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Ok so I’m in a bit of a pickle because I have a huge crush on my co worker and when we have shifts together I really enjoy working with her. I have been trying to look for signs that she likes me but she is really hard to read, and now are schedules changed and I don’t really see her that much now. I’m really hesitant to tell her how I feel because I don’t want all my co workers to find out, there will be a lot of gossip flying around and if she doesn’t reciprocate these feelings then it will really be awkward. But on the other hand if I don’t do anything then I’ll never really know where this could have gone. What do u guys think I should do ? | Crush |
ok I really do not know how to say this but I have a huge crush on someone famous yeah that is all | Crush |
I know dating a coworker is a bad idea, it’s unprofessional and even if your work allows it if things end working with them will be awkward. Besides that, it’s a pretty one sided crush. He’s a year younger than me but I look younger. He’s into a lot of the same music, same shows and same major and job so I just feel like we have some things in common.
But I don’t think he’d ever be into me; he’s so much smarter than me, his whole family is in the medical field, and I’m not pretty.
I’m the new girl there only been here a few months and thinking about quitting next year. I thought maybe the last day I work I should ask him out but I really can’t stand rejection | Crush |
He can’t be more than a couple years older than me (27f) and he’s super charming but I haven’t even seen his whole face because I recently changed dentist. I just need to talk about it because I can’t stop thinking about how cute the top half of his face is. Lol times are so weird.
Is it weird to flirt with your dentist???? | Crush |
https://youtu.be/AR5vfnlG_MY | Crush |
Here goes nothing
\[30M\] I've been part of a discord group for a couple of months now. It's filled with a bunch of cool people but there's one person for me that stands out. Early on I would enjoy conversations when they \[he/she\] were involved and be extra active, which often resulted in fun talks and good laughs.
Over these past weeks/moths I feel like I have developed a meaningful connection with them, not to say a minor crush... Often now I will actively check discord multiple times per day to see whether they are on and proactively try to start conversations to get them involved and such things...
Other than that we have also had a recent IRL meetup with a few people of the server, which honestly was one of the better days I've had. While we did not interact that much, we definitely did share a couple of good laughs and actually talked quite a bit (often in group tho). Other than that, we've also chatting in private more frequently, sometimes up till the early hours...
Throughout all of this we also shared a couple of more serious talks, about views on life, goals, and relationships, during which they told me they were not actively looking for a relationship at the moment, and that it would likely take quite a lot of effort to get back into one (\~past experiences). This gave me very mixed feelings, because I was happy that we were able to discuss more serious topics, but at the same time insecure because they may be on to me and letting me know kindly that I did not need to try anything fancy...
Since then things have continues as always, often with light-weighted discussions and a number of late night chats, and even a second IRL meetup (with the same people) currently being planned... While it does feel like things are going fine, I am unsure what to think of it and/or how to progress... Especially given the message above...
I guess I am at the classic dilemma of whether to confess or not, to ask for a (private) date or whether to continue the current interactions, with risk of ending up at the friendzone... I'm just afraid that if I do not show enough interest, I may become bland, whereas when I show too much interest, I risk being considered clingly, ruining my odds...
Any people with tips on how to handle this kind of situations? Just bite the bullet, confess and ask for a date, or wait my time till they feel ready for a relationship, risking becoming bland and missing "my shot
**TlDr;** Met a person through discord, got a crush. Had a couple of meaningful (private) conversations and great (group) meetups IRL, but during one chat they told me they were not actively looking for a relationship (I did not talk about my feelings). What do? | Crush |
I think he’s extremely attractive. My problem is that I haven’t seen his face and who knows when I will be able to🤷🏻♀️ This whole covid sitch is so crazy. When will we go back to being able to date. Who else is having these kind of issues? lol I wonder if he feels the same about me and the situation, he’s new to my job so we never met without mask. | Crush |
Ok so I meet this guy about 3 weeks ago when I started working at a day camp. He is kinda cute and has good vibes so I started crushing on him. The thing is that he showed barely any interest until last night when I invited him and another coworker over for movie night. He is really good friend with her, so I was a bit third wheeling. She left early and Crush and I continued the movie (The Nun, would not recommend, horrible movie!! But after we watched part of jurrasic park). Afterward we started to cuddle: me laying on his lap, him petting my head, my arm then my side (the part between the belly and the back), touching more and more skin, giving each other massage. We were like really really close. Then I had to go to the bathroom and the whole vibe swtiched. We both sat really far away on the couch and barely talked when I droved him home. We were supposed to finish the movie today but when I ask he said that he was to tired (had football practice all day). I just want to know your opinion on the situation. From what I experienced last night he might also have a thing for me, or maybe he is just being real friendly. I don't know, and is really confused. Should I try to make a move on him another night? Or should I just let it be and move on?? Need some expert help here!!
(Btw. I am a 23 year old female and he only 18) | Crush |
Hi, so for about 3 months I have had a crush on my classmate. He is an introvert and we don't talk much, we sometimes play some games together with some of our friends but that is about it. I really wanna get to know him but I don't want to scare him off being to forward. Should I do something about it or just wait and see if somehow we start to talk? | Crush |
Ok, i was in a kind of party, i was talking to a girl and she had a REALLY GOOD headphones. I was testing them, so my crush came to me (i was taller than her in the dream, differently from reality, she's slightly taller than me) she sayed something cute smiling to me and I sayed (me too) but i was not 100% sure of what she sayed due the headphone volume.
Later on the end of the "party" she was on the ground in the internal garden of my house, crying under the rain. This moment I was like (oh no), so I went up to get her sheltered, and get her inside.
(Dream ends) | Crush |
I just barely started talking to this girl like three days ago, but the first day we really hit it off and became friends. We talk pretty regularly, but our sleep schedules are wildly different. Over this time I've really enjoyed her personality and she's somebody is definitely be interested in dating, although I don't know if I would ask her out until school starts back up. Sometimes she'll talk about people she used to like, or send pictures of people she thinks are attractive, so I'm not really sure if she's interested in me. My questions are: is it normal to catch feelings this early? And is this something I should pursue? | Crush |
Hey y’all i’m 15 and i have this one lil girl (whos also 15) that i like and we used to be table partners my freshman year (going into sophomore year) before school was cancelled cos of covid and i was wondering, should i approach her thru text, or wait however long quarantine will take to end so i can approach her in person at school. also side note we’ve talked but only about stuff for school in person. we know each other but we’re not really friends (not a bad thing just haven’t talked a lot about each other, to each other) | Crush |
Im 13 she is 13 cause i think age really matters here
I can’t tell if I have a crush on her or not. I met her at the park a week ago and she is most nice and out going girl i have met.
Me and my friends recently joined the huge friend group she is in. Basically we come out at 7 and play cops and robbers till 9:30.
Recently I kinda made her slip and felt really bad about it. (We play in a playground with wood chips)
Yesterday I almost did the same thing but I caught her arm and she grabbed mine too. At that moment I felt really hot and I swear I blushed.
Last night I even had a really weird dream of us being a couple.
I can’t tell if I like her or not. I feel like I do but know that i shouldnt because I am so young | Crush |
So basically, I like this girl and I want to get to know her more but I don’t know if she likes me. She invited me to her party the other night and we kissed but we were drunk so I don’t know if it means anything, she also stayed in my bed that night but nothing happened. If you guys and girls could just tell me what I should do that would be great. Thx | Crush |
As the title says my crush is thinking about moving schools. Not actually moving houses but just schools. She had actually admitted a few nights ago saying that she had a crush on me and we both admitted to liking each other. She is very adamant on wanting to still hang out and talk even though we won’t be at the same school. No matter what I’ve said I don’t think I’ll be able to change her mind on the school change however. I don’t know what I’m asking for here honestly. Maybe just some advice or something I’m just afraid that this will just make us drift apart although we both have feelings for each other. | Crush |
I have been crushing on these girl for 2 years despite that she casually is flirting with boys in facebook i cant shake her off my head | Crush |
Weird as anything, but I think my SIL (27) may have started crushing on me(probably not more than crush) and maybe on and off over the past year or so. Let me just first start off by saying,no I’m not interested, not here for advice on how to become a polygamist, I’m in a happy marriage,I just need advice on if I’m wrong or how to deal,if I’m not. Maybe my pattern recognition in my brain is on the fritz.
So some months ago,pre-COVID,my SiL moved into with me, my wife(28 and her sister by blood) and our cat. Since about month or so into her moving in,I would notice things like her staring a hole through my head when I looked up randomly, what I can only describe as concerned looking glances, and just generally being nicer to me when I’m alone(in public) with her. She never does that thing where she laughs at my bad jokes, but my wife doesn’t do that either, so I chalk it up to most of my jokes actually being funny. And otherwise she isn’t a super awkward person(I am kind of awkward, so that could be part of it).
Some months ago, I went with her to an event that was in a sketchy place,and I only went because I was a taller guy/my sister couldn’t that day, so I can easily see that wouldn’t be a hint at anything. When she spoke there she gave me similar furtive glances throughout occasionally. Ok,I could just write that off as looking for support. Yet later when I drove her back she mentioned she couldn’t focus since I was there, and when I tried to apologize for maybe being distracting in how I reacted in support, she got flustered and told me to stop talking.
So,it seems like she figures I know(if that’s the case),but what does she expect from me. that she got angry about it ? And just generally how do I deal with this? The only reason I’m posting it here is I feel like I can’t even tell my friends this in confidence, because then it could get back to wife, and I don’t want to be in the dog house or worse if I’m wrong,or anything to happen between the sisters if I’m right. I do want to get her off the hook somehow(maybe be not myself around her,I dunno) so she can move on and get her own healthy relationship.
-Sister troubles in San Fran. | Crush |
So my crush recently destroyed, I mean dyed his already perfect brown locks blonde. In my opinion, he made a huge mistake because blonde hair does not suit him. It also seems that he’s acting like a different person, not being true to himself. I also recently found out he has a girlfriend so it’s perfect timing that I’m getting over him and I wish him the best. | Crush |
So there's this guy i was almost in a relationship with. It happened when i was younger and more insecure. He asked me out really suddenly and with a lot of desperation after (what I assumed) was a platonic friendship. I didnt believe him and he spent some time trying to convince me. I wasn't ready for a relationship and we were sort of "drinking buddies" so i kept forgetting our drunken confessions. I guess I also was trying to "protect him from myself" because I didnt think I was worthy of him (sad I know). Long story short- nothing ever happened between us and I kinda forgot it happened though i didn't forget about him, I just really thought it was too good to be true. i looked him up on instagram about a year ago but suddenly all these memories came flooding back about what had happened between us (or almost did) so I got nervous and didn't follow. I was nervous because it was not just a little crush, we told each other that we loved each other and i know i meant it I just had no idea how to deal with it and I genuinely didn't believe he was totally serious. I guess he's as shy as me because he was having other people try to talk to me about him so they could tell him later if i liked him and I was so closed off I guess it discouraged him. I followed him on instagram recently and he finally followed me back. I decided while i still love him, its cool to just be friends or acquaintances, but when he followed me i wanted to faint. I seriously adore this guy and if he felt the same way still i wouldn't hide my feelings I would go for it or just be a friend, whatever he wants really. Unfortunately I just cant start a conversation either way, I'm in a panic. He's a photographer, and i really like his work. I guess i can start there but I'm scared my feelings could spill out and make it awkward between us. I still dont know if he was serious about me or if he'd still like me now. Any advice is welcome as honest as it needs to be, I just want to handle this correctly and I have no one i feel comfortable talking to about this irl. | Crush |
I have a crush.
This crush is on a guy who I hardly ever see.
In fact, the only time I see him is during rare events with friends from our various circles.
There are the occassional phone calls where we all catch up.
This guy is super nice, fun to talk to, has similar interests and has a deep sexy voice.
I've had this crush on him for going on 2 years now.
I think the reason it has lasted this long is because I probably dont spend enough time around him to see the things that would turn me off.
I cant tell him either (even though I really want to, so that I can be rejected, to get over it)
Because....
It's one of my boyfriend's (of 7 years) friends.
🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 | Crush |
I'll be a new student at this high school near my house. So in order to get into this school, there's this part where they'll check our health and skills. That's why the school drove us to their camp for teambuilding games and fun activities just yesterday. I'll be a junior, while a majority of students there gonna be sophomore.
I met this SUPER DUPER cute guy who's new too. Let's call him Brendon. He's funny, attractive and all. I just really like him. But the thing is he's younger than me, but only a year though and he looks the same age as me. We exchange glances and talk a bit, we were in the same working team in the morning so i had many chances lol. But i feel like it's not enough. I saw Brendon talk alot to this "kinda confident tom boy girl" who's already a student there ( she went camping with us for some reasons ) Maybe because Brendon's friend ( who also went with us and already been a student) is the girl's best friend? Idk but i feel kinda sad, especially when she mentioned about if her friend Hana saw Brendon, Hana would like him instantly. I feel like Brendon is that kind of guy who breaks every girls' heart from first glance. He's too nice and fine.
I took all my courage and tried talk to him more when we got back school after the trip. Sadly, that tomboy girl took him in the school and went somewhere no one knows lol. But when i saw them got out, I asked him to play basketball with me ( for a good 2 minutes lol because he got picked up by his grandpa ). He's so nice, i miss the shoot but he ran to get the ball for me, throw it to me and said goodbye :(
The thing is i'm insecure about my body image alot, espcially after the camping trip. Because for some activities, i feel like i'm a little bit heavier than other girls idk maybe because i'm taller
So my question is
1. Will the small age gap be a struggle, obstacles between us? Will it affect the chance we can get together? I like him alot...
2. I do be looking at tarot reading on youtube and they said something like "you'll be in a competition", i guess she's kinda right because the Hana girl lowkey look like that soft girl who likely got everyone like her back. Also the girls in his grade... **So how can i increase my chance? Should i join basketball and sport clubs at school?**
3. We might be studying at the same floor? How can i start a conversation with him or talk to him more, i'm kinda awkward
Thanks everyone x | Crush |
I’ve had a crush on her for about a year, but she has a boyfriend. We talk a lot and FaceTime a lot and I’m hoping if I tell her about my crush I can get over it since I doubt we’d get together at all because of her boyfriend and I’m not trying to ruin things with them but I really want to get over this crush so I’m wondering if just telling her I like her would be closure. I plan on saying that I have a crush on her but I hope that it doesn’t affect our friendship and that i don’t want things to be weird between us. Should I just let things be or just put it out there | Crush |
I've fell in love with her for about 1 years. She's 9 years older than me. I'm 17.
I intended to spend more time with her when I go to uni because we will be in the same city. But I have just found out that she had a lover several days ago. I don't even know their gender : )
I need some advices. I wanna overcome such bad feelings asap. | Crush |
So basically I'm a teenager from India 🇮🇳 and i was into pmo for about 4-5years but i decided to do nofap I'm currently having a streak of like 5 days and i know it's not so long but i was having a streak of 42 days so lets get straight into the topic. I'm my school there was a girl who was studying In my section for 2 years when I was in 6th class now I'm in 11th and I didn't talk to her much even never talked to her by my own because I was very shy but few days back I get a message on my insta account however I don't use my insta account. But i just saw it after 4 days and I replied and she was talking to me like we were friends however she replied only when I send a msg means I have to send a msg first then I will get a rply. So that was my story with women attraction but i just don't why this happened because I don't think she is interested in me. Can u guys plzz tell me how can i check if she is interested in me Or not. Or I should have to delete her chat and focus on my nofap journey. | Crush |
This is my first post so sorry if it's badly worded lol. I've liked him since last year, he's really great. I really want to tell him in person but... ya'know... corona. I'm going to tell him tomorrow. I might make a separate post but I might just update it in the comments. If I make it a separate post I'll link it in there.
Ahhhhh I'm so nervous. He's really amazing. I'm a suuuper anxious person in general but idk he just has this calming effect on me? I've never met anyone like him before. He's so intelligent and so passionate about his interests. He has a stutter that comes out when he gets excited/nervous/tired. He says he doesn't like it but it's honestly so wholesome and sweet because I know it means he's so excited about what he's talking about that he physically cannot get the words out but when he finally does it's the most beautifully articulated sentence you've ever heard. He's just... my favorite person? We're pretty close friends and I feel like I can tell him anything. I went through some pretty horrible stuff that I don't want to get into here but he was there for me through all of it. It takes a lot for me to trust someone but I trust him completely.
I have reason to believe he could like me but I'm operating under the assumption that he doesn't just in case I get rejected.
The only problem is: We share a friend group so if things go badly it'll be pretty awkward and if things go well it'll be awkward (admittedly less awkward but awkward all the same). | Crush |
Is it weird that i like my cousin who i’m not related to by blood or law (my dads gf is his aunt) but we’ve known eachother for 10 years and he’s 8 years older then me also he’s not my type at all so idk what’s going on 🤭 | Crush |
Dang I cry so ugly my iPhone don’t recognize my face | Crush |
I genuinely can’t tell if he likes me.
This is a really long post because I’ve been confused for a long time, and I’m on mobile.
This guy is one of my closest friends, and I’ve spent a long time debating if he likes me so I’m just gonna ask you guys. Pretty much we were classmates for years and we always got along pretty well up until about six months ago when we both became part of the same friend group and got pretty close.
I’ll start by giving some reasons why he might like me:
At first if I’d text him something he would probably respond about 50% of the time, but now it’s more like 90%. We now text almost every day.
This guy has a reputation of not really responding to people, and having really short conversations. Lately we’ve been talking a bit, and he even texts me first sometimes. When people see a notification from him on my phone they say stuff like “wow ____ actually texts you?”
We watched a whole show together while texting. Like we’d plan when to start watching episodes and text during it.
The show we watched was an anime, and I have kind of a complicated relationship with anime and so we didn’t tell anyone about me watching the show. It’s kind of a secret that only he knows about.
When we hung out recently in a small group at first we didn’t really talk to each other, but in the end we were sitting close to each other and joking and talking a lot before one of our other friends came over and started talking to him.
He sent me a meme that said “what is we kissed under the manny acab graffiti” which may be just because manny is a running joke between us.
He said the only time he’s ever gotten close to being mad at me was over this small thing I did months ago in school. I think this is good because I’ve definitely done some slightly annoying things to him since then.
We were walking a while ago I was joking about this meme I showed him that was kind of gross. I said “wow you’re so lucky you met me so I could show you this” and he responded with “haha that’s not why I’m lucky I met you” but he said it kind of under his breath
His younger brother was always hanging out with us on the bus, and on Valentine’s Day the brother said “I’m surprised you didn’t get a message from ___” this lead me to believe that maybe he was talking to his younger brother about me.
We both placed at a competition, and we were going to go on a trip to the state competition before corona hit :( but when he heard the news that I placed he smiled really hard and gave me a fist bump. Also we had a few races that we were gonna do together before we got cancelled.
He always try’s to steal my phone and send funny messages to my friends. He always jokes about sending feet pics to this popular girl in my class.
After I did a public speaking thing that I was really nervous about, he gave me a high five while smiling a lot and kept talking about how I did a great job.
A few months ago we would always talk about going to trivia together because he’s really good at that. He didn’t invite me but after trivia night at school the next day he was like “why didn’t you come last night?? I was hoping you would”
The funny thing is that the question they lost on was actually a question about my favorite show that I knew the answer to.
Another thing is on the last day before school was closed my friends and I walked downtown and we were walking together in the back. He was playing this game on his phone and he mad eine a character and kept making me do stupid things. Then later he stole something from me and as I was trying to get it back I grabbed it from his hand and he didn’t immediately pull away so we were kind of holding hands for a few seconds while looking at each other. Then we pulled away and it was a bit awkward.
I had an art show at a small place, and it was super chill. When we were hanging out in a group before he seemed really worried about being late and he kept saying things like “guys come on we gotta leave now or else we’ll be late for Unimportant7’s art show. He made everyone leave early so we would be on time. Then during the show he kept talking about how the pieces were really good and he would buy the biggest one if he wasn’t broke.
I know this was a lot of stuff, but I’ve compiled this list over months.
I know it kind of sounds like he likes me, but I these are the reasons I don’t think he does:
He leaves me on read a bit. Not a super lot but I feel like if he likes me he would respond to everything
One of my friends is convinced he had a crush on her, and they’ve been friends for a while longer. She said it really seemed like he was flirting with her when they hung out a few months ago
I haven’t told any of my friends about my crush on him, but usually they would probably bring up if they noticed it seemed like he liked me.
Another one of my friends and I we talking about him and crushes and she was like “I can definitely notice when he has a crush on someone, he always gets nervous around them.” Then she said that she thought he had a crush on this kid from another school who played a sport with him.
When I asked the same friend as before if she thought anyone has a crush on me atm she said she didn’t really notice anyone. I feel like she would notice if he was flirting or something because we hang out in a group a lot.
When we were watching the show there was an episode where a guy was having relationship problems with two different girls and there was a lot of drama. He said “haha maybe this show is teaching me that I should just date guys” last I heard he was bi.
We’ve never actually hung out one on one. Like I said were in the same friend group so we always hang out in group settings but not alone together. Obviously we were going to but corona stopped all our plans.
I really can’t tell. If you’ve read this far thank you so much and please can you tell me what you think. If y’all really think he likes me I might seriously consider asking him out because I’ve really liked him for a long time. I hope you guys have a really good day/night :) | Crush |
So I have been in Friendzone for years until quite recently my crush has been sending some "live" back. She would respond to me flirting by flirting back and stuff. And then one day she tells me she's "FLYING" in love with me and doesn't like that that's what she feels. What does this mean?? It's it good? IS IT BAD??? HELP!!!???
Ps. I feel people should call in love so is fly in love just a less hurtful for ohrasey for brozone? | Crush |
She want another dude and i didn't even flirt wit her so now I'm sad :( | Crush |
So I'm 12(M) and she is also 12.
I have a crush on this girl that I met in secondary school, in primary school I sat next to her best friend and she owes me a favour (kinda) I'm in 2 of her classes and my friend is in most of her classes, she sometimes goes to me for advice with work and we laugh sometimes. I recently reinstalled Snapchat and I think she is in my quick add but I'm not sure if it's her. Anyway, should I use her friend's sorta debt to my advantage or should I be straight up. Really I just need advice how to get her. | Crush |
My crush just sent me a dm asking if I like someone, what do I say? | Crush |
So I think I like this guy and we kinda talk sometimes but I am really shy. I think he likes me but I don't know him very well and my mother hates him. I don't see him very often and would like to get to know him better but like I said I am very shy (bad anxeity) and I tend to get very obvisly unomfortable. He still talks to me, he always says hi and tries to make conversation. | Crush |
So I’m pretty sure everyone is in the same situation or similar. But anyways, I have a crush on a girl that I work with occasionally and ever since I’ve realised and started telling my close mates (who also work with us) that I have a crush on her, it’s been as if I’ve slightly avoided her so that I don’t mess up or try to act like someone I’m not to impress her. We both enjoy our sport and are quite similar in that respect. However, I never have the confidence to ask her a leading on question such as going out for a drink or just meeting up sometime. How do you break the ice without feeling rejected if it doesn’t go as planned. And if I did text her what would be a good way to start the conversation and a good idea to do. (I’m 18 she’s 19 for ideas) | Crush |
I dunno what to say to my crush like i dunno how to talk to her everyday (we are friends not close) | Crush |
and in what way? like by looking at their picture in social media etc? and what do you imagine? | Crush |
I had a crush on a guy and I met him through his with. I’m not going to go into detail. He is in healthcare and I was under his care. I heard through a coworker of his that he likes ending the day with me. How common do people with patients/caseload say that or feel that way? | Crush |
I've been friends with this guy for 2 years. We weren't really particularly close then, but when I got to know him more and learned that we have the same interests and humor, we eventually became best friends.
Just recently, I realized that I'm falling for him. I think he likes me too, although this is where the question kicks in. I don't know if he's really showing romantic interest, or whether these actions are merely platonic. I'm talking about:
• him calling me pretty (he says he loves my eyes, especially, every time I send a pic of myself);
• he tells me how I'm able to make him extremely happy; and
• the fact that we often talk to each other (on chat) til the wee hours of the morning;
I just have to add as well that before I started liking him romantically, I had a previous crush with whom I talked to him about. He was supportive and cheered me on with that guy, so I guess this is another thing that makes me doubt whether he really does like me.
I've thought about confessing but these things I just mentioned are holding me back. I don't want to ruin our friendship if it turns out that his feelings aren't what I've thought them to be. I'm just confused lol. | Crush |
Can anyone private message me and help me with my situation I am in with my crush. | Crush |
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Alright girls I need your help here!!!! So a little while ago maybe a month a guy told me he liked me... at the time I didn’t feel the same because I was invested in this other guy... it turns out the guy I liked was a jerk and now I have no feelings for him... and I’m starting to get feelings for the guy I rejected!! What do I do!!!! | Crush |
I'm in the same friends group with a really cute guy, we aren't in the same school and we dont talk much.. I really like him and want to know more about him, but I just dont know how to start/ continue a conversation with him. I'm kinda sure he doesn't feels the same and I'm scared that if I'll tell him how I feel it will make things awkward between us. Any advice? | Crush |
So I (female) confessed to my crush, a childhood friend I just recently got in touch with. He said to give him some time to get to know e/o better before he makes his decision. To do that, I don’t know whether to keep initiating or just back off until he figures things out. Should I stay to see how this goes or leave? | Crush |
Someone help my crush is popular (in our school) and I'm not. I basically know he doesnt like me back and I obviously really want him to. Any tips on how to get him to like me back?? | Crush |
help it's like 5 am and i can't sleep because of this
ok so my best friend (let's call her "amelie") has had a crush on this guy ("noel") from her class for about two months now and them, me and a few other guys are in this big friend group. one other guy of this group i'm a little closer with just called me and told me that noel has a crush on me. i honestly have no idea how this could have happened as i have only seen him once on my birthday (where he was drunk) but other than that i've only seen/talked to him on discord together with our friend group. i mean he is kinda cute and we got the same taste of music, but i don't even know him well and other than that, i would never want to get between amelie and him. also my friendship to amelie is wayy too important to me.
well, now i don't know what to do. either tell her or not tell anyone. if i tell her, she firstly will be crushed, secondly her self esteem would go downnnn as noah knows she has a crush on him but likes me, thirdly she might be jealous which i definitely do not want to happen, i mean i'm not even really interested in him. but if i don't tell her and she finds out another way, she could be mad at me for not telling her. i mean, she's the best person i've ever known and i would do anything for her to be happy, but i'm kinda torn rn. | Crush |
Should I bring up to my crush that I’m trying to lose weight? Or does that just make me seem like I’m insecure about my body?
I’m going to try and lose weight this year, not necessarily for someone else. It is because I genuinely am insecure about my appearance and I’m just overall really unhealthy.
If the subject SOMEHOW comes up, is it okay to say I’m losing weight? Cause I’m obviously very overweight. Or maybe I can just say I’m getting in better shape? Is there a way to make it sound like I still am confident in myself or sexy? Thanks. | Crush |
So i have a crush on this girl in my college for 2years now, we’ve talk casually for a while but then we stopped since she got a boyfriend. But last 2month she contacted me & checking in on me if im in a good mental state or not & a week after that she told me that she just broke up with her boyfriend due to him neglecting her when she had a breakdown. Then shit happened my mom passed away & we talked a lot after that incident, fast forward to a month after that, we went out for the first time. So the real question is should i tell her my feelings the next we’re going out or just keep it? I’m afraid that she just looked at me like a close friend, & another problem is that I tend to overthink & pushed people around me away but I don’t want to lose her.
Sorry in advance if this post is abit confusing for yall to read since english is my 2nd language. | Crush |
So finally I have made up my mind to ask out a girl I have liked for 10 years. She went to school with me and I ve been talking to her via text on and off for the last 10 years. Never got enough courage to take a chance but I think now is the time.
Just need some advice regarding weather if I should do it over text or face to face | Crush |
I'd love to know it because I think one friend of mine is in love with me... Which would be very cool because I actually have a crush on him.
So, tell me guys, what do you do when you have a crush on a friend? | Crush |
So at my workplace, there is a girl i have crush on. She is extrovert and i am extremely introvert. Also I am very uncomfortable to start general/gossip talk with any girl unless the girl knows me. I mean i dont really talk too much, so i just dont know what to talk. And thanks to my behaviour, i always tend to hurt the people who becomes very close to me, and they just stop keeping relations with me. The tendency of this in boys is low and girls is high. You can almost say i dont have any female friends. Also no good relations with cousins also, so no talking with them.
About that girl, i fear that if i ask her out, 95% chances are she will say no, but like i said, due to extrovert nature she may spread this to entire staff that i asked her, and this is really critical to me.
Thing is I am from India, and here most boys (me included) dont directly ask to girl.
Man, sometimes i feel like I am gonna die alone. I dont feel like living because it feels i am just living without any purpose (this doesnt mean i am having any suicidal thoughts, i just feel worthless). | Crush |
I posted a while back how I left everything to be stationed in AK. I found out the women I can't stop thinking about is getting a divorce. I know I should stay away as I am married but damn I haven't stopped thinking about her and it's been 6 months. Had a few drinks and needed to put this out there. Thanks for listening reddit. | Crush |
Ok so I haven’t talked to my crush in a few years and I really REALLY want to, but I don’t know what to say to start the convo.
I just keep getting nightmares of the two (and only) times we texted. One was civil convo but random and very awkward, and he didn’t respond for hours at a time. The other I was drunk so...
However, it’s been a long time and I have gotten over my shyness (kinda) so I figured maybe I could try again. BUT HOW DO I START without coming off as a creep and making the conversation awkward
I was thinking:
Hey how have you been doing? It’s been forever since I’ve talked to anyone from our class.
Please overthink with me. | Crush |
I (15m) have had some conversations with a girl I’m into (15f) over messenger
It’s a long story and don’t think copy pasting the messages would give proper context or preserve any implication if there is one
Just DM me if your interested and I’ll give you my discord info | Crush |
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Hey guys,
Just wanted to share my thoughts. Each someone wanted to get me involve in their drama or
Example #1 Ex-Roomate **(He's known to be involved in drama**): Hey man, do you want to be roommates, we could lower our costs? Me: Nah, I'm good.
Explanation: I rather have no roomates, if I had him as as roomate, I would pay a "stress tax."
Example #2 Attractive woman/love interest: Hey do you want to go to the other side of the city to pick some things for me? Maybe we can hangout afterwards. Me: Nah, I'm good. I have work to do. Her: Ok.
Explanation: This young lady is cute. However, she seems like she wants me to do all these things for her for the CHANCE of going on a date with her. Back in a day, I would have done it but now I don't go for possibilities but for tangible results.
Feel free to leave me your thoughts! | Crush |
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Hey guys,
Just wanted to share my thoughts. Each someone wanted to get me involve in their drama or
Example #1 Ex-Roomate **(He's known to be involved in drama**): Hey man, do you want to be roommates, we could lower our costs? Me: Nah, I'm good.
Explanation: I rather have no roomates, if I had him as as roomate, I would pay a "stress tax."
Example #2 Attractive woman/love interest: Hey do you want to go to the other side of the city to pick some things for me? Maybe we can hangout afterwards. Me: Nah, I'm good. I have work to do. Her: Ok.
Explanation: This young lady is cute. However, she seems like she wants me to do all these things for her for the CHANCE of going on a date with her. Back in a day, I would have done it but now I don't go for possibilities but for tangible results.
Feel free to leave me your thoughts! | Crush |
**If you like this post follow me on** [**r/Crimsonpill**](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crimsonpill/) **and message me to join the private mastermind group.**
Hey guys,
Just wanted to share my thoughts. Each someone wanted to get me involve in their drama or
Example #1 Ex-Roomate **(He's known to be involved in drama**): Hey man, do you want to be roommates, we could lower our costs? Me: Nah, I'm good.
Explanation: I rather have no roomates, if I had him as as roomate, I would pay a "stress tax."
Example #2 Attractive woman/love interest: Hey do you want to go to the other side of the city to pick some things for me? Maybe we can hangout afterwards. Me: Nah, I'm good. I have work to do. Her: Ok.
Explanation: This young lady is cute. However, she seems like she wants me to do all these things for her for the CHANCE of going on a date with her. Back in a day, I would have done it but now I don't go for possibilities but for tangible results.
Feel free to leave me your thoughts! | Crush |
Added a cute girl on Facebook the other day, was accepted not very long after and is a decent girl by the looks of her timeline and what she posts on there. Just truly haven't worked up the confidence to message her without just sounding like a moron with a dry "hey" cause I'm an introvert and far from the greatest looking. | Crush |
This girl and i would text and call me all the time and I really like her. I'm pretty sure she liked me back. But I also think that she just thought of me as a good friend. But we haven't been talking that much and I want to tell her that I like her before we stop talking to each other completely but I don't know how to tell her | Crush |
(This is going to be kinda long so sorry about that)
There’s this guy at my work who we will refer to as “B”. I’ve recently took a month long break from work to focus more on school and sports and during this time B was hired. When I came back to work it seemed that we often shared the same shifts- including closing. But during the 3 weeks we worked together he didn’t talk to me at all. Not a word. Then, a couple of weeks in, as I was taking my break one of my coworkers decided to join me. She was pretty close with B. She told me that B asked about me- my name and how old I was. I didn’t think too much about this and another 4 weeks passed without a word between us. Then, a few days ago, another coworker and I were sitting upstairs in the break room and we were talking about some people we work with and how they don’t talk as much as we do. I bring up B and how he’s never talked to me before. Suddenly, she starts smiling and says “I think you should talk to him,” Later she tells me that the other week he asked her how old I was and when she said 16 he replied with “mm, that’s good,” (he’s 17 btw) and she suspects that he likes me. That means that he asked two separate people how old I was. The next day (Christmas Eve) I had work with him and like usual, nothing is said. Then, in the last 4 min of my shift as I was walking out the break room he stops me and asks for my number which I give him. Over the next few days we text and snap each other just asking stuff like when do you work next or what school do you go to. We worked together again on Sunday and he finally started to talk to me. And every time he went up to me he would touch my arm or shoulder. Before he left he went up to me personally and said bye.
So I guess what I’m asking is does he like me?? And if he does what do I do? | Crush |
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/kkal9i) | Crush |
If i make a move i will lose her forever and our friendship will end and if i dont make a move she will never be mine. What can i do? | Crush |
This girl I like, I know we both will never make it out as a couple or something but for some reason I still love her. We've been "best friends" for 4 years and everytime I felt like telling her how I felt, the timing didn't feel right or there was always something in the way. Now it feels like it's too late to tell her. I gave up, I know it won't work but a part of me still loves her but I don't want that since I know it won't work out. How do I stop my feelings for her? | Crush |
So I was really introverted for about 5 years,things are getting better.But there was one time where some girl started talking to me.She’s very beautiful and cute,and she has same music taste as me.
So I’ve waited for a week and flirted back.I can make literally make everyone laugh,so I was joking with her all the time.She laughed at my every joke,and she always touches my hair and my shoulders,hands,and I feel like she’s a bit into me.
But my best friend also loves her(I think so)And guy who is 2 grades above me loves her too.
Today I went to her house with my friend,she painted my face,we played truth or dare.And most importantly-every time my friends left the room,she just sat near me and we just sit in very awkward silence.
Btw,I have another friend and he’s literally a woman magnet,because every girl in our school are flirting with him.And I actually told him about my feelings.He gave me some advices about how to get her,and while I was going downstairs,I see him,with my crush and I heard he told her about how I love her and she laughed,and I just laughed about it.So if you’re a woman,please tell me,am I friendzoned or she wants to be with me? | Crush |
So I'm currently a Film major, and so is my crush. I've had a crush on her for almost a year now. She knows who I am, and we've had conversations before. Recently, I've wanted to partake in this online publication fundraiser, where students such as myself write about a certain topic in pop culture (in collaboration with other students who are also interested in that topic). When reaching out to her to see if she would want to serve as one of the collaborators, she said that she'd love to join! However, she also wanted to learn more about the topic itself, so I promised her that I would send her any potential research articles to basically get her brain flowing.
In doing so, I also noticed that she had recently written an article of her own on another publication, specifically about being self-conscious. It was a piece that I honestly really connected with (I've always been self-conscious about myself, to the extent that, for the longest time, I just refused to smile in my family photos). So in my email sending her the links to the articles I found, I also attached an in-depth response to her article, saying how she not only did an amazing job, but how I managed to connect with it as well, and that I appreciated the fact that she was incredibly honest in writing it.
Her email response was basically this: "Hi \_\_\_\_ , you have no idea how much your words meant to me. I was honestly shocked because I think you have a great smile! Just goes to show how our insecurities can get the better of us. Frankly, I'm not the most proficient in my writing style or vocabulary (I'm jealous of your speaking and writing abilities in class), so I wanted to make sure my piece felt very vulnerable. But I'm so happy that you connected with it, and I'm looking forward to collaborating with you!" I have also heard from outside sources that she has told other people outside of class (her friends) that I am "very smart" and "very knowledgable about film history and filmmaking".
Please tell me if this means anything. ANYTHING. I have her number, but she's only contacted me about homework for our class. I want to text her and engage in a conversation so I can commence an inkling of a relationship. Does anyone have any advice whatsoever? I get butterflies whenever I think about her, and above all else, I really just want to tell her how I feel. But I know it's too early. tl;dr | Crush |
I don’t know if she has feelings for me or not. If you have an opinion share
We met few years ago. We spent lots of times together. During those times I caught her multiple times staring at me when I am not looking. She tried to find me when I am alone then she would hug me for a long time then avoid hugging around people. She laughed at my jokes and she tried to be funny. She gave me advice all the time and she was very protective over me. She asked me out one on one and I chickened out because she had a bf at that time and I knew that my feelings would show. I did not want to make her feel uncomfortable. She got super jealous when other women got close to me, she would comment about them or act like she is annoyed. She wanted me to trust her only. I had to leave for an year. When I contacted by email she replied and said she missed me a lot. I told her I will catch up with her by face time as soon as I can and that I am going through something at the this time. She did not reply. I have so much emotions for her I want to meet her and hug her again and I don’t know what to do about my feelings. What do you think about this and what do you think about her?? | Crush |
My parents have decided I should not date at all. But I have found a girl and she is cool and I rlly have a big crush. So now the decision is should I risk it or not.
You get 5 days to decide. Let me give you a description:
She is cute, funny and exactly my type. She and I are both talkative. I'm attracted to her. We are both in India. She is one year younger than me. She loves( well minimum likes, I'm not exactly sure) talking to me. Reasons not to: well my parents, I'm not attractive, I'm not obese but a bit chubby but still strong. I don't know how to flirt or how to ask her. And I'm pretty sure she has not even thought about dating yet. And well she has to agree to break the rule too. And it might make things weird about our friendship. And honestly, I really love her as a friend too and am willing to live with that. But taking it to the next step is something I haven't really done before.
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/k1fha1) | Crush |
I'm planning to have a minecraft date with my crush. I'm excited and also nervous hahaha. Guys, what can you say? | Crush |
So I’m back again in this sub reddit about the girl I like at the duck-in doughnuts. So I went there multiple times to see her and she was never there. But one of my buds who works there gave me her ig and I did followed her , but she hasn’t accepted, or declined my request. So I said screw and messaged her, should I just wait for a response or keep going back to duck-in doughnuts to see if she’s there. If she doesn’t like me then it’s what ever, but at least I tried. | Crush |
So I was planning on placing this letter in my crushes locker instead of confessing which would kind of lead him on a treasure hunt but I've been getting a lot of mixed opinions, most of my friends who are girls called it creepy but some male friends said it's either weird but interesting, extra or creepy.
So heres the letters draft:
To: You
From: ….
You’re probably wondering who the fuck wrote this and why, maybe even assuming this was from one of your friends but I assure you it’s not in fact I don’t talk to you and I’m pretty sure you don’t know of my existence. Anyways if you’ve gotten this far into reading the letter and haven’t tossed it into the bins, the point of this letter was basically to challenge you to a game, sending you on a scavenger hunt around the school. Right now you might be thinking why the fuck should I do that and although I can’t justify why you shouldn’t just ignore this and continue doing what you do at school I can call you a chicken for wanting to ignore an opportunity that doesn’t occur every day, after all not everyone gets a letter in their locker addressed to them from an anonymous person. With that being said you might now be second guessing me being a serial killer similar to thrillers however I can very much say I’m a student at this school and there would be no opportunity for me to kill you as the game would happen on school grounds during operating hours.
Anyways continuing on, if you accept the challenge and are willing to sacrifice some lunches playing your beloved “football” then know like all games there are rules, such as don’t try to figure out my identity that includes your friends attempting to as well, another main rule is you can tell friends but I’d like it if it was kept to a minimum number of 7 meaning your friends can’t tell anyone either and pass it on. Now I have no clue whether you’ll respect the rules or not but like football and soccer in order to win you have to play fairly and dedicate a lot of practice to the sport so I guess what I’m saying is don’t be a dick or smart ass like you sometimes are and play by the rules as you’ll eventually learn my name. Assuming your still reading this if you decide to accept go into the library and look for a book titled “Copycat” by Hannah Jayne inside there should be another letter waiting inside between pages “”, once you have the letter place a letter responding to this current one and place it inside “” between pages “” and then continue on with the other letter.If your still reading this and decided to not accept the challenge, assuming you haven’t thrown it into the bin then place this letter in the empty locker under Patrick’s locker.
Coming to the conclusion of this letter, if you decided to not accept then till next time I suppose and if you did accept then let the game begin.
Sincerely, ….
Context on my crush is he's one of the popular guys at school but girls dont really pay attention to him since they're all attracted to his friends, he can be a smartass to friends and teachers but he does do work and can be logical and sensible at times.
So thats basically it and I would appreciate advice since I've only got a 2 day opportunity to do this due to school holidays starting. | Crush |
So I’ve been talking to this girl and she always calls me princess and I just wanted to know if that means that maybe she likes me or something but I don’t want to out right ask her
So what do you think? | Crush |
so i met this guy through an online program (was supposed to be in-person but covid... anyways) and like he was everything i have ever wanted in a guy. ever since i was young, i had this “cRiTeRiA” for my “dream guy” and this boy checked off everything. and so i obviously fell hard for him. the thing is. he lives in cali. i live in georgia. and we’re only high school seniors so it’s not like we can pack it up and just meet up somewhere. and he told me he was interested in me too but unwilling to take it further than being friends cuz of the distance. and idk guys i’ve never liked someone so much before. like. idk how to describe it even. i just love everything abt him. every time i get a notification from him my heart seems like it’ll burst. idek. i sound crazy. anyways. i’m just big depresso now since the person i want to be with for the rest of my life seems so close yet so out of reach. hope you guys enjoyed my sob story🥲
and if you have any advice on how to get my sht together please lmk:) | Crush |
I sometimes find myself in cringy situations when am the crush . The problem is the girls who crush on me with all my respect are simply not my type . How unlucky i am .
I am a friendly 21 yo male , am funny and usually girls like talking to me , but , sometimes the talk turns into confessin that she really likes me , and i find myself in a cringy situation where I have to be as kind and gentle with the rejection as possible .
And believe me guys this makes me anxious all the time , and lonely coz they end up ghosting me afterwards and am not stable with my friends some of them just go coz she liked me and i friendzoned her .. :( | Crush |
So i have a crush on this guy and i think hes also LGBTQ.. he said to me that hes questioning if hes LGBTQ and he even asked how to come out of the closet.. he also has been playing games on roblox made for LGBTQ people. I kinda wanna tell him that i have a crush on him but im scared that ill ruin a good friendship i have with him. | Crush |
I have this crush on a person I just met literally not even a month ago I met her through my cousin. My cousin showed her a picture of me and the girl said that I looked cute so she asked for me snapchat and Instagram. We been talking everyday about everything and I kinda got a crush on her we are right now working on video chatting because we both have social anxiety but like I called her a simp because keeps on calling me a cutie and then said "4 u" so I asked her if she likes me and she said "Yeah lol" she asked me the same question so I said "yeah lol" but nothing happened after that.how do I know if she likes me or if she wants to date me and also how soon is too soon because it literally has only been a month and I have a crush on her? | Crush |
Hi guys...
Just want to let something off my chest, and talk to someone.... I have been feeling so bad these past few months it feels like my soul is being torn in two.
I am a guy and developed a huge crush (Person A) on my project group member last year. We have had good memories with one another as we have been friends for the past few years, but while doing the project she became increasingly distant from me, even losing her patience and snapping at me during a project group meeting for asking a question.
I then discovered shes been talking to another guy (Person B) from my course early in January. I know they both share an interest in a certain sport and go out together regularly to play the sport. I became anxious, and fearful and started stalking the both of them via social media, but most of all their Whatsapp online and offline timings. What I found broke my heart a thousand times over...
I found they talk almost everyday, because 1) whenever one goes online, the other follows soon after.
2) If one of them doesn’t come online quite often I have seen the other wont come online
3) If I found them online together, more often than not they go offline within seconds of each other, and sometimes only come online again when the other does . (I have seen them online together up to 12-2am at night and then they go offline around the same timing and do not come back online again.)
4) I have compared their timings with other people I know. No one else's online and offline timings match either of their timings as consistently as the both of them.
5) Lately I noticed the guy coming online on facebook even matches my crush coming online on whatsapp. ( eg. Just last night, “A” was offline for an hour from whatsapp, “B” had been online on facebook for about the same amount of time. The moment “A” came online on whatsapp, “B” was shown to be offline from facebook messenger 1minute before her online time. "B"'s whatsapp which had been offline for around an hour also came online a few minutes after "A" went offline from whatsapp. And this is not the first time I have seen this)
I became addicted to checking the timings, and have been doing so for the past year. And almost everytime I checked at least one of these 5 things occur. I have wasted so much time and energy on this obsession I genuinely feel like I am going insane.
Earlier this year, there were times I felt as if I could not take it anymore, so I asked around school friends. I asked friends of the “A”, friends of “B” and even person “B” himself twice. They all said that there was nothing going on between them. “B” even told his friend that “A” was not his type.
However, I would sometimes fall back to checking whatsapp again, and I would again see one of those 5 phenomenon listed above. My mind get obsessive again, I keep thinking that these things are way too coincidental and they must be meeting up in real life or talking and I start feeling sad all over again…. I keep thinking about what they could be talking about, how is it possible "A" whatsapp online and offline timings coincide so consistently with "B"s whatsapp and facebook timings?
I just want to vent it all out… Please don’t be unkind.. Sorry if the examples I gave are too confusing...
What do you guys think?
Do you all think there is anything going on between the both of them?
Have anyone of you gone through this before? | Crush |
I've never posted here before but I finally told him!! He's really sweet and funny and handsomely cute. He said he needs a bit to process it but im not sure if that's a good or bad answer. Im not ready for a relationship yet do I just want to get to know him even more for now. I was shaking the whole time but I told him!! | Crush |
i just textef my crysh bcayse im drunk im porbably gonnna regret i but fuck it lets see where it goes | Crush |
I started liking this really beautiful girl in my class only a month after I told her my feelings. She said we should just stay as friends. I accepted it and continued my normal life but at school she was just so stunningly beautiful I couldn't help it but to keep liking her. I told her to talk and we talked over on snapchat and she said maybe and then the next day she said it's best that we stay as friends.
I am so embarassed for not getting her message the first time we are in the same school tomorrow is going to be VERY awkward.
TL:DR I liked a beautiful girl she didn't like me but I still liked her but she didn't so I got rejected 2 times. | Crush |
i have a crush on this girl and want to ask her out but i dont know what to say and if we would get together it would be hard to go out on a date with her but due to covid that would be hard any advice ? | Crush |
Okay so basically, my crush and I don't talk that much because I don't get to see her at school too much (Im 15 btw), but we do salute each other when we pass by in the corridors, and she gave me a nickname last year that nobody uses at all, except her. Also, we don't text or not much, because I'm that kind of person who always have a ton of things to do so I easily forget to text any of my friends (even her), and she's clearly not that kind of person who will text me first what the fuck should I do? I'm so confused and really need help from anyone who reads this. Btw ty to all the people who will help me! | Crush |
there's this guy who works at a local store that i have the biggest crush on. and honestly for the first time ever i feel confident enough to ask for someone's number but i don't know what to say specially that we have never spoken to each other before, and it's super hard to have a conversation with him since the workers there are super busy all the time. I don't want to miss the chance for him to be a part of my life,, lovers, friends, whatever!! I just wanna get to know him so pls help me how can i approach him? what should i say? Aaaaaaaa | Crush |
I've had a crush on this girl since middle school (I'm in 12th grade rn, honestly don't know why I still like her, we don't even go to the same high school) and at this point I'm seriously considering just telling her I had a crush on her (Why not? Next year we're off to college). Question is, how do I kind of hint at the fact that I like her without going all out and sort of work up to telling her I had a crush on her. I'm not that scared of rejection per say (cuz yk, ppl don't click sometimes and that's alright), but more of the fact that it'll ruin whatever friendship we have.
How's something like "Hey I honestly think you're really cool and pretty and shit and wish we could talk more". Ehh idk. lmk your thoughts.
Not that important but her and her friends were doing that trend where someone asks a question like "who's the craziest" and they all point to someone. Well when they said "who gets the hottest guys" they all pointed at her and that kinda hurt :(. | Crush |
Is there ever a right way or time to do it? Or how do you decide that things would be better if you didn’t end up telling them?? I just have liked this guy for a while now and I really can’t tell if he’s into me or not. I even recently saw his profile on tinder after lowkey looking for him on there for a while and I decided to swipe left because I was too scared for there to be a potential match.
A little back story, the most recent time we had a conversation it was over Snapchat and we had been chatting about various things over the course of a couple days. One night though he left me on read, so I just decided to go to sleep. I ended up having like two dreams about him (not sex dreams or anything) but he was in those dreams. So when I woke up I was snapchatting one of my best friends about it and I accidentally sent my CRUSH the snap of me saying that I was upset that he left me on read. I had quite a panic attack and got hot flashes and quickly sent him another snap saying “wrong person lol.” He replied and just said lmaooo or something like that. So now I feel like I’ve fucked everything up, idk what to do anymore:/ someone help | Crush |
Guys I told a girl I like her about 2 months ago and she reacted nicely, saying she's not looking for smth rn but I'm a really great guy. She's the really honest and precise type of person and if she didn't like me back she would've said so in the 3 paragraph reply she sent me, but she didn't say "I don't like you back" and she specifically did say "there's a lot going on at the moment" and "I'd hate to lose a friend over unfortunate timing". We're still good friends but now she initiates text conversations about little things like wishing me gl for an exam or just letting me know if she won't be in school. (This only happened twice, maybe I'm overthinking). She never did this before she knew?? And now she mentions me to our mutual friend when I'm not there (again, only once or twice). Does she like me a little and is growing on it now that she knows I like her, and should I try again later? Or is she just being nice and I'm overthinking?
Edit ~
GUYS my friend was talking to her and mentioned how "There was no explicit rejection" and my crush laughed and said "yeah. It's just that I'd never thought about it because of school and stuff" and then my friend changed the conversation topic because she was unprepared and likes to be in control of conversations like that. SO??? IDK IF I'M CRAZY BUT DOES IT SOUND LIKE SHE WOULD DATE ME IF IT WEREN'T FOR GCSES RN? AND I'M DEFINITELY ASKING HER TO PROM AND IDK IF SHE'LL SAY YES BUT OH MY GOD SHE BOUTTA MAKE A SIMP OUTTA ME. Bro I got exams rn and I can't focus on anything cuz I'm just thinking of her and smiling like a dumbass. | Crush |
Can you guys give me suggestions on what to add in my bday paragraph to him??
“Happy birthday Best Friend! 🥳<3
YOU ARE AMAZING AND THE BEST GUY FRIEND I COULD EVER HAVE. You are really funny (da funniest) and is really positive. You are always in a mood and have a really nice voice. Sometimes you cuss and it’s funny because idk why but it is :D (no hard feelings)
You make me really happy through days when I’m not feeling good. It’s funny because when we barely met, we talk so much. And I’m glad we did :)
It’s fun playing games with you, and it’s cool watching you play because you is awesome 😼👀
Whatever decisions or plans you make, just know that I’ll always have your back
Sooo bro, have the best birthday🥰”
Please help, his bday is gonna happen just in 1 hour!!! | Crush |
I just figured out my crush has been acting distant because she doesn’t really like me. Funny thing is she told me she did about a little more than a month ago. One of my friends was talking to her and she told him that she didn’t really like me because “the whole situation was awkward”. Like, you were the one that made it awkward by saying you liked me and then friend zoning me. So idk if theres advice for this but if there is please tell me. | Crush |
so me and this guy have known each other for two years, we dated for a month or two last year but ultimately decided that we were good together but now i feel like we have both changed a lot since then and i like him again. like a lot but idk if he likes me. we’re in the same class and talk everyday. we have inside jokes and he giggles and laughs and most of the stuff i say even if it’s not funny. he’s so cute and funny but yeah idk. HELP! | Crush |
https://youtu.be/PeVVFy1iPuo | Crush |
She’s currently talking to me about this boy in one of her classes. | Crush |
i have a crush on this guy but we haven't talked since before Circuit Breaker (bcos of covid-19) started...and even before that we talked on ig dms and sometimes irl but the conversations were never really long and deep so i really want to know more about him but i'm so scared to start a conversation with him now since we haven't talked in so long... would that be super out of the blue and kinda awkward? when i saw him for the first time in super long last weekend we didn't say anything to each other...
i actually had a few signs that he liked me back then. like he wld be really nice and wld look out for me and in group settings he always tried to sit near me and looked to me when he made a joke. and even over text he was funny and sweet,,, which now i think about it could be him just trying to be friends?? i dont even know..
i just accepted him into my spam recently.. should i dm him?? what should i say?? i just want to get to know him a bit more before i'm super sure of my feelings for him. i think during the Circuit Breaker period i kinds tried to make myself get over him and I thought it would be the best time to do so since I obviously wouldn't be seeing him irl... but even now i still find myself thinking about him
also my friend told me that guys like girls who make the first move?? i think hes more shy so maybe i shld take the first step after so long??
i just wna be sure that i actually like the real him, and not just the thought of him, the him that i imagine him to be.
do you guys have any tips on texting too?? this is the first time i'm actly trying to get a guy... haha | Crush |
Hello again, everyone. I posted here about 2 weeks ago now and I just wanted to give an update and ask for some more advice if I may. Here's my [last post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/jnv5eg/i_am_in_need_of_advice/) if you haven't seen it already.
I've started to try and build my confidence up and try to get myself to try and start talking to her, by just saying hello to her every now and then, or by just asking a quick question relating to school or something.
I build up all this confidence to go talk to her, but I end up not saying anything because I've either lost that confidence or not comfortable talking to her when there are other particular people around.
The only opportunities I get to talk to her is between classes, sometimes before school or during the math class that I share with her. She's a bit like me, she sits with a couple of her friends and does her work quietly unlike the majority of the class.
I guess I'm just trying to wait for the right moment. Although, I feel as if I don't talk to her now, I'll lose my chance which is what a lot of people have been telling me lately. I really want to talk to her, but I just can't get myself to do it.
What are some other ways I can build up my confidence, how do I use those opportunities to my advantage and how can I not lose that confidence? | Crush |
There was this guy back in 6th grade that had a crush. He was a friend and was a pretty cool dude.
His friends told me that he had a crush on me. But being a dumb kid, I was like, ‘nah he jokin’
Then he comes up and says, ‘I have a crush on you’. Me still being an idiot thinks that he’s jokin.
But then my 7th grade year comes and he moved away.
THEN
an old friend of his told me that he had a genuine crush on me. His old friend also said that every time he was around me, he would become way more softer and nicer.
AND NOW AS A FLIPPING 9TH GRADER I REGRET MY LIFE EVERYDAY!!!!!!
thank you for listening to my life story. :D | Crush |
So I’m doing this thing where the letters of his names is what I’m going to cross off if I actually don’t feel like crushing anymore.
I’m doing this because I feel like he think of me as a friend. I’m his “best friend” and I don’t want to make things awkward for me and him if he friend zone me.
He has 5 letters in his name.
I cross his name off in Nov 10th
Because he talks about his ex.
When you are friends with a guy, it’s really different because he will open up to you and it is hard for a guy to open up unless you are very close to him.
I cross his first letter off because I felt like a friend rather than the girl he likes.
Then on Nov 17th
I cross his 2nd letter of his name because we barely even talk... it made me felt like he didn’t care
And I KNOW THERE IS A DAY PEOPLE CAN STOP TALKING TO EACH OTHER
but man... I was trying my best to make a conversation
But he gave simple response
I felt hurt
Basically yeahh :)
His bday coming up sooo :) | Crush |
I've had a crush on this girl for some time now and in our friend group, everyone knows that including her the problem I'm having is that I don't know if she likes me as a person. She says all the obvious line to throw me away but the confusing part was her best friend told her I wanted to call her cute one day so she did it for me and she made it sound like she really appreciated it my crush said ”that's cute, that's adorable, did he really say that?” to be honest from what I see I should stop trying, she's just different from most I would say. she can hardly keep a relationship cuz she just feels like she's not enough. I never dated so I can't say much...what should I do? | Crush |
**Hi all, so here is my short story.**
i started to notice this one girl in my school. I thought she looked amazing and seemed super fun.
I waited a week to maybe get to see her more, but she didn't show up to school for rest of the week.
So i asked a friend from her class for her snapchat, i got it and we instantly hit it off. We were sending some videos and so on. She does not snap often so i sometimes wait a long time. She is also the type to ignore her phone when around someone else. Or maybe just in general.
Well, next week comes and we started talking and she shows interest and hangs around me and asks me out to a smoke and so on. We have been drooping small hints to each other at school. But when she gets home its back to not so much contact only few times for rest of the day (im used to it now).
We have known each other for like 5 days, and i think she is super sweet and beautiful and just amazing in general. i dont know much about her but i feel like i know her so much already.
We are moving slow and its going great, we smile at each other and want to be around each other.
**So here are the things i dont understand about crushing on someone.**
1)How long should i wait to ask her out or be more bold about my feelings.
2)If she shows some interest at school why not over snapchat.
3)Why does she try and avoid my eyes when we are alone and talking. | Crush |
about a month ago I ran onto a girl and I liked her but it was not enough for me to go for her... fast forward to today; I ran onto her again at the mall the past week but I still didn't bother going for her until I got home and realised that I like her and now I'm constantly thinking about her, I try to ask my friends and describe her but it's hard, I only have her picture in my head which I wish I was able to draw but I can't. I have a crush on her. | Crush |
“i wanna be the one you think about at night, and i wanna be the one you would put up a fight for”- clario | Crush |
you don’t even know her yet you would rather talk to her than me? welp okay. | Crush |
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I wish I had the CONFIDENCE to take this big leap. However, I was too shy to do it back in the day. I cared too much about what my co-workers thought of me to take the necessary action. Confidence is huge and being able to pursue my passion is truly life-changing.
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https://preview.redd.it/rc15htptsxz51.png?width=1234&format=png&auto=webp&s=90d77376c496ce96b879d54827e8aaa3db8feaf7 | Crush |
Listen. I wish it wasn’t true, but I’m awkward. Sometimes I’m not and that’s cool. But I need help haha.
So I have feelings for this guy. We get along super well and I’ve asked on another reddit post if he was showing signs that he likes me back, and it was a resounding yes and it made me so happy. But he’s sooo quiet and keeps to himself. Which I like about him. It just means I initiate quite a bit of our interactions. I also give him space and we work in quiet as well. Which is nice. But I don’t know how to do this. I’ve had trust issues and never knew how to be myself, as I’m adopted and that’s kind of a tricky thing to be. So I’m 28 and just learning how to be myself. I wasn’t raised to have sincere bonds with anyone, so I’m learning how to bond with other people and it’s sort of difficult.
I feel like I give off the right vibes that I’m interested in him sometimes, and other times I randomly give off the vibe that I’m neutral. I don’t like when I do that, because I want the connection to progress. I feel like what I’m missing is confidence.
I have two main questions:
Has anyone experienced a sometimes confident connection with someone, but other phases of it being awkward and feeling like it’s going backwards some steps? But then did it ever naturally go right back to being a strong connection? Even where you ended up being together, after wondering if you ever would? I just want some reassurance that I’m not ruining it or that because we’re both a little awkward and shy that the connection is any less there.
Second, how do I learn some basic connection/bonding skills? Here’s what I struggle with:
- Simple things like saying goodbye in a way that means I care about our day together. Like sometimes I get so nervous that I don’t even say goodbye I just dip out and then I’m afraid he thinks I don’t care. I’d like to change this.
- Making eye contact at the right times. I feel like deep down I know when it’s the right time and when it’s not. And yet I catch myself awkwardly thinking he was going to make eye contact and he wasn’t so then it’s obvious out of the corner of his eye I just tried to and he was chillin doing his own thing. Or he tries to make normal meaningful eye contact and I get nervous and don’t make it back. There’s pretty good eye contact at other times, but I’ve gotten worse at it as time has gone on. Which like, why?
I feel like I’ve slowed down my showing I’m interested and have feelings for him and I have a wall I’m putting up because this whole thing got close to being real and it scared me. I don’t want to miss out on how wonderful he is because of my fears. I want to learn how to let go and rebuild my mind and heart.
How do I not be scared of emotional intimacy and romantic connection?
Thanks for reading this far lol. | Crush |
So i have a crush on this guy, but he got a wedding ring on his right hand. His social media doesnt show a gf/wife but shows a kid which i guess is his. What does it mean ? Is he marrier ? Divorced? Widower ? Just doesnt like his left hand ?
Google tells me that some members of the lgbtq+ use their right hands instead of left but i know for sure he is not gay/bi.
Help your girl out.
Ps: i swear im not a stalker, i just wanna know what im getting into 😭 | Crush |
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