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There's a first time for everything they say. I always mistook the feeling of love when I was younger but last year I found what it meant to like someone in that way. The feeling was so surreal I remember it to this day. It was so new to me but I had no clue what it was. Whenever I hear her name or saw her or thought about her it just triggered. I was confused at first, I couldn't find out why she was making me feel in a way I haven't felt before. What was so different about her than all of my other friends? I found out one day when I was playing a game with my other friend, (not my crush) who I will name Barbie for no reason whatsoever. This may sound dumb I know but I told Barbie I would give her something in that game for free, but I forgot and ended up selling it. Barbie actually got mad at me which I completely understand because that was kinda rude of me but I got worried because I never made Barbie mad before. So I checked discord to see who was online and one of her closest friends, who I will name Lily (my crush) was there. Once again this will sound weird but I asked her what to do because I never had an ordeal with Barbie before. She gave some advice but one of the things she said triggered a memory I had from primary school which wasn't a great experience. From there we ended up actually venting about what our problems at primary school were like. I just learnt a whole new side of Lily, I could relate to her so well. But there was something great about that night. I realised I had a crush on her. Ever since that first vent though, our friendship grew stronger and intimacy, we told eachother about our struggles and problems. The first thing I ever did to act on my feeling was ask her for a hug, which isn't really that big but for my first crush it was massive. She said she really needed a hug because she was feeling upset about something which I might not share. From then on hugging eachother just became a normal thing. Though, there was one day where I was feeling down because I felt that I wasn't needed among my friends and I was just a burden to them. Not only that, but I began realising how impossible love is. I could only dream that I could ever be with Lily, I mean she was literally perfect. But she picked up on me feeling bad and asked if I wanted a hug. Normally I would be the one to ask if Lily wanted a hug. But I was so broken up this time I kinda just threw myself into her arms crying, which was kind of embarrassing but at least it was after school and nobody was there. The hug went on for 15 minutes before she asked me if I wanted to talk about it. That was the best hug of my life. I only told Lily about how I felt I wasn't needed, I wasn't ready to share my feelings about her, especially seeing how much our friendship had grown. Lily, being the amazing person she is, gave me some kind words about how much I meant to not only her but all of my friends. It felt nice to actually be cared about, and we hugged for another 15 minutes before I decided I should probably go home. When I went to bed that night I grabbed a pillow and hugged it so hard, almost like I was subsisting it for her. For the passing year our friendship kept growing as we eventually became best friends. Once again, we stayed up late talking and venting to eachother, but she was obviously bothered by something. I asked her what was wrong, and she just texted me everything. She didn't feel like she was a good friend, she was struggling to get her life together because of problems at home and her depression and anxiety, and finally she felt like she would never find someone who loved her. I of course told her how much of an amazing friend she was to me and my friend group, told her I would be there with her through every step she takes to bring herself together. And finally, I wanted confirmation so I asked if the love thing was about parents or a couple thing. She said she grew up quite romanticised which I knew. I thought to myself, "alright you've been feeling this way for more than a year now go and do it while you're on topic". I asked her if I could be honest with her for a bit. She said yes, and waited ten minutes for me to actually write the message. I told her everything. How I felt about her, how long it had been, when it started, and how it was the first time for me. Although I was a wimp and right after hitting send I turned off my laptop and almost broke down in bed. I was shaking. I could only think of the bad conclusions like her never talking to me again, being told she was already with someone else, all that kind of stuff. About an hour passed and it was 2am. I could not sleep. Whatsoever. My heart was racing so fast, so I decided if I couldn't sleep I might as well check what she replied to me with. I hesitated before opening up discord again though, did I want my feelings to be crushed? It didn't matter at the moment I just wanted the truth. She was amazed at how honest I was about my confession, and said that I probably went straight to bed panicking right after confessing. But she said, "But there's no need to be panicked" "Because if you could see how much I am smiling right now". Wow. I mean. That was my first time ever. And it worked. Words cannot describe how happy I was at the time. Luckily she was still online, and for the whole night we were just screaming realising that this was real. Although what was insane was that she told me that after our first deep vent she realised how she felt. Which was just like me and I was like wkskdjsnkswnnrdkskoamwkrkkw. So yeah now I am happily in a relationship with Lily, and everything is going great. I just wanted to say to those people with crushes like me that it isn't impossible. We all have a chance, but remember to take things slow. Ty for reading this if you did and have a good day or evening. | Crush |
Hello everyone. I know that having a crush can be very difficult. I'm willing to listen to anyone who finds it difficult to control your feelings. I've been through plenty of them. Please Directly Message me by clicking on my profile & starting a chat.
May your life be easy & prosper well. Have a Nice Day :D
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Edit: Thank You very much for all of your upvotes & comments. Btw, I have received only 3 messages & would promise to keep all information confidential. Thank You | Crush |
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Hi I have been talking to this guy for around 3 weeks. We have rehearsals together for like 4 hours once a week. We first had a really great conversion and talked for like a hour. After that every time we are done he walks with me and we just talk. He has told me that “it’s nice to finally meet someone that has so much in common with me”. He’s pretty shy with everybody else except me. He gives me a lot of mixed signals.Am I being delusional? Or could there be a chance he is somewhat interested in me?
His birthday is coming up should I get him a little gift or would this come off like desperate. Thanks (sorry for posting so much )
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She's really pretty. She gets me has a great sense of humor and she watches anime. I think I really like her. The problem is she still thinks I like this friend of mine. We are really good friends. Like we talk a lot. Bitching about others. I deleted my insta and she immediately called me to see how I was. I really like her. What should I do to get her attention? And how do I find out if she likes me back or not?
/After my first post, this is a new update/
After having been given these suggestions. I decided to ask her if she wants to watch anime with me. She said yes. So during lunch break, we zoom each other and have anime on share. It's fun but I wanted to know how I can approach the subject? | Crush |
I have a crush in school and I thought I can never speak to her as I wasted my Chance but something weird is going on lately I got paired up with her for a school activity and in a project work and the seating arrangement got changed just to two seats from me even though I sat right next to her two years ago (did not have a crush on her yet at that time)how should I use the opportunity to get more close to her | Crush |
Hi I have been talking to this guy for around 3 weeks. We have rehearsals together for like 4 hours once a week. We first had a really great conversion and talked for like a hour. After that every time we are done he walks with me and we just talk. He has told me that “it’s nice to finally meet someone that has so much in common with me”. He’s pretty shy with everybody else except me. He gives me a lot of mixed signals.Am I being delusional? Or could there be a chance he is somewhat interested in me? | Crush |
Hello everyone. So I have been struggling everyday thinking about this girl I really like at work. Tbh I get kinda a vibes she might like me. Idk I’m bad at picking those things up. But Ive been working with her for almost 8 months now. And there was a girl I did like when I first stared the job and I built up courage to ask her out and I got denied. Now I work with that girl who denied me. I work with her everyday. So now my question is, should I ask the girl I really like now from work should I ask her out? For her number? I just don’t wanna get denied again then have to come with with her. We both are kinda shy. Please help I think about her every night | Crush |
Or am I just projecting the echo of old feelings that I'm probably not quite as over as I'd like to think. We met.in collage and we both ended up on the opposite coast from where we started.
In college I think I kind of had more of a crush on her. It was a long time ago. I have lots of crushes and at the time I was distracted by a other romantic interests and they had a long term relationship. I was mostly flirting with this one guy at the time.
At the the I was pretransition. It was weird because very much aware that I was not cisgender but I tried very hard to be. Eventually I just embraced it.
We didn't talk for years. I moved to Washington she moved to Oregon. I had a girlfriend for much of this time. She broke up with her boyfriend and has been mostly single with a fling here and there. My gf and I embraced polyamory, now I have a different partner but I'm still in a relationship open to polyamory. And my friend in Oregon and I not only kept in touch but as time went on we had conversations almost daily. As I began to transition I went on a lot of dates with guys. She also dated a lot of different guys. one thing we like talking about is the struggles we have with dating, and not always guys. I'm obviously bisexual, and several recent people she's had romantic interactions with have been trans or GNC. The other night she said to me, "I want to date a femme."
I'm over here wearing my skirt and blouse I have on eyeliner and basic makeup. I know she recently saw a picture I posted where I was out in one of my favorite dresses, jewelry and make up.
...like could she have on some level meant me?
Maybe not. At this point I'm not sure that'd be a can of worms I'd like to open. Most likely I'm projecting or reading too much into it. Even if their could be something mutual, it just feels like not the time or like why risk a good friendship. We know each other and we both have been through flings with a friend that changed and caused distance after things ultimately came apart. So it seems like It'd be a pretty big risk, especially since a value the friendship a lot. | Crush |
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For the past couple of weeks, I feel confused about how I feel towards James McAvoy.I'm unsure if I have sexual feels for him or somewhat wish he was my father. I do find him attractive but It's somewhat in the middle. I just don't know how to feel do you guys know. | Crush |
If any of you remember me, hi. If not;
I told my crush around a month ago that I like him, to actually come clean, even though it was extremely obvious we both liked each other. And he just swept it under the rug. He didn’t even notice it or anything. No comment. And so, before then we used to talk around everyday, and we actually talked about how much we talked, and if we thought it was too much. But we both agreed it wasn’t, haha. Then he stopped texting as much, but I assumed it was because school started again, and his parents are a little strict. So we texted maybe 4-5 times a week. And now we barely text. Like, he’ll only text if I text him first. And I always text him at night, because, well. I don’t know why. And so he leaves for bed after a few minutes of talking. And now, like I said, we barely barely talk. Thank gosh I can’t see his read receipts, but I imagine he leaves me on read alllll the time. So lately he’s just been annoying me with the way he texts, to the point where it cause so much pain. And I really don’t know if I should be friends with him anymore. I really want him in my life, but I don’t want all this pain. Or like, should I talk to him about this? I don’t know what to do, I’m just in constant pain. I know this isn’t descriptive at all... doesn’t even make sense. It’s just a rant I guess. I hope y’all have a great day, night, morning, whatever :)) | Crush |
so recently, my crush's friends starting joking around about him liking me, and ive liked him for a while now, but i dont want to get my hopes up, him and his friends are class clowns, so i know their just joking to embarrass him. but its been taking up all of my thoughts, how should i stop my self from more false hope? | Crush |
So i think i’m gonna tell her that i like her but how in person or online i don’t want it to be in person but if it’s better should i? | Crush |
So my girlfriend and her friend were all in a hot tub the other night. My girlfriend was the only one pretty drunk, her and her friend were both goofing around (in a non sexual way). My girlfriends friend (let’s call her bailey) was holding onto my girlfriend and floating in the water at the same time. My girlfriend is drunk, not really paying attention and Bailey is floating with her ass out of the water, and her feet on one of the seats in the hot tub. She then starts shaking her ass cheeks while making eye contact at me and giving me a smirk. I kinda smiled back but was a little confused to why she was doing that. She is a very extroverted and outgoing person, but I feel like her shaking her ass while giving me the look she gave me meant she was kind of into me, in a sexual way. What do you guys think? | Crush |
On a normal basis a boy listens to other songs such as rap but when he wants to think of a girl what type of of genres or type of songs wpukd he listen to | Crush |
Ok so there is a girl i like. and i don’t know how to tell her i like her i don’t know about dating but i want to tell her i like her. what should i do? | Crush |
So about last month my crush texted me. We started talking a lot and he would reply back to me under 30 mins and we talked about crystals and I gave him a couple. But then a couple days later it took him a day to answer my texts! Then I left him on read cause I was mad then he double texted me. I of course answered him really fast cause I didn’t want him to think I wasn’t interested anymore. Then ever since last Saturday he’s been taking forever to reply back to me. Like leaving me on deliver for 20 hours. He just texted me as I am writing this lol. Should I just leave him on read and see what he does | Crush |
I met this guy at a dinner out w friends. We didn't even introduce ourselves but I knew who he was from mutual friends. then I saw him more frequently when I joined this club. I have a crush on him but we barely know each other. I met him in this organization in the summer where we did a lot of team bonding activities so I kind of got the feeling of knowing him even tho I don’t. We’ve had a few interactions and he’s very sweet because he’s done things like helping me out (I’m like so paranoid that if I say the specific interaction someone I know will see this post and connect the dots lol so I won’t but it was very nice of him and he didn’t have to do what he did). He’s also very smart and well-spoken and has given speeches for this club. So while we haven’t had a conversation I’ve gotten a sense of who he is through things the speeches, team bonding activities, and just what others have to say about him. I don’t want to sound naive and silly but he’s perfect. I kid u not every girl I know has had a crush on him at some point. He’s so career-driven and focused on school (we’re only freshmen in college) and sweet and talented (and also has a pretty face). I haven’t seen him in person since November now because of covid and all but I haven’t been able to get him off my mind. I don’t know what to do about this crush because I don’t know how to approach him and he also deactivated all social media. I just want him in my life even if it’s just as a friend because he’s genuinely such a quality person. | Crush |
So I moved to this town like 6 months ago and i met this boy about a month after and we became friends pretty quick and i say we've been through allot but idk , well I mean on the second day I knew him I stayed at his the night with one of his friends and i was laughing and joking with his friend and he kept getting angry and leaving and his mum said he might just like me and we hung out quite a bit after that but soon lost contact but i always kept my eye open for him and said hi when I saw him on the streets and 2 months ago I joined the secondary school finnaly and messaged him asking him to walk with me and he shot me off and said no so i forgot about him and i have had a crush on him for ages now but at school he ignores me and is horrible to me but our parents are really close and he seems to talk about me allot , recently I was struggling with mental health and had to go to hospital and one of the reasons for my episode was because of the way some people where treating me at school and when I finnaly got discharged about a week ago I found out he was told and apparently he flipped out and was being all protective over me and when I went back to school last Thursday I didn't speak to him but he kept looking at me and i didn't get any issues at all from anyone, I messaged him last night asking how he was because of an issue with his parents and he was really sweet and thanked me for asking so i mustered up the courage to ask of i coukd add him on snap and he said yes, so I've snapped him for streaks twice and got streak snaps back so now I dont know where to go from here , I mean he lives right next door so uno , could anyone give me any advice ? <3 | Crush |
I am so tired of not being enough. I feel exhausted, disappointed as if I don't have any strength left but I feel so heartbroken slowly realizing that nothing will ever happen. I am truly hoping for something but at this point I am just lying to myself and I know it. | Crush |
A little more than a month ago I got my crush’s Snapchat and we talked for a while, and yesterday he unadds me on Snapchat. I want to get him to add me back again but idk what to say to him. I’ve never said anything inappropriate or that would make him uncomfortable. His snap was the only thing I had. Do y’all got any advice on how to get him to add me back? | Crush |
The other day my I was hanging out with my crush and few other friends. We were talking about why we all are single and online dating. And he turned around and said to me well, I bet if you tried, you would be in a relationship and I was like I am. And he was like just messaging on dating apps isn’t trying.
How do I find out that he likes me without asking him as it might ruin our friendship😭 | Crush |
03:30am
You’re so perfect. I notice all the little things you do for me and they make my heart flutter. Thinking about you gives me the same rush of joy as what I get from looking at the stars in the yard. I’m so glad I met you, I’m so glad you love me. I hope I never mess this up. I hope I can always be by your side no matter what. Even when I get all grumpy, sad and emotional over small things. I hope that never messes stuff up between us. I hope you know that whenever I get sad like that, I show you because I trust you, and just being around you makes me feel better. Thinking about you makes my world deep with warmth, colour, and pretty things like stars and sunlight. Your on the top of the list of all the wonders that I love. I love you more than anything. I love listening to you ramble about your Pokémon games or your cars. I love hearing about your magic cards too. I don’t always seem like I’m listening but I promise I am. Just like I’m always noticing the cute little things you do for me. Like how you cleaned that little corner of my room, my heart melted when I found out. Or the fact that when I’m talking about something I’m interested in you put down your phone and give me your full attention. I notice when you stop yourself from making offensive comment, I notice when you stop yourself from interrupting me. I hope you know that I see how hard you’re working and I love you. It makes my heart melt. I hope you see how hard I’m trying too. I want you to know how much you mean to me. You’re worth so much it’s unreal. I want you to feel loved. You deserve it. You deserve to feel warm, safe and happy. You deserve to feel like your heart has just given off a burst of colour and joy into your world. I hope I can help you feel like that. That’s all I want. I know sometimes I get upset about small things like being interrupted or your terrible ability of picking up signals, but I promise in the long run all those little problems don’t matter to me. You do. I love you, my magic man. ♥️💜
P.S yes I’m gonna keep calling you that, it’s cute. | Crush |
We were just snapping back and forth and then the pending appeared. Fuck everything I’m done. | Crush |
I don't have a crush on him btw. | Crush |
I'm crushing on a coworker and we've gotten along fairly well, despite us not working together directly. We're now working on something very complicated so have had to work with him a little more as of late. Still we've had some good times where we've been productive in taking each other's help and have had some engaging/flirty conversations in the process.
Just recently we were discussing a specific task in an email thread, and I realized that he had contradicted himself on something he had said last week. He didn't know he had told me something different, and in my frustration but to also gain clarification, I kinda pounced on him (much to my regret) via IM for it because it was stressful work as it is without these sort of mishaps happening.
When I pointed out his mistake, I realized I had come off as hostile/confrontational so I apologized. He was gracious about it and he apologized, first, addressing his mistake. And then he said sorry again, and that we should have it figured out soon. I accepted his apology and nothing more was said, and while updating the email thread, realized my conscience was still heavy for it. So after sending the email with the correct info, I went back to his chat window and said that I was sorry too in the way I had come off. He replied saying, "No worries, Sock\_\_Monkey. It's difficult when everything now has to be done on email and not in-person."
I'm still kinda embarrassed about it tbh, and in a weird way I think it's made me closer to him (although I have yet to know what he thinks about me for it). I do think disagreements can bring people closer, but it's all in how it's done. Has any such thing ever happened to you, and did it help bring you closer or further apart? | Crush |
Hey everyone.
I have been talking to this boy recently and i am beginning to really like him. I'm quite sure something will happen when i see him tomorrow (we go to the same school). I honestly can't fault him. Besides the fact he has the same name as my brother!
Is it wrong to like someone with the same name as your brother?
Also how do i tell my mother that i might be dating someone with the same name as my brother? | Crush |
so i like this kid a lot. we don’t go to the same school but we have mutual friends. a couple of days ago we hung out with our friend group but he’s kinda shy and never said a word to me or any of the other girls. later that night i had my friend send me his snap and we snapped back and forth like twice before he left me on delivered for hours. how do i get to know him? how do i get him to want to talk to me? someone please help me i rly like this kid.
side note: my friend is dating one of his friends. she said that he would probably not be interested in having a gf bc he’s kinda socially awkward but she said she would still try and set us up. what’s the best way to do this?? help guys i need a gameplan. | Crush |
Does anyone else tend to have a crush on someone they don't even know or never even talked to? | Crush |
So I'm working in a big dev-team for about 3 years now.
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So, what do you mean / think? | Crush |
During quarantine I've made new friends and we've been on video calls every single night. I ended up liking one of them, during our calls we would tease, laugh at each other, aking question to one another and he would even flirt with me which he wouldnt do with my other female friends. My friends noticed that during calls he paid more attention to me than anyone else as he would always ask me what was I doing, reading or laughing at, ever since my friends mentioned it I became more conscious about him and started to like him. But when we met for the first time in person we became awkward and we wouldnt talk or tease each other on our video calls anymore, he would talk to everyone but me and if we ever talked it would only be a short and dry. Hes been ignoring me ever since we saw each other and honestly I miss talking and laughing with him. When we hangout and say goodbye hes cheerful with my other female friend but would be cold towards me. | Crush |
I messaged this guy a little over a week ago. He’d asked a couple of our mutual friends about me, saying I was cute and that he wanted to hang. We started talking everyday, and I got sort of attached. We had great conversations and connected in a way that I haven’t in years. I’m not one to get real feelings for people, especially over just texting. But I really started to like him, and he started to like me too. He just got out of a year long relationship months ago, so he told me from the start he didn’t think he wanted a relationship, but left that sort of open with a “unless” or “maybe” in the future. Basically, I wanted to get to know him and change his mind I guess? He really liked getting to know me and stuff, but I was also insecure and projected that on him, always asking if he liked me for sure and if I was gonna get played. I’m sure it played into what happened. He called me one day and said he’d been struggling a lot with himself, and needed to figure that out before he could get into something. Also that we were moving too fast. He wanted to keep talking but “not for hours on end everyday.” So he’ll text me back some days, but i won’t lie, it hurts to be in the middle. I would wait for him, because I know that he’s different, but what if I’m wrong? It also hurts how he’s able to not answer my texts for a day but every time my phone dings, I jump at it hoping it’s him. He said it’s hard with the virus, but if I would be up to hangout alone once he’s able to (we’ve hung once with some mutual friends but he was really shy.) Any kind of outside insight would be helpful. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/Cr8vChPDy4w | Crush |
So here's some context:
I'm learning Spanish and I met this Chilean girl online. Who was is also learning english. We kept talking so well and having good conversations that we've transferred from text to things like Instagram and Skype video calls.
Over the past few months, we've had some complications in communication with each other and it made some things "Akward". I told her that "it never seems like she wants to talk to me", and she told me "that's not true, I have other things to do, and I also don't receive Skype notifications during the day", "what do you want? What would you like?"
And we came on an agreement to use WhatsApp.
Now I'm sitting here with her WhatsApp number, wanting to put it in so badly. But I keep thinking about the lack of communication we've been having, and feel akward, like things are not the same anymore. Before our communication problem started, we were having fun conversations, laughing, making jokes, and now I also want to go deeper.
I'm scared of not knowing what to say anymore and it really has me apprehensive.
How can I reconnect with someone who I haven't had a "good" conversation in awhile, at least in my case?
Any advice will be appreciated :) | Crush |
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Okay, but what does it mean when a guy asks you take a selfie with him because he said I resembled one of his freinds and wanted to show her? Yet, when he showed me a pic of her, we did not look similar at all. Well, at least I didn't see it. And I'm not acting stupid and saying to make it sound like he had other intentions but I honestly couldn't see the resemblence between us. I went the game and said “really". We took it and that was that. The next day, I sent him a message of places he should try out as a newbie to San Antonio bc he came from Oklahoma and he said he already ate at one of the places I reccomended and then asked him about his freidns reaction and he was like “LOL she just laughed! Like oh my gosh!”. And that was that. I felt attracted to him the second I saw him though. Oh BTW, we met at our job orientation. I think he might be interested to me bc of other things he has asked. We were closing the restaurant and he suddenly asked me, no context whatsoever we weren't even talking nothing to do with that matter, and asked me if I have a boyfriend and then asked if I have ever kissed someone. No I said to both. At this point, its a waiting game with him bc idk if he is trying to be subtle with me. I need your help! Thank you! Oh he is 23 and I'm 17 if that changes anything. Pls don't put me as naive and childish. | Crush |
Age of conset in Czech - 15
Okay so, I know a girl, she likes horses and Heavy metal same as I.
When we are texting she is hearting my Messages and sometimes she sends me a Black heart with
🖤😎cool emoji
Im turning 18 in few months - shes newly 15.
Im 2yrs and 8months older.
Do you guys think that this is a big or weird problem? I really like her but we agreed that - no sex until shes like 17 or 16. | Crush |
Age of conset in Czech - 15
Okay so, I know a girl, she likes horses and Heavy metal same as I.
When we are texting she is hearting my Messages and sometimes she sends me a Black heart with
🖤😎cool emoji
Im turning 18 in few months - shes newly 15.
Im 2yrs and 8months older.
Do you guys think that this is a big or weird problem? I really like her but we agreed that - no sex until shes like 17 or 16. | Crush |
This guy is older than me. I was talking to him yesterday. We barely talk but I want to become often. He was my crush from a far. But he started to send me messages about my posts on facebook and starting teasing every now and then. It's not often but it's something.
He was making fun of me cause I'm really short and he is really tall. He asked me one advantage of being short. And I said that we look young.
And he was: yeah totally. I just saw your photo and I would ask you your ID for sure if I didn't know you.
And yeah I totally look younger than my actual age. I'm 23 but I look like 16.
Then he said : I'm going to check you on Facebook 🙊.
And he actually did. He said I haven't changed since 2016. Which is true.
So what do you think? | Crush |
So i’ve been friends with this guy for about 8 months so far. I started liking him about a month or two ago and recently he asked me to ask him whenever I want to play some video games with him. Most of the times he is swiping up on my stories and stuff whenever I post about some things such as video games and stuff. One time we talked abt relationships and stuff but I think he’s not into relationships as of rn and neither am I sorta..but I do wanna tell him that I like him but I just don’t know how to word it. Like I don’t mind if he doesn’t wanna date anyone as of right now but I just kinda wanna tell him I like him. | Crush |
So, my now crush was my friend for a couple years before this whole incident. Sometime mid last year she was being quite rude to my sister and stepsister, and directly after was sending me pm’s on discord trash talking them. I didn’t have a crush on her then, and I wanted nothing to do with her. I closed the DM, and we haven’t texted or anything since. But over the past few months I’ve developed a crush on her. She never gave any apology to my sisters or even me, so I think that I should just distance myself from a person like that. However, I’ll sometimes see her profile on Xbox (which has been offline ever since) or I’ll be reminded of her and I’ll think about her. I’ve tried and have succeeded to just stop thinking about her for a month or so now, but it’s coming back. I don’t know why I even have a crush on her, because I know it would be a toxic relationship. I don’t even want to have a crush on her anymore. But I do. If I could be in school maybe I could try to focus on other girls and forget about her, but I’m not in school. I mainly have been set on just “I’m forgetting about it, and I shouldn’t focus on her” but occasionally I’ll think “maybe I should text her, and see if I can maybe get close to her again?” I really don’t know what to do, or why this is happening. | Crush |
So here is the story, on a throwaway:
My crush said she liked me, but I never said anything back, kinda just avoided the question, because I am not ready for anything yet. So we remain good friends. I feel like I should have said something. Advice? | Crush |
So the story is i met this girl when i was about to do my driving test and we were waiting in the waiting room and we talked for like 5 minutes. We exchanged social media accounts and we talked there. Later she asked if she could get my snapchat. I was obviously very excited and gave it her. But here is the problem and i might be overthinking this. So in the beginning she openend my snaps and responded pretty fast but now she opens it 12-20 hours after i have sent the snap and this is really irritating. I want to keep the conversation going but sometimes i feel like im stretching it and that is why she takes so long to answer. I honestly don't know i hope you guys may have some advice for me. Feel free to ask me any additional questions.
Sorry for the bad english if there were any grammar errors. | Crush |
I like, confessed (over discord) but like, I don’t think she understood what I said........ :/ | Crush |
is this true for guys?
We look at the ones we find attractive and would have sex with. It’s the truth. We don’t really look at other girls we don’t find attractive and would not have sex with. I know it sounds kinda odd, maybe gross but that’s how guys think. | Crush |
Last friday, i confessed to this guys I had been gushing over since the past two months.He didn’t reject me but didn’t say yes either.I respect that considering how his previous relationship ended.Hes not ready to trust anyone and Im not ready to commit and this is exactly what i told him.He suggested us becoming friends but I was like this will just complicate things between us.He really makes me happy but we’re not compatible.He believes in things I stand against and vice versa.I just don’t know what I want and what im feeling right now.I can’t seem to forget him either | Crush |
There’s this cute guy that works in my university’s library. I told all my friends that I think he’s so cute and I just wanna talk to him🥰
Yesterday, as my friend was leaving the library early I decided to join him and we went to the supermarket nearby. I was gushing over how cute the guy at the desk is and he suggested that I get something from the supermarket and offer it to him as a way of flirting with him.
At first I thought, no way I can’t do that! He’ll think I’m weird! But after a little persuasion I bought a pack of gum along with my meal-deal. When I got back to the library I offered him the gum and he was so sweet, not only did he accept it but suggested that we trade and he gave me a KitKat in exchange. (How cute!🥰)
Half an hour passes by and we’re chatting, asking each other questions and giving each other compliments. I was elated that my plan had succeeded.
However, now I feel a little stuck because although we had a cute conversation and he accepted my gum... he didn’t ask for my number! Nor did he ask for my IG! All this leaves me wondering if he was just being SUPER sweet and nice or even if I have a chance in the slightest?
What do you guys think? | Crush |
I know the title sounds cliché, but my situation is far from it. I know how harsh people can be here, and I need to hear some harsh truths.
I'm F16, and I'm best friends with a guy who's 18. This is the first problem. Age. He won't -can't- have feelings for me that are anything but platonic because for one, he has a preference for older women, and I'm still a minor; although I have researched and the age of consent where we live is 16, and it's okay for a 18 year old to date a 16 year old just until there's no sexual activity. The age gap makes him uncomfortable, I know, because he's mentioned it before.
Secondly, he lives far from me. Although it wouldn't be hard to visit him, I think he wants a partner he can hold. I know, because he's mentioned how much he misses his ex in his arms.
and, he has trust issues. his last relationship with his gf and his best friend didn't go so well, and he still misses them. he says he won't date again unless he really likes the girl.
I don't know what to do. I really am, truly in love with him. I think about him all the time. I fall asleep imagining fake scenarios with him. I've been dreaming of him for weeks. I wake up and my first thought is to check if he's texted me. he also has suicidal tendencies, so I make sure to always be there for him, to call him, whenever he needs me no matter how busy I am. even if it's at 6 in the morning. he doesn't really reciprocate these actions. he cares about me, yes; but not as much as I care about him.
regardless, I can't have him. no matter how much I need him, he can't be mine. he talks about other women too, that's how I know he doesn't feel the same for me.
so, I understand my situation. I'm not trying to get him to like me. I know I can't. I spend hours with him everyday. 11 hours, 7 hours, 5 hours, 3/2 hours on call; just being with him, and he still doesn't like me more than a friend.
maybe it's because I'm not as pretty, or as skinny as he'd like. I know my age definitely plays a role too.
the point is, I wish to get rid of my feelings. I just want to stop feeling romantically for him. but how? I don't want to stop talking to him less, because he needs me at times, and I don't wanna leave him alone with his thoughts. how do I lose my feelings for him when I spend so much time with him, though?
my brain doesn't let me be with anyone else. I've had 3 guys (my age) in the past 2 weeks ask me out, but I just say no to them just because I don't wanna date someone when I'm in love with him. I'm really hurting. I just want to know how I get over him.
any advice is appreciated. | Crush |
Im just curious about it so when a boy sees someone there crushing on deeply there love muscles take place or when there crush looks really pretty there love myscle takes place or when there nervous and they get butterflies there love muscle takes place like i just want to know and if u dont know what a love muscle is its gross but when boys thing stand | Crush |
I’ve moved on, pretty sure if she asked me out I would turn her down, and I’m not sure any girl for that matter, like if a random girl asked me out yea why not, but no one I know personally really, I thought it would feel better than this when I moved on, like yea it feels good to be like “don’t care anymore” but hurts even more that you don’t have anyone to look forward to seeing, anyone to hope and live for | Crush |
Boys look different when u look them deep in the eyes. They act all hardcore and stuff until there love or crush looks them deep in the eyes why is that | Crush |
Boys look different when u look them deep in the eyes. They act all hardcore and stuff until there love or crush looks them deep in the eyes why is that | Crush |
Given I see her every week day, what day is best to confess? | Crush |
So basically i saw this stranger that definitely looks like his in my yr so for some reason we lookewd deep into eachothers eyes and i cant stop thinking of him literally whrn i listen to slow and romantic songs i think of him and we looked into eachothers eyes w times but i saw him four times he goes to a different school than me i just want to know if im in love by the way im in yr8 and thus doesnt feel like a crush it feels like more than that awnd i really dont know why i like him but i just do | Crush |
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[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/m700s0) | Crush |
Please need help what day to her | Crush |
We’ve been neighbors forever and went to school with each other up until highschool. I recently realized that he’s acc really cute. We talk sometimes. I don’t think I like him I’m just attracted to him and I think he feels the same way but idk | Crush |
DONT READ IF TRIGGERED posted this in another group hoping to get fast replies thanks a lot!
Hi so I’m walking around my street, crying. I think I’ve just been sexually assaulted.. or well, I definitely have. I don’t feel like going home and facing my family, but I also really don’t feel like being alone. I’m a fucking mess jeez I don’t know wtf to do!! I’ve called all my close friends and the only person left to call is my crush.. We’re colleagues, kind of friends, saw each other like a week and a half ago but he’s kind of been ignoring me since, and tbh I don’t think he’s interested rn. But like I freaking don’t wanna be alone!!! Do yall think I could try calling him? Or would it like destroy any chances of me ever getting with him.. Jeez I really need to be with someone right now!! I don’t know if he’d understand omg I’m such a mess I feel so bad fuck...
Anyway he’s usually always ready to help and stuff and is a good person but like is it insane to contact him over this.. please guys I don’t know.. I don’t need pity or anything I just fucking need some advice rn please just answer if I should call him or not and why, I don’t wanna go into detail and all that..
Shit shit shit sorry for my language I’m literally panicking rn | Crush |
Normally when i dont look into his eyes he looks like a bad boy but when i look into his eyes he looks like a softy and he doesnt look as bad why is that | Crush |
So I got rejected by my crush, and her words where so wholesome in my eyes, ’cause my crush suited me the best. :) | Crush |
Quite recently, I've noticed that I've been thinking of my guy friend a lot. He and I are very close, talking almost every day and writing letters to each other. I've liked him for a while and he'll drop everything if I really need him to be with me at a certain time. A couple of times I noticed I felt this certain way like I should go in for a kiss. He and I have these moments that certainly feel like more than just friends, moments where we just stop and stare at each other for what feels like an eternity. I really don't know why, but lately, I've just been thinking about what would have happened if I did kiss him and just thinking of kissing him in general. I've been thinking of telling him my feelings but in the past when I did tell him he said he didn't feel the same way, but yet these moments and different things tell me otherwise. Maybe he's just unsure of his feelings I think what stopped me from going in for the kiss in the past and from me telling him is that I really don't wanna mess things up for us, I love this boy even if it's not necessarily a boyfriend/girlfriend type of love. He was cool about it the first time I told him and I'm scared if I try again it won't be that way. Maybe I'm feeling all these emotions and urges to do something since he'll be moving away this summer. I really don't know what to do, I've been thinking about this for quite a while now. Part of me is scared too that if I don't do anything, that if he does feel the same way, we wasted so much time being scared that we wouldn't have much time for an actual relationship. | Crush |
I really like this girl but she got quite a few guy friends. Do you think it's even worth it to get her number and ask her out or should I move on? | Crush |
So I just found out yesterday that the dude I have a crush on has slight anger issues which isnt a turn off or an ick or anything the problem is just that I have a really hard time determining tone so he can get mad and I’d have no idea and probably make it worse which will be fun to see how that goes | Crush |
So her comments are filled with "youre so beautiful" and heart emojis, but what can i comment to take her attention off other boys? | Crush |
We both go to different schools but i know hes not in a yr below me but i rlly want to talk to him and i know he likes me back cuz i can tell but both of us are shy. | Crush |
I've had a crush on this girl for 3 years. I finally had the courage to ask her out but then..........
She got a boyfriend yesterday
😞 | Crush |
So I’ve been working at my (m20) job for about two years now and when I came on there was this girl who worked my shift with me sometimes, real quiet and kinda shy. We talked a little but not a ton. Fast forward to about three months ago, we work more together now and she’s really opened up to me. She’s also 20, super smart, funny, and all around a really great person. Long story short, I want to ask her to go out with me, but I’ve never been in a situation like this with a coworker before, so I, understandably, don’t want to do it in a way that could make things awkward if she declines. Guess my question is, any advice for a dude who doesn’t want to make his workplace awkward but wants to ask his (f)coworker out? | Crush |
hi guys,
We're going to do our civic duty and take that possibly-heartstopping situation away and provide you with an alternative: this quiz. We'll tell you whether your girl crush likes you if you answer our questions. Tell us all about how she reacts to you, including the little smiles, whether she's standoffish or whether you crack her up, and we'll determine whether she feels the same way or not.
Here it is: [does she like me quiz](https://inquizz.com/quiz/does-he-like-me-quiz/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=Joni&utm_campaign=doesHeLikeMe). good luck and have fun! | Crush |
He is sooo CUTE. He is super flirty with me I just don't know how to progress. Today he randomly asked me if I thought Tom Holland was cute, I said he wasn't really my type an asked him why he wanted to know, he said he was just curious because every girl he talked to thought Tom Holland was cute. The other day he asked me if I had the option to eat anything or anywhere where would I pick. He always waits till we are alone to really talk to me and asking me questions about my life. He is just so adorableeee. I have his snapchat but I haven't even messaged him yet because I'm so nervous. I feel like I am giving him the same flirty energy to him but I'm not anywhere near comfortable with flirty. How do I progress? | Crush |
Just curious what you wish you could tell your crush :) Mine is something as simple as saying "Hi, how are you?" LOL I'm shy | Crush |
I’ve been in a discord sever with few of my friends who I’ve know for years. Apparently one of the members is my crush. I’ve been ready to tell her about my feelings, but before I tell her I wanted to make sure she doesn’t like anyone else, so I asked her that, turns out she likes one of my best friends I’ve known for about 8 years. So I was like, “nice, good for you, I hope you get him sometime” when she then asks me to tell him that she loved him. Imagine your put in that situation, when your ready to tell the person who’ve you loved for 3 years that you like her, then she tells you that she has another crush and wants your help scoring him. I was really pissed, but I helped her anyways and now they love each other. Should I tell her that I had a crush on her or not? This happened few hours ago and I don’t know what to do, or tell her. She then asks me to send her some piano sheets, romantic ones, so that she can play them for him, she even asked me if he loved romance, I just... wish I was that one guy she liked, she’d play me piano, would adore me, and love me from her heart. Anyways I’m happy for her, and now I think that I’m broken. should I tell her that I loved her or not? Thanks for taking the time to read this. | Crush |
Me and my friends took MDMA last night, and from that I saw the way my best friend (jarred) looked at my other best friend (Tina) and the next day I had to ask him if he had feelings for her as he looked at her like he was in love with her. He told me he had been feeling that way for some time now and that it had been very difficult for him. He hasn’t been able to tell her how he feels due to tinas boyfriend being jarreds best friend. As MDMA enhances your feelings, his feelings for her grew stronger and now he needs help and advice as to what to do to stop these feelings. We always all see each other in a group of 4 which makes it even harder for him to walk away from these emotions. So if anyone has any advice on how to deal with this situation please let me know. | Crush |
So one day me and him (my crush) were talking and he said “im ugly” and i said “no your hot” and he said “heh really now?” and we started flirting note that we are bestfriends.
(EDIT) So me and him have been flirting and making a lot more dirty jokes, we have a friend group and they always tease us. we are both in middle school, he’s in grade 8 and i’m in grade 7. he sometime takes my hat or my phone and runs away so i’m not sure anymore. | Crush |
Before i tell my story, let me explain the title. Of course I don't hate the person i think to be the most wonderful thing in the world, i think so. I will explain it now. So I am pretty, to put it bluntly, fucked up. I'm a 15 years old boy, a self proclaimed MAN!😂 Anyway, my social life are pretty fucked up, i have a lot of friends, or maybe "friends", i wont go into details about the " ", unless you will ask me. My childhood was, also, pretty fucked up. I was raped in 3rd grade by a class mate, she took her close off and made me get into the bathroom with her and touched herself, i didn't look, because she was naked, so I cant confirm that, but she did make a lot of weird noises. I have a few more... Issues but i think that will do. Anyway, my crush! A year and a half i began to... Well have a crush on my crush, but couldn't really bring myself to either tell her that or get closer to her. That was until, half a year later, we got instantly bonded thanks to one thing that we had in common, and that is the fact that we had messed up live and were seeking guidance and support. So we began to get closer and more personal but then, my situation got very emotional for no reason, sort of. I forgot to mention that i am a metal fan, due to my anger issues that are caused by my ADHD, it is a common side effect. Metal, although very comforting, can remind me that i am... Different, fucked up, as mentioned many, no, much times! Jesus i am dumb. Anyway, one day i was listening to metal, Iron Maiden for your information, and suddenly i thought to myself "you are LONELY" and then i began to burst out in anger, becoming almost bipolar, and entered into a still ongoing period of being depressed and angry, to being joeville and nice. And of course, this semi bipolarity got to my image of her, my crush. I began to say to myself, for no rational reason, "fuck her" and "she is hurting me" and ect. Sorry for the long story, but i think it is really important to know the whole story to be able to comment and maybe, i hope so, asses. So if anyone of you has any advice on what to do, i will be happy a million times if you share your advice, because right now i am to messed up to do anything about that, not a good phrasing but that's the point. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. | Crush |
There is a guy who's my friends's friend that I think I'm interesting in and always thinking about (and though that I had a crush on)...physicly, he's not really my type but still think he's beautiful and kind of hot, I heard about him so many bad things, but somehow I always believed and felt that he may be innocent or even if what they said about him is true, he must have that small bautiful part in him. Also, I honestly didn't want to judge someone without knowing him.
Few days ago I got a chance to meet him at my friend's house with a small group of other friends, so we get introduced to each other but didn't talked that much... Surprisingly, I felt nothing being there near him, I got no betterflies, I wasn't even stressing out, I was and still kind of confuse how I felt nothing (based on how much I though of him and had him on my dreams) I was expecting that I would definitely have feeling toward him or at least be so excited near him.
Now, I'm still thinking about him again and I dreamed about him once.
I don't get it!! Should i just move on? | Crush |
There’s this girl, that we ´ve known each since we were babies. She is from another country (like 690 kilometres away) and we have been seeing each other like twice a year,
and even at very young age (like 10,me11) she told me that she likes me too, and we were kinda in love.
Both 13 years and we had our first kiss at night on sofa, it was best moment of my life.
I was 16 she was 15 and we were together in a pool with shampagne and it was a lot of fun.
Few weeks later she texted me that she loves me and i told her the same, later we both started sending nude photos and we were doing videocalls while .... okay but one day she forgot to delete photos i sent her and her parents saw it and they banned her from using ig and fb for Limě 3 years.
A half year ago we started chatting again, its going great, but both of us havent showed any signs that we are still in love with her, today i wanted to make a big move, but she posted another guy on her stories and her private account.
Now i am mad as hell and confused at the same time, i have many thoughts of killing myself or that guy and i dont know that to do she is literally my love of a life.............. i wanna end this | Crush |
I have no idea how he felt after being terribly hurt by me. Two years ago. We had feelings for each other, we knew it through our awkward conversations and gestures. I thought it was high time to confess, so did him. It turned out to be a bad idea. I must have got a problem. I stopped liking him, I even felt disgusted. I verbally hurt him and even fell out with him a few times later. And we stop talking, until now.
I couldn’t remember what I said to him (through texts, I was feeling so disgusted that I couldn’t even talk to him properly) and how cruel my words were.
He kept avoiding me since then. After two years, my hateful feelings started to disappear, and I wrote him a letter to apologize. He didn’t reply, and I’m still regretful.
I know I’m such an asshole. If I were him, I don’t think I could forgive me.
I don’t know what I should do at the moment. | Crush |
Idk what to think | Crush |
I have a crush on my friend. I really like him and I can actually see something between us happening but I also hate myself for liking him. He has a girlfriend. Now before I get hate I liked him before he was going out with this girl and I don’t flirt with him as that is not fair to his girlfriend and it’s disrespectful but we are close because we have become really good friends. I have tried so hard to move on and to not think about it but every time I am around him there is something there between us and after us hanging out I’m just so happy but then I get sad because it isn’t anything more. He had said before he was with his girlfriend that I was very good looking and flirted lots and I think I got my hopes high and that there was acc a chance between us. I’m not going to confess my love for him whilst he is dating but I wanted to get it off my chest and seek possible advise. I don’t remember the last time I felt like this with a lad before. x | Crush |
I posted here before almost 3.5 years and It was about my crush, but guess what? yeah you are right, we are still talking everyday, BUT not in relationship.
I confessed TWICE, but both times got rejected, whenever i try to stay away from her, she comes and ask me to stay with her and bla bla, she always mentions that I am her closet person.
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BUT before 1 month, she texted me and told me she has mixed feelings (out of nowhere she mentioned that) and she rejected me twice because she is 1 year older than me... I was really in shock that why she is mentioning that out of nowhere. Then she continued saying that she doesnt want us to be in relationship now, lets see what the future hides for us.
Now I even feel worse than before, I dont know what is next. I tried many times to move on, I even moved on several times, but she ALWAYS come back, and she is jealous, she doesnt like when I speak to other girls.
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I really dont have a question, it is just weird and i really dont know .... I cant believe that I am still in the same position as before. I mean who cares about 1 year older? | Crush |
https://youtu.be/a5AonEL610c | Crush |
I’ve posted about my crush here a few times lol
This time I wanna know the right way to ask her to be my girlfriend? We both live in the UK so are meeting up soon and I wanted some advice on how to pop the question 🤓 | Crush |
I posted the other day about me telling my crush I like him.
So, here’s an update;
He texted me two days later... in the afternoon saying, goodnight, which confused me.
So I said « it’s the middle of the day » and he said « I don’t care » but he replied like right away, and normally he has to translate some messages, so he never really replies that fast. So I don’t know if it was to my message about me telling him, I like him, ooorr
So, we kept talking, blah blah, and he completely ignored what I said. And I said it very clearly, « I like you » not anything like, I have feelings for you... just, I like you.
And it was really frustrating to talk to him, because he just swept what I said right under that rug. So, I’m confused, now :/ | Crush |
I(16)met a girl(16) online last year and i’m pretty sure i’m in love with her. I’ve given her so many hints and we flirt all the time, but i have no idea how she feels about me.
I want to tell her how i feel, but i’ve never done anything like that before.
I just need help. | Crush |
I (M15) have a female friend (F15) that i'm really close to. We met in 6th grade and we've been really good friends since. In the past i've crushed on her and I've even asked her out once, but she rejected me. This was years ago and it was also before she was allowed to date in the first place. I've learnt in the past she's crushed on me a few times too, but she never made the move. Anyways, recently i've begun to catch some feelings towards her and i've been debating in my mind if I should ask her out or not. She's really nice to me and even straight up flirts sometimes. Things like calling me really cute and stuff like that. My question is, if I really like her, should I tell her and potentially risk things getting weird. Or should I just keep her as a friend. I really think me and her could maybe be something but then again i'm not entirely sure. Any advice would be appreciated, thank you! | Crush |
My crush is the guy that’s probably most known as the quiet kid, he barely talks to anyone, and I don’t know how to talk to him. I’m not sure how to approach this! Thanks for any advice I’m really clueless! | Crush |
My crush told me I looked good in the outfit and asked if I had a date today. When I said no, he continued to ask if I was interested in someone at workplace 🤷♀️.
We are not that close, but this is the second time he complimented on my outfit. He never really does that to other colleagues. Is there any signal that he also likes me or is he just being polite? He is 16 years older than me and is a friendly, decent german guy. | Crush |
so i just got over a crush and last year. some cute guy i think he pointed me out in the year book i’m not too sure but his friend did do that head nod at me and the cute guy said ye i like her. i didn’t take it too personal i kinda forgot all about it and not long ago he sent me a message on snap hi i said hey and his like hru i said i’m g hbu and etc he said a pickup line and i’m like ah ok nicee and his like bye so i said bye and then he blocked me so idk if he likes me or not iv been trying to be friends with him in general now it’s so much more awkward people are shipping me with him and i just, idk what to do i want to be his friend but idk him too well i’m thinking of asking him something like what was that snap about ahaha and ask if he actually likes me or not and not make it awkward but i just idk help... | Crush |
So I am a Junior in HS and I started to develop these feelings for this Mexican girl in my class. She mainly approaches me and I sometimes approach her as well. She was also the one to follow me on social media first (I was one of the first guys she followed our school) and I think I was one of the first guys that she talked to. She also touched my hand before. But here’s the catch. She is naturally flirtatious and often talks to many other guys. I’m pretty sure that I see a few signs in those “if your crush likes you back” videos but I don’t know if that applies to me cuz she is naturally flirtacious and does the same to some of the other guys in my school. I really don’t know if she likes me back or not and it sucks. | Crush |
i have a crush but i can’t really tell if i like him a lot to be in a relationship. | Crush |
I posted before but we work together and we've kinda been flirting a bit back and forth. And I've been shooting my shot. And my birthday kinda caused a chain if events and I pulled her off to the side and we just kinda kissed and it was fucking awesome. Idk where it goes but I'm so stoked right now. | Crush |
So there is the girl i like met her on valorant i live in nyc and she lives in michigan everyday we talk she has a best best friend and they hop on a zoom call most nights and just talk and he had been simping for her a little bit and i saw dm's between her and my friend and she told him how there's a couple people trying to get with her her ex and her best friend and maybe me which yeah i do want to we basically play games A LOT and we text everyday send heart emojis and stuff like that
Saying good night and good morning everyday i want to tell her how i feel but im just too scared that either she had feelings for her ex or her best friend | Crush |
So, I’ve liked a guy for a bit, we met during a trip, and I ended up leaving early to go to the hospital (the joke we have is that I fell for him, literally) but he ended up checking on me later that day. He doesn’t speak the same language as me so, yeah, that’s fun. But, it’s real cute when he speaks English. So I told him that I like him more than a friend (or bffs), but he hasn’t replied. And I think the reason I told him, was because I always am thinking about him. But now, I wish I could just delete the message I sent...
Does anyone have any advice to help my spain... but the s is silent?😭 | Crush |
Ok so there’s this girl at my school named Alejandra. I like her she’s pretty hot and she also plays soccer she plays on the girls team which finishes 5 min after my baseball team. We’re both sophomores, She’s Mexican like most of the school even though I’m a mix of Romanian and Ukrainian. Anyway over like the past year I guess everyone thinks she likes me but idk if she does. So we were at practice and we had finished and I was hanging out with my friends by a tree when their soccer team is finished. Then she walks up and says “Luca’s wearing tighty whities!” Which is partially true because for my cup they were the only thing they sold at the sports store plus my dad said my balls would get hurt if I didn’t wear them. I guess she saw them cause our baseball pants are really tight. But anyway everyone started laughing but then my friend said she might have said this because she like liked me and everyone thought that or that she was just insecure about the kind of underwear that she wore and like teased me about it. But idk if she likes me but everyone says so. I guess I’ll just let you guys say your opinion about all the stuff like if she likes me or if she’s insecure about what she wears. Thanks, mulțumesc. | Crush |
Hello newbie here. Just want to here summm opinions if am I normal for feeling something again to this guy whom I had mutual understanding back then but I was the first one to back out, when we were seniors. Now, after 3 years in college I found myself back on wanting to "rekindle" if there's still something left. Or should I just be happy for him?? im so lost. also! is this a crush or the word with the "L" | Crush |
Last year me and her where close but the she hooked up with my best friend and over the summer they broke up and ever since then she hasn’t spoken a single word to me what do I do ? | Crush |
I have liked this one guy for almost two years and he has liked me for almost two years as well. We are both SUPER shy so that is why we aren’t dating yet. But besides that, I think about him ALL THE TIME. And I was wondering for all the guys out there, do you think about the girl that you like all the time as well? Is it similar to what girls think about the guys they like? And what are some things that you think about with her? But just remember, this guy and I have liked each other for almost two years, so him and I are very serious about it. It is not just a little crush. I have had this feeling since I met him, that he is the one but that is far in the future. | Crush |
(I'm a 19yo M)
So, there's this girl I only see during the holidays (max 2weeks/year) and I've had a crush on her for like 4 years. Last holiday, she had some other business to attend to so I didn't even see her.
This year's summer holiday is approaching and I ask her if she'll come. Yes, our holidays overlap for one week. Even though we live in neighbouring countries, it never came to my mind to do something during the year. Whatever, I got lucky that we can meet this year.
A few weeks later, we were texting and I ask her if she wrote any new songs. She did, and sends me one... It was about some dude that she loves who is far away and she'll only see for a week. At this point, I begin trembling, replay the song and verify of I heard that well. I was like "it must be a coincidence, there's some other guy who is far away from her and that she'll only see for a week". I didn't know what to do.
For the last year, I've been writing these things, kinda like poems about all sorts of things. I wrote plenty about this girl. I thought "she sends me some clues, I'll do the same". I send her one where I clearly mention a girl I miss, and that I'll only see this girl for a week during the holidays. If she meant it the same way that I do, she really must understand... But nothing came out of it. She really liked the writings, that's all. I felt so stupid for the rest of the day. I went from being so certain to having nothing at all.
I honestly don't know what do do now. | Crush |
I’ve been "talking" to my crush for a little over a month via Instagram. I say "talking" because it’s been more of an exchange of wholesome/love memes than an actual conversation. I don’t entirely mind that we send memes, but when I do try to make conversation or ask questions he doesn’t really keep it going. If I ask questions he’ll answer them, but he never asks me anything.
He’s also kinda bad at responding. For example I’ve been left on delivered for about four hours now. His friends say that he does it to everyone and that I’m lucky because it actually seems like he’s trying with me, but I don’t know if they’re just making excuses for him.
I’ve implied on several occasions (through memes) that I was going to leave (leave him alone) but he always tells me that he hopes I won’t. I asked him out a while ago and he said yes, but we haven’t made plans or anything. I would really like to see him, but I don’t want to seem too needy by bringing it up.
I really don’t know if he likes me or not. He could be throwing obvious signs my way, but I’ll always have it at the back of my mind that he doesn’t. If one of you thinks I’m ignoring the red flags please let me know. I don’t want to get hurt again. | Crush |
Heartbreak sucks guys. You love the heck out of one person. They leave you. It’s not because you’re fat, not because you aren’t their type, and it’s not because you are ugly. It’s because they love someone else. Just like they love someone you love them. Today I was hit with reality. I realized that he doesn’t like me. And it’s not my fault. They should be happy and I know that I’m not going to be the one that makes them feel joy. Today was all I needed to finally move on. I needed to hear, “I have a crush on a girl I’ve liked for a while now, I can’t move on from her”. So thanks for letting me hear that. Because now I can actually find the right person. Thank you josh | Crush |
she is a video game character
yep
i'm lonely
:( | Crush |
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