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Finally got asked let’s hangout Friday, my response was yes definitely and his was someday!! Like okay cool | Crush |
i’ve started to get a crush on this boy at school , i asked for his snapchat one day at lunch and by his personality i can tell that he’s someone who doesn’t have a lot or friends and prefers to be alone. i try to talk to him when i see him and he seems interested, laughing at my jokes and smiling when i talk to him but when i try to text him it takes hourrrrssss to respond. when we do text or talk we have good conversations and nothing dry or boring but it confuses me when he leaves me on delivered and opened for hours. and i don’t think he is busy for that long. my friends say that they think he is interested as well and they wanna see where it goes. i haven’t had someone i’ve been interested in a while so i’m wondering if i should pursue him or not. i’ve been talking to him for about 3 weeks so maybe it’s too early to be overthinking stuff like this ? | Crush |
So I’m not really the type of person to go on Reddit or write things like this but I feel like this would be a good way to forget and lose my feelings for my crush. I’m a decent looking guy I would say and I usually have no problem talking to attractive girls, girls in general and not to sound like a douche or anything of that sort but I am fairly popular. This girl first caught my eye years ago in secondary school but it just one of those ‘oh she looks nice’ and just get in with whatever I was doing, but more recently in college I’ve been so attracted and just in ore with her. The weirdest part is that I haven’t even had a conversation nor talked to her properly, like I feel so embarrassed for myself. I’m crushing so hard on a person that I don’t even know properly. I done things as jokes with my friends like romanticise about her, make stupid love rap songs/poem, ext.I’m not gonna lie, I feel like she low-key likes my but like low-key. This might just be me being delusional as shit and stupid, which it probably is but i just feel it lol. There’s been times where there’s opportunities to talk to her cause she usually sits near me in break and lunch because her friends and my friends are friends but whenever I try to I just fumble, I get really nervous, i stutter, shake, just like in the fucking movies. Ugh the most embarrassing thing happened today and this is why I’m doing this, but me and my mates (which were her mates aswell) were gonna play a game and she was talking to her other friend but were literally next to us. They were talking and I said ‘do you guys wanna play this game?’ And they didn’t hear me or thought I wasn’t talking to them, I mean to be fair it was very random and my friends started laughing(boys and girls), taking the piss and what not and then she turns cause there’s people saying ‘2nd hand embarrassment’, ‘oooooooh’, ext. eye contact in lock, staring into each others soul (idk if she felt the same way but what I think) I ask ‘do you wanna play this game with us?’ And she basically says no. And that’s cool like I didn’t really feel some type of way about it, but like her mate sounded interested like idk how to play and shit, like trying to get someone to explain and say oh Just play you’ll learn cause before someone brung up playing a game, they were involved in our conversation.I’ve been told she’s socially awkward/ anxiety or something along the lines of that, which I do see in her but idk man. I just need to move on, acknowledge that she don’t like me. Forgot to mention that she left with her friend, I was putting my hand in my face but only cause it was playing the game, it may have looked like I was embarrassed n shit but I weren’t and her friend was like ‘do you wanna go to yours’ or something like that can’t remember, so I don’t know if she was creeped out by me( she knows that I like her cause I’m good friends with her girl bf) or if she felt uncomfortable cause I didn’t see her and she usually goes red easily. This is so random, don’t even know if this makes any sense but yeah lol. | Crush |
I recently have developed a crush on a coworker of mine. (Though I knew I would when I first meet them). We are both 24 and are single and started at our work place at the same time. So we bonded with each other about being the new people. Most of work is virtual but we do get together from time to time for outdoors drinks as a staff. When we do they are playful with me sometimes and other times not so much. I most likely won't say anything because I think it is a bad idea to mix work and feelings. But sometimes I do feel like saying something. I don't have a fear of rejection, but a fear of making things awkward at work. Any one have thoughts? | Crush |
My crush acts all hard and looks hard but when he sees me and we dont go to the same school so we see each other rarely but we gained feelings for eaxh other and i can tell
Hes eyes go bigger
He gets all nervous
He stares deeply in my eyes | Crush |
So I have a crush. I have never felt this way about someone before. Ever. I mean he is just the perfect person. I could just envision our wedding 😅. I know that sounds weird but I just feel that way about him and I can just imagine us going hiking and having and picnic and getting deep and laying down to watch the stars. I don’t know what to do I mean if I tell him and he says no I don’t know if I could. And I want to let him know how I feel but at the same time I don’t. And I mean he is everything. He loves the outdoors, he can sing! And he’s so adventurous. I mean I would just love to live with him ya know just do whatever he wants to do, be adventurous and crazy with him. I mean I would run all the way to California and back for him. Heck I would even eat sushi if he wanted me to try it! I just have never felt that way about someone and I needed to tell someone because it’s currently esting me alive. So yeah. Thank you for listening to me rant | Crush |
So my crush and I have gotten pretty close lately and it seems like our friend group knows something is going on between us. My roommate thinks he likes me too but I'm skeptical.
I do see him staring at me sometimes. I did think he liked me but then some things throw me off. For example when we are in a group we both usually are always together, he's always keeping our convo going and cracking jokes and all but when we get left alone he gets all quiet which is sooo different from his usual self. Almost like he got uncomfortable.
Is this maybe because he knows I like him? And its possible his friends are teasing him so he's getting uncomfortable? Or is there another possible reason? | Crush |
I (F22) sorta like my coworker (M28) let's call him Matt. He shows signs that he likes me, such as:
\- Goes out of his way to help me
\- Calls me for random/stupid reasons, but only related to work.
\- Stares at me a lot
\- Can easily talk to other people, but with me it's like his conversations have to be planned
\- Changed his schedule on Sundays. He usually would get off at 12:15 and I come in at 12:30. However, he lingers around until after 12:30 and we run into each other at least once. He doesn't go out of his way to come up to me, but little things like forgetting one of his belongings.
The problem is I don't get the vibe that he likes me. I know he cares, but it might just be as a friend.
Our other coworker (M31) told me this weekend that Matt knows I like him and just tolerates me as a coworker. When I asked him when Matt said this, Juan said "He didn't, it's just a guy thing. He just has that look in his eye and I know."
Should I trust Juan? I know him and Matt are closer just because they work together more often, but I know they don't tell each other everything. | Crush |
So i’m 17(M) and he is the same, I cant tell if he’s closeted or i’m overthinking it and it’s sending me insane and i just don’t know if i should move on or just let him occupy my mind a little longer :/
A key thing to this whole experience of liking this guy and not knowing if he likes me back is the way he is, I cant tell if it’s just a personality thing or it’s all down to me and it’s the worst. So starting off with the very early signs, he just would not stop looking at me and I’d forever be catching him looking to the point i was having loads of fun with it, at one point it was almost certain he’d be looking at me so I’d look at him every now & then. He’s a really kind guy and he’s always holding the door open for me, in fact one time he held the door open for me but it was literally just me and him, no one was else was in the room which i found really sweet since i’m the type to walk straight in and just kick the door and hope it wouldn’t hit him ;) he leant up against the door this time though so I had to shuffle past, it was a little awkward since it wasn’t necessary but like i say still very sweet. Another thing that was quite funny, I needed to get some work from my other friends who happen to sit right opposite him so I had to walk in his direction and the poor guy swung round and thought I was going to go to him and I just had to dodge him...
Now these are things that all happened in real life pre-lockdown, when lockdown hit we took it over to social media where one day he randomly accidentally called me although there was pretty much no way you could do that without going onto my account. You’d think that would be enough for me to take the hint but i’m still struggling to now! Me and my friend were joking around with him, asking whether he fancied any girls.. or boys? cos you never know and this was the part that kinda confirmed to us our suspicions were right... I’m not gay, BUT, he then goes onto describe his crush except through the whole conversation he would not let us know the gender of this mystery person and kept on referring to the person as they/them rather than she/her. even when he was asked the gender of this person he just stayed silent and resorted to why would you need to know etc etc. I kinda took it light hearted because he could just be bullshitting and there is no person but it is still quite interesting to say the least.
I think it is important to realise throughout this whole experience straight guys can be nice to members of the lgbtq+ community which I’ve stuck by and often resort back too when i’m stuck here being a wimp too scared to ask. but with him it’s different, he contacts me for help, asks me questions which are really not difficult to answer (i’ve done the exact same to him just as an excuse to speak to him so i get it). As soon as we’re in real life, he acts like he has no idea who I am and seems to avoid eye contact, which he did anyway but he’d just hang on a little longer before. One day last week I messaged him and he opened the chat, left it on read for 20 hours so I was sat there thinking i’d done something wrong and the next morning he messaged me straight away (no apology tho?).
What are your opinions on this situation? | Crush |
I was supposed to ask my Crush out this week but school got closed because of covid. Most likely will open at start of April I don't know if I should ask her out via Instagram dms or should I wait for spring break to be done? I never talked to her but we are in the same class | Crush |
I am a 13-year-old male. I'd say that I'm not *that* social, but social to an extent that half of the school knows who I am. But my crush (13F), I know some of her friends but not that much about her. I'd say that she doesn't know anything about me other than my name. We share only one class together, and she sits really close to me. Yesterday in class we moved our desks around for a class discussion, and I accidentally caught her eye. When she saw my eyes looking into hers she immediately turned away. Note that she was **not** in the group that are supposed to be talking, and neither am I. I don't know what that means. Is she into me? Is she just randomly staring? Or what? What steps should I take next? Should I compliment her somehow? Should I try to start a conversation? | Crush |
Hi everyone, so this is the second post I had made about my crush- so earlier this night I told my crush I liked him face-to-face & he said he liked me as well. The thing is once he got back home & texted me he said how he likes me, but is hesitant with getting into a relationship because he is pretty much scared. He said that he’s gonna explain next time when we hang out, but should I be nervous? Like I hope some girl from his past didn’t severely hurt him, because I know how that feels. //“: | Crush |
Situation: both girls, we've been in the same language course since the beginning of the year but actually started interacting through text less than a month ago for something random (see my previous post).
And since then she has practically started almost all of our conversations even though they were never on very personal things. And its almost always been for some kind of excuse (homework, ect) , let me give u some examples.
Once to continue the convo i asked if she knew something about our graduation (we're both hs seniors but go to different schools with some different subjects) since in out country its still quite unclear. And she replyed sending me screenshots from an ig post saying "i wouldve sent it to u on ig but i dont think i follow you?!". So then i asked for her @ to follow her and now we follow each other. Since then she has shared a post w/ me on ig twice (in four days). What is weird is that both times it was something that didnt have anything to do with me specifically: one time it was about a bonus that everyone who was born in our year is getting from the state (and i mean, i think pretty much most of her friends are born in her year, so why send it to me? Also we had never talked about it). The second time it was about graduation but again, even if it was something that we had mentioned before, why me and not anyone of her actual friends or classmates??
Its weird because i find myself thinking of her (duh) and kind of wondering what shes going to come up with to text me the next time, because when i think there is really no excuse i could use to text her, she then finds something even random to write.
But what i cant understand is if this is just her personality or its something more: like she is a very sociable person i think and im quite the opposite so its hard for me to see it in that perspective. If it were me i wouldnt text someone that much and for random stuff even if i liked them, let alone just wanting to be friends. What do u guys think, is it something that people normally do? | Crush |
I don’t know how to explain this but we started as co workers but he moved up to my supervisor. We work together on the weekends and close together on Saturdays so it is just the two of us. The only thing is that we can’t go out because he is my supervisor. Although we know this, he does things that I don’t know are a sign he might like me
-He suggest and let’s me rub lotion on his hands
-He “loves it” when I play with his hair, he ask me to play with it when we are alone and I do for awhile
-He also plays with my hair and just holds it in his hands when he is sleeping(sometimes we lay and sit next to one another when we hangout)
-We do text one another outside of work so we are friends
-He plays around a lot so he pokes me,pats and rubs my head, and rubs my stomach and has laid down on top of me. Note:he doesn’t do these things to my other female co worker he is also friends with
I don’t know if these actions mean anything, he is does confuse me because he does have a lot of female friends and idk he he does this with them. I’m F(18) he is M (21) | Crush |
How do befriend my crush in virtual school? As far as I know their only social media is texting and prob face time and calling. I was thinking about emailing to ask for notes but im not sure how to take that to being friends. | Crush |
Ok so this girl rejected me a year ago and asked if we could be friends. I agreed. Recently this subject came up and she asked me what I liked about her. The conversation pretty much evolved into me telling her how much I liked her 'then'. She asked me how I felt after getting rejected, then said she didn't give it much thought at the time, and didn't think it was anything serious. She said she thought I was only joking, even though it was pretty obvious I liked her. Is she reconsidering her choice? Is that what this means? | Crush |
Hi my classmate always was interested in me from the firts day Ive met him.... he was always lonely so me and my bestie decided to become friends with him. Our friendship was fantastic and always had a good time but i felt something weird every time i was around him. He was always very much nice to me, always helped me with work and was very touchy ( not in a perverted way). Back in December b4 the christmas holidays after college he used to offer him self to take me home because it was dark so he was scared for me. The last day of college b4 the holidays we met and was raining, so we sat down near the park and covered me with his arm and umbrella after some time he kissed me, I was really shocked and exited at the same moment he confessed that he always liked me and wanted to have a relationship with me so I accepted, the day after we met again and he told me that his parents wont allow him to marry or date someone from a different race or religion so I was really broken hearted but he reassured me by saying I will always like you. Afterwords we didnt meet for at least 2 months during the lockdown but he used to text me almost everyday to check how i was and said that he missed me and wanted to see me, after college opened again we met and hugged each other, he still acts very interested and flirty but stopped texting me like he used to do before. when we are together he always put his arm around me and hugs me. I really love him but dk what to do, any advice ;( | Crush |
So I (M/18) like a girl that i know really long, we have the same interessts and can speak about everything together. But the thing is she is 14 and I don't really know if that age gap is really alright. Can you please give me feedback on what should I do? | Crush |
I’ve told by crushes friend that I like her friend and she told me she’s already talking to someone and that she doesn’t really talk about me so I might not have a chance and just slowly painfully just listen to music and cry in bed.😖 | Crush |
So she came over today and we were laying in the bed for a while and just talking. She looked so cute and adorable my heart was pounding. I had music playing in the background I could tell she was nervous a little but then she started to warm up to me and finally started hinting at the fact she was cold. I too was really nervous I didn’t want to scare her away so I was hesitant but when I did it oh my it was so amazing. I played with her curly hair and she smelt so amazing. She wrapped her arms around my waist and her leg intertwined with mine. I swore the world moved so slow.
Like an hour of so later of me cuddling and complimenting her she climbed ontop of me and wrapped the sheet around us and held onto me and fell asleep in my arms. It felt so perfect she made my heart melt. I wish everyone could experience this 🥺 | Crush |
I like this girl whom I have in two of my classes. Problem is it’s virtual school and as far as I know the only social media she has is simply texting. And for the icing on the cake I think she has a time limit on her phone too. Not really sure how to talk to her. Any ideas or should I give up? | Crush |
Aight so I'm at uni residences and always have my curtain open during the day even though I'm on the ground floor cos i like to look out my window and have natural light.
Unfortunately does mean i prolly come across weird when people walk by and I'm sat there staring out. But to get to the point a girl walks passed every day and i have developed a minor crush for her... Even though she may not even know I'm in here seeing her walk by. So
1) is it weird if i try get her attention when she next walks by and if not
2) what do i say that doesn't make me seem creepy
Bear in mind I'm useless at talking to girls | Crush |
This is so embarrassing writing like this. I'm a man, & i jus turned 21 a month ago and sounding like a fucking middle schooler.
Anyway this girl works with me. First couple months I didn't really pay attention to her at all, jus work related stuff. But about 3 weeks ago I caught her staring at me, so I started looking at her too. (I could've swore I heard her say to a co-worker that she likes me, I don't think they expected for me to hear) Before that every time she would pass me, she would be humming, she would every now and than sing along to a love song where I can clearly hear her. If I'm near her she would start fidgeting more than usual too like with her necklace. Lastly she randomly dances after passing me. Lol not full blown but you know the dance when you're in a good mood. Oddly lately we only been looking at each other nothing more, it's weird Sometimes she's hot & sometimes cold. I really am thinking about asking her out. I just don't want to look dumb. I have a tendency to fall in love pretty quick Lol. But man she's so damn beautiful, I get to work with her today.
Even one of the co-worker I talk to often. Said " I think you really like working the night shift" (because two days I work in the mornings) I asked "what makes you say that" ? He says "I don't know I jus sense some kind of energy when you work with the other co-worker (my crush)" and started giggling 🤣😭
Y'all can give me any input you like, jus wanted to get this off my chest. | Crush |
What i'm afraid of the most ...
- my crush doesn't know i like him.
- my crush knows i like him but pretending he doesn't know because he has no special feelings to me.
- my crush thinks i have already boyfriend.
- my crush thinks nothing and i'm the person overthinking everything 🤯.
Which one is the worst?
We have recently some misunderstandings. I tried to explained to him, he said it was not a big deal so don't worry. But i have no idea what he really thinks inside. I just feel so sad and stressed right now 🥺 | Crush |
Lots of boys have crushes on me i can tell
Lots of ppl look at me in the streets and try and golding that stare but not trying to seem it in a creepy way
This boy was like im not gonna rate u cuz ppl will say i like u
But i dont have the best teeth
And i dont try my hardest on my hair
But i have a good shape
But im not tryna seem like i have a big ego | Crush |
Even if the person is a stranger and u dont know them u look immediately at thr eyes if u find them attractive then u get feelings for them how does that even work. U dont look at there nose,eyebrows, hair u immediately look at there eyes | Crush |
So while our school was taking a small break from the day my crush and her group of friends managed to find me. Then stood next to me for the entirety of the break. While they were talking I overheard my crush saying that she is now very uncomfortable around guys because of her last break up and of how her ex had treated her. Then that’s where my mind has been changed ever since, I used to not understand why women were afraid of all men after one bad experience. But now that I actually care for this girl and she had said that, it made me change entirely and I’ve been thinking a lot since then. My mind has been filled with this single thought and I don’t know what it is. | Crush |
I had a crush on this girl for about a year now. I'm pretty sure she likes me too but I'm too shy to go up to her and confirm it. Also Pretty sure she doesn't know that i like her. We've only spoken once. I wanna let her know without letting her know if that makes since. So I thought I'd follow her on Instagram and see how she reacts or just to see what happens. Would it be weird if I follow her all of the sudden? Pls help me with some advice. | Crush |
She just went through a breakup and I'm trying to comfort her, we also mess with each other with like light pushes and stuff. She laughs at my unfunny jokes but it's such mixed signals because she isn't that open to me about secrets even though I'm a close friend. She is nice doesn't like push me as a joke when were alone but around other people she does, obviously its a joke and we both know that it is, just confused. | Crush |
So I met this girl last year around fall in one of my college classes. I saw that we shared interests and wanted to approach her to be a friend so I sat next to her in my class but I'm a little shy so I didn't really talk to her. Throughout the semester she was giving of signs of being interested in me. I would constantly catch her looking my way, even when she was sitting in front of me. She would also do this thing where she would move to be in front of my gaze so I notice her and other stuff like that. She did try to start a conversation with me by complementing me on some sticker I had but I just said thank you and walked away. She didn't speak to me again after that. But she still showed interest.
So the following semester we shared no classes together. So I saw less of her. I guess its true what they say about distance and how it builds a feeling of wanting. So now I find myself thinking of her more and more. I would occasionally visit her Instagram just to see her. We never became friends and I kind of regret that since I think I'm developing a crush on her. Don't know what to do. Can't really approach her since i don't see her at all in person due to not sharing classes and because of Covid. | Crush |
I have butterflies. My hearts beating fast and I keep thinking about her and looking for her on social media. Her short hair. Her tattoos and piercings. I can hear her little giggle anytime I think about it. But she don't know me. She doesn't wave to me at work. She barely looks my direction. I know this sounds to deep. But I've never been in a serious relationship. I was in homeschool so I've never socialized. Its so hard to have confidence. I just want to be with her but have NO idea how to talk to her. | Crush |
My friend told me he and other guys were poking fun at my crush about me and this is what he told me “we would all just poke fun at him about staying late with you and how he would wait to finish treatment till we left then he would blush and mumble whatever and we would move on. He would just say how he didn’t know how or what he could do anymore to make you better but that he likes ending the day with you . But sometimes when me or another guy would fuck around with him he would just blush and give that look. You know the one I’m talking about lol“. What do I make of this?
Only helpful comments about this and if there is bashing I will report | Crush |
I (15nb) have been talking to this girl for a few months now and I've fallen for her, hard. She is really confusing though, she gets really flirty and stuff but then she'll turn around and kinda get really friendly, talking about how I'm her best friend and stuff. I told her I had feelings for her and she said she didn't know how she felt about me, that she was confused. I don't know what to do about it.
(idk if it's important but I'm autistic and struggle with emotions) | Crush |
I have been working with my crush now for about 3 months. She knows how I feel about her but the only thing is, she has a boyfriend. I swear there is something between us though... it seems like we have gotten closer when she found out. When I told her she told me if there was anything there kt would of went that way but when I replied back I haven’t flirted with her before because I respected her relationship she agreed that I haven’t flirted much. We stopped talking for a bit only like 3 days but then we picked up stronger after. We eat lunch together now every time we work together even if one of us has to wait almost a hour or so to do so.Every break we take together. We were texting until 1-2 am every night but now lately she hasn’t been texting me much. Me personally I think she is stopping her self from texting me because she likes me but I know the main reason is most likely her bf. At work though, we have been flirting a lot more, like a lot more. I know it may be stupid but she gave me a hairband I have had it for the last couple of days and today she asked for it back but when I gave it to her she gave it back to me instantly. She does little stuff at work that I haven’t had any girl I’ve worked with do like run to me when she see’s me, calls my dog her own and gave him his own nicknames and a lot more. I’m bad at explaining this stuff through text but I just want some ideas why she has stopped messaging me but flirts more in person and if I should play the waiting game. All I know though is every time she sees me she gets a big smile on her face and so do I. | Crush |
So I (21F) went on a couple of dates with this guy I met online (22M) and I was developing a pretty big crush on him...he was smart, easy to talk to, and I though he was really cute. After our second date, he says we can hang out this weekend. So I snapped him all week, and Friday night I bring up seeing him, but he says he has to work. So flash forward to Saturday night and I snap him to say hi, and where is he? At the bars with friends, not working at all. Said he got off work. I'm always the one who snaps/texts first, and I thought he was kind of out of my league anyway, so this was kind of the nail in the coffin on us. But damn I was really into him so it hurts like a bitch; I feel like I can never fall for the right people and I just want a relationship so bad...I usually don't click with guys I meet through online dating, he was the first one I've ever met up with in person and been really attracted to. Being single sucks, but actively dating and dealing with failure/rejection sucks more. | Crush |
Ok so there’s this guy, might as well call him Robert (for Robert Sheehan bc the name of one of his characters is half of the guy I like’s name, anyway that’s nerdy) and I’ve known him since I was around 3/4 so basically 10-11 years of my life. I think we’ve always gotten along but we haven’t had similar social circles so have never really interacted on our own accord since reception (around age 5/7 in Britain). Anyway, in year 9 and 10 we sat next to each other in science and on the same tables in other subjects. I thought we we’re quite amicable and got along well but I dont think he really valued it. Anyway I’ve had a long lasting crush on him, he’s always in the background even if I have a crush on someone else but yeah he’s my long term guy. Anyway this year we got paired to sit next to each other in science again. I thought “wow sure I mean that’s cool we can talk again” but I’m not quite sure if it’s a corona thing but even though we we’re chosen to basically sit in the same seats as before he chose to sit one seat’s distance away from me, and that really hurt me. It’s not like I think he hates me but I just realised that I’m not really a fixture or an afterthought in his life despite how long we’ve known each other and I’m constantly going to try to impress him even though I know down to the core he just isn’t interested. He hasn’t chosen to speak to me since that day really but i notice that he copies my hand/arm movements quite a lot and that might just well be me trying to imagine any form that he’s subconsciously thinking about me or actually being counterintuitive and copying him. Yeah so it just hurts, he will get my book if our names are called out to collect them though which is nice but I think I’m just looking for signs that he could feel remotely the same and considering the other 109938383378 signs I think they’re quite minor anyway. Yeah sorry this is long but Robert Sheehan from misfits, if you’re reading this I like you and I can’t tell you even though I planned to, but things have changed and I just miss you as a friend. AAAAHghh it’s frustrating | Crush |
https://youtu.be/AR5vfnlG_MY | Crush |
So, I have a crush with my classmate for couple of months now. Me and her is actually very close and we are simillar to each other as in interest and humour. But the problem is, the way she acts infront of me is different from the way she acts in texting.
In realife, she treats me like someone interested in me. Sometimes I catch her glancing at me, she laughs at all my jokes even the jokes which I don't consider to be that good. These are signs that I looked up at the internet if someone is interested in someone.
In texting, she does not prioritize me. Like when I ask her a question, she puts off her later. But the problem is, even if she said "later" she never revisits my question.
So I am confused with these mixed signs. Usually in my past crushes, I can immediately move on once I'm sure that they are not interested in me, but in this case this is the first time I've dealt with this. I am not sure if she is interested or not?
Extra: 1 and a half months ago, I confessed to her before, but she never gave me an answer to that confession. Now we are back to like before the confession
What should I do to solve this issue? | Crush |
Just got on my social media and found out that my crush is engaged,
I’m speechless and heart broking,
I never middle her relationship or who she was dating,, I just thought at some point she will love me back,,
But today she just post her engagement ring on social media,, 💔💔💔💔 | Crush |
It's been so long since I've swooned over some guy that now I've forgotten what it felt like. The butterflies in my stomach, the blood rushing to my face whenever they are mentioned, my friends teasing me constantly.
*sigh*
When did life become so dull? Is this what transitioning into adulthood is like?
Anybody relate to this? | Crush |
So I’ve had a crush on this guy pretty much since the 5th grade.
And it’s the typical attraction that makes zero sense, he embodies the type of guy I don’t particularly like, everything has to be a show for him, he’s constantly seeking to be the center of attention and need everyone to adore him.
We’ve been good friends through elementary middle and high school. During college, although we live in the same city, we kinda lost touch but I still secretly was very attracted to him. A few months ago I heard he was moving away so I decided to tell him how I felt. Because of COVID I didn’t tell him in person, so I wrote him a long detailed email telling him how I felt, to get some closure.
It was one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done...and eventually he answered back.
He told me what I expected...he didn’t feel the same way and that he would still care for me.
Although after 12 years I finally got the courage to tell him and get his answer hoping to get closer and get over him...I still feel this attraction over someone I’m never gonna be with.
Why do I still feel this way?...
TLDR I told my crush how I felt hoping to get some closer and move on, but I still have feelings for him and I don’t know why | Crush |
So there's this girl that sits next to me in my us government class and I've known her since sophomore year (I'm a senior) and whenever I open my mouth to talk words just won't go out. What do I do? | Crush |
so basically theres someone in a few of my classes who I'm...intrigued by. from what ive gathered hes tall, smart, and quiet. besides that i have no confidence or social skills whatsoever and i want to get to know him(hehe). so how do i even get him to start acknowledging my existence LMAO | Crush |
I texted this guy yesterday, and I feel that he should know my face before we continue our conversation. But it's just weird to just send a pic of a face, and I don't post my face on profile pic?
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Should I just send it? | Crush |
what does it mean if a guy makes a playlist for you??
and asks you to make a playlist of your favourite songs so he can listen to them???
and also what if i “accidentally” touch him and he doesn’t move away ??? | Crush |
https://youtu.be/vC1PV2FI074 | Crush |
So basically 2 years ago I used to sit with this girl in class and at the time I didn’t find her attractive.
Now sitting here 2 years later I was thinking about things she would do and now I realize they were choosing signals, but I have low self esteem and I just brushed it off as her being friendly.
She would like to measure hands and such. She also was the first to ask me for my socials
I really like her but I don’t know if it is a good idea to try to reach out to her through dm on Instagram because I feel like maybe she forgot about me or lost that connection.
TL;DR should I dm a girl I haven’t spoken to in 2 years? | Crush |
We have art together and we sit right next to each other and she was texting somebody and started telling me about the guy she was texting. She showed me their texts and they were obviously flirtatious. I asked her if she liked him and she said “Of course, but a guy like him would never go for me.” All I knew to do was be supportive and make jokes about them being together. He lives a state away so it is completely impractical. I could tell from the texts he was a smash and dash kinda guy which really worries me. My crush is a good person and I’m scared she’s gonna fall for it. At this point it isn’t even jealousy of him I’m just worried for her, she talked about how she snuck out and I know that’s not like her and I am positive he’s a bad influence. I came to the terms today she just thinks of me as a best friend and I’m fine with that I just don’t want her getting into a relationship she’s gonna regret. Any advice or tips? This is probably the wrong sub but it semi relates to my crush so whatever. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/okeBqgLCses | Crush |
heya!
it's been a year since i made my first post on my crush situation and i haven't really been on reddit to update the entire situation. recently something did happen and it's bugging me all day, so why not share it on reddit and hopefully get some advice?
firstly, ever since my last 2 posts about this, around august to september, there were mixed signals being thrown around as usual, but i kind of stopped liking him because he made me cry by telling me to stop laughing harshly as he had a bad day. unreasonable, i know, so that's why i felt so jaded about liking him and throughout late september to now, i hadn't been seeing him in a romantic way at all. i told myself that i would just simply see him as a friend, nothing else, because i was so done with his mixed signals. that was... until this monday took place.
he was the one who initiated the meet up and he had told me to invite a few of my friends (which he knows) so that we could have a fun time together. on the day itself when me and my friends came to meet him, the minute he saw me, he kept looking and staring at me and it seemed like he was 'checking me out'. although i felt that his stares were not very 'friend-like', i decided to excuse it and decided not to overthink that. after all, in my mind, we were friends. however, the staring didn't stop even when we boarding the MRT (train) and i had to look at my other friend so that i would focus on her instead of him.
when we reached jewel @changi airport, we went to the rain vortex (fountain) and took pictures there. i realised that when i was joking with friends, i saw him holding his phone up and taking a picture of me or somewhere of my direction. i realised from the corner of my eye, but i didn't say anything about it. we then bought food and sat down together with me sitting beside him. nothing much happened until we both finished our food and my friends were still eating and taking pictures. he had told me to not wait for my friends as they took a long time, but i refused to leave them there as i reminded him that we came as a group. he then told me to wear my jacket but when i didn't want to, he took my jacket and draped it over my shoulders, then said that he liked it when the jacket was draped over me like that. (he did the same action repeatedly throughout our time together.)
however, when we moved destinations and went to an arcade, he then started to show off alot about his journey with martial arts and how strong he was, and he even did one of the 'strength tests' to impress me and my friends (i suggested for him to do so). he and my other friend was playing the racing arcade game and while he was playing, i watched him play as i leaned behind the seat that he was sitting on and cheered him on from there. he then told me that his hand had hurt from the game and i was concerned and asked to look at his hand. after i asked him where it hurts, he apparently asked if he could hold my hand (he held my hand earlier when we were moving destinations as well). i awkwardly extended my hand and he held it and said this to my friend who was there with us.
"now we're boyfriend and girlfriend!"
i was shocked and i questioned if he was joking or if he knew what he was saying, after all, we didn't really establish and define our relationship, so i wondered if he was just kidding. i didn't say anything again because i assumed that he was trying to be funny. my friend who was with us told the other 2 and they were feeling very suspicious of my crush and told me to be careful. when ny friend had wanted to go to a supermarket, and i was talking to one of my other friends who was there, but suddenly, he had suddenly grabbed my arm and pulled me closer to his chest while walking, like a protective boyfriend who was trying to gain territorial grounds. i was shocked and surprised, as he was never that bold back then, and while we were in the supermarket, he kept hugging me in front of my friends and he even placed his head on my right shoulder. i believe he hugged me from behind, squeezing my smaller body in front of my friends. that's about all the huge incriminating things that he did, but here are a few extra things that he did.
-he tied my shoelaces for me even when i told him not to.
-he would hold my jacket for me even when i told him that i could hold it by myself (draping it over his shoulder)
-he kept insinuating that i was shy throughout the entire time ("aww, are you shy because you're scared of a guy tying your shoelaces for you?")
-he continues to tease me and when taking pictures, he's always standing near me and is always close to me.
even now, i'm still shocked by how bold he was as in school, he would never have done that. he's not one to touch or hug girls, but with me... it's a different story. so... does he like me?
thank you for reading, i appreciate it :)
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I don’t know why but whenever I truly fall for a guy it’s always from a far. I have this strange comfort in liking people within my head without them knowing. But it’s dangerous. I feel like I invent almost an imaginary character of the guys I like and nothing they do can convince that that isn’t who they are. Even when they do fucked up stuff to me, I manage to excuse it and find some explanation for their actions. Some way to give them the benefit of the doubt, even when none of the odds are in their favor. And the worst part is that i truly believe it.. like i’m able to dissect this now and recognize how blind sighted i was, but when it’s actually happening i’m completely out of control. it’s like any logic and rationality leaves my body and i’m entirely engrossed by this false reality. It scares me because this has happened time and time again and it makes me not trust myself. I never know how the other person actually feels about me and if i think they actually like me i either perpetually convince myself that my mind is tricking me and self sabotage the entire thing or do what i described above^. Either way i always manage to get hurt. I just know know how to make it stop. Or why i’m even like this in the first place. It seems like all friends can have perfectly functional relationships but mine never work out. | Crush |
Ok so like , I have this co-worker of mine that I started to reaaaally like a long time ago. We talk a lot and we’re good friends, but over the time I started seeing some signals ( I think they are or maybe I’m just seeing things where they don’t exist anyways lol). The only reason I got on Reddit was because I think the community here is the most realistic and probably could help me a lot with this... so like I said we’re good friends but sometimes he does some things that make me really confused and we all know men are confusing so pls help me. First thing he does he touches me a lot like, he touches my arms, pokes them in a fun way, he touches my waist sometimes as well but not for long , just like a couple of seconds and he puts his arm around my neck sometimes when I get to work. Sometimes we make eye contact and he has asked me if I have a boyfriend like 3 times over the time we’ve met. He told my friend that he thought I was cute and obviously my friend told me. My friends think he likes me and they also think I like him but I keep lying to them bc I’m kinda shy about it and don’t want to be rejected. So my question is , could he maybe be at least attracted to me or could he possibly have a crush on me?? I really wanna read your opinions on this. Thank youuu <3 | Crush |
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I feel really, I don't know. I'm the kind of person who will have a crush a long time, and then I will tell the person just to get it out of my system (sometimes, just so I can let it go because deep down, I know the person isn't truly good for me to be with).
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So this guy, I had the hugest crush on him. It's pretty bad. He became such a big part of my life. But he didn't really treat me like I meant anything -- I was doubting myself and having self-esteem issues and comparing myself to every girl he flirted with or the girls who he loved every picture on their social media.
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So, to get it out of me and to hopefully move on, I told him how I felt in a text. I mean, unfortunately, I wear my heart on my sleeve, so I opened up and told him.
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And. . .he said nothing. We even saw each other since then, and he still said nothing. Sometimes, it seems like he's into me, but other times, just mixed signals.
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But the real issue for me is -- people say a "no" is the worst thing that can happen. Nope, a "no response" -- for me -- is the worst. I would have respected him more if he'd said no or no thanks. But no response made me feel so invisible and hurt. And I feel embarrassed for telling him how I feel, so much so that I feel like I have to hide and avoid the places I used to go where he might be. I feel kind of ashamed. Like my feelings just didn't matter.
There's a place I want to go this week where he will be, and part of me wants to go because I shouldn't give in to shame AND because I want to look him in the eyes and really look at this guy who didn't act as if I mattered enough for even a one word response. But the other part of me says to just keep avoiding, stay away, block him on every social media page.
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Geez, I need to get a life. I'm to the point where, maybe I should stop telling guys when I'm into them. Part of me wishes I didn't crush on anyone ever again, I'm too tired from this experience. | Crush |
(25F)So I started a new job 2 weeks ago and I didn't talk to anyone because I am mostly doing my tasks and take small smoking breaks, last week a guy asked me what brand of cigarettes I smoke, yesterday asked if I have a lighter introduced himself and got away from his group to talk to me(he seemed very into the conversation about a band I was listening) and in the subway he waved at me and also said hi a few times in the building (we are not on the same floor), yesterday happened again asked me for the lighter got away from group and talking but after asked me if I will come outside next hour and so on and I did this time I started talking to him and his friend (which is good because I am not a talking person but I do enjoy changing a few words) after that he asked me again if I'll come but I told him I don't have any cigarettes so he offered to give me one, we saw each other again in the subway and this time I waved at him. Somehow my heart skipped a beat and I thought I will faint and started thinking about this guy all night, I couldn't concentrate on my work very good so I don't want to overthink this too much because I can't handle a disappointment at this moment. So I thought that maybe he saw me alone and tried to have a conversation but the second thought was if he was flirting with me cuz being in a group someone must have a lighter,right? Now I got some news that I got my team moved on the day shift so I won't probably see him again I really want to see him again... and I miss being in a relationship.
Today he got my number from the work group and I found out he is 20, texted back and forth for 3 hours.
Making jokes and basically assured me every 20 that he will be there anytime if I want to talk, also joked very subtle that my boyfriend will kill him if he finds out that we talk, and asked as subtle as he did if his gf finds out she,ll get upset and he answered with a hand joke (somehow told me he is a virgin?)
What does this mean? | Crush |
Everyone thinks my crush likes me back, but acts like he doesn’t, everyone thinks I like him but I have to lie because in a big school word gets around quick. What do I do?
Edit: So I didn’t ask him out but he thinks I like him so I told him I like him as a close friend and SO DOES HE KFJRJRBRKBDJ | Crush |
I am a bisexual female and my crush is a male. Well me and my crush dated a couple years back for about a year then he dumped me. 5 months from then I texted him and told him I missed him and he said he missed me too but then a few days later he said we couldn't be friends. So fast forward to this month ( 6 months from us not being friends) I texted him saying I wanted to be friends and just friends, I did tell him I didn't count our relationship as a serious one because theres probably no chance of us ever getting back together. 2 months later he told someone he hated me a lot and he would refer to me as that b***h. Around that time I had gained attention on tik tok and me and him started up a streak again and we started chatting and he was being friendly. Recently he has been friendly but according to other people he hates me a lot. (sorry for all the time cuts I tried to make this as short as I could). Please let me know what I should do or what it could mean. | Crush |
Since school isn’t in person anymore, I can’t find a crush. It was a very nice feeling to think about the person I was crushing on last, but I don’t have a crush on them anymore, for reasons. It’s kinda frustrating, really. I sit here in bed, thinking about what people in school to think about, and possibly get a crush on. But nothing came. I miss the days when I’d be hugging a pillow, pretending it was them. I don’t know why I felt the need to talk about this, but it’s kinda nice to get off my chest. | Crush |
Hello! I'm new on reddit but I have a problem. I like a boy in my class and I think he likes me back. Whenever someone asks me if I have a crush on him, I just lie and say no. Pretty much everyone in my class thinks that my crush likes me and it's kind of obvious. He always says that he doesn't like me to other people. We are going to the same high school and I'm really nervous about what's going to happen in high school and I'm not sure what I should do. If you have any ideas on what I could do, please comment on my post. Thank you! | Crush |
So because of the pandemic, I hadn’t seen her for 6 months until the school started. During that time I didn’t think anymore about her so I thought I didn’t have a crush on her. Ig I was wrong. Whenever I see her at school my heart beats really fast. It seems like I still have feelings for her. I really wanna move on but I can’t. I need help forgetting about her | Crush |
I have a crush on this girl. I eat to ask her out but don’t know how. Any advice?? | Crush |
This girl just joined my school and through online classes she sounded cute , today was my first day and her seat was in front of mine! Also she came from the same country I lived in which made a pretty quick conversation. Any tips for upcoming days ? | Crush |
hello guys my name is luka im 18 years old and i have crush but im not conversetation him can you help me some advice? | Crush |
I’m so curious I’ve never been hit on by any guys at bars. It’s actually pretty sad. But I always hear of people meeting at bars. How do guys go about hitting on and eventually asking girls out at the bar?. Are you sitting next to a cute female and you just start chatting or you spot one from across the bar and move to be near them? I’m so curious ave jealous because it’s never happened. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/ynG0PFmTi5k | Crush |
if you like a guy, message him first, if ur cool, he will fall for you, like almost always | Crush |
I went to high school with this guy who i never really talked to. I would always catch staring at me and he would also get visibly uncomfortable anytime there would be any mention of my bf (ex) by our friends. There were also times when we were in a small group of people and he would avoid looking or talking to me. This was kinda weird since we both had large amount of friends but never spoke to each other. I kinda thought he hated me for a while but cant think of a reason for why he would. He also would avoid interacting with me for school assignments but then continue staring with a strange almost scared look on his face. Although we never talked to each other we would catch the other listening in on conversations. We also had the same elective classes which made me think we had the same interests and that he seemed like a cool person. he was quite confident, always participating, talking to everyone, voicing his opinion, almost a class clown but whenever he needed to present or talk in front of me he would be nervous. He had no issue talking to anyone except for me. I kinda felt like there was this weird tension between us and im not sure how to explain it but it was like i could feel that he felt it too. Of course i was loyal to my bf at the time so i never thought much of it. He too then got into a relationship and it was strange because when she would come up in a conversation between our class mates or something he would awkwardly look to me as if he was saying something wrong. the last time we interacted was when our teacher assigned us to mark each other and right away we both looked up and couldnt help laughing. It was as if we knew each other- but didnt. Not sure if anyone else has ever felt such a strong connection with someone they never spoke to. After graduation the we actually ended up going to the same college but i never saw him. I heard through a friend that his gf cheated on him and they broke up 3 years ago. My bf and i also broke up a year ago because he was cheating and abusive. Since then i hadnt really thought much about any other men and just tried to focus on myself. Then about 4-5 months ago, the guy from high school follows me on instagram. I remember thinking in high school that it was a bit strange that he would follow everyone on their social media- except for me (no im not ugly lol). I also went through he following to check if he was just going back and following old people from high school or something but nope it was just me. For like 3 months now i have literally not been able to stop thinking about him. I dont crush a lot nor do i ever become this interested in a guy, espeically one i have had no contact with but i really have no idea why this is happening. I will constantly be thinking about him all day and night to a point where hes in my dreams pretty often too. The only time i have ever thought about a guy this intensely was my ex of 5 years. Can anyone give me any reason for this to be happening because i am genuinely so confused. | Crush |
Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.
**Your top 10 posts:**
* "[I think I should fake my death now.](https://i.redd.it/hey8tp9g8k341.jpg)" by [u/Ceeesee](https://www.reddit.com/user/Ceeesee)
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* "[50 Upvotes and I’m Asking her Out.](/r/Crush/comments/fquu56/50_upvotes_and_im_asking_her_out/)" by [u/ARiverFlows](https://www.reddit.com/user/ARiverFlows)
* "[Wait what](https://i.redd.it/rwb4iezsp7541.jpg)" by [u/enarcis](https://www.reddit.com/user/enarcis)
* "[Meme for the day, strangely motivating](https://i.redd.it/df417uk9tyk41.jpg)"
* "[so sad](https://i.redd.it/ifniqkvid5341.jpg)" by [u/edgyweeb-](https://www.reddit.com/user/edgyweeb-)
* "[I sent this to my crush, she is a gamer, like me](https://i.redd.it/43fvujx6cyt31.jpg)" by [u/Ymtad](https://www.reddit.com/user/Ymtad)
* "[69 likes and ill ask my crush out](/r/Crush/comments/f44l5t/69_likes_and_ill_ask_my_crush_out/)" by [u/ILoveAnimals2998](https://www.reddit.com/user/ILoveAnimals2998) | Crush |
help??
so there’s this guy and i know he likes me but he doesn’t know i like him, we’re both gonna be going to small party and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to like , drive him crazy??? you know like flirting and such
any advice would be helpful thanks!! | Crush |
help??
so there’s this guy and i know he likes me but he doesn’t know i like him, we’re both gonna be going to small party and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to like , drive him crazy??? you know like flirting and such
any advice would be helpful thanks!! | Crush |
I'm in 8th grade, and I've liked her since a few months into 7th grade (I'm in 8th grade now, online school). We had two classes together, Math and Spanish. In Spanish, we sat next to each other. In math, we didn't sit anywhere near each other, so most of our conversations took place in Spanish. I knew her in 6th grade, as we had Spanish together that year too, but didn't talk to her much because I had other friends in that class. Now, since none of my friends were in my class, I got to know her better. Also, I don't know if it's my wishful thinking, but I have a feeling she likes me, and I have a few stories to show why.
One of the first instances I can remember her liking me was when we were playing Kahoot! or something like that. While this was assigned, we sat next to each other, and I didn't like her yet, so we were kind of just friends. Anyways, I got 7th place, and she got 11th, so I instinctively made a 7/11 joke. She laughed and said, "Yeah, like they go together!" I didn't think anything of it, but there was a 2-second pause and she said in a kind of blushing voice, "Oh, not like we go together or anything." As I said, I didn't like her at the time, so I didn't really care and laughed it off, as the class had ended.
The second time was also in Spanish a few weeks late, and I now liked her. We were changing seats from rows to tables, and we were at different tables. However, the people at my table were misbehaving, so the teacher separated everyone, and she told me to sit with her, as she was the only one at her table (I don't know why maybe just how the seats worked.) I agreed, and sat diagonally from her, as the whole table was open and I didn't want it to be obvious. However, she specifically told me to sit *next* to her, and I was like, "Alright," so I moved and sat next to her.
Another time was when we switched tables again, and I was now the one alone. I was perfectly fine with it, as I don't need to be around people, but she moved from her table back to mine to sit with me, again, right next to me. That's how, until, two more students came, she and I were at the same table, alone, for almost two months.
Last one! I was in the school choir, which meets after school. We were getting chairs from the stage, and I was the last one there, so I naturally peeked through the curtain and saw her with her after school club. I didn't expect to see her, so I kind of awkwardly waved and said, "Hello, everyone," and left to exit the stage. But wouldn't you know it, as I'm walking back, I hear footsteps running, turn around, and see her standing by the curtains. We then have a 2-minute talk about what clubs we have, as I notice her slightly blushing while we talk. I then hear the group rehearsing, and say, "Sorry, but I gotta go," motioning to the choir room. She responds with, "Oh yeah, okay, have a nice day." I say, "You too," and we part ways.
A few other small moments include when I was walking to lunch, and I see her pretty far back, but I keep walking so I can eat early. After like 10 seconds, which wasn't anywhere near long enough for her to catch up with me, I hear her behind me, panting, and she says hi. We talked and that was it. Another one was when she asked me about a homework assignment that I had a question about a week before, which was very random because even *I* didn't remember it until after the conversation was over. She also mostly just says hi to me every time we see each other.
Now that that's out of the way, I was thinking about telling her I liked her, but then quarantine hit. I lost contact until I discovered she had an Instagram, so I guess I can text her now, but I never did. My problem is this; While I'm fairly sure that she *liked* me, I don't know if she *still* likes me. I've been seriously considering telling her recently as if she rejects me, I won't have to see her until we go back to school, so it won't be that bad. Because of this, I come to the people of Reddit with a few questions. Do you think she likes me? Should I tell her? What do you think overall?
tl;dr
I like this girl, and I think she likes me. However, due to quarantine, I couldn't talk to her until I recently found her Instagram. Should I tell her how I feel?
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/jcbq3y) | Crush |
Hello
I got a friend of mine who like me. To be honest I only thought of her as a friend. She was great all in all but, just a friend. One day we were talking about school and our homework and she said she was like kinda flirtly. I told her don't be like that. She was like why? And she proceeds that she wants to forget about the past(cuz she liked me and i kinda already rejected her). I said just forget the past.
That's all what should i do next? How would i reject her without hurting her feelings or making it more awkward? | Crush |
A girl I'm kinda into randomly snapped me off of her friends snapchat and said "hey baby" we've flirted a little before and I knew she was kinda into me but she's never done anything like this What should my next move be? | Crush |
So my mom and dad have these friends who live in our neighborhood with a son my age, i’ve met him a few times and i really like him. Him and I were snapping all day yesterday. Should i ask him to watch the sunset with me tonight? His family really likes me, and mine really like him. so that good. What if he says no to watching the sunset?
UPDATE: him and i went to the park, and the store, he bought me some tea and then we made plans to watch the sunset tomorrow | Crush |
I only created this account just because of my (ex)crush . Now I can move on. Sayin bye bye to this account and to him . Say your last words :> | Crush |
About 8 months ago I met a girl with her friends ( we had mutual ones) after a few days I've heard that was crush on my homie anyway every thing went to to the sh*t with them both after nearly a month she started saluting me when she see me ( by the way when I saw her first time we didn't talk we've only looked to each other) by time we became friends we used to go back home together in the same way joking and sometimes she was staying waiting for me ( it wasn't by chance I planned that we weren't in the same way) after few months of being close friends we were always together at school approximately 98% of our time together I used to not enter classes just she wanted me to stay with I also used to leave my homies at the coffee shop just she calls me and she wants me to stay with her but here when everything became deeper and darker I've became obsessed with her the only matter is her I gave up on everything just for her also I've became insomniac after exams we started to not talk like we used to be then the pandemic appeared and now we're in vacation I didn't see her since 3 months ( she saw me today on the coffee shop but I didn't see her feel like summer is bad and I'm kinda depressed cuz just I want her in my life it's not a crush I love her I love her for real not to sleep or for a kiss no I want her cuz I love her ( thinking of dating her I told her that I want to hang out with her in February but she said that she will tell me but she left me) also her birthday is next week what should I do please???? | Crush |
Ok so ima refer to my crush as Jen because it’s similar to her name and I think she uses Reddit
So I’ve known Jen since I started primary school (yes primary school I’m English not American) and and we are both 12 at the moment and are super good friends. She looks amazing she is super smart and is super badass
Recently got out of toxic relationship ship with a girl who didn’t give a shit about me and be she supported me all the through that train wreck and I’ve realised recently that I have a massive crush on her ( not just becuase she helped with that shit relation ship OK) but she is always dropping subtly hints that she likes me and I do the same but she often says that she doesn’t like anybody and doesn’t wanna date atm and I dunno what to do becuase stupid old me doesn’t understand girls
Please excuse my grammar and spelling I’m dyslexic af and it’s hard for me
Also please pm me if you want more details I will tell anything if it helps you give me advice | Crush |
Well I kinda feel embarrassed for saying this, I'm kinda new dating and I need tips of what to do and what not to do. Is anyone willing to help? | Crush |
so I (f) have liked this guy for about 6 years and he is really great. he is also my best friend. the both of us have a really flirty personality and always joke around that we like each other as a prank or whatever. so we had a pool party with some other friends yesterday and we were just hanging out, and then we started I guess "wrestling" like trying to get the other person under water. while we were doing that we were also the only people in the pool. I was trying to win and I put my hands on his face and he stopped, and we stared at each other for a few seconds then he puts his arms around my waist and pulls me under water. he pulls me back up so I don't drown and he is holding me. then he helps me to the edge to breath. we start talking then get out of the pool. as we dry off, he gets a brownie and they put the rest away while I go to the restroom. he knows I love food and gave me the rest of his brownie that he doesn't want anymore so I gave him a hug. we were just talking the rest of the night til we had to go home. that was probably the best night of my life and I can't stop replaying it in my head. I don't know what to do... | Crush |
I’m in my 20s (f) and I’ve been crushing on this guy also in his (20s) (m). I honestly don’t know if he’s even interested in me or ever would be. I heard a rumor that he wanted to ask me out but I’m technically unavailable to him. If I heard someone say he “was” interested in some other girl but she did not feel the same. Does that sound like that was recently like he still liked her or he had liked her in the past? | Crush |
When I think of her, I get these butterflies in my tummy.
She’s got these freckles and these bangs.
And this smile YO this smile like when she smiles it makes me smile.
Ughhhhh, her laugh.
She’s so cool.
Embroidered hat.
She probably likes sunsets.
And the music I like, she likes it too.
She’s something else.
She’s woah.
I just wanna sit with her by the beach and laugh.
She’s fucking woah. | Crush |
Liked him for so long that I thought I should ask to follow his insta or I'll probably contemplate it indefinitely
He let me follow, we've talked a few times it's been really nice but my feelings were mellow, it was great to talk to them but I could keep my cool which I couldn't do before cos I liked them too much
Anyway, we've been talking a bit, he's going to see a girl on Saturday which is great because I'm not the jealous type and I believe guys and girls should have both gender friends + I'm happy that he's going to go do some awesome stuff
Anyway, he doesn't know what he's doing but the girl said it'll just be some awesome stuff (or along those lines) pubs open in the uk on Saturday, which is great, so I can imagine that's what they'll be doing or something similar, still great but it's given me feelings of envy, love and the original crush feeling, which is awesome because I'm pretty emotionally dead, I rarely feel envy or jealousy, my emotions range from neutral to anger, sometimes unhappy, mainly just pure nothing, I'm not a feelings person, so it's awesome to feel something again, I've also been slightly more happier since we've been talking like if I was going to plan my own simulation I'd put a few of the current events in because I wouldn't of thought it'd be realistic for real life eg recently got a hamster, recently started talking to crush, getting more popular on insta, feeling beautiful
I'd wondered if I still had feelings for him since they was more neutral and less intense, then I thought about what it'd be like if we was together and it gave me strong desires then I thought about what it'd be like if I could meet them in town and bring them some food or go for a drink, which could also slightly increase the feelings of jealousy because they're going for a drink which is what I imagined I'd do but I'm still really happy and if I could choose if he saw her I'd definitely pick for him to go enjoy himself + I have other complications that'd make increasing our friendship into something more difficult
End results: I'm happy
------------- Negative people free zone. - - - - - - - - - - - - | Crush |
In 2018 I went to this summer school and I at that school I usually make jokes at the teacher's expense. This girl I haven't seen in a while was in the same class as me and two days into summer school she constantly laughed at my jokes and I felt happy. The third day we were talking about what schools we were going to and both me and her were going to go the same school. Then she said "oh cool I get to see you." Then my heart let up and I wanted to start something with her but I never had the balls to do anything. So I always tried make her laugh and I tried my best. And I made laugh quite often. She would sit next to me which made me feel happy but awkward. Worksheets where we had to make sentences with certain verbs she would always include me in her sentence. She laughed a lot me and I always got the sense that she like me and like her back. Then during the school year came and we both went to the same after school and the same school when when I broke my arm she immediately wanted to look at it. I never sensed wrong but on my birthday she stopped coming to the afterschool and we never talked since. I miss and I'm not over her I really need opinions on this situation. | Crush |
So I've (M 17) have liked a girl (16) since primary school (grade 5) 2015. Shes known Ive had feelings for her, over the years our friendship has been quite rocky but now we are good friends. Ive never wanted anything but get one chance at her. The thing I don't get is that she's dated the same dude 3 times, and theyre currently dating. This guy used to be my friend but he talked bad about me while I was talking to her and then swooped in. This same guy has talked smack about her. Both about her looks and intellectual ability. There is nothing I wouldn't do for this her, but she fails to see it.
Time has passed, and the girl and I are close friends. Although, I’ve had thoughts of cutting her off. However, it wouldn’t be fair to her, so we still talk frequently and some light comments are made here and there to each other. A while back I told her it was difficult to be friends coz its too hard for me due to the feelings I have and she got really upset. She broke up with him in jan and because I felt she should know, I told her the kind of stuff he had said about her in the past. As of now, they back together. The guy she's with gets jealous and insecure of the fact her and I talk so much and are still so close, one instance I can recall is that he asked others around me if she came to say hi to me at the park, he asked how long she was there for and everything. She however, still intends on staying close.
Ive tried distracting myself trynna my mind off her. Even after that it never works.
So I ask, where do I go with this. Her friends and others still think her and I should be together, and along the way they’ll still be a chance. I still have feelings for her, the same as they were. I don't want to cause a rift in their relationship because thats now who I am, no matter how much I know I could treat her better. She has been quite open however, with her and I just meeting up and chilling together but idk if thats right for me on my part, because I know shes not the type to 'cheat'.
I want to get over her, I lay off from talking to her every so often. Although, I dont know where to go from this, every moment I have alone throughout the day I begin thinking like what if, which tbf doesnt put me in a good mood, mentally. | Crush |
Backstory: Two of my friends and I planned this camping thing, and I thought we were inviting another lady we work with. Well, my friend (and crush) was like “I was under the impression it was just going to be the three of us.” I was like, “it is. We can plan something else with her later”
So two of my friends [both female] and I [female] are going camping. Drinking all night too. Just a girls night thing. I was talking about it in front of another different friend [female] who isn’t going was joking about coming with us.
One of my two friends (again my crush)looked at her, like you better not.
So like what’s going on here? Am I stupid, or is she trying to get close to me? 🙃
#stuckonstupid | Crush |
and how to approach guys? | Crush |
[https://youtu.be/e6i3j60P-EY](https://youtu.be/e6i3j60P-EY) | Crush |
To clear it up,we’re good friends. I told him I liked him,he was shocked to hear it but did have some minor suspicions.If I’m being absolutely honest,I’m just bored of crushing on him at this point. It’s becoming exhausting on my end and I don’t want to put up with it for much longer.I care for him,just not like that. Plus I’m going off to college very soon and I don’t want this distracting me from my studies. What do I do? | Crush |
Two days ago I met a girl by the name of (blank) wanna protect her in case she sees this. We’re both pretty shy and mature for our age (13). We met at my stepdads house, stepdads friend try’s to push us together to talk. But then we go outside bond INSTANTLY same interests (anime,books,love dads more than moms,) it was amazing. I was bold enough to ask for her number. And she gave it. Go home start texting her, two hours of texting. Then i go to bed. I’ve been so happy I finally met someone likeminded. She always responds to my texts quickly. I’ll let you know if it escalates. Wish me luck and today I flirted a little and she caught on. Almost sealed the deal. | Crush |
I am crushing pretty bad on a dude.
I am really into music and I love playing many instruments and this dude does too. I have been knowing this guy since high school, for like 6 years, but neither of us thought anything of each other since then. I always thought he was really handsome and I had a tiny crush on him years ago, but I thought that was that.
Lately, on FB, he has been liking music uploads I do and occasionally sending me cool songs to listen to.
The day the crush was born was when he drunk texted me that he thought I was so intelligent and beautiful and that he's always kind of admired me. I was so surprised to read that because I never thought he had such an opinion of me.
Buuuuuuut, now I kind of don't know what to do. Hahaha.
I don't want to make anything of it for many reasons, but it just gives me sweet butterfly feelings.
Have you ever had a secret admirer? Who was it? Did you like them back? | Crush |
It’s been a year since my crush left. She moved to another country. She never knew I had a crush on her. This was my first crush. When she told me she was leaving it broke my heart. She was my light, I always enjoyed talking with her. I still can’t stop thinking about her. What should I do? I’m lost... | Crush |
im in a bit of a pickle right now. so, me and my crush have been texting every day for the past like, three months, almost four. today we somehow got to the topic of names and i said someone about my name. she responded with "my crush actually has the same name haha ^^' but its more like a nickname"
AND I DONT KNOW WHAT IT MEANS
because, shes never mentioned said crush before this. and its kind of a random thing to say just out of the blue. but at the same time, i never told her if my name was just a nickname or my full first name. at least i think so. so i dont want to just come at her and ask her about it or if i should kind of play along and act dumb. because i never ever ever want things to get awkward between us if it turns out that she actually just has a crush on another dude with my name.
does anyone have any advice? :( | Crush |
So I met this girl at the gym and she was looking and sometimes smiling at me, so one day I decided to go up and talk to her just to introduce myself and try to get to know her. But now she won’t even glance anymore, is that just a way of saying she isn’t interested at all in getting to know me? | Crush |
So there's this girl named Leah that I am really into ( not sexually ). She is 13 years old and looks very beautiful. Below is a pic of her | Crush |
So my two girl bestfriends are really good friends with this guy. I have only been friends with this guy for half of the time they have and recently we started to get closer. As in we started to talk way more frequently. I also used to have a crush on him when we first started to be friends but i let go of those feelings but now months later they have come back. I find myself thinking about him a lot. I believe he used to have a crush on my one girl betfriend but she sees him as a brother. He is extremely close with them and i envy that. Sometimes when we are together he will tell my one bestfriend to tell the other that he misses her or stuff like that. Only once has he told someone to tell me something when we were together which he was making fun of me for a game we played togetehr because i wasn’t very good. Sometimes when we talk he will answer right away, but a lot of the times especially on snapchat when i say something doesn’t matter if he opened it an hour after i sent it or before he will ignore what i say. Now the thing is he just left me on delivered for a whole day, and i know this sounds like something a middle schooler would get mad at but i’m 17 and i am upset. I’m upset because i see how he was active all night, and the whole time he was snapping other people he must’ve noticed my snap and chose not to open it and the thought of that hurts because it makes me feel like he doesn’t feel the need to want to talk to me or to improve our relationship. Sometimes i reallt think maybe he is starting to develop feelings but then something happens and i think he hates me. He is constantly talking to my bestfriends but not me. And i know some of you may think oh it’s because he is better friends with them but that’s not it. Even when they started to be friends with him he would constantly try to talk to them but why is it different with me. I can’t help but think he doesn’t like me as much as he liked them when he first met them. I don’t know why i like him. There is something so charming about him. I tried leaving him on delivered and see what he would do so he texted me saying how i did and i ignored what he said and just answered his snap with a photo of my wall trying to give him a taste of what he does. but then he does nothing. I try to talk to him a lot, i try to challenge him. Nothing. I know you guys are probably thinking “we’ll take a hint he obviously doesn’t like you” Well i don’t care. I dont want to give up. Even if he doesn’t like me how i like him id atleast like to be bests friends with him. I want to be the girl he comes to when he has a bad day, i want to be the girl he comes to when he has a problem, when he wants to rant. I need to be that. i try new things in hope we can talk about it so he can think about me. Someone please help. i don’t know what to do. | Crush |
A part if me thinks my crush likes me back she probably doesn't. Please get rid if of that hope by telling me something along the lines of "she doesn't even know who your are" or anything similar to that. | Crush |
Just told my old supervisor I had a crush on her at one point. Haven't gotten a response or anything like that, but it was totally worth it. | Crush |
what I must do I’m 15 yrs old and girl I have crush on her she’s 14 and we are on the same class one day I asked her do you love me she say no but she always look at me in class and she always say to my friends if I say something like if still love her and when I talk to her she say always no | Crush |
Yo I never do this but I need some advice... my coworker is very cute and her and I sorta friends now. Not friends to the point where we text (obviously that’s why I’m asking help on getting her number) or do anything outside of work but we are very friendly to each other at work. I think she might like me as well because iv caught her looking as me numerous times. Also whenever I hand her stuff she almost always grazes my hand with hers (more touching than would be usual)
We both are leaving this job soon (she’s leaving In like 4 days (Tuesday) and in about a week and a half) to go to better jobs and I don’t wanna lose the small friendship i’ve built with this girl. But my issue is whenever there is an opportunity in our conversations to ask for her phone number or something i can’t bring myself to do it. What can I do to get the courage to ask? And what would I saw when I ask her for her number? | Crush |
he's been doing a lot of sweet things but im not sure if he's doing it in a friend way or like more than a friend way...... i need to stop overthinking pls send help or advice idk... | Crush |
Help me confess :)
I’m 16 yrs old in 8th grade ( don’t ask why it’s a long story) and girl I have crush on her she’s 14 and we are on the same class I got her phone number from the class group created by the class teacher and I wanna talk to her like we rarely talked in school cause she’s always with her friends beside that no1 know I have a crush on her some the bois from the class just says that I love her loudly and she didn’t seemed disturbed or interrupted them not to say that idk why but that gave me hope every time and today I got to talk to her and here how it went
Me-...
She-who are you?
Me- I’m yahya my number got changed and I sent it to everyone so they can save my new number
She-I didn’t had your number anyway
Me-I got your number from the class group as I remember
She- aight I’ll save your number
Me- ok :)
That’s how it went and we stopped and how should I start a conversation with her? Help me guys :( I don’t won’t be hopeful any more I wanna talk with her and it have been like 2 years that I have crush on her we used to talk in school at times she were new in the class but 1 year later it got to the point we rarely talk. What should I do next, how do I start a conversation | Crush |
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