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hi all, you have a crush and wonder if the guy you're into right now likes you back? Let's find out by taking this test at [does he like me back quiz](https://quizzboom.com/quiz/does-he-like-me-quiz/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=Joni&utm_campaign=heLikeMe) and have fun! | Crush |
Going to slide into her DMs
I am a girl and There’s this girl I think is pretty and I’m planning on texting her. It is my first time hitting up a girl like this online AND during a pandemic. I had a history class with her before quarantine last year (I had zero interest in her then) and I remember feeling she had a crush on me but I didn’t act on it because I was not at all interested in her then and did not care. Just the way she acted around me and her stares gave it away and I would catch her eavesdropping my convos but again I did nothing because I didn’t like her then. I didn’t even have any proof if she liked girls or not but for some reason I just felt she was attracted to me but idk. All of a sudden during quarantine I’m interested and now I wonder if she really WAS interested but that doesn’t matter anymore since it was long ago. After doing some lurking I saw that she has liked some lesbian stuff before but I don’t know if that means anything because she’s dated guys before.
We have only talked like once for like twenty seconds and that was when she tried talking to me when we had that class. I followed her on social media when I started liking her and she followed me back. she likes my pics and I like hers and we’ve commented on each other’s pics before. She also votes on my stories if I have it there so I don’t know if that means anything but I could just be reading too into it. Usually only people I know well vote and I’ve only talked with her once for like 20 secs but idk. I’m planning on texting her when she posts a selfie on her story and telling her she looks nice. I don’t know what to do from there :/ please help | Crush |
A few weeks ago a friend and I talked about each other and how we sort of like each other, but ultimately, he said we should stay friends and get to know each other.
A few days after, a friend of mine passed away. I’ve been grieving and online, but haven’t been responding to messages from him because of both that and the rejection. It’s been 5 days, and I’m thinking of calling him to explain to him what’s happened and tell him I need time away from him because of the rejection and my friends death.
If you want to keep touch with someone, PLEASE don’t ghost them. It can hurt in the long run. | Crush |
So I was chilling with my best friend one day last summer and I saw this cute guy and told my friend I thought he was cute, she forces me to talk to the guy (he is 19 now and I'm 18). We became good friends and on Valentine's I asked him on a minecraft date (we play a lot of minecraft together and with my other friends) and he said yes but he told me that a long distance relationship wouldn't really work right now.... Idk what to do, should I wait for next summer to come around and try to be something. He also kinda told me he liked me and I admitted I liked him. | Crush |
I have been crushing on him since 2017. We're churchmates. Recently he offered me a ride home cause it's kinda late ( which I accepted and he rides a motorbike btw) and my dad can't come and pick me. Fastforward, we had a church event and we were on the same team. I messaged our groupchat, asking if someone will pass by our street so I can just hitchhike cause my dad is unavailable. And then my crush messaged me like a private message on messenger asking if I want to hitchhike. So I accepted his offer again. But that day, one of my churchmates told me that she wasn't sure but she thinks he's already praying for someone else. I'm confused, does he like me? | Crush |
So the best friend of the girl I like (15f) offered to give me (16m) “girl advise” sometime. Given how she’s best friends with the girl in question I feel this is a unique opportunity. I just don’t know how, should I do it now or wait until later when it’s more realistic I’m going to be able to see the girl? Should I do it at all? Would she even be willing to help me if she knew it was for her best friend?
Important side note, me and the girl I like live a ways away from each other though we went to school together for 3 years so that’s how we met, but given how I’m 16 now we’ve talked about me going over for a visit sometime | Crush |
So lately I've been having a crush on a girl, we didn't met before neither we talked. We were at the same volunteering organisation but since we where in different divisions we have never interacted. We are friends on Facebook and we follow each other on IG. I could start some small conversations by replying to her stories but they don't last long so idk what should I do or how should I start talking and hold conversations with her ? Any good advices? | Crush |
Hello guys,soo there s that one girl and she likes Italy and Juventus very much.Her birthday is in couple of days so I was thinking about contacting Juventus to somehow wish her happy birthday in my name(I mean to make it that she will know that I "ordered" from them to make it).I was thinking about contacting their official profile on Instagram,but I think they wouldn't reply there,so I m thinking about sending them e mail.
Soo any thoughts,advices,any other idea? | Crush |
So I've seen this girl in our class and she seemed nice. I don't think anyone else in our class thinks she's attractive but for me she is. After this year, we go to work. And everyone can choose the subjects we're interested in. I'm going to work as a shop assistant and I'm in the same group as she is. Today we had a group work but we all worked as a team. One group cuts everything, the other sticks it together and so on. We got into contact and I've never been so nervous before. I tried to be as chilled as possible. I wondered what I can do but the interaction was so short, I wasn't even able to do something. After that I thought about a way to show her I'd like to meet her. Does a simple wink work or how can I do it? | Crush |
Im a 17M and I’ve liked a girl for a long time. Before the pandemic I talked to her every so often. She likes talking in person much better than texting so I tried my best to talk to her in person. Because of the pandemic I haven’t really been in contact with her. I used to text her late into the night and it would make me so happy. I feel like it might be weird if I try reaching out all of the sudden. Any advice? | Crush |
I am a 12 year old male (turning 13 in a few months), and my crush is a 13 year old female. We have a discord server with a bunch of my friends in it, and she is in this discord server. That’s just some basic information. I am now going to proceed to list 3 stories that made me suspect her liking me back.
Story 1:
Last Thursday, we were both playing some Minecraft, and we were just playing around in this private server, and then she said something (while laughing). I don’t remember the full sentence, but I remember her saying something that ended with “, loser,” while laughing. If you get what I mean. She doesn’t talk to my other friends like this, so I got suspicious 3 hours later.
Story 2:
We were using the Yggdrasil bot on Discord for around 2 hours and at one point she started using Spotify to make puns, most puns directed at me. Also she started using italics and ~ to either annoy or tease me.
Story 3:
We’ve also talked to each other while alone in a voice call many times (around 15 times in past month.)
Extra information:
Her calling me a loser was, according to 2 people, flirty.
I’m also really ambiverted (mostly introverted)
We’ve both not been to school yet due to COVID-19, although we both will next year.
I plan on inviting her to a birthday party, mostly so I can further know that she likes me. (I can read body language well)
We’ve not talked in a DM call yet. I’ve asked her once about it and she responded with “Woah, [my name], that’s kind of suspicious.” (This was 2 weeks ago where there weren’t many signs) (I also think she said this jokingly)
All those 1-on-1 conversations were usually 1 to 2 hours long until someone joined the voice channel.
These conversations were either about stories and talking about ourselves, or they were talking about other things such as school.
We’re most comfortable with each other than she is with anyone else, although one of my friends have her number because he asked a bunch of girls for their number.
Unrelated, but I also encourage her to finish things, try to help her out a little, and compliment her artwork because I genuinely think her artwork is good.
Now here are some problems:
I’m way too shy to step out of my comfort zone, which is why I have never went into a DM call with her yet.
I never actually plan real life events, especially with only one person.
Also, one more thing. I don’t plan on telling her until mid or late 8th grade because dating at 13 won’t end well. | Crush |
So I'm confused. I have this friend who I used to crush on, (we'll call him 'J') who I think might be crushing on me? My basis for this are a couple of recent events:
Last week, the seating chart changed. Instead of sitting next to J, now I was by another boy. J goes "Nooo!" And starts talking to the boy I'm now next to. I leave class to go to the bathroom, and when I get back, J has switched spots with the other boy. He acts like nothing happened, so I just don't ask why.
Next scene: J asks how tall I am. I say '5'4, why?" "My friends dared me to ask you.." "...So how tall are you?" He slouches and mumbles "5'1..." and I say something about how girls get tall before boys do, to which he responds that he's taller than his mum. I change the subject because I don't know how to say that I think he's cute even if he's shorter than me.
Last scene: I walk up to my dad's classroom (he teaches at my school) to microwave my lunch. (Teacher daughter perks!) J happens to be in that class, and as soon as I walk in, he starts waving frantically as if his life depends on it. "Travelersjoy444! Hi!!" I wave back before heading down to the lunchroom. My dad tells me after school that after I left J started talking about how good my art is.
I dunno, reddit...is J just a sweet friend? Or do you think he maybe has started crushing on me? If he is, I kinda like him too, and if he doesn't I'm cool with just being friends...but I'd really like to know what you think?
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edit: I invited him over, he said yes :) | Crush |
This girl (18f 19m) would always talk to me in class and when I would talk to my female friend would always get jealous and say things like “me and him are like besties in this other class”. This was the first time I thought she really liked me. In our other class that we had together I started talking to her much more. And it wasn’t just friendly banter either, so after a few months flirting with each other I decide I’m gonna ask her out. I asked her out to a movie with a few of my friends. She hadn’t heard of the movie and told me she would look at the trailer after school and lmk. She then proceeds to never answer after I asked her again and told her I had to know because this movie theater required you to buy them before you went in. She completely ghosts me for the next two days till late Sunday night. I ended up just going to the movie with my friends and had a great time but was still a little bummed and figured I would ask her the next day. On Monday I talked to her and she acts completely different and she no longer jokes with me or flirts with me. It’s been nearly a year after and since this was our last year in hs we rarely talk anymore sometimes responding to our stories and whatever. This was last year btw. She’s coming back from college in a month or so. Do I try and continue things or count my losses. | Crush |
I’m a 14yr old boy and there’s a 14yr old girl we’re already friends I just need help on actually making a move... I mean she trusts me a lot she tells me secrets and I just wanna let her know I like her in a romantic way | Crush |
Around a week ago my crush and I started texting eachother, and on the same day he forced me into telling him that I like him. Unexpectedly, he told me that he also liked me, and we started talking constantly. It has been a little more than a week, and I am unsure if he still likes me because of the fact that he doesn't want anyone to know about how he likes me. Also, he has multiple different friends that are girls and though he says he doesn't like them, he has admitted to liking them all in the past. I have no clue what to do, please help me. | Crush |
hello everyone
I've been texting to my crush (female) for a long time (about a year). I was the one who first texted her and at the very beginning of us texting, she sometimes started the conversation. Once we both stopped texting each other and she won't start the conversation first from then.
I also heard that she used to like me from her friends few months ago. I asked her to hang out 2 times, and asked her to play games with friends and to join a group call with friends.
That might not sound a lot but I've been putting much efforts on her. I'm feeling sad that she never starts the conversation first after all of that.
Do you think she has no interest in me? Do I still have a hope? | Crush |
I have a long distance friend that I have a crush on she’s the first person I ever felt love for. I thought she liked me because of the way she talks to me but now seeing how she interacts w her friends, like on Twitter I see now that it’s just her personality, not that she actually likes me. But Sometimes I still feel like she does like me tho…idk really but I’m too nervous to ask for clarification. :( like she says she loves me all the time and says the sweetest things that makes my heart skip a beat but she says the same things to her other friends… | Crush |
Full story:
So, basically, I have a friend group from 2 different schools, and decided to invite both of them to my 16th yesterday. One is all boys (I’m at an all boy school) and the other is boys and girls.
I’ve liked one of the girls for quite a while, which everyone in her friend group except for her knew. We’re both very shy and awkward, and for the whole night, they were all trying to get me to admit my feelings for her. By the end of the night, nearly everyone was gone and we were sitting together. (which was a hilariously awkward orchestration by the others in the group)
After a good minute of silence, I admitted my feelings to her. She said she didn’t know how she felt, but thought I was a great friend, but didn’t know me too well. We agreed to stay friends for now so we can know each other better. She said she doesn’t know where our relationship will go, so it’s not too black or white.
Pretty much everyone I’ve told said I have it in the bag. I’m just scared that my feelings being on the table will make our future encounters very awkward. What do you all think? Thanks in advance :) | Crush |
After 7 years of liking him I finally started talking to him a month ago. Got him a milkshake yesterday and he just sat down in a park bench guyss he was dressed up, blue kurta. Khaki pants. Gorgeous green eyes beautiful brown hair with bangs for a second my mind kinda went blank staring at him I’m standing he’s sitting there getting milkshake all over his face haha and I just can’t hold myself back man. Idk what came over me but I just bent down and kissed his cheek. Fuck the fact that I was wearing a mask. Pure silence after that I’m panicking did I do smth wrong.
After walking him home he just says “where’s my goodbye kiss” I’ll kiss him for the rest of my life babe wtf he’s never going to have to ask that again 😂 | Crush |
So I'm a girl who is in her 2nd term of the first year of *(Australian)* high school, and well I had this MASSIVE crush on this guy *(lets name him, Logan)*. I got his discord and we talked often and I was simping. After a few weeks, On the last day of the term, I confessed through a note I passed on to my friend, who passed it on. When I arrived home, he msged me saying he isn't sure and he only said "no" since he was surrounded by people.
***(btw, I used to catch feelings fast and lose feelings faster, and be confused about feelings, i'm over that now)***
**(Holidays)**
A guy *(lets call him Aiden)* was friends with me. We have become friends the past term and one day I had a friend who called me and said "Aiden simps for you". At the time, I thought it was a joke until, we were msging 'till late and I *(who questions my feelings when I enjoy people's company)* was questioning.
Then, the topic of crushes came up and I had a feeling it was me since my friend joked about it. After a talking I didn't know if I liked him, realised that crushes isn't good for my mental state, lost feelings for both Logan and Aiden.
**(Start of Term 2)**
That was until term 2. I have made a friend who I see by everyday, all the time. It seems that we always cross paths. So I checked discord, and got friended by him *(calling him Oscar)*. Oscar and I became very close, with his cute, flirty personality and my affection deprived self.
I have received a lot of serotonin from this him and recently developed attachment issues. We are matching pfps and always talk on dms. I would msg my friend about it ranting about how much serotonin I get from Oscar and the fact I only get serotonin from him, I don't really like him.
**(Now)**
After a while, Logan msged me, saying he liked me. I didn't reply back, Idk what to say. Idk if I have lost feelings for him. It seems the next person I like gives me more serotonin then the last.
Also, an inconvenience is that, Oscar's discord has broken, so I can't decide who my feelings are for by escaping my problems thru dms.
Currently I noticed the only 2 "crushes" that are original feelings *(not liking them because I think they like me, they like me or I noticed them because of my friend pointed out their features to me*) are **Logan** and **Oscar**.
*I really don't know what to say to Logan, he is in my pastoral and is seated near me. I dont what to leave him on read, but I'm not sure what to say.*
***What do I do?, What do I say to Logan?***
# HELP
\****p.s.*** *sorry that was long, there is wayyyy more* | Crush |
Yesterday at my senior breakfast, I asked my crush if he had a Snapchat (so we could stay in contact after graduation) and he said that he doesn’t. Then a few minutes later I see him on his phone on Snapchat. I’ve never thought he’d lie to me, he just seemed like a nice guy... I wanted to talk to him at graduation but I didn’t because it just felt weird to talk to someone that I’ve liked for a while that made me upset. It’s gonna take me a while to get over him which sucks | Crush |
So I’m non binary and I have a crush on this girl in my year. Let’s call her Sophie. Sophie was in my class last year, and I thought she was really cute. I’m in high school btw (Australian high school so yr 7-12). Over the Christmas holidays I thought about it and I realised I had a crush on her. A pretty big crush. A few months went by and I told a few of my friends, and they didn’t mind. The next day we had a swimming carnival which everyone had to attend, and my bus came really late (like halfway through the carnival) and my friends were telling me to ask Sophie out, and that if I was too scared to, they would. Blah blah blah I asked her out she said yes we never talked again :D
COUPLE MONTHS LATER and my friends says she doesnt like me and that she still wants to be friends with me. I end up dating someone else but that only lasts like a month or two. I become pretty close to Sophie again, and she gets kind of flirty. Obviously I’m flirty back :). I ask her out again, and tell a different friend, let’s call this one Judy. Judy hypes me up, but then tells me I shouldn’t have asked her out since another girl likes her. I was a bit confused but decided to delete the messages to Sophie since she hadn’t read them yet cuz I’m not trying to start any drama. I didn’t go to school the next day, because word travels fast at my school. Even if you don’t tell anyone ur secret, everyone knows, so I was just gonna take a day off. Well then I got sick (Wednesday) and had to take the next two days off of school as well. It’s now Saturday. Anyway, do I ask her out on Monday? She seems to like me but I don’t want to get rejected again.
ps. I’m think I have some form of social anxiety (talking to people is pretty stressful for me) so yeah. (Sorry just wanted to add that in) | Crush |
I saw a girl on FB earlier today. Her face is so stunning. I want to use her face as a reference to the story I want to write. But... I can't find her online again. I found her in a comment section and my phone died. Can you guys help me to find her?
she:
\-uses a dp where she's sitting on a boat with a sunset
\-lives (or studies) in Sta cruz, manila
\-likes history
\-is woke af
\-is probably SHS? | Crush |
oh my god, she was absolutely *stunning*. she's short, curvy, has a beautiful Spanish accent, can't be older than 23. it's women like her i seriously never have the courage to flirt with, but i wish i did. she's quite honestly one of the most beautiful women i've ever seen. | Crush |
I need relationship help and advice! I’m a female freshman in college and have had some feelings for girls for about 5 years now. I have certain types: masculine or artsy. I have never had a relationship and I lean toward liking men more. Around December, I was (and still am) working at a huge corporate store. A girl and her (brother or cousin?) came through. He was on the spectrum and she looked like his care taker, you could tell that she was down to earth and she had my exact style. I tried to forget about her until she came in the store again (without the brother or cousin). My heart fluttered and I get pale. She asked for some help and we got it off (I’m thinking so). She thanks me for my help and leaves. Ever since then, I can’t think about anything else. I know I don’t know her but I really like her so far. Also —for more information — I’ve never been in a relationship or have had any contact with anyone. I’ve been waiting for someone whom I truly like. | Crush |
Hi everyone! Not sure what I'm looking for by writing this but here we go. In junior high (about 4 years ago) there was this guy who I noticed was really weird around me, always looking at me, trying to talk to me/get my attention ect. I figured he was into me because he was pretty obvious about it. So I started looking at him more and developed a small crush for him. Fast forward to now, we hadn't kept contact at all except following each other on social media. After highschool I moved to a different city and I recently moved back. My closest friends would tell me they'd run into him at the store and he would always ask about me. A couple weeks ago, they ran into him again and they said this time he was VERY interested in knowing what I was up to. So I decided to dm him and we started talking. Nothing special about our conversation except that he pretended to not know what I was up to. My friends had already told me he remembered every detail of what they had told him about me. No big deal. He probably didn't want to come off as creepy, which I appreciate. Our conversation ended and almost 2 weeks later he dm'ed me asking if I wanted to grab a drink. Of course I said yes and that I would get back to him with when I'm free.
On paper, he's my perfect type but even in high-school I felt there was something missing. I don't know if my expectations are too high (I've had 2 crushes in 21 years of existence including him) or if I'm just not as attracted to him as I want to make myself believe. But whatever it is, my worst fear is to lead him on. I still can't wrap my head around the fact that after 4 years of not seeing me in person he's still so infatuated. I really don't want to hurt him if I end up realizing I'm not interested in pursuing more than a friendship with him. At the same time, I try to not get ahead of myself and make bold assumptions about him. We weren't really friends in highschool so we don't actually know each other that well.
Any thoughts ? Similar experiences you've had that you wanna share ? Let's start a discussion! | Crush |
Right after she starts sending those fucking snaps of her face timing him she got a new haircut today, I think I’m done, whatever. I’m just not gonna give a fuck at this point, if she get’s taken well shit. I can only continue to improve myself and find another crush... Well I’m for sure going to get buff during the summer and fuck whoever I want next year, beat whoever the fuck is in my way. Fuck this shit. If I get kicked out of school I’m gonna get ship to military school which isn’t too bad honestly. End of rant, for now I’m still a loser in beta testing but next year I hope that will change. | Crush |
Me - I'm a extrovert who makes jokes and tries to make the best of things
Crush - shes a introvert who is very shy
So there is this girl I work with and shes very cute, we've never really talked much when we both started but recently we've started talking a lot more only because shes slowly opened up to me as shes a very shy and introverted person and as her best friend has told me she only talks to a few people
Since we've been having nice convos and stuff since its mainly just me and her on the morning shifts we have opened up a little bit too eachother. Fast foward to valentines day we both worked together and because we had talked more before that on that night, I asked her what she was doing or if she did anything and she laughed and said no, then she asked me and I said no but she then said some flirty remark and when I asked her again she said oh nothing and gave me a cheeky smile
She had also opened up to me about a incident that has recently happened to her and she has only told one other person (that being her best friend) which u found strange as to why she told me since she seems shy around me majority of the time.
Just recently as well each time shes seen me when shes in a group of people such as our co-workers when they make jokes about me they laugh but she just kinda has a cute giggle instead which I found strange and she often talks to other co workers but around me she is usually very quiet (although I'm a easy person to talk to and crack jokes) just as well on Friday we talked quite a bit at work and usually when I talk to her I look into her eyes and she often loses focus and then giggles and asks what I said again, also on Friday I asked her if she was free on a certain day as I wanted to drop my car off to her serviced and try and hang out with her but she said she was already hanging out with her best friend (maddie) which was fine, now due to parking in our work area she parks on the street because she does not want to pay for parking, so because I park at staff parking I asked her if she wanted me to drop her to her car since she had to do shopping and I said I could just hang out since I had time to kill but she said 'nah it's fine' even when I assured her that it's not bothering me in any sense but after I asked her that and she declined I just went quiet for the rest of the shift (I felt awkward) however she kept trying to talk to me throughout the rest of the shift multiple times
I wasnt sure how to word this but there is more lol, I just wanted to know peoples thoughts are and opinion <3 and we also dont really text we mainly talk at work because shes not the easiest person to text to | Crush |
So I’ve liked this girl for a while. And she was my best friend for a long while - I never made advances as I’d rather still have a friend in her then have her see me as a creep and someone I’m not. She recently told me she got back with her fwb which mentally fucked me up so to hide my feelings I cut it off for a while. I just needed a break and all. It turns out me taking a break pushed her closer to the fwb. Since then we have been doing alright. Talking in person but not online. Then today she initiated us trying to fight over a rubber which meant her putting my hand and her head in some “interesting“ positions. It was 7 minutes and in public so it’s not like anything happened but I am very confused as this happens rarely but different people have given different opinions on this so I have no clue | Crush |
There’s this girl at school we talk sometimes and we have a lot in common I just don’t know how to make the first move | Crush |
A little bit of context:
(Sorry for format issues if thats a problem, I'm on mobile.)
I met this girl about 2 years ago before covid, I met her when I was late to an art class I had during school, and all the other seats were taken, besides the one next to hers.
So I sit down and the first project of the year is to make art out of your name, so the teacher can remember name, and what you would like to be associated with.
After a bit of chatting, I learn she liked Minecraft, and me being a gaming loser at the time, also played an unhealthy amount of Minecraft. Naturally, the topic got to our project, she asked me what she should do for it, (let's call her eve for the sake of the story) so eve wanted it to be Minecraft related, so I suggested that she should draw each letter of her name after a different block. For example: Let's say she wanted the "E" in her name to be the first block, I would say it should be an emerald block texture.
After learning we had quite a few things in common, and she was quite attractive, I quickly developed a crush after a couple weeks. I eventually got her username, and I added her when I got home.
One day, I decide to take a shower. I hop in the shower and when I get out of the shower I arrive back at my console to see she sent me a message. She asked if I was down to play Minecraft. I sent her a text back saying yes but never got a response.
My teacher moved our seats around so I was far away from her after a week or so since I got the message, so I couldn't ask her about it. I sent following messages almost 2 times a week on average asking if she wanted to play Minecraft. This lasted for about 2 weeks, then I gave up. (Thinking back she might have been dating someone, and just didn't feel comfortable talking to other guys)
Because our schedules were different, and since our UA's (Unified Arts) changed, I didn't really see her alot after that point.
Flash forward to present year of 2021. I'm in and out of online learning, and in-person learning. When I'm in-person, I hear she's switching classrooms and she is switching to my homeroom. When a friend (more like a guy I know) starts getting exited because he has always really liked her. (Lets call him evan, to match eve) They have always had a friendship and have known each other for awhile, so I thought that was good that he got to see her.
But I didn't realize I still had feelings for her after almost 2 years. (More like 1 1/2) When she came back I had really long hair (still do) and I had tucked it behind my hood, so my face was abstracted, plus the mask made it even harder to distinguish who I was. So I thought she didn't recognize me.
After a few hours I eventually took my hood off during a mask break outside, I'm assuming this is when she recognized me because a couple of friends had said my name around her and she thought it was familiar.
This is when I belive she was doing the "look at someone and look away really fast when caught" tactic. Because she was either looking in my direction, or specifically at me. (I like convince myself she's just looking around me.)
I didn't want to act on the impulse to talk to her because I dont want to ruin Evan's 'momentum' with her. So instead of talking to her, I just sort of awkwardly stare back when I feel she's looking at me. We will make eye contact (sort of like a staring contest) for 15 seconds. Count that out in your head right now, 15 seconds is a lot of eye contact from across the room.
I need advice on what to do. And don't say anything wild like, "do a back flip off a bridge and that propose to her at her feet." Just remember that I'm still an introvert type. Just try to give me advice in a realistic manner, or tell me I'm going crazy, and there is no way she is into me.
tl;dr:
I have a crush on a girl from awhile ago, and I think she's into me (or not) | Crush |
There’s this guy I think I’ve liked for a while now, maybe since around October last year. We first met around June, but then only really started talking much later.
He’s...amazing. I genuinely like who he is a person, I’ve never met anybody like him before. He’s kind, sweet, understand and incredibly smart. I think his intelligence is what attracted me the most.
Anyway, he’s 2 years older than me (he’s a senior and I’m a sophomore) and he’s never dated before, and people joke around saying he’s asexual (I hope not).
I somehow feel like we get each other a lot, we have this thing where we know what the other is going to say and have all these psychic moments. We literally text so much everyday, and if I seenzone him, he always makes it a point to say “Alright(my name), leave me on read :((“
Almost every time.
He remembers little things about me and always makes it a point to acknowledge my presence in a group. We often talk about books and movies, because we’re largely interested the same subjects and because of that we’re able to connect much more than I can with almost anyone else. I think we share the same thoughts and opinions on a lot of things too, it’s almost like I’m talking to male (but introverted) version of myself sometimes.
I spoke to someone who’s known him for a while and he said that he’s never seen him like this with anyone , (he read my chats with him) and said that maybe this could be the start of something? Because apparently the fact that he checks if I seenzone him is a big deal. I was on a discord call with some of his friends the other day and they were all saying that if he had to pick a favourite from my grade (10th) it’d definitely be me. I’m genuinely confused because maybe he’s just like this around everyone and it’s not just me. Help. | Crush |
She told me she had a crush on a girl. What do I doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo? | Crush |
I(19F) started talking to this guy(18M) we both mutually liked each other in highschool but there was never a right time to act on those feelings and we just drifted away and eventually lost contact after graduation. So, as of a couple days ago we got back into contact with each other after 3+ years of not speaking or even hearing about each other. Well I honestly can’t put into words the feelings I have for this guy; it feels like my body is going to explode and I can’t even remember if I’ve felt like this about someone else, there’s like a mixture of anxiety and butterflies constantly I feel like I’m gonna get sick and throw up. I honestly just want to be with him in any way but he currently lives in a different country and is coming on vacation where I am in December. I don’t know what to do with myself. He’s literally the only thing on my mind and I am thinking about him nonstop. I honestly don’t know if I’m just feeling lust or if it’s love. I don’t even want to think about it cause it’s really soon but UGH this feeling I have is killing me and I’m not sure if it’s worth having a long distance relationship or waiting for him for 7+ months. | Crush |
I'm a beta guy irl so I never pursue what I want... but this girl I had a crush on for nearly a year just sent me a snap of her face timing a guy from school who is known for never having trouble with women. I don't know what to do at this point, im 16 and have nothing a normal teenage kid need. I barely have friends, social connections, life. All I have is bitcoins, money and a brain that can work stock profitably. None of these will ever help me get her... I just feel like a loser right now and I don't know how to change or am I afraid to change? | Crush |
i've liked this guy for a long time and we used to often text. my feelings for him increased even more in october 2020 as we texted a lot (like a lot) in the lockdown. we texted a lot till around january then we sexted each other. um anyways we're back at school and he completely ignores me at school, it hurts bcoz i like him a lot and we had so much chemistry online during the lockdown wen we texted. in tutor he glances at me just a little bit but he doesn't speak to me. weirdly, i've never had a conversation with him in person, i know it's crazy. he talks to my best friend but he won't talk to me. it's like i'm a new person he's never met. i really really like him. i always think about him but i don't know how he feels
guys, why do you think he ignores me at school wen we used to text send voice notes to each other???? | Crush |
Hi everyone i think this question applies to this reddit. So my university has discord servers for our courses and in one of mine theres a student, who is the admin of the discord and helps out students and kinda acts like a TA but i dont think he is one. But anyways I've never talked to this guy but ive seen his messages and convos on the general chat of my class's discord server. And I've developed a crush on him. I know what he looks like but have never gotten help from him for any of my class assignments. I'm a sophmore, but recently changed majors so I kinda restarted it to a freshmen. He's gonna be graduating next year but i still want to talk to him and actually meet him in person instead of just reading his messages on the general chat between his friends and other students. This week is finals week and i don't think my crush is gonna be deleting the discord server anytime soon but I would still like to tell him that i like him butttt i feel like it would be sooooo weird and awkward if I did that. Like idk what to say. We're the same majors but he's already done so many more classes than me that i feel like he wouldnt want to talk to me cuz im in an intro freshmen class. I'm just asking for advice on how i should start the convo? | Crush |
So in my high school there's a girl who I'm somewhat friends with right? Well I think I have a crush on her...
We're both shy people and live semi close.
We been in high school in one year though middle we been friends in 2 years.
We talked a bit in the past about meeting each other. I know probably this isn't a good idea but I had tried to impress her. I am just awkward and clumsy while she's friends with a lot of people...
Anyways some advice and questions are allowed. | Crush |
e gang | Crush |
uh so i have a MASSIVE crush on this dude who used to be in my class in middle school throughout 6th-8th now im in high school so well,our classes changed,but not that that matters because school is online anyway,ive had a crush on this dude for 4 years now and its not just a crush LOL so,i havent seen him irl since 2 years because of covid and i only started talking to him in 8th grade which was online,through discord, the thing is,this guy is extremely introverted and cant talk to girls at all,he spends his whole day playing games,but is also somehow EXTREMELY smart,he's also a technology head \[saying this makes me feel like a boomer :') \] hes also good at football, music,editing etc. and is A REALLLY NICE dude ,hes extremely cute and tall too but he has 0 confidence,now me,im slightly introverted but over all pretty social but im extremely annoying too,my face is also damn ugly and im a foot shorter than this dude, im also really really dumb and i have the body of a 5th grader,the only thing im somewhat good at is,music. now this dude is being kinda friendly to me and he even commented on my youtube channel even tho i never asked him too (yes thats a big deal for me fml) but i think thats only out of pity :( anyway ,the only way i can interact with him is through discord and with that too,hes introverted so we can never vc T-T and idk what to do,i have a great unrecquited love for a guy who is WAY out of my league and i dont know what i should do at all, and the thing is,both of us are going to leave the school when we're in in 11th grade,so theres not much time left really,i dont think i can confess because fear of rejection ,please help me out | Crush |
Okay so this will be a longish story but I do appreciate any advice from you guys :')
Me - I'm a extrovert who makes jokes and tries to make the best of things
Crush - shes a introvert who is very shy
So there is this girl I work with and shes very cute, we've never really talked much when we both started but recently we've started talking a lot more only because shes slowly opened up to me as shes a very shy and introverted person and as her best friend has told me she only talks to a few people
Since we've been having nice convos and stuff since its mainly just me and her on the morning shifts we have opened up a little bit too eachother. Fast foward to valentines day we both worked together and because we had talked more before that on that night, I asked her what she was doing or if she did anything and she laughed and said no, then she asked me and I said no but she then said some flirty remark and when I asked her again she said oh nothing and gave me a cheeky smile
She had also opened up to me about a incident that has recently happened to her and she has only told one other person (that being her best friend) which u found strange as to why she told me since she seems shy around me majority of the time.
Just recently as well each time shes seen me when shes in a group of people such as our co-workers when they make jokes about me they laugh but she just kinda has a cute giggle instead which I found strange and she often talks to other co workers but around me she is usually very quiet (although I'm a easy person to talk to and crack jokes) just as well on Friday we talked quite a bit at work and usually when I talk to her I look into her eyes and she often loses focus and then giggles and asks what I said again, also on Friday I asked her if she was free on a certain day as I wanted to drop my car off to her serviced and try and hang out with her but she said she was already hanging out with her best friend (maddie) which was fine, now due to parking in our work area she parks on the street because she does not want to pay for parking, so because I park at staff parking I asked her if she wanted me to drop her to her car since she had to do shopping and I said I could just hang out since I had time to kill but she said 'nah it's fine' even when I assured her that it's not bothering me in any sense but after I asked her that and she declined I just went quiet for the rest of the shift (I felt awkward) however she kept trying to talk to me throughout the rest of the shift multiple times
I wasnt sure how to word this but there is more lol, I just wanted to know peoples thoughts are and opinion <3 and we also dont really text we mainly talk at work because shes not the easiest person to text to | Crush |
My best friend (crush) Wanted to do some explicit things in public but I turned it down and now she won’t talk to me. | Crush |
So there is a girl who I’ve been talking to for a while and she’s even told me I’m really cool. She took a nap on my shoulder and then bantered about how my shoulder is a horrible pillow. I try to be funny and she also tries to be funny. We both like the same things as well.
The meaning of this post is to ask if I should confess my feelings for her and how I should do it. At the moment we can only talk through phones if that helps. | Crush |
Hey so I've been working at this retail job for about a couple of months now and there's this girl that I've been crushing on for the last month or so. She's really cute, smart and more of an introvert it seems which I kinda like. The problem is she gives me a lot of mix signals she always is the one to start small talk with me and seems very fliry but each time I try to transition the conversation to something deeper she just kinda just leaves. Also I've been told that she has a boyfriend so mind you I decide to back off obviously, but she keeps coming to me randomly in such a flirty manner but never lets it go farther then that and on top of that she only does so in private never in front of other people its almost as she ignores me in public. So idk what to do cause on the one hand I could be misinterpreting her being just friendly with me but on the other hand sometimes it feels as if she kinda does like me. Soo my question to you guys is what should I do? I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable and if she has a man then maybe I shouldn't go for it but if there's a chance she might like me I wanna take it. | Crush |
Hi, I don’t need advice I just need to know if this is messed up. I’ll give you the simplified version. I liked this guy, he was kind of popular, I was the shy girl in his class. We knew the same people, so we’re were kind of confused how we only just met each other. Basically the clique thing happened and I got a crush on him. Goes on and off for multiple years, after three years my friends figured out my crush and I told my new guy friend (the guy’s best friend who has been since as long as they can remember) guy friend mentioned that the guy I like has a girlfriend. After their break up I told me, he knew since two weeks after I told my guy friend, since he told him because their best friends but no memory about it.
That’s not even the most messed up part. The guy and I were friends for about four/five months. I basically hanged with him and his friends, plus also my friends if they wanted. I always watched him play sports, but he was never really interested to do what I wanted to do. So then in February I didn’t talk to him for a whole day, because his friends accept his best friend. Then it was mentioned and the guy was like that was, “that day was a good day,” in front of me and his friends.
Then we’re alone two days later I ask if he still wanted to be friends, he answered, “yeah, just try to be less clingy.”
I left him alone for a few days, then he and I argued repeatedly. I’m pretty sure had an addiction to his phone, he was stubborn that I was clingy. He accused me of stalking, so did his friends. I wasn’t since 75% of it was me trying to talk to me, 25% was completely coincidental. Now, most people think I stalk him and still like him. I’m totally over him, just frustrated with this situation since we share schools, so I can’t completely avoid him. | Crush |
Yes its a bit weird to bit weird and this type of crush isn't very innocent but of course its just for fun.In fact its better that i even have this crush because i have been failing and this is the only class where im passing .Hes some of the youngest teacher at my school and hes got a great figure and is really hot.Sometimes i fantasize about .. Playing Pokemon with him .Ok so i feel guilty for this but its so addicting to fantasize !Idk just needed to say things .
Btw im in highschool so of course im a hormonal teenaged boy. | Crush |
My crush and I were close to getting us together.
We were amazing together, because we understood each other and laughed a lot.
Then she pushed me away, for a completely stupid and senseless reason, and now we haven't talked to each other for almost a year.
Today I saw an Instagram video of her cuddling her boyfriend, and you can imagine how I'm doing now.
Also because today I have the last and most important school exam.
Do you have any advice on how to forget it? Since it's been almost a year now and I'm tired of remembering it almost every day, hurting my heart every time. | Crush |
What made me think that my crush knew that I like him, is because I'm always dropping hints and because my friend told him once about my feelings *I'm pissed at my friend but whatever*
So today I wanted to talk to him so I decided to start a conversation and said "I was emotionally unstable so I watched a dumb anime" and he was like "why were u emotionally unstable" and then I really didn't want to tell him but he's from the stubborn ppl that wouldn't shut up until he finds out so I asked him "do you know that I like u?" and he was like "u do?" and I was like shit.
After that he asked me who did I tell, especially we have a lot of mutual friends and then he told me let's discuss this tomorrow because he have classes early in the morning tomorrow and said Goodnight to me.
I'm actually not okay that I almost pucked, I haven't talked about him to my friends for a while and felt like getting this shit off my chest here *and it helped calming me down*
I'm not expecting anything, like I know that 70% Imma get rejected anyways and I don't want to be in a relationship yet either.
I really regret wanting to talk to him and Idk what might happen tomorrow, I just hope I don't lose him.
Thank you for listening. | Crush |
Hi. So I have this huge fat gigantic crush on a girl. I began to have this crush around a year ago. I read some old conversations with me and that girl ( we dont talk anymore) and I realised that she used to like me. What should I do? The conversations happend when I didnt have a crush on her. | Crush |
I like this girl in my class. I like her really much. We share quite a bit of traits and even if we don't talk to each other every day, we do have occasional long conversations, especially in the late evening/night We often joke around and we have (only one) inside joke. Next school year, in september, she'll change school and I likely won't see her anymore.
I wanted to confess to her at the end, because I don't wanna make our friendship awkward in case she rejects me. Plus, i'm kind of afraid she'd tell her best friend, who would tell basically everybody in my class and anybody we both know.
Please help! If you need more details, I'm here to tell you! | Crush |
It's kinda different for me and I have no idea where else to ask.
First off I wanna say I (M 23) am straight and have nothing wrong with the LGTBQ+ community, but it is very awkward to be in this situation.
I don't have a crush, but my friend (M 22) does... on me... he's openly gay and I could care less, love whoever you wanna love.
But he's trying to force me to become gay or bi, I accepted my sexuality as straight and that's what I classify as, but I feel like this guy is being way to forceful and even downright rude if I refuse.
I have a female best friend who I know since kindergarten, he decided to start threatening her with violence (and I know he has a few firearms) if she doesn't back off from me, I don't want to have to be rude as I don't like to, but I feel like the best thing is the cut contact with him.
I don't know what I should do... any advice? If I have to get anything legal involved I will if it comes down to it. | Crush |
My close guy friend and I recently had a small fight, our fights last like a day or less, mainly because I felt like some of the things he said were said in a tone that seemed like he was mad at me. It really hurt because he means so much to me, I mean I think at this point I might even love him. I ignored him for most of the day, but him knowing me he put a message on his Discord status reaching out to me. "It's okay to run and retreat, but realize sometimes you're not only running from your problems but your friends too." I just kept thinking of the situation and what he said that I eventually caved in. He was on a call with our other friends but when I messaged him to talk he left and got on a call with me immediately to talk about it. We started to talk and he mentioned how he wasn't upset/he never meant for it to seem that way and that I should be more open-minded about things, that the things people say don't necessarily mean that they're saying it to hurt me. He said that seeing me act like "Oh I'm not gonna do this because they said that" and proceeded to get choked up. We had a heart to heart, talking about our pasts and made up. I've kinda thought about how he choked up a lot, everything he said and showed through his emotions has made me realize just how much he cares and protects me. I wonder if he might even love me? We really connected that night, he told me things he hasn't told anyone, not even me up until that point. | Crush |
I have BPD and it can lead to obsessing over specific people. There's this person (Mark Davis) I've been fixated on since around 2015. It's like when I saw him, there was this INSTANT interest/bond.
Ever since, it's like I HAVE to learn everything about him, even the most minute detail like his favorite color, what his medical history is, details about his job (Prison Warden) his political views, everything, and they're quite similar to mine. When I found out what his full name was, I was literally giddy and in a daze for a couple days.
Just seeing the videos he's made makes me happy, I can be really stressed out or just feeling depressed, or anxious. But then he makes me feel better. I just love how dorky he is, I think he's absolutely adorable and he's always so lively..
I haven't met him in person yet, but I hope to eventually. He isn't exactly a friendly person all of the time, he can be an asshole to people at times. I remember impulsively going full-hate mode on him when he said that he hated children. Then I snapped out of it.. I think he may have BPD himself too. But I'm still attached to him and sometimes he even finds his way into my dreams then I get upset because it seems real.
He comes into my mind several times a day, like during dinner time I think, hmm I wonder what he's eating for dinner, or wondering when he's got home from work, when he'll be sleeping and then imagining him nice and comfy in bed. I wonder how he's doing right now.
I've had these horrible nightmares where I'll dream that he died and I'd wake up literally sobbing, if he died I can't imagine how depressed I'd feel. Even now when I'm imagining him dying I literally feel physically sick to my stomach. I feel like if he died I'd have a nervous breakdown and I feel like crying right now just because I'm having to even bring that up.
Problem is...I have no way of directly contacting him and I'm not even sure if he'd want me as a friend or not. I don't know what to do and I don't feel like I want to discuss this with a doctor because I'd seem crazy and stalker-ish. I sort of consider him as... a friend? Almost. | Crush |
Ok guys finally I've made it after 2 years of internal(just thinking weather or not,but so hard and deep) fighting .
I sent to her a text message on her bday
At first it took her a while to talk about 15 min to reply back then we chatted for like 5 min about studies and things .
But the issue here is that she sometimes takes minutes or hours to reply back. Which makes me confused wether she is interested or not ,wether to continue or not.
Ik that sometimes it may start with zero interest to gf(ofc requires hard-work and caring) but sometimes this doesn't work.
A thing to be taken into consideration is that most of the time I only chatted her at night like 1:40 am here .
Meanwhile I am an introvert and first time to chat a girl, so I barely know how to chat :)
I tried articles over the internet but most of them suck and copied from each other
TIA | Crush |
Crush truly is the feeling you get when you realize as a gay guy, that your crush just flirts when they want you to do something for them. And you do it. Why do I seek this approval? Is it a result of lack of a father’s approval throughout life? They making twice what I do, and yet get me to do his hard work. And all it takes is that smile. Why? Why do I fall for this? | Crush |
I've been insecure all the time | Crush |
(Sorry for any grammar mistakes.)
Okay, so if you have followed my post awhile you might know that I have a crush on my bestfriend, and a few weeks ago she told me she liked me. I'm not sure if we're official yet, but we feel the same. | Crush |
So how come I have a crush on a girl, really cute and funny... I already asked her out and she said she should " think about it ". But besides that we talk to each other alot through gmail
2-3 months later.
I join a club she's in and I was missing out on the entire fanbase she has (obviously they also have a crush on her) and it's sending me into a confusion of if she like me at all or hates me entirely
Help meeeee | Crush |
So theres this guy that works a few stores away where i work. He seemed really cool so i decided to ask for his number. He was surprised but he gave it to me right away and talked to me for a bit, he seemed really interested and asked a lot of questions about me. I had to go so i waited a few days and texted him
So he replied a day after asking whats up and after my reply he ghosted me lol. I dont know what went wrong or if he just didnt thought i was attractive. Im just wondering why he gave me his number in the first place, i even told him he doesnt have to if hes not interested in getting to know me. But he just said i should definetly write him. I talked to a few people that know him and they all told me that hes really weird when it comes to other people (he told me that also) and everyone told me that he hates human contact and has no interest in other people. So i guess that could also be a reason lmao but im just wondering why he gave me his number then. Im just really sad cause it took a lot of courage to ask him and i would have loved to get to know him. I also had a great feeling about the situation, so any ideas what i could do or should i just let it go cause its hopeless?
Thanks :) | Crush |
I’ve been working at my job for over a year now and every day I make my rounds doing pickups and drop offs in a van. There is a woman at one of my stops that I can’t stop thinking about. We get along really well and are always being silly with each other which I really appreciate. I can’t help but light up whenever she’s around. I feel like there is something there but she gives me mixed signals time to time. Unfortunately she is in a relationship (not married) and has 2 kids. I would never make a move or anything and I genuinely would want only the best for her. It feels likes like she pulls away because she doesn’t want things to get out of hand. So I do the same as well...but it’s extremely hard to get over her since I see her everyday. I’ve been dating quite a bit but no one seems to Ignite the same fire she does. I know it’s silly and pointless I just don’t know what to do. I’ve even thought about leaving my current job because I’m tired of riding this rollercoaster of emotion. I’m the type of person that wears their heart on their sleeve and sometimes I wish I could just tell her how I felt. I would hate to live my life never fully expressing myself to her. But at the same time I don’t want her to look at me differently because her friendship is just as valuable to me. She’s such an amazing person but it’s hard for me to be around her. Any tips or words of advice would be helpful thanks everyone | Crush |
So, May 10th is the day for the World History AP exam, and I'm not so. My crush is online and she is AP, so she has to take the exam in school and I plan on seeing her right as she leaves the testing room. Here is my plan
-Around the time the students are about to leave the testing room, I'm gonna ask if I can see the counselor (which I actually am after this)
-If I see the students leaves I'm gonna go see my crush and finally have a conversation in person finally, our conversations have mostly been in text since last year, we saw each other in April for STAAR Testing but it was only a few seconds.
-If I dont see them, I will lay low in the bathroom until one of my friends tell me that it's showtime
- Finally get this over with
I just need to know, when does the World History AP exam end, like when do students get released? I don't wanna miss my one and only chance and have to wait until August. | Crush |
We’re talking now. she seems interested in me | Crush |
I was at a restaurant with my family and there was this really cute waiter. So after we finished eating I went up to him and asked for his number. He ended writing it down for me. I forgot to ask for his age, bc im 22 and I wanted to make sure he wasn’t a minor ofc, although he looked around my age. So after adding him to my contacts IG added him to my “people you might know list” and I saw that he had a lock and a date in his IG bio. It’s been two days since I asked for his number and I never texted him because it looks like he’s taken. But I feel like I should text him only because it’s one of my favorite restaurants and I want to go back without it being awkward. Should I text him or no? How do I explain that I’m not interested anymore?
Also, what do guys think when girls make the first move?? | Crush |
I have/had this super big crush on one of my best friends, a few days ago I decided that I was going to ask her out. Once I saw her I panicked and didn't do it now if I want to ask her out I have to do it over text. But.... as soon as school got over (it was my final day in high school) I got a text from a different girl that I was interested in a few months ago telling me that she was going to miss me so much next year and that she loves me. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do? I don't know whether to pursue my crush or pursue this girl who loves me (it's unclear whether she only loves me as a friend or romanticly). | Crush |
I've been crazy about this girl at work for so long now its actually making me go crazy. I've been close to telling her but I can't go through with it. She invited me to go for some drinks with some co workers and I should of said no coz its hurt me so bad. She was flirting with another guy from work and didn't show any interest in me when normally its the other way round. I got upset and left without saying anything to anyone. I feel like the only way out of this is to get over her and try not to be in contact with her
I feel like I'm being immature about the situation, I wish I could talk to her and find out how she feels but I got a feeling I know the answer.
I've unfollowed on socials and instantly regret doing it coz she might notice eventually and then I'd have to make an excuse.
Its not healthy thinking about someone this much I dunno whether to just talk to her next time I see her or keep it bottled in forever
Any advice greatly appreciated thankyou! | Crush |
She definitely saw the flower pot I built outside her window on our Minecraft world, I couldn’t tell if she was looking at it or went AFK while looking at it though
She also took her cat Dandy, that she usually sits on her bed and leaves there, and moved it onto my bed so that might be something to note | Crush |
So I’m in love with a girl that I met in 8th grade middle school and now a senior in high school. A girl I know almost nothing about, nowhere near enough to call her a friend, and yet every time I see her time slows down, but my heart beats fast. You know how in movies when the guy/girl sees the other walk by and time just slows down like if it was “love at first sight”? It’s exactly that. I wish that it was just about the looks, but it’s beyond that. The problem is that she rarely notices me and I’m pretty sure it’s just to be nice. (Junior year) It’s bad where I dated someone who was really in love with me, she was willing to change everything about her for me, and yet I couldn’t help but wish it was the one I really wanted. I broke it off because of it. It’s the shittiest thing I had ever done.
I don’t know what to do about these feelings I have for her, I’ve tried getting over them, but just seeing her or hearing my crush’s name brings all those feelings flooding back. What should I do? | Crush |
They say there is someone for everyone, but nobody shows interest in me :( Am I forever alone? ;/ | Crush |
Ok so I was talking to some friends and long story short they said it seemed like I had a crush on my coworker and we kept talking about her and uhmm yea I really like her and they think she likes me too | Crush |
Hey I was planning to.ask out a girl I've been talking to for a while now. We speak on the phone for approximately more than an hour everyday. I domt know if I am friendzoned or she likes me or what. I'm thinking no regrets right. Thinking of texting her cause I have a very bad fear of rejection. Any ideas on how I should frame my text? | Crush |
So my crush said she wanted a boyfriend and since it was August 27th I said fuck it and told her and she said "sorry I don't feel the same way at all" anyway how was your day | Crush |
So basically to sum it up somebody I knew moved away when we where in around primary 5 and I had no feeling for them, then when they came back in the first year of high school I developed feeling for her even though iv never really been friends with her.
I’m now in year 3 of high school and still have some feeling for her and don’t know really what to do and how to deal with this
Any advice?
(Side note I am also very unattractive and have anxiety) | Crush |
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I wanted to share this since I hope that it can help many of you. Back in the day, I used to argue with toxic people. However, I soon realized nothing would change their mind.
Soon, I realized the best solution was to ignore them. If I ever need advice, I always talk to family, friends, and supporters of my work who will give me constructive feedback. I would never listen to toxic people who have an opposing agenda and want to take away from my life.
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I like this girl and apparently she likes me I don’t know if I should ask her out because of lockdown and I’m going to college, I don’t know if she is also going to the same college. | Crush |
Hello !!! I wanted to ask you about one thing. The case is this, my crush and I have known each other since kindergarten and we have always coincided in all our classes and I really like him. (We have 16). The fact is that I always had a strange feeling with her and now I know that it is love for which I have been loving her all my life but now the question comes ... Do I tell her my feelings? will she wait for him? Will she take it the wrong way? I don't know what to do ... apart from that she has always made a joke that I like her best friend ... Does it mean something? many thanks!!! | Crush |
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i like this guy from my friend group and i feel that he likes me too but idk one of our friends told me to tell him because i have nothing to lose. but if i tell hik i like him and he doesn’t like me back then i feel like this is going to affect our friend group and i dont want that to happen. what should i do? should i tell him or sould i wait a little longer? | Crush |
I crush on girl who work in swimming pool, I'm just number in gym and she works there,she talk to me in first time and teach me how to swimming, so i went next week to swimming pool and find her there, we was talking good until her boss come and start rebuke because she talk to me without wearing mask, he tell her to go to his office after finished working, i back to her to ask her, she said that i made her problem , i apologize, and said can we talk another day please, idk what to do, she'll start hate me because i made her problem ?or she'll ignore me, what should i say to her next time i meet her?🥺help me | Crush |
So I'm a 14 year old boy. I'm black with glasses and I'm pretty reserved because I have a hard time talking to people. You can probably imagine I've also had trouble talking to girls I like. This one girl asked me out in 6th grade and I didn't like her at first but over time I really started to like her. We only ever texted though because I was too afraid to talk to her in person and we eventually broke up. That just made me even more anxious and now I have another crush but I don't know how to talk to her either. I know I'd have to text her because we're in quarantine and that would make it easier. I'm not super attractive though and when we were in school I didn't talk to her that much so my chances are probably slim. I did buy her a Valentines day gift and i.complemented her hair but I don't think she noticed that I like her. Sorry for the long paragraph but I could use some advice. | Crush |
So I've had a crush on this guy for a while (with like a break(?) low-level feelings for a bit bc he had a partner).
It's been eight months since he broke up with them and my crush returned and we've been flirting. Calling each other pet names, saying goodnight every night, calling each other cutie/handsome, and we have the longest snapchat streak I've ever had with anyone (month and a half away from a year). (After typing the rest of this post I just recalled I think there's an outing we want to do that I'm hoping I'm not misreading as a low-key date?)
(Good lord, it seriously sounds like we're already dating \*but I can't tell\* if it's friend flirting or actual flirting and I'm too much of a scaredy-cat to ask)
Anyway, I had a dream last night where we \*confessed to each other\*.
It started out as characters from a show (can't remember which but I remember thinking that these characters had romantic subtext in their show). Then it was suddenly me and my crush. We hugged for a while because I haven't seen him in months.
Then out of the blue, he says something along the lines of having romantic feelings towards me and then saying, "...so maybe we could try a queerplatonic relationship instead?" Then I go, "And what if I had that other type of attraction for you?" And then my alarm WAKES ME UP ughhh.
I think his wording was like this because I've told him I'm gray romantic (on the aromantic spectrum), so dream him assumed I didn't feel romantic attraction to him but I actually do.
I don't really take anything from my dreams as any sort of omen or sign (mostly because most of my dreams are batshit crazy) but like ahhhhh.
I want something to happen so much between us. And it'll probably just grow when we can see each other in person (the flirting grew most during time apart/quarantine) because my primary love language is touch. I'm so hesitant because 1 he's my apartment mate, and 2 I don't want to third wheel our other friend/apartment mate who \*just\* broke up with her boyfriend.
(Reason I don't want to tell people IRL is because of a few reasons. I don't want to make our mutual friend/apartment mate feel awkward and like she has to keep secrets from him (she knows about the crush). I don't want other friends outside of our trio to be well-meaning and play matchmaker. And I just straight up don't want to be teased for this.)
(And with my paranoia: Mon chou, if you somehow stumble across this even though I don't think you have a reddit account please have mercy and spare the teasing, I'm sure I'd spontaneously combust.) | Crush |
So there’s this girl Im really in love with we were best friends since 7th grade and i happened to move a whole state away from her and she is all I can think about. I think about going to the movies and cuddling and having fun together going to each other’s games her wearing my letterman jacket (when I get one lmao) taking pictures together her being there for me as I would be there for her like I loved when this girl was around me she made me so happy but I can’t really see her like I wish to. We snap a lot but that just makes me miss her more. her smile and how cheerful she always was she could just light up a room and I don’t know if I should just tell her to get clarity or just keep it to myself because I really am just wanting her and nobody else. I was actually visiting my old hometown where she was and I say her again I didn’t wanna leave her side but I only say her 2 times over my whole month vacation and now that I’m back she is all I can think about.She did just get outta a relationship 2 months ago tho what should I do 😕 | Crush |
guys what goes through your mind when you see or about to see your crush or the girl you like? do you like to see her all the time and do you feel happy everytime you see the girl you like or have a crush on? | Crush |
Hey guys my crush is in the same class as mine , we have made eye contact more than a couple of times. I have sent her a follow req on insta two or three times but she dint respond till a week... So should I send it to her again or I should not let my self respect go down and not send it to her
Thoughts??????? | Crush |
I am relatively young in highschool and generally have had crushes on almost all my friends but just move on after to try and not ruin my relationship with them and with the others in the friend group. I feel like I have a crush on her and wince when she talks about how she does not want other to like her, she has dated 3 others I know but the majority has not ended in the best circumstances. Ending so that my best friend one of the people she dated had a fallout with almost everyone I know. I want to try and get to know her better and be someone that she can depend on but not sure if I am the right person or if I should do so. I just don’t really know what to do. I don’t think I will live the rest of my life with this person but my teenage hormone brain thinks she looks like she got a halo what should I do? I don’t want to sound like a huge idiot like last time I did where I confessed to my crush over truth or dare (not my best moment). | Crush |
guys what makes you constantly stare at someone? | Crush |
https://youtu.be/hATR4ppKLnw | Crush |
do guys likes when a girl look at him or stare at him? and what does guys think when a girl look at him or stare at him? | Crush |
guys if a guy is always going in my workplace to eat lunch and get lunch for to go almost everday and i always caught him looking at me when im not looking and there's more signs other than that sometimes he just go there for a minutes and then leave, we work in the same place but different building and department, do you think he likes me or has a crush on me if a guy always come by to see the girl he likes? | Crush |
For a tldr, just read the last part. The rest is context. :)
At the end of last year my crush approached me while I was climbing with my friend and asked me a bunch of questions about climbing. She's exactly my type and I find her amazing, but I quickly discovered she was already in a relationship. Her ex (boyfriend then) also does climbing, but lives in another city and she was interested in climbing with me. My climbingpartner (also a girl) that I was climbing with was going to do an internship somewhere else so later I told her that I could climb with her for a while when I'd be back from traveling.
We then climbed once just before the corona quarantine, and there was excitement to climb again after the quarantine. I didn't think much of it since she already had a boyfriend, but I think she's awesome so I wanted her in my life as a friend. I also thought there was a small chance they'd break up, but I did not expect it and because I already have a climbingpartner I was in no hurry to climb with her.
After quarantine we have been climbing a lot more. Mostly she joins me and my climbingpartner now, but also just the two of us a few times. When i asked her the first time climbing again about if she had done a recent vacation with her boyfriend she told me that they had broken up and she was kind of looking for a 'travel buddy'. Just the two of us went climbing sometime afterwards and the times afterwards she also asked about when my last relation was, where i'd want to live, travel to and my climbingpartner also judged that she was enthusiastic about me.
Another time she asked me if I'd have a relationship with someone christian (she's christian, and I'm not) and we briefly mentioned both of our exes. My ex was christian and her ex was not christian. Later she mentioned regretting bringing up her ex, because now she was thinking about him and she was not yet over him.
My climbingpartner was third wheeling a lot and brought up the idea of eating at my house when we were talking about cooking. So I ended up cooking for the both of them and they and we did the same the weeks after at the houses of the other 2.
When my crush had cooked she was seated next to me, that day she had clothing that showed more skin, played a bit with her hair, touched me slightly by wiggling her knee multiple times. Dating was also a subject that day and while we were traveling to the climbinggym she asked if I was dating now. When I asked her if she'd go on a date again already, she said she wouldn't use an app like tinder already but would date a friend. Then she paused, seemed to doubt a bit and mentioned that now wouldn't be a good time to date yet. She then mentioned that she would do a one night stand. After climbing the 3 of us often do a beer before going and the two of us had done the same before as well. The third person left early and when I suggested drinking afterwards she was doubting for a moment and then decided not to this time. Yesterday, the time after that she seemed slightly more distant than usual and a bit more focused on the third person, the three of us did some drinks again, then the two of us continued climbing and when I watched her do a climbing(bouldering) problem she mentioned that I should continue climbing because it went worse under the pressure of me watching. At the end of climbing together we made eyecontact a bit longer than usual, I gave a slight smile and at the same moment she looked away. We ended up talking about some life things again afterwards when going home and also some insecurities we had in common when we were younger. My default climbing partner that I had climbed with for longer is lesbian and the girl at one point mentioned during drinks that the two of us both like girls, but that she thought that there are good looking guys that climb and also girls.
I like her and if the whole ex thing wasn't there I'd want to invite her for a date, but as she mentioned herself it's not a good time yet and because she occasionally still mentions her ex and is sending mixed signals it would probably not go well for the both of us if we were to date. I'm conflicted because I want to directly admit my feelings to her, get closer to her, but also give her more space. I also value her as a friend and I don't want that to disappear, although I think our friendship could survive a confession with both outcomes. Maybe I'll suggest that we should go on a date when she feels ready.
Any advice on this situation? | Crush |
I have a massive crush on one of my friends and every time we start hanging out again it comes back. Like I'm fine just being their friend but I think about them a lot and want to touch them a lot. Yesterday I drank a little and held their hand for a few seconds. I wouldn't have let go but I didn't want it to be weird. It was very warm, and so nice.
I think they're such a good person, so kind and thoughtful, and even the annoying quirky things are things I actually like, and some I do myself.
I can never confess though because I don't want to make anything different in our friendship, they will have an arranged marriage, and I am also not their type...or mentally in a place to have a relationship with someone.
I wish it could be different, but I have accepted it.
I just wish I could tell them how highly I think about them and how attractive I think they are in all aspects, especially when they make self depreciating jokes. I love them so much and I can never confess. | Crush |
I have a reason for it.
This took place in feb.
I started crushing on my bff who i had known for 3 years.
We were in the same class, bus so we spent pretty much a lotta time together.
I asked her out on Valentine's day and suprisngly she said yes and we started dating.
I grew extremely affectionate for her and so did she, my friends for some reason didn't like it and told me to breakup , i didn't .
They again told me to breakup or they would boycott me and on top of that my other friend told me she was using me for someone else.
I asked her about it and she said she wasn't using me.
My friends on the other hand started boycotting me and told terrible things about me and told bad words to me when i wasn't around to my gf.
Coming in depression and peer pressure i finally broke up and my gf wasn't even interested in me anymore after what my friends did.
But my friends were still boycotting me and now even my gf(who is now my ex) was.
And my friend who was the only one who spoke to me said she started saying bad things about me.
Being short tempered i was extremely angry and me and her had a major fight(i regret it).
My friend on the other hand asked her out(idk when i just got to know it recently).
This event traumatised me so much i won't have a crush ever again.
Also sorry for any grammatical or spelling errors. | Crush |
So we did it a couple times in a night, they seemed to enjoy it but I hope that they dont like me now or think we moved to fast we both really seems to wanted it in the moment. So we hung out for like a couple days and then I left but now we aren’t talking and they aren’t reaching out which I totally get could be them trying not to bother me I just hope I didn’t bother them. What do you guys think?
Update they messaged me so I think I’m in the clear | Crush |
I can't explain it but I have this massive crush / lust for my co-worker. He's not obviously muscular and in the looks department he's somewhat average but he's funny as hell. But the thing is, he's straight and I am gay. There is no scintilla of a chance he'd go for me but dammit there is something about him that I just...love about him. I swear if he was gay I'd have no problem asking him out, cooking him dinner and taking care of all his needs.
He could come in dress in a paper bag and I'd still think he's sexy as all hell. But the thing is we work together, even in the same department and I still stand by the sage advice of not dating / sleeping with people from work and I would not ask him out. I also know that even if one of us were to quit, I don't know if I could put it out there about my feelings for him. | Crush |
https://youtu.be/vC1PV2FI074 | Crush |
i saw my crush today after months of quarantine, i know he has a crush on me coz its very obvious of his body langauge he get shy, nervous, get red face, can't make eye contact when im near, looking at me when im not looking, so today one of his co worker take out a food and i get her order and he came and get food too and i say hi and he say hey hey without making eye contact with me and with a nervous sounds and had a red face and his co worker ask him are you gonna eat and he answer yeah yeah with a nervous sounds and i see his face getting red | Crush |
so for now I've been inlove with my friend for 4 years. And i don't have the courage to tell her bcz i don't know what her reaction would be. like i kbow she is single and i know through her past life she never dated a friend so the friendship won't be ruined.
few days from now i will be 21 and I'm scared to speak up like I'm kinda sure she wouldn't accept it and if she did this would my first release ever and I'm terrified of messing it. | Crush |
I posted this in a different sub but I thought I should post it in this one. For about a month I’ve been talking to this girl that was friends with my best friend. We got to hang out once before and it was fun. But I asked my friend to talk to her to see what she thinks of me because she was going over to his house because their parents are very good friends also. I asked a day later and asked what she said. But he told me that she said she was into me in that kind of way. I thought that wasn’t to big of a blow but also my best friend or bfff (best fucking friends forever) confessed to her and said that he liked her, and she said she liked him back. But she isn’t allowed to date until she’s 16 (were all 14). I have been incredibly stressed and depressed over the past 5 months even before I was talking to her. I was thinking this could help me and lift my spirits. But it didn’t. I really need help. | Crush |
So this girl from my school hits me up on insta 2 years
ago and tells me how she likes me and has a crush on
me and shit like that and she would tell me how she
would go to afterschool just so she could sit on my
desk and she wouldn't let anyone sit on my chair. Pretty weird I thought. But it was kinda cute And she was cute so I started texting her and we texted for like a week and then shit got mad dry cause of her, she never texted first and always sounded mad bored so i asked her do u not like me no more and she said no I just don't wanna bother u by texting u too much, anyways same dry texting happens again the next day so i told myself why do I have to put myself out there and go through so much effort for someone who kind of is misleading me and I stopped texting her.
But Then a month and a half goes by and my lonely self wonders maybe
she won't be dry again and i was kinda thinking about
her, so i texted her and we hit it off and we texted and
talked for like 3 months and then at the end of the third month she started being dry again and subtly hinting that she doesn't like me no more so I striked up a conversation about my friend because that’s how she actually got in contact with me because he gave her my @, and i striked up this conversation because she was always dry when I talked to her about herself or me or anything but when I would even bring his name out she would get this sudden burst of energy and text a lot about him, and she would say “oh he’s so nice and funny” and then i slowly started thinking she doesn’t like me because she saw my friend and thought he was better then me and it really hurt to see that tbh but i told myself no maybe she just really respects him. But I still stopped texting her. Then a couple weeks later i started thinking about her but this time i said fuck that I’m not falling for that shit again and i said fuck it and unfollowed her on everything so I can forget about her, and it’s worked. Then later I was out with that same friend and I was texting our soccer coach about something through his account cause I had his phone and I see her account near the top and her saying “Good morning ☺️” to him and tbh it did kind of hurt not because I still like her but because the fact she left me to go try to get with my best friend.
Do u guys think I did the right thing or no ?
(And share some of ur stories if u have gone through a. Similar thing 😅.) | Crush |
So my crush texted me and we talked for like a week. He said that it was nice of me to help him talk and asked if I needed space so he didn’t take my time from anything important. I said no and asked him if he needed space and said no. We talked a bit more and then he just left on read | Crush |
Ok. I’ve been in love about 1 1/2 times. I know that sounds stupid but, I say one was 1/2 because I was like in 3rd grade and he was my best friend. He was my crush for the longest time until 6th grade but it was more puppy love. And my 1 full love, she was my best friend. My best friend... well, she was amazing. She was really the only best friend I’ve ever had. She was really religious and she would take me to her church sometimes but I honestly didn’t care that much. So, I met her in 5th grade. Me and her became best friends on the first day we met. We just clicked right away. We were like polar opposites. I was the fat, really depressed, quiet kid who just sat in the back and got all her work down. While she was just loud, funny, always happy and just awesome. Everyone wanted to be around her. And I was literally so happy being her best friend. We hung out all the time. We were inseparable honestly. They say that you could have a soulmate best friend. Well she was literally that, to this day I still think that. We would tell each other everything, well so I thought. Then I find out that she liked my crush too (my 1/2 love). So we had a crush on the same guy but she backed me up and tried to help me get him since I liked I’m first. One day she told me to tell him that I loved him and so I did, in a note. My best friend went to go talk to him and he rejected me, I didn’t hurt super bad. I actually took it pretty well. But she went to go talk to him again and I thought that was pretty weird. I went to go see what they were talking about, only to hear “so are you going to start dating [insert best friends name] now?” I was like “what the fuck.” He was like “idk man.” Later she told me that she loved him and she asked if I would have her back since he didn’t like me anyways. I was hurt but I agreed because she was my best friend. So they start dating. She would constantly bring it up on how happy she was with him. And she would constantly talk about him and their relationship. And one day I couldn’t take it anymore. So I did the second worst thing I’ve ever done in my life. (I’ll probably talk about the 1st in another post.) I told her to break up with him or else I couldn’t be her friend anymore. She felt sad but broke up with him. (I feel really shitty about it to this day.) Anyways we stayed best friends. Then that’s when summer started. The summer going into middle school. I started getting more social media like YouTube and stuff because I was really behind on from other people my age when it came to that stuff. One day I say this gay couple on YouTube. And me being like 11, I was curious. I clicked on the video and my mind was blown. Gay? What’s gay? If only I knew... I watched video after video of this guy and his boyfriend and things slowly started to make sense... I never really questioned my sexuality. I just thought that I was straight because I thought everyone was straight. So after these videos I started questioning myself and as it turns out, I actually was pretty gay. I’ve liked girls my whole life but I just thought that I was “overly friendly”. So the first person I tell is my best friend. And the first thing she says to me is “my mom says I can’t hang out with you because you’re gay. And gay people are all going to burn in hell.” So she was crying saying that she couldn’t talk to me anymore because her mom thought I would make her gay and fall in love with her or something. So she tried literally everything to change my mind and convince me that I wasn’t gay and that it was my choice. She’s tell me that I was going to burn in hell if I didn’t change my mind. She said that my family would disown me if they found out and that I’d lose all my friends. I didn’t want to lose her as my best friend so I agreed and went along with it, telling her that I wasn’t gay. Until I found Shane Dawson’s coming out video. And BAM! Everything finally makes sense! I was freaking bisexual! I kept it a secret until we started middle school. I told her and she was meh with it. I could tell she was kind of uncomfortable with it but not as upset as when I said I was fully gay. Everything was ok for a little bit. Then she started pulling away from me after, we would get into fights from time to time and she would pull away even more. Then she found a new best friend in our class and she slowly just stopped talking to me. I was really hurt when she stopped talking to me. Especially since she got a new best friend right away. It really showed how replaceable I was. I couldn’t find another best friend or any other friends because to me she was literally the best of the best. She was everything I wasn’t. She was so joyful, she was funny, kind, smart, popular, happy, beautiful. While I was quiet, shy, unknown, ugly, fat, depressed, alone. She was literally the most perfect, beautiful girl ever. And that’s when I realized... I was in love fucking with her. After I figured that out I would write poems and I wrote letters about my feelings. And one day I decided to tell her. After months of not talking she texted me. We talked a tiny bit and I asked for her help. I asked if she would help me give a letter to someone very important. She agreed and I met with her the next day after school. She asked who it was for and I gave it to her. She said “oh.” And I told her to read it at home. The note wasn’t fully a confession but it went along the lines of how I couldn’t really live happily without her in my life because she meant a lot to me. She was a really special person in my heart and I cared about her and her friendship a lot. My heart was pumping so hard the whole time as I waiting for her text me. I heard a ding. It was her. I read her response. “I read your note. Some people told me that you’ve been writing letters about me. Saying that you love me or that you want to be with me. I just want you to know that you’re freaking disgusting. And you’re going to burn in hell. Lose my number and never talk to me ever again.” So... yeah. I didn’t feel anything at first. I just said ok and that I’d never love anyone like her again (Pretty bad response, but I was in 7th grade, give me a break.) She blocked me and that was the last time I ever talked to her. She told her friends and they took her side so I was basically the disgusting creepy gay girl that was going to burn in hell. I had an extremely rough time after that. I just turned so, bitter. I was hurt. Broken. Extremely suicidal. (I’ve been suicidal since like 3rd grade.) I was in so much pain. And I just hated her so much for what she’d done to me. All the pain, suffering, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts and hurt she put me through our whole entire friendship. I just hate her so much. And I told everyone that I hated her. But it’s just because I was hurt. I was really really hurt. The one person who I thought had my back. The one person who knew everything about me. The one person who I thought cared about me. The only person who I thought loved me. And for her to just- leave. And to say all those things... I was just a really broken person after that. And no matter how much I tried to convince myself that I was over her or that I hated her, I still really loved her. I loved her a lot. And I continued to love her to this day. I’m in 11th grade now and I still have love for her in my heart. I don’t love her love her, I got over her in 9th (which is still a very long time). But she still holds a place in my heart, no matter how much stuff she put me through in and out of our time together, I still have loved for her. So yeah. That’s the story of my terrible experiences with love (I have a lot more but I’m not going to write them in this post. It already feels like a wrote a freaking book with this post.) So thank you for reading if you read this at all. Tell me what you think if you have any thoughts about this crappy story. Hope you have a amazing day😗👍 | Crush |
and this man comes in every day no fail to buy 5 king pin wraps. AND THIS MAN IS SO FIIIIIIIIIIIIIIINNNNEE. well. i just cant get him out of my head i really cant, and i think hes into me too! he laughs at all my little jokes and a friend of mine who was hanging out at the shop with me told me he was totally checking me out! sooooo today i decided to make a move, but christ idk if this man is busy our interactions are short and sweet but i taped my number to one of his king pin wraps where he will deffinetly see it. i hope he texts me ahhhhh 😂😂😂 this is the first crush ive had on someone in such a long time. | Crush |
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