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First attempt
She was questioning if she even liked me
Second attempt
She said she liked me but her parents wouldn't like it
Third attempt
She agreed and that she would hide it from her parents cause I made her fall in live with me
I love her ❤️
(Also has has big honka honkas) | Crushes |
Well I'll try to keep it simple my best friend we'll call him "T" just confessed to me that he likes the same girl I've been interested in for multiple years now and Is going to the movies with her tommorow, and I don't know how to feel about it like on one hand I wanna be jealous but I also wanna be happy for him but i just don't know please give me some advice on how I can handle this. | Crushes |
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These last years i don't have time for getting my crush to like me and the worst part is how i keep her on me like so she don't move on to other guys . Btw we study in the same class Abt 4months and she's one year older than me (17m) | Crushes |
I know this may seem like an odd or stalker-ish question, but today I was at a job shadow for school and in my group was this girl. I couldn't take my eyes off her she was just gorgeous. I could also tell that she had interest in me as well but of course I was too scared to ask for her number or anything. So now I am asking is there anyway I could find her socials so I could talk to her some more? I've tried searching her name and stuff but I can't seem to find anything. | Crushes |
So these last years i can't have time to give attention to my crush and worst thing is how i keep her. i mean texting her every hour so she will not just move on to another guy or idk finding that am not interested on her | Crushes |
I've not been feeling confident recently and I feel as if I'm not doing a good job at this. I told her this but nothing works. Add that with the fact a guy she liked is coming back after Christmas break and now my confidence is even lower. Also, a few weeks ago she was talking to her friend about an ex that started to retry contact with her. Once again, I'm not feeling confident and feel as if I'm not doing a good job at talking to her and crap. I feel as if breaking up is the only good option for myself as I wouldn't care afterwards. But I don't want to do it. What do y'all think? | Crushes |
There's this girl I like at school and basically, I don't have any classes with her nor lunch periods. I see her after school though sitting by herself, but I don't know how to approach her so pls someone help me out. | Crushes |
This girl is no where near as refined as my crush, but I feel if I have some relationship experience it will really help getting me out of my shell. Now don't get me wrong, she's bat shit crazy, but she's in my price range. | Crushes |
I recently reached out for the time in a few months and complimented my crush on his smile. He also seemed interested in wanting to meet up in the future.
Then I texted him again and he called me bruh at one point during our conversation for the first time in 4 years since we've known each other.
How should I interpret this sudden behaviour? 😂
We're both gamers and he's inexperienced with relationships, is it a good sign or not? | Crushes |
Finally decided to do something about my hair (which is atrocious) and get a French bob! I think it will look good on me, since I have an oval-shaped face, and I have wavy hair. I think I'd look really pretty with it, and I also want to start taking better care of my skin!
The reason why:
I want him to think I'm pretty 🥺👉👈 | Crushes |
There's a guy I've been considering asking out but I don't know him very well. I am nervous to ask him out but need some advice on how and a Failsafe if all goes wrong. Any suggestions? | Crushes |
Does anyone else feel depressed and tormented because they know that their crush will never like them and you will never be good enough for them. | Crushes |
So we've been texting with eachother for like half a year, but we've never actually talked in person, recently we've been talking about losing touch with our friends, and since we talked about it I've seen that she's been alone a little more than usual
Should I go up to her to see what's up amd try to hang out? I don't know, it seems weird to try and talk to her if we've never really done it before, especially if she is by herself
Plus, even if both of us don't have any friends, I do know that she does have a boyfriend, so I don't want to risk messing something up for them, even if it's unintentional
I don't know, I'm probably being overly sensitive about it, but it seems like it could end up badly somehow if I try to be her friend
And I know how this might seem, but I'm not trying to get in the way of their relationship or anything, I just want to be friends, but I'm just not sure if that's a good idea considering I might become her only friend besides her boyfriend, and that that might negatively affect their relationship | Crushes |
So I showed my crush some things I'm working on and she said it's really nice and that I should keep working on it.
Ahh it made me so happy 🥰 | Crushes |
Shes gone for the rest of it and I have no contact with her. Today was the first day it was slow and it sucked all I did was miss her. I | Crushes |
A boy in my algebra class, about 1-2 year older than I am (because in HS you can be in class with literally anyone), is one of the only people I find attractive in the school I go to.
I first started paying attention to him when I noticed his hair (I have a thing for noticing you if you have nice hair). Next was his face.
Face wise he is probably a good 7/10, he is quite good looking if I say so myself.
Third was his smile, it's so nice to see, he definitely enjoys himself and has fun.
Last is probably the fact that he seems to be a good person, I can not back this up as I have not talked to him myself, but he appears to be a social butterfly with how much he talks to everyone in class.
I just think he's so pretty. My crush on him is probably a 3-4/10 on feelings scale, it would either raise or lower itself depending on how he would be if we actually talked. | Crushes |
this is so corny but i [f20] have a HUGE crush on a guy at my job (don’t know his age bc ive never spoken to him). well actually i have spoken to him but it’s only work related. it’s sorta a fast paced typa job that i have so there’s never rly time for “small talk”. we work in different departments and i sometimes have to go to his department to ask for things. lol anytime i have to ask for something and i know that he’s working i get sooo excited on the inside bc that’s my lil excuse to talk to him. even if it’s jus for like 2 seconds i just look forward to talk to him☺️☺️. he seems nice too… but the bad thing about me is that i’m so awkward when it comes to making eye contact with him. in general, eye contact just makes me REALLY uncomfy. but i try my best to look him in the eyes whenever i walk past him. just to kinda give him hints that i think he’s cute. whenever we make eye contact i start smiling rly hard and i cannot help it😭😭 but since i wear a mask at work it probably isn’t that noticable (thank goodness). like i don’t want him to think that im laughing at him or anything!!!! i just get happy when we do look at eachother. anyways that’s it… just wanted to talk about my work crush bc i don’t rly have anyone else to talk to abt him💔 | Crushes |
So yeah, a couple days ago we texted with eachother about losing touch with our friends and stuff like that, and I've wanted to use that to see if we can start hanging out irl, since so far we've only really talked via texting, so I wanted to ask if she'd be cool with it
But recently I haven't seen her at all during out schools lunch or break, she hasn't been hanging out with her friends or her sister like she had been up until we talked about it, so now I'm not really sure what to do, since my plan was to go up to all of them and ask her if it'd be ok for me to sit with them, since honestly at this point I've just kind of wanted to make friends with all of them, though still mainly just her and another friend
But I'm not sure, it seems a little late to ask what's going on, and especially too late to ask if she'd want to hang out or anything, since we had that conversation like three days ago at this point
I'm just not really sure, I just hope I didn't cause this or anything by bringing this whole thing up with her
I don't know, I guess the advice I'm asking for is should I try to ask if she wants to be friends or something like that? Because I just don't know, I'm not going to be able to have a relationship with her as a boyfriend or anything like that, because I'm pretty sure she just isn't interested in me in that way, but I'm not sure if I should bring back up the fact that neither of us have friends for the sake of trying to become friends
It's weird, because I see her going to her classes, but she's nowhere to be seen other than that | Crushes |
We were sending each other tiktoks for a while and I took a look at her account and all the videos she made, which are from some anime she likes, which I thought was very cute
After a while tho I looked again and I saw she privated her account, then she asked if I had checked her profile and a wave of emotions just shocked me; she privated it because she was embarrassed
I told her I hadn't just so she wouldn't overthink it or worry about it but that honestly just made my day, although I'll try to tell her that I find it cute she does these things she's passionate about and not to worry about what I think of her
She's just so damn adorable | Crushes |
I realized how crappy her personality was but know that I don’t have a crush I am kinda bored😐 | Crushes |
I have a problem. Every time i tell my friend I think someone is cute or that I might possibly have a crush on them she suddenly notices them and acts totally different and annoying when their around. It’s like she’s the one with a crush on them. it’s been happening a few times. And it’s starting to make me mad. One time she embarrassed me in front of some guy I was talking to (he liked me and she knew too bc I told her)and she kept saying stupid things about me to the point that even my crush wasn’t laughing anymore. I don’t know what to tell her and I don’t want to get mad at her bc I feel like she does it subconsciously sometimes. But it’s starting to make her look bad. But it’s not just with me in general. She thinks every guy is looking at her and she also gets their attention in stupid ways when she was even in a relationship. Ik I probably sound like a hater but I just wonder what’s up with her. | Crushes |
I asked my mom this question and she said that it is because he is hiding something from me. But I kinda stalked his profiles and they look fine. Idk what he could be embarrassed about. I also noticed he has added his other friends (both males and females) but not me. I want to add him but I am scared that he may not want me on his media profile :/ | Crushes |
Theres this guy ive known for about a year and half now, recently we started to be super close, physically and emotionally.
Tho i think we both deny the fact we like each other, as everyone else thinks we are a couple or should be.
Hes in the same school as me but as stated, in the year below me. We are the same age currently (16), when i talked my friends about this they got disgusted by the fact hes a year below me, Is it really that embarassing? | Crushes |
fr tho, i'm almost 100% sure she likes me back but i constantly feel the need to ask people if the signs she gives me are good or not even when people already said that she probably likes me and i should just go for it.
like bro, i know for sure she would probably be happy if i ever tried to talk to her once but everytime i think about doing it i just start overthinking and get insecure and i just end up giving up lol.
also doesn't help that i've (probably since i'm not sure yet) have a deadline before she goes away | Crushes |
Okay so basically ive been liking this girl for ages (see my other posts for more context) and i just wanna text her and ask her if she wants to go out for dinner, a coffee or whatever
shall i be a man and just fucking do it? | Crushes |
let's also say that you've had a few nice interactions with that person but for most of the time he was kinda rude? | Crushes |
I guess this is kind of a two-in-one question and vent session.
So I (23F) have been in a class with this guy (18M) since September, but we've been talking for a bit over a month. Lately we've been hitting it off really well. I got the idea to see a play with him, and we then went back to my place and cuddled a whole bunch. The next time we hung out, we also cuddled and started giving cheek and forehead kisses before we both just said screw it, admitted both of our feelings, and went for some real ones. He's just so cute, and I feel really good when I'm around him. So safe, like for once I don't have to watch what I'm saying all the time. Even if I completely butcher what I was going to say, he'd be thinking along enough of the same lines that he'd still get it. Ugh, I'm getting all sappy just thinking about him now.
But the question at hand. I'm someone that really doesn't understand how modern, adult-age dating is supposed to work. Like, do people decide that they're dating after a few dates or so? I know some people out there even expect sex on their first dates, so what would you think of as going too fast? For the record, I don't think I'm moving too fast in my situation, because we're both just doing what feels comfortable and calling it a situationship for right now, with the intent of getting to know each other even better than we already do. | Crushes |
I dont know how to propose her | Crushes |
Can ppl pls msg me and say that I'm nit totally hopeless please. Right now I feel so bad and luek I'll never have a chance 😢 | Crushes |
I often hear and read about people not wanting to approach their crush, not wanting to confess their feelings, not wanting to take that risk because the thought of rejection scares them. And I get that. It is difficult to find the courage to do something like that, make yourself so vulnerable.
*But isn't not doing so even scarier?*
Isn't the thought of never asking, never getting that answer and never knowing how they feel about you so much scarier? What if you two had the potential to get to know eachother. To start talking and hanging out. To share secrets, desires and aspirations with eachother. To fall in love. What if you have that chance, but discard it by never doing anything about it? How much regret will you carry if you never dare to approach them now? How many times will you sit and wonder about all the things you perhaps could've done, but never even made an attempt to achieve? Could you endure that?
Is that not even scarier than the risk of rejection?
The risk to never experience that future. | Crushes |
Bye guys. Hope you guys don't end up like me :((( | Crushes |
Pretty sure we both have a crush on one another but we have never said a word to each other. Well today I'm thinking about talking to her but what do I say?
We're both High schoolers if it helps. | Crushes |
So my crush and i were talking about crushes..
It started with me saying generally that apparently people never forget their first crushes.. he said neverrr..
And then I said that but in my case, idek who my first crush was.. He said it must be on some BTS member (he knows I'm into KPop), to which I replied that it wasn't the case and that I was talking about school crush.. And then he joked if I remembered my college crush.. I asked him back what he thinks about it.. He answered that obviously I'd remember since college isn't an old thing (we're in the same college rn).. I replied with a yes..
Usually he uses a lot of emojis on almost every text, this text was a bit dry from him.. and he usually was replying quite fast and it suddenly is so quiet from him..
I guess I ruined all my chances with him.. idk what he must be thinking.. he isn't replying, I'm dying here... 😭 | Crushes |
I missed him so much! I can’t wait to see him again one week felt like years. He just makes me so freaking happy and every second that I’m with him it just feels like I’m in heaven. I just want to hug him when I see him but I know that it would probably be weird 🥲so I guess a handshake will do. Also I’m a guy and crushing on a guy so I have zero intention of confessing anytime soon. I have zero desire to be rejected. I’d rather have him as my friend than to not have him in my life at all. | Crushes |
Ok guys, so I just realized how sweet and pretty a girl in my class is and I’d like her to be my girlfriend. I’ve recently started to talk to her as we’re now sitting at the same table. I see her every other day in 2 classes.
Any advice for her to fall for me?
And keep conversations flowing?
(I know it’s cringe to be asking the internet for advice but anything is helpful!) | Crushes |
I’m going on a date with my crush tomorrow and I’ll confess my feelings too!
Wish me luck | Crushes |
he is my senior in university and we have some classes together. we sit tgt during those classes and study tgt sometimes. i rlly luv his personality and little things he does. but later i found out that he has a gf and now idk what to do or feel… | Crushes |
My only way to contact her is on internet, seems dull to ask her out, like ordering something online, what if she doesn't respond? I would feel like a fool | Crushes |
So ive liked this guy for over a year and a half now, and ive known him for much longer (11 years). As soon as I realized I was catching feelings he got in a relationship with another girl. Thanks a lot universe you really helped there 🙄. Anyways, fast forward to the last couple months, there’s two things ive noticed, 1, is that he is ALWAYS complaining about his girlfriend when she’s not around. Im thinking its very possible he is losing interest in her but is too scared to break things off. And omg THE WAY HE FREAKING LOOKS AT ME! Its not just a simple “oh, its just a coincidence, you caught his eyes on you more than once within the hour”, he literally stares at me in a such a mesmerizing way, and I know its him and not vice versa because I can sense that he’s looking at me, so I’ll look, and he is and then we make eye contact. Or I’ll look somewhere above his head and use my peripheral vision and see that he’s looking at me so i dont necessarily have to look at him back to know that he is. And every time he laughs at something he looks at me. I mean EVERY TIME! And we dont talk much because he’s my brothers friend but sometimes he’ll try and ask me a question and he gets sooooooo nervous every time. If he ever breaks up with his girlfriend should I make a move?? | Crushes |
I’m a 27M, hopefully people can follow along with this story…
I coach high school basketball at my own high school. A few days ago we had an out of conference game against a team who wasn’t very good. I was doing the scorebook that night and at halftime one of the assistant coaches came to ask a question.
I was stunned when I saw her because I didn’t see her before the game. She’s absolutely beautiful. Tall, brown hair, glasses. She apologized for bothering me to which I smiled and said it was no problem. At the end of the game we shook hands and then went our separate ways.
Wow, of all the places to be crushing on someone… I am surprised. A shame I didn’t pay attention for her name during team introductions. | Crushes |
Every time I wear a semi good outfit I never run into my crush, no matter how hard I try I never do but when I wear the most ugliest outfit ever I see him everywhere, like yesterday I was wearing a cute outfit and I really wanted him to notice me so I walked by the lunch line he’s always at but I walked by too late!!! Because by the time I got there he was leaving, would of been easier if I had at least ONE class with him | Crushes |
We're in high school. Knew her in classes, and helped her with some stuff. Didn't really make small talk or anything. She thanked me. Anyways a week later we were on a field trip and the bus was full so she had to sit next to me. Made talks, jokes, she laughed a lot. She asked some basic questions for example, where I'm from and what classes I'm taking. She asked for my Instagram.
I chatted with her every few days, talking about school (nothing personal) and initiated most of the conversations. She never texted me first, only once for asking help with homework. She seemed enthusiastic, called me smart multiple times when I told her my grades, and sent a lot of haha texts when I told jokes and she called me funny. But the thing is that I never talked to her face to face again after that day in the bus.
Anyways it has been a month. She looks like she's losing interest, replying hours later (she's busy, right? Yes she is) to a day once (now that's weird) and right now, just got seenzoned. She was absent today so maybe she's sick and doesn't wanna use her phone much and take rest instead? But nevertheless she still has that enthusiastic texting style.
I don't know if she likes me or not but I wanna make a sweet gesture and get her a candy gram with an inside joke written on it. Would that be weird/creepy? | Crushes |
So I just confessed to my longtime highschool crush, we still talk sometimes in chat we are in college now. But just found out she already is in a relationship but she said I was good and she appreciated telling her. It hurts to lose someone I genuinely liked being with and felt natural being with. | Crushes |
I (M23) like this girl (F19) really much and I think I had a clear crush on her before but lately I don't know if I'm losing feelings or just don't focus too much on this crush feeling.
Like I still wanna go out with her and do stuff with her because she's important to me, she's like super nice and supportive and I can always rely on her.
I don't know what I'm feeling I'm so confused lately and I don't recall have someone I can talk to ab it | Crushes |
I know that's bad but how bad is it should I try to move on and I know she's been on snap chat because she viewed my story I'm just not sure what to think | Crushes |
Hello users of Reddit! I (24 f) have had this crush on my best friend (24 m) since high school and now I officially want to tell him but I’m not sure how to.
It’s been an off and on kind of crush for me and it started when we were in high school and he randomly kissed me one day, no warning just went for it. Nothing happened for months after (we both got into separate relationships) but later that year after both of us were single again he would make it a point to hang out with me in school(and after school). Neither of us at the time wanted anything serious, just wanted to get our past relationship out of our mind so we would have casual make out sessions here and there and he became my first time for lots of things. I never asked how he felt about me in that time because I didn’t care but my friends did, so they asked (even though I told them not to worry about it) and at that point in time he didn’t recuperate feelings for me.
My feelings for him decided to return when he decided to leave for basic training and I wouldn’t see him for a while. He was stationed in the same state so we still got to hang out when he came home and we still talked even when he was deployed. Both of us were involved with someone else for a time while he was in but it never worked out. We of course respected each other and didn’t try anything when the other person was involved with some but we were always there for the other when it fell through.
Like I said he is my best friend and aside from us having more of a fwb type of relationship we care for each other and we rant about life together and we help each other when needed and here in the last few months since we’ve been hanging out more I’ve noticed my feelings returning for him more intense than they have before. I feel like I’m at the point where I’m done with guys who aren’t sure what they’re wanting and are just “going with the flow”, he knows what he wants his future to be and I want to be apart of that with him. He will be leaving for this school in March that is way out of state and once he’s finished he could go anywhere in the world and part of me feels if I don’t tell him before he goes he won’t come back here. (Logically I know he would because his family is here but how often would he come home?)
So my question for you all is, how do I tell him about these feelings without ruining our current friendship? And when should I tell him? I don’t want to wait until the last minute but I’m also still unsure when the best time would be.
Thank you all for reading and for any advice you have for me!😊 | Crushes |
Hey all!
Here's some background to [my current situation](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/zflmk4/okay_ill_give_you_space/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) with him. Given the fact that he has left me on read, I'm going to give him space for some time.
But I've been thinking: when should I ask him to meet up?
I'm honestly scared after this lukewarm response. I was thinking about meeting up with him for lunch - something casual. But I feel like if I ask him too soon, I'll just make the situation worse. | Crushes |
How was it? How did you feel? | Crushes |
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So right now, I am kinda close to this girl... Problem is we are both akward when we meet IRL since we dont kno wat to talk abt but when it come chatting online, we go on forever. Not only that, another guy is interested in her. He is more extroverted than i am, and easy to talk too... What should I do, i sometimes dont have the confidence to just go for it and talk to her, and sometimes overthink stuff :( | Crushes |
I have a crush on an online friend and we have been friends since 4 5 months. He says i am a close friend of his but not as close as other online friends which I think is because some mistakes i made. For me, he is kind of the closest friend I have ever had. He had been going through a rough patch and during that time, i ranted a lot on him about loneliness and not having irl friends like it would happen every 2nd or 3rd day and the convo used to make a full circle and end with me asking whether i am important to him or not or considers me a close friend. I also sometimes questioned him too much about how much he texts other online friends, what kind of a bond he has with them plus late replies which is his usual habit. He did feel frustrated and he once said i am deliberately rushing things to be closer to him. Idk i used to feel quite insecure and overthink a lot. I used to feel like he doesn't share much about what's going on his life with me himself without me asking whereas i overshared. He once said in a tough convo that i question him about every small freaking thing. We've had tough convos, we used to reconcile. Rn it is going fine but it still hurts a lot that he does not feel that close to me. Is this probably due to the mistakes i made or the personal direct questions i asked him? How can I improve the bond between us? What am i supposed to do about this friendship? I do not want to lose him as a friend and ruin things at all | Crushes |
me and my friend (both 15f) have been best friends since june and i love our friendship but i think i’m starting to like her and she thinks she’s starting to like me. neither of us know what we feel and she doesn’t want to like me. i don’t think i want to like her either. i would love to date her but i also love being best friends with her and i don’t want to ruin it. i’m scared of change, i’m scared that this will ruin our friendship, idk what to do. liking your friends is the worst :( | Crushes |
She’s a genuinely nice person and we talk quite a lot and sometimes I feel like she really might feel the same way but I notice that she’s just like that with everybody. What do I do? | Crushes |
Okay, this gonna be long, sorry for that.
I attend university where I met with this guy. I'm 19 (f), he's 18. At first I thought I dislike him, but after a few weeks I realised that I don't, at all. I started to catch his gazes on me on lectures, and then we shared about 20 minutes alone at a party where we talked about random things. He also hold my hand for a moment when I told him that I'm from the same era of the country as him (we're both living at the countryside). It was in October, since then I barely spoke with him. In November we had an orientation evening with my university (at a pub) and when I was about to leave, he said that he also says goodbye to me, and he hugged me (after one other boy also hugged me). However, we kept having these eye contacts in the middle of the lectures, almost every single day. This week I needed to go on the same way he did, so we used the metro together and we talked during that time. And one more thing about the eye contacts: we were writing a test this Tuesday, and the middle of it, I felt like he was watching around me, so I looked at him, and our eyes met. After a moment I looked somewhere else, but because I wanted to be sure if he was watching me, I looked back, and that was the moment when he also checked back, and we had eye contact again. We were in a pub last night (with others too) and I told him that if it's okay to go with him (I didn't want to go alone midnight, and he lives next to the train station), and he said of course, but he won't wait the train with me if it's not a problem. I of course said that it's not a problem, I didn't expect him. And then I talked with a boy, who asked am I living in college, and instead of him, it was my crush who replied "no". Then we left, used tram for less than ten minutes, and I thought he would go home for now, but he said that he will stay with me until he smokes a cigar. But then he lightened another one as well. Then he said "let's go down to buy a ticket for you", and at the end, he waited the train with me. And then hugged me. He waited with me more than half hour, and we spoke about so many things, typically about "everything and nothing". He also shared with me that he is actually thinking about that he will join to a monastic order. I wrote to him afterwards to thank him for waiting with me (I would have written to anyone), but he didn't reply anything, just left me on seen.
Is there any chance that he likes me, or I'm just a hopeless romantic person, and I romantize everything in my head? | Crushes |
I (M17) have a huge crush on a girl from high school (F18). We met last year in AP class for first time and now we are really close friends, we matched some of our schedule for current (senior) year in HS. I sometimes think she likes me too, but I’m so confused rn.
Some of the Positive signs I got:
- Sit together during study halls and academic preps
- tells me she is currently enrolled in some classes because of me
- went on field trips together and had lunch together
- take pictures together
- prefers to work with me during partner projects
- prefers sitting closely
- shows interest in my hobbies (aviation)
Negative Signs :(
- told me she had crush on a guy in middle school
-she is friendly with most people
-not really friends out of school
(Had to post from secondary account for obvious reasons) | Crushes |
I’ll go on a date with my crush tomorrow. I’ve been talking to her for around two months. I asked her on a date and she said yes. Do you guys have any advice for me? | Crushes |
So I have a huge crush on this girl in my class. But interacting with her is mission impossible because our school is quite seperate about gender. And she usually only talks with her friends. I can't even make a way out of this because in my class everyone sits boy/boy and girl/girl. I sit across the class from her so talking with her is not possible normally too. I am too scared to talk to her. I have had feelings for her for 3 years now. What should I do? Should I approach her or give up? | Crushes |
So I (F,23) met this guy (M,28) about a month ago through this fitness club. We clicked right away and started talking via instagram rather quickly. I find him really attractive but I am not looking for a relationship right now.
One day I told him via text that I felt attraction towards him, but that I also like this kind of friendship going on between us. He gave me an half ass response, that I understood as him not being interested in me. He told me we would talk about it in person. I am okay with this answer even though it touches my ego a bit.
Since then we still talk ALL DAY EVERYDAY, and I am confused on why we keep on pursuing this proximity if he doesn’t want something with me. I already see him almost 4 times a week to workout, and we started hanging out with friends on the weekend.
Please enlighten me because I don’t want to make false scenarios in my head, but since I was the one who bring the matter first, I feel like I should wait for him to talk about it again. | Crushes |
Nah what is this?? I was studying in the library and my handwriting was flawless when suddenly my crush walked in and I panicked and it looked like one of those heart rate monitor things | Crushes |
Recently, I took the initiative to ask my crush to play a duet with me. I know both the violin+ piano, whilst he knows the piano.
I play the violin while he plays the piano in the duet.
During lunch time, we skip eating and both go a to a room with a piano-- just us, alone. We play till the bell rings, and go back to the classroom together.
After school, we play again from 4 till 6, and walk home together, with the yellow lights dim on the streets and a dark blue sky.
I am happy.
~1-2 months till my confession. | Crushes |
As I said in my last post (that was 24 hours ago, apparently I am down bad and desperate,) I (21F) have a pretty big crush on my friend (20M).
I was going through some text conversations that we've had because I literally can't stop thinking about him and I found a few where he got very angry/verbal about how awful my ex was for treating me the way she did; we generally talk pretty much every day and even so I can't help but want to spend time with him. I feel like I'm a puppy waiting for a person to get back from work, whenever I see him online I get excited and happy. I'm just afraid I'm wearing rose-tinted glasses and am interpreting everything wrong.
We play video games together all the time; our friend group has also recently gotten into watching movies together at night. He's pretty quiet whenever we play with friends of friends or people we don't know as well but he's ridiculously talkative around me and another friend of ours. I really can't tell if he just sees me as a friend or if he even ever could see me differently. | Crushes |
Welcome to the overthinking zone, where I need help. I told my friend about this and she said that the guy probably likes me. I decided to get a few other opinions too, so let’s go.
(He’s a year older than me btw)
When I went over to their house, a guy I’m friends with (I rarely see them after they moved) kept grabbing my attention. By that, I mean that he kept saying my name so I could look at the video game screen. Mostly because I said that I had that game, but never finished it.
Also, my cousin and I were sitting next to each other and he sat between us. It’s not a big deal at first, because whatever. But when he got up and went to sit back down, he squished between us even if we barely had any room now. P.S, a lot of the couch is empty.
If this isn’t a big deal, it’s whatever, he could just be nice. But I thought it might be fun to get some opinions. (We are in highschool btw.) | Crushes |
This sounds stupid as I write it, but could you just let me know? I’m pretty sure they are just super friendly, but might as well check.
A guy I’m friends with (one year older) lives a few hours away from me. I went up to visit them, since they are my younger cousins neighbourhood friends basically.
Anyway, he kept trying to get my attention when he was playing a video game and stuff. Oh my gosh, this sounds more embarrassing as I write it. But he also randomly sat close to me during a movie we were watching with everyone. By close, I mean literally squished between my cousin and I while a lot of the couch was empty lmao.
Sorry, I overthink a lot. I’m so embarrassed. If it’s not a big deal, I’ll just ignore it. | Crushes |
My crush calls me potato and meatloaf! Sound I take that as a compliment or something because I think it's cute ! He also calls me his wife but says he doesn't want a relationship but says we're partners! He seems too scared of commitment or something happened to him! Help ! Please | Crushes |
Hello Reddit users, I (24 f) have been crushing on my best friend (24 m) since we were in high school. What started off as a simple kiss turned into something more for me but I’m not sure how he feels. It was mentioned a couple of times in high school about how he felt but he never recuperated the same feelings. (At the time it was more my friends being curious how he felt, but I wasn’t interested in a super rushed relationship since at the time I had just broken up with someone else, and I just wanted to have fun)
He became my first with many things including my first intimate time and since we’ve gone down this friends with benefits road, I haven’t mentioned my feelings because with us still being good friends I didn’t want to risk loosing that. My feelings have also not been constant until recently when we’ve been hanging out more consistently in the last few months. We’ve both dated other people and respect the other when we’re dating or in the talking stage with someone else but then if it falls through we’re back doing our thing. He is planning on going back to school in March way out of state and part of me feels he won’t move back once he’s out, at least not for a long while since his goal is to travel the world while he can. He served for a while so we’ve don’t the out of state and out of country thing before and it never effected our communication or our relationship as fwb and his whole family is still here so I know he would come back but probably not to stay long term.
I don’t want to risk our friendship because we’ve been friends for so long and I love him as a friend but I would love something more. Our personalities match well with each other, we have the same level of humor and nothing is ever forced or weird between us. His family (especially his mom) loves me and invites me to things like cookouts or just to hang out.
So the question I have for you Reddit users is, should I at least try? And if I should, what is the best way to bring it up? I definitely don’t want to wait until the last minute but I’m at a lost and really unsure and nervous about his reaction and what he could possibly say.
Thank you all for reading and for any advice in advance I really do appreciate it!😊 | Crushes |
there’s this guy who’s rlly cute and in one of my classes (that I skip all the time) but whenever I see him he just stares at me for a long while, even if he’s already with one of his friends and idk why, I don’t know him at all and I don’t talk to him but when he stares at me idk if it’s judgmental or not because the thing is he’s your average cute blonde white guy but I’m a plus size goth girl. since I’m goth I’m used to people looking at me but not staring so if anything I’m worried he’s looking at me in a bad way. Also I thought and worried he had a gf or something bc he used to be around this blonde girl a lot but I haven’t seen her at all for a while and that’s when he started to stare at me. what do you think and should I do anything about it or just let it be?? | Crushes |
For the past few weeks shes been giving me signs that she wants me to talk to her like prolonged eye contact everytime we walked past each other and i would catch her looking at me from across the way. I kept waiting and waiting for the perfect time to talk to her but it never came. Now she doesnt even make eye contact anymore when i walk past her and i tried to talk to her for the 1st time today. She ignored me for a couple seconds even though i was right in front of her. She said only 2 words in that 10 second conversation and wasnt interested in keeping it going. Is it too late to try to talk to her? Did i mess it up? I wont see her for almost a week and its killing me inside | Crushes |
So we went to drop off this guy and as he was getting off the guy told my crush to take care of me because I am his future wife lol. My crush then laughed and told me what he said was funny. He never brought it up during he car ride but I wonder what he really thought about that interaction. | Crushes |
we are at the same school but she is 1year older than she was my childhood friend after 6years we met again and i suddenly have a crush on her so i have been talking to her everyday for a week now (over text) but i'm not the to always start the conversation and she didn't share anything about her personal life is it because we just talked? should i keep chasing her? should i stop texting her everyday and and give her some space? please help.
btw this is my first time talking to girl and yes i'm dead serious this is literally my first time | Crushes |
i am a freshman (14) and i didn’t realize i had a crush on a senior until after i started talking to her on IG. considering the huge grade gap i have lost all hope for the future of the relationship. is there anything i can do to consider the problem minor or is it a problem with an inevitability of failure? how can i safely convince her that dating a freshman isn’t bad? (assuming she thinks that) or is it bad? | Crushes |
So my crush is giving me confused vibes! I had a crush on him for 4 months now and he knew it but acts like he don’t have idea 💡 whatever long story short! I see him more around me nowadays but he isn’t as friendly so that I can approach him! I am sad we have communication issues so just can’t do anything other than just staring and making it awkward! I want to move on but it’s impossible to avoid I tried but not happening it hurts ! I saw him talking to a different girl for the whole break time that too standing! It was hurting me so badly and just want to forget him! Help me please😓 | Crushes |
I just wanna gush about him | Crushes |
so, we had another rehearsal today. i leaned against him more than once, so that could be a step in the right direction. he played a few songs for me upon request. we also solved a puzzle together during lunch. he had encouraged me to eat even though i had no appetite. he still seems oddly distant though. i don’t know if i’m doing something wrong. i asked him if he wants to go out on friday so we’ll see if i get a yes | Crushes |
im trying to get over this girl because she is my ex and we dated a year ago but its just so embarrassing to have a crush on her and i really really want to lose feelings so bad because i feel like this wont end well | Crushes |
So last night we were comparing our jackets to each other since I'm small and he's bigger, I put on his jacket which was big on me no surprise and he tried putting on mine but he couldn't. I left his jacket on until another friend and I were about to leave his house and my crush even asked if I was leaving with his jacket, we like giving each other a hard time so I said yes then snatched his hat and put it on and walked out the door.
He followed me outside and tried to convince me to give him back his jacket and but could keep the hat, I don't go down without a fight so we went back and forth until he just grabs me and hoists me over his shoulder and carries me to our friends car, when he set me back on my feet we fought each other for the jacket until I gave up and let him take it off me.
Lol might have lost the battle for the jacket but he let me take the hat instead, he even said that it looked good on me. | Crushes |
I'm 24 f. I don't know how old my crush is, but he's probably a few years older than me since I'm a 2nd year grad student and he's a 5th year. I've known him for a year and a half, but we had very little interaction until recently. He is really hot, even dreamy, but I have not heard from anyone in the department that he has a girlfriend/boyfriend (can't rule out any possibility yet). Let's hope that he's into girls and he's not hiding from us that he has a partner already.
I got a crush on him partly because I sensed that he liked me. I sensed his attention on me. It was very subtle but it made me think about it for days until I realized that I got a crush on him. (But my brother told me that it might just be a coincidence and he actually has no interest in me so IDK). He doesn't like to talk a lot. He is usually the listener in any group setting. I don't talk a whole lot, either, though more than he does. When I talk, he usually says something immediately as a response, which is kind of rare for his personality. He also seems to remember small details that I have said before. This made me think that he might like me. He shared something (not anything secret, maybe this just shows that he really doesn't like to share or brag) with me that I later found out that no one else in the department knows. But other than these, he doesn't really text me and when I text him for school stuff, he replies slowly (10 hours and more). I have not texted him for any personal stuff yet. It is always about a school project or something like that. He did say that he would like to go to lunch or dinner with me some time over the winter break, but I don't know if he said that because he was being polite or because he wants to spend time with me.
He is hosting a party at his house in two days. I don't quite know how to behave. Should I try to spend time with him and to hint that I like him by interacting more with him? Or should I be cool and behave as if he is just a normal friend? I go back and forth on this sooooo much. Plz help. | Crushes |
So…for context of the person I’m writing this about is on my other post but…I just found out I my be the problem of confusion in my weird ass “situationship”
I apologize if this is too long, but hear me out pls
Short story, me(19f) and this boy(19) met last month and at first we were gonna go on a date, then he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship and he may be gay instead of bi, and I found out I wasn’t ready either, then aft we hung out 2 times he said he’s been going thru some sexuality issues and he is bi and MAYBE demiromantic or emotionally distant
We’ve hung out almost every week and we JUST met last month, but I’m starting to fall for him
I’ve met his fam, and we keep making plans to hang out all the time, and I was beginning to understand that we may just be only friends forever, but then there r times when he makes me think otherwise and it hella confuses me, like us always hanging out, having these deep convos abt ourselves, him wanting to help me out in so many ways, him buying me some small things, meeting his fam even tho his friends of yrs haven’t even met them.
But usually with relationships they never work out well for me, I just found out I’m demisexual which makes so much sense in why I’ve never been in a relationship b4, and my little sister even told me that my anxiety is making me not see some signs that r there, but I really don’t see ANY
This guys also uses the word friend a lot, like how he just wants to be a good friend to me, which makes me definitely think we will be nothing more…but then my sister pointed out that I may be the problem, and the one who’s causing a bit of confusion.
She said he may think I’m not interested in him anymore which is why he’s just trying to be a good friend now, especially since he was down to go on a date with me b4. And as I started thinking abt it…I may be giving that vibe bc I think he isn’t interested in me AT ALL so I just want to be there for him as a friend at least…so now idk how to go abt this
I don’t want to talk to him abt it yet bc it’s still too soon for me…but I definitely know I like him, and now that school is over for the semester, I’m kinda in the mindset for a relationship, but idk if he’s ready for one yet, or if he even sees ME as a potential partner… | Crushes |
She is very cringe and I like her for it, AMA | Crushes |
Hey, so I have a greenhouse/horticulture class for my elective at school and I've recently started developing feelings for this one girl named Makayla. Well she actually has two names (I know, she's one of those) Makayla-Marie is her official name but she just goes by Makayla.
So I wouldn't really say we are great friends but we are smaller friends. Like we say hi to each other when we pass by in the hallways and we talk in class sometimes. She usually calls me "Prets" which is my last name and I call her "double M". And to the people who are wondering why she calls me by my last name instead of my first. Idk, I mean I don't have a problem with it and she isn't using it as disrespect or anything so I don't have an issue.
So today was the first time we've actually hung out mainly throughout class. So since it's more of a plant class I guess we went out to rake leaves as a class? So we all went out to the front of the school in a little grass patch to rake the leaves and shovel them into wheelbarrows for... Idk something I imagine. And I was hanging out with Makayla and some of her friends throughout it as we were mainly messing around.
So even who we've known each other the whole school year I've only started gaining feelings recently, so here's what I'm gonna do. I'm going to wait until the end of winter break to see if I really do like her or if it's just a feeling I'm having for a few days then I'll ask for her Instagram. That'll also give me more time to know her before I ask for insta and potentially give her more time to gain feelings for me too if she doesn't already.
She's so amazing, wish me luck with this and I'll update this when I do get her Insta. | Crushes |
is it normal for me to have crushes on a lot of my teachers? i'm a 14 y/o girl and i always seem to fall for my older male teachers. idk why really, but i think i just get too attached to them. none of my friends have crushes on them, and they said that i'm being weird and stuff. if this isn't normal, how can i stop liking them so much? it's to the point where i'm basically obsessed and can't stop thinking about them lol | Crushes |
So yeah, a couple days ago we texted with eachother about losing touch with our friends and stuff like that, and I've wanted to use that to see if we can start hanging out irl, since so far we've only really talked via texting, so I wanted to ask if she'd be cool with it
But recently I haven't seen her at all during out schools lunch or break, she hasn't been hanging out with her friends or her sister like she had been up until we talked about it, so now I'm not really sure what to do, since my plan was to go up to all of them and ask her if it'd be ok for me to sit with them, since honestly at this point I've just kind of wanted to make friends with all of them, though still mainly just her and another friend
But I'm not sure, it seems a little late to ask what's going on, and especially too late to ask if she'd want to hang out or anything, since we had that conversation like three days ago at this point
I'm just not really sure, I just hope I didn't cause this or anything by bringing this whole thing up with her
I don't know, I guess the advice I'm asking for is should I try to ask if she wants to be friends or something like that? Because I just don't know, I'm not going to be able to have a relationship with her as a boyfriend or anything like that, because I'm pretty sure she just isn't interested in me in that way, but I'm not sure if I should bring back up the fact that neither of us have friends for the sake of trying to become friends | Crushes |
I had a crush on this girl for a couple months, so after some encouragement from friends I finally worked up the courage to confess to her. She rejected me, saying she never had feelings for me, or anyone for that matter. She also later told my friend that she was not a relationship person.
Its been 3 months since the rejection, but I still cant get over her. We're still good friends and talk and text each other quite a bit ("Besties on Snap, which hurts a bit). I've tried avoiding her but that's near impossible because we are in the same friend group.
I wish i could get over her because I feel not great everytime I talk with her and Im not proud of the pangs of jealousy and sadness in me whenever I see her talking with my guy friends.
Any advice would be appreciated | Crushes |
TL;DR: I am pretty confident in myself all the time but whenever I try to talk to my crush all of my confidence just fades away…
I would call myself a very self-confident person. I am confident in myself, my abilities, I think I’m pretty attractive, I am chubby in some areas, but mostly in my lower half so idc. I talk to people relatively well, I have lots of acquaintances and close friends. Almost the whole school knows me or knows my name and I am a pretty good person to talk to (it took a while to develop this skill, but eventually learned after quarantine).
Anyways, when I realized I had a crush, I thought it would be easy. All I just have to do is get to know them a little bit more, hang out and do more stuff, and then I should be on the right page… No.
Every time I am next to him or plan to start talking to him, I feel like a mouse. Like my whole nervous system just shuts down and I start quaking and quivering at the thought of talking to him.
And it isn’t even like he’s a popular guy or anything, if anything, I would say he’s kind of a social outcast, not a lot of people like him because they think he’s annoying and weird (all the things I love about him).
I’ve read article after article, video after video, and I still can’t get over this extreme phobia of talking to him. I know he doesn’t hate me, I know he sees me as a friend, I know he isn’t scared of me or anything- but whenever I’m interacting with him in any way, I feel like I’m gonna fuck up and he’s gonna hate me. I know he won’t but that’s just what my brain is doing now… | Crushes |
I have a really big crush on a girl that I’ve known for a few months now. We text a lot and im wondering how obvious/overt I should make it that I have feelings, or should I be more subtle? I know it comes down to personal preference and everything but I just don’t want to make the wrong move. | Crushes |
Were both 15 | Crushes |
Ok, I get that its a big step. So what? If they are your friend and you like them, what's the harm. If they stop being your friend then they weren't worth having to begin with. And if its someone random, what's the harm there either. Say, "Hey, I like you. Wanna go out sometime?" There is nothing more attractive than someone who KNOWS WHAT THEY WANT. Make a move, of you get shot down now you know! | Crushes |
IMPORTANT BACKSTORY
we started talking mid-November and the first week and a half he seemed super into me and would text me all day super engaged but then thanksgiving break and stuff happened and he texted less but I didn't worry. on the 30th we planned to hang out after school (i asked) but we couldn't come up w anything to do so the day of we just walked around and eventually we stopped at this place he knew and he bought me ice cream and i feel bad because i asked to hangout and idk if he likes me but i did offer to pay so i think i shouldn't i have to worry abt it. ever since then he always leaves me on delivered but is active, never texts me but jst snaps, never seems interested when we do text, and i always interact w him first (snap, text, say hi,etc). idk him that well because we just started talking and we never have chancs to talk in person (and he never texts me), i dont feel comfortable just going up to him and talking to him in class and i cant just text him randomly so idk what to do. in a few conversations when we talked all the time, there were slight hints of me liking him and when we started talking i think it was kinda obvious we weren' talking to be friends but bc we were interested in eachother (and technically it was him who started our first actual conversation)
tldr; we talked alot for a little, now hes super inactive
ACTUAL QUESTION
the weeknds are usually when my best friend spends he night but theyre busy so i thought i could ask him to hangout but no that he's not rlly seeming interested idk if i should and i want to ask tomorrow or tonight bc i feel like friday or day off is way too last minute. idk what we could do tho (common issue) and i had thought that we could hanguot at my house bc we had talked abt my room (he said he thought it was cool bc its in the attic and i have art everywhere, draw on the walls, etc) and i smoke often and he said that he ikes to and we could smoke here and hangout but i also think its too soon and idk him like that to hang out here. I'm desperate for advice
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im sorry if this was worded horribly or was super messy, im bad at writing and putting my thoughts into words
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I like you so much. You left without saying hi. I will enjoy the break but you'll remain in the back of my mind, wondering if you're thinking of me too.
I don't know if you're on reddit, but if you are, it'd be nice to get some confirmation. Have a safe break | Crushes |
Me and him are both freshmen, but we go to different schools.
I play chess with him every Wednesday in the library, he’s a pretty cool guy and always manages to beat me in chess 🙄 but I don’t know how else to get closer to him. It’s because for some reason, he doesn’t have any internet access and I find it hard to get closer when we only meet up once a week and play chess for like an hour.
I wanna be penpals but I don’t wanna make it seem weird and ask for his address you know? | Crushes |
Thiers a free class we have together that's for getting work done but normally most people just talk or go on thier phones and i see her on her phone a lot would it be a bad idea to take to her during that time I don't want to be rude and she sits pretty far away so I would have to stand up to talk to her. | Crushes |
I know this has been asked 1000 times on this thread, but it’s a legitimate question.
I thought I had the secret: pretend he’s taken. Pretend he has a girlfriend, so he is unattainable.
But it didn’t work. I gushed to my therapist about him yesterday while feeling nothing but shame for the things I was saying. I know he doesn’t like me back, but my feelings can’t just seem to stop. I’ve been trying to slap myself back to reality but it doesn’t work.
God, I’m a fucking idiot and I’m so embarrassed I still have a crush on him. I feel crazy and I don’t like it.
Honestly, I wish my feelings had a switch so I could turn them off and forget this stupid crush ever happened.
God, I’m so stupid. | Crushes |
When I asked another question about that game you played, you just left me on read.
It's been a few days now and I kinda get the memo now. I understand, a childhood friend pops up after 3 years in hopes of restoring the relationship you two once had and she suddenly so curious about your new life. It must be a bit shocking.
I'll give you some space. I'm so sorry for overstepping your boundries.
I'll just play it cool now. I'll keep posting status updates so if you wanna talk again, you can do so. | Crushes |
I (20F) am so in love w my brothers friend (18M) and often hang out only in groups, I have a decent body count so I'm not new to game but he's very,, anti fap I dont need a women I get horny once a year (exact quote💀) kinda guy.
I do every little body language cue almost every chance I get, I'm always moving hair or a speck of dirt off his face, texting him stuff that reminds me of him, brushing up casually against him when I can, yk enough for him to know I'm interested but not be creepy at the same time but idk if he gets it or I'm being rejected, I painted him a painting for Christ sake! Ik I sound delusional with all these little cues but trust me if I flirted any harder I'd basically be throwing myself at him.
A few months ago him and my brother were talking exclusively about why my brother gets IDed but he doesn't and he literally said, "I guess I just look older, I think thats why your sister hits on me, she must think I'm her age" we are 2 years apart and born the same week, but idk he prob said that 6 months ago and now the past few weeks we've been hanging more than ever, always as a group. My brother used to hang out w more homies (who all liked me) so it was a running joke I'd give my "crush" the most attention bc he couldn't care less either way and the other guys would be convinced I was giving them more attention. Well now my brother doesn't hang w anyone except me and <crush> and I don't think it's a joke anymore.
Tmrw I'm doing shrooms and I just know I'm going to try and pull my rizz as hard as I can, but I also don't want to sour the relationship If he's not reciprocating.. then again he doesn't necessarily pull away either or try to hang w my brother alone. I think he's just like a virgin or something but this crush is so wholesome it's not fueled by lust or dating for once I genuinely just want to hold his hand so bad and talk to him all night but I can't seem to break the stupid barrier.. pls helppp.
If ur gonna say "just tell him!" don't comment bc it'll just ruin everything and I genuinely have a lot of fun with them and don't want to sour the relationship between my brother, his best friend, and I. I'm not opposed to finding a playful way to kiss him and play it off but something that bold would be rapey bc I've been given no "green lights" that go beyond regular platonic love. & For anyone wondering my brother doesn't care I like him, has joked to me about us getting married and being a good couple.
pls helpx2
tl;dr I think I have a crush on my brothers best friend but I have no idea how to articulate this to him | Crushes |
I have feelings for this person but I think I’m being friend-zoned. So I’m just wondering about some of your opinions to see if I’m right 😭 Tysmmmm | Crushes |
I was at work yesterday and she came up and started being all flirty. She then said that her Birthday was in few months and subtly suggests that I get her roses etc in a playful way.
Any good ideas on how I can ask her out in addition? | Crushes |
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I(25F) met him(24M) last year during his study abroad here in my country. We became instantly close and became best friends even though he only stayed here for 3 months. After he went home, we still kept in touch through very casual and friendly texting. Over the holidays, I decided to travel and did an 9hr layover in his country. when I told him, he traveled all the way to the city (5hr bus ride) just to spend time with me and even picked me up from the airport.
After my holidays, he visited my country again day after I landed and I let him stay in my apartment the whole time. I initially thought Its only platonic, but I’m starting to get confused. After he went back home, we’ve been texting/calling nonstop and has been planning alot of traveling together in the future.
Right now we don’t talk as much anymore because he’s currently occupied with his military service but what I find cute is that he calls/texts me when he can during his break time in camp (still in contact everyday)🥹🥲 We’ll travel to Eastern Europe together this December but i still don’t know what he feels about me 🥲 does he like me or is it just friendly gestures | Crushes |
I have a crush on a friend of mine. We met about 3 months ago and she's a colleague of mine. That's the biggest reason I am skeptical about confessing my feelings to her and even decided on giving up on her, cause if it goes south, it will really affect whatever we have right now and I really don't want that to happen. But then I sometimes feel like she too likes me back and here I am in search of answers.
She is a very shy person and doesn't really talk with a lot of people. But that isn't the case with me even though I haven't known her for more than 2-3 months. She sits beside me, initiates almost every conversation, and laughs at my dumb dumb jokes. I would say there's a bit more physical contact than I myself would have expected between two people at work. Usually it's me lightly touching her hand or very lightly brushing my hands past her hair. I also have worn her hair tie as an armband several times and she likes it (don't know if this means anything though). But yesterday we had a meeting and we were seated in a conference room and even though the whole sofa was empty she came and sat right beside me, leaving no space in between us, our arms and legs literally jamming into each other's. Sometime after that she even kind of leaned on me just so much that I could feel her weight on my body.
After work we went to her place and she suggested we watch some romantic movie which she had already decided on. The lights were off, and streetlights were the only source of light in there. We were lying in her bed, again side by side, no space in between. All of this was her suggestion. I could feel that she wasn't being her normal self. It felt like she was having the same conflicted feelings about me and the situation we are in!
Also a few days back, we were at another colleague's place and were really drunk, when I got up I had my hand over her, across her stomach and she knew about this, but didn't do anything. I apologised the next day saying sorry if I crossed any lines and she said it was cool. Now she's a very kind and sweet person so I am not sure if all of this is just a friendly thing or something more.
Am I reading it wrong or am I just way too dumb?
Sorry for the bad English, not my first language. | Crushes |
I wanna tell my crush I love him.
It’s gonna ruin our friendship.
I want more.
I want to tell him.
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