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So I have been talking to this girl for a few months now. We go to the same college (we're 16 yrs old) and we have been friends fir a while. More recently (in the last couple of months) as well as talking in person we have messaged every day on sc. She has had a very rough childhood and I'm the first person she has ever opened up to about her trauma. I asked her why me and she said because she trusts me. Every day we message and every day she says 'love you' or 'ily' at the end of most conversations. I reply the same back now. However she does say love you to a lot of people so I don't know if it really means anything.
I've noticed that we only ever really talk about her. I only realised this when she asked a question about me today for the first time ever. Is she using me for sympathy/pity and to trauma dump or is it more than that. I think I have fallen for her a little. Please let me know your thoughts. | Crushes |
So i (16M) have been crushing on a girl (16F) since the last few months and all ive done so far was follow her insta 3 weeks ago and since then i have never actually gotten myself to even Text her (i mean i never did that to begin with) but i really want to tell her how i feel because im not sure if anybody else is gonna try their luck and i dont want to hate myself for not trying it but i also stop myself everytime because i always come to the question "what if she already has a bf?" Or say "she probably doesnt like guys like me anyway so i shouldnt do it" to myself
Obviously the reasons i tell myself stuff like that is that im rather unattractive compared to other boys and shes attractive (atleast to me) and i dont know if i ever gotten signs because i never actually got them ever or if shes just not interested
We dont really know each other but we both know who we are (she knows how i look like and knows my name also has a friend whos also befriended with me and same way the other way) but other than that we dont know much about eachother (atleast from my side) because we only share 1 class
So i want to get Encouraged to finally do it and Text her (still think if i should just straight up tell her i have a crush on her or just try to find out more about her) mostly because we dont have much more time anyway and almost graduate in just a few months now
Or maybe just Text my friend to tell me what she thinks about me/what he thinks about us and if we fit or get her actual number from him which would either be weirder or less weirder than DMing on insta
Wow this is an long Text
Tl;Dr i have a crush but we barely know eachother and i want to get Encouraged to just ask her out or find out more about her | Crushes |
I confessed to my close friend early March and we ignored eachother for half a week. Then we went back to being friends. It turned out they ignored me because they were afraid of me being uncomfortable (which was why I ignored them). We started talking again (as friends) and we make jokes about how I like them. The thing is. All our mutual friends tell me they like me and that they never actually said no to me.
Here’s what they said to my confession:
“I’m sorry I left you on delivered, I promise i don’t hate you. I’m going to be completely honest with you, there’s a lot going on right now and I don’t know what’s going on in my head nonetheless how I feel, I’m sorry.”
I took this as a kind way of rejecting someone. But everyone disagrees.
I mean. They do blush a lot and are very nice to me, very physically affectionate with me in particular. Especially after I told them. Their sister makes jokes about us dating and they always jokingly say ” shut up “
They sent me song Recs that kind of could be about what happened with us when interpreted. They also call me oblivious and tease me.
The thing is. Last week, they ignored me completely. Didn’t talk to me at all. They left me on open for hours. This week, they spoke to me like normal again and we would text/talk all the time. They even let me touch their hair which they rarely let others.
One time I was saying how I can’t ask anyone out on dates because I have no money or transportation, and they told me that I should ask people out instead of waiting to BE asked out. Idk if this is like an invitation for me to ask them out? | Crushes |
i dont know but theres a feeling in my mind and my heart that im falling apart, i suffered a deppresion like thing at past and it was going away while i was in school vacation, im still in vacation but like i cant find any reason to live a one more day, not because of my crush(probably is but i dont feel like) its that just everything repeatative and i feel like i suffer everyday because of my crush. I remember embarrsing things i did while there was my crush or to crush and i remeber that i cant be with my crush cuz i understand that she did understand i liked her and move away, im in vacation now so that feelings mild but when i go to school it increaseses its intesity by 500% and it makes me think and think more and more and more... in class i cant seem to move away whatever i do. I tried to get a hobby and that just increased my pc addiction, i tried to move away from her but i quickly realized that i cant move away from her cuz shes in my class, tried to open to my firend but that just maked my friend just tease me about it. HELP I NEED HELP PLEASE END MY SUFFERING PLEASE PLZ AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH :( :( | Crushes |
I overthink too much but recently I’ve realized my crush has no interest in me. (shocker) He doesn’t talk to girls at school but he’s popular amongst the guys.
He used to stare at me but then he heard about my bf (now ex) + he became friends with someone who doesn’t like me.
I talk to him about school and stuff with a smile, making fun of him for not doing his work and he gets embarrassed and smiles back. He doesn’t get mad at me for making of him and he continues the convo a little.
I asked him for his ethnicity a while ago and he asked me for mine, but answered for me and I was confused how he knew where I was from? I never directly told him and when I asked how he knew he just smiled.
Idk if it’s worth pursuing because even tho I’ve had convos with him and he’s had perfect opportunities to talk to me, he never does. I don’t wanna chase after something that doesn’t exist, maybe he isn’t as shy as I thought. Any advice? | Crushes |
There's a long story between this lovely person and myself. I don't plan to share it all here, but I will if asked or PM'd. Let's just say we hang out about weekly, grabbing dinner and watching movies at my place. We've hit it off since November. We like similar movies, music, and have sometimes flirty and deep conversations.
Problem is, she's making the big push to the end of the semester and that means she can't hang as much as usual. Of course I wouldn't want her to sacrifice her good standing with her classes and extracurriculars just to make time for me. Please don't get me wrong. She has said she wants to watch movies and such once the semester is over, which is great. I've been in "falling in love" mode for a week and it's maddening. I do want to let her know I miss spending time with her though. She's done something similar before last month. We hadn't been out in two weeks due to being busy then she went on a trip with her family for her birthday. When she got back, she texted that "It feels like forever since we last hung out!!" which made my heart flutter. So I want to say something in that vein just to let her know I'm looking forward to it.
I'm clearly lovesick and crushing harder than I have before. I also know how some of this may sound. It's hard to express all of this through text alone. I'm happy to hear your advice, stories, and encouraging words. I guess I just needed to share. Thanks for your time! | Crushes |
I met this guy a year ago. He used to always want to be around me and always texted me. He showed alot of signes and I think (not sure) he liked me. But recently he doesn't anymore. After he stopped doing all of this I caught feeling for him. Today I asked him out as a friend and he said he didn't have time. He also said that he got a gf a week ago. I really feel like I missed my chance and I just feel stupid for not seeing the signes. So yea, i was too late. | Crushes |
I, 24F, have never been in a relationship, never dated, etc. Throughout my life, I’ve had plenty of crushes but I never had the balls to do anything about it. Within the last year, I’ve moved out in my own for the first time and have become more interested in dating (I’ve always been a hopeless romantic). I’ve always carried the misconception that meet people and fall in love like in the movies. I’ve learned that it isn’t like this at all. I’ve tried dating apps and I truly hate how superficial they are and the way you must sell yourself to another person.
Anyways, there is this guy in my class who I think is super cute. We haven’t really talked outside of group work or the occasionally “how are you?” but I’ve had a strong desire to get to know him because he seems like a really sweet guy who I’d get along with. Well, this weekend I decided I’d send him a friend request on Instagram, which it seems neither of us really post on there, and I don’t follow anyone else in our class, but I digress. He sent me a follow request back, which I accepted but I just can’t get out of my head about this decision.
This might seem so simple, but I’ve never done anything like this before, so I keep overthinking it and feeling like he will think I’m weird for following him. I don’t think he has a GF, and I don’t have any close girlfriends that I can discuss this with.
So, am I weird for sending him the request? What do I do now? I feel so embarrassed, because I have literally no idea about dating culture. | Crushes |
I ve known this girl for almost 10 years , been colleagues since first grade.Since then we’ve been very close , friends but sometimes more than friends.We argued and didn t speak for 1 year and half then stared speaking again , being friends ofc 😕and at a time we were “besties”.But all this time i had a crush on her , for years.Now we are distant even if this year has been grade we don t talk that much anymore.She now has a toxic life that i dont like and i don t know what i feel anymore.I just don t want to like/have a crush on her anymore and i keep talking to myself “i dont like her anymore” sorry for my bad english , not my primary language. | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this boy for three years now, started out the first year I got into my new highschool. He is from the upper grade so for the first year I had no hope of getting to know him as he was kind of my hallway crush. Come the following year I found out a friend of mine (not very close one though) had become friends with him and from there one I knew that was my chance. I found a way to get introduced to him and for a while we were even friendly. He even came to a party we had organised, and by the end of the night he was literally begging me to go with him and some of his friends to watch the sunrise together. I didn’t, doesn’t really matter why. From then on he was quite friendly, I went to a concert with some of his friends that he invited me to, but never properly hung out, it was the summer, everyone was on vacation for the most of it. Come fall we had another party at which I was gonna shoot my shot but had to leave early. I know he asked about what had happened and why I had left but nothing further. And after that we kind of drifted apart, we don’t even say hi to each other. It has gone as far as us standing next to each other pretending not to optics while I talked to his friends (I’m still friendly with them). Now of course half of the blame for that is probably on me but the situation is that and now I’m wondering how to change it. Not saying all of that to prove he likes me back, nothing such as that . It’s more so so I can show he liked me at least as a friend, but hey it’s a start. I may have appeared a bit cold in my attempt to play it cool with him and given him the impression I don’t like him but I can only change that in the future. Anyways I’m genuinely lost on how to even strike up a conversation after months of not talking but it’s worth the try so if you have any tips. I would love that because I really am lost. He might not like me and that is totally fine but I need to at least get rejected so that I can move on .
But firstly I have to get back to talking to him, situation I don’t know how to approach without coming across as creepy or out of the blue considered all of the above. So, any tips? | Crushes |
All I do when I’m with the boys is talk about her. Hate how I’m so obsessed, is this something I should be worried about? She doesn’t know I like her. We’re just friends. Wanna know if there’s any guy (need a male perspective) here thats equally obsessed over someone but still managed to end up dating them. | Crushes |
I love her blankets | Crushes |
Teenage boys are so confusing 🙄🤣
So my crush and I always walk outside together every other day because of the block schedule. He goes to his car and I go to the bus - I'm a freshman and he's a sophomore.
On Friday, we were walking down the hall and we were talking about the Mario movie 😂. There was this guy waiting for something or someone towards the doors.
When we get up there, the guy smiles and says, "I didn't know you had any friends." My crush doesn't say anything, and I can't see his face. Then the guy says something like, "you drive a big red truck, so I assumed you had no friends."
Anyways, could this mean anything or am I just over exaggerating 😅😆.
Also, we've only been talking for a while and I still dont have his phone number. How do I casually say like, "do you want my phone number?" Or should I give up; he's not interested? | Crushes |
How do you guys get the confidence to ask someone out? I’ve always been a bigger girl so asking someone out is something I’ve never had the confidence to do. I think my friend is gonna ask him if he’s single and then I’ll go from there. I don’t think I can do it myself 🫢 | Crushes |
Well, lets begin... I (25M) don't know what to do! Never had some experience with a girls, flirting etc, cause I never thought that they are interested in me. I had very bad self confidence in the past because I was fat and had no social life. But in the recent years, I managed to get myself up, lose a lot of weight and started building up some confidence.
Until couple of months ago, I've never really had a crush, I liked some girls but never developed feelings like I do have now. I just can't figure out does she like me and if there is room for some romantic feelings from her or just friendly. We've been going in the same group in our university classes and hang out in a group of people in between classes. We always laugh, joke around, have some intern jokes, but never alone and always in a group of friends.
She always look me in the eyes when we talk, with a smiling eyes, sometimes we share a look when something funny or interesting occurs. She started texting me about some tv shows that I recommended her and about stuff that we had to learn for Uni. After all these signs, I even got some courage and started sending her DM on her Insta story and she always seem to reply with laughing emoji and some comments that are friendly. We even went to grab a coffee, she invited, but with a group of friends after classes.
After all that I wrote, someone might think, she likes you and you should go for it, but my head, my doubts don't give me any peace. First thing that bothers me and gives me doubts is that she never "likes" my instagram stories. I'm not sure how important are social networks for her, but I don't think its a good sign to not even put a little heart on that thing. Second, I feel like we don't have any more topics atm for texting and we haven't actually had any text for days, don't know what should I text her because I'm afraid she would think I'm desperate if I text her with some random shit. Third, the famous touch barrier. Still didn't manage to break it and I'm kinda afraid that if I do, she will get scared away from me...
There are some more things that bother me ofc, but those are the ones that I just can't seem to transfer it in words, it's just some awkward feeling...
If you have any ideas what should I do, how to approach her, how to escalate our relationship, flirt with her etc, please leave a comment, it will be much appreciated. | Crushes |
So she goes one year down from me in school bithace almost the same age, i don't even know her name but she is so cute, i wanna go talk to her but i don't know how to start the conversation | Crushes |
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5 bizzard signs you're meant for each other
https://youtu.be/qIXXkq01u9s | Crushes |
One of my gym crushes got picked up by another guy at the gym and despite having never spoken a word to her it feels bad. I lowered the volume on my headphones to evesdrop and she sounded high pitched and giggly so she probably liked him too, brutal. I’m not even mad at them just at myself for not being good enough. Life is brutal | Crushes |
so for context there’s this guy a grade above me who i always catch staring at me, and it’s been going on since when i first met him in january. however, he’s never made the first move. him and i are two very shy people and since i figured he probably won’t do anything anytime soon then i should make a move. i don’t have any ideas so please suggest 🙁 | Crushes |
I also her out and she replied with:
“I appreciate you asking me out in that way, it is very sweet of you. But honestly, I’m not feeling it.”
What could reply back to her? And what do I do? | Crushes |
So we used to be friends but we were both pretty antisocial during online school so we hardly talk now. I messaged, "I know it's kinda weird because we barely talk, but I think your hair looks really cool." My friend says I am being too obvious and he probably knows I like him now. Is this message very obvious? | Crushes |
I saw this in a girl's bio on Instagram does anyone know the meaning of this? | Crushes |
Whenever I change classes, I always feel like i just abandoned my old crushes and develop new ones. But at the same time, I also someone hold on to the old ones. Maybe they aren't real crushes, but I always do find them attractive. I can't remember the last time I truly had no feelings for anyone. | Crushes |
I’ve been talking with this guy nearly nonstop for a month we had a class together and were sorta friends. Last night he asked me why we’ve been hitting it off so well. I really like him and I think he probably likes me I’m just unsure how to do about this since. | Crushes |
Is this insecurity? Difficulty on expressing myself? Ik it doesn't really fit here but i'm chatting with her and my sarcasm is haunting me | Crushes |
I went to prom with my crush last night, and it was amazing and super fun. But I have some level of social awareness, and I can just tell she doesn't like me the way I like her (she couldn't hold eye contact especially while we were slow dancing, she ran away with her friend several times, once to find her actual crush, and a lot of other small things that add up). If I formally confessed I'd get friendzoned formally, so I'm just going to be friends with her. Luckily for me I wasn't madly in love or anything so it shouldn't be terribly hard to just be friends. | Crushes |
Me yooo i think i saw you on Spotify 🤔
Her ??
Me Yeah lol u are listed as this weeks hottest single 😂
Her only this week?
Me for me your not only this week
Me btw how good are you in solving puzzles?
Here i fucked up
Seen 1 hour ago | Crushes |
I realised back in August of 2022, that a guy from my class had a crush on me. It was pretty obvious, because he stared at me almost everyday like he was obsessed with me. So logically I started to gain feelings for him too lol. I've tried to get over him many times (and I think he has tried to do the same thing to me), but it just isn't possible. Now it's been like 9-ish month since this whole shizz started and over these last few months I think he has kinda noticed that I have feelings for him too. This guy was a little shit on past grades, but he has (kinda) changed for the better. Also we have never talked :)
I want to be together with him. I've tried to follow him twice on Instagram (rizz), he didn't follow me back so I unfollowed him LMAOO. I don't even know if he saw that I followed him, but that was months ago. Also on Instagram, I have almost sent a message to him but I don't know what to say, because this is the first time a guy has ever liked me or this sort of thing has happened to me. I have waited for something to happen from his side, but he might be scared too or something.
I can't be sure, but maybe he just doesn't want me around everyone? Or maybe he is just scared like I said. School is ending in a month (we will go to seperate schools, but still on the same campus) and idk if he will text me or something. Maybe in the summer.
Thank you for reading. | Crushes |
Sooo, yesterday I approached my crush when she was alone and asked her if she was had plans to go to prom. She said no, to which I responded, "ah, that's a shame, because I was going to ask you out". After this, she said "aww" in a sort of disappointed way. I thought that asking her out would give me some closure, but now I'm just even more confused .\_. Any advice on what this means and what I should do next? | Crushes |
Firstly, the question was poorly worded but I’ll also add some context to it. Yesterday, my crush was really eager to tell me that he currently has no girlfriend and doesn’t really have ‘a person’ he intends to having one with. I mean like, it’s obvious he’s not interested in me the same way based on our interactions, but was this his way of rejecting me in a nicer way?
That along with the fact that he’s constantly mentioned not having anyone to bring to prom and ushering me to attend the same university as him makes me very confused. When we call, he always plays the guitar for me and even stays up late sometimes but I genuinely think he’s just doing this for the attention.
I’ve slowly lost interest with him but I need to know whether him saying that he’s not interested in anyone is his way of rejecting me? Because if so, I will immediately stop wasting my efforts in pursuing him. | Crushes |
I went to see her at work to see someone i care about before i have to deal with some bs and i didn't tell her whats happening i was vague
I wanted to just play it off like i just came to say hello put i was too anxious and i told her i wanted to see someone i care about
She said dont get yourself in trouble and i said im just gonna yell i still havent dealt with this issue yet
I feel like i shouldve promised her im not gonna get hurt i dont want her to worry | Crushes |
Anyways i had a thing for someone but he's not mature enough and it just didn't work out.
Anyways now when i see him i obviously like him as a person still but i find him kind of annoying but the thing is, i fucking think about him
Idk why | Crushes |
I can’t though because he won’t respond to any of my texts
What do I do | Crushes |
I cuddled with my crush in the backseat of his car a few weeks ago. Then, today, we did it again.
We couldn’t think of anything to do, and we were going to see a movie in 2 hours. So he said’ “ We could hold each other in the back of my car, again.” So I said, “Hey, if you want to.” and we did.
After a little while he asked me to play with his hair, and he played with mine a bit too. At one point he asked me if I could see without my glasses. I told him I wouldn’t be able to say anything but him. He said that was okay and took them off. I said that anything outside the car was just a bob of color. He said that he could see me and asked if I could see his eyes. I said yes, and he told me to look into them. He had his mouth really close to my face. There was one point where I could feel his eyelashes on my nose. He playfully kissed me on the nose once. It wasn’t hard, so I wasn’t sure if it was intentional.
After saying we'd to do it again soon, we went to see Dungeons and Dragons. During the movie, he wrapped his arm around me, and at one point, he kiss me on the forehead, though it was gentle, so I’m not quite sure if it was intentional. But earlier that same day he said he "doesn't date freshmen", again. Needless to say, I’m kind of confused. | Crushes |
Okay so it turns out he had plans to go to the movies but I think he’s going by himself should I ask to join him?? | Crushes |
me and my crush are gonna meet after almost 2 years, i can’t decide what to do when we first meet.. should we go to an arcade or like a cafe? how do i not let it be awkward? | Crushes |
i am the type of person to not really reveal that i like someone because i don’t want them to not think of me badly or not talk to me again. i have a crush and i am pretty sure i am in love. i want her to maybe take hints, so i glance/stare at her frequently and sometimes she looks at me as well and i turn away. she also blushes when i look at her sometimes too. whenever we talk i am sort of awkward, and sometimes when i see my friend talking to her i try to jump into the conversation so i can also talk with her. i can’t really tell, but i think i blush at her sometimes too.
if i am hiding my feelings too well, can you tell me how to show hints easier/better? | Crushes |
Have u ever been jealous of a person (especially a friend of yours) you don't even know if you like them? That is, maybe sometimes they attract u and it’s like u were waiting for them to talk to u or text to u, sometimes u repeat in your head that u could never like them and act as if nothing happened, yet when u see that person talking to others u feel a strange feeling almost of jealousy. I’d like to know if I’m not the only one, cause I feel rlly confused | Crushes |
usually i'm able to tell whether the guy is a crush or eye candy but for the first time this guy who i assumed as my eye candy has been in my head often. i also tend to look out for him in instagram posts to see if he's there. the thing is i've never texted or spoken to him before and i don't believe one is possible to like someone without even having any form of communication with them. i did consider him as an eye candy though but idk...i feel like im getting a crush on him but i barely know him too. all i know is he has a nice personality (according to his friends) and i find him cute... 😐😐 someone pls help if you have ever went through such experience..... | Crushes |
Idk why he is ghosting me rn even tho i didn't do anything wrong. we were having a fun conversation and he even invented a ship name for us and we started calling each other by our nicknames and we may thow a flirtatious message in between so why?! | Crushes |
Ever since I became friends with her all of her friends dislike me, idk why. What should I do? | Crushes |
so as i was leaving school i decided to tell my crush about my feelings.
She replied thisss:
I know and understand ur feelings. You have always encouraged and supported me a lot everywhere .u have been a great friend and i want to keep this friendship forever. You are a great friend who is super smart and you are also very helpful, Thankyou for making me a positive part of your life. But I think it would be best if we remain friends.
the hell do i do now :((( | Crushes |
(Let's call my friend Mike and my crush Jason) Mike didn't know i had a crush on Jason so last night when Jason told him he likes me, Mike lied that i'm a lesbian. But i'm not a lesbian and i have no idea why he said that. When i asked him why? he said "i didn't want Jason to get his hopes up or anything " But that literally makes zero sense.
I feel like he's against me being with Jason bc when i told him i like Jason a little too he kinda belittled my feelings by saying "Ohhh bc he looks cool and does drugs all the type?" And he said it in a mocking way so i couldn't talk about it more and just said "idk if me liking him as anything to do with what you said but yea i don't really know him that well. I just have a little crush on him".
Idk if he's gonna tell him that i'm actually not a lesbian or not. And i can't just go up to him and say hey just you know, i'm straight. Mike said he's gonna get him to hang out with us a few times so i can get to know him more. I'm just so nervous that now that he thinks i'm a lesbian, he's gonna totally get over me or something. Ugh i wish i could ask Mike if he's gonna tell the truth to him but i can't stand him making fun of me again. | Crushes |
So basically I know were my crush, who I don't even talk to (he's pretty much my hallway crush) lives. I didn't stalk him or anything, his cousin just asked me if I knew were he lived and I said I wasn't sure but I knew my friend lived on his road(cause she told me after seeing him for the first time) then later he(the cousin) told my his(my crushes) exact address. I wasn't gonna do anything about it obviously it was just nice to know. Once me and my parents were going somewhere and my aunt was with us, my mom mentioned my crushes name and it turned out my aunt knew him cause they lived on the same road. Later we went to leave her at her house and she pointed out his house to me and now I know what his house looks like on top of his address.
I feel really weird and happy about this cause 1. Because I know he lives on my friends and aunts road as well as the fact that he was best friends with my cousin. 2. Because now I feel like a total creep and stalker now and I feel so ashamed. | Crushes |
They like me, I don‘t even like them in such a way. And I CAN‘T STOP thinking about them. I don‘t even have a crush on them, this persons likes me and somehow I still got emotionally attached. Did anybody experience the same thing or have any advice??? | Crushes |
I should say that I have a crush on someone else.
Basically me and a girl are Friends (probably close friends): we talk sometimes in real Life and much more on whatsapp and IG.
I noticed recently a strange behaviour: this girl tries to start a convo by saying on whatsapp: "heyyy (my name)", and I reply of course.
She invites me to her live on IG top and She Is very friendly with me, She many times, whe She sees me, tries to greet me.
I have a suspect that She likes me, I even think that She Is trying to flirt with me.
But there Is a problem: I dont like her.
She knows that I like another girl and She helps me everytime in that.
Now what I should do? I should continue like that and let her know (not with words) that Im not interested in her or what? | Crushes |
my crush started calling me her bf and whenever she's with her friends she always tells them i'm her bf. i can't tell if she actually likes me (we've never gone on any dates cause my parents don't let go go out by myself) or if she's just pranking/ flirting with me. | Crushes |
Im somehow an asexual that loves a boy who makes fun of femboys and being horny, it fucking triggers me! He wont stop! And I have to be tortured by it. He knows I have a crush on him but he still does it. I know it's his thing but fuck him. I'm starting to hate-love him. | Crushes |
Okay I have a huge crush on my compsci tutor…. But sadly I only got this week where I see him and next week and then it’s done for the semester. Sadly as well, I’m changing my major next semester but I really just idk I’ve been a wreck and this been my first time getting a crush in soooo long (I’m in my junior year of college going into senior n my last crush was in 11th grade of hs😭😭😭😭😭😭) anyways he’s very cute to me I tried to act like he’s not cute but he isssssss I’m down bad very baddddddd and he’s nice and his voice is nice and I’m just in so smjdjdjdjdidkdodojdkeldodkdkdjdjodkdkdk about him real idk what to do I really only see him for tutoring and that’s it… and I only see him 2 more timesss what should I do. Should I ask for his insta… but if I do and he had a gf then my crush is over 😞😞😞😞😞. I’m sooo sorry that this is soo all over the place but like idk what to do I never felt like this towards a person even my LAST crush Omggggggg. I honestly feel like I’m sooo weird tooo tbhh (im a loner) anyways idk what to do this is soo embarrassing yall😭😭😭😭😭 | Crushes |
We see each other frequently (or semi-frequently, depending on how her schedule is) and I’m worried that I’ve become too attached to her emotionally. We’re obviously not dating or anything (she unfortunately already has a boyfriend the last time I checked) but I just feel like that I’d become an emotional wreck of a man if I don’t see her enough or if something were to happen to her. I get very excited whenever I see her or am about to see her which already probably isn’t too healthy for me mentally but, since I’m autistic, I can’t really help it. It’s just how I work. I think about her every night and I’ve had...let’s just say...unclean thoughts about her in the past. I mean, I’m pretty sure we’ve all had thoughts like that about our crushes at some point, right? But that’s beside the point. I’m pretty sure I’ve fallen too deep into the hole and can’t get myself out of it. I’m a mess. | Crushes |
I start off by saying that I feel absolutely silly for asking this on reddit (hopefully this is the right subreddit), but 1)I feel pretty embarassed for it 2)I just told a couple of friends and we've kind of laughed it off and not talked about it anymore.
I met this guy at uni, I met him randomly because we had to take the same exam, but we didn't talk really that much since we were with other people, and there was a girl who proabably is his girlfriend or at least they seemed really close.However, since we had to wait for a long time he talked about some things that he was interested in which are in common, and I'm not gonna lie, I was pretty attracted by his personality.
My first concern is about this girl, they seem close, so I think they are dating or something (I saw them once again), but this is just enough to hold me back from doing anything else to approach him. None of my friends personally knows him, and the ones that have lectures with him do not know I have a crush on him, so no way of getting to talk to him/ know him through them.I saw him studying in a library with that girl from above, so I may meet him alone there, but then it would be just me looking at him hoping he doesn't notice.I've already ruled out reaching out on social media because we've never properly talked in person and it would be way too cringe.
What should I do?Hang around the places he is usually at and pray that something happens?Should I let go since he may be already taken?I feel like a 13 y.o and I feel so confused! | Crushes |
when i sent her follow request she dmed my friend if he knew me, a few minutes ago she approved my request. she does not know me, i tried talking to her buy i did not get a chance, she is always with her friends. should i dm her? she approved my follow request. i'm going to text her this:
me: "yooo i think i saw you on Spotify 🤔"
her: "oh yeah lol"
me: "Yeah lol U are listed as this weeks hottest single 😍"
her: idk what she will say"
and then i will ask for her number | Crushes |
A few months ago, I've developed a crush on a girl from another class. I just found her attractive and her personality was charming. I was thinking about a way to get her number and an idea sparked in my head; creating a group chat for only English class. On the next day, I asked for her number and I got it.
After getting her number, I immediately just started texting her. I can't help but notice that her texting was dry. She never initiates any conversation but she usually replies in about 5 minutes. However, I did notice a small detail. If I were to suddenly stop texting her in the middle of a conversation, she would wait for a few minutes before going offline.
I told my whole class that i had feelings for her even though I knew that she would eventually find out. The whole class started teasing me when she comes for class. Luckily, she was completely oblivious to all of the teasing.
A few weeks later, one of my friends told me that she actually likes me. I was shocked but I was suspicious at the same time. He was untrustworthy. He was the person who teased me the most. I decided to take a leap of faith and ask her about it.
I texted her and asked," My friend told me you liked me." She replied with a simple 'no'. I was heartbroken. I soon realised that she would not know I liked her because it was not a confession, just a question.
Despite this setback, I still continued texting. I finally managed to make a connection with her when she agreed to be my friend. She soon started to sit beside me during English class and talking to me more. I started to realise that she might be just lying because she looked quite nervous around me.
A few weeks later, my brain was just screaming at me to confess to her. I decided to ignore it at first but I eventually gave in. I decided to do it through text as it was the weekend. I also got my best friends to watch me confess through Zoom while I shared my screen. I started with a normal conversation and eventually told her.
I was nervous throughout. I thought I was going to get rejected. Then, she told me that she liked me. I was through the roof. I asked if she wanted to date me and she agreed.
It was shocking to me as I’ve gotten rejected a few times. After getting rejected for the first time, I was just feeling down for a while but I did realise that there are still people out there and that I shouldn’t give up just yet.
I've finally gotten my reward after trying. I do believe that rejection is pretty common. You should just try again every time you get rejected till you get one. Sometimes life can get unfair, you just have to cope with it.
TL;DR: Don't feel too sad after rejection, it is common. You will eventually get it.
Tried using good grammar, don't judge. | Crushes |
I was scared at first because my teacher had to talk to me after class, but I ended up getting lucky and ran into her before she left. Was surprising difficult spitting out the word "crush", but after that it was a nice and easy conversation. Even though she didn't feel the same way about me, it felt really great to talk to her about it. Honestly I'm considering this a success | Crushes |
I think he may have a gf, but idk | Crushes |
I have been crushing on this girl from work for months now and I'm getting tired of pondering wether or not she likes me or not. I want to ask her out or when jusy admit that I like her, but I'm terrified that i might just be misreading the signals (as have happened before) and that it will ruin our work relationship and make things awkward, and I really don't want that. But i have strong feelings for her and I don't want to let it waste away.
What should I do? And how? | Crushes |
I walked into the dispensary a couple months back(4-5Mon) chopped it up with the bud tender and she ended up writing her number on the bag, she said to hit her up when I wanna dye my hair, I ended up putting the bag in my drawer and shaving my head a week later, time has passed and my hair has grown out n I'm ready to dye it again, is it to late for me to hit her up? if not do I
text or call? | Crushes |
the person i like is in the same program as me, and i’ve known them for the entirety of highschool. this year we’ve gotten to hang out a lot more in a performance and school setting but i’ve recently discovered i definitely have feelings for them, but don’t know what to do about it. i guess what my question is, how do i talk to them? whenever we have the opportunity to talk, it’s face level stuff and i just get so nervous and can’t go any deeper than talking about basic things. any tips for getting over the nerves | Crushes |
It's about to be the end of the school year but I don't really know if I liked him to begin with or not. Whenever we interacted I would feel happy afterwards but now that I think about it, I wouldn't consider it too special. I would wait another year to see if I do like him or not but I doubt we'll be having much interaction and I'm not sure if I wanna say how I feel because of that. Just needed to say this somewhere | Crushes |
i confess to this guy I used to like him in 8th grade. He said we could have tried it besides he used to date someone. On January around there I told him I liked him but he said thank you but he will focus on himself and rejected me but yet being so nice about it. Now I’ve been doing my moves and not being too pushy-but should I ask him again or not. I don’t want him for me to think that I am being annoying. | Crushes |
Oh boy..
I work for this cargo company I’m in HR he is in dispatch. Me (25F) and him (30M) have been working for a year now but we’ve never met irl.
All started a year ago when my company was looking for someone to replace our current acc manager and who else better than someone who has worked for the company previously and happens to be on the lookout for a job… so far so good I didn’t knew much about him nor did I care since he was a different shift from mine and never had to communicate until one day he send me a private txt asking me for some assistance with missing documents on one of our drivers. He asked to call me and at first I was a bit annoyed (it was my day off after all) but so I responded. His voice.. damn I’m a sucker for that and he got me on the first “hello”..
I went about my life as usual because again no reason to talk, so I forgot about him more or less, till my now former acc manager left and he took her place.
Now we had to talk daily about work and what not, we were joking and flirting a bit as time went.
Now here is where it get a bit tricky for me to explain so please bare with me:
On rare occasions he would txt me here and there sending me his new tattoo joking how it’s better then mine and I tried grabbing on and seeing it as a opportunity to spark a conversation but he just kinda left me on read witch I mean kinda sucks but I was keeping my cool.
Until I got offered another job just two weeks ago nothing much was going on. The job in question is away from my home country and I see it as a great opportunity, so I informed my manager and the word spread around on its own soon I got a txt from him stating he will miss me and how dare I didn’t tell him and what not.. then he asked when is my last day with the company (June 4)
This Monday I come into the office and he’s right there in real life “the voice” from the other side of the line.. fuck- that’s what I said at first and decided that I’ll play it cool.
Here and there we talk only when around other coworkers and he always makes a joke on my expense.. I even told him I liked him more over the phone. Here and there he is playing with fire but only when we’re around other ppl.
Today we were walking to the bus stop with him and one other coworker who left pretty quickly leaving us both with our headphones on not a single word exchanged for solid 30min plus a bus ride witch is another 20min he just seems so unapproachable when it’s just the two of us. The only thing we said is “bye”
And now I’m left here wondering wtf, why come to the office just before I leave and how can I talk to him for 20min on the phone but can’t talk to him in real life.
Tomorrow we’re taking the bus together again I’m pretty much bailing out so if anyone has any fun ideas what I should do please feel free to lmk
Side note: on occasion he comments girls on tinder with my other coworker when I’m around and it only happened when he saw me using tinder and he caught me off guard so like am I imaging things? | Crushes |
Admittedly, I know next to nothing about this. Quite frankly, I'm not even sure what flirting is. Can anyone help me with this? | Crushes |
I recently told my "freind" about this girl I had liked all year.I was finally going to ask her out but before I could my friend did.she said yes and they went to the dance together.What should I do? | Crushes |
Last night my crush told me that she only sees me as a friend and I was fairly upset about it but I played it off like I didn’t care too much.
I just found out that although she thinks I’m a good person she really only liked the attention she got from me
The way she friend zoned me was very public to the point where everyone on my swim team knew what was going on and I’ve been told by a few different people that she did this on purpose for the sake of attention
Anyway I’ve moved on now and I’ve learned my lesson. | Crushes |
so we started having normal human interactions again - jfc - haha.
anyways.
is it weird that i appreciate the fact that he projects a very confident/almost “full of himself” image but i can sense the nervousness when he speaks to me..?
i find it.. genuine.
when people interact with me it’s either over the top arrogance or just completely in shambles at the the thought of even expressing more than a general “suhp” with me.
like.. i like that something about me has this gorgeous man waiting and speaking for me. i do the same with him - though - i’ve been trying to play it cool due to reasons..
but it’s like the perfect balance for some reason. it feels like when someone is having a hard time owning up to something so they literally own up to everything.
then they think back like - “why did i even say all that shit..?”
sir - that’s the shit i like. i love that shit infact.
you are the most adorable creature i think i’ve ever come across in all my time on this earth.
all the things you are - oddly seem to equate to all the things i’ve ever sought out. | Crushes |
I like a guy, I'll call him Jaxen for this.
I've liked Jaxen for 2 years now, we met 3 years ago. He's in most of my classes, and so are a lot of his friends, but he seems to always want to do projects with me, talk to me instead of his friends, sit with me instead of his friends, etc.
Well, in gym class we were all sitting in a U shape, I was at the back, and we was to my left at the front of the row, while I was at the back in the middle. His body was kind of angled towards me, so he was looking inwards of the U.
I kept zoning out, as I zone out a lot, but everytime I felt somebody looking at me. Everytime I would lift my head and look around, I would make eye contact with him and he would abruptly look away. I caught him genuinely just looking and smiling at me, I smiled back and his face got a bit red and he looked away.
I have asthma, and need my inhaler a lot of the time as I can have quite bad asthma attacks. A lot of the time in gym, we go outside. He always checks on me to see if I'm alright, sits with me if I'm not doing well, even if he's talking to his friends, he will walk with me for a bit to see if I'm okay.
I've heard him say my name on multiple occasions while he's talking to his friends, the past few times I've heard it, they usually start mocking him as if he always talks about me. "OP this, OP that!", etc. One specific time he was saying something like, "Guys, shut up! She can literally hear you!". I heard them so I turned my head, and we made eye contact and he quickly looked away and kinda 'hid' behind his friends.
I've caught him talking about me and looking at me multiple times, but I've never talked about it. Whenever we play games in gym, like Dodgeball or manhunt, he refuses to tag me. There's been multiple occasions where I would be right infront of him, or really close, and he would look at me and purposely go and tag/hit somebody else.
I see Jaxen a lot before school starts, as him and his friends are usually in the bus loop, as are mine in the mornings. He will stop his conversation just to say "Hi OP!" Or, "Good morning, OP!", yet wont say it to anybody else that hangs out with him in the morning.
He always asks me for things he knows other people have, even if they say they have it, he waits for me to answer before even acknowledging them. There's been times where his friends try to jokingly take something from me, and when they do he gives them shit for it, saying stuff along the lines of, "Guys can you just leave her alone, stop annoying her, she did nothing".
So yeah, I don't know if he likes me back or not, I'm also too shy to confess to him because I don't know if he likes me back at all. Does he like me back? | Crushes |
So, I have liked this girl for the past 8 or 9 months now, and just recently I have begun to get closer and closer with her to the point of me feeling comfortable talking to her and would feel comfortable asking her out, however it is summer. I am not sure if I should ask her out over the phone or if I should try to talk to her more over the summer then ask her at the start of next year… I am in need of some guidance here. | Crushes |
Basically, I've known this girl since August 2019, but we don't talk to each other very much in real life. We were a couple from April to August 2020, but it was not a relationship that I took seriously at all (I was a kid who would rather play video games than take time for her). Today we are on good terms, we have been sending snaps about every day for a few months. We tell each other our stories, our days. I am a very uncomfortable person socially speaking. I am comfortable with someone only when the person in front decides to be comfortable first. If you can help me to know how she feels about me, if you can give my advices, I'd love to receive them. If you have any questions about that, tell me. | Crushes |
I (M29) have a big crush on this woman (F41) i indirectly worked with at my last long-term (longer than a month) job. She was a vendor doing cell phones at the Walmart i worked at. She's been in a relationship for a few months and had ups and downs with the guy, but we've known each other for the past two years. Her and i have a lot in common, and when i go back down to the state she lives in for a wedding we both were invited to, I'm staying with her for that week. She knows I've had a crush on her, but it feels like it's getting stronger. I forewarned her though because we are going to a bar at some point, that i get lovey when i drink, and she didn't seem to care/mind. So, what do i do? I don't want to ruin a best friendship, but i want to tell her that i still like her. | Crushes |
It's been- ughhhhh
Okay. Like- this girl, we've been friends for 2 years now. I feel like the signs are obvious, but she just- always says she doesn't like me.
Some things we do together- we like- play elbows a lot which sometimes leads to our arms linking. She jokes around with me a lot calling me names playfully, throwing stuff at me, she likes to slap me in the face, \*don't worry, she *always* gets a slap back >:), she deserves it!\* It's just so many things! I wish I could say everything but I can't- it would be like a 200 page book if I told everything we've been through. Today is the first day of summer, and she came to my house (which I knew was going to happen,) but she decided to come over today instead as something is coming up tomorrow. Does this mean anything? Things are just coo coo in my mind, like we're only 11-12 not like anything's serious :( | Crushes |
Hello, it's a long story, but I need a couple of tips. In class there is a girl with whom I did a group project (the groups were random) and after 2 weeks working with her, I realized that I was liking her. I couldn't help it, the more I talked to her and looked at her, the more I liked her.
The thing is that I get incredibly nervous when I'm around her, even just looking at her makes my heart race, I start to tremble, I lose my words and I even feel like I'm fainting from nerves. I have planned to confess to her but it is almost impossible for me because of my nerves, the fear that she will reject me, the fact that she is always with her friends, there is also the fact that she is my classmate, we are going to continue seeing each other for another couple of years. And if things get awkward? What will others say if they find out? I seriously need help.
Sorry for my bad english | Crushes |
One post for the last three days, lol. Anyways, I'll go through with it in a few minutes.
I'll contact my crush's friend to contact my crush and then herself. It'll be awkward explaining to the friend who I am but whatever. I'll need all the motivation I can because I'm super nervous rn. Better do it now than later. | Crushes |
she is literally like obsessed w me now i need help | Crushes |
So me and this guy have been getting closer recently, we've been walking together before class and I usually walk him to his class and walk back. He's been engaging way more in our conversations, he's been holding doors for me and overall seems to enjoy being around me. We actually had a super nice conversation once outside during an activity and a lot of people assumed we were together so that was nice
But I can't tell if he likes me or not since he won't make eye contact with me. Sometimes I could feel his eyes if we're just walking past each other but in conversation he won't really look at me. He's relatively shy and awkward so I can see why and our height difference is pretty large but he doesn't seem to have this problem with his friends. I don't know if I should try to be more bold in my moves but I'm scared to throw him off or scare him away. What should I do?? | Crushes |
This whole thing is a mess so bare with me. So I have liked this guy for a bit. Then one of my “friends” started liking him and he started paying attention to her. Then as he started paying attention to both of us at the same time so that made me confused. Then she started talking pretty badly about him at some point when she “didn’t” like him and she also talked pretty badly about one of my other “friends”. She is literally so toxic and I really hope he doesent like her back. But I also see him staring at me all the time and sometimes he talks to me. I’m literally too shy to even stare longer or talk to him back. I need confidence. Anyways, I think she might not even have a crush on him. I think she is just really possessive over him becuase she used to have a crush on him because one of the times he talked to me she looked kind of jealous and gave me a look. Im hoping that I can talk to him and stuff because tomorrow is the last day of school and I really don’t want to not talk to him for two whole months. I’ll update later because idk. | Crushes |
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my notepad rn:
-may 26
3 hours offline 1 hour on delivered as of 5:50
as of 6:20, he was online 10 minutes ago and did not snap back
as of 6:35 he was online 1 minute ago
6:54 he was online 3 minutes ago, just posted something about not starting conversations first | Crushes |
Honestly im sure many of us are nervous as the school year is ending and have already ended for some people.. I had hoped that, if he liked me, that he would try to become closer and eventually before school ended to ask me. But now I'm not so sure, well first I'm not at all sure if he even likes me, but second, I don't know if I even want to be in a relationship with him. What's your goal? Getting into a relationship w your crush or just something else? | Crushes |
Basically I searched up the guys snap on reddit which brought up comments he made including his @, there i found his pics. Through that I found out he had a twitter and OF, somehow with this and other red flags I still like him. He’s 18. | Crushes |
I started working at a restaurant a month ago and I have developed a crush on one of my coworkers. I’m not someone who is big on dating people you work with;however, I never put myself out there or give myself the chance to enjoy life that much. I rarely ever had connections with people because I have an avoidant dismissive attachment style and I tend to avoid connecting with others period. My therapist thinks I should at least try to get to known him and try to understand why I’m drawn to him in the first place. I just get really nervous around crushes in general and I always wait for guys to approach me.
Not only that I have a crush, I can see that he has some sort of interest in me or at least he could be really nice. I’ve caught him staring at me numerous of times and he compliments me almost everyday we see each other at work.
What would you do? | Crushes |
I had the classic fairy tail moment when you look into their eyes and can’t come out. I’ve noticed they were pretty before, but today she challenged me to a staring contest and I didn’t want it to end. They are pretty much silver with a hint of blue. I don’t know if she doesn’t like boys at all, because she has seemed like she was flirting with me before. (I really like her) | Crushes |
I literally have a 60 day streak with her and we barely talk 😭. I have a class with her in spanish but obviously that makes it pretty hard to talk to her. She’s also always around her friends.
Anyone know good ways to fix this? | Crushes |
oh god im crushing so hard!!! i just got their letter and its so adorable. they gave me a drawing of my oc and stickers of my favorite flowers and in the letter he begged me to move so we could go to hs together lol. he said he was excited for summer because we could spend time together and since our birthdays are close. he even translated this secret code thing for us and used my name to practice it hes so cute im gonna cry | Crushes |
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Have any of you reconnected with a childhood best friend/high school crush? I want to briefly reach out to mine since I feel like he doesn’t know what a positive impact he’s made in my life. The last time we spoke was 7 years ago.
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Background: Me (28 F) and Tyler (28 M) met when we were in 3rd grade. Our moms were close friends, so our families did a lot together. Eventually over these young years, I would get butterflies - I mean HEAVY butterflies when I knew I was going to see him LOL.
When I was in 7th grade, my family moved, and his family moved to a foreign country. Our families kept in contact over those years, but he and I kept in contact VERY sporadically.
When his family moved back to the states, they came to visit us in our new city. We were 15. After this visit, Tyler reached out to me more often. He told me he really likes me. He said I looked beautiful and he was happy to see me again. We never intended on dating because of distance. Plus, we were young and didn’t want to get into a serious relationship. I did NOT want to risk spoiling a friendship over some sort of long-distance relationship. He was my good friend – that I happened to be very attracted to – but I wanted to remain friends.
I saw him again when I was 17. My family went to visit them in their new city. We went to Six Flags, and we went on two rides alone together. I was so scared so I was squeezing his hand on both of these rides LOL. I grew more attracted to him – his looks, his presence, his sense of humor. One night, we were hanging out in the basement at their house playing games. Our siblings decided they were tired and went to bed. But he looked at me and I knew he wanted to use this as a chance to talk alone. He said he loved me and really cares for me. He said that he wanted to kiss me, but I was dating someone, so I told him I couldn’t – even though I REALLY wanted to. We hugged for a long time, and I kissed his cheek. I had SERIOUS butterflies – but they were different. I genuinely was feeling love. We made a joke about how cringey it probably was but I REALLY appreciated this moment.
After we hugged, we called it a night and went into separate rooms. This was the most intimate we have been, and it stuck with me for a long time.
After this reunion, we’d still talk, but realized that the distance wouldn’t allow us to delve further into a relationship. He joked about us possibly getting together in our late 20’s if things worked out. But we knew that wasn’t likely. I don’t remember the last thing I said to him.
Fast forward, I am 28 and happily married to an awesome husband (28 M). My husband knows about Tyler as well – that he was my close friend. My husband shared that he had a similar situation with a girl best friend that he had, but they no longer talk as well.
Because I am married, I only want to reach out to Tyler briefly. I have no intention on having ongoing conversations/meeting up or anything like that. I just want to get something off my chest that I’ve been holding onto for all these years. I was just reflecting on my life and the friendships I’ve had, and he played a significant role in my early years. He deserves to know the impact he’s made on my life, and how much I appreciated his company through the good times and the bad.
I have yet to say something to him. Not sure if I will. But the urge is still there.
Have you had a similar experience? I love hearing about those feel-good nostalgic stories. | Crushes |
im questioning whether i like girls, boys or both. the person thats making me question this is one of my friends 😭🤣😭
we’re both girls but i just kind of feel like i like them??? at first i thought she liked me because although shes not really affectionate or anything with other people, she has no trouble talking, being touchy ect with me. maybe im overthinking it but theres lotsss of skin ship and physical touch. eg- ‘unintentional’ hand holding (bro ill explain if needed its just made my heart skip a few beats frfr.) i dont really know whay i want to get out of this post- if i have a crush, if i have a chance or if im straight or not😭 | Crushes |
not here to ask for help, just found out my crush is lesbian. nothing wrong with that, im happy for her! i just feel kinda sad about it i've liked her for years | Crushes |
so i like a guy and he knows it and earlier this day he texted me that he also had feelings for me. we went out for coffee one time and we talked and all but nothing happened. and honestly i am really scared if anything happening. like, I have never even kissed someone and I have a feeling he hasnt eather. so what do i do. how do peple get into relationships i only have a feeling it'll gonna be super awkward and I am frightened. please help idk what to do now ????????? | Crushes |
Like i can think of different times but they all seem to have their downsides
When you barely know each other yet-High chance of rejection so not what is desired to go for
After getting to know them a bit-Pretty decent chance for them to say no, also can make the friendship not seem genuine because it can seem like you only became friends to date
After getting to know them a lot and becoming friends-Could ruin a great friendship if they say no | Crushes |
If you haven’t seen my last two posts this may or may not make sense. So essentially I fell for this girl, but didn’t ask her out because she had just gotten out of a bad relationship and was recovering. Waited too long and another guy asked her out. She told me later that if I had asked her out earlier, she would’ve been with me because she liked me back.
Anyways I’m crushed and I end up trying to move in for a bit, start hanging out with a different friend group. One of the girls in that group started to check in on me and we’d hang out often. This culminated in us playing truth or dare with a few other people. Towards the end of the night most of them had to go, and she left to grab something to drink. While she was gone the only other person left. And I explained to her what happened. After I said it was just us she gave me a smile to melt gold. And we had some fun just the two of us. Now she calls me nearly every day just to talk about life with me. She’s confessed to liking me back and if we lived closer or other circumstances changed we’d be together. Now we’re just loving life, and I’m so happy.
So guys the TLDR is, there’s always happiness somewhere, even if it’s not with who you originally thought.
Quick edit, I kinda wanted to talk more about this but didn’t want to make this too long. So uh, this is also an AMA thread. Going ahead and ask about this girl or the previous. | Crushes |
I don’t get any of the signs I might be getting but I was hoping if you people could help me
So what does ;) mean and 😍 | Crushes |
so for context i just got out of a very draining relationship and am full of love and projecting my romantic feelings on another good friend of mine.
i used to like him in middle school and now i "like" him again and i kinda super hate it because he's way out of my league and im probably not his type at all
it's driving me nuts lol | Crushes |
I feel pretty bad, I've posted so many times now lol. There's a guy I like who hangs around by himself all the time, even at lunch. I really want to talk to him because I feel like he likes me or liked me at some point (long story). I'm scared to go sit with him at lunch because it would be super random and he might not like it. I could just talk to him in the hall going to lunch when I see him but I don't even know what I'd say (we only have PE together and never interact then so it would be a very unnatural subject to talk about). I want to compliment his smile or something but that seems weird too. gah help me please 😪 | Crushes |
I feel hopeless I feel no girl will ever like me but I’ve came across the absolute perfect person in the entire world but I don’t know how to get someone to like me back | Crushes |
what does it mean if a girl gives you her shirt | Crushes |
So there's this girl I think that likes me like a notice that whenever I am close to her she is looking down which is the same thing I do when I see a girl I like and she acts nervous around me.Anyway I wanted to text her because I also like her but before I did that I went to her ig highlights and liked one random story?Am I a creep by doing this? | Crushes |
Me and my friend have a crush on the same girl but i really dont know who she likes.
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Whenever i talk to my crush shes smiling, gives strong eye contact and seems flirty but with my friend he said she gives a bitchy attitude and the other day she was complaining at him for some reason.i know him and her talk more than i talk with her but im not sure if hes been succesful with her. My friend doesnt know i like her and My friend also doesnt know i know he likes her but my crush knows fully well my friend likes her. Today my crush and my friend went for a long walk around school just them two, from what i heard my crush was telling him a story and she seemed to be laughing i dont know if its because she likes him or if the story is funny but i really hope its not the second one. Also the whole time they barely looked at each other. i was thinking to ask my crush whats going on between him and her i know if i ask my friend he wont tell me anything. Should i ask her or just leave it? | Crushes |
The gym i go to is a mix gender gym so men and women work out together. So at my gym there is a girl who comes to workout at the same time as me. The reason she always stood out was becuz she had a bald head. Not initially i didnt think much about it but i would notice her everytime she came.
I really got interested in getting to know her so i introduced myself and she was very sweet. We exchanged numbers and soon we became friends. Now we both are workout partners and we workout together.
I realize that i have developed some feelings for her. I mean i like looking at her i couldnt take my eyes of her. I noticed her soo deeply that i realize that i have never seen any stubble grow on her scalp so that means that she probably shaves her head daily or alternatively. Regardless I stop stop looking at her and her head.
I know it sounds extremly weird and strange but the part of her i like looking at the most is her shaved head. I dont know what facinates me so much but i cant stop looking at it. She seems so pretty even without any hair.
I like how i can see some of her bulging veins on her scalp. For some reason i have the urge to touch them but obviously i dont do that becuz it would creep her out but still.
I dont know what is wrong with me or what i should do but i feel attracted to her and i feel that my reason is strange and somehow wrong | Crushes |
I texted her 3 hours ago on Snapchat & she hasn’t seen it yet, but she hasn’t been online for 4 hours & she rarely uses the app. Is it a bad sign or no? | Crushes |
at first, i was fine. I thought i didnt care but honestly, i wanna cry. Scream and sob. My crush is always so mean to me and isnt rlly the best looking to people, but even thought there are so many nicer people who like me, i like him. even after he rejected me, i still like him. i cant stop liking him. ive never felt like this. it feels like all my efforts to make him like me has gone down the drain. at least its summer. but honestly, i wish it wasnt. | Crushes |
CONTEXT: I have a crush on a straight guy. I shouldn’t assume BUT on his insta one of the captions was about how back then he used to be good with girls, so i have just assumed.
I have tried staring text convos with him and we have had like three. He seems like he is engaging, replying when there isnt need for one sometimes and stuff. And once he walked past me he said alright and i DIEDDDDDD. But other than that there has been no interaction.
I post on my insta story a lot, it’s annoying i know. But he always sees every. Single. One. So i decided to be cringe and post ‘i can see you stalking my story text me’ and within ten minutes he posted on his story saying to follow his private (which i had done early that day but he didnt follow it). So i did it. I followed it. I couldnt tell if that was on purpose, it was probably a coincidence but i really want it not to be.
Then yesterday, i posted a picture on my main account that linked to my art account of a drawing i did. And he followed that account. He didnt like the post. He clicked on the post THEN on my profile and followed me. I freaked out like omg he followed it i wasn’t expecting that. And since then, every post i put on my art story of my work in progress he has seen within ten minutes of my posting it.
I just want to know how to talk to him. How do i get him to wanna be friends with me? He has never started a convo and i dont want to force anything or annoy him by constantly reacting to his stories. So… should i give up or keep trying to be friends with him? Ive tried posting stuff on my story i know he likes: david bowie, the woodland trust, vincent van gogh ext but nothing had made him message me.
Im on summer break now so wont see him until September. I want to try become friends though since I dont really have any in my class. But is it a loss cause? | Crushes |
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