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So I was having a crush on this girl for 3 months, she is my friend and somehow she started a relationship with one of my friends yesterday. I always knew there was a little spark between these two, but since yesterday I am not feeling well and I have some important exams coming up. I don't want to get her back or anything, I just want to be normal. If you all are asking "Why I didn't tell her" about this, She has been in a rough relationship for 4 years & she was on the way to her recovery and I didn't want to take away anything from her. The guy she is dating also has been created by some other girl and was suffering from the pain. He even tried to suicide and my crush has got into a relationship with him knowing that. Both of them look happy in this relationship and I don't want to ruin their moment. I want some advice to get over it, Hope you all can help me. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/PeVVFy1iPuo | Crush |
So my friend and I were playing around. I said, "Hey, i got an idea. Lets find out each others crush by telling them!"
He agreed, so we went on the [hunt.](https://hunt.it) It was just extremely awkward when we walked to the same girl.
He immediatly said, "I like you." She said, what a coincedence, I like you too!"
His face looked so conflicted it was almost funny. Almost. I just walked of before anything happened. They are dating now, and I still like her, but its just rellly sad. | Crush |
There is a girl in my office who shared eye contact with me for months. She was always tried to be close with me.
once I tried to talk to her. But she got scared I yhink. Her friend called me and ask why did I call her. I told her that I like her friend (my crush)
For some time I did not say anything or didnt show up at all.
After that she started to talk normal again.
Last week I met her and told that I like her and I cant hide that from her.
She was blushing.. she told me not to joke and she can't hear me in a very friendly way. I told I'm not joking.
Now she do not reply to my massages and bearly answer my calls. But when she does she talks in very loving way. But do not talk for very long or dont talk about the thing I said.
She atill shares eye contact with me and do not reject my little touches.
I'm very confused about her mixed signals. Do not know what to say anymore and how to follow-on.
Is it better to ask what she thinks or is it good to give her more time. But I cant stay away in the mean time. | Crush |
Hi I'm Rosa basically have a male friend and I have gone my entire life with no physical attention and basically want to ask this friend if he could cuddle me at night idk how to go about this as have slight feelings for him, I basically like being both genders born gender male but like being female on some days ie Rosa days Idk how to ask him for cuddles as I am very shy about it this is the only relavent place I could find to post this any advice? | Crush |
so... there's that guy i've liked for quite a while (lke half a year) and i can't really tell whether it's just a crush or i've fallen for him
it's not like i'm obsessed with him, that's why im not considering limerence . i can go for days without thinking about him, but than i start thinking about/talk with him and it just feels so good. like, i get this weird feeling like someone was taking care of me and after we do talk all i think about for next hour is how much i want to cuddle with him
i have no fricking idea how to spot the difference between those 2 states so plz can someone help me out? | Crush |
There is a girl who I will refer to as W. So basically I have had a crush on W since like July. We talk a lot and stuff. However, she has tried to get a relationship going 3x with this one guy. After the 3rd time, she realized that she was wasting her time since he was immature af. Anyway, she confides in me about a lot of stuff and she has hit me with some hard hitting stuff. She knew that I had a crush on her but she kept saying she didn’t feel the same way. However, after her 3rd breakup we had a deep convo because our friendship had kinda fallen apart. During it, she sang my praises and said i was her ideal guy. She then said she got mad at her friend when she said that she would make a move on me if she didn’t. We continue to talk and i really love her. But she seems to be against even talking to me at some points so i just don’t know what to do anymore. i want to date her and i don’t think she knows that i still feel that way. | Crush |
So I've had this crush on this guy since I was in school but kept it a secret for most of the time since I knew he had a crush on one of my friends (let's say friend A) and I didnt wanna make things awkward incase she liked him even though she always denied it.
Fast forward to last year I finally told my best friend (let's call her friend B) about this crush and whilst she she was suprised looking back she started to realise how I acted a bit differently around him. She encouraged me to maybe send him a text or smth but I found that a bit to awks since it may have been a few months since I last saw my crush.
Cause of covid I didnt really meet friend B a lot but on the third occasion that we hung out we were talking about relationships and she mentioned how my crush had sent her a drunk snapchat video of him at a party after that they talked a bit but when I joked about it she shrugged it off and said she was not interested in him and didnt really like him as a person, but told me that if I were to go out with him she would be fine with it (I'm assuming she said this as shes aware of the fact I have a crush on him)
Now skip to the end of the year we dont really talk about this guy much when we text each other and we're always constantly sending memes and messages to each other. On literally the last day of the year my cousin send me a screenshot of one of my crushes posts where he posted him and friend B and referred to her as his girlfriend.
It was a bit abrupt finding out about it like this and it felt like she was tryna keep it a secret when she told me and my friends on the gc that she didnt know he was gonna post those pics. (he then later deleted them) But she never mentioned anything to me about they're relationship from the last time we met and hasn't said anything to me after and I dont really know how to act.
My cousins say they would be pissed if they were me, and my coworkers said the same as it 'breaks girl code'. And I guess I am sort of mad at her, more for not telling me beforehand and not confronting me after. But I guess I'm also sort of jealous and uncomfortable that they're dating and I dont really know what to do. Maybe if i could get more opinions and advice on this situation. | Crush |
I like her a lot
Hey guys
So I (25M) like this girl (22F) a lot. We’ve spoken a bit in the past (i won’t give too many details on the minute chance that she reads this hahaha)
I hit her up after a long time of not speaking and she was so friendly and receptive towards my text. Even telling me she thinks about me sometimes.
Anyway fast forward a few months and we’re back to not speaking. I think about her ALL THE TIME, and I feel like she likes me.
I’d rather tell her how I feel in person, and in an organic manner rather than just rushed so I’m not sure what to do now. I just need a reason to message her and I will...
What do I do now? | Crush |
So I’m not sure if I have a crush on this guy or not, I mean everytime I talk to him I feel like I don’t have feelings for him, but when I don’t talk to him I gain all those feelings back :/ what does that mean , I don’t even see him that much cuz we live like 2 hours away from each other. | Crush |
For the past few months I have been flirting with my crush, she n I have gotten really chummy but I just found out a week ago that one of my best friend also likes her. The girl and I have been friends for so long and she tells me her deepest secrets, and I rarely feel this type of connection with a girl since my last relationship . What do I do? Do I need to tell my friend about it or do I just keep quiet? I feel so torn because I can see this going somewhere with the girl..... | Crush |
All I want to do is share every part of my self to my crush, and have them embrace me & worship me in love, and take me in and just meld our bodies together in bliss. | Crush |
I began a new job in Feb last year and a girl I liked was in my training group. We got on well and talked a lot during first month of training. 8 months she applied for a promotion and said she was leaving. I invited her out to the pub 1st time she said she had to go home but said maybe next week on her last day. I said kl and followed up and messaged her on my work chat and she said I need to take something back to shop before it closed sorry but said I'll msg you soon on work chat to meet up. I gave my number and she completely ignored it and never messaged not sure if she saved it or not though. A week later she messaged and said you wonna come for drinks in town I wasnt able to make it. But she messaged me 3 months later again on work chat out the blue saying how you doing? I thought she forgotten me. I would like to keep in touch even if it's only as friend what you guys think? | Crush |
Soo yeah its kinda a special post and I dont even know if it 100% fits here but Idk where else I should put it. Im sorry if it doesnt fit.
so
There is my ex-bestfriend who is toxic as hell.
He knew my feelings for a girl and that I would call her even more than just a crush if you know what I mean. Im extremely in love with her and he knows that. So they both didnt know each other and he knows that shes like everything to me. Then, he asked me after we all met for like 1 day for her number because he wanted to say thank you that her parents drove us home. I had negative feelings about it but I didnt care, he promised me multiple times its just an thank you so I said yes, I mean he is my best friend and barely knows her so why should he lie. Well this "Thank you" became him making us all meet more and more and I started to feel ignored by him. I asked him why he does this and he replied that its just some meetings and I shouldnt be afraid. Again, he promised me multiple times its nothing more than that. One day in school he accidently showed me the wrong chat and opened hers. Damn. He lied from the beginning. They started chatting everyday for 5 hours+ and he wrote this "I love you and you got me out of a bad time" stuff and so on and I got angry.
I asked him why he would lie to me. He said it just got like this and promised it wouldnt get more. And Im stupid, so I trusted him AGAIN. He was my best friend since 7 years why should he lie to me for a girl he knows since a month. Time went on, she ignores me for him and he completely replaced me. Again another broken promise. I told him how I felt, I felt really bad I had multiple mental breakdowns a day, my seld-confidence dropped to 0. I wasnt able to eat anymore, I wasnt able to sleep, if I did I didnt even want to stand up and just wanted to sleep more to forget this life. I even told him that I had you know what thoughts. So guess what he did, he ignored it, he did it more and more and it felt like I was nothing to him after all this years, he broke about 30 promises and even when I told him it wasnt easy to trust him anymore because he did it so often he didnt stop. It feels like he really tried to kill me. But thats not even everything, thats just our story.
Now theirs:
He told her that she got him out of a bad time and that shes the only person there for him and he wrote her poetic texts. It wouldnt be that much of a problem if he didnt lie, everything he said to her was lied. I know he never was in a bad time, he is friends with extremely many people who ask him how he is and so on, who are there for him. And those poetic texts are all stolen. He literally just stole them from the internet or even from his chat with other friends. He lies to her. And now she is in love with him. The problem isnt that im jealous and that I want to be with her, the problem is that he is toxic and will hurt her. Im not the first friend he just dropped, he did this to so many people before and espacially she is a person he will 1000% drop and hurt too. He ignored my feelings and like this he will ignore hers. I know that because hes done this stuff before.
im just so extremely afraid he will hurt her because I know he will im 100% sure I already gave him a chance and he already hurted her once.
I dont know what to do.
All her bestfriends have the same mindset as I do.
I dont wanna lose her and see her hurt. I already stopped her from smoking, she would probably start again and Im afraid.
help reddit, what should I do, tell her?
Bonus info:
I really know her since more than two years
him since 7 years
they both really know each other since 3 months.
idk if this will help but I hope so. | Crush |
So I asked out my crush a couple weeks ago and she said " I dont know man I really like you but at the same time I'm confused with my feelings how about we stay as friends for a bit longer then you can ask me"
It's been 3 weeks now should I ask her out now or wait? | Crush |
So my crush and I are speaking to each other a lot over app, but never really in person. And I want to open up to her but I just don't want to ruin our friendship. What do you think I should do.
Ps. See context in "I need help" | Crush |
I desperately want to ask my crush to hang out, but I legitimately get so terrified of hitting, "Send". Honestly, as I am typing this, I have sweaty palms. That's just how nervous and awkward I am. I've had a crush on her for well over a year now. And I really REALLY want to hang out and see if things go well. I havent crushed this hard for anyone in my life until meeting her.
Any suggestions?
Update: I sent a message. I'm now waiting for a response.
Update 2: Well, unfortunately, someone beat me to it. We agreed to stay friends and act like I didn't send the message. | Crush |
I know this sounds weird. But each day she's being extra nice to me, gives me goodbye kisses, goodnight hugs. I've know for a longtime (6 years). But I've never felt like this before. Everytime she's being extra nice and lovely to me my heart melts a little more. I think I'm in love with her. Should I open up about my feelings?? Or should I just leave it like this and not ruin a great friendship?? I'm confused guys. I need help | Crush |
I did it because I didn’t know what she sent and stressed a lot about it so I decided to leave it for a while and open when I’m ready but today the snap is gone... I searched google and it’s because the snap has been left on delivered for a month. I regret it now and I’ll never be able to see what she sent. Fuck. | Crush |
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**Intro:** Guys, I plan on evolving from Pick Up Artist into **Life Optimization Mentor.** Many of you misunderstand what being a Pick Up Artist is. Hence you assume that PUA's are **'living the high life.**' *When the reality couldn't be further from the truth.* Most high value guys who are living the high life are not out there publicizing their lifestyle. In fact, most high value guys live a low key lifestyle since publicizing it would hurt their image.
**1--Most PUA's are businessmen**
Hence most PUA's don't care about seduction neither about teaching students. PUA's only care about making a profit. I remember a couple of PUA's confessed to me that they didn't really care if their students got laid or not. The objective was to get their students to sign up for a bootcamp. Once the student was done the PUA would relax and don't even bother. In fact, I remember run into a popular 'Guru' at Santa Monica Pier. He was eat and drink his burger and beer, while his students were creeping girls out with by mass approaching.
2-**Most PUA culture and industry is toxic**
It's a Clown Show: Students bashing Students, Gurus bashing their students, Gurus bashing other Gurus, the media bashing PUA's. PUA's taking advantage of women, women taking advantage of students, PUA taking advantage of their students. I doubt any of you guys want to be associated with this type of culture and industry.
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PUA are not teaching you guys to make money. They don't care if you are broke or not. Hence, many times PUA's will talk about living in a friend's basement and closing girls there. Or sleeping in a couch couch and closing girls there. After awhile, you start to realize that what they are telling you this **fantastic stories for marketing purposes.** They use you won't improve your SMV hence they have to make it seem that improving your finances doesn't matter when it does.
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My ultimate goal for you guys who is his boss, no roommates, no neighbors, no boss, no supervisor. A man who doesn't even work since he lives off passive income. A man who owns **property**. I have an acquaintance of mine who throws his parties at his house. He invites as many women as he wants to party. In contrast, the PUA's I know have turned into scammers while they do PUA they are also doing all sort of petit scams to rip off poor and naive people.
**Conclusion**: I will continue helping you guys but now my main focus will be **Life Optimization**. Under that banner I will continue to tell you about optimizing your dating strategy. However, I don't think you should limit yourself to dating for the purpose of finding a long term girlfriend/wife. Instead, you should open your mind to other options, like FWB, the culture has tremendously changed.
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Idk really if people enjoy reading this stuff. If anyone is, I'd like to know your opinion on this too.
I met my crush earlier this year and she was everything I ever wanted to be. Smart, grounded, funny and supportive. I never got the courage to go up to her and tell her that I'm interested in her, but she gave me the courage to change myself and get my life in order. She was supposed to leave for her university in fall, but covid kept her back in town. And I got to talk to her over the phone and I realized just how much beautiful she is.
She became my source of positivity and a motivation to achieve better. And I did! I got an admission to my dream school, worked with researchers overseas, got a job in the field I liked.
I still hoped she would show any sort of interest if there is any, but I never got to see it. I even showered her a compliment about how smart she is, and she accepted it gracefully but it didn't show anything special. We're still friends. And tbh I have healed a lot in the time I got to know her. Now she leaves next week and I'm so so so proud of her. 6 months ago, I knew we would meet again, when I will be in a better state of mind and will be in a university too. But now, I'm not so sure. What if this was my last shot? I have met other people but no one sparked an interest like her.
And it's weird mentioning it rn, cuz anyone leaving to go to a university is anxious of what awaits them. They don't want to mess things up before they leave. Or leave weird memories. For one day, I just want to hold her adorable face between my hands and tell her that she is the most beautiful thing that ever happened to me, and that I don't want her to be just a chapter in my life. I don't like this change | Crush |
How do I give hints to a guy that won’t make things weird? Do I just be nice? Is there something that always works for other girls? Help please! | Crush |
This guy- I'm not sure if I had feelings for him or not- but I got butterflies whenever I talked to him and I couldn't get him off my mind. But the thing is that he had crushes, girlfriends, etc and I never got jealous of any of them. I genuinely did not feel the urge to break them up or anything, and I even helped him get with them.
I also did not get jealous of any of my crushes' girlfriends. My feelings were way more intense about the guy above, but the other I just felt were attractive and nice.
So could someone tell me what's going on?
(Btw he is the only person I felt this way about. Even now, 5 years later, he's still on my mind.) | Crush |
So I have this friend (21m) who is a notorious flirt in our circle and often causes arguments because of seeing multiple girls in the friendship group one after the other. Ill admit that I myself find him very attractive but I dont wanna be played like the other girls he talks to so I have just ignored my initial feelings for him in favour of us having a good friendship instead.
However, lately he has been behaving strangely towards me and I cant gauge whether or not he has developed his own feelings for me out of our good relationship as friends or if he has chosen me as his next conquest. Heres a list of the things he has said/done.
1. He speculated how good looking our kids would be if we had them.
2. He has become quite invested in my history with other men (body count/ favourite position/ last time I had smex etc)
3. We had our "first kiss" (he asked me in advance and it was only a peck)
4. He laughs at everything I say. Like. Everything.
5. His best friend has been in my DMs checking on what Im doing (idk if hes doing this on his behalf)
6. He sometimes looks at me across the room with this stupid look on his face, I normally stick my tongue out in response.
7. As ive only really been part of the group for the last 11 months or so he keeps going on tangents about how glad he feels to have met me, even going as far as calling me his angel on one occasion.
He hasnt done anything overtly smexual as of yet, but his sudden investment in me has left me feeling very confused and Im hoping he isnt just after me for by body as Id have thought hed have more respect for me at this point.
Should I kick it up a notch and flirt myself or see where it goes?
Any thoughts? | Crush |
I was having casual fun with a guy a few times over several months - we got on really well, as well as having that chemistry in the bedroom, but I never thought I wanted anything more than that.
Eventually he told me he was seeing someone else but still wanted to be friends - I was fine with that at first, but we ended up hooking up one final time and I realised I’d caught feelings bad :(
I did tell him my feelings but he seems pretty set on his new partner now and he’s left the ball in my court to be friends when I can handle it.
It’s been two months and I still can’t stop thinking about him - I don’t stalk or message him, but I just can’t stop thinking about what he’s doing now and what could have been.
I‘ve also lost interest in dating completely because it makes me feel sad about him.
Do you reckon it might help to be friends after all, as then I wouldn’t miss him so much, despite the pain of seeing him with someone? And if not, just how do you stop thinking about someone (especially when so many normal things to keep me busy have been stopped because of corona!).
I’ve told myself that this wasn’t even a relationship and I’ll get over it like I do with other crushes, but this one just isn’t going away and if anything is getting worse.
Thanks redditers, any help appreciated. | Crush |
Follow up post! I confronted him about and he assured me it wasn't like that at all and that he felt like a jerk. He also asked me to be his gf!! | Crush |
So there’s this guy from my school who texts me very few but seems to try to make conversations, he asks how I am and that’s almost it. Last week in class we had an assignment and he offered to help me. I read some on the internet of signs a boy might like you and he only matched a few, he takes more than 1 day to respond although he actively snaps in a mutual group chat, in school he never stare at me or try to make conversation, is he just kind, have nothing to do/bored or have a crush on me? | Crush |
Is it normal to be obsessed with somebody you’ve NEVER talked to. Like, I saw this kid in class, we locked eyes and I immediately developed my first ever crush.. With a boy I know NOTHING about. And my friend gave me his number and I want to text him but like I don’t know what to say. He might find it creepy that I’m texting him out of nowhere and he may find it creepy I “somehow” managed to get his number. It’s like, I can’t stop thinking about him. We stare at each other in class so there’s a possibility he finds me cute too. And I feel like I need to somehow talk to him. By the way, I don’t have Snapchat and because of the pandemic and the way in-person school is, there’s not many opportunities to talk to him. Not that I would ever have the guts for that. What do I do??? It’s driving me insane!! | Crush |
Things were going really well. He legit said he loved me. But of course there's always an until. I think he faked being grounded so he didn't have to text me?? And in person he's ignoring me too. Whatever I had for him I'm quickly falling out of it. Whatever. I'm making one last attempt to fix us, then I give up and move on. | Crush |
So Ive a crush on this guy and Idk if he likes me or not he keep sending mixed signals and Idk if I should ghost him already or what ..he takes so long to respond back so we can never have a real conversation but we don’t actually text text we send voice memos and i know for a fact that he is ignoring me idk if it’s a playing hard to get or if he doesn’t give a fuck lol but he still asked about how I did in this test but then he said he totally forgot about me so I’m like do u care about me or not PICK ONE ..he is very toxic but I still like him and I can’t stop thinking about him .help:) | Crush |
So i'm studying this year, and there's this girl who i really, really like, and she knows this.
But the thing is, we live in the same village and when she's done with class she always waits for me to be done (sometimes 10/15 minutes) so we can travel together. Also she text me, but not that often, when she does she's really enthousiastic, like always answers me in multiple texts and not just yes or no. she sent nothing to me on SC but thats okay i guess. She often stares at me when we are in class and laughs and my (sometimes) silly jokes but she already, kind of, rejected me
So the question is, is she really keeping me on a leash? And if so, why do girls do this? :(
Thanks for reading this :) | Crush |
I have a crush on this guy who’s sorta famous. He has 243k and he replies to comments and he’s rlly interactive with his followers. Me and him have a lot in common and I think I might be his type. If we did end up together it would be long distance since he lives across the country until I moved to his state (which I’m planning to do for work) How could I go about starting a relationship with him? Or should I even try at all? How can I start a conversation with him? How could I get him to notice me out of all the pretty girls that comment on his post lmaoo? I’m prepared for him to say no but I’m trying to be positive. Thank you in advance💜 | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy who is 2 years older than me, I don't know if it's okay to like someone that is 2 years older than you/me. Sometimes I just think I'm weird but I have already keep asking myself this. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/PeVVFy1iPuo | Crush |
is it at all normal to have a crush on someone when you're in a marriage? I'm actually engaged and have been with my fiance for 7 years and this is the first time this has ever happened. It isn't a situation where I would leave my fiance for this other person, I'm just feeling really terrible about it. How do you handle this? | Crush |
I dated my ex 2 years ago, and she was one of the best girls who I had made love too she was always such a nice, cute girl and would express her love to me all the time. At the time I was a stupid immature 8th grader who was not ready for a relationship, it only lasted about 2 weeks since I was just an idiot and did whatever my friends told me to do with her. Looking at it now I honestly regret doing the stupid stuff I did to her and never saying sorry. I want to start with her again becuase this time I feel like I'm ready and will last this time. The only problem is that her friends hate me and if they find out were talking again there gonna get mad at her for sure, or she might not want to give me another chance. I just need advice in whether I should do it or not and how do I do it. Any advice helps thanks. | Crush |
Anyone on here have a crush on a Brit? Anyone here ever told a Brit you like them and what was their response? | Crush |
I've talked about this more on r/Crushes, but here's a rundown of where I'm at: I'm 17M, she's 16F. We haven't talked almost at all in-person (other than hi and bye) except for once, but we have messaged each other and interacted on Twitter and IG a fair bit. We're not currently what you'd call "friends", but I think we know each other relatively well.
That said, is it alright to just out of the blue break the touch barrier? Obviously, with COVID going on, touching is not really encouraged, but if we happen to stand or sit next to each other and I rest my arm on her shoulder, would that be a big deal? | Crush |
I have been getting lots of hints and then nothing and it's been confusing.
Anyway, a while back a good female friend of both me and her asked me whether or not I want something from her because she (my crush) has been wondering that. Despite my feelings for her, I said no. Reason was, I didnt think, was trying to get over her and didnt want to get rejected (fear of rejection).
But after that, her mixed signals became clear. And... well negative. Now, the only reason I see in that was, that she was interested but since I'm not, she wouldn't want to bother me or is now trying to get over me. She ignores my snaps and it seems as she tries everything to not hear my name or come close to me. My question now is, should I ask her if I did something which caused those negative reactions or why she does that now. Should I ask that?
Tl;dr she thought I wanted smth from her, said no, now she ignores me (before, gave mixed signals). Should I ask her why?
Thanks for reading, would appreciate a response. | Crush |
Ever since sunday I've been getting ghosted by my crush, I honestly would call her my girlfriend but we never dated. We've been on and off for almost 2 years, I started texting her again in September and it was all going well and all the sudden she just started ignoring me. I thought it was just her not using social media or got in trouble but she's still on but just ignoring me. I dont know what I did that made her start doing this, I'm worried that she's talking to some other guy or just lost interest in me. Any advice ? | Crush |
Met a girl online. 3 days later SHE asked me out. I’m 14 Complete random too. world record? But yeah I’m feeling Insane rn having a heart attack ahh. But like what is stuff I can do to learn about her. Also I know she is a pretty girl we FaceTimed do not a 50 year old | Crush |
My crush responded to my Snapchat story, it was a yolo and someone asked who I had a crush on and I said “no one”, few moments later my crush texted me 🧢🧢🧢 and I responded “?” She then apologized for texting the wrong person but like my username with my first and last name is literally on the top right corner, how tf did she get it wrong? Or is it a sign?? | Crush |
OkAy, so i’m like kind of wanting to doze off and somehow I just thought of my friend. It’s weird because I usually don’t do this. I thought about how we spent time with each other. There was this one time where she and I held hands the whole entire time because? I don’t know why it just happened so I just held her hands, I was like chill tho bc she’s usually like this. She’s very affectionate. I thought she was just comfortable with me. But like I kind of thought about more things that happened, during a photoshoot we did because we were fooling around, she asked if we could do like this tik Tok zoom thing, but like she asked if we could just look at each other?? I also find myself helping her do things even though it’s a inconvenience sometimes. I’m honestly confused. do you think they like me or am I lonely HAHA? | Crush |
So... my wife and kids caught covid. I was exposed to them so I was a close contact. I isolated from them and waited a week and got tested. The nurse who helped me at the clinic was the best. She talked and joked with me and gave me movie recommendations.
Anyway I thought this woman is awesome. Since she was wearing a mask unwanted to see what she looked like sans mask so I Google stalked her and shes very cute. But even better than that she seems super fun. My wife and I have been having bedroom issues so I think that pushes me to think about the nurse even more. Its fucking terrible.
I havent had a crush like this in 10 years. So confusing and a range of emotions. | Crush |
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Guys so there’s this girl i really like and everything seemed to be going well, like we’d talk on the phone almost every night and sleep on the phone too! we’d watch movies on FaceTime and stuff, we’d talk about dumb stuff and sometimes we wouldn’t even talk we’d just stay on the phone in silence and enjoy each other’s company but now she’s been getting really distant like she stopped calling and whenever i’d call and it got quiet she wouldn’t stay like she used to now she just says that she has to go do something and that she’ll call me back, but never does. I was starting to think that maybe she was getting bored of me which caused me to not call her or text her anymore because i don’t want her to be annoyed. We had plans and stuff before to hang out before this happened but unfortunately i ended up testing positive for covid and it ruined all of our plans. But yeah we haven’t spoken in like a week or 2 and then she calls me out of the blue and it was like how we’d always talk and stuff and i even spoke to her mom and she said that i should come over and stuff but i’m not sure if the girl i like wants me to go over and by the way this was like last week and i got covid back in october so i don’t have it anymore that’s why she was mentioning that i should come over but anyways so yeah her mom was saying stuff like that and i really want to go hang out at her house but idk how to bring it up with her because we don’t even talk or text anymore and idk i’m scared to call her and us just get to that point of silence and her wanting to leave, because i’m a quiet guy i don’t really say much but there are times where i’d say somethings hoping that it’d spark a conversation but no. I want to take her places but i don’t have my license yet nor a job so i’ve been trying to get those things done as soon as possible but things keep getting in the way and i feel like if i keep letting things go on like this i’m going to lose her for sure but idk what to do rn and if i were to call her what should i say!? i’m scared, i don’t want to lose something that i really want. I’ve liked this girl for 3 years now and i don’t want to mess it up but i feel like i am | Crush |
Context:
1. We've known each other for a year. That's it.
But there's this girl, (fake name) Alice. Yes, we used to be a couple before and it was awesome, we were both close as best friends but also close as a couple, just like anyone would want in this day and age. I broke things off because i "felt" like we weren't working out, I went after a girl I had zero chances with, and I fully admit it was stupid. I threw away an amazing person and went after someone I thought I'll be happier with. I know my wrong though you have the right to remind me, I'll understand. But we still remained really good friends, though we don't talk as much as we used to which lol hurts.
Recently I've been thinking about her a lot. And it's not a post-breakup thing, it's been months since we ended our romantic relationship, and only now do I realize how much I actually liked/like her. I keep seeing her face when a video talks about crushes, I keep remembering the times we had, I keep tagging love songs on her because they remind me of her and it's everywhere.
At first, I thought it's just my loneliness speaking, I don't have feelings towards her I just miss having someone to love. But now I realize I really **really** like her.
There's a major problem on both sides though. She (I'm sure) already moved on from my stubbornness and as far as I know, is in a relationship with another friend. I'm not upset about it, I'm happy that she has someone to love too because I was afraid that after my shitstorm she'll be beyond hurt. Next, it would be weird for me to randomly go up to her dm's and start a conversation from the bottom, try to talk more, and be friends like we used to be. I'm most likely being a pussy about this.
Third I heard getting back with your ex is a bad idea? And I doubt she'd want to go back to poopy pants fart hole like me, who for the majority after it was over didn't do any well.
But I still like her. I don't know why it only came to me now, but it happened. I have no idea how I'll deal with it at this point, and frankly, I'm terrified.
Anyways I slid into her dm's for hope to start talking, wish me luck hahA
Edit: We've been talking for a while now, no awkward no nothing, that's a good sign right? | Crush |
The last time I was so tortured by feelings was probably in high school. Feelings that didn't make sense at all but were very persistent. Very heavy. Uncomfortable. The feeling that my feelings are WRONG but there's nothing I can do about them. They're not going anywhere. I'm stuck in them - they're like quicksand pulling me deeper and deeper and if I don't get out somehow I will sink and never ever come out.
Why her???? I don't want this. I want it more than anything else. I don't want any part of it, I must just get over it. She's all I can think of. That's why I'm crying. None of this makes any sense. I don't want this. I want her so bad. | Crush |
my crush is 7 years older than I am, we've been friends since we met at a concert last year. We live in different cities and we'd often bond over memes and music. He was in my city for some time and I finally had the chance to meet him today. We spent a nice afternoon drinking wine and eating fancy food i could never afford (he has a really well paying job). He's super nice. This was the first time during the lockdown I actually laughed. I come from an abusive home.
I like him, I'd love to spend more time with him but I don't know if that'd be possible. He's going back to his city in the next few days, he kept telling me he wanted to see me again and would be coming to my city in January/February.
I don't even know if he likes me even though he calls me affectionate nicknames.
I'm just really confused about how I feel about him. Should I forget about him or pursue this?
Thanks for reading this. Xx | Crush |
so i have a crush on my brother’s friend and they’re a grade below me. we all have the same math class and we usually hang out together, the 3 of us. it’s so hard to figure if he likes me back because he’s friendly and nice to everyone also there’s my brother who always there talking to him leaving me almost to no chance to talk alone with him and i only have 1 class with him. i want to hang out with him more but, i’m shy!! i don’t know how to lead a convo unless he does and it’s awkward for me to initiate a hangout that doesn’t include my brother. i guess he’s been giving hints that he’s into older girls but it’s mixed signals and idk how to differentiate that... | Crush |
I've practically lost hope in this going anywhere. I talk to her all the time and PERSONALLY I thought we were doing okay. She'd wait for me to take my lunch, I'd wait for her. We often met up somewhere to eat. And it was really easy for us to talk. Never got quiet between us.
But today my buddy was talking to her. And she didn't really say the best things about me. They weren't hurtful. But she must find me...odd...to say the least. One thing led to another and when my buddy asked her what she thinks about me. She said eh...
I still talked to her after work, we didn't go out as usual, but we hung out in the parking lot by my car. She's amazing. But I think she's hanging out with me out of pity.
I just want her.
I never seem to get things right. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/PeVVFy1iPuo | Crush |
This was originally a comment to a post on here but I think this edited version works as a separate post too
Ok so.... I really like this girl and honestly I need help!
We talk at school (she's in the same year as me) so I do know some things she likes, we also do share some interests. We do walk home together along with other friends, and I like have her number and she's in the same discord as me so we talk there mainly. I only have one class with her and we don't really get to talk to eachother much in class, but I've not known her or her friends as long as they have each other so I've never even been to her house.
I really want to ask her out but honestly I guess I'm scared of being friendzoned 'cause I really do like her 😅
(Any Poles reading she's also Polish and I'm English so there's another big issue right there)
I'm so screwed honestly, any advice? | Crush |
So on my birthday, I asked my crush to tell me something about him that I do not know. He sent me the screenshot of a post on his birthday saying “I wish I had never been born”. I did not know what to do except telling him that I was grateful that he was here. He still forms a barrier with me and refuses to share anything that relates to his past. One time, I told him that since I like him, i hope he could be happy. He told me happiness to him was luxurious. I sincerely do not ask him to like me back, but I hope he can like himself a little bit more. What should I do to help him? | Crush |
I shared a funny screenshot of my friends instagram story that was about a funny question that someone had asked her in the ask me tag.
The question said "what do you think of cow milk. Isn't cow milk only meant for veal cows."
My friends could've easily thought that I was the one who asked that question when I shared the scrheenshot and posted it on my instagram story
Anyway exact week later my crush posts a story about him holding a goat milk package and asking if he should try it. He also mentioned that he's tried cow milk and camel mill before.
Wtf, just a coincidence?
I've couple times replied to his instagram story but not for a while. Is he trying to get me to talk to him? | Crush |
Ok so, I've had this best friend for a little over five years now, almost six. I think i've had a crush on her this entire time and i just noticed as i've finally accepted my sexuality. I don't want to tell her because it will ultimately ruin our friendship unless she feels the same which I doubt. I keep giving myself false hope by knowing she's not straight and the fact that she play flirts all the time. But that's just what friends do right? Does anyone have any advice? | Crush |
heyyy so uh i like this dude but he talks to a good amount of other people & girls. i dont wanna ruin anything rn so i havent made a move, still trying to see if i have a chance or if he likes me back (doubt it). but hes a grade below me so idk if i even should. how can i progress our friendship when we dont see each other that often (only one class together)?
i dont have much hope tbh but one can dream, its just our convos always flow (they prob do with everyone) and hes just honestly dope hahah | Crush |
Listen carefully.
I am 13 years old, so is my crush.she is is in my class. She likes almost everything I like too:
-memes
-Harry Potter
-stranger things
-drawing
And so on.
Now I started liking her when I found out more about her, at first it more of a potential friend, but it started to grow into a crush. We know few things about each other, well, barely anything actually. We chat sometimes in real life, I send her a meme every now and then, we don't play any games together and we're kinda awkward. Advice? Please? | Crush |
So I've had crush on this girl for 2 month probably and I'm positive that she likes me too. I'm sure that she'll say yes, but the problem is I don't know how to ask. Do i just say i love you, wanna be together or maybe ask her out or something...? | Crush |
so we are friends with my crush for about 7 months and one of his close friends who is also my friend told me that there is a high chance that he likes me too. however he keeps leaving on read the past few days even tho he could easily reply to my texts. and my question is: when someone likes you, aren’t they supposed to want to text you and find little excuses to do so? we are in quarantine so there is not a way to see him in person and i feel like he doesn’t actually like me whenever he leaves me on read. and i dont want to text him again because i feel like he wont reply | Crush |
Okay so I like a girl in my Class, but im not sure if She likes me too. And I really don't know what to do. i've had this crush for 3 months now. But im also too afraid to ask her out. This is my First crush ever and I Have no idea how to handle it | Crush |
ok so we barely know each other but we follow each other on everything. we met a few times in passing since he is my friend’s friend. he also said i was pretty once LMAO but at the time i didn’t really feel anything. but now im starting to develop a crush even tho we barely talk. how do i start interacting with him more to know how i really feel??? im waay too shy to bring it up to my friend | Crush |
So I have a crush on a guy in my class, but because of the pandemic, I only met him through our online class. On the first term, we were really close, we talk to each other everyday. I don’t really want him to notice that I like him so I don’t really talk to him unless he chats me first, which is basically everyday.
I really like the guy and my friend’s been pushing me to confess to him and I don’t really know if I should do that because it’s my first time to make the first move tho and I am kinda scared that I might get friendzoned or rejected and our friendship might fade.
But this second term, we haven’t been chatting so much and it makes me more scared to chat first but I try and I don’t really think that he’s interested anymore.
Update: He likes me back | Crush |
i have liked him for a really long time now, but he's my friend so I was too scared to make a move and mess up the friendship. Well, 3 months ago his ex comes along and swoops him back up. I know its only highschool and I have my whole life to live but I really like him and I'm willing to wait to see if they stay together. Theres an almost 3 year age gap between them which makes me think how long will they actually be together since thats pretty big for highschool, but they are really cute together and that's what hurts me the most. I hope its not creepy to wait for him. I need advice, I don't want to move on as I have tried other boys but it feels like theyre just a distraction. What should I do? The wait is really hard | Crush |
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soon my crush has birthday and i want to gift something speical for her. and i really want her to know that gift is from me. and i want to write card for her with gift and can you guys help me what to write on it? i want her to text me after she gets gift | Crush |
Me and my crush were sitting together in class and I’m that type of person to laugh at everything and I asked her “what lessons do you like?” And she answered “none” and I laughed and she said “haha that was so funny” sarcastically and tbh that has pretty much broken my heart, I didn’t say anything to her after but I was just thinking about how rude that was and now idk what to do should I still talk to her or not cuz I feel like she’s not interested in me but talking to her makes me happy | Crush |
I (25F) have a crush on my gaming friend (22M). We play for multiple hours (>8hrs) a day and a variety of games about 3-4 days a week. We do flirt or at least what I interpret as flirting and a ton of chemistry. We are still getting to know each other around our time spent gaming. We are friends on insta. I’m obsessed with his voice and very attracted to his personality. I do realize an online persona may be different than irl. We do have a 6 hr time difference between us as well.
We have a raid group that has always joked that he liked me in the beginning and now refer to me as his “mrs”.
Do I tell him I have a crush or not? If I do how do I go about it? Im afraid of losing him as a gaming friend if he doesn’t feel the same. | Crush |
I have a huge crush on my friend. She shows all the signs of liking me. I am pretty sure (or was sure) that she likes me. She's the kind of girl who doesn't reply to any guys or even her close friends but when I text, she instantly replies. She does her best to meet me and hang out with me in her busy schedule.
So I, my crush, and our mutual close friend hung out and had a great time. Even the mutual friend of ours so much felt that my crush likes me.
So after going back home my friend asked my crush if she has feelings for me or atleast infatuation kinda feelings to which she told I'm her friend and she vibes well with me. Confirmed she doesn't have any feelings for me.
The question is, should I open up about the feelings? Does she actually not like me like the way I do or is she trying to hide it?
Thanks in advance! | Crush |
So my crush of 3 years works in another state and gets to come home around Christmas. A few days ago, just like the last 2 years I’ve gotten a text saying he will be in town for Christmas and wants to see me. But this year I have decided I am not waiting another year for a chance to say something. This year I’m going to tell him how I have felt for the last three years. How I’ve realized how stupid I was at 18 for not giving us a chance. I tried talking to other guys and I just kept thinking what if you come into the picture, would I stay with him or come to you. It was always YOU. Its really scary and I’ve talked to myself in the mirror what i would say but I haven’t quite found the right words. All I hope is, it brings me clarity. I will always have a place in my heart for him even if he doesn’t have one for me romantically. | Crush |
soon my crush has birthday and i really want to gift her something expensive. we text each other but we cant meet because of corona. i know she isnt going to invite me on her party so i eant to send her something special and text message to because i want her to know gift was from me. and can someone tell me what to write on that message??? | Crush |
After losing weight and regaining confidence, I (40M) decided to contact an old crush (33F) and suggested we meet for a coffee. She replied "we can try and organise a coffee ;-)" and we set a date & time to meet in a park.
*My crush is a work colleague who I met circa 5 years ago. She had a boyfriend when I first met her, who she split with 2-3 years later. For the last 2.5 years she has been working in a different department and I no longer saw her daily. We bumped into each other from time to time and always spoke when we did. Despite not having asked her on a date I think she may have known that I was attracted to her as I’ve previously: offered to help her move flat; invited her hiking with friends; and invited her to social events. I believe that she’s shown signs of liking me as possibly more than a friend (albeit several years ago): I’ve caught her staring at me on numerous occasions; she once let me know which evenings she was free for after work socials; she laughs at all my jokes; she’s invited me to drinks with her friends and she said she’d like to sit next to me at a works meal. Foolishly I didn’t proactively contact her over the last 2.5 years (until now) due to being embarrassed about having put weight on, becoming scruffy in appearance and not being comfortable with myself.*
When I arrived in the park to meet her, a man was sat with her (unexpectedly as she hadn’t mentioned anyone joining us). As I approached she was sat facing me on the right hand side of a picnic blanket. The man sat facing me on grass to the left hand side of the blanket. After elbow bumping her and the guy I sat on the blanket and she said to me “it’s been a long time Dave”. She then sat up straight and said “how are you” in a heightened tone. We spent the next 2.5 hours talking as if time hadn’t passed since we last met, about old times, and laughing. I brought the guy into the conversation so as not to be rude. At the end of the 2.5 hours she suggested that we go to a coffee hut where the conversation continued in the same fashion for a further hour. At the end of the hour she said that if she was arranging any future get-togethers with her friends, she’d invite me. I left the park pleased to have seen her but feeling sad that the guy was probably her boyfriend and thinking I had missed my chance. However, due to her not having mentioned to me that she had a boyfriend (during arranging to meet), or that the guy with her was her boyfriend and them not sitting close to each other, the optimist in me thought they may just be good friends. 10 days passed and the question ‘is he her boyfriend’ played on my mind? I phoned her and told her “I’d like to ask you out for dinner but don’t know if you are in a relationship and don’t want to cause any friction:
She replied:…“You met him”…”Charlie is my boyfriend”.
I replied: “Yeah I did meet him, but it wasn’t clear to me”.
She replied:…“I introduced you”…”We got a place together before lockdown”.
I replied: “It wasn’t clear to me, perhaps confusion on my part”.
She replied: “It’s okay, forget it…Okay this is what to do, invite me to social events and Charlie and I will come. If Charlie can’t be bothered, then I’ll just come (nervous laugh by her)”.
I replied: “Okay. I’m glad you’re happy and I hope you continue to be happy. Speak soon” \[I then ended the call\].
I am now left with regret due to not making my intent or feelings clear several years ago. | Crush |
I (13f) have been friends with “bob” (13m) for 5+ years. Recently he’s been asking me if i want to date him over text as to not pressure me. He is really great and i feel the same way but I am not ready for that yet. WIBTA if i said no? | Crush |
This girl I've liked for a while has started to open up to me a little not much tho. Shes so pretty I dont know if she likes me but sometimes she lays on my arm in class and that's the highlight of my day honestly she always says when I'm off she misses me it's sad without me but I really feel she just wants to be friends and i dont have the confidence to ask her how she feels because i dont feel like ik good enough and i will get turned down so I'd rather sit in solitude than have a chance of happiness but a chance of even worse sadness I dont think I can do it some nights i sit up and think about the benefits but the cons of her not having similar feeling hurt I have her in most of my classes and she sits next to me and we talk a bunch and it would be so awkward if she didnt like me what should I do? | Crush |
The problem is I don't want to tell him to not talk to me anymore or just block him without a reason. I don't want him to think anything bad about me. So I thought that the best way to finally leave is to tell him WHY I need this to stop. Not anything specific, just that it's not good for me. Is this the best way?
Some context:
-I've liked him for 4+ years.
-I don't think he knows.
-He has a gf.
-He usually texts me out of nowhere telling me I'm special to him and he misses how we used to talk.
-I have tried to forget him by avoiding all contact, but he always comes back. | Crush |
So I've got this crush on a girl that's 2 years older than me, but whats stopping me is that I don't want to risk of losing our really good friendship.
If you have any helpful comments that could help I'd really like read them! | Crush |
So I’m a girl and I have a best friend who is also a girl and we’ve been friends for 6 years now and I’ve been wondering if my friend let’s call her Mona so I was wondering if Mona likes me I’m a romantic way but she claims she’s straight but whenever I would date someone she would get superrr jealous and trust me she’ll show it or when I talk to someone more than her she’ll get jealous she’ll kiss me on the cheek every now and then but that’s her way of being nice? I think plus we’re always together no matter what until I moved but we still call and text everyday anyway one day I asked her and I was like hey have u ever thought of dating a girl and she’s like idk cause I thought about dating u a lot but I think it’s just a thought so I was like oh ok sooo ya idk it’s just super confusing | Crush |
Recently discovered this video, what do you guys think? https://youtu.be/bmEZTFWYFjs | Crush |
So i have had a crush on this girl for one and a half years. Yesterday i got backed into a corner so i told her that i liked her that long. She just likes me as a friend but she said i like u right now as a friend. I still have one and a half years left to make it so i will not take no for an anwser so could i get any help? | Crush |
She told me "I know I haven't met you in personal but I'm thankful for your life"
I dunno what to say
uwu | Crush |
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Well I liked her for a few years but I was too afraid to tell her then everytime someone (mostly my friends) said that you tell her that I have a crush on you I would tell them that I should let the relationship grow naturally. So because of the lock down all my school is online so they made a group of students from the same grade (7th) .Then her birthday came, so I wished her in personal and from that time we would talk about things in general. Now she doesn't talk in one word like yes, no, maybe , etc . She laughs at all my jokes . I mostly send her memes and she loves them. So should I let her know that I have a crush on her??? | Crush |
Update on my post from yesterday. I told him about an hour ago that I'm taking a month long break from talking to him. Yeah I know, it's stupid. He thinks it's stupid too. I just feel like this is the only way to sort my feelings out (hopefully get rid of them) before we start working together. He's not happy about it, neither am I. I'm very attached to him but its hard to get over him if we're still texting everyday. He's literally my favorite person but he also makes me sad. Anyway, here's to hopefully getting over my feelings. | Crush |
I (20f) have feelings for my guy friend (19m). We've gotten really close over the past 7 months by hanging out and even flirting with each other. He is an extremely hard person to read. I've given the most blatant hints so he is either ignoring them or he isn't getting it. At this point, I'm almost positive that I'm friendzoned. I don't want to say anything to him especially since we'll be working pretty closely with one another. I could confess but I don't want to put him in an uncomfortable situation to have to awkwardly be around me if he doesn't feel the same way. I'm so frustrated about the whole situation so I think that I'm going to start distancing myself from him. We talk everyday so I'm going to stop talking to him so frequently. He wants to hangout (no definite date as it's freezing over here) so I don't think that I'll hangout with him anymore. I obviously cannot fully ghost him since we will be working together but its too much to just continue on like this. I'm mostly writing this to stick to this plan but if anybody has other ideas on what to do, feel free to reply. | Crush |
I work with guy, & we’ve been hanging constantly for the past couple months. We’ve gotten to know each other a lot & in all honesty I like him now. I can’t tell if he likes me or is just treating me friendly. Basically, he’ll cuddle with me & asks if I’m comfortable whenever. He always wants to do the things I want, even when I asks him where he wants to go. He lays his head on my lap, & on my shoulder, or even on my head when I’m laying on him. He’ll tell me how I don’t need to change my appearance cause I’m pretty- whenever we’re out walking, he’ll always get close to me like he’ll grab me from behind and hug me or grab my arm. He’ll put his face right by my face which isn’t easy because I’m 5’2 & he’s around 6’0. The thing is though, he’ll mention how we’re good friends, which kinda bothers me... Also, he said how, if I wasn’t quarantining, we should’ve gone to the museum on Valentine’s Day—— like omg what? Basically should I just tell him that I’m interested in him? Or should I wait? | Crush |
“Hey, I like you and have done for quite a bit now. It’s ok if you don’t feel the same way it
really doesn’t matter as long as we can still be friends.”
If I was to say that to someone would it be fine or should I add something or remove anything from it? | Crush |
I have a huge crush on him at the first sight. By somehow i know that he also has feeling for me too. But none of us makes any move to confess or ask the other out. Huhu i cant stand it anymore now. Should i confess my feeling to him first or should i wait until he readies to do this first? | Crush |
that he’s a great guy, I feel like they know something I don’t. Maybe I’m overthinking. It happens whenever I tell them that we talk sometimes. What do you think? | Crush |
it's crazy how much this one person means to me. he probably doesn't even like me more than a friend because I'm simply just not the type of girl he'd like like that, but holy fuck. maybe I just need to give it some more time.
but God help me, I love everything about him.
from the way his hair are all over the place, to his Norwegian accent. the way he laughs, the way he says "legend" everytime something good happens , the way he gets along with my sister, the way he streams games for just me for hours, the way he calls me all night and the way I can hear him smile when he talks. even the things he's insecure about, I love them all.
on valentines day I was drunk. the guy who was supposed to be my valentines broke my heart and my bff stabbed me in the back; but he talked to me for 2 hours. he dealt with my bullshit. he didn't take advantage of me when I tried making moves on him, either.
I know he only thinks of me as a friend. I know he likes older women. I know he likes a girl *who doesn't even talk to him but ok*. I just don't think it's fair that I treat him so right and she doesn't even talk to him but she gets his heart. but, I just want him to be happy. so im okay with it.
fuck. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/PeVVFy1iPuo | Crush |
I like this person for almost 2 years already and we have messaged each other but that's it, we also react at each others meme but not until recently it just stopped. I need help | Crush |
Heyy so i know this is gonna be very bad but please i just don't know how to get him out of my head. So i have been hurt couple of times but nothing too bad. Then i started crushing on my classmate. He is very quiet and doesn't really talk to girls in our class but he always laugh and talks to boy. since we were doing online school he added me on snap and we have been talking. Now when we went back to school he just doesn't talk to me or even look at me. He was always using me to send him homework but i thought we were friends. Now i waited 3 days before asking him. In school he rolled his eyes to me when i asked something and just ignores me. I texted him :heyy so i know this is gonna be kinda cringe but im wondering if you are ignoring me, he replied:no im not ignoring you just _______(one of his friends) is really annoying me. I found this excuse very lame and just i don't know. I would like better if he just told me straight up told me im annyoning or ugly i wouldn't mind bc it would hurt less then being ignored. I was thinking if i did something but nothing i can remember. Since then i have been thinking about him 24/7 and really worrying if i hurt him (i don't know how). So please if anyone has any advice or anything i will appreciate everything even if its harsh :)
Edit: i want to thank everyone that took time and replayed to my post <3 i appreciate your advices and im so happy yall are so nice <3 | Crush |
I suggested she watch My Hero Academia then sometime after she said I was like Deku and she said that. I mean is this a hint or is she just saying we have a good friendship and comparing it? Just wanna see other's opinions. | Crush |
Me (15m), Girl I like (15f I’ll call A), Best friend (16f I’ll call J)
So in a groupchat that me, A, and J are in J offered to give me “girl advice” sometime. Now J knows A a helluva lot more than I do, and I know her decently well, so maybe when the time comes and I’m planning to shoot a shot J can hopefully help me more, if she’d still be willing to help knowing it’s A that the advice is for.
Can’t really keep it a secret either because some of most important things would be a dead give away, that’s assuming J and/or A doesnt already know/suspect I like A | Crush |
Me and my crush kissed and now we’re texting we have been actually because we are friends but now I feel like our convos while we text are dead . We seem to talk Better in person, I m almost always the one asking to meet hence why we kissed in the first place . I m afraid he won’t ask me out unless I do it again and our conversation is dead what do I do ? | Crush |
So I met this girl that I really like a while ago through a mutual friend. When I met her I thought she flirted with me (We were jamming, I asked if someone had a pencil, she said she had one and when she walked next to me she wishpered in my ear "you are good at music" with this weird smile). I later followed her on instagrama and she followed me back. We started chatting and she gave me her number so we could keep chatting, which she liked she said, because she wanted to delete instagram for a while. (At this point I was like, at least she doesnt hate me)
Some days ago I send her a video of me playing the piano and honestly it wasnt the most interesting video. Just me sitting in a darkish room since it was night and playing piano. She responded with "Cute videoo!" Like okay?!
The thing is that it takes her so long to respond, and sometimes I feel like she doesnt really want to respond. The her answers are short and not really keeping the conversation going. Other times she suprises me with a random text (like out on nothing a meme or something) or an text that makes me think she wants to talk to me.
Can someone help me out cause I dont really know what to think of this. I have to admit I always have this feeling I'm not good enough for her and that she will never like someone like me which is nonsense but it makes me insecure even more.
Thank you guys in advance :) | Crush |
A few weeks ago I confessed to my crush that I was starting to like him, and he seemed to panic a little. I asked if he liked me back and he said he did, but didn’t want to cross any lines. He said mentally he’s not good for a relationship right now and for now, wants to be friends. He says we don’t know each other super well ( which is fair )
Should I keep friends with this dude with how I feel? He said he feels the same so
?????? | Crush |
Hi Reddit I just found this sub and I have an important question if you have any ideas and is kind enough to take a little time out of your day to help, greatly appreciated and grateful. Anyway, I have a crush on this girl and we have been friends for a couple years and a couple people said the she likes me because she plays with her hair and giggles a lot and always hits me, after like a year built up enough confident, so I told her I liked her and left it at that, and she responded with (Oh okay....) minus the parentheses of course and I don’t really understand what that means or how to respond to it, so if anybody knows what’s going on or has any ideas your help is greatly appreciated and even if you don’t have an idea thanks for reading I know it was long lol. | Crush |
Let's start from the beginning: last year I met this guy who works at a local grocery store. My interactions with him were slightly more professional (since I was there on business, not just to shop) but quickly became more casual. He's really sweet and he would ask me about my day, anything new in life, he'd smile when he saw me, etc.
After awhile he started working different shifts so I wouldn't see him much. I really missed him. There was one time I saw him in the morning and he said it was really nice seeing me (*swoon*). And there was that time I saw him at a different store and he kinda stared at me for awhile when I was talking to his brother.
I told other people about this and pretty much everyone was team shoot your shot aka just give him my number. Well the issue is that I'm kinda awkward so... I chickened out and TRIED to hint that I like him but... Nothing. Still super nice though!
So... I found his Instagram and I followed him last Thursday. He didn't follow me back though. So I happened to see him Monday and I asked him about it in the most awkward way haha. Something like "oh hey. Followed you on Instagram. Is that fine or weird or???" And he said it's cool, he doesn't check his notifications since he doesn't use it much but he'd follow me.
It's been 2 days and he still hasn't followed me. I see that he's been active (liking posts). Should I just back off and give up? | Crush |
SOME BACKGROUND- I (17,f) have never really been attracted to men. I have had, in the past, very minor attraction to women, that that would always fade quick. I just assumed i was aro&ace
This changed recently. One of my close friends recently broke up with her boyfriend. She has been kinda flirty, in a platonic way, since (although, she is bi).
I am now obsessed with her. Waiting for her texts constantly, missing her when shes not around etc. I haven't been in, or wanted a relationship up until now.
My question is, are the following feelings normal for a crush like this?
- My heart physically feels like its under strain, my chest feels tight and i get excited when thinking about something she said, or her smile.
- I started thinking about her when I sleep. I'll lay down and cuddle into a pillow, wishing it was her.
- Some kinda weird stomach ache? When I'm around her, and she says something kinda... flirtatious, or something, i start to get a stomach ache. Just bellow my diaphragm, it is almost like a tickle or a slight ache. | Crush |
Long story, but I'll make it brief. I have a neighbor who sneaks by my car when I leave, almost everyday. Weird, I know, but I saw it on video. Anyhow, so he doesn't know that I know, and I've been really punishing him and it is really getting me so f'ing horny and I don't know why. If I leave my tire of his hand, or arm, not sure what's actually under it, I just feel the bump, after a while I can feel him squirm and I get so turned on!!! WTF??? I'm confused but I can't ignore how much this is starting to turn me on!!! | Crush |
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