’s never really that she engages in any questions sadly, she has like once or twice but not the last 2 days, mostly me asking questions in that case. But as usual I asked a question and then followed it up with a compliment by saying her classes looks good on her. She then responded with “Thanks:)” which I see in a good way? Because other wise it feels like she would have just said “thanks” or maybe that’s just me overthinking, or her just being that way.
I want to start texting her instead of just sending snaps back and forth, but it feels like it would be weird if the conversation just ended early, or her not even responding equally as often.
My earlier update:
[It doesn’t feel like it’s going somewhere she has snapped like once today and I don’t know what to do to get her attention without seeming like im weird. I just want to talk or hang out or anything like that but I’ve never done this before, I’ve never asked anyone to hang out, I’ve never been able to get as close to someone, I just don’t know what to do.
It’s winter break now, so Snapchat will be my only way of communicating with her, and I don’t know if I should start texting her instead of snapping or what.
Any tips, any advice, anything I’d greatly appreciate, I just don’t want this one to die down.
//16 yo] | Crushes |
I look at my crush and smile, he always smiles at me so I smile back at him.
Sometimes I stare at him a little to much and he notices it.
Today I thought he didn’t see me so I did a heart with my hands. When I went around the corner he was there, looking at me, with my hands formed as a heart. Me and my friend kind of started giggling and ran away.
Then again I was behind him and did the heart. He turned around and saw me do it. He smiled very much.
Am I being obvious? Does he know that I like him? What do you guys think? | Crushes |
I have an intense crush on a celebrity and it is heavily affecting me , how can I get over it ? | Crushes |
so there's this girl who i'm pretty sure has a crush but i don't like her back. actually, i don't really even like her that much as a person since she's a little obnoxious sometimes, but i'll try to phrase it nicely in case she asks me out at some point. but this made me wonder, suppose one of my other friends came up and asked me out. now i've never had a crush on anyone, but i do like my friends a lot and i would do relationship stuff with them if the opportunity came up, i just don't "desire" it. in this hypothetical situation, would it be better to reject them or to tell them i'm not romantically attracted to them but still give it a shot? thanks and sorry if this isn't the right subreddit :3 | Crushes |
So I asked out a freind about almost a week ago on a dinner date, she left me on read and completely stopped talking to me in person around our freind group and over text. She then started going with this other guy to everything. I mean a simple no would have been nice, but she did have a lot of red flags I chose to ignore. Idk am I in the wrong. | Crushes |
My best friend (let's call her M) is absolutely obsessed with my crush. She says she is obsessed with the thought of us together, but at this point, it's more than that. It all started when I first told her I told L (my crush) that I liked him. She was so surprised and happy because she said we would look cute together. My crush goes to a different school than us, (we home school and go to a one-day-a-week tutorial and he goes to public school) and he said that he might go to our school next semester. When M found out about this, she was weirdly excited. That was the time where I started to get suspicious that she liked him too. If she does like him, it's only because I do. She even suggested that she can talk to him for me if I'm too scared. Does she know nothing about girl code? After the Christmas party that he showed up to, she texted me (quoted) "I forgot what L looked like, but after I saw him tonight I realized he's really cute." like... GIRL. I can't do this anymore.
I need advice... am I overreacting? Or is she in the wrong? I know L doesn't belong to me.. but I know most people would be pissed if their best friend talked to them abt their crush like that. | Crushes |
there’s this guy in my class that i think likes me. when we had the gas app, he added me and picked me for “perfect nose” and “most likely to know the words of a random kpop song.” earlier, i was sitting with his friend and he came up to talk to him. his friend then looked at us and made a heart. i kinda want to talk to him more so i was wonder if i should add him on insta. the only problem is that he’s part of the popular kids. | Crushes |
Okay fuck Haha.
I am a trans man,not really a man yet but I'm still closeted so it's making my life very confusing.
My friends and I are in the schools production every year,yes we are kinda like theatre kids but not as obsessed. We just like acting. I am in the top year at my school,I am leaving in September,but I am one of the youngest in the year(born in august).
I made friends with this boy through the schools theatre,hes mutual friends with all of my friends. We're a nice friend group when it's all of us. Hes in the year below me,but hes the oldest(born in September same year) so we are literally like a few weeks apart from eachother. He knows about "me" and my "confusion".(I've never really come out to anyone but I'm getting a short haircut this week,i am still a very masculine "tomboy")
The problem is,I get excited whenever he's talking to me,I love it when he hugs me,I love it when we play tackle eachother (we both really like sports ),his clothes look so good on him,fuck hes so funny,he cares about me (he knows I've been going through tough times,he called me to check I was okay with him texting someone I dont like,he knows about my autism),he makes me just so happy. Theres a pit in my stomach when I think about him and it's like it's full with jelly.
You know I'm scared,living life as an LGBT teen is fucking my life over,but I cant help it. Do I have a crush on him or do I want to become better friends with him?? Love is confusing. | Crushes |
I know me and him would never got together anyways but seeing that broke my heart. And she’s reaaaaallly pretty. They fit really nice together. I hope she treats him well. 🥲 | Crushes |
This is just wishful thinking, but it's possible that she doesn't know that I like her. I imagine that she would be unsure if I like her if she herself likes me, as her self-doubt will make her unable to know if I like her.
This would explain why she keeps flipping between giving strong hints and no hints; she's afraid of being to obvious, lest she be embarrassed if I don't like her.
I actually haven't given any intentional indications that I like her, so it would only really be obvious to her if she doesn't like me. This seems very plausible to me, so I'm a bit hopeful right now. | Crushes |
I am friends with this girl named S for more than a year and I liked her the first time I met but couldn't do something because I was already in her friend group and she was saying things like you can't be lovers with a friend and you need to meet someone new for dating so I just put my feelings aside and be friends with her (not too close friend but we were talking pretty much) sometime later she was coming to our group telling she fell in love with a guy and he's so handsome so great and he makes her feel special -> they dated for a month and broke up due to him cheating at vacation
She was very upset for a while but she never stopped thinking about him
I was always there helping her and I was there before that guy
I always cared for her I listened to her all the time but I just couldn't say I love you because of that "can't be with a friend" line
(They broke up at start of summer)
And seeing her obsessed with him kinda made me say "ok enough I can't stand this"
And we haven't spoken with her till the end of summer
But autumn time
We started talking again
She cares me so much now too
Her smile is beautiful it's best thing I have ever seen.
We are laughing talking going out for food but we are just friends in her eyes while I'm starting to like her again
She noticed signs that I'm into her a lot and she was talking with a friend of mine about how my acts are not that ok and we are friends and it's wrong
That really broke my heart but I just keep talking because I care her much more than anyone ever talked to her
Few days ago we were drinking with our new friend group (after 1 year our old friend group separated but we are still close because of our mutual friend)
We were sitting side by side half drunk she was saying she's going to see that guy cheated on her tomorrow and I was shocked
After all this time she's going to see him again.
I couldn't listened to it and tears spilled from my eyes while she was talking how much she missed him
Everyone noticed me and said what's wrong
I responded with it's just alcohol man I'm like this when I'm drunk etc.
But she understood it's not about being drunk
Put her head on my shoulder and said
E.., I love you as a friend you are so good but I have no feelings more than that
I didn't say anything and just keep drinking
After we left the place we walked to subway and sat
I looked into her eyes gave her a hug and told her have fun at your date and left subway and yesterday she messaged me saying her date wasn't fun at all and she made a mistake but I know we are just friends and I can't do anything
What should I do from now on? | Crushes |
Okay so this happened around 2018 oct-nov (i was 17 then)
I sat with a guy in coaching class (it was a private class so there was nobody except us) and we studied for about 4 hours together and i felt those butterflies (it was like a strange connection that i have know this guy from a very long time) but we didn't talk that much......... I saw him in my coaching again talking to a teacher but i freaked out and ran away (I regret it cz I think I should have talked to him)
Then my coaching got over and i got into college but after months I saw him on insta and sent a follow request
He accepted after months and then after a couple of months sent me a follow back
I know this might sound stupid to many but I still like this guy and I don't know how to get over it 🤦♀️🤦♀️
I did reply to his story once but maybe he had his exams so he just replied and went away(weirdo😑)
I rarely upload stories and he watches them though now idk what to do next 🤦♀️
I'm really shy and introverted to make a move and what I have heard about this guy he is an introvert too 🤦♀️🤦♀️idk what to do
Okay so an update for the recent time :
This year In Jan I confessed to him on insta that i like him (obviously it was stupid but i had to take that decision as it was bothering me a lot and i was feeling down for a few days so it was impulsive )
He just replied once (I'm sure he was a bit freaked out as it was out of the blue) and then he went away
It was really frustrating for a few days
But he still watched my stories that i uploaded after two weeks and im still confused about my feelings
Maybe more than an attraction i have this curiosity to know him more because he is really a mysterious guy.
We have so many mutuals but literally no one really knows him well so it adds to my intrigue.
Man it's been 4 years and my head is still stuck with him
(You can call this a stupid creepy obsession) but it is what it is
I just wanna get over it now | Crushes |
I did send her a letter and after that I texted her as well telling her how I feel.
So well, she did not say she has the same feelings but I guess I got the next best answer:-I guess I didn't got a girlfriend but at least I got experience, and I am happy I was able to actually tell somebody for once what I felt. After a letter I actually went more of an in depth message that I told her. Basically she said she appreciates everything I have said, but the feelings she has are mot going that way, she said she never even thinks she got feelings that way for anyone in her life(which I can believe since she never had a bf). She said she would like to not make things bad or awkward between us. And she said that I am nice , and she is sure I will find somebody and I will have a bright future.
Tho this is not the best outcome I guess I did learn some things and I am just happy I told her what I feel.
I was extremally scared to send her any of the massages, and this was actually the first time (I am 18) confessed my feelings to somebody, although it is kinda disappointing it could have been much worse. SO GUYS I KNOW IT IS SUCH A BIG STEP IN ONE'S LIFE BUT IF I WAS ABLE TO YOU CAN AS WELL, THERE ARE PLENTY FISH IN THE SEA I KNOW SHE MIGHT LOOK LIKE A GODESS TO YOU but given the fact that as I am sitting here feeling a little letdown I know I have a long way in my life and at least I can move on, + she left me some great words, I know people tell you that life moves on and you might think is cliche but it truly isn't, life does continue and I am happy that I could lay some things off my chest, I actually feel better now than before telling her even tho this is still rejection. I just hope the guy or girl idk she will be in the future will be able to make happy.Tho is hurts I just wish her the best luck in her life. Going to go and clear my head :D peace
btw I have 2 more posts on my profile about this. | Crushes |
So I been seeing this girl at my gym for a while now but I have never talked to her ever tho. I’m new to the area I moved to California from Michigan and don’t really know anyone. So almost every day I’ll see this girl at the gym she look Asian but I think she’s filipino very beautiful but I’ve never seen her talk to guys at the gym so while I was on TikTok I found she page she’s TIKTOK FAMOUS with almost 1M followers and I seen on her instagram that she got a boyfriend and that made me fall apart and it looks like her dad owns a famous sauce company in California he’s verified and what’s kinda funny that we’re the same age she’s 18 and I’m 18 and it looks like that she’s exactly 1 months older then. something off topic I can bench 415 squat 520 and deadlift 615 but it’s hard for me to talk to a girl it’s crazy and I’m 6,2 245lbs but I always find her looking at me and once I look she will look away RQ and I don’t know if what I’m saying is true but I have caught her talking pics of me at the gym. I’m a muscular guy I have a good body. And when she does that it makes me think if she likes me but once I seen here on my TikTok and she has a boyfriend that made me sad now that I been going to the gym around that time just to see her and all a sudden she has a body friend. I known you miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take, but sometimes you got to hold back those shots and make sure it’s the right time to talk them which in my case right now I think it was good to not go up to her because she would of broke my bubble in front of the whole gym maybe but she looks nice. I found out on her instagram she came from San Francisco all the way down to southern CA and I came all the way from Michigan to southern CA and. I don’t know if I should go and talk to her and still give my self a chance will it be wired or not even tho I know she has a BF but her BF is younger then her. Some one help me out!!! | Crushes |
Hyy everyone I'm from odisha, India and I'm 17 I'm in 12th grade currently so few months back I had a crush on this muslim guy N and I am a hindu girl and he is our schools deputy head boy and the most handsome guy in our school like every single girl is into him at first when I joined this school I didn't like him I felt like he was really mean guy and I should avoid him I was dating one of his friends at that time and my really close friend had a crush on him then what happened in 2022 idk how tf any why I started liking him smh and couldn't stop thinking about him my friend who liked him started dating another guy friend of mine and forgot about "N" then after a few months I told my friend who liked him before that i like him now she laughed at me saying because I always resented him... Then one of my friend told my crushes friend that i liked him and then everyone found out 😭 literally our whole batch (we have 105+ children in our entire batch😭😭😭😭) so then after some time i confessed to him but he politely rejected me after that i thought that yep I'll get over him but i could never get rid of my feelings and the problem is that he follows me on Instagram and Facebook and even likes my posts 😭what am I supposed to do y'all please help me at some point I still want him😭 | Crushes |
We know each other for 6 months know, in that time we became pretty close friends. Due to circumstances we won't se each other in person till summer. Now, I have the perfect reason to text her how she is, but somehow I just don't have the guts to ask her how she is. That is mainly due to that we both aren't the biggest social media persons. It seems strange to me that I suddenly text her, especially since we never texted each other. We mostly just talked in person.
How do you guys just build up the courage? | Crushes |
Before the shooting happened, they’d left some reels I sent on seen for nearly a day. Then they replied to one of them and I said how my class was cancelled so we could hang out. I always hated mentioning seeing each other because I felt like a burden. I consider them to be my best friend and I know they’re a lonely person but I don’t think they’re that reliant on me. I’ve considered reducing contact for a long time now, just to not hate myself every time they ignore me. The next text they sent asked if I’d seen a email—it was the one telling all of us to run or hide. After several minutes they doubled texted to ask if I was safe. The shooter was on the run for hours. I couldn’t do anything but watch helplessly from my window, alone in my apartment. The police chopper and K9 dogs were right there causing an insufferable sound mixture of the police scanner playing off my phone, the chopper, and barking.
My crush, miles away from the danger, texted with me back and forth. It was so unusual to be rapidly texting with them after months of being left on delivered for hours or even seen. In a way that sickened me, it felt good to hear from them. It was a communication I had hoped for after months without it. They sent texts telling me to stay low and that the shooter can’t hurt me and I’m gonna be ok. When it finally ended, they said they were thinking about going to bed and they asked if I was gonna be ok.
I’m still trying to process this recent event. Noises will make me nervous, my body shakes, and I don’t want to do anything. So many have packed up and temporarily left for their hometowns, but I chose to stay here because I want to hang out with my crush.
I could have been shot or I could have witnessed someone else get shot, and yet I just think about how my crush talking to me during it. I’d never imagine a scenario like this happening to me, but I’m so grateful that they texted me. I can’t help but wonder if talking to someone during a shooting means anything significant. They have other friends on campus don’t they? They have coworkers and classmates to contact. But they replied to me so rapidly that I feel like I was the only person on their mind. I don’t want to be a self-centered person, but I’ve been painfully lonely and suicidal for most of my life. It’s just nice to feel like someone tried to protect me during a moment when I finally wasn’t potentially exaggerating a situation.
TL:DR Never feel like anyone wants to talk to or hang out with me, but my crush messaged me during a shooting and that made me feel better despite the circumstance | Crushes |
I got her a rose I bought from school for $5. Her friend knew I liked her and told me I should text her (Since I am sick at home) that the rose was from me since my crush got pissed thinking it was someone else.
She didn't know how to respond the friend told me when she found out I was the one who sent that rose. I texted her (she didn't open it right away, she was trying to think of what to say).
I said "Hey (her name), if u were wondering who that rose was from. That was from me, sorry if that got u confused with anyone else, that was my bad"
She responded with "aww that’s ok thanks (my name) I really appreciate it"
I then responded with "np, have a great day 🫡 again really damn sorry for like any confusion and shit 🙏"
Which she later said "yeah thanks"
Her friend and I talked for a bit after as well. So... yeah that's it, she knows I like her now 🫤 | Crushes |
Sorry for being a day late. I just really need advice.
I don’t have classes with my crush but I wanted to get her something for Valentine’s Day so I did. I gave it to my buddy and I told him to give it to her and say it was from me. He asked her if she knew me and she said yes he told me she knew who I was and smiled and took the gifts. I’m sad that I couldn’t try harder on the card or even Atleast put my number down lol. However today she was sitting at the lunch table by herself and I was sitting at a table behind her, I was nervous and scared and wanted to talk to her but I felt so scared for some reason. This is like the 4th time I refused to talk to her because of fear. She kept looking back at me so I’m guessing she was expecting me to come talk to her like I did last time. What should I do? Please encourage me | Crushes |
I am finally in a spot in my life where I can confidently say that I've gotten over my crush of two years. I used to like him back in high school and for a little in college, but my huge goal after moving from my hometown was to get over him, and I did. I unfollowed him, and deleted our photos and our conversations. I have never confessed in my life and I used to post on this subreddit about my crush but it feels so refreshing to have emotions for people beyond him and to be able to feel not pulled in one direction. I was in hopes that he would confess to me but instead, we stopped talking after the summer. I hope those looking for closure get it whether it's requited or not. | Crushes |
fell in love when we said " SIMPLYYYY " at the same time
fell in love with the way you were staring at me when I was writing notes
fell in love with your laugh
fell in love with that look of yours when you were feeling like " omg this girl is still in love with me"
your HAHAHAHAH ( I can hear your voice do that now and it's making me blush )
fell in love when you said I'll complete my notes and come with her when everyone were leaving omfg
fell in love when you stood up for me when I was kept as a backup for the team and told them to let me play
fell in love when you came with me to play volleyball instead of watching her match
fell in love when your friends called you to watch her finals but you still were playing with me
fell in love with that little shoulder pat you give me
fell in love when you were playing football
fell in love when you were playing with that little boy omfg that was so cute asfuck I swear
it was so precious to me I want to frame it
fell in love when you said " ( my name ) wait let's go together "
fell in love when we were playing football
fell in love when you told me to stay and join for dinner
fell in love with the way you were filming her like a proud mom when she was singing
fell in love with the way you never make anyone feel left out and how you talk to everyone
fell in love with that smile of yours when she was singing " if life is a movie, then you're the best part "
fell in love with that moment when everyone were talking walking it was a busy street and music playing and just me n u playing football
fell in love with the way you talked to me when I zoned out
I was thinking about you when zoning out and you wake me up
fell in love with how you walk eith me walk beside me everytime I walk alone
I am helplessly hopelessly falling in love with you | Crushes |
I’ve had an intense crush for about 7 months now. I’ve hesitated telling them for multiple reasons, including the fact that they’ve made it clear to me that they’re not attracted to me. They’ve specified they like “super skinny” (which is not me.) I’ve been working on my health for months now, very much for myself but with the added bonus that I’d hoped they’d enjoy it too. But recently we got into an argument (we’re friends so we talk often) & I saw a very immature side of them. It totally grossed me out. They apologized but I can’t get it out of my head. They’ve been very kind to me in many ways which is a large reason why I like them, but this just gave me the ick & I can’t shake it. I don’t feel the same way as I did before. On top of that I want to be accepted as who I am & seen, which I don’t currently feel they see me. I’m grieving a little & would like some tips to move on. | Crushes |
So yesterday, my crush found out I sent her a valentine’s note. She said she really appreciates it, but now, she’s interested in someone else. I texted her, whether we could forget about (since we play volleyball together (not just the 2 of us) almost every day and we both enjoy it) and she seemed to agree. Today I went to play volleyball, but my friends didn’t. One of my classmates was there with me for 5 minutes (because he knew what was going on), then left. It was me, her and her friend. Her friend started explaining me the right techniques how to play volleyball, because apparently, I was doing it all wrong (I’m not a pro, but I’m not that terrible) and then she left. It was just me and her for maybe 7 minutes. I played volleyball with my crush alone for 7 minutes day after she rejected me! You ask why I didn’t left? A) I wanted to play. B) I wanted to let her know that I am not embarrassed of what I felt and I want to forget about it. Then she told me, she wants to try something on her own, so I was like “oh sure, okay, no problem, bye”. It was weird. She seemed upset/confused. Why her friend left? Why I didn’t left? I’m confused and I don’t want to bother/annoy/follow her. Please help! | Crushes |
okay so basically she gave me her instagram, and we've been hanging out recently! not only that, we also hang out in real life 2 days ago and today (going home to school)! she also has a best friend that was with us the whole time but that doesn't matter, what matters is that we hang out and had a lot of fun 🥰 just wanted to talk about it | Crushes |
I have a friend I’ve known for awhile. The last few times we’ve hung out we make out. I want to do more physically but I’m not sure if he does. Do I just ask him or wait for him to make a move?
I guess I’m also insecure in my body and I think he doesn’t want to do anything more because of my body | Crushes |
omfg today morning I swear I fucking cried so much I was just so depressed I mean they're official now
ig I'm okay
went to class feeling shitty saw him as soon as I climbed the stairs , he came out of class and our eyes met he asked me where's my lab coat
I said it's in my bag
My friend asked me if I'm okay she said I look tired right infront of him and I said yea m fine and even he said no u look tired
fuck fuck why am I like this
we were in same group for lab practicals he asked me if I know what to do for practicals
I said idk he said be confident even idk but I try just be confident and so something
and then we were doing some graph on practicals and he asked me for a graph and I gave him mine
he knew I'd give and never say no to him
I was just sitting and zoning out and he asked me let's break this diode it's fun
I said let's do it let's do it and he said u hold one end and I'll hold one and we held it and about to break it and another friend asked why r u guys doing this
THIS MOMENT
MOMENTS LIKE THESEEEE BETWEEN ME N HIM
WE SAID " SIMPLYYYY" AT THE SAME TIME
AT THE SAME FUCKING TIME OMFGGGG AND WE LOOKED AT EACH OTHER AND SMILED OWBAVXVSCSGQ
ISTG WE GET EACH OTHER WITHOUT EVEN TRYING
then we were like let's do it next time
I didn't ask him about his date yesterday my friend told him congrats bc they're official now
I didn't talk a thing about it
I was just sitting alone and writing notes he comes and sits next to me
when m writing my notes he's just staring at me
he's looking at my face and i can't help but blush
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he knew it
he was looking right into my soul istg and I stopped writing and said stop looking at me and write ur notes and I looked away 😭
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he hid his face and started laughing laughing so much omfggwiejvj
he looked at me again and I couldn't stop getting shy n nervous lmao
we were completing notes together
he knowsssss he knowsssss I'm still into him ksosbxbxbs
and he asks me ( my name ) what's good?
I said everything's good
he said whaaat how can everything be good
I said yea jt could be
for some people
he was like how do you do it
kwjxnjsjwudbdbshajhhhhh
then classes got over and I changed into my sports clothes bc I had throwball match and he comes to me and he's like why r u matching ur outfits
lol
and he comes close to me and vapeswtf
ig he's tryna make me get over him by vaping more around me why am I still not over him😭
I run away from him when he inhales it and he's like why r u running away from the smoke
and I couldn't speak looking at his beautiful smile istg
but then a friend came in and it ended
throwball match
i was put in as a substitute when I was a main member of the team it was really fucked up
I was kinda sad bc I know I play well and I wanted to play
and then he came and spoke to my team captain and said why is she not in the main team
put her in the main team
omg he was actually nice to me ksbxvwhqoxhxh
after we lost , I thought of practicing for volleyball and I was just doing that and he comes next ro me and says let's play
I mean wtf
his gf had finals match and instead of watching her he literally played volleyball with me I meaaaaan why
he asked me what happened I said nothing it's just that I didn't chance to play and I didn't get the ball
and S is the weakest in our team to they targeted them it's not their fault I mean if I was their team that's how I would've played he said yeah their team did play well
I was like yea it's a game it happens and it's okay and I'm just happy that I played after 2years
he actually listens to me
honestly he's the only one who listens to me
not even my so called best friend
we played and it was fun
and then he went to watch his gfs finals during last few mins and I went there too her team won and idk I felt like someone came and hugged me from behind not him for sure maybe another classmate G
or even if he does it's platonic I know
after that we all were waiting for him when he was playing football man he looks so fucking dreaaaamy when he plays football istg
he looked so cute when he was playing football with a little boy omgggg sooooo cute istg I wish my eyes were camera 📷
we all girls went to get juice and I wanted some alone time with his gf and I asked her do u still hate me
snd she said no I never really hated u
I was about to cry I controlled lol
she said m sorry if I made you feel like that but I've never had any problem I mean it was never a drama or issue to me
I said yea okay :)
and she paid for my drink
he comes after playing football
I was sitting next to his gf
I wokeup from the seat bc I knew he wanted to sit
and he came and immediately did
I love doing these small things for him istg
she's nice to him she loves him she brought juice for him after his match :) I mean I've accepted him as a friend it hurts but I have I really love him and I'd do anything and die for him but in a platonic way i swear
and rhen he taught me how to play football
I was bad in the beginning lol very bad but got better
we played and after a while we were going back and he had two bags on his hands and he had a ball
I took the ball from his hands lol
I mean he was already tired and had so much in his hands wanted to take bag as well but I knew she'd get mad so I didn't do that lol i mean rhats too much
one of our friend had a concert so we were waiting for her song and there was a huge crowd and me n him were bored so he said let's play football
omfg we were playing football in that beautiful night campus when romantic songs were playing
straight out f a movie I swear to God
it was so beautiful
only if someone could film us
the entire crowd walking here and there and only me him playing omfgggg I sweaaaaaaar
he said ( my name ) you can actually play football ur good
I said " yea I used to play I told you "
he said then you join football na
I said how many ppl r ther in girls and he said no one but if u join ur friends will come so pls do
omfg oqjdhdheh
and again just me n him
we played omfg in that crowded street people walking here n there just me him playing football he taught me how to play it and said good good omfg
I swear I love playing football with him I swear to God
he said we'll have dinner together today? ur goin early?
I said she has curfew I don't mind staying
he said then stay
I stayed I mean ofc he said me to
again some really good songs being played and were busy playing football ignoring everyone just us:)
some really good songs being played and I swear I m not looking at the stage I m just looking at him his smile osnsbsbsbsb
this song my friend sang
if life's a movie , you're the best part and omg at that part I saw him
that smile he had on his face
I'd die for him to be that happy I sweaaaaaaar
he was thaaaaatttt happppppy
bdiwiqjebdbdbwjqoksnx cnx
Ig I love being friends w him idk man
it's like you have an whole event or something beautiful goin on but you look at him bc he's more beautiful omfg
he's fucking cute istg
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how much I love him
the way he was filming our friend like a proud mom omfg
is this boy even real
he's so precious
he's a gem i swear
after the event I was walking back and he came and said are you cmg w us to McD and I said no m not I'm sleepy I wanna sleep and he said what time do u sleep usually I was like idk I mean depends smtms I just come and sleep and wakeup at 2
he was like then u don't sleep and come to school
I was like yea
I don't link it when he does this
felt like he didn't really wanna talk to me but he did it bc I was alone and didn't wanted me to feel bad
he was forcing himself to speak to me I mean I love silences with him
it was a beautiful night
I swear
I love him so much for making my life so much better bc of him
I mean he's made me cry a lot but I still love him
i always will | Crushes |
My crush and I are in the same classes at college and all we do is say hi or smile at each other in greating. | Crushes |
So i just talked with a friend of mine that has known about my situation for quite a while! She is very upfront and honest and doesnt feed into my delusions so she said that realisically i only have like 2 options: either distance myself and telling my crush that i need some time for myself OR confessing and seeing where it leads!
Anyone on here that can speak from experience in how this worked out for you? Im crying thinkinf about doing either but i just wanted to know if there are other ways i could go about this?! Telling all the details about our situation here would take way too long btw so if you want you'll have to read some of my other posts haha!
(but some info: both female and best friends who text each other everything, on the same dance team so we see each other 3 times a week + competitions coming up) | Crushes |
Before I went to bed last night, my crush who shares mutual feeling for me said “Goodnight! Also I need to ask you something tomorrow. Please remind me when you see me!”
I told her goodnight, and said I’d remind her.
Then the next day I see her by her locker so I come up to her and said hey, you wanted to ask me something? She said she changed her mind about it and just stopped talking. What did I do wrong? | Crushes |
My friends tell me that when girls send you selfies, its a positive sign. Looking back, I've talked to a number of girls and some of them, the ones i could definitely feel that were also responding positively, did in fact send photos.
However, the pictures that the girl im into sends are more like a reaction to whatever we are talking about unlike the ones i've gotten before where they really take the time to pose and look cute.(the ones she sends are also cute but in a non tryhard way, ykwim?) She doesn't always do it but she does nonetheless.
This girl that i like and I are actually pretty close already and im afraid i might end up as just a guy friend at this rate so im gonna risk it for the biscuit but i'd really want to know my odds because this girl does send mixed signals and i wanna know if this particular signal is a good one if it is even one.
Even if the odds are low id do it regardless but man would be nice to know if theres hope somehow.
So can anyone confirm that sending photos is an actual good sign? If so do the ones sent by my crush count? | Crushes |
I never wanted him to find out on account he has a bf. But so many people knew and would hold it over my head. They would threaten me with telling him. We work together and basically the whole store knows.
My manager would hold it against me. “Oh you don’t wanna do what I say? Why don’t I give ____ a call?”. Like chill I was just joking.
Someone that doesn’t even work with us knows and kinda said it during a group outing. But the way she said it made her sound unsure so I was told he just rolled his eyes.
So one night I finally gave in and texted him. But surprise surprise he already knew. He said he walked by a convo he wasn’t supposed to hear one day and that’s how he found out.
It was embarrassing but at least he didn’t treat me any differently or stop talking to me bc of it. If anything it made him want to get to know me better and now we are good friends. And that’s all I wanted really.
So you could say it went well. After my confession when I get caught staring it isn’t a big deal bc he knows. | Crushes |
The past month has been very hard on me and honestly that sucks, but at least me finding all this out today doesn’t upset me too much since I feel numb | Crushes |
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hello everyone, how are you? look I have a big crush on a girl at school that I exchange glances with her sometimes, and I would like to meet her, be friends.
How am I going to talk to her?? I don't know her | Crushes |
So how often do you check your crush’s Spotify feed? 🤦♂️ | Crushes |
Safe to say i think ive fallen back in love with him
FU- | Crushes |
After leaving her valentines gift under her door, she messaged me to say thanks but unfortunately she isn’t interested but hopes we can stay cool.
I did thought this would happen but now all I can do now is let go. I’m glad I did it as well: instead of not telling her and spending my time thinking why I never told her I gave myself the closure I needed and took the necessary gamble.
If this was me 5 years ago or even 1 year ago, I would’ve stayed silent but now I know if you have feelings for someone just tell them you never know they might feel the same way and if they don’t well now you know, your changing so the next person you have feelings for might feel the same. | Crushes |
When you like this girl but you know you don’t have a chance with her at all but you still want to be try but whatever you do, you’ll still only be a friend, and you want to be happy with that but you’re still hurt from your last relationship and you want someone to love you again so the intrusive thoughts come back and you for whatever reason can’t just be fine with staying as friends?
I’ve lost count this happened with me and I don’t know how to fix myself | Crushes |
I proposed to her.
I had to meet her after our classes
She had went outside with her friends and my friend called her after our classes finished. She said that she's on her way returning, So we also went outside.
While walking I saw her from a distance. Now, my friend called her and I said hi from a distance. Now, she crossed the road. I said hey. I said I wanted to say something but, we were on the road. I told her it's weird to say here. She said say what you wanted to say it's ok. I said I wanted to confess something to you I like you since a long time she said I like you too (but as a person I don't remember if she said this there). I said can we be in a relationship or something?. She said I still haven't moved on from my ex and it takes me some time to do so... I said dont worry I can wait for you if you want to. But, she said It'll take me a lot of time. So, I said what should I do?
I've never been in a relationship. I said should I move on? She said yes move on it'll take me time... I said ok...
We'll stay in touch? She said yes...
Then she messaged me on WhatsApp after I left...
The said on the message
I'm sorry
Like you as a person and I didn't think about a relationship or anything with you..
I'm sorry if I hurt you..
I replied "It's ok". | Crushes |
Genuine question. I'm just curious.
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If someone is your ideal type, why would you only be able to see the person as a friend? What reasons are there? | Crushes |
I have his name on my call history. Im nervous because it’s my ex. | Crushes |
Hi all,
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I, (M, 28) am having trouble approaching this one girl at work who I assume is younger than me but not by much. She looks youthful but her energy and personality is daring, bright and very mature. I look at her all the time and I think she noticed because she added me on LinkedIn a month ago. And yet I still have trouble talking to her. I am in the office twice a week and she's always here when I am. How do I approach her without being a creep? Thnx. | Crushes |
me(16f) and this guy(17m) are sort of talking? i really don't know. we've known eachother online for almost 2 years and he liked me a lot when we first met and he started liking me even more after something happened a few months later but now im not completely sure if he still likes me. i think i like him but i'm also not sure about my feelings- were meeting up in la for a day in march, about 30 days away. recently he's started heavily teasing me about having a crush on him and loving him and things like that and i don't really know how to reply. i try to sneakily ask if he likes me but he never falls for it. but the main thing is, sometimes we'll be talking and just messing around and then he'll get annoyed or mad for no reason about something i did and i won't realize so i'll just continue messing around and make it worse- is there any way i can recognize these changes in mood faster? an example for context is last night when we were talking and going back and forth on me liking him and he said something and i said "nope" and he said "damm dry tonight huh" and i was saying its because hes saying ridiculous things, because i was still thinking we were messing around and he says youre just no fun, whatever goodnight(basically). and i didnt even realize his mood had changed until the goodnight message. am i the problem or is this just way smaller than im making it out to be? | Crushes |
yesterday my crush did reject me (kinda idk and i’m not like “over” him completely yet but i’m working on it)
but one guy who i have some periods with texted me and said he was sorry for his friend pointing at me and stuff in our last period
i told him it was fine and then asked him what they were talking abt- bc his friend is friends with my crush (i believe) and i thought they were talking abt that 💀
“ima be honest i thought you were pretty and they were messing with me”
🧍♀️🧍♀️ i was very surprised bc i actually thought he was cute but i didn’t rly have a crush on him bc i only crush on one person at a time for the most part
we started talking a bit and then he went to bed
i didn’t talk to him in class bc i have no idea what to do or say AND I FEEL BAD FOR COMPLETELY IGNORING HIM 💀💀
any advice? i don’t have a big crush on him but he seems really nice
idk if i should like tell him i’m sorry for ignoring him bc ion wanna seem clingy either
also he seems shy and introverted like me so that makes this harder 💀 but he also seems like me where he overthinks (like when he texted me abt his friend) so idk
W and L valentine’s day lmao | Crushes |
So basically I'm[20] in love with someone[24] online .I came across his fb profile in May 2022 and instantly had a crush on him and added him on fb then on snapchat after that he started texting me like [you're so beautiful, perfect...) and all that .But one day he texted me basically scolding me saying you're self obsessed childish for not concentrating on you're studies and for being too much online and removed me from snapchat now it has been 2 long months without texting him and I'm constantly 24*7 thinking about him missing him .so now what should I do ??? | Crushes |
(16f) Also this is from my friend, Kayla.
I have a crush. His name is called Alex P and I like him A LOT. I get really jealous when he talks to other girls and especially the one that I’m worried about. But that girl that I'm worried about is my best friend.
So I grew up fat, and I am still fat. I am very insecure and I’ve been counting calories since I was 8. I was also put on Weight Watchers for a little while. I hate my whole body.
I doubt that he will say yes because I’m fat and he probably likes the skinny, fit, and overall pretty girls. When I was like, 10 I wanted to smoke because I heard that it makes you lose weight. I have never been asked out before. And if I did get asked out, it was always a joke. The only people who like me are the unattractive, weird boys who are so annoying. I’m also planning to ask him out to prom. I just wish I was like my friends. I wish I could fit in.
So should I ask him?? Yes or no? | Crushes |
I might take some time from this subreddit, idk. This week is the worst by far, besides the stress of the tests and the excessive fatigue (physical and emotional), I managed to receive one of the worst "news" so far (I am waiting for a meteorite to fall on my head in the next few days just to complement it).
Yesterday, valentine's day, I didn't have any classes due to some tests, so I had almost the whole day at home explaining the content we'll need to know tomorrow (more info in my last post) to my classmates.
Today, in math class 3 students came to our classroom (I think they are part of the student council) to deliver a love letter (I don't know if it was anonymous) to my crush. The worst thing was that I DIDN'T KNOW THEY WERE DOING IT!
I'm sick of pretending it doesn't bother me and having to put a smile on my face when inside I'm dead.
I feel like shit, everything I've done so far to get any kind of approval just served to see how simp I was. I just want to go to bed and never leave, I lost interest in most of the things I used to like; music, my style, (...) . I'm still in the denial phase, I don't want to believe it. Today will be very hard because I have to help her and the others knowing that my head is as broken as my heart.
I asked what the letter was and she just said it was one from St. Valentine's Day, no more details (She was the only one who received one). I know it has nothing to do with me but I would love to see the face of the "dumbass" just to see what he has that I don't have. I have had my self esteem low (Thank god I was in the past), I can clearly see that I did everything and got nothing, just disappointment. sometimes being the most generous guy is not the right way to go, bad people always tend to live better.
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I will try to answer most of the replies, I will be less active in the sub, I am happy for everyone who achieved their goals but seeing a success right now only brings me bad thoughts. | Crushes |
I know the answer will be no. But anyway, I'll do it. I just want this silly crush to die. | Crushes |
So i have this crush on a girl . She is the most beautiful girl on earth . She is like a shot of espresso . Her voice is so beautiful and calm . She is in my class and she looked at me a couple of times so idk if she likes me or not maybe i am overthinking but i really want to talk to her . Can you please help me on how i approach her. She sits in the front row close to the teacher , so i cant say hi because it might weird out the teacher and when the class gets over her parents are already there to pick her up , leaving no time for me to talk to her . How do i approach her considering the fact that finals are near only 10 days left and she is a new admission in my tution . I have to do something in these 10 days otherwise i will regret it my whole life . Please help me | Crushes |
So this isn't actually a crush. More like a squish. Which has kinda died down because a squish means you want to be their friend but we are already . But anyways.
We've been friends for awhile. We met up on Valentine's Day which was a purely coincidental date because neither of us really cared. We ended up hanging out for like 6 hours and I didnt even notice it was late.
Somehow a topic came up and I told about the squish I had on them in the past. The thing about my squishes is that I'll really like the person a lot and a selfish part of me wants the person to like me back just as much. But squishes are not normal. So my hope was that I'm a bit more "special" than a normal friend.
Turns out my squish actually ever had a time where they were trying to figure out their feelings for me
I don't know what's the point of this. I'm just surprised that my squish felt this way. And I just wanted to talk about it. We agreed that we like how we felt similarly about each other and that we can stay good friends.
Feel free to ask anything | Crushes |
I want to let her know that I have a crush on her. Doesn't matter if I get rejected I just wanna tell her how i feel | Crushes |
So I’m in high school (year 12) and around a year ago I found my self constantly thinking about/ looking over at a girl in some of my classes. At the start I just thought she was really attractive but it slowly become a crush. I’ve never had any conversation with this girl btw but I just had a thing for her. It didn’t help that a friend of mine was into her as well so she would come up in conversation frequently, I would just listen to how much he likes this chick without saying how I feel about her. Anyway it’s current day and she’s become more of a obsession, like I can’t get her out of my dreams, my peripheral in class or my head. A more recent friend I’ve made is also friends with her and seeing them interact makes me jealous, and it hurts. I feel pathetic being so affected by a girl I’ve never talked to and I don’t really know what to do. Recently (this is probably the most shameful thing I’ve done) I came across her Spotify account and went through her playlist and this has made me massively alter the music I listen too, replicating some bands she likes. I know everyone who replies is gonna say “just ask her out”, which is probably the right thing to do, but I have a very low self esteem because I’m about 10kg overweight. I have this sort of delusional plan in my head that I’m gonna loose this weight, ask her out, and get the girl like some sort of movie, but even I know that’s unrealistic. Any advice from people who have been in my boat will be very appreciated and thanks for letting me vent. | Crushes |
It happened some weeks ago, but I can't stop re-living this moment in my mind:
\*me coming back to the class from the toilet, on my way back to my seat, wich was beside him\*
\-Him: Isn't that hoodie big on you?
\-Me: Not really, it's like that, and I like to \*tucks hands into the sleeves\* keep my hands inside the sleeves.
\-Oh, like that? \*does the same I did\* Like a t-rex?
\-Yeah, kinda.
And we both laughed, like how cuuuute was that. | Crushes |
the boys says she likes me, and its facts. now shes becoming my crush aswell. she’s beautiful, stupid, and annoying. thats how we treat each other :D | Crushes |
She tries to carry the messaging on when it's long done then she ghosts me for a few days, she wants to talk to me and tries to whrn she can then doesn't acknowledge me, she asks me when I can catch the bus with her but then jusr says maybe when I try to make plans, AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH | Crushes |
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Why would my crush (who is also my coworker) tell me that her brother is trying to match her with someone?
She only tells it to me. | Crushes |
For context, I (m18) fell deeply in love with a married woman in her 30's. She was my PT, and I slowly started developing a bond. For context, I had never felt this way for anyone in my life before.
We both used to flirt casually, and I decided to tell her how I felt since I thought I might've had a chance. I remember just gushing my feelings to her; she sat beside me and encouraged me to let everything out. I asked for her number, and she gave it to me and told me that we would meet in the future - I had told her about how I just wanted to meet her in the future, and I wasn't ready for a relationship now. We continued to see each other for a couple more sessions, and supposedly it wasn't allowed according to the patient-therapist ethics rules. I remember we both continued to flirt, and she told me during my last session when I explained how I couldn't look into her eyes and my heart was thumping, she turned around and started giggling and said, "omg, I have so much control over you." I don't know what's happening because she recently is on a one-month vacation with her partner. I don't know if she's leading me on; I am lost, and it makes me cry at night.
tl;dr - I fell in love with a married woman who was my physiotherapist. I just cant get her off of my mind, and everything reminds me of her. I genuinely feel like it's tearing me apart internally. I want to be with her one day and call her mines. | Crushes |
So long story (shorter) this chick i asked for her IG a few months ago at a club (she was a friend of the main girl i asked, and i saw her staring so i asked for hers too) followed me back recently and we have slowly swiped up on each others stories on IG.
Nothing over the top but just when we share similar likings to a post etc….
Well fast forward to this past weekend I was DRUNK & asked her if she was free vday to grab a bite to eat. I fell asleep and woke up to her response… i couldnt read it all due to me panicking and forgetting what i had even sent her last night. So many thoughts were running through my head but it ended up i just texted her “hey are u free tuesday to grab a bite to eat with me?”
She said a few things and said she was free and willing. (mind you we met once while drunk at a club but i thought she was very cute, however since she never followed me back till recently i didnt think i was going to pursue)
Well today was Vday and we met up like we planned and it was AMAZING. This chick checks all my boxes, our convo was great, not one dry moment (maybe it was the mimosas that helped LOL)
Shes literally perfect.
I texted her after saying “thanks for getting brunch with me” to which she responded:
“of course i had a good time w you”
“lets plan something soon (: “
My drunk self accidentally drunk texted her and it worked out, cannot believe it.
I cant wait till our next hangout, i genuinely like this girl and its so strange how it all worked out.
(oh yea she said she never remembered giving me her IG, and she followed me back cause she saw i watched her story) | Crushes |
They were very direct and honest with me about it, and explained why now wasn't a good time and why they thought it wouldn't be a good fit for me and why they didn't feel the same way. I'm glad at least to not be left in the dark and wondering if I did something wrong, as has been my experience with so many previous crushes, and we are still all friends so I can't really call it a loss in any real sense, but it still stings quite a bit. 💔
had to take today off and drowned my sorrows in chocolate and weed, but I'll live, knowing that I haven't lost a good friend and maybe now I can finally let myself relax a little when I'm around them next time
anyway. this was a throwaway account i made specifically for this group, so I guess this is peace out ✌️ | Crushes |
So I been seeing this girl at my gym for a while now but I have never talked to her ever tho. I’m new to the area I moved to California from Michigan and don’t really know anyone. So almost every day I’ll see this girl at the gym she look Asian but I think she’s filipino very beautiful but I’ve never seen her talk to guys at the gym so while I was on TikTok I found she page she’s TIKTOK FAMOUS with almost 1M followers and I seen on her instagram that she got a boyfriend and that made me fall apart and it looks like her dad owns a famous sauce company in California he’s verified and what’s kinda funny that we’re the same age she’s 18 and I’m 18 and it looks like that she’s exactly 1 months older then. something off topic I can bench 415 squat 520 and deadlift 615 but it’s hard for me to talk to a girl it’s crazy and I’m 6,2@ 245lbs
Some one please help me out RQ on advice | Crushes |
Honest to god i dont even know what to say just :) | Crushes |
Tomorrow I will make a move on my crush and hopefully she doesn’t reject me painfully Lmao wish me the best of luck 🙃 | Crushes |
Ok people, spill the tea cuz I am here for ittttt!!! | Crushes |
I have a friend I’ve known for awhile. The last few times we’ve hung out we make out. I want to do more but I’m not sure if he does? Do I just ask him or wait for him to make a move? | Crushes |
Maybe it's just the people I attract but every valentines they cant just ask and have to beat around the bush every time and I don't know what to say because I don't want to make them feel embarrassed so I kinda play along and it literally goes nowhere. | Crushes |
So, yesterday. Valentines' day.
The night before she asked me if I want to study with her in the early morning for a test later today. Which was weird considering that she's not as close to me as the others. But I took up the offer anyway.
She called me in the morning and just left the call on while we study. My wifi was dogshit though so I couldn't stay on for long.
Later she asked if I had this certain item (i have no idea what it's called in English), I said I did and I'd bring it to class for her. She responded with:
- "sweettt"
- "lovechu"
Okay this is where I started freaking out. It just came out of nowhere. She was probably just saying that as a way to say goodbye but like I'm still really happy either way. I smile like an idiot whenever I think of it.
Anyway, I'm really happy <3 feel like I actually have a shot now | Crushes |
Ok soo um I kinnda need help trying to find out if he likes me back because I'm stupid ok so heres some stuff (spelling is hard)
1.he calls me cute, Butafull, adorable, ect
2. He called me hot once I only count it cuz hedidn't take it back
3. He liked me about 1 month ago my cosiontold me he never did idk if he still does
4. He never wants to leave me
5. He said he loved me once idk if he ment it in that way tho
Plz help I have no idea I'm gay and stupid and I can't figure it out on my own | Crushes |
Recently, we became quite touchy with each other. Before the furthest we would go is i ask him for a hug and he would hug me. Now we start to intertwine our hands when we playfight, he start to put his arm across my shoulder when we joke, he would piggy back me, or pick me up jokingly. And he would do this thing where he holds both of my hands up into the air together to stop me from doing something. The other day, we were sitting next to each other and while i was teasing him, he will take his hand up to run down my hair reaching for my neck to tickle me (he knows im very ticklish). When i lie on a beanbag and lost my balance, i asked him to pull me up and instead he just lie right next to me. When he was lying on a bean bag, i pulled his hand trying to get him up. After a few unsuccessful pull, he pulled me down with him and even when i tried my best to not plant on his body i still land on his arm. Yesterday, i stood in front of him as both of us looking at our reflection when i tease him that i am as tall as him with my heels on. As i spoke, he would tease me and slowly runs his hand through my hair, combing it in hisbhand and gently pull it. And for some reasons i felt like that was quite sensual.
I am normally not comfortable with people touching me like that but i can feel some physical/chemical reaction in my body when he does things like this, esp when he pulled my hair from behind. He also told me that he is not a touchy person and he actually lacks physical affection from his parents. I know that he only became so physical with me but we are not even dating and my friends said it would be hurtful for me if i keep getting so attached to him like that. | Crushes |
I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yeah!! Holy shit😱 | Crushes |
Heyo!
To start, I wanted to wish you all a Happy Valentine's Day! Even if you do not have a significant other, I hope you had fun today, and if you do have one, I hope it was a special day! If it was not special, I hope this helps!
The r/Crushes staff has been maintaining a **Spotify playlist** which has been updated several times so please give it a listen if you are in the mood: [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7qQQRBkt52sWuHYQNgP8kD?si=0b51e91afb2e477b&nd=1](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7qQQRBkt52sWuHYQNgP8kD?si=0b51e91afb2e477b&nd=1)
*Please suggest any songs in the comments and I will try to update it now and then.*
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Hope y'all have a great day! | Crushes |
I assumed for several weeks now he's liked me but based on a convo in a gc with him he considers me and my friend very close, and this is his real personality instead of the fake school one. With that being said I enjoy his friendship very much and want to keep it but the feelings he shared I feel awkward liking him now. I got advised to tell him and ask if we can still be friends and I believe he'll be normal because he's a great guy. Any advice on how to get my thoughts across without making it seem pressured or like a fault to him? My friend says there's a small chance he might like me but to prepare to get rejected. I just don't want to make it awkward. Thanks if you read this :) | Crushes |
he asked me to be his valentine. he got me flowers and a sanrio plushie. then we went to the beach and walked on the pier🥹
i'm so so happy he's the first boy i've liked | Crushes |
Soooo basically this kid I like likes me back, however he can’t date until he’s 16 right. But the way I found out he liked me was through mutual friends idk if he knows that u know. He DOES know that I like his however. I asked one of my friends to ask him if he felt the need to talk to me about it, even though we can’t date I thought it should be acknowledged directly, he thought differently. Now he is acting more distant from me idk why. I also don’t know if this is just how he acts around his crushes, he’s usually very confident. Idk what up? Am I being dramatic? Help????
Side note I did tell his myself that I liked him a couple months ago, him liking me came up recently. | Crushes |
If you scroll on my profile you'll find a lot of posts about me saying how I don't like my guy bsf but I found out he likes me, etc... But I think I'm starting to like him again.
I liked him all of last year and then I just kinda stopped for a good few months, and now I think I like him again. The only problem is he's liked me the entire time and I have confirmation from a friend we share that he does like me. But that was a few weeks ago, and anything could have changed, so idk, this is just a dumb little rant.
I think I like him and I think I know he likes me? So why can't I just say something, it's valentine's day for crying out loud. He literally asked me for advice on how to reject her when one of my friends asked him to be her valentine, what does it mean 😭
Am I overthinking this? That happens. Should I say something or should I ask one of our mutual friends?
This has some really bad grammar I'm really rushing this and I'm too tired to give af tbh. Help?? | Crushes |
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This guy (m23) and I (f20) have been friends for a little over a year. I met him through a friend group that i no longer hang out with, but we still hangout and text. I realized I had feelings for him that weren’t strictly platonic at the end of my previous relationship and felt guilty and dirty even thinking that so I pushed it down. He got a girlfriend shortly after. After we had both moved into our own places, (I had separated from my ex and he had gotten approved to live off base) we started texting more but not hanging out as often. I kept my feelings secret and didn’t even tell my close friends until a few months later. Him and his girlfriend broke up (they were long distance and she ghosted him) and i stayed platonic. He still has no clue I like him. For a minute there work was really getting to him and he got super depressed and kinda cut everyone off, but i texted him every day/ every few days and reminded him to keep his head up and that we (our mutual friends) were there for him. after months of little to no contact he reached back out and explained he was in therapy now and he appreciated me reaching out ect. And we started hanging out again, not often but still. Today we played a game together (vrc/ smile room) it’s a virtual reality horror game, and i was fighting for my life the whole time. I wanted to tell him so bad but didn’t. I don’t want to sacrifice my friendship with him but i also hate keeping this secret. It feels like lying. I don’t know what to do. | Crushes |
Hello. Today in highschool, I embarrassed myself in front of my crush. I DO NOT want to get too much into the details because I cringe just thinking about it. Now, I know that embarrassing yourself in front of your crush (or in front of anyone in general) will not matter in 10 years. But, I still feel like shit. Can you guys please advise me by reassuring me that all will be fine? I really really need to hear it right now. Thank you in advance. | Crushes |
In person, things are great...we laugh together and it's just a vibe. She's shy though and she told me when I got her # that she doesn't like texting. We've talked a little over text a few times but not much (I try not to text her often because she said she doesn't really like it). The last time I texted her a few days ago she left me on read (but I guess it wasn't something that really needed a response?) and then today I randomly ran into her and her family so I decided to try again and texted her a question related to what we talked about and she hasn't opened it.
Is this my fault/should I just expect this given what she said? I personally feel really rude ignoring a text but maybe that's just me. In my brain if she was interested in me at all she'd get back to me but maybe that's not the case? I'm willing to accept that I just shouldn't text her but idk that just seems weird to me. Y'all lmk what you think...again even if I'm the problem idc just tell me | Crushes |
The story is that we met, I thought he was weird but found to like him a lot after doing the deed. He saw me consecutively for 4 days and we had fun for 4 days until he stopped on day 5, he said he just wanted to be friends and does not know what he wants, I don’t either, and I’m not asking for a boyfriend but I really enjoyed his company, plus one day we went out and he got really sick and I took care of him.
Now after weeks I just can’t stop thinking about him, we still talk almost everyday, and he sends me memes treats me to dinner, and it makes me feel he really likes me. I am not sure what I did wrong, I just told him I wanted to him seeing him only, he declined…and he tells me he is dating other girls. It hurts a lot and I’m glad to have him as friend but I still really like him and want more. I’ve already talked to him how much I care for him and like him, but it feels like too much. I always feel heartbroken. What should I do…should I not be his friend right now? | Crushes |
Tomorrow I'm rejecting this woman from my college because of a lot of reasons, but mostly because I already said no in no uncertain terms and yet she continues to push for something I don't want. I've never had to turn someone down like this and I have a lot of empathy for the rejectors now. I know how hard it is being rejected, but now I understand there's a lot of uncomfortable feelings that lead up to rejecting someone. If someone rejects you, it's okay to feel hurt but please respect their wishes. It puts them in a very awkward and bad situation if you don't. | Crushes |
I was so excited to see if my crush sent me anything for Valentine’s and I had this whole fantasy of finally knowing whether he likes me, but I accidentally gave my literal nemesis the wrong idea with a gift I sent to embarrass him and now he won’t stop flirting and calling me cute hELP
(And I didn’t even talk with my actual crush much, further more find out if he likes me 😭) | Crushes |
They got me a rose in my favourite colour.
Then in the note it said something about me being pathetically single, like them, and ended in better luck next year bro. We’re friends, but i know they definitely have closer friends, but they all got candy instead, and i was the only one who got a flower? But then for the rest of the day they were kinda cold towards me and didn’t talk to me as much as they usually do other than complain about being single and gush about their new crush that they regret not confessing to. (we don’t see each other every day anymore because we don’t have any classes together)
Also it is good to note that every time someone asks if we’re together or tells us we should get together their face contorts and they reject very quickly with ew no wtf. And damn it stings.
Thus the confusion. I’m so fucking confused. I have no idea how they feel about me as a love interest or as a person. | Crushes |
it's been months and i still can't stop thinking about this guy. i'm an undergrad and i see him around a lot because he's a law student and he's frequently in the same building i'm in. the first time i saw him i didn't think much of it, but then all of a sudden i started constantly thinking about him. i thought about him every day, which was strange because i knew nothing about him except what he looked like. fast forward three months, i get the courage to message him on instagram. we talked for a little bit and he seemed interested, but then he just ghosted me after i told him i wasn't a law student like him. ever since then i still think about him a lot, and i get nervous when i see him in person. i still thought about him when i got into a relationship as well. i genuinely don't know what it is about him that makes me keep thinking about him, and it's made me wonder if he manifested me to be obsessed with him or something. it's a wild thought since he ghosted me, but i am genuinely so lost about this and i wonder if anyone here has any thoughts about this. | Crushes |
I had it fucking planned out. She took the path to her next class that would allow me to make my move. Why the fuck did I not do anything? | Crushes |
SHE SAID SHE LIKES ME BACK. THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR ALL YOUR HELP. | Crushes |
why the fuck does this happen with me | Crushes |
he posted her
he asked her out they're official | Crushes |
He started texting me first two days on a row and we both said how we really like talking to each other and kept sending flirty texts and then today I texted him and he’s been completely dry and seems totally uninterested. What does this mean? | Crushes |
Welp my story is (sorry for any mistakes i am from brazil and my english its just "decent") We are friends for around a year now and that year i liked her a lot but she had a girlfriend and that same girlfriend breaked up with her in the end of the year and after that she tryied to hit on me when i was already like "i dont care anymore" and wanted to be just friends for 2 reason
1. She just stopped friendzone me when her breaked up with her girl
2. I was truly not that interrested anymore
But she was persistent and after a month when we got to go back to school we started to flirt in the classroom and when we was going back to home i kissed her before we go... (but you think thats A win right?) No now we got a distance and i know she wanna talk with me and me with her but its strange i think i just destroyed a good friendship or not i dont know i am gonna try to make a move on her tomorrow wish me lucky guys. | Crushes |
I cant let this crush fester, i cant keep fancying my manager but I cant help it, I made another post gushing about why i like him, and I like him a lot. But i know i shouldn’t. I dont know what the hell to do im an adult yet i feel lost like a little kid. He gives me just enough of a signal where I wonder, but not enough to do anything im in a limbo. And i cant keep listening to (take a chance on me by abba) as a way to cope im losing my mind | Crushes |
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