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Its a girl i used to work with in another state but i was kinda forced to move and we were hitting it off towards the end before i left and talking on snapchat too. We go together real well. When i first met her she had a Boyfriend but shes been single for a little while now. She does have kids but it doesnt bother me. I know this doesnt mean that they like you but she randomly just added me on facebook and its been a week or 2 since we last talked so i feel like maybe she was searching for me so maybe she could be into me. She seemed like it in person too before i left. I mean i could save up to go back there my job was 10x better than any job here anyways. I just dont know how to go about it. Maybe ill try to strike a conversation on snapchat and then ask if shes looking for anyone or staying single or something along those lines | Crushes |
When I was in 2nd or 3rd grade I had the biggest crush on this boy. He was my best friend I don’t remember exactly why I liked him I just knew that every day when school was over I was so happy when I saw he was waiting by the bike racks for me. We used to ride our bikes together after school,
until we grew apart I was very sad especially when I saw him in the hallway but we didn’t talk. I obviously still think about him even tho it’s been years but I wonder how he is and if he still remembers me. I should’ve talked to him and cleared up the misunderstandings I was so sad bc I thought it was one sided but years later my sister told me he told her he liked me.
Do you still think about your first crush? | Crushes |
Why does that person have to be soo good.. And my mind is making me feel worthless 🥺.. | Crushes |
I told her I like her today. School had just ended and I told her I like her. Her face changed. She had to leave because her mom came. She thinks I'm a nice guy but she doesn't want to date anyone. I don't really know what I'm feeling rn. I feel like crying but also don't. | Crushes |
oh my gosh yesterday i was so sad thinking he'd never like me... but today he sent me a message and its like light has been restored to my soul i can feel myself melting aaaa | Crushes |
So I have a crush on this guy in one of my classes and I've been wanting to talk to him before class starts so that we could officially meet and go from there, but I always get cold feet even when there's a perfect opportunity. We had a class together last semester with the same professor so I was hoping to use that as my conversation starter, but I'm not so sure anymore since it's already been about a month since the Spring semester started and I don't know if it would be weird for me to randomly ask him if we had the same class.
I did talk to him one time earlier this week, he sits two seats away from me so I was able to lean over and ask if he got a certain answer for one of the problems we had to solve. But other than that, I haven't really tried to talk to him. He keeps to himself during class, no one sits next to him and he just writes his notes in silence, so I just don't know how to start the conversation with him. I guess my question is what should I do? | Crushes |
The last few days, my gym teacher has been acting really weird, and he’s been looking at me all the time.
Last time I didn’t want to do gym because I was sick, he managed to convince me and then he told me that he had to talk to me for half an hour.
Today even during his hour I did not do gym because I felt really bad, he tells me SOFIA WE START TO DO TANTRUMS IN THESE 30 SECONDS.
I was sitting with my classmates because they too were not well and others did not want to do gym.
At some point some of my companions went to get a handkerchief and some medicine, he calls me to talk to him outside the gym. He asked me if I’m okay or if there’s something he needs to know, I said I’m fine and everything’s fine, he wanted to tell me other things but when he saw my classmates who were coming back to the gym he told me BYE, GOOD DAY during his class.
He seemed a little nervous.
I actually wanted to talk to him about why I don’t do gym so many times, I was out of class to go to the bathroom I see him in the hallway was just me and he, while walking he starts to look at me and laugh,.
I stopped him, he turned around, I told him that I had to talk to him about something very important that concerns his subject, he was very interested and approached me while I was talking to him, I had anxiety then I said, teacher I can talk to him next time.
He said to me WHEN YOU’RE READY, I don’t know if I’m gonna email him or I need to talk to him face-to-face. | Crushes |
Okay, so I met this guy online, and we have been friends for a few months now, but really, we only started getting close this past month. We talked and found out we live just a few hours away. He is a year younger than me (15), but we have good chemistry and can talk for hours, which I've never had with someone before. Now comes my issue is they keep asking me if I am gay which I am bi, but I don't really feel comfortable telling them this information cause they keep asking about it. As well as I have also never been in a relationship, and I don't know how I would be with online relationships. I am wondering if I should just shut this crush down or pursue it advice needed! | Crushes |
Oh boy this is going to be a long one.
I'm currently a 3rd year college/university student. Not sure if this is necessary but I live in a conservative Asian country and to protect private info I'll be using fake names. So, during my 1st year I befriended Andrew when we were put in a group project with 5 other people. After the semester was over, we kept in contact despite not having any classes together anymore, perhaps because we had a common hobby—we're both gym rats. However, because of strict covid protocols, classes were held online until now. Last September, a new semester starts so everyone moved closer to campus. I found out that his apartment building was close to where mine was, and we texted a few times to sign up for a gym membership at the same gym in the area. Anyways, we ended up meeting for the first time in real life at the gym (unplanned & by chance) and from then on we would hang out very frequently despite having no classes together and having very different schedules. We'd often stop by my place or his place to cook and eat and then watch a movie or a series together. Sometimes, we'd talk until past midnight, or go out to eat instead of cooking, and very occasionally drink.
At one point, Andrew started looking at me with a soft and tender expression at random times and would often request to eat at my place or go out to eat together after gym more often. He also commented about how my butt looks really nice (I'm fine with this btw) and I took it as a compliment. One time, we hung out at his place until past midnight and just chatted, and the topic of cuddling came up. So he said something about not knowing what it feels like to be the little spoon and I told him to ask to be the little spoon with his future gf. He didn't say anything in response, but he just curled up on his bed facing the wall and told me to try and spoon him. I was in shock, but I spooned him anyway because he asked me to and I wasn't going to throw away what little opportunity I had. But then I got nervous and pulled away. Then he said he actually enjoyed being the little spoon and asked me to spoon him again, which I did again. One time while we hung out with 2 other friends, Andrew would lay on my lap, and when I turned over to lay on my stomach he'd lay his head on my back.
For a little more context, I'm a social butterfly and hang out with many different people in college and he's more of a homebody. So I sort of introduced him to my friend group and he just became a part of it. Anyways, last November we went on an unplanned trip with our friends right after our exams are done. While waiting for the rooms at the hotel to be available, we went to play pool. Andrew would take pictures of everyone and would show me memes while waiting for his turn or when he wasn't playing. When it was my turn, he'd take my pictures and he'd comment about me biting my lips a lot when concentrating or when thinking. The next day, everyone was awake and he was the only one still asleep, so our friends who were his roommates called me to wake him up because they couldn't. So I went in there, folded the blinds and sprinkled some water on his face, to which he did wake up. He then laid on his stomach and asked me to crack his back, and I did.
When we got back, we would hang out and at one point, our friend Owen pulled me aside and asked me if Andrew and I were interested in each other. I was rather shocked by his question because I never told anyone about this and mostly kept it to myself because I didn't want it to break our friend group just in case things don't go too well between Andrew and I. Anyways, I couldn't lie to Owen because he's very sensitive and aware, so I just told him about the whole thing. I asked him what gave it away, and he said that Andrew's and my body language gave it away, and he noticed during the trip that we shared a lot of inside jokes, and that he'd take my pictures a lot more than the others'. I never really noticed what Andrew did until Owen told me because I recall Andrew once telling me that I was nothing like his type and thus wouldn't be attracted to me so I only thought of it as him being comfortable to be friends with girls and to not let myself get my hopes up.
During the Christmas holidays, we both did not go back home to our families because we don't really celebrate it. So the next time we met at the gym, he brought a Santa hat "for fun" and made me wear it while doing deadlifts. A few days later, I bought temporary tattoos and he asked if he could have one and if I could put it on him because he couldn't do it himself. It was his rest day that day so he just went straight to my place. Then I noticed he was wearing a perfume, which was odd since he don't usually wear perfumes, especially if he was just going to hang out at mine. So after I cooked, we'd eat while watching netflix and I asked him "Are you wearing a perfume?" to which he said yes, and I said "That's unlike you" and he didn't respond. When the series finished, he asked me to put the temporary tattoo on his back, and then he complained about having neck pain from a bad sleeping position. So I massaged his neck.
This year I moved to the same building as Andrew's, and the next week Owen asked to hang out with me and Andrew at Andrew's place. While we were chatting, I realised that Owen would try and dig some information about Andrew, asking things like "do you catch feelings easily?" and such. Andrew and I sat on the bed while Owen sat on a chair facing us. I covered myself with Andrew's blanket and Andrew would lean against me. Not sure about other cultures, but men and women who are friends leaning against one another is very unusual in here.
The next time we met at the gym, I noticed him staring at me from across the room and he looked down when he realised I caught him looking. When I'd pass by him to get to a machine, his eyes would follow me so I asked "Why are you looking at me like that?" He just smiled and said "no reason", then he'd poke me where he knew it would tickle, and playfully smack my head with an empty plastic bottle (friends do this a lot in my country).
Two weeks later, I cooked too much chicken and was not able to finish it, and my refrigerator was small so I can't really store leftovers so I decided to give it to Andrew. I knocked at his door and he answered, looking angry and pissed. I got the signal that he didn't want to be disturbed so I quickly gave the food to him, told him I cooked too much and couldn't finish it. His expression changed and he thanked me and I left. I woke up the next morning to his text thanking me and that the chicken tasted good, and he asked to eat together at his place. So we cooked and ate at his place 2 days later. As I was showing him how to cook a certain food, he sat facing me and I noticed his eyes lingering on my butt, to which I started having some thoughts about. Then he looked up at me and asked if he could smack my butt. I consented and asked, "Why though? That's so random." He said, "No reason, I sometimes hit my guy friends' butts randomly." But I'm not a guy... And then he smacked my butt and I told him I'd do the same, so I did.
Two days later, he asked me to gather our friends to eat together at the new meat skewer restaurant across the gym in 3 days, but the next day he injured his leg. So I ended up going with 4 other friends and we decided to buy him some too. We went back to my apartment but hung out in the communal area where the whole group gathered. Anyways, 3 of us went to his place and knocked on his door to give him the food, and then he ended up joining us at the communal area. However, there wasn't enough chairs for us so he moved forward and told me to share the chair with him, where I would sit behind him. I playfully stuck my hairclip on his hair and chatted with the others.
The week after, which was 3 days ago, we went on another unplanned trip to the mountain areas. We stopped by at a famous lamb skewer place. Because there were a lot of people in the group, we ended up sitting apart. That did not really bother me as I talked with the others and joked around, but I did notice him being more silent than usual, only talking with one other friend that he was closer to. A little while later I saw him stealing glances at me and then he took pictures of me when I was laughing with the others. The way he angled his camera made it pretty obvious that he was taking my pictures.
Anyways, we would then stop by a mountainside cafe. When we got out of the car, I got really cold and sort of mumbled "Damn I forgot my beanie at home, my head's getting cold" (I have a habit of talking to myself) and I'm pretty sure he heard it somehow, but I really did not expect him to side hug me and sort of pulled my head towards his chest. My face just went from cold to hot in a matter of seconds. It went on for a minute or two until we walked into the cafe. We ended up sitting beside each other and played games until 3 in the morning. At one point while we were taking a break from the games and just chatted, I asked for him to give me his elbow to warm up my hands, to which he just grabbed my hand and put it inside his hoodie pocket, where he'd rub his hand on mine. The others noticed it and made a joke about it, which made me blush so hard. We then player another game and talked when it was over, and then he'd randomly put his hand on my head and scratched my head, messing up my hair. Not gonna lie, it felt comforting for a moment. I looked up and asked him what he was doing, but he just smiled playfully and said "Nothing, just bored." We went back in separate cars because of different routes. That day I stayed at another friend's place with 4 others. A friend, let's call her Ava, pulled me aside and told me she noticed the way he acted around me.
I'm really looking forward to seeing him again the next time, but I still don't want to get my hopes up. | Crushes |
okay so basically i waved at one of her friends that was looking at me at that time, then her entire friend group waved back, we sat really close to them (lunch), and she complemented my wig (part of my carnival outfit)!! aaa!!! 😍😍 | Crushes |
why is he cuteeeeenakzk xhe | Crushes |
I have a crush on this girl that I've been friends with for about 2 years. About a year into knowing her, I started developing feelings. We weren't super close, but now we talk to each other every day. She broke up with her boyfriend last weekend(they were datingless than a month, and she wasn't super into him). We went to a school function on a Saturday and that night she told me she broke up with her boyfriend, and we talked all night.
We've been talking most nights from like 5 to 12, and it's mostly just us joking and making faces. Most of the time, she would send me pictures of her smiling(BTW omg her smile had me floating in the air). Our friend groups have also become kinda connected. She's also been laughing at my jokes more(they weren't that funny).
There's a parade on Saturday, and I'm wondering if I should ask her if she wants to come with me. I'm just kinda worried because we are foremost friends and my friends are her friends and her friends are mine. I just don't want to push her away. I just want to know if she's flirting with me or if I'm just being dumb. Thanks for reading, and best wishes to everyone! | Crushes |
so ive got a very fresh crush on this guy. we’ve only been talking for about 2 weeks (havent met up yet) but we are on the same vibe it seems. we talk thru voice messages.
im about 99% sure he indirectly confessed that he liked me (in a different language but i understood and i said that i understood some of it). i didnt confront him about my suspicions.
recently i pulled the classic move of taking longer to respond to show that im busy and whatnot. as soon as i did this, there was an energy switch. he went from contacting me mostly during the day to now mostly past 12am. a few days before this energy shift there were occasional late night voice messages but i stopped responding at that hour of the night a couple of days ago.
so last night i received a 1am voice message and it triggered my annoyance greatly. i didnt open it immediately but when i eventually did i was so underwhelming. he was aksing me how i was doing at 1 FUCKING AM. mind u he has not made any sexual remarks or advances towards me so i dont know what the reason is fr.
i started typing random letters and then backspacing (on the this texting app u can see when the person is typing). i then sent an empty voice message and then deleting it. (notification still goes thru until u click on the chat to see it was deleted).
i actually feel dumb and immature for doing that but it has already been done 💀
i have now been left on read.
what do yall think of this ?
HSHSHDBHDHDVD i hate having crushes 😍 | Crushes |
I told him I liked him and I gave him the gifts I wanted to for Valentine's day. He friend zoned me and he was really nice and liked my gifts. He's leaving for home. I wish him safe travels. Good luck with the future. I'm glad I told him. It wasn't too bad. I got two hugs. Now almost to bed I keep thinking boy was he my type, I was still getting to know him and now he is a friend. As friends should be hope to see him again in the future and not worry. I was so nervous and cautious, idk how I will be now but I hope to be alright. A good friend will soon visit me, maybe soon things will lighten up. Plans, stay celibate, keep attending church, make good friends, finish school, make my dreams come true. | Crushes |
Hi reddit, i’m in a pretty odd situation and i’m not sure what to do.
I have a huge crush in this guy but thing is he’s my bestfriends friend.
She and I basically implied that it’d be weird if any of us liked him because he isnt really “that” type iykwim.
I really wanna tell her though to get some help and advice on approaching him but it’d probably weird her out.
Another thing is that it’s sort of a running joke between all of us (including him and his friends) that he’s sort of hung up on this other girl despite being rejected.
What should I do? | Crushes |
Ok so, me and my crush aren’t friends per say, like we talk some, but not much, I need advice on how to start a conversation and befriend her. Literally any advice is much appreciated, thanks in advance! | Crushes |
Im 17f senior and graduating this year. My crush is 16m sophomore… I’ll be going to college obviously and during the summer I might be out of the country so. Ik its dumb cuz long distance never works out :( so I was thinking to just repress this crush and just never confess cuz he probs has a crush his age anyways 🤦🏻♀️ | Crushes |
I can’t stop thinking about her. The way she talks, her accent, the way she stares me down from across the room until I notice and then we have a staring contest. The way we can have a silent conversation just using our facial expressions. The way she can see right through my body language into my mind. The way she plays with my mind leading me towards something new and then backing off. Almost like she wants me to work for it, and I do. The way she gives me looks knowing I can’t look her in the eyes when she does. The way she knows exactly what will make me crack. The way she can pull off any outfit. I feel like I’m over thinking all of this but I can’t help but put it all together in my mind. I feel like something is happening but neither of us wants to point it out. What should I do? | Crushes |
Do y'all listen to any sad music just to vibe thinking you will never get together with your crush?
I listen to Bryan Adams mostly, classic romantic rock songs. Some bangers are [Heaven](https://open.spotify.com/track/3wgzAliQocAzmpi5dEwRqJ?si=132609532b2d4619), [Run To You](https://open.spotify.com/track/2RWFncSWZEhSRRifqiDNVV?si=9edb566b8fd84462), and [Please Forgive Me](https://open.spotify.com/track/1HDaENkQhUMm16pjdxZvHn?si=0a9b7f03ee15445c). | Crushes |
So today I was so confident it was the day I was going to talk to him even my coworkers were cool they were like “I’ll cover for you go on” but I shouldn’t couldn’t! So I stayed late and guess what? Still couldn’t do it! I was gonna make the first move so he could at least know I have interest you know? He looks at me whenever he passes by and today we made eye contact but I looked away FAST. I feel like it’s a step closer but I don’t know. | Crushes |
This guy (16m) sophomore is really cute but I’m 17f and senior. I’ve never talked to him but he’s in the same class as I am (but different hours) so sometimes I see him during study hall at that teacher’s room.
These past four years I have never had a crush so now I feel so stupid for getting a crush on a guy two years younger than me when I’m about to leave for college 😭 I’ve never spoken to him and I don’t think he knows my name. I’ve talked to his friend tho.
I really admire him. Hes very smart and hes in a lot of extracurriculars and very talented and cool.
ALSO I found out my younger brother (sophomore) used to be friends with him but my crush name is common so I never connected the dots…
How would u feel if a girl who is 2yrs older and is the sister of your friend-kinda-not-friend told u she liked u 💀
I cant believe I even wrote this but since Valentines is coming up I feel like I should at least send him an anonymous love letter thru the school valentines thing. Like its my last yr of hs might as well? Idk | Crushes |
Do you ever feel like you get fixated on someone, and that attachment just kinda can drive ya crazy? And when yoh talk to people about they suggest taking a step back. Taking time to think. Telling you to let then come to you.
I feel as if this happens all the time. No matter how many times you step back they never come to you. Its always you initiating things and starting conversation. It feels like they dont show interest until you give them reason to. Yet when you ignore them and dont act as your normal self, its then they show interest. Is that a selfish feeling? Is that unfair to them?
Maybe they only show interest when you seem upset because thats when you're looking for interest. You want them to see your frustration. Or maybe they only show it because they dont express care often until they see you need it.
Wanting someone to be the one to initiate and care for you is hard when youre used to the one starting it. When they actually approach you it almost feels weird. Like why would they approach me of all people?
This is far too long a ramble. But how far back must you step until you find the one? When will you get the person you desire. Idk. Night night! | Crushes |
Just curious | Crushes |
Okay, before we even get into the meat of this post, let's make it clear that I struggle with handling people. Not just women, but people in general. I've been diagnosed with high-functioning autism for as far back as my memory goes. Probably even longer, frankly. For anyone who's unaware, autism a neurology-based disorder that's present from birth and comes with a variety of symptoms including sensory abnormalities, coordination impairments, intense fixations, ritualistic behaviors, extreme aversion to changing routines and plenty more. But the most prominent challenge it causes involves "reading people".
For most of my life, I've been fine with that. I don't usually have much interest in dealing with people outside my family and handful of friends anyway. I've almost never felt the need to actively seek out encounters with others. Key word being "almost". Today, I'll be digging into one of my most prominent exceptions, so to speak.
(Although I'm not saying her name.)
There's this girl I go to highschool with that I've been crushing on since my sophomore year. And we've gotten well into our senior year now. We used to share two classes, but sadly not anymore. Calling her "attractive" feels like selling her short. She was pretty enough to make focusing on my classwork infinitely harder, and that's during one of the few classes I'm known to enjoy. Pale skin, dark brown hair, darker eyes. She was curvy and slim at once. Wasn't just her build that drew my attention though, she has an alluring...style, I guess. She never dressed like she was putting excessive effort into looking good, if that makes any sense. She dressed to impress, and would occasionally show some skin, but there was always this tangible hint of modesty to her outfits. She knew how to look sexy without looking slutty, if you prefer bluntness, which is something I appreciate. Don't even know why.
That's what sparked my attraction, at least. As time went on, I noticed other things. One of the big ones being her artistic prowess. Art was one of the classes we shared, and...her work was great. Way better than mine. I'm actually somewhat jealous. I've done well enough with abstract artwork, loosely based on colorful church windows I've seen in my younger days, but she's infinitely better at drawing buildings, landscapes, people, pretty much anything with specifically life-like shapes. She's even entered contests around the state and won medals. For whatever reason, that made her more attractive for me. Something else that drew my attention was her demeanour.
Or her attitude, I guess. For extra context, I'm gonna say there's no shortage of people at my school, male and female, who go out of their way to be obnoxious. Class clowns who crack unfunny jokes and provoke excessive drama for almost no reason. I'm sure you guys have run into your fair share of those folks. You probably don't require much explanation for why they annoy me. The girl we're talking about here, however, I don't recall her ever doing that. She always seemed quite mature, which further intensified my interest in her. I'm always into that trait, for some reason I have never been able to pinpoint.
Onto the problems: I never gathered the nerve to start up an actual conversation with her. I never knew what I should say to even get things rolling. We've only had a small handful of direct interactions, all of which were brief. I'd hold a door open for her, compliment some of her artwork, small things like that. Her reactions were usually pleasant. And, for some reason I still can't fathom, she liked my work too. One day, our class carried out this little ritual of placing stickers near the finished projects of our classmates to signal which was our favorite. She went straight to mine. This little cardboard structure I'd cut up with a small blade and glued into the shape of a jaggedly sharp iceberg.
She's also pretty much the only person in that class to get my name right without having to be reminded an ungodly amount of times. My first name is hyphenated, but most people only call me by the first half of it. That probably doesn't sound like much of an issue at first, but trust me, that get's indescribably annoying once you've dealt with it for years. I've kinda just...given up on correcting them over time for the most part. But that wasn't ever necessary with my crush. Mind you, I'm not taking any of those vague examples as indications that she's into me too. Heck, I'd be surprised to find out I've even crossed her mind too much since last year. And honestly, I'll be the first to admit she's out of my league anyway. I can't say I have much hope for any romantic dynamic between us, but I've still got some hope for friendship, I guess. That might sound pathetic, but it's the best way to describe my thoughts. One problem with that, which I mentioned earlier, is that we no longer have any of the same classes. At least not during the same hours. Furthermore, we don't even have the same means of leaving school. I go by bus, she goes by car. And stopping her in the hallway would feel awkward at best and creepy at worst, and I'd really prefer avoiding both.
The most convenient option that's come to mind is writing her a note explaining my thoughts in the least creepy way I can, which is probably easier said than done, and passing it to her on my way home. She wouldn't know it's from me until she read it, by which I'd be out of site. It's cowardly, no argument there, but it feels like the easiest way to go about this for me. She's literally the only girl I've had this intense of an interest in since I was enrolled into that school, which does nothing but confuse me. I mean, I've found other girls there attractive and charming, but never had the desire to connect with them beyond the level of a pleasant acquaintance during times of boredom. I don't really know what makes this girl different. But I think, even if she doesn't reciprocate my feelings, that getting them off my chest might be a cathartic benefit. But I could be wrong. The risk could easily outweigh the benefit. At this point...I really just don't know. Is my idea an awful one? | Crushes |
I just know that some of y'all are wanting to talk about some oddly specific thing about your crush and the right post hasn't come up yet. Let this be that post! :D | Crushes |
So i followed him on instagram but i never got my follow back and i always see his following going up..☹️ Everyone says i should just dm and stop being a pussy but the thing is i have him in class everyday and it will be so embarrassing if he’s just weirded out by me yk? What should i do😬 | Crushes |
Ok so this has happened to me a few times. I be sitting at lunch or something and come across a group of around 4-5 girls that are in front of me (like 30 40 metre) . We sit at different lunch tables. Maybe they thought I was stare ing at them first. I not so sure. They act friendly around me but they do that to almost all the popular boys.
A few of them would stare into my eyes then turn to each other and like giggle and whisper into each others ear before staring back for like a brief second again..
what the hell is that supposed to mean? Do they find me attractive, do they find me ugly? It's just the wee giggle bit after. It's not a full scale laugh or anything, just a girly giggle sort of thing.
I just stared somewhere else and ignored them. They all know I used to like one of them. I think I did the right thing.
**TL;DR a group of girl look at me and giggle at lunch and I ignored them**
What are your opinions? Did I do anything right?
Thanks! | Crushes |
it sucks
ig he still wants to be friends w me
but I can't
I feel like a terrible person
I've never looked at him as a friend and I can't do this now
it ain't easy
evertime he approaches
I don't talk my replies r dry
I don't talk at all
I don't approach him at all | Crushes |
Hello people of r/Crushes I'm planning of asking my crush on valentines day to the prom but I'm very worried, anxious, and stuck on how I'll proceed do it plus what to get her and honestly this whole week I've had terrible anxiety because of what could happen and it could effect pls help!! | Crushes |
I'm a Claireaudient Intuitive Psychic but I use Tarot cards to solidify nd perfect my craft. I feel like doing a few readings if anyone is interested send a Chat. Send A Chat If Interested.. I SPECIALIZE IN RELATIONSHIPS ND ENERGY BASED READINGS!! How does he/feel towards me, where's our relationship headed, etc.. | Crushes |
I have an online friend that I've known for over 2-3 years who I've grown to really like and I am so tempted to confess but I am just. Overthinking it so much!!
I don't think they'll like me back, but what if there's that one percent chance they do??? What if I make them uncomfortable and our friendship changes? We talk semi regularly and I was editing a big video project with them, what if they tell me to end it because of this? Would they even do that? I was gonna pay them for an art commission, would they never want to do that again? AAAAA
Heavily exaggerating there on how I feel 💀 but i think it gets the point across. I just
I am leaning heavily to confessing to them (literally made a post about this already lol) because I think it's better to confess than to let the feelings fester forever. Plus I think if they do reject me they would be understanding. I think? I'd hope so.
Idk this stuff drives me mad cause I am a natural overthinker anyways | Crushes |
There is a shy girl in college that I like and want to ask out. When I talk to her in class she is open with me about her family some, what she likes about her job, things she did in high school, movies she’s watched etc. She admits herself that she is shy. I was thinking of asking for her Snapchat but could she be interested? | Crushes |
Wrote a letter and gave it to her then I asked if she saw the paper and she said yes, she likes me too. Just a heads up | Crushes |
So I confessed to her couple days ago and she likes me back, got her number, and now we talk often. But she told me to stay friends with her so we can get to know each other better. So it's my perfect opportunity to ask her to be my girlfriend on valentines Day. God I'm nervous and excited ᕕ(՞ᗜ՞)ᕗ ᕕ(՞ᗜ՞)ᕗ ᕕ(՞ᗜ՞)ᕗ ᕕ(՞ᗜ՞)ᕗ | Crushes |
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I’ve been trying to ask her out and I’m exhausted | Crushes |
Ok, so I need some help, I'm bi (20m) and I think I may have a crush on a friend of mine
So here's the deal, I've known this guy for a couple of years and recently I think I might have started to get a crush on him, we only really see each other when the whole friend group get together for nights out or parties but lately I've felt like I've been talking and getting to know him a lot better whenever we see each other, and whenever we are at a party I kinda act a bit different around him, like if he suggest doing something I'll be one of the first to say yes.
the thing is when I first met him I did think he was cute and all but it was like a little comment I payed no mind to,but recently I've been feeling like I've been noticing him more and more, and we are interacting a lot more too, like to the level where we have these kinda talks about our lives and all that, but I know he is super straight because at one point Im pretty sure he even had a thing for one of my best friends who's a girl due to how he was acting around her, even though she had a boyfriend who is also in the group and is friends with him. | Crushes |
I really want to tell my crush I like her | Crushes |
So I got a crush on a girl who's with her friends a lot, and I started talking to her but she didn't really wanna be with me that much, but whatever we're still friends. But recently I started getting a crush on one of her friends that she was always with and now I'm scared to confess to her on valentines because I feel like her friend will think its weird that I like one of her friends since she thought I liked her. I'm just wondering if it's a weird thing or if its just normal and I shouldn't worry too much | Crushes |
First of all, I want to say that I don't speak English very well so I'm going to use the translator to write this, sorry if there is any mistake in the translation. Ok, so there is a girl, who I find very cute and I like the little I know about her personality and her likes. In person, we've only talked twice, the first time at a mutual friend's birthday party, the party was really loud and neither of us likes that kind of stuff so we left the party for a while and talked a little, the second time was for a school project. Via chat, we have talked several times, and we have had good conversations, although I am always the one who initiates the conversations. In person I only see her at school and she is always with her friends and I think it would be awkward to get close, so I was thinking of inviting her to hang out outside of school. I asked a friend what did he think about the idea, he told me it was a good idea, then, I asked another friend and he told me it would be weird, considering that we are not very close. What do you think? | Crushes |
I'm a 17 F that kinda lacks a love and social life, i already graduated highschool, he's 20 and goes to college and he's cute, today I was having a little bit of trouble with the cones and I already know how to somewhat do them he grabbed my hands and showed me how to swirl again, I notice sometimes when I'm talking to coworkers and he's talking to our coworkers I'll catch him staring at me and smiling it's probably a coincidence, he always ask if I'm okay when I look sad and he looked really concerned when I started crying the other day, we talk sometimes but we're always busy and in different stations, I wanna tell him I think he's cute but I think it rubs him the wrong way how young I am because when I first got hired he asked my age and I asked him why and he said personality and physically I look too young, he makes me laugh with the silly things he does even though if another person did it I probably wouldn't find it funny at all lol, we have a coworker having a baby shower I think I'll make my move then and dress impeccable for the party | Crushes |
I set a self rule like might guy hope you get that reference and if I won a fog of war chess game I would add her and today is the day hope it doesn’t back fire | Crushes |
Yesterday on the bus in the way home from school, I (m17 year 12) asked a girl (f16-17 year 11) if she was from the same school as me which she was. I then went back to my music. Later just before I got off I asked her if she was interested in going to the school gym with me sometime and she said she’s been thinking about it but was scared but agreed to come along and asked for my number which made me very happy and excited. We texted for a bit and it turns out we catch the same bus in the way to school and then that was it for the day.
The next day I decided to ask her what she does in Fridays as we both don’t have any classes on that day and she told me she was going to hang out with her boyfriend.
Why would she ask for my number?
Was she into me or something?
Someone tell be rn I’m not thinking rationally. | Crushes |
My crush added me to her close friends list on instagram and posted something to her story, and I responded with a 🔥 emoji | Crushes |
ohgod
I hate this feeeeeeling
I wish I never met him
why did I have to meeeeeeeeeeet him and why did I have to fall for him
fall for someone who isn't really my type
why the fuck do I still like him | Crushes |
She showed up to school today wearing one of those double sleeved shirts, (I don't know what they're called) and her hair was in a ponytail, which I've never seen her do before. It looked fucking AMAZING! I probably gave her like six complements on it so if she didn't know that I like her before, she definitely knows now. 😊 | Crushes |
So back on the 16th of December I asked me crush out in class and she said no. So having common sense and thinking that no means no I moved on. But recently she's been acting werider around me. For example she keeps messing with my leg in our second period class. And I wouldn't think much about it because our second period is very boring. But I'm the only one that I can tell that she does this to. Her best friend will be right there next to her yet I've only known her for five months and she's never done that to him it's only to me. Second when we used to sit across from each other she kept would keep looking at me directily and waving to me. It was not a situation were we were forced to face each other because the teacher was there but it was non stop and her other best friend would be right next to me and she never looked at her once unless her friend waved. Third she is lightly teasing me more than often about my bad handwritting. Before she rejected me she would rarely tease me and we would be very nice to each other. But a month after she rejectied me she began to lightly tease me more. But when we did a love test in class as a joke me and her got a 34% and she said good thing. So I can't tell what she wants from me and I thought maybe reddit could help. | Crushes |
I told him I was gay. He was cool about it. Didn’t really care too much and just said he didn’t expect it from me. A couple weeks later and I was casually talking about a guy I hooked up with and then he reacted shocked again as if it was the first time him finding out I was gay. I even made a joke about it before and I guess he didn’t take it seriously. Why did I literally have to come out like 3 different times to him??? I’m guessing this isn’t a good sign but I would say we have a strong bond and I consider him to be my best friend. But I’ve found this flaw which I’m not too fond of. How do you forget something like this not once but TWICE???? Not sure if he was joking when he pretended as if I didn’t already tell him. | Crushes |
I'm a 20 year old man, I used to have an ex, But I didn't have to make any effort to get them, They made the effort.
Fast forward to now, I go to the bar a lot, I like to drink, And I have a crush on one of the ladies who works serving drinks, She's a little older than me, Around about 21 I'd guess. Well, We talk occasionally, And we're real friendly with each other, Now, I heard rumours going around that she also has a crush on me. Not sure if it's true or not. But regardless. I don't know what to do. I've never had to advance a relationship on my own, Never had to make the first steps, So I'm completely clueless on what to do, This is where I need help, What do I do? Because theoretically, Assuming the rumours are correct, And she also has a crush on me, It should be easy to advance further, As we'd both be willing to do so. But I just have no idea how. | Crushes |
ughhhhhhh | Crushes |
Okay so I’ve recently realized that I have a crush on one of my classmates. The thing is I usually don’t have crushes easily, unless we are friends or we know each other. I go for personality heavily. So unless I don’t know you or how you act I can’t actively have a crush. Anyways this time it’s different. I’ve never talked to the guy. Never had eye contact with one another. It’s just one sided. I for sure give a lot of glances cause I can’t help my self.
Now I’ve never asked anyone’s phone number before. The idea cringes me out ngl. At least when people ask me. I get uncomfortable. So I feel like that might not be for me.
Question is what can I do so he knows me. Or show him that I’m interested. I want to let him now. But not directly.
By the way I’m an 18F. If that helps with the tips. | Crushes |
School is doing this spend $5 to give a rose or $3 for a chocolate rose to someone. I just decided to do it anonymously but I had no idea I was suppose to write a message down.
I had no idea what to say and didn't want to make it sound obvious it was me. I was also running out of time since 4th period was starting right away. So it just felt so generic for what I put down. Which is literally just "Just gonna say, I wish you the best"
Man I want to redo and say something better. But it might be obvious. Maybe something like "Hey whatever you do in life, keep hanging in there and eventually you'll find someone just for you."
AHHHHH I WANT TO REWRITE WHAT I SAID!!😫 | Crushes |
after a year of being friends I finally did existed to start flirting with him! he picked up on it and flirted back!!!! I feel like I’m floating!!! | Crushes |
ALTHOUGH i'm a giggling mess around him so idk how i'll manage the latter | Crushes |
asking for a friend | Crushes |
im just looking for weird messages to send that are funny but don’t sound desperate, the more random the better
if anyone wants the full story about this i made some posts a few months back. i texted him after not talking for a while in december and got no response so i figured id try one more time because i have nothing left to lose at this point.
DISCLAIMER before anyone says i should move on, im fully aware. the only reason im doing this is because i really like him and have no other options that im interested in right now :) | Crushes |
We both like Hunger Games, we both like animals n shit, and we have an art class and animal science together.
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HELP????? | Crushes |
AFTER OUR ANIMAL SCIENCE CLASS ENDED WE STAYED IN THE ROOM FOR LIKE FIVE MINUTES TALKING IT WAS AMAZING JESUS CHRIST I'M A MESS AROUND HIM | Crushes |
My crush did sit behind me and her friend sat beside her but i’m so scared to turn around and ask her something I feel more comfortable if the tables were in groups lmfao idk why. She cute af tho lmfao i snuck a few glances at her but i was scared af and i think one of her friends may have caught me staring at her and her friends but they were all up infront of me cuz they were drawing stuff on the board.
One thing idk if i heard correctly but i heard her friend say “Talk to him” and idk what my crush replied with I think she said “nooo” nervously . last class I also think i overheard them saying “ask for his number” and my crush said “i can’t do that” and she suggested that maybe she can dap “him” up. Anyways my crush looked adorable in her outfit too. half of her shirt was all tied up by some rubber band which is cool lol | Crushes |
I hate my life, so let's get straight to the point my crush rides the bus and all I know is a friend (guy) rides the bus too (not the same one) and I don't and she usually says the bus takes forever and I took my chances and said "wanna ride with me" she said yes but at the end of the day we past her friend (the one that rides the bus/guy) and they hug... after that I asked "I didn't know you had a bf" and she said"he's just a friend"
What do I do?? I don't see other girls hugging their "friend" or do they?? I need a girls opinion and guy please help🙏 | Crushes |
So I have a crush that I have had for a year I got rejected once that was last year. So my little brother tells her sister I still like her. (Btw they come by my house everyday when walking home from school) So the next day they walk by my house and my crush’s sister said to me while I was playing basketball. “Your brother said you like my sister(my crush)” I say no that was Old that was last year and my crush looked Mad. And after that they left. Did I Miss An Opportunity? (BTW I texted my crush asking if she was fine cause she looked mad and she said “No I Was Fine” So idk | Crushes |
Earlier, my office crush came over to say goodnight and grinned. I replied with the same phrase and then remarked, "I like your hat." She said "thank you" as she walked away without turning around. She wore one of those fedoras. Was it too much to say, or am I just thinking things through too much? | Crushes |
Now I'm really sorry if this is all over the place or too rambly or doesn't make sense or anything but GOD I am struggling to even type man
Soooo there's this really pretty girl who I see for a couple of hours every week. We've never really talked or anything, and I didn't truly pay attention to her until recently.
Anyways we've made eye contact and she's smiled at me before but honestly I thought nothing of it because what chance is there she'd actually be into me, I don't even know her. I have the shittiest social skills as well, so honestly I couldn't even attempt to become friends with any stranger if I'd tried (my friends are all extremely close friends who I've known since like middle school) I've never really paid attention to her much and it's all been a normal amount of eye contact until yesterday when I was sat pretty much directly across from her in a class for two hours and I kept seeing her turning around and looking at me out of the corner of my eye, and a couple times I looked straight at her and she smiled. At the beginning of class she did a weird double take thing too so idk. I guess something just clicked then and I got insane butterflies. I got too nervous and wasn't able to keep eye contact for longer than a second and just kept doing my work so I wasn't able to see how long she would have looked at me. Man I got so jittery and I forgot to smile so idk how strange she thought that was. I'm wondering what the chances are that she thought I was alright and would be open to become friends (I've never talked to her at all beforehand) or if she just thought I was weird-looking (sometimes I accedentally have a crazy RBF since usually my neutral face in public is slightly smiling because how my face works but sometimes my eyebrows knot up into a death stare and people ask what's up lmao.) I don't think it was too bad that day but who knows, although no one else was staring at me like a freak at all the rest of the day haha. So for the advice...can I and how the hell do I talk to her enough to at least become friends?? Is she open to talking or does she think I'm weird? I'm not too approachable either and she seems pretty shy (so am I. majorly.) The only ever successful crushes have been with people I was already friends with so we were comfortable enough already but I've never approached someone new. I want to try to make eye contact for longer so I can see what she's doing but really the only time it happened was after class when we were walking to our cars and I was already sat down and she looked at me through the windshield then quickly walked to her car.
I literally have zero idea how to ask out or flirt with someone I don't already know.
How do I send signals without being too weird, and then how do I know if she's responding well? Is it all up to confidence and just taking a risk if it doesn't work out?
Sometimes I get intense crushes on people that never end up knowing I exist and it's obvious that it's a lost cause but I wonder if this means she's actually open to me? There's gonna be a Valentine's dance in a couple days and I'm wondering if I should go up and talk to her? I don't know if she thinks I'm interesting in a good or bad way...
I feel like I'm reading wayyy too much into this or something but I don't think any crush has ever hit me this hard and this quick, too. It's insane and I'm gonna have a heart attack next time I see her. HELP I feel so dumb and gushy (in a fantabulous way) :P
TL;DR: A girl was staring at me and I want to know if she's open to being friends and how to initiate conversation | Crushes |
okay so im friends with this guy and i like him and my friend wrote on a note saying my name x his name as to ship us together and he tried looking at it so i took it from him. also on the way back to my homeroom my friend screamed something about him being my boyfriend to tease me and he turned anround and i went inside my class and he peeked through the doorway and just satred. LIKE HELLO??? And then after i had to leave bc it was the end of the day my friend told me that he said he thinks im beautiful and wants to date me but IDK OF SHES LIEING TO MESS WITH ME but she said he told 3 ppl ik so im gonna ask those 3 ppl if its true. and me and my crush were having a penicil sword fight and my friend thought we were flirting😰im so lost plz helppp or state ur opinion | Crushes |
Tell me! | Crushes |
We were in the same group for some exercise and she was sitting next to me. Out of nowhere she decided to grab her pen and draw the cutest little cat on my sheet I've ever seen. And next to that a smiley face. | Crushes |
That's it that's the post, i'm gonna go back to dying inside | Crushes |
So a while ago I asked a guy(z) if he wanted to go out with me so we can get to know each other. He declined saying that he was talking to someone. So I accepted that and moved on. I have a friend(k) that is dating his best friend(j). J is the only one z talks with the most. Today k told me that j asked her if she and I talked about z before. Z wanted to know and asked j to ask k. We only talked about him yesterday because she said she heard that I had asked him out. Anyway we both found it weird. Now I wanna know why z was asking if me and k talked about him. Why does he care if we did? Idk what to do. Should I ask k to ask him what he wants? Had this ever happen to y’all? | Crushes |
^^^ | Crushes |
Yeah as it says, do they like me? Dm me and I'll give you what I've got | Crushes |
I’m not talking about making a full on love story with my crush through the face of another guy online. I want to get an idea of what she’s like when she talks to another guy that isn’t me so I don’t make a fool of myself. For example, pretending to be another guy, finding out what she likes and doesn’t like, like favourite foods, music, and seeing if she and the real me have anything in common. If we don’t, well at least she wouldn’t know it was me. Then when I talk to her in person I can seem more impressive already knowing what she likes in a guy. If your wondering why I wouldn’t just do this as my real self, I don’t think she even notices me let alone find me attractive. She’s the type that never answers texts and is one of the popular girls that could easily have me as the laughing stock in school. Is this a smart or bad idea? | Crushes |
There's this guy that I liked a while back, lets call him Peach,to which I found out he liked me back but his girl bestfriend told me that he denied it and rejected me. She also told me that they both made fun of me, to which I felt very betrayed.I was of course very shattered by the sudden rejection, as the whole year group knew about us but him denying it caused a whole lot of confusion. This was about 3 months ago.
Fast forward, I've not so completely moved on, but right now im also developing a crush on this guy from my class. Let's call him Tiger.
I've noticed Peach staring at me every chance he gets and this never stops. He stares into my soul, and looks away when caught by me. Hes also always around me, to which me and my friends had to start using a codename to let eachother know that he's around us.
Also, in science, I sit in the corner of his eye, kinda in the same row. He's always staring and listening to me and my friends conversation. Last week, however, I told my friend about a new guy I had a crush on, and since he's not well known, not that many people know him, so I used his real name when talking. Peach, however did not like that. He went up to the guy, infront of me, pushed him, gave him a dirty look and walked away. I was very confused, as he'd clearly made sure that he didn't like me, but yet he's doing this stuff.
So I want to know people's opinion on why Peach would be doing this. | Crushes |
Whatever. I’m listening | Crushes |
So I sit next to this cute guy in class and I constantly catch him looking at me and copying my little movements- like when I lay my head on my desk, he does the same, and when I lean back in my chair, he also does. Although we haven’t spoken to each other…
I finally worked up the courage to follow him on instagram, and when I did, he IMMEDIATELY accepted my follow request (like within 30 seconds), but didn’t follow me back!
Does he seem interested or not? HELP!! | Crushes |
I need your advice on whether it is attraction from him or he is just being friendly. Tysm!!
So the story:
My boyfriend organised a small gathering in our apartment and I decided to join beacuse why not and at least I can socialize, meet new people.
There was a guy always looking at me for a couple of seconds then looking away but then he started the whole looking thing over and over again. He did it for hours (5-6) during this gathering. I was the only girl there plus 4 boys. This guy is 19 and the others are my age 24-26. After a couple of hours I finally realised (up until this point I was also drinking, mixing cocktails so not really aware of what is going on). this gazing situation and I started catching it and smiling at him because I felt strange. We had a chance to talk for 5 mins face to face (others were out smoking) and he was actually really talkative although he is an introverted and quite shy guy accoring to my bf. He seemed extremely nervous like adjusting his sweater and fidgeting. After we had this conversation he was not only looking at me but smiling, too.
I always smile and pay attention to others during a conversation trying to keep the eye contact with them and showing that I am here and listening (that is the only way rn I can be part of conversations lol).
Such situations never happened to me during gatherings (I met a lot of boys via my bf though), so I dont know what this is. Do I overanalyse and overthink this and he is just friendly or is he interested? | Crushes |
okay so me and this boy, from spring 2022 til the end we were talking so much until one day he randomly unadded me. ans i was pissed cos i liked him 😭 then, we came back after the summer holidays and i would always catch him glancing over at me. but it’s only until recently this week i’ve been noticing he looks at me like stares, if i catch him he looks away, and kinda follows me - in a way where he goes where i go but except he doesn’t talk to me. we don’t talk to eachother at all but idk how to 😭😭 what’s going on w him | Crushes |
Should I wish him a Happy Birthday tomorrow (I’ve already wished him in advance in person) or should I play it cool and not text him for like a month | Crushes |
Soo..I've caught my crush glance at me a few times at school recently and I'm kind of wondering if it meant anything and what it meant.
I haven't told him how I feel and don't know how obvious it is.
Is there any way to tell the difference between making eye contact because he likes me or because he knows I like him though? | Crushes |
I have *an amazing* friend, he's a little younger (3years younger). 🌺🙄💞🫠✨ But I'm sure *I've fallen for him* . 😳💕✨
I'm sure he doesn't realize it. 😒💔✨
He barely dates. 💔😣❌🙅🏻
Nonetheless though, I try. I tell him 'I love him' without saying it. 😌💕✨
Surprisingly he says similar things. ❤️
💛 He's very *sweet, charismatically brazen, a loving gentleman, and handsome* . 💛 Being *SUPER* honest asf, he respectfully checks me. I think we're going on almost half a decade of friendship.
He deals with my clingy days 👩🏽❤️👨🏻💕🥺✨, and my distant days. 🚶🏾♀️🚶🏻
When he does the same, I'm patient as well.
Recently though, I've started dreaming of his home, and just laughing with him. 💤💕
It's a strange feeling to keep secret, I think it's best though. 😅 Telling someone ur brain is Dreaming of them is *weird* . 😣💔✨ Idk I just have to be silent until it gods away. 🫠💔
I can't lie to him, and I can't find the
courage to say the truth. So..😓💕😒💞
I'll keep it hidden 🔒❤️ & say *we're just friends* . 🥰❤️🤭 | Crushes |
So there’s this guy that I like (obviously, that’s why I’m here) and I sometimes find it hard to initiate conversation with him but also a harder time keeping it going. Like, he’s a better talker then most guys I’ve talked to that I have an interest in, but sometimes there’s still that lull in the convo. What can I say to keep it going? And to even start it? | Crushes |
I gathered enough courage to speak to my crush at lunch. She usually sits with her friend but her friend wasn’t here so she was sitting all by herself. She’s Hispanic and speaks Spanish so I thought it would be cool to speak to her in Spanish.
I said “Que pasa” which means (what’s up) and put my hand out she did shake it tho.
Then I said “estas bien” which means (are you okay) im sure she ignored it or I didn’t hear her cause anytime she answered me she would turn back around to her phone.
last but not least I just dropped the ball and said “eres bonita” which means (your pretty) and she said “thank you” she was smiling the whole time btw.
After that I walked away and went back to my friends, they said speaking to her in Spanish was a bad idea and I should have never done it. but it did seem she just wanted to be alone tho. What should I have done differently? | Crushes |
We were introduced to eachother through a mutual friend over the summer. She liked me at first but she's seemed indecisive/skeptical ever since. We've been snapping everyday since August, but we've never really texted. Until the other day when we texted for a few hours, and even longer te next day, but the third day was slower, and we haven't texted since, that was a few days ago. It was going really good but she hasn't made the first move to text since and I haven't really bothered since I started the first 3. Should I keep it up? Or is it not worth the trouble? Because it could just be that we ran out of things to talk about, but then again she could just have no interest. | Crushes |
How do I approach my crush ? (if it isn't too late )
Basically, I've known this girl for 7 years , I was (still am) a cosplayer she took a picture with me on an event , later that night we talk she was very sweet and I thought she was cute .. at that time I was very awkward (i am still) and unsecure always overthinking stuff and had a low self esteem .. so I've never made any move. All these years been working on muself and my confidence tho , got to the gym improved myself and even my cosplays got to me be approached by girls also .. Nonetheless , I could never remove her from my thoughts somehow . We're friends on social media , and she posts stuff sometimes , stuff that made me fall in love even more with her since i've discovered we held the same view on many subjects (love family religion ...) . I've approached her a few months back, but it was really awkward , like I wanted to talk with her and asked if she was free , but she told she wasn't at home and was busy. Another time I answered on one of her stories but she didn't even open the message. So yeah basically I think that she's just not interested and I should just move on since I've wasted my chance. But still I wanna know if there still hope/ a way to engage with her into a conversation and maybe make things work ... And if so how cause I suck at it ... | Crushes |
We talk alot over text everyday but everytime I want to talk to her irl I either start to panic and convince myself not to or her friends start to talk to her
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So last June, I confessed to my crush that I love her. I got rejected, but now my big question is: Could I have been successful if I held her hand while saying "I love you"? Girls, please help me out. | Crushes |
Usually I would walk out with them after class but she walked too fast I would’ve had to jog to catch up to her. I think it would be too weird to wait for her while she’s packing up. (We haven’t talked before) I don’t see her any other time than that one class. There isn’t much of a chance we can talk during class unless we get paired together for a group, and the class is always very quiet, although we do sit together. At this point I’m considering just writing a note, but I think that might not come off well.
She seems pretty shy and is at least somewhat interested. I haven’t really acted interested so she probably assumes I’m not. | Crushes |
Yes | Crushes |
Hey! This is my first reddit post, so excuse me if I end up doing something wrong. Also I mess up English sometimes, since it isn't my first language.
I (18F) am a hopeless romantic, and when I was younger I used to have enormous crushes on people that maybe didn't make such an effect on my life, and I believe that those levels of emotions decreased on the pandemic, since I fell in love very deeply with my best friend until last year, when I finally gave up. Since then I haven't met anyone my age on another social circle since I spent most of my time studying or working and don't go to any clubs or places where people meet.
I'm a really small streamer on Twitch, but I found a nice community where I feel comfortable and met lovely people. The main character of this post is my current crush (18M) who I met playing Minecraft.
When I first played with him (on a special Minecraft server with lots of other people), he seemed funny and quite mysterious. He lives in another country kinda near to mine, and I don't remember how we became closer, but throughout knowing him more I found out that he was one of the most interesting and captivating people I have ever met. He has hobbies and talks about his interests that, even if you don't understand them, it makes you stay and listen. And if that wasn't enough, he has the best looks, and an sweet smile that makes me weak in the heart.
He is a reserved boy, and doesn't show how he feels about some things. I'm someone who shows emotions most of the time, because I can't help but to tell my loved ones how incredible they are. So, when I first have the thought of him as a crush, I didn't consider it as serious, since I belived it was only admiration. (First stage: denial).
Sadly, I stumble upon a horrible situation with an older man in that platform who I believed it was someone who loved me, and moved on from that "platonic crush". It ended up in the worst way possible, and needed to leave that community of streamers, and thought I wouldn't see him again. When I left I had some connections with my best friend who lives in another state, and told me that he was looking for me everywhere, because I erased most of my social media. I sent him a message through my best friend, and boy, I was incredibly surprised of the cute message he sent back. I even cried.
When I finally reappeared on my social media, we became even more closer, and I learned more about him. He's such a good person to have around, extremely funny, and will come up with something new every week.
The platonic crush became a REAL crush when I dreamed about him, and kissing him. I woke up from that and felt horrible instead of happy. I grew some trauma in the past situation that made me leave, and didn't want to think about anything that was long distance. I thought I only needed attention, and shouldn't think about it anymore. It was so heavy, that I finally told my best friend from another state about it, with a lot of shame. It helped me a lot, and instead of shoving the feelings apart, my friend made me realize that that was something I can't take out of me.
Now it has been 4 months since I accepted it, and sometimes I believe that he could feel the same way because of some things he has shown to me. I somehow want to make a move, but there's obstacles that make me stand where I am. Because of past situations, I do not like the idea of a long distance relationship, adding that I don't usually travel and won't do that any sooner since I start Uni, and believe that it will be difficult to keep in contact if it is strict. My parents were disgusted with the past situation, so I don't believe I'll have their full support even if they let me have a long distance relationship. I don't want to ruin the friendship either, and make him think that I was only with him because I had a crush (which isn't true). Now, I only look foward of someday meeting him, and see how we do on real life.
Anyways, the feelings are incredible. He is incredible. I want to do something for Valentine's day, but well, I'm kinda scared of rejection and I want things to go as slow as possible, so, if you could give ideas of what to do or how to move foward, or even opinions, feel free to tell me.
Thank you for reading, I feel relieved haha. | Crushes |
On a night out with my crush of 6 months at the end of January I finally told her how I felt. She rejected me because of on age gap but said she found me attractive. I stayed away from her for over a week to try get over it but knew only way was to see how we were around each other and after 9 days saw her again. She apologized saying she didn't mean to drink so much. Gradually though since then she's being keen to go to other places & events I attend where she isn't usually there. Saw her today and we were laughing and she was brushing her hair and then she asked me on a 2nd night out for tomorrow. I've already decided prior as I was rejected not to get her a Valentines Day card/present and I want to go out just as her friend if and I mean IF I can handle that. I just want to have a good night out and as I got rejected last time to just enjoy it no pressure but then I start thinking what if she kisses someone Infront of me? Does she regret rejecting me and blames it on the drink? I'm infatuated with her and so trying to have my guard up I don't know if it's even a good idea... | Crushes |
I've been really wanting to impress my crush latley, I've been wearing makeup and changing everything I can about me so he could just like me. We're great friends, best-friends but I'm not sure if he really likes me back. I've not been very opended about my feelings, he's liked me before in the past when we first met but it went away. Then, I got feelings for him a couple of months later and I hate the feeling. Having two crushes at one is annoying. There's this other guy, lets call him A. A likes writing, and I enjoy writing stories also! We talk from time to time, and he seems to be pretty nice towards me when we interact. But when we're alone? It's a little awkward. Now, theres B. B is my best-friend. We love all the same things, talk crap and do every little thing together literally almost every second of the day. I like B more than A, A is just a small crush at the moment and B is a really really big one. I've tried to deny my feelings about A many, many times but the thought of them just wont go away. I don't know what to do at all, having crushes is stressful. I wanna ask B out for valentines, but I don't wanna humilate myself. What do I do? | Crushes |
I really like this one girl and in the past she complimented my attire but now we don't have any classes together and I'm freaking out and I haven't seen her in the halls or dining area. So now it's like do I just let it go? because at this rate that's not really an option. I'm getting really desperate and like I'm considering just emailing her school account but that's insane dunnit? Like I said, I'm desperate for anything but at least make it constructive. | Crushes |
Everytime I’m thinking about something his name pops up and I hate it I just want to stop it I thought I moved on from. Him blocking me and I did I have a new crush now but it’s so hard to focus on anything one part of my mind is sayin he had a good excuse for blocking me the other says no he made it clear what I mean to him 😩 | Crushes |
I had a huge crush on a girl to the point I would dream about her I found out she had a crush on me too and she asked me out but she broke up with me 3 days after and for the past 9 days I've been trying to hide it and be happy and it all just came crashing down today my life keeps getting worse since then she was my only friend and my only motivation I feel so empty and worthless now and I just wanna end my suffering and to make it worse people keep telling me she has a crush on me not knowing what happened making it worse and worse | Crushes |
So I identify as demiromantic and my last crush didn't go so well since he came out as aro and starred distancing themselves from me. I started this new job as an intern at my local library a few months ago and I meet this really nice coworker. We started talking a little at work about movies and I like watching him doodle and he shows me stuff from time to time. Now I can't shake this urge to at least get his number so I can try hanging out with him. | Crushes |
I know that it isn’t weird but I don’t want to seem obsessed with her because she only mentioned her birthday once over text and it might be weird me remembering it.
We also haven’t talked much in weeks so idk if it would seem weird to randomly go from a long silence to wishing a happy birthday
Also she thought that it was weird that I remember her surname so it would be even weirder to remember a birthday that was mentioned once lol.
Also she does know that I like her.- | Crushes |
So… I have a crush on a friend. We met on tinder a few months ago, but I only started crushing on her a couple weeks ago. It’s really refreshing since I haven’t really crushed on anyone since I broke up with my ex and this is such a warm innocent sort of butterflies in the stomach kind of feeling, unlike my usual (extreme nervousness and stomach aches lol).
Back when we first met I asked if she was into girls (I’m a girl, clearly) and what she was looking for. She said she wasn’t looking for anything romantic, but she was into girls. Since then we’ve become pretty close. We chat almost daily and see each other whenever we can (not super often cuz we’re both pretty busy).
She’s such a sweet and genuine person and we like a lot of the same things (music, movies and a few other things). I feel like she really listens to me and understands me and I could hear her go on and on about her interests and her life. I really feel like i connect with her in a way that i only do with few people, and she said she felt the same. I know she said she wasn’t looking for anything romantic, but I’m thinking since that was such a while ago maybe there was a chance she changed her mind. I’m just really scared of making her uncomfy or something like that.
I was thinking of maybe asking her out for valentine’s? I hate valentine’s and I’d be willing to bet money that she does too but it still seems like it could be fun and cute.
The last little (not-so-little) detail is that I’m moving away in about six months and I don’t know how far away I’ll go. Probably not further than 5 or 6 hrs by train, but that’s still a lot. | Crushes |
So basically I had a crush on this guy and I really used to like him . He is a year older then me and he has already passes out from school. Recently I was missing him a little too much. My friend says that she thinks that he likes me judging by the way he looks at me but idk. I messaged him today for the first time in order to understand an accounting question as he had the same subject. He helped me out even when it was 2 in the morning. Do you think he likes me and should I start a convo again or not. Will he start a convo. I'm so confused I can't even sleep. Please help what to do? | Crushes |
Theres this guy I like a little, just a little. But as of late, he's been on my mind like CRAZY. We're pretty good friends, like very close. I consider him one of my best-friends and cloest friends I've ever had in a long while. We share all of the same interests, from video games to music artists. People have told us that we'd look cute together, but he'd always say it was weird and I would go with the same thing also when really I wouldn't mind if we were both together. I know this sounds dumb, but hes a Taurus and I'm a Aries. (Sorry for bringing zodiacs into this.) I try to convince myself I don't like him, but I really do. Some days I try to dress to impress him, but he doesn't really notice. But sometimes, he would show small hints that he might like me. I don't know what to do, I want him to like me. He's a year younger than me. | Crushes |
I’ve liked this girl for months and I finally asked her out. But she keeps saying stuff like “there’s no reason to love me” or “I’m not good enough for you” is this rejection or is she insecure/ or unsure? | Crushes |
When i chat with my crush it seems she really likes me but when i see her in uni specially when we are around our other friends i feel she kinda tries to ignore me or pay too much attention.
Idk how she feels about me after all | Crushes |
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