selftext
stringlengths 1
40k
| subreddit
stringclasses 2
values |
|---|---|
so me and a group of friends video call every night and i’m always the last to sleep, thus I wish them all good night and I say sweet dreams. Now this is not out of the ordinary, but the guy i like belongs to this group and he will stay up as long as he can with me and everytime we say good night … before I can say sweet dreams he says it to me first . 0////0 And he says it with a huge grin, ive also started picking up terminology for a game he plays without ever playing it myself …..down bad.
|
Crush
|
Hey, guys
This is me Sagnik, I am from India and study in class 9. There is a girl who is in my school she is in class 10. Her birthday is coming so guys can you please help me as I want to prepare on one of the best gifts for her. Yup, this year we won’t b able to meet so I can’t gift her something is just want to make a unique video her birthday but I am very poor at editing also now a day everyone is making just a slideshow but I want like something related to South Korea or anime. As we both like k-dramas. She got a crush on HARUTO who is from treasure band I also like them. Also guys if you can help me then please contact me. My Instagram id is @ sagnikpandit. Link -[https://www.instagram.com/sagnikpandit/](https://www.instagram.com/sagnikpandit/)
|
Crush
|
im in 10th grade and everyday I see my janitor(girl) walk by me and lord is she so fine. we had this one in counter when I was using the bathroom and she was cleaning it( which i knew) and she jumped when she turned around and saw me pissing. she started saying "im sorry,im sorry" and then left the bathroom. I was so mad because personally i wanted her to stay so i could just destroy. I see her everday and I catch her glancing at me once in a while. shes easily in her mid 40's. what should I do?Would she want to hu too? Please help
|
Crush
|
So little a year ago me and my friend Ben sat down at a random lunch table with 3 other kids there. These kids names are Carter, Chloe, and Lilly.
The 5 of us started talking and we all realized that we were all mega nerds. We mainly talked about Pokemon.
Anyway so during lunchtime oftentimes Ben, Carter and Lilly would be leaving Chloe and I out a bit. Not intentionally but just talking about stuff we were interested in. Me and Chloe pretty much just showed memes to the other. We really started to bond. I started to develop feelings for her.
Then COVID hit. Just my luck that before hand Chloe was the only person I was not able to get the phone Number of. So a year went by. A few months ago I was talking to Lilly. I mentioned Chloe to her. She said she could give me Chloe's discord. I took her up on that offer in a heartbeat.
So me and Chloe started talking again through discord. It seemed as if she and her family were doing pretty good.
About a month ago Ben invited us all to go see Godzilla vs Kong. Me, Chloe, Ben and Carter all showed up. Lilly couldn't make it. When I walked in Chloe was the only one there. I greeted her with a high five. During the movie we were both going crazy. After the movie was over Chloe hugged me before we left the theater room. I was caught of gaurd but hugged back. When we got outside Chloe's mom agreed to take a photo of the 4 of us. I felt Chloe put her arm around me. I put my arm around her but didn't want anyone to know that I liked her so I put my other arm around Ben.
Before Chloe left she hugged me one more time. I hugged back. She gives the best hugs I have ever felt. No she did not hug anyone else.
The 2 of us have now been talking on the phone practically everyday since the movie.
I want to ask her out but I am far too afraid to loose my best friend if she rejects me and things then become awkward. I know its only awkward if we make it awkward but we are literally 2 of the most awkward people in school.
I do plan on asking her out eventually just not for a while.
|
Crush
|
My best friend has a girlfriend now and I never got to tell them how I felt about them. I thought it was just a phase but it turns out it wasn’t and I feel so heartbroken. I lost appetite, my music sounds different and my brain is corrupted only thinking about them. The worst part is that our friendship is drifting away. So that means I won’t even have a friend anymore. I try to stay strong though, you know thinking positive. “At least they are happy” or “at least they have someone to talk to more.” I don't know what this feeling is but it hurts, I wished I could have told them something or gave them a hint instead of keeping quiet the whole time.
|
Crush
|
So I'm crushing on this guy on my crew team. I have no clue if he likes me or not, I've seen him glance my direction, maybe at me or maybe hes just looking somewhere else and I'm reading it wrong but then today my brother had to drive him home and it was like I didn't really exist. Idk if that's just him being shy or if he doesn't feel the same way. The second thing is that I'm super shy and I dont really talk to anyone new alone unless, if I'm with a friend or they start talking to me then it's all good. I'm just a terrible conversation starter, I feel awkward. Any help on the questions would be appreciated thanks guys and gals!
|
Crush
|
I ran into my crush a few days ago at an event. She is on my swim team. She was friendly and said hi. Does this mean that she likes me because I am planning to ask her out. She also somehow recognized me even though I had a mask on, does knowing my face well mean that she has a crush on me?
|
Crush
|
I fucked up, I made a big mistake, he probably hates me now.
I think I hurt his feelings a lot, he’s never spoken to me like that before. I’m on the verge of tears rn, I don’t even know if he’s going to speak to me anymore
|
Crush
|
Hi pls help ur girl out. I’ve been talking to my crush for almost 3 months and he’s my class mate. I really like talking to him but he kinda gives me “mixed signals” ig. Because during school breaks like this winter break he usually takes a day to reply because of playing games. I dont want to cut ties with him and wanna get to know him better. But, I also dont like getting attached this much because I feel that I am the only one growing feelings for him and might hurt myself. I’m still confuse if I should continue texting him because I dont know when will our face to face classes will start. Maybe, he might get weird out if I tell him I like him but we only met through the internet. Pls help I dont know what to do :<<
|
Crush
|
TELL ME WHENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN DID YOU LOVE SOMEBODY ELSEEEEE DID YOU CARE WHEN YOU JUST TORE MY HEART TO SHREDS IN SOMEONE'S BED?!
&#x200B;
Anyways, have a nice day/night. Drink lots of water :)).
|
Crush
|
My crush said he liked me back but wasn’t into me to date. We stayed cool until I said I wasn’t into him anymore and our conversations started to die down. Now he leaves me on read all the time even though he said we were “close friends” makes 0 sense I’m so annoyed
|
Crush
|
I love stalking the hot girls at my school. I constantly stare at them and sometimes even take pics when they’re not looking. I constantly admire their perfect bodies and fantasize about us together
|
Crush
|
There's this girl that I really want to get close to but my friend is really close friends with her. He knows that I have feelings for her and has given me some tips and other ways to help me out. And he assured me that he doesn't plan on dating her, he's bi and tbh he is the kinda guy that would get close with girls but would never actually date them.
Although they're really really close and have made it very evident about that. They sometimes hangout together or something along those lines and I can't help but feel kinda jealous. I have admit to him quite a few times that I can't help but feel jealous and he told me to not think about it too much. But this feeling is happening way too often and easily so.
What should I do? Does anyone have any advice to get over this feeling?
|
Crush
|
I recently realised that i ve been friendzoned by my crush , i realised that im the one who desperatly wants to meet her and hang out with her , im the one who send messages and be interested , she just respond with cold and short answers , before that she used to send me first the messages and talks , but when i become more interested in her and ask abt her always , that changed , now im the one who chases her , i dont know what to do and how to get out from friendzone and attract her romantically .
|
Crush
|
I(M16) already had a feeling that this Christmas was going to be crappy, first my crush(16F) didn't want to come to my town for Christmas , then today on Christmas I wished her "merry Christmas" to which she replied "Merry Christmas bro" 😭😭😭
And just three days ago she was sending me hearts and now I'm his brother 🥺🥺
What should I do?
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/ro5k4x)
|
Crush
|
Yesterday i proposed my crush she had told me that she hasn't moved on from her past relationship ...now what should i do? I love her soo much
|
Crush
|
Hello,
I have a crush on my best friend and I was wondering how to tell her without our friendship being awkward.
More context: I am one of her 2 best friends and we both have dreams of living together forever. She has said she has never had a crush in her life.
|
Crush
|
I have a crush on this girl. We talk and laugh together all the time. But there’s this guy who I’m friends with that has been friends with her for a long time. I was sorta just added into their little friendship. I have a feeling she may like this other guy. Any advice on what I should do?
|
Crush
|
i have a love hate relationship w crushes bc once more i have fallen for a guy i BARELY KNOW who is NOT the ideal person to fall for like i am setting myself up here
dont even know if hes singke and even if he DID ask me out id prolly say no bc I DONT KNOW THIS GUY MY MIND JUST PICKED HIM BECAUSE HES HOT
CRUSHES ARE SO STUPID BC OF THIS LIKE IDK THIS GUY HE MIGHT BE AN ASSHOLE BUT HERE I AM OBSESSING OVER HIM ROLLING AROUND AND GIGGLING LIKE A SCHOOLGIRL
EVERY LITTLE THING HE DOES OR IF HE PAYS THE SLIGHTEST ATTENTION TO ME I AM IMMEDIATELY MELTING
I DO NOT KNOW THIS FUCKING GUY.
why i am giggling and "hehe"ing about him i have no idea its absolutely insane and i am tired
but at the same time i absolutely do not under any circumstances want to let go of the happy brain chemicals these interactions give me bc istg u coukd get high off of them theyre borderline addicting
fine ill stay having a stupid crush on this random ass stranger if it means him breathing near me will make me feel like im on cloud 9 send tweet
|
Crush
|
So im in high school and theres a girl i have a crush on. I had been saying hi to her and having an occasional conversation with her for a few months, but then she found out i liked her and she got a boyfriend so those two things scared me from talking to her which is stupid i know. So i havent talked to her in like a month or more, but like everyone knows i like her so they keep telling her and saying that im better than her bf to her. So idk what to do should i try to talk to her an become a friend I dont want to be just friends tho and i dont wanna hear i need to move on cuz i physically can not do that idk i just need some words of wisdom i feel helpless rn
|
Crush
|
so ive had a crush on this guy for many months now. at the start we met through mutual friends and he was pretty shy that day. later on my friends kept talking about how he's hot and I agreed. we started snapping and even though he talked to other girls too I still rlly liked our convos and like he's sense of humour. but after a couple weeks he stopped replying to everyone cause he deleted snap. so I had no way of talking to him cause its weird to just dm him on insta when we don't know each other that well. anyways I would see him sometimes at the train station cause he goes to a boy school and I go to a girl school and whenever I saw him I would feel so happy even though he didn't do or say anything to me. one time he was like looking forward and I turned and we made like eye contact and I had so many butterflies. but then i didn't see him again at the train station. all these months my friends kept shipping me with him and saying stuff about me liking him even though he doesn't even know me well but it made him get in my head and it was hard to stop thinking about him and fantasising different scenarios. I've tried to stop obsessing over him but it keeps coming back whenever I'm reminded of him. also i don't think he likes me cause he doesn't like my insta posts but he likes other ppls. like if he talked to me he would like me ughhg. a few weeks ago i dmed him on insta saying hi but he never ended up seeing the message so i unsent it. idk if he saw it but ignored it or didn't see. its so annoying cause like fast forward to today my friends saw him at the station and were telling me abt how he was hot and i shoulve been there. i want to like have an actual convo w him instead of me just imagining so many scenarios cause its so annoying and a waste of my time. any advice? Ive tried to move on but there's literally no one else i could like ahh. thx for advice on what to do.
|
Crush
|
So I asked this girl out and we have yet to go on a date but I text her and stuff and I texted her a couple of days ago and she hasn’t responded and I recently learned that she played a game with a friend of hers that happens to be a boy should I be concerned?
|
Crush
|
I have been liking this guy since the beginning of the school year. He appears to be funny and pretty nice but the problem is I barley know him. He might have a girlfriend but many of my friends who talk to him say that “she likes him and that the feelings aren’t mutual between them” since he likes someone else (which I suspect to be me because, there would be sometimes when I would catch him staring at me). The girl who takes interest in him is very affectionate with him and hugs and grabs him all the time which makes me uncomfortable and sometimes jealous. Every time I feel his presence or even think about him I get butterflies in my stomach, I try to avoid him around school and classes yet I always want to be around him. It’s so weird. Since Valentine’s Day is coming up my friends are encouraging me to ask him out and I’m just too shy. And I’m afraid since I barley know him he might think it’s weird. Please give me some advice!!!
|
Crush
|
You guys also get hard while flirting with your crush?
|
Crush
|
Sorry for the lazy title, anyways She is in my class and I recently started talking to her and She recommended a show for me to watch and I figured ill start with that, she told me to please give her an honest review of it and stuff. Now I want to create convo and talk to her more but I don't know how to start convo so I really need help in that also to ask her out, cause we have exams so probs after that. But what do I say?
|
Crush
|
So i started year 10 2 days ago and tmr is my third day, its a new class as i wasnt in his class last year, now ive only known him for 2 days and i already like him and have a crush on him, he is so cute but he bearly knows me and the only time we talk is in science when we get passed the glue stick. There isnt a certain ammount of time of when someone develops a crush, its could takes minutes, weeks or even months for some people, mine was a couple days. Ive told my best friend and imma tell her about him, i just cant not talk about him, we do have form class together and every single class except 3, but i only sit infront of him in science and thats all, and thats only a few times a week. He doesnt even know me but i want to get to know him, im gonna take my time and see his personality more clearly, he is really funny, he did pass a note to a girl he asked me to throw over to her but not sure what it was as he was laughing, then my classmate(girl) wrote on a peice of paper, i love you, and gave it to her pretending it was him, but i like this boy and want to get to know him, imma start having chats to him in science like, im new here, how does everyone act in class? That sort of stuff, so any advice would be really helpful! Thanks for reading!!!
|
Crush
|
There’s this girl in my grade (8th) and she is very pretty and I have a crush on her and stuff (you know the whole deal) and sometimes she says she hates me like saying “screw you” “I hate you” but kinda jokingly by here tone of voice and we ride the same bus and right when she gets on she talks to me about stuff that happens to her that day and when we ride the bus we just glance at each other and we will just laugh or smile, and she will like lipsink her songs that she is listening to and just look at me and sometimes she will just stare at me jokingly and we will see who will laugh first, I’m afraid that I waited too long and screwed up because she used to call me and we would play games together while barely knowing each other and now she does not, should I text her or should I wait or what? ( I also forgot to include this but we live pretty close to each other, like within a mile)
|
Crush
|
I told my crush I should have made more moves on her that way I could have asked her out today and she said “why not Valentine’s Day” now I’m shaking and got a giant boner lmaoooooo I have liked this girl for so long
|
Crush
|
By memes, I make sure to carefully curate them so that theyre not lame or shitty ones but ACTUALLY funny ones,, all he does is to reply me with a "AHAHAHA" and nothing else, and I'm actually losing my hope. I just love making people laugh with my jokes and my collection of memes, but when he "laughs" over text alone, I feel so fucking happy,, but he hasnt shown me any signs of liking me so im really going to give up. I dont think it has anything to do with me being inadequately good-looking/sexy or smart either, because (I'm not boasting, I'm actually just stating it) I do top my school and get complimented by strangers on my looks quite often. Maybe I'm just not his type? Idk,, sometimes I think I feel like a complete idiot in love around him, and that realisation alone makes me think that he's just not that into me. To make matters worse, he's starting to act more like a fboi than a decent guy, and I just dont want to see him sexually,, because I like him for his personality and I also dont want him to look at me JUST sexually, but at this point im just planning to give up. My heart hurts alot like hell, but I need to get over it before I fall in love more and suffer.
|
Crush
|
Hey guys uh, I had been crushing on a guy and I can’t give much context but I accidentally sent him a long Snapchat video that was meant to go to my friend. In the video I was somewhat excitedly talking about something I was telling my crush, and the video just looked like I was gearing up to tell my friend about talking to the guy and what we had been speaking about.
When I first got to know this guy a few months ago, we became slight friends - I asked him out and he kind of turned me down. Kind of. He initially said no and then asked what I meant when I asked him out - to which I responded that I actually wasn’t sure what I wanted, that I’d be up for FWB maybe or something else. He said he’d be interested, but we honestly never did anything about it so I feel like he turned me down.
Skipping past some stuff, I’ve gotten to know him better as a friend but have still kept my crush. He seemed to grow more enthusiastic in our friendship so I wondered if he might like me back, though I wasn’t certain. But after tonight I feel like I genuinely screwed things up wether I had a chance or not.
After I realized I had accidentally sent the video, I saw he responded “Dear God” and just said he’d pretend that never happened which I tried to apologize for and clarify because it might’ve been redeemable video (there could’ve been another way to interpret the video, kind of - which I tried to play it off as). He reassured me that I shouldn’t be anxious and that it’s okay but I feel like he’s lying to me and I don’t want to bother him about it again. I’d think that was him turning me down again, though it was unclear the first time even. I don’t know if I should take a hint, if there even is a hint or anything else.
things just really suck tonight.
Any thoughts on my situation? My apologies for the long post.
Edit: I forgot to mention one thing. He also said, after telling me to stop being anxious and that it’s okay “If anything it was a compliment but it wasn’t”. I’m honestly still confused as to what he meant by that.
|
Crush
|
i have alot of anxiety and im very shy when it comes to girls. what should i do because i really wanna say something to her.
|
Crush
|
I think this guy at work likes me, but how do i know if his behavior is starting to get creepy or if it’s a normal crush. He usually parks next to me and i constantly see him staring or looking at me. We don’t talk unless it’s work related. But i’m noticing he’s starting to go out of his way to be around me more like during break or when i leave or get to work he’ll try to time getting out of his vehicle so he can be at least behind me or near me. He’s seems nice and is usually around when i need help, but one day after work i noticed it looked like he was following me he usually turns off on another street but this time he didn’t, he was just one car behind me but as soon as i hit a red light he jumped off and turned the other way. Am i being paranoid? Is this behavior creepy? Like i said we don’t really talk he just stares and looks at me a lot and is always trying to be around me.
|
Crush
|
Acc gonna scsream he keeps giving mixed signals and it’s messing my mind up
He’s looking at my snap stories quickly (usually he’s only on snap like once a day and I post throughout) he stares at me in class a lotttt but sometimes he just acts like he hates me and speaks to this other girl (who I happen to become friendly with) like huh💀 help-
|
Crush
|
So at the start of the school year I met this girl and we've been friends since. The thing is that I have a crush on her. She's in most of my classes and sometimes she glances at me or decides to switch seats to sit next to me. Idk if she likes me or not but I've been wanting to confess, I just don't know how because I think it would be awkward especially because usually she's in her group of friends. And it could ruin our friendship or make all her (AND MY) friends think I'm really weird. Any advice?
|
Crush
|
I can’t stop smiling when people say I like her and my face goes red if I say her name, and if My mind suddenly snaps to her my stomach feels like wind goes through my stomach, is this a crush?
|
Crush
|
The title explains it all I just need to get over my girl best friend and I really don’t want to confess and its been driving me nuts for the past few months, advice would be appreciated
|
Crush
|
Hi first time here,
I’ve liked this one girl in my school for almost 2 and a half years now, but I could never tell her. She’s been in most of my classes since freshman year (now a junior) and have talked to her in the gym. She says hi to me everyday multiple times in the hallway and talks to me in my classes.
I don’t want to sound weird for saying all of this stuff, but she sometimes, at random, touches my hands when they are on the desk, writes stuff on my papers, starts conversations with me, and acts overly excited when ever I’m around her.
My problem is that I think she might just be being friendly or is just fucking with me and I’m just taking it too seriously and we’re just be friends. I can’t tell anymore. If I ask her out and she says no, than all my classes will be awkward and horrible.
Ive never told anyone this before, and I had to let it out here now. I don’t need an answer to what I should do, but I want some thoughts. She is literally perfect, beautiful, athletic, smart, funny, and caring, and I can’t just let it go.
One other thing, I don’t snapchat her at all. I’ve barley used snap since quarantine and I feel like I have to snap her for me to have a chance with her.
Thank you guys.
|
Crush
|
None of the generic stuff we’ve heard mine body language or eye contact. What other things you do to let your crush know you’re interested?
|
Crush
|
There’s a girl (we’ll say Gabby is her name) I thought looked cute and I thought one day, imma go up to her and ask her out or something. After days of gaining the courage, as I’m walking up, some other guy (Jack) asks her out. Jack is in my next period after lunch and he told me he asked her out for his friend (Luke). I now see Gabby and Luke together everyday. Keep in mind, that Luke is also friends with 2 out of 5 people I sit with at lunch. That situation was last semester Oct-Nov 2021. Me and gabby also have same class for 5th & 6th period (science & lunch) and everytime starting this semester, I swear I keep catching her like, spying or just glancing at me every now and then. Also keep in mind I’m not a toxic guy, I’ve always been single and I’m a very chill nice dude. Idk what to do in this situation. Do I talk to Gabby on the low? Do I wait until if they break up? Idk
|
Crush
|
I asked my crush out and she said yes any ideas on where to go for a first date??
|
Crush
|
My crush said “I’ll be back soon”, they’re going on a trip for a week. What should I respond with?
|
Crush
|
hey, so there’s a guy who was in my class that i had last semester which btw the semester just ended. i don’t have classes with him next semester so i won’t talk to him or see him often. we talked a lot in class and outside of class during our study block together. we didnt really text often nor did he ask me to hang. here’s the thing. he’s a v feminine guy which i think is super cute. he is into fashion and he has only girl friends. i think he is straight but i’m not totally sure. he showed me his Pinterest with pictures of boy n girl couples. the last day we talked i was upset and i told him. he was like “ur going to miss this class???” in the most shocked tone ever. i was lowkey thinking “i’m gonna miss it because of u” but then i just said “no?? i’m talking about english” and he laughed. he told me that the class was lots of fun and he gave me a valentines themed chocolate signed from him to me. i am so sad on how to talk to him and continue talking to him after i’m not going to be able to see him anymore. we had so much fun and so many memories because we practically saw each other every day. now idk if we will ever talk again like how we used to :(
what do u think i could say to him
thank u
|
Crush
|
Okay so recently I met this guy in my gym class at school. At first I just saw him as any other guy but recently I’ve been feeling different. I don’t wanna say he’s not like other guys but idk there’s just something about him. Once we got comfortable with each other a little bit we started hanging out after school a lot. We would either just walk together, we’d go to the park or sometimes we’d just get some food and chill. It’s become something I look forward to everyday. Another thing about him is that he can read people like a book. Like recently mid conversation he just randomly brought up that he’s been “talking” to someone for a few months. That’s really made me sad you know. But I was wondering if he said it because he figured out I liked him or he just said it just to let me know. Idk but I don’t wanna ruin everything we have. I have so much fun hanging out with him and talking to him, I don’t wanna ruin that omg. What should I do. Like I know he’s just being nice but why do I keep expecting more.
|
Crush
|
We’re so devoted to the people we live that we made a subreddit about it. Honestly, if it weren’t for love. I’d be living my best life, I would still have close friends, and I wouldn’t be so depressed. So why do we bother? Besides science
|
Crush
|
Soo i basically told the girl i liked her(i just texted:i wanted to let you know that i think you are beautiful too.) because a friend told me he heard her say that i was handsome.she replied? And said that she never said that and that my friend is capping.i still have eyes contact and she asked me for a homework sooo is it still possible?
|
Crush
|
Hi what should I reply to my crush everytime he shares a new music of his favorite artist :>>
|
Crush
|
MY crush has a boyfriend what should I say/do
|
Crush
|
(16F) i haven’t seen him in four years, but I still like him. It’s pathetic, whatever. We were classmates for two years (Yr 7 to 8) then i moved to the city. Year 12 is starting for me and it’s been like 4 years but I still like him so much, i don’t know how this is even possible. The thing is, it’s all piled up - I don’t face my problems and I try to just run away and deny it. I don’t want to do that anymore.
I don’t know if it’s because it’s 2:16 AM, the type of spur-of-the-moment boldness that u get at this time but I want to tell him. We were mutuals on Instagram for a while but now we’re not, because weeks ago I wanted to get over him so I figured if I cut off any mutual contacts it would help. But I just want to confess to him. ive waited too long, maybe it’s going to hit him like a brick. He’s popular, he knows a lot of gorgeous girls my age for sure, and iwas just a classmate three years ago and I’m not even the prettiest. But as of right now I want nothing more thang for him to know. I don’t want to keep going what if, I’ve tortured myself too much. I think I’ll regret it in the morning but I just want to let him know now because I think this is going to keep eating me alive.
Ok as Im typing this Im not as sure. But I’ve thought about doing this for a while. Should I do it? tell me if what I’m doing is the right closure or is it just plain stupidity and I’ll just regret it forever.
|
Crush
|
My crush has a boyfriend and I am upset I just need to talk it out but discord is not working so I can not but hey it's alright it's not the end of the world
|
Crush
|
so i recently found out this guy i had a crush on when we were at school lives in the same city as me again for college, and the feelings i had back then are kind of coming back.
i followed him on ig and he followed me back but idk if i should start a conversation, i don’t even know what i would say.
i was too shy to talk to him back then and i don’t want to miss another opportunity, but also don’t want to seem desperate or annoying. :,) helpp
|
Crush
|
me and my ex dated for 2 years it was really toxic because we were super young i liked someone else like 2 days into the relationship they always asked me if i did like this person and i would always deny because i wasn’t sure if i did but a couple days later i blocked the person for good and we continued our relationship.Everything was good for the next months we broke up got back together a lot and they would always ask me “did you like them” and i would always deny it and say no until one day i just got tired of it and said “yes i think i did have feelings for them” and they blocked me and threatened to kill themseleves what i did to prevent that i snuck out to see them i was 15 btw so i couldn’t drive or anything but i snuck out and went to go see them we got back together and continued our relationship like normal until their mom found out that they snuck me in they got their phone taken away our relationship was going downhill and one day they left me i let it happen because they told me they were still hurting about the past they went off on me saying many things i let it happen because i understood they were hurt. after not talking for 2 months we got back together and our relationship was more toxic because they were still hurting they ended up liking 2 other people it hurt so much because i was supportive and told them i understood that they’re hurt and thats why they caught feelings for them while we were together and this august we broke up and we haven’t gotten back together and we have talked but only a little they moved on and i haven’t i still love them and i think about them all the time i don’t know what to do i know we were toxic but i miss them so much i loved them a lot we understood each other and the good times we had were the best i miss them what should i do?
|
Crush
|
Girl's consider their friend's opinion for/about their crush..?
|
Crush
|
I have this boy in school that I silently had a crush on. I caught him looking at me a lot of times and I thought he liked me back. We didn’t talk much or text or anything. I am an introvert and he is too. There is a girl who liked him too. She approached him and now they are together. They are in the same class as me so I see them everyday. I don’t know how to move on. My crush on him should fade away by now cause it has been five months. I just can’t seem to move on. What should I do.
|
Crush
|
So my best friend let’s call her Michelle, I’ve known her since kindergarten. She’s a year older than me (19) and then her younger brother is my age (18). I’d never do anything to ruin our friendship or make my relationship between her brother and I weird so I’m probably never going to act on anything.
That being said… I have dreamt about this man so much within the past 4 years oh my goodness…
He’s like REALLY handsome like Prince Charming Tik tok white big of the month type attractive. He’s athletic and really extroverted and such a sweet guy while also a bit of a dick (he teases me when I see him which isn’t often). That’s never been my type though lol. I think I have a crush on him because I’m not close with him and don’t know him well enough, I project anything I want onto him but also him and I snap randomly so it’s not like I DOnt know him at all because I’ve also known him since kindergarten. He’s just the type of guy to smile at you and know what he’s doing- it makes me physically uneasy whenever he does cause I get so nervous and I’m not myself. I always say really stupid shit around him and don’t understand why I can’t just be normal lol.
End of whatever this was. He’s hot and a nice person what more could a person want?
|
Crush
|
eventually he losts his interests towards me 😔 why ? i friendzoned him just because aint ready yet to be in a serious relationship 😔 im traumatized from my last relationship. but i didnt even mean to hurt him. what should i do 😔
|
Crush
|
She came over to stay the night and we were having fun and just hugging/chatting. A bit later in the night right before falling asleep we were both shirtless and I was feeling her but no sex. After i fell asleep she left my room and walked home really early in the morning. When I woke up and asked qhy all she said is she was tired and went home beacuse she couldn't sleep. Later the day after she blocked me on social media and claimed it was for something stupid. Could someone please tell me what I might have done wrong and how I can check/fix it
|
Crush
|
not sure what to do next….
i have liked this boy for about 4 months. we’ve been friends for about 4 years off and on only because we were like ‘in school friends’ if you know what i mean. this year we’ve became really close, we text each other now and sometimes even play video games together with other friends. i even drove him home from school the other day. anyways, back in december i told him i had feelings for him. he told me he wanted to stay friends now. this hurt but i got over it. he always talks about this one girl he likes and she hangs around with us sometimes but the other day he told me he had a big realization and gave up on her. later that day, we were hanging out in school and i was guessing some of his crushes ( he’s always got a few ) and after getting a few right. he starts listing things off that seemed like me. i was right, it was me. then i drove him home and we played video games together with some other friends. i want to date him but i’m not really sure what to do next. the ball is in whos court?? help me man…
|
Crush
|
Hello guys,soo there s that one girl and she likes Italy and Juventus very much.Her birthday is in couple of days so I was thinking about contacting Juventus to somehow wish her happy birthday in my name(I mean to make it that she will know that I "ordered" from them to make it).I was thinking about contacting their official profile on Instagram,but I think they wouldn't reply there,so I m thinking about sending them e mail.
Soo any thoughts,advices,any other idea?
|
Crush
|
So I've seen this girl in our class and she seemed nice. I don't think anyone else in our class thinks she's attractive but for me she is. After this year, we go to work. And everyone can choose the subjects we're interested in. I'm going to work as a shop assistant and I'm in the same group as she is. Today we had a group work but we all worked as a team. One group cuts everything, the other sticks it together and so on. We got into contact and I've never been so nervous before. I tried to be as chilled as possible. I wondered what I can do but the interaction was so short, I wasn't even able to do something. After that I thought about a way to show her I'd like to meet her. Does a simple wink work or how can I do it?
|
Crush
|
Im a 17M and I’ve liked a girl for a long time. Before the pandemic I talked to her every so often. She likes talking in person much better than texting so I tried my best to talk to her in person. Because of the pandemic I haven’t really been in contact with her. I used to text her late into the night and it would make me so happy. I feel like it might be weird if I try reaching out all of the sudden. Any advice?
|
Crush
|
I am a 12 year old male (turning 13 in a few months), and my crush is a 13 year old female. We have a discord server with a bunch of my friends in it, and she is in this discord server. That’s just some basic information. I am now going to proceed to list 3 stories that made me suspect her liking me back.
Story 1:
Last Thursday, we were both playing some Minecraft, and we were just playing around in this private server, and then she said something (while laughing). I don’t remember the full sentence, but I remember her saying something that ended with “, loser,” while laughing. If you get what I mean. She doesn’t talk to my other friends like this, so I got suspicious 3 hours later.
Story 2:
We were using the Yggdrasil bot on Discord for around 2 hours and at one point she started using Spotify to make puns, most puns directed at me. Also she started using italics and ~ to either annoy or tease me.
Story 3:
We’ve also talked to each other while alone in a voice call many times (around 15 times in past month.)
Extra information:
Her calling me a loser was, according to 2 people, flirty.
I’m also really ambiverted (mostly introverted)
We’ve both not been to school yet due to COVID-19, although we both will next year.
I plan on inviting her to a birthday party, mostly so I can further know that she likes me. (I can read body language well)
We’ve not talked in a DM call yet. I’ve asked her once about it and she responded with “Woah, [my name], that’s kind of suspicious.” (This was 2 weeks ago where there weren’t many signs) (I also think she said this jokingly)
All those 1-on-1 conversations were usually 1 to 2 hours long until someone joined the voice channel.
These conversations were either about stories and talking about ourselves, or they were talking about other things such as school.
We’re most comfortable with each other than she is with anyone else, although one of my friends have her number because he asked a bunch of girls for their number.
Unrelated, but I also encourage her to finish things, try to help her out a little, and compliment her artwork because I genuinely think her artwork is good.
Now here are some problems:
I’m way too shy to step out of my comfort zone, which is why I have never went into a DM call with her yet.
I never actually plan real life events, especially with only one person.
Also, one more thing. I don’t plan on telling her until mid or late 8th grade because dating at 13 won’t end well.
|
Crush
|
So I'm confused. I have this friend who I used to crush on, (we'll call him 'J') who I think might be crushing on me? My basis for this are a couple of recent events:
Last week, the seating chart changed. Instead of sitting next to J, now I was by another boy. J goes "Nooo!" And starts talking to the boy I'm now next to. I leave class to go to the bathroom, and when I get back, J has switched spots with the other boy. He acts like nothing happened, so I just don't ask why.
Next scene: J asks how tall I am. I say '5'4, why?" "My friends dared me to ask you.." "...So how tall are you?" He slouches and mumbles "5'1..." and I say something about how girls get tall before boys do, to which he responds that he's taller than his mum. I change the subject because I don't know how to say that I think he's cute even if he's shorter than me.
Last scene: I walk up to my dad's classroom (he teaches at my school) to microwave my lunch. (Teacher daughter perks!) J happens to be in that class, and as soon as I walk in, he starts waving frantically as if his life depends on it. "Travelersjoy444! Hi!!" I wave back before heading down to the lunchroom. My dad tells me after school that after I left J started talking about how good my art is.
I dunno, reddit...is J just a sweet friend? Or do you think he maybe has started crushing on me? If he is, I kinda like him too, and if he doesn't I'm cool with just being friends...but I'd really like to know what you think?
&#x200B;
edit: I invited him over, he said yes :)
|
Crush
|
This girl (18f 19m) would always talk to me in class and when I would talk to my female friend would always get jealous and say things like “me and him are like besties in this other class”. This was the first time I thought she really liked me. In our other class that we had together I started talking to her much more. And it wasn’t just friendly banter either, so after a few months flirting with each other I decide I’m gonna ask her out. I asked her out to a movie with a few of my friends. She hadn’t heard of the movie and told me she would look at the trailer after school and lmk. She then proceeds to never answer after I asked her again and told her I had to know because this movie theater required you to buy them before you went in. She completely ghosts me for the next two days till late Sunday night. I ended up just going to the movie with my friends and had a great time but was still a little bummed and figured I would ask her the next day. On Monday I talked to her and she acts completely different and she no longer jokes with me or flirts with me. It’s been nearly a year after and since this was our last year in hs we rarely talk anymore sometimes responding to our stories and whatever. This was last year btw. She’s coming back from college in a month or so. Do I try and continue things or count my losses.
|
Crush
|
I’m a 14yr old boy and there’s a 14yr old girl we’re already friends I just need help on actually making a move... I mean she trusts me a lot she tells me secrets and I just wanna let her know I like her in a romantic way
|
Crush
|
Around a week ago my crush and I started texting eachother, and on the same day he forced me into telling him that I like him. Unexpectedly, he told me that he also liked me, and we started talking constantly. It has been a little more than a week, and I am unsure if he still likes me because of the fact that he doesn't want anyone to know about how he likes me. Also, he has multiple different friends that are girls and though he says he doesn't like them, he has admitted to liking them all in the past. I have no clue what to do, please help me.
|
Crush
|
hello everyone
I've been texting to my crush (female) for a long time (about a year). I was the one who first texted her and at the very beginning of us texting, she sometimes started the conversation. Once we both stopped texting each other and she won't start the conversation first from then.
I also heard that she used to like me from her friends few months ago. I asked her to hang out 2 times, and asked her to play games with friends and to join a group call with friends.
That might not sound a lot but I've been putting much efforts on her. I'm feeling sad that she never starts the conversation first after all of that.
Do you think she has no interest in me? Do I still have a hope?
|
Crush
|
I have a long distance friend that I have a crush on she’s the first person I ever felt love for. I thought she liked me because of the way she talks to me but now seeing how she interacts w her friends, like on Twitter I see now that it’s just her personality, not that she actually likes me. But Sometimes I still feel like she does like me tho…idk really but I’m too nervous to ask for clarification. :( like she says she loves me all the time and says the sweetest things that makes my heart skip a beat but she says the same things to her other friends…
|
Crush
|
Full story:
So, basically, I have a friend group from 2 different schools, and decided to invite both of them to my 16th yesterday. One is all boys (I’m at an all boy school) and the other is boys and girls.
I’ve liked one of the girls for quite a while, which everyone in her friend group except for her knew. We’re both very shy and awkward, and for the whole night, they were all trying to get me to admit my feelings for her. By the end of the night, nearly everyone was gone and we were sitting together. (which was a hilariously awkward orchestration by the others in the group)
After a good minute of silence, I admitted my feelings to her. She said she didn’t know how she felt, but thought I was a great friend, but didn’t know me too well. We agreed to stay friends for now so we can know each other better. She said she doesn’t know where our relationship will go, so it’s not too black or white.
Pretty much everyone I’ve told said I have it in the bag. I’m just scared that my feelings being on the table will make our future encounters very awkward. What do you all think? Thanks in advance :)
|
Crush
|
After 7 years of liking him I finally started talking to him a month ago. Got him a milkshake yesterday and he just sat down in a park bench guyss he was dressed up, blue kurta. Khaki pants. Gorgeous green eyes beautiful brown hair with bangs for a second my mind kinda went blank staring at him I’m standing he’s sitting there getting milkshake all over his face haha and I just can’t hold myself back man. Idk what came over me but I just bent down and kissed his cheek. Fuck the fact that I was wearing a mask. Pure silence after that I’m panicking did I do smth wrong.
After walking him home he just says “where’s my goodbye kiss” I’ll kiss him for the rest of my life babe wtf he’s never going to have to ask that again 😂
|
Crush
|
So I'm a girl who is in her 2nd term of the first year of *(Australian)* high school, and well I had this MASSIVE crush on this guy *(lets name him, Logan)*. I got his discord and we talked often and I was simping. After a few weeks, On the last day of the term, I confessed through a note I passed on to my friend, who passed it on. When I arrived home, he msged me saying he isn't sure and he only said "no" since he was surrounded by people.
***(btw, I used to catch feelings fast and lose feelings faster, and be confused about feelings, i'm over that now)***
**(Holidays)**
A guy *(lets call him Aiden)* was friends with me. We have become friends the past term and one day I had a friend who called me and said "Aiden simps for you". At the time, I thought it was a joke until, we were msging 'till late and I *(who questions my feelings when I enjoy people's company)* was questioning.
Then, the topic of crushes came up and I had a feeling it was me since my friend joked about it. After a talking I didn't know if I liked him, realised that crushes isn't good for my mental state, lost feelings for both Logan and Aiden.
**(Start of Term 2)**
That was until term 2. I have made a friend who I see by everyday, all the time. It seems that we always cross paths. So I checked discord, and got friended by him *(calling him Oscar)*. Oscar and I became very close, with his cute, flirty personality and my affection deprived self.
I have received a lot of serotonin from this him and recently developed attachment issues. We are matching pfps and always talk on dms. I would msg my friend about it ranting about how much serotonin I get from Oscar and the fact I only get serotonin from him, I don't really like him.
**(Now)**
After a while, Logan msged me, saying he liked me. I didn't reply back, Idk what to say. Idk if I have lost feelings for him. It seems the next person I like gives me more serotonin then the last.
Also, an inconvenience is that, Oscar's discord has broken, so I can't decide who my feelings are for by escaping my problems thru dms.
Currently I noticed the only 2 "crushes" that are original feelings *(not liking them because I think they like me, they like me or I noticed them because of my friend pointed out their features to me*) are **Logan** and **Oscar**.
*I really don't know what to say to Logan, he is in my pastoral and is seated near me. I dont what to leave him on read, but I'm not sure what to say.*
***What do I do?, What do I say to Logan?***
# HELP
\****p.s.*** *sorry that was long, there is wayyyy more*
|
Crush
|
Yesterday at my senior breakfast, I asked my crush if he had a Snapchat (so we could stay in contact after graduation) and he said that he doesn’t. Then a few minutes later I see him on his phone on Snapchat. I’ve never thought he’d lie to me, he just seemed like a nice guy... I wanted to talk to him at graduation but I didn’t because it just felt weird to talk to someone that I’ve liked for a while that made me upset. It’s gonna take me a while to get over him which sucks
|
Crush
|
So I’m non binary and I have a crush on this girl in my year. Let’s call her Sophie. Sophie was in my class last year, and I thought she was really cute. I’m in high school btw (Australian high school so yr 7-12). Over the Christmas holidays I thought about it and I realised I had a crush on her. A pretty big crush. A few months went by and I told a few of my friends, and they didn’t mind. The next day we had a swimming carnival which everyone had to attend, and my bus came really late (like halfway through the carnival) and my friends were telling me to ask Sophie out, and that if I was too scared to, they would. Blah blah blah I asked her out she said yes we never talked again :D
COUPLE MONTHS LATER and my friends says she doesnt like me and that she still wants to be friends with me. I end up dating someone else but that only lasts like a month or two. I become pretty close to Sophie again, and she gets kind of flirty. Obviously I’m flirty back :). I ask her out again, and tell a different friend, let’s call this one Judy. Judy hypes me up, but then tells me I shouldn’t have asked her out since another girl likes her. I was a bit confused but decided to delete the messages to Sophie since she hadn’t read them yet cuz I’m not trying to start any drama. I didn’t go to school the next day, because word travels fast at my school. Even if you don’t tell anyone ur secret, everyone knows, so I was just gonna take a day off. Well then I got sick (Wednesday) and had to take the next two days off of school as well. It’s now Saturday. Anyway, do I ask her out on Monday? She seems to like me but I don’t want to get rejected again.
ps. I’m think I have some form of social anxiety (talking to people is pretty stressful for me) so yeah. (Sorry just wanted to add that in)
|
Crush
|
I saw a girl on FB earlier today. Her face is so stunning. I want to use her face as a reference to the story I want to write. But... I can't find her online again. I found her in a comment section and my phone died. Can you guys help me to find her?
she:
\-uses a dp where she's sitting on a boat with a sunset
\-lives (or studies) in Sta cruz, manila
\-likes history
\-is woke af
\-is probably SHS?
|
Crush
|
oh my god, she was absolutely *stunning*. she's short, curvy, has a beautiful Spanish accent, can't be older than 23. it's women like her i seriously never have the courage to flirt with, but i wish i did. she's quite honestly one of the most beautiful women i've ever seen.
|
Crush
|
I need relationship help and advice! I’m a female freshman in college and have had some feelings for girls for about 5 years now. I have certain types: masculine or artsy. I have never had a relationship and I lean toward liking men more. Around December, I was (and still am) working at a huge corporate store. A girl and her (brother or cousin?) came through. He was on the spectrum and she looked like his care taker, you could tell that she was down to earth and she had my exact style. I tried to forget about her until she came in the store again (without the brother or cousin). My heart fluttered and I get pale. She asked for some help and we got it off (I’m thinking so). She thanks me for my help and leaves. Ever since then, I can’t think about anything else. I know I don’t know her but I really like her so far. Also —for more information — I’ve never been in a relationship or have had any contact with anyone. I’ve been waiting for someone whom I truly like.
|
Crush
|
Hi everyone! Not sure what I'm looking for by writing this but here we go. In junior high (about 4 years ago) there was this guy who I noticed was really weird around me, always looking at me, trying to talk to me/get my attention ect. I figured he was into me because he was pretty obvious about it. So I started looking at him more and developed a small crush for him. Fast forward to now, we hadn't kept contact at all except following each other on social media. After highschool I moved to a different city and I recently moved back. My closest friends would tell me they'd run into him at the store and he would always ask about me. A couple weeks ago, they ran into him again and they said this time he was VERY interested in knowing what I was up to. So I decided to dm him and we started talking. Nothing special about our conversation except that he pretended to not know what I was up to. My friends had already told me he remembered every detail of what they had told him about me. No big deal. He probably didn't want to come off as creepy, which I appreciate. Our conversation ended and almost 2 weeks later he dm'ed me asking if I wanted to grab a drink. Of course I said yes and that I would get back to him with when I'm free.
On paper, he's my perfect type but even in high-school I felt there was something missing. I don't know if my expectations are too high (I've had 2 crushes in 21 years of existence including him) or if I'm just not as attracted to him as I want to make myself believe. But whatever it is, my worst fear is to lead him on. I still can't wrap my head around the fact that after 4 years of not seeing me in person he's still so infatuated. I really don't want to hurt him if I end up realizing I'm not interested in pursuing more than a friendship with him. At the same time, I try to not get ahead of myself and make bold assumptions about him. We weren't really friends in highschool so we don't actually know each other that well.
Any thoughts ? Similar experiences you've had that you wanna share ? Let's start a discussion!
|
Crush
|
Right after she starts sending those fucking snaps of her face timing him she got a new haircut today, I think I’m done, whatever. I’m just not gonna give a fuck at this point, if she get’s taken well shit. I can only continue to improve myself and find another crush... Well I’m for sure going to get buff during the summer and fuck whoever I want next year, beat whoever the fuck is in my way. Fuck this shit. If I get kicked out of school I’m gonna get ship to military school which isn’t too bad honestly. End of rant, for now I’m still a loser in beta testing but next year I hope that will change.
|
Crush
|
Me - I'm a extrovert who makes jokes and tries to make the best of things
Crush - shes a introvert who is very shy
So there is this girl I work with and shes very cute, we've never really talked much when we both started but recently we've started talking a lot more only because shes slowly opened up to me as shes a very shy and introverted person and as her best friend has told me she only talks to a few people
Since we've been having nice convos and stuff since its mainly just me and her on the morning shifts we have opened up a little bit too eachother. Fast foward to valentines day we both worked together and because we had talked more before that on that night, I asked her what she was doing or if she did anything and she laughed and said no, then she asked me and I said no but she then said some flirty remark and when I asked her again she said oh nothing and gave me a cheeky smile
She had also opened up to me about a incident that has recently happened to her and she has only told one other person (that being her best friend) which u found strange as to why she told me since she seems shy around me majority of the time.
Just recently as well each time shes seen me when shes in a group of people such as our co-workers when they make jokes about me they laugh but she just kinda has a cute giggle instead which I found strange and she often talks to other co workers but around me she is usually very quiet (although I'm a easy person to talk to and crack jokes) just as well on Friday we talked quite a bit at work and usually when I talk to her I look into her eyes and she often loses focus and then giggles and asks what I said again, also on Friday I asked her if she was free on a certain day as I wanted to drop my car off to her serviced and try and hang out with her but she said she was already hanging out with her best friend (maddie) which was fine, now due to parking in our work area she parks on the street because she does not want to pay for parking, so because I park at staff parking I asked her if she wanted me to drop her to her car since she had to do shopping and I said I could just hang out since I had time to kill but she said 'nah it's fine' even when I assured her that it's not bothering me in any sense but after I asked her that and she declined I just went quiet for the rest of the shift (I felt awkward) however she kept trying to talk to me throughout the rest of the shift multiple times
I wasnt sure how to word this but there is more lol, I just wanted to know peoples thoughts are and opinion <3 and we also dont really text we mainly talk at work because shes not the easiest person to text to
|
Crush
|
So I’ve liked this girl for a while. And she was my best friend for a long while - I never made advances as I’d rather still have a friend in her then have her see me as a creep and someone I’m not. She recently told me she got back with her fwb which mentally fucked me up so to hide my feelings I cut it off for a while. I just needed a break and all. It turns out me taking a break pushed her closer to the fwb. Since then we have been doing alright. Talking in person but not online. Then today she initiated us trying to fight over a rubber which meant her putting my hand and her head in some “interesting“ positions. It was 7 minutes and in public so it’s not like anything happened but I am very confused as this happens rarely but different people have given different opinions on this so I have no clue
|
Crush
|
There’s this girl at school we talk sometimes and we have a lot in common I just don’t know how to make the first move
|
Crush
|
A little bit of context:
(Sorry for format issues if thats a problem, I'm on mobile.)
I met this girl about 2 years ago before covid, I met her when I was late to an art class I had during school, and all the other seats were taken, besides the one next to hers.
So I sit down and the first project of the year is to make art out of your name, so the teacher can remember name, and what you would like to be associated with.
After a bit of chatting, I learn she liked Minecraft, and me being a gaming loser at the time, also played an unhealthy amount of Minecraft. Naturally, the topic got to our project, she asked me what she should do for it, (let's call her eve for the sake of the story) so eve wanted it to be Minecraft related, so I suggested that she should draw each letter of her name after a different block. For example: Let's say she wanted the "E" in her name to be the first block, I would say it should be an emerald block texture.
After learning we had quite a few things in common, and she was quite attractive, I quickly developed a crush after a couple weeks. I eventually got her username, and I added her when I got home.
One day, I decide to take a shower. I hop in the shower and when I get out of the shower I arrive back at my console to see she sent me a message. She asked if I was down to play Minecraft. I sent her a text back saying yes but never got a response.
My teacher moved our seats around so I was far away from her after a week or so since I got the message, so I couldn't ask her about it. I sent following messages almost 2 times a week on average asking if she wanted to play Minecraft. This lasted for about 2 weeks, then I gave up. (Thinking back she might have been dating someone, and just didn't feel comfortable talking to other guys)
Because our schedules were different, and since our UA's (Unified Arts) changed, I didn't really see her alot after that point.
Flash forward to present year of 2021. I'm in and out of online learning, and in-person learning. When I'm in-person, I hear she's switching classrooms and she is switching to my homeroom. When a friend (more like a guy I know) starts getting exited because he has always really liked her. (Lets call him evan, to match eve) They have always had a friendship and have known each other for awhile, so I thought that was good that he got to see her.
But I didn't realize I still had feelings for her after almost 2 years. (More like 1 1/2) When she came back I had really long hair (still do) and I had tucked it behind my hood, so my face was abstracted, plus the mask made it even harder to distinguish who I was. So I thought she didn't recognize me.
After a few hours I eventually took my hood off during a mask break outside, I'm assuming this is when she recognized me because a couple of friends had said my name around her and she thought it was familiar.
This is when I belive she was doing the "look at someone and look away really fast when caught" tactic. Because she was either looking in my direction, or specifically at me. (I like convince myself she's just looking around me.)
I didn't want to act on the impulse to talk to her because I dont want to ruin Evan's 'momentum' with her. So instead of talking to her, I just sort of awkwardly stare back when I feel she's looking at me. We will make eye contact (sort of like a staring contest) for 15 seconds. Count that out in your head right now, 15 seconds is a lot of eye contact from across the room.
I need advice on what to do. And don't say anything wild like, "do a back flip off a bridge and that propose to her at her feet." Just remember that I'm still an introvert type. Just try to give me advice in a realistic manner, or tell me I'm going crazy, and there is no way she is into me.
tl;dr:
I have a crush on a girl from awhile ago, and I think she's into me (or not)
|
Crush
|
There’s this guy I think I’ve liked for a while now, maybe since around October last year. We first met around June, but then only really started talking much later.
He’s...amazing. I genuinely like who he is a person, I’ve never met anybody like him before. He’s kind, sweet, understand and incredibly smart. I think his intelligence is what attracted me the most.
Anyway, he’s 2 years older than me (he’s a senior and I’m a sophomore) and he’s never dated before, and people joke around saying he’s asexual (I hope not).
I somehow feel like we get each other a lot, we have this thing where we know what the other is going to say and have all these psychic moments. We literally text so much everyday, and if I seenzone him, he always makes it a point to say “Alright(my name), leave me on read :((“
Almost every time.
He remembers little things about me and always makes it a point to acknowledge my presence in a group. We often talk about books and movies, because we’re largely interested the same subjects and because of that we’re able to connect much more than I can with almost anyone else. I think we share the same thoughts and opinions on a lot of things too, it’s almost like I’m talking to male (but introverted) version of myself sometimes.
I spoke to someone who’s known him for a while and he said that he’s never seen him like this with anyone , (he read my chats with him) and said that maybe this could be the start of something? Because apparently the fact that he checks if I seenzone him is a big deal. I was on a discord call with some of his friends the other day and they were all saying that if he had to pick a favourite from my grade (10th) it’d definitely be me. I’m genuinely confused because maybe he’s just like this around everyone and it’s not just me. Help.
|
Crush
|
She told me she had a crush on a girl. What do I doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo?
|
Crush
|
I(19F) started talking to this guy(18M) we both mutually liked each other in highschool but there was never a right time to act on those feelings and we just drifted away and eventually lost contact after graduation. So, as of a couple days ago we got back into contact with each other after 3+ years of not speaking or even hearing about each other. Well I honestly can’t put into words the feelings I have for this guy; it feels like my body is going to explode and I can’t even remember if I’ve felt like this about someone else, there’s like a mixture of anxiety and butterflies constantly I feel like I’m gonna get sick and throw up. I honestly just want to be with him in any way but he currently lives in a different country and is coming on vacation where I am in December. I don’t know what to do with myself. He’s literally the only thing on my mind and I am thinking about him nonstop. I honestly don’t know if I’m just feeling lust or if it’s love. I don’t even want to think about it cause it’s really soon but UGH this feeling I have is killing me and I’m not sure if it’s worth having a long distance relationship or waiting for him for 7+ months.
|
Crush
|
I'm a beta guy irl so I never pursue what I want... but this girl I had a crush on for nearly a year just sent me a snap of her face timing a guy from school who is known for never having trouble with women. I don't know what to do at this point, im 16 and have nothing a normal teenage kid need. I barely have friends, social connections, life. All I have is bitcoins, money and a brain that can work stock profitably. None of these will ever help me get her... I just feel like a loser right now and I don't know how to change or am I afraid to change?
|
Crush
|
i've liked this guy for a long time and we used to often text. my feelings for him increased even more in october 2020 as we texted a lot (like a lot) in the lockdown. we texted a lot till around january then we sexted each other. um anyways we're back at school and he completely ignores me at school, it hurts bcoz i like him a lot and we had so much chemistry online during the lockdown wen we texted. in tutor he glances at me just a little bit but he doesn't speak to me. weirdly, i've never had a conversation with him in person, i know it's crazy. he talks to my best friend but he won't talk to me. it's like i'm a new person he's never met. i really really like him. i always think about him but i don't know how he feels
guys, why do you think he ignores me at school wen we used to text send voice notes to each other????
|
Crush
|
Hi everyone i think this question applies to this reddit. So my university has discord servers for our courses and in one of mine theres a student, who is the admin of the discord and helps out students and kinda acts like a TA but i dont think he is one. But anyways I've never talked to this guy but ive seen his messages and convos on the general chat of my class's discord server. And I've developed a crush on him. I know what he looks like but have never gotten help from him for any of my class assignments. I'm a sophmore, but recently changed majors so I kinda restarted it to a freshmen. He's gonna be graduating next year but i still want to talk to him and actually meet him in person instead of just reading his messages on the general chat between his friends and other students. This week is finals week and i don't think my crush is gonna be deleting the discord server anytime soon but I would still like to tell him that i like him butttt i feel like it would be sooooo weird and awkward if I did that. Like idk what to say. We're the same majors but he's already done so many more classes than me that i feel like he wouldnt want to talk to me cuz im in an intro freshmen class. I'm just asking for advice on how i should start the convo?
|
Crush
|
So in my high school there's a girl who I'm somewhat friends with right? Well I think I have a crush on her...
We're both shy people and live semi close.
We been in high school in one year though middle we been friends in 2 years.
We talked a bit in the past about meeting each other. I know probably this isn't a good idea but I had tried to impress her. I am just awkward and clumsy while she's friends with a lot of people...
Anyways some advice and questions are allowed.
|
Crush
|
e gang
|
Crush
|
uh so i have a MASSIVE crush on this dude who used to be in my class in middle school throughout 6th-8th now im in high school so well,our classes changed,but not that that matters because school is online anyway,ive had a crush on this dude for 4 years now and its not just a crush LOL so,i havent seen him irl since 2 years because of covid and i only started talking to him in 8th grade which was online,through discord, the thing is,this guy is extremely introverted and cant talk to girls at all,he spends his whole day playing games,but is also somehow EXTREMELY smart,he's also a technology head \[saying this makes me feel like a boomer :') \] hes also good at football, music,editing etc. and is A REALLLY NICE dude ,hes extremely cute and tall too but he has 0 confidence,now me,im slightly introverted but over all pretty social but im extremely annoying too,my face is also damn ugly and im a foot shorter than this dude, im also really really dumb and i have the body of a 5th grader,the only thing im somewhat good at is,music. now this dude is being kinda friendly to me and he even commented on my youtube channel even tho i never asked him too (yes thats a big deal for me fml) but i think thats only out of pity :( anyway ,the only way i can interact with him is through discord and with that too,hes introverted so we can never vc T-T and idk what to do,i have a great unrecquited love for a guy who is WAY out of my league and i dont know what i should do at all, and the thing is,both of us are going to leave the school when we're in in 11th grade,so theres not much time left really,i dont think i can confess because fear of rejection ,please help me out
|
Crush
|
Okay so this will be a longish story but I do appreciate any advice from you guys :')
Me - I'm a extrovert who makes jokes and tries to make the best of things
Crush - shes a introvert who is very shy
So there is this girl I work with and shes very cute, we've never really talked much when we both started but recently we've started talking a lot more only because shes slowly opened up to me as shes a very shy and introverted person and as her best friend has told me she only talks to a few people
Since we've been having nice convos and stuff since its mainly just me and her on the morning shifts we have opened up a little bit too eachother. Fast foward to valentines day we both worked together and because we had talked more before that on that night, I asked her what she was doing or if she did anything and she laughed and said no, then she asked me and I said no but she then said some flirty remark and when I asked her again she said oh nothing and gave me a cheeky smile
She had also opened up to me about a incident that has recently happened to her and she has only told one other person (that being her best friend) which u found strange as to why she told me since she seems shy around me majority of the time.
Just recently as well each time shes seen me when shes in a group of people such as our co-workers when they make jokes about me they laugh but she just kinda has a cute giggle instead which I found strange and she often talks to other co workers but around me she is usually very quiet (although I'm a easy person to talk to and crack jokes) just as well on Friday we talked quite a bit at work and usually when I talk to her I look into her eyes and she often loses focus and then giggles and asks what I said again, also on Friday I asked her if she was free on a certain day as I wanted to drop my car off to her serviced and try and hang out with her but she said she was already hanging out with her best friend (maddie) which was fine, now due to parking in our work area she parks on the street because she does not want to pay for parking, so because I park at staff parking I asked her if she wanted me to drop her to her car since she had to do shopping and I said I could just hang out since I had time to kill but she said 'nah it's fine' even when I assured her that it's not bothering me in any sense but after I asked her that and she declined I just went quiet for the rest of the shift (I felt awkward) however she kept trying to talk to me throughout the rest of the shift multiple times
I wasnt sure how to word this but there is more lol, I just wanted to know peoples thoughts are and opinion <3 and we also dont really text we mainly talk at work because shes not the easiest person to text to
|
Crush
|
My best friend (crush) Wanted to do some explicit things in public but I turned it down and now she won’t talk to me.
|
Crush
|
So there is a girl who I’ve been talking to for a while and she’s even told me I’m really cool. She took a nap on my shoulder and then bantered about how my shoulder is a horrible pillow. I try to be funny and she also tries to be funny. We both like the same things as well.
The meaning of this post is to ask if I should confess my feelings for her and how I should do it. At the moment we can only talk through phones if that helps.
|
Crush
|
Hey so I've been working at this retail job for about a couple of months now and there's this girl that I've been crushing on for the last month or so. She's really cute, smart and more of an introvert it seems which I kinda like. The problem is she gives me a lot of mix signals she always is the one to start small talk with me and seems very fliry but each time I try to transition the conversation to something deeper she just kinda just leaves. Also I've been told that she has a boyfriend so mind you I decide to back off obviously, but she keeps coming to me randomly in such a flirty manner but never lets it go farther then that and on top of that she only does so in private never in front of other people its almost as she ignores me in public. So idk what to do cause on the one hand I could be misinterpreting her being just friendly with me but on the other hand sometimes it feels as if she kinda does like me. Soo my question to you guys is what should I do? I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable and if she has a man then maybe I shouldn't go for it but if there's a chance she might like me I wanna take it.
|
Crush
|
Hi, I don’t need advice I just need to know if this is messed up. I’ll give you the simplified version. I liked this guy, he was kind of popular, I was the shy girl in his class. We knew the same people, so we’re were kind of confused how we only just met each other. Basically the clique thing happened and I got a crush on him. Goes on and off for multiple years, after three years my friends figured out my crush and I told my new guy friend (the guy’s best friend who has been since as long as they can remember) guy friend mentioned that the guy I like has a girlfriend. After their break up I told me, he knew since two weeks after I told my guy friend, since he told him because their best friends but no memory about it.
That’s not even the most messed up part. The guy and I were friends for about four/five months. I basically hanged with him and his friends, plus also my friends if they wanted. I always watched him play sports, but he was never really interested to do what I wanted to do. So then in February I didn’t talk to him for a whole day, because his friends accept his best friend. Then it was mentioned and the guy was like that was, “that day was a good day,” in front of me and his friends.
Then we’re alone two days later I ask if he still wanted to be friends, he answered, “yeah, just try to be less clingy.”
I left him alone for a few days, then he and I argued repeatedly. I’m pretty sure had an addiction to his phone, he was stubborn that I was clingy. He accused me of stalking, so did his friends. I wasn’t since 75% of it was me trying to talk to me, 25% was completely coincidental. Now, most people think I stalk him and still like him. I’m totally over him, just frustrated with this situation since we share schools, so I can’t completely avoid him.
|
Crush
|
Yes its a bit weird to bit weird and this type of crush isn't very innocent but of course its just for fun.In fact its better that i even have this crush because i have been failing and this is the only class where im passing .Hes some of the youngest teacher at my school and hes got a great figure and is really hot.Sometimes i fantasize about .. Playing Pokemon with him .Ok so i feel guilty for this but its so addicting to fantasize !Idk just needed to say things .
Btw im in highschool so of course im a hormonal teenaged boy.
|
Crush
|
My crush and I were close to getting us together.
We were amazing together, because we understood each other and laughed a lot.
Then she pushed me away, for a completely stupid and senseless reason, and now we haven't talked to each other for almost a year.
Today I saw an Instagram video of her cuddling her boyfriend, and you can imagine how I'm doing now.
Also because today I have the last and most important school exam.
Do you have any advice on how to forget it? Since it's been almost a year now and I'm tired of remembering it almost every day, hurting my heart every time.
|
Crush
|
What made me think that my crush knew that I like him, is because I'm always dropping hints and because my friend told him once about my feelings *I'm pissed at my friend but whatever*
So today I wanted to talk to him so I decided to start a conversation and said "I was emotionally unstable so I watched a dumb anime" and he was like "why were u emotionally unstable" and then I really didn't want to tell him but he's from the stubborn ppl that wouldn't shut up until he finds out so I asked him "do you know that I like u?" and he was like "u do?" and I was like shit.
After that he asked me who did I tell, especially we have a lot of mutual friends and then he told me let's discuss this tomorrow because he have classes early in the morning tomorrow and said Goodnight to me.
I'm actually not okay that I almost pucked, I haven't talked about him to my friends for a while and felt like getting this shit off my chest here *and it helped calming me down*
I'm not expecting anything, like I know that 70% Imma get rejected anyways and I don't want to be in a relationship yet either.
I really regret wanting to talk to him and Idk what might happen tomorrow, I just hope I don't lose him.
Thank you for listening.
|
Crush
|
Hi. So I have this huge fat gigantic crush on a girl. I began to have this crush around a year ago. I read some old conversations with me and that girl ( we dont talk anymore) and I realised that she used to like me. What should I do? The conversations happend when I didnt have a crush on her.
|
Crush
|
I like this girl in my class. I like her really much. We share quite a bit of traits and even if we don't talk to each other every day, we do have occasional long conversations, especially in the late evening/night We often joke around and we have (only one) inside joke. Next school year, in september, she'll change school and I likely won't see her anymore.
I wanted to confess to her at the end, because I don't wanna make our friendship awkward in case she rejects me. Plus, i'm kind of afraid she'd tell her best friend, who would tell basically everybody in my class and anybody we both know.
Please help! If you need more details, I'm here to tell you!
|
Crush
|
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.