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So I went to one shop because my brother had to buy shoes. And then I saw that guy that works there, a bit shorter stature, blondish hair and blue eyes I immediatelly had a crush on him. Sadly we didn't exchange a word or a look but I looked couple times in his direction. It's probably gonna stay that way I fear, but a nice refreshment after empty 3 solo months 😅 | Crushes |
I’ve seen you in my premonitions
I couldn’t get you out of my head
From daisy dreams in flower filled streams
It was there I first loved you
I wish to be your friend first
But I long for something more
But the fates may deem it’s not meant to be
And I won’t get my chance to tell you
I can’t know nor will I tell
For it is simply too much for me to bare
But I’ll meet you in my dreams at night
And keep those memories close
So be as gentle as you are and I’ll love you from afar
And you’ll make a dreamer out of me yet… | Crushes |
i thought i got over her... but she keeps coming back and its bothering me alot. we were in a situationship and to say the least,, i kind of fucked up then. we are still very good friends but she got a bf.
i kind of moved on for long but we were together in a program recently and oh god.. its back. i cant get over the "she is one" thoughts to add on
im changing schools and im just .. im creating fake hopes but i know those wont work | Crushes |
okayy so this happened on Tuesday, and to be quite honest i forgot most of the convo but this is all i remember.
anyways, so on Tuesday, this girl that i’m acquaintances with who is good friends with him told me she was like “yk (his name)?” and I said “uhh..” and she said “(his first and last name)” and I said “oh yea”. and she said “he thinks your cute” and I said “uh.. wait show me proof” and she said “oh no it was in person”.
and then she was like “so me and him were walking to our 2nd periods and were even talking about them and he said how his English teacher is this one person upstairs in N building and he said how that class is boring” and then she said “he asked me who i talk to in 2nd period and i said ‘(my name)’ and he said ‘wait, is she short?’ and I said ‘yea’ and he said ‘does she have brown hair?’ and i said ‘yea’” “and then he said ‘oh yea she’s cute’ and i said said ‘ik she is cute’”
and i asked her i was like “wait… doesn’t he have a gf?” and she said “uh.. no?” and i told her i was like “oh- well i saw him hold hands with this one girl” and she was like “oh” “but nah he doesn’t have a gf”
and then she was like asking me questions and saying other stuff like “do you think he’s cute?” “you should shoot your shot” and stuff of that nature. but the thing is tho, he sometimes gives me dirty looks and idk i feel like i really bother the tall man 🧍🏻♀️. me n him sit next to each other in biology , and he’s never been rude to me at all. one time in class, he saw me struggling to hold the microscope and he either asked me “do you need help?” or “are you okay?” but he said one of those in a very concerned way.
anyways…. uhhh ya idk how i feel tbh😭 | Crushes |
Okay so my crush of 7 years, yes I liked him for that long but towards the last year which was this year I didn’t really like him, I made myself think I did to hide the feelings I got for a guy I met in the summer. Then I became best friends with him yada yada and we figured out we both liked eachother all along and now we’re dating. that’s how it went | Crushes |
I told her as the first person ever and she actually has been thinking that I like them for half a year now. She can‘t really help me any further but she recommended that our other common guy friend gives them a nudge because my crush is rather inexperienced (as am I btw). Either that or I tell them directly and potentially make a fool of myself if it ends up being a misinterpretation. The school year's ending very soon so I kinda don't have a lot of time to act lmao What sounds like the better idea? | Crushes |
So my crush, with whom I've been friends for a while, revealed he has "half a crush on me" after I confessed my feelings. He said that he no longer likes his prior crush and even dedicated songs to me to express his feelings for me. He even confessed that he has never felt this way for anybody before. Apparently, he always believed we were more than just friends. But he also said that he does not like me as much as I like him. He said that because he already had too much on his plate, he doesn't want any of this, but he'll always be in my life and wants to be a part of my life forever. But, I believe he likes me just as much as I do because his response to my letter to him was different.
"*You stole my heart.*
*There is never a day when I don't think of you, you're one of the loveliest people I met and you'll always be in my heart. I hope I can be there to heal you whenever you need it, and I will pray for you to be happy for the rest of your life.*
*You're a great woman whom I never expected to meet or love.*
*You've become a part of me over the last few months. But you've now become my soul."*
I'm confused by his mixed signals because his actions and words are completely different. I'm not sure what to do. Should I hold on to it or move on? | Crushes |
My crush called my name to tell me something in class. I turned, he stared at me for like 5 seconds or more. We were just staring into each others eyes before and he then proceeded to speak. What does this mean? | Crushes |
I kind of got cornered into it but they know who it is now I'm honestly so embarrassed | Crushes |
i really love the way he says my name. his hidden little accent comes through. anyway that’s it. | Crushes |
I thought he was my friend but I guess not…he noticed me glancing at my crush and smiling and then suddenly he came up to me and said “oh you like that girl huh?” I was chuckling and said “heh yeah I guess I do” I thought he was gonna be my wingman or something and it seemed like it at first as he gave me tips like “don’t stare at her though, it’s creepy and say this to her if you talk to her” and now I saw that he called her over to him and started flirting with her and she started to laugh a little ok I guess this is what I get for being too trusting damn I should’ve just said “no I didn’t realize I was looking at her” or something *sigh* thing is he showed completely no interest in her until he knew that I like her as if he just wants to have her so I can’t…fucking asshole | Crushes |
A tear is running down why do I get attached so easily I need to stop being nice to people because MR. beanie head is ruining my mental health | Crushes |
I have a crush on my friend who is a really sweet and caring man. We met like 5 months ago in our classroom and he was sitting right next to me. At the beginning i didn't really care for him we were just normal friends who talk all day and chat at night and i would listen to things he is passionate about and help each other on our studies. After knowing each other well he really wanted to get so close to me but I really wanted to focus on my studies and my extra curriculum etc. So we stopped hanging out for a while but he was trying to reach out to me in anyway and i would reply for some times. One day when we were alone he said anyone is lucky to have u, that when all my feelings started and i realized that he stares at me a lot. So, i begin hanging out with him again but for some reason started he ignoring me for most of the time. He never talks with me unless i do. If anyone calls him when we are talking he just goes and act like i am not there even when i need him. I admit it was my fault kinda, bc i was having some problems with the class and sometimes i would be rude with him but i apologies every single time. And at that time he was hanging out with people who hates my guts for no reason, i think they said bad stuff about me so that he hates me as well. I tried my best to get him back, like i was texting him for no reason but to just talk about anything, or sometimes i write for him the homeworks and he thanks me and thats it, even sometimes I try to flirt with him but still nothing is good enough for him i guess, he just keeps on ignoring me and I feel guilty for some reason. Now i have two choices, either i confess everything and tell him how i feel and ask for forgiveness and for us to become couple or at least friends again. Or i could simply let it all go and i see him with other people and our friendship will be gone forever like it wasn't even there? What should i do? | Crushes |
This boy is the kindest soul I've ever met. He's not Nauseatingly sweet and still he is so kind.
I've never loved a boy that i could liken to a Disney princess, but this boy is a princess.
I'd compare him to Rapunzel, I'd compare him to Belle I'd compare him to Anna.
Every boy I've ever liked has made me feel like changing myself to fit his desires. But this boy makes me want to be a better me. He makes me want to be myself, but the best version of me.
This boy 6.5ft, basketball playing, man; isn't afraid to skip. He giggles. This man sqeaks when he's excited.
This man tells his friends he loves them and doesn't call it gay.
This man is nice to girls even when he dosent want to get into their pants.
I am so smitten over his smile, I melt over his darting eyes. I admire his compassion. I'm truly infatuated with this boy | Crushes |
I (enby) literally don’t even know what to do at this point. I broke up with my ex 2 days ago!! TWO!!! Not even one full day went by before I started reminding myself about house cut my friend is. For privacy in case anyone finds this I’m gonna call him B.and for the record B IS IN A RELATIONSHIP!! Truly the worst position I’ve put myself in here.
B is in one of my classes, and we became friends because of a mutual friend we both had in the class. I remember thinking he was so cute but didn’t think much past that bc I was in a relationship and didn’t need to think about it very much at all
Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago, I felt the end of my relationship coming and I felt myself emotionally disconnecting from it. That’s when I started noticing B more. How his long hair falls just perfectly around his eyes and how he needs to tie it up in our work period. His gold earrings that makes him look like a cute little pirate. And today he was wearing a shirt with cutoff sleeves and I noticed how strong his arms looked.
I’m still getting over my relationship mind you and he is FULLY still in one (my brain is cruel)!!
And he isn’t helping me at all!! He came over today to hang out and asked to see my animal crossing island, and he started being so FREAKING CUTE >~< Aside from his sleeveless shirt wish I was trying so hard not to look at
And I can’t stop myself from having feelings for B! I’m not going to do anything about how I feel because I can’t! It would be disrespectful to my ex, and to B’s partner who is a very lovely person!! I’m just so frustrated rn!! (And ofc my brother went through a similar thing to what I’m going through when he was in college, and his crush ended up getting married) | Crushes |
Both F high school students. Social anxietys gonna make me explode 😭😭
I’ve been having a crush on this girl in my grade for a month. Weve texted a LOT this week but havent talked much irl. We both kinda know were eachothers crush through hinting or whatever
Last night I asked her about how to confess to crushes and together decided that im gonna do it sometime today. I even said something like making Mar 31 special (which I rly regret)
And I didnt confess anything today bc of both social anxiety and feeling like i should talk (irl) to her more before doing anything serious
I sent her msgs saying I think i need to know my crush better before confessing but she didnt reply to them (she did for other msgs tho)
What do I do 😭😭😭 (definitely not confessing online) | Crushes |
This boy is an artist.
Divinity flows from his fingertips,
he’s a percussionist,
who beats his drum like his heart.
His mind a carven of all beautiful things,
he writes ecstasy in the form of slam poetry. This boy is an artist,
he dosent spit rhymes,
the words flow from his mouth.
His tongue is a psychosomatic dictionary,
a complex vocabulary,
communicating thoughts that I'd be too tongue tied to ever know how to write.
He's masicline and not afraid of his femminity, he's not afraid of his creativity,
he's not afrid of vulnerability
and that is why I like him. | Crushes |
It’s basically exactly how it sounds. We also sat next to each on the bus really closely because the bus was packed, and I just felt awkward and uncomfortable the whole time because I couldn’t tell if she was flirting or not because she’s said she has a flirty personality before. Am I dumb or dense? | Crushes |
1: he ignores me
2: he’s a dry texter
3: he TAKES LONG TO RESPOND like 5 to 7 hours
4: he doesn’t tell me why he takes that long
5: he leaves me on delivered
6: he is making my mental health bad. | Crushes |
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We were eating together the other day and they put a few olives in his dish. So as I saw him picking out the olives, I asked if he likes it. Because I loveee olive and sometimes Id pick it out to eat it last. And he said no he hates olives, so i told him oh just give me then, i love olives. I just felt it was kinda cute. | Crushes |
She’s really really really pretty and I just
feel warm talking to her. She’s starter making eye contact with me a lot more when I talk to her and it makes for cute moments when we just talk. I’m normally confident when talking to people but I get nervous around her. I flirted with her today, and I’m honestly not sure how she reacted. I know she probably won’t like me back though :/ I’m wondering whether I should ask her out.. | Crushes |
Hello, I am a female and I have a crush on a female how do I tell her? It’s very hard. How do I do it? | Crushes |
Honestly yeah basically I always never talk to crushes and when I did for once she just ignored me and I stop after messaging her for months after she ignored me and yeah now I'm just lost and honestly I think I should give up on. Crushing on people
I'm way to shy to talk to people and even then alot of the tome people don't seem to give a shit, doesn't help at all that people make fun of me for various reasons alot and there been more then one occasion people would say to each other in a mocking way "is he your boyfriend" because people think I look stupid. I'm just too unpopular and introverted to find anything I'm the school I'm in and adult dating culture is weird to me, I rather be friends with someone first before I go on a first date with them tbh so now it's probably the end of the line.
I'm an idiot anyway and I doubt I can provide anything to a partner other then flirting, the only people I hang out with is with a group of "losers" to say it nicely and I know they way too gross and dumb to ever find someone (plus they not the type to care about crushes in the first place) so at least I don't have to worry about that but only have loser semi friends who even then mock me once in awhile kills my chances.
People standards are way too high for me and it sucks but oh well I guess.... Dating is for the popular neurotypical people to enjoy and I'll live with that I guess
Maybe something will change one day but doubt it | Crushes |
When we are in big groups, he and I don’t interact very much. However, I’ve noticed on more than one occasion that when he and I are having a group conversation with others, and someone asks him something, he will quickly make eye contact with me, and then look back at the other person and reply. Does this mean anything? | Crushes |
Sitting at a table during study period. He sits beside me working seriously while I'm dozing off from boredom.
I realize I have an errand to run for a teacher and get up to leave.
He grabs me by the wrist and tells me "before you go..." and then kisses me on my cheek. Its warm, but it leaves a cold feeling.
I am shocked. This is the same guy who froze up when I made flirting comments. This is the same guy I believed to find me annoying the night before from oversharing.
I accidentally fall to the floor but make no effort to get up, I grab my chest and start laughing.
"Do you know how happy you just made me?"
...
Well it was just a dream.
I told him I had a really good dream today, but I wouldn't tell him the real reason why it made me so happy. | Crushes |
she kept making eye contact with me from across the table omg i almost passed out ,, today she was so beautiful i could spend the whole day staring at her 🤭🤭 | Crushes |
If they do, how did they tell you or how did you find out? | Crushes |
today i asked my crush to prom. i asked if he'd wanna go with me and my friend since all three of us know each other and i figured asking platonically was the only way i could get the courage to ask him but he said no. later that night my friend told me he has a girlfriend.
i dont even feel anything. hes so pretty and sweet, how could he not be taken? i feel so naive. i feel so devastated. ive been infatuated with this guy for so long, this is the first crush i've had that i've actually gotten somewhat close to. and ofc he's taken. ofc.
i hate crushes and everything to do with love rn i can't even process this. this is my first rejection and it wasn't even direct wtf am i feeling. | Crushes |
He works in a different department so we know each other but haven’t interacted much. We were outside together determining whether a delivery was for my Dept or his. We found ourselves locking eyes and I smiled a flirty smile with what felt like I had zero control over. It was such a genuine smile. And it felt like a spark, it shocked me because I never thought of this guy at all. Ever since then he’s been taking up real estate in my mind.
The real kicker was today. He came over to my side of the building looking for me. He starts out with small talk which we have never had because our work is so busy. He then says he’s looking for something. I help him look for it and we barely looked and were just talking in a room by ourselves about work stuff. I was just staring at him trying to listen but all I could think was “omg did he really come over here just to talk to me?”. We were facing each other, locking eyes the whole time, and I’m just staring at his face, his ears, his body, studying him like a piece of art. I feel like we both got kind of lost in each other. Then someone interrupted us and he was still focused on me. He then said he didn’t even check his own department for the thing that was missing, and said “oh I should have probably checked there before coming over here”. I also made it a point to text him later instead of using our emails because we need each other’s numbers for work. Let’s just say I’m ready to jump his bones and it feels good just to like someone ! This all happened in the same week. I’m excited to go to work. The bad part is I just got out of a relationship (that should have been over a looong time ago) so I need to calm the f-down!! Any comments are appreciated. | Crushes |
um so i have pretty good chemistry with this guy in person but hes a super dry texter and we only have good convos in person . we share one class in the morning and thats it D: i was also the one to ask for his number aughghghhh im f 16 hes m 17 lawl | Crushes |
I got added to her private story and she’s posted pictures of herself. I commented 🔥 and she responded with 😍, then I responded on her next private story with 😍 and she responded with 🥰. Then when I asked for her number, she left ☺️ as a response when I said thanks | Crushes |
She added me to her close friends list on Instagram and she sometimes posts private stories. She’s posted pictures of herself in a dress and some selfies. In the most recent one, it’s her with a kissy face and I commented 😍 and she responded with 🥰. And before I commented 🔥 on her private and she replied back with 😍. But she also never texts me first so I can’t tell. I asked her to hang out and she said thanks but I really can’t I have a lot of work so I think I’ll try and talk to her if I see her and talk about something else unrelated but if she brings up the texts about hanging out I’ll try and say I feel you I also have had mad homework so we could hang out sometime later. I didn’t text her for a week and I feel a little bad but now I know I can text first and she’ll respond so it’s fine but I can’t text too much, maybe like 2 or 3 times a week and I should try and talk to her once a week | Crushes |
She gave me her number after I had been dming on instagram for a month, but the thing is, I always had to text first. I even got to talk to her twice and she was nice. She remembered things I said over dms, and she made some eye contact with me. Then, when she left, she looked at me, smiled, and said bye to me. So she might be into me as a friend and I need to talk with her every chance I get. I texted her saying sorry I haven’t texted I’ve been busy with school, she said it’s ok I’ve also been busy. I hadn’t texted her for a week because I thought I said something out of pocket, but I think the conversation had just ended, and I think I should keep texting if I know she’ll respond, but I can’t do it too often, like 2 or 3 times a week would be perfect. I texted her asking to hang out this weekend, she said thanks for the invitation, but I really can’t I have a lot of work because it’s the end of the term. So should I text her again about something else or should I try and talk to her in person? Tbh, I know I should be more consistent with my texts | Crushes |
Got over him and fell in love with my best friend 🙏 | Crushes |
I've been meaning to do some baking recently and try some new recipes, and it got me thinking. Should I give the guy I like one of those tiny cakes? Like the lunchbox cakes. I don't wanna come off too strong but I think It'd be a nice gesture. Just wanted to share. | Crushes |
So I, (15 y.o. F) have had a crush on this kid (14 y.o. M) since the 7th grade. We’ll call him G. Over time, G and I become good friends and talk pretty regularly.
About four months ago, he told me he had a crush on this girl, let’s call her A. I was upset by this, but I got over it pretty quickly. It didn’t hurt our friendship though, so I was happy about that.
Two months later, he started dating the same girl. At the time, I wasn’t aware of this. That is, until he randomly texted me one day telling me not to talk to him online or in person anymore. I asked him why, and he simply said “Remember what I told you about that girl I liked? That’s why.” I was super confused, but I respected his wishes.
About two weeks later, he started texting me again like normal, and I assumed that whatever had happened between him and her was over.
Fast forward to last week, I start to notice A glaring at me in class and in the hallways. Mind you, I have never talked to A in my life. I also see that she’s started to get all her friends to join her in their points and snickering. I tried to ignore it, but it really bugs me.
Now, today, a friend texted me that she was having a conversation with A and A called me a “bitch and a slut who tried to get G to cheat on,” her. I then also get a screenshot of a picture of me that another girl, we’ll call her K, posted on her private story.
The picture is me walking in the hallway yesterday and it reads, “F-ing c-word.”
A couple other girls have also texted me confronting me on how I, “Tried to ruin A and G’s relationship,” saying it was “B-word-y,” of me, and honestly, I’m really scared to go to school on Monday.
Yay me ig 🫠
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Anyone here wanna talk about feeling lost even when having crushes? I just feel so insignificant and sad. Every time I see a couple walking by, I just feel like something is missing from my life. Maybe I don't really matter. | Crushes |
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Hi guys im pretty much lost bc i met someone and i really like her but i dont really know if i have a crush on her. I read this article to find it out myself: [https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/do-i-have-a-crush](https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/do-i-have-a-crush) and i have all of the things on the list except for part where i could imagine myself getting intimate w her. Can u guys help me out? and if u think i have a crush tell me why and also tell me how to ask her out??? | Crushes |
Title :) | Crushes |
I might aswell be overthinking since I tend to be the biggest overthinker but I just want to know what this wink face means like in what context because I can't tell if he's being flirty, joking or he just likes the emoticon and uses it for no reason💀 here's the text since I can't upload pictures
"Thank you So very much You
have been the only person that
has actually worried about me ;)"
I was thinking of responding this to like go along with it I dont know??
"Glad to ;)" | Crushes |
It's the last day of college. We are in the same class and haven't spoken to each other ever before. It's the first and last time I'm meeting him bc he lives in another state. Today we hung out with some mutual friends for a few hours. Later, everybody else left. I just said goodbye from afar but he came and side-hugged me. What does it mean ? Was he just being polite or does he want to keep in touch with me ? | Crushes |
He called me today and told me that our coworkers told him how I felt. He confessed that he has a gf who he's about to move in with. I'm sad, but also I'm proud of myself for shooting my shot. I may not have gotten the answer I wanted but went for it anyway.
We're currently on the phone talking and he's really nice. He even says he wants to get to know me better. I think I'm gonna be OK. Thanks, everyone. I wish you all the best. I wish the best for him, too. But I still have some hope leftover. I dunno. ☹️ | Crushes |
Alright so there's this boy at my school who I started to have a crush on
It first started when I accidentally pointed at him while I was talking to someone and he smiled very hard even when he was coming back aswell (I was in doors and he was outside) on the same day I caught him looking at me smiling
Ever since that happened he always smiles at me when I'm walking down the corridors .
I Remember a few months into the school I started I was turning the other way and someone asked him how about (my name} and and I didn't hear his. Response (they were talking about crushes) then when class finished and we were walking near hallway he kept coming abit close to me. During this first year he would always say hi to me
Idk if he likes me or not | Crushes |
I'm not sure if this is the right subreddit but I figure it's close enough. I (16M) have never kissed, been on a date or really done anything with a girl and I've always had the dream that I'll fall in love at first sight and we'll be eachothers first everything and I think I'll always have this dream until it gets inevitably crushed lol. But (I assume because of this) it takes me a long time to develop crushes and I only really get them for people as inexperienced as me. I really couldn't care less about sex relationship wise, it's so unimportant to me, all I want is to be in love and I hate the idea of casual hookups, and I don't think I can see myself having a one night stand in my life, but it'll happen at some point and I can't really see myself doing it with someone who's done it before. It's nothing to do with insecurities, just to do with the fact that I want us to be eachothers first everything. I'm also scared to really talk to girls because I always feel as if they've spoken to 50 other guys before and that they're speaking to more than just me at the moment. I'm not really sure how I can get to a point where I can accept that people have done stuff before, but not so far that I lose my principles on sex and relationships? | Crushes |
So I have a crush on this girl online and she knows about it but she doesn't like me back! Once, we were playing would your rather questions and she asks "Would u rather give up on them or kidnap them and lock them somewhere?" And for me giving up is not an option! What do u think? How can I kidnap her?! | Crushes |
So for the last few days now, this girl and I have been talking. From my perspective we hit it off really well, since we talked for large parts of the day other than today so far. I can already feel me building a crush for her but I'm not sure yet how she feels, however she did say that she might be open for a date when she has time, but she wants to test the waters first (which I completely understand). She seems great so far but I'm a little nervous I'm just falling too hard again and just allow myself to get hurt again. What can I do? | Crushes |
is there any way i can communicate with him daily ? | Crushes |
she unfollowed me & removed me from her followers on insta.. fuck I don't know what was the last straw ): atleast she still follows my spam & hasn't blocked me yet.. | Crushes |
It was just on the cheek. We're doing a sports week at school, and she won our class 6/8 goals we got (We won 8-0). It's the girl he likes, so he definitely isn't just being friendly or did it in the moment. I'm not even all that upset, just shocked he finally took some action. I usually call him a coward in my head, but he's done more than I could
I feel happy for him, but that doesn't stop me from feeling sad for myself | Crushes |
So I told him that I like him during lunch and he didn't react. He was silent the entire time and I took it as an "I don't like you the same way" and today we walked our way home in silence and now I think I fucked up with our friendship. I'm sitting on my bed drowning in tears. At least I got it off my chest and I can move on with no doubts about my feelings and his. | Crushes |
I'm 19 I've never had a relationship, first kiss, nothing. I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong, am I going after the wrong girls? Is it my personality? I've seriously no clue but it's so disheartening always being met with "sorry no I don't like you that way" every time I ask a girl out. Like I'm just sick of trying at this point because no matter how close I get with a girl and what signs they seem to give that the feel at least similar they always say no or ghost me | Crushes |
The title basically explains it.
My younger brother's friend is 12 turning 13 in September and I'm 16. I'm three and a half years older than him and i think he might have a crush on me. Obviously, I don't reciprocate the same feelings because he's way too young for me. I really don't know what to do because I dont want to break the little guy's heart.
Why I think he likes me:
He told my brother to tell me I'm pretty.
He hugs me everytime he sees me.
I catch him staring at me alot but I just laugh it off.
He would rather be with me than play games with my brother.
He recently wrote me a letter telling me how he feels.
Now, I'm not sure on what to do because I've never had anyone younger than me tell me they like me. Since he's my brothers friend, I also see him as my little brother. Honestly the letter was pretty cute but I just don't know the way to tell him I don't feel the same.
Y'all please, I really need your help. | Crushes |
Don't call me a pick me girl please :( but like all my friends' boys crush on them and wants to date them except me maybe because I'm so shy and don't talk alot to them , idk I've always feel this feeling I know I don't need anyone's love and I should love myself but I'm a teenager after all and sometimes I feel lonely and no one loves me and jealous of other girls :( | Crushes |
So I've been with this girl for about 11 years now and have been having feeling for quite a while. She's one of my best friends. So I've tol her bout my feelings that i genuinely feel for her and she hasn't said anything back and has been as usual with me.
Now comes my problem. Ever since she's in my brain I've been under trouble cause i don't get sleep anymore and just think of her and have to listen to songs to calm down and I've lost too much weight in the recent times as well after telling her. How do i approach her without being weird and ask her bout her decision and what do i do with this sleep and weight trouble?
Also I've developed a stong strong crush on her and getting rid of it now will take years as I've had feelings for her for more than 7 years... | Crushes |
I just want to tell my crush that I like her and let this pining and pain end. I want her to flat out reject me so that I can feel the pain and finally move on. I want to tell her irl but it’s getting to the point that I feel like I’m going to implode if I have to wait a month. I hate that it hurts so much yet I’m afraid that it’ll hurt more if she starts avoiding me because we’re also friends. My brain is chaos and it’s filled with scenarios and I’m just exhausted. I don’t know what to do. | Crushes |
We started getting to know each other about 2 years ago. Just a bit of talking. And this last year I've understood that I have feelings for her. And I dont know if she likes me back. We hung out like a week ago and went to an amusement park and held hands on the rollercoaster (I took her hand). People always ship us together, and one time when I had to change shirts, her friends shouted her name and called her over to watch my abs. I also had some of her friends over at my place and they said that my crush would like to be here right now. When i asked why they just told me never mind. My wingman asked my crush's best friend if she likes, and she told him that my crush think I am handsome, sweet, nice, and funny. We facetime sometimes, and snap each other everyday.
Is she into me? | Crushes |
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And also, what made them leave such a strong impression? | Crushes |
We were at a party at her House and when i was shitfaced she jokingly asked me if i liked her
I just laughed and did the ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and she looked shocked
Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck
Oh and before that she asked for my hoodie and i gave it to her, its still at her place
And if this shit could get worse... When i left i gave her a chocolate i that i meant to give her for her birthday, but she didn't come to school last friday
And now we're in winter recess (south América) and my brain gets 2 weeks to freely overthink everything | Crushes |
There is a girl who i formally know from past but never really had conversation with her. I was watching her stories on instagram and she was hiking in some interesting place, so i asked in her stories
- “what a beautiful place, may i ask where is that?” me
- “I believe it should be around 50 miles from the city towards north , but you can google it up”
- “Thank you! I will for sure visit this place” and i doubled clicked her message to like it
She liked my message back
All in all, she replied relatively quickly like in 10-15 minutes. Now i’m not sure whether to pursue talking to her or she is not interested in me. Any advice please? | Crushes |
we're dating now! We started dating on the 8th of July, and i have been freaking out for the last few days :D
we're both decent at drawing so both of us have made plenty of pictures of them kissing and hugging and doing wholesome things!
I haven't felt this good in a while, i'm now way more optimistic, and i have generally got a happier outlook on life :D | Crushes |
So I like this girl and she hasn't said a word to me ever but we often look at each other in class and when we see each other and tbh she might know but like idk. Anyway so a while back she viewed my tik tok acount and I viewed hers (i think) and I'm contemplating following her but it might come across as weird? Idk feel like this is the place to ask. | Crushes |
We saw least favorite, so what's the most favorite.
Mine is his intelligence and sense of humor and completely different perspective than mine. We are like polar opposites in so many ways. I think that's why he's attractive cause he's always interesting. | Crushes |
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I often get described as funny but I’m not sure if that’s a quality that men appreciate in a partner. If you’re a man, can you let me know what you think about funny women? | Crushes |
Hi Guys,
I am a junior in college. I really liked this girl since freshman year and am pretty sure she liked me back then too (asking me to walk to class with her, having flirty conversations, etc). However, I didn't make a move back then because I didn't feel ready to get into a relationship. Before I could overcome that lack of readiness, we were hit with covid and I lost two years. When I came back to school last semester, I asked her out, but she told me that she had just gotten out of a relationship and didn't feel ready to jump into a new one. I told her that if she changed her mind she should let me know and we would just continue to be friends.
Ever since then, I assumed that despite our continued friendship, there would be enough of an air of awkwardness that we wouldn't interact much with each other. But she was the first one to reach out since the rejection with "where are you interning for the summer", greeting me when we happened to see each other in public instead of avoiding eye contact altogether, and responding to one of my Instagram stories of my sister and me with "aww cute". Although all the conversations that followed these acts were incredibly curt and well within the bounds of a friendship, I can't help but feel that they are displays of interest. Either way, I feel like her response to me asking her out was pretty clear and the ball is in her court if she ever wants to date me. But my friends believe that her attempts to prevent the awkwardness from seeping in are indicative of a larger interest she may have in dating me. What do you guys think? Should I pursue her a little more aggressively and not just go completely cold on her?
Furthermore, I know there might be some of you that think she might be playing mind games with me for attention. However, I have to disagree with you on this. I have known this girl for the better part of three years now and I don't believe she is that kind of person. I generally take everything she says at her word and plan on continuing to do so moving forward.
Let me know what you guys think I should do. Thanks! | Crushes |
I didn't have a crush on someone for a while while I used to have many crushes before and I think the reason is that I'm scared to fall in love again | Crushes |
We started getting to know each other about 2 years ago. Just a bit of talking. And this last year I've understood that I have feelings for her. And I dont know if she likes me back. We hung out like a week ago and went to an amusement park and held hands on the rollercoaster (I took her hand). People always ship us together, and one time when I had to change shirts, her friends shouted her name and called her over to watch my abs. I also had some of her friends over at my place and they said that my crush would like to be here right now. When i asked why they just told me never mind. My wingman asked my crush's best friend if she likes, and she told him that my crush think I am handsome, sweet, nice, and funny. We facetime sometimes, and snap each other everyday.
Is she into me? | Crushes |
My crush (16m) and I (16f) have been friends for about a year now. I have a massive crush on him. I would have confessed already but he just had a really shitty breakup that broke his heart. I think he likes me too, on account that we were flirting a lot yesterday when we hung out. Not just regular flirting, though. We were basically cuddling and we were literally a Planck Length away from kissing. We even drew on each other and all that cute stuff lol. I digress. I’m nervous that if I confess he’ll say no, because he’s too scared to date again. My friends have assured me he’s not the type to flirt and not see it through, and that he isn’t the kind to flirt “for fun”. He’s very honest and straight forward. What do I do, Reddit? | Crushes |
So i know i have one crush(girl 1) that im genuinely obsessed with like fr fr but one girl said she wants me(girl 2) and im crushing all over again. The original girl (girl 1) i have never talked too💀 and im literally obsessed with her but all of a sudden (girl 2) comes along and im just as obsessed. Is this just some shitty attachment issues where i wanna fall in love with everyone that gives me attention or do i actually just like both coincidentally?
Note: completely different looking girls both very attractive but completely different ends of the spectrum | Crushes |
What made you realize? | Crushes |
I finally worked up the courage to text him on instagram, but i kind of got nervous and didnt know what to say so i said 'good morning' the next morning and he just reacted with a thumbs up. I would agree that I started the conversation really weirdly but does this mean he just didnt want to talk to me or am i just overreacting? | Crushes |
So my crush is my friend (of about 2 years), which already makes it a bit awkward, but last night we were talking about how many girls that had a crush on him that only knew him for about a week, (which was six girls, like woah) and the conversation went as followed:
Me: What’s your advise on rejecting people? I’ve never had to do it before, and I feel like it would be really hard
Him: Explain why you can’t be in a relationship, or why you don’t want to be in one. How about this, pretend I had a crush on you, how would you reject me?
Me: Well, I’ve known you longer than a week, I feel like I wouldn’t know how to handle that. Let’s pretend I had a crush on you, how would you reject me?
Him: Well, first off I’d be happy because your are very kind and caring
Me: Aww
And then he just totally avoids the question and goes:
Him: how would you confess to someone?
Me: probably by hiding feelings until I can’t take it anymore, and spill everything out in a big paragraph
Him: write that paragraph out, I’ll rate it
I then proceeded to poor my heart out into a text message, and played it off as “I would probably do something like that” to avoid awkwardness
Him: nice, very well structured
Me: how would you confess to someone?
He then tells me to play along, and everything I dreamed about happened, a confession of feelings I had wished for for so long, but then realized it was all pretend. That wasn’t fun lol
Me: Aww, thats very sweet. I feel like if you confessed to someone like that it would be adorable
Him: yeah, if only I confessed to my crush, (girl at our school), like that
So to sum things up, I just had a fake confession with my crush, and he doesn’t know it was all real | Crushes |
Is anybody else just tired of being single? I’m 18M and never been in a relationship, let alone kissed a girl. I feel like I’d make a decent boyfriend but no girls ever try to take the time and get to know me on a personal level, even as friends. A lot of my crushes in the past have been the troublemaker sort and even those who are not like that still friendzone me and don’t take the time to get to know me. I started uni back in March and met this girl who is completely amazing. She’s smart, she’s pretty, she’s confident but a quiet confident, we have so many common interests that we can talk about (both love to read and write, want to travel, love Harry Potter etc) and most importantly, actually wanted to get to know me on a personal level. In my eyes, some of her actions definitely made it seem like she was into me. About 7-8 weeks ago, she left me on read after i asked her a question related to a conversation we were in the middle of, and she’s started to act distant. I haven’t messaged her since as I wanted to see if she would start a conversation for once (she’s admitted that she’s bad at texting and her starting a conversation via text would show that she actually made an effort), but nothing… I hung out with her in a group setting that I organised today and she had a good conversation with everyone except for me. At this point, I’m confident that she’s ignoring me on purpose but also know that I haven’t done anything directly that would have hurt or upset her. Tbh, I’d much rather have her back as a friend and be able to at least talk to her because currently the silence is deafening. What do I do? My feelings for this girl are really really strong, much stronger than I’ve ever had for any other girl and I don’t want to try and move on. I’d rather feel this way for her with a small chance that she might like me back rather than have an empty heart. As Thor says, “I want to feel sh!tty for her.”
Tl:dr
I’ve been single my whole life and no girl has really taken the time to get to know me on a personal level. I met this new girl at uni, really like her but somehow messed up without realising it as she will no longer speak to me | Crushes |
Me and my crush have been talking for like a month now on snap, and we've even hung out. But all the sudden she ghosted me all day, and we lost the yellow heart (We were about to get a red one). And today she snaps and talks with me like nothing has happened. I'm kinda depressed, but we still talk over chats and I'm on her second placr on snap. | Crushes |
And how will he respond if he is actually interested?
Just to clarify, by clueless I mean that due to little to no pior relationship/crush experience, he might not be able to understand subtle hints/comments that I give and might think I am just being friendly. | Crushes |
I met this girl online at around January of this year. We went to the same college, but we never really saw each other until by complete accident on March. Ever since then, it's been uphill till about late May/early June. To keep a long story short, we had lunch plans, but she was either sick or busy, so we never got around to them, but I decided to call her as a joke and say that I was with my friends, so I didn't need lunch with her. Idk if it was cause she was busy, or she had a bad day and I had no idea, but needless to say, she was pissed. I was set on apologising to her in person, since apologising through text would probably have made things worse, but she was mad that I didn't apologise through text and earlier than I actually did. This has pretty much been going on for a month, and I ended up apologising in person, but she ended up dismissing it. I'm not an idiot, I can tell she's somewhat pissed still. I gave her a couple weeks away from me, cause a friend of mine suggested that maybe she's burnt out from me. I gave her 2 weeks, and initially she ghosted me, but after writing a long ass text message, she started talking again, but noticeably less than before. At that point, I realise that I'm better off as friends with her, and she said the same, but even after that, she's been so prone to ghosting me. It's like she doesn't even want to be friends. I'm probably not gonna see her till the summer, so I have till September to basically get over her, but it's so confusing how many twists and turns this has been going through. Why can't she just open up about her side, so the both of us could discuss what it is that she's pissed about? | Crushes |
We aren't close but we're friends.
I don't know why. But I think my crush doesn't know my name even though we've been friends for a year and i know he talks about me. My brain won't process the fact he knows my name, and even if he said it out loud in front of me, I still wouldn't believe it. Ah well maybe one day i'll bring myself to believe it, if my brain will cooperate | Crushes |
So basically me and this girl I really like where texting on Snapchat but instead of texting normally the text was sent in snaps and basically when we do this it’s usually just black screens or 100% zooms of like walls but this time she started showing bits of her face, her hair and and stuff like that, so I could clearly see that she was lying on her bed. Are these hints because honestly I can’t stop thinking about it.
And plus the next day she send me multiple streaks which was unusual of her and asked me what I’m doing which is somethings she’s never done
Thanks | Crushes |
I've been in love with my neighbor for 9 years (childhood crush) I haven't talked to him since covid but we used to be best friends. I'm starting to like my other friend, but I also like my neighbor. I want to be with my neighbor, but at the same time I don't really see myself building up the courage to talk to him. I feel like my friend and I would have a really fun, year long (maybe longer) relationship, but I don't see it lasting forever. I see my neighbor and I lasting forever though. So, do I get together with my friend and see where it goes and if we break up eventually go to my neighbor? | Crushes |
I dressed up and applied some makeup while he showed up in his pajamas lmao
Either way, even when I was extra clumsy and made some oopsies, I think we still had a fun enough time:D | Crushes |
I started having a crush on this girl since around September last year. I told myself I wanted to be friends with her first before I started to develop romantic feelings and now that I've gotten to know her I want to tell her. The majority of my past crushes tended to fade once the school year is over and even though we text after school ended I can feel the attraction start to fade away a bit too (even though I still really like her). This is the first serious crush I've had (the ones I mentioned before were stuck on elementary level) and this time I want closure. I don't want this to be one of those 'what if's' but I'm also just really scared of the outcome of asking this. I have no idea if she's even straight, she can be fruity sometimes but when I tried asking her for her pronouns & sexuality once she only answered with her pronouns. I'm just really nervous about all this | Crushes |
i want to kiss him sosososoososososossososososososoososos much. literally drown in his kisses or mouth or lips or body idk i love him so much | Crushes |
I am asking for help. I have had a previous relationship before about 5 years ago and it was online let’s just say it was super toxic relationship both sides. Well I was deeply crushed when we were forced to be apart and for good reason and i spiraled into major depression (also I don’t ever plan on trying to contact that girl it was bad news) I am not depressed anymore I got a lot of help and went to therapy during that time of my life. And let’s say I’m a very needy and have trust issues because I overthink and second guess but my coworker at work I have a huge crush she’s is 22f and I’m 21m quite a bit in common and then not which is okay because everyone’s different 😁 Every one keeps telling me to just ask her out or people ask me if her and me are dating depending on the person I tell them I wish and I’m trying to gather the courage to ask her! I’m so out of my comfort zone doing this that and I forgot to mention I tend to message her everyday which I feel I get carried away to much and she said once she really don’t care that I am messaging her so much but I keep overthinking everything I do. 5 years ago I told myself I wasn’t gonna let my guard down with love unless it’s the one and I think it is but love blinds me so badly that I am literally an emotional train wreck like yesterday messaging her at work the notifications weren’t working so I thought I was sending to many messages to her and so I expressed and said what I was thinking I don’t wanna express myself well I do but with my insecurities she would be so uncomfortable so today I kept the messages to a real low because it was her last vacation day and she’s back to work technically today so I sent her a few jokes and then told her before bed that I am working on messages if she was wondering if I was acting different. I have tried asking her to go out and something together but she’s been busy both times with valid reasons. Im sorry everyone im just venting and asking maybe for some feedback. I honestly think she’s into me and for sure I am into her we bullshit so much at work that we could talk for hours on stuff and then we find something we don’t know and we look it up and learn about it. I am usually the one who initiates the conversations just to talk with her 😊 and she responds when she gets a chance 😊 like she is helping me changing my bad habits like hoarding, and my alarm clocks and she is just helping me out of my negative habit comfort zone which is so helpful and she encourages me not to overthink things so much. I’m gonna try and wait a week or two try and ask her if she would want to meet up or something. Or do I just ask her out instead. I also tend to just tell her what happened this day and that. Very good to get that off my chest. I also forgot to mention that she has helped me realize that going to bed earlier is better because I’m a night owl like rn she would tell me if I told her I went to bed at probably gonna be 3 am that she is not suprised🤣 but I will prove her wrong tommorw night because I was decluttering my room 🤣 I want to also add that from the first time working with her we talk so much about anything and everything that I started to develop this crush not just because of her looks which are superb but I fell for her personality and everything about her like the way she sneezes to the way she laughs to the way her hair is even it’s a little crazy it don’t matter she is beautiful and there’s not enough words to describe her 😍 | Crushes |
Thank you to the kind people who commented on my last post. Someone suggested i make my feelings known and that is kinda what i did, albeit an accident.
I was telling my best friend basically that i think I'm like this person and they asked me some questions about it. Needles to say, the person i liked ended up finding out because my best friend told them. I asked my best friend if they could ask my crush if she was interested in anyone because I didn't want it to be too obvious, however thats the only thing I asked my best friend to do. I forgot to mention that and my best friend told my crush everything. My crush told my best friend that they don't like me like that.
It was at this point that i 100% knew that I did actually like them because when my best friend told me this, my best friend could hear the pain in my voice as well as my emotions going from
Thank you for taking the time to read and comment advice on the last post.
ETA: I am pretty sure I had feelings for my crush a while before my first post, but didn't pay too much attention to it until after my best friend asked me. That's when I “put the pieces together” and my feelings were and that itself made me suspect it.
Edit: Capitalization and rephrased some sentences | Crushes |
I’m 15, she’s 17. We have a few friends in common, one of which is trying to set us up, the other few are not opposed. I haven’t talked to her a lot, but I’ve had a few group conversations with her in band. She’s so pretty, and she’s always nice, and is just a very high class lady. I want her so bad. | Crushes |
I am crushing on a coworker. He's in a different department. Plus he's from China and his English is bad. So we haven't spoken about anything else besides work. I basically don't even know him. Besides his name, and the fact that he's good at his job. So then why in the world am I crushing on him? 😭😭😭 | Crushes |
my lowkey crush has a feelings for me but we don't know each other personally? what was the reason of him liking me? we only met once | Crushes |
Still no word from him! This is normal right? Most people don’t check their email very often is the summer right? Tomorrow I’m asking a Q to to u guys! | Crushes |
i just had a dream where me and my crush ran through a mall, and based on my
understanding we were trying to get back to a hotel room
no it was actually rlly fun and we weren't even buying anything in particular just running through the mall and i kept laughing, and when we took an escalator i fell on the steps & then later we actually ran into two of his friends (the mall was not crowded at all)
I also pulled out my phone to get a pic w him at one point and i got it, but this hoe stole at after and never gave it back😅 I'm just really sad it doesn't actually exist in my snapchat memories
i was actually really angry with him earlier (look at my post history), and everytime i am i always get these fun dreams of him. it gives me some kind of hope, and its been a pattern lately, im dying to know what its trying to tell me.
ETA: i actually kept asking if he supported LGBTQ+ rights and he got so tired of me asking (he said he did) | Crushes |
Hehe | Crushes |
I have a crush on a guy that works in the deli area in the grocery store I work. I have gone up to the deli service area to order from him and he is shy. I walk by him sometimes and he doesn’t say hi but he knows me now. Sometimes I don’t either because I’m a very shy person as well. I walked by him today and said “Hi his name”. He said hi back. I have heard him talk to other coworkers he knows and he is more talkative with them. With strangers and me he is not so talkative. He did get more friendly once when I said “Hey his name” to get his attention to return some meat someone didn’t want anymore.
Today, I found it strange that when I was on the express line as a bagger, he didn’t come to my line even though it only had 2 people with little bit of items to purchase. He chose to stand in the other line that had 3 people in head of him. He didn’t seem to have over 15 items from what I could tell. He also went through his purchases in his grocery bag near me some reason. And also stayed a bit to talk to the cashiers. I came over to help the cashier near him. He talked a little more and he made a joke. Like less than in a minute later he left.
Does he like me? Or I’m I over thinking it?
Sorry for babbling a lot 😅 | Crushes |
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To keep it brief im like 0-5 so im not lucky. This girl I was talking to said she liked me and i liked her. We made plans for dates but something always happened last minute. I learned today by asking her stuff. I was basically her second choice to another guy. I thought she loved me but i guess not. I was led on and lost. I'll never find love. This happens everytime. | Crushes |
I've had a crush on this girl for months and I told her on valentines day. We are somewhat friends and I started to like her a little bit after becoming friends. She never said anything until like the beginning of this month (april) when I texted her about it which she replied with telling me she likes me too. We aren't dating tho. We have a lot of similar interests but obviously there are some things we individually like. I like kdramas and kpop which is something she doesn't like. We have a class together and one day I was watching a kdrama when we were about to walk out of class. She saw and asked "are you watching that Chinese stuff?" I didn't have a problem with that and I said "it's korean get it right". After that she said "it's some foreign b*llsh*t". This I did have a problem with but I didn't reply cause we were walking out of the class and going in different directions. I feel like I'm being a bit dramatic with the way I feel after she said that. I feel like I still like her but not as much and I don't get as happy to text/talk to her as I once did. Am I being dramatic with my reaction or am I responding in a good way? | Crushes |
We were great friends when we were young, but ended up drifting apart. I always regretted that, and so when I finally got an excuse to talk to her again I took it. But now that the whole thing has sunk in it is absolute terrifying. I have no clue if she agreed to meet because she actually missed me, or if she feels bad for some chump stuck in the past. Her texting patterns are erratic and I’m not sure what to expect for how much she has changed. I’m going in nearly entirely blind. I really hope I don’t end up coming off as desperate and completely void of personality.
If she still hugs me the way she did back then maybe things will be alright. | Crushes |
Crush said she did like me back, but she also said she wasn’t ready to date. I was sad of course, but I didnt want to ruin what we did have.
Now I’m friendzoned, even though she still may like me back (may be another term but I don’t have a clue.) | Crushes |
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