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So I like a girl but she has a boyfriend and she like to talk to me friend Caleb but he is not interested in her and she does not really like her boyfriend she called me ugly is she joking like a mean flirt because I know girls don’t just call you handsome if you don’t date them I like her I just don’t know what she means I have been trying to show I like her | Crush |
I have crush on one girl I talk to her a lot but she called me ugly I find her very attractive and funny I don’t know if it was some mean joke and she loves talking to one of my friends and the other girl is really nice super short and pretty I am starting to talk to her on Snapchat but I don’t know if she likes me and I don’t what to ruin on our friendship and first girl I have like for a long time she met my sister and my sister liked her I just don’t know what to do. Sorry if this was bad written it is because it is late and I am tired | Crush |
i haven't talked to my old crush turned close friend since before the pandemic started where we were both in middle school 8th grade and now we're both in 10th grade.
my Instagram account got disabled for some reason and i couldn’t retrieve it causing me to start a new account and attempt to refollow the people who i once was. her name appeared in my head randomly so i look her up check her Instagram and she seems great enjoying life, high school, blah blah blah.
i want to dm her saying something along the lines of “whats up (blank) hows it hanging” but not cheesy and not in the face of remember me or hi i’m back into your memory
i could definitely be overthinking but any suggestions of what to say? | Crush |
I like her and sometimes I do get horny fantasizing about making out and stuff with her but when I see her in person, I realize that I actually wouldn’t want to have sex with her or do any of the things I’ve fantasized about. Is this normal? | Crush |
I tried posting something that would get his attention but I think he really thinks we are just friends.
“If you have a crush on me say it now or forever hold your peace”
He saw it but didn’t reply and now I’m sad but on a lighter note my friend replied to me <3
I wish I could post a picture lol. | Crush |
it's so hard having feels for your guy friend that has a boyfriend. i wanna be his girlfriend so badly. he doesn't like himself and all i wanna do is cuddle him and hold his hand while i tell him how amazing and handsome and adorable he is and all of the things i love about him. i wanna kiss his cute face until he hates it | Crush |
ohhh man ive recently realized i have a crush on one my close friends we talk alot have been friends for atleast like 1 or 2 years id say were pretty good friends one lil problem shes gay and im a man what do i do? WHAT DO I DO | Crush |
Soo I've been having a crush on my class. I won't say the very long story because that's boring. I just don't know how to make progress with her anymore. She added me as a contact, We text each other about school stuff every now and then, we talk to each other in school. But how do I make her love me? I grabbed her attention, I am her friend now. She feels comfortable talking to me, but that's still not the main goal. How do I make her fall in love with me? Life is so confusing right now I just really don't know what to do... I really want her in my life. | Crush |
I usually don’t ask about these kind of things on social media but I can’t tell if he’s into me. I want him to be into me, but I also feel like he thinks I don’t like him because I can’t carry a conversation to save my life. We get into talking about Valentine’s Day and prom night and things at work but it never actually goes any further than that. But what do you think?
Things he does that shows me he’s interested:
-walks talks and laughs with me.
-we talk about prom and Valentine’s Day.
- he compliments me sometimes
- He called me amazing but I don’t know whether to take that as a compliment or not.
Things he does that shows me he’s not interested:(these are so specific but I’ll try to generalize it in case he has Reddit)
- I accidentally will touch him and he will put his hands in his pockets.
- he leaves me on read sometimes when I’m texting him.
- doesn’t really initiate the conversation but texts back super quick. | Crush |
So I told myself this will not happen but damn I actually caught the feels for someone. The thing is my feelings grow each time we spend time talking or I see the person. I realized the only way for me to get rid of this feeling is if I don't see the person. But that's kind of impossible since we work together. What would you do in this situation? I know the person doesn't feel the same. So don't tell me to confess. Lol The person pretty much treats me like a friend or even family. I've been thinking about it and anyway is my only option to quit my job and get a new one? I don't want to hurt the person's feelings by ignoring them completely. Though I already tried to do that by avoiding the person when I see them without them noticing me first. But it's not always an option since like I said we work together. | Crush |
I wrote a song for my crush and put it on DistroKid, so it's really out there. My crush knows I make music, we're good friends. Not an avid listener - unless I send a specific song. I put specific hints in the song about my crush but I never name dropped. Not sure what to do... I have a link if ya wanna hear it, Lemme know, would you send this song to your crush? Or if someone sent it to you - would you take it as a declaration of love?
[https://songwhip.com/nerd-lady/clementine](https://songwhip.com/nerd-lady/clementine)
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Just out of curiosity, since I see mostly girls posting stuff (what is not a problem at all).
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/sqmorv) | Crush |
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I had a crush in grade 5 I am in my last year of middle school about to go in high school ( i changed schools in grade 5 . Its been YEARS since I met him ( around 4 yrs) but I am still not over him or any other crush I had in middle school. What am I supposed to do? I know what I am about to say is messed up, but I’ll say it anyways. i had a fucking crush on my TEACHER. What is wrong with me? | Crush |
My friends stole my phone at the gym and started spamming her with snaps and texts (mostly one friend) now she lost feelings due to it and just wants to be friends. The friend who did it is a fucking loser who never talks to girls and I can see why | Crush |
I have been noticing certain things about my crush after following him on social media recently. So actually when we see us at school I really try to hold eye contact and mostly we couldn’t make eye contact because he used to look at other directions while passing by me but sometimes he still locks eye with me so I was kind of confused. I thought I should make a first move so I followed him on Instagram and he follows me back too. The thing is I always knew his social media but never got the courage to do something. He also didn’t used to post alot like he was not very active on his socials. So now I recognize after me following him, he often changes his profile picture and also posts more than before. Also his friend is stalking me on my socla media. Do you think he feels the same way I do? Pls help | Crush |
i know this guy had a crush on me about 4 years ago, which is a long time, but i’ve recently started talking to him again. we don’t talk much in person cus we have different friend groups, but we talk a lot over snap.
he swipes up on my story and responds to things i say sometimes.
he called me short the other day which i know is a flirty high school thing but i know he calls other girls that too.
sometimes he just snaps me and nobody else
he’s sends me shower pics and fit pics.
he is a pretty dry texter to a lot of people but recently he’s been better about it.
he came over and talked to me when i was with one of his friends which is new.
he’s a lot quieter around me than other people.
he made a passive aggressive comment to my guy friend i was having a conversation with at the time.
he randomly messaged me telling me he got a concussion?😭
also he joined both my snapchat private stories.
it’s really hard to tell because i’m a big overthinker and he could just be a flirty person. unfortunately and fortunately i have a tendency to hold onto hope on these things. i wish he liked me but i also just want to stop liking him it feels like things are going nowhere. | Crush |
So I've been thinking about admitting to two people that I went to high school with that I liked them then. One is my best friend and the other is a mutual friend of ours. We are all 22 and I have known each of them for roughly 8 years. Our mutual friend and I had a falling out but we have since become friends again. Best friend and I have grown very close and are both in long term relationships.
I'm happy in my relationship but sometimes I reflect on my crushes and wonder how things would have worked out. It's not that I dwell on them, I just want to get this off my chest to them. | Crush |
There is this guy in my class, and I think about him a lot and stuff, and I sometimes get butterflies, but I don’t really feel too much. I do think I’m going through a small period of depression, so I’m not sure if that contributes to it. And it is possible that I’m Aromantic, because I haven’t had a crush before. But it’s almost Valentine’s Day, and I don’t know if I should tell him I like him or not, because to be honest I don’t even know if I like him or not. Please help me figure out my feelings. | Crush |
How do I tell him when he doest see me 'like that'?🌝 | Crush |
Anyways my crush and I were texting and idk how we got to the death topic. But I joked around about me dying and he said he would be depressed if I died. Idk but like does that mean something? | Crush |
I studied my school and high school in all boys campus and know currently I am in college having co education. I am facing problems interacting with female students as I have no experience to have conversations with girls. Accept my cousin and siblings. I feel shy like I have some type parthenophobe . Like I am 18 and and my 1 year of college is ending and I have never talk to college girl accept any work or related to college. The bigger problem it gets. As I have crush in my college and I really like her she is with me in my IT class and I can't talk to her from last 4 mount. Please help me out to overcome this shyness and how can I intact to her | Crush |
This is probably a dime-a-dozen story, but she’s not so it’s ok. We’ve known each other for about 3 years now. I met in college her as a freshman at a party I was hosting my junior year. She gotta super drunk and I offered to take her home after that. The entire ride back with her friends she kept touching my face telling me how amazing a guy I was and that she was embarrassed she was that drunk. I remember distinctly she said “I hope you don’t remember me as a drunk freshman.” I promised her I wouldn’t.
Yeah, that was a lie.
Fast forward to now, my initial crush of her didn’t last long. We became quick friends and very close ever since. What changed was one night after a friend’s birthday I slept over at her apartment cause I had been drinking.
Everyone else had gone to bed, but we just talked and talked in her kitchen for hours. I had been going through some shit at the time. Family problems, I was graduating and just was feeling very lost. She was talking with me and I realized how long she had been there for me. We talked about love and how we liked to be loved. A lot of the stuff we said was similar. That’s when my feelings all came crashing back, that night we stayed up till 5am just talking. It really doesn’t help that we’re very affectionate friends, we hold hands sometimes, nights when I sleep over, I give her a kiss on the head and then go sleep on the couch, we’ve even cuddled a few times just when we were both tired. Every time I just feel like my affection for her grows.
I honestly don’t think I’ll ever tell her though. I’m ok with it, she just went through a messy break up and I don’t know if we’d actually be good for anything more than what we are now. Honestly all I wanna do is make her happy. If she’s happy, I’m happy. | Crush |
I’ve seen these a lot lately and I want to try bc I can’t get him out of my head lol | Crush |
Hi guys soo I just had multiple conversations with my and I am actually becoming a friend of her, she talks to me comfortably and she responds to me with voice messages on whatsapp in a very comfortable way which is so cool. So I am asking if what I am doing is right? Should I become a closer friend of my crush, will that affect my relationship with her in a positive way or should I avoid that? | Crush |
We worked at the same place for nearly 1 month and we are in the same school,in different classes but there are 9man for 1 girl , I don't know if she has a boyfriend I guess not because the only party she goes too are with her female friends, she is incredible in every way she likes games and fantasy,she was very kind to me wich is pretty rare I'm a gorilla,tall and muscular and it can scare her.
I've never felt that for someone else and the only for me to communicate with her is by mail, we are almost at 14 february wich happen during my holidays, she will go to the north of France so thats why I don't think she has a bf how can I write to her, a long message to tell her everything I'm feeling or just asking herbout in a few words, I really don't know how to process here pls help | Crush |
I will try to make this short. I (34F) was someone who always had crushes ever since elementary school. Every year I liked at lease one person or more. Then I married right after high school (I was pregnant and basically forced to by family) and that lasted about 4 years. A few years after that I met someone else and we stayed together seven years (married 3).
In 2018 his family set him up with another women (while we were married) and that ended it. They are now married and have two kids and I’m just numb. It took me a few years to get over him. I had a crush on a guy but he moved and I was glad he did because crushes tend to become very obsessive and consuming to me. Just like when I was younger.
I’m finally to the point I can think about my ex and just miss the friendship we had. I no longer cry about it. But I feel broken. It’s been years since I’ve felt any type of emotion or feeling for another person. I’m starting to think I lost the ability to do it. From the ages of 17-31 I was in relationship after relationship without really being alone. I know I have toxic traits and I’m not dating anyone until they are dealt with but it’s just so weird for me to see all different types of people and feel nothing. I don’t even really feel attraction to people. Like I use to actually feel an awkwardness when I would be around a crush and now I just feel nothing. Blank. | Crush |
I have had crush on someone for a bit now. Me and my crush have probably made one conversation but something in me says that there the one. This is probably a stupid question but my mind has been battling this for a while. Tell me what you think? | Crush |
Advice needed!
So I just recently got into a relationship and we have been together about a week. This so my first relationship so I don’t really know how things work, is it too soon to celebrate Valentine’s Day with him? He hasn’t mentioned anything about it and I hate to ask him and make it seem like I’m expecting something out of him. I also want to know if he is wanting to do something because I don’t want to be the one unprepared for it. | Crush |
i saw other people doing these and thought it could be fun :) | Crush |
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https://preview.redd.it/mo5fgnw28lg81.png?width=500&format=png&auto=webp&s=5b84bf0c9440b18e4569e58d4cf55e14d94f8efd | Crush |
I’ve known this girl for quite a long time now. I attend an engineering-based high school with around 200 students, so we had a really small class together for a month or so at the end of freshman year in April of 2021, it being the first time we had to attend school in-person again since the start of quarantine. I know this seems kind of weird and I don't know if I'm too obsessive because of this, but I developed a pretty big crush on her, our last class together being literally 10 months ago at this point. We didn’t stay in contact or end up in any classes together in the first semester of freshman year, so I feel that we basically don’t know each other anymore, but I really enjoyed having her around because we had similar personalities and we shared a lot of the same interests (We're both classical musicians so we mainly talked about stuff relating to that like music theory, composers, etc.).
I’m a social wreck when it comes to making new friends or even just talking to anybody new, so I really don’t know how I’m going to make the opportunity to talk to her more, much less become friends with her. However, with the new semester, I do have 2 class periods with her, so I think there’s a good chance for me to accomplish both of those things in a semi-natural way. We haven’t had an actual conversation in forever and it kind of feels like I dug myself a hole by waiting this long, so I don’t know how I would start a conversation out of the blue without coming off as weird and/or inevitably not knowing what to say. I’m probably a bit too paranoid about how I come off to people, but I have just never been good at conversations and I've always been the shyest person I know, so please give me some tips. Any help is appreciated! | Crush |
So I’ve been liking this girl and we both are in boarding, but due online school we were not in boarding and couldn’t meet so now she’s coming and I wanna ask her out soon, could you guys give me any tips on how I should ask her out because I want to ask her out face to face, my original plan was to order cheesecake because that’s what she likes and ask her out with that. What do u guys think ? What should I do?? | Crush |
I’ve been talking to this guy for four weeks, but recently he’s been very confusing. I met him at work and yesterday I left without saying goodbye to him which made him upset. I told him it’s because he looked stressed and I didn’t want to bother him. He left me on delivered while still being active on social media. I text him the next day in the morning apologizing and he says it’s all good and I didn’t do anything wrong, work was just long. I take a while to respond because of school and dance practice. While I’m at dance practice he FaceTime calls me so I message him saying “ok I’m sorry I just wanted to make sure, also what’s up I’m at dance practice.” He responds after a couple of minutes saying “it’s all good and it was an accident my bad.” I take a while to respond and he double texts me asking how my day was. Once again I take two hours to respond because I took a nap, so I finally respond and apologized for taking long. He has taken now taken three hours to respond even though he has been active. He does this a lot and it’s starting to irritate me and make me upset. I need opinions and advice because when I see him in person he talks to me and says he misses me, but then he does this. Opinions are all welcomed as well as advices! | Crush |
I am so tired of this, man why do i have such feelings? For someone I couldn't care less about, why should i be so indulged in every conversation we have? Why am i so caught up in the empty "i love you"s we throw around? Why do i have such a care, such a need to engulf him in my arms and tell him i love them so much, but I know he'd back away, shove me away, and i feel like crying, digging my teeth into my lips, feeling a romantic overload. I'm so sick of myself. We are friends, so why am i so intimidated to speak to him? We talk about this, we say on how we want to talk to eachother but hes too introverted, and can't a start a conversation. I hate feelings, I hate how I wanna see him. I'm disgusting aren't I? What can I do? Nothing right?. What can I do? how do i get rid of such useless feelings. | Crush |
It isn’t 4 yet, but we are going to a movie this weekend, and “prom” together. I say prom in quotes because it is actually morp. Prom for sophomores and freshman. So it worked before 4 I guess. | Crush |
Holy shit it’s happening. Tomorrow at 4:00 pm EST, I’m asking out my crush. We are already going to prom together, but as friends. I want to change that. I’m shaking right now but the worst that she can say is “ew, now I’m not going to prom with you creep”. Yeah that just made me more nervous. If I don’t post tomorrow she said yes. | Crush |
for context we’ve known each other for 6 years and I’ve liked her for a while. She knows I have a crush on her and is cool with it. She had a crush on me for a while too but got over it and I never did. We always jokingly flirt with each other and stuff.
She’s recently started messing around with this other girl and while I’m very happy she’s happy I can’t help but feel sad. I don’t want to feel that way anymore and want to just be happy for her. So how do I get over my crush? And no stopping talking to her isn’t something I’m willing to do. | Crush |
People of Reddit, after you got rejected, what happened afterwards? Did you move on? And what is your current relationship with your ex crush? (Strangers, friends, BFF, etc.) | Crush |
Okay so I have this shy coworker who I think likes me and whenever I talk to him he starts pulling on his face mask why is that ?he only does that if I’m talking to him | Crush |
Hi all. I am a bi girl. i like men romantically and sexually and women only sexually. im confused about something: i've had crushes on two girls. when i saw the first one i got the biggest butterflies, but when i befriended her a year later i realized it was all platonic. but idk about the other one. its been almost 3 years and i never got to talk to her. i dont know how to stop thinking of her, even tho my feelings were never as strong as with the other one. im sure its also a platonic crush but since i never got to know her, idk.
Have u been in a situation similar to this? How did u stop thinking of em? | Crush |
My crush I was planning to ask out at the dance, and I am lesbian and she is too, WELL I WAS FUCKING REJECTED IT HURTS SO FUCKING BAD BUT HAHAHAHA ME AND MY FIRENDA TURNED IT INTO A JOKE :,) | Crush |
Everyone says it’s obvious I like this girl and I mean everyone, I blush when someone says I like her and say “stop it no” with a red face, I can’t make eye contact with her or even speak to her and I feel the urge to check every morning to see if she responded to me and I wait until she does (she’s in a lot of my dreams and always on my mind) yet my brain won’t agree with me that I like her, do you guy think I do? | Crush |
Okay I'll be quick.
So this is the situation, my crush has a boyfriend, and she sometimes "flirts" with me, she had a crush on me before she met up with her boyfriend. Anyways, we used to message each other a lot, until this happened.
I uploaded a photo to Instagram, and she liked it with her private account, and soon after removed me from followers and unfollowed me. There are some signs her boyfriend has access to her account. Also before she liked all of my pictures with her real account, now she doesn't, at all, and it's not like she didn't see them, I upload around 3 pictures a day.
So what do I do, I need your advice, and no I don't want to steal her from her boyfriend, I'm not that type of guy, and that is immoral. I just want to find out could it possibly be her boyfriend that removed me, or I said something wrong, and now she hates me.
I need your interpretation. | Crush |
So I met this girl in my college, who is in two of my college classes and is pretty. The thing is, our classes were online for the first week, so I only saw her on zoom. Yesterday we had our first in person class together, and while we were in class I was sitting behind her and she kept turning around to give me glances. Like sometimes I would catch her looking at me with her side eye. So after class I decided to talk to her, and at first she was quiet when we talked, but as the conversation progressed she started laughing at everything I said, even stuff that wasn’t even funny. She also kept brushing her hair to the side when talking to me. I walked with her all the way back to her dorm and she didn’t mind. I felt like I was awkward in ending the conversation, because I realized I had to get to my next class and was panicking. I said I had to go, and she said “Yeah, you should probably get to your next class.”When we went our separate ways I quickly looked back and I saw she was looking down while walking. I really want to ask her to hang out but I’m really scared of being rejected by her. I don’t know if I should ask her out next class or wait awhile since I only talked to her once. I’m used to getting rejected by girls all the time and I would always misinterpret their being nice as being interested in me. The thing about this girl is that we have a lot in common. Like we are both out-of-state students who happened to be from the same state and we are also in the same major. I don’t know what to do about this girl. I’m just being very skeptical about all of this because I’m assuming she is just being nice to me like every other girl. My friends tell me I should ask her out but I just need some help. I know this post probably seems very trivial and ridiculous. | Crush |
I have a crush on this guy at my school. I walked passed him in the hall today, and was physically freaking out. By physically freaking out, I mean I ran away from him. Other ppl saw me and it was really bad. I needed an outlet to share this so here it is. | Crush |
So at the the start of school this year a girl came into my class, from the first moment I saw her I knew I liked her everyday I liked her more and more we would make eye contact we would sometimes talk but not much after a few months of this I finally built up the courage to tell her and ask her to hangout "I can't I can't" was her response. Now she won't even look at me idk why is it because she might hate me? or she just feels akward towards me and I can't stand it because I feel like I am in love with her. I want to try again with her and try to talk about why she said I can't, the reason why I want to try again is because she didn't say I am not interested in you or I don't like you nothing like that If she said any of those I would've let her go and moved on all she said was "I can't I can't" then walked off.
Ps: she wasn't mad. | Crush |
I have a crush on this senior guy who was the mentor of a small on campus program that I had joined. Now that the classes are over, I find myself missing him. He's very smart and intelligent, ambitious and he smiles all the time, very calm, not aggressive at all. Also, he's single. I even sent him a friend request(after thinking about it for a week) , and texted him first (asked about something related to the class), he responded nicely but it ended there. I think an extremely smart and determined person wouldn't consider being together with someone who is ,ummm, not smart (especially when they're average looking)?
However, my cousin thinks that I might have a chance with him, but, he doesn't know anything about me(except for the fact that I'm not as smart).
If I confess now via text, I'm definitely getting rejected. But I also can’t simply wait and take it slow and try to get closer to him before confessing, because it might be too late by then, he will graduate this year. GOSH HOW DO I DEAL WITH IT!? | Crush |
Okay so I’m a freshman in high school and there is this guy in my lunch and 7th period class.He’s like really cute but I could tell that he was never going to be interested in me.Me being the dumb person I am I’m thinking “oh if I can get closer to him he will like me” -_- so I ask his friend for his number and snap…he doesn’t give it to me so I find his snap in quick add.I add him and pretend not to know him then eventually tell him it’s me.I ask if he likes anyone and he said he does but the girl he likes already has a boyfriend.I tell shoot my shot but then he doesn’t answer.I got embarrassed and told him to forget about it then he says he’s know for a while.
I still like this guy what do I do now? | Crush |
hey , there's a girl in my class that i really like but we've never had a talk each other personally , its about 2 years now and i still dont know how to approach her or have her ig shes really reserved so its kinda hard can you guys give me some tips?
thanks xx | Crush |
Hi guys,
i (f/21)hate to admit this but i think ive started to develop a crush towards this new guy at my workplace. i like to think that we get along quite well and we have a few things in common however, he hasnt seen my face as im always wearing a face mask and ive started to become quite comfortable wearing it. im kinda dreadding the day that my face is revealed just cuz ... well i dont know how to describe it but i feel like the magic will be gone if you know what i mean. maybe its just because i sorta feel insecure and not good enough. i avoid doing anything that involves me taking my mask off in general such as eating ect as i dont really like people knowing my face in general esp at uni and work.
anyone else feel like this ? any advice as to how to over come this ? or to what sub reddit i should post this to ? | Crush |
I used to like this guy, but stuff happen since that I stop talking to him for months.
today was my last day of high school so I asked everyone to sign my t shirt and I decided to asked him to write something on my t-shirt.
Idk why but looking at his writing in my t shirt now made me sad :( I’m kind of sad with the way things happen I wish that it wouldn’t end like this.
Have this ever happen to you?
I really want to talk or text with him but it seems so awkward :( | Crush |
So back last School year this person(C) told some one to say that they liked me (from my perspective) ,and then the school year ends and I forgot what C looked like and then I liked her back. Now it's this year and I'm waiting for the perfect time to ask her out, but I haven't confirmed that C likes me back now, or just fell out of Love. I have seen C stare at me multiple times but idk what to do ;-; I've also found more evidence, they keep staring at me even more
They seem so confedent with it as well ;-; I'm just AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA | Crush |
I could get over of thinking of my crush. But when she interacts with me, it start to THINK again!! This is so irritating | Crush |
I’ve been commenting on this Community for a little while, and this is my first post. I suppose this is my way of shouting out to the world the most obvious statement yet it feels so unique: there is no one that compares to my crush.
I have tried dating other people. I have reached out and met people on dating sites. Not a single person I’ve met matches my unattainable crush’s humor and brilliance. My mind tells me I must not compare others to her. She is like a spark of magic, and exposure to that changes your world.
I will probably never tell her for many of the reasons others have stated: fear of losing the friendship we have; worry that she won’t be able to deal with my feelings and things will be awkward.
This is a place to confess so this is where my heart will live - in the posts of a sub-Reddit, known only to you all.
Thanks for all of your stories; it’s always good to know you’re not alone. | Crush |
I’ve had a crush on a good friend of mine for a while now and I didn’t say anything because I was super nervous about how it would go.
Well…I told him today! I’m super proud of myself because this really isn’t something that I would normally do.
He doesn’t like me in that way and just wants to be friends (which is perfectly fine by me). He said “I hope this doesn’t affect our friendship because I think you’re really cool”. I’m actually really glad he said that because that’s one of the reasons I was hesitant to say anything.
In the end, I still have a really good friend and my feelings aren’t weighing me down anymore. I actually feel free!!
Word of advice: just do it! It can only go one of two ways - they like you or they don’t. Regardless of how it goes life goes on. | Crush |
I "met" a boy who took my bus at the beginning of the year but lately I don't see him at all. We are not in the same university but we eat in the same canteen. I saw him today by chance but with the crowd, impossible to see him all the time. When we saw each other on the bus, he looked at me really a lot, even when our eyes did not meet I felt his gaze on me! Since then I had a big crush on him but I don't know how to approach him. As I said, we are not in the same university so we see each other very rarely. So I told myself that next time, I must not let my chance pass and I must go see him but I really do not have the courage. He intimidates me a lot and I find it weird to go and approach him by asking him or giving him my snapchat even if all my friends tell me to do that...
(sorry if i made mistakes my english is not great🙃) | Crush |
SO there is a girl i like. i know her about nearly 1yrs, And the amazing fact is that i never talked to her even once , i literally stare 24/7, it's seems like she noticed me but she doesn't care or she is ignoring ( the percentage is she being shy is literally 0.0001% ig ) . ig she even don't know me yet . Now i feel like i'm just a stalker just stoking her . I just want to start a conversation with her but when she is around my lips and tough froze like i got a frozebite . i don't even know why i like her so much . I can even start a causal conversation to a stranger like we were frds . But in her case i totally lose my confidence . I wanted to try talking to her frds but i don't trust them. IF they find out i like her frd . they will make a big fuss out of notthing and my high school will be ruined . My story will end before even started . ( Can anyone provide me some solution or i'm beyond help ) End of the day i'm just gonna be the Stalker for rest of my highschool | Crush |
Soo i met my crush for the 1st time last week and i catched big feelings for him, (i just met him once for now ) , i think about him 24/7 but the problem is that i cannot visualize his face clearly in my mind i just remember some details like his hair , his hands , and his mouth , idk what is this , i will see him next saturday but idk if this problem gonna last HELP | Crush |
My crush is my bestfriends sister a my bestfriend said she doesn't care but like I dont know is it socially acceptable and me and her have been flirting and just like being really on each other? | Crush |
SO there is a girl i like. i know her about nearly 1yrs, And the amazing fact is that i never talked to her even once , i literally stare 24/7, it's seems like she noticed me but she doesn't care or she is ignoring
( the percentage is she being shy is literally 0.0001% ig ) . ig she even don't know me yet . Now i feel like i'm just a stalker just stalking her . I just want to start a conversation with her but when she is around my lips and tough froze like i got a frosbite . i don't even know why i like her so much . I can even start a causal conversation to a stranger like we were friend's . But in her case i totally lose my confidence . I wanted to try talking to her frds but i don't trust them. IF they find out i like her frd . they will make a big fuss out of notthing and my high school will be ruined . My story will end before even started .
( Can anyone provide me some solution or i'm beyond help ) End of the day i'm just gonna be the Stalker for rest of my highschool | Crush |
My crush has two Instagram account and follows me on both oka? So I posted a pic of me and put “ just double tap….I like you too🤗🤗”. I kept it for a short while and changed it bc I was feeling a little skeptical about it. Anyway, he liked my post on both of his Instagram accounts shortly after I changed my caption. He liked my other post on only on one of his accounts so I wonder if it means anything when he liked it on both accounts this time. Am I over thinking things? He also makes it to the top viewer list on my Instagram story, end seems to watch all of them. | Crush |
So, to clarify, I'm gay.
Started uni again, and met this guy who was perfect. Funny, smart, good at smash, loves spending time with me.
And on his I.g, he posted so much stuff that would imply he's bi. Talking about how he bridges the gap between Gay and Straight, stuff like that.
So I wanted to tell him how I felt today, but it turns out, he got a girlfriend. And according to his friends, he isn't bi in the first place
I've been trying and looking for a bf since I was 16, I'm almost 21. Everytime I just get my hopes up and it gets crushed. And idk how I'm gonna move past this one. I see him everyday, and I don't wanna tell him how I feel cause then my feelings for him become his gf's problem too | Crush |
so, i'm with my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks, we're teenagers but come on, i had like what, 2 hugs, nothing more. Can he do something ? I start to think that he doesn't like me, or mayble he is shy, who knows ? | Crush |
Basically, my crush has a home next to me where she comes from summer to summer right now she's in another city but she comes in summer to stay for another 3 months and then leaves again to the same city. We almost everyday cross our path (In summer) but never actually talked to each other, not even a wave probably because I have social anxiety which is a problem of mine but anyway back to the story, basically I'm trying to find a way to initiate a conversation with her, but to be honest, I'm too scared to face her, so instead what I was thinking is to create an Instagram account as I have her Instagram and message her like a random guy who wants to make friends over the Internet and later on ask her to meet up, but I don't know if this method is going to creep her out or not so please let me know or you could suggest me another way to have a conversation with her. Right now, the only way I can talk to her is through Instagram as she's not in the home next to me she'll come till summer so yeah please welp. (We're both teenagers (I'm 16 and she's probably 16 too well at least she looks 16 to me))
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Thanks for reading. | Crush |
Im close friends with Eren, and I am acquainted with Myth, and Eren knows Myth. Eren has a crush on me (hasn’t fully admitted but easy to tell, whole drum line knows he does), but I rlly rlly like Myth. Idek if i should tell Eren since we are friends, or if I shouldn’t. Not to mention Myth is a senior and I am a sophomore, (2 yr difference) but I am completely fine with it. Advice??? | Crush |
So recently my best friend dragged me along on a group outing with her boyfriend and one of his friends(let’s call them A). I ended up getting A’s snap and we’ve been talking for a month now. When I went to her about it at one point she said “he doesn’t like you” and not two days later she informs me that he is aware that he is talking to me and saying things that are going to make me catch feelings. I’ve stayed up taking to him for a few nights which is weird for me cause I am not a night owl at all. He just makes me smile in a way I haven’t in a while. My friend knows more than she’s telling me and I’m bothered because if he doesn’t like me then I’m going to just stop trying. It’s all really annoying and I don’t know if I should just wait it out and see why happens or confront him and see if I can get answers. | Crush |
so i don't want to be super specific but basically here's some exposition: i recently joined marching band (i'm 17 and in high school btw) and it was super fun! i met a bunch of cool and nice people and it really made me more confident. before i joined, i was super anxious to talk to people or even to talk out loud. i still am now, but having a few friends/acquaintances at least helps a little. that's a whole other can of worms so anyway.
moving on to the main problem- the guy i like is so weird and i have no idea why i like him. the reason i mentioned marching band is because that's where we met. it also just so happens we share a class together + we sit next to each other. i don't share any of my other classes with anyone i really talk with. he and i are similar but also have some major differences that make me cringe. for one, like i said before, i'm very anxious especially socially. I don't like talking loudly and when i do on accident or something i always think back and cringe because AAAAAAA i was being annoying. but HE just doesn't give a fuck i guess. he talk loudly and jokes about stupid things that are like, half funny like a kinda "yeah i'll smile at that," sorta way. whenever we talk and he talks just a bit too loud i can't help but think "uhh hey other people can hear our weird conversation please quiet down." he also has a very interesting speech pattern and he uses his hands a lot to talk and both those in combination make him seem a. super dorky and b. super gay (we joke about him crossing his legs while he sits and generally the marching band atmosphere was very gay-bro-joke orientated). i don't know why but i like talking to him. i don't even know any of his hobbies, any of his like life goals or aspirations, so i have no idea why i'm so interested in him. like i cling to this motherfucker for no reason. he's not even that good looking ARGHJSDHGJ. don't get me wrong he's kinda cute, i think he has nice eye and i love his smile but like... dudes no supermodel. he has bags under his eyes and a kinda weird stance (???), and he's sorta scrawny and lanky. i can't really see myself like... open and officially dating in front of my other friends (then again i can't see myself officially and opening dating anyone in front of my friends so i thinks its a me thing) but i also wanna kiss this ugly ass boy. I honestly think that, as pathetic as this sounds, i really just want/need a friend and my brain was like "talk to this funky lil dude you lonely bitch i'll give you free serotonin" and that's why im kinda infatuated with him. infatuated is a strong word... more like weirdly gravitated towards him.
idk, i should really get to know him better and see how i feel then. what do you guys think? does anyone else feel like this? this was more just a rant explaining my frustrations with myself then it was advice seeking, but i'm always open to advice! if not that's cool, hope you found it at least entertaining though | Crush |
Okay so, my crush likes to read a lot. He also likes plants and really cute stuff, he wont be in this country during the holidays and his birthday is on dec 22nd
Should I buy him a book? He also really loves crystals. | Crush |
Yesterday me and my bff were at our high school’s homecoming. We saw my crush & when we walked over to him, he said that my dress looked nice. Also, we always make eye contact and we definitely did that night after we walked away from him. Am I overthinking this or is there a chance he likes me too? | Crush |
Hi, so I'm a guy in 8th grade, and I have a crush. I either got friendzoned, or the girl has no idea what she's doing, like me. In 7th grade, I met her through a tournament (she's in my class), and got a crush on her. I kind of went in too deep, and now I'm either competing for the spot of best friend with a girl she knows from second grade or she has a crush on me back. I don't know if I want to make a move: I don't want to jeopardize what we have, I genuinely like her as a friend too. What the hell should I do? | Crush |
So basically this girl from the school pub and we have had some short interactions on different occasions.
I think shes pretty and when she seeks my attention and says something i stiff up and I say/do something silly/funny/stupid and walk away. (At least shes laughing when i leave haha) example of stupid stuff. Last night she challenged my friend and i on beer pong and she bent down by the cups and i threw it at her forehead as a panic way of getting her attention haha.
Why do i stiff up and how do i get more relaxed around her? I wanna approach her for once and not be awkward. | Crush |
Hello, I know this is one of the common questions asked on this subreddit but I was just curious to see if I could find an answer from someone that is experienced with crushes. I have developed a crush a few weeks ago on this boy in my class and I am trying to notice signs but just don't understand them. For example, in the past month, he has ALWAYS been sitting around me during class. LIKE ALWAYS. There hasn't been one class where he isn't at least one seat away from me. The second sign that I always see is that he always tries to see me during lunch and in the hallways. I never go one day without seeing him even tho we might not have the same class on that day. When I see him during lunch and the hallways I try to make eye contact so he notices me, he looks for like 2 seconds then look away but I just think he is too nervous to talk to me or something. The last sign that I see from him is that he points his feet to me in class. He sits behind me so when I look back I see his feet pointing towards me. I am either reading too much into this or he likes me. Can someone please help me? | Crush |
I'm a loner at my school and people don't usually talk to me....so like a week ago a girl said I'm cute, at first I was like you must be joking but then she told me she's been noticing me for the past few days and she finds me cute when messing up things and doing silly stuff.....because I don't get many compliments I'm really confused what to do and we're not even friends yet | Crush |
I am a 21 years old butch girl.
I have always been a lesbian and identified as a lesbian. But there's this one guy who fucking flipped my entire perception of self all over the place.
This guy is in my batch. I am in my penultimate year of Medicine. He's caught my attention since we were in year 1, but we never really talked, and I assumed I just admired the way he looks because I am a lesbian anyway and I never had sexual feelings for a guy, at all.
Fast forward we're in our 4th year and we suddenly become friends. Turns out we have a shit ton of things in common, it was crazy. He's so fun and cute, smart and handsome. It's so fun when we talk, we're both so darn excited when we're chatting.
I still had the same feelings I had as my 1st year but I was sure that I just like him as a person.
Our friendship continued to grow and so did my feelings.
Today we're in our 5th year and I'm thinking of him almost all the time. I have sexual feelings for him. I never had that to any guy in my 21 years of life. I want us to kiss and make out and just.. He made me realize I'm actually bisexual.
I was honest. I told him everything.
But he's taken. And he's dating in secret. And he's very loyal to his girlfriend. He loves her.
He sat boundaries, I can't even tell him "I love you". I don't know if I can even hug him. It seems like his girlfriend is of the jealous type.
Also, I wouldn't wanna be that bitchy friend who tries to ruin her friend's relationship. That sounds selfish as fuck and I would never forgive myself for hurting his girl.
I can't even vent or tell my friends that he's taken because he trusted me with his secret.
What hurts me the most is that he had the same feelings towards me when we were in year 1. He also was interested in me. But then he met his girlfriend and they started dating.
I love his lips, his eyes, his laughter, the way he speaks. I love his body and hands. I love everything about him. My wrist watch reports 125bpm when I see him. He makes me so nervous by just being around.
I'm heads over heels for him and it hurts.
I'm not used to liking guys even, and the confusion of requestioning my sexuality all over again is frustrating the shit outta me.
Also being a medical student does not fucking help.
This hurts so much. | Crush |
I am a 21 years old butch girl.
I have always been a lesbian and identified as a lesbian. But there's this one guy who fucking flipped my entire perception of self all over the place.
This guy is in my batch. I am in my penultimate year of Medicine. He's caught my attention since we were in year 1, but we never really talked, and I assumed I just admired the way he looks because I am a lesbian anyway and I never had sexual feelings for a guy, at all.
Fast forward we're in our 4th year and we suddenly become friends. Turns out we have a shit ton of things in common, it was crazy. He's so fun and cute, smart and handsome. It's so fun when we talk, we're both so darn excited when we're chatting.
I still had the same feelings I had as my 1st year but I was sure that I just like him as a person.
Our friendship continued to grow and so did my feelings.
Today we're in our 5th year and I'm thinking of him almost all the time. I have sexual feelings for him. I never had that to any guy in my 21 years of life. I want us to kiss and make out and just.. He made me realize I'm actually bisexual.
I was honest. I told him everything.
But he's taken. And he's dating in secret. And he's very loyal to his girlfriend. He loves her.
He sat boundaries, I can't even tell him "I love you". I don't know if I can even hug him. It seems like his girlfriend is of the jealous type.
Also, I wouldn't wanna be that bitchy friend who tries to ruin her friend's relationship. That sounds selfish as fuck and I would never forgive myself for hurting his girl.
I can't even vent or tell my friends that he's taken because he trusted me with his secret.
What hurts me the most is that he had the same feelings towards me when we were in year 1. He also was interested in me. But then he met his girlfriend and they started dating.
I love his lips, his eyes, his laughter, the way he speaks. I love his body and hands. I love everything about him. My wrist watch reports 125bpm when I see him. He makes me so nervous by just being around.
I'm heads over heels for him and it hurts.
I'm not used to liking guys even, and the confusion of requestioning my sexuality all over again is frustrating the shit outta me.
Also being a medical student does not fucking help.
This hurts so much. | Crush |
Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.
**Your top 10 posts:**
* "[I did it boys](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/pmh1tv)" by [u/Kryptex\_MC](https://www.reddit.com/user/Kryptex_MC)
* "[Awkward](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/nhatfr)" by [u/LEvii34](https://www.reddit.com/user/LEvii34)
* "[IM IN BOYS](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/mf9m83)" by [u/NathanDD3232](https://www.reddit.com/user/NathanDD3232)
* "[Saw this. Though y’all might relate.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/m2q60n)" by [u/Electric-Ev](https://www.reddit.com/user/Electric-Ev)
* "[She drew a heart on my hand :)](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/m6c78l)" by [u/whtismylife](https://www.reddit.com/user/whtismylife)
* "[If this gets one up vote I'll follow my crush on Instagram](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/of63kz)" by [u/creepypastababy](https://www.reddit.com/user/creepypastababy)
* "[Nune if you see this, hello (am using a throwaway)](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/mn1qx7)" by [u/Sweet\_Video4450](https://www.reddit.com/user/Sweet_Video4450)
* "[I get really sorry for her](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/nrkvry)" by [u/Arthas27](https://www.reddit.com/user/Arthas27)
* "[My most recent conversation with her](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/mu9trh)" by [u/Tsimmons05](https://www.reddit.com/user/Tsimmons05)
* "[How to talk to your crush](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ko1dyh)" by [u/hungleetom](https://www.reddit.com/user/hungleetom) | Crush |
I always think telling a friend about a crush is a big deal and Im struggling to actually gather the confidence to tell one of my closest friends
I do genuinely really like this guy but telling my friend would make it properly official
Typing this out, I think it sounded more reasonable in my head… | Crush |
I love to hear your rejection stories. Tell me what POV it was female or male and share about it.sadly i been rejected in highschool by a girl. | Crush |
Hi, I have an embarrassingly huge crush on someone and I want to get it out and also just see how other people view it!
I'm currently a college senior and had a crush on this dude freshman year that never really amounted to anything, because I rarely saw him in person and we didn't really talk. Eventually it went away and I dated someone else for about two years. Well, we broke up earlier this year and now I've been single for a while. Well, now I work as a higher up for an org on campus and he also does for another org, that just so happens to work on the same floor as mine and we often run into each other.
The started casually talking, and then one day we ended up hanging out talking about technical issues for about an hour or two, casually getting to know more about each other. I really enjoyed talking to him and he even said he enjoyed how it felt like I understood him. We get along really well and have a similar sense of humor. He started calling me his best friend around other people, after only a few interactions and is constantly giving me high fives, fist bumps, etc. He also always tells me I'm doing a great job and gives me positive reinforcement. Sometimes he's also one of the first ones to view my instagram story, but never says anything. He has my phone number as well, as we've been in a groupchat together, but we've never texted each other.
Last week, I stayed at my org late with a friend doing homework and he ended up showing up to do work as well. It was only us 3 in the building. At one point I walked away from my friend to talk to him, and he invited me downstairs to go smoke with him. While I didn't smoke, we ended up hanging outside for two hours talking away about our passion and issues we found in our community, and later ended up looking at the stars together, as we were watching a star in particular was shining super bright and twinkling.
I guess my confusion comes into play because I can't tell if he is interested in me, or is just really friendly. I like to think it's more, but I also know him to be a big people person. It seems like he always wants to talk to me. When I walk into a room or walk by, he seems to notice me and even gives me a nice bright smile with his teeth. I guess I'm just concerned that maybe I'm getting my hopes up. I want to tell him I like him, but I'm concerned it will ruin the friendship, and make it awkward when we see each other all the time. I also don't know 100% if he's seeing anyone. What do you guys think? | Crush |
I've been crushing on one of my friends for a while now, the thing is that he told me before that he only sees me as a friend but I cant stop thinking about him.
I have to mention the fact that I never told him that I love him one of my mutual friends shipped us and things went down.
He was really mad about that and um.. I felt kinda sad.
Recently I told all of our mutual friends (including him) that I have a crush on someone, he has been very curious about who my crush is. I've been trying to hint him the fact that he is my crush but he refuses to believe that because we are like best friends.
What should I do? He is also giving me mixed signals and I cannot figure anything out. 4 months ago when that friend asked him if he likes me he INSTANTLY said no BUT now when another friend asked him he couldnt get a word out. | Crush |
just a random thought | Crush |
So for the past few months I have been talking to this girl who I was going to university with and over the months we have both been talking about how much we like each other and gotten very close with each other. It would go as far as her saying things such as"I really like you" to agreeing with me that she saw me as the person she wanted to be with for the rest of her life.
There would be times where she would randomly pop up to tell me how much she likes me and because of all of this I've grown on her a lot and couldn't stop thinking about her. We did say however that it was really weird how we liked each other this much purely over text and she said how she has never liked a guy before so I had some sort of magic for her to like me like this
We agreed to meetup at university Freshers as friends then see where the road took us both of us expecting either outcome but we did believe it would most likely be the same. She told me she isn't very good with her feelings and that she gets scared of the idea of relationships so we agreed that if we continued to like each other we should try a relationship but take it very slow adding in little things till she became comfortable
I told her I was prepared to sacrifice certain things if she wasn't comfortable with it i.e if she decided she didn't want cuddles I would not do cuddles and I'd be fine with that if it meant being with her.
She told me on the third day of meeting in person that she didn't like me that way and how she doesn't think making an attempt would be a good idea since she doesn't like me. I will be honest it has massively hurt me since I like her so much and grown on her based on what she had been telling me for months.
She blames herself for all this saying it's her fault for saying the stuff she did for months and that she has a misleading personality but she doesn't even remember half the stuff she has said to me
I really don't know what to do because when I'm not doing something she's all I think about. | Crush |
He’s really cute but I don’t know how to approach him. | Crush |
Last night I went to the bar where my crush works like I do every weekend and he was asking my schedule and what I was doing this weekend which made me think I should make my move, I’ve had a crush on him for a while but was always too scared. So I left the bar and he dmed me that I left my ring there and I went back and got it and he like got down on one knee and pretended to propose.. I left once again and he texted me let me know when you get home, and i said I will and did so. Then I said when are you off he responded and I sent him my address and told him to pick me up if he wanted. Most embarrassing thing I could have said right. He said no not tonight but that he would be down to get drinks another time. And I said okay I’m free all the time so it’s up to you, sent an accidentally voice memo and a text saying to disregard that. He read it and hasn’t responded since, this was at 3 am so he was leaving work and probably didn’t want to deal with a drunk girl which is fair, now idk if I should wait it out or apologize or move to a new country plz help I need advice | Crush |
So me and some other people have practice with her and I rarely make jokes but she laughs at all of them but sometimes I say some stuff that don’t don’t even funny and she laughs but I think she just laughs a lot because other guys make jokes and she also laughs. What do y’all think? | Crush |
My crush recently moved schools and I’m depressed by it. I have not motivation and I’m constantly crying and always angry.
I don’t know what to do to feel better. It’s starting to affect my school performance. | Crush |
I (F) have had a crush on the same guy for the past two years. However, he hates me. He didn't seem to hate me the way he does up until a few months ago, and I'm not exactly sure why.
I've heard that he sees me as a slut, and that he thinks I act like I'm better than everyone else — which my friends disagree with. The only times he ever talks to me is when he wants me to send nudes, and I think that's one of the main reasons I'm still into him. (That and the fact that I've liked him for so long)
He has left me on delivered for the past 3 weeks, and I found out recently that he blocked me from viewing his Snapchat story. He has unadded me and blocked me several times, only adding me back again for the aforementioned reason. He has left me crying so many times, and somehow, after all this, I still have feelings for him.
I have a very close male friend in my life who is so kind and cares deeply about me. I think he would potentially be a great boyfriend — and a much better one than my crush — and there's a part of me that wants to try focusing on him, but there's just that one other part of me that won't stop wanting my crush.
I am aware that my crush is not treating me so well, and I feel that he may even be manipulating me... but no matter how many times I tell myself this, I'm still so into him.
I've thought about blocking him, but I just don't have the heart to do that — because I would feel bad about it, and also because I feel like he could potentially end up hurting my feelings in some new way.
How can I stop thinking about him and having these feelings for him? | Crush |
I know it’s creepy but I don’t know why I have such an urge to give her anonymous love notes | Crush |
Today I told a girl I thought was cute in class that she was cute and I would like to get to know her. Her face got completely red and I took it as it was going good. She said she had an Instagram and gave it to me. I found out through her Instagram she has a boyfriend. So thats that. But at least I went up to someone who I think is one of the prettiest girls in the school, so whats stopping me from talking to others. | Crush |
I have a major crush on this woman. I think about all our past convos, interactions, future ones, how perfect she is. I’m quite obsessed with her. But I don’t want to be with her sexually. All id want to do is hug and cuddle with her. Am I asexual? | Crush |
I asked my crush out but said you don’t have to answer, what should I do?
Update rejected hard | Crush |
I really like this girl. We used to talk every once in awhile and it felt great but I got a little too obsessed with her and now she thinks I’m a creep and a stalker and wants nothing to do with me now. I’m so sad about it. I can’t believe I made her hate me. I feel crummy every time I see her now | Crush |
Hello everyone, I have a crush on a girl and i have never spoken to her and she doesn't even know my name, i and her go to the same tuition but different schools and i just got to know her name and i tried to find her on social media but no luck. i just want a way to start a conversation with her.... Just a conversation | Crush |
So basically,
When I was in grade 5, a new girl joined our class
She was cute and after few months I had crush on her
But the twist is that one of my friend from the starting of my school also had crush on that girl
He just proposed/asked her but she hated him
And eventually they both hated each other
The whole class knew about this and even the teachers and obviously the teachers called both of their parents and the thing ended
He had left the school at the end of the year, It has been about 2 and half years since that
I act like she is just my friend but isn't the case, im just into her all the time
I can talk to all other girls in my class but not to her cuz im nervous that I will do something stupid af and be a joke infront of her and mess up things
Thought to confess to her but don't have guts for that
Idk how I did but one day I told one of my friend to tell the girl that I had crush on her
But she didn't gave reply, been around 6-8 months
I haven't tried to confess to her because while it was physical class, atleast she used to talk to me
But am fearing that she won't even talk to me after I confess her and she doesn't like me or likes someone else
While I was talking to my bestie about this, he told that her parents are kinda strict
Doesn't/rarely allow social medias like facebook tho she has an account (Sometimes uses her mom's acc like when at exam to share answers)
Thought of confessing to her in a zoom chat
But idk how do I
Just fearing that she likes someone else and I get disappointed.... | Crush |
I have one of the biggest crushes I've had on this girl i met this school year. I really don't want to mess up our friendship by asking for more. I want to ask her to this dance but I'm not sure if she will say yes or not. When i hang out with her things are great. she laughs at almost everything i say, she smiles at me, and makes eye contact. But at school she hangs out with one of my friends, and sometimes doesn't sit near me at lunch. She also doesn't reply very fast to snaps like she used to (she is also on snapchat a lot). So basically sometimes it seems like she likes me and others it seems like I'm someone she barely knows. Does she like me? or is she trying to tell me that she doesn't.
TLDR: Girl i like sometimes acts like she likes me back, but sometimes like she barely knows me. | Crush |
My bestie is my crush, and she's taken, I accepted the fact that its impossible to earn her but I want to confess my feelings to her, I just want her to know and I'm afraid that she will no longer talk with me or she'll become distant.
Ps: She likes me as a friend. | Crush |
So ive liked this guy since school started (early sept). ik he likes me back too bcs of his staring and trying to be around me. But when I tried texting him over snap he would mostly just leave me on delivered. Ofc he can view my story tho. I honestly dont have the guts to talk to him irl. Plus I wouldnt know what to talk about (we only have study hall together). Idk what he wants from me.
btw: at one point when i tried texting him and he actually opened it he asked "who are you". Even tho he 100% knew it was me.
im guessing hes shy or something?
IDK what to do or why hes like this. | Crush |
Hi guys first I'm new to reddit, just heard it's good so I'm taking desperate measure to get an advise I think.
So my crush n I were schoolmates for 8 years until 3 years ago in 2019 I changed my school, then I've contacted her on her bday in 2020 which was on Dec.
Then we've been in contact for an year things were good until 2 days ago I irritated her too much, I admit it this time I showed myself as a creep n went off the line (not sexually or in any bad way but in a creepy stalker way).
So anyone would have blocked me, but now I want to know how to fix things, when I can't meet her in person because I'm covid positive. Please help me guys I have a crush on her for past 11 years so please reply. | Crush |
I had a crush on this girl who was my closest friend at college. She eventually had to end the friendship because she found me creepy in the end.
It's been 3 months and I'm still not over her. We had the same friend group at college which I'm no longer welcome in so I found some other friends at least.
How can a finally get over her without it causing any pain. | Crush |
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