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We were talking about some random stuff and all of a sudden she said that we should squash together sometime.
So I quess that it is some sort of date.
I'm very happy about this. | Crushes |
I have a guy friend who I'm gonna call "A". Up until now I never really saw him as more than a friend but he came over on Saturday with his family, alot happened so I'm not gonna get into details but I was crying a lot and he kept hugging me and talking me through things(we've never hugged until then). Now since then we've been snapping and he wants me to go to the movies with him(not a date, his brother will be there and my friend will be too). He always says good night to me and snaps me a lot throughout the day. He also tells me when he's not gonna be able to snap me and told me to text him if I even need anything. We snapped a lot today and for around an hour until now we were snapping half and full faces and both of us were smiling. Only problem with me liking him is his whole family and mine know I used tolikee his older brother, and so does he. So even if he likes me, he probably won't even tell me. | Crushes |
Been wanting to do this!! （っ＾▿＾） | Crushes |
Me and my crush have been talking for awhile and she’s usually pretty good with responding back, but this week I’ve noticed she’s been really slow to respond to me. In fact, it’s like we’ve been snapping every 3 hours. I know she’s not obligated to respond to me, I get that. It just feels weird because this is rare of her. Like now, she’s seen the memes I posted I’m on my story, but I’ve been on delivered for 2 hours. Did I do something wrong, or am I just overthinking it? She’s told me in the past she likes me but sometimes I feel like she doesn’t and that I annoy her. What do I do if this continues happening? | Crushes |
alrighty so despite pretty much all of my friends and a few of his who more or less ship us, i still feel some sort of doubt?? i really have no idea what to make of it, but heres a (condensed to save braincells) list of some major happenings and such:
\- we only started talking around a month ago even though we were in the same class since the beginning of the year. this also only happened because my teacher brought a piano into the room one day (extra cred assignment) and as piano kids are as drawn to pianos as they are to each other, thats how we met. i sent him a discord dm after class but didnt say who i was, just a playlist of classical piano, though he responded with "omg is this 'chopinlisztvp' ?" and we kinda hit it off from there
\- we pretty much talk everyday online, though im the one initiating. he initiates more when we're at school though, and is usually the one to come up to me or call out to me when he sees me.
\- we traded books with each other, and he’s also really hooked on this browser game I play that no one else would think is fun (Fallen London)
\- during february break i asked him to come study with me and two other friends (well acquaintances for him, btw these two just got together) at the library, one of them was busy and the other left after half an hour so that just left me and him together. we ended up talking more than actually doing work but I helped him catch up with classnotes since he was out sick for a week
\- we had a class trip to a museum (pretty big event, may make seperate post) but summed up we sat next to each other on the bus ride and explored the museum together (former was me asking him under the guise of doing work together, and then i conveniently forgot to pack my computer, latter was him asking me if i had a map, which i did and he said that he'd follow me then) while a mutual kinda third-wheeled (same mutual had asked him to sit with them on the bus for the whole trip apparently, but he decided to sit with me instead :0 )
\- he used to sit in the back of the class but the day we got back from the trip I (and a friend too when we were at school) suggested that he come sit up front with the rest of us. Which he did, though for the first two days he seemed a bit hesitant
\- recently ive been asking him to hang out after school (or my friends would also sometimes: "hey come to the \_\_\_, 'chopinlisztvp' is there"), he accepts every time unless hes busy
\- his friends called me over in the halls during break a few days ago and asked if i wanted to go somehwere with them during break, and also said "i think 'crush's name' would want you to go" while he was right there in front of them (he had his back turned to me when they were saying that but went "WHAT" ) oh also we were walking to class together and his friends came along and kinda crowded us so theres that too
\- my friend said that he seems genuinely happy when he’s around me at school and is also “more chill and less goofy” compared to when he’s with his friends
\- he gave me his CHATGPT logins and said not to use it on Netflix so I’m assuming he basically doxxed himself
that’s about everything I can think of for now, and because I don’t want to clog this post. though here’s a few things that make me doubt he likes me:
\- as I said before, he basically never initiates texting first, but he always responds. and very quickly, but I dunno everytime we text it’s cause I sent it first
\- my friends (and you could say he’s starting to be friends with them too) always go “w rizz” and the like when they see us together, for the most part he just ignores them. When they’ve asked him directly if he likes me or not, he’d say “no” or that he just doesn’t like anyone at the moment
\- uhhh I guess he doesn’t stare at me or whatever I dunno man like the cliche signs aren’t exactly there
If there’s more, I’ll put in comments. Feel free to ask me any questions too!! Thanks for reading
TLDR: a list of signs and events that may hint to my crush liking me but I have no clue | Crushes |
from your personal experience, do feelings for your crush last long? or is it more of a fleeting thing? | Crushes |
Me and him have been texting a lot this weekend after he came to see a show I was in, and I didn’t have to put a lot of effort into keeping the conversation going! Also, yesterday he texted me he was somewhere and didn’t want to be there at all, so I invited him to my place and he immediately jumped at the opportunity. Nothing happened when he came, of course, but it was nice hanging out with him. | Crushes |
I told him to change his profile picture to a certain picture of him and he said “ it’s definitely a possibility “ and proceeded to change it to that picture! I know I’m looking too far into it but mannn the way this man has my whole heart ♥️ | Crushes |
I had my first crush when i was like 5 didn't know shit about intercourse and wasn't attracted to her figure it was just a pure love kinda thing so yea.
One day she went and sat with her friend she used to sit with me and i was a crybaby till like i was 13 so yea i started crying because she wasn't sitting with me then the class teacher asked what happened and why was i crying and i was too embarrassed to say it's because she didn't sit with me so i just said i didn't like the sandwich my mom gave me and my class teacher started saying that the sandwich is really good and my mom makes good sandwiches (she was close friends with my mom) and then after the lunch break i told the class teacher that my crush changed seats and she had to sit on the which was (dun dun dun dun dun dun) with me. | Crushes |
i was in a emotionally abusive situationship. during that i met a guy(S) with whom i often thought "why isn't my situationship like him", and started feeling comfortable around new guy. got to the point where i smile when his name pops up on my phone.
anyway, situationship ended(i ended it because i couldnt deal with him not committing and emptionally cheating and me not being allowed to express myself), i got my heart broken.
i talked to my friends individually about it wnd they all basically said "now you can finally date S" and it kind of made me blush? found out all of our friends are rooting for us to get together, they say we look like were really into each other and one friend accidentally said "S wanted to hit on you but he found out you are into someone else and stopped"
and i feel very blind? do we really have so much chemistry? i feel like on one hand, this feels like a crush is creeping in. it really feels like one. on the other hand, im afraid this is just rebound bc the heartbreak is very fresh and i dont want to hurt S because he is an absolute angel and is so many things i always looked for in a person. i even compared my situationship to him and wondered why that isnt like S.
i cant stop thinking about S. i feel like im not burdened by the situationship anymore and i can daydream about S. i smile thinking about him, i get so happy when i get attention from him even if its something very silly.
S knows there's no situationship anymore as well. not sure if hes still interested in me or not though and i have no idea how to subtly test the waters... | Crushes |
theres this guy i started playing games with since September along with other friends. i was intimidated by him at first but i warned up to him quite quick. hes so goofy and incredibly kind and patient. andoh my god his laugh. he is quite softspoken but when he gets a good laugh out it has this raspy sound to it? its so pleasant to hear.
i just thought i vibe well with him as a friend but as time went on i caught myself smiling when i saw his name pop up, or when he started liking my selfies and its so silly but i really start feeling butterflies in my stomach. i love spending time with him, hes a lot of fun. he even laughs at my horrible dadjokes. and oh man. his smile. i cant look away.
im starting to feel like a teen again, i feel so alive and happy!! | Crushes |
My crush and I have been chatting over text for like 3 hours in a pretty flirty way! I have a class where I sit next to her tomorrow, big progress! | Crushes |
Don’t know if this is the right place to write this but I really just wanted to put it somewhere.
I (27f) randomly keep thinking about this guy from almost 10 years ago. I was a low-income girl of color at a predominantly white private high school. I didn’t get bullied or anything. There were some offensive things here and there but nothing traumatic thankfully. I definitely had a harder time connecting with people because of my identity and because a lot of the students grew up together as well, but there was this one guy that always showed kindness to me. Our freshmen year, he wasn’t attractive in an obvious way. I remember he was still in his young, baby fat phase. We had a few classes together and even though we never really talked, we knew about each other. Not sure if that makes sense. Whenever we would cross paths in the halls, we would always acknowledge each other with a nod or a smile. I would do this only with a few other people, mostly my few friends and a few random girls that were nice to me. He was the only guy I would say hi to really. Every time I would see him approaching, my heart would skip a beat and I would always start thinking about changing my direction but knowing that I would always see his nice eyes and smile would push me forward. He was also an AMAZING cello player. I still have one of the pieces he played in saved to a playlist (not because of my crush. It was a real good piece. ‘St. Paul’s Suite, Op. 29 No. 2’ for anyone interested). Every so often when I listen to the song, I remember how cool he sounded in it.
By the time we got to our senior year, he had gotten taller and a bit more fit. His kind eyes never changed. We still had the same relationship of saying hi to each other despite having less classes together over the years. That year I joined band (not orchestra) to pick up an easy class so we would still cross paths often at the music building. I didn’t realize I liked him until he started dating someone else our senior year. I found out randomly and remember feeling sad about it. Sometime before prom he ended up being single again. Even then, I didn’t approach him. Although I had gained some confidence and self-assurance in high school, I still had zero game in dating so I didn’t even consider asking him out then. We graduated and never saw each other again.
Today, I have no idea why, but I still think about him. I never told my high school friends about my crush (I didn’t really trust them with that info for other stupid reasons). I still have him as a friend on Facebook but his account hasn’t been active in years (granted, mine hasn’t either). I haven’t found him on any other social media. Part of me wonders if he already got married, has a serious relationship, moved away, or even if he died (there is no evidence of this but shoot why can I find everyone else from school online but not him??). I’m still not the best at dating but now, if I were to ever see him again, I would ask him out immediately. In the dating app I use, I always wish that his face would come up so I can finally make my move.
…I think that’s enough. If you’ve read this far, thanks for taking your time to read my story! Our 10 year reunion is coming up… Maybe I’ll go to see if I run into him? | Crushes |
so theres a guy at my job that showed interest in me. he texted me a couple of times and i did replied back, but he would leave me on read. like he would react to my responses, but would never reply back. I assumed he might have forgotten so i sent him a funny video and he reacted to it, but didn't reply. Now i'm not sure if he actually likes me or not, which sucks. pretty fucking bad actually.
i met him around december of last year, but i didn't get to talk to him until febuary. he actually came to talk to me first and spent his entire shift talking to me. this was odd bc he is actually a shy prson and doesn't really talk to people. i didn't know that at the time so i was suprised when my coworker told me that about him.
I can tell he might like me and now i'm starting to like him or think about him a lot more than i should. And i know i'm starting to have a crush on him bc today i was constantly waiting for him to talk to me. eventually he did and i could not stop smiling like an idiot. i was actually trying to walk away from him bc i can't stand myself when i act like that, but he was pushing to talk. i really feel bad now. he is a pretty shy person and it seems like its hard for him to talk to people, but at the same time, i'm not sure if he's actually interested. i just wanna know what you guys think about this. | Crushes |
At work today she called me her favorite co-worker and a friend but she smiles whenever she sees me but she never reads my messages. And she doesn't say anything about it when I see her. I'm so confused 😕. Sry bout the rant I just have no one to talk to about this and I know I'm probably over thinking about it | Crushes |
Lets call him Reese. I honestly didn't think much about him when we first met, in fact it took me a while to learn his name cause I didn't notice him. But then he started giving me nicknames, telling me to look at the fat on his stomach, asking me who my "boy toy" was. Then I had a class with his friend, where we were sitting at the same table, and I mention how everyone had a crush on this one guy the year prior, and the friend asks me "even you?" and I was like "everyone did", and then the friend asked "who do you have a crush on now? " and I reply no one, and he says "what?!? not even Reese?" and I said no cause why tf would I disclose that information to his friend. Then in a class we had together he yelled loudly "\[my name\] , just admit that you love me". Then in another class his other friend said "I think \[insert my name\] has been a naughty girl, Reese why don't you handle her." (This is a watered down version of that was actually said) and I didn't even know how to respond to that. And then, not his direct friends, but some girls I guess that were in his sphere left a 2 min voicemail on my phone putting on a horrible "guy" voice pretending to be him saying he was in love with me. Once I was ignoring someone's question and then the person was like "she's not responding, reese why don't you ask her" And then bc of all this stuff I actually did get nervous around him but everyone was still so convinced that it was \*me\* who was obsessed with \*him\* even though I was never the one initiating talking to him. | Crushes |
Is it like a trend now ? | Crushes |
I feel cursed or something. No matter how romantic things seem somehow I just have the wrong idea everytime. It happens so often.
So this girl sent me a love letter/story she wrote. It kinda sounded like it was about me. She was even saying stuff like “I sent a love letter to my crush and let him read it”,after she let me read it so I thought it was maybe about me. Reminded me of when people say “im talking to my crush right now ;)”
So I worked up the courage to ask if it’s about me. Silly me for thinking it could be about me, of course she was talking about her other crush.
Idek anymore. I’m just exhausted, everytime it seems something good is finally happening it just goes downhill. There’s always someone else or idk. This same stuff always happens. This happened before with my ex who was talking about moving in together and all that ended up being a bunch of nothing too. I feel I can’t trust my own heart. | Crushes |
I been getting to work a little late and I just realized this girl from my part time job has been waiting for me it seems in the parking lot, then when I get in and to my cubicle she comes in about 2-3 min after me, even though when I drive in she was already here and car was parked. I thought I was over thinking but then it happened again today that's the third time, then walks in through the door by my desk just to walk past me and look at me when she thinks I'm not looking. The other day she was walking up the stairs and I was in breakroom and she tells me she thought I was here, I could smell my Cologne from down the stairs, complimenting me on my scent. Is she obsessed with me or am I over thinking things? She seems to be timing her break time with mine just to be able to walk past my desk and stare at me when she thinks I'm not looking, as I caught her a few times and she turned her head away looking at a wall as she walked past. I know she's shy does she just want me to just approach her and ask her out or do she just want to admire me from a distance only. | Crushes |
I’m naturally curious, when I text my girlfriend and she texts sort of dry Im always wondering if she doesn’t want to talk or if thats just how she texts. The thing is, she isn’t at all like that IRL, she’s laughing and smiling and having fun and stuff like that, so she’s not dry in real life, just over text. Im curious about this can y’all give me your thoughts or some advice? Kinda sucks because I like talking to her but it seems like she doesn’t want to sometimes. | Crushes |
I want to talk about him, but no one in my life actually wants to listen. | Crushes |
man i feel so unbelievably delusional rn. i’ll think of an interaction and go absolutely feral about it for hours. ex. he let HOLD HIS BAG TO SEE HOW HEAVY IT WAS AND IT WAS HEAVY WHICH MEANS HE WAS TECHNICALLY SHOWING ME HOW STRONG HE WAS (he definitely wasn’t) | Crushes |
OMG OMG OMG! My crush acutely said he liked me back! And not to long ago I made a post talking about how he slow danced with me at the school dance! My friend Lily (not actual name) texted him asking if me and him were like a thing now and he said that he liked me but wasn't ready for a relationship. And my friend Lily used to date him, (don't worry SHE broke up with HIM and she is totally fine with it) and he said that after what happened with him and Lily, we just wanted to take a little break first. IM SO RELIVED!!! | Crushes |
In September, I briefly met a guy in this meetup group who I thought was cute. I didn't see him again for a while and forgot about him until the holidays, when Hinge repeatedly showed him to me as "most compatible." Since then, I've become a lot more aware of his presence than I otherwise would've. I noticed initially that even though we were with mutual friends, he'd barely acknowledge me unless I spoke to him first. There was one time I caught him looking at me from over his shoulder; I waved and he waved back and I could tell he wouldn't have done anything if I didn't. I figured this was because he didn't know me well, but he'd be pretty outgoing with other new people, which made me feel he wasn't interested in talking to me.
Then, a few weeks ago, he become much more friendly, replying to whatever I said to the group. I eventually asked him what he did, turns out he's in an industry my brother is applying for, and he offered to refer him. I later mentioned wanting to try this restaurant and he said him and a few others were planning on going, you should join, what's your Instagram?, and added me to their gc. Might be important to note that he's not the type to ask everyone for their ig and not all our mutual friends are in this gc. He also tried to persuade me to go clubbing with him and the others there, when the topic came up and I was on the fence. I did end up going and at the pregame, he tried a few times to converse with me (someone else would always jump in) and would laugh/joke a lot. I mentioned how I would've loved to go to Coachella this year, since there's gonna be a lot of r&b artists I like going, but can't. He replied that r&b was his fave genre so if the Coachella lineup next year is similar, we should go together and high-fived me when I said yes. At the club, I joked about we got in for free because of me and he said he'd buy me a drink to show his appreciation. We didn't interact for the rest of the night, though I saw him staring at me. It might've been because I was dancing with a few people, but he would just talk to others.
The next time I saw him, I was expecting us to continue where we left off. He looked at me a couple times from across the room, but we were both talking to others. When we were eventually in a group together, it felt like he was looking at/talking to everyone except me. He didn't acknowledge me at all. I was disappointed until earlier this week, when a friend gave us a ride home after a concert. We were both in the back; the window foggy so he drew a smiley face. I drew a circle around it to make a head and that led to this game of us taking turns adding details. We were laughing the whole time and he even took a picture of the final drawing and later restarted the game. I realized during too that he seems to speak in a softer/lower tone to me than with others, though I could be overthinking that.
Some of my friends outside the group think there's something there. I can't say I completely disagree, but I'm worried that since this meetup group is meant for finding friends and not dates, he wouldn't think of me in that way. I'm also the type of person who always questions if someone is just being friendly. What signs should I look out for and is there anything I should be doing? | Crushes |
Sorry for the long question! I'm really trying to work this out and I really can't tell if this guy likes me, I need your advice :)
I’ve had a friend, we’ve been close for a long time now, but the last month or so I saw a complete shift. I’d liked him for a while, but I always found him so difficult to read, but recently I’ve really started to think he has feelings for me too. Subtle things, like suddenly adding hearts to texts, calling for hours each day just to tell me how his day was/vice-versa, saving nice pictures of me in chat on Snapchat, going out just the two of us. It’s got to the point where I keep thinking something is going to happen between us but we’re both too shy to say anything. I’ve asked if he’d ever be confident enough to admit feelings for someone, and he said he wouldn’t be brave enough.. do you think I ask if we’re just friends? I don’t even know how to word it, but it really feels like he has feelings for me? | Crushes |
On a scale from Yes to No, what do you think are your chances of being with your crush. Also please add your gender, i'm trying to do an experiment and need a lot of information. | Crushes |
For some reasons im sure he Will never like me(its objective truth at this point) . And it breaks my heart seeing him . Knowing i liked him alot for almost 2 years . Its torture :( | Crushes |
I used to have a crush on a friend of mine she rejected me and I got over it. Fast Forward to 3 years later I always have friendly flirted with her over the years but nothing serious. But for the past 2, I started to heavily flirt with her months and she has been way more accepting of it. Man here we go again. | Crushes |
long story short i once rejected a guy years ago, years later we reconnect again and apparently still had something going on for me , complimented me, saying sweet things. well i fell for him. kissed him anddddd well he changed completely. crushed me completely. we work together so i have to tolerate his presence. we havent spoke about whats going on im just ignoring it but yeah im sad lol oh the irony | Crushes |
So I'm a junior in high school, and I have a friend, who I'll call K to protect her privacy. She's in the grade below me, and both of us met last year in a class we both took.
So I have been rejected before, it wasn't the greatest feeling, but I moved on, cause I knew that I couldn't keep clinging onto that girl. It'd come off as creepy. So K and I are sorta close, but she's done some stuff that she doesn't do to anyone else
For starters, she's smiling almost all the time we see each other. I'm the first one she asked when she needed help studying for a English quiz, which I did end up helping with. Whenever she got a answer right, she took the chance to punch/slap me in the leg playfully, which I found to be quite amusing. Whenever I have off time with her, she always invites me to sit with her, even though her friends are there with her also.
Instagram really seemed to be the place where I was getting this vibe that she liked me. She liked all my posts, and commented on them also. On those occasions she would DM me asking about something, and more recently she started to comment on my stories as well, rather enthusiastic comments I must admit.
We don't really talk at school anymore, cause our teacher switched desks so we were on the opposing side of the room, but she gives me a glance or two on the occasion we make eye contact. I know these things may come off as rather normal, but I don't know. I'm getting this feeling that she likes me in some way. Does she like me? Or am I becoming way too desperate and all the signs are just normal friend behavior? | Crushes |
This is not a crush by any means. I don’t like posting on here but I just need to vent. I like this subreddit and how they treat other posters.
I stopped talking to this guy a few days ago until he messaged me again two days later. He randomly asked me if I wanted to come over to his stupid place for a hook up. I wasn’t into the idea but I played along. I knew I was either going to get disappointed or put on “hold”. I assumed all his other hook ups declined him.
It was dumb. I knew what I was getting myself into and it was dumb. He was being weird. I didn’t think it would get this messy and ridiculous. I didn’t put high expectations as if he’d actually commit but I played along.
He told me the time, his location, room number and all the other things I needed to know. I played along but I didn’t put my plans aside for him- for this. He was telling me to book an Lyft for 30 bucks. It was appearing to me that he wasn’t as into as he should’ve been? It’s hard to explain. Despite him making all the plans he wasn’t “there”- “into it”. It was weird yk?
Could any guy explain this? I felt like he wasn’t gonna commit and I was right. The next day he called in a “rain check” a few hours before the time of my departure to his place and basically came up with a way to keep me on my toes. It was stupid and it all felt like a stragteic big plan he had. He made some excuse saying he has to “study”. Idk if he was just roleplaying orrrr…
I basically would’ve had to put MY plans on hold and my friends’ cuz they were going to give me a ride and he didn’t seem to care at all. But I didn’t put my plans on hold for him. Thank god I didn’t. And did he Neither care about the fact I’d be dishing out 30 bucks for him just for him to cancel? He’s lucky I wasn’t in the middle of the drive and I was still at home. He’s messing with me but he’s doing too much. Is this role play??
After he cancels I just chat like nothing happened. I’ve been trying to control, frustration and lower me expectations with him which has been fine. But as we were chatting next thing ik he sends me a question “wya” in the middle of our convo that I assumed wasn’t for me because he just called off US meeting. so what the fuck? I asked him what? Because I wasn’t sure that was for me. I wish he unset the message if it wasn’t for me. He said “nothing” so I figured it wasn’t for me. My blood boiled. Craziest scenario. He invited someone ELSE over. Fucking bitch.
Then he he made jokes about me coming over to see him despite him calling off the chance of us meeting. Who does that?? Is he teasing me? Was he mocking me? Trying to piss me off?? Because after that the vibe COMPLETELY shifted. It shifted too much. There was this nagging feeling I couldn’t shake.
He must be bored or something cuz that’s pathetic. Imagine inviting someoen over, calling it off just to joke about how they wish that ur with them. That’s unchecked psychotic behavior. Role play is one thing. But this? No. | Crushes |
I started a new job and now I have a new crush lol. He’s talked to me a couple times before but I didn’t have a conversation with him but I want to try talking to him tomorrow and asking his name. I didn’t even hear him the first time he told me.
I’ve never talked to any of my crushes before and I want to actually have some sort of back and forth irl and not in my head lmao. I just think he is cute. I don’t know anything about him at all.
Guys I’m scared though. | Crushes |
Hi im 22f and have a crush on a girl 19f. We met at my current job and only talked a couple of times before she came up to me and told me she put in her two weeks because of school and how the job wouldn’t schedule her around her school. We added eachother on sm, but never actually talked since we both was busy. I remember posting a selfie on ny story and she called me beautiful and cute. We again haven’t spoke since that interaction. Yesterday 3/18 she msg me to see how i was doing and we had a small conversation. She asked me to hangout and get boba, i said yes but that was 5hrs ago and im waiting for a msg. I’m nervous. She is my first long term girl crush as ive liked other girls but those never lasted more than a day lol. I’m hoping she responds. | Crushes |
K so basically I'm in this IT/engineering uni class and each person sits at a monitor. There's this rlly cute n charismatic guy who peeks at me past the monitors a bunch. He always looks so intense and deep in thought which is kinda unlike him?
Tbh I didnt even notice him at first. I originally thought "oh maybe he's looking at the girl in front of me", but he does it regardless of whether she's there or not? It's kinda strange, we've never interacted and there's nobody behind me so I'm a bit befuddled lol
Has anyone had a similar experience ?? | Crushes |
Ok so I'm talking to this guy, and i low-key like him
And he's so straight forward. Like I've never been with a guy that's so bold, so yk... STRAIGHT FORWARD.
LIKE WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??? it's like he's not scared
wtf is that good or bad.
Does that mean he's done this several times orrr??? | Crushes |
(English is not my first language so sorry for my spelling and grammar.)
I started to develop a crush on my tutor. We are both in twenties. We are both single (we talked about our dating life because I was upset because I got dumped by my girlfriend and he tried to comfort me). He is really kind and funny. I find it easy to open up to him (I usually don’t open up to people). It doesn’t help that he calls my by my nickname. Or uses 😉 when we exchange texts (I know it means nothing but still bothers me).
I need to stop these feelings because
1. I’m not good at hiding my feelings
2. He is my tutor and I want to keep things as professional as possible
3. I don’t want to change tutor because I enjoy working with him (and not only because of the crush)
(Ps.: if you see this (my tutor) and realise that I wrote it about you I’m so sorry.) | Crushes |
She’s seeing a guy yet hugs me and does that thing where the girls arms go around you neck. huh. | Crushes |
Seems fun enough yeah? | Crushes |
She gave me her number when I asked her after I’d been dming her for a month on instagram. I hadn’t texted her in a week, so I texted her if she’s doing anything with her family because when I talked to her at lunch, she mentioned being with family over the weekend, and she said sorry I didn’t see your text and people are coming over and she asked me what I’m doing, then I said I’m going to church tomorrow and I should probably go to sleep, she asked me if I’m gonna sleep, I said I can stay up a little bit, she said I’m sleepy so I think I’ll sleep in a bit, then I texted and said good night and she said good night and sweet dreams. It was so cute seeing that good night and sweet dreams text so does she like me or not? | Crushes |
i’ve talked to them before but not enough to get to know them properly. but from sometimes talking we went to no talking in the past year and i was never that close to them to begin with. is it possible i like them? or am i just having one of those boredom crushes?
more importantly, should i try to act on it if i do like them? i feel like ive scrolled their socials so much it’d be awkward to have a conversation. | Crushes |
We had s*x for the first time a few days ago and it was pretty good for me but he couldn’t really get fully hard that easily and he also came pretty quickly (like only after a couple minutes) so i assumed he wasn’t that into it and just wanted it to be over with. But he keeps texting me how good it was and that he wants to hookup again and that i make him so horny and he can’t stop thinking abt me. I’m confused why wouldn’t he get hard easily if he thought it was that good? sorry for the vulgarity i’m just curious | Crushes |
Or someone that doesn’t talk at all ? | Crushes |
I got to know her 1½ months ago and I still don't know if I like her.
She is in the same school as me and my friends and her friends got together so that we could meet. We are texting nearly every day since and we know a little about eachother now.
She is a very cute person and looks pretty good. And since I meet her my life has also became surprisingly good. Don't know if it's the motivation I got from meeting her but everything just works out right now.
But there are few problems that I can't overcome. I think off her every day and I love it when we text. When I see her in school I see her staring at me and love it. When I look back she gets red and tries to look away and shit. But that one time I tried to talk to her she seemed so uninterested.
We also had some deeptalks, well deepchating, and she seemed to trust me very much. But I can't help that feeling that she's so fucking shy and still uncomfortable when we are chating or seeing eachother.
I asked her friends and they said that she is indeed pretty shy but at the same time I see how she speaks to other boys with full confidence.
I don't like the state that we are in; this chating got kinda boring and I am sick of it. But everytime I make an step towards her it seems like I get back 2 steps.
I also have major trust issues and fear of loss but I've overcome it a bit. But it seems to come back and sometimes I think that she just makes fun of me with her friends or something.
I can't develop feelings like that and just want to know if there's anything I could do to overcome all of this shit. | Crushes |
I told my crush that I was leaving work and that I wouldn't be travelling on his bus anymore (yes, my crush is my bus driver and at this point I've heard every insult there is to hear about it) and that was on Monday last week (13th of March).
At this point we might as well be in love because everyone seems to see how strong the attraction is, and from the way we look and behave around each other we probably feel it too - but he's fairly older, most likely married, so we've always just...let it be that.
I guess we always took it for granted that we would be close to each other every time I went to work.
Anyways, I told him that I was leaving - and that my last day at work would be on the 24th of March, which gave me quite some time to still catch his bus and maybe confess how I felt (not that he knew the last bit).
However, on the 14th, I didn't show up to work in the morning because I had a few things to sort out. I did, though, show up in the afternoon just to see him (not the first time I'd done something like that), but he wasn't driving. There was a substitute driver, but I'd found out that my crush had driven in the morning.
Ever since that day (it's been seven days) he hasn't shown up to drive his normal morning route that I always take. I haven't seen him, and though I've been told that he's been sick, it's starting to feel like I've been lied to.
The bus checker is the person I ask about his well-being, and I keep hearing that "he's sick," or "he'll start tomorrow," even though he never does. On Friday he told me that my crush would start today, but of course my crush didn't show up.
My sensitive ass has been sobbing about it (LMAO) and I'm going crazy every time I remember every good moment we've shared...because I fear that I probably won't ever get to have that feeling again once I leave work. It's like I won't really get to see him again, and I have no way to contact him or at least try to tell him that I like him.
But my real dilemma is...is he truly unable to make it to work or could he be avoiding me for some reason?
One of my family members reckons he's avoiding me, one of my friends reckons the bus checker is lying to me and that my crush could be driving a completely different route - but I'm so confused.
What do you guys think and what should I do?
tl;dr: My crush hasn't shown up to work ever since I told him I was leaving and now I'm not eating as well as crying myself to sleep🙃 | Crushes |
Write down and describe how u feel.
For me I would describe it like this: When I'm around him I feel truly like myself. I love every second of being in the same room as him. He makes every room comfortable. The ending from pink + white by Frank Ocean mskes me feel the same way. It just reminds me of being with him. | Crushes |
I hate myself so much for not approaching her when I saw her omg \[saw her many times\] . I wasted so much time and she probably hates me now for that. I cant believe myself, how could I let this happen?? Why didnt I think about that earlier and why didnt I just approach and see if we match.
My brain doesnt work properly around her bec she looks like a model for me 10/10 easy and unfortunately I am a shy guy. Anyway now that I realized how much time Ive wasted not approaching I hate myself so much. She is lookswise my absolute dreamgirl, but why didnt I try to approach her even once.
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Time is running by, every day passes other guy has a chance to hit on her and I also have goals to marry "fast" and have kids asap. God I am so stupid to let this chance slide. Now I also cant stop thinking about her in my day to day life.
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Also cant talk about this with anyone else in my life. Even when I read this I think like how pathetic of myself god... | Crushes |
I don't remember much of it, but I'll describe what I can. We went on a date, just me and her. We went to a musuem and held hands. After walking around for a while, we stopped and got food. We were smiling and laughing and just enjoying each other's company. It was nice. I hope this could happen in real life someday. | Crushes |
Im (22F) and I had a crush on my classmate and I found out that he just got a gf this week, he is so funny, smart and talented…the thing is idk how to react when he will bring his gf bc i have a very expressive face and i cry at night about him… :( i had a lot of crushes and they never loved me 😢 | Crushes |
Basically title. We had never interacted before and yesterday, out of nowhere, she struck a conversation with me after class. We even walked together to the dining hall making small talk. Wanted to even join me but I was so nervous I quickly cooked up a lie that I was meeting friends 🥹.
Anyway this came as a surprise to me (albeit a pleasant one) since she had never indicated that she was aware of my existence at all. Baby steps. Where do I go from here🥹🥹? | Crushes |
So back in 2020 this guy I knew of slid into my dms. We spoke for a couple of weeks but the convo was kinda dry and we both knew that so we stopped talking. He reached out a couple of times but I told him it's better we don't continue talking as it felt forced.
Now earlier this week I lost my father and I posted about the loss. It's something that I am still dealing with and I have had a lot of people reach out to me to offer some caring words. This included the guy I knew. Be spoke about him also lossing his father a couple months back and he gave me so beautiful advice and said i could always talk to him. I appreciated him reaching out and not gonna lie I have always had some sort of feeling for him even when we stopped talking.
In the past it felt like the timing for us was wrong especially since back then I struggled to hold a conversation and thats changed. And I'm not saying it's right for this moment but i the near future do you think I should shoot my shot? | Crushes |
There is a girl I know which I am decently fond of that recently has been extremely friendly with (noticably more than my other male peers) and has been checking off the tell-tale signs of when a girl likes someone but then her Instagram page has a guys username and the heart next to it. Why would she behave this way if it looks like she has a boyfriend? I understand that girls are sometimes just flirty but this girl would try to gain my attention, at one point she actually grabbed (like grabbed) my hand and draw a smiley face on it (this wasn't even when we were bored or something like it was spontaneous) and looked at me for a few moments and then proceeded to join along with me when I went to go eat afterwards when she knew nobody else except me and one other guy who she didn't even talk to or sit next to. It was so bizarre. I'm willing to accept that this may be a case of my perceiving things wrong but this is so confusing. Why would she be in a relationship (allegedly; I don't know for sure but the Instagram bio thing indicates that unless it's someone else which is unlikely) and I know this girl is enough of a decent human being to not be cheating or leading people on (atleast I hope.) Has anyone experienced similar things? There's a bunch of other things that also confuse me about this situation. I'm probably gonna ask her at some point but I was wondering if anyone here has any words of advice on this situation. I'm just wanting to know before I even try anything because otherwise she seems cool and if the opportunity with someone good is theoretically spoonfed to me like this than why would I want to pass. Luckily I'm not desperate so if it doesn't pan out it won't be the end of the world because I am in no rush to be in a relationship. | Crushes |
Everytime I decide I just want to continue being friends with this guy, something happens.
I'm holding out until one of use works in a different place. Maybe I'll say something then, but then again I've always been cowardly. My greatest fear is that if I say something about my feelings we'll start to drift apart. 😣
He has no right to randomly say or do the sweetest things. He's always considerate of our friendship and has never shamed me for anything I've done or said. Maybe laughed at but it's in good fun and his laugh is the cutest.
I asked him, wasn't it enough that we get to see each other so often at work. He said it doesn't count because there are other people there.
He bought me freaking chocolates for Valentine's day. I also got him something small.
I feel like I'm sometimes like an open book, super easy to read. I've never had these feelings for anyone before so it's difficult to get a handle of how to not act romantic, because we are just friends.
I've decided to sort of just act how I want, bordering on friendship and romance.
He's never said anything about wanting to become a couple. I feel as if he's still healing from a past relationship but he's never told me before, only hinted at it.
Also I'm going to a house party at his place today for the first time so wish me luck because I only know him.
We'll just continue like this until something happens. | Crushes |
First of all I am kind of embarassed that I ask reddit for advice but I need to share what's on my mind. I have a crush on this girl in my class and recently we started texting eachother and sending photo replies. She has initiated the conversation a couple times but usually I am the one starting it. We werent talking about anything too deep until yesterday where we photo replied and then texted for probably 4 hours untill late at night. We talked about some pretty deep things she told me some pretty personal things and secrets and we talked about past relationships, then we just joked around for an hour. I am not sure if she likes me or I am turning into a good friend what should I do ?
P.S. sorry for the shitty english not a native speaker | Crushes |
Title. I wanna listen to some sad cute stories | Crushes |
Hi
Im 30yo and i like a girl (28yo) from my work for a couple of months, we are really close at work, always playing with each other, i try to flirt a little too and is visible we care with each other, apart from that in social media we just talk sometimes and still gaining courage to see if i should invite her out.
Really like the girl and don´t want to mess things up but her birthday is next week and im in doubt if i should get a flower to her birthday (i tought about this one because a play/joke another co-worker made about us, she just talking and me gifting the girl is my crush a flower, the girl who made the drawing is really close to her and another co worker go and write our names on it, this was on a day i wasnt there, she kept the drawing and showed me another day, the thing is she is still keeping it, not sure if its a sign but seems it to me.
She isnt going to do any kind of party or anything, just a small family celebration so im thinking giving it to her during a day im going to be with her (away of the workplace so that no one make comments of course)
Im so in doubt if i should take the risk, what do you think, it will be sound sweet or a little creep to do it?
Thanks for your advice :) | Crushes |
Me f(23) has been crushing over this guy m(25) since i was 17. We met through a mutual friend of ours. We used to hangout quite a-lot back in the days. Later we moved on with our lives but i never stopped crushing over me. He is a singer now not so popular but is very good at it. And has a gf they have been together for 4 years now. So recently we met because i am applying for Canada and because his family is going through a financial crisis after his moms death. We thought of applying him as my fake dependent husband. Me, him and his gf met maybe thrice to talk about it. I could tell by her face that she was not happy about it but couldn’t say anything because it was about his family and future. But then again things happen and we decided not to go together and he would apply for other country instead. So fast forward to few days later he approaches me asks to go clubbing with another friend of his. Me being single and bored at home agreed mind it i had nothing in my head as he was already with someone and i didn’t want to come in between someone’s relationship and ruin it. So we go book a hotel room and went to the club. We all were drunk and barely walk properly we somehow managed to get back to the hotel. We booked a large bed room because no other rooms were available. We slept on the same bed he being in between. We had very heartfelt conversations he told that he always thought we would have been a great couple and have a great future together but doesn’t want to ruin his present relationship. I understand what he was trying to say and i respect his decision. He also said that he never got the chance to do anything with his girlfriend as she was just 19 and he wanted her to be ready for it and not force things. We were drunk but were trying our best to not do anything that we would regret it tomorrow. Conversation ends we fall asleep fast forward to the day tomorrow. His friend had to go home early in the room so it was just two of us we were having conversation about what happened yesterday were laughing about it when all of a sudden he asked can i kiss you, first i denied and said its not good we shouldn’t be doing this. But before we knew anything we were all over each other. My love for him and his thrust made us do it. I don’t regret it but him cheating on his gf made me feel bad about myself. | Crushes |
I've had a crush on this guy for a few months now and I just get more confused every time I see him. He always says hi to me and goodbye. Even when I think he won't say anything he still does, one time I was busy and didn't even notice him but he still called out to me. Sometimes he tries to start a conversation, sometimes he doesn't. I think he's shy or doesn't know what to say to me.
He's always around me way too often for it to be just a coincidence. His pupils dilate and he smiles whenever he sees me. I want to get closer to him but I'm not sure how, I'm so awkward when I talk to him.
Does anyone have any good conversation starters? I heard guys like compliments and I'd love to tell him his eyes are cute but I'm afraid it'll be too weird to just blurt that out. Any tips would be appreciated :) | Crushes |
Maybe I was overthinking but i was chatting with my crush and she tells me she don't like people approaching or hitting her but there are some exceptions | Crushes |
So I texted her if she’s doing anything with her family because when I talked to her, she mentioned being with family over the weekend, and she said people are coming over and she asked me what I’m doing, then I said I’m going to church tomorrow and I should probably go to sleep, she asked me if I’m gonna sleep, I said I can stay up a little bit, she said I’m sleepy so I think I’ll sleep in a bit, then I said good night and she said good night and sweet dreams. It was so cute seeing that good night and sweet dreams text when I woke up so does she like me or not? | Crushes |
Basically I have a crush on my friend and to make things worse that person aint straight and got someone but even then I still feel that way, there are times when I convince myself I dont like that person as a crush but since we are friends we talk and then it happens all over again, I really need to cut this to respect both of them. I wonder if I will still feel like she is still a friend even if I dont like her anymore, maybe I just had a crush on her and that is why I have been friendly? I won't even try to justify it anymore because like I said I want to respect them, I need immediate help please. During the start of her friendship I even lied and said that I do not like her. Please help me guys. | Crushes |
Today I dreamed that I was dating a boy from my class, although he his cute I really dislike is personality. Why did I dream that we where dating? | Crushes |
When I used to be around him, I felt carefree and nervous (but a good kind of nervous) ☺️
What about you? How does she/he make you feel? | Crushes |
2 shy people pretty sure we both like each other but we live in our heads thinking the opposite. I see his friends often and have heard them teasing him about me. Recently I see them more than him. Should I ask them to help? | Crushes |
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I am he/him my crush is he/her
We r 15 both | Crushes |
i’ve never had a nickname that someone constantly called me
my grandpa has one for me but it’s not used very often
i’ve had an experience with a shortened version of my name that made me uncomfortable so i hate that a lot
i don’t care about nicknames- they’re kinda cute but mostly dumb and i prefer most people to just call me by my name
but of course he’s the person that doesn’t do that
“cries”
he calls me [my name] cries or just cries by itself
i have no idea why or how this started but it did a few months ago and it’s just stuck
it’s how he gets my attention, it’s how i know it’s him talking to me
two shoulder taps and i immediately know it’s him or screaming “cries!” from across the room and i’ll know who needs me
if this was anyone else i’d honestly be pissed but if it’s him i couldn’t care less what he calls me or why | Crushes |
Hey, I turn 15 next month and the girl I find really pretty turned 16 last month. We visit the same school (she is one year above me) and she goes in class with a few of my friends. I consider my self as mature (that’s why I have friends that are older than me). I really want to approach her, but I‘m a bit scared she finds me too young. If you didn‘t know our age, you wouldn‘t think „oh she seems a bit too old for him“. But since she is one year above me, I could imagine that some people would give dumb comments. I switch schools in summer (technically I even skip next year so we would be in the same year but in different schools) and I see that as a chance so this problem falls away.
Do you think she might develop interest, even though I‘m a year younger (what she doesn‘t necessarily know, she just knows that I‘m currently one year under her)? | Crushes |
I can't take it anymore. Going to the school daily, seeing him there daily, and realising that you can't be together daily.
I so desparately want to get over him please tell me how to do it. | Crushes |
To get my schedule knowing she was there and i went over to her trying to be cool but she was busy she did say whats up and i was just too tired and i hadnt eaten yet so i just fist bump and said have a good day ill see u on Monday so i felt so awkward but i dont think she wanted to talk she only looked to say hello and fist and remained focused on her work and i didnt wanna bother her seemed nervous and was blushing
I cant wait to see her tomorrow | Crushes |
im really worried that im being way too clingy towards him?? we’ve talked about it before and he says that it’s fine on his end, but that it seems to affect me a bit too much when things don’t go as planned… two of my friends also recently confronted me about my crush on him and i don’t think they meant to be mean, but they made fun of me and i started crying lol.
i definitely am very clingy, both emotionally and physically, i just don’t know if he thinks it’s too much? he doesn’t avoid me or anything like that, but i might be a bit “much” ? i often try talk to him or message him, and i easily get upset if he can’t talk atm (i don’t take it out on him, i just get sad)
i can elaborate in comments if needed | Crushes |
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Later yesterday night
Was my one of the best day of my life
I slept and it was all black out
I was in my school with my crush along with our classes in a conference hall
She was comming to seat nearby but she felt and she hurted her leg
I was like wtf why did you walked like that and she came beside me and sat
After class teacher asked somone to go with her so she doesn't fell again
My crush herself started that i go with her because I am strong and i lifted her to my class
Such a amazing incident but in dreams ;(
She doesn't want me in real life
( I suppose ) | Crushes |
so i (f18) have had a crush on this guy (m18) for a while now. since October 2021 so it's been over a year. i actually got over him last summer since it was pretty evident (or i convinced myself) he didn't like me back so i just let it go and moved on. but now we're at the same school somehow and i see him around and the crush has come back.
the thing is. he's great guy but i don't even know him that well. i used to, last year, but now i have no idea who he is, and his friends aren't the greatest people (gossipy popular type) but he isn't? but i also know that i make excuses for him in my head
and every time i decide im gonna get over it, he comes back? like i see him around and he says hi or some crap like that. or i see a picture of him someone posted and my brain gets fuzzy. the crush doesn't even feel good. i genuinely don't want to like him but he ticks all the boxes and i can't even see myself right now with anyone else? i hate it
long story short, i wanna get over him. in the past, to get over a crush, i always tell him and they reject me or don't and its over. but i can't exactly tell him because i already have rumours spread about me that aren't true regarding dating and if he tells his friends things will just be worse.
anyway, i just need advice. how do i get over him? i can avoid seeing him and interacting with him (which i do) but its also inevitable when we're in the same program on the same campus. is also cant like like other people or anything because literally, no one approaches me or everyone around me is like taken (you know to help me get my mind on other things)
i just find it hard to focus and move on with my life when he keeps popping up.
thanks for any advice. | Crushes |
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* i saw him staring at me and turning when i looked back
* sometimes he doesn't look at me at all as if i am not there
* he doesn't greet me but he said hi to my friends and not me one time
* sometimes looks embarrassed/uncomfortable around me but other times chill
* he blushed when my close friend stood next to him in a line but i don't think he likes them
* we were assigned to do a group project and i tried to talk to him but he gave short replies and didn't look at me, only when i jokingly asked another group member if i look pretty
* one time he looked he wanted to join a conversation but changed his mind and turned
* me and friends went to a college event and when we left he left too even though he didn't spoke to us no words (but none of his friends were there so maybe he just felt uncomfy to be 'alone' alone)
we're both 18.
im only confused by his behavior. i observe people and never noticed similar things at anyone before. he's an introvert but looks more reserved then shy so maybe it's my mind. | Crushes |
So me and this girl have lately been talking on the phone more often, texting each other and (rarely) hanging out. And when I mentioned that my birthday was coming up she got very excited. Like I’d never really heard her this excited before. So I promptly invited her to hangout on my birthday also implying that others would be there as to not make things as awkward. So I then researched fun things to do in the area. I first suggested going to the local mall. And she seemed very underwhelmed by the idea. So I turned it up a few notches and by a few I mean a lot. I’ve always wanted to go on a helicopter ride. So I asked her and she said she would get back to me on that. About 30 minutes later she said yes. And also asked who else would be going. I said I hadn’t invited anyone else yet because I haven’t even booked it yet. I also told her that if she wants just the 2 of us could go because the other people I would invite wouldn’t be people she knows. Then she got back to me and said something along the lines of “aslong as us 2 our going we’re good”. So now only the 2 of us are going. And now I’m just thinking wow how did stumble across this amazing opportunity to spend one on one time with her. But now I’m just confused and trying to figure out where things are going. Because sometimes shes finicky and won’t respond for a few days or sometimes cancel on plans. Sometimes I think that she could be using me for attention because that’s happened to me before with other girls. But I don’t think so because when we talk in person it seems like she’s the one that asks all the questions like about my life. Like the conversation is already flowing. When texting her though things are different it feels a little more awkward. She’s also said in the past that she doesn’t feel ready for a relationship not to me specially just in general she’s said I’m not ready for a relationship. I don’t know what to do with that information because right now I’m just trying to figure out where things are going? Hopefully in the right direction. And if she maybe likes me or not? | Crushes |
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A week ago I confessed to my crush
I told her that the note i gave her on valentines day was the truth and that i had real feelings for her, i asked her if she reciprocated my feelings but she couldn't answer properly because our friends were there
Once school was over she asked me over text if it was okay to just be friends because she wasn't ready for a relationship which is understandable and i said yes it's okay.
But after that happened she began sitting at our spots for intervel but mainly talks to another friend in our group, my crush even came to one of my after school activities but spent most of her time with my friend, i know its petty but i feel jealous even though my friend is straight i told my friend our i felt she said it was okay to feel jealous.
I just don't know what to do so i came here for help, again. | Crushes |
^^ feel free to share how your gf made the first move on you!! i really really like this guy and i want to make the first move but i’m scared lol | Crushes |
19 nb. I have a crush and her name is amanda (same year in college). I want to send her a message letting her know that I have a crush on her and asking if we could hang out sometime to get to know each other better (with or without other people although with would be easier for me). I wrote the incredibly straightforward message
"Hi! I just wanted to say that I have a crush on you and was hoping you might like to hang out at some point."
Now I'm having second thoughts about my being so straightforward. I don't know her that well, but from what I do know of her, she's an incredibly accepting person. The internet tells me to say I have a crush rather than just trying to slowly become her friend and previous attempts at getting someone to date me by first becoming their friend have failed so I tend to agree with this advice. I could use some advice on what to do, how to perhaps modify the advice message, and what the possible outcomes are.
Thanks! | Crushes |
Today I found out his ideal type of girl and I'm the total opposite of that. He likes someone with fair skin and short hair, someone who's short and cute with glasses. I have tan skin, long hair, average height, has glasses but not cute at all and is kinda boyish.
Now I just want to stop thinking about him and distract myself. I'll now try to decrease my feelings for him little by little.. | Crushes |
I know this trend is done to death but I just wanted to get in on the action before it dies | Crushes |
It looks like fun and an nice way to talk about your crush. So why not!? | Crushes |
So we had a softball invitational a few days ago, and this girl got sent over to play on my team because we were missing players. After the game, I was tasked with escorting the visitng team around the city and happened to stick with the team this girl was on.
I didn’t realise how cute she was until she was out of her uniform and into regular clothes… first person I’ve met in 4 years that is actually my type. I walked around with them, talked, and found out that she was actually a theatre kid too and that she was only travelling this year because some of her teammates couldn’t travel. She’s not even on the softball team because she plays golf!!
She told me to sit next to her on the bus and she was so nice and had such a great smile. I rode with them back to the hotel because it was near where I lived.
I hopped off the bus and jumped in the elevator and I think she tried to catch up to me, but she didn’t end up getting in the lift with me?? I literally watched as the lift doors closed and she gave me a sad smile.
I can’t stop thinking about her and how we’ll probably never meet again. I keep thinking about how I could’ve asked more about her and how I might’ve been too clingy with the dms. She replied to my story about the tournament and I may have overdone it!!!
This crush sucks because I have no chance of seeing her again and she’s all I can think about. Holy crap.
I don’t even care if her teammates see this on Reddit; if they do then they’ll know who I am, but none of my friends want to hear this so I’m ranting to you guys. | Crushes |
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I had so many chances like... goddddd i wish i wasn't such a shy introverted wuss.
shoot your shot before it's too late... | Crushes |
I know that you're not gonna read this but, I want you, I want to be with you, I wanna risk when it comes to you, idk what's happening to me I DON'T PURSUE BUT SUDDENLY WHEN I THINK OF PURSUING YOU I THINK I CAN BUT I DON'T WANNA MAKE YOU UNCOMFY I JUST LIKE YOU, I WANNA HAVE A DATE WITH YOU, I WANNA GO ON A LONG DRIVE WITH YOU, I WANT YOU SO BADDDDDDDDDD | Crushes |
Lets call him T, we met online, roblox. He's a yr older than me. We've been friends for 2 yrs we haven't met up yet. And yeh I have a crush on him.. and that day we were dancing virtually and he's gf joined him and I never knew that he had a gf so yeh they basically broke up after that. I felt really guilty but I didn't know he had a gf and he was the one who asked to dance.. and a week after, I decided to end our friendship by writing him a stupid letter with a confession.. lets just say that he didn't like that and he said that I'm now obligated to make a promise for him, that I would never leave him. And I did because I felt guilty when he said he didn't want people to leave him anymore because he's had enough. Fast forward to right now, were still talking. and yesterday night, at 2am..he randomly texted me saying "I'm sorry" and I was rlly confused on to why he's sorry.. I asked him "what's wrong?" And he said "for hurting you" and I was still confused and then he brought up the day I confessed and my stomach dropped. He said he was sorry for not saying anything when I confessed. And he asked me if I still feel the same way and I said yes. And he said he would feel the same if the past wasn't holding him back, the past..he's ex. Now idek anymore because he's going me mixed feelings. So I'm asking if y'all can give me advice on what to do.. | Crushes |
my exams are going to end after 3 days and so does my school life. What should I say to my crush with goodbye and should I confess to her cuz I don't want to get us awkward in the last moment and I want it like that whenever we meet again in our life then that meeting would be heartwarming? | Crushes |
So it happened like 10 months ago when I was fairly new to my school and I hadn’t known anyone on prior. I had like 2 casual friends that I hung out with but this guy really caught my attention sitting across the classroom at the farthest window seat. I decided to ask his insta id so during lunch I made an effort and he smiled at me while giving me his id. Still overthinking about it till this date because I was practically a stranger to him at that time but anyway…
3-4 days later i sat with him when he was alone and was completing some work in his notebook. I decided to get to know him better so I asked him questions like his interests in movies etc. I even made a remark about our similar handwritings but his replies were bland and dry.
i decided to not bother him anymore and went back to my seat. After the class got ended he came up to me and asked what I wanted to know but then I waved it off saying nothing it’s fine I respect your privacy.
2 days later (I had logged out of my Instagram because I couldn’t get my work done) I checked my account and saw two messages from him from that same day asking if I was mad and that he was sorry he didn’t want to come across as disinterested.
i replied saying it was fine and I didn’t really take offence. Then suddenly after a few minutes he messaged that he thinks i like him and that he likes me too so are we good?
I was caught off guard so bad at that moment that I didn’t want to accept his proposal so I rejected him saying that I did Have a crush on him but I can’t date him if that’s what he meant. He took offence and messaged me about how I gave him hints when I sat with him and wanted to know him etc.
i Kept on explaining that it wasn’t a hint and I was just tryna Be friendly as I was new to the environment.
till this date (we are classmates) we share glances and sometimes make eye contact that feels electric in a way because I obviously still like him even though I don’t want to but I really wanted to take my time with things and it felt like he just wanted to rush.
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HELP BECAUSE I CANT MOVE ON AND ITS BEEN ALMOST A YEAR NOW, ITS EMBARRASSING | Crushes |
The other day, I rejected a boy from my one of my college classes told me I was cute and asked me out to a study date. We haven't talked much and I was not looking for a relationship so I turned him down.
The thing is, I absolutely do not know what "sensible" is when rejecting someone.
Basically, after telling him that I'm not interested in a relationship, I asked if we could be friends. So we exchanged IG. But we're probably never gonna be in the same class again anyway so... what's next? Do I DM him with a good luck on the finals or something? I mean, I asked to be friends but like... in the sense of please-don't-be-awkward-the-next-time-we-randomly-run-into-each-other-on-campus kind of friends, not close-close friends.
Was it the right course of action to ask to be friends in the first place? Should I reach out for some encouragement after this? Please help because this is so emotionally taxing. | Crushes |
I started posting stories on ig more regularly a couple of days ago (i don’t usually do this, matter of fact never did up until now) and she hasn’t seen any of them. I know this means next to nothing, but it’s midnight and I’m constantly checking my story hoping she has seen it. By the time of me writing this, she was active mere minutes ago; I posted the story 12h ago.
The odds are so stacked against me that i’m desperate for any sign; no matter how trivial it might seems. I’m deluding myself i know, seeing someone’s ig story means jack shit, but man.. if only. If only she knows how happy i’d be to see her in that ‘seen’ section.
Pathetic isn’t it? | Crushes |
A boy from my class asked for my snapchat when I was at my locker during home time. I sometimes catch him looking at me in class, cafeteria, and the hallways but I don’t rlly pay much attention into it until he went up to me to ask for my snap. I only talked to him once or twice i think? and it was just random convos that you would have with a classmate.
His friend told my friends that he’s interested in me. BUT he already has a gf, so why would he ask for my snap and be interested in me? 💀 | Crushes |
I've previously made 2 posts about my crush, but they've gained little to no comments / feedback, so I'll try again.
So I've got a crush on this guy, I'm male myself, and he knows I'm into him (someone DMed him screenshots of me gushing about him and I straight up told him anyway).
I just know he likes me back, it's the way he acts (a bit more reserved and nervous), the way he just looks at me all of a sudden, one time he called me his "future boyfriend", I even received screenshots of one of my mates playing this hot / cold game with him and all the answers line up perfectly (there's also no other people that it could be), but he won't say anything or admit it and will keep denying that he likes guys and it's driving me insane.
I just love him so much, I just want to express my feelings for him and I want to let him know that I love him and care for him, but I feel stuck. I feel like I can't and never will be able to because he's too scared to say anything. | Crushes |
A boy from my class asked for my snapchat when I was at my locker during home time. I sometimes catch him looking at me in class, cafeteria, and the hallways but I don’t rlly pay much attention into it until he went up to me to ask for my snap. I only talked to him once or twice i think? and it was just random convos that you would have with a classmate.
His friend told my friends that he’s interested in me. BUT he already has a gf, so why would he ask for my snap and be interested in me? 💀 | Crushes |
Asking for a friend | Crushes |
I’m just not good enough for her. I’ve been working out, getting a healthy living habit, study my ass off, work my ass off. Doing everything that might bring me closer to her level.
Today I looked at myself in the mirror. I’m making progress. But not fast enough, not better enough, just not enough..
When will I be enough? When will I’d be able to just go and talk to her without being so conscious about my short-comings?
Time is running out for me. I’ll have to be better now. She deserves at least that much. If not, then why should I even bother?
Goodness girl I am infatuated with you and if only you knows how much i’m trying…. | Crushes |
So I tried getting closer to him, and it kind of worked out but ultimately I don't think he is that interested in even being friends. Which is sad because we have kind of "known" each other off and on for almost a year. Things move turtle pace. Feels dumb, I wanna move on but I just like a lot of things about him. I don't want it to end.
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Sigh why does writing on a public forum feel better I've journals and I decide to write here? Ughughughygh 😑 | Crushes |
I just can't help but think about her lovely brown eyes sometimes. They remind me of a Starbucks Frappuccino I would drink. Not to mention, I like her black hoodie because it reminds me of a night sky that was beyond close. Not to mention, I also can't forget her pretty smile (and her personality), she's social, entertaining, & overall cute in general 💞💖💕 | Crushes |
let me preface this by saying i've known this guy since october 2021 and i didn't have a single romantic feeling for him until mid-march of this year. i always thought he was cool, i was just never attracted to him like i am now. after having conversations with him and actually befriending him, i found out that he's really nice to talk to and when we talk, i realize that i never feel the need to alter my personality for him at all. like when we talk i am truly and honestly the rawest me, and he seems to like that since he hasn't blocked me yet and continues conversation. i love the topics we talk about and the convos are never dry as he actively brings up more things to talk about like as if he can tell i'm running out of what to say. he's dropped several hints, many that have flied over my head and i never noticed how they sounded until i told my friends and they think he likes me. but i think the problem might be me. i've never had a boyfriend before, let alone told a guy i liked him, and i'm especially terrified of rejection from him. sure, most arrows are pointing to a sign saying he does like me, but what if i'm wrong and i end up ruining what we have??? right now, i'm waiting for him to confess first and if he doesn't, then there's my answer. i think he might even want to ask me to prom cause he keeps asking me questions like if i'm going with anyone (a date specifically) and i tell him not really, i'd be going with my friends but he won't ask me the actual question like as if he's scared i'll say no. he also offers me help with math and studying together for our classes. | Crushes |
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