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I moved to a new school this year and in my class i kinda like this guy. He’s tall and kinda loud. He talks pretty much all the time to everyone.
In Chemistry Class, he often teases me alot. But he teases me like “this guy likes you”. When we sit together in Literature class, he always start conversation first
Today during the Literature class, he starts chatting with me as usual. Here are some random things we talked about:
- He suddenly told me my fingers have hangnails ( lol ikr ). And then said i’m lack of vitamin C( lmao ) And then he take my hand to his and start holding it, looking at my fingers. I got butterfly in my stomache all the time i didn’t know how to act
- And then he asked me about my hair and told me to try curling it and try dying it pink because he think it looks great on me
-He asked me about the bruises on my legs, if i got hit ( it was mosquitoes bites and i havent taken care of it ) I WAS SO INSECURE AND EMBARRASSED. Why did he mention about it?
But then he pulled it off by saying it doesn’t matter, what matter is your personality ( LMAO )
-One time when the teacher called him up for test. He pulled a kinda dirty joke about me
// But the thing is i feel like this girl who is also new student as me flirt with him. She’s kinda more extroverted and outgoing than me. I’m a rather quiet person but i still talk and have fun. She kinda flirt with him sometimes idk i feel something
So my question is
DOES HE LIKE ME, TRY TO FLIRT WITH ME OR IS IT JUST HIS PERSONALITY ? How can i flirt back with him? Will i have any chance lol | Crush |
She is my classmate and we talked little bit and saw each other's lot.When i text her "Hi" she instantly sees but no reply,it feels very weird and make me regret texting her OMG. | Crush |
But it’s so hard | Crush |
So I’ve been crushing on this girl for about 8 years now, and I messed up for waiting that long, and basically I told her how I feel and she said that she doesn’t feel the same way. So I decided to move on, but when I try to see on google for example, they’re all the same things which are to block her out even tho I can’t because we’re still friends and I can’t afford to make it more awkward, they also say to do things to keep u away from thinking about her, but she’s always on my mind and I always see her in school. So please if u know anything that would help me out I would really appreciate it | Crush |
2 years I met this girl in summer school. In small groups i can be a funny rascal so i would make lots of jokes and the girl I'll just call her Janis (not her real name) she constantly laugh at my jokes. And when we did some writing exercise she would use me as an character in her examples. She would also sit next to me when she could. I was sure she liked me and I liked her. But i was always shy and awkward so I didn't know how to talk to her other than being funny. Then after summer I went to that place after school and so did she. She was still giving me signals but I didn't know how to approach her because I'm pretty shy. Then she left and didn't come back. I still saw her at school but we didn't really talk. Then Covid hit. I was at home and I was obsessing over her I kept having dreams about her and beating myself over her. Then i had a idea that took me a while to execute because i was very awkward. I sent her a letter with my phone number. She texted me asking who this is. After I told her we talked a little. Then a random number claiming to be her friend texted me. We talked a little that person said maybe Janis and I should hang out sometime. And of course that couldn't happen because of covid . I still have both of thier phone numbers. One time I ask her friend if Janis liked me she IDK ask her. I still have both of thier numbers but I never how to approach talking to Janis. Any advice. The texting story happened about Six months ago | Crush |
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alr so small background i started liking him back at school when school was close to being over. we were close as classmates or as a friend's friend, but then covid happened. and we suddenly couldn't interact anymore. throughout the first months of quarantine, i kept missing and thinking about him and i always resorted to my little memories with him.
after a while of me just thinking abt him, i finally chatted him. but with the thought that i don't want to like him anymore, and this is the closure, and that i only liked the him in my memories. my starter topic was abt schoolworks, so then he also started conversations with me! about schoolworks 🤡 anw i chatted him recently asking for amplifier recommendations and that was the last convo as of now.
so i consider him as a *slightly* close friend and a guy i *slightly* have a crush with *occasionally*
and i've been wanting to talk to him, but idk how to start it lmao. since i dont think we're that close to talk with random i'm bored and how are u's, i think i need a convo topic starter. any ideas? thanks :D | Crush |
i've been crushing on this dude but now we don't really interact anymore. i tried making subtle moves like liking his posts, usually he'd like back bc that's what he usually does & i think he's annoyed at me rn. he prolly knows i like him but i don't wanna tell him. do you know how we can start talking again ? he's a really friendly guy but i don't really have the guts to make the first move when talking in general. | Crush |
I've been crushing on her since forever but I don't know if she's single or not. All of her posts are about her dog and friends so I don't have any idea. Can you give me some advice? | Crush |
Posted this somewhere else but I would love to hear what y’all think here too :)
Help with reconciliation but he blocked me but the love is still there ... confusing.
Hey everyone I need your help in this situation. I’m in high school senior year and I met this guy at the end of freshman year. I’m going to say start to finish , my opinions with some questions at the end which I would love to hear from both guys and girls!
About this guy before hand:
-He’s very stubborn,prideful and has a BIG ego so do I yikes oh well I’m learning to control and let go tho.
-He has a wannabe gangster , all that type of facade
-even tho he wants to come off the player type he’s not like that but loyal, caring, and loving.
-he’s a loner type of guy has a couple school, bro friends and that’s it. His main obsession his bike riding.
We both are very attractive and not mild lol we are in each other’s league.
VERY LONG BRACE UR SELVES
So we met around may 2018 near the end of freshman year. In the beginning I didn’t even notice him and when I did cause he came closer and was trying to flirt and stuff I would play hard to get rude and what not don’t ask why I don’t know and near the end it was my biggest regret. But yeah he would come closer out of nowhere and start flirting with me and tease me cutely. He ALWAYS did physical touch and ngl it aroused me. But anyways I was like whatever brushing it off but I couldn’t cause he was fine as hell and he would say some cute things but when I would make a stank face or show I don’t care try again or change the topic into more types of flirting. He used to touch me or what not and me playfully I would say “stoppp” but then he would smirk and say “I know you like that” and I was like no.. tbh I don’t know why I was playing hard to get. But he would do other stuff like that and smile. We only shared a gym class freshman year 8th period. But whenever he would see me at the hallways or anywhere he couldn’t just look once and stop. No. He would stare , eye f**k me while staring lol if y’all get it. Once I was at the school library and I was on the whole other side of it he was on the other and I was just minding my business and I barely knew he was there cause I had work to do. He comes to my area and just stares for 1-2 minutes and then when I feel someone look at me he looks up and try’s to act like he was looking for something so I was like whatever. Whenever he catches me at the staircase he would just stair, almost get hit by doors but always take double, triple looks again brushed it off. In my gym class I had a friend and we would talk or what not and once when I was talking I saw him once doing volleyball he had to be in a twerk position and then a guy who liked me but idk what that was did a whole back flip circus move on him and he didn’t know I was looking he and me both blushed he smiled so hard it was cute ok. Once he wasn’t doing the scoreboard for the volleyball in gym correctly and everyone was like yo give me it and he didn’t give to anyone and then my guy friend was like to me yo get the scoreboard from him we been trying and then I went and asked and he gave it to me right away. I had a friend in that class and he has his. My friend would notice him doing and pulling all this , lowkey everyone even my gym teacher. So she once was like yo you like her and he smiled and before he can say something I was like NO HE LIKES ANNOYING ME then they both look at each other like is she for real ? (Lol I know I was tryna avoid my feelings) and yeah more flirting stuff was happening freshman year I brought candy and he snatched it from me and then I was like lowkey feening annoyingly and was like “give it backkkkk” and without hesitation he did and then I gave him one cause he asked lol. Whenever in gym he saw a guy flirt with me/ ask for my social media he would look so jealous and I never seen anyone look that jealous/mad/irritated. Then it was coming to the end of the year and I was like what should I do!? Remember that friend my guy had in that class? Well it turned out he had a huge ass crush on me too. And it was like a love triangle but me and my guy was feeling each other more but yeah. This guy was like a follower friend and went with whatever the friend w more attention aka my guy got. My guy knew this and took it to his advantage. So he saw me approach his friend and automatically before he can say HIS feelings towards me he was like “oh you like my son?” “You tryna get w my bro” “you tryna go down on him say less?” And his friend was just smiling like bro what??? I was so damn confused. Like bro all these signs? But then it started to click it was lowkey (now but younger me never understood smh) and he kept saying stuff like this and I was getting so annoyed like. ??? But he hated seeing overly me mad and once was like “it’s just a joke you need to SMILEEEEEEE” and then started smiling and so did I and then was blushing. Once out of NO WHERE he was looking into my organs MY SOUL and was like “I can fuck anyone in this gym” and I was like ok!????? And ignored his remarks. One day he didn’t come to gym or school in general and the next day he saw me and made it known he was back and said “oh yeah I’m back” I was like whatever and he mocked me in a cute teasing way. Once out of nowhere he was like “you gonna miss me you know that” I was like me ? Miss you ? He looked around and thought about it and shook his head so cutely sayin yes. Then near the end of the full school year I was giving my friend my number and he saw and took a pic of it and was like “it’s for my bro he gonna holla at u” I was like whatever what the hell. Then the last day June 10th 2018 he was like usually he goofy and flirty but this time he was serious and more serious on how he looked when he was when he got jealous. And says the words “I love you” while looking straight down at me. Me being confused AF was like ??? So I just had the stank face and he says it again but says “I love you guys” he then slowly walks away and then leaves and school ends and summer approaches.
Over the summer he tried calling I think but when I saw the missed number I couldn’t even pick it up cause I got my phone number changed so I forgot about him summer 18. Then once I saw him round this block near my crib riding his bike at night but I was like what ever he cute. I realized my feelings after a few weeks sophomore year started as I was tryna hide my feelings cause I was embarrassed. My same friend from that gym class me and him shared was like he looked at me w no care and at all the girls. I was like smh maybe he gonna look at me the same way. But no he saw me out of nowhere he was smiling , grinning smirking BLUSHING And then he was just showing interest to me. I then was feeling a lot of feelings. So I did a little stalking and found out he went to the same middle school as me but we never crossed paths till HS! I also found out he never dated that much last relationship was end of 8th grade minor 3 months ended before highschool started so I was like whatever. He had a sister in the same highschool as us but older by a year. Someone told me his lunch and I then immediately changed my lunch to have it with him. I had a old friend from MS who was there and I was w her to not feel lonely lol when I stalked him. In that same lunch he had the guy from gym who also liked me and I was like ughhhhh broooo whyyyy areee youuu hereeeee????!!!!!!! But anyways before I could tell my MS friend the whole reason for the switch she could easily tell my guy was interested in me. She was like bro it better not be ~~~~~~~ cause he been staring at you since you got here I was like LOL it is. And there’s some hot Cheetos girls in my school that feen for attention of UK what I mean and I was like whatever. One of the girls were sitting on the table of the cafe bench he was sitting at but he didn’t care one bit!! He was tryna see me side eye and everything!!!! I was like wow how loyal from the crush stage but my a** was still trying to play hard to get. (Sorry I’m annoying). Then he was walking away cause I sat far from him and while walking away he was like you not gonna hug me? And I was like huh? Cause he whispered that shit and my friend was like damn you not gonna him! I was like that’s what he said? But it was too late but I know my ass should have hugged him y’all. then my friend was like you should try to get closer to him by sitting near him because I used to sit further when I got there. So we both moved closer and sat right near him next day while we was waiting for the lunch line I saw him blushing so red staring at me and was like “ahhhhh you here ... must be for my son” and I’m like ugh whatever. So then I sit next to him and he was like oh my friend tried calling over the summer what happened and I was like oh my number changed and I didn’t get no calls and he tried playing it off like oh well that was my son and I was like why you feening for me to talk to him tf. Then he kept flirting with me and Said “last year she was feisty now she feisty feisty” while biting his lip and allat I was like whatever. He would say cute things and what not and noticed my change in appearance and had a way of complimenting me about it how I wore small hoops and now they were big ones mind you my ears barely showed so??? But that happened. I remember once he was wearing Carmex and I was like Blistex better and he was like no cause they barely got flavors and I was like yes they do (cause they do!) and he was like nah if you prove it to me I’ll leave you alone for life. My heart sank to the floor and I was like wow imma prove him wrong and we ain’t ever gonna talk cause one thing about me I hate losing arguments so I show him all
The flavors on a google search on my phone and he smirks and was like whatever that’s not what I mean. He used to sit across from me and I could barely hear what he be saying and he was like if you can’t hear come closer and my didnt ain’t take the hint and didn’t come closer SMHHH. So then we from NY Btw and I ain’t take the hint of him when he said the BIGGEST FLIRTING TECHNIQUE “do you wanna fight while smirking” and then him being childish threw pretzels at me and we had a baby food fight it was cute ngl. But then a random girl came up to him from a class of mine but I ain’t know her we not friends and was like my friend likes you. Lowkey felt heartbroken cause I can’t force his ass to like me so I was like may the best girl win and I don’t fight for guys when I do fight. So then he sideyed me and sideyed her and was like ion want her. And he straight up dubbed her. He was like she not my type I’m BIG SINGLE ion want her basically. I was dumb happy ngl. So then I was like ok whatever. My friend asked why not her he was like she def not it and I added on oh really damn I thought she might be. And he says “if I wanted to I would have fucked her ... but I’m not like that” and he smiled and I was like ok whatever disregarding his sexual remarks. He then says to me “I know sometimes I be saying mean stuff or extra hard on you but I’m not like that” and his cute ass did a lil sincere smile and I was like aw. But back then I rolled my eyes. Next day (last day we ever talked 🥺) he sits next to me and tells his bro “let me sit next to your shorty” and his bro let him ... whew Chile anyways so. While he sat next to me this was annoying but he showed my friend a porn video and was like this was at a club clapping those cheeks and idk what was the point and he was tryna lean the phone toward me and was tryna show me lowkey but nah. But wtf was the point of talking about it? I know guys watch porn it’s mandatory / addicting to some of y’all but huh ? He don’t even know me and my friend for more than a year. But then we were arguing idk about what but I was feeling him way too much and I couldn’t keep eye contact and I was looking away while talking to him and he was like when you talk to me look me in my eyes and I was like 😩❤️ tbh I couldn’t tho so I was like ugh fine and yeah.
Once we were arguing and he was like I’ll put my whole fist in your mouth while smiling sexily (a kink?). And then would say shorty sucking my dick so hard Rn feening to argue (mind you he always started these picky fights. Not to mention also once I also looked at his crotch area but by accident LOL my eyes wandered. And he was while smiling saying “why shorty so horny 😏 “ and I was holding my blush while he was blushing away and was like “noooo...🙄”. Anyways .... (had to edit and put that in).
Me , my friend and his friend was taking about literally bread nothing sexual and out of nowhere he looks in my soul and says I’m not a virgin. I was hurt cause where you coming with this from? Also bro are you deadass or what? Why so random!? I wanted to cry right there cause I wanted to lose my V card to him than any one and wanted to be special w him (call me corny, hopeless romantic) and knowing what I knew he was one too. So then I was like “ok we don’t care” and he looks down and smirks and was like yeah ... and I was like even more mad I was turning red. His friend was like dead ass then why don’t u want a girl now to fuck and shit and he was stuttering and was like “yeah..uhh whatever um... anyways I love my bike it’s my life” and I just wanted to leave right there and there. Now this where I messed up. His friend was like anybody got a change for a $20 I was like na I got a $40. And then his friend asked him he said “nah bro” and I was like “HA you think he got a $20?” And he was pissed. I struck a nerve. He was like nah , nah and he didn’t even want to talk no more. He was like “I would flame you” but nah and I was like “do it” he was quiet. He then stormed out the lunch room. Then the next day he sat far away from me being childish. And his friend was like why y’all not talking or even arguing he was like “b*tches aint shit” I was like whatever cause I still was mad at him. He then says how he changing his schedule he don’t care anymore bout anything. Those same hot Cheetos girls came near him and he was forcefully trying to make me jealous by looking at me and attempting to be interested in them which also annoyed me. I though from October 23RD 2018 we would never talk it’s over. Cause he took out his lunch and that was the only class.
But no! He would try to see me through geometry class, the hallways and everywhere just stare!!!!! He would come in my geometry class to see his friend and pick him up , down the halls and etc.
he would hang w the loudest annoying wannabe known girls in my HS attention seeking AF and would only get around them when I come by getting chased , talking to them and etc.
But whenever I was with a guy just talking or on purpose flirting infront of him he wanted to beat the shit out of them and then teach me a lesson 🙈 if you know what I mean this would keep going on till end of sophomore year. The summer tho he found out where I lived and would bike ride by my house every day! Mid day and even night time ! And if he saw me just stare !!!
Also not saying this is my fault but after our situation he would always look sad , mad and glum , maybe he had other issues.
Junior year started and he would still stop and stare to see me but then March corona happened and I could barely see him.
After 2 years of me being prideful I told myself just email him so June 10th I emailed him the same day he said I love you to me and I got no response which is understandable I have been dubbing him for 2 years straight. I then find his Snapchat July and add him it was grey and it showed it was pending so I was like whatever then a month later in august I unadd him and readd him. It shows his thing is public and I can text him. So then I tell my friend to add him and text him and she does and she gets a reply in 1 hr is and they was talking for a day and he stopped replying just random how u know me and idk that name etc cause he didn’t know her. Then I text him hey and in 4 days he left me on read then I text him again like hey can we talk I want to meet you at the end of august and for 10 weeks I was on delivered and then I was on read. From November for a month till December 7th I was texting him daily literally trying to atleast apologize for what I said not knowing how much it hurt him and I got no response. December 7th he blocked me but I feel
Like this not the end and he’s focusing on something else right now (he still single BTW).
Why did he make his acc on snap public if it was private to get her texts?
Why block her after a month and not the first week of repetitive messages?
What do you think in his POV
I know y’all might think I’m crazy and I deserved it for saying what I did and ignoring him for 2 years but I’m human and if I could take back what I said and my actions I would. Please help me if anything I just want to give a feminine apology since I know he didn’t deserve that I wish he did that to me instead
:(.
Here are some questions also :
-Why did Anthony stop talking to me from October 22nd 2018 was it because of what I said? If so why did it hurt him?
-is he a virgin lol from what I said TMI but what y’all think? W the given details
-do you think he has feelings for me?
You guys are like why so much detail why this or that but This to me is more than puppy love it goes deep it may not seem serious to you but it is to me!
Let me know and thank you ❤️🦋 | Crush |
My grandma had her first (and only true) love as a child. After his parents died, he went away to an orphanage. She never saw him again. She is 83 this year and still thinks about him.
My mother told me this today and i wanted to share this sweet and sad story.
So maybe just go to your crush already and tell them how you feel. You might regret it later if you don't :) | Crush |
So, here’s a bit of back story to really enhance the story and give a clear perspective for those I’m asking.
I’ve known this guy who is almost 3 years older than me. I’ve known him since I was 6 because his younger sister and I used to be best friends. I would go over to her house constantly so I would see him very often. Although he would be out with his friends and playing sports a lot.
1. Sometimes when I used to hang out with his sister, he would appear out of nowhere and start doing trickshots on a scooter, bottle flip or just show a stupid meme. Sometimes he even just came in for no apparent reason at all but just to see what we were doing.
2. Sometimes I would stay at their house for a movie night. Even though I only lived down the road from them, I was always strictly told I was to have someone walk me home in the dark. Usually, it was him. He didn’t do it out of his own accord because he would normally be busy but when he was free, he would. Sometimes I’d go with him myself, other times I would go with his sister (my best friend) and him. He would make jokes or talk about simple things like school and whatnot.
3. Every time I see him on the street or in school or wherever, he always says hi and smiles. Even if he was alone or with his friends, he never failed to do this. Now, I know this is human decency. Everyone should do this regardless. This may be a pointless “sign”.
4. There was this one time in particular that I’ll never forget. He used to have a girlfriend. One day, he went outside to play basketball with her in their garden and his sister insisted that we join them. I saved myself the uncomfortableness and just patiently watched them. His girlfriend got a hold of the ball and in an attempt to grab the ball from her, he playfully back hugged her. In that moment, he locked eyes with me. His girlfriend caught us staring at each other and slithered out of his grasp, trying to grab his attention. Side note: They aren’t dating anymore..She broke up with him (I don’t think that information is relevant here...)
5. The other day, my mom ran into him and was chatting to him for about 1/2 an hour. She asked him about college and the future. She then went on to say what I would hope to do and my dreams. He seemed to quote “be very intrigued” in what my mom had to say about me. He continued to constantly ask more questions about me and compliment me...
6. I only have I initiated texts with him 3 times in total. 1. School related, teachers, etc. 2. Meme related 3. Last night. I asked him 5 questions about himself and he seemed pretty interested in the conversation as he replied back nearly instantly??
From this limited information that I can give, what do you guys think? Simply put, I should just tell him how I feel and see what he says. Yes..But no. It would jeopardise many things such as the awkwardness between not only him but also his sister. I would see him quite often and face the humility of presuming he even had a slight interest in me. So on and so forth.
The ultimate question is..Does he like me in that way or is he just being a playful, decent human being? | Crush |
So I’m a 20 year old guy living in Canada, and I’ve grown very tired of dating over the years, mostly because I’m painfully aware that none of the girls I meet will live to the girl next door.
I’ve known the girl next door since 2nd grade, we’ve been close friends for a decade, and when I moved to Canada thinking I’d never see her again I was surprised to find out her family had moved in to a house a block away from mine purely by coincidence.
At this point I was 15 and I didn’t even think I was interested in her, until one day we were wrestling on the playground and (since I’m a full foot and a half taller than her) I let her win. She tackled me and for a moment her auburn hair was tickling my nose and she was staring at me with a smile more beautiful than the goddamm sun and being a horny teenager I got...excited.
Ever since I couldn’t get her out of my head, and I’m totally convinced she’s the woman I’m going to marry.
Not yet, not soon, but one day.
We talk often even though she moved away, she’s my most trusted and reliable friend, and I can only dream of what she might say if I ever confessed my feelings to her.
I had no one to talk to about this so I just wanted to post, let me know if anyone else is crushing on childhood friend. | Crush |
I can’t stop trying to text her, help her, and make her laugh even though I don’t think she’s cute nor like her personality... why am I even doing this?? | Crush |
She’s a close friend of mine that I’ve known since primary school and actually went out with her a few days ago(just hanging out). Then I realised she’s the first person that I’ve fallen for personality wise. Lately I’ve been waiting for her to play just to be disappointed after I waited hours (I would always wait until I had to go off)and even refused to play with my other friends just to wait for her (ikr I’m a simp). Should I do something or ? | Crush |
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I used to be a huge fan of Roosh, I saw him as my older brother. Many of you guys might think. Wait man, isn't Roosh a hateful guy? It seems that he is now. However, back in the day he would give a lot of advice that appeal to young man like myself. For instance, he talked about vacations. Roosh thought vacations were a scam and that only men should try to live a "location independent lifestyle" than paying for an expensive two week vacation. I resonated strongly with his message since most of the advice out there was for women or families. Hence I felt Roosh was finally talking directly to someone like myself.
**Top 5 Reasons**
**1-Roosh became virulently misogynistic**
While I mostly ignore most of Roosh and his entourage and focused on the positive message towards men. I noticed that he discard his previous message and center in the "cultural degeneracy" narrative. Which involve getting into fights with feminist and with different social justice advocates. To me this was wasteful and served no purpose but to set back the movement. I felt that the whole purpose of the movement was for men to find freedom in the modern world, not to get in trouble. However, under Roosh's guidance many men were becoming targets of mobs and jeopardizing their well being.
**2-Roosh became political, he started aligning civic nationalists and latter alt-right figures**
This was the stage where I became less interested in the content Roosh was delivering. Most of the content was about "battling" against feminism than about helping men. Moreover, Roosh had a adopted a radical version of traditionalism where he wanted women to be certain way. He was willing to align with many questionable figures of the alt-lite and the alt-right to fulfill that vision.
**3-Roosh seemed to be more into clout chasing than giving advice**
**I disagree and condemn many of the articles that Roosh wrote later in his career**. I felt that once he started to write, he would say shocking and appaling statements to get media attention. Moreover, many time the Roosh V forum turned into a battle against feminist and social justice warriors. The forum become one of political activism as opposed to personal development for men.
**4-Roosh hang out with a suspect entourage**
Many of the guys in Return of Kings(except Kyle, who I personally met) expoused very radical beliefs. They would say very shocking and misogynists statements or articles with the hope of getting a reaction from left wing journalists, a practice they call "triggering". Many of those guys became PUA coaches and podcasters on their own and it seems that the controversy has followed them. Many of them are in constant battles with "blackpillers."
**5-I decided to step up!**
*'Son, when you grow up will you be the savior of the broken, the beaten and the damned?"*
"You are the change!' this Jamaican cab driver told me when I started to tell him about Roosh. I was sharing with him many of these ideas. On one hand, we have PUAs who scam young men and the other we have political activists like Roosh and his followers who want to "radicalize' young men. With the absence of religion people need a Teacher who can help them navigate this difficult environment.
**Conclusion**
I don't think Roosh is a bad man like the media portrays him. He is a leader and has his set of fixed ideas.I value the apolitical and positive messages he was giving young men like finding your purpose in life and having the courage to go out into the world. At that same time, though I felt he focused on the negative aspects of life as opposed to embracing life as it is. I feel that once you embrace life you start finding the good and can truly flourish in any environment!
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**Intro**
I used to be a huge fan of Roosh, I saw him as my older brother. Many of you guys might think. Wait man, isn't Roosh a hateful guy? It seems that he is now. However, back in the day he would give a lot of advice that appeal to young man like myself. For instance, he talked about vacations. Roosh thought vacations were a scam and that only men should try to live a "location independent lifestyle" than paying for an expensive two week vacation. I resonated strongly with his message since most of the advice out there was for women or families. Hence I felt Roosh was finally talking directly to someone like myself.
**Top 5 Reasons**
**1-Roosh became virulently misogynistic**
While I mostly ignore most of Roosh and his entourage and focused on the positive message towards men. I noticed that he discard his previous message and center in the "cultural degeneracy" narrative. Which involve getting into fights with feminist and with different social justice advocates. To me this was wasteful and served no purpose but to set back the movement. I felt that the whole purpose of the movement was for men to find freedom in the modern world, not to get in trouble. However, under Roosh's guidance many men were becoming targets of mobs and jeopardizing their well being.
**2-Roosh became political, he started aligning civic nationalists and latter alt-right figures**
This was the stage where I became less interested in the content Roosh was delivering. Most of the content was about "battling" against feminism than about helping men. Moreover, Roosh had a adopted a radical version of traditionalism where he wanted women to be certain way. He was willing to align with many questionable figures of the alt-lite and the alt-right to fulfill that vision.
**3-Roosh seemed to be more into clout chasing than giving advice**
**I disagree and condemn many of the articles that Roosh wrote later in his career**. I felt that once he started to write, he would say shocking and appaling statements to get media attention. Moreover, many time the Roosh V forum turned into a battle against feminist and social justice warriors. The forum become one of political activism as opposed to personal development for men.
**4-Roosh hang out with a suspect entourage**
Many of the guys in Return of Kings(except Kyle, who I personally met) expoused very radical beliefs. They would say very shocking and misogynists statements or articles with the hope of getting a reaction from left wing journalists, a practice they call "triggering". Many of those guys became PUA coaches and podcasters on their own and it seems that the controversy has followed them. Many of them are in constant battles with "blackpillers."
**5-I decided to step up!**
*'Son, when you grow up will you be the savior of the broken, the beaten and the damned?"*
"You are the change!' this Jamaican cab driver told me when I started to tell him about Roosh. I was sharing with him many of these ideas. On one hand, we have PUAs who scam young men and the other we have political activists like Roosh and his followers who want to "radicalize' young men. With the absence of religion people need a Teacher who can help them navigate this difficult environment.
**Conclusion**
I don't think Roosh is a bad man like the media portrays him. He is a leader and has his set of fixed ideas.I value the apolitical and positive messages he was giving young men like finding your purpose in life and having the courage to go out into the world. At that same time, though I felt he focused on the negative aspects of life as opposed to embracing life as it is. I feel that once you embrace life you start finding the good and can truly flourish in any environment!
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I think a classmate likes me
There’s a guy in my class who I think likes me. He looks me in the eye when he says my name, asks for the time when there are clocks around, occasionally glances in my direction, looks at me when I enter the room or when I sometimes talk to others out in the open, doesn’t make eye contact with me when talking, is shy around me, is all of a sudden talking to one of my friends with no rhyme or reason, laughed at my ‘joke’ that had already been said previously (laughs at unfunny jokes), seems to go out of his way to be seen by me when walking to class (could’ve sworn he waited for me at the stairs), knows I suck in gym and served every time in volleyball while his friends teased him, and I once looked up to him looking at me. Does he like me? | Crush |
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My old crush broke my heart but now I found a new crush and couldn't be happier!
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Hello, everybody :)
I'm 17 and I've never been in a relationship. Last year I started catching feelings for a guy in my class. I denied it at first, but then realized how f***ed up I am. I didn't know how to express my feelings to him, so I tried being one of his friends (almost one of the boys at that point lol). He didn't realize I like him. I was frustrated that I've liked him for way too long and told him I like him. He rejected me of course. We haven't really spoken since. He doesn't seem to want to talk to me anymore. I thought getting rejected would be helpful, but I can't move on. I'm obsessing over wanting him to like me too (gaining my pride back yk?), even though I'm fully aware that he probably isn't for me and the only thing he's ever done was make me feel unwanted.
What should I do?
Thank you, guys. I'm really desperate at this point.
I wish you a wonderful day (sorry if there are any mistakes). ^^ | Crush |
So my crush rejected me but she said that we can stay friends so I took the opportunity so I can be closer with her so she eventually starts to like but until earlier today she texted me that she don’t want to be friends anymore she said she lost all my trust. What to do to get her back? | Crush |
Hey. First of this will be a LGBT thing. I am bisexual (if you couldn’t tell by my username). If you don’t support the LGBT then just move on please. I’ve heard it all.
So I have a crush on a guy. He can be sweet however he has anger issues directly relating to authority figures, all his previous relationships were healthy according to both parties.
I like him but I don’t know if he is gay and I sure as hell don’t know how he would act if I thought he was. I live in a small community where 50% of them at least are homophobic.
I see him out and about and I am a very cocky guy so I will normally make subtle hints towards hot guys that I am available.
I want to ask him out but I am scared. Not nervous he might say no (that has never stopped me before). But scared for my physical and mental safety.
Thoughts? | Crush |
I’ve always struggled with my mental health. It got worse after my best friend passed away. I’m scared to have close friends and having romantic feelings for someone because i’m scared they’re just going to leave. My mom left when I was 13 and recently said she knows she doesn’t have a bond with me like she should but she never try’s to talk to me. I’ve just seen people that I love leave suddenly or pass away and it feels like it’s my fault sometimes. I always question if I’ve done something wrong. I’ve like this guy for a while now and I hang out with him with our mutual friend sometimes. We went to high school together and started having our through our mutual friend. It makes me sad thinking about my feelings towards him because I feel like I don’t have a chance and that he could do better. I don’t feel like i’m going to ever be able to be loved or be a good partner. Our mutual friend is one of the only people I can really trust and I know she genuinely cares for me and loves me. She told me that one night after I left her house, her and the guy I like talked about how good of a person I am and how sweet I am for like 40 minutes. I realized that we have a lot more in common than I thought. We also matched on two dating apps a few months ago but I don’t know if it was because he knew me or something else. My friend always reassures me that I deserve to be love and in a happy relationship and that she thinks we’d be a good match but I can’t help but think that she’s just saying that to make me feel good (even though she’s told me she’s not. she knows how i think haha). I guess I just don’t know what to do. I’ve liked people before but I’ve never felt this drawn to someone before and it’s nerve-racking. He’s even said we could come visit him whenever and we could stay. He’s genuinely a great person and I’m scared to embarrass myself. | Crush |
Hey guys and gals,
Am just lacking inspiration, Am hardly crushing on this girl and I wanna start talking to her?
Any interesting openers to catch her attention? | Crush |
Is it normal for a boy to talk about girl with his best friends? Do you boys talk a lot about a girl with your best friend? and to what extend. My crush used to talk a lot about me with his best friend, my crush is also my friend and I confessed my feelings to him and he rejected me for some reasons ( I know reasons and I actually feel bad that I confessed to him at that moment ). After he rejected me he told his best friend everything about me and kept talking about me. So he talks about me with his best friend because I am his friend who confessed my feelings to him or does he have feelings for me?
Sorry for sounding so desperate. :) | Crush |
Ok so my crush is on instagram and i want to start a chat with her. What do i go with that will ensure a reply from her. Considering most girls from where i live don't even reply to random dudes.( Yeah she doesn't know me ). the people of reddit, I summon you to help me | Crush |
Context: After the last Reddit post we talked, then stopped, and now she texted me and we're talking
It's going REALLY good?? She texted me and we talked about how great it used to be (when we were more like friends, a couple too, fun stuff we did with cosplaying and how we cosplayed our favorite characters ships and acted them out)
She told me that we should do that again, which I'm flattered as hell for since we only did the ship duets when we were a couple. We did a few and she specifically said that she'd love to do more of those with me.
Is that a sign? Do I have a chance? Am I just that lonely that I take the smallest hints of affection as love?
Overall we're going steady!!
Edit: She asked to call, that was great
Edited edit: We're watching anime now, but i don't think she's interested anymore oof | Crush |
crush: nice weather
me :thanks :t :t case closed | Crush |
I’m a fool who knows he’s a fool and knows why he’s a fool, yet can’t stop being a fool | Crush |
Hi all.
I'm a supervising doctor and I fell in love with my trainee. Like 3mo ago. I won't get into it, but he liked me too. He'd stay an extra hour in my office for no reason, texting after hours, sometimes not about work--VERY ABNORMAL for my field and our professional relationship, asking personal questions, etc etc. But he has a fiance, and I'm his boss. We said nothing.
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One time our patient assumed we were married, wouldn't listen when I explained we weren't, then when the two of us were together with the patient the next day, he insisted we might not be married, but we're a couple. Very awkward for both of us. We didn't discuss it.
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We had something of an incident in the interim. He seemed to be depressed after his rotation with me, and I intervened trying to get him help, thinking he was in fact depressed (maybe not?). He got extremely nervous, pulled at his hands violently, and excused himself. We kind of "made up" since then.
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Fast forward 3mo. I had cried for a month over this dude. I think I cried 2d over my favorite ex, and I haven't seen his lower face in years (I interviewed him, and he said he wanted to work with me for 2yrs). Yesterday yet another patient assumed we were married. And if not married, a couple. We frantically try to explain. As I walk away, the guy tells me to go for him. We didn't discuss it.
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I guess there is nothing I can do. It would be weird if your doctors were married. Obviously we have chemistry, but we don't exactly flirt. And I'm 12 years older than him.
Why do they assume we're MARRIED?! I mean that seems extreme. I'd assume couple would be a safe assumption rather than wedded.
If anyone has any advice, I'm all ears. | Crush |
I f(18) been talking to a guy via discord , video chat and all for about 1 month , I know it’s not that long .
But
Although I’ve had multiple crushes in my life all of them had been mostly me crushing on someone with them not knowing that I do.
In this case , I heard from someone else in the server we’re in that the guy that I mentioned said to others ( without me in the voice chat ) ..”wow op is actually really good looking “ .
So a little context here , I’ve never been in a relationship and I’ve never been called beautiful before , especially by someone that I also like .
So the days pass and the crush I have in the guys has increased like a L o t .
Today he has not texted me nor got in the sever and he has left me on read from yesterday.
Of course I don’t really worry about that cause I don’t know what he has to do so I don’t mind .
What scares me is that I’ve been thinking about him all day and because we haven’t talked I somehow feel really really sad
For example I was listening to some music and a sad song came in and I almost started crying
I really don’t know how to handle the situation, I mean I understand that it’s not that important but i really don’t know why I am feeling like this
I’m I overthinking it ? | Crush |
okay so where are good places to hang out with ur crush?? plz dnt suggest a movie theater. n how do i ask my mom if i can hangout with a boy that i’ve been friends with since middle school. i go to an all girl school n haven’t brought up hanging out with a boy to my mom. | Crush |
I’ve been talking to this guy for a few months right now (I know not that long) but our chemistry is literally out of the roof!? It’s crazy! I’ve never had such strong feelings for someone before... but we live in two different states
:( We’re only a few hours away (he’s in texas and im in louisiana) but we still both don’t have money or time for us to meet right now... he’s also been telling me that he loves me and I always mess with him and say he doesn’t because “you don’t know me well enough” but after today... being on 10+ hours (and still going) it’s starting to feel like I’ve developed real feelings... what do I do? I’m scared to be in another LDR... but I REALLY like him!! Help 🙃 | Crush |
There’s this song called “someday” by the strokes this girl i like told me to listen to it she kept on going on and on about how it was a happy song, but every time I listen all I think is wow this is depressing as fuck but she keeps on saying no no it’s happy,I’ve know her for 3 years now and we talk everyday i mean at first I thought to my self will see where this goes but I just wanna ask her out I mean I really like her but i fucking hate it I mean I just watched a video about 10 signs that ur crush likes u, I am that fucking scared of her saying no that’s how much I like her, And with this fucking song it’s got to a point to were i don’t even wanna listen to this song anymore it’s that painful. What do I do? I don’t want to ask my mates for advice but i am thinking of asking her mate about it but would should i say?, I really do hate this I’ve had to play a guessing game for 3 years of my life just trying to guess if she likes me or not I mean I got one chance and I don’t want to fuck it up. What should it do? | Crush |
So i never wanted to have a crush but damn this boy in my art class who sits infront of me really got to me, sooo we dont really talk the only time we talk is when we help eachother or pick up fallen stationary for eachother lol....soooo i wanna talk to him more and be able to approach him in the hallways and stuff but can anybody give me any tips or advice?? So i dont weird him out or anything please and thanks! | Crush |
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She (19F) sometimes gives super fast replies; she sometimes gives super slow replies. She says she doesn’t use her phone often though... She will post on socials when having not replied to my message sometimes. She initiates conversation on text; she never initiates conversation on campus. She sees me on campus and gets nervous, says “hey” with a smile then walks ahead. She will look like she wants to say something but dodges the opportunity last minute. She will text lengthy messages. She will always text “hii” or “heyy”; never “hi” or “hey”. She tries getting me to open up to her. She sometimes pops up first. She tells me I’m funny. She just replied to me now after sending a message 27 HOURS AGO... She likes me or she’s just wasting my time? She’s unsure about me maybe? She’s confused? She is... idk someone help | Crush |
Hey, I need some advice. I think I am falling for my friend K, she is intelligent, funny, super cool, and hot. The problem is, I really don't want to, I like being friends and with covid going on she will go back to school next year. Right now we hang out every week and she comes with me almost every time I see my friends. She is a really outgoing person so I know she isn't flirting with me. She is also not looking for a relationship(which she has told me). I feel really comfortable around her but I don't want to ruin that with this newfound affection. I had a small crush before but it stopped along time ago. I really like being friends with her and I don't want to ruin that. Now it is coming back in full force and I was just looking for some advice on how to stop it or at least deal with it. | Crush |
I used to really like this friend of mine. We are in the same class and we have known each other for 3 years. Only this September we started speaking to each other. Then we became friends, texting and doing FaceTime nearly everyday.
She used to talk about how strange were the people that used to text her, she used to flirt with me, and this kinda stuff. She invited me for a drink with her and her best friend. Everything went well apart from the fact that the same night I texted her saying "I spent a good time today, what do you say if we go out sometime alone". She responded "Mike I really like you, but just as a friend" I then responded saying that I meant going out as friends🤦🏻♂️ (I didn't know what to say and I didn't whant to ruin are friendship) We are still friends, and there's this guy who is into her and they are texting each other.
Now, when I think about the last 3 months, the only thing that come to my mind is that I felt good, knowing that I was texting a girl, who (I thought) was into me.
But know, after she said the truth about her feelings, I don't feel anything towards her. I only feel remorse. Remorse that I didn't wait and see if things could have ended differently.
What I'm trying to say is that, now I believe that I was falling in love with the IDEA of being in love with someone and not exactly with her. I never had a girlfriend and I'm 19,and it's something that I hate. Not having someone to laugh with, that cares about you (who is not a member of your family), someone to make love to. And when the opportunity arrived I was exited and had the rush to go straight to the point, so I could have al these things. | Crush |
Be honest.. you can’t stop thinking about this kid | Crush |
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I'm trying to talk to my crush. He doesn't know it yet, and I want to get to know him more before I tell him. What are some good things to talk about? I don't want to come across as too pushy or adiment, but I don't know what to talk about. Advise? | Crush |
This was so weird because he is like 3...4 years my senior and in my dream we were like in the same group of friends at uni. We were at school at late at night becausewe are at the same ddpartnent and we had to finish our research papers.
Then this weird thing happen where there were a weird creepy killer girl and we hid in an attic that definitely doesnt exist in real life. And a lot of weird sh^t happened. The last thing I remember was thaf he proposed during a school shizz before graduation that he was hosting and I was like in the middle of a crowd. Weiirrrdddd but I remember feeling so happy in that drem definitely weird. | Crush |
I'm not really a dating app kinda person but because of covid, I started to explore using bumble. Originally, I just joined to try the BFF section which is used to meet new friends. But one night I got bored and tried the dating mode and I met this guy...
He's different from all the other guys I've talked to. I really like his personality because he seems to be mature for his age. He's goofy and not thirsty! lol he's very chill and candid to talk to! I can sense that he's not a fuck boy and I think we have qualities that would make us get along further than just what we are now!
We have each other on insta and snap. We mostly talk on snap. He snaps me every day. There was a time that I felt like he definitely was trying to get to know me and I can sense he's interested in me but I don't think he's interested enough? or maybe I'm overthinking it? but I just don't want to put expectations because I know he's a busy guy too and so am I. We both recently just graduated and he recently just got his job.
Most of the time I leave him on read bc I don't know how to respond anymore. Sometimes his replies wouldn't even respond to what I sent him. He would just send a picture of his face. He never left me on read even tho I've left him on read multiple times and if I don't answer he would send double or triple snap me after and sometimes reply to my stories too.
I'm kinda just going with the flow but at this point, I don't want to get stuck with what we have now. I can't tell if he just doesn't like me enough or he's just not sure what to do and is just busy? | Crush |
so I have this pretty big crush on this girl at my school, I really like her but the problem is that I haven't talked to her yet and I don't know how to approach it.
I've talked to multiple friends about it and they all say the same things, "mix into her friend group" or "find a common interest" but the problems with these ideas is that i have to talk to her/her friends to do them and I have sever overthinking problems. I talk myself out of just texting her or started convos in real life all the time and I barely have any friends at school so its not like I have connections. furthermore I have the dilemma of looking like a creep which, obviously is not what I want.
anyways I would really appreciate some tips on how to successfully talk to her, if that's not to much to ask lol. Thanks. | Crush |
I liked a person and now I like their friend because the first crush was influenced by quarantine and because it was the last person I sat beside in class. I don't know how to tell her friend I like her. She's not a like a kid I can just ask out. She's a bit too innocent for that. Now I don't feel right because it's kind of like switching crushes because she was beside me when I was semi-pursuing my first crush. I think she likes me back. She's really nice to me and always is the first one to say hi to me when I pop in their friend group (it has 2 other females). Btw I am the same age(14 and in hs) and the opposite gender. What do I do? | Crush |
Okay okay I’m 18 in senior year high school so in 20 minutes I’m going to a restaurant with my best friend and she invited a boy who is friends with my crush to go go with us.
I’ve neverrrrrrrr talked to him before at school but I think he knows I like him cause every time he’s near I just can’t be still. Either I start spazzing or my face starts spazzing out, so the idea of sitting down on the same table is scaring me. Sorry I’m so giddy :<<< if anyone can give me advice please do | Crush |
Scenario- asked the girl I caught feelings for to help me pierce my ears. We've been texting on and off and just being flirtatious at work and through text. A couple days before She asked through text if she can bring a "Friend". I said sure. We decided to pierce my ears after I get off work. She arrived early with her "friend" and I notice this "friend" was all over her. When I got off work I had to make a choice should I pierce my ears and just leave or should I pierce my ears and stay and talk with them and smoke (that was my original plan to get to know her better before I would ask her on a date. I was still planning on asking her on a date after I pierce my ears even though she brought a friend) I decided to stay and pretty much be a third wheel for an hour. It was a horrible feeling because I was just on the defensive the entire time but fortunately the weed was fire as fuck which calmed my nerves. And I was pretty much confident as fuck throughout the whole hour but there is still room for approvement . How should I approach the next day of work? Should I stop pursing her or is there still a chance I can still get in? Would it been better to stay for an hour long or left earlier? Should I've found an excuse to leave after piercing my ears | Crush |
I would talk to her everyday. Then we suddenly stopped talking . Whatsapp was showing last online 30th November. So I said hey in the middle of the lecture. She said hello!! so I asked which lecture is going on and gues what? She sent me a photo in which she was attending a lecture. I was shocked . My heart was so full. I mean she took a photo just to show me what lecture was going on , mean it's a big deal to me. I don't want to suddenly tell her that I like her . If I do that it will spook her and naturally she would say no. So what should I do?? | Crush |
When i started getting a crush on him, i started to notice this person and overlook their flaws and just notice them as the unique and lovely and attractive person they are. Now, when I'm around this person, my palms get sweatier than usual (mhm, I'm like that) , my stomach flips like a pancake, i blush madly, and i feel like if they touch me the slightest bit, i will melt into a puddle of love. At that moment, i feel like i would do anything for this person to return my mad feelings for them. The slightest eye- contact we could possibly make, will make me feel like when I look into their lovely eyes, the sky's the limit (iykyk). This person's deep, brown eyes make me want to never stop loving them. This person makes me feel a sense of helplessness ( in a good way). This person's stare can raise the dead and can cure my depression. A single word of his will make my heart explode like fireworks. This person makes me wanna keep falling in love with him again, and again, and again, and again. | Crush |
Is it weird for a 30F to date a 22M? Would he feel like 30 is too old? | Crush |
Over the past year or so, I have devolved a crush on one of my female friends and I don't know how to tell her. | Crush |
So this is my first time posting ever, but I'm really at a cross-roads here. I've put an extensive amount of thought into this and I honestly can say if I'm in the wrong here or not. I feel awful, because I feel as if having a crush on your teacher is some sort of sin, yet I can't really think of why it would be.
Taking emotional out of it (which is kinda hard) I've tried to think of why I would really like him.
I've come to the conclusion that he's 'there' for the lack of better wording. He helps me through any issues I'm having and tries to make me laugh when he see me to make me more happy. I'm not for sure if it's just the lack of someone else doing this for me, or the lack of my family doing any such thing, and I like him because of this, or if I'm actually falling for him.
The age isn't an issue with me, we're only 7 years apart and I've known age gaps in relationships to be exceptionally bigger and they workout perfectly. My friends seem to not mind my crush nor do they think it's wrong, the issue I have with them is they tell me to indulge my feelings.
Which I won't do.
I'm not one to put people in bad situations, infact I would put myself in one to get someone out of one. Meaning I'm not gonna risk putting him in trouble and if I ever am to indulge in share my feeling, I'm doing so after I graduate. That way his job is protected.
Again I don't know where my morals lie in this matter, if it's wrong for me to even feel this away or if it's okay. | Crush |
Whoever you are simping over rn, go and tell her!! (As long as you know she is in the right state of mind)
Doesn't matter if she is 7 seas apart or whether she is in the next lane. You felt something, don't be ashamed of it, and just tell her. You might relieve yourself from a lot of overthinking, or you might have it all in your favor!!
You deserve to know whether they feel the same way. You will save yourself a lot of time and energy. | Crush |
...again | Crush |
There's this girl that I had in my English class last year that I always found really cute. Before quarantine, I would only say "Hi (insert her name here)" every day and then nothing else for the rest of the class period (because I'm a shy person).
The next thing you know, we went out of school for the coronavirus. I thought that it was only going to be two weeks of quarantine but it was longer than that. I wish that I would have talked to her more.
When the new school year started, for some weird reason her Instagram showed up in my suggestions, and my friends encouraged me to follow it even though I was a bit skeptical because we don't know each other nor had any "real" conversations, and I didn't want to be creepy. My friends also encourage me to add her on Snapchat(from her bio) and try and start a streak with her.
I don't know if she knows who I am but now we have a 189-day streak, and I wanted to talk to her at the beginning of the streaks but I just didn't want to creep her out with something so sudden because we don't know each other personally.
I want to see if I can do something now, but I'm unsure about what I can do or even I could(because I don't want to be creepy about it by randomly texting her on Snapchat.
What do you guys think? Is there a way I can still get to know her?
TL;DR
I have a crush on this girl from a class I had with last year and because of quarantine, I don't know exactly how to talk to her even though I have her Snapchat. I don't know how to talk to her because we don't know each other very well, but I would like to get to know her(without being so creepy). Any advice or input is greatly appreciated. | Crush |
I miss my crush.. I had a crush on him two years ago and now since covid came me and him haven’t really made contact because he doesn’t have social media. I only have one class with him which is environmental science, but he never turns his camera on but I turn my camera on. His friends told me that he liked me tho.. i was thinking of asking him out next year should i do it? | Crush |
hey im kinda in love with a girl in my highshool but the problem is i dont know her name. is there a eay to really know whats her contact or snapchat or something without actually talking with her? im too nervous and shy to start a nice conversation with her | Crush |
i am new to reddit so jus bare me guys.
so I (F) had a crush on this guy since3-4 years.
since the moment we met we vibes. he is very fckin cool and handsome. we used to talk a lot and instantly became close friends , resulting in me being the first person he told that he jus got in a relationship ..... with a girl i wasn't fond of. but still respecting our friendship i started talking to this girl and helping them out as much as i could in the thicks and thins of their relationship. fast forward 2 years they broke up and this guy hits depression and i tried my best to cheer him up... i gave him my 101%. i pulled him out of that hole. he was the only guy i talked to throughout the lockdown. like we straight up talked every single day for more than a year. i introduced him in my friends group as he was feeling lonely. we all had the best fun together. one day as stupid as i could be i decided to confess to him... turns out its a nah but whatever i got over it......... we started taking normally again.... now its been 4-5 months since i confessed ... he thinks i got over him.... and we have this very deep and emotional friendship that we both respect or, at least i do. and now... he is getting the attension of many other girls... i feel anxious all the time..and now a days he doesnt even text me.... i will go ahead and say it... that its been a habit or you can say a daily routine to talk to him... but now even tho i have my frens group with me.. i feel lonely..... i really feel used.... cuz the moment he started getting others attention , he jus forgets me.... i am just soooo fcking frustrated with himm i jus wanna punch him in the face and then pull him by the collar and kiss him aaarrrghhhhhhh.................
sry for ranting | Crush |
So me and my friend have been friends for quite a while (like 2/3 years). Nothing too special, we’ve talked a lot and helped each other every so often; but recently I have been developing some really affectionate feelings for her. She is small, cute, funny, has a contagious smile and to top it all of she has the personality of an angel!
I know she went through a breakup a few weeks/a month back and I am totally okay with being patient with her. In the uk, we have finished gcses and herself and I will be going to 6th form to the same school!
I feel like this would give us a good opportunity to hang out and get a lot closer and we have both agreed to spend more time together then. I really don’t want to miss or ruin a chance like I have with prior crushes because this girl has been in front of me the entire time and only now I’ve realised how beautiful she truly is.
Can anybody give me any advice in order to achieve the most likely way of her liking me back by the time I eventually ask her out? Do I call her? How often? The more information I know the better. thank you for your time reading this :) | Crush |
Well today was the day. Today was the day that I confessed to my crush that I like him.
I’ve known this guy for a few months now. He started at our job and I didn’t think much of him at first and didn’t really talk to him.
Of course working within our group and seeing each other everyday, I began to share things about myself and vice versa. We work great together, we have so many things in common and have many of the same interests.
Our values aligned with each other, Political affiliations, upbringings, goals and dreams, and family values.
We were on one accord about almost everything and I was intrigued.
I wanted to know more about him so I would come up with unique projects so that we would come into work and work together.
Eventually, someone quit on our team and it was just me and him working. I’ve enjoyed the past few months working with him and secretly have had the biggest crush on him.
I’m out, but I’m not very vocal about being gay. Im not ashamed, I just want to live my life and not have me being gay simply defining me.
I eventually added him on Facebook one night and he accepted promptly.
I eagerly reviewed his profile to get an idea of him and I couldn’t find anything conclusive.
He didn’t have his interest shown. He was never in any pictures with girls except his sister and what I saw on his profile only made me smitten with him more.
He was geeky, cute, good hearted, funny, loved his family and most importantly driven.
I would get to know him more day by day because I was interested.
I’m not sure if he sensed it but I really wanted to get to know him more on that level.
Days would go by and everyday I would chicken out and not tell him.
I wrote this post on Facebook about me living my life authentically, and not being afraid of rejection or judgement and he was one of the first who liked my post.
I spent two days working on this text that I wanted to send him because I wasn’t sure if I could have told him face to face.
Today when I woke up, I told myself today was the day.
I’d been rehearsing what I’d say and finally I just told myself.... man up and do it.
Today while working, the clock moved faster than usual. It was as if time was not on my side.
Time came to go home and I just began to ramble with him about nonsense. I was not ready.... or so I thought...
Eventually I just told him that I needed to talk with him and that I’d hoped he have a few minutes.
He obliged and sat down.....
It was go time, I couldn’t back out now.
I began to tell him about what I liked about him and why I was interested.
I made sure to explain that I didn’t want to make things weird and that I didn’t mean any disrespect; however, I just had to let him know.
I told him in the end that if that wasn’t him, I’d understand and hoped that we could be friends.
He ended up telling me in the sweetest and most sincerest way that he was straight.
He told me that he appreciates me letting him know and understands that it couldn’t have been easy but stated again that he was straight.
He let me know that he isn’t judge-mental against the LGBTQ community and he respects me.
He also noted that he’d like to get to know me better as a friend.
I can’t lie, I’m sad and down. I don’t put myself out there like this and I’m just sad.
He was everything I wanted in a guy. Someone that I had been hoping for, for a while. Someone who has dreams, goals, was family oriented , had similar interest amongst many other things.
I’m trying not to feel down about it, but it sucks and it hurts. I’m tired of finding the occasional happiness in hook ups.
I want something more. I really wanted it to be with him. | Crush |
Well, this girl seems to talk to everyone but me. I know she doesn't know me much. But as far as I can tell she likes talking. She refuses to use words around me at all. She has even talked to guys she doesn't know before or atleast acknowledged them.
I am a quiet person so I feel naturally attracted towards her.
I want to talk to her a lot but she emits negative body language towards me which as far as I can see is only exclusive to me. I don't even know her and she kinda hates me( which is my impression of her). This absolutely discourages me in trying to talk to her.
Now, here's the catch. I have started seeing her catching glimpses or straight out staring at me when she thinks I'm not looking.
does she do this because she is scared of me or something (I am a tall guy). | Crush |
Hey guys. So I've had this girl I honestly didn't like for about 4 years. She has been chasing me for a long time wherever I go. Now I know people tell me choose the one that loves you and not the one you love, but I personally didn't feel the spark for her. I didn't feel like she is he girl that suits me. So I told her that I like her just as a friend. Since then she has been avoiding me and I feel like she might be exposing me by telling the other side of the story like she rejected me cus more girls are now staying away from me. Should I tell my parents? Because I feel like this may cause trouble | Crush |
So I while ago I was talking to this girl we talked for a week and she all of a sudden had a boyfriend I then confessed to her and then I received the nicest rejection ever and now I thought I was over her but I’ve done some thinking I thought I was over her but now I’m sitting here missing messaging her and FaceTiming her | Crush |
long story short, have been crushing my friend for the past few months, she found out, rejected me. I was dying. Tho that may seem horrible, it was the absolute best thing that could happen. so, my original plan was to confess on Valentine's Day. A week ago, i found out that she started dating somebody on this exact day. Imagine me, telling her, that i like her, hours after she got into relationship LmAO. yeah itll take time but ill be aight
have a pleasant day | Crush |
I was basically a loner in high school which is why I don’t have much experience with girls.
I’m in college and have had a group of friends that play drinking games a few nights a week. There’s this cutie that I’ve had a crush on for awhile and she makes hanging out a lot more fun. If you have never danced with anyone, you oughta try it out.
The other night we were talking and two others were also hanging out, having there own conversation while playing a game. Maybe there came a point when I figured if I was too much of a bitch nothing would ever happen. And before I knew it I was leaning in and kissed her. To my surprise she kissed me back and after an awkward moment with our other friends, we went up to my room. She spent the night and left in the morning.
Afterward she sent me a message basically saying it was a one time thing and she didn’t want things to be weird when we hang out. I get that and was kind of expecting it, but it still sucks.
I don’t want to pursue anything if she’s not into me. It was just a hookup and we had fun, but I think that’s the end of it.
I made the mistake of catching feelings for a friend, and now I just hope things won’t be weird the next time we hang out. | Crush |
Honestly if you are rated at a 1 behind the person you like you have a great chance at getting him, for example if your a 5 and he's a 6 you got a good chance with him and slap on a cute outfit and bam there's not even a difference. | Crush |
So there's girl I met online. I don't have crush on her but she seems to be have crush on me . I don't know why she's acting weird like last night she started flirting with me but I ignored . She kept going then I started flirting too then she went intentionally offline, knowing that I would wait for her . After 3 hours she sent me only this "🙂" . This thing kills me like I feel like it's better to be alone . | Crush |
So, ~2000 different emojis
About 35 themes for the chat
She sets the theme to love and emoji to hearts accidentally at the same time then quickly switches them back “My phone was open and I set my hand down idk what happened”
Any professors that can help me here that can figure out the odds of that? | Crush |
Me: Asking my crush if she would want to meet because we always see each other right now, so there’s no harm
My crush, who’s always on her phone: Doesn‘t answer me for three hours and keeps pretending not to be on.
My brain: Ok, never had been that unconfident about someone, but ok, keep ignoring me, I know that I am really annoying sometimes :). | Crush |
I (20M) need help. I mainly try to avoid dating after my first (and previous) relationship from 3 years ago ended so badly where I almost committed suicide, long story on that. Anyways, yes, 3 years, I just didn't feel I was in the correct mind about dating and wanted to see what I should be looking for in someone I want to be with. In mid January, I started to get very strong feelings for someone (18F) I knew for about 6-7 years when we started talking to each other again. I'm wanting to try to ask her out. She makes me want to continue living and she is enjoyable to talk to. Those 2 are main things I look for in a person now and see other things as pluses. She holds 2 pluses; she is good with kids (i have 5 younger cousins I am with a lot between ages 12M to 1F) and I see how caring she is to everyone. Some mutual friends of ours told me that we are great friends. I'm wanting to ask her out but I'm not wanting to ruin the friendship if I do ask her out | Crush |
So I’ve known this guy for a while and we’ve always been friends and recently we started hanging out one on one like getting breakfast, going thrifting, and we even had a movie night. I recently reached out to him to hang out again in an attempt to let him know I’m interested in being more than friends but our work schedules are pretty opposite. I also am pretty shy and don’t want to pester him with continuous texts trying to figure something out.
I want to tell him I like him but idk if it’d be too random, I haven’t hung out with in about a month. I really do like him but I feel stuck. Like I said I’m pretty shy and it sucks bc sometimes I won’t do or say some things I want to do bc I get too nervous.
**UPDATE**
I sent the text confessing how I feel to my crush and I’m waiting on his response I’ll definitely update!
**UPDATE**
So he hasn’t responded but he’s viewed my story/liked my retweets etc so I don’t think he’s reciprocating.
**FINAL UPDATE**
He responded and apologized for the late response. He was really nice and told me he wasn’t in a place to date anyone and hoped that he wasn’t leading me on, and that we were going different directions. | Crush |
.....barbed wire, 110 year old rusty tetanus ridden barbed wire fresh from the trenches of The Great War. God I love her
I guess I owe it to her now when her birthday comes around | Crush |
Brought some coffee and muffin to my crushes workplace this morning and got her number. What should be my next move. Casually talk to her for the week and ask her out on the weekend? Really confused. She works Monday through Friday and can't go out on weekdays probably. | Crush |
So I got friendzone a couple months ago and we went from snapchating/texting every day to maybe a couple text a week. We work together and I decided to get off some social media such Facebook and Instagram just so I wouldnt see stuff that would remind me of her but I still kept Snapchat. Well yesterday I saw that she removed me as a friend from Snapchat. I wasnt pushy or anything I just kept my space from her and would always be polite if she spoke to me. Why would she remove me from Snapchat? Should I text her and ask? | Crush |
I wanna shoot my shot with this girl I really like but we don’t know eachother that well and she’s one of those really popular girls. What should I do | Crush |
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good luck! | Crush |
If a guy says "I think y/n has a crush on me" does that mean he is also interested or is he just joke flirting with you. | Crush |
I have a huge crush on a guy (24) i meet once on a vacation, we had each other on social media, specially snapchat. Where we have been going back and forth for one year. I am very interested to get to know him, i would even fly out just to spend time with him. But he is soo confusing, i dont know if he feels the same way as i do or just want to sleep with me. He’s texting skills are confusing, he isn’t open about his personality when we talk, he replies with short answers and i have to start the conversation, he never do!!
The only thing i know is that he finds me very attractive.
So anyways he has tried to arrange a meeting three times in a year and it never happened basically its all talk and no action. He comes and go, like we can talk a little and then he disappears for two months, it has been like that for a year. And i am tired bc every time i see him sending me text or snap. My heart skips a beat literally. I just keep falling and falling the more we talk. So I deleted him to move on bc all i can think about is him. when i deleted him i felt empty, I regret it so much. But my pride wont add him back. I don’t know what I should do. I cant seem to get over it!! Help mee!! | Crush |
Last month, I met up with my friend group and there’s this girl who I have a crush on and us two were drinking and just in general talking about our single lives and she said somewhere along the lines that she would totally date a guy like me. I would really like to ask her out but I’m afraid that it might ruin the friendship group if she said no and make it awkward. One other thing is that she’s a Muslim whereas I am Christian. I really need help | Crush |
So I like a girl that I've known for a while. We had mutual friends when we were in middle school but I didn't like her then. Recently in High school I have developed a crush on her. She doesn't really have social media so I have to rely talking to her in person more than texting.
My problem is that I have social anxiety so its hard for me to make good conversations with her. She's smart so sometimes I feel like I annoy her or just outright look dumb. I have only seen her outside of school when we hang out in our friend group. I used to believe that she might have liked me because she would be nice to me, ask me personal questions, and playfully hit my arm. (It wasn't a hard hit or anything). Now we don't see each other in school because of Covid-19. I feel like if she did like me before, now she doesn't.
When I text her I feel like I am the one trying to start the conversation. She doesn't respond frequently and the replies are one to three word answers. Sometimes she posts and doesn't open my messages for a while. I know that she does this to others but I feel like she might actually not like me. I am scared to ask her out or anything because it might be awkward when we are with our friend group. I am just confused if she likes me or if she doesn't anymore. Maybe she never did and she just really nice. I don't know if I should keep trying to reach out to her. | Crush |
I have recently started getting feeling for a guy in my friends group, we aren’t that close but get along well whenever we meet up in group and last time I saw him I started feeling and getting more attracted to him. How do I stop this feeling? It’s been a month and everyday my mind will repeat the memory of last time I saw him and the conversation we had. How do I get rid of these feelings. It’s making me go mad that I can’t focus and do my work. | Crush |
This girl I know. I've a crush on her. She's sweet. Pretty. I just like her so much. I feel like surprising her with some coffee and donuts in the morning before she starts her stressful shift. Please suggest. I wanna ask her out but I don't get to see her often. She knows me well tho. She's known me for a while now. I've not seen her in 2 months. I wanna go to her work place on Monday, surprise her with what she likes and ask for her phone number. Good or nah? | Crush |
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Now I admitted i thought he was cute when I first started working, and he thought I was pretty but didn’t want to talk to anyone from work like that. (or just an excuse, whatever) we’ve still talked after that and he would mess with me and suddenly he totally stopped. He talks to everyone, besides me. And I usually don’t start talking to him first, he just sees me and says a remark etc.
I have thoughts that it may be one of the cashier girls who has gotten close to him, flirts with all the boys, even being in a relationship.
She asked me a few weeks ago if I still liked him, and ofcourse I wouldn’t tell her I still thought he was cute or anything because she’s known to not be trusted. I just told her his haircut was unattractive and I didn’t like him anymore. This is the only thing I can actually think of. I have never crossed the line, or anything because like I said, I let him come to me. Ever since then he has been treating me cold. He will be like “Hey *insert name here*!” and literally not even acknowledge me. It hurts my feelings because ofcourse he meant a little to me, but to be treated like nothing all of a sudden hurts.
Should I confront the girl or should I talk to him? Or just leave it alone. They’re apparently “best friends” now and it just angers me not knowing what happened and she could’ve just said something for him to completely butt me out like that. | Crush |
I have a flirtation going on with the FedEx delivery man, it's so stupid. I'm in a relationship, but he's SO flirty and cute and I could tell he really likes me...he goes out of his way for me. Btw, I work at a store where we contact FedEx to send things out and it's in my role to deal with this...he's so cute and so so sweet.
I feel beyond guilty because I have a boyfriend, who loves me sooooo much but lately or sex life is NOT it. Like, between this pandemic, the shitty weather, me going stir crazy lol...I'm so bored. I keep fantasizing about the FedEx guy.
Is it wrong to continue flirting with him? He's aware I have a boyfriend. He asked me out for coffee once and I said no even though I wanted to say yes so badly. I'm so curious about him. | Crush |
I recently started to “catch feelings” for this girl i work with. Im a senior and shes a freshman in college. We get scheduled like once a week together so i try to make as much time as possible. All my coworkers are very judgmental and nothing stays private. So im scared to ask for a snapchat or make any kind of move. A. Because i dont want to be made fun of and B. Because i want to keep my job without things being awkward between us if things go south. I also dont get shy around girls i am friends with but whenever i talk to one i like i get nervous dont know what im supposed to say, how to act, etc. i dont have any moves so idk how i am meant to pull her. Please any kind of advice helps | Crush |
So my best friend told our 2 mutual friends that she has a crush on me, and I don't know what to do.She had told them 2 days ago that she spent "the past few nights awake thinking about him" Those two, being unable to keep anything a secret from anyone, told me in secret, and now I'm tripping out because I don't know what to do. I mean, don't get me wrong, I do like her, and I just spent last night unable to sleep because of this news I had just got. What do I do? She just confronted our friends because she thinks I know.
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EDUIT: She told me about it a day later and now we're dating. | Crush |
So there's a girl, I met on instagram 3 months. She's the best thing happend to me but why do I always feels she has kinda crush on me. And for the sake of God I never texted her first , never , she always text me first and when everytime I want to talk to her, she replies two to three messages for starting and then replied about after an hour. Idk what is she doing? Please anyone help me | Crush |
She happens to be 16 years older than me though, I’m a 22 year old male and she’s a 37 year old female. She also happens to be in my moms friend group and that’s how I got the job (they’re not very close though), and she’s in a relationship with another woman, but she’s dated men previously, and she’s not very happy in this relationship.
I texted her for a while and she seems really into me, and then after 3 months of talking and flirting at work I messaged her at 1am and told her how I felt. She replied straight away and rejected me, but told me she didn’t know if she wanted me to stop pursuing her or not. I left it for a while, she still continues to touch and flirt with me occasionally. We text and then we ignore each other. It’s been awkward at work since I told her how I felt, I tried to apologise last week for the awkwardness and she told me not to worry about it. We seem fine now. I still believe there might be something there and I really want this woman. How do I win her over? | Crush |
I (18F) met this guy, we’ll call him James (19) for the sake of the story, in the first couple of weeks of uni (before it all went online) through mutual acquaintances and realised we had the exact same music taste (we both only really listen to music pre - 1980s), leading to an extensive and excited discussion about it. We didn’t get each other’s details but got each other’s Facebook when we ended up in the same study group a few weeks later.
Fast forward and we end up doing a couple of the same subjects in the second semester so we wanted to create small study groups, which ended up consisting of just us 2 and a couple of people I knew. One group was us, one of my friends and one of her friends, he was completely happy to include them both even if they didn’t attend all the zoom meetings.
However, the other group consisted of the two of us and another guy that I met in my online class who was a sort of friend. ‘James’ did not seem keen about this other guy and asked me, with a standoffish tone I guess you could say, if I knew him all that well. Anyways, ‘James’ either intentionally or unintentionally left this other guy out for whatever reason.
‘James’ then asked me if I could go Christmas shopping with him, because he wanted to meet me outside of uni context and Christmas shopping was something he didn’t really want to do alone, fair enough so I said yes. He said I could bring a couple friends if I wanted but more so so I felt comfortable. Anyways, that went really well, he got back on the train with me and hugged me before I got off at my stop, first time he had ever done that.
Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago when he asked me if I was free so we met up at the shops, looked at records and went to have lunch. Well what went from, let’s meet up, have lunch and see what we feel like doing afterwards turned into record shopping, lunch and sit for 2 and a half hours talking.
At the end, he walked me 2 levels up to where I had to be when we could have just said our goodbyes on the bottom level. That would have been easier for him anyways since the entrance to the train station was on the bottom level.
So, I guess you could say I’m not sure what to think, especially since the lunch thing. Does he see me as just a friend or could it be something more? I’m happy either way, just curious on if I’m reading too much into it or there could be something there.
Thanks! | Crush |
I know this question was posted long ago, but I’ll still write a response. Yes there was this girl I liked since 6 th grade. I was a pretty shy kid (still am) and she was a really popular girl at my school. Her name was Sydney. In 9 th grade we were in the same science class and sat next to each other. We eventually began to talk and she would always be super flirtatious around me. She would constantly try to hold my hand, tell everyone we were dating and even go as far as to tell me that she loved me. I would always play it off like she was annoying even though I secretly liked her flirting (I mean who wouldn’t)? However, despite this I never asked her out ( even though I badly wanted too). I was constantly told by my friends and siblings that there was no way she liked me and that she was just making fun of me. This may be the the case but something just didn’t add up. She wasn’t type of girl to go around bullying people and even if she was making fun of me, who would keep up that joke and continuously flirt with someone they didn’t like for 4 years. Most of the guys here probably think I’m a massive wimp for not asking her out. I don’t blame them if they think this way. But I have a lot of social anxiety with ordinary people and especially with the opposite sex. I wanted to ask her out for such a long time but couldn’t because I was afraid she would be grossed out and stop flirting with me. I mean I can’t even explain how good it felt having someone you liked for years just pass by you in the hallway, grab your hand look you in the eye and tell you that they love you. It’s been over a year since I graduated from high school and I still can’t stop thinking about her. I’m still trying to get over her but I can’t.. UHHH 😤😢. | Crush |
This is going to sound crazy buuutt a long time ago when I was about 11/12 I was at a restaurant playing in the play area and I made a friend and I remember we spent the whole time together. The other day I see him on my Instagram feed and turns out he’s friends I went to school with and he looks really good!
I’ve been extremely terrified to even text him so I’ve just been day dreaming ... | Crush |
I can’t get over my crush. We both know I like him but he’s not in the right headspace to be in a relationship right now, which I totally get and I know he’s being honest about that. But I just can’t get over him, I think about him all the time, he’s always in my dreams and I’m disappointed I can’t be with him. I’m swiping through tinder comparing everyone to him, I had a couple rebounds but it hasn’t stopped me from thinking about him constantly. I try to focus on work and other things in my life but I just can’t get him out of my head. I’m not sad that I’m single or lonely, I’m okay with being by myself, I’m just so bummed and disappointed with how things turned out and that I’m not spending time with him when I really want to. I don’t know what to do. | Crush |
Okay before some people go and come after me about the whole pandemic. Let say that that person I’m going to talk about is my neighbor and both of our parents are really good friends. Okay now let me begin:
Let call his guy Tom. Okay so growing up I always consider him a friend or in other words a brother. Alright we have sleepovers, we watch anime/movies or anything it. That not the point, my point is that he confess to me and I don’t know how to handle it, for starters. He knows that he knows that I think of him as a brother and he also wants to do the “ the thing” like I’m not ready okay I don’t want to make a mistake or we made it. I don’t want our parents to fight because our mistake. What should I do? Should I avoid him or change my personality and looks? I don’t want to sound like a bad guy honestly I just want to stay friends that all. | Crush |
I have a crush on this new chick and shes actually a model. honestly she’s the blessing I’ve been waiting for I just hope her personality isn’t lacking due to her being gorgeous . asked for her number and she sent it and then ignored my reply to her text kinda weird but then again this ignoring game is so played out. Now I have to not double text to make it seem like I don’t care. Yeah cause no one cares nowadays!!! Why did she give me her number! would of been better off without it :( | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy friend of mine. We are both graduate students, and study together frequently amongst another group of people. I am extremely attracted to him, I love talking to him about life and goals and I want to get to know him on a personal level. In my past(mostly childhood) I’ve had experiences where I was shamefully rejected by guys and my instincts(or trauma) are telling me to back off. However, I can’t stop thinking about this fella. My immediate concerns are that I do nor want to make things awkward in our friend group if I tell him and he doesn’t like me also really scared of feeling that same rush of rejection I felt in middle and high school when approaching guys before. Now I have grown up a lot since then, and I consider myself beautiful and attractive. I have many things about me that I know an intelligent man would love and appreciate but he may not be my guy which is totally fine(even though I hope he is lol!). I also have been told all my life that women should not chase men and never tell them they want them or that would make a man lose interest/be unable to want you genuinely. I would like advice on what some of you would do in this situation? | Crush |
I know what you’re thinking, I’m some girl with a big ego myself, who’s craving for the attention of people. No, that’s not me. In fact, my ego is quite small and I’m not near popular at all. I’m a teen female, and I don’t have anything special. In fact, my looks are below average. Trust me, I know when I’m pretty and when I’m not. I’m a white girl with medium long curly hair, that’s frizzy, and puffy. I hate my hair, I’m only pretty with straight hair. I’m not confident at all, and I’m almost always thinking about what I can do to make myself prettier. I don’t wear heavy makeup, and I don’t have super nice face features or anything. Like I said, there’s nothing special in my looks. I hate my appearance, but my personality is awesome. I am pretty outgoing, and I can definitely flirt, and bring on some deep conversations. Anyways, back to the point. Has anyone ever watched 13 Reasons Why? If you have, I’m like Hannah Baker. (Nothing against her) I’m not very pretty at all, but somehow I still manage to talk, and flirt to the popular guys. I honestly don’t get it. Why do they talk to me? I know I have a good personality, but looks are important, and I KNOW looks are important to them too. I know the difference between a friendly conversation, and a flirting conversation, before you ask. Honestly, it makes me feel worse sometimes. I wanna date this guy..but he has a big ego. I’m not nearly as pretty, and trust me, he has looks. I cant date someone who has 5 times more of a appearance than me. It’s embarrassing. There are so many pretty girls he has talked too, and there are so many other prettier girls I’m sure that he could pull. Imagining dating him just makes me feel worse about myself, I’m not confident at all. I don’t have looks. I know what you’re thinking too, I’m actually pretty. Trust me, I know the difference between pretty and being ugly. Honestly, I don’t really know what type of advice I’m looking for..I just don’t get it. I don’t really get why these type of guys talk with me. | Crush |
So I have a work crush. I started working with him a couple months ago and I always thought he was cute. The crush started a week or two after working with him, everytime I would say something he would get super close to my face, making eye contact and would stay there listening to me. I thought it was just because of the mask and maybe he couldn't hear me but even when I have my mask down or off he still does it. When I started working (I'm a hostess) he would always hand me the silverware wraps where our hands would touch. Maybe I'm overthinking it but I think he knows that I like him, and I think he might like me too. Seeing as we have to work together every weekend I dont want to ruin the friendship that's already there. I'm scared to progress, but I dont want to leave it for too long where he finds someone else. Anyone have any advice? | Crush |
We work together and live across the street from kne another. We've gotten super close iver the last month or so. Shes so beautiful and just fucking awesome. We kinda have the awkward way of flirting and I enjoy it. I know shes getting feelings to from her best friend but shes trying to ignore them she said. Todays my birthday and she spent several hours picking out my gifts yestersay. But everytime I try to get her to open up about her feelings towards me she shuts down. Maybe one day she will admit it though. Just wanted to get this off my chest. | Crush |
I have known of this girl since elementary school but never really "knew" her. We went to the same academy of schools for middle and high school, though the schools were single sex. I am a male so we are not together when we are at school.
The only time we really see each other is on the hour bus ride to and from our schools. There's a group that consists of Me, my best mate, his ex, his ex's friend and my crush. We never really have any space where its just the 2 of us so I can tell her my feelings. I didn't always have feelings for her, but through our small group of friends, I have grown closer and closer to her. I don't have the courage to text her to confess my feelings, 'cause I can't stand the feeling of rejection.
In a conversation she always seems to elevate towards me, and she always tries to sit as near to me as possible. But we are really good friend, so it could just be friendship. We both have similar family stories and a similar sense of humor. We always bounce off each other in conversations. She always wants to know stuff like what music I'm listening to or, if I'm ill, what's wrong and am I ok.
I am a really negative person, but am working with a counselor to try and work past it. But I don't want to hurt or negatively effect her. She knows that about me but still seems to "like" me, as if she is putting herself in harms way. But it would hurt me if I hurt her.
Long and short of it is: I like a girl, I think she may like me back, but I don't want to hurt or disappoint her so haven't said anything and I don't want to ruin our friendship if she says no. :C | Crush |
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