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What does your crushes face look like. Is ONE of the reasons you like them becaus of their looks, or is so thing else?
My crush has brown hair and has freckles all across his face. AHH, HELP, HES SO CUTE | Crushes |
Encourage me! | Crushes |
i lock eyes with my crush all the time. it’s the type of eye contact in movies, where time feels like it stops, the background is non existent, and it’s just the two of us at that moment. it feels very good, little weird at first, but the afterwards gets me grinning.
we have been doing this for months now. it happens in the most random moments. he did it just recently : he was gone for a while, and it was a relief to see his face again after what felt like forever. when i caught him looking at me, i just held the eye contact with him, i didn’t look away, and for some reason everything seemed a bit blurry lol. but i always long for these types of moments. they feel so nice. i wonder what he’s thinking when he looks at me.
have any of you had this experience before? ❤️ | Crushes |
With each passing day, a painful reminder grows in the depths of my mind. Each new day serves to taunt me with the fact that only a short amount of time remains before I never see you again, before I have to go back to a life where you weren't around every so often. We were strangers for most of the time we knew each other, but one of the hidden blessings about this pandemic was that I got the chance to know you more as a person, as a friend, and as someone who brightens up my day in ways you probably can't imagine. If future me ended up showing you this message, it is probable that you see this sometime after I stood up and made that dedication towards you and all the other members graduating. What I said about you is true, but there is more to the story than I let on.
This past year, I've witnessed a lot of changes occurring in my life. One of those changes involved the people I would consider to be my friend. In only a year, I've had to bear victim to the deterioration of several friendships I once had, either due to the prominence of ghost-like behavior, natural separation due to no longer living in the same city as them, or them straight up backstabbing me. For a while, I questioned whether friendships were even sustainable, whether it was worth keeping the friends I did have if it meant the possibility of being hurt by them existed. You showed me that not all friendships go down the paths I've seen them go down. You showed me that it's worth hanging on to the friends I do have as they're real friends, not the fake ones that tried to bring me down.
When we first started waiting, together, for the start of the after-school club, I'll admit that I wasn't super pleased at first. I liked the idea of being able to collect my thoughts and mentally prepare for what's coming all by myself. Through our various interactions, I learned that I don't like doing that as much as I thought I did. Our interactions showed me that I love the idea of being able to share a laugh and a smile with you before the start of the club meetings. I love that I had the chance to talk to you, even if our conversations were brief and somewhat awkward. The first time you showed up late to the club meetings was the moment I realized how much I truly valued the little moments we had together.
It looks as though I am about to engage in some irony. Although I talked about how I've seen the end of several friendships, largely through the actions of others, it looks as though what I am about to say next will cause me to become the destroyer of our friendship, to become the thing I swore I hated. **I have a crush on you**. When I first suspected that I might have feelings for you, I tried my hardest to deny them. I wanted nothing to do with them. Why now? Why must my heart play games with me? Why toy with my emotions like that? I kept trying to convince myself that I was just being delirious. As the feelings grew stronger, it grew harder to deny that I saw you as someone I wanted to be more than friends with.
At this point, I can't deny the way you've made me feel the past couple of months. The world that is crafted inside my mind goes into a frenzy whenever you show up. As a result, your appearance always yields laughter and a smile from me. My heart glows whenever I've found a way to make you happy. Even receiving a notification from you lights up my world. Your personality lures me in and keeps me from thinking about anything else. It hurts to know that you'll likely never see yourself the way I see you. While you might see Marigold, I see an extremely talented person that has the potential to change the world for the better. I see a glowing crystal in a sea of darkness and despair.
Yes, I know you probably don't feel the same way about me. I know that you likely only see me as a friend and my words have jeopardized everything. Chances are if you are able to read this, I've likely prepared for that scenario. By the time you read this letter, I've either found a way to turn off my emotion meter, just like Zane, and I've suppressed most of my feelings for you, or I still have feelings for you but I am using this as a farewell address. Either way, I want to thank you for how the past year and a half has gone. I've seen the same story end too many times to know that, due to my words, this friendship will never remain the same, and it will likely fade into obscurity. Thank you for everything! Thank you for being yourself! Thank you for giving me a chance to get to know you better. I will miss the conversations we had both in person and on discord. I will miss knowing that I had the opportunity to see you every Tuesday afternoon. I will miss the times we had over zoom. I will miss being around you. I will miss you, Marigold, and I'm sorry if this message forever causes you to see me in a much more negative light. I'm sorry if this message causes you to feel awkward around me, and I understand if you no longer wish to speak to me because of it.
Just know that I'll always care for you, no matter what. | Crushes |
Ok so this is an update to my last Reddit post, if you want to read it, here's the link:[https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/uuo4hm/plan\_to\_confess\_to\_my\_crush\_soon/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/uuo4hm/plan_to_confess_to_my_crush_soon/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
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ok so basically I talked to him and we were having a good time at my friends sweet 16, right? then all of a sudden I go "I know somebody who used to like you" and then he looks at me like "Who?" and then I said "Would it be weird if I told you I used to have a crush on you?" and then he said "Oh I know, somebody in Theatre told me" and I just stood there like "oop-" he went on to say how one day he was in class eating a lollipop and then somebody came up to him and said "Oh \*my name\* has a crush on you" and then I'm just like "god dang it." and the rest of the night was really awkward. | Crushes |
What does this mean? I have a strong feeling we have a connection, but he never messages me first. IRL (at work) he comes up to me first usually. These days he seems more nervous around me as well. Do you guys think he may just feel shy over text? Or maybe he doesn't want to come at me too strong? Or is this all in my head 😔. He is very social IRL. | Crushes |
To preface I'm a lesbian and at first the girl said she was bi and then changed her mind after being with a certain dude.
I've liked this girl for almost 5 months and all of my friends are certain she likes me back. About a month after I first met her she gave me a lap dance. I caught feelings for her and told her and she didn't say much and mostly dismissed what I said so it wouldn't be so awkward between us. She asks me to walk her to her bus everyday and tells me she loves me when she leaves. She gets upset when I don't tell her that I love her. One day she told my friends and I that she wasn't into girls but though that lesbain p*** was really hot. She always tries to sit right next to me when she can. She's had me put my fingers in her mouth to fix her piercings that she really could have fixed herself. I really do think she likes me, but she always talks about guys so I'm kinda lost. The worst part is that she knows I like her and does all of this :(( | Crushes |
So he confessed to me in front of some friends on Friday, but now I don't know what to do.. Like I don't want to be awkward when I see him on Monday, so now i'm nervous. Please help me. | Crushes |
His name starts with A | Crushes |
So I just has this dream where I was sitting next to the girl I really like and she moved closer along the seat pressing her body against mine and put her head on my shoulder and we just snuggled before she decided to kiss me. Then we were suddenly on a rock shelf digging for miniature statures which held religious significance for the Romans. And then I woke up and I realised the snuggling was a dream. | Crushes |
We’re friends but I kinda made it obvious that I have a crush on him and I want us to be more than friends
but he doesn’t seem to care he hasn’t changed around me or make any move
And he never texts me first
Whenever I text him he replies shortly and ends the conversation before it even starts
We still hang around though and he’s always so nice..
I tried to take a step away from him once but that didn’t work out I liked him more tbh
I texted him one day and he replied shortly as usual so I tried to tease and said don’t talk to me if you see me tomorrow and he literally just replied “ok” !
The next day it turned out he wasn’t serious and said hi, I told him I’m mad from his responds so he said “I don’t have the patience to put up with you”
That really hurt me like he couldn’t be more honest why did he have to say it like that
He couldn’t find anything more heartbreaking to say ?! | Crushes |
Or is it a dealbreaker?
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About a year ago, I matched with this cute guy on tinder. We chatted for like 2 days but then just stopped, as most tinder matches do. Nothing serious and I really hadn't given him much thought, other than the fact I was v attracted to his pictures and style. Anyways, fast forward to now, my brother had been mentioning that he was working with this local artist on a music video and blah blah. When he showed me the artist's Instagram, I realized it was the tinder match! I didn't tell my brother I kinda knew who this person was because it didn't feel relevant. Now he's coming to my brother's bday party and I feel like I could shoot my shot IRL? I guess I'm kinda crushing now that this person is in the peripheral of my life? Either I should just leave it or I could really test the waters haha. Who's to say he'll even remember me.
Should I just leave it or see if its worth chatting him up at the party? | Crushes |
There's this girl I like. We started being really good friends 4 months ago and I end up falling for her and her apparent interest in me. I tend to be a overlover and overthinker and as such I analise every single detail and ofc I end up hurt because there are times that I think she isn't showing me as much interest as she did the day before for example. This makes me feel like shit and like an option to them. So one day I tried to treat them as an option too.
That day we ate with some friends as usual and I was next to my girl best friend and in front of my crush. I stayed the whole lunch talking to my friend right in front of her without starting a convo with my crush and she was just looking and listening. I had a sense of relief and freedom while doing that because I wasn't overthinking I guess? and in the next two days i noticed more "dedication" from my crush to be with me. Maybe this last part has nothing to do with the lunch thing but idk.
The problem with this is that I feel like I'm doing something that I'm not. Although I felt relief this isn't me, I don't treat and I don't like treating people I like as options.
Do you guys ever did or had something similar happen to you? | Crushes |
Okay so I was just posting about how nervous I am about confessing but guess what?? After going to the movies with my parents I turn on my phone to see HIM SAYING HE LOVES ME WHATT??? FINALLY AFTER 3YEARS OF HAVING A CRUSHH OH MY GOD??!?!? I was shaking so hard I’m still nervous | Crushes |
this is the best place i can think of, sorry | Crushes |
There’s this girl in a few of my classes that as of recently has started including me in a lot more of the things she does. ie. Group projects, lunches and general conversation. Also whenever she invites me to join her, her friend starts giggling and whispering in her ear
Probably important to note that this girls really quite shy, I’m one of the only guys she speaks to on a regular basis. | Crushes |
You can do it! I believe in you guys!
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So my crush is a super hard working guy, he’s an actor in our school theatre program and he’s probably going to be taking on some major extra work soon. He’s going to be worked to the bone and exhausted, but I want to make it known that I appreciate him and all the work he’s done for the cast and the show, so I want to give him something.
I want it to be something nice and unique, I’m not too worried about price but it needs to be realistic. What are some gift ideas y’all have, or what types of gifts do guys usually appreciate? | Crushes |
I’m pretty sure we are officially dating now! We went on 2 dates so far, mini golf and going to the theater and watching a movie together (we saw the new Dr. Strange movie, it was decent by the way haha)! | Crushes |
So today I was sure I was going to confess. Like 100% sure. My plan was to tell him I'm moving and then say that since I'm moving I'm going to tell him that I like him. Things didn't go according to plan. I told him that I was moving and then I got silent cause I was trying to get myself to say I like him so he switched to another topic. Then at the end I decided that this was my chance and so I said, "Since I'm moving uh I uh wanted to tell you something. Gimme a second to form a sentence. I... I uh.. I.. never mind I forgot how to speak" And he just kinda awkwardly laughed and as I started going away he said "if you remember then just text me"
AJSHFHSKSOOAOSODBD I screwed up so badly
Combined with the fact that my friends sent him pictures of me (because they think he likes me) he definitely suspects that I like him
I can 100% say that I screwed up terribly. | Crushes |
Hey, I love you dearly as a friend. However I think I’m also in love with you, but you have a boyfriend so I think I just can’t fucking do our friendship right now. Please let me have space.
Any advice greatly appreciated cause I think I’m drowning… 😅 | Crushes |
So there is this girl in one of my classes that I have know for a little over a year and a half I (stupidly) Asked her out after like a month, and I got rejected. But for some damn reason even after a year I still sort of liker her. I don't really know why, and if I'm honest just want to be her friend. To be honest I don't even know why I have this feeling, and I don't want it. I just want to get over with it. What should I do? | Crushes |
Recently it's been increasingly painful to continue our friendship.
For some background, we are both 18 and just finnished high school. We both plan on going to the same college. To be frank, getting there required a lot of effort and I kept making myself believe dellusional things like "if we both get there, life will be so nice, and we for sure will end up together some day" but right after the high school finished, I came to realise that it might never gonna happen.
She doesn't seem happy in the relationship, and whenever I see her with her boyfriend I'm always baffled by how little affection they show to each other. Despite this, I have no way of knowing whether that's just because they dislike public displays of affection.
I also genuinely like her boyfriend. He definitely is not my favourite type of guy, but he seems like a good pal.
Obviously, if whatever happened between us two, it would lead to massive and serious consequences and I hate to imagine having to deal with all this bullshit.
Sometimes I have little flashbacks of what seemed to me like her giving me cues that she likes me, but I have a history of misinterpreting what others do. I sometimes fantasize about her finding out about me liking her, and having this anxiety over.. | Crushes |
I'd like to ask my crush for his number but I'm really afraid of being rejected. Every time I am in front of him, I have a kind of block that prevents me from asking him because I am afraid of he tells me that he has a girlfriend and he doesn't even like me. Also, this boy is really popular so I don't know how to find out if he's already in relationship. I feel like I'm losing my words when I'm with him and i become more nervous, but I'm afraid our relationship will never move forward if i don't try anything. He told me that him and his friends likes, so I think it's a good point, but I don't feel bold enough to try something but I really REALLY wanna become closer with him. I should probably ask him to go out with me and some friends.
What advice can you give me? What do you think about it? | Crushes |
I’ve seen a few people do this so I decided to do this as well. His name starts with a P.
I’ll be seeing him today which is cool. | Crushes |
Just started dating yesterday and I want to gush about her | Crushes |
i give up. im pretty sure he doesn’t like me and we haven’t been talking. Sooo i guess im coming to the conclusion that im sad and lonely forever ;( | Crushes |
If you confess before, she may no longer agree to go out as friends where you could take advantage of it to generate intimacy. but if you don't confess someone else might beat you | Crushes |
You matter and you are awesome. Don’t ever forget that. Rejected? So what. A better person is out there for you, waiting, probably feeling the same as you are right now. Hang in there. Just remember that YOU ARE WORTH IT. | Crushes |
and it was a normal output. Damn, it was a normal fucking outing, he didn't give any indication that she liked me. she even saluted and gave her a fist. not a hug, nothing. she behaved as if I were a distant friend. I'm 80% sure she doesn't like me. I want to die | Crushes |
I KISSED HIM LAST WEDNESDAY ON THE CHEEK!!! IT WAS MY FIRST TIME KISSING A BOY AND IT WAS HIS FIRST TIME GETTING KISSED BY A GIRL AND I STILL CANT GET OVER IT!!!! WERE DATING FOR MORE THAN 2 MONTHS NOW!!!! | Crushes |
Sooo yeah. I have had a crush on my classmate for quite a few months now. He pretty much was my bisexual awakening too haha, but I'm still pretty confused about that. Today I saw a tiktok he reposted, which was about being an aromantic asexual. Asexual I could live with, but with also him being aromantic it obviously would never work. I'm also pretty sure that if he even likes any gender, he likes guys. I, of course, respect that, but damn it still kinda hurts, even tho I know we would have never dated anyways. :(
I just want this crush to be over, it's just causing me stress lmao | Crushes |
I have a crush on a girl at my school, and I started texting her like a month ago but the problem is, she doesn’t use her phone that often so every time I try to start a conversation with her she replies in a hour or two, and when she replies I feel like she doesn’t put much effort to keep the conversation going, My friends tell me that she does this because she’s shy .We became friends but not very close and I don’t see her at school that often because we don’t go to school as we used to due to the fact that we are about to graduate in about 18 days. So I was wondering because there isn’t much time left when is the right time to tell her about how I feel. I really don’t care if she rejects me but I want to confess to her because you only live once and regret is way worse than failure. | Crushes |
I’m not sure if she likes me or is just trying to be nice.
She often stops by to give me a greeting, asks if I’m okay and gets too close whenever she’s talking to me. | Crushes |
I’ll go first, feel free to answer <3 | Crushes |
He left me on open when I texted him,He added me back after I unadded him,His friends know about me,We made eye contact once but whenever I see him in the hallway he turns and walks the other way…. | Crushes |
i got this crush for like about 2 years and i finally made a move and told her i love her, but she says she already has a crush on someone else, i dont know should i give up on her or not since she meant everything to me in my life | Crushes |
YEAHHAHAHAH | Crushes |
We have a project for uni, We talked a bit but she left the conversation. (My extreme attachment and RSD made me go nuts) but she sent me a voice message saying "I hope you didn't get upset, i had been gone a bit"
I said its ok (no it was not ;(((( ) and she heart reacted my message aaaaaaaaa. Im so excited. | Crushes |
Well I found her IG and it turns out she has a boyfriend
So that’s just amazing | Crushes |
is this cute??????? i’ve heard it has its pros and cons | Crushes |
Guess Her name! (Or don't, it's a Free Country) Starts with an S | Crushes |
It’s been year since my celebrity crush developed into something unhealthy. Everyday I would read fan fics of me and her dating (IMAGINE WHOLE FUCKING YEAR) it’s like i really have someone but in fantasy. I would think of us hanging out and made out scenarios of us cuddling. I know this is gettin out of hand and i really need help. I would think of her 24/7 that’s why I tend to forget important things i need to finish and it would always interrupt my studies. I really wish i have never knew her maybe im doing great now. When I saw a tweet of her and this certain guy dating i fuckin criedddd and i cant really think straight because for all i know i dont want her to date anyone but me even though THIS IS CERTAINLY WOULD NEVER HAPPEN. PLEASEEEE I really need help i want to stop this obsession of mine it’s not healthy anymore. I always sleep around 3 am to fuckin finish fan fics. I dont have anyone to share this issue because i dunno im scared that they might thought of me as a crazy and really obsessed person. I want to stopppp thinking of her 24/7. CAN ANYBODY HELP ME im cryingggggg | Crushes |
So here are the signs that I see: he almost always goes out of his way to include me in conversations/ talk to me, if we are walking in a group he always tries to walk next to me, he holds long eye contact with me, and there have been two times where he has said “wow it’s like were holding hands” when we were doing something completely unrelated. Are these signs he likes me or just me looking too far into it?? | Crushes |
I was talking to her and genuinely thought she liked me back
We’d been talking for a week or 2 and she was great. It wasn’t just me chasing her, she did a lot of shit to show me she thought about me and she helped me with stuff when I needed it
Well yesterday she went to a party that I was also supposed to go to. But I ended up not going because of something unexpected. She told me in a flirty way to come see her during the party the day before.
I learned that during the party she was all over her ex and told at least one friend that he was so hot and she was trying to fuck him.
And now, I feel lead on and as if she was trying to get me to come just to possibly make him jealous.
Now I know she was drinking during the party but I don’t really see that as an excuse.
And I have no idea if she actually ended up fucking him or not. He has another girlfriend but he cheats a lot... so no idea | Crushes |
So I had this really good friend in like middle school and then after covid a lot happened and we became super distant, now we're back to school and in like high-school and I like her now and I have no idea what to do because I feel super bad for not talking to her after a year.
Help | Crushes |
On Friday I gave my crush a note, essentially a note which confesses to her that I like her. Even though it's my second post here. I've browsed through this community and I've seen happy stories and sad stories of the like. Even if I get rejected, I'll have a sense of no regrets. I don't have high hopes but I hope that things can at least go well. A simple understanding no is something I'd be fine with but one of my more greater fears is all of this being spread across my secondary school and even though Ill only have a month left of school it might put me off of exams. And if she says yes, I'll be truly happy. | Crushes |
Does this happen to anyone else, and how do I stop? It’s getting slightly awkward... like she’ll put me in a headlock or put her arm around me and I just freeze completely and go silent. I think she’s beginning to notice that I panic whenever she so much as touches me!
On a happier note, she sat on my knee today for a little while <3 | Crushes |
That's it, I noticed she checked my profile too later which most likely mean she found out what I did. | Crushes |
this one’s kinda a “does he like me” but also kinda a gush. i fr am in deep with this one. i even looked at all of those body language thingies. sometimes I catch him staring at me, he used to mumble asking for my number, his eyebrows are raised every time he talks to me, he was the first one to ask if I was okay, a lot of the times he sits somewhere near me during events n stuff, sometimes I feel like he treats me specially but maybe it’s just me being delusional. the downside is that he’s dated a few girls even after I saw him doing this stuff. he’s single now and I’m fr confused??? | Crushes |
They followed me on Instagram
😍😍😍😲
I add them on snap
😍😍😍
They add me back
😲😲😍😲
They unadd me two hours later
☹️ | Crushes |
there are many signs that I've been seeing for months and the most obvious are: long eye contact, compliments, and they hug me sometimes. | Crushes |
Soooooooo, there's this girl in my school I've liked since last year. We're friends, but lately, I feel like she's been pushing me away. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't very close to her, but now it's just like she's ignoring and avoiding me. I want to get closer to her, but I don't want to admit that I like her just yet. Someone pls help | Crushes |
I (m?) have a crush on my roommate (f) and could really use some help.
We're both fem leaning bi) We've been roommates for 2 years now and friends for twice as long, we talk and see each other everyday, and I feel completely at home (a feeling previously foreign to me). She's important to me and I want to share my feelings and what's going on with her, and it's bothering me that I'm having such a hard time mentioning it. Keeping it in is killing me. Any advice or encouragement is greatly appreciated.
TLDR; I have a crush on my good friend/roommate and could use help
*Note on top of all of this I've been questioning my gender, but that might have to be another post. Still any advice is very much appreciated. | Crushes |
got many good signs but this one is seems to bolish everything | Crushes |
NAW BC YALL SEARCHED FOR HIM AFTER I SAID I WANTED TO RESPECT HIS PRIVACY 😭
(He doesn’t mind that much so thank god…)
BUT STILL. MFS CRAZY | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this girl that went to my high school since 2020 when quarantine started and I developed an EXTREMELY unhealthy infatuation with her and a super bad case of oneitis. I never even talked to her one time in my life, yet I’d fantasize about her every single day for hours and hours and constantly stare at her pictures on social media. It was absolutely horrible for me to rot my brain like that, and it went on until college finally returned to on-campus learning in Fall 2021, where she was in one of my classes, and we got to know each other. I thought she was the most perfect girl in the entire world. She was exactly how I imagined and dreamed her being in terms of personality, which definitely fuelled my oneitis, and I couldn’t find a single flaw or deviation in her character. I thought that I’d never ever meet anyone better than her, even though deep down in my soul I knew she wasn’t perfect and that I placed her on a pedestal. I asked her out once but she rejected me and said she never thought of me that way, which at the time I was actually glad about because I knew my obsession with her was unhealthy and I thought to myself “Phew, thank god that’s over with”. We started talking to each other less and less after that day, which I was a bit sad about, but also relieved.
Fast forward to today. College finished last week and university is starting this September, but we’re going to different universities. That’s when it hit me like a brick that I’m never going to see her in my life ever again, and I feel so goddamn sad about that. I’ve been sitting her in my bed for 5 days doing nothing. I just quit my job and I refuse to do anything productive because I can’t stop thinking about her and my oneitis has gotten so much worse. I’ve gotten over her personality because I finally found something that I don’t like about her, but I still ignore it for some reason and continue to revere her. I haven’t gotten over her looks, though. She’s genuinely the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen in my entire life. I think about her all the time just like I did for the past 2 years, and my mood gets absolutely ruined every single day (sometimes I cry because I just want it to end).
I know that what I’m doing is unhealthy and that it’s my fault for putting this girl on a pedestal in the first place, and believe me I’ve tried everything from therapy to finding new hobbies to talking to new people. Nothing works, and I feel like I’ll keep obsessing over this girl for years to come. What’s worse is that this is the first time I’ve ever had a crush in my life, so I feel like I’ll truly never forget her. I don’t find many girls attractive, and dating has never been something I’m interested in, but this girl was super super pretty. I still text her sometimes, which does make me feel better, but at this point I just want to get her out of my head. I’m sick and tired of thinking about her every day and stalking her social media and thinking of how pretty she is. She’s absolutely ruining my life. I want to go into university without her distracting me and ruining my grades. Any help would be appreciated.
TL;DR: Have had a very bad case of oneitis for 2 years and I can’t do anything during the day without thinking of her and ruining my mood. I’ve tried everything, but nothing works. What do I do? | Crushes |
basically 2 years ago i met this girl through friends. I didnt think much of her at the time and she likes girls, so i wasnt looking for anything with her.
In those 2 years we started getting really good friends/ best friends and now recently we are also very intimate on the physical basis.
Im not sure yet, but i think i started getting feelings for her.
It's so frustrating because i know nothing will happen between us, ever. I don't wanna tell her cuz i feel like it might f things up.
I know i have to get over her, but she's so amazing and pretty, ah man I'm so unlucky istg | Crushes |
I like a guy that I’m REALLY good friends with. All my friends think he likes me back, even one of his friends thinks he likes me. But here’s the thing: I don’t want to ruin our friendship. For something that wouldn’t even last very long. It may not RUIN the friendship but if he rejects me it’ll be awkward, no matter how close friends we are. And it’ll push him away. And even if he doesn’t reject me, it won’t last long enough to be an actual thing. Let’s face it, it won’t last forever and once that does end, I’ve lost a friend because we all know that it’s hard to be friends with your ex.
In conclusion, even though I agree, there’s a chance he could like me back, is it really worth it? | Crushes |
Hello random 15 year old on the internet here! I always see many of your posts on my reddit feed about your success with your crushes or good signs they like you back and I wish I could feel the happiness and excitement most of you are feeling.
Currently I have no crush but I always dream and wish to have a girlfriend to care and love for. Though that is difficult for me because every girl in my school is just not my type of girl. To give you an idea of the girl I would like to meet in my life i'll sum it up quickly
I want to find a girl that has a great personality. She doesn't obsess over social media (example always on snapchat instagram tiktok) that is focused on school. She doesn't have to be a 10/10. As long as she is kind and respectful. A relaxed kind girl is all i'm looking for it's all I wish for in my life and I hope one day I meet her.
So to everyone that sees this post please do me one thing... wish me luck and hope.
Thank you! | Crushes |
I just wanted to say this, I'm happy rn I atleast made eye contact with her | Crushes |
I was just thinking yesterday whether I’m still crushing on my bf or actually in love. Thoughts? | Crushes |
Hey guys!
So I have the hardest period in my life.
Im going trough divorce after many years of my borderline wife cheating on me and manipulating.
And suddenly on the job one lady started to like me and etc.
But I embarresad myself in front of her.
Iam a bit fat ( not that much fat, just a big belly but Im tall and have nice haircut and maybe face a bit atrractive).
The issue is that one time I talk to her I was to relaxed and I relaxed my belly maybe my belly it was a bit out of my tshirts and I think she saw it and also before I said something to much on joke
way and she looked uncomortablle.
I said sorry and she say its fine, but I felt somethimg was wrong..ladies if you have your crush I mean a bit overweight but tall and you see the belly out of tshirt a bit.
Will you be disgusted by it and loose feelings fot your crush immediatelly?(even you knew he has belly before that happen).
I hate myself for that mistake..I didnt hope that we will be couple, but you know when you going trough divorce after lies and cheats..this flirt is helping for pain..and even that I fucked up..
I feel ashamed now and I think she will start avoiding me I dont know yet.
Btw: sorry for my grammar Im from netherlands. | Crushes |
I met this guy at work, we werent really friends at that point but when it was my last day he approached me and talked about how he always thought that we would be "good friends" then he asked for my ig and number. Fast forward a couple of weeks we started talking and he takes hours to reply but he sends really really long, thought out texts and keeps the convo going with some occasional flirting. I though that the problem had to do with the app so i moved the convo to imessages and its still taking HOURSSSS or even days for him to reply.
Also we are suppose to meet up soon but haven't finalised anything yet.
What should i do? | Crushes |
Maybe I am overreacting but I feel like he meant to ask me this with romantic intentions. I hope I am wrong because if that is not the case then shit is about to get complicated. I also wonder if my crush is encouraging him to ask me out? I know they talk about these things since the friend used to be into this other girl and my crush was happy to hear that. If I found out he is uplifting this behavior then I am just going to move on since that means he is not interested. I really did like this friendship group though with my crush + the other peeps in it. So I am scared that if I reject his invitation our friendship group will turn awkward. I hope I am overreacting. | Crushes |
Like what are some things you guys do or think when you like a girl and how do you make a move without seeming obvious? | Crushes |
im gonna start updating this most days i talk to my crush
(for privacy reasons, her name will be shortened to just "a")
we got eachothers snapchat like 2 weeks ago and we make all our free time in the evenings talking to eachother on it, either doing somethinf together or just chatting (as friends). her best friend (who i will shorten to "y") doesnt have snap as her parents are quite conservative. our school is doing this christmas play and we were both backstage as we both play minor parts and y played a big one together. normally we only spend time with y too, but we chatted and played random games. we are both bisexual and both of are parents are divorced so we are quite similar. we just played random stuff like truth or dare or never have i ever and we both couldnt stop laughing even when no one said anything. at the end, when y was on her way back, she said "we should hangout more" i said "like with y?" she said "no alone". we agreed to meet up at a local shop on friday, so wish me luck :) | Crushes |
So my school is out until January 4 so my brother drives me out to get something to eat and a drink and where we got drinks she lives across the street and she comes out in shorts and a hoodie and when this happened it was like 29 degrees outside so I was considering giving her my coat until she went back inside but I was watching her to make sure she was ok and now we have our drinks and I thought "nice, were gonna leave." but no he drove me over there and embarrassed the hell out of me he was like "Kadyn was looking at you..." and I was like kill me then before we left he was like "are you two gonna kiss or hug or high-five or whatever you kids do" and I said to myself "dude I'm gonna kill you when we get home." Is our entire friendship over? | Crushes |
I've been sitting next to my crush in the classroom for a little over a year now and we're good friends, around 2 months ago I started taking for her and I don't know if I should tell her. I mean if it works out its great but if she says no its gonna be awkward (I am sure) and I might lose her as a friend, what do y'all think? | Crushes |
Yesterday I had the chance to dance with my crush at school when we would’ve got paired up doing traditional Scottish dancing but I got nervous and moved I really regret it especially because we danced two weeks ago when we also got paired up and she seemed to enjoy it it was also were my crush started. | Crushes |
I just want to know, how the hell do I talk to girls? | Crushes |
I’ve seen posts about ppl worried about their crush giving dry responses. It’s the worst feeling ever, like you are boring or annoying them. I asked for a pfp and she sent one and said: “you can use this one ig”. And the instant I saw the ig at the end inside I was like 💀🪦💀🪦. I’m prolly overthinking it but I forever will empathize with ppl who have had similar experiences. Worse even still, I got her number today and had already texted her several times, to which she had responded less and less enthusiastically. I am most definitely not going to text her again today or maybe even tomorrow. Those of you who have had this experience, how did it turn out? | Crushes |
Sorry English is not my first language. This girl been text me and calling me "my dear" and "dear" several times. | Crushes |
Everytime I see my crush I feel better. When I'm having a bad day at work or just something isn't going right in the day, she makes me feel better. All I gotta do is walk past her and that's it. No one talks to her. She's quiet, so no one knows anything about her which does make it hard because I get know her thorough people but it's good because it's a wide open door of opportunities to try to talk through her. I'll be the brave one who does but just... How do I? How do I start talking to my crush at work? | Crushes |
For boys we don’t really talk about ours at least for my experience | Crushes |
Last week I were on a school trip for on week with 3 other classes, she ( goes in one of the other classes) was in the room next to me we understood very good ( we snapped (every day hours)at the summer holidays. Her friends told me she wants to tell me something too but she said shut up guys…. At the day when we drive back from the trip she wrote me and said if we could snap more again(we stopped snapping a lot at the beginning of the school becouse at the end of holiday I was in a wedding not in Europe and there was Roaming what’s very expensive) already at the next day she snapped me 1-2 times a day, but she asked if we could snap more, what can I do? And yeah I have a crush on her | Crushes |
feels like we are talking less and less every day and she doesn't seem to be interacting with me as much as we used to, but I dont know, we used to regularly play minecraft
today she called me ugly, pointed out my flaws etc.
could she be losing "interest" in me?
the crush saga :
[main post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/znds9l/repost_do_they_like_me/) [story](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/zpc8fq/my_crush_gave_me_steak/) [randomish](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/zpervt/i_really_want_to_confess/) | Crushes |
Alright, so my friend went up to my crush and told her that I thought she was cute and that I liked her and he said that she had a smirk on her face I can't tell if that's a good sign or not | Crushes |
So me (M16) and a friend (F16) have had a great friendship and we have feelings for each other. Lately we got into a spat and she’s pretty much given me the cold shoulder. I tried texting her immediately after it happen and even apologized irl but I don’t think she wants to deal with me so I’m probably not gonna text her all through the winter break. I just hope she will speak me when we get back into school. | Crushes |
scary but worth it | Crushes |
I have a very mild crush on a girl I know. She gave me mixed signals (or so I interpreted them) I eventually gave up after a week or two of trying to analyze her behavior and figured that mixed signals weren’t signals at all. I’ve tried to gradually distance myself. My friend somehow managed to know I had a mild crush on her and he claims he told her. We are on christmas break. Her and I don’t see each other for two weeks. Im not sure if he lied. She recently got a boyfriend so even if she didn’t know I already know she doesn’t like me. I am already moving on but we have classes together and mutual friends, I don’t want her or my friend to tell our mutual friends and humiliate me for seeing her signs as possibly romantic, and I don’t want to lose a friend in her. I don’t want everything awkward. This would be the second time I’ve been friendzoned and the losing a friend part due to awkwardness is worse than the rejection. | Crushes |
As usual im doing my daily update. Early in the morning i got to sit down besides her and help her a bit with her arcitecht project, which was nice, we then had a few chats here and there.
I havent been snapping with her that much, since shes at the gym, but she has sent me a few snaps throughout a conversation.
She hasnt responded in like an hour but i suppose shes on her way home. Now the problem is i check her snapscore, and no it hasnt changed, but i dont want to be checking it i dont want to be that paranoid. I do not know if she even likes me, but so far it feels like she snaps with me more than others, my problem is just the fact i check her snapscore, even if it lets me know she hasnt dissed me, its still annoying that i do it.
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Now havent hung out with her, 1 on 1, or had a ft call with her or anything like that. but id like to be able to hang out with her during the winter break or something, i jsut do not know what to say, what to do or anything like that. Any tip would be needed.
Thanks. | Crushes |
So there’s this guy in one of my classes that I kind of like. I sometimes see him looking at me too, but I don’t want to jump to conclusions about all dat jazz. His snap is pretty similar to his insta but doesn’t come up on quick add even tho we have mutuals, and his snap username isn’t common enough for me to get away with the oh I was looking for someone else I know and you came up as well. I do want to add him but it’s gonna be like stalkery. I do follow him on insta but he’s said a few times he doesn’t use it much so. What do I do? | Crushes |
So i (21m) went out with a coworker/friend (21f) of mine the other day, had a nice little time out but when I was taking her home, my car blew a tire on the highway. Scared me shitless and her as well. Car had aftermarket wheels so couldn’t use spare, so I called my dad to come bring me my truck, he brought his truck to just give us a ride, well his truck only has 2 seats. So as im sitting literally on top on the center console, she tells me to get in the seat with her, so I proceeded to do so. Well it was such a tight fit I had to have my arm like up against the back window behind her head, eventually arm got tired so I just kinda rested it over the back of the seat (around her as well but was mainly trying to keep it on the seat rest. She then grabs my arm and pulls it over her shoulder fully, so we go around a bend (dads a wild driver lmao) so i was holding her bicep with my hand for stability (and testing the waters with her atp) well then eventually she ends up grabbing onto my hand, held it for a minute like kids do, then interlocked her fingers and kept doing the “thumb thing”. What do y’all say lmao | Crushes |
I'm gonna start this by saying that because of a horrible breakup earlier this year, I (20M) haven't really tried or felt like getting into a relationship, so these kind of feelings have long been missing from my life.
These couple weeks I've started going out a lot with some friends from uni, and got to know this girl in the group a lot better. She is not really "my type" per se, but jesus, she absolutely wrecked me. :))
I'm gonna get to the point of the story now. We went for a coffee (me, her and another friend of ours), and while talking we had a moment of the most knee-weakening, heart-fluttering, butterfly-inducing eye contact. I can't believe that's what sealed the deal for me. It was a good 20 seconds of pure eye contact while talking about something, while we were also very close to each other. I almost fainted, my heart was going NUTS. I don't remember ever feeling THIS from just looking into another persons eyes, like jesus chirst. In the three years with my ex, I can't really remember something quite like this, it absolutely screwed me over. :))))
It's a little early to tell if she is into me as well, but I'm not gonna lie, she does seem interested, as we have great chemistry and I really hope that the tension I felt wasn't just in my head lol.
This is pretty much it, I am just incredibly shocked about these intense feelings I haven't felt in years, especially from so little. | Crushes |
He would usually look at me but today he turned his head as soon as he saw me. I don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not. My friend told me he was watching me from the corner of his eye, there was barely to no eye contact however. I don't know what to think of this bro😭 | Crushes |
Tomorrow I see my crush and I was gonna ask him if he wanted to go to a light show with me. I’m extremely nervous and paranoid, but I think even if he doesn’t like me he will say yes since he told his dad I was cool to hang out with ☺️ but I think he likes me since everyone I knows thinks so too including his parents who really want us to date. Anyway I hope I don’t chicken out 💪 | Crushes |
I need help you guys | Crushes |
What a sequence of events. But I’m still not sure what’s going on between us. While she went in for kiss first, I think she regretted it.😔 | Crushes |
She’s friends with some friends of my friends so I feel that may make this simpler and I think she likes me back from what I’ve seen/heard so please encourage me | Crushes |
I like a guy since march it was a first sight thing he’s so sweet respectful and nice towards everyone and i fell for it , i dont know if i should confess because he doesn’t seem interested at the slightest and we haven’t talked since late September we would just send each other a three words text and such , also he’s talkative irl but in texts he would leave me on seen or be so dry idk also I think he might be seeing someone and id be such a bitch if i told him that i like him , my friend who’s also his friend told me to not tell him especially that we dont really talk anymore and i just cant get rid of this feeling i really like him | Crushes |
I had my hair in like space buns (just look it up) for a Christmas thing and my crush would just come up behind me several times and tap my hair. idk it was cute but is this flirting or just friendly. | Crushes |
I'm so glad I don't anymore. I don't know why I even liked her in the first place. I should've listened to my family the first time they said something. I'm deleting my old posts about her. They make me want to throw up.
She's vile and not a good person. She's a compulsive liar, a player, a bully, a (sorry!) bitch. She toyed with me and many others. She does things for attention. I could go on and complain about her all day. I hate her. I hate her so f-ing much. She thinks we're still buddies but I don't even want to be near her. She disgusts me.
I'm sorry for being so negative, but she just has screwed with me and so many people and so much other stuff that I can't say anything positive about her.
I'm moving on and funnily, I'm starting to catch feelings for the exact person she hates *(and was harassing/bullying online with friends and isolating her offline but thats another story for another day)*. Me and the person she hates have things in common and other stuff. She's really awesome and I should've chose to be around her before. | Crushes |
I just want a partner. I just want to be in a relationship. I just want someone to love me as much as I love them. I don’t wanna be lonely or alone. It just hurts having no one to talk to.
Soo dm me? Anyone? Nah jk jk.. unless? 🫣 | Crushes |
I have them in my math class and they really do make my day better. I know some of their interests but unlike me they’re not too opinionated or passionate about a lot. I know they have a cute fashion sense, like their family, friends, music, k pop, k dramas, our school band, and spend a lot of time watching netflix shows.
While I’ve been talking to them everyday for a couple months now in class this year I want to be closer friends so I can ask them out before we graduate. | Crushes |
So basically me and my crush have been messaging for a good month or so,If you’re interested you can look at my other posts that go into more detail about her
The bottom line is that, i was getting left on delivered, constantly. It wouldn’t be for long periods of time like 18 hours, it was for atleast 40 minutes at a time. But as id be on delivered, shed post her bereal and all sorts, she even reacted to MY bereal when i was on delivered for an hour.
I thought she liked me, because in real life i always get that ‘vibe’ ya know? she asks me things about myself, remembers the little details i tell her, and all sorts.
But over messages i hated it, so today after being on delivered for over an hour i just liked her message and didnt reply. I cant be bothered to deal with this. Especially over christmas. | Crushes |
So there’s this girl that I think I like? Used to like? I don’t know, that’s all that I’m having trouble with, really. I’m not sure whether I still like her or not. We got into a really small argument and after that argument, I think that I’ve been slowly losing feelings. Like I don’t feel excited whenever she texts me, I don’t really look forwards to meeting her at school anymore, I don’t even think about her that much anymore. But on the other side, I still miss her whenever she doesn’t attend school, I get jealous sometimes, and I would still try to talk to her. Whenever I think that I don’t have feelings for her anymore, sometimes I feel happy. But most of the time, I feel kind of sad, I guess? I don’t know. I just don’t feel really good about it. I guess I’m scared of losing the feeling of happiness, the rush of joy whenever she’s near me, and the butterflies. I just really don’t know. I’m a girl and it’s my first time liking a girl too. Hopefully this isn’t too messy to read. | Crushes |
So I met this girl on a dating app about 6 days ago and we have talked non stop wince we matched. We have so much in common and her personality is amazing. She's such a sweet, caring person, smart, funny and on top of all that is beautiful, definitely out of my league.
And then yesterday we started doing voice messages, which is out of my comfort zone because hearing my own voice makes me self conscious, but then at 11:45 she calls me and we talk for an hour straight and she's laughing and giggling at my jokes and shes making some of her own and were having a great time, and then she fell asleep on the call with me.
She lives 4 hours away from me and until now we havnt discussed meeting up at all, but we do plan to both move to SA next year
I want to tell her that I'm really enjoying getting to know her and that she's so easy to talk too, and that I can't wait until we have the chance to actually meet.
But idk if it's too soon? Would it look like I'm coming on too strong and she'll be weirded out? I'm probably overthinking it but I'd hate to ruin this one | Crushes |
There’s a girl I like and I think she might like me she hangs out with some friends of friends and I want to talk to her tomorrow what is it like when that finally happens and you do talk to her | Crushes |
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