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So to start it off i have the huge crush on this one boy and lately i've been trying to get with him by talking to him more and just hanging around him and its kind of been working. I have this one friend that is probably my best friend ever and i know she does not like him at all because she has a boyfriend but my crush and her are sort of good friends. The bad part about it is that my crush has asked my best friend out before (asked her out about 5-6 months ago) but she said no because she had a boyfriend at the time and because she didn't like him but is now broken up with her old boyfriend and is now with her current one (she's been with her current boyfriend for 3 weeks now). I would definitely say i hang around him more but its worrying me that he keeps asking me about her and he started texting her again (he stopped when he realized she had a boyfriend). But like i don't know what to do or if i should do anything because i know my best friend doesn't like him and i don't know if my crush still likes her or even likes me but i don't know. | Crushes |
I like this girl. I think we have a unique chemistry, humour, interests... Because of that our friends ship us often. Sometimes they ship us when they are only with her and, when they do, my crush comes and tells me that they have shipped us. Do you think this means anything? Is this a sign? | Crushes |
Ask whatever you want and I'll ask about your crush too | Crushes |
i was hugging my friend today bc its the last day of school and i wouldn't see her for over 2 months bc she's going to be abroad all summer. now my crush and i are pretty good friends but a) we've never hugged and b) he doesn't know i like him and he saw me hugging her and smiled + winked and (jokingly, i think) said "where's MY hug, applesaucebirds?" (he actually used a nickname for me that only he calls me <3) and i walked over and hugged him and he was red and stuttering and went "o-oh, okay" and hugged me back and i can't stop thinking about it or him. ❤ | Crushes |
I’ve liked him for 7 Months now and I wanted to know what people think, for the first few months of me liking him we wouldn’t really talk or anything, he would look at me and wave at me a few times until he hung around me in class and sat next to me we had a conversation with a teacher and he spoke to me the following 2 days after about the same convo, my problem is when he speaks to me I tense up and respond very snappy and uninterested, few weeks after he normally would wave and say hi sometimes, lots of times I’d ignore him.
We went on a ski trip winter time and he offered to tie my skates and no one else I felt happy about that, but it’s mainly been the same exchanging words and waves, one time he tried to get me to come in a room to talk to him but I have him a dirty look and ignored him, but I get so tense I can’t help it, recently we went to the theatre with the school and he mainly spoke to me and stuff but I was nice to him then, this is our first week back but he has waved at me, looked at me and said hello etc. But not much, he walks by without looking sometimes whilst talking to my friends and that’s why I doubt he likes me,” recently he’s been saying hi and trying to get my attention and to come to him and stuff but I tense up and ignore him.
When he’s with his friends he doesn’t pay as much attention to me and it makes me wonder if he likes me back.
I just wanted to ask if people
Think my crush likes me.
I’ve liked him for 7 Months now and I wanted to know what people think, for the first few months of me liking him we wouldn’t really talk or anything, he would look at me and wave at me a few times until he hung around me in class and sat next to me we had a conversation with a teacher and he spoke to me the following 2 days after about the same convo, my problem is when he speaks to me I tense up and respond very snappy and uninterested, few weeks after he normally would wave and say hi sometimes, lots of times I’d ignore him.
We went on a ski trip winter time and he offered to tie my skates and no one else I felt happy about that, but it’s mainly been the same exchanging words and waves, one time he tried to get me to come in a room to talk to him but I have him a dirty look and ignored him, but I get so tense I can’t help it, recently we went to the theatre with the school and he mainly spoke to me and stuff but I was nice to him then, this is our first week back but he has waved at me, looked at me and said hello etc. But not much, he walks by without looking sometimes whilst talking to my friends and that’s why I doubt he likes me,” recently he’s been saying hi and trying to get my attention and to come to him and stuff but I tense up and ignore him.
When he’s with his friends he doesn’t pay as much attention to me and sometimes he walks by me without looking even if it’s a short corridor. it makes me wonder if he likes me back. | Crushes |
I checked to see who looked at my Instagram story and there he was. My heart dropped and I panicked. I didn’t want him to check my story so I quickly blocked him from watching my story then I regretted. He has two instagrams, he uses the other one more but I don’t follow him on that, makes me wonder what made him look at that one. He hasn’t seen my story since | Crushes |
I(F16) have a massive crush on this boy(M16) and today was the last time id see him in school. I don’t have his number and I don’t use social media. I really thought he might’ve liked me because his friends acted weird around me. He seemed shy so I didn’t expect him to confess to me or anything. But recently I got my hopes up that maybe he’d ask my number on the last day of school. When I left class he was in front of me and kinda stopped to the side of the hall. I was so excited I thought he was actually gonna ask me. Then I walked past him and he didn’t stop me. I’m devastated and I probably won’t have a class with him next year. | Crushes |
And focus on the positive things that happened today.
Him? He's just another failure standing in your way. Look at him making jokes about holocaust as if he's a nazi. You think he has a chance with her?
You can crack jokes without being offensive.
And he smokes crack. | Crushes |
So in the last post I mentioned that I got my crush's number.
So yesterday I had my friend ask if he liked me and he said no. But he also asked if I could ask him instead. But I didn't get the opportunity to ask him during the school day, so I texted him right after school. I asked him about what my friend said, and he said that I probably already got his response and I said yeah, and that was it. So from what I understand, I got rejected.
Today was the last day I saw him and I won't see him on a regular basis again for 2 years. | Crushes |
So on Tuesday evening I asked her for her Insta. It took her a whole day to even READ the message and she replied "didn’t see the message, it’s [X]" after that, I sent a follow request. Now, another day later, she still didn’t accept it. I thought "she’s probably got something to do, it could be any reason" because she wasn’t online on WhatsApp either. I noted her followers and she literally unfollowed someone while ignoring me. | Crushes |
So the school year is ending next week, and I really want to talk to my crush, and eventually confess to her. I have tried talking to her but I end up getting too nervous and leave. It also seems that she gets nervous as well, so I just leave so she feels comfortable, although it could be a sign she likes me, which could also mean the opposite at the same time, which I'm not really sure. She also tends to laugh at everything I say, whether it's to her or one of her friends and shes there with them. I'm not sure if it's a sign she likes me, but I get too nervous and shy about that. Does anyone have any advice on how I should come up to her without getting too nervous? I try to talk to her assuming that she might have the same feelings for me, but I'm not too sure about that and want to make her feel comfortable around me. I would like to also tell her that I like her. Even though she says no I hope I can have peace in mind from at least coming out to my crush. | Crushes |
Get this, so, I have a crush on this one girl in my school. She is funny and very talented, of course! Now, imagine this. I'm sitting in the school's choir room, talking with my friends while Annie plays on the TV, and as I look up for a moment, guess who I see in the distance. That's right, the one and only. So I panic to my friends, and since we got our yearbooks that day, I complain that I want her signature but am too shy to ask.
So you know what my friend does? They forcefully grab my yearbook and sharpie, and hand it to my crush, asking for her signature. I was embarrassed, but grateful. All I needed to do was sit there and pretend nothing was happening. | Crushes |
I've stare/glance at my crush a lot and I keep on seeing him glancing at me I think I've been too obvious or what? I'll spin a slight angle and they're just there looking at me. | Crushes |
So there was this boy in my 5 period in the beginning of the school year my friend told me that he had a crush on me. And I’m oh okay just a normal crush thing. And a few days past and he asked his friend to ask me for my socials. I said know because I wasn’t interested. And a few more days past and my friends went up to him and asked him if he had a dollar. Then they said “ wait aren’t you that one boy who likes my friend?” Then he said “no” his friends were like saying that I liked him and stuff and he didn’t that he said I was ugly or like dressed weird and mean stuff but I obviously thought he said that since I rejected him. And months past and I obviously thought he was over me since that was in the beginning of the school year. But until I noticed him looking at me still. my friend also released that he kept staring at me. and he sat in the front and I sat in the back and I thought he wasn’t gonna look at me since it would make if obvious that he’s looking directly at me. But no he kept turning around for no reason at me I Evan made a lot of eye contact with him. Then he was talking to his friend about someone and he pointed at me and said “her the girl in the blue shirt “ I got scared that sec when he pointed at me. But then He was telling his friend about me and so that’s why he pointed at me. He also said surprisingly he said this “BRO OMG REMEMBER WHEN I USED TO BE SO OBSESSED WITH HER” and that’s when I started to looking at him weirdly. He also took pictures of me without me knowing witch that made me uncomfortable. My friend told me that he was taking pictures of me because she was in the back of them and she screamed out my name and he hid the phone in his pocket he also tried to get closer to me and take more. That’s what I’m really confused about why dose he want pictures of me? But he’s also talking to this one girl they been talking texting so I’m like good he’ll finally get over me. But I also found out that the girl is playing him. That she liked someone else and not him. I don’t really believe that but ig. But he keeps on staring at me? Witch I also have a feeling he’s losing feelings for me;). I just want to understand why he’s doing this if he’s talking to someone else too. Could it be he still has something to do with me? And also with her?! | Crushes |
I'm 34 and female, he's 26 and male. He looks older, I look younger no one can tell. But...
He's a vegetarian. I'm a meat eater (mainly because of autoimmune disease which severely limits what I can eat).
He's a PhD student where I work, I'm a researcher.
He's American and holds another European nationality, he can work almost wherever he wants. I'm from a third world country. If I lost my job, I'd be kicked out of the country where I currently live. I require a visa just to exist, he doesn't.
He grew up in a stable loving home with his siblings, mom and dad. I grew up with a single mother who mistreated me.
He went to the best schools and had learned four languages before turning 18 years old. I went to a regular South American school, had to teach myself English, etc.
He's white, I'm mixed.
He likes the US, he grew up there. I don't particularly like it (this is not where we live).
He was taught to play classical music from an early age, again I wasn't taught anything. And sometimes I feel resentful for all the things I had to go through to put myself in the position I'm now, whereas most people I see on a daily basis come from wealthy families who gave them lots of opportunities.
He became independent much sooner. He could just go to university and his parents paid. I had to work, then study, then freeze a semester, work, go back, it took me ten years to get a degree. I'm older but he's probably been fully independent for longer.
He likes the same things I like, that's what we have in common... And also that when I look at him and he looks at me in the eyes, I get lost in his eyes, and I can tell he gets lost in mine. I always catch him staring. The attraction is there and I think everyone knows, even though we're both shy, but I don't think a relationship between us could ever work.
Too many differences.
I already had a boyfriend with a stable wealthy happy family. They would unadvertedly hurt me quite frequently, talking about their privileges as if they were the norm, and that would make me emotionally unstable.
I don't want to like him any more. :( | Crushes |
I'll preface this by saying good day to everyone and thank you for stopping by.
To start off, I've known her since autumn when the college year started (I'm in my 3rd year, 21 and she's in her first year, 19). As the first few weeks passed we had a common friend group estabilished and everything seemed normal.
As time went by we started getting along real well and something small was starting to take place inside me. When winter arrived and before the new year's party I was really thinking of shooting my shot, but in the end nothing really happened because all of us decided to get completely hammered and walk around in nature, although there was a moment for a second when smth clicked. I was going to my room to get smth and I found her sitting really calmly and cute on the stairs and when we made eye contact it seemed like time stopped for a second.
After that nothing much really happened, idk why I stopped pursuing this feeling and we just kept on going normally as buddies, until this month. At the beginning of may it was her birthday party and after we moved the party to her dorm room, eventually it was pretty late and ppl started to leave until it was only me and her left there (also as a short notice because I forgot, I did sleep in her room from time to time because my roomate calls his gf sometimes over so it wasn't something new). She said that we should just go to sleep, even though I could go back to my room I was too tired and really wanted to sleep. After we got into bed she immediately hugged me, put her head on my chest, and wrapped her legs around mine. I really didn't know how to act and also I don't remember everything since I was pretty hammered. Eventually we started making out and all that but nothing sexual happened since we both were kinda hesitant about it. Eventually after this whole back and forth trying to sleep and making out again, we fell asleep. I vividly remember waking up during the night to get some water and it happened again but after that we slept for good.
Next day everything was chill, somehow my roomate felt something cause he was smiling when I came back and he said he was pretty sure smth happened. (Also I woke up earlier and let her continue on sleeping) When we saw each other again first thing we looked at each other and laughed and we were really ok, nothing awkward between us. Here comes the problem though, now I'm really crushing hard and I don't know now if I'm blinded by it and see signals from her that the feeling's mutual which are just in my head or if it's the real thing.
3 weeks later, I still go sometimes to sleep over, watch a movie and generally spend time togheter every now and then. She doesn't give me any physical signals of any sort, but that damned eye contact always gets me, especially when keep it for a while and then she swiftly turns her look down.
So now I find myself in this limbo and honestly I'd appreciate any sort of advice from you people. Thank you so much if you made it this far. | Crushes |
I just feel like writing about it... Again
I started high school(im 15,in Europe, idk how America school system works) this year, 8 months ago.
And started liking this girl, i didn't realize it at the beginning, but it got stronger over time.
About a week or 2 in, she kinda got in a relationship with other classmate, and it lasted only a week, she dumped him, i believe.
It was going about a month before i made first move.
I don't remember exactly what happened, but suddenly we started always sitting together, walking together...
It was going great, and now im 70% sure that she had some feelings at the time.
Then our friend group happened...
They started mocking us for hanging out and all that...
It was just our male friends, not girls...
One of them was the guy she broke up with.
When she wasn't there, they'd talk shit about her, and I'd always defend her, which only sparked things up.
Then, we would talk less, she would just ignore me, and over time she completely ghosted me...
She wouldn't even say hi.
I'm mostly sure it was because of friend group.
Then i didn't see her for a month, and i thought i got over her, but second i saw her... It started over again.
Back to square one
2-3 weeks ago she again asked me to sit with her, but idk if she just made an excuse to sit with me, or she genuinely doesn't care and it doesn't matter
She kept sending mixed signals over 8 months
That's longest time i had a crush on someone
I still don't know how to feel about it.
And also she might be liking someone else, and i personally don't see what she could possibly see in him, like, this is not jealousy talk, im saying genuinely | Crushes |
this’ll be so much fun. i’ll ask you a question too <33 | Crushes |
She always, whenever she sees me, says "Hi J" (I'm "J" that's only the first letter obvs)
And on multiple occasions she's tried to get me involved with her friendship group when I've been nearby. There was this one time where she went up to me and quite literally mirrored me, I even ended up slapping my face and she slapped hers after, then another time when she was staring at me really really obviously, then when I looked towards her, she turned her head in a massive obvious motion, so she knew that I knew what she was doing. But it's kinda annoying because she has a twin brother who is really annoying if your on his bad side, I'm not of his bad side but nor good, I'm kinda just in the middle and I feel like if something did happen between us, he'd make me on his bad side
Anyway... She just confuses me so much and I don't know what to think of her and the situation... | Crushes |
My crush (I had a crush on her for 3 years since high school and I secretly do :)) just cleared her second stage of Chartered Accountancy exam (which happens to be difficult) recently. She is also doing an internship.
So my mother hears this news and she just straight up compares me with her. She comes from an extremely well-to-do family and she has brains. When my mom compared me with her, I juat felt hurt and good-for-nothing. Also I just felt that I am just wasting dad's money.
So yeah I have been feeling pathetic about it recently and horrible. Luckily my mom does not know that I had a crush on her. | Crushes |
Hi so i kinda just need to rant a bit so I hope someone can give me advice on what to do I really need it.
I'm so sad. Yesterday I was at school and the teacher was late and so my class was waiting outside the classroom and he had some friends that were girls there and they looked very close and they have the same humour. They were teasing him and they were laughing a lot. He looked very happy. When the teacher came in and we got to class his friends that are girls left to go to the shops or something. In class he and this girl were staring at each other a lot like a lot and everyone ships them and he always helps her in computers and i know i should not be jealous coz we are not even dating and i don't really know much about him but it really hurts and i just wish we could spend more time together. And he is sooooo pretty. His eyes, his hands, his hair (OH MY GOD HIS HAAIIIRRR) is soooo beautiful it hurts. I wish my feelings could just disappear but they won't. After class his friends came back and they were laughing and teasing again. His friends are so much funnier and cooler and more beautiful then me. and i know he will never like me the way i like him. He probably will never even like me as a friend.
If you have read everything thank you and sorry if it's too long | Crushes |
the boy I have a crush on, finally began noticing me, he's called out my name for the first time a few days ago because he wanted to borrow my notes. We have made eye contact a couple of times now. But i don't know if I still like him as much as I used to (which i believe is due to the absolute lack of interaction with him?)
but i think his friend has begun to show interest in me. His friend keeps trying to sit near my seat, I've caught him looking at me a lot. He keeps trying to initiate conversations with me by asking obvious chemistry questions that I know he knows the answers to. I want to keep the conversation going but i don't know what to say and how. I think I'll just begin by smiling at him or saying hi's and byes but I'm shy idkidk | Crushes |
Basically we always hold doors open for eachother & we always thank eachother as well. One time I held the door open for like 12 people & she was the only one to thank me. Kinda hurts that no one else did tho.
Is it a sign at all? I didn’t really think it was until I saw other people on here talking about it. | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this girl since November. I think crush is the wrong word to use, because I can swear that I feel like I’m love with this girl. Completely. So much to the point it hurts. It hurts if I see her look or talk to another guy. I don’t want this to evolve into borderline obsession. But I know if I ask her out and confess to her and get rejected it would genuinely ruin me. But not doing so, not getting to consistently interact with her, and see her face outside of a school setting ruins me even more. | Crushes |
Well today was the last day of school. Last time I see him for forever probably.
This random boy suddenly showed up out of nowhere and left. Its just my feelings and me now. Really wish he wasn't moving out but there's nothing we can do about that.
My first crush, first time I've ever liked someone like this. Goodbye. I hope you don't forget me too easily, that'd hurt haha. | Crushes |
So today in our high school we had a very lazy day. We had 8 hours straight in one class with one teacher and we didn't even had to go leave the class during the break. (We study in some sort of occupation high school where we have additional subjects concentrated about a specific job. I don't know how to translate in bcs I don't know if something like this exists in US. It is not really important). I sat next to her for nearly 8 hours. We talked about many things, really watched tiktoks and many different things on the net. Just casually spent time. I really enjoyed it and talking to her helped me pass the time faster.
But near the end of the day, when there was about 30 minutes until the end of school she asked me this question. It was like this: "Umm... By the way... what do you like in girls? What do you prefer in girl's look?" I talked with her about it but I was intrigued by her question. She never asked me about this before. How do you see this question? You think it could be a sign? | Crushes |
I (14f) have a crush on this lovely, lovely girl (14f) I go to school with. We've known each other for 5ish years now and we've experienced a lot of things growing up together. 2 years ago we figured out our sexualities and we came out to each other as bi. For the past few months I've had feelings for her but I'm not sure if she reciprocates them. She's been giving me mixed signals for a couple months now. First I would feel like she likes me too since she would hold my hand randomly and would try to hang out with me as much as possible during recess but then she would ignore me in a way? Like she still acknowledges me but you can tell something is off. What should I do about this? Should I try and move on? | Crushes |
I (F) asked the guy I like to let someone take a photo of us and he put his hand on my waist, where the ribs are, basically under the boob.
I noticed he otherwise always puts his hand on everybody else's (girls included) shoulder when he takes a photo.
What does it mean? Does it mean he is more comfortable with me than with others? Can I consider this sort of a flirt? | Crushes |
So i go to this coaching center and they were announcing the results, my crush got 2nd highest marks in the class and i was shocked that somebody can be soo cute and yet soo smart OH MY GOD. In the middle of the lecture i asked her for her physics notes and then continued listening. Then in the end i told her that her noted were really pretty then we made small talk for 45 seconds then out of the blue i asked "can i have your number because work and stuff". She was like "sure whatever here you go". she did not actually say that but her body language did, i dont think its a good sign but i was blushing the whole ride home aaaaaaaaaaaa | Crushes |
(M20). So I have a crush for some months now, we are in the same class in the university. As a shy person i had a hard time approaching her and after I did sometimes, I think i creeped her off a little bit cause I was anxious and weird. We still greet each other and she greets me with a smile but that is the only thing that connects us. I'm having a hard time every day, I cant get her off my mind, every day seems so dark if I don't see her. This is actually my first crush and I had no idea how to handle it. So I thought maybe I should confess to her to at least try and get my life together after rejection. I don't like speaking to people through social media but I'm afraid that's the only way. I just don't know what to do so I am writing here for whatever advice and to feel better. I have to point out that it doesn't seem that she likes me at all. | Crushes |
I’ve tried to just go up and say hello but I can’t and I’m worried the conversation won’t lead anywhere also I’m scared to even talk to her | Crushes |
So I confessed to my crush but it failed because she’s Gay. I hate my life. | Crushes |
The girl I like is the smartest girl in the class, and honestly she's just awesome at everything. Because of this I wanted to be better than her in everything, but its hard for me still. Im not sure if I can do it anymore. I feel like she'll never like me back or even respect me as a person if I can't be equal to or better than her. Shes nice to me, but I still get so nervous talking to her, I can only talk to her on text, and even then its almost always about school. I'm to scared to say certain things out of fear of making her hate me or think less of me. I want to be like her, because If I can't be like her she won't like me, I feel. | Crushes |
But sadly probably unrequited. I’m watching a sappy movie and it makes me yearn to to be intimate with that person one last time. But I feel like he had already checked out. Last time I was excited to kiss him, he was only horny and stopped cause my lipstick was sticky. He had nice lips and I wish I could run my fingers along his chin and the stubble. | Crushes |
Some context: I've crushed on a classmate of mine for 2 years, and tomorrow is the last day of the schoolyear (aka last day I can confess). He's gone through 3 girlfriends during the time I've had a crush on him, including our classmate whom he dated for a VERY short time but still pretty friendly with. (I know her fairly well even though we're in different friend groups.) He is single now though, and not liking anyone to my knowledge, even though he's dishearteningly close to his ex.
Now, the signals. Saying I'm fucking confused about his feelings towards me would be a massive understatement.
He stares at me relentlessly. It didn't use to be this way, but for the last 2 weeks he's been initiating pretty much every single eye contact we have. Like, we're part of a club with about 10 people, and during last week's meeting, every single time I glance in his direction, he's staring at me. Flattering, but also a bit worrying?
He initiates our conversations, which might be seem like a big deal but it is. Due to differing social circles and me heavily disliking the classmate that he dated (and being kind of toxic about it), our 'friendship' (which was not *that* close, hence the air quote) suffered A LOT in the earlier stages of my crush. (I've since gotten in therapy to work on my toxic ways and are also a lot more chill and fun around people.) We haven't had a full-on conversation for like a year, so it cheers me up to see he initiates conversation that a) aren't 'needed', and b) not at all awkward.
His friends. A close female friend of his (that I'm not crazy close with, but we get along pretty well) suddenly asked me if I liked anybody from our class, and when I ask her why, she said someone wanted to know. She also asked if I was going on the class trip (I'm not, and not by choice) to which I said no and asked why. She just looked his way and smiled.
There were also incidents with his bigger friend group, which is a bit more worrying. I get along pretty well with about half of them, we're chill, but a few of that bunch... We dislike each other, intensely. We were walking down the stairs after class - me on my own, he with the dislike bunch. When they saw me walking with him (they walked ahead, he kinda waited for me?) they started smirking and pointing and calling me his girlfriend. I felt embarrassed and attacked then, but now I just wonder why they did it.
The final thing, which happened literally this morning. A guy from the dislike bunch told the whole class (wrongly, I might add - I wish I was that lucky) that the reason my results in geometry spiraled was because I had a boyfriend who gets all my attention. The whole class - including the teacher who said it made sense and wondered why she didn't know - was in awe, since I never shared anything about my love(less) life, even to my best friends. He and some other guys started saying that my crush was my boyfriend, then staring at him. I wanted to literally evaporate, but he just looked me in the eye and grinned. Which is.... confusing, to say the least.
So, does he like me? I'm sick and tired of being depressed because I can't move on from my unrequited love for a guy who seems to like every other girl. Either I confess tomorrow or not ever. I do need closure to move on, but the embarrassment and stress and pressure that simply planning the confession gave me is seriously making me rethink it.
Please help me. I have one day left. | Crushes |
Like she was holding his hand and laughing at all his dumb jokes, it's obvious she likes him 😥. Feels so bad.
I still had a little bit of hope after getting rejected but now I think I'm fully moving on. We did agree to still be friends but now I don't think I will message her or hang out with her as much cause it's too painful 😪. | Crushes |
Me and my crush are not on the best of terms right now (not saying why) so how long should I wait before things are good between us and I can try to get her to like because right now I feel like she doesn't even want to be near me.😐😢 | Crushes |
So today at school i saw my crush in the library, and because we are good friends i decided to visit her. I walked up to her and said ,,Hello" to wich she responded ,,Hey, i haven't seen you in a while, im glad you are back" and then she hugged me, it felt really good but it's kinda strange because: 1. The last time we met was only half a week ago. And 2. She never hugged me before.
My Question is: Do you think the hug means that she loves me or is it just normal. | Crushes |
Yes, he is my private tutor and I have a crush on him, the biggest crush on him. Everytime we have a lesson I’m smiley and happy, when we laugh together I’m alive and he will never know how I feel. I don’t want to be the creepy - weird one, the one he won’t want to talk to again, the one he will look at as a joke so I just don’t say anything to him about it. The feeling is sad and painful. | Crushes |
i’m really curious as to what other people think
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Today was the last day of school and she is graduating this year... So, I guess this is it... that probably means I will never see her again... And I'm not even friends with her or anything... I only spoke to her a few times at school and I don't think she even remembers me... I also don't have any contact with her or anything it's just that I am following her on Instagram but she probably isn't aware of that either... I can try texting her but it's probably not going to work.
It just really sucks because I can't stop thinking about her... but I guess there's nothing I can do about it now :(
Edit: After reading some of the comments I see that I have got nothing to lose... Fuck this shit Imma just text her... | Crushes |
So hey guys, i am a second year undergraduate. I am close friends with one of my classmate. Our friendship has been there since the first year. But only recently i got to know her well on a personal scale. So the thing is about a month ago, i suddenly got infatuated with her. J thought it was a temporary thing and left it like that. But it slowly turned into a full fledged attraction. Right now, I am not only crushing on her, I feel like I have feelings towards her, due to us being really close friends. But she established sometime ago that she sees me only as a friend. I didn't confess back then. Now my question is, should I confess that I really like her?
Or should I just hold back my feelings and just continue being good friends with her? | Crushes |
I (18f) am meeting an online friend (20m) for the second time tomorrow. We live reasonably close to eachother so we’re hoping to meet up regularly. The ‘problem’ is, I think I like him as more than a friend. He’s said in the past that he’s attracted to me(or was then at least) and would be open to more, but I didn’t feel the same then. When we met last time, honestly all I could think about was wanting to kiss him but I thought it was just the nerves of meeting him for the first time and that it would pass, but it didn’t. Should I give him a signal tomorrow and how do I do it? Or have I missed my chance? | Crushes |
I just had a nice good laugh about how effing pathetic this crush has made me. Man the way feelings can control you and I’m trying not to let them but damn. I try to pull away and he pays me a sliver of attention and I come crawling back to him like a puppy going for the bits of crumb he’s handing out. Fml.
Has someone come up with a way to quite literally remove your feelings? Because I would hands down like to remove them or like exit my body if it means not feeling like this attention starved, hopeless, idiotic romantic. Sigh. :’) | Crushes |
I just had a nice good laugh about how effing pathetic this crush has made me. Man the way feelings can control you and I’m trying not to let them but damn. I try to pull away and he pays me a sliver of attention and I come crawling back to him like a puppy going for the bits of crumb he’s handing out. Fml.
Has someone come up with a way to quite literally remove your feelings? Because I would hands down like to remove them or like exit my body if it means not feeling like this attention starved, hopeless, idiotic romantic. Sigh. :’) | Crushes |
I am so proud of myself! After dropping out with another guy (we didn't get to see each other and make a strong connection), I was a little sad about it. But today I went to one of my clubs and this new boy came along too. We didn't know each other yet, but we started talking and after a while I asked him for his phone number and now I can get to know him. I am so nervous now, haha! I'm really afraid of getting turned down but I'm going to try anyway! | Crushes |
A girl i met last week at school i wanted to know better so i decided to ask for her number today and she has a friend he’s gay i think not that it matters so i asked him personally if he knows if she has a boyfriend coz i don’t want to come off as weird asking for her number and he said yeah i asked him when did she tell him that he said he “doesn’t know” but she once asked him about something maybe saying something to her boyfriend idk so i decided not to ask for her number
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So i have a crush on this girl since time i saw her in 2019 in my college. After noticing her for quite a few days i came to know that our humour, thought process and social skills (if those matter) are almost the same. So to not be labelled as a creep we messed around on social media! Tagging in memes, laughing it off everything. That was on social media mind you. My friends whole class low-key had even started pairing us up. So one day i took the courage of talking to her quite a bit nad gave her very small hints of i being interested in her. And the hints not at all flirty or anything. Just some old school bits. So after all this, while trying to create an impression on her, covid hit and everything stopped. And in between the on/off covid lockdowns we got graduated meaning we wouldn't be able to see ourselves again. Due to this my mild hints turned into full-fleged asking her out in memes nd all but she's either sometimes not responding or just avoiding the msgs. What would be your advices here? | Crushes |
Original title: "I don't know what to do"
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Hi guys,
I just made this new account to talk about my story, she knows about my regular account, so I made a new one.
I (M21) have very strong feelings for one of my classmates (F19).
I've been crushing on her for almost 2 years, and probably I won't see her ever again in a week.
I think she may be crushing on me as well, we've been classmates for 3 years and through this years I cought some signals like:
-a lot of stolen glances (with "a lot" I mean I catch her staring at me at least 2-3 times a day)
-when we're at the bus station or in the middle of a crowd, she keeps staring at me
-when we have PE she always tries to stay physically close to me
-she is very timid, she's always on her own, but with me it seems like she is more comfortable to talk
-our class have a chat group and she is quite quiet, but if I ask a question she always try to help me
-always on our chat group, sometimes she sends goofy stickers to answer me
-a friend of mine sent me a TikTok of her describing the "perfect guy" and the description matches with me
-she compliments me for my sneakers/clothes and because I'm smart
-she laughs for everything I say
-when we talk she always smile
-when I told her that probably the next year we could be still classmates at university she looked pretty excited
At the same time through this years there have been a couple of "cons", for example last year me, a friend of mine and her were doing a team-work, and I suggested to her and the guy to come to my house in order to work in a better (of course I didn't have any second purposes, it was a team-work and I was focused on it) but she was pretty reluctant and in fact we ended up working at distance.
Another episode that comes to my mind appended this year, in March: all my class was partying, I was a little bit drunk, and I remember I said a lot of weird things, but she was having good team so I don't think I actually bothered her: in fact the day after I reached her at school and I apologized for my behavior, and I emphasized the fact that I don't drink too much alcohol and everytime I do I get drunk, and she started laughing saying: "are still thinking about yesterday night? ahhaha it's all right"
Now, coming to the title of this post, I don't know what to do, because I'm tired of repress my feelings for her knowing that probably she feels the same way, but yet I fear the possibility the make a fool of myself, so how can I be classmate with her at the university next year knowing that she rejected me? The situation it's just pathetic.
If you have read this all, I love and you deserve the best <3
(forgive me for possible mistakes, english is not my main language) | Crushes |
So I like this girl in my class and since we’re in eighth grade I want to tell her how I feel because we will go to different high schools. I am pretty sure she doesn’t have feelings for me and I’m not in the position where I could be in a relationship because of some family problems. I know that one of my friends also likes her and since he might have a chance I backed off (he also knows that i like her) but I can’t just stop having feeling. That’s why I want to tell her and move on(preferably still friends). The problem is that I don’t want to ruin my relationship with her, my friend or even between them.
What should I do? | Crushes |
We met bc we have a class together and ever since we met I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s just been building up for so long that I really wanna say something but I’m scared that she doesn’t like me (which kind of makes no sense bc she thinks I’m funny and and we always sit next to each other in class) so I was hoping someone could talk sense into me before I do something stupid.
P.S I didn’t give a lot of detail but it’s late and I wanna go to bed and it was kinda devolving into a rant so I just cut it off | Crushes |
I have a crush on 1 of my close friends. But they told me that they like another person. That person is also my close friend, but I want them 2 be tgth bc I always put friendships first so I decided forget abt myself n ship them. Am I doing it right? Plz give me some advice | Crushes |
I just want him to hold me. I’m so touch deprived y’all.
I’m not used to not being around him,
Is it bad to feel neglected because he gave me all the physical affection I never got as a kid?
I just want to mess with his hair, or lay on his shoulder again.
I miss him. | Crushes |
UM IF U THINK U KNOW ME IN PERSON IGNORE THIS
In school, I'm in a band one of our assignments is to write a pop song. Stupidly enough our band decided to write the song abt love, specifically HIGHSCHOOL crushes that actually WORK OUT, which none of us have experience in.
One of the band members is a guy who knows I used like him and we've had a somewhat shaky relationship esp in crushes, we're gnna call him A. (read my other post for like the tinest amt of context)
Our teacher said as a band we need to work on the lyrics together and idk what to do. It's easier to write abt something u've had experiences in but A has been my only crush my whole highschool life.
And its not like I don't want to contribute, its just weird bc for me ig its a vulnerable topic and its weird having the person the song abt help write the lyrics.
Also if I go into too much detail in the lyrics he'll probably think its him.
IDK IDK IDK IM JUST RLLY SCARED ABT HOW ITS GNNA GO IDEK IF I STILL LIKE HIM ANYMORE UGHH
IF U HAVE ADVICE OR SMTH PLS COMMENT ANYTHINGS APPRECIATED 🤍
ps. i didnt know how to flair this honestly BC ITS NOT A VENT BUT IM NOT RLLY ASKING FOR ADVICE AND IT ISNT A CONVO SO 😐🤷♀️ | Crushes |
Long story short...
I texted this guy I found interesting and told him about it, he said thank you/he was flattered, asked some questions to which he replied to and I replied kinda unknowingly ending the conversation so he just hearted (❤) my replies and I left him on seen for 16 hours...
ONE THING TO MENTION: (he barely comes online)
The problem now is that I sent some follow up questions and he didn't answer for like 3 hours but then came online briefly so I panicked and was over thinking maybe he wanted to be left alone, he's not interested, he ignored you and I unsent the messages!!! I REGRET IT SO MUCH cause right after that he comes online multiple times (probably because IG sends the person that messages were unsent UGH). I tested out if he was coming online because of someone else or me by posting something random on my story and hes the FIRST one to see it like a few seconds after posting :'D
Is this still salvageable? I need to know man | Crushes |
She made a 1k word essay. and I just appreciate it so much- idk
duckling I have to say it- "REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE" | Crushes |
Aaaaaahhh. Long story short we are about to graduate from university and I've suddenly become obsessed with this girl I've been friends with for a few years now. Sigh, she's smart, pretty, hard working, mature, we wanna work in the same field, my best friend is her best friend it's just so perfect. We get on pretty well but covid really has limited us hanging out which sucks. Plus since we both are pretty career motivated we work a lot and don't hang out as much as I would be like.
That being said at our ball for graduation, where by the way she looked absolutely stunning, my best friend who's really close with my crush told me she's not looking for anything right now cause of a bad breakup she had last year. Apparently he became really weird and controlling :(
Mannn idk what to do, I just wanna talk to her everyday and I wanna suprise her at work but I know that'll come across weird. I just wanna hang out more at this point cause I guess I gotta play the long game. | Crushes |
This close friend of mine who’s a girl is confusing me on her intentions. She’s very touchy and treats me sometimes like we’re bf and gf, but other times she acts like she is just horny. She’ll intentionally stand in front of me as we go up the stairs and pull her pants up as high as possible or ask the size of my penis, etc. Is she just wanting sex, fwb, or a relationship? | Crushes |
I’m curious
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Like the title says. She forgot the fucking date. I know for a fact that she isnt interested right now. Problem is this:
I texted her about the date since I didnt now exactly where we were going to meet and she didn't text me anything either.
She told me it would be cool if we could reschedule but we can still meet on the first agreed day if I am busy later.
I asked her why she didn't text me about it before(I prepared for this shit for a whole fucking week)
and told her that we can reschedule it is OK for me.
She texted me she didn't tell me because she forgot.
I am really pissed off right now. I don't think I am overreacting.
How do I tell her that I don't want to meet up anymore after we rescheduled. | Crushes |
My cousin got in trouble today so I didn’t see my crush for most of the day. Waiting for the bus there was a lot of people around and I wanted it to just be me and him. By the time we were alone my bus came and all my courage went away😕. I’ll try another time but maybe sometime this week. I at least got to have a really nice conversation with him. I think I made him a bit upset because he made an assumption about a situation really personal to me. I explained it to him though so we’re both happy with each other. | Crushes |
So recently I have found out that the girl I have a crush on is kind of into and she knows I am into her
I am wanting to ask her out to the formal/ball but all I'm hearing from her and her friends is that she would like me a lot more if I got a haircut (I'm a guy and have been growing my hair out for over a year plus I keep it clean and have no issues with it) so I'm feeling very pressured into getting a haircut for her and that if I don't she won't like me.
I'm asking for advice bc I don't really know what to do? | Crushes |
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I’m going to ask for her number tonight or Thursday at karate going to ask her what’s her favourite game and ask if I can get her username | Crushes |
After crushing for a full on year. I can't believe he likes me back. I've pinched myself a few times to make sure I'm not dreaming but it seems like this is real. | Crushes |
So, I guess I will never get a chance to ask the girl out or even date her at some point in the near future. I just want to jump onto my bed and cry so much. Why does it have to be this way? Maybe it's a sign for me to move on with my life. I made the same mistake 3 years ago, and now that same mistake comes back, and it still haunts me. Pls tell me what I really need to do? Should I tell her directly in person or maybe write her a note. | Crushes |
Dm me | Crushes |
my crush works at bath and body works and whenever i go to the mall, i go there first just to see him 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 | Crushes |
For state my rx girlfriend at the time we will call her ann. Ann and i were dating for about 6 months and broke up the day after our 6 month and her best friend at the time who is a woman just to preface and after a few months of not heart break i get a text message from her boyfriend asking if i wanted to hangout with them and talk about what happened meaning the break up. So we hang out and come to find out that lets call him josh is abusive towards lets call her abby not physically but emotionally and is manipulative and i started to talked to abby about her feelings and ever since then she would get all flirty with me. But this past weekend really confused me. It was her birthday and i she had invited me along with some of her friends to her and her boyfriends house for a party and im the only person that shows up besides her boyfriend and she walks up to me and hugs me and say. "You are the only one that didnt cancel on me" and she cried a little bit so i comforted her and so while we were hanging out around the bonfire she started following me asking if i was ok and just started deep conversations with me the whole night whilest every now and then leaning her head on my shoulder or just giving me the eyes to melt your heart akd every now and then when im talking to the guys she would come up and pinch or grab my ass and would expecting me to chase her and not to mention her telling me multiple times thats she loves me. So my problem is that i like her and i cant tell if shes flirting with me i dont respect her boyfriend because he treats her like shit and she is scared to leave him and wants to fix things but she says that it isnt getting better and i even see that. I really fell in love with her when we went to go play with puppies at their friends farm and i just saw her cute smile with the cute puppies and it melted my heart and made me fall more in love with her. You guys have any suggestions i dont know what to do anymore | Crushes |
so my plan is to push him to see if he has a crush on anyone. and i managed to schedule a hang out with him on june 1st-june 3rd. im so nervous but im gonna try to make it seem subtle. wish me luck!! | Crushes |
I have been getting many mixed signals throughout the year. I have had a weight on my shoulders of just overthinking everything. Even if she says no, I will at least have clarity. Is this a good idea? | Crushes |
i NEEEEDDDDD to scream about this guy rn!!! he makes me feel so happy and he’s so sweet and cool.... he matches my energy and he’s just so caring and funny - he’s just perfect and i love when we call for hourss im genuinely mad he lives extremely far away from me, but we still make it work! it’s 3:28am and he told me to sleep but uhh whatever🤜 anyway i wish i could hang out with him and chill
i get so nervous when i talk to him in a good way and he makes me feel so safe
i hope we can play games again tomorrow and call for ages, i have so much fun with him
he listens to my nonsense rambles and is just aghahandkddjsknd
i could talk to him for hours and hours on end
i wanna give him a hug and i love hearing his voice and he’s so CUTE MY LAWDDDDD
i could admire him for ages and just gaze at him without a word
HIS HAIR IS SO NICE HIS FACE IS SO NICE HIS EVERYTHING!
I LOVE HIS VOICE SO MCUCH!!!’2!2!2!!2!2
anywya
if only i knew how he felt about me :’) | Crushes |
Ok so I (15f) kinda have a crush on this boy in my art class and it getting to the last month of school and I really wanna talk to him but in literally terrified. He has long hair and I think that’s kinda the reason cuz I normally go for girls with short hair and guys with long hair. Anyway I’m probably not gonna talk to him cuz I’m way to scared even tho I really want to 🫤(why can’t I talk to peopleeeee!!) | Crushes |
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He's interested. That was made pretty clear today even though he didn't outright say it.
He's so calm and collected on the outside, but I feel he might be extremely cautious and vulnerable on the inside. So...I am going to do my best not to push him past his comfort level. I don't want to be like Chris Farley in "Tommy Boy" when he snuggles the bread to death (I have never related to a movie scene as much as that one when it comes to relationships, because granted, I only dated morons, monsters and men with deep psychological issues but I wasn't exactly a saint myself). I feel like he's been through far too much at his age and I suspect his baby momma has something to do with it.
For the longest time, I allowed the people I was associated with to shape the person I was. It wasn't until recently that I realized the only person who should be allowed to conform me to a specific mold is myself. My exes do not define me; I define me. And I want to be better *for him.*
I can't really explain how the fuck I'm so drawn to him. He's like an angel.
Or maybe he's a sorcerer and he put a spell on me.
Every time I look into his eyes, I feel like I might drown. And it scares me how I could feel like this for someone so much younger than me. (Relax, he's 23, I'm 36)
I've had this crush for a long time. I think it started when he told me I deserved better than the boyfriend I had at that time, and that was back in...2020? It struck me as odd that someone who didn't know me at all would say such a thing. I'll tell you what, compliments are free, but they sure as shit pay well. And that was the nicest thing anyone's ever said to me. No one ever told me I deserved better before.
This man is the nicest, kindest, spiciest, most playful person I've ever met. Maybe that's why I think he's gorgeous because I'm seeing the beauty within.
I'd hate to be the one to destroy him, and I'm scared that I will. But...I have been going through a lot of personal growth and I didn't even need therapy or to become a born-again Christian to do it. As long as I keep my head on, hope for the best and prepare for the worst, I think it will be fine.
It's far too early to even be thinking about this. Whatever this is, it's very fragile. I don't want to break it before it even truly starts. | Crushes |
What the title said | Crushes |
im curious to hear what happened :)
he told me he liked someone else, but used to like me. One min later he told me not to tell anyone that he likes me 😐 He gave me mixed signals all through out the years, even to this very day.
It hurt alot, some ppl told me he really did like me and others told me that he never liked me in the first place. Either way, it hurt and I cried way too much over him :)
p.s theres way more the the story but i just wanted to keep it brief 🤷♀️
EDIT: MAN ALOT OF YOU GUYS ARE GOING THROUGH IT, NO MATTER HOW SUCKY OR GREAT U FEEL, I HOPE U KNOW THAT UR WORTH IT AND WHAT SOMEONE THINKS OF YOU DOESNT DETERMINE YOUR WORTH 🤍 | Crushes |
This girl 😳👍🏻 istg I can’t stop thinking about her. It’s making me mad bc I want to just chill but I NEEEEED TO HUG HERRR!!! I was fantasizing about just holding her hand earlier while I was cleaning the house. I really hope she’ll message me today, she’s been so busy I just want to help her relax and pet her head. Aaaaaaaaa help I hope we meet sooooooon | Crushes |
Just wondering. It can be emotionally confusing sometimes but I prefer this over no interactions at all. | Crushes |
I made him laugh over a picture that I thought was also funny too. By the way, this is the first time I’ve talked to him. When he saw the picture he said that I was funny while laughing at the joke in the picture . What could this mean? | Crushes |
Cause I sure as fuck am struggling to move on | Crushes |
I have liked this girl for a little bit now and i guess you could say were kind of friends. A little bit. My point is it wouldnt be strange if i just started a conversation with her, but I am kind of introverted and i find it hard to bring myself to be able to talk to her, any advice? | Crushes |
i don’t have a way to contact him at all and i can’t see him again until we go back to school in august. maybe this crush will actually disappear over the summer so i don’t get into another hurtful relationship… but at the same time, if it does, what if i miss out on an amazing relationship?
and why does this always happen to me?? i get new crushes right before school ends and i never get a way to talk to my crushes during the summer and they forget all about me by the time school starts again. this sucks. why are feelings hsjehdkkcjwnf | Crushes |
So there’s this guy I like at work recently I started to take an interest in him. We have been having eye contact from time to time and my question is should I just randomly sit next to him at lunch. Our lunches are around the same time and I always see him in the break room. Would it be weird for me to just casually sit next to him and say “Hi” or would he find it strange since I normally don’t talk to him? | Crushes |
How do people get into relationships? I really think he likes me, get my hopes up and nothing happens. Just disappointed and regret not being more forward myself. having a crush hurts and I don’t want one anymore. | Crushes |
I've got it bad for a girl I've never met, or talked to, and its stupid. I saw her a few months ago scrolling through Facebook, and scrolled down to the "people you may know" list, and she was the first on it. I thought she was really cute, but I've never seen her before and kept scrolling.
Over the next few months I kept seeing her profile pop up, and her profile pic changing, so naturally I got curious. I saw she was single, and which of our friends we had in common. Always thought it would be weird to go to my friends and explain my infatuation with her and ask to be introduced.
Over this last weekend two of those friends had a wedding, and I even saw her at the wedding. Unfortunately I never had a chance to introduce myself during, I was one of the grooms closest friends, and she had left by the time the dancing had started.
So now I'm left with a crush, and no good way to really start a conversation with her. Gotta be honest I felt a bit like a creep thinking about it. | Crushes |
i was just looking at all my past posts and i wondered what the hell happened to me since i started liking this girl. i'm ashamed of myself that i could be so obsessed with this one person. i would think every single thing was a sign and i would think about her 24/7. since spring started everything's been good and my life has been so much better since i stopped obsessing over her. i've just been living my life as a normal guy with a crush and not a crazy obsessed one.
lesson: don't obsess over your crush, you will regret it. if you try not to, your life will be better. | Crushes |
I know where she sits at lunch, I'm going in tomorrow to talk to her, I do know she sits by herself on b days so that does give me some confidence but tomorrow is a A-day but I'm going in anyway, any good starting statements? | Crushes |
Okay so for some context I'm considered a "weird kid" more than likely due to the fact that I haven't met alot of people there so dont have many friends I've become a bit less shy and talked to more people and made my friends and I have a lot of haters for no particular reason and for those asking im not an easy to bully kid alot of the kids who do hate me are twigs I could snap in half at any moment so thats no the issue I wont get into too much detail but I'm not the most liked kid but I do happen to have a crush who is a bit popular but doesn't have qlot of people who crush on her one of my classmates beat me to the chase of asking her after maybe 2 months she dumped him because they really didn't do much together and she now recently found out that I like her and it was really cringe I ended up hiding after they started litterally chanting her name and jokes about oh you missed her twerking and smash or pass which is annoying but overall now she often looks at me and we catch each other staring in class and when we meet eyes she just smiles and she is a really nice person so if I like anybody it's her and other than that though we try to play it off and other times our interactions are extremely awkward and I want to ask her out but I dont know what to do I have a low chance of yes but I could still try and to just let go would be a huge heartbreak for me and I could end up being really saddened by it given its turned to a everytime I think about her I become really happy and frustrated I can't do anything to tell her directly how I feel without having a nervous breakdown reddit God's please help | Crushes |
"i like you and all, but I'm not really sure if my feelings are platonic or romantic"
Where do I go from here? I can't tell if they're just being nice or not.
They've liked me before but then stopped after.
Advice? | Crushes |
I used to be like many people here, having a crush and simp about her for months etc.
I am now in my senior year in high school and I feel like I changed quite a bit. I became a lot more direct in my approaches. I quickly ask girls to hang out with me if I have any romantic interest. They will reject me, of course. But because I took this approach, I dont have “crushes” anymore. I shoot my shot and move on.
I actually quite miss the feeling of having a crush. But i think I might not have one anymore, or at least, its gonna be very different. | Crushes |
it's been a long time
ok so just to summarize what happened in the past 3 months:
\-went on class trip
\-she rejected me there and then we went on break
\-stopped focusing on her
\-got into a better mindset and getting more sleep, getting in better shape ect
\-started to focus on other stuff like baseball and getting good grades
\-almost stopped thinking about her
\-got a haircut and she (my crush, not the other girl) liked it
\-i started talking to her more, she's been showing interest, trying to get close to me etc
\-things looking good | Crushes |
A couple days ago a girl I have seen around at school but never talked with randomly adds me on snapchat, adds me to her private story, and started snapping me. We talked a little bit, she was extremely friendly, and I'm just having a hard time reading the situation. She is definitely attractive and I'd like to get to know her, I just don't want to be severely misreading the situation.
It sounds stupid, but I don't get the very short snapchat conversations and feels pretty impersonal which is really the only thing that is making me think she is just overly friendly with other people as well.
Any thoughts and/or advice would be greatly appreciated, I'd like to get to know her, I just am not overly sure the best way to go about it. | Crushes |
My crush confessed that they like me and I kinda handled it horribly. I was awkward and didn’t know what to say or what to do. Like yes I’m happy he did but also very confused about what I want and have no idea to figure it out. I guess I can only take things one day at a time but I really like him and don’t want to fuck things up. Any advice on how I can open up to him or figure out my feelings more? Questions welcome | Crushes |
Okay so basically I texted this guy I found interesting from school and told him that he's very interesting (he said thank you and that he's very flattered) but one thing I noticed was that he hardly came online on IG. But when he does come online he texts either short or lengthy straight to the point answers which I am okay with. BUT in the end he ended up just hearting (❤) my responses and didn't actually reply. I cant tell if I ended the conversation and he didn't know what to reply with or if he wanted to end the conversation. He hasn't been online since the interaction it's been 16 hours. Should I try to continue a conversation? Or should I just leave him alone? | Crushes |
I (18f) have been talking to this guy (18m), James for about a month now. We were great friends in middle school, then we went to different high schools, and lost touch, but then reconnected again through social media in college. In the beginning he was very sweet, lots of compliments, very flirty, fast replies, etc. We’ve started hanging out and he still acted the same after those hang outs, but very randomly he won’t text me. I’ll try to text first, but it’s usually will take him a long time to respond and the responses are very dry. At first I just figured maybe he was having a bad day and didn’t want to talk but for the past two weeks he’ll stop talking and be dry with me for like two days, then go right back to his flirty self for a couple of days, and back and forth. Idk what’s going on or if this even is anything going on and I’m just overthinking. | Crushes |
She likes me a bit but I have had a complicated history with her and would prefer to not talk to her. Why is she the only one I can talk to without social anxiety taking over. | Crushes |
HE SAID HE LIKED ME BACK
a big thank you to one of my best friends :) | Crushes |
So basically I have a crush on this boy who's a year older than me (I'm 14, he's 15), he's also not in my year at school so I've never ever talked to him before. I usually see him in assembly or at lunch, sometimes before school. I was bored last night so i had the very smart idea to message him but i didnt have his number or any of his socials so i EMAILED HIM on like his school email address and said "I think you're cute" and he responded this morning I DIDNT THINK HE WOULD (this is so embarrassing im in tears.) thankfully i used an alt account. Now he's asking who i am and how old i am and i just cantttt
Also let me just say that he's such a good swimmer i cannot.
(please this is so specific imagine if he randomly saw this) | Crushes |
So this year I felt like it's time to start some socializing with my crush but the thing is i don't have time to talk to her and uhh i basically don't know what to tell her . she knows me for like 4months and if ik what type is she i can finally keep a conversation for atleast 20min but i don't have time to text her every hour every night like i worry Abt her and stuff btw am 17m | Crushes |
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