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Has it ever happened that with a crush it actually went well and something happened? I'm pretty sure not. | Crush |
Tomorrow is the last day. I had a HUGE crush on her for 4 years. She is beautiful, perfect personality and motivates me to be happy and be alive. She is a shy girl. The reason i havent asked out is because when i dated a girl everyone was telling and she flirtet with my classmate. Im gonna ask her out tommorow. Wish me luck boys and girls | Crush |
i had this huge crush on this guy and he was leaving the country. So i decided to send him a gift with 3 things that I observed he likes a lot with some cute notes on each.
I did make sure that those notes do not show any of my feelings bc i dont want him to found out lol.
but yeah wish me luck. i hope he likes it bc i think this is the first time i’ve ever done this much for a guy. | Crush |
I was pondering on whether or not muscles and good looks can make up for a lack of charisma or good personality. And if a girl does judge you on whether or not you’re working out everyday is it worth it to improve yourself just for that single person? Basically what I’m wondering is, do you still have game if your kind of skinny or kind of overweight? | Crush |
There’s this friend I have who I talk with from time to time. There are periods of time where we talk like almost everyday and I love talking with him and want to talk with him more, but there are other times where we don’t really talk. He’s in the back of mind sometimes, and I think he’s pretty attractive and he’s a good match for me but I’m confused on whether I actually “like” him, or like him as a friend, or if just am attracted to him, or like his attention.
So, my question is how do you know if you actually have a crush on someone verse if you just like their attention? | Crush |
She’s dating someone else but a while back I felt like we had a connection but we haven’t talked in a long time | Crush |
https://youtu.be/LKXBwh2z8X0 | Crush |
I have crush on this girl. I saw her outside and she was looking at me and she was smilling.Also she was trying to not be so obvious when she was looking at me, but i catched her. Me and my friend were walking to her and I said "Hi" and she said "Hi" and we went away. After 10 minutes i get back and i saw her that she was looking at me I asked her a question but this time she was looking at her phone but she replied back but the reply wasn't generic like Yes or No. Idk if she's interested? | Crush |
there is this girl i like but i wanna talk we arent that close but i wanna start a convo we talked before but we havent talked in a while any convo starters? | Crush |
There's this really sweet guy I work with who is a couple years older than me. All my coworkers are super nice but this guy always makes an effort to ask how I am and return to conversations we've started. His kindness and sense of humor have really captured my interest, and we have a lot of fun at work even though that's the only place we've talked.
We have a lot in common and I'd love to shoot my shot with him but we'll be in different states in the fall. Plus, he's a Mormon and I'm an atheist. I honestly don't care about his religion but I know from experience with "friends" that he or at least his family would likely have a problem with my atheism.
This is all just exciting to me, even if it goes nowhere. I've never been in a relationship or felt this way about someone. He makes me feel so warm and happy inside, and I hope we at least get to stay friends | Crush |
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Don't believe pessimists who say hardwork doesn't pay off. What matters if for you to put your head in the game and pursue your goals. It all starts with having the right mindset and having the courage to pursue your goals. | Crush |
I haven't really been on this subreddit before so idk if I'm supposed to ask for advice.
I (15F) used to have a crush on this boy(17M) and I asked him out but he rejected me. 1 year later, I now have a crush on his twin brother (17M). Should I even go for this? I don't really talk to my ex crush but after a while he seemed to stop being so uncomfortable around me and even invited me to his friend group. His brother is also part of that friend group and I have been developing a crush on him.
tl;Dr - I have a crush on my ex-crush's brother. should I even ask him out or is that weird? | Crush |
[https://youtu.be/vC1PV2FI074](https://youtu.be/vC1PV2FI074) | Crush |
Long story short, I have social anxiety disorder. Ever since i started my new job, its been pretty alright I've made lots of friends and I haven't really felt all that anxious. BUT theres a guy. A coworker shoved me in his direction (I was trying to get his number and was wayyyy too afraid to do it myself) and i got his phone number about a month ago and we've been using snapchat ever since. The problem is, we never talk in person. I've only ever talked to him for work stuff. I keep missing opportunities to say hi, even if I think ill do it before hand. I'll say to myself ok ill say hi this time, I got it" and then when I see him I just... freeze. He's also a shy person and hasn't really approached me either. My friends just tell me "just go up to him and talk its not that hard it won't even be bad" but i just freeze and I cant make myself talk to him. I havent had anxiety this bad in over a year.
Anybody have any tips? | Crush |
you can find anything you search about a relationship in this[ channe](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTez4lECMMM)l If you want to build a better relationship with your girl-friend, do the following things:
relationship with your girl-friend, do the following things: Talk to her every day on things that matter Ensure you ask the questions that make her talk more Take interest in what interests her
Make her the most important person in your life Spend time with her Find out what she likes and do more of those things Give her space when she needs it Do small things to show her you care Give her romantic small talk Let her know in all the creative ways possible that you love her Ensure that the people important to [her are respected](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTez4lECMMM) | Crush |
So I have a crush on a coworker for 2 years now. She recently was a project manager but got a promotion to become the head of a small section in our company. Not a big deal but still has a much higher position than me. I‘m just an assistant in training. In the first year of my training I was in the same section for 6 months (she was still a project manager back then). I only had the possibility to ask her something work related once. After I changed section we always said hello to each other but nothing more. In December 2019 I arranged a small meeting of 30min with her so she could help me with something very simple. Before the meeting she asked me how I was and how work is. It was really sweet but i was so damn nervous and couldn’t ask her much back. I was also very shy. But she was very helpful and really cute. What I’m about to say is that we never really worked with each other nor talked much. I don’t know much about her and she doesn’t know me that well too. But I’m still crushing hard.
In 3 weeks I’m about to leave the company and pursue my dreams. So I’ve decided to ask her to go out for a coffee. I just want to get to know her. But I’m very afraid she might decline.
There are some reasons of a possible rejection:
1. She is 18 years older than me (I’m 20 btw)
2. I’m also a female
3. She is a boss and I’m “just” an assistant
4. I don’t know if she is interested
I thought since I’m leaving the company its not much of a big deal for me to ask her out. Nothing date related just as old colleague to get to know her better and maybe find some stuff out like if she has a bf/gf or if its even worth it.
Helppp | Crush |
AHHHH ACCIDENTLY UNFOLLOWED MY CRUSH AND FOLLOWED AGAIN SHIT SHIT. She will now I’m doing this for attention. Anyone has a gun? | Crush |
[https://youtu.be/\_XcvrHc5G2U](https://youtu.be/_XcvrHc5G2U) | Crush |
So I'm prefacing this with the fact that I have a girlfriend of four years. I love her, but I honestly don't see a future with her anymore. Im wishy washy though so I never know.
Anyways, I'm not asking if this girl likes me or anything like that. I'm just trying to figure out if she could be "interested" in me.
Last night we worked together for like 4.5 hours and pretty much talked the whole time with no awkwardness or pauses, which is quite rare for me.
We had a bunch of similarities and found interests in very similar topics.
She kept saying that she is going to be single forever... And she's gonna be a single mom if she doesn't find someone... Stuff like that.
She also kept saying how she doesn't have anyone to hang out with.
If I was single I would have definitely jumped on that.
I can't explain exactly how she was acting but it was a very playful very light flirt.
Anyways today I snapchatted her and its been taking about 30-55 minutes for her to respond.
I know she may be holding back a bit due to me having a girlfriend. I just don't want to leave my girlfriend because I believe love is built.. I'm just not sure if it's time to build it with someone new.
I will not cheat on my girlfriend but if I find someone whom I connect with and is interested in me, I may let go and build a connection with someone new.
I know this makes me a shitty person, my brain is just a mess and I'm trying to figure it out.
So... Do you think she could be interested? Thanks | Crush |
[https://youtu.be/LKXBwh2z8X0](https://youtu.be/LKXBwh2z8X0) | Crush |
I need ideas on what I should say if someone asks me stuff like “do I know you” and “how did you find my account”
Without making it sound weird or creepy.
I found my crush account but because of quarantine, I never really got to speak to him. Please feel free to comment any tips or ideas. Literally, any. Have a good day/night | Crush |
Feelings are mutual.. We’ve just been a flirtationship for several months.. He said to his friend that he wants it to become more but doesn’t want to mess things up... I’m so lucky that friend told me 😅
I do love him, I’m certain.. but I SUCK at starting the flirts and such... I don’t know when in a conversation I should, or If I should just say it as he goes to bed... or what | Crush |
Hi I'm a boy and i liked a girl from my class since 2grade . But now it's an end of 8 grade and we will be going to a different schools. I have been friends with her for a long time but we haven't done a lot of stuff together we would only talk on someone's birthday or so. I tried asking her out on valentines day in 5 grade to go ice skating we did ice skate a bit and she got bored and said let's bring some friends next time. I really like her and I want to ask her out but I'm really really scared to do it and i think she would just friend zone me.What should I do? | Crush |
Hi I'm a boy and i liked a girl from my class since 2grade . But now it's an end of 8 grade and we will be going to a different schools. I have been friends with her for a long time but we haven't done a lot of stuff together we would only talk on someone's birthday or so. I tried asking her out on valentines day in 5 grade to go ice skating we did ice skate a bit and she got bored and said let's bring some friends next time. I really like her and I want to ask her out but I'm really really scared to do it and i think she would just friend zone me.What should I do? | Crush |
Okay so i have a crush on A. A is an amazing person. We like a lot of the exact same stuff, and have the same humor.. I’ve known A for over two years. The thing about A is, he claims relationships are dumb for our age.. (I’m 15)
He’s never been in a serious relationship.
But It’s kinda like I know that he’s correct...
They are kinda odd. They’re not going to end up anywhere, it’s obvious. But I still want one lol...
He’s super cute though...
He’s suuuppperr short xD
I’m 5’ 6 and he is 4’ 11”
We’re actually quite close.. We always vent to each other and have been to each other’s houses. I spent the night at his, but it was for a birthday party and a ton of my friends were there, so I don’t really count it.
He has said several times i am his best friend.
He says he doesn’t want a relationship...
But I caught him telling his friend that he would kiss me back if I ever kissed him... that he would sleep with me if given the opportunity...
He doesn’t know I heard yet......
I don’t know what to do? | Crush |
All my crushes I’ve liked I’ve tried to sweep em under the rug and just admire them because im almost always certain they will be disgusted at me for my skin
Tmi!!
I have eczema so i have dark discoloration all over the backs of my thighs and buttocks along with scabs, and ive been trying to accept the fact that I’ll probably have guys turn me down because of it. What would you do if u found that out about your girlfriend?
(Im regularly visiting doctors and taking medication) | Crush |
I like this one chick. Miss her. Want to definitely ask her out. But i dont think she likes me 0.o tough ughh 😒 | Crush |
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Every day is a joy to be alive and since I am blurring the line between work and pleasure. I wish more people could see it. Unfortunately, many of them are closed-minded and won't consider anything that won't bring them validation from others. Instead, of finding happiness in their daily acts. | Crush |
I´m boy i have crush on my ex classmate, because i went on another high school. We have not talked for 3 years. We have been very good friends for long time. She has been flirting with me quite long but i was stupid and didn´t catch it. IDK if i should do first step. I literally didn´t know what to do, so i created reddit account especially for this situation. i think she might not be interested in me NOW. And if I will do the first step how should it look like? ask her out? Or just go easy and start to chat with her and then, when we will be more in contact then ask her out or what? i had an idea but idk if it will work. i will ask her out and then tell her i was playing truth or dare, and i picked dare, so i had to ask her out? Would it work (girls tell me, u know better what would work)? please help me | Crush |
long story short i was talking about my parents and if they died cause they are sick and i was crying last night thinking about it
i asked him if it ever happens what would you do
he said idk yet cause im not that form of me yet but he said he'll never leave me alone
i said ill try to be happier its hard though sometimes and he said i know just take it one day at a time.
we'll get there eventully
i asked would you take me in he said id need to be ready ad stable but yeah.
and he hopes he will be | Crush |
Does anyone gets a little bit heartbroken when they see their crush getting engaged or married? | Crush |
We are both 14 and she’s been my best friend for 5 years i fell in love when we were 12 i remember the exact thing that happened we were at recess and we were lifting our arms up and spinning as fast as we could we both fell like 30 seconds later and we were laying in the grass everything was spinning so fast we were both laughing and right when i looked in her blue-green eyes the world stopped we were laying there just looking at each other until it was time to go inside. anyway i’m crying now because i really want to kiss her but i don’t want to make it awkward and we are both girls and both bi and i think she likes me the same but i don’t know if it’s just because she’s my friend or she likes me too HELLPPPP - a very gay girl | Crush |
Bruh one time I stand next to her I could smell her perfume and her voice its so cute | Crush |
Hey guys ..I need your opinion...Recently I met a guy he is very kind , smart .handsome and he really seems like a very nice and caring person...and I think that I start to like him but the problem for me is that I am 18 years old and he is 25-26 ...I don't know what to do ...it's a big difference😭 | Crush |
As the title suggests, yes. I essentially cheated on my crush.
Regardless of how we met, we hit it off and continued to click for two months now.
Just a two weeks ago, we both confessed to liking each other and even were about to date, except he admitted that a woman in he used to bang was also pregnant with his kid. I told him this was a deal breaker and he understood.
The two days after that confession was normal, just playing videogames and chatting with each other and our friends, except he stopped talking to me almost all together.
The only messages we exchanged were only "Good Morning" and "Good night" every day which even then stopped after a week and a half.
Ultimately, I was convinced that he didn't take interest in me as a friend all together and so I..
I went online and ended up being lovey dovey and gushy with a dude I used to talk to and he gladly reciprocated.
However, only 2 days or so after that.
My love interest pops back into life, we called and even fell asleep together that night on the phone. He explained how it was up to him to go into extra work drive mode in order to pass all of his classes to graduate. Which he accomplished.
Now. I'm stuck with guilt.
I'm not asking to be excused for this, but I'm instead asking of how to tell him that I ended up being gushy with another guy? However I still want my love interest with him? | Crush |
ok so i have an crush on this boy at school and he knows but he doesn't like me.we are friends tho but why does he call me darling,baby girl,baby if he doesn't like me?i need help
edit:for everyone who responded to my post it really help | Crush |
So there’s this guy in my class who I assume likes me, by the looks he gives me, and like whenever I walk past him he looks at me as well as his friends.
So the other day I was walking around with my friend. We walked past the group he was sitting with, which was like a few of his friends (both girls and boys), and when we were a few metres ahead of them one of the girls called out my name. Both of us stopped, and turned around. I didn’t say anything, nor did they, and I couldn’t really see them because of the sun but I know they were looking at me.
I don’t really talk to those girls (they do some dodgey things) so I don’t know why they called my name, so I assumed it was because of the guy. I walk past those girls a lot and they never call out my name. I know friends do that kind of thing when crushes walk past.
Could this mean something? I like him too, but I haven’t told anybody about it and haven’t made it obvious. | Crush |
I liked this girl for a while and just recently i got to know that she likes to go to a place in my country which is like ibiza where there are a lot of clubs and bars and I dont like the place as I am more of a quiet person. Should I give up on her ? | Crush |
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I have become much more focused. Now I can accomplish small victories every day. Unlike many of my peers, I don't feel disappointed with life or feel the weight of my shoulder to succeed. Rather, I already succeed a little victory a day. | Crush |
No no. It’s not like that. I was just thinking about a girl that I’m friends with, and how we used to be more than friends. And I don’t even think I care about how beautiful the other girl was. The memories I have with this single person are amazing. She just wants to be friends now, and I said that’s fine. But I am starting to develop feelings for her again. I honestly don’t even know what I think anymore. | Crush |
She’s beautiful, jaw dropping. I don’t know if people think of her the same way I do. She’s gorgeous. I got her number a few days ago and texted her last night. The conversation was very short and ended quickly. It went no where. We never talk during school. I wonder if she knows how much I think of her. I hope she thinks of me. I doubt she likes me too, I’m not exactly good looking. | Crush |
Alot has happened between me and my crush and I really just want to talk to someone and get some advice | Crush |
I'm a 15 year old boy and I have a crush on this girl at school and I talk to her in lessons but it's only about work,she seems to be more interested in talking to her friend but the good thing is she asks a lot of questions which I try to answer but sometimes I'm just too nervous and I also found her snap but idk if I should add her or not because she doesn't talk to a lot of boys apart from a few, she doesn't seem to be interested at all in me which is the reason I want to stop liking her because what's the point of trying to get someone that doesn't like you back. So should I try talking to her or leave her? | Crush |
Right lads and lassies what’s the craic. Basically I like this girl right and she’s great. She’s gorgeous, funny, beautiful body. Only problem is my friends and her friends just don’t really hang about. I don’t actually speak to her. I don’t know I feel like a weirdo if I try to text and I don’t wanna tell my mates cause they’ll just sleg me all the time. Please help. I really like this girl.
Update: So I know this isn’t a big deal but she just added me back on snap | Crush |
A couple years ago I met this guy and he was always the sweet, overprotective, made sure I'm okay kind of guy, but at the time he had a girlfriend so I thought nothing of it. Over time I've found him going on my insta and liking a bunch of pictures from awhile ago, this happened twice. Recently we ran into each other and he ended up texting me later seeing how I was doing and it being a great conversation, this made me start thinking about him a lot and wondering what's going on in his head, or how he feels about me. A mutual person for both of us told me that he asks about me all the time. Am I crazy for catching feelings and thinking that I might have a chance, everytime I try to text him now, it's been pretty dry and doesnt seem like the same person I used to know :/ | Crush |
Heyy guys. Can I ask for your opinions? I'm male, not sure if I'm a bisexual, maybe I am but can't just admit to myself. Well, some people notice that I am no or gay. But the fact here is that I never tried to admit it because I am not really sure. So guys, I have this guy, my classmate, and I really like him so much! I love his intellectual mind and the way he express his opinions. And of course, he's also cute!!
I'm really close with his brother and their classmate before, and actually still in the same section in the present. BTW, my crush and his bro are my classmate. So we interact with many things.
His brother knows that I like him. And he really support me and that's a good news! Well, he always talk about my crush. On how my crush praise and noticed me always with my achievements and the way I react with many things. He always say my name like "oh he's great!" and so on.
He even asking his brother, which is my friend, if who's my crush is. He's curious about this because I think he already knew.
Do you guys think that I have a chance? Shall I admit it already or it's too early? It's between when I admit that I like him, he'll be mine and will also say his feelings if he actually has,,but on the other hand, he may be so annoyed and he'll just leave me alone. Like wth. | Crush |
When I was in 8th grade (I'm 21 now, so this was 7 years ago), I was obsessed with a girl in my English class, let's call her Carrie (not her real name). She was slightly shorter than me, had short brown hair, brown eyes, black glasses, and she had the cutest laugh. Carrie wasn't my first crush, I've had crushes on girls before and since meeting Carrie. but she was the first girl I thought I was in love with. I was 14, so I didn't know what it felt like to be in love. I guess I thought I loved Carrie because she's the only girl I had a crush on that I thought liked me back. I kept my feelings for her a secret because we didn't know each other personally.
It all started one day in English, English is my worst subject, but everyday I looked forward to seeing her facet; to quote Busted, she was what I went to school for. I remember we were reading a play of some kind out loud. There was one scene where the character I was reading for kisses her character. The teacher said "Aren't you guys so glad we're not acting this out", the rest of the class agreed, but I kept quiet. I kept my feeling for her in a journal where I wrote love poems about her.
Eventually, since I would never had the courage to tell her how I really felt about her. I wrote a note that said "I LIKE YOU" in big, bold, bright colored letters with flowers and butterflies surrounding the letters. She thought it was really sweet. Like an idiot, everyday I passed her love notes. Understandably, I had a feeling she was creeped out by it. I wanted to wait to gain the courage to tell her how I felt her and ask her out, but I waited too long.
One day I passed the strand love note "I like you. Do you like me? Check yes or no.", Carrie didn't check either box, she wrote on the entire note "I have a boyfriend". I was crushed and I have not forgotten it.
I haven't seen Carrie much since then. I remember walking passed her in the halls a couple times in 9th and 10th grade, but that's about. A couple of years ago, I do remember going downtown for a local festival my mom dragged me to, and I ran into her and we said Hi to each other, but at that moment I wished I had the courage to talk to her and tell her how I felt. It's like God thought we belonged together and finally gave me another chance, but I blew it. Since then, I can't stop thinking about her
Moral of the story: If a girl likes you back, don't go too far creep her out by being a lovesick puppy | Crush |
She knows I'm into her. My best buddy told her in hints and she found out. I kind of like that. I've been helping her out at work any chance I get, obviously going out of my way for her. My other buddies say its obvious and I kind of hope it us. The only thing is. I called in yesterday, and my best buddy told her how her, him, and I should go out for lunch today afterwork. She said she was down yesterday, but today when I asked her she said she was tired. Idk maybe i'm overthinking it, but if she knows I'm into her than...? | Crush |
So I've been friends with this guy for a while, except we're about 1000 miles apart. We met through a minecraft server and we always talk on voice chat when we play together. I tend to get attached to people really easily and I did get attached to him but because of the distance, and how much we talk, I think I've grown to like him.
He's one of the few guys that understands my mental health and wasn't driven away by it and it makes me really happy whenever I get to talk to him or joke around with him.
He's even jokes about me moving to the state he's in after I "make it big on youtube" because he knows it was one of my original options for after college. He's one of my biggest supporters for me streaming and making youtube videos.
I'm terrified to try flirting(subtlety because I have severe social anxiety) because I dont want to ruin the friendship we have. But it kills me to not be able to do something. | Crush |
so there is this girl I like she's been showing signs that she likes me so I decided to ask one of my close friends(also her friend) out. couple of days later I asked her if she wants to come,she said sure ill ask and that was 3 days ago. Today I sent her "hey did u ask ant Thursday?" she's been leaving me on delivered fir 2 hours. She viewed my private account story and she's online every now and then but hasn't opened our dms yet. What does this mean???? | Crush |
We kind of arranged to have sex, but didn't because of lockdown. And for weeks now, I've started getting feelings for him. I used to like him a year or two ago after we kissed at a party, but I remember after that, he cut me off and was chatting a different friend up at a party. I don't really want to like him and I'm trying to get over it, particularly because I'm scared of him flirting with some other girl. It's hard to get over him when he's in the friendship group though, cause I am in contact with him a lot through the group chat, etc. | Crush |
ill keep lt short. If someone (same sex as you)asks you give me one advice to attract my crush what would it be? Me being a guy id say hit the gym n get a good pheasyque. Pls include ur prefered gender so i know from who to who is the advice | Crush |
So there's this guy I absolutely cannot stop thinking about but I feel like everything is soo messed up rn.
I joined clg with a completely different look.
Everybody treated me differently and I was pretty confused about it.I've always had really low self confidence.I still hate the way I look regardless of the compliments because I was bullied in the past for being ugly.I was crowned Miss Fresher even tho I put in absolutely no effort.
I didn't really talk to a lot of ppl and stuck with the few friends I made. One day I got a cheesy note which said
"Hey (my name),
Your beauty was made in heaven and you were made for me.I promise to confess soon."
It was given to me by this girl from my batch who told me a senior had given it to me , I dismissed it as being fake and cheesy.I told her I wasn't interested in anyone. Frankly I could care less then.
Everyone i knew kept talking about this guy in my batch, apparently he was really handsome. I dismissed the thought because I thought he was nothing special at the time.
Then I noticed him following me around wherever I went,constantly staring and his friends screaming his name everytime I was around.
I overheard them telling him to "stare at her as long as you can","Look who's here,your girl" and pushing him towards me and him profusely blushing.
His friends are the most popular guys in the clg and a lot of ppl observed this shit all the time.
Many of my classmates coming up to me and asking me if I was okay . I acted like I didn't know what they were talking about.
That's when I noticed my crush,this isn't the first time this has happened so I dismissed all of it.Until my friends kept bugging me that he kept staring at me dreamily and that he was actually really into me.Mind you my friends were discrete about it and I just told them it was not possible.
For some reason I started to crush on him but never told anyone but my Bestfriend about it who dosen't go to the same clg.I made sure to not look at him or talk about him.
Two of my friends liked him and I really didn't want to piss them off. So I acted completely disinterested in him.
Even then they kept putting me down for the way I looked and what I wore.
They made sure to let me know that he was too good-looking for me.
But also told me i could do way better.
Again I'm confused about them.
Why do girls feel the need to put a girl down for no reason??
They're toxic and I plan to cut them out soon.
We have a really informal clg page on insta which has the dumbest polls and ratings.
There was a rating for the "best looking students in clg"and we both were placed at the 2 position.
Then out of nowhere everybody started talking about how we would be a really cute couple and that we liked each other.
I kept ignoring it until it showed up on the clg confessions page. I was soo confused when a poll was set up if he had a crush on me or not.The result was 70% yes and 30% No.
I asked the admin of the page to remove it cause it was nobody's business and quite frankly I didn't know the guy
The admin ignored me and told me I was being dramatic. So I texted the guy that I didn't know who he was but to get that post removed cause I didn't even know he existed. Kinda mean I've been told .
He responded ASAP and told me to ignore others opinion but I just texted him to remove it again.
He said he got it removed and when I asked him if he knew where they rumours had come up from he conveniently said he thought it was my friends.
I know for a fact my friends would never talk about his sorry ass to other ppl.
So I told him it was his fault and because of his annoying friends. He sounded extremely offended and said he didn't give a fuck.
I left him on read.Only to open the page to see a confession that I was a self obsessed bitch and didn't deserve him and that I was nothing compared to him.
Apparently I had the rumours made up about us and everything was my fault.
This was honestly really demeaning to me . Fucked up my rep to another level .
I deactivated my account and ghosted everyone.Even after that the confessions kept pouring in saying that it was his fault and everyone asked him to apologise to me. He just said his name was dragged into this and that he doesn't care.
A month after this I found out he was the one who gave the note to me.
During online classes, He does the dumbest things for attention.
Keeps posting things about how "His crush hates him".
He apparently deactivated his account a few days after I did for whatever reason.
I'm still so confused as to why this happend or how.
Did he ever actually like me??
I really need some advice on this situation.
I'm really hurt frankly.
My self confidence has crashed again completely and I've cut most of my friends out.
For some reason I've finally accepted now that I had a crush on him.
I plan to get over it tho
But is this situation my fault???
If so can I make it better in any way | Crush |
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yeah so a new friend (18m) of mine (16f) started initiating conversation with me more, actually every day, since I stopped pestering him with me initiating conversation. He is not very open and is quite formal but is seemingly opening up to me. He is a bit dorky but in an endearing way. I try to respond with thoughts that come to me, however, during conversation he tends to answer with one word responses or just not open responses in general and that leaves me in the blank. i cant tell if he wants to continue conversation with me or just runs out of social energy throughout conversation.
tl;dr\~dude initiates conversation with me but tends to answer quite formally or in a not open manner. i cant tell if he still wants to talk to me. | Crush |
Hello, first time here,
I'm on a relationship for 8 years, we're happy most of the time, and we love each other. We have our fights and differences, but which doesn't have problems, am I right? Last Carnival I began to develop some feelings for a friend. I remember clearly, we're both dancing as some friends were djing a party at home, at some point I noticed that we stare at each others eyes for about a minute. My gf was there too, I can't really remember were she was at the time, while I was dancing with her. You see, I was just dancing with a friend, like I've always done in parties. At the time, my crush had a boyfriend. Couple of months passed, my crush and her boyfriend broke up after a long relationship (about 5 years). We met at another party, at one of our friend's house. We talked for sometime and I comforted her about what happened. She was of course sad, so we only focused on having fun. I didn't gave much though of what happened before to us at the time. Some months had passed, I noticed she was still in the back of my mind, but I convinced myself it was just a silly crush that would never grow into something more. Then another party with just a group of close friends were scheduled. I was really excited, I love my friends from the bottom of my heart. Then I realize that she would probably go to, since she's a close friend to us, too.
I prepared myself for not doing anything stupid, buried this feeling deep inside of me, and only focused on having fun. And that's what I done.
On the first day, while my friend were playing there I was talking with her for the most time, we talked about friendships, sex, parental disapproval, and many more things that I don't clearly remember right now. Whenever I would go on the party, she would be there, and I was doing the same think, without really thinking. In my mind I was just having fun. When the first day was beginning to end. she asked me if I wanted a cup coffee, I accepted, and then she called me on the Kitchen, the 2 of us alone. When I noticed how clos we're talking to each other, I grabbed my cup of coffee, drank it up, and the returned to the dance floor. The first day was over, everyone who was still awaken went to their beds, me included.
On the second day, I was urging for any moment we could talk again, and indeed there were sometimes we talked a lot. At one time, she was talking about why her relationship ended, I talked about my relationship problems too, we then started talking about sex, what we like and about chemistry. We even talked about understanding why people cheat, and fear of letting down a loved one. I started to fear I would betray my gf, so I started to drank a lot to forget theses thoughts. Thank god nothing happens.
Now here I am, 2 weeks later, and I can't get her out of my mind. I'm feeling guilty for feeling this way about this person while I am on a relationship with an amazing woman. If you read everything, thanks, I needed to take this out of my chest somewhat, but I can't talk about this with my friends yet. | Crush |
guys, do guys hide from the girl they like or have a crush on when they see their crush in the hallway? and why or what is the reason why guys hide or avoid the girl they like or have a crush on when they see her? does it mean he does’t like to see her or talk to her? or does’nt want her to see him? or does he hiding something? | Crush |
I posted this to a different thread a few days ago but I still need advice.
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Hi Reddit, I have a problem. Quarantine has left me alone with my thoughts, which has brought some old feelings back to fruition. One of them is a crush on one of my friends, whom I've known I liked for about a year. I don't know if I actually love him like that or if I just wanna hook up, it's hard to tell. He doesn't know I like him though, at least to my knowledge, but he has ***definitely*** flirted with me/hit on me in the past so idk. I was messaging him the other day and found out that he's quarantined in his house & can't leave, so I came up with a plan to give him a care package full of snacks and a meme that basically says I have a crush on him. However, my anxiety kept me from asking him if I could deliver it and now I'm honestly having second thoughts.
These are my concerns:
1. We're not super close, it would be kind of weird if I just asked him if I could send a gift out of the blue. I don't want him to see me as weird or desparate lol.
2. He might have a girlfriend: The last time I heard about her was 4 months ago on a Zoom call, so I don't know if that relationship is still in tact or if quarantine has destroyed it by now. I also don't know how to find that out without being awkward.
3. One of my friends used to have a crush on him & could very well still like him. We talk a lot but it's only sending each other memes & stuff, it would be weird if I asked "hey do you still like so & so?" out of the blue. In conclusion, social anxiety sucksss.
I don't know what to do, he's so damn cute but maybe I'm hyping him up too much in my head? Dudes of Reddit, how would you feel if some girl that you're kinda sorta friends with asked to send you a gift with snacks and stuff and a note saying that they missed you? Would you be weirded out at all?
Overall, would it be worth all of this drama for a potential hookup that might not even happen or even be good? I don't know when covid will end and I doubt I'll be meeting anyone new or between that time. People of Reddit, what should I do? Yolo or nolo? Thanks. | Crush |
I'm being friend with my crush for almost a year now. Most of the time when I seek out advice they usually say that I should confess. But I'm afraid things would get awkward and I might lose him as a friend. | Crush |
I rarely have lucid dreams. Since the declaration of the COVID-19 pandemic, I have rarely had the chance to see my crush in person until schools reopened in my country recently. I hadn't maintained a lot of contact but we do send some pictures of ourselves back and forth where I'd try and make her smile (my antisocial, shy self never able to make a move fearing rejection and that we also live close by and take the same bus to our schools).
This dream happened during my sleep in the morning of Sunday 30th August. It didn't last long but revolved around a tragic event. A road accident which "happened" on the 17th April 2020 which involved the death of my crush. I take pride in the imagination I have but in this dream my mind took me so far away from reality that I couldn't tell that this was just a dream.
The dream didn't end with the accident, however. It continued on and revealed the aftermath of the event on my own personal wellbeing. I was left a fraction of myself. I closed myself off to the rest of society, keeping to myself. The psychological trauma that this version of myself experienced seemed irreparable. My grades suffered (I have always been the best in my year group, across two schools, in terms of test results and State Examinations although I don't like boasting). I felt as if I could never open myself up to, or find, another person.
I woke up after this dream and started crying, still loosely under the belief that that dream was a reality and that my crush was no longer with us. I have also lost two cousins in road accidents so this dream really hit home. | Crush |
I look at a guy, and he looks at me and gets like this coy? smile, I don't know how to describe it but it's definitely not a forced smile, it's like it just happens and sometimes they half try to hide it and other times they let it all out and they just seem crushing-looking happy.
I've seen shy guys do it and I've seen very confident guys do it too.
But maybe they're just friendly? I don't know every guy that has given me that smile and It's not like every guy does it, But that "smile" I'm talking about is much more distinct, it's like something the guy doesn't control he just sees a girl he likes or finds hot and can't help but smile.
Have any of you seen/noticed that smile from someone and do you know what I'm talking about? What do you think? | Crush |
This post went over well on the other sub so I wanted to put it here too. I know all to well what it’s like having a crush, I’ve had several in the past and I have one now. It really helps to talk about it and gain perspective and it can even help you feel better too. Dm or comment and let’s start a conversation, let’s figure out what you can do to make the best out of having a crush. | Crush |
Hey everyone! I have never done this before nor have I used reddit. That being said, I have a situation going on and I'm too dumb to read signals.
I really like this girl at work. We both work the admin desk and never really interacted with each other until a month or two ago. It started with the both of us sitting together one day and getting to know each other. I found out she was a fan of The Office and we bonded over that a few times. Fast forward a month and it's stage 4 lockdown here in Melbourne, Australia. No customers entering the store, frequency of phone calls are lesser than usual so the entire atmosphere at work was different. It felt more liberal or free of sorts. I was able to hang out with my co workers more often (Ps: I'm a pretty shy person at first and it takes time for me to open up but when I do, I tend to be funny and make people laugh and usually am pretty self confident).
So cutting to the chase, I've noticed that everytime I approach her desk at work, she looks dead straight into my eyes and I lock mine with hers, not looking away for a second. For some reason, her eyes just make me all gooey on the inside. I crack a few corny jokes sometimes and no matter how shitty it is, she giggles. Despite all of this, I've noticed she's generally friendly with everyone, be it a guy or a woman. So I feel like I've reached an impasse. I don't know how to proceed from here or how to improve my chances. It's been nearly 4 years since my last serious relationship and I haven't felt this way about someone since then. I don't know really. I feel like she isn't interested at all. She takes really long to reply to texts sometimes and yeah, she could be busy which is understandable.
With that being said, I hate coming across as a needy guy. I'm respectful, I treat her like a gentleman should and I always try to make her laugh, no matter what.
The other day, a customer yelled at her on the phone and she looked really distraught by it so I told her to calm down and take deep breaths and that if anyone knew her well enough, they wouldn't mess with her and that made her giggle quite a bit and today, we hardly interacted. We sat next to each other and hardly spoke. It sucks to say that my heart freaking hurts when I see her laugh at other people's joke's or interacts with them. I know jealousy is an ugly emotion but this game of cat and mouse is seriously killing me on the inside.
I know I've not worded this the best way possible but I'd really appreciate some input guys. Be as transparent and honest as possible. Have a great one! | Crush |
I and my (ex) bf started our relationship on my birthday on August 3rd and he was my first bf and me and he had a long-distance relationship and I and he met on Roblox through a friend. He is from India and I am from the Philippines. I and he had a fun time in me and his relationship because he and I basically have the same attitude, personality, and likes and dislikes on things. I and he usually joke and prank each other about breaking up then at exactly August 24, he, out of nowhere, seriously broke up with me with no jokes whatsoever. So a friend of mine tried to fix the situation then yesterday I learned the reason why he broke up with me and the reason was that he had COVID (please pray for him) and he didn't want me to worry. When he told me about this, I was shocked, jaw dropped. I was crying the whole day because on the same day he told me about his sickness, my best friends also ended my friendship with them so basically that day was the day my life started falling apart. I still really want to continue my relationship with this (ex) bf of mine, because this guy made me the person I didn't know I could be. He actually made me happier than I originally am because before he came into my life, I was a depressed girl. He is the type of guy to not care about flaws and just loves the person with whatever they are going through, like what I am too. After all of these problems coming onto me and him, I still really want to be with him even tho he did hurt me by breaking up with me. Do you guys think I still have a chance? | Crush |
How do you know if a guy keeps looking at you because he is interested?
How can a girl tell if a guy is looking at her because he is interested/finds her attractive or if he is just looking around? How can I tell if a guys breaks the eye contact with me when I look at him because he is shy or he just looks away because he doesn't want me to get the wrong idea? | Crush |
I'm not some one how easy crushes on people. But I have had a crush for quiet sometime now. I thought I was over him but apparently I still dream about him. I just want to get over him. We are still friend's and see eachother in a group one or twice a year. It's always akward for me. I just want to stop thinking about him. I don't really now him anymore. It has been to long. It has nothing to do with him anymore. He was my first love and I never even told him. It's really stupid I know. But the Idea of it is burned to my heart. Well I'm here to ask Please tell me how to get over him.
P.s. I don't want someone new or to hate him I the end. I'm happy right now. | Crush |
So i have a crush on a girl on my school since november 2019 and i have been reluctant to message her as i don't know if she is into me or no and note that we don't take classes together anymore so it will be hard to see her around what can i do | Crush |
context if anybody cares. I've liked this girl for 5years now and havent made a move.I really wanted to make a move but 🐱 out now im just a godamn creep who sits on her insta(lame i know) i want to know like what are abviuos hints that she might like me back. Thank you in advance!
*update she said she liked me as a friend*🙃 | Crush |
So there's that guy that i've known for 2 years now, he's 25 and I am 17 but getting 18 at the end of the month. We worked together and are currently in different departments but still in the same company. Due to insolvency all of us are being fired till like the end of November. We see each other every day but only shortly when he's getting coffee. He always looks very intensely and long at me when he passes me (my workspace is seperated by the hallway with a glass wall, he also waves at me whenever he sees me). When we worked together a year ago, we always got along pretty well, teased each other and such. He also has/had a girlfriend, but never mentions her in his weekend plans, so I assume he doesn't have one anymore, but deep down I'm not so sure, and this unknown feeling makes me crazy. We text each other only at work on Teams over a month now, but he never once asked me out or asked for my phone number. At first I was really thrilled and happy that we text, but we mostly text about work stuff and sometimes about private things too. But I'm starting to get frustrated, I'd like to have real conversations in person, about private things, I'd like to know more about his life, his way of thinking, but we only sometimes talk about these topics. I'm starting to wonder whether I should continue this and see where this may lead to, or if I should give up texting... I feel like I'm getting invested (especially emotionally) in something that isn't going to happen. But whenever I stop texting him, he starts texting me again, and always asks me if I don't wanna text him today in a jokingly manner. I really don't know what to do... I won't ever see him again in a few months, when we have to switch workplaces. What would you do in my place?
Edit: Btw, he knows when my birthday is, do you think he is maybe waiting for me to turn 18 so it isn't as weird as if he would be asking out a 17 y/o? | Crush |
guys, what type of look do you give a girl you like?
What kind of body language in general do you show (both subconsciously and consciously) when you like a girl.
Also what do the different stares that guys give girls mean?
For example what does an "I want you stare" look like vs a "you're my friend" stare look like?
Do you guys let her know or try to play it cool? What do you do when you like a girl? | Crush |
Known this guy for 7 years Liked him for 4 years.
(He lives in another state but know each other through mutual friends.)
Finally decided to send a heartfelt loveletter through mail. (Nothing to overwhelming just stating that I like him)
Sent in July. Never heard from him. I'm over it and moving forward is what I'd like to tell myself.
Did I get rejected? | Crush |
Hope the girl whom i have crush on don’t use this app lol | Crush |
OK so before me and my S0, luke, started dating, i slept with his little, brandon, at one of his house parties even tho I always had a crush on luke.
It didn’t really mean anything we were both just kind out of it and one thing led to another and we were in a room alone together and we ended up having sex. The next morning he walked me back to my dorm and told me to come thru later that night for a kickback. So I went back to the same house with my friend jess.
By the end of the night I ended up with Luke just like I had wanted all along. But I guess Brandon was planning to hook up with me again that night so instead he tried to go after my friend Jess who isnt even into guys if yk what i mean lol. so jess ended up going back to her dorm and ig brandon was pissed that he didnt get to hook up with anyone, plus i was getting with his big lololol.
b4 me n luke could actually do anything brandon comes into the room and luke and brandon just start arguing about turning off the music, nothing to do with me. when luke finally tells him to leave he goes “alright well have fun with luke”. MANS WAS PRESSEDDDD.
After that night with Luke we ended up dating and we still are dating. Brandon unfollowed me on ig and the last time i saw him was at a party when he was literally STARING at me the entire time. not in a mean way but just out of admiration if that makes sense.
I really don’t see what the big deal is, it’s not like we were in love we literally just hooked up. And he even tried getting with my best friend the very next day so he’s not exactly gentlemen. But I don’t know why sometimes i just think about him and i get this tingly feeling. i love luke sm and he is beyond sweet to me and kind and gentle and loving and just makes me so happy. but every time he brings up some thing him and his little Brandon did i get these butterflies and idk y.
I’m not going to lie Brandon is quite attractive. he’s not as tall or as muscular as Luke but he has a pretty nice face. sometimes i wonder what would have happened if i stayed with brandon instead of luke but i feel like it definitely wouldnt have lasted long at all.
Sometimes I feel guilty about even thinking about Brandon that way bc Luke loves me with all his heart and I love him with all of mine. But I’m hoping the only reason I think these things is just out curiosity. i would never ever cheat on luke with brandon. | Crush |
I posted this on a different subreddit but didn’t get very many responses.
I am interested in a coworker. I sometimes feel like he may also be interested in me. I’ve decided that trying to date this guy is worth the risk. And yes I’m familiar with the saying “don’t shit where you eat”.
We are two young professionals. We physically go to work(not working from home).We see each other in person. We typically only see each other at work ever so often and we don’t work in the same department. He knows who I am but not too much else. We don’t really have one on one time working together, its usually part of a larger group.
How do I casually flirt at work without it being obvious? Flirting at work just seems inappropriate. I’m afraid that even being extra friendly at work will make it obvious I’m into this guy.
How do I work my way up to getting his number or asking him to hang out after work?
I normally do fairly well in the dating department but I have never really ventured into trying to date a coworker and I kind of feel awkward about it.
If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it! | Crush |
So iv liked this person for quite a while, met at the start of high school (now In the 3rd year) we actually went out in the 2nd year, after we broke up they said they didn’t like me anymore and I didn’t mind. After about 9 months I think iv started to like them again and have no idea what to do becuase they like somebody else and I Constantly poke fun at him for it, does anybody know the best course of action? | Crush |
This is gonna be a long weird read and probably won’t make any sense but...
(Using fake names just to make it easier)
So my friends friend Chloe dated a guy called bill for quite a long time and friend zainab developed a crush on the guy and eventually choke and bill broke up so zainab got the courage to text him and the developed a friendship online but never actually spoke face to face even after going to the same school and then we found out another of our friends Katy also had a crush on bill so for a while it was a love triangle of sorts but then eventually both girls stopped liking him and one day while speaking to him online zainab admitted that she used to like him and he also admitted that he used to like her and zainab had asked if he used to like Katy and he also liked her to. But fast forward a while and zainab and bill had been speaking online for several months and finally decided it was time to meet up and zainab was to scared to go alone so she wanted me to go with her which I agreed to and so we went to the cinema but when we got there it was like something snapped in me and I started acting sooooo soooo soooooo extremely weird. I didn’t look at him once I kept laughing uncontrollably the whole way through, my seat was the one next to his and I refused to sit down and literally pushed through and sat on a chair with a bin bag on it etc etc (basically it was a shit show) and the day after I just felt sick to my stomach and so embarrassed and mortified of the way I acted it was like that person wasn’t even me and this is were it gets extremely weird I realised I really liked this guy and that was y I was acted so weird but the thing is I have no idea y, I couldn’t tell you one reason y I like him. I told my friend zainab and she said she knew and it was very obvious and that she was just waiting for me to realise it. But now I have no idea what I’m supposed to do about this I was thinking maybe I should just let this crush pass because I’ve already embarrassed myself enough but my friend zainab thinks that bill and I could be perfect for eachother. My question is what should I do? | Crush |
She got really sad and said her face was bright red. After and there was a deleted message from her I didn't see. She wouldn't tell me what it was.
I thought she might've liked me as well and was embarrassed about it but now I'm just really confused.
Please help. I'm quite worried I've blown something. | Crush |
How fast does a crush fade away for you guys?
So there is this guy at work, we never spoke, but he kept staring at me and I kept staring at him and we (well I) just feel there is something between us but since we haven't seen eachother for 4 months I am wondering, do you guys forget really fast about a girl you had a "staring contest" and some other things to impress eachother for like 3-4 months if you guys were to not see her for a longer period of time?
I am just trying to understand you guys, thanks for any helpful answer | Crush |
I've been talkin to this gurl, she's really cute, and I wanted to ask her out for about two weeks, I'm going to shoot my shot now
If she says no let your F in the chat pls | Crush |
i need advice so my crush and were in a call because he needed help to ask his crush out. but here the thing he doesn't know I like him since middle school and I don't know if I should tell him or not. i have to side fighting so I don't know what to pick. please help me out I'm so confused. | Crush |
so the girl that i like's birthday is in few days, wanna do a playlist for her, so if u have any songs that i can put in the playlist, feel free to drop a song below...thanks in advance | Crush |
So it all started when my crush posted to her story that her and her friend got hit on by some guys. She put the caption #stillgotit.
I wanted to reply to her story and say "you #neverlostit". After one friend said to do it, I sent it. My heart was racing and I was surprised I sent that. I immediately put my phone away from me. A little while later she said "HAHA". Then I drafted a new response with my homies. I then said "If it gets out of control, you probably should have an application to weed out the bulk of the candidates. In the same string of messages, I asked her how doing University online was". She responded back " lol it is fine, my classes are online, so I am safe inside :)".
I wasn't expecting her to respond so fast, so then I messaged saying "1 person being safe, restored my faith in humanity. I saw a picture of a bunch of people without masks. Staying up late, long day or something on your mind?" (I sent this at 3a.m.)
I woke up the next day to no response and left on seen, played "Life is Worth Living" by Justin Bieber. So I was kinda like dang, on well. Then she responded at 6p.m.ish that day with "yeah some people are just careless and Haha no I'm just a late sleeper".
I didn't further the conversation. My friends and I agree, it is best to leave it there. I feel as if like now she sees me as a creepy guy or she was hoping for the conversation to be over when it started. Perhaps I came off too strong, wasn't witty enough or asked too many questions. Part of me wishes that I didn't send the original message and part of me is glad I tried. Maybe her taking long to reply was a message/sign that she is not interested and wants to be left alone.
For some context, I know my crush and she isn't a random person I don't know. I don't respond to all her posts or stories, just this one.
So, How do you think it went? | Crush |
https://youtu.be/vXraEl00NSY | Crush |
hi! im a female, and i have actually never been in a relationship before. besides that fact, i have only been talking to a guy for 2 days, but we definitely seem to just click together. he is so sweet, and he really does care about me so far. i realize 2 days is not a long time, but i would rather discard this if it’s not gonna work earlier rather than later.. anyways, that’s not the point. the point is that he has been moving things fairly fast, talking about cuddling, kissing, and just becoming closer in general. i find this very affectionate, but i seem to not like how fast everything is moving. though, i am a very big flirt, and i keep pushing things slightly along with him. it’s hard to explain, but i would really love some help with this. im not sure how to explain it, but overall things are just moving a little bit too fast right now. | Crush |
So i have a crush on my school. We are the same ages. Shes a bit older than me but still same ages same class. Recently see has been trying to make eyesight whit me. Thats super scarry. I also have never talked to her before. We are in the same group at HKK but we don’t talk about things beside HKK. Sometimes it have happend otherwise. How should i go. I should make friends first. But she only talks whit her friends at breaks. She not so super populer. What i know. How should i do to even get talking whit here. | Crush |
Turns out the guy I'm flirting with is close with a guy who ghosted me and then called me a psycho 3 years ago and the last guy I made out with. None of the 3 of them know any of this. I don't always go for upper middle class white guys with outdoorsy hobbies and heights between 5'11" and 6' but when I do... whoops! | Crush |
So there's this guy I've been talking to for quiet some time now. He always ask me questions about myself, wants to get to know me, laughs at my jokes, says stuff like I'm smart and clever and that I'm funny. He's very supportive of my career and has helped me alot. I've started to catch feelings for him but I also do not want to ruin the friendship. I don't know if he feels the same way. He sends me love songs, and since I love memes he sends me alot of memes and funny videos just to make me laugh. But at the same time he has never directly flirted with me nor have we ever hung out as yet. We've met only once for about 15 minutes but after that we became even more close than what we were before. He also studies in a different state even though we are from the same town. He's currently in the same town though. | Crush |
so i’m trying to shoot my shot here but i’m an extremely shy person. so there’s this boy i used to have class with my sophomore year , i’ve always found him attractive and he has my number and i have his since we used to send eachother answers for homework. he would randomly message me sometimes asking if i played certain video games but in class he wouldn’t talk to me much. Anyways i see him now in my campus and i’ve tried grabbing his attention by dressing up nice and stuff. 😔 but it doesn’t seem to help. so i wanna shoot my shot by texting him, i just don’t know what to say :( i kinda want to be slick about it i don’t want to immediately say i’m interested in him. any ideas ?? | Crush |
Guys: What are signs of attractions to a good looking girl or pretty?
Whenever you walk towards and past a good looking girl or pretty do you guys usually do something or with your instinct. I noticed that some girls like poof there hair or like move there hair to the side or something when they walk past a good looking guy. how about guys? | Crush |
I’ve had feelings for this boy for 3 years now. And recently I’ve been having enough confidence in myself to tell him. He and I are really close on my end, and I witnessed him go out of two relationships already. I’m moving this upcoming summer, and I don’t want to imagine saying goodbye to him or anyone. Plus, it’s been difficult since we’ve been doing online classes and can’t physically see each other. I really don’t know what to do and I’m conflicted. I’ve been dropping hints and he flirts back, but still is really oblivious. I’m not sure what im doing ranting here, maybe I just need some advice? | Crush |
So, I would love to bore you guys with the super unlikely very fortunate string of events that got me and this ridiculously cute girl texting, but I'd rather just ask you guys to trust me that even known we've never met IRL. I'm confident I have her "on the hook" and am definitely able to reel her in. She's asked me to call her a couple times and she constantly laughs when we chat (in a good cute way {not the awkward "oh?" way}) I got her to download and make a discord the first time we chatted just so that she can game with me (which she was very happy to do) So, it didn't take me long to notice that she always leaves me on delivered for upwards of 2 hours every time I texted her besides when I helped her with discord. I was craving for her replies and responses so one day I texted her just one more time that was probably comfortable. So I deleted the message (I had her messenger at this point and she could see that I deleted it) I said "Sorry wrong person" I got exactly what I wanted out of that, She said "it's okay" a message short enough where I can see it with out having to open the chat bubble. Now I play this tricky dangerous text game (that I despise honestly) I leave her on delivered, will she initiate conversation??? Well I work night shift, so I was sleeping at 4 pm when she decided to hit up my discord with a simple "hi" (won that game) So I didn't see it until I woke up around 8 or so. She was sleeping at this point so I basically left two messages on delivered for around 18 hours. On my 2 am "lunch" break I sent her a teasing text on discord basically asking why she never shows her teeth in her smiles, I also sent her a video message on messenger basically explaining why I wasn't active (at least as far as her second message goes) She viewed the video and didn't say anything all day the next day. but I had mentioned that the day after (today at this point) I didn't work and that last night was my Friday. She texted me first thing when she woke up (I work night shifts so I can see exactly when she gets on social media in the mornings) at 9 today only saying "hellooo" I was relieved, the video message was not too much basically admitting that I was waiting for her to message me (not really but it showed I was interested in the fact that she did and felt bad that I didn't answer sooner.) I texted back reminding her that I didn't work tonight and that I can still meet up with her (as is the plan at somepoint.) or buy her Terraria (a game) on mobile for us to play. I was sleeping when she first sent me the "hellooo" and saw it 15 mins later. She was still active when I sent her the most recent message but it is still on delivered and she's not active anymore. I don't want to over whelm her with a call, do I just play the waiting game? IS SHE THE ONE PLAYING GAMES???
TL;DR: I left this girl I'm confident DOES like me on delivered to see if she'd ever initiate conversation. She did but I accidentally left her on delivered again. I messaged her saying I was sleeping due to night shifts and she made me wait about 24 hours before messaging me back first thing when she woke up, I told her a couple of things that could happen on my day off and she is leaving me on delivered again. | Crush |
Hi I have a male friend for 4 years and in the last 3 months, he started video calling me for about 1-2h at least once every 2 weeks, before he sleeps (he will ask me work related advice and he will continue with personal topics later - usually work questions take about 15min since he is working while I am studying) - is this a sign that he is interested? He didn't have the habit of calling me before though we were good friends.However, there are times where we won't message each other for a week until me/him takes the initiative - so really confused by the mixed signals and any help will be well appreciated :)
Tldr: What are some signs that guys show when they are interested and will they call/video call their close female friends one-on-one regularly? (If it helps, he is a capricorn/ISFJ and generally shy/doesn't like to reach out to others). Thank you!! | Crush |
Recently I have found out that my crush doesn't like me back which is okay, it just sucks because she like my best friend we have been friends for almost 7 years and i hang out with him everyday and she sometimes tags along and I'm in pain watching her chase him around and flirt with him while i have to 3rd wheel | Crush |
guys is this true for guys when you like a girl or have a crush on?
https://youtu.be/z09vaf59ckU | Crush |
I'm in a really hierarchical field and I was this guy's boss for 3mo. He would ask all kinds of personal questions (innocently), compliment me constantly, stand or sit too close in my personal space, and stay in my office for "supervision" up to 2h. He is incredibly sweet. It was a very difficult position to be in; I fell in love with him, then had to maintain my composure while watching him anxiously crack his knuckles around me or mimic my movements. The 2h supervision session was at the end of his rotation with me. He lingered, I thought he'd say something...he said he'd wanted to work with me since he interviewed 2yrs ago...then lingered more. He texted me the day after he left to wish me a happy birthday and texted me until 8pm that night. I cried for at least 7 days over this bs.
He has a fiance. I was his boss. I did not do anything to lead him on, and he didn't do cheat on her. I was as professional as I could be. But I couldn't say anything to him when I was his boss--I just wonder if it's worth expressing how I feel once and for all. My friends think there is a possibility he might leave the fiance. Is it wrong to ask to talk to him? I personally doubt he'd leave her but something seems left undone. | Crush |
Ok..Here we go... About a year ago I met this girl...We really hit it off...I had a crush on her and so did she..But we never told each other..Fast forward to 4 moths later we start to chat after a long time and she says that she had a crush on me..I also said her about what is USED to feel...From that day we started chatting a lot...We became really good friends....And due to that reason I started having a crush on her again...But I don't know where to start...Or what to do... PLEASE help!.. | Crush |
Sorry for bad english.
Two weeks ago I went out with my cousin, my crush and a group of friends.
That evening I was willing to ask my crush out, so I decided to drink "a little" too much in order to be less shy with her.
My cousin, on the other hand, wanted to ask the bartender out but he was complaining about his low self-esteem, so I and 2 other boys went to him and told him that if she refused we would have to pay for his drinks all life long.
I don't know why it went like this, but I swear it went exactly like this:
He got up and went to my crush and asked her out and when I realized what was going on it was too late...
She had already accepted.
The saddest thing about this is that I had so much in common with her, we both play an instrument, she wanted to learn bass and I'm quite a good bass player, we love the same sport (Kick Boxing) and we're shy af. The first time we've met we started talking about music and we both enjoyed our talk, guys I was this fucking close.
Well I fucking hate my cousin rn but I'm feeling like a crybaby and I think that acting like the way I do is so childish. But damn that was too much.
You wanna know what is the funniest part of the story? My cousin has recently ended a 2 years long relationship... And he met his exGF for the first time thanks to me, caused I thought that they would be happy together.
Fate can be so hilarious sometimes. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/Zfv93jrvVVo | Crush |
[https://youtu.be/e6i3j60P-EY](https://youtu.be/e6i3j60P-EY) | Crush |
There's this girl that I met on and App called Hellotalk where you can practice foreign languages with Natives, as well as connecting with them. Throughout the months of moving away from the App, she has given me her Instagram and skype so that we could connect more, and in the process I think I may have caught feelings for her.
One day we wanted to do a challenge about how I can improve my spanish in a week and how much she can improve her english. On the first day, we did a call to measure our progress, and we were having a lot of fun on the call and vibing really good. She told me that even after the challenge she wanted to talk with me every day. I told her I would check in with her during that week, but I didn't.
When I went to check up on her on the 8th day, I didn't get a response. I waited a week, and then tried to message here on Skype, but still no answer. But I saw that she was following and unfollowing people on her Instagram, so I know she's ok. Note: she hasn't unfollowed me
Right now, it's been almost a month since we talked talked and I don't know what I did wrong, but scared to send her a DM on Instagram to see if we are on good terms or not. I really miss talking to her 🥺
Should I try to message her and see what's up or leave her alone and move on? And is there anything I did wrong?
And in the comments below I would appreciate any advice :)
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There is this friend that i dunno if she likes me and i dunno if i like her but she straight thicc but I'm 100% that she gonna say no (I'm ugly :(what can i do? | Crush |
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