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advice ?
so i like this guy at work but i’m having a lil bit of a difficult time. so i believe he likes me, he flirts with me alot and i just kinda got that feeling tbh.
examples:
- is constantly looking at me
- the eye contact he makes w me is so intense
- has winked at me three times
- tells me literally everything i do is beautiful (literally will put a lid on a drink and he’ll say beautiful LOL)
- compliments parts of my appearance (earrings, piercings, hair etc)
- hugged me when i was upset abt a customer being mean to me
- tells me i’m amazing all the time and talks abt how great i am
- poked me in my waist once
- playfully, not in like a mean way, teases me
- just today, this customer was telling him how it’s crazy how we didn’t have a drive thru line (i was working drive thru) the guy i like said “it’s all because of her, just look at her” and he kept gesturing at me like up and down, and he said “look at her” over and over. the guy was like “well yeah appearance is good but heart is what matters” or smth. i was like “i guess i have that too” and guy i like looked at me as to say “of course you do” if that makes sense?
- is just overall really sweet with me and he isn’t like that with other girls at work
- other things i won’t go into complete detail
- gets almost shy around me when he’s usually overly confident
- makes jokes and then looks to see if i’m laughing. like all the time
- i notice he’ll talk about impressive things he’s done around me
- tries to talk w me even if it’s just abt little things
- was teasing me (it was rlly cute not mean or anything) and then was like “i’m joking i love you” as like a “joke”
- when i said goodnight as i was leaving work, i couldn’t hear too well but he said smth like goodnight we’ll/i’ll miss you (i couldn’t tell which one he said)
- purposely stays around me
- tapped on my shoulder as a way to say “hi” basically
- on valentine’s day, he casually said happy valentine’s day to everyone but with me, he came up directly to me and told me
- he literally heard me call him cute to somebody and smiled at me over and over again
- i told him i missed him working over at the drink bar with me and he stayed the rest of the whole time we worked together
i have heard he is a flirt but idk if this is more than that or whatever
but see what i’m confused about is, i heard from a friend of him that he’s seeing someone. from what they said, it’s a new thing and not serious, but they didn’t have much information about it. (this was a week ago) i haven’t asked him about it or anything so i have no idea the situation so i don’t know. hes flirted with me everyday i saw him since i heard about that so i don’t know. advice please? a week ago i was gonna ask him out, but backed out bc i was scared lol. i just don’t know. asking him would be the easiest thing but i’m too nervous to come across as strange or weird but i genuinely like him alot and don’t know what to do exactly. i love being around him he makes me genuinely happy and i want us to go somewhere. i have a feeling but i also have a feeling of doubt that comes onto me every time i think something good will happen so idk what to do :(
edit: also if someone could explain his behavior so i understand a bit more that’d be cool !!
another edit: i asked him for his number and he said yes, so we have each other’s numbers but unfortunately he doesn’t have much access to his phone so there’s that | Crush |
As the title says, i want to move forward in our relationship a little bit finally. We know eachother from September last year and i really like her. We're in the same class and we're good friends. We chat with eachother from time to time and our messages are always filled with laughing emojis. She also sends me voice messages. I don't want to jinx anything.
I wasn't in school for 2 days now and i asked her what was going on. We talked a bit and then she said "come back🤣🤣". That made me feel good. We talked a bit more and then i asked something and she sent me a selfie with text as an answer. We laughed it off lmao.
As i said, i don't want to rush things. I don't want to jinx anything. I just want to get more close to her without being too obvious or awkward. What should i do?
Thanks for any advice, i really appreciate it. | Crush |
Helo there..How are you today?👀I just wanted to ask a question and need y'alls' opinion on what my crush said 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐓 𝐘𝐄𝐀𝐑.It seriously took me 1 year to think about this.
(I hope you guys understand lol)
So my friend's brother is friends with my crush.I asked her brother to ask my crush what he thinks about me and he responded with....
"𝐒𝐡𝐞'𝐬 𝐜𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐮𝐲𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞"
at first I was like,"DAMN HE CALLED ME CUTE"
Then,I thought "BUT BOY ARE THE HANDSOME GUYS.HAVE CONFIDENCE"
‼️𝐍𝐎𝐖‼️
I really thought about it and feel like he rejected me...Did he reject me?(._.) | Crush |
So I like a girl in my college and I haven't talk to her once we just have an smallchat on Instagram. Every day I motivate my self that I will talk to her but every thing is not going through the plan like she is always siting with his friends. Like in middle I can't even sit beside her . So today we had an IT test coincidanly we finish it together and I tries to approach her but I wasn't able to as she went to girls comun room so will it be appropriate if I DM her in Instagram like "hey how was your paper" or it will look creepy please help I have no experience having any girl friend or female friend which can give experience or advice | Crush |
Here is an out dated topic but i wanted to tell that when i was in 8th grade i wrote a love letter to my crush saying that-
Heyy I have a crush on u. U look cute when u smile. say hey to your crush in library prd.by someone in ur class
The last line is rly weird. I wrote it just to know that who he had a crush on :)Actually the whole letter was weird
and i kept it on his seat but his partner opened it and my life became hell in that year bcs everyone shipped us T\_T
His partner still is having that letter | Crush |
Hello everyone. I (23M) have a crush on a girl (20F), I've know her for about two months, we get along well and talk a lot during work hours. However, I'm 95% sure she doesn't feel the same way, i say this because despite the fact that we talk a lot, she seems to have a different interaction with another co-worker, she seems more lively and outgoing when we she talks with him, while with me she's friendly and all but not like when she's with him. The guy I think she likes has a girlfriend and seems to be happy in his relationship, so maybe that's why she has never made a move. Also, my crush has never had a boyfriend or anything like that. I really don't know what to do, or how to tell wether I'm right | Crush |
Hello guys i have a crush on a girl (first time this happens to me this girl don't even know my name or me i've never been with her in a commun activity we are the same age but she is in a different class )like a really big crush idk if i can forget her easily we will call her emma so i had a crush on emma but im an introverted person so i just kept it for myself at the beginning but after that i told it to a really close friend and this friend knows her briefly like she's been with him in the same class last year and this friend once i told him idk why he told me that he was going to make me talk to her or something so introverted i am i find myself crushing on a girl that dont know me or my name and i dont have her contact like a social media of her i only know that she had instagram but she deleted it after so i've actually spent a week trying to find something to talk about with her and i remembered that she had a illness last year (she cough every 2mins and cant stop it and she have seen a lot of experts and they said that there is nothing to do about it) so i go to her like hey emma + can i ask u something she said for sure and then i asked her about her ilness and she started talking to me about it but when i saw her eyes i started lagging which is normal at the end i lost my words and said that's it and she was like okay since that day i wanted to talk to her and stuff but i have nothing to say and there comes valentine day there is this thing in our school were we write letters to ppl and give them the the class representants to give them so i decided to write her a letter where i ask her that i've love to know her more like be friends get to know each other but i gave the letter to a friend to hand it to her the same one who was with her last year in the same class let's call him frank so in that letter i added in the end this is what i feel it's not a joke ik u will just throw it away and forget about it but please go talk to frank if u interested he will introduce us if not just tell him just dont leave me hanging frank came to me and told me it was done during the break imagine what did i see i saw emma opening my letter right in front of me on a bench with two boys like friends of her and they were reading it too i saw them laughing but she wasnt laughing i felt great for a moment but after the last session of the day and when i got out frank came to me in a hurry and told me that she came to him with a friend of her that knows frank more than emma and asked him do you have a friend that have a crush on emma + added is it "my name" my friend was speechless because she found me on a stroke of luck my friend didnt answer at all (he should have said no but i'm not blaming him) and i feel like the friend of emma the two guys are staring at me and telling this to more and more people and idk what to do to fix this i mean why tf is all of this happening to me ? what did i do to deserve this ? why on earth did the friend of emma found my name on the first stroke of luck ? please i need your guys advice :c (and btw i dont ask her out or something because i know she is going to reject me i just wanted to be friends with her idk why her friend saw this letter as a love one and said a friend that have a crush on emma) | Crush |
This is basically me putting out the feelings for my crush.
So we go to the same college and she was in my bus when we were in 1st year and i liked her from the first moment i saw her. I never had the guts to go up and speak to her and the whole year just passed by like that.
Transition to mid of second year and I've started working out, lost some weight and have got more confident so i go and strike up a convo with her for the first time in nearly 2 years and things are going smooth and everything and a few months later i let her know about my feelings for her. She basically rejects me and tells that she's not into this stuff rn and we could just be friends. So i respect her decision and give her space cause i am not ready to be just friends with her.
Suddenly 3-4 weeks later she texts me without any communication in the last month.
She wants me to forget everything and just be good friends and me being a dumb ass accepts that and now again things are good. We text here and there but when we meet we can't be separated and now it's been two days and i haven't talked with her i miss her and hope that she texts me cause i know for a fact that if i text her now I'll just fuck it up again. Like i miss her presence a lot but i don't know if she feels the same way.
Anyways whoever read the whole thing thanks for doing it, i really appreciate it.
If you have any thoughts or tups that you would like to share please comment down below
❤️ | Crush |
How can I talk to my gf of a couple days without being shy | Crush |
okay he clearly fucking likes me too. we flirt all the time and call each other cute names and sap about how much we love each other and how bad we want to see each other. but he has a boyfriend and i'm a lesbian as far as he knows. i'm so confused :( | Crush |
alrighty so I’ve had a crush on this guy since elementary and never had the guts to tell him we are now both freshly graduated from hs but he’s taken but something weird happened…we both follow each other on social media we have for 3 years mind you he’s been in this relationship for about the same time and I’ll respond to his story every now and then in a non flirtatious way and he usually responds but the last time I did it he left me on sent and unfollowed me on everything and I’ve been sick ever since :/ | Crush |
I’ve been having these feelings for him for about a year now and it’s been so difficult for me, I see him every day and I can’t do anything, years ago we had a moment and something happened but we were 14 and I don’t think it means something, I don’t know what to do I want him but we're not even friends and I'm afraid If I said anything to him he’ll tell everyone about me it’s so hard I just can’t take it, | Crush |
So I really like a girl in my college like .l have a crush on her since my college Start I fell for her when I saw her first time I have never felt same for anyone like I had for her .so the problem is that I can't even talk to her💔 and approach her i never had a conversation with her accept we had chat on Instagram for 2/3 mins😓the problem is that she is always with his friends she is not alone anytime
Whenever I tries to talk to her I start feeling nervous and I don't know how can I start a conversation with her and the thing which Brock my heart is I tries so many time to had eye contact with her (not in werid way) but she never responded so please help me I can explain more what's going with me if someone wanna help | Crush |
i made him a video about 20 reasons why he's an amazing person. his reaction was so heart-warming, he sent me a pic of him crying and it was so cute. i know he only sees the video as something friendly but i made it as an indirect way to tell him i'm in love with him. i wish he noticed that but i don't think he ever will :( or maybe he does and just isn't say anything because he kinda can't. idk. he's so cute though. i wanna kiss him. | Crush |
i wanna ask my crush out to do something outside of work (we’re coworkers) i’ve posted in this group before and he most likely reciprocates the feelings. i’m just nervous he may be seeing someone :( any advice? | Crush |
hi i need help huhu i dont know what to tell to my friend or how to comfort her. She just froze in the middle of our presentation and wasnt able to deliver her prompt. She was thinking and practicing for it last night but she looks scared on cam and wasnt able to answer the questions. I am not good at words, what can you tell to her to make her feel better? :< | Crush |
My crush leaves me on seen when i send her memes
But she hearts the meme to acknowledge idk if i should back off or not | Crush |
Do you think it wouldn't be weird if i just out of nowhere started chatting, with this one girl, i have huge crush on.
I never really did, chat with one even with my two friends from school, i am really introverted, and closed in my shell.
Do you think it could be weird or akward? | Crush |
My crush, My best guy friend, the nicest guy I know. Got a girlfriend.
Oh, well. After a Virgo detaches from someone, there ain’t no going back!! | Crush |
I really like this girl at school and I'm a grade ahead of her so we have no classes together
About 5 weeks ago we talked for a couple minutes because some therapy dogs came in and I was able to say a few things
Since then it's pretty much consisted of one of us smiling at each other and saying hi or a few times I've managed to ask how her day is going or how she's doing (I don't always get to see her during transition and as mentioned I literally have no time to talk to her sadly)
So the smiling and saying Hi has continued since then except last week when smiled once then ignored me all week. Then last Tuesday a sped kid that knows I like her says she said I was creepy
Now this week she's back to smiling but sometimes when it's obvious I'm right there (I fill my water bottle every day before last period and she walks by) sometimes it's like I'm invisible and she outright ignores me.
Now I fully get she's not gonna look me constantly (I wish though)
Or I'll be waiting to walk up the backstairs and she'll be coming down the hallway and it looks like she's looking at me
So sorry for how long this is but do you think there's any chance? That she's slightly interested? People say she's really nice to most people
Or should I give up and not even bother asking her out before summer vacation? | Crush |
Hey, I have decided to not ask her, for reasons. If you want more explanation you can ask for it in the comments. (If your confused look at my earlier r/crush posts) anyways goodbye to you all. I wish you all the best of the luck, and to succeed where I didn't.
Edit: spelling | Crush |
So i Have a huge crush on this girl but we're changing schools so i don't know if it's worth trying now, plus i'm not sure she likes me back. I noticed that she talks to me more and looks at me more.
is it worth trying or should i forget about her? | Crush |
So i live in a very conservative society , that said i study in my college and there is new girl to my class and she's the quiet type and very kind. I know not much about her except her name and where she's from. I really like this girl but I'm at a point of my life where I can't be in a relationship for now due to some family issues and other reasons.
But still i can't hold my feelings so I'm thinking of sending her an email (i got her email through online classes) anonymously and tell her that i like her and noticed her and i just want her to know that someone of her classmates has a crush on her.
Is this a bad idea or should i just drop it...
Edit : the reason i mentioned that i live in a very conservative society to show that I can't just simply go up to her and tell her directly | Crush |
I(16F) am currently facing a problem of which I don’t know if i should move on from this guy(16M) or not. we have been friends since we were 13 and because high school we dated my freshman year. i would hardly call it that we broke up mutually because we weren’t talking to eachother, although he initiated the breakup .Throughout the last couple years we’ve gotten really close and we practically hang out every week ( in a group setting of course) but recently my feelings for him have resurfaced but this time it’s for who he is now. Last time I liked him without really knowing him, but now i realize he’s confident, intelligent, stubborn, sarcastic, funny, and above all he’s kind. Ive started to develop these feelings recently and have told my best friend in which she encouraged that I try to like someone else instead because I instantly told her I wasn’t going to go after him and was just going to try and move on. Because of how last time ended i’m trying to move on as quick as possible, this is because when we broke up there was an obvious strain on our friendship. I was trying very hard to move on that was until he started showing signs of reciprocation as he compliments me much more than he did before as well as we always stay up late on calls and he’s always laughing at my really bad jokes and he’s started to emulate my dialect more intensely than my other friends ( who we hang out with the same amount) and he’s also stopped talking about the guys/girls who he finds attractive in class, he also encourages me to sing with my mic on because he says I have a pretty voice although i’m not too sure about that, but he’s been very sweet to me lately, another example is tonight when I didn’t get a leadership role for an extracurricular and explained my stress over it, he was cursing out our director saying he was mad that he caused me to feel like this ( he emphasized my feelings when he didn’t get his desired role either ) and he even was able to calm me down when it was just us two. I’m wondering if I should wait and see if feelings develop or if I should move on? any help would be greatly appreciated! | Crush |
So my crush doesn’t really watch my stories on insta. There’s backstory though, she’s currently seeing someone else and I told her how I feel *after I found this out. Not with bad intentions, I just couldn’t hold it in anymore.
So I’m wondering why she doesn’t watch my stories now? Could it be because she just wants to focus on her relationship and I’m just a distraction or she’ll just never be interested? | Crush |
so my brain has held onto this crush on this guy for like 5 years and like we literally never talk + i don’t regularly see him, in fact, i haven’t seen him in 5 years but for some reason i still have a thing for him.
my friend thinks (and i agree) that i’ve held onto an idea of him but like it’s been so long so i don’t know why it’s still in my head.
has this happened to anyone else?
btw i’m an aquarius and he’s a capricorn lol | Crush |
Why is she acting different?
So this girl and I have been flirting. I am very attracted to her and I am pretty sure she is attracted to me. Nothing happened so far because we have an intense connection our fights are really bad. But she kept texting me back immediately. Then after she knew that I was flirting with another girl she switched on me. She acted possessive and angry. Few weeks later she just stopped texting back and she started to hit on another guy. She even tries to do it right in front of me and ignore me. I know she still likes me because when we are alone she gets all shy and play with her hair and act nervous. But she is giving me the silent treatment in texting. Is she trying to make jealous or is she trying to move on? Lately she looks more attractive and I feel lost | Crush |
I (M 20) have a crush on one of my coworkers. She is only a year younger than me and we don’t work together every day. Not even every week. We have only worked together like 3 times for around 7-8 hour shifts each time. I can’t stop thinking about her, she is super nice and funny and I think we get along well, but I am worrisome for a few reasons. 1) I’ve always been warned against dating a coworker, and 2) our schedules are based off our class schedule and there is never a guarantee that we will work at the same time. So I have little chances to see her. I have no clue how she feels about me. We have texted a couple of times about conversations we had at work but I assume she just thinks of me as a coworker. I literally think about almost all day since we first worked together. It is likely that we will both work at the same place for the next few years, but again never guaranteed that we will work together and that will give her plenty of time to find a boyfriend. I just don’t know what I should do. I don’t want to come across as annoying or pushy by texting her too much. But I also want to spend more time with her. Any advice? | Crush |
I’ve been texting and talking on the phone with a guy for a little bit over a month now. We’ve seen each other at church a couple of times but never had the chance to talk to each other because we always talk to different groups of people . we’ve been talking as friends but I have feelings for him. I don’t have the courage to tell him because I don’t think he has any feelings for me. Lately, every time I try to start texting him or ask if he’s free to talk on the phone, his first response is “is everything okay?” when he says that I feel as if he is trying to dismiss or avoid talking to me. What should I do? Should I stop talking to him? | Crush |
Me (18M) and my family have been very close friends with another family for about 8 years. We’ve even gone on vacations together. The other family includes a set of twins. One is a boy and one is a girl and they’re both 18 years old. I’ve had feelings for the girl pretty much ever since we’ve met, and am best friends with the guy.
If it makes any sense, my feelings for her have always been in the back of my head. Like, I’ll talk to other girls and have a crush on them, but every time my mind is like, “that other girl is the one for you”. Anyway, I’m probably a bit above average in looks. Slightly skinny (but going to the gym), nice hair, and a pretty nice face. I think my personality is what attracts her, and while I believe I am not/wasn’t always her first choice, I think she would date me if I asked. Every time we see each other she gives me a big hug and is overall pretty touchy with me.
As we’re both heading off to college soon, I think I want to tell her how I feel. I’ve been increasingly sad each night because if I don’t let her know how I feel, I’m worried that I won’t be able to get her out of my head and move on. Anyway, If we’re talking disaster, she could reject me and I don’t even know what would happen with her family and mine. The more likely situation is that she says yes. But remember, I’m best friends (when I say best, I mean very best) with her brother, so how would he feel about it? If you’ve read this far, I thank you and would love to hear your thoughts. | Crush |
Hey man, times have been tough on me and while I work so hard, I send most of my money back home to my family in india. Covid has got them good and I'm constantly worried for them and depressed. I haven't spent a dollar of my own money on groceries, clothes or other luxuries. I live in Australia and with every passing day, I am sinking deeper into a hole I feel like I can never climb out of. I'm hungry, alone and desperate. If there's any way you can help me out, I would really appreciate that and will promise to pay back what you give me. I can be prideful sometimes and never think about asking for help but this has never happened before. I'm starving and I'd love to have a decent meal. Pls help me out! | Crush |
Hi I'm Ben and I need help on how to ask out this girl I like. She goes to the same high school as me and she is in the same gym class as me. But the problem is that there is this friend of hers *a boy and already has another girl* and is always trying to be a dick to me and it runs my vibe to actually talk to her. Please help. | Crush |
Hi guys I'm new to the sub. I've known this girl for like a couple months and I'm really struggling to figure out if I have a crush on her or not. The whole story is a bit long so if anyone has any ideas how to figure out that would be greatly appreciated here. If you have more time my pm are always open! | Crush |
There was this girl that was in my English class during my junior year of high school, but I never really talked to her since I was shy at that point. I was going to talk to her during my senior year but COVID happened. One day I saw her Instagram show up in my suggested and my friends encouraged me to add her on Snapchat and start Streaks with her. I never really started a conversation with her on Snapchat because I don't think she remembers me and I didn't want to seem like a creep or a stalker. 3 days ago, I had my graduation and I saw her there and even though I had a good opportunity, I had no idea what to say to her. Now my only option is to go back to Snapchat and try to start a conversation with her there.
If possible, how can I start and continue a conversation with her without making it weird?
Thanks in advance to whoever answers. | Crush |
So. I'm Nonbinary (Female/androgynous presenting). My friend is CisM. Both in our early to mid 20's, I'm older than him.
We've only met up a handful of times. We're in a college program together that's all online due to covid restrictions.
Our second time hanging out he was running late and RAN (?!?!) to our hangout destination where I was waiting patiently (I literally told him no rush, we good). Later I would discover he ran like....5 blocks!! Ok, noted.
We got dinner together which like...as an adult, I don't think much of it. Especially cuz of my gender. He knows I'm nonbinary and accepts it fully. We were there for a while just really vibing which was fun. We're vibing so well that I suggest we go to a park and just walk around and chat some more - we seem to be really connected which is something I haven't had in like a year and I don't necessarily wanna cut it short.
We go to the park and walk on a trail out to an overlook of a lake - and of course it's sunset hour. Me being a whore for sunsets, I'm just stoked to be out of the house seeing one, not really thinking about any implications about setting or time and such. It's hella romantic where we are, but I don't see him that way and I wasn't really thinking about it.
As we're chatting after awhile I'm noticing that he's loosing his train of thought a lot when I'm looking at him and occasionally he'll even out loud be like "there I go again, forgetting what I'm saying, haha!". Again, noted, but not thinking much of it.
Ok so it's getting cold and dark and we decide to head back. Still chatting and vibing away. We get to his car and I remember that we wanted to share playlists that we've been listening to lately, and mine just happens to be a very mixed bag, including but not limited to two love songs, one being VERY romantic sexy.
He's driving me home through the city at night. After a few songs this very sexy one comes on and I'm like, "oh shit let me skip this, lol awkward" and he tells me to let it play, it sounds nice. I'm like Okay???? suuuuure. So we sit in some silence while it plays and I mean....well, [listen to it for yourself](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vraZrWRjmZQ) .
About a minute in I'm like ok I need to switch this, I'm dying of embarrassment. I say something like, "ok yeah we're changing it lol, there's something on here way better hahaha \*embarrassed laugh\*"
To which he replies,
"It fits the mood though, doesn't it?"
while looking over at me with these fucking eyes. These huge, soft eyes I haven't seen before on him.
Scared I'm like, "does it?? \*dies inside\* you.....you mean like the city at night, right???" trying so hard to stay in denial about the fact that this dude JUST SHOT HIS SHOT.
He immediately is like, "YEAH city at night! Yeah!!......"
There's so much awkward silence it's choking me.
The song ends, and I put on my current fave which is electro pop and try to dance and sing my way out of the absolute soul crushing awkwardness of what just happened. It works....a little.
He drops me off, waits for me to get inside my building before driving off. We texted briefly the next day, haven't spoken in a few days. Guys. It's all I've been thinking about. I'm not looking for a relationship right now, I really just want friends. Am I crazy for thinking this guy likes me?!
We're going on an abandoned rail road hike next week. It looks whimsical af. I'm nervous af. | Crush |
First of all, I'm 13 years old, I will be this year 14. I'm not beautiful or something special(decent), I'm like 4'8 or 4'9 not exactly sure which is very bad for girls but I have a crush on a girl from my class, she is gorgeous, she is just the perfect girl for a 14yr teenager and she is tall 5'4(exactly). The main point of this post is how do I tell her that I like her? I'm chatting all day, all night on Instagram with her, and she has a crush on another guy who doesn't like her but she knows that he doesn't like her, she is doing that for fun**(she didn't have a lot of "boyfriends", she thinks she is young but wants a "boyfriend")**. What should I change? Does clothing style has something to do with it how much will she like me? maybe grades or even something else? **(btw I'm going out with her out every day)**I really need your help guys! I cannot tell you how much I love her and I know there are a lot of girls out there but she is everything for me. Thank you so much if you got to the end of reading this post or even commented on something. P.S Should I even tell her? | Crush |
What does it mean when your crush introduces himself to your mom? It was my birthday party and I invited him. He sat with my friends and I. Then my mom passed by and out of no where he stood up and went up to her and introduced himself to my mom. I literally never showed him who my mom was. | Crush |
Hello I'm Fana , and I'm 14 years old. So during this year I become friend with a girl but we don't talk so much and even without talking to her I think i'm in love with her because every time I see her my heart start beating faster , I can't talk normally and every time I said a joke even when it's not funny , she stare at me and laugh. I really love this girl's look and his personnality and I don't know if that's just a crush or a true love. Can you guys help me please ? | Crush |
Well, for about 1 or 2 months now, I've had a crush on a girl who lives in my area. I was so asinine to think that maybe she wanted to have something to do with me. As if there was a magnetic energy and I was her possible humanoid key.. All because she laugh reacted to a couple of my goofy posts. I found her attractive because she reminded me of Jennifer Connelly when she was in Career Opportunities and I really liked how wholesome her posts was compared to other females in the area.. Then after a while, it became pretty obvious that she really didn't wanna have that much to do with me. I kept puking God's rainbows onto her posts by complimenting her and she really wasn't that keen on replying to me. It was disappointing to me for sure but I'm not entitled to anything. Ya know? She's allowed to not wanna talk to me or anything. Then I seen where she just removed me and I kind of turned into a dragon spewing fire.. Idk... So I TRIED to admire her in an introspective way. I felt like I was being a seraphim servant up until that point. I never said anything rude to her. Felt like I had been nothing but nice to her. Then all of a suddenly, she removed me. I feel like if anybody was in my situation they'd be pretty angry as well. Idk... It was NOT the fact she didn't wanna date me when it came down to it. It was simply because she removed me. Idk if that makes a huge difference or not.. Lol. | Crush |
Today is my crush's bday and last year I stayed up all night to wish her but she din even wish me for my bday ( btw she knew it was my birthday coz she saw some stories in ig , I was pretty sad ) . So what should I do now 🥲 | Crush |
So basically I was crushing hard over this girl and all of sudden as of yesterday I just kinda stopped getting that feeling of nervousness/butterflies. I usually got them when I thought about/talked to her. We were really civil towards each other and would talk daily but not super often. We’d talk about how our respective sports are going (she plays softball I throw shotput and discus) and talk about classes and go out separate ways after class. She’d say I was super kind and nice a lot which was pretty awesome to hear from a cute girl (I’m not much of a ladies man) I was dead set on getting her number. And I haven’t gotten the courage to do so and idk if I want to. I still think she’s really kind and funny but I just don’t feel like I have a crush on her anymore I guess.
This is probably super dumb and pointless but I kinda thought it was strange I like got over this like 5 day old crush so quick. But I still think about her somewhat often, I guess she’s just a friend but.
Again this was super pointless and was just me rambling so thanks to everyone who read this. | Crush |
It was wonderful before. When you would call me everyday, when I would look at my phone and see your good morning texts, when we talked about everything and nothing at the same time.
But recently it hasn't been the same. You got her phone number, you stopped texting me first-- and back. You can't even look at me anymore.
What happened??
Did you find out I liked you?? Did you like me?? Was it something I did, I said??
I can't find myself to smile about you anymore. Something changed, and with it, so did you. Were you even real??
Things will never be the same. I loved you once. I'm not sure if you did back. I think you know that. I wish you would come back to me.
I'm done. I'm sorry. | Crush |
I'm F (19) and the person I like is 24 (M), a lil unusual thing is that we've never actually met each other in person, we have talked over the phone, on video call since 2015, 6 years ago, I was obviously young and not very mature, I met this person on IG, and we got talking and became good close friends over the year, and we soon became some sort of emotional support for the other person, he liked me back then, but never said anything because I was young and underage considering how old he was, I didnt really have any feelings for him back then so I gradually drifted apart,
That way we've communicated on and off, and there was a period of time 2 years ago, when I dated someone and ended up in a long term serious relationship that lasted for about a year and a half,
I was in the process of moving on from this when I approached this guy on social media again, we started talking again, and he expressed the fact that he used to like me, and he told me, that he's telling me now because now I'm old enough.
But then I told him I just dont want to be in a relationship right now, because I'm hurt from my previous relationship and I need time to move on,
And he agreed.
And now that I've completely moved on, months later, I found myself liking him, but because I friendzoned him
I think he's keeping a distance from Me.
And sometimes I wonder if he thinks I like him only because he had a massive "glow up" or something, but I'm not really a person to do that or like someone based on their looks.
What do I do to reverse my own friendzone lol. | Crush |
There's an (I think) 8th grader girl in my school, but not my class. I'm a 5th grader and also a girl. I wanna go up to her on my bday, next week Wednesday. I kinda have a plan, but there's a lot missing: I would stare at her visibly and if she asks what then I'll just go "I just rly like ur jacket", bc she wears a big black jacket all the time (or if she doesn't notice, I'll go and say hey I like ect.) So now we started a conversation, but idk what to say after that. She would say ok, and I'll need to go away
I thought of the simple question of "do U like anime?" Bc we can find same interests, what we can talk abt at the moment, and l a t e r. Also from now the conversation isn't about her jacket, so we can speak normally.
Pls gimme some tips
Some more info:
I only wanna be friends with her first bc I don't know her
She's almost everytime with her friend(s), but idk when
I know the part of the school she goes to her classes
She goes in art clubb at Thursdays, so maybe I can find her there (I used to be in that club, and it's on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday)
Sry for my bad english tho | Crush |
I think I have a crush on a TikTok girl, it's not Charlie, Dixie or some famous TikTok girls, but I'm crushing right now. There aren't any feelings, because I don't know her in real life, she currently lives in the Netherlands, and I in a country around it. Like everyone else, I had dozens of celebrity crushes, but I don't remember, how to "move on", because I still want to watch her TikToks, and she's unapproachable anyway, don't know what to do honestly | Crush |
My crush is a coworker and I know that outside of working together, we have some TV shows in common among with some video games. I don’t know him too well but we banter a lot and at the company Christmas party (just before Covid) he leaned on me when standing beside me, pressing his shoulder against mine for a good 5 seconds. I don’t think I saw him accompanied by a woman during the party but also I wasn’t always around him.
Also, he had developed a habit of lingering around me or making it a point to talk to me in the office-kitchen, and often silly trivial things that didn’t need updating.
Since Covid, we have been working from home. We continue to banter before meetings. He’s reached out to me twice — once because he saw me mention a TV show on a company group chat and so he private-messaged me saying he saw me mention this TV show was asking me if I saw the newest season. (Otherwise we talk the most before meetings about life. He has never mentioned having kids or a wife/girlfriend even when I asked him if he’s seen his family during Covid. I’d think most married men bring up their spouse’s family or fiancée’s family as an extension)
The other time he reached out was more recently — we were both copied on a group email by my senior regarding work and we were asked to provide some file names. I mentioned the file names in the email and hit “Send” because it’s my job to know these things. Seconds later he IMs me saying that I beat him to it. I had to actually ask him what he was talking about? He said the file names. It felt so unnecessary because this isn’t the first email we have been copied on — we work together after all and in the past, often one of us answers for the other without feeling the need to tell the other. If we have questions for each other, we mention it on the email thread itself. So his need to tell me this just seemed unnecessary and caught me off guard.
More recently, he mentioned he has two sisters. And a few weeks later, he mentioned in an email to me that his brother-in-law got sick. I assumed that it was one of his sister’s husband. But now it’s just hit me like a freight train that I’m wondering maybe he is married!? And that maybe he means the brother of his wife? Otherwise I would expect him to say, “my sister’s husband got sick”.
It seemed to me that he carries himself like a single man — before work-from-home, he’d stay late on Friday nights at work to smoke with his other coworker friends. No pictures of his girlfriend/wife at his work desk. The lingering around me definitely didn’t feel like a married man thing, along with all the wide smiles he would flash at me from a distance and the really loud and singsong “Good morning!”s that I know he doesn’t wish his other coworkers with. We are similar in age btw. Either he is a very private person or he actually was single but got married during Covid.
I just came on here for some advice because I’m kinda feeling led on if in the event he is married. I’m not sure how to go about asking him either. I’m kinda nauseous just thinking about how I have fallen so hard for somebody who might be married. Ugh, it’s making me sick. | Crush |
Can shy guys be mean around their crush , I mean when I was 13 I was kind of an ass to my crush back then but now I’m 17 I still don’t know if shy guys can do that at that age | Crush |
In a group (school group) I was put with someone I had a crush on. She didn't do much at first, but as the weeks went on became much more talkative and interactive towards me, far more than the other two people.
She began with physical contact a few weeks ago (high fives, a pinch, and grabbing my arm). As we are the loudest in the room (according to my friend) he claims it's obvious she has a thing for me.
He says she's always laughing at the things I say, and complimenting and mimicking my voice (in a good way, I think). Do you guys think she's flirting with me?
In addition to if she might be flirting or not, should I pursue? School ended today, so what are my options (social media, etc.)?
Thanks, guys! | Crush |
There's a boy in one of my remote online (American high school) classes, and in lass he just goes on his phone. But whenever my name is called for attendance, he glances up from his phone and looks at the computer screen. Only my name. And sometimes he kind of smiles.
He also requested to follow me, and likes all of my posts. I don't know, does he like me? Because I like him.
Also, I have a good tip for you all. If you have a crush on someone, try to make it a little obvious through subtle gestures. Because I only started liking this boy AFTER I realized maybe he liked me. Attention is flattering and makes reciprocation more likely, in my opinion/experience. | Crush |
Why did I dream of all the guys I was involved but him T,T
Idgaf to them anm but him. Grr. What does it mean? | Crush |
Her titanium base and press sparkle in any light, and she crushes stuff like a beauty. God, I love my hydraulic press! | Crush |
Here is some context. There is this one girl who I like in my class, and I don't have a phone. The me not having a phone part will make sense later. She is a genuine nice person who MANY people like her for. I'm not even joking. And both of us are in MIDDLE SCHOOL.
The concept of having a crush on someone is basically saying you have feelings for someone but not that much to the point where you LOVE them a lot, at least that is what I think it means. So I have a crush on a girl who barely talks to me. I have also been suffering from mental and suicidal thoughts (though I am getting better!). Me and one of my friends (who kudos to them, they have been VERY supportive about this and is close to my crush) decided to do a whole operation to find out if she likes me, and if she doesn't, that she can at LEAST talk to me. First, my friend had asked her if she liked anyone. "I don't like anyone, I usually do, but no." Not that good of a start but, I was persistent. So then I asked some of her best friends, who were close to her. They said she did not like me, 3 people said that. I was pretty heartbroken at this, but again, I was persistent. I am a bit self conscious about myself, being ashamed of my body and stuff, which usually leads to my mental thoughts. And I talked to my friend about it. He asked if he can say all of the "kms" stuff and all of how I liked her and stuff to the girl I liked. Not really thinking about it, I said sure. I realized what I did, but it was too late. She already knows. She told him that she understands my situation, and can try to talk to me if she gets the chance (she did not get the chance because it was the last few days of school. This is why I like her, she understands and is supportive to people). One of her friends that I am close with on discord talked to her, and got information that that the girl I like says that someone likes her (me) and says she does not like him(me). That part reeeeeeeeealy hurt. But, I still had hope. If she does not like me, why not just talk to her, become friends with her. At least that is close. She does not have discord, and I don't have a phone number-\_-. I just hope that I am able to talk to her, ask my parents for a phone and a phone number, and just talk to her. Again, my friend is one of the most supportive people, and on the last day, he said that he is still going to help me out, keep me updates and other stuff. If you feel like you have any tips, please share them, I am all eyes and ears (because I need some to talk to my crush)! | Crush |
at disappointing me | Crush |
will you be my friend? | Crush |
So I have liked her for around 6 months. We are in the sa.e form at school and we sit close to each other in some lessons. We are friends and we have a some fun and joke around when we are together. I think she likes me as we always smile at each other if we pass by and her friends always tease her if we are talking a d her friends are around im not really asking for advice I just wanted to put it out there | Crush |
This is mainly just to vent out. Sorry if this isn’t supposed to be here.
I randomly texted a few girls on Facebook (I don’t do that often) and a couple replied back. I spoke briefly with one of them and then I totally forgot about her, until she initiated chat few days later and said that she doesn’t use Facebook much and uses WhatsApp more. She asked for my number and we started chatting there. At first I didn’t have any attraction toward her, but she seemed nice and she started sending me pics/videos off her going to work coming off work everyday and we called. We became friends on Facebook and other social media. I saw her pictures and she was actually quite attractive. She worked as an engineer and we had many common interests. Which is not easy to find in girls.
I grew a crush on her and thought about her all day. I immediately started visualizing and planning our future together. Now this is with no mention or hint of us being together. I wanted to take it slowly.
She usually responded very late, like 4-16h late. I always assumed she was busy with her job, but I started noticing that she was online from time to time but she didn’t answer. So I set a reminder on my phone to not respond to her until after 48hrs even if she texts. That day she was on a road trip, she texted multiple times and I ignored her texts. I was checking Facebook and saw a story which I didn’t want to click the day before, but now it showed a preview and it seemed like she was with someone. When it opened, she was standing close next to a dude and captioned the picture with “con mi chico ♥️”
Seeing that was heart breaking and I’m not sure how to react. Why would she even answer me if she had boyfriend let alone text me “I’m going to work”, “I just left work” everyday?! Does friends normally do that? Gosh some people are really weird. Like I don’t have enough depression
Update:
We spoke. She said it’s complicated and he likes a different girl. Her cousin told her to post the story. She took it down now. She said she doesn’t answer often because she has a lot of work and she’s in charge of three technicians. (Sent me a picture in office at 10pm – after I kinda snapped on her). We decided to forget about what happened and we’ll take things slowly.
Update 2
I dropped more hints that we should be together these past days, and yesterday I asked her for a response wether she needs more time or if she doesn’t like me. Because delaying this will only prolong my pain. She hasn’t responded. | Crush |
Married, but my wife has a chronic illness, so we don't ever get intimate. I digress, anywho. I work with a girl, and by god. I think she's so frikin attractive, so cute, and down right adorable. When we work we talk for literally hours, and I catch my self always looking at her face and eyes. And she happens to match my gaze more often than not. I don't know if it's her personality that she is usually looking around or looking back at me, but we match gazes often. Granted the work place is small and kinda intimate with proximity, but I swear sometimes she also goes out of her way to look my direction. However she has a boyfriend and she knows I'm married, and I'm 31 and she's 21. I know nothing can happen, or will, especially since I'm certain she doesn't actually like me 😂. But I forsure have a crush on her. I guess I'm just here to vent since I have to keep all this absolutely close to vest, if you know what I mean.
I guess it really doesn't matter, but she is so damn adorable. I wish my brain wasn't so stupid since I think about her moar than I should 🤷. | Crush |
What does it mean when a guy gets awkward/quiet around a girl?
What does it mean when a guy stares at a girl all the time but starts getting awkward around her when she is near him?
He's a really hot guy but I don't know why he gets shy only around me? And he has no problem talking with other girls. | Crush |
Wish me luck I sadly have to do it over phone but I have nothing to lose so might as well try | Crush |
(Aw hi, ur not bothering me at all i just feel like we don’t know each other too well. I think ur really sweet and you’ll definitely find your person eventually, i just don’t think it’s me :)) | Crush |
So there’s this guy, let’s call him Andre, that I know from some of my college courses (Wayland Baptist University). We talked from time to time, during breaks. I thought I might’ve saw him “eyeing” but I could’ve been mistaken. I didn’t think much of it because I was more focused on class. I thought it was because I stood out. I was known to wear blue lipstick, a Goku hoodie that matched my backpack, and either wear a blue hairpiece or my natural curly Afro hair out. Top that off with my youthful appearance. I could pass for 18 when I was 26 at the time. Majority of the students and professors at Wayland, at least at the campus that I was attending, are affiliated with the military in some fashion. Some are veterans, some are spouses, some are currently serving, Andre is one of them-an Airman. I’m a DOD worker, so I run into my professors and classmates, frequently. Running into Andre was a rarity. I had assumed that he, like many others, had moved. I was pleasantly surprised, a week ago, when he was at my place of work. We say hi and trade numbers so we can catch up. I originally didn’t think he was my type, because he’s thin and I’m chubby enough to break him in half if I hugged him. Granted, he’s cute in a geeky sort of way, but I just didn’t really look at him “that way,” until that day. I felt a slight lightness in my chest, my face felt it was glowing, and I found myself “fantasizing” about him. Imagine my excitement when he responded to my text a little while later. Where is this coming from? I barely know anything about him and yet I’m fawning over him. What if he’s one of those shady servicemen? The ones that you hear about on blog pages and the news? What if he’s not the friendly, gentlemanly nerdy sweetheart that he appears to be? What if I’m only having these feelings because I’m lonely and just turned 30 and feel like I have to rush? | Crush |
Okay, basically this is how we met.
At the start of this year, I was out in to a class for school (obviously). It was pretty good, everyone there was nice. Then our school started an E-Sports competition. There was just dance. I signed up for that (I didn’t make the team but oh well). Anyways, there was this guy there that I’ll call Leo. At the start we weren’t particularly friends but we got on pretty well. The just dance thing is irrelevant it’s just how I met him, nothing too major.
Then half-way through the term (5 weeks) I had to move classes! Apparently I was in this music program. The thing with this program though, is that it replaced all of our HPE classes, and it didn’t fit on that classes timetable, so I had to move.
Once I had moved classes I had started to realise that I liked him.
I’m not sure if he knew, but then two weeks ago, we had school camp. He was in the same group as me! I didn’t talk to him all that much because I was scared, but he surely must of seen me staring at him all the time. But I was an anxious wreck at camp so he probably found that weird.
Every time I see him, I get butterflies. He’s smart, nice, cute and just in general a great person.
See, this is important. I identify as non-binary. I don’t know if he is straight, or if he even cares about me at all! (I am biologically female and look very feminine so idk if that changes anything)
Occasionally now a days I see him lining up for class. I’m just in the class next to his, and since I have some really good friends there, sometimes I’ll talk to them and just sometimes he joins in the conversation.
I really want to tell him but I’m scared. Should I drop hints? Is there something I could do that would make him like me? Any ways to casually get to know him? Please give me advice 😅
Thanks for reading this | Crush |
So I’ve been working at this restaurant since January and I’ve gotten to know everybody very well except for this one girl. I’m usually very quiet and don’t go out of my way to talk to people and so is this girl. I find her kinda mysterious since I’ve never talked to her extensively and maybe that’s why I find her attractive, maybe I’m just fascinated by what I don’t know. The other night we were closing the store which usually takes us a couple hours, it was just us and a shift leader and I think I got Stockholm syndrome because we were working until midnight and when I went to sleep I had a dream that I was dating her and now I can’t get her out of my head. Should I really pursue this? I’m only gonna stay at the job for another couple of months. Should I make an effort to communicate with her? Some other dude at our job told her that he liked her but she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship. I legit wanna know if I should try to get with her or at least make friends with her, or maybe it’s my deep fascination for her that’s making me think I like her. | Crush |
I had a crush on a co worker from my previous job. He just kept having mixed signals I couldn’t tell if he was interested or not and honestly I wasn’t going to risk it and make it awkward between us if it turned out he wasn’t interested. so I never did anything. I still think about him even now that so much time has passed and I sometimes regret not having found out for myself if he was interested or not. I just hope not to see him again soon cause I’d still melt with just the sight of him. | Crush |
There's no denying I like him. I've liked him since I first met him. He's a simple guy, he makes me laugh and he's so fun to hang out with in class. Do I think there's a chance for us? Probably not. But because of him, last night, I had my first pleasant dream since I can't remember. I felt good when I woke up, what a lovely change! Do I wish for more? I do. But if we're meant to be just friends, I can live with that too. | Crush |
Asking for my friend bc I feel bad (I’m in a relationship but I still can’t help)
“Okay so there’s a guy on my sports team who I really think I have a crush on. He’s friends with one of my other friends but we don’t talk at all. I used to catch him staring at me through my peripherals, but that’s it. He still kinda stares when I’m walking past him, but I think he overall tries to avoid eye contact. He kinda acts like how act around him ig, but less weird and awkward. I’ve embarrassed myself because of my awkward behavior tbh 🥲
The main point is, we’ve never talked to each other, and is there a chance he reciprocates the feelings?
(Also um I wanted to talk to him but it’s the end of the year what do I do??? He’s literally only spoken to me regarding the sport, and that was like 6 words 🥲)” | Crush |
So I have streaks with my crush. It is pretty low, but high enough that if he didn’t want to keep them he would have stopped sending them by now. The thing is, through observation I have realized that I am his only streak (though he is not my only streak, I have around 16 with my highest in the 800s.) his streak last Saturday was really cute- he sent a picture of his face half covered by his soccer jersey with the caption ⚽️game day⚽️ (he plays soccer, I don’t but I play tennis) and the written s for streaks. I have noticed that he will occasionally mirror my streaks a bit (ex, if I were to send the s with multiple colors over it he has done the same, or if my picture was taken out the window he would do the same) today I did the multicolor pattern and his response was the multicolor pattern but in our school colors. Anyway I am still his only streak- which I find especially surprising since he has had plenty of opportunity to start other streaks- and his best female friend keeps streaks as well (she and I are in the 200s) and his snapscore is pretty low- in the 600s (though I am not one to talk, mine is in the 45000s) so my question is, could this mean anything? I mean his score hardly increases from other influences and he never posts on his story. It is likely I’m near the top of, if not his number one on his best friends list (though he unfortunately hasn’t even made it on mine lol) and why would he caption his streaks if he didn’t care for me to see any of it? This is the same guy I have mentioned previously who I often see go on runs past my house and whose street I often go on walks through (this is purely coincidental on both ends, take my word for it lol) | Crush |
He likes me but it is awkward any advice??? | Crush |
I've had a crush on a girl in my class for about 2 years and I told her that I liked her back in 2019. She told me that she didn't know what to say, and that she felt like she didn't know me well enough. Right after I told her the pandemic hit and we didn't meet until a couple of months later. We are back in school now and I can't tell if she just told me that because she didn't want to her my feelings by saying no or if she genuinely just wanted to wait and see. We are pretty good friends and we have similar interests but it gets pretty awkward when we are alone. She usually fidgets with her pen or keys and seems like she doesn't know what to do. She once told me that she felt comfortable telling me secrets.
When we are in class we sometimes look at each other and quickly look away. When we are with our other friends we usually don't talk to each other.
We used to hug everyday before the pandemic and when I asked her if she could recommend a good anime she gave me the name of a romantic anime about a boy who falls in love with a girl who tries to commit suicide. | Crush |
So brief context, I (16m) like a 15f who I went to school with, but haven’t seen in almost 2 years. We’ve grown closer since she moved away and has even done some things to make me suspect she likes me back. There is also a group chat were in with two of her friends who are both girls
So I should’ve said “There was a groupchat” because she just left if an hour ago saying that the conversation was dry and that I, Tsimmons05, was the only one in the group she talked to consistently
After this she answered my DM asking how her day was. Now last couple weeks she’s been sick with something, mostly just vomiting and headaches, she says that today it was particularly bad. Again I tell her that she should go to the doctor for a check up and this started us down a conversation of her saying she appreciated the concern, but said to keep it myself and to stop “trying to parent me, do that with your friends in &lt;My home state&gt;”
I knew what I wanted to say, just not how to word it. She sent a message a bit after the rant saying she was probably gonna regret it later, I told her “No offense taken, nothing to regret” and the conversion pretty much ended there.
Wondering how this is gonna play out, one thing’s for sure, this hasn’t eased my mind any | Crush |
This girl has been giving me glances for a few weeks and would stand close to me when she has the chance, I’ve tried to look back and only once have we looked at each other eye to eye, i want to text her but I don’t want to be pushy or look demanding how could I text her and ask about how she feels about me? | Crush |
i went to a fish fry restaurant with my mom earlier today and the girl who works there is absolutely beautiful and cute and sweet. while my mom was in the bathroom, the girl complimented my Vans and then showed me hers (hers were cute pink slip-ons) and we talked about how awesome and comfy vans are for like five minutes, and then after we left she told us to have a good day and then smiled at me. bro my heart legit fluttered when she did that. she's so pretty i wanna go back and see her again :( | Crush |
A shy girl liked one my triplets sister so, in Gym class when we were stretching she was the first to volunteer to help her hold her leg and kept feeling her up and liking it a little too much. (Her thighs and lower leg) . My sister didn’t notice. I had the feeling she liked my sister as she kept passing her the ball in gym instead of me. None of us were close to her at all. It could just be she was slightly more athletic than me and that she likes to help people. She talks to her differently than me in a higher voice and nervous type eye contact. I could be paranoid but I have a strong gut feeling and I’m never wrong about things like this. Sad because I wish this was me. I started texting 6 months ago sometimes and she gives me really dry responses on complex and individual questions. At least she’s talking to me. I know I sound jealous and im not entitled for her to like me or talk to me but it’s the fact she likes my sister instead of me because I can’t happen to notice these things being around my sister. Id rather have her like a random person and be with them. Im definitely not letting this girl get in front of sister bond. I think I will have to move on. I have Social Anxiety and Autism so I have a hard time being approachable and to communicate. I had a crush on her for months then and now I still do almost 2 years later. | Crush |
I'm a male.
my height is 173 cm and my crush's height is 170 cm.
I think girls usually prefer much taller guy then them. but I'm kinda short. Do you think height matters a lot for liking some one? | Crush |
So I've been slightly depressed for around a year (I'm 13) and I went to a new school in yr 8 I met this girl and she is so kind so I got her number and we text for days. But irl we don't talk at all. We sometimes text for hours non stop. The main reason why we don't talk irl is because we're afraid averyone will think we're dating. So no one knows that were freinds. We came up with an idea to use morse code during class since we sit relatively close to eachother. Idk why I made this post I just felt like it | Crush |
Pt 1 is [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/neawcu/does_he_like_me_or_are_we_just_friends/)
So after I last posted, I invited J to hang out with me and my friends at my house this Friday, and he accepted. On the invite I gave him my number, and so we started talking Thursday night. We chatted for like two hours, and by the end he asked if I like someone. It sorta played out like this:
J: Do you like anyone?
Me: Sorta? I mean I think so, but I'm not sure :/
J:...I do
Me: Oooh, how long?
J: Two years? How long have you liked your person
Me: On and off for two years, ha
J: Can I ask who?
Me: Nope! I mean-can I ask who for you?
J: Hmmm...maybe?
Me: Do I know them?
J: Oh, definitely.
In classic Y/a novel fashion, just as we typed that my mum decided it was bedtime. Now here's the thing. J and I have no mutual friends. there's nobody J knows well that I also know at all. Also, we've known each other for two years...I have more, like what happened at the hangout, but I'm tired lol. The plot thickens... | Crush |
Basically the title, me and her sit next to each other in class and she is rlly fun to talk to and so beautiful, how can I casually get her number withought it being weird so we can start talking outside of school ?, just as friends for now ig | Crush |
(i am not fluent in english btw)
theres this friend of mine who i just rejected about like 2 years ago and then today he just confessed to me again and i rejected him again because i am not interested and then he told me even if i rejected him many times he wont stop and will always try to get my feelings for him
pls help i dont know what to do, i literally just want to be friends with him but he said he LITERALLY wont stop and he will never stop😣 | Crush |
One is in my year and the other is the year below me. They both have really good personality’s but the issue is one of them I got really close but he has a girlfriend unfortunately and the other one I don’t talk to. The guy I don’t talk to I occasionally catch him staring at me and the guy who I used to talk to I bump into him a lot. I dunno what to do I’m stumped 😭🦖❤️ | Crush |
So we had presentations infront of the whole class today and when it was my crush turn to present he kept looking at me every 10 second or so, he kept shifting his eye contact from our teacher to his friends then to me and when our eyes met he kept that eyecontact for atleast 5 seconds i also wore a cute tank top today and he took a little peak 👀 what do you think? Does this mean anything? | Crush |
I am now a young man coming towards the end of his teenage years. I have had numerous crushes however my infatuation with these people never developed into a proper meaningful relationship or even a hooked up. This was mainly due to a lack of confidence throughout my teenage years (not due to my appearance necessarily but just feeling socially awkward). Most recently I had a crush on a young woman who I did approach and she was delightful not to mention, she seemed interested in me. Although, at the time I stupidly decided to act as though I was uninterested when she would glance over to me because I felt like a creep for approaching her yet, my feelings for her only became stronger (which ultimately lead to my downfall due to overthinking the situation). This was mainly because I overthought my interaction with her and we all know overthinking will destroy you. Now that I’m completely alone (lost the opportunity of ever talking to that woman again) and am currently not attending a school I have no opportunities to find anyone to love rather I’m alone. This could’ve been easily changed if I just believed in myself although, I suppose you learn with time. I’m now resorting to using Tinder which infamously is rigged in favour of women, even if you’re an extremely good looking man it is essentially impossible to get any decent matches or dates from the app. All I’m saying is don’t do what I did, if you like someone and they reciprocate your feelings just go for it and don’t analyse their body language and your interaction with them. If you feel something with them and you have nothing to lose (particularly if life’s a bit crap) just go for it, you never know where it could lead (: | Crush |
So, the guy that ive been on and off with a few months ago was confirmed by my friend that he actually did lose her contacts too. Last night, he was a bit flirtier and used my name if that makes any difference😳. Today, we were texting like usual and it was a bit awkward. I cant be for sure but i feel like he's making an attempt to keep the convo going. I think its cute that he's trying at least. Oh and one last thing is that so far every morning, he texts me gm which seems very thoughtful. Would these be considered green flags? | Crush |
Hey everyone. So my crush and and her boyfriend broke up and I’m terrified. Me and her are friends and I don’t know if I should make a move. What if I ruin my friendship with her. I’m scared if I don’t make a move I’ll regret it and she will move on to someone else What should I do? | Crush |
This story is a continuation of the story "Will Meet Soon" which i posted here on "Crush" few days ago. To feel connected to the story, i recommend you all to read " Will Meet Soon" before you read this. Here's a link to it : [https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qfk2o7/will\_meet\_soon/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qfk2o7/will_meet_soon/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
August 23, 2021 was the day when she posted a beautiful pic dressed in traditional style with the same moon like smile which melts heart in seconds. She isn't very much into social media's, posting 1 or sometimes no pic in a month. It becomes unbearable if allowed to wait for so long to know how she's doing specially when you haven't even met her in real life and you're still a stranger to her. But trust me, it really worths. Just when a notification pops up by insta saying she posted a pic, my thumb becomes faster than the speed of light and after i see her, my heart melts more quickly than an icecream melts. But something happened on 15th of November which freezed this molten heart into an iceberg.
November 14, 2021, the Children's day 🎉, the teachers of our school were well prepared to entertain and motivate us. Me and my freinds were eagerly waiting for a mimic of one of my freinds (A Topper) which was to be performed by our physics teacher but little did we know that he was about to reveal the final examination datesheets in his act. We all were amazed and shocked at same time. While everyone seemed busy in digesting the revelation, i was lost in my own world, thinking what happens if the history repeats? What happens if i again see my beloved near bus station just like i saw her the last year? I went into dreams imagining the entire scene of our second meeting. I saw her again and this time i came out of my school bus and approached her, confessed my feelings and got accepted! We two hugged each other and everyone out there, stucked in the traffic, came out of their vehicles to clap. In reality, i was actually hugging my best freind😆. He was witty and in return, hugged me. Three seconds later he screamed in my ears: " I love you honey " 😆. I fell from my chair and almost got a heart attack 😑. He nearly made me half deaf and he was proud of his act 😑😆. The excitement to see her and that beautiful 5-6 mins of day dreaming that i had, made me so happy that i forgot to sleep that night.
November 15, 2021, woke up pretty late, around 10.30 in the morning. After having shower, i was about to have breakfast when a notification popped from insta saying she posted a pic. My thumb gained the speed of light and within milliseconds i opened the post. She was looking gorgeous 🥺 and a guy was behind her who had his arms around her shoulder. He looked older than her, probably 23-24 i guess? And she is 18, so i assumed him as her brother. I was so much busy in adoring her eyes that i forgot to read the caption which said : " Sometimes i look at my boyfriend and think, Damn! He is one lucky man."
Mind: So it ended?
Heart: Umm........No comments! | Crush |
I hung out with my best friend (21f) the other day. We ended up talking with one of her older brothers (24m) for a little bit. And I (22f) realized that I still find him attractive and cute. 🤭🥴 so now I’m like welp that’s fun and I don’t know what I should do. Do I just brush it aside? | Crush |
Hi, I’ve been friends with this girl for years, I even dated one of her friends, nothing serious, she’s is so funny and kind and she makes me feel soooo happy, we don’t hang out very often because of the pandemic and cause she’s an introvert, me too.
I have liked her for a year maybe, but just brushed it off ‘cause she was “hetero”, now she told me she’s pansexual!!! We talk every day but nothing too exciting, she doesn’t answer for hours or days sometimes.
So I just gave up on her, I’m fine being only friends. The problem begins when we went out last weekend, her brother came to the movies with us. I made a comment that my friend and I didn’t spend a lot of time together we didn’t know each other very well, but her brother said that I was one of the person she hang out the most. Like I said she’s is really introverted and doesn’t go out at all. Should I tell her that I like her?? She hasn’t been in a relationship ever, maybe she’s too shy for that. We have a lot of fun together and her family jocks that I’m their adopted daughter. What should I do???! | Crush |
I have been crushing on a lady older than me apparently she knows about but I have never told her about what I feel.A few days a go she said am naughty and asked me out for lunch . We didn't go for lunch but today in the morning she talked about lunch .Honesty I like her and I don't know what to do .What might be her intentions ? Am I getting friendzoned ? Is she really into me ?
What should I do if she needs me too ? | Crush |
Ok so I have been an acquaintance to my now boss for honestly 10 years. She’s worked at the same coffee shop that I am now at for 10 years.
I just recently maybe (2 months) have been working there and have developed an actual crush on her. I’m [31M] and we get along well. It feels like she’s warming up to me day by day and I told myself not to do this but it’s just happening.
I have a lot to do to get to know her but she is showing interest.
This is just the first time in years I’ve felt a crush like this on someone so I’m a little lost on how to approach it.
She did recently asked me about drinking and what not. Probably no cause for alarm but like I said I haven’t dated in years so any advice is good advice. | Crush |
So there’s this guy at my job that I’m trying to get over because I really don’t think it’s going anywhere. After two years of knowing him I’ve decided that it’s probably best if we just stay friends. But something happened yesterday that has puzzled me. It’s probably nothing but it’s been bothering me ever since it happened.
So I had bought him this gift like a month ago (some collectible toys because he loves collecting toys). I finally gave it to him yesterday because he had been on a leave for like a month. Anyway, when I gave it to him, he was very grateful. He didn’t say thank you. Instead, he put his arms out for me to hug him. Not knowing what else to do, I walked into his arms and we hugged for a few seconds. After the hug he said he would buy me something in return around Christmas.
Now what’s puzzling me is the fact that in the two years we’ve known each other, we have not touched each other, much less hugged. Even when I have given him Christmas gifts in the past. He’s not a touchy feely person at all. Doesn’t hug his other friends from what I’ve seen. He tries to act tough. I didn’t think he liked me because I’m sure he knows I like him but he hasn’t made a move. I even very strongly hinted to him about two weeks ago about me liking him. He said no one likes him and he’s afraid he’s going to be alone. I said something along the lines of “you never know, someone you know very well might like you 😉” He replied with he knew that and he was not interested.
I’m so confused. I feel like I’m overthinking but idk. He’s such a mystery. I’m trying not to think about him a lot anymore but this incident won’t get out of my head. What do you think is going on in his head? | Crush |
I developed feelings for someone and we really connected. But when I told her she said she liked someone else. He doesn’t like her back. I was prepared to move on but miscommunication made her think that we were back to normal. Recently She said she deeply cares for me and still wants me in her life but is still not over the other guy. We decided to give each other space.
What should I do? | Crush |
Ok so i posted a while back that i liked this guy and that he was always playful around others but i thought he behaved a little differently around me and wondered if he liked me but then in another post i wrote about how i was moving on since i thought he played with my feelings and ghosted me when really he just said his phone was erased? He is a charismatic person who would hug everyone for fun and joke around so much. My friend,(Lets call her M) told me he was always like that around everyone so i brushed aside that thought that he liked me. 3 1/2 months later(TODAY), he finally messages me again and i thought he ghosted me but he goes on to tell me that he likes me for real?! Like all this time, i thought he lost interest in me and now he suddenly appears to tell me this?! Im not mad im just a little, yk, confused and everything maybe even a little disappointed. My friend M stopped talking to him a while ago (idk why) and told me that he liked at her at one point too but she didnt feel the same way and somehow just stopped talking? Idk but anyways, how should i respond to this guy, i told him id give him an answer by next Sunday so i hope to hear your guys' thoughts because that would really be appreciated. | Crush |
So to give you a little background I think I'm falling in love with this girl. We've known each other since September and I've been talking to her a lot in school. I even got her snapchat. We really bond over a lot. She works at a farm which I know the guy who owns it. Recently I surprised her with a record she wanted. And she gave me a hug for it. And me and her have been talking back and forth. I seen her in the hallway a couple of days ago and she smiled at me toom i'm going to hang out with her at the farm in a couple of days I was wondering do you think I should kiss her. Do you think she's into me. | Crush |
Basically recently me and this guy met in online. One day he was hinting me that he want to ask me out. well not exactly going out since we lived 5 hours away, but he was saying that he want to date me. I didn’t know what to say because first we recently just met and second I’m new to this kind of stuff such as dating bc I have never ever date in my life.
So I told him that I am not sure and we should get to know more. both of us agreed and he told me that he will be ready when I’m ready and he ask that if we could still be friend and ofc I don’t mind.
Day by day i can’t stop thinking bout it and looks like I might also starting to like him….but by the way he text this day to me he seems not that interested anymore….
:((( what should I do? I really want to make it work | Crush |
So recently I've had a crush on this one guy who's in both my science and gym class. I have my science like 4 periods before I have my gym class, and during science I think I notice him like staring at me. Sometimes I turn to look and he turns away, and other times he looks like he's zoned out. During gym, I still think I notice him looking in my direction, but I'm not so sure, as our 2 gym classes are sort of merged into one whole. We do have a way to contact each other, but don't use it often. I tried to make a conversation over text one day, but it kinda flopped. We had a test like a few weeks later, to which he asked me what I had gotten as a grade for that, and that was the end of that conversation. Does he only see me as a friend? | Crush |
So this guy was shy in the school but now he talks with almost everyone in our grade, except for me. We have talked a lot previously until May when a weird moment happened, after that I heard rumour about a gilfriend but there are any proofs.
Now if we are with other people he won't talk to me or won't start a conversation. But if we are alone we are fine. And also if I go to talk to a person near to him, he will go away.
Is it because of his shy personality or what??? 🤔 | Crush |
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I play volley every Tuesday.
There's another team (male, we're female) that play besides us and I've taken special notice to one of them.
The problem is: I have no idea how to approach them.
I wanted to ask them to maybe play together, but the teams never mix.
I have to wait week between each practice and I'm slowly giving up.
I asked my friends and they didn't have any idea either. | Crush |
Firstly, i don't know whether soulmates are like scientifically proven or anything, so i'm not 100% sure about this.
Anyways, her name (only gonna share her name bc privacy) is Tejal and i am totally in love with her. I'm genderfluid (simplified, at least) and nomaromantic (attraction to all genders except male/masculine genders). She is, as far as she is concerned, straight. Bad luck for me. But i suspect she may be more than straight or an ally, because she does flirt with me sometimes. Oh yeah, and the straight bit is only sexuality, so she could be panromantic, biromantic or stuff like that.
I searched up 'signs someone is your soulmate' and all 18 signs in the article i read matched me and Tejal. We are best friends, we care for eachother and it just feels like we were destined to be together.
But i don't know if she actually likes me back or not, because even though she flirts she has only done it like, 2-3 times in our whole 4-year friendship. Or rather platonic marriage, since we are literally platonically married. We have rings and even had a hilarious wedding at school (w whole other story). | Crush |
So I've talked to this girl about 3 times for maybe 5-10 min each time. Last conversation we were talking about random things I've seen at work (logistics company). I said adult videos/toys. She asks do you watch that (i.e.p*rn).
Caught me off guard and didn't answer.
P.s. she's married.
Is she interested in hooking up? Just flirting? Would you ever ask someone that question without really knowing them? So many questions. | Crush |
Hmm not sure what to put in the body because I honestly don't feel weird about it I've expressed how I've has a crush on him since high school how I'm a big fan of him and that one of his lyrics spoke to me so honestly. It could be way weirder im letting my system go with what It feels and hopefully it knows what it's doing I feel fine honestly just tired from doing all the work. I may rest for a while now until he responds back to me however long that takes my commitment is to just leave it be for now and not send any more messages to him and to get my own life in order for my own sake | Crush |
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