selftext
stringlengths 1
40k
| subreddit
stringclasses 2
values |
|---|---|
There is this girl in our friendgroup and I kinda have a very little crush on her.
On new years eve I had a lil party with that friendgroup and when we went outside she and I talked a bit about the new and stuff. When we came to the relationship topic, she said that, if someone is interested, he must ask her, since she would not be asking anyone herself.
It could be a great sign, or just a completely normal thing to say. There have also been other situations where I thought she wanted to give me signs, but I probably overrate all that.
What should I do? I dont wanna ruin that friendship | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy on the same grade as me but he most likely has no idea that I exist since I never speak out in class. We only have a single class together and I sit relatively far away from him. As an introvert, I’m not good at approaching new people and I don’t even know when I could even introduce myself. He’s always surrounded by other girls though he isn’t popular or anything. How do I approach him even just to say “hi”? | Crush |
So, I have a crush on this boy. Let's call him Eddy.
So like 2 months ago his girl best friend came up to me and was like 'he likes you'.
But Eddy has a friend (let's call him tim) me and Tim dont get along and we literally hate each other.
The other day I heard Eddy and Tim's convo and it went like:
Tim: You should stop liking her
Eddy: Ok ig
But I've noticed him like stealing glances at me and staring.
He doesn't do it everyday like for example one day he's gon be giving me all these signs that he likes me but the next he gon be acting like he don't know me and he doesn't care about me. He bacically keeps giving me mixed signals.
Idk what to do | Crush |
I don't I think I'm over him.
One he never tries to talk to me. Two he just brushes me off. Three sometimes he just goes on his phone. I'm over him. Now I'm stuck sitting next to him its awkward, I'm just done. Anyway I don't want to be in a relationship, I wanna focusing on my studies, aswell I'm not really into teen relationship as they only last few months and I'm very introverted. So it was just the wrong person, wrong time. I wonder if I can sit alone, its more. Anyway helps less awkward. | Crush |
Okay so there is someone i like. I want to at least tell him that i like him bc he's graduating this year. The thing is we aren't friends but we know each other and idk how to tell him that i like him. I thought of giving him a valentines card (in my school it anonymous) but I'm not good with words.
Please help me | Crush |
So first my crush started ghosting me and now that I was kind of over her , my other sister just out nowhere started to blackmail me that she will tell our parents about my "love story"🤬 . And all of that for a crush who crushed my heart. And we only talked over text and it was always I who started a conversation.🙄
I doesn't matter to me too much if my parents come to know about it ,but when others will know about the thought of having a relationship will be a far to reach thing for me😢. Freaking life🤬
Sorry guys , but I needed to let out my frustrations. | Crush |
I have a crush on somebody lesbian. I dunno what to do. Any advice?
*Making it simple because I don’t know what to say either… | Crush |
he just said "why?" so is that an "i like you back" or a "get away from me"? | Crush |
WTWFFSZNDD | Crush |
i like this guy (i’m 17 f) he’s (18 m) and we had a thing 2 summers ago, but it wasn’t any more than a fling. come this year i see him at a after football game party and he invites me to a party on a beach the same weekend. i drove him home in his car because he was a little tipsy. at the party he is intoxicated and calling me his “favorite person” and i am also drinking. then we end up making out for a while. the next day i don’t think anything of it and don’t feel like i want to pursue anything. a month later i wanted to hu w somebody and only he was coming to mind but i thought it was just sex. we never did. then a few weeks later i realize, hey, i like this guy again. i get so nervous around him and i can’t tell if i have a shot. i never text him or anything just because i don’t want to embarrass myself if we don’t have a shot or make him stop snapping me. but anyways on my birthday at the school dance we dance a tiny tiny bit. and then we say we might hang latter and he tells me he will lmk what the moves are but never does.
fast forward nye my resolution was to get over him. we’ll long story short we make out nye. now i don’t know where we stand, the other day he came and said hi to me at school and sat down next to me but i’m not sure it meant anything because we’re also just aquantences. it made me so nervous thoigh. i looked like a tomato and could hear my heart in my chest.
i have no idea what to do, if i should get over him or try and pursue it. i have no idea why he makes me feel
like this, it is bizarre for me
thanks, id appreciate any opinions or advice | Crush |
i like this guy (i’m 17 f) he’s (18 m) and we had a thing 2 summers ago, but it wasn’t any more than a fling. come this year i see him at a after football game party and he invites me to a party on a beach the same weekend. i drove him home in his car because he was a little tipsy. at the party he is intoxicated and calling me his “favorite person” and i am also drinking. then we end up making out for a while. the next day i don’t think anything of it and don’t feel like i want to pursue anything. a month later i wanted to hu w somebody and only he was coming to mind but i thought it was just sex. we never did. then a few weeks later i realize, hey, i like this guy again. i get so nervous around him and i can’t tell if i have a shot. i never text him or anything just because i don’t want to embarrass myself if we don’t have a shot or make him stop snapping me. but anyways on my birthday at the school dance we dance a tiny tiny bit. and then we say we might hang latter and he tells me he will lmk what the moves are but never does.
fast forward nye my resolution was to get over him. we’ll long story short we make out nye. now i don’t know where we stand, the other day he came and said hi to me at school and sat down next to me but i’m not sure it meant anything because we’re also just aquantences. it made me so nervous thoigh. i looked like a tomato and could hear my heart in my chest.
i have no idea what to do, if i should get over him or try and pursue it. i have no idea why he makes me feel
like this, it is bizarre for me
thanks, id appreciate any opinions or advice | Crush |
So I have a crush on a girl in my class. We have been classmates for almost 2 years. You know love is a strange thing. I guess I fell in love this year. Thats why I didnt really talk with her in the beginning. And after that coronavirus came and the whole class couldnt really hang out together. And its a big problem if we are talking about me and her. And now we are here, I wasnt really talking with her, even the class is split for maybe half of the lessons everyday. And you can guess, we arent in the same group. How could I approach her better? Or should I ask her out? | Crush |
My friend and I have been friends since we were 2. Now we’re 19. We always texted and I would go to a house a few times. Anyways after August he began to become distant. And it’s been a while since I gone to his house because of the pandemic. Now he doesn’t answer my messages and I don’t spam but he takes long or doesn’t respond. I’m kinda scared to ask him what happened but idk:/. I also just realized around November that I might have feelings for him. | Crush |
I've liked this girl since we where little, began like in elementary?,
(found out I liked her when I was little from the, rather unusual nervousness and sweating when I was near her, like my heart would speed up, every moment I had with her was of pure joy)
[didn't realize this was love till like middle school, because it only happened when I was with her]
I moved during my elementary days and moved back to town in middle school, and I saw her again, she had grown in her beauty and was sweet as ever, but just had more boys surrounding her which made me mad ( I was 11 and I regret my whole middle school years)
I saw she had a liking to what you called the bad boy, it was cool back then but now that I recall that shit was cringy and corny asf 😂 anyways back to the story of my dilemma
(I forgot to mention we where close like best friend close when we where little, well was.. 😔)
I tried so hard to be someone I wasn't for 2 years! Skipping classes, hanging out with the "cool kids" and being disrespectful and ending up in ISS, (idk If yall had this? It's like we're the misbehaving little twerps go to do work )
Yet doing all this I would freak out and beg not to call my parents, fast forward blah blah trying to get her to notice me just made us more distant, until out last year in middle school, we ended up together in 2 classes, and omg I swear to you fell in love all over again when she talked to me, like I felt like I would give up everything just to be with her. I tried so hard to keep convos, but it was so cringeto watch if you went down memory line with me. I got her snapchat and we talked. Until she moved those 2 classes to be with the bad boy 😔
[I'm writing this cause I remembered her again, I'm a senior in hs and I went thought her old snapchat chats I had, and SHE SAID DMD (dick me down) when I had said 😈👅🍑 bro I don't ever remember ever saying that, I could've gotten laid 😔😔 at 12 Lmao.. jk but something would've happened if I didn't leave her on open and had an argument with her the next day over jealousy even though we weren't together.
Anyways fastfoward my senior year I landed 2 classes again! With her, but she got even more mesmerizing and beautiful and stayed sweet as ever.. she has a boyfriend though, and I heard she got laid too when she had a convo with her friends and bro that broke my heart, but It didn't Hurt as much Anymore from you know covid taking away 2 years for not having to see her, I matured and started taking school seriously since I want to be a dentist and those reality checks my uncle who's a doctor gave me on how people like me behaved would end up, but.
Anyways sorry you had to read all that, truly what I wanted to say and not that ranting was. How do I forget her? She pops up in my head randomly and sometimes I go to memory lane and get emotional when I'm alone, only if I could go back 😪
I learned to love myself more than some girl self worth I guess but she still pops up!! First love my ass I just need to find someone to get this over with | Crush |
I haven't talked to him yet. I see him around school sometimes though he is a year younger than me, and in the grade below me. He seems like he has a nice personality but that's why I want to get to know him better, to see if we could click. Only problem I have is I am pretty socially anxious and all, and I don't know how to make a move at all. I think I should start out slow by just smiling and saying hi to him as we get on the bus, or if I'm on before him, smile while he comes on. Maybe if I do this a few times he will start to notice me and it won't be random if I do try to have a conversation with him or something? Please help me out, and maybe give me steps on what you would do in my footsteps? Btw, yes I have siblings and he does too that sit with us on the bus, so just going to sit by him would be pretty awkward. | Crush |
So I've liked this girl for a long time and I'm in the same friend group with her and aside from the occasional 'hi' in the school hallways we don't talk (like at all) and after a long night after crying (for me it's 4:30 in the morning when I posted this, so it's been a long night) I hesitated to ask her to catch up and what we've been up to. So I'm asking you for some advice whether I should do it or not
Also this is my first post ever so I'm pretty nervous | Crush |
Anyone close to Blount County | Crush |
I have the biggest crush on this one girl. She’s everything I could want. Beautiful looks, an amazing personality, and her family absolutely adores me to the point that I’m like second family. She says that we’re just friends, and I’ve never really asked her to officially be my girlfriend. I want to tell her how much I like her, but I’m afraid to ruin the friendship. We hangout almost all the time. I’m always there till like 12 or 1 in the morning, and all we do is talk about life, movies, and her cousin that I’m friends with that both gets on our nerves. I’ve already asked her to prom and I when I asked her she didn’t hesitate and seemed so excited she hugged me again and super tightly too. I think about her a lot and she’s said she’s been talking to this one guy for like two months, but the crazy thing is that they’ve never met in person and I’m not trying to sound compulsive, but if he really likes her wouldn’t he take the time to actually go out with her. Me and her mother got to talking one day and she brought up how this girl said she can definitely see me and her married. I guess I’m just needing advice on how to ask her or tell her how I like her. I’ve thought about asking her ti be my valentine or just something. I hope you people will respond back and help this man out in some dumb love.
TL;DR: I really like this girl, but I’m afraid she won’t like me and it will ruin the friendship. What should I do? | Crush |
So last year during the pandemic I started a job at Walmart because it was secure, I met my coworker, around the same age, I thought he was attractive even though not everyone else did, he was very sweet, grabbed my hips and waist, held my hand, took me for drives, drove past my house to see If i was home, etc. All these signs lead up to someone liking you, right? Last August I told him I liked him and he rejected me, which surprised me because I really thought he liked me.
Anyway I spiraled into a horrible depression, I quit Walmart because I really did not want to see him everyday, plus I had a feeling people were talking behind my back. I haven't worked in a year because I've been too depressed to get out of bed because I felt like I had messed things up with him. Come to realize, I think he really didn't give two fucks about me because he blocked me on everything the day I quit. I was doing alright for a while until October 21 when I searched him and found out he became a cop. I was super depressed when I'd search him online. I felt like, wow he's so focused and I'm so unfocused, he obviously didn't give a fuck about me. I constantly think "if we lived in a different universe it would've worked out" and I really miss the good times, and the fact it felt like he really understood me. Not a lot of people do.
Today I'm moving on, been making bigger efforts to to move on since Dec 2021. Before that I was a big old ball of depression and self blame. Part of me wants some closure with him, but I also know I probably won't get that bc he was too uncomfortable talking about his sexuality. I personally think he was too afraid of what everyone else though of him to be with me. Thanks for listening Redditors, Any opinions, thoughts, or tips on what I should do next? | Crush |
So there this girl(17F) I(24M) fall in love with, she's kind and friendly.. we almost meet everyday on the park playing basketball together, we din't really talk much, we just playing together with my friends and her. One day i suddenly man up and talk to her(small chat) suprisingly she asked if she can join dinner with my friends!
so we did go to dinner together but i din't really talk much to her, my 2 friends the only one talking to her and she seems comfortable with them, and with me on the other hand she's really quiet and dont have much to talk with me. Oh yeah i am a awkward person to talk to,i am bad at talking to people especially girl. So after my 2 friends leave together to other place, left me and her, i send her home driving my car, and the whole trip is so quiet, that i only ask her few questions like what do you do at home, what will u do if u din't join us dinner.. and she just answer it and the conversation died(she also seems disinterested too). that day is nightmare for me bruh i am so awkwardly bad. the fact that she talk comfortably with my 2 friends instead of me is so hurt man.
so i should probably move on from this crush right? everyday thinking to approach her made me overthinking many things like, i am not good for her, i can't give her comfort, i am awkward.. she's better off with other people.. and this fck up my mental man.. she goes to park to play ball everyday so do i, so its hard to forget about her actually.. what should i do? should i keep going and slowly approach her or just move on and stop/less going to the park... man i don't want to fall in love bruh its so painful for me man everyday i overthinking every little things about her making me so depressed, but it just happen to me what do i do bruh..im sorry for my bad english if u do read this i appreciate your time man! | Crush |
I’ve had quite a few girls tell me that I’m very attractive and kind, and that I could get a girlfriend but I’m just too scared to talk to anyone. I’ve had my eye on a girl for a few months and we are good friends but I have no idea how to bring up that conversation. The worst part is the semester is ending in a week or 2 so I might not be in any classes with her for a while, so any advice on what to do? | Crush |
Hello! There’s this girl I’ve recently found super atractive and feel like I want to live the rest of my life with her. We text a lot on snapchat but rarely meet in real life. I’ve known her for a couple of months now. I’m seing signs that she likes me more than a friend. For example it really feels like she cares about me and my feelings. And she clearly wants to meet me as much as she can. The thing is that I’m 70% sure we will go to the same school after next summer. Which would be the perfect opportunity to get to know her better and ask her out. But is it to long to wait? Or should I try to ask her out now? Or should I just try to meet her as much as possible and get to know her better now? | Crush |
Whenever people ask me why I like him - I struggle? There is so many things that I like but, I don't know what they are at the same time?
This is probably dumb, but maybe this will help clarify it all?
So ask ahead I suppose lol | Crush |
I've been friends with my crush for a while now almost a year and I've been wanting to ask them out and I don't know how to feel about it cause I don't want to ruin the friend ship cause we're so close but also I want to be together idk what to do. People please help me out. Thank you. <3 | Crush |
i just find it weird for this person to add me in discord when they didn’t even add others they play games with. We’re in three same servers, so either way, they’ll see what im doing… so i don’t really know. Also, they didn’t follow me on tiktok even when i shared a tiktok vid…
what could be the reason this person added me on discord?
(“they” bc idw to misgender) | Crush |
So, I met this girl online few days back and I have no idea why after talking for about an hour, i started falling for her. And asked if she was on another app or not, she said she wasn't and created a account and we both talked. But later i realised that she doesn't wanna talk much, i message her and she reads it within a minute and thing and doesn't reply and sometimes sees after hours then replies. I don't know, i ignored her, she messaged me like 3_4 times and I finally replied then she replied and I got stuck and replied after ig 1_2 hours and she unexpectedly that she sleeping pattern is unusual and left the chat by saying she was gonna sleep.
I feel like i should stop the convo but well I have kinda already fallen for her a bit. Idk why. Should I leave the convo and just go on or try more? | Crush |
I’m a freshman in college and the first week I was there a guy in my orientation group started talking with me more/spending time with me. After one of the freshman events we started walking and talking about everything and basically stayed out until 4 am getting to know each other (literally like a dream).
I wanted to make sure that he liked me to and asked what his intentions were (literally the weirdest phrasing I know) and he said that he could see himself dating me. And I was like “cool maybe” because I’d never been in a relationship before and I freak out and scare myself out of things. So for the next few days we basically were attached at the hip.
Here is where I get confusing and weird. One night he asked if he could spend the night in my room. It wasn’t in a suggestive way, just like let’s cuddle. So I said okay even though I probably wasn’t ready for that. I ended up having an anxiety attack and dumped a bunch of personal info onto him. And props to him for being really understanding and comforting. But I didn’t sleep well because I’d never even held hands with a guy and now here one is in my bed. Anyways, the next day I felt overwhelmed and like things were moving to fast (which was my own fault) and I friendzoned him.
He basically stopped talking to me after that, which I understand. Now we’re still friendly and stuff, but don’t talk anymore.
Anyways, I regret friendzoning him because I think I really liked him and had a great connection with him. I even got really jealous when I found out he had another girl over to his room one night. I should have just told him that I wanted to take things slow instead of just clamming up. But it’s probably too late now so I should just move on and get over it. | Crush |
Has it ever happened to you that... you are really fond of a girl and you like her very much, but deep inside, you know that she is never going to be your partner? Maybe because she already has a boyfriend or she just doesn't see you in that light and feel the same about you.
But still, you don't want to let her go.
Even though the reality haunts you inside out, but you just can't stop yourself from taking refuge in that little world that you have built inside your head. A world where you are together... she's your partner, you love her, she loves you back and it's all perfect. It becomes irresistible.
And no matter what happens and whatever your conscious mind keeps reminding you of, you want to clinch on that little piece of imagination, so precious, yet so painful... like a war inside your own brain.
Doesn't it feel so unfair? You want her to choose you and you're not even in a position to tell her how much you love. It's like that the fear of rejection has overwhelmed you entirely and you don't have enough courage to confess your feelings.
Sorry for the bad grammar. | Crush |
So me and this girl go way back into middle school she moved to another state in 7th grade and I didn’t think much of it then but now I’m in 9th grade and she texts me and right away random small talk then she just says that she wishes that we would have dated but I was dating someone else at the time and now it’s too late. But I also kind of liked her so I said yea me too and then we start snapping for two months until one night she puts a heart on the snap so I send one back and this goes on for a bit so then she adds the text “bae” so I send back “baeee” and it just gets longer and then the next day she said she was moving back from her state back to mine and everyone was happy until the next day I got a snap saying she wanted to kill herself and I say why and she said that she misses Aidan and I say who is Aidan and she says her crush and now it’s back and forth of flirt and dry and I need to know how to make a big move but in a simple way | Crush |
so theres this girl in one of my new friend circles and like i’ve seen her before in school and thought she was pretty so yk when i got to meet her and start hanging out with that group more i was like haha cool but didn’t really think much of it bc i liked the person who introduced me to their group at the time. however i dont like that person anymore and now i just kinda realise i vibe with this other girl and just thought abt if i might have feelings. we’ve talked to each other abt how were glad we dont have feelings for one another before so that’s kinda shit 😭 but idk guys although it’s not super strong yet this is a different kind of attraction than what i normally feel. you see usually i’d fit people somewhere on a triangle of pretty, hot and cute but she doesn’t really fit into any of those. she’s more beautiful or elegant than any of those and i find her presence really comforting. overall i just admire her a lot and that makes me feel attracted to her tho ill just have to figure out whether its a matter of i want to be WITH her or i want to BE her. anyway thats all honestly although we’ve had good conversations we don’t know each other that well yet so maybe there’s hope 🤷♂️ thanks for reading yall | Crush |
So, I have been texting this girl for about 3 weeks on Snapchat, at first she seems very interested in me, texting me first and everything. As time goes on she send snaps with text and I started doing the same. After a while she sends her whole face which she never really done before and at that point I thought she was interested in me( We know each other prior but never really talked ) but after snaps I told her about the area where I lived in and she send a snap asking are there any hot guys in the area where I am at. At first I didn’t think much of it then right after tomorrow we just talking through Snapchat and sent me a snap which said I am looking for a guy to play. At this point I don’t think she is interested in me but did I just got played? | Crush |
I met this girl online and we’ve been FaceTiming every week for the past 6 months. She lives a couple hours away from me but goes to school in a different state. I started to catch feelings and I’m not sure if she likes me back. I’m an introvert and overthink a lot so I would love to hear y’all’s opinion on this.
The good signs:
- she’s always pushing to meet up in person (she’s offered to fly out to me, but i plan on meeting up with her over the summer)
- she’s expressed how nervous she is to meet me in person or whenever she thinks about it (in a good way)
- she’s very comfortable with me (talking about personal things)
- there’s been times where I couldn’t facetime during the week and she openly said it was odd not hearing my voice for a week) (she values/ makes time to talk to me, says I’m one of her favorite people)
- she’s mentions me to her friends and family (not sure how often but they know of me)
- she’s complimented on my looks and overall personality.
Bad signs-
- she’s very extroverted so it’s hard to tell if I’m just another “friend” but she hasn’t mentioned other guy friends/ crushes.
- she has called me “bestie” which is a commonly known friend zone but has openly said she would want to fall in love with a friend so I’m a bit confused.
i plan on expressing how I feel when I meet her in person in a couple of months.
I need y’all’s help pls. | Crush |
i know you don’t care much for holidays but i wish i could see you at midnight to get that new year’s kiss you couldn’t give me because you were quarantining last year | Crush |
so, previously i was a stalker . Unable to speak with my crush. i gather all the confidence and made a decision to talk with her. So i kinda make a backup plan like i will talk to her and propose her in a normal way just like everybody, And unfortunatly if she reject me i will just say like " its a dare from a frd"( which i beg him to do it ) and just like that we will be frds which will also helps to improve my stats from stalker to a frd. Ig it was win win situation for me. And later that day my gut feeling was telling me do it but i again asked my frd if ain't gonna betray me. He told me that " i have a friendly advice dude, she have a bf, it won't be easy for me ". i was like wtfff "she have bf , i didn't know that and [i](https://i.ve)'ve been stalking her for 2yrs" And guess what the person i thought he's her bf and i accidently told him that " my crush sits on 2nd bench". unfortunatly or fortunatly he thinks and still thinking that my crush is his gf bench patner which i thought she's his gf and my crush is just a frd which happens to be his gf frd which alternetivly means his frd. Sadly my crush beanch patner happens to be single (she's the only girl who's single in our whole class/section), And my crush bf think that i have a huge crush on his gf(my crush) bench patner. what should i do now ?if u are still wandering did i text her ? No i didn't, its lot more to take in and my crush bf gonna kill me for sure if i proposed her . my crush bench patner is cute tho. helpp meee!!!!!!!!!!! | Crush |
Like should I'm scared of getting rejected cause she is the only friend i have so if i screw up I'll have no one and should i ask her out on text or irl cause I'll only see her on the 10th of January next year | Crush |
There’s a girl that i like (or love not even so sure about that) the both of us live in different countries (i live in Germany and she lives in Israel) we both met over discord and have things in common were best friends on the internet (we call ourselves the monke friends) and i don‘t think she knows about my feelings it‘s like im in the friendzone but when we text we send like hearts and stuff like a couple she told me she had a relationship over the internet and doesn‘t want to have another one. So i‘m stuck not knowing what to do should i wait until i meet her irl or should i tell her my feelings. Btw i never had a relationship so i don‘t know what to do. I‘m 17 about to be 18 in January and she is already 18. | Crush |
Hey, this is pretty weird, because i havent heard anything like this from anyone i know. There is this girl i like/love and i catched feelings on her when i was a child in middle school. We never dated or anything. We got kind of close when i was in 9th grade, but as friends. Things happened and we didn’t talk after. That was almost 10 years ago. Yet i cant forget her and she is the only one i start to kind of panic when even her name gets mentioned. I’ve been dating other girls, but nothing worked out, because she is the only one i really think about or thought about. I can get interested to other females, but that interest ends fast. I made a promise for myself that i won’t date anyone anymore, i just cant do that nor do i wanna hurt anyone else. I wont date anyone unless its her. She is the one i wanna marry and settle down with. The only thing here is i don’t see my self worthy of her at all. Knowing that i can’t make my move. This is so weird and i am confused about it tbh. | Crush |
Sunday my crushed asked me and my brothers out to dinner (with one of her freinds) after talking to me(specificly me for the majority of the time) for like a half hour. Does she potentially mean she likes me or am I reading way to much into this? | Crush |
Him and I are friends. We text daily and I told him I had an ear infection. The day after at school he kept asking me nonstop if I was feeling okay or if my ear hurt. Anyways We have band together and they were being really loud. As we entered the class, he told them to be quiet because I was sick. | Crush |
My manager is always acting weird. Like my first day at work she was all over me she even put her hand on my shoulder. I did not think much of it. Then few times I went to her office and she always act different. The first time she closed the door and suddenly while I was talking she took off her mask and stared at me with her mouth slightly open. I did not think much of it. The second time she tried to be casual and funny there was only one chair next to her, she asked me to sit next to her then she turned her chair to face me and tried to ask me personal questions without crossing the line. She always had my back at work and always take my side and believe what I say. She saw my worth at work and gave me so much confidence that I never felt before. One time I caught her staring at me behind a glass window at work I went to her to say hello while I passed her by she could not say hi back. Last time I went to see her she said to me close the door and have a seat. I was talking to her and she was trying to be funny. She never smiles she is always serious but when I looked down thinking then looked up she was smiling at me the prettiest smile I have ever seen in a long time. She kept smiling at me. I gave her a farewell gift and I asked her if she wanted to open she smiled and said yes. She became speechless and told me how she would proudly keep my gift she thanked me and said that she appreciates my gift. She could not look at me. She is leaving in one week. I feel like I started to like her after her smile I never thought about her in that way before. Is there a chance that she might like me? What should I do to keep in touch with her? Also she seems insecure about our age gap. Seeing her leave is actually making me sad and wanting to leave this job. | Crush |
So I’m talking to this guy who seems genuinely interested in me but he’s left me on delivered since Sunday (December 26) but he’s at his moms house who he only gets to see every so often so should I be worried or just wait for him to go home? | Crush |
I think that I have a crush on a boy but I don’t catch feeling easily so I don’t know how having a crush feels like. How do I know for sure that I like them? | Crush |
I always do stuff to keep distance
- suddenly talk about another guy
- say do you have some random guys number
- saying I don’t like you
- pretending any advances they do like when they care about me and take care of me
I have lots of guy friends but only do this to guys I actually like and I see they have potential. Why am I like this. | Crush |
Hi I’m a girl not from Russia, and i crush on Russia guy but he seems a bit cold so i don’t know how to get him like the other guys. Is Russian different from others? I like him so much tho, he is the first one make me smile without reason. Pls anyone let me know how to get close to him? Russian guy is so hard for me | Crush |
okay so my crush sent me a playlist like two days ago and so I sent one myself last night and she only responded with a cursed meme video like 😐😐😐 i dont know what to do really | Crush |
So im not perfect in English. I am a boy and i have a girl crush, and i texted her on instagram and she texted back and my sister is her good friend and like after 1 week my sister asked me that why do i text my crush but she doesn't know that i have a crush on anyone, she wanted me to stop texting her, she didnt say in this way but i knew what she wanted, but ny crush still looks in my eye and i look back and she act nervous when people are around us when she i close to me or when she sees me and i dont know what should i do? Did she reject me or not? Because i feel that she still loves me but can't say it. What should i do? | Crush |
My best friend and I met in 2018 during high school, were now both in college, and we´ve been friends ever since. At the start of our friendship he had a little crush on me, and made a move which i didnt reciprocate and he understood, and got over that, so we continue being friends and everything was nice, untill now, almost 4 years later.
so what hapen was that over a month ago, i went to his place to hang out, and after playing some board games, we both ended up feeling tired so we went to his bedroom to sleep. and then we started cuddling, that had never happened before but it didnt felt strange cause we are really close. After a while we started staring at eachother and it felt like a "moment" ive never felt that way watching him, almost like i was feeling butterflies in my stomach, so i impulsively asked if i could kiss him and he said yes, so we started to kind of make out. When we stopped and realized what had and he jokingly told me that we had just " strengthen our friendship " so i laughed but felt weird. when i got home, i realized that after all this time i did like him. So I told him. And he told me that because i rejected him a long time before he didnt felt that way for me, and that he was sorry for that, we then talked a little more about it and how it would be funny once it wasnt awkward. but after a month it kind of still is.
I dont know if its the fact that I wasnt aware of my feelings when it happen but its hard for me to just let it go, but i need to beacuse I dont thing its okay to hold on if nothing is going to happen. How can i deal with this? , he is one of my best friends and talk everyday, i think he can sense that im still not over this and i dont want to ruin our friendship. | Crush |
I know this subreddit is for advice to getting closer with your crush but I texted my crush and we talked a little then she left me on delivered. I’ve talked to her in school multiple times and she’s dry sometimes and I did a poll a few days ago in here and 77 ppl said to leave her alone and 55 said to still talk to her in school but my friends are saying to delete her from snap cuz she’s probably not going to open up the chat so should I delete her? She’s really cute and talking to her makes my day even if it’s just a little convo, so should I still talk to her in school? | Crush |
I have a really good friend which I met in feb this year. I started liking her about 2 months ago. I already told her this but when I did, she said she got a girlfriend 2 days before that. Ever since then, me and her girlfriend do talk sometimes but not often. She also hasn't been replying to my text recently, what should I do?(by the way, were both girls) | Crush |
My best friend who I'll call S and I have been friends for over a year we've been great friends for the entirety of our friendship but at one point we attempted to be something more as we had feelings for eachother back then, a long story short we didn't work out as a couple but we were better friends than before. Recently he has gotten a girlfriend and I have gotten a boyfriend and we're both heads over heels for our partners but I have discovered recently that I still have some remaining feelings for him. I'm absolutely in love with my boyfriend and I know these feelings I have for S are one sided and most likely will not last long but I'm terrified of gaining more feelings for him but I don't want to end our friendship he means too much to me as a friend what should I do. | Crush |
So I (18M) met this girl (17F) for a little over 3 months now when we were working at a little restaurant as servers. We talked only a little bit at the beginning, mainly about work, but by that time I begin noticed we have some things in common (same taste in music, shows, etc) and we bond over the little things. Whenever we text at the beginning, she initiates the conversation (lately I’ve been initiating) and she’d apologize for replying late and sometimes tells me goodnight. Every now and then we glance at each other in short periods of time and one time her friend teased us that we’re a couple. One day her parents forced her to quit because the owners we worked for never give us any tips (they added tips later after she had quitted presumably so I won’t too). It was upsetting and I thought my interactions with her will end. A week later she received a job over an another and bigger restaurant and surprisingly asked me to join her and after some thinking I soon applied and got recruited, unfortunately our shifts don’t match up. As time passes my desire to be with her increases but I’m not sure wether to confess to her now or later or even never | Crush |
I don't have a lot of friends but I could use some advice.
I started interning this summer and have been assigned a mentor to help me acclimate to my role. He's in Canada while I'm working in the US (remotely sigh). He's one of the smartest people I've met and not to mention, one of the kindest people at any workplace I've been. I must admit intelligent and passionate people are totally my type. As a cherry on the top he's got a great sense of humour. I find myself constantly laughing on our daily connects (he probably thinks I'm a weirdo)
I'm not going to act on my crush in any way because I understand how unprofessional that is but lately my feelings are getting stronger. The problem with this? I tend to get nervous while talking to him and when I get nervous I make more mistakes/sound stupid. Literally moments after the call I know I messed up when I knew what the right thing was to say. Basically it's impacting my work. It's a great internship and I can't blow it over something this silly. He's going to be evaluating me at the end of the summer and I can't continue to screw up. Any tips to handle/get over this are really appreciated! | Crush |
I'm wondering if anyone has some advice or at least are willing to share their experiences so I can feel like I'm not alone in this. Honestly, I feel really silly as it is.
I'm very much attracted to my manager. And I don't know how to get past it. And I feel like it's more than just a physical attraction. Like, from what I've learned talking with him, we have quite a bit in common. We enjoy each other's company and I enjoy getting to know more about him.
It's something I've tried to ignore, but sometimes it feels so hard, especially because he's just so confusing. He compliments me on how I do my job, on my haircut, on the fact that I have a HUGE love for Deadpool (seriously my car is just straight up Deadpool themed lol). And on top of that, he's very caring for me. He listens when I need to bitch about stuff at home, he feels bad when he startles me at work. Hell, I even tripped on my way to my car as everyone was leaving, and he took me inside and patched up my wounds himself!
But then some days he doesn't talk to me or acts like he's not interested in what I have to say. He's also mentioned he's in a relationship, but he never talks about his partner, and he said he's moving back in with his parents because he can't afford to live by himself.
Honestly, even as I type this out I'm starting to think I'm really dense but at the same time he really makes me second guess myself.
I've been trying so hard to ignore what I've been feeling. I try to play it off that he's just a very nice person. I try to tell myself that we probably couldn't have a relationship because of work. I only speak to him about work related issues, and I try to keep my space from him. I try to focus just on my current priorities. I'm even doing online dating just to try to give attention to someone else other than him and my feelings. It just seems like nothing helps.
My therapist and my mom both say to stop reading into it and take it for what it is but I feel like my attractionto him makes it difficult. My sister thinks I should confront him but I'm too chicken. If he does, I dunno if we can do anything about it because our relationship would go against company policy, and if he didn't, then it would make things really awkward between us. I don't want that, especially because we work together all the time.
I'm not willing to lose my job over this. I was hired here only a few months ago and I love working here. The only thing I can think to do is to just suck it up and pretend I don't have these feelings until something happens or until I meet the person I want to have a relationship with.
Honestly, if anyone has any thoughts I'm open to reading your comments but it genuinely just feels good to vent about it to people I don't know lol. | Crush |
So me (m) and she (w) are good friends and go to the same class, i am in love with her but i dont know if she likes me as much as i do.
The problem im facing is that this is the last year of school and after that we wont see each other every day, im hoping that we see each other atleast twice a month because shes not living far away from me.
She already said that as soon as she got her driving licence she wants to drive to McDonalds and stuff and stuff me and she wants to go to a waterpark with me (she mentioned it but im not sure if it was a joke or smth)
We are also often going threw our school building in the brakes and talking, she is often walking very close next to me, close enough that we sometimes 'colide' a littlebit. She is also looking into my eyes often
now that sounds fine and all but im not sure if she treats every good friend like that, a mutual friend of us send me a snap of her next to him, wich is fine but i sent her a message 30 minutes before i received the snap of her on her phone, that means she is ignoring me aswell.
My last hope is the party that our class makes after our final exams, we want to go camping on a small lake and they'll drink alcohol (i dont drink but im fine with that), that means maybe she will be a bit more 'transparent' and i may get a easier view on that
She also said that i have to come and stay the whole time
Thanks for every bit of advise, my head is breaking apart on this. | Crush |
i'm not sure if this is the right place to post about this, but good lord Alexandra Daddario is so fine 😍 my crush looks a lot like her though so i might be a little bit biased 😂 either way she's so damn fine ahhhh | Crush |
I really like this guy in my apartment. Our families are really close and I know him from 4-5 years. I have liked him from 2 years. In between, he also started giving signs that it's mutual. But now he is really inconsistent in talking with me and maintains a distance with me even when sitting. This is really messing up with my mind. One day, we're talking and the other day we're strangers. What should I do? Should I also ignore him ?
PS- I am 14 and he is going to turn 17 this year. | Crush |
I go to church with one of my friends (have been going with her for months now) and I started to develop a crush on a guy that goes to my school and church (in the same grade as me). Let’s rewind to the first month I started to go to church (april) and starting to grow a crush on him. I start talking to him at school, then at church. At school we’d talk to each other in the halls. At church me, my crush, and my friend would sit together and talk (me and my crush have been talking for months) Last Wednesday the church thrown a party for the people who graduated high school and college and everyone at that church was invited. During the party I was outside playing games with my crush and my friend. My crush’s mom pulls my friend inside for a few minutes. My friend comes outside looking at me with a disappointed look on her face. I asked her what’s wrong, she said we’ll talk about it after the party. Fast forward to after the party, my friend texts me and tells me she had a conversation with my crush’s mom at the party. His mom didn’t want to tell me. My crush told his mom that I “stalked” him around school (which we’ve mostly seen each other in the halls because most of our classes were near each other. And I had one class with him, I wanted to talk to him more to get to know him well and ask him how his days have been) and I “annoyed” him (I have adhd, so sometimes I can’t really control my emotions plus I get jittery when I’m around someone I like, sometimes I can be calm and some I can’t. And when I get jittery I tend to talk a lot) she also said if it keeps happening they’re moving schools and churches. He thinks that I only go to church because of him (which isn’t true, I’ve been going to church before I started talking to him and got a crush on him) His mom said he would’ve told me this but he didn’t want to hurt my feelings. Every time I saw my friends I would go up and talk to them too, so I kinda treated him the same as how I treat my friends (but again I was really excited to be around him and I couldn’t conceal my excitement sometimes because he’s my crush). I’ve never thought he’d say bad things about me to his parents, he was always chill and never judged anyone. I feel so terrible, I didn’t know I was being annoying or a stalker to him, I thought I was being a nice person to him. I feel like he never wants to date me and his parents would get mad at him if he did. I’ve never said anything bad or creepy to him, I’ve only told him that I’ve had a crush on him a few weeks ago and he told me he was chill with it. But anyways, apparently the pastor is going to solve this problem probably next Sunday and if I do go I want to talk to the pastor and see if we can have a meeting after church so I can explain and apologize. I might give an update for those who are interested in one | Crush |
This guy from high school found me after 9yrs on FB and requested me. I was curious so I initiated the convo. We were eachother's crushes in high school but he moved sophomore year. This dude is dry as hell with messaging and its only day 4. All he talks about is running since we were in cross country/track together.
I had to change the subject and he takes 12-24hrs to reply to each message. 🙄He invited me to hike some time but nothing has been established I mean its too soon anyway. But I'm not curious about him anymore. I'll give it a few days and leave him on read if he's still dry. He's still attractive after all this time but I'll likely ghost him.
LTDR: Former high school crush and I get in contact after nearly a decade but he sucks at texting. I'll likely stop talking to him after a few more days. | Crush |
Okay, I just got here because I wanted to rant about my crush, that has been in relationship. I really really like you. I always pray that one day you will like me too. | Crush |
i'm late 20F, crushing hard on a middle 20-ish guy. our religion teach us to marry before sex. first time i confessed to him, he asked me when am i going to get married, i replied by saying that sex is fun but the responsibilities that comes with marriage aren't going to be fun at all, and since my economic condition is not yet 'good', so i do not want to think about marriage yet, and then he became bitter with me, like really bitter, using harsh bad words when talking to me, and he has never done that before.
the next 4 times i told him i love him for his personalities and characters and not solely on his looks, he rejected me by saying that i should be crushing on yada yada (who is his best friend and has a crush on me but since yada yada has no balls to confess to me, and i find that unattractive at all, so i pretend not to know about his feelings), because yada yada is way better than him with good body and looks, but i stand with what i said, i'm crushing hard on him because of his kind and polite personalities and characters.
and now, he has moved to another job (following yada yada), and cut off contact with me.
still hoping to tie knots with him, in the future, when i have improved myself to be a better kinder more empathetic person, with better job and economic condition. | Crush |
I feel reluctant to allowing myself to Cush on a boy because no one I’ve ever liked or crushed on like me back. My definition of the having a crush is changing into : unreciprocated feelings. | Crush |
There’s this girl I knew over a year ago. We had a few classes together and We were not very close, and only talked two times. I used to suspect she thought I was cute and was interested in me, it was the vibes I was getting from her, she used to look at me a lot and get nervous whenever I’d talk to her, but always watch me from afar and smile and even eavesdrop, but I didn’t care because I did not like her at the time. I don’t think it was wishful thinking because I didn’t like her.
After more than a year, I think she’s really pretty now and am interested in her now. I don’t have as much followers as her but We’ve been followed to each other on Instagram for a year at this point. She likes all my posts and watches all my stories, has even voted on one of them and rated my art that I posted.
I really want to DM her on Instagram and possibly ask her out on a date, but I have not talked to her since like last year before the pandemic. She’s leaving the state in a few months for college so Idk if it’s too late. I’m cool with a summer fling or something
I’ve seen on here that DMing on IG is creepy, so I’m not sure if I should just move on and find someone in real life, or just do it. Any advice? Feel free to pm me | Crush |
So hey guys, recently I have asked my crush out and she rejected then I tried to friend zone her but now when I remember this it feels cringe. Can anybody help me to forget this? | Crush |
I have a crush on my colleague. He flirts a lot with me. We work well together. We click and both get eachother, however we do come from different cultures and backgrounds.
Problem. I am married. I love my husband and he knows everything about this. I really don't want to continue feeling this way about my colleague. I would like to be just friends with him and keep it at that, light hearted no flirting strictly work and family vibes.
Should I have a conversation with my colleague, who is about 8 years older than me, in a relationship and has 2 children? Or should I keep my mouth shut?
I really want this feeling to go away but I desperately want to remain friends. He is a great person and a great team player. I learn a lot from him and respect him for all the support he provides. I just don't want to give off the wrong impression, however I have a strong feeling he is attracted to me. Either that or he is playing around for his own ego. Idk.
Help me please. Husband knows everything. This is affecting my marriage. | Crush |
Ok so basically I've liked a girl for like 1 months and told a friend that we have in common and she talked with her about crushes and stuff and my friend who talked to her said that she kinda of likes me as well but she is not sure cause she is afraid of breaking our friendship cause she is not really sure how she feels about me.
Is there something that I can do about it?
More info for u to help me:
I go to the beach almost everyday with her cause we're on the same friend group
We usually talk but not that much when we're alone
We're in high school and she never actually loved someone so she isn't sure if she likes me
We're both a bit shy | Crush |
So here's my number, so call me maybe
I gave her my number❤️❤️❤️ | Crush |
My story is a bit long, but I would be grateful if you can read it and help me, please I really need you😭
So I have an acquaintance who is my brother’s friend and we have been seeing each other very often for the last year, as they were studying together. Let him be just “B” as boy.
I kinda like him, I mean I always thought that he is cool and all those things, but he had a girlfriend and I knew that. Also I want to mention that B has never paid attention to me and we weren’t even talking, just “hi”.
So last week I came to his (as well as my brother’s) prom night and some things happened. Firstly, B started joking on me, which was kinda unusual, as we have never communicated normally. Then I was kinda dancing, one boy told me like “yeah, you’re moving your body so cool” and B said like “why did you say that, I was sitting and watching her”, then looked at me and smiled. The next thing happened was: B went out of a restaurant with his arms spread, I looked at him, did the same thing and we just hugged. That was so cute and veryyy surprising.
One more important thing - one of my friends wanted me to dance with him, but I just like “please noo, I don’t want”. Then B told that boy “look” and got me to dance with him. That was also very lovely and I was very happy.
When we were leaving by taxi together, B asked me to text him when I’m at home and then he kinda worried about me, told me “Hope you had a great time”))
The next time we met at school, he even started a conversation with me, but unfortunately someone came and interrupted us.
I think I really like him, but we don’t even chat and I don’t know if he is felling the same way. I’m so scared to tell him about my feelings, partly because he is a good friend of my brother’s. But I really wanna at least communicate with him. What would you recommend me to do? Please help me🤧 | Crush |
i loved her and i told her that without fear or holding back but i got rejected and thats okey i gotta keep going | Crush |
So a little backstory, I'm 14 and a couple months back I told this girl I liked her over instagram. It went okay and we talked about it for a little while. The next day at school she walked up to me and said hey. I still dont know why she did that because we rarely ever talked. There was a time where I found out she told people that she apparently told me 'we don't talk lol' and that was our entire conversation. That got sorted out but I couldn't mention that part because it was very complicated, needless to say i was putting on a front that i was worried about how many people she told when in reality i was upset about how she told them. She told me not to care about who she told and she didn't tell many people anyways but that wasn't why i was really upset. Anyways I've gotten over that and i still find my attention being drawn to her all the time but she never really talks or pays any attention to me anymore it seems. Does anyone have any advice on how I should go about dealing with this, or potentially chasing???? | Crush |
Hi so I like a boy and we've been texting almost everyday for about a month or so. However, the extent of our conversations tends to be how was your day, any weekend plans, and what are you up to. We've talked a little bit about hobbies here and there but I want to switch up the conversation and make it less boring. I need ways to start a conversation or change the conversation that won't come off to random. I don't want anything too deep because it hasn't been long enough for that yet but I would really appreciate some more questions to get to know him and ways to phrase them. For example, I would like to ask what his pet peeves are, his biggest fear, something that always makes him laugh, etc. But I don't want to just send him a message out of the blue saying what are your pet peeves and so appears my dilemma. Please give me suggestions if you have them! Thank you :) | Crush |
so i have a crush on this guy, right? happens to people sometimes. we video chat everynight, he rants to me about his opinions and tells me about his favourite games. just last night he explained the entire game of terraria, ive played it and know about it but he has a passion about it so i let him speak. he talks about how disgusting people are and how much he hates bullies, we have the same views on everything and if we dont we discuss it, not to change eachothers opinions but rather to understand each side. hes so easy to talk to, his voice alone puts me to sleep. if we are in a gc video chat he always has my camera pinned, i only know that because he had his camera on his phone showing his pc set up and there i was, pinned, and when he realized he turned off his camera, it was kinda adorable ngl. he streams beat saber all the time and sings along to the song, its so comforting. he goes to bed every night by 12 and wakes up by 8. he listens when i need him to and talks when i cant (i have panic attacks that make me go mute for like 20 minutes) he calms me down and talks me through it. he actually texted me at 12;30 (past when he said he had to go to bed) and asked when my birthday was and when i asked him why he took a little bit to respond and just said "i cant respond to that". and omg hes so sweet and i just cant get over how happy he makes me his laugh alone brightens my day and he knows he can talk to me and i know i can him. hes perfect..
but then theres my friend, they make me feel so special, make me feel so wanted and tell me how amazing i am. but if i think about it, theyre not. i confessed to them because i was sure i liked them and they said they liked me back but i didnt feel genuinely happy, i think i just felt happy at the thought of someone liking me. they cant make me feel the way the other guy does. and i hate to say it, i dont think i want them to. | Crush |
I don’t know if I like this person but I always get a feeling I’m going to mess up or just say something bad. I’m good friends with her rn but I just don’t know if I like her. This feeling I get only happens with her and no one else so I’m just wondering what it means. Can anyone help? | Crush |
My crush(a coworker) usually arrives at work very energetic and kind, she always seems so happy when she says hi and asks me how I’m doing. Last time I saw her she just gave me a quiet “hi” and she seemed to be a bit irritated. We had 3 breaks that day with just the two of us, normally there is always a 3th coworker so I was a bit nervous since I’m bad at starting the conversation. during the first break I said her hair looked nice, she looked at me with her head slightly tilted to the side and with a smile on her face she said “thank you!” I don’t really know how to get a conversation started so I just told her about some things that recently happened in the workplace and how someone broke into my boat and only took the battery. Turns out she knows a lot about boats too and we continued to talk trough all our brakes without akward moments. Later she told me she was very tired during the morning so that explains why she didn’t look very happy.
I know her for about 8 months now we are both 16 and have no experience with having a partner. We have a lot in common in terms of hobbies etc, I want to go do something with her outside of work but I don’t know what? We both like running but I think it would be a bit weird to ask her to go running together.
I think i would have a chance with her since she is always so kind, helpful, smiles at me and the way she looks me in the eyes. She also never cursed when I’m around, I heard her do it with some other coworkers but she never does it when I’m near her. I also caught her looking at me a few times when I was at work. | Crush |
I have a crush that I liked for about 3 yrs already should I just tell her or do I just tell her on the last day I will see her | Crush |
I met him at work and he would stare at me and look away a lot and compliment me on how I smell and make me feel a little special but once I replied stop your gonna make me blush he just stops but then would do the same the next day. He would always try to talk to me an annoy me but at the same time he could just be bored. A few of my coworkers also told me he might have a crush on me. There was one instance when i accidentally touched his finger and he quickly folded his arms even though we have touch before. I ended up quitting the job and he told me i should apply at another job he was working at and I did I would talk to him and kind of notice him fidget but he doesn’t try to talk to me outside of work that much. I ended up quitting that job as well so that means i wouldn’t see him anymore. He texted me and told me about his new job and i should come and visit him and to hit him up if i wanted to smoke with him but he hasn’t said anything sense. | Crush |
Hey y’all i’ve been having a struggle with this girl i like that i need to talk to someone about. so for almost 2 years i’ve been talking to this girl she is basically everything i’ve been looking for but i want to tell her i like her because honestly i’m sick of liking her.i have been losing sleep because i can’t stop thinking about her and i don’t know her romantic emotions about me because she shows mixed signals and i have tried everything i hear and we both have similar interests. and i’m not sure if y’all will understand what i mean but i like her but i hate liking her. it gets so annoying because then i can’t talk to her without thinking about my emotions for her and i know she’s the kind of person to not end a relationship like over a crush but i’m nervous and i’m sorry i’ve been rambling for so long but i don’t know what to say and what to do it’s all so confusing and i hate it because it feels annoying thinking of her because when i used to i would feel happy and excited to see her the next day but i feel that now it just feels like a distraction and i feel that if i tell her i will think of her less but i don’t know what to say | Crush |
I have had a crush on this girl for 6 years, from seventh grade to 12th grade. And today was the last day of school so I’m thinking if I should confess to her, I know I’ll probably get rejected but I don’t wanna move on thinking that she might have liked me back. So I wanted to ask, should I confess to her or not? | Crush |
Alright, so for a bit of context, my friend & her have been texting for a bit, I've just been having my friend say stuff for me to be fair, earlier she said she liked me (as in, she said I was a nice person), but today she said she didn't like talking to me because (according to my friend) I "cracked too many jokes".
I'm pretty sure that if she doesn't like talking to me she won't even consider a relationship, so I guess another one bites the dust. I've honestly been kinda bummed about this all day so some encouraging words could help :) | Crush |
I have little info I cn really share.
&#x200B;
she is contested by like 3-4 other guys (1-2 of which are friends) and Ive been approaching her now. but its the last like 3 days. I can consider her my best female friend so should I go for it? | Crush |
i have a crush on this boy and i dunno if he likes me back like i see him looking at me sometimes but i know that doesn't necessarily mean anything. anyways um i really really wanna talk to him and have a conversation in person as the only ever place i've had good conversations with him is on snapchat. i get really nervous seeing him and when he's coming my direction i find myself trying to go the other way or escape, i dunno why i do that lol. i've never once spoken to him in person (a proper conversation) and i really wanna date him so the only way i can tell him how i feel is talking to him.
why do you think i do this ana how can i stop and be confident? | Crush |
Pls help idk if she likes me
I don’t know if my crush likes me
I’m to shy to ask and stuff but i think maybe their some signs like every time we see each other I catch her starring at me sometimes we make eye contact for a bit at least 2-3 times. Also their cousins and her friends would say stuff joking like where is the guy to marry me and her and should would just put laughing emojis. Also my friend started a live and she joined and I would say who is in the live and he would say your girlfriend and she would put laughing emojis
I also realized that they tried to do the same marrying joke thing with her and other guys and she would say no right away where as for mine she wouldn’t say nothing other than just laugh
My friend also texted her saying that I was tryna get at her but I’m shy and she replied with : oh I didn’t know 😏 | Crush |
i (16f) don't know if i have feelings for a guy (16m) and it's seriously messing with me.
i've established myself as wlw, and it's something i'm really comfortable about, but never really labeled myself as anything other than queer because i'm not sure where my stance on men lies. it's like, whenever i might have feelings for a guy i always question: is this truly romantic feelings or is this just my subconscious attempt to fit within the societal standards that i should get married to the man and have his kids and spend a large portion of the rest of my life taking care of them. and whenever i suspected that i liked a man, i always pushed it away because sure, i may be attracted to him, but the thought of him asking me out or going on a date with him made me want to throw up, so that was that.
i've always acknowledged when a man was conventionally attractive and that he is someone others may want to date, but i only ever had actual crushes on girls. and now i'm starting to question it.
this guy. he's basically the dream guy i never thought i wanted?? his sense of humor is basically the same as mine, he's sensitive to other's problems and feelings, and he gives really great hugs. we're pretty good friends, and i don't want to mess up this thing we've got going on because of my own feelings which i'm not even sure about. i could really use some help.
(also idk if i covered everything needed for context, so just ask if i need to elaborate on anything!) | Crush |
Hi guys!!! Before getting into my story I would like to give a big thank to those people who supported me and gave me advice. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! As I am laying on my bed right now writing this story, thinking about what happen on Saturday give me a smile on my face. English isn’t my first language
Anyways so me and her decided to met at my house at round 5PM. I will come to pick her up after that we will see a movie and then we will take a walk and then go home. So the day had come, around 5PM, she came to my house and my mother came to greet her, they had a good talk and my mom kinda liked her then she came to my crush and gave me a tight warm hug. She’s wore a white dress show a little bit of her cleavage, a sandal, her hair smell so good that almost made me died bcuz her cuteness <3. She looked happy when she saw me then she said:
Her - You smell so good :)
Me - *blushed* th-thank y-you
Her - Don’t make that face, it’s just make you even more cute
Me - *giggled* hehe you look so pretty today, cutie. Let’s go now
We were then driven to the movie theatre by my father( My Asian dad never lets me drive because he's afraid I'll cause an accident while I already have a driver's license -_-). We talked and I made her laugh a lot :). Every time she laugh I could see her eyes looking at me. Sometimes she would slightly touched my hand or lean into my arm and then we would looked at each other <3. We then went to the movie theatre, she bought the ticket and i bought the popcorn. Everyone looked at us with a jealous eyes and when someone looked at me, she would looked at them with angry eyes. After waiting a few minutes we finally got to see the movie, we chose the back seat and enjoyed the movie. She sometimes putted her head in my shoulder, rub her head again my chest and maybe held my arm or hand which made me blush a little bit. After watching the movie, we went to the park and talked about our life, future plan and family. While we were talking, a heavy rain came and we had to find shelter. I’m scared that she would get sick so I used my coat covered her. She thanked me and then our eyes looked at each other. I could how beautiful she is, her Latina face, her red soft lip, her pink face that time. I realized I have fallen in love with her. I wanted to kiss her so badly, my mind told me not to do it but my heart said do it. So I grabbed her chin and slowly slowly move closer to her until we kissed... At that time, my head was only her, her and her, she was my first kiss and the first girl I kissed. I could feel our tongue touch each other and playing. I then pulled out and kissed her again, this kiss was more passionate and hot <3. I slowly ran my finger to her hips and then her ass. She wrapped her arms around my neck and played with my hand. We kissed like that for about 2 minutes then she pulled out and looked at me. Her face was red and tears started running down her cheeks. She hugged me and started crying and then she confessed to me and kissed me again:
Her - I love you so so much. Without you I could be a dumb broke girl
Then she started to crying, I could see happy in her face and that made me started to cry too. We crying and hugging each other
Me - I love you so much [her name], you are my everything, my world. It's always better when we're together. I love you baby....
Her - Baby?!? I love you too baby mwa mwa. My hottie baby <,3
Me - You are a gift the world has given me and that’s why I want you in my life :,)
Then I wiped the tears from her cheeks and we both laughed out of happiness. We stood looking at each other for a few minutes and then she said to me:
Her - It rains a lot so do you want to sleep over at my house, baby
Me - Sure, anything you want my princess :)
Her - Yayyyyyy. Call a taxi and get to my home, it’s late now. I don’t want you to get sick baby :(
Then we took a taxi and went to her home, she putted her head on my shoulder on the way back home. I got to her house around 11PM, I went up to her room and dried my hair while she hugged me from behind. I wondered where I sleep so I asked her. She gave me a small mattress, I slept on the floor and she slept on the bed (her bed is only enough for 1 person). So after drying my hair, i kissed her on her soft lips and wished her good night then went to bed. In the middle of the night, I felt like something was on my back and I knew it was her I was lying chest down and she pressed her breasts(they were C cups) on my back in a way that they matched with my chest. So I felt her breasts on my back and got a semi boner. Then I hear her breath heavily and some lovely things she said to me made my heart melt immediately so I hugged her back and asked her:
Me - Don’t you feel comfortable in bed baby?
Her - No... I just don’t want my baby to sleeping alone and I’m also scare :(
Me - Awieeee babe. Come and lay into my chest baby, you won’t get scare tonight.
So we cuddled for 20 minutes strange then slept in each other’s arms. OMG I love her so much, the love of my life. So that’s the end of our story. My crush is my girlfriend now and I’m so happy right now. Again thank for anyone who supported me and be with me :). THANK YOU AND WISH YOU GUYS GOOD LUCK!!!! I will update more soon in future.... | Crush |
I wrote a previous post on here and another subreddit talking about my cute coworker, so I hope you don’t mind me gushing about him again!
So this guy changed his schedule to work Sundays in my area, which is cashiering. I got to see him part of the day on Saturday before I left, and I, of course, got a whole day with him again on Sunday. A lot happened on those days, so sorry if this is long.
On Saturday, he was in a different department, so I didn’t get to talk to him quite as much. However, he kept staring at me from a distance and tended to gravitate towards the register area. We were slammed with customers that day, so he was constantly running outside to grab carts. Every time he did, we’d make tons of eye contact and he’d kind of nervously look away. We have the cart cleaner up by the registers, so he kept coming up to my register and we’d make even *more* awkward eye contact.
As I left for the day, I asked if the managers needed anything and wished them all a good close over the radio. My crush said “have a good night” over the radio, too. As I left the clocking room, he was over by the door for some reason (he’s supposed to be on the other side of the store) and said “Thank you for your help and have a good night Spiteacceptable3190! I’ll see you tomorrow.”
On Sunday, he was over by me, so I tried initiating some of the conversations with him this time. I had a customer yell at me about her door dash order, which we obviously don’t have much control over. I think he could tell she was making me uncomfortable, because he came over and told me “If you want, you can send her over to me. I’ll take care of it.” I thanked him for all of his help and he said “I got you” in the cutest voice.
The last thing that happened was kind of weird. My other coworker and I were talking and somehow came to the topic of dating and stuff. My crush was right in the vicinity, and he could probably hear everything we were saying. It was an awkward topic with him there, so I didn’t really say much. All I said was that I had a thing for guys with beards. Not even two minutes later, my crush comes over to us with his water bottle in hand (mind you, he has never taken his mask off around me before). He pulled his mask down to drink and what does he have? A full on beard (I could kind of tell he had one from the sides of his mask, though). He looked right at me and smiled as he closed the water bottle. I don’t know if he was trying to tell me something there or if it was purely a coincidence, but damn, he’s a cutie. | Crush |
For more/better context here is my previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTeens/comments/nz3fga/relationship_advice_crushes/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
(M/M) So there is this guy I like that I've known now for 2-3 weeks and we've become really good friends. I still don't know if he is bi or not and I really can't tell so I've held my hopes low. We've seen each other everyday so far(apart from today), and we went to the cinema together, gym a few times and even swimming once. Now he definitely likes me as a friend, that I'm sure of. How do we/I progress the friendship because we are good friends, but not more yet. We haven't talked about anything personal and we don't text non stop for ages so thats what I aim for next. I don't text him much because I don't want to seem like annoying to him, so how should I go about this? Should I start texting him first and talk for a bit, should I start a deep convo when we go out, what should I talk about?
Now I'm not completely lost but I just want to know what would be good and what wouldn't help so I'm open to your suggestions! | Crush |
I posted this in r/crushadvice, thought this would fit in here too.
This is a long read. I wouldn't post this if it wasn't for the serious stress this has given me. You also don't have to point out my flaws, I'm aware of them.
So I've had a crush on this girl (we go to the same school) for almost 6 months now. Before that, I was mildly interested in her looks, etc. and one day I just fell for her. What caught my attention in beginning was that she might've been somewhat interested in me too. She doesn't seem like a very outgoing girl and doesn't give attention to every other guy. In other words, shy. We used to have a few classes together and we could catch the eyes of each other from time to time. I also remember instances where she would stare at me for long periods of time while I was walking in the distance towards her. She definitely seemed interested to some degree.
But there was this other thing. Her best friend happened to have a major crush on me. Almost to the point of obsession. Early on this cast a shadow over my crush on her friend. I wasn't sure if she only liked me because of her friend. Despite this, our attention on each other became more frequent and longer. We both definitely knew there was something between us. I'm pretty shy and I never got the chance to go talk to her at this stage. I also had this instinctive habit of ignoring her (or anyone for that matter) completely for periods of time because of the pressure starting to building up on me. (might come off as kinda on/off type behavior)
I have no idea how this affected her perception of me, but this thing continued until the start of the nationwide school close down on the 8th of March. This is when I decided to text her through IG (we both followed each other). To my surprise, she actually responded really nicely and we had a couple of nice conversations. Despite it being the first time we ever talked (ice-breaking), it seemed like she enjoyed talking to me. She was eager to tell me about her current life situation, we talked about school, etc. But this is where I made my first big mistake. I stopped texting her after these conversations completely because I wasn't sure if I wanted to proceed to ask her out or bore her to death if I continued DMing her. Obviously, she didn't DM me after this, so we stayed silent until the end of the lockdown.
When school finally began, I thought I should give up on her and try to move on. (It had been giving me tons of stress and anxiety the whole time). Somehow she still seemed to retain an interest in me despite me trying to ignore her for the majority of the time. This made me seriously reconsider my decision. I'm an overthinker and I've gone through some of the scenarios thousands of times so none of this was easy for me. It seemed like she wasn't giving up on me completely, but she wasn't about to make a move either so it left me wondering about my possibilities. Now school's over.
So on the other hand, I would be giving up on my dream girl because of my stupid decisions trying to stay afloat mentally. This wouldn't make anything easier and I would certainly regret it for a long time. Then again, if she never really liked me THAT much and had an interest in me only because of her friend, I would be stressing over this for pretty much no reason. I always seriously doubted it, but it was a possibility to regard. If I don't contact her, she certainly won't contact me so it leaves me in a tough spot. I don't want to annoy her or come off as weird since it has been 3 months since we talked. I'm really mentally drained because of this (might have some other things to do with also), but I don't want to choose wrong.
What should I do? | Crush |
Sometimes she does most time she doesn’t. When we pose for a picture for memories, I’ll put my arm around her as I would majority of my friends but if she doesn’t do it back could it be a negative sign?
I’m probably being stupid and overthinking but I’ll hear out anyone | Crush |
Probably since March I've been following her. We've met a lot of times but only because I had to help her in conveyance to her classes. I feel really heartbroken. What to do ? | Crush |
Asked the guy i used to like before if he ever liked me. I was expecting a yes or no. But he keeps on dodging and saying not now. I just wanna know the answer. Men can be complicated too i guess | Crush |
I keep having dreams where I'm with my crush and we're spending time together, she seems really into me and she puts her head on my shoulder and then I wake up to the noise of my mom vacuuming and it dawns on me that she cut contact with me after my persistance to escape the friendzone. I never expected hell to be this subtle. | Crush |
What does it mean when a guy wants you to sit next to him and always comes sit next to you and turns his torso towards you and he mimics your body language, tickles you by the waist and gives you some neck massage and also laughs with you a lot, rests his arm on your shoulder...? | Crush |
There is a merchant girl in the market that I like with whom I frequently go to buy together with my sister, this girl asks my sister about me since for reasons of time I have not been able to accompany her to do the shopping, my sister told me that she asked How am I, and yesterday when she went back, she asked to her my age and if I had a girlfriend, she answered to her no, what does it really mean? Could it be that she likes me? He says that she is a religious girl. | Crush |
so I met this girl at uni at the start of the year and I knew I liked her straight away. I was really careful about what I did and didn't want to force anything. we had a few classes together and got to know each other a bit but then our classes got split up and I didn't really talk to her too much as we didn't have any classes together and I didn't want to force anything, just wanted it to happen naturally. so we had a mid trimester break and I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said she cant because she's seeing someone. I thought no worries I'm just glad asked her in person and there was still good vibes all round. we kept talking for a few weeks then I asked her out again when we had another uni break and she said yes and we went out. I assumed at this point she wasn't seeing anyone else because we actually hung out but we were still definitely just friends (no major flirting but lots of deep conversations and laughing). after we hung out we kept talking a bit online but then suddenly in the middle of a conversation she just stops reading my messages and this is not normal. i sent her a few messages as I thought she might have just missed the notification but still nothing. after about a week messaged one of her friend's and told her the story, she said there's nothing to worry about but then tells me that my crush is seeing someone atm. like wtf? I don't understand why she cant just tell me herself? or just reply or anything. I know I didn't do anything wrong because we were having a really good conversation when she just stopped replying. I know its long I just needed somewhere to vent. Any insight or advice would be appreciated | Crush |
Ok so we are long distance and I’ve been wanting to say I love her and tonight we were texting and she goes “can I tell you somethin?” Me: “of course” her: “I love you” me: “I love you too”
ahhhhhhh didn’t think I’d hear that for awhile ahhhhhhhh I’m so excited | Crush |
Crossed paths with this guy who, I’m not entirely sure why but I literally can not forget. Even if I try. Normally if I meet someone and even if we hit it off, I typically forget them fairly quickly. (Not intentionally) I’m just not good with names and faces, plus my life moves pretty fast. I met this person mid April. My intuition tells me he likes me! But I got so damn nervous and that never happens either. I’ve almost bumped into him several times since, each time I take off! I get so shaky that I actually have to pull over for a good minute. I don’t know what it is with him. He’s so wonderful and not my usual type. Also he seems so familiar but I know I’ve never met him before. He kinda looks like me in the face which is a little funny to me and trippy. We’ve talked on the phone, once since. I finally got brave enough to call him, except, I messed up again. I’m unable to tell him how I feel towards him, not even a simple hint, instead I ramble. I feel like I sent the wrong signal as if I’m not interested. Which is the complete opposite of what I wanted. There is more details to this whole story obviously but I think you get the picture. My question is, what do I even do? Besides nothing because that is driving me up the wall! If I reach out, I know I need a good reason to and it’ll have to count this time. I’ve been avoiding driving to visit my mother as I usually do since he’s typically in that area often. But I could also see if I bump into him once I get the courage to head that way again. Idk, need advice, please. I just really wanna see him again and I just really wanna tell him something. :( | Crush |
So… what do I say when I really like this girl, she won’t have a relationship till marriage and neither will I due to religion, she doesn’t know I like her, and I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have because it’s killing me rn. | Crush |
We've never talked before, is that a bad sign? | Crush |
i have already posted the firsr time here on this subreddit and i will keep you guys updated later wish me luck | Crush |
will keep you guys updated later on how it went and im high 2 so this might not go well | Crush |
I want to talk sooooo bad to my crush, he's so sweet and I miss him like crazy!!!
Ok, so I send him a DM.
A few hours go by, because he is a busy man (writer, has company over a lot...)
Finally, I am getting tired, I have rescinded myself to the fact he will not respond tonight, so I am ready for bed just about...
But then he responds.
In the moment, this intelligent human right here, completely just loses his brain, it just flies like a little birdy out the window!!! So instead of saying something clever to continue the conversation when he asks how I'm doing, stupid here just says "Good, thanks."
What. The. Actual. Frick?? I am the same man who can do Algebra in his sleep, who innately understood complicated scientific concepts since preschool, who solves most logic puzzles like they're nothing, and who just has a knack for video games...
Why, the mess, can't I just sound like an intelligent human being, when it comes to social situations??!!
(And yes, just added info: I have Autism) | Crush |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.