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the fact that theres 7.8 billion people in the world, 4 million in our country, 34,800 in our town, 400 in our school but i only wanna talk to you. lol simp shit. idk just needed to vent that out rn. | Crush |
Do you think its possible to trick yourself into having a crush on somebody? What if it wasnt a crush? Then what is it? | Crush |
This is problematic because they are in a monogamous relationship and I am too. (Even if I do not identify that way but that’s besides the point.)
It has been this way for about three years now. I have known them for almost the length of high school. I knew them before they became a manager. I see them 40+ hours of the week.
They just... you know, lean in close during conversations. Their body language is incredibly comfortable with me. I find myself hanging out with them after work way longer than I should, and texting them miscellaneously about everything and nothing.
Also? My coworkers that do know are not surprised. None of them were surprised at all! And I think even more relevant—I told them! I told them and I told them I didn’t want anything to change, and they bought me a beer afterwards!
I just, I don’t know. Maybe it’s because I’ve been dating my significant other for about almost the same timeline as my manager has been dating theirs. They’re having a child together and they’re so invested and living together. I don’t live with mine, we had to have an abortion in the early part of the year, and I feel like we are just not moving forward. So maybe I am just feeling jealous.
This person is kind, sweet, intelligent, talented and so funny. The funniest person I know. Level headed and hardworking. And they care so much about their s/o. Sometimes, I don’t know, maybe I’m making it up.
But when their face is inches close to mine, what am I supposed to do?
TLDR; I have a crush on my manager of 4 years and I can’t handle it anymore hahahah | Crush |
So my friend was visiting and I hadn’t seen him in a while so I walked over and hugged him. My crush was there too and she was like like “What about me?” and I turned around and was like “I didn’t forget” and then she kinda opened her arms. AND I DABBED HER UP! I feel fucking mentally handicapped. And now I can t stop thinking about it. | Crush |
Few months ago I made a post about reconnecting with my high school crush years after graduating. We are now in a relationship since 1 year and everything is at it's best! Also, I'm really convinced that my boyfriend is my SOULMATE... but what really convinced me is that this summer I unexpectedly met an old friend of mine at the parc (and my bf old friend since we went to the same high-school) . We were catching up and he saw on social media that I was in a relationship with my bf and he was saying congrats for being in a relationship with my bf and he would have never taught that me and him would end up being together. As I said in my older post, he was one of the popular guy and I was kind of a nerd watching animes and stuff lol.
So the conversation went by and he was saying that he just got an iPhone and the last iPhone he had was back in high-school so he had a backup of a bunch of photos from high-school, he had pictures of me because I was always taking his phone and taking selfies just for fun... He swiped up few photos and stopped at one specifically, then he told me to take a look carefully..... It was actually a picture of me with my bf just behind!!!! And I just remembered that my boyfriend (also crush at that time) was in my art class haha. What's funny is that my friend was kind of excited to show me the pictures when he first saw it and kind of manifested our encounter because it was kind of crazy!!
Guys never give up on love or even your crush because story like these do happen!!!!
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https://preview.redd.it/9b3b902riiz51.png?width=1125&format=png&auto=webp&s=8ad274e95a19ab1c65e8f3424d89baf2ea9920bc | Crush |
I (M18) was best friends with a girl (F18) for around 3 years before I realized she had a crush on me and that I liked her back. We had so many fights and we dated other people and we even had a whole friends with benefits phase where I didn’t realize she had feelings until we finally started dating. It was such a long ride very much slow burn but now we are together and I’m happier than ever. | Crush |
I hate it here, what can’t I just have u feeling the same way about me like I have for u, liking me, loving me, I hate that lonely feeling. That feeling of me never being able to have u in my life, I don’t have courage to dm u and I rlly hate it. I’ve admired u for mths why can’t u just see it? I prayed hard that you’ll notice me & well maybe talk to me, but I guess fate is still fate. I wish u all the best in life and I definitely still hope that you’ll be there in the end, forever & always. I’ll love you and I still miss u even as I said I’m going to give up but deep down i know I can never.. but it’s alright I guess :’ | Crush |
I have a crush. One day I started messaging her on instagram and she was responding to it positively. But she didn't know i had crush on her.We became friends. One day she misunderstood me for a silly matter and insulted me real bad and i was shocked at that time. I tried to convince the situation but she thought that I was lying and constructing a new situation to lie. I became so emotional and on the second thought i hated her. She used to insult me very deeply and i couldn't argue with her. Now my problem is i can't forget her and still i have a little crush on her but not on the conscious mind (Sorry my English is poor). I don't know why i love her. Is it normal? I hate her the most but still i love her like an obsessive negative thought. I want to get rid of her as soon as possible. It's killing me 😥 | Crush |
So if you read this, i really want you to read through the whole text and please reply (& be brutally honest with me). I apologize in advance if this is too long but im listing the activities that took place in the past few months.
So there's this guy i like. He moved here a couple of months ago and i think i have liked him ever since i saw him for the first time. Lets call him A.B for now. So A.B is at least 17. Im not sure since i have NEVER talked to him before. I think dhring the first few months of him having moved here, i was just crushing on him as i wasnt going out of my house due to covid and he was the cutest guy around. But then, out of nowhere i started writing about him in my diary (ew cringe i know but i had lost contact with most of my friends and all that i was feeling had to go somewhere)
Anyways, i started going out of my way to see him each day. But then, i stopped doing that when i realized that my obsession was probably annoying him.
Fast forward to the last month, i got back in contact with one of my neighbors and started hanging out with her. Apparently, her brother and A.B are on first name terms. So my friend, (L.R for now) told me that A.B had a girlfriend (cant confirm rn). I immediately felt guilty and realized that i was so disgusted with myself, all my feelings went down the drain.
Then we had this festival in my country yesterday, and my mom gave some stuff to his family as a greeting without expecting something in return.
After the next five minutes, A.B shows up at my house with a friend/relative carrying some sweets in return lmao. I think he might have been looking at me but im not too sure. I was so happy he wasnt mad at me for acting like a stalker. But today, i got a lil too overwhelmed, and went out of my way (again)
I dont know what to do. I read some stuff on pinterest and got over excited. Im pretty sure even if he had the 0.0001% of feelings for me must be gone by now
So, what should i do, ignore him? Talk to him? Ahhh please reply | Crush |
We only ever talk during school, I’m in the same classes as him and we sit next to each other due to the seating plan, we’ve become i guess acquaintances during the last 2 months of school but we never talk outside of class. Its kind of like once the bell goes out conversation is over. I have developed a crush for him over the past 2 months but if he rejects me I don’t want to make it awkward. Help would be appreciated!! Never had a bf before | Crush |
Please help me. When I’m around the person I’m interested in, I somehow always embarrass myself. This includes speaking in person, dms or group chats with them in it. I probably seem like such an idiot to them. So should I just ignore any kind contact with them and hope me feelings go away? What should I do? | Crush |
When I was in the first grade I asked this girl out I was being nice to her and like holding doors and etc. so in the third grade I asked her if she wanted to be my girl friend but she said no I only like you as a friend and i got hardcore rejected | Crush |
After about a year and a quarter, I finally told him I liked him! He very politely said he likes me back but isn't ready for a relationship in a way that REALLY left me confused if he actually did or if we was just afraid to reject me. After about a month of constantly texting, I only got more confused. He would be super cute and boyfriendish then suddenly turn around and be completely distant and cold. But today, my friend snapped his friend who, coincidentally was having a sleepover with my crush. She asked if he liked me and he takes the phone and actually says he does! I can't contain my happiness. This is the best day ever! | Crush |
I wrote to my crush that I love her after three Years crushing on her | Crush |
Ok so I like this trans guy, he’s pre transition, and I know he’s bi. I don’t think he knows I’m also bi. He is a friend of a friend but we don’t currently speak but we have before. I find him funny and great, but I don’t know how to start talking to him and flirt. What do I do? | Crush |
We're texting right now and we both know we're both online and it's taking me so long to respond because I can't think while I'm texting because I'm so nervous! | Crush |
guys why you can't make eye contact or look in the eyes of the girl you like or the girl you have a crush on? | Crush |
Me and this girl have a crush on each other. It has been around a month since we confessed that we liked each other. Right now me and her have been getting closer and have been making out and what not. We recently talked about not being ready for a relationship. Which we both agreed that we aren't. She "promised" and said that she's willing to wait but I'm not sure how true that will be, she might find someone else while she's "waiting". didn't promise or agree to anything because don't know what the future holds. She said she'll even wait 2+ years. Note: we are young. Should her and be countinue to be affectionate and intimate with each even if wNe aren't ready or aren't planning on getting together any time soon? Or is it a bad idea? | Crush |
There is this girl at my school who I have never talked to, mainly because I am new, I want to get to know her. But, she is a very quiet person and I have never heard her talk. We share some classes and I really haven’t gotten the chance to talk to her. Should I try texting her to make it easier to talk to her at school or should I talk to her at school before trying to text her? Thanks! Any advice or questions helps! | Crush |
I always try so hard to hide that I like the person I have a crush on, but I don't know why. I guess it's because I think if they knew how intensely I felt about them, it would ruin my chances with them. I end up hiding it so well and never make a move that it doesn't matter anyway. Maybe I'm just afraid of being hurt. | Crush |
Alright, so I have this friend, she has been liking this guy for 4 years and people would tease them that they like eachother, fast forward, this guy now has a gf who is our friend (not sure if they're actually together) and the guy's friend asked her who she like no one cos she'snever told a soul about having a crush on him. She is really heartbroken, do u think she should admit that she likes that guy to the guy's friend? Do u think she can move on easily if she tells him? or she should just keep it to herself forevever? Btw, she's friends with the guy she likes, they call eachother "bro" or "sis" and they've never discussed about liking eachother whatsoever. She is also not in the same country with them anymore, she finds it really hard to move on, sorry some things are repetitive. | Crush |
So, I'm a doctor and professor (39yrs) to someone 11 years younger than me (28yrs). (I'll call him Sam). He's one of five residents, and I interviewed him for this program 1.5yrs ago.
Sam has been a kiss ass since day one. He texted me after work how great it was working with me his first day. Somehow all his patients were on my team, until I told him to work with the other attendings (doctor professor). He chose me as his supervisor to spend an hour with once a week. A week into the rotation, one of our patients thought we were married, then after corrected, thought we were, "such a cute couple!" He texts after work. Including about non-work things--he is the only one.
We've gotten closer. Disclosures on both sides pushing boundaries. He asks a lot of personal questions. I talked to the other attendings and he does NOT ask these sort of questions and at most spends 15min in their office. Supervision is an hour and the other residents stay for 20min. He's stayed for 75, 90, 75min and difficult to kick him out. I've tried to set limits; said he doesn't have to kiss so much ass to get ahead. We got in an argument that devolved into laughter about whether he was a kiss ass or not. I tried to set limits on the private questions. He freaked out as if he was in trouble. I calmed him down. Said I'd ask him ridiculously private questions so he sees how it feels--as a joke. He writes, "omgosh do it." "How old were you when your mother stopped bathing you? How regular are your bowel movements? Have you always had such a desperate need for others to like you?" Told him not to answer them. He answered all.
Friday we had supervision. He was bothering me all day even though he had dedicated time. Stayed long enough it bled into his vacation. I did an experiment this past week where I moved the near chair as close as possible to my chair to see what it would take for him to sit in the "far chair" where everyone else sits. He will still sit in the near chair if it's 2ft away. That's what I learned.
And of course I see him checking me out. And nervous in front of me. In supervision he was cracking his knuckles and I mentioned that he appeared anxious, but he denied it. But this past time, he lingered so long in my office, making excuses to keep talking--commenting on the books in my bookshelf like he'd never seen them before. I thought he was going to say something. He came back ten minutes later but I was meeting with someone else. He texted me that night. I said I'd let him go, and he sent a thumbs down.
He's painfully cute, smart, compassionate, with a great personality...and a fiance. And I'm his boss. This is the most sexual tension I've felt in a while, though. Very frustrating. What do I do?
Edit: The age difference wouldn't be a problem for me. I've dated younger :-O | Crush |
Do you think it’s too late to confess to your crush after graduating university? It has been over a year but they are within the same social circle relatively speaking and even if they did not reciprocate (which is highly likely) it wouldn’t really affect the social circle.
Idk I think maybe it seems very odd to go out of the blue and confess but I was curious on other people’s opinions. | Crush |
Context:
I'm a girl and I've liked this guy for over 2 years since we started high school together. We've had a lot of classes together so we sort of got to know each other through school and homework things.
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So, I recently posted some things on social media related to computer science, which is something we're both interested in. He texted me about it, and now we sort of talked!
It's not like a huge deal, but I'm really happy. I got his number a while ago, but I was always the one to start conversations so I gave up after a while.
I know he's not necessarily interested in me but he's interested in the topic of computer science. Still, I'm happy just to be a friend and I know there are other amazing people out there I have yet to meet! | Crush |
so I have this friend who's crushing on my old crush (we just recently knew we had the same crush but im over him now) and I just find it weird that he ghosted her but not me.
They had mutual feelings for each other and we didn't so why ghost her?? | Crush |
So, awhile ago I gave a guy a note with my number on it and felt confident that he liked me, long story short he never texted me. After a few months of complete embarrassment, I got over it and figured he didn't like me even though he showed signs of liking me (winking at me, talking to me a bit, smiling at me, and just acting different around me.) Before I gave him the note I tried looking for him online for any social media accounts to see if he had a girlfriend and what his age was, I couldn't find anything about him so I just took a shot in the dark. Well, tonight I was on Facebook and dropped my phone and when I picked it up I hit the screen, when I looked at the screen the first letter of his name was typed in the search bar and a full name popped up. Now me being me just had to look at who it was, it was him. For his profile picture, he has a picture of him and his girlfriend, and after a bit of looking I think he has been publicly dating her since March 19th, I gave him the note on March 29th. Now that I found this its making me have questions, if I had been just a bit quicker could I be the one that has matching profile pictures with him? If I had found his profile before I would have never given him the note. I feel so dramatic for even thinking about this and hate that I'm letting myself go back and dwell in the past again. They look like they are really happy and I would hate to be the one to come in between that, his girlfriend even has a teenage daughter, I would never forgive myself if I took a steady relationship from that girl. I know there is nothing I can do now and maybe if I had been quicker my life would have been different but it's not, and I just have to live with it. | Crush |
guys, what do you feel when a girl you like or have crush on smile at you? or what goes through your mind? do you smile back too or hide it of what you feel or feelings when a girl you like smile at you? or do you smile and feel happy when shes not looking after she smile at you so she won’t see it? | Crush |
So there’s this guy I used to go to class with at high school. Honestly I don’t even know why I liked him, I just felt some weird vibe from him. Almost like he liked me, but he wouldn’t say anything. He would always try being around me and I think he always said stuff to get my attention. First I thought he was just messing with me like everyone else, since I was a shy guy who rarely talked to anyone.
But suddenly one day at school he mentioned something that happened to me at Primary school, which he couldn’t know because he went to different school. Turns out that one girl that knew about it told himI found it really weird that she told him that, because it was such a random thing to say. Does that mean he was asking about me? But why? I didn’t even know that girl much either.
He would always keep all these little things that made me suspicious. We barely talked irl and when I tried messaging him, his responses would always be cold, full sentences without emojis.
It’s been more than a year after graduation, I almost forget about him, but then, one day I saw him and all those conspiracies came back to me. And ever since then I couldn’t stop thinking about it. What did it all mean?
Am I really just paranoid?
So I decided to talk to him, I sent him fr on FB and thought that after he’d accept it I could message him and ask about it. But instead he just DECLINED IT.
I don’t know what to do now. I want the answers, but I don’t wanna act like some stalker who’s obsessed with him, yet that’s exactly what I am. 🙈
(The reason why I’m so suspicious about him is because similar thing happened to me before, but the guy actually admitted that he had a crush on. )
Thanks for reading this, I know it’s so boring, I even felt bored while rereading all the stuff I wrote so 🤷♂️🙊. | Crush |
I like this dude, and I don’t think he likes me as anything other than his friend. So today we talked about something and at the end he said “i really like when we talk because it makes no sense, but we still understand each other”. I want to be with him so bad, but even if he liked me I’m pretty sure he is straight. I am trans and he doesn’t know yet. Ahhhh, idk what to do | Crush |
Is a female's smile weakness for guys?
I was watching a Russell Peters bit and he said,
"ladies, when you smile at a guy, deep down inside we know you're just being nice. But our man brains doesn't really comprehend it that way. My mind brain says, 'oh russell, she smiled at you. i think you have a shot."
So when you see a nice looking or pretty girl genuinely smile at you, is it really your weakness? I've also had a guy tell me to that they can tell when a girl is the "smiley" type and is genuine vs. one just "smiles" | Crush |
I’ve been in love with one of my best friends since 7th grade. I’ve tried to date other girls to distract me from her, in hopes that I could fall so deeply in love with someone else that I could forget her. Every single time, it ends. I can never sustain a relationship with someone else. To make matters worse, she has a boyfriend who doesn’t seem like he is going anywhere. I’ve tried moving on but it never seems to work. I don’t know what to do and it’s driving me crazy. Please, any advice would be appreciated. | Crush |
" just friends" honestly that what I been hearing for the last 2 months to be honest. Like I feel like I'm the cupid In my group, like when someone say I like so so, you know what I would do, I would help no matter what honestly. When I told my guy bestfriend how I felt he just say " we are just friends" later on I found out he doesn't like me at all and consider me a friend.. great honestly. I'm fine don't worry I should start thinking what other people felt towards me honestly. I regret it. Now here my advice, watch you speak or act people who is around you or else you might end up like me :) hehehe... | Crush |
I don’t know whether this girl likes me or not, or whether I like her, because I just got rejected by a girl, and they look really similar so I don’t want to lead her on, but she’s been really nice, and always hanging on to every word I say so idk if she’s being nice or if she likes me | Crush |
So I like this girl and I don't know if she likes me back, but I don't want to ask. Before quarantine she seemed like she liked to talk with me, and wasn't annoyed of me. But when we met again after a while at school, she seem awkward/annoyed to see me. She didn't talk to me, and looked like she didn't want to talk either. I don't know if she just doesn't like me or its because I ran up too a friend next to her first, and kind of ignored her. What is it bc of?
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update: asked her out and she said maybe (basically means a yes) | Crush |
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I wanted to share this because I always see people feeling down without a clear reason. Therefore, I think this could help you guys get into a better mood and become more productive. At least with me, it has helped me become more concentrated on my projects.
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I wanted to share this because I always see people feeling down without a clear reason. Therefore, I think this could help you guys get into a better mood and become more productive. At least with me, it has helped me become more concentrated on my projects.
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https://preview.redd.it/h4gtpvc5r0n51.png?width=1208&format=png&auto=webp&s=d1015ce8c2fb8b35405cff1103187a5c0ee09524 | Crush |
https://youtu.be/FFUIiT7W9Y0 | Crush |
So my crush and I talked and he implied it was nice talking to me then he left me on read. But he watches my stories and posts. He then posted about him missing someone who brought good to him but he’s expecting a kid with his ex and I can’t seem to move on :( | Crush |
What do guys feel when they have a crush on someone or like someone?
I'm just wondering if the feelings are different for girls and guys. | Crush |
So basically I made out with a girl yesterday and it was amazing . The problem is that she doesn’t like doing relationship stuff and I really don’t think making out occasionally will be enough . What do you reckon I do ? | Crush |
Guys: How do you feel when a girl is nervous around you?
Are you sorta flattered? Do you take it as a compliment almost... lol? Do you get uneasy or assume she has a hidden agenda? Do you feel threatened? I sorta get nervous around guys I like, but I just want to know how a guy feels around a girl that's a little nervous talking to him and what is so seemingly unattractive about a girl with a little bit of nerves...
Just was wondering tho...
Thanks guys!🙂 | Crush |
In need of some advice! Over a year ago I got out of a 5 year relationship. Sadly, we couldn’t make it work but I believe everything happens for a reason...anyway onto my present dilemmas! I have a crush on a man and I feel so nervous around him like I can’t speak or think.
We both from the same city and ending up meeting on a friends trip. This was a singles trip and we ended up staying in the room together for the week. The trip went well and we chatted after the trip on Snapchat. (Which is the worst way to flirt). Anyways fast forward one night we were Snapchating and he invited me to come out with him and his friend for drinks. I met the guys there and we had some drinks before heading to his other friends house. He introduced me and paid attention to me all night the next day I spent the whole day with him at his apartment cuddling and hanging out. A few days have passed and we haven’t really chatted.
My question is if woman is interested in you and they pursue you does it freak men out? | Crush |
Day 0: it’s my birthday and I’m feeling a little sad. This girl come to me and says “hey, how are you? You seem a little sad, want to talk?”
It was at this point that my brain said “yes, she’s the one, she manage to think about me even without knowing anything; she must be a really good person”
Day ~30: damn, this girl is really good, she’s always nice and cheerful, honest, understand humor, she also seems very loyal and smart, maybe I should shoot my shot.
Day ~400: it’s been a year and I still only know her as a friend, she’s so good , it’s time to do something
Day ~500: all right, she’s know taken, I could have tried so many times but I haven’t, guess I’ll wait a little bit more
Day ~900: now she’s single again, but let’s just wait a little longer, just to let her live a bit of single life
Day ~1000: maybe I’m just not enough, she’s going to reject me 1000%
(Today) Day 1452: I am not enough and I will never be. She’s never going to accept someone like me. I really really like her but that’s nothing I can do if she doesn’t like me back. I still haven’t told her, but I plan on doing so (with a formal letter, in a few years). I know that she will reject me and I don’t really want to suffer. I’ll accept speaking to her from time to time, I’ll accept anything, but I don’t want rejection. I will simply like her until I stop, while I try to be as settle about it as possible. | Crush |
so i recently started school and i already have a crush but i dont know what to do because im over weight and ugly and i like her but i feel like i should stop crushing on her because i dont have a chance and she would say no | Crush |
Whenever I ask them something they tell me everything I asked thoroughly but never even ask a simple "and you?" I don't know if it's because they are shy ( which they are) or because they just aren't interested in getting to know me :( | Crush |
What are guys thinking when they secretly look at their crush or the girl they like? | Crush |
okay so my crush(17M) was at my(15F) house tonight and we were asking random questions. when asked who his celebrity crush was, he said billie eilish and looked at me. The thing is, I kind of look like billie. when asked what his type was, he said skater girls and guess what, ya girls a skater girl. and then when asked if he likes thick or thin, he glanced at me and said thick. then he rated me a 7 out of ten and agreed i was good looking. what do i do. is this a sign? is he trying to send signals???? help????? | Crush |
my crush and i have been really close lately. we talk regularly and stay up until 4 am. we talk for hours and hours and it's always a fun time talking to him becayse we never run out of topics to say. i was kind of thinking that there's something going on but maybe it's bold of me to assume. anyways, we're both on the same page about not wanting to have a relationship with anyone as of now because of personal reasons. it kind of made me sad because i really see him as a potential boyfriend, but i guess that as long as he doesn't have a relationship with someone im good with it. i'm willing to wait :) however, there's this girl who's also been crushing on him and he seems to be entertaining her in some ways?? i dont know what to feel about this and i get jealous from time to time even when i dont have the right to. what should i do?? im in a hell lot of confusion right now
edit: he doesnt know that i like him. | Crush |
Everybody around me is dating and I haven’t even had my first kiss! It really bothered me that I was fat earlier but then there was a guy who was really into me. We went on a couple of dates if you can call them that but we were never officially dating. Then he was into a prettier and leaner looking girl, and they started dating properly. And he never said anything to me just started treating me with a lot of pity and I hated talking to him then so I got angry.
Initially I thought that it’s okay I am funny my personality is cool that is why he was into me for a while but found somebody better for him and that’s why we were not dating.
But now I think I was wrong I don’t know why he was into me and I guess no other guy would ever be.
Im trying to lose weight but it breaks my heart to think that I’ll be able to date guy only when I’m the right size. Otherwise I don’t deserve the attention.
I really wanna know what it feels like to love somebody how it feels when something good happens to you, you’re excited to break the news to that one person. I’ve friends who I really love and have feelings like the ones I mentioned above but I also want the intimacy. I wanna know what being horny is (for someone who’s not a celebrity and for someone with whom you’ve done it before), how does it feel when you kiss someone, how does it feel when you can’t kiss someone when they’re away!
I really wanna experience all of this. Please tell me how do I get a boyfriend?
P.S. I don’t wanna use a dating app because I’m a little old school like that, it doesn’t feel natural to me. I wanna meet someone organically and fall in love but that’s not happening is losing weight the only way to do that? | Crush |
My crush someday texts me normally, calls me honey, darling, beautiful.. And next time he just ignores me. I don't text him every day nor every week.
He never writes me first. He puts hearts on my photos, says happy birthdays but that's all. We live in different coutries so meetings are imposibble. I met him in Italy when i was on holiday with my family. He Is not italian And doesnt live there.
Why Is he acting like that? | Crush |
Help plzzz
So me and this girl have been talking for around 6 months and I like her. I have told her before and she’s given me an indecisive answer saying that she doesn’t know rn and that was about 2 and a half months ago. Since then me and her have gotten even closer, we flirt sometimes, im friends with her friends, we actually hang out outside school and we call on a regular basis. We even like the same shows/music. Her friends want me and her to be together, they even told me how cute me and her would be together. We are only 14 and I have never had a girlfriend so I dont want to waste my time and be by myself forever so should I give it more time or should I just go for it. And if I do go for it how do I go about it? | Crush |
we live in different continents ( for now )
i dated his friend like a year ago
we're in the same friend group and i think it would be weird for them
i think he thinks i'm a hoe but maybe i am overthinking
he thinks i'm a dumbass
he's a virgin, kind of a pro idk
pretty sure he prefers blondes and big tiddy anime girls
that's all the cons.
i've never been more afraid to tell someone how i feel and i think i want to marry this guy
anyways . any tip or opinion is welcome
<3 | Crush |
What makes a guy nervous around a girl?
There is a guy I know is outgoing loud and is not shy around people even with girls. But I am shy but once you get to know me I will open up more and talk. he is confident around the girls I see him with like he can joke and tease with them. With me he will not talk or flirt unless we are alone I have approached him with other people around to see if he will open up more but he will not so much. He will stare at me from across the room and gets nervous more quite shy to me. Sometimes he will just blush smile. A lot times I do catch him has confidence he will just stare deep into my eyes will not say a word I do stare back we have flirted sometimes like making eye contact and smelling. Why would this confident outgoing guy act nervous around a shy girl. I know he likes me and it seems to me he is really a shy guy who tries to funny cocky outgoing guy in front of crowds. | Crush |
If it’s meant to be we will find a way back right? JR year of college I was at a party. This dude kept staring at me. I’m a redhead and so was he. I’m very tall and he was taller. He eventually struck up a convo. It was the night before super bowl 2018. We hit it off by taking about Buffalo Wild Wings, dogs and how we both wanted to live to Florida one day. My best friend said he looked at me like he was in aw. She said she believed in love at first sight when she saw him look at me. He was a little younger but I like it that way.
We exchanged numbers and starting talking and hanging out. 5 amazing weeks and a life tragedy happened. A family member got in a very bad car accident. I was lost for words and did not know what was going to happen. I ghosted him for 2 weeks out of being sad and scared for what may come. Eventually I texted him and explained. He understood and turns out his dog died the same exact day my family member got into a horrible car accident.
He understood and came back. No guy has ever been so kind, caring, understanding and into me the way he was. I got scared. I felt like it was too good to be true. My fear led me to stop taking to him again.
I used to text him every few weeks and he cared so much he said we could try it again. About 2 more times I would get nervous and skirt out. I thought the world of him. He was amazing. My fear got in the way. Around January2020 he had enough of my anxious ways and me playing with him. He finally blocked me.
I’m sad. Thinking of him tonight. If it’s meant to be he will come back right? I meant him at the wrong time. Right person wrong time.
Scott you are the best | Crush |
December we basically went out on a date. August he was supposed to come home but covid stopped that. In between that time he will be hot/cold. He will either message me something everyday, go off the grid for two weeks and just randomly reply to snap stories, or just do random checkins (a lot about how my mom is doing with covid, she is at risk and how I am dealing with everything). Can someone please interpret this? | Crush |
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About a month ago, I confessed to my crush. At first, she doesn't believe that I like her. Then she told me that she is not ready for another relationship. And I totally understand that and she still wants to befriend with me. Then a few days later, she asked me about what an easy song to play on ukulele. So I suggest a song to her. And then around midnight that day, she DM me and sing Rain by Bruno Mars to me. I'm like "holy shit this never happen to me. My crush sing a song for me!" I am so excited and I sing back to her by singing Take On Me (unplugged version) by A-Ha. She was impressed by my voice even though I not a great singer.
Then I thought something. Is she really like me or she pity me so that the reason she sings a song for me? Either way that is one of the best days of my life because never a girl sings a song for me. | Crush |
So my crush have been nice to me in public and some of the things I have noticed is:
(She sits infront of me)
• Drawn her firstname letter on my arm with pen
• She often talks to me during class
• Teasing me by closing my pc
• Sometimes a cute wave when she sees me otherwise
• She mocks me for fun
The things that is stopping me:
• She could just be kind
• Our snap conversation is not flirty
• She talks to a lot of other guys on snap
• She hasn’t got the opportunity to take a ride in my car, ( I have so far given her the benefit of the doubt, because she had good reasons why and I asked very spontaneous)
I don’t know what to do, but I’m telling her how I feel or I bury my feelings. This weekend, I’ll have an answer. | Crush |
How do you explain to someone that it’s hard for you to open up because your scared cause you’ve never had someone like you back. | Crush |
Not mad about it, we are still on very good terms. I just want some insight on how to not get rejected by a girl again, like what do girls look for and what gives off a “you look like someone I’d date” vibe | Crush |
I don’t know if I like him.i haven’t liked anyone in awhile and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt him but we’re young and I don’t know how to say hey can I figure it out. I need advice | Crush |
I’ve been talking to this girl from the US for some time and i think i might be falling for her, only problem is that im from europe and i cant really meet with her anytime soon..should i let go of her slowly or keep talking to her hoping we might meet one day? I really dont want either of us to get hurt, so what should i do? | Crush |
It was beautiful we were seeing a parade the theme were of vikings there was a boat on fire she was scared and i hug her we kiss each other and then... I woke up | Crush |
I’ve never even talked to him. I can’t tried to tell him I liked him but I got too nervous and scared. He wouldn’t even liked me if I did try. I’m giving up. Please someone give me advice. I’m staying up thinking about him and I can’t get him off my mind. It hurts me so bad that he will never like me. I’m hurting so bad. | Crush |
I just confessed to this girl from Italy that I’ve been talking to for a while and I just found out that she has a boyfriend. I felt like I needed to confess to her my feelings and she rejected me in the nicest way possible but that still doesn’t take the pain away | Crush |
Signs a guy has fallen for you but knows he cant?
What are the signs a guy has fallen badly for you, but knows that he can't. Whether it be for personal reasons or you work together and you just can't.
Can you tell? How would you start to act with this girl? | Crush |
I have a crush at school in the same year who now has a bf. I went out with her a couple times before but I still like her loads and have done for years. I don't know whether or how to stop liking her because she has a bf or whether to keep linking with her even though it makes me want her more - we talk as friends atm but she is a bit flirty. I tried stopping talking to her for a few months but it didn't change my feelings so I ended up talking to her again after she messaged me. | Crush |
Okay so if you do not wanna hear something extremely strange then look away
Um ok so I don't know what to do I have a crush on my teacher and I'm 13 so that is strange for me to say but I don't know what to do | Crush |
Guys, What do you do when you are shy/nervous around girls you like? | Crush |
And she like me back | Crush |
I am thinking of giving up on my crush and I feel kinda empty or disappointed. I am not entirely sure if he like me or not but for 3 years we've been having these moments, but I feel like he changed:( Now i just don't know how to feel cause I don't want to ask him directly | Crush |
We met last month, and hit it off incredibly well. There was so much in common, our music tastes, film likes, games, foods, so much. We hung out for hours and hours every other day until things got a little busier for both of us, but we still make time and talk everyday ❤️ We had a talk last week about what we are, and confessed we like each other, and should keep doing what we’re doing before we commit to a relationship (to get to know each other more, it’s only been a month).
I’m over the moon, he’s such a cutie and he’s so sweet ❤️ MASSIVE Ws | Crush |
i (16F) have liked a close friend (16M) of mine on and off for almost 7 months. for peace of mind, i really want to know whether he liked me or not but i'm afraid if i ask him it will make things awkward.
february 2020 we became friends, never thought of him as anything more than that as i had a boyfriend at the time. me and my ex broke up mid june and my friend, i'll call him Jake, was emotionally supportive and he'd let me vent to him about my problems. i appreciated him and really valued his friendship.
august 2020 - we were hanging out and we were on the subject of my love life. i asked him about his and he told me he hadn't had a crush on anyone in 2 years. i know he's not big into dating or even chatting up girls, he could definitely get a girl if he wanted to as he's conventionally attractive but from my knowledge hadn't talked to any girls he was romantically interested in. he most likely would've told me as we're close and tell each other those kind of things.
end of august 2020 - me, Jake and a couple other friends were hanging out one night. I live about an hour away and at this point its 12am and i have no way of getting home. so Jake offers to let me stay at his place and i accept.
we lay next to each other in his bed and fall asleep watching south park (lmao) on his phone. this is when i first start catching feelings for him.
the same thing happens the next weekend we hang out. this time we're a bit closer in bed and i rest my head on his shoulder as we fall asleep.
me and some friends are hanging out again the weekend after this but Jake wasn't with us. this time i was too afraid to ask to stay over at his place because i didn't want to come across as needy or clingy. to my surprise when i texted him that i'm staying over at my (girl) friends house he texted back something along the lines of "i won't have anyone to watch south park with me" with a sad face (it became a thing we watched every time i stayed at his). we then made plans for me to stay at his the next night.
that night things were a bit different. he snuck me into his room as usual, we watched south park as usual but this time when we were lying in bed ready to fall asleep, we begin to inch our hands closer to each other. i remember this taking AGES and my heart was beating so fast. we finally clasp on to each others hands and fall asleep with our fingers intertwined.
in the morning i left early since he had sports training at 8am which sucked but i didn't mind.
this happened again the next time i stayed the night at his. we held hands as we drifted off to sleep but everything went back to normal the next day. we hung out like nothing happened and the hand holding was never addressed.
something that did change was that whenever we met up or said goodbye we would hug, which we hadn't done before.
because of school we got busy so i didn't stay over, but a month later in october (the night of halloween) i stayed over at his place for the last time. instead of holding hands this time i wrapped my arm around his torso and he placed his hand on my thigh, stroking his thumb on my skin. with my head on his chest i could hear his heart beat thud fast.
when i left his house early the next morning it felt different. i knew i had to get over him because our relationship was going nowhere. our routine of acting like we were just friends, then holding hands and cuddling in bed, then back to just friends was emotionally exhausting. i tried to lose feelings but whenever i managed to the feelings would return. i tried to talk to someone else but i couldn't reciprocate the feelings back that they had for me.
fast forward to the end of february this year and i've pretty much ghosted jake which is terrible because i still want to be friends but i've stopped talking to all of my friends because i tend to isolate myself when i'm in a bad mental state. i thought by now i would've lost feelings for him because i haven't talked to him in a month but if anything its made my infatuation for him grow stronger. he's reached out to me a few times, but i haven't opened his messages or picked up his calls. i plan to do so soon but i don't even know what to say.
to whoever's read all this i want to thank you for putting in the time to read this all and if you have any suggestions or feedback please feel free to do so | Crush |
Dear you,
I know you led me on into thinking that maybe I had a chance. You knew that I have never been in a relationship and you let me get close to you.for what? Never been kissed, never been hugged. Your intentions were different then mine, and I feel like u knew that. You knew I felt special. But now what, i leave my job and now you close to someone else. What you gonna tell her? Tell her what’s bothering you, tell her what makes you laugh? She’s gonna think she special knowing damn well we were the same, just as close. That close. I feel bad for her I do. You have her thinking she special and maybe I’m wrong, maybe I’m right but it ain’t that special if we did and were the same thing. deja vu right?
All I know is, I thought that it would finally work out for me. The fat girl, the one no one wants, the fat girl... me would have her chance to know what a relationship is. To finally experience what’s it like to have her crush like her back. But, that shit, the shit on rom coms that have a plus size main character it’s just in the movies. But Ik you ain’t worth my time because i won’t ever be second choice. I may not look the best, but I know my soul, I know the light inside me. It shines above all the anxiety and ocd shit I go through. Because I, am a fucking women and the power is sewed into my hands, my DNA. You ain’t worth my fucking time. Now go, go make her feel like she’s the only one who can make you laugh, make her think she’s the only one who understands.players play until the game is over right?
But I know I made an impression just as big as the imprint my ass leaves on a leather chair, just as the brown in your eyes being the view of the truth of what your soul is. Empty, loneliness, trying to find happiness through looks instead of looking into their soul. Blinded by beauty that fades, disappears. A soul is permanent, our bodies are barrowed. I saw it,she won’t, good luck I ain’t waiting for no fucking boy to grow up. Some people just don’t mature.
Honestly I think god is protecting me, he sees what I don’t. I am a diamond in the rough, you are rock amongst others that look just like you. Gray, hard, but as a rock break into pieces, it loses its reliability. | Crush |
So there is this one girl who I have been texting to for some time(she has been friends with me for 3 years)and due to some and has stoped texting me because I told her I she wanted to meet each other because we have been quarantined for 2 months.Anyway I am gonna be meeting with some friends and we are going to be playing cards I was thinking of inviting her in a more friendly-casual way.we are both 16.I can provide further info if needed | Crush |
I've got a friend, let's call her Sage (not her real name), who I've been crushing on for a very long time.
We met about 1.5-2 years ago and she quickly became my best friend and I became hers, although it wasn't long before I developed romantic feelings.
Very soon into our relationship we actually started dating, it went on for a few months, then she broke up with me because she didn't think her parents would approve of me.
Jump to the present, and now her parents and I are very close (I'm in a group chat with their whole family, and have even been invited to stay with them in the case of emergency). She and I are also very close, and are at the point in our friendship where writing friendly love poems and going on what by most normal people would be considered incredibly romantic dates. I've tried asking her out a couple times recently, but she still says no - although it never puts any strain on our friendship.
Recently though, she's told me something that makes me question everything, and that I don't think could be interpreted as just friendly (like when she says I'm hot or that she loves me). She told me she regrets breaking up with me.
Now, nothing she says that sounds romantic is a surefire fact, but is there any chance she might like me back? If not, are there things I can do to get those feelings to arise? | Crush |
Okay let me just tell u the situation as briefly and simply as possible. There’s a guy whom i’ve been eye sexting (we look at each other all the time and smile) and it just feels like there’s a mutual attraction. He added me on insta a while ago when it ‘started’ i guess and we’ve talked a few times but just short convos. Either ways it seems like we both want something but are a little shy. I would talk to him in school more but either i’m with my friends or he is with his. We just went off for a two week break so i wont be seeing him until then but he seems like a cool guy and honestly i just want to talk to him and get to know him because i feel like we would get along. I want to text him but then again, like most of us, i fear the potential rejection that could happen and also coming off as clingy. Its a dilemma because although he looks at me a lot during school, he’s in general a fun, social guy...has lots of friends and seems confident. But then when im around he seems shy. I just dont know where to put it and thats why i dont know if i should just say fuck it and text him? I feel like i should but also shouldn’t, HELP whats ur thoughts? | Crush |
She is older than me and she hit on me she tried to touch me when no one is around. We work part time jobs together. She is obsessed with her work and snapped at me one day because of it. I got really mad and she apologized but I was still bitter. I told her that I am going to ask to change my shift to have a break from her. She tried to text me over the weekend but I blocked her number and I didn’t see it. When I saw her the next time she asked me if I have seen her message I said I didn’t. She tried to avoid me at work even ignored me every time I talked to her around others. She told me that I will get my break away from her because thats what I wanted but she thinks its a long time. I tried to text her funny stuff after my shift changed and she replied she said she misses me but she still ignore me around others at work but When she saw me alone she hit on me and was trying to tell me jokes. I asked her to text me funny stuff too but she said she is busy. She replies to texts but never text first. Whats going on now? Should I stop texting her? | Crush |
I went on a uni trip and met this girl, she is everything I had ever wanted in my partner. On top of this she also seems to like me, I don't know if that's platonic or romantic but ever since we met on the trip, we have become best friends and spend all the time in uni together. The problem is that she is married and since we live in a conservative country where the institution of marriage is still very strong, it is virtually certain that we won't be anything but good friends. Despite knowing all of this, I still can't help falling more in love with her whenever I see her. I can't stop this feeling and it's getting stronger with everyday. I don't want to be a guy to break up a marriage, that's why I haven't confessed and neither do I plan to but it's becoming extremely difficult to stay away from her. Whenever I am not with her I feel extremely sad and lonely. I don't know what to do | Crush |
A guy friend texts me every night for many hours, often really late into the night (3am for example). Maybe I’m overthinking things though? | Crush |
I've been writing with a girl from my school for a few weeks now, since we don't go to school due to lockdown I can only write to her. I would really like to ask her to do something with me, for example, go for a walk or just sit in the park and talk to each other. Unfortunately, I am still very unsure whether she likes me at all. We talk all the time about series and so and also write to each other every day, but still I can not really interpret whether she finds me interesting. What should I write to her in your opinion? | Crush |
I just texted my crush and sorta confessed. (I tried to delete the msg but it was to late) So she said she'd give me her answer on 10th April. I don't know what now, does this mean I'm screwed? | Crush |
I haven't seen her 1 year 7 months since I switched schools then over summer last year she moved 1000 miles, about 1600km, away. I can say with certainty that we have a closer bond than we did freshman year. I've gotten to know her so much better and vise versa I image. She helped me through a low point, still is i guess, and I try to help her how I can, she isn't as open to help though.
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Every once in a while she'll say something to me that makes me hopeful. Her best friend even who is the only other person who knows I like her. Between the friend saying "Y'all are so cute, I ship" and "I can't wait for the wedding" then the girl herself doing a maneuver that seems like a flirt especially when its got about 1 in 77,000 odds of being and accident ( like she claimed it to be ). Then I remember, she's 1000 miles away, she isnt looking for a relasionship right now because she's wanting to avoid drama, after I switched school but before she moved and I confessed not getting a definite answer. but instead "now isn't a good time in my life" (I now know what was making it not a good time)
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Then after all that I remember again that I'm the only guy from our old school she talks to, we've known each other for almost 4 years and been friends for 3 1/2 of it, and the best friend saying "I think <Girl> likes you, she just doesn't want to admit it to herself" and that she's the only one I've been able to like for more than a couple weeks, like doesn't do it justice anymore I'm in love.
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AD I know you're not a Redditor, but if you see this I miss you. There's a lot of this from that school I miss and you are without a moment of hesitation in my top 3. You've been only good to me since we met, more than I deserve. As much as I wish I didn't I love you | Crush |
So my older sister recently got married and I was wearing nice clothes, so I was texting my crush and she asked what I was doing so I sent her a picture and she said, and I quote "You look so gooddddd" that is copied and pasted, is she flirting with me or just being nice, if she is flirting then I'm super confused because she's told me on multiple occasions that she likes another guy, HELP | Crush |
I suck at relationships, I've never actually asked a girl out, each and every time I've dated someone its because they found out that I liked them and then I just pretend like nothing happened until they eventually ask me out. But now I'm stuck at home and I can't see the girl that I like but we text each other almost everyday, but the only issue is that even though it's easier to say things over text, I'm almost positive that she doesn't like me back and I'm afraid that if I tell her it'll make things extremely awkward and that I won't have anyone to talk to because all of my other friends rarely respond to my texts, so do any of you have any tips or advice for my introverted ass | Crush |
Um, okay so listen. I have a crush on a guy who is five years older than me. Just before three days ago I texted him in the evening as I heared he was not feeling well, then he replied the next morning, I was a bit sad but I was at least happy he texted me back. Then he texted me on the mid of the night, it was my first time talking with a guy in the mid of the night. I was so happy, it continued for two more days, what shall I do to make him fall in love with me? Is it first possible for him to fall in love with a girl who is 5 years younger than him? Please help me everyone~•° | Crush |
hello all yall lovely people for more good advice on yalls crushes join r/adviceletters | Crush |
So she is 22 and I’m 26,
This is not a school setting.
Here are some things she's been showing me :
- She looks at me and looks away and smiles at the ceiling and she has done this more than once
- She's comfortable sitting right in front of me, just three feet away and never adjusts away. Like in my personal square.
- I remember when someone I knew talked about whether i had a girlfriend or not, she looked at me and flashed her eyes and started talking about how I will find a girl someday
- She stared at me this and looked with squinting eyes quickly shifting her head from left to right with a smirk , and she did this on three different occasions, and someone caught her doing it and said you’re gonna drive him crazy if you keep looking at him like that”
- She watches movies with me excitedly, but then again she lives next door and visits a lot
- She talks with me a lot , even though we see each other every day ,she doesn’t seem to get bored with me. She laughs at my every joke, even when others around don't laugh.
- She tells me that some other guy told her she liked me (okay this is not a sign but what does this mean? Is she trying to make me jealous?)
- She tells me her friends want to see her and I walk downstairs and her friends are super silent just smiling weirdly at me and then slowly initiate conversation.
- We went somewhere far away and she pat my stomach and it was weird lol
- She tried to set me up with a girl, and showed me her picture but then she said that girl already had a boyfriend. Why tell me in the first place?
- Her voice becomes more high pitched when she talks to me, compared to others
- She has asked me whether I find this girl or that girl attractive
- She referenced some word I said in a caption on an instagram post, the day after she heard me make a point of it
- She told me that I have a very beautiful smile and she was amazed by it and says that I am much more attractive than some other guy other people were comparing me to
- whenever we're out somewhere she has no problem sitting next to me but then she had great difficulty sitting next to my dad in the passenger seat because it makes her look like my dad's girlfriend lol
- people keep asking and confusing her for my girlfriend or wife when we go out somewhere lmao wtf, then again that also happens with my sister lmao wth | Crush |
Ok so there is this guy that i have liked for around 7 months, but i’m too scared to tell him for a few reasons. 1. I live with him in a co-op so if it goes badly/becomes awkward between us i still have to see him everyday. 2. i have never been in a relationship so i am scared of everything. 3. i don’t know how to tell if someone likes me so i have no idea what he thinks of me. The night before last i got really drunk and disappeared into my room without telling anyone and fell asleep. He then texted me, called me, then texted me in the morning to see if i needed my stomach pumped lol, and left a gatorade outside my door. That’s an example of one of our interactions. He is a more shy, reserved person as he has mentioned to others and me that it was hard for him to put himself out there and start hanging out with us. Sorry i have been rambling on i just don’t know what to do, my lease is up in mid-may and then i won’t see him until the fall for the next semester of college so i do have a time constraint. I know i will be mad at myself if i don’t tell him, but i am scared or ruining things, putting myself out there, and making things awkward. i’m going to feel really dumb if i’ve liked him this whole time and he doesn’t feel the same way at all, but i may need to accept that. any help or advice appreciated :)) | Crush |
Hello everyone
For about 3 years I had the same crush (and it was my first). We spent a lot of time together and a year ago and a little more I proposed. She said no, but she wanted to remain friends. The thing is that I still like her but I feel like I shouldn't do it and sometimes I force myself not to look at it, avoid her and stuff like that. What happens is that I can't forget what I feel and sometimes I have bad times.The problem is that I think I should forget about her and turn this page (We are also very similar in some cases, but in other aspects we are very different. For example, she smokes and I don't like that very much, and I think she could have a negative influence on me. But at the same time I think we are very similar, AAAA. ) because if not, I will never open up to new people and new relationships, but I feel that in the end i still like her. What should I do?
Thank you | Crush |
So I recently hung out with my friends, let’s call them Kol, Fred, and Penny.
Now Kol planned to tell Penny that he liked her afterwards, but lost the nerve. I found out later from Penny that she didn’t like him. Later that day, I also found out that Fred also likes Penny, but didn’t want to jeopardize his relationship with Kol. Eventually, he told him and they made up and everything, but I was surprised.
I had liked Fred for a while; we had been flirting a little bit, he called me ma’am and we would have a little playful banter back and forth. He would even occasionally play hit me on the head once in a while. He seemed interested in me but now I’m not sure anymore.
Penny seems more lively and free-spirited, and I’m fun in a different (less high-risk) kind of way. However, I found out that Fred and I have a similar taste in music, while hers and Fred’s are different. We also both are familiar with mental illnesses, and are used to feeling different than others. Any thoughts? | Crush |
So i normally dont post on here but just felt like it. i met this amazing girl about 2 weeks ago and she makes me smile and feel like i never have (cheesy). she says she would love to get in a relationship soon-ish and i would love that but i've never been in one and it scares me... alot. im 18 and shes 17. like shes really fucking great.. and nice.. and cute.. and caring. And the fact that i've become all lovey dovey with her surprises me because im not that type of guy. im normally a laid back dude with no reaction.. but she did something.. i could go on all day. any tips if anyone is interested in this story?
Thanks :) | Crush |
So I found a girl staring at me most of the times and smiling. When I go out of my classroom's, she makes up a small opening through window and stares at me and closes it after a while(actually she always sits beside that window and our classroom faces opposite to each), and sometimes she even tries to hide and see me in a sneaky manner.
This made me confused!! | Crush |
I’m a student in high school(F14) and had been attending extra-classes along with a group of students from the same school pre-covid.
My crush (M14) also attended these classes and was maybe the only person that made me laugh(I was going through a phase where I felt my whole life was going wrong). At the time I never really felt anything for him, but my friends believed that I liked him. The school that I attend is also a bit conservative about girls interacting or even looking at boys so I hadn’t really known how to feel.
Right before the lockdown started where I live, I stopped attending the classes, and recently my crush messaged me and we started talking.
Since I don’t have much experience speaking/chatting with any guys my age I felt weird and then he started flirting with me and I kinda reciprocated. He made my heart flutter and I guess that was when I realized I liked him. But soon after(I mean a few days) he grew a bit cold and rarely replied to my messages and would only reply at night. Recently he stopped replying at all and maybe replies every alternate night. I’ve never opened up to anyone else before and after this I don’t intend on it either.
Do you think he’s playing me and am I making a mistake trusting him?
I normally talk with my older sister(F20) and ask her for advice but I’m afraid she may tell my parents(who are very strict) hence I’m turning to you guy for advice.
Please tell me what to do | Crush |
So recently my crush told me that he have a crush on someone else. And he talks to me all the time. He follows after me, and he even makes fun of me, but in a good way. The problem is that he gives me mixed signals. And i don't understand him. Like i like him, but i don't understand him, i need advice. | Crush |
I wanna take to my crush I think she might like me but I don’t know how to talk to her | Crush |
I (20M) have a crush on a friend (19F) for a couple of months now that i have known for around 4 years. We both practice in rescue swimming (life guard) and we are in the same group of friends. We get along wel but not realy close or anything. We see eachother on partys and sometimes when we meet up. We have conversations here and there and flirt a bit but nothing special (its common the the group to do it so it means nothing. Example: when we were online the other day she said that she went in to the shower and we said as a joke "why didnt you sent pictures?" Again its a common thing we do). We amost never text eachother.
I havent taken any steps yet because i dont realy know what to do, And i dont think she is intersted in me. Any tips? | Crush |
Help me | Crush |
My crush seems to like me and my friend thinks so too but im afraid I'm being played.
We have some moments but then he ghosts me. Yesterday we went out with a group of friends and he hardly spent the day talking to me. When we were waiting in a line next to each other he would go ahead to hang out with the rest of the group and while walking he spent majority of the time with another girl.
But then while we were walking through a scary place he held my hand and didn't let go till the last minute (I was the scared one here) and for the first time he took pictures with me (just us).
While we were eating dinner the conversation of how to reply to thank yous was going in the group. And he said he has a different reply to people depending on how close he is to them. So I wanted to know how close we are so I sent him a thank you and he replied with the thank you he said he uses for strangers or people he doesn't know well. What annoyed me with his reply was that few days ago he said I was close to him so now I have no idea what's going on and I just feel so upset.
Do you think im being played? | Crush |
Hey ya’ll,
So I’m trying to understand what’s going on. I’ve developed a crush on a former coworker who is married and is also a lesbian. I’m a straight dude. We were not friends and never hung out while we worked together but we were cordial and friendly towards eachother on the job. It was only after I quit that we began talking to eachother. For context, during one weird day in the office I happened to be standing having a cup of coffee across the floor when I noticed her sit down at her desk, then scroll through a page of internal employee photos and stop when it got to me. I walked over to her desk and said hello, when she very quickly turned her screen off. I found the whole little episode kinda weird? After I quit we chatted here and their via text and then she offered to sell me a really high end microphone for an absurdly low price. I said I’d buy it and we met up to exchange money and mic. We then went to a bar and got a few drinks. I’ve always wondered if the sale was a pretext to hanging out.
Anyway, fast forward to recent history. She’s been sending me unsolicited bathroom selfies. She only ever sends me selfies from her job and rarely if ever, communicates via text with me after 5pm. I compliment her on how she looks and recently was flat out just like “you look really hot”. For what it’s worth I’ve noticed that every day since then I’ve received a pic.
Can anyone tell me what’s going on? Thanks! | Crush |
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