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Hello Everyone,
Usually I (19M) am not the kind of sharing person but I am struggling quite a while now. The thing is, I really have a crush for a co-worker. Like I've never felt this way before, we get along very well and talk very often. We basically tell each other everything that bothers us, things you don't tell other people, but we've never really discussed anything related to feelings to each other.
I am thinking about asking her out/telling her how I feel. But the thing is, I am also scared that it isn't the same way around and I don't want to lose a friendship this this one. What do you guys think I should do? and what would be the best way to tell it to her (if I should)? | Crush |
So last year i developed a crush for a girl in my class I am a very very shy person so i had a lot of difficulty in even trying to talk to her until one day it just happened thanks to our common interest in Anime So during one of our talks she told me her favorite character (Gilgamesh from the fate series) Fast forward a month later it was December And an (bad) Idea took form in my brain I wanted to get her a present and i wanted for it to be special so i chose to put my talent in sewing to good use and to made a Christmas themed Gilgamesh plushie (named by my friends Padoru-Gil) it took me two days to create the abomination (my friends told me it was a stupid idea) and on the last day of school before the Christmas holidays the day we use every year for a general school assembly Before leaving to go home i approached her and then My mind went from extreme confidence to blushing idiot i started stuttering then just gave her the dammed thing said have a nice Christmas and then i runned as fast as i could out of there while my friends where cringing on the sidelines To this day the awkward energy between my crush and me is still going strong and my friend are still making memes about the whole clusterfuck So in conclusion mistakes where made
And to this day i don't know what happened to the plushie i just hope it wasn't dumped in the trash | Crush |
This is probably the wrong subreddit to post it on but you guys have been so nice that I just wanted to put it here... Tell me what do you term as love? What does it mean when you find someone that you really like and just it doesn't work? I don't know what love is... I honestly don't But I wonder how you feel it... It's just that like I asked her out... And she said okay cool im fine with you liking me but i cant love you back...So does that mean i have to wait for her to love me back or move on? Well when i tell her that okay should I move on she dosent seem happy. And thats what makes me sad... Like do you like me back or do you not? Also what can i do to make you happy. I try everything but you dont try back. I understand that you come from a tough place but thats why i am tryna help ya. So why cant you take my hand? Why do you run away and hide? Or am i just overthinking this?
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/lkb2d6) | Crush |
One Of My Many Many Super Terrific Tremendously Big And Gigantic Crushes Is On Tilda Swintons Young Self.
Hey guys I hope this doesn't sound weird but I have a tremendous crush on Tilda Swintons young self( not her current self, mind you) back when she had long flowing hair and was super beautiful. I always get excited whenever I see the White Witch because Tilda Swinton looks more like her young self in this role than she does today.
What do you think about this? | Crush |
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[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/lk4ef5) | Crush |
Well well well.
If it isn't my unwarranted confidence.
Told my crush how I felt and gave her the option of confronting this thing if she was in the position where she mayhaps liked me, or stay friends, pretend this never happened, and let it die off in a month.
I'd rather say it now than in 5 months.
They chose option A 😳.
So now I have a gf. | Crush |
One Of My Many Many Super Terrific Tremendously Big And Gigantic Crushes Is On Tilda Swintons Young Self.
Hey guys this might sound kinda weird but I have a tremendous crush on Tilda Swintons young self( not her current self, mind you) back when she had long flowing hair and was super beautiful. I always get excited whenever I see the White Witch because Tilda Swinton looks more like her young self in this role than she does today. | Crush |
Hi everyone, so I have a dilemma on my head and I just need some advice on how to go about my situation.
Frist things first, I have a major crush on this girl. It all started on a September day when we had to go up infront of class and present our school projects (the funny thing is that my crush was the only who presented, my teacher completely forgot about the rest of us) to the entire class. In short she looked phenomenal, she was super pretty and dressed very formal and appropriately. Ever since that day ive always had a crush on her, she just has a good taste in fashion and everyday I go to school and see her, she wears something new and it catches my eyes everytime. Anyhow, we sometimes talk about school related stuff such as assignments, teachers, and tests. This usually happens more when the entire class collectively takes part of the conversation.
Now more recently my appreciation and interest in her has skyrocketed. During last month, my parents and I got covid, and while I tried my best to help my parents and alleviate their pain (my dad over 80 and my mom over 70) I ended up having to call the ambulance for my mom and I took my dad to the hospital later that same day as a precaution just in case my dads symptoms got worse. If you haven't figured out by now, I was left alone at home, one of my sisters accompanied me for a few days but she had work and had their own family to attend to.
I wasn't eating and my mental health during that unsettling time really declined, since it was uncertain if my parents were coming back home or not. Then out of nowhere, without any preexisting knowledge. I get a text from her asking how I was doing and that she heard about my station. She wasn't in my contacts and I dont think I was in hers, there's another girl I talk to in the class (as friends) so she probably got it from her. She asked me how I was doing and after telling her my anxiety and worries, she offered to bring me dinner and groceries. I politely declined her offer since I didn't want her to get infected (I live in a apartment and its not out in the open, there's a hallway and its enclosed, I was still going out to get my mail and warming up the car from time to time, so I assumed the virus could have been lingering out in the air because of me being out there) she then told me that "the offer still stands" and to please ask her without any hesitation. After our conversation through text, the fact my crush texted me, offered to bring me food, and checked up on me routinely afterwards really uplifted me and gave my hope that no matter what happened I would be ok because there are people who care about me.
Fast forward, my parents came out of the hospital and one by one came home. She still texted me and asked me how my parents were doing. Everything was slowly coming back to normal. At the end, they came back and I was able to go back to school and work. When I came back she came up to me and asked me how I was doing and we had 1-2 minute conversation.
I knew I had to give her something back, so I decided to buy a thank you card and wrote something in it. I think it was the best I could do (originally I wanted to ask her out but I thought that was really to soon) 2 weeks go by and I finally got the card, wrote a few words in it, and gave it to her after school. I was going to tell her a few things once I gave her the card but she ended the conversation very short and abruptly (she had to go elsewhere to see a teacher of hers) i was at peace, knowing in my mind that I gave her the card and I had done my part. Later that day she texted me and thanked me for the card and she apologized for ending our conversation very abruptly. I told her no worries and I texted her about how much of an impact she had on me, her reaching out gave me hope and reassurance. I told her she's got a friend in me and whatever she needs I will be there anytime she needed it.
Now we arrive to the present, here's the issue, I wanted to ask her to prom, however, a friend of mine who knows her more than I probably do, asked her if she already had a dress and so on. She told my friend that she did buy a dress and that she was going with a guy friend of hers only as "friends". That bumped me out but I still have hope right now. What should I do? I was thinking about asking her out instead of asking her to prom (obviously) or just try to get to know her more and become more comfortable with eachother. Thoughts and advice? Let me know. If you're still here reading this...Thank-you I know it was lengthy. | Crush |
Basically there was this event thingy in my school where we can send love letters to our crushes, but what I didn't know is that it was gonna be announced publicly...
I wrote a whole paper long of a letter and it got posted on twitter, they posted it through 4 PICTURES because my letter couldn't fit into just onee. I WAS SOO EMBARASSED and was so worried of the girl I sent it too cuz it was supposed to be a private thing but now everyone in our school knows what I did.
And the girl I sent the letter to had a boyfriend so I got friend zoned. | Crush |
So the other day I asked out my crush and you will never believe what she said...
She said No | Crush |
Hello, so i met this girl in uni and we've been together a couple times even with the quarentine situation, we started talking online and text and one i slept at her house once (nothing sexual), we cuddled kissed laughed watched movies and it was all great. We had a really good time overall. After that we were not able to be together anymore, but still talked until 4/5 am often, flirting and teasing eachother, we planned to go to places when the lockdown is over. We kept talking through text, voice messages and that, but i feel like she is not that interested in me anymore. Did i do something wrong or is it just nothing to worry about? I might be overthinking this a lot but i just can't help it during this time while im stuck at home.
I've been really depressed and sad because we can't meet up and i've been developing these feelings for her but don't want to to it "virtually", this really fucks me up every single day | Crush |
Have you guys ever ghosted a girl for some reason but then you started talking (having feelings) again? If so, what would have/made you done it? | Crush |
So, this is my first post and I’ve had this huge crush on [this](https://www.reddit.com/user/me) user for a while now. I don’t wanna post their u/ because it’ll just notify them.
Idk why but I just felt like i needed to tell some people that I like them before I tell them | Crush |
I’ve had a girlfriend before so I’m not weird about it and I kinda know how to flirt but there’s this really pretty girl that goes to my school and I see her sometimes but she’s on 11th grade and I’m on 10th so we don’t have any classes together but I sometimes see her in the halls or outside of school and I wanna start talking to her and become her friend so I can later try dating her but idk how to start that friendship, I don’t have her on snap so we don’t know eachother at all but yea if someone could help that would mean a lot | Crush |
(f16)We were pretty good friends. At the time, I was talking to another guy so I didn’t see my current crush(m16) as anything more than a friend. He’s really shy but he’d go out of his way to tease me and do other things that I look back on now and realize that he most likely liked me. We never talked much online and strictly only talked in person which sucks because this was all happening right before lockdown and now it’s weird for me to just hit him up.
I’ve liked him since April and I haven’t plucked up the courage to talk to him since March 2020 and I don’t know how to start the conversation. I’m scared he’ll think I’m being annoying or desperate. I also haven’t talked to him because I don’t want to mess this up for me as I really really like him.
What should I do?? How do I start a convo where he won’t think it’s random or weird? What do I say him to peak his interest in me? | Crush |
Let’s say you talked with this person everyday in person and considered them as a good friend and borderline crush, whom you got along great with. But the catch is that you never really talked with them over text. So you haven’t interacted at all for almost a year because of covid.
Would you still have a crush on them even if you haven’t talked because of covid/lockdown?
Would you be interested again in them if they suddenly showed interest after all this time? | Crush |
I think one of my coworkers has a crush on me and he says things in an attempt to make me jealous. But it’s a little weird, sometimes it’s too much and becomes more discouraging than anything. He asked me to be his valentine or hinted at it shyly so I’m pretty sure he’s into me, but he tends to talk about his ex and other girls he finds attractive often. He also talks more about himself and his successes (sounds like he’s trying to impress me) rather than asking me anything about myself or my life. Either way, thanks for any input! | Crush |
yes i know i said i would move on, but we talked and i ended up confessing to him, he said he felt the same and yes he was acting rude but he had a reason to | Crush |
I wanna send my crush flowers on Val’s day but I don’t know where she lives! We’re both in the UK
How do I get round this? | Crush |
I’ve been crushing on my coworker for years. I’ve finally gotten the nerve to tell a very FEW people after he started showing a few signs that he likes me back.
One of those people that I told is a really good friend of his, and I thought she was mine too. But after I told her, she started hanging around more often after he got off work. She found out that our schedule has temporarily changed (event ends at 12, he can leave once he’s finished cleaning; I don’t go in until 12:30). We used to both get off after 12.
Ever since she found out, she’s been staying and talking to him at her car until after I show up. My mom thinks that she’s trying to show that he doesn’t like me. But, my crush has been doing things that make me think the opposite:
- he always took his stuff to his car, cleaned, then went home. now he leaves his stuff by me / in my sight, cleans, then packs up and leaves
- he’s been more flirty with me and tries to be macho (he’s a sensitive guy, so it doesn’t last very long)
- if he likes her, and doesn’t want me to like him, why doesn’t he just go out the back way and take his stuff with him ahead of time so he doesn’t seem me? | Crush |
I’ve been crushing on my coworker for years. I’ve finally gotten the nerve to tell a very FEW people after he started showing a few signs that he likes me back.
One of those people that I told is a really good friend of his, and I thought she was mine too. But after I told her, she started hanging around more often after he got off work. She found out that our schedule has temporarily changed (event ends at 12, he can leave once he’s finished cleaning; I don’t go in until 12:30). We used to both get off after 12.
Ever since she found out, she’s been staying and talking to him at her car until after I show up. My mom thinks that she’s trying to show that he doesn’t like me. But, my crush has been doing things that make me think the opposite:
- he always took his stuff to his car, cleaned, then went home. now he leaves his stuff by me / in my sight, cleans, then packs up and leaves
- he’s been more flirty with me and tries to be macho (he’s a sensitive guy, so it doesn’t last very long)
- if he likes her, and doesn’t want me to like him, why doesn’t he just go out the back way and take his stuff with him ahead of time so he doesn’t seem me? | Crush |
she said yes but it's become another issue. She says that she's okay with me liking her but she feels like she can't return those feelings. It's hard for her and she thinks that she gonna push me away. She suffers from depression and has a broken household. But when she's happy she makes me so happy. So I challenged her that I could get her to have real feelings again..... But I don't know exactly how I supposed to do that... It's not hard to make her smile but to make her love again... She always crawls away and hides. I don't wanna break the relationship we have but I don't know exactly how I'm supposed to make her happy........ Any thoughts guys??? | Crush |
Last time when I was here, almost an year back, I thought it will pass. I was trying hard to get him off my mind, since he was taken..
But the feeling. It wasn't letting me go.
I swear I tried so very hard...
But it never did left me...
With time the fondness and liking just keep growing like a mouldy bread. And now it's just broken like some shattered pieces of mirror.
And yeah despite knowing what he thinks of me, I said it.
And didn't even have the courage to ask if he felt the same about me EVER..
And, yeah I did mention that I know it's never gonna happen between us.💔
And he said that he understands how I feel. And said these things happen. It's only natural and that he ain't judging me.
I was crying inside my head.😓
If only he could have just said that he once maybe for a moment felt the same.
The rejection would have been a lot easier.😭
Guess it's never easy to say goodbye and a piece of my heart will always best for him💕 | Crush |
So I met this girl on tinder in september and went on 2 dates in october but the I was getting to needy and messed up. I started snaping and texting her like 2 weeks ago and everything seems fine like she replies within 20min and is aking me about school and I was wondering if it would be ok to send her this as a text message:🌹🍫 the 14th. Or is that to much? | Crush |
This girl that I like went out of her way to add me on social media, texted first and everything. We talked quite frequently then I feel like I screwed up somehow as all of a sudden she stopped texting so frequently. We knew each other irl before this. What can I do now. | Crush |
I looked back to the first post I made on Reddit which was on a similar Subreddit to this and there was an edit that I wrote a couple minutes after I called and got rejected by the girl I like
It’s possible that I’ve spend 1.5 years thinking I got rejected when in reality I just got a “now isn’t a good time” and a “maybe later”
The situation between me and her has changed a lot since then (for the better) , but it’s not a no | Crush |
I’m asking out my crush in person(and I’m a girl) because he made a move already, when I wasn’t ready to date. Anyway I need some advice how do I do it?! | Crush |
I have had a crush on this guy since October, when he first started talking to me, and I really like him. We have texted only a few times, but when we did we texted for 2-3 hours every time but now its usually broken up texts and we haven't talked much. We also had our seats changed and he hasn't asked how my day was so im afraid he was just being polite and didn't like me back.
Anyways, the big problem is how im gonna confess. I thought about giving him ice cream with a note taped to it, but since we are in school it would melt, so now im gonna try giving him his favorite candy. But I have been stuck on writing the note. I really care about him and I think he's really cute and that he is a wonderful person so I want it to be perfect without it being casual or too wordy.
So if anyone has any ideas please let me know and if you need additional info I will do my best to provide it while letting him remain anonymous | Crush |
I wanna pop the question to him but I’m too much of a pussy to- I think I upset him last night too 🤠 cause he kinda went to bed w/o saying goodnight back :c also I’m unsure if he likes me or the fact that I flirt back maybe I’m just a clown 🤡🤡 ffs I like him sm makes me want to scream cause I should be worrying more over maths than my feelings | Crush |
https://youtu.be/PeVVFy1iPuo | Crush |
I had a crush on this girl since first grade And I told her I liked her in 7th. She rejected me, (big surprise) I was always nice to her and she became a b!tch. She started screenshotting our conversation and this B!tch actually recorded our in person conversation on her phone and she posted it on her Instagram and Snap. So I talked to my closest friend, and I showed him a picture or her that my friend sent me and he said she looked like a beaver. My friend came up with the idea that she is beaver, I photoshopped her head on a beaver body. I posted it on my Instagram and snap. Her friends started spam messaging me and I kept saying, She is the one that posted our text message conversations and recorded our in person conversation on her phone. they said so what? I said that is personal and I have the right to be mad. So all of her friends showed he the picture I made. Her parents actually reported me to the police for Cyberbullying. I was freaking out at first but then I realized I know almost every police officer in my old town. The police asked me and her what happened and I actually screenshotted her instagram and snapchat story on my phone so I had evidence. I showed them the video and screenshots. and she showed the photo I made. I hade the date on the videos and screenshots. I made that photo the day after she posted that. Her family was forced to pay a fine. I can't believe it went from me liking her to telling her I like her to her posting videos and screenshots of our convos, to me photo shopping her head on a beaver body. this has been one heck of a story. thank god it is all over now. lol | Crush |
I need your help. My school are doing these valentine letters where you can do these letter for your best friend and crush, I have a crush who's phone number I just got. Should I make the letter for her? And is it incredibly risky? | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy that’s in one of my classes, he’s quiet (but we’ve talked a few times) I want to talk to him and see how everything goes and see if he wants to be in a relationship with me. Do y’all got any advice on what I should say to him? | Crush |
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Introduction:
I am currently a 12 year old male, and in 7th grade (basically 8th because of me being in all honors classes) It’s been about 2 years since I’ve had a crush on this girl. She is pretty, but I’m mostly crushing on her because of her personality. She seems nice and is also calm. For now I will nickname her as “G”.
5th Grade:
On the first day of school, I had a crush on G on sight. The entire year was basically me making a bad impression of myself now.
6th Grade:
I didn’t really have a crush on G this entire year, but every time I approached or saw her, I would just feel intimidated and pain from 5th grade cringe. I also started to develop awkwardness when speaking to girls. Later in the 6th grade, quarantine started and I was assigned a group project with G and 2 of her friends, and also my own friend was in the project. This group project might’ve just made me look like a better person, but I was also still having some trouble talking to them. Eventually I got somewhat comfortable speaking to her later in the project but didn’t get to consider her as a friend yet. Quarantine also affected the project, which was a good thing.
7th Grade:
It is physically impossible to speak most girls without nearly getting caught feeling awkward. The crush redeveloped itself in the past 4 days and I don’t know if I should start developing a friendship with her yet and then wait it out until 8th or 9th grade.
Wrapping Things Up:
All I want from G is at least a hug. If Reddit says I should start a conversation with her, I need one more things before starting conversation. How would I start a conversation because I have last spoken to her in 6th grade. | Crush |
hey gals,
are you asking yourself this question: Does my crush like me back? this [does he like me back quiz](https://quizlagoon.com/quiz/does-he-like-me-quiz/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=Joni&utm_campaign=doesHeLikeMe) will tell you!
Good luck!!! | Crush |
For reference I'm a guy she's a girl and she's liked me since 5th grade We are freshman now I've friend zoned her since 5th. I recently got a girlfriend and they seemed to hit it off pretty well they talked over text but they both said they liked talking to each other. So at the end of school I'm standing near the stairs talking to a friend at the bottom of the stairs. He walks off and before I walk away she pushes me down. Like she meant to hurt me. I grabbed the rail right before my head hit the stairs. If I didn't catch myself I would have cracked my skull open and probably have died because no teachers were around and only three people were in the hallway away from me. She ran off laughing and I slowly pulled myself up almost completely horizontal with the stairs. if I would have had my backpack on I would not have been able to catch myself in time. I have decided to never talk to her again and stay away from her as much as possible. This happened on Friday I don't know what's going to go down on Monday but if I need to break somebody's neck I'm in that kind of mood.
Feel free to ask me any questions in the comments I'm okay with anything. | Crush |
<I posted this in both the sub reddits, because I am that confused:D>
umm so well, this my first time posting on this sub reddit(I'm sure it won't be the last lol), and it's because I have a crush. Well my crush is like your typical popular guy- cool, hot, handsome, good at studies, smart, witty, funny- he has it all. And he's really sarcastic and umm a bit of an asshole. Like he's a bit of a bully, and he's just like a total bad guy you can't help not liking.
*~~But I like it rough;)~~*
Anyways, he's in my school and since every thing is online, there's a discord server just for our school peeps. He's a grade older than me and I'm pretty sure he hates me:D
The thing is, he's a bit of a playboy and he has like lots of girlfriends at the same time- and that isn't even the problem. I'm so in love with him, that I don't even mind being the side chick or whatever
What i wanna ask is, How do I get his attention in the server, like online? I don't know what types of girls he likes, and I'm just way too shy to talk to him (I talk to everyone but him lol) so I will never ever ask him out lol. **Any insight would be appreciated!**
I'm in a bit of a rut because every little thing he does or says turns me on:(
**Pls help:D** | Crush |
bcuz of a stupid joke.I was talking to her for 3 months she was giving me hints that she wants to date me(through memes) and I was like ok..Since she loves memes and I was kinda falling in love I sent her the meme where the guy throws gang signs to a girl thats deaf and uses sign laungage and said "this is us" she ghosted me.Later when we talked she said she found it offensive for some reason and thats why she ghosted me for 2 weeks.Literally bcuz of a joke,and after another arguement she said she only finds me funny(I tought she meant Im only good for entertainment)and that she doesnt rly like me and we aint on the same page.I was kinda hurt so I said "ok then talk to someome else" and blocked her.I was literally giving her all my attention she told me deep shit and genuinely expressed she likes me many times but she does me like this?Thats what I tought before I blocked her.Im rly in love with her and think this could work but I have no idea how.Any advice Im in quarantine and think about this sh*t 24/7 | Crush |
Hello, I know this girl from TikTok and I've never seen such a beautiful girl in a long time. Luckily we live in the same country but unfortunately I am very shy and inexperienced in texting or talking with girls I really like. So if somebody wants to help me or give me some advices, how to text this real beauty to make a good first impression, I'd really appreciate that. | Crush |
It seems like my crush has no problem talking to any other girl. He will crack jokes and keep the conversation going. When he talks to me he doesn't really talk. I will be the one talking and it just seems like he listens. He will occasionally crack a joke or be witty, but not like how he does with other girls. I am so bad about reading guys hints/clues or whatever. Does this mean he might like me or just that he doesn't like me and wants to keep the conversation short? | Crush |
I know this guy since 2013, we used go to the same tution. Let’s call him A.
I developed a crush on him on the very first day I saw him. It was a rainy afternoon/evening. I still remember he was wearing a grey t-shirt with dark blue sleeves. He always looked cute and there is something about his eyes that made me fall for him.
After our class was over, all of the students left and we both were waiting for our parents to pick us up. I didn’t have the courage to ask him name, but 13 year old me found it so romantic to wait with him in the rain.
(8 years have passed and the guy still makes me feel the same way.)
A year later and half later, I left the tution and I kind of forgot about him. That’s when a common friend of ours, told me that he liked me too.(2015)
Because our school was close by and we had a lot of inter school events, both of us were in sports too, we ran into each other now and then.
But never really had a conversation with each other.
In 2016, I was about to leave for my boarding school and I put up an update on Facebook.
He pinged me, we had a little chat and he subtly tried to convince me not to leave.
I was supposed to leave the next day and I did.
Whenever I was back in town, he asked me why didn’t I let him know that I was there or suggested to meet him.
After my almost an year, I met him. It was a very short meet but that was first time when we actually talked in person. ( Ik that’s weird )
A few months later, he got into a relationship with someone else and weird enough I also started seeing someone.
He dated her for about an year and I dated this guy for more than 3 years.(2017-2020)
I broke up during lockdown.
I started texting A in lockdown when I needed stuff. (We both started smoking after I left for
boarding and he for college)
I had lost all feelings for him and all the meets were very short and platonic.
I really didn’t feel anything for him.
But one day he tried to ask me hang out when we were in his car going to get stuff, he was kinda hesitant because his cousin was there with us( who is my very very close childhood friend, let’s call her S)
S had to go home early that day.
He was like ,” Do you too need to leave early?”
I told him no but I also diverted the topic like an idiot.
When I went back, I texted him about hanging out together, he said he wanted to ask me but he didn’t know how to.That’s when we started hanging out together, it went from once in two week from twice each week.
We used to smoke up together and drive around the town and in the outskirts and also along the river. I felt like I am in a Rom-Com. He was always sweet and very chilvaric towards me.
I get cold and feel cold alot.
He closed the windows without me telling that I am cold, turned off AC when I was getting chilly, he even checked if I was feverish.
All this happened and I didn’t realise I was falling for him again. I thought he was just being good to me like any other chivalrous man would be. (Yes, ‘man’ , because now he is 21 and not 13 like back then)
But this one day, we were smoking up on the banks of the river and it was dark, only the lights in the highway was visible.
The cops saw us and we were in trouble, both of us were scared and tried to get out of the situation.
Luckily we managed to run away from them and get in his car, I was talking and hyperventilating about this situation. He was driving.
That’s when he held my hands and interlocking his fingers with mine. He didn’t say anything, I stopped talking too. It felt so intimate, I never felt so reassured without anyone speaking anything.
This is when I fell for him again. He too liked me I knew.
We continued meeting, talking and didn’t ever mentioned the hand holding incident. He always looked at me like he had something to say. I honestly didn’t realise I like him so much now, that’s when he said he’ll be leaving for his internship soon.
I didn’t ask him to stay, I didn’t even know if that was my place to say.
He said we should definitely meet one last time before he left. We obviously did, but we didn’t expect that to be our very last before he goes.
He leaves. And I realise that I really miss hanging out with him. We never texted so I felt weird to text him. Even though I tried to initiate conversation.
When it was all too much for me, I decided I’ll tell him that I like him. Which I did.
He told me he wished we had more time together, and he wished I told him this when he was here.
He was seeing someone else, He said he liked me too at a point but refrained from approaching as I was already trying to get over one relationship.
I don’t know if he did the right thing or not. I don’t know if he’s still someone or not.
What I know is that I really like this guy and these feelings that are in me for him for so many years are not just something.
He still replies to my stories, and he had asked if we could still be friends. I had said yes, ofcourse.
But in my heart I still like him, I hope if not think, that he likes me too.
When I had confessed that I like him, tbh it was very plain and weird, because I didn’t want him to think that I am obsessed with him. But in reality I am, there’s not a day or night that goes without me thinking about him.
I seriously think if “true love” exists that him for me.
Ik I might be being too dramatic, but please help me out. I feel that we belong together and that universe has brought us together and pulled us apart every time, for not being sure enough. I really wish that we meet again and I could tell him what I feel in person. But I really don’t know when will that happen? | Crush |
On my second week of texting my crush, I asked him to hangout. He said yes but then texted me saying “ this isn’t a date right, just two friends hanging out?” Of course i agreed that we’re just friends since he basically friend zoned me. We ended up canceling our plans later that day.
Few days later I started doubting that he actually wants to be friends with me( even though we’ve been texting for over a week ). I thought maybe he wants nothing to do with me but is just being a nice person. So I asked him if he is actually interested in being friends with me and he said yes. He apologized saying he is sorry if he gave off the wrong impression. He told told me all things that is currently happening in his life, he is very busy and stressed out and he also mentioned that he is not much of a texter but prefer talking over the phone. We text every day( I text 1st and start our conversations), he is very engaged in our conversations and always answers me and says whatever he wants.
I was talking to him 3 days ago and I asked him if he still have feelings for his ex( he told me about her before and other personal things, so I felt comfortable asking him) he said he still care for her and keep in touch with her. Ever since I learned that he’s still talking to his ex, I stopped texting him . I have not talked to him for 2 days and I miss our conversations. This week might be our 3rd week of talking to each other if one of us decides to reach out.
Should I stop talking to him and give up on him? | Crush |
Welll my crush is actually a stranger but we looked deep into eachothers eyes twice i barely see him because he goes to do a diffrent school he goes to a all boys school but i can tell he likes me but i really want to talk to him but i dont really know if thats possible | Crush |
I’m bad at telling stories so let me bullet point this real quick:
- I (22F) have a crush on a someone (23M) since high school (don’t get me wrong, I loved other ppl since then but when I see him my heart always goes boumboum yk)
- I was convinced he hated me but I tend to think everyone hates me tbh
- I moved after high school so we didn’t get to talk much, I was always the one texting him first
- But last September I learnt he moved literally 5mn away from where I live. I didn’t make a move bc of lockdown and depression
- Now the sun is out, I’m feeling better but lonelier than ever especially now that class is over
The point is, should I:
1) let him go, if he didn’t msg me he doesn’t want anything to do with me
2) text him casually, taking the risk of staying in that cycle where I text him a few times a year, out of despair lmao
3) end the cycle! Tell him we should go on a date and if I get rejected I can finally move on
You already guessed which one I wanna do but I wanna hear your thoughts, do I make sense? What would you think getting such a text?
Looking back, we were quite good friends, I think I underestimated my chances and myself back then.
Wdyt? | Crush |
How should I (20M)confess feelings for (20F) from my university? We kinda have a rocky relationship but we are study buddies with really good grades so i don’t want to lose that.
We never kissed but we did a lots of couple stuff (acting like her boyfriend in front a guy that likes her,sometimes puts her head on my shoulder...) but later on acts like she forgot.She is constantly jealous and pulls me passively away from other girls.And when I talk to girl that she gave me hint of hating her she doesn’t speak to me for a week only to hit me later with some dumb excuse.I need to constantly read her mood cause she acts really cold to me.
We went on few generic dates and had long phone calls,I met her sister,friends and even planned some trips in future.We are both single for a year now.She is league above me(She is lil bit popular and I was popular for being complete Idiot across schools and she probably thinks that too) and she even told me when we met first time that I am cute but not her type.
I am no better,when I complimented her I shut it off as fast as I can cause I was never in relationship before and don’t know how to progress further.
We are having fights all the time and even had one last week so I want to confess everything when we meet up again.
I am kinda desperate here cause I never went this deep with a girl(only fwbs and one nightstands) so I want to hear more different advices from girls that have same personality as her?
TL;DR:Love/hate relationship with cold study buddy that gets jealous all the time and is league above me when it comes to social status.She ,,forgets” romantic gestures she does for me and we have constant fights because of our communication inability.
Update:We are together! | Crush |
I haven’t talked to her in months( she’s a friend) but she texted me a simple hi really late at night. I texted her back after overthinking what I was gonna reply for hours(i replied with something simple) but she hasn’t responded back!! it’s not like she’s busy and MANY hours have passed, maybe she’s too depressed or what? I shouldn’t even like her:/ BUT I shouldn’t overthink it right. Does this just mean I don’t matter to them the same way? | Crush |
Building friendship with crush
Hi, I (40 yo m) have a crush with a guy (55 straight m) I’ve known for a while now and I’ve taken the initiative to see him more often at work (we’re colleagues). We have good rapport and I’d like to build up to the point were I can ask him to go for a beer and have a chance to chat outside of a work context. We always get along and I’ve messaged him a few times and he always responds positively, though he’s never messaged me first. I want to befriend him because we get on well and I’d like to expand my friend circle - my crush can remain a crush. Any advice on how/when to ask him if he wants to grab a beer one day after work without it sounding like a come on or a date? Thanks! | Crush |
So me and my best friend Ben have this friend named Chloe. The 3 of us are really close. The 3 of us all went to see Godzilla vs Kong recently with a couple of other friends. After the movie Chloe hugged me twice before leaving without hugging anyone else.
Now I have had a crush on Chloe for a while now. I guess i have just always felt close to her.
Anyway lately Ben has been shipping me and Chloe and we have been trying to figure out his goal. Well I found out what his goal is.
Ben likes Chloe too. He has been shipping us to hide the fact that he likes her. Now I have been planning to ask her out for quite a while now. Now I wouldn't feel right if I did.
Ben has been picked on by people his whole life. His parents have looked at him and told him he will never have a girlfriend because he is too much of an asshole (which yeah he can be at times) Part of me wants to be with Chloe, but another part of me wants to prove his dick head parents wrong and let him have a win for once.
I don't know what to do. I don't know if i should ask her out still or If i should let my best friend in the whole world go for her first. I'm not sure what to do. I have never loved anyone like I love Chloe, but I feel like If I go for her I am betraying my bestfriend.
Now me and Ben have talked about the situation and we pretty much just agreed to the terms of who goes for her first. He also told me he feels intimidated by me because of how much me and Chloe hangout lately.
I don't know what to do though so can someone please help me. | Crush |
He walks me to classes and asks me for hugs once in a while🥲also seems to be very caring and nice to me...it’s been at least two weeks and idk how to feel simply because I’ve never been treated like this:,)
Kinda forgot but he gives me origami flowers too😭and gave me one of his favorite origami idk | Crush |
Look... I'm 23 years old. He is 30. I know there's a little bit of age gap there. But I like this guy. But we just have met twice in person, and that cause of work. Our interactions have been more through texts.
We just meet maybe 1 or 2 times per week.
I put myself 3 week mark, to just know each other better. So I want to know stories.
I know it's impossible but I wanna try. | Crush |
So i’ve been talking to this girl since the beginning of December. She’s told me she’s like me before and stuff but just wasn’t ready for a relationship at the time. Well stuff went down and she’s currently 50/50 between continuing to talk to me or just ending things bc all her friends hate me bc they think i’m toxic for liking her this much. She said what they think impacts her decision but i’ve also been there for her through some stuff so that impacts it too. She told me today she’s starting to be ready for a relationship and is gonna start looking before leaving me on open. I really like her what do i do? | Crush |
I’ve never had a crush on anyone before until now. This girl is one of the prettiest and nicest people I’ve ever met. But there are two problems. Firstly she’s got a boyfriend that I’m friendly with, however he has said many times that he might break up with her and he’s so sick of her. Also me and her only really met this year and she loves calling me her brother or saying sibling goals whenever we take a photo together. Please can I get any advice as there is a senior dance coming up in 5 months that I would really like to take her to.
Thank you for listening to my rant and I really hope I can get some sort of help with my situation. | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy in my class and I don't know how to go talk to him. I even texted him once on snap and we had a really good conversation but he never tried to talk to me or even text me after. Does that mean that he does don't wanna talk to me or is it because he is just shy?? | Crush |
Im not nervous around him i dont look at him in the eyes anymore i act likr i dont care when im with him but ive been thinking of him a lot (this is weird) but i feel like kissing him, talking to him and just being his friends. | Crush |
I been best friends with this girl for 3-4 years and she means the world to me. I came out to her as Omni a few months back, she recently came out to me but she’s not quite sure what she is (and that’s fine!) since then we made a group chat with my crush, friend and I called the 3 muskequeers. The three of us FaceTimed and me and my crush got “married” we’re getting rings and everything but I’m not sure if she likes me like that.. I’m not even sure if I like her like that bc this would be my first time dating a girl, but I wanna get it out there.. what should I do. I really don’t wanna ruin our friendship bc she’s all I have left, we FaceTime every day and play Xbox together so I don’t wanna make it awkward. 😐 | Crush |
I wanted to get a decent idea of whether I’m friend zoned or she’s interested by saying “Could you ever see us dating” in a truth or dare game or something like that. Is that a good idea? | Crush |
What's the point of having a crush if your chances are 0.0001%. My crush is the most popular guy in school and he is the student council president. There are so many girls who are admiring him just as much as i do. Whenever someone triggers my oxytocin, i will think about that someone everytime non-stop. It's like a poisonous drug that will stop you from thinking about yourself and just to be a simp everyday. We are spending 24 hours, 1,440 minutes, and 86,400 seconds a day just to think about nonsense. Ngl It's hard to stop thinking about that person, it's like a drug that will make me happy, and sad at the same time. But it was an addicting wonderful feeling. | Crush |
so I (21F) am going to be moving in with a group of my friends this summer; it's going to be me, my female best friend and her two male friends that she had known previously from school. During the times that I have visited their house I realised that I was attracted to one of the two guys, but kept it bottled up. Recently she told me that apon moving in that I could have her old room as she usually sleeps in said guy's room, which of course left me feeling upset. I probably should just let my feelings for him go and stay cool, but I know this situation is going to affect me alot and I don't want it too. Any advice would be appreciated. | Crush |
So me and my best friend has known each other for years, but earlier this week, the boy she's been obsessing over asked me out. So what do I do? | Crush |
So i’m b(16) my crush is a girl (15) we are in 10th grade so we used to talk in middle school and she used to always let me sit at the lunch table with her and everytime she saw me she used to say hey friend and in 6 grade we was in the lunch line and she hugged me and my friends thought we were dating . In seventh grade she told me that she like my hair and its cute and at the end of seventh grade she stopped talking to me for no reason so on february 12 2020 i gave her a note and i asked her if she could be my valentine. she was smiling and she said that she was gone be my valentine but we not even dating and she said that she was gone text me and she dont have my number. | Crush |
I've known my current bestfriend (m,18), who's a year older to me for about 3 years now. We text daily and get along super well and over the past year, especially since the start of covid I feel like I may have a crush developing. Now I'm not sure if this is an actual crush cause I never ever thought of dating him before the covid situation happened. He's one of the only few people who lives in my area and thus can see from time to time in the pandemic and I really miss him on the days I dont see him or when we don't text but at the same time, in all honesty I'm not that physically attracted to him. We are super compatible when it comes to our personalities and the both of us have never dated anyone. He says he doesn't feel like dating anyone (but I feel like hes saying that more cause of his fear of rejection) and I despite of a few proposals never really dated cause I didnt feel like I was ready to until now.
So now I'm really not sure if I should ask him out or not, I really want to be in a relationship and it may jsut be the desperation and my lack of options which is making me feel this way and like I said he is my bestfriend so I really don't want to ruin our friendship especially due to this. We used to playfully flirt a bit in the start and I did suspect that he did have atleast a mild crush on me before but i definitely wasnt interested then. Now l do drop some suggestive texts now from time to time to test the waters but its fizzled out really and I'm super confused about how I feel about him so please tell me what I should do in this situation. | Crush |
My crush and I have spoken for a while, we speak in real life as well as in texts but haven’t done anything alone or anything like that. She asked me to go to her birthday party in her backyard. (which I accepted). First, am I making progress or am I getting friendzoned, also, I likely won’t know anyone there except for her and it’ll most likely be majority girls, does anyone have any advice of what I should do? | Crush |
Okay so I’m in a class at school and this random guy texts me that he likes me. Obviously I rejected him and he sorta took things bad and said some « questionably mean » things about me. Flash forward to now, he apologized btw, and we sometimes talk. I’m starting to develop feelings for him but idk if I should tell him or not. Any thoughts? | Crush |
She told me she had a boyfriend via email. | Crush |
So I asked out my crush and she hasn't read my message fir a couple days I think she's seen it and was just like nope without telling me I also think she told everybody as people staring at me even though I asked her not to tell anyone | Crush |
Tomorrow I will ask my crush out an I have a small script in my head but I don’t know if I should say that she is cute or pretty.
Thank you! | Crush |
...i have a crush on a girl obviosly. Thats why im here. I am m12 in seventh grade. I finally gathered enough motivation to speak to her after a week:
Me: "hey ___, how's life?"
Girl: "good" *smiled and laughed a bit*
Me: "good"
*awkward silience*
So now i need more motivation | Crush |
Recently got a girls number and asked her to hang out. She usually responds within 2-3hrs but now she hasn't responded in a day. What should I do? Should I double text? | Crush |
I’m (19F) I just asked my(24M) crush to go hiking together this Friday. He told me hiking is one of his favorite hobbies so I shoot my shot by asking him out. We are just beginning our second week of texting each other( as friends). I’m not sure if it’s too early to ask him to hangout but I did it!! He hasn’t replied to me yet and I am freaking out!! This is pretty new to me. I’m kinda expecting to get rejected because I’m not sure if he is actually interested in me or if he’s just being friendly.
Update: it’s been an hour and he still hasn’t replied, I’m starting to wonder if asking him out was a bad idea. He is probably thinking of ways to reject me.
Update: the guy agreed to hangout but, he made it clear to me that we are only hanging out as friends and that it’s not a date. I’m friend zoned. | Crush |
We were out at the store and some random loser said "I only need to buy some small thing" and winked right at the girl I told I have a crush on earlier.
I didnt really say anything but felt i should.
She looked away and didnt respond to him.
We just ignored him.
Anyway, we are planning on going out together tomorrow and tbh, I was asking her out on a date when she responded with let's be friends and hang like best friends but then invites me out the next day. So something is up between me and her.
Either way, she told me she hated that winking guy and I talked to her about it at the store. Obviously if she was my girlfriend I wouldn't let it slide. I told her it was a non sexual comment so nothing really needed to be said and though it made her feel uncomfortable so I made an internal rule to speak up more about this issue in the future as it happens. Anyway was it bad that i didnt speak up about it ?
I didnt even know anyone winked in the 21st century lol such a weird outdated expression | Crush |
Ok so me and this lady have been texting very funny very cool one but we are like very on and off never in a super serious way and we are kinda both into eachother and I want her but I feel like she’s kinda drifting away and stuff and talking to other dudes as she was like telling me that she wanted to go hang with some other dudes and I’m ok with that igs her life but I feel like she’s loosing interest | Crush |
I think this is a very impressive experience, because I am timid, low self-esteem, and dare not confess to someone I have a crush on. I have been in a crush for three years, and my heart beats faster every time I see him. But in the end I didn’t let him know, I really regret it, time has passed for a long time, and I feel a pity when I think about it. | Crush |
For context.
I'm currently a high school senior and there's this girl that I always kind of had a crush on. I had a class with her last year but never really said anything to her because I'm a shy person. When senior year started, I saw her Instagram in my suggested along with her Snapchat and my friend encouraged me to add her and start a streak to build something with her.
I did and now we have 241 streaks, but most of the time it feels so artificial since I never really talk to her on there. Most of the time she doesn't open my snaps or she would leave me on open for a long time, and I don't think she even knows who I am and that she just does it for the "points". Like today she did the same thing and I'm currently 6 hours away from losing a streak and don't know if it's disrespectful to myself to try to send another one to maintain the streak. But the more I grow up, the more I realize that streaks don't really matter because it's about actually talking to the person. I kinda feel I wasted so much time not actually talking to her this last year of high school.
What should I do?
Thanks in advance to whoever takes the time to answer this.
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/mzc5c1) | Crush |
ive been taken away from reality for a while now, locked up in my mind, day dreaming constantly. i only have a few friends, mostly online, however, one of my irl friends older brother (only by a year), i developed a crush on. yay... i explained a bit more previously, if u wanna look at that, i wanted to get over him, but someone encouraged to not(?), im not sure how to talk to him though, he has his friends, i have,, some, it would be akward if i spoke to him, also, hes my friends older brother, its not as if i could ask her for help | Crush |
(reposting here to reach a wider community)
Aight, we`re friendly with each other, we talk a tiny bit, we listen to each other, have similar interests and so on - but we arent friends, let alone close ones. Just looking for tips if im honest, to keep the convo alive (i start one but get brain freeze after a minute or so, if you get what i mean), to become someone that she trusts well. If you want more context I would check some other posts I've made - if I put it here then your fingers would get knackered from scrolling :P Thanks for reading and stay safe :) | Crush |
So after i told my crush i liked her and she rejected me(read the last posts) it was fine at first. I wast very sad but now im braking down. For the 2 mounts that i liked her she was very nice me, i fact she always cuddled with me and ignored the other friends,and whenever something goes wrong she will always ask me for help. She also said that im the sexiest boy from the group and it was Just obvious that she liked me more than anyone from the people we hang out with. I couldn't stop thinking about her, she was 24/7 on my mind. I prayed to god every fucking day and even god himself didnt help me. We used to smoke weed together too and when she said that she want to stop i also stoped taking drugs and drinking so i can be a better person and i really changed a lot because of her. We met each other and the Cafe today (we used to hang out there everyday) and just hard ignored me and didnt even say hi to me(keep in mind she said that she still wanted to be friends) and still, i dont want to lose her, i want to make the things right and be with her. Do u guys have any tips on what i should do because i just really cant move on im fucking depressed rn i feel like shit and have 0 motivation. | Crush |
For context.
I'm currently a high school senior and there's this girl that I always kind of had a crush on. I had a class with her last year but never really said anything to her because I'm a shy person. When senior year started, I saw her Instagram in my suggested along with her Snapchat and my friend encouraged me to add her and start a streak to build something with her.
I did and now we have 241 streaks, but most of the time it feels so artificial since I never really talk to her on there. Most of the time she doesn't open my snaps or she would leave me on open for a long time, and I don't think she even knows who I am and that she just does it for the "points". Like today she did the same thing and I'm currently 6 hours away from losing a streak and don't know if it's disrespectful to myself to try to send another one to maintain the streak. But the more I grow up, the more I realize that streaks don't really matter because it's about actually talking to the person. I kinda feel I wasted so much time not actually talking to her this last year of high school.
What should I do?
Thanks in advance to whoever takes the time to answer this. | Crush |
So me and this girl we kinda flirt here and there we are coworkers. Sometimes she will ask for help and then give me this look and say “thank you bro” I don’t know if that should be considered friendzoning or not I need some help | Crush |
We've known each other through Discord for the last 6 months. We've shared personal stuff, I've been as nice as I can to him and he's been super nice to me. No one has ever been this nice to me my entire life, so I'm not sure how to feel. Whenever I think of him my heart gets all fluttery. As far as I know, he only thinks of me as a good friend, and as far as he knows I think of him as the same. There's a 5 year age difference. We live 1000 miles away. I don't think he's in a relationship right now as he just got out of one, but I can't be sure. Am I thinking of this as more than it is? I don't want to risk damaging our friendship but I can't help but feel this way. | Crush |
There is this girl I like and we’re quite good friends but I can’t stop thinking about her and I want to spend every minute with her.
I do want to tell her I like her but I don’t want to ruin our friendship and make things awkward. But the weirdest thing is I’m more afraid of her saying yes than no.
What do I do? | Crush |
is that goes the same if you like a girl or if you have a crush? | Crush |
Yesterday i posted that i will ask my long time crush that i like her in person. Well.. I tried to say it to her on person but it Just couldn't happen cuz she cant leave her home she got some problems. So i just said it fuck it i will tell her tonight i did text her that i really liked her. She said that she didnt like back but what made me feel better is that she is understanding and she said that its not my faulth and she Just didnt want a relationship since her ex really broke her heart. I really dont know what to do now i dont think i will get over her but at least we are still friends.. | Crush |
A senior in my college told me "please don't call me bro", when I casually called him bro while texting. He said you can call me by my name but not bro( we are supposed call our seniors sir, ma'am in my clg). He told me I'm the prettiest in my class many times and also said he can't be happy if I'm sad. He said he can't see me going through any bad shit and it literally breaks his heart. I thought he just liked me as a friend. But now all those flashbacks are hitting suddenly at a time. Does this mean he likes me ?? | Crush |
Hey guys! I'm new to this so I hope this is how it works😅 I was watching a video about how to stop overthinking (😅first time too) and they mentioned Reddit so here I am!
I have a tendency to overanalyse EVERYTHING. And it's draining. I feel like whenever something is going good, I immediately start overthinking and it ruined it. There's so much that goes into it which I can't quite put down now. But it has made me doubt my feelings, terrified of hurting the other person, wonder if it's a good idea, question why I even like them, have an interest in someone else (I swear this happens EVERY TIME), it always sabotages my crushes/feelings. And I don't know what to do anymore. I used to think I didn't get crushes, and I started (pretty late) I actually wondered if I was aromantic for a while, but I did have feelings in the end. And recently, met someone, we really got to know each other in a matter of days, and I started developing feelings (I know this sounds insane, and I'm totally opposed to the idea of falling in love super fast, but we had super deep conversations and would go on long walks, it was just like a movie I realise XD it's crazy) and for ONCE I didn't question anything. I just knew. And I was over the moon! But then confinement struck again and we didn't see each other for a week. I kept blocking the thoughts out, like "no. You're sure this time, remember? Don't doubt." And then we saw each other and admitted our feelings for each other, we kissed,... And are now dating, but it's still confinement, and I haven't seen him since. I'm now suuuper overthinking it, and wondering if even have feelings at all. And.. two days ago, I started feeling like I had feelings for someone else (who I know waaayy better, and I already had feelings for them in the past, but I ruined it.. obvs, with the overthinking (he also has feelings for me)) and now I really want to be with him, but I haven't seen either of them. (I've also been terrified of starting something with someone cos I know my feelings won't last.) My feelings are never consistent. (PS: The worst thing is that the other person's feelings are always consistent, and other ppl will probably be like "it's not the right person", but I've recognised patterns in my thinking. And there's sooo much more to delve into.)
SOS | Crush |
So I (17M) met this girl (15F) around the end of 2018. We started off on the wrong foot and we briefly hated each other, but we eventually settled our differences and later on became great friends, which eventually turned into a crush.
After a while, I realized I was in love. I never felt this way about a girl ever. She has always given me mixed signals, so I could never tell if she liked me or not.
When we started high school in 2019, we went to different schools, but I still couldn't get over her. We stayed in touch with each other and we chatted every so often. I never knew how to tell her that I was still in love with her.
Eventually, we ceased all contact with each other and I got over her for a significant period of time. We later reconnected in March 2020.
Then, the pandemic hit. We had started talking a lot during quarantine and I started liking her again. I told her how I felt, but she left me on read :( People told me I should just move on and that it'll never happen, but I just couldn't leave her alone.
I eventually got over her again for practically the rest of the year, but started liking her again around November 2020. She became aware of this and she admitted that she has always had feelings for me and basically felt the EXACT same way I felt about her. I used this opportunity to finally make a move, but once again, she left me on read.
That brings us to today, where we now have mixed feelings about each other. Some days she wants to talk to me, other days she wants absolutely nothing to do with me and act like she hates me. I've talked to other girls in between these times, but they never lasted as they weren't compatible.
Is there still a chance that me and her could happen? And if so, how do I act on these feelings knowing everything we've been through these past few years? Should I just move on and let go of her for good? I'm stuck. I need advice. | Crush |
I’m not sure if this is like an infatuation or just a really bad crush but I can’t not think about her. I’m in Texas and she’s in Illinois so you can imagine how dumb I feel for liking her. We met on Snapchat (funny story, we met because I was trying to get closer to a previous crush) and now she’s like one of the only people I snap. I don’t get a lot of notifications, so whenever she sends me a snap I get excited lol. We snap a lot on the weekends (like almost constantly) and on school days she snaps me after school (so like 8 hours after I wake up, which is kind of depressing haha). I figured out she was ignoring my snaps a while ago and also I get incredibly, unjustifiably jealous when she talks to other guys. I know that’s terrible. I also noticed that I’m almost always the one starting the conversation, so when it feels like we talk a lot, that’s basically just me talking to her and not the other way around. I have to stop liking her. Keep in mind this is an online friendship. Also, I don’t wanna block her because I know I’ll end up coming back. I think part of the problem is that I’m bored of quarantine so that makes me more focused on my crush. Sorry about the long post, but I think that’s tradition out here lol. | Crush |
What does it mean when a shy guy who never got shy infront you starts getting shy infront of you ik this is a weird but like I need advice | Crush |
when she is at a party and takes time to talk to you and hits you with the double snap🥰 | Crush |
I have in love with her for 2 mounts now. my friends and everybody knows expect her. also i feel like she likes me a lil bit too but im not sure. Im Just gonna call her to come with me somewhere so its just me and her and i will finaly say what i have to say. Im really good at hiding my feelings, i May be crazy in love but you will never notice until i told u lol. Idk im really nerveus its basically now or never im tired of of hiding it and i think u guys should do that too. Wish me all luck and if u have some advice like, What words should i use and what to say to her cuz im really scared.. | Crush |
I had a crush on a guy friend (we met on tinder and developed a friendship) and have been talking since Aug last year. I confessed my emotions to him in Dec and he didn't feel the same way. We're still friends and text regularly and plan to hang out soon.
He told one of my acquaintances that he thinks I'm "an angel" and "a gem" and doesn't see me as anything more as a friend because he's emotionally unavailable due to his horrible past relationships. Idk how strong my feelings for him are - pretty confused but i know if he liked someone else i would be sad. Should I distance myself? Should I continue as if I don't feel anything? I would be open to something more but I know I have to take care of my own emotions too...what should i do? :/// | Crush |
So... Ummmm... Another long post. I'm posting here as well as r/crushes for more advice.
Firstly, why?! I mean, if I were my crush I think it would be pretty obvious that I like her, so that could be a reason. I'm certainly not that attractive (if I am at all), so 2-3 girls looking at me (always at break btw) is weird. This has only happened over the last couple days.
Secondly, Thursday and Friday were another band of mixed signals, we locked eyes *again* for around 6-8 seconds, and saw her looking at me several times before and after - even when in conversation with close friends...
I started a little back and forth, which lasted for 1 question from her and 1 answer from me.... Then she sped up and tried to run away subtly - something that I usually do to her for no reason now that I think about it.
Yet the day after she didn't look at me once, and joked around with all of her male friends (about 4-5). It was nice to see her happy, and good for her. And I should probably give her space - which I will. But you can see what happened to my perception of her feelings for me.
Anyways, thanks for reading through this slightly arrogant post, which is more of a novel by this point. Sorry if it came off like i only care for myself being with her and not for her *actual life.* I promise it's the opposite. Stay safe everyone. | Crush |
So i sent my crush a voice message and "accidentally" said at the end of it "love you". Now im kinda worried that she will find it weird and not cute as i thought. What do I do??? | Crush |
Crushing for a week . How do you maneuver through this ? Any suggestion is welcome...this person is way out of reach | Crush |
I've (F 17) liked this guy (M 17) for about 3 months now and he used to be super cool and fun, but now every time I talk to him he seems SO annoyed with me and like he doesn't want to be there, yet he'll still call me at least once a week to play games for hours. He is so unresponsive sometimes and always leaves dramatically (saying he'll never call me again or he'll block me) and blocked me as a joke and it took him 10 days to unblock me, he seems like he hates me all the time but no matter what happens, he always comes back and I honestly can't figure out why.
Like he will call me, we'll play games, it'll go great until the very end and he'll start acting like a dick and leave and make me feel like I did something wrong. Then he'll come back like if nothing happened.
He came and ate lunch with me but the entire time he couldn't hold eye contact and was fidgeting sO MUCH and was super quiet and I was just like bro... But he sat with me the entire time so...
And as soon as I'm about to drop him and be done with him, he's all of the sudden sO nice and is just the perfect person and will ask me how my day is and all this shit and so I give him another chance.
Literally someone please tell me wtf is going on :///
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UPDATE: he texted me and said that he "can't do this anymore lmao" and said I was cringy asf and weird in person and that I was a -7/10, and I said "woahh wait what" and his response to that was "that's all you say bc you know it's the truth".
What he said was really hurtful, and its making me feel terrible about myself. | Crush |
“I would spend hours in a gas station drink aisle to try and find a Coca-Cola with your name on it” | Crush |
I like this girl and she likes me, at least I think she stills does. I’m questioning because she has access to all her ex’s Instagram accounts and on one of his profile bio, she tags her own profile and the puts the 🌍💍💕 next to it, making it seem like he put that for her but it clearly is her who put that for herself on his profile. That’s what’s making me not ask her out because she’s not over her ex because of that. Any thoughts folks? | Crush |
Me and my crush were only communicating via email. She said she wanted to talk in person. We both are shy and dont want to embarrass ourselves. Motivation to actually speak to her in person? | Crush |
I feel like I’m getting over this guy called joe but every time I see him I feel the same way as I did when I had the biggest crush on him. Right now I miss him alot | Crush |
(For the sake of this im going to call my self Ryan)
Hi I'm Ryan. So until a few weeks ago I thought that I was Asexual because I had never had a crush on anyone before. Keep in mind I am in the 10th grade so I thought that if I was anything other than asexual then I would have felt something by then. Anyway though I have released that this is not the case. From what I can tell so far I am actually straight.
So a few weeks ago me and my friends who I will call Ben, Chloe, and Tyler all went to see Godzilla vs Kong. Ben i had seen somewhat recently but Chloe and Tyler it had been a while due to COVID-19. Lets just say I was excited to see them.
Me and Chloe got along really well. We had just gotten back in touch a few months earlier when we found each other on Discord. When I walked into the theater Chloe was already there. We chatted a bit and I was really starting to notice that she was actually very cute. I had never thought of her as anything but a friend before hand. When Ben and Tyler got there with the tickets they asked who wanted to sit by who. Chloe immediately yelled "Im sitting by Ryan." Ben then handed us our tickets. I sat in between Ben and Chloe.
There where some moments where I could hardly watch the movie because I just couldn't get her off my mind, but was mostly able to enjoy the movie. After a scene jammed packed with action she randomly high fived me. During the final battle Ben was upset at us because of how crazy excited by the action we were.
After the movie ended and we all got out of our seat and were about to walk towards the exit I felt a tap on my shoulder. It was Chloe. She then hugged me and I hugged her back. We went out to the lobby where her mom was waiting to pick her up. Her mom agreed to take a photo of the 4 of us. Chloe put her arm around me. Now i wanted to do the same but I didn't want to make it obvious that I liked her so I also put my other arm around Ben. As Chloe was about to go the two of us hugged one more time. No she didn't hug anyone else.
That night the four of us hoped on a discord call. Tyler greeted the 3 of us with a simple "Whats up Ben, Whats up Love Birds" Both of us were pretty pissed off at what he said. We both denied that we were dating (which we aren't) and denied that we liked each other in that way. Me and Chloe can talk for like hours if we are aloud to. We once spoke for 8 hours of the day. I am realizing that I like this girl and that I want to be with her.
I know it may pretty obvious that she likes me back with the hugging and insisting that she sits by me, but I am too afraid to tell her how I feel because of that 2% chance that she only likes me as a friend and that I that I will make things awkward between us. The two of us are very close and have similar interests and like the exact same personality. Another friend of ours named Elliot has a joke were he says we are ether soulmates or we were separated at birth and I can confirm that it is not the ladder.
I want to ask her out but I don't want to ruin what we have. I need advice. | Crush |
So I (F 17) started talking to an old friend (M 17) like 3 months ago. He seems really uninterested but then again, interested. Like as in he calls when it's convenient for him, but he does call at least once a week to play games and shit but he always leaves so dramatically and says he'll never call again lol (he blocked me one time "as a joke" so like I have no freaking idea what he's doing).
Anyways, we were getting closer and yesterday we went back to school for the first time and only 1/4 of the school is there, but he is in my group. He has no other friends there so I'm pretty much the only person he knows lol. Anyways he asked where i was eating lunch and actually came and sat with me but the ENTIRE TIME he was so bad at keeping eye contact, like, he didn't know where to look or something and he wouldn't say ANYTHING unless it was like an insult as a joke or something and was super quiet and just sat on his computer. And like idk if he's shy or just SUPER uninterested, but for some reason he did sit with me the entire time right up until the bell.
Anyways after school I saw him walking outside so I ran up to him and shoved his backpack and told him he was dumb lol and he was like "why are you talking to me" and i was like "cuz y not" and I ran away.
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so idk what he's doing and if there's anyone who knows if he hates me or is uninterested or just shy or something then idk lmk what yall think
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k ily all <3 | Crush |
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