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so like theres this guy in my class thats pretty socially awkward yet quite popular with many of the “outcast” popular kids. im somewhat affiliated with them since my best friend is somewhat friends with them.
he caught my attention and ive never felt this curious about someone and actually willing to reach out and get to know them. i have 2 friends and their friends are nice to me but they show obvious signs that im awkward. i have severe trouble being social to anyone who is not my 2 friends. i know, its bad.
my best friend, though, is quite close with my crush’s, lets call him “X,” bestfriend. she asked X’s bestfriend if i could have his snap. X’s bestfriend wanted to ask X if it was okay that i added him, since he had just gotten out of a relationship(it ended badly, but was short lived.)
X said it was okay if i added him. I made small talk them stopped talking to him for almost 2 months. i started texting him again with the casual “hi how are you?” basically. he literally texts like hes uninterested, so he could be. however i get that i put him in the spot and this is completely weird.
the worst part is rhat i see him everyday in my class and we do not speak. ive never said a word to him in person. i know the advice would be “just go talk to him,” but my social skills are worse than his. he is very good friends with all of the talkative people, but he has trouble speaking to quiet people.
i constantly look for opportunities to talk to him, but the class isnt really one that we talk in at all. he also avoids looking my way and he seems like he may want me to approach him but thats hard to do with someone who wont even look my way. or he could simply be avoidng me because he doesnt want to be affiliated with me. idk.
i know that for this to advance any further, i have to take risks. but theres a certain order that i have to do these things in and i dont know how or what to do. he doesnt leave me on opened when unecessary or anything, but we dont really have “real” conversations. he never texts me first and ut takes him a little whike to respond, usually over two hours but sometimes20-40 minutes. | Crushes |
Any tips would help. | Crushes |
I’m in a bit of a predicament. We’re both seniors in high school, but I’ve liked her basically since the beginning of Junior year. I mean, if I would’ve just talked to her more back then, things would have been fine, but I was too anxious. I still am, but at least I’m capable enough now. The problem is, it’s just festered for so long. The first time I talked to her way back when was because one of my very close friends is good friends with her. So over the past several months we’ve waved and said hi and had smalltalk and whatnot. It’d be weird to simply jump to a confession at this point, no? And I don’t want to make things weird with my friend (or a myriad of other people), because he’s genuinely one of my best friends.
If I were to get to know her more, it’d have to be soon as she’s going to a different college. Should I just move on? How? | Crushes |
I know it's a little thing but today she waved at me!! She is giving me mixed signals but hopfully this one counts as a good sign. I kept smiling for a while. | Crushes |
Hello everyone , got a little police crush story , thanks for reading.
I work as a police officer . The city I work in has multiple police stations. A few nights ago I was assigned to provide support to a neighbouring police station . As I'm on the field I see a patrol car of the police station station I'm pretty much working for tonight , on the passager there is this amazing red headed cop that cathes my eye while passing by . I'm like "damn she was pretty " , later on I see that same car stationed , I'm thinking " It would be a good ideea to exchange phone numbers with the officers who know this area better than me " . I walk up to the car , nobody on the driver seat , but then I see her again on the passager seat , talk to her whatever then I get her phone number , purely for work related stuff . Later on towards the end of the shift I have to drop some documents to their police station , and as I wasn't that familiar with the building I think "hey I'll just call her and ask if she can come pick that up for me" , she answers and says she has some documents to fill in herself at the station but she can wait for me outside and I can just come and give her those documents , I agree and then start driving to their station . Outside I see her with a goddamn lollipop in her mouth , I walk up , tell her a thank you and she threw me a little smile that frickin' killed me and said "you are welcome".
Now I can't stop thinking about her , I mean I DO have her phone number already , what the hell should I do , do I even text her ,I don't know that much stuff about her and I don't wanna make it awkard or anything because who knows we might have to provide support for one another sometime and I wouldn't want any personal stuff make it weird in those situations. | Crushes |
She once told me she had never received flowers from anyone, so for Valentines Day I’m going to get her flowers.
I want to be the first for something in her life because I don’t think I’m lucky enough to end up the last. | Crushes |
today me and her we've had two interesting convos so i'm going to basically summarize them here cuz i want advice lol
first one was about drinking and how we both like drinking but drinking with other people is more fun than alone and i said "yeah, i wish i could drink with someone cuz the only the time i drank while talking with someone, i was talking with them through discord" (recently she drank with some of her friends so that's why we were talking about that) and she replied saying "well maybe one day we could drink together" and i just replied back saying "maybe". and i mean, she's already showed some signs of liking me but we never actually did hang out since we we're only classmates and before (and if i'm being just until a weeks ago) we hadn't exactly a good friendship so it is kinda out of character for her to say that to me imo since she usually takes time to trust someone, and even then she doesn't invite them to hang out (best example i have is an usual friend we have who was one of the first people to befriend her in our clas and is one of her bestfriends yet she never invited or suggested for them to hang out)
the other convo we've had who was kinda interesting to me was the one i was talking about the oceanarium and how i wanted to go with someone but i ended having and argument with the friend i was going to with and i was now searching for someone to go with me since it would be more fun to go with another than go alone. and it basically went
me: i wanna to the oceanarium to see the penguins but i don't have someone to go with me, so i was thinking about asking someone to go visit it with me.
her: yeah, it's always more fun when you're with other people
me: i was thinking about calling another one of our classmates but they probably already visited it
her: yeah they probably visited it already. i also already did
me: is it cool?
her: yeah but i don't remember how it was because it was a long time ago since i visited it.
so idk if i should maybe ask her to go with me or she was just being friendly and those convo's didn't actually mean anything or she was trying to hint for me to ask her so i'm asking your guys opinions. (also srry for any grammatical errors, since english isn't my native language and for the length of this post) | Crushes |
So I met this girl on a dating app the other day and we basically talk near nonstop by text. I really like her she's kind, sweet, caring and gorgeous. We went on a date yesterday she was playing with her hair alot and after the date we arranged too see each other, she asked me if I liked I said yes then I asked her she also said yes which made me happy. Today before work she came by bus too see Me for like an hour, which I thought was pretty cute tbh. And the other day she asked if I'd stay over hers for a night or a few. Now this is gonna sound really stupid, does she like me? | Crushes |
Im not sure what to do, earlier this year my crush said she dont wanna be friends anymore because it felt akward when we met in person for the first time, we only ever talked online. My friend thinks I should try to explain that a bit of akwardness at first is fine and I do too but I also want to respect her decision of her not wanting to be friends anymore. What should I do? | Crushes |
A guy in my project group is acting in an unusual manner. Although he's always been nice to me, I feel like this is just how he is towards everyone.
Not long ago, we had to stay at uni a bit longer to finish a task for our project before the deadline. While I was working, I felt like he was staring at me, so I looked up and saw that he was indeed intensely staring. I looked away, but still felt the stare, so I looked back up and he really was staring with a sharp expression. He even ended up smiling (it actually looked more like a smirk), causing me to give him a confused look and breaking the eye contact as first again, he didn't even after I caught him staring for the second time. I was confused because this was different from our typical gaze. I even ended up blushing, which usually never happens! I actually find it easy to hold eye contact with people.
On that same day, he also asked me some personal questions, which revealed that our personalities and interests are quite different from each other.
We couldn't finish the task for our project at uni, so we split the work to finish it at home. I had another assignment due the next day, and he told me to focus on that and leave the part I had to do for the project to him. He said that he will finish it himself, so that I will have more time to finish my individual assignment. It wasn't a big part that he took from me, but still...
Okay so the strange thing he did the next week was this: two other group members had a disagreement and we had to to solve it as a group. It was his turn to speak, and he said, "The only thing holding us together is this project. After it's done, we'll all go our separate ways, so let's just make sure we finish it." He said this and some other things while looking at me the whole time, like excuse me lol?
Anyway it's not like anything could ever come of the two of us, so I don't really care that much. I just find it interesting if you get what I mean. | Crushes |
So last night I told my crush I got off to joseph quinn (first name that popped in my mind at the time) but in actuality I was getting off from the thought of my crush when he had a goatee. And he called me foul after, idk if I should have just straight up said it was him. | Crushes |
she also asks if i ate and stuff. or if im hungry. aw man thinking about her :]:] | Crushes |
I (22 F) got a new boss (30 M) a couple of months ago and from the beginning he was always telling me how professional I am and how much potential he sees in me.
He constantly confides in me (as I do him) to complain about other employees (my coworkers, his employees), and then he tells me that he respects me and he knows I feel the same way (I do) and this is why he feels comfortable telling me. Aside from the fact it isn’t really professional, I didn’t think much of it until a couple of weeks ago.
I noticed that my boss sometimes was more physical (high-fives, brushing me on the shoulder to get my attention) than he was with other people. Then, two days ago he blew me a kiss.
In addition, I have been smoking cigarettes for a few months and he constantly tells me I need to stop. Finally I asked him last week why he only tells me to stop smoking and he told me that he doesn’t care about anyone else.
I am enjoying the attention but at the same time it feels wrong. He is married and I’m in a long term relationship in which I live with my partner. I’m not sure what to do…. | Crushes |
Last weekend I met a crush from my old school days for a few beers in the evening.
The plan was for us to leave and seperat at 10pm because we both had plans afterwards. Then it was suddenly 2am - still talking, then 5am, then we went to his place.
And I can't stop thinking about him. Every few seconds he pops up in my mind. I want to see him again so badly. Want to touch him again.
But at the moment it would be very inappropriate, we're both not looking for anything permanent and some other reasons. And we have agreed to remain friends anyway.
But still... I haven't had this feeling for years. I would just die to be in his arms again. | Crushes |
Hey, I need some advice because I am awful at talking to people 😭
Basically, about a month ago, I added my crush on snapchat (he was new to it, he made it about a week before I think?). By the way we are not close at all. He added me back right away and asked me if he knew me, I said yes and that we’re in the same year at school, he was like “oh yeah we’ve spoken like once or twice” and we had a nice long conversation after that. We’re both pretty awkward but he kept brining up different things and it felt like he actually really wanted to talk to me. We even started streaks and I was so happy. He commented on random things in my snaps (eg. he liked my lamp 😭) and it was really cute. He even wanted to play online games with me ect. We acted like we never spoke in school though ☠️
But anyways, after a few days he stopped messaging at all. We lost our streak and I was like “i’m guessing you don’t use this account anymore haha”. After a couple more days he replied with “sorry i’m not on my phone much” or something like that, he said he goes outside when he’s bored lmao. However over the last one or two weeks I’ve occasionally snapped him and he left me on opened and once even on read when i just asked how he was doing. I know he’s been active because his snapcore keeps going up significantly, not to be creepy or anything but I’ve noticed. I really miss talking to him and aim way too socially awkward to talk to him at school what do i do?
Omg I’m so sorry I didn’t realise how long that was, it was honestly like a vent 😍 anyways advice is is greatly appreciated | Crushes |
My best friend (f) just confessed to me (f) over snapchat..
So, the conversation on snapchat started normal, we were just talking n stuff. Then I bring up the topic of crushes and how I have one (it isn't her, it was a boy in our form group) she was like "omg who" and I made her figure it out and eventually she manged to guess it right.
After that, I was like "so who's your crush" after I asked her, she was like "it's a girl and u know her" and I just instantly knew it was gonna be me. But I kept trying to find out, hoping it wasn't me.
After a while of us just talking about it, she finally confesses that she liked me until an hour ago, when I told her a liked a boy. I felt so bad. If I knew she liked me, I never would have spoken about how I liked someone else. I just replied w "I dont really mind if u have a crush or not, we're still friends" and she acted like it was fine, but I don't think it was.
I've got to see her tommorow at school and it's gonna be really awkward. Any tips? I still wanna be friends w her, however I feel like it's gonna be a bit harder now that I know she's attracted to me. And you cant just stop liking someone straight away, so she'll still like me a bit.
Should I just pretend nothing happened? Or should I address it in real life? I would be thankful for any advice. | Crushes |
he’s been walking me to my car for the past 3 days now… what does this signify reddit | Crushes |
For example, what if I imagine things because I like him and want to believe that he likes me too.. | Crushes |
okay so there was a rumor going around our school that there was going to be a valentine’s day dance. my crush and i were talking about it. we were talking about how fun it would be and how the school was allowing us to bring valentines. i asked “so if the dance is gonna happen do you wanna go with me?” and she said yes! i’m so excited, i bought her a little stuffed animal of her favorite color for valentine’s day too. praying she likes me back!! | Crushes |
So whenever I am in class and a guy sits next to me he would sometimes stare or look without being obvious. I want to talk to him but he is always with his friends and I dont want it to be awkward. We have conversations every once in a while but I want to get closer with him. | Crushes |
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Hello Reddit. I just found out about this subreddit and I need to share my thoughts before they consume me even more.
I have a crush on a girl and I am pretty sure that she likes me back, but I am so nervous to ask anything. I have some anxiety, and every time I have thought to ask I have gotten nervous. This is also my first real crush (at least where I think the person really likes me back). I have known her since childhood and been friends with her as well. I am also very close with all of her best friends too.
I am not sure if this sounds weird but there are many reasons why I think she likes me.
Whenever she sees me she always waves or says hello
When we speak she always maintains eye contact with me. If we are in a group of people she will still talk to me or maintain eye contact with me despite other people being involved in a conversation
I tease around with her a lot and she always laughs at my jokes teases me back and references past jokes or things I have told her
She has come to me with help for homework often
She has told me things that she has not even told anyone else or even her parents
We have a fair amount of similar interests
Most of all though, she has complimented me many times , whether saying she likes my outfit, that I am funny, or one time flat out saying that I am such a great friend.
The only things that have worried me are that she does not often respond quickly if I ask or text her something, but I know that she is very busy outside of school. The previous year of school, we had many classes together and I believe it was where we both potentially started to like each other more, however, this year we only have one class together (outside of lunch) and do not get to see each other as frequently in person.
What hurt me, even though it should n’t have is that she made it known that she is not taking anyone to the dance our school is having later in the year. I was hoping that it could have been my chance but it will not be
There are other guys that I have seen her talk to but none with the same ways that she does to me. I am just so scared to ask her as it is, but the fear of being friend zoned or rejected and having to see her would be so hard to deal with
I am sorry for how long this is, but being so inexperienced I am just looking for advice. Thank you | Crushes |
My crush, this guy. He's an all rounder. Good at academics, he's got looks too and plus he is a skilled artist. Damn.
So, like, he already knows i like him. I told him back in October last year. And we did talk via text but as embarrassing as this is to admit, we've never done that irl. Ever. He's an awkward wreck around me and so am i. I told him i just wanted a friendship right now and he said he was all cool with it.
Yet,, even when we sit next to each other In class, no talking whatsoever.
Anywayy, yesterday, i texted him about some school work. He helped me out as he always does :-)
I'd always wanted to say something about his pfp because it's this absolutely stunning anime artwork. So yesterday, i did exactly that. I complimented him about it and he thanked me back. But. Hold on.. with a heart? 💛
WITH A FUDGING HEART? NO. WAY.
LOOK. tell me if this is logical or not.
you do not send a heart to someone you've never talked to irl.
You never send a heart to someone whom YOU KNOW likes you a lot, when you don't reciprocate. I know it is a yellow heart, but OH MY GOODNESS, it is still a heart, at the end of the day.
My guy, he is the nicest and most polite and decent guy i know. Everyone says that about him. He'd never screw with my feelings like that.
What is this. Help. | Crushes |
I found out, recently, that my crush saved my name in his phone under a nickname. He didn't have other girls numbers saved, so I couldn't say whether it's something he usually does or not. Name is Lizzy but he has me saved under Liz. He has never called me by Liz the 4 years I've known him. In fact, he has told me he never saves numbers unless they're close friends/family and I've only heard him, within the last year, start actually saying my name around people or to get my attention. He acts like he likes me sometimes, but other times he acts like he doesn't by excluding me. I know he has a guard up from some past stories of exes, but does it have any meaning that he has it saved that way or am I looking too far into it? | Crushes |
I’m asking on a technical level, is it possible my account isn’t being shown on other peoples swipe? I think I’m an okay looking guy and I liked/ sent chats to quite a decent amount of people and I feel like I should at least one response or add back, no? | Crushes |
I’ve been texting with this guy lately and we teasing each other when working, just until today I noticed he make himself day off on Valentine day and the day after, is it the red flag for me to stop crushing? | Crushes |
So I have a crush on two people rn, one of them I try to time when I go to my locker so I can see them and the other I try to avoid/take different paths lmao. The thing is i like the one that I try to avoid more than the one i try to see a lot 💀 | Crushes |
I gave my crush my number on a slip of paper about 3 days ago. He hasn't texted yet so I'm assuming he's not interested which is kinda disappointing. Now the problem is that I might see him again this weekend and I'm not sure what to do. Should I just act normal? He usually greets me when he sees me and says goodbye as well but I'm a bit worried he'll ignore me this time. Also I'm pretty embarrassed this didn't work out and I just know I'll blush when I see him, how do I prevent myself from acting awkward? | Crushes |
there’s this mobile game called beatstar and we keep beating each others high scores over and over and neither of us will give up and every time i beat her she’ll have my high score beat within like 2 hours and i wanna know if this is like playfully competitive “flirting” or not (ik she likes be but we’re in a situation where she doesn’t wanna be in a relationship but i wanna know if the feelings are still there and if maybe she’s planning on changing her mind) god i overthink everything | Crushes |
Said he wants to take it slow but never texts or talks to me. It honestly doesnt make me feel good and idk if to give up or keep my hope. Advice? | Crushes |
Okay okay so I went with the „Heyy, heard your band play you guys are really good“ message.
Two days passed. I lost hope and just thought that it‘s his loss.
But then, I ranted to my friend about him not replying, opened my phone and there it was
HE REPLIEDD
and not only that, he double texted with emojis!!
He wrote „thanks😅were only some covers but we‘re planning on writing our own song soon🤘“
Guys who use emojis>>>
Basically we held a little conversation, that guy had like zero anxiety, he read and replied to my messages immediately, while I needed like five mins to think of what to reply.
All thought, him not following me back (while some of his classmates and friends were) was making me nervous, maybe he‘s just a nice guy who replied to some random girl? But no, in the middle of the next day he followed me back randomly, does that mean he was thinking about me? At least something had to remind him of me, making him go on my account and follow me back.
Either way, I want to text him again, since our first conversation went pretty well.
But I’m unsure of what to say. I would ask how’s the song writing going but school break started and he and his band probably didn’t spend much time together yet.
I think I should just wait until the break is over and see if he‘ll pay attention to me in school, even a quick glance would be enough. Then I’ll text him again.
What do y‘all think? | Crushes |
This girl at work is unbelievably beautiful and I (f) have a crush on her it’s just a lil smidge one bc I have a fear of commitment/abandonment issues so idk about a relationship. But I do be flirting w her a lil but like slyly just to see if she’s gay. And her cousin works there too and I was like I didn’t know you were related and she was like oh yeah one time someone asked me that and I wanted to be like that’s not my cousin that’s my gf just to fuck w them. And I was like oh. And she asked for my instaa and I made her cry from laughing so hard. Idk she’s really pretty and funny that’s it. | Crushes |
I love her because of her yoga pants. Everyday she wears them it’s like I wanna fuck that so bad. (I also dream of her and have fantasies of her sucking my dick, and lying with her on our couch while watching Netflix and rubbing her thighs, and rubbing her tits(all of this with the sexy yoga pants on). But also she’s just beautiful, but not only that… funny, she has a great personality, she’s smart, she’s unique, and I just really love her and like her and I want her to be my, I guess, future gf. | Crushes |
ahhh i’m so confuseddddd | Crushes |
It's been a year since we stopped talking. I still don't know anything other than that they hate me now. They never gave me a reason, and everyone else who asked about why we stopped being friends only got a fake answer.
They started to hate me around the time I got with my ex, but I feel like it's self-centered to think that has anything to do with what happened. I broke up pretty quickly, as the relationship wasn't good for either me or my ex, though, obviously, my friend didn't stop hating me.
Anyway, I wish we were still friends. I liked them more than I've ever liked somebody, and for longer, too. I wish more than anything that things could go back to how they were before, even if we never got together.
I don't really know why I wrote this. | Crushes |
Monday night I went out on a date with a coworker and when I left his place he said goodnight mami because he’s from a Spanish speaking country and it’s normal for them to say that to women they find attractive but I catch it until he mentioned again at work yesterday and I’m not sure how I feel about him calling me mami. I also come from a Spanish speaking country myself which why I find a little bit strange. I only use mami when I talk about my mother not when I’m talking to other women. | Crushes |
Sooo about a month ago I told my crush that I had a crush on her, and she just said "I KNEW IT" and like acted rly happy, after that nothing really changed, she never said if she likes me back or not but nothing has really changed in how we interact since then so like did I get freindzoned or should I try to ask her our or smth? | Crushes |
my (F15) crush (F16/17) who i’ve liked for over a year and a half seems kinda passive aggressive to me.
i’ve done nothing to make her uncomfortable, and whilst she still follows me and likes most of my posts, today she made a post very clearly pointed at something id posted making fun of me/telling me off for an opinion.
she seems kinda weird in general and whilst she’s real pretty and i think we’ve got stuff in common, i get the sense she might be a little mean.
despite this i can’t get over her (possibly due to my low self esteem), so i keep lowering the bar and telling myself i could put up with it.
how can i get over her? please this year and a half has been mostly awful in terms of this crush | Crushes |
I went to a boutique shop today and there's a guy and fucking lord he look like a hot vampire. I never seen someone so hot guy lol. I'm crushing . | Crushes |
So I met this person a couple of months ago in when I 1st started university, I am normally not a talkative guy (i have a major resting bitch face) but they sat next to me and were super chatty, I started talking they were very nice but we never talked again for another month or two, I didn't think much of it or even remembered their name but at some point we were magically put in a group project together (cliché I know, groups are assigned alphabetically and our name starts with the same letter and groups are permanan till the end of the year) we started chatting again and became quite friendly, they were supposed to print their paper for the group presentation but when I asked them if they remembered to print it they said that they forgot , I found myself for no goddam reason excusing myself out of the lecture to go to the bathroom and sprinted to the library (which is faaaaar from the lecture hall) and I printed their stuff, went back and when the lecture was over and presentations began I handed them the papers, they were very surprised and thanked me, I have no idea why I randomly decided to be kind to this person this is completely out of character for me, they gave me their phone number and we started talking frequently and we met every week for random projects and labs, the more I talked to them the more I fell for them I looked forward to the day I see them, I have many close friends and I made alot of new friends at uni but they didn't feel like that, my relationship to this person was different I "loved" them differently I have never been in love or never had a crush in my 20 years of life so I didn't know what it was, anyways fast forward a couple of long metro rides together and I started knowing them better they were like me in a lot of ways, I found myself happily listening to whatever it is they were talking passionately about just because it made them happy they said to me once that I was good listener, I wished that the metro ride would last forever so I can have them to myself for a bit longer, fast forward after exams and I ask them to hangout they said sure, so my ass took an hour long bus to where they lived just to casually hangout for 30 minutes, we were talking once and they were in a bad mood and felt overwhelmed by university, so I did an assignment for them and surprised them with it they jokingly sent this text "LOL I seriously don't know what to say I would sleep with if you want" I just lost it , Whenever they say goodbye they hug me a friendly hug,I feel guilty for holding them in my arms while having different intentions, to me it's a different kind of hug sometimes I fear that they might feel my heart beat rapidly in my chest when they hug me or see my face flush red, I feel jealous whenever they hug someone else or talk to them like they talk to me, I always message them to hang out but they never ask me to hangout they never text me 1st I have to keep the conversation going I know their friendly with everyone but I can't help how I feel, I don't want to have thoose feeling, I can't tell them how I feel I am afraid I will lose them and in my country it might actually put my reputation in danger if they reported me to the university I can get expelled, I just want to love them like a friend I want to control myself I want to live normally without thinking of them everyday, I don't want to hug them with bad intentions in my head I need help... | Crushes |
Scroll -> find a girl talking about a boy -> go to the profile -> not her -> repeat for 3 hours
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Why i keep doing this even though i know i won't see my crush again? Why am i wasting my time here even though she probably doesn't even use reddit? why am i talking so much about my life even though i think her friend knows this account? Dkkwpwkffodjdosk1oejodmsowkqorjodmdkccnskmqk3jtkdnemaeykdowjwoejdkfjdj9wjeofjddojwowowj | Crushes |
alright so this is my first ever post on here and i don't have any dating experience or "this is not that serious" flirting experience but let me just lay down the facts-
basically for the past month or so i've developed a hallway crush on one of the guys in my school. he's super pretty and elegant but from what i've heard from his classmates (the girls i talk to), he's a complete dick, super competitive, rejects everyone on the daily, and honestly just ehhh
here's where the problem begins. so even though i've heard all these things about him, i still decided to do some online stalking and i think i found him on insta, and on accident followed him (ROOKIE MISTAKE I KNOW)! now he's msged me asking if he knows me and i don't know how to reply cause?? i guess i don't wanna seem creepy (even though this is probs already creepy from the get-go)
basically for the past month or so, i've developed a hallway crush on one of the guys in my school. he's super pretty and elegant but from what i've heard from his classmates (the girls i talk to), he's a complete dick, super competitive, rejects everyone on the daily, and honestly just ehhh
guess i don't wanna seem creepy (even though this is probs already creepy from the get-go) | Crushes |
Omg when she smiles at me my heart races and when I see that she texted me my face warms up. I didn’t realize I liked her until I felt these feelings and I’m constantly thinking about her. I’ve always wondered if a guy crush and a girl crush felt different and THEY DO! This crush feels like a warm hug and it feels so weird in a good way. AH IM NERVOUS TO SEE HER IN CLASS | Crushes |
I am so confused we have been texting for a while and he said a lot Of weird shit to me and whatever but we were always on and off in the talking stage but anyways randomly he removed me and my friend asked him why and he called me weird and I’m kind of offended he said he realised I was weird like huh what I don’t even | Crushes |
I have tutorials with a guy I’m interested in, I see him literally every week. In the first month or two he would always make eyes at me so I thought he’s interested too. Now I always see him with a girl, but he hasn’t really stopped with the eyes. I felt really discouraged when I saw the girl and I don’t even know how to make a move cuz I’m scared I’ll embarrass myself. Idk I thought him and I had some real good potential tbh. | Crushes |
There is a guy in my uni Spanish class that is so freaking adorable. I want to straight up ask him to be my Valentine. Typically I feel a lot of passion and skip the build-up, leading to a disorganized feeling later between me and another. I think he likes me too by how he looks and smiles at me, and I know that sometimes people can rush things to avoid rejection, so I want to do this differently. He doesn’t seem too quiet or insecure, so I am sure he would eventually make a move, but I get scared that it won’t come together. For context, the class has only been going on for a month, so I know I can wait. Is is okay to let him make the first move so I know it is not rushed? | Crushes |
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I met a girl a month ago from a group of friends. We live 1hour apart with car ride, she is 20 and I'm 22. At the start, we were not really talkative but things became easier and easier after two meets ( group ).
We had a group meet last week, and eventually one more in a week from now. We are 2 girls and 4 boys, the other girl and one of the boys are already dating. What is left is me, guy Y and guy A and she.
She was spending a lot of time in online call with guy A, they would play online games and watch series for hours almost everyday - at the end, she was just being friendly with him and had no interest for something more - atleast that's what she shared with me, guy and the dating group.
Guy Y spends ( from what I can see ) mostly time with her playing video games. I'm not sure if he likes her but spending time with someone means you enjoy it - I guess?
Me and her - right before our 2nd meet, we texted for random stuff, she would be the one initiating mostly the daily conversation, when I join in the call with others she would say " ohh helloooo \*myname\* " and when we met - she was excited to see me I guess? I made her a little present for her cat ( which might be the reason she is distant now ) but the present was overall a bunch of cat food for her cat.
She uploaded a picture of herself and tagged me ( because I guess I was the one who took the photo) but still - I don't think that means something serious, right?
Since the day after that - she is not reaching out that much to me - she would chat in the group chat, she would like my stories and messages I send to her but she wouldn't initiate - yes she would reply but that's it.
We have a plan to make a meet after a week, the dating couple, me, guy Y and her. Since she became "dry texter" or more like I'm the one who initiates, we have a casual chat and end, I feel bad that I did something wrong because she is playing daily with this guy and I find this as probably being interested in him althought I had a girl that was playing with me 24/7 and I never had feelings for her.
The situation might sound childish but I would love some point of view.
tl;dr - the post is pretty much tldr of everything | Crushes |
We were in a situationship and we talked to each other every night. I talked to some friends about it, it was going well. Suddenly he started to become more distant, replying every few hours, no longer texting everyday. What happened? How did he lose interest so fast? Did he suddenly hate the way i look? Did i jinx it by talking to my friends about it? My friend posted what we talked about on their very private spam account, he couldnt have possibly found out right? Im getting so paranoid, man. | Crushes |
My crush always fixes her hair while am near her or when she hear my Voice I also have noticed her Looking at me with squint eye so I kinda think she like me please tell if she does
Also How to initiate talking with her as I haven't talked to her much and I don't really know her well.. | Crushes |
He was dropping me off at my student housing center. He hugged me and his hands were around my waist while my head was resting on his chest! We hugged for about two minutes long while he kept asking me if I was okay and if I felt safe. It felt nice to be held by him. He felt so warm. I kind off wanted to doze off on his chest. Guys...I'm still gushing about it till now!! | Crushes |
pictures of their wedding pop up in your feed. And regardless of how much you don’t want to care, or know you should react, it definitely is a gut punch and stings. | Crushes |
I have had a “crush” on my supervisor for a couple months now, I’ve really been thinking she’s giving me mixed signals and a few of my coworkers whom I have told have said that they can see it as well. Where I work one of us would have to transfer stores if anything did happen, I’m not sure about if I just confess I have a crush but possibly. (She’s leaving in June anyways)
For the sake of my mental health I feel like I need to tell her, i have dreams about her every single night, when I see her at work I almost have a panic attack, even seeing her name makes me feel like I could have a panic attack. It’s very weird idk. If I tell her and she rejects me I can move on but it could make work super awkward or I can be forced to move stores. If I don’t tell her and keep flirting idk maybe something could happen because I really do think she’s flirting back and just isn’t making a move.
What should I do? | Crushes |
I went to seee her at work but she was gossiping with her friend in the office so i left a note for them and told my coworker to say i said hello im so disappointed i really wanted to see her and tell her something that she would love | Crushes |
There is this girl in my class who i havent talked much but we know each other.Our classes are dead so i do some crazy things.
So today i called her and asked for her sign(i am not into horoscopes) and she told me her's and i went like "fuck yeah" showing her friends and all so that they will think i like her.I did this because i wanted something to happen in this boring class(i hope you guys can understand). i again and again asked some things like this(flirting obviously)and she came and told me what's your problem with a smile pointing at me.I replied "nothing nothing" but man she got me there.After our class i called her name in front of her friends and told bye just to her so that everyone notices and teases her.At this point i just wanted her to think about me.
But even if i did this all for fun i think i am starting to like her now and i dont even know where this will go because i am not so confident in myself.I am quite popular in my college but not the best looking,i am funny too.anyway share your thoughts on this because i dont know wtf to do....🙏
SORRY FOR THE BAD ENGLISH | Crushes |
Everything was fake the flirting the hearts all fake she knew I liked her and it was all a test and I fell for it I lost feelings now I dont think I can get my feelings back for a liar | Crushes |
I want to give my crush cookies at Valentine's Day but I'm scared of his reaction, so I wonder how people react to this ? | Crushes |
so i was in science today and we had to switch seats, our science teacher was super nice and let me and my friends sit together (4 of us) and sitting right infront of me was my crush, AGAIN! omg i didn’t relise till like 5 mins after! cause i was looking around to try and find him so i looked infront of me and there he was!!
so my friends already know i like him so one of them said “omg you (crush) and #### (me) would be such a good couple!” and he said…YES. LIKE WHATT??? i just looked up to him with a confused smile😃 I WAS PROBABLY BLUSHING SO HARD 😭😭 I soo hope he wasn’t joking because i haven’t smiled so much before xxx please comment what u think i need some advice | Crushes |
Actual convo was THIS
Me: I never had an x-show phase
Them: Wait what?!
Me: and I wish I did bc the show was always solid - it's as sad as you not having a y-show phase (tw: w*ight allusions)
Them: Sorry I wasn't into unhealthy beauty standards - have you SEEN the way they're drawn?
Me: *overthinks it for a while because I'm big* Oh yeah no I see your point
Them: I just want ppl to be comfortable in their own skin because everybody is beautiful in their own ways.
The fake one was this really exaggerated - it was us hugging and them holding my face and telling me how beautiful I was. "What do you mean you're ugly? Nuh-uh, man, I fucking love you and you look amazing. Napaka-slay mong tao, napaka-slay ng mukha mo, wag na wag mong sasabihing pangit ka kasi kokotongan kita" shit like that, and I was just mouthing it to a pillow like I WERE them. "They" held "my" face and everything and it then became "I love you so so much, I just can't be your partner. I will always look at you like a sibling (they've explicitly told me this), and I hope that's okay. I also hope that you find someone who will love you for you. You won't have to pretend so much anymore - and I see it, yeah, I see how uncomfortable you are around me, and I don't want to fake or force my feelings either, they're both unfair for both of us. I want you to have someone who can be real with you, and you with them because you're relaxed around them, and you know, you love them. I can't be your partner, but I do want us to still be best friends because I want to keep you in my life. I love you... and I'm sorry" and I was just bawling around the pretend part and the repeating "I'm sorries" just got me. | Crushes |
when will I ever stop being shy awkward nervous and embarrassed around him
he didn't complete his record and asked me to fill values in his book so I was writing in his book :)
he's cute when he sings songs
I fucking love that sm
I was writing notes when he just comes and sits next to me and just stares at me and just watches me and do nothing
I got so nervous and couldn't write
looked at him and said
" don't you have any work ? "
he said no and continued looking at me tf
I just looked away😭
he got bereal notification and he said " ( my name ) smile"
istg i loved it sm when he said smile ekbdvwhehcbd
I was blushing so hard so I looked away
I tried looking away so many times and he tried clicking my pic so many times
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I got embarrassed and hid my face w book😭😭😭
bc I couldn't stop smiling tffwbwbbd
he said " chill "
he then looked at that bereal pic and asked me if m on bereal or not
I got nervous and my face was red ( bc I removed him as friend bc smtg had happened between us lmfao I was mad and removed him as friends )
he searched my account and said oh this is u
" this bitch didn't accept my friend request "
I got so nervous so I said that's not me
but we had mutual friends lol so he was like yea this is not u???
but then my bestie saved me by saying her account exists but she doesn't post
and he said me " ur lame "
like tf
after few seconds I said " u think everyone else is lame except you "
he said " yea "
again after few seconds
I said
you're the lamest person I've ever known
he said
look at me and say that
fuck
I couldn't
I couldn't look at him I fucking couldn't ejqixjxbxnqjqi
he fucking knows what he's doing
he keeps touching my arms n hands all the fucking time and m like aisixjejwjs
his face is so closer to mine when we talk and our shoulders touch and even our fingers
like whytf is he doing this to me | Crushes |
title ig. long story short there's loads of reasons why I think that but there's no way I'm making the first move. I also think she might sorta know I like her too... I just can't help thinking about what will most likely never happen if neither of us says anything. idk why I'm posting this tbh it's more of a throwaway since it's on my mind sm. also I wish I could add more details but I don't wanna risk anyone I know seeing this and making the connection but one thing is she did seem quite happy/surprised when I accidentally mentioned that I liked girls (I'm ok with people knowing but I thought it was more obvious and everyone kinda knew already so it was a bit weird to sort of come out without realising). oh also we both know that we each like someone and we've given eachother clues who it is and her clues do fit for me... idk I'm just worried that I've just convinced myself she likes me and that maybe she doesn't | Crushes |
I hadn’t seen him for like 2 days. And my friend had told me that he asked about me on both days and was wondering where I was. I was flattered and it meant that he was thinking of me. Is this a sign that he potentially likes me? I don’t recall ever asking the whereabouts of people unless they are a family member. So I’m thinking maybe he does care for me? He always looks so happy to see me. I’ll add that I’m a guy and he’s a guy too and I’m not even sure if he’s bi or not. I’m probably just delusional but who knows? | Crushes |
Hii, my friends took my phone to tell my crush i think he is cute, he responded asking if it was me sending this text, i managed to make him believe me. I'm really confused about what he thinks of me and i will see him on friday so i have decided to check on his behavior toward me on friday. I don't really know what to check so if anyone has ideas, please tell me ;------------; | Crushes |
To understand my situation, you have to know how things generally work in India. In colleges or uni, the students are divided into mainly 2 categories called juniors and seniors. So the juniors are supposed to give respect to the seniors and generally the juniors don't talk back to the seniors.
So I am a junior and my crush is a senior. He is in his final year. After studying in the library till 8:30pm, I went for a walk outside my campus and I came back around 9 pm. So there was this cross road Infront of our exit gate and I was waiting for the light to turn green. And I saw my crush on the opposite side , waiting for green like me.
So when it turned green, we started walking and I was about to say hi like I always do. I started to wave , but suddenly he said " whenever I look, you are outside roaming" in a teasing way..
And I replied " well, so are you"
And his friend started laughing out loud. .
And when I came back to my room and told my roomies, they told me that I shouldn't have done that since he was with his friend and it would have bruised his ego.
And I told them that then he should have kept quiet and should have just gave me a nod or a hello like we used to...
But now I am worried.. | Crushes |
tf is wrong w himmmmm
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he was playing a game during class and I was helping him complete his notes and I told him "you can complete your notes instead of playing games right?"
he said "oh yeah"
I fucking couldn't look at him
I mean rhat was hot asf mwowoshdbdbrbe
I just looked away asap lmfoaoowkbebdbdbd
he fucking knows what he's doing all the fucking time i hate him sm for this 😤 | Crushes |
okay so, some background. i’ve decided i’m gonna just leave my crush alone and let my feelings fizzle out. i know that even if he did like me, i don’t think anything could really work between us.
anyway, i was walking home on a new route i’ve been taking for a while and i saw my crush and a mutual friend up ahead. i shit myself. i knew he’d think i was super weird if he saw me so i slowed down.
my friend then proceeded to turn around, spot me, and wave at my sporadically. i wanted to die. i half-run-jog up to them (which was embarrassing enough) cause they’re waiting on me and then parted ways with my crush. he definitely thinks i stalk him 😭
how do i avoid him? it feels like he’s everywhere and i don’t want to make him feel weird | Crushes |
So today was like the biggest plan of my life:
I had this big play from friday to sunday, and just now we had to move stuff from one place to another. One of the people who would stay with me today is my crush's bestie. When we were alone, I told her what was up and that I had a crush on her bestie and her reaction was priceless lmao, she was literally like 😯
My biggest fear was always that she would be lesbian and therefore I would not even have chances with her, but all her bestie told me was to play it cool and just let things flow naturally.
So so happy tbh. | Crushes |
Today my crush went to talk to me after school and asked if I'm alright because I was more quietly than usual today.
She knew my aunt was in the hospital for a few weeks and last Saturday she sadly died. I didn't really tell anyone about it and just tried to keep going.
I told her about it and she was suprised and said some nice things, then she asked why I didn't tell her or the class so they could comfort me a little bit.
She is so nice, I'm really happy to know her | Crushes |
Well, I'll make this simple. There's this guy at work that I always thought was kind of cute. I was looking forward to working with him, to try to get to know him better. We ended up working together and talking for the first time, and I feel like we really had THAT connection, y'know. We barely knew each other, yet 4 hours into the shift he was teasing me and just making me laugh, we had a good banter going on. I found out that we played the same games, so we began to banter about that.I just felt something, it was the first time in a while that I got along so perfectly with someone. We found out that we had a lot in common, and we just kept on talking about everything and nothing while doing our job.
So, the day after, we work together again, and his behavior is very different. He doesn't tease me, he stays silent and doesn't engage conversations as much, so I try to, but I see that he doesn't reciprocate. Since it gets pretty awkward, I just started to talk with our other coworker, and eventually my crush warmed up a little towards the end of the shift. Then, while we're on break, he pulls out his phone and starts sending snaps to his girlfriend, which is how I found out that he's taken. At that moment I felt a part of me die inside a bit, which is when I figured out that, well I have a crush on him, damn.
Honestly, I wish that he could have been as ''cold'' on the first day as he was on the second. Then, maybe I wouldn't have felt the spark, only to be disappointed. I still can't figure out the change in behavior, because he was still chatting normally with our other coworker, which is why I know that he only kept a distance with me. If he already has a girlfriend, why get all friendly and start to tease me ? I don't think I was reading into it, even some of our other coworkers joked about how we got along so well. And, well how many times do you tease someone you barely know 2 hours after introducing yourself to them for the very first time ?
Naturally, since he has a girlfriend, I'm moving on, obviously, but it still hurts a bit. I've been going on a couple dates recently, and I never connected with anyone the way I did with him. Sorry for the long post, just need to vent a little lol ! | Crushes |
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What does this mean? He's constantly on my mind, to the point where im literally crying bc i dont get to see him today. Maybe even longer!! Like i cant do anything without thinking about him. Even all my dreams are about him. Im literally going crazy rn | Crushes |
I already know I am going to end up gettin nervous and excited. Then I am gonna do some dumb crap or something that's going to make me cringe.
I am just wondering basically, how do I contain my feelings around my crush if that makes sense? | Crushes |
She made me a playlist on Spotify and almost every song is a love song of some form, the last song was sweater weather and the current one is falling in love with you??? CAN SOMEONE PLS HELP IS THIS FLIRTING???😭😭
SHE KNOWS I LISTEN TO METAL AND HALF THE PLAYLIST IS EITHER KIRBY OR LOVE SONGS?! | Crushes |
I'm pretty sure he likes me back but I'm hesitating idk why. | Crushes |
-Black Curly Hair
-Asian
-Skinny
Around 5’6
-Wears black sweatpants and white shoes all the time.
-Freshman in Highschool | Crushes |
is it okay for him to flirt with his female friend who used to like him ( and he kinda led her on before ) and she still likes him
while he has a gf????
he's toooo touchy and ug smtms flirts
idk if it's his personality or if he's being friendly or if I'm the one misunderstanding bcs I like him | Crushes |
I (19F) asked a guy (19M) from one of my classes at my school out two weeks ago. This took a lot of courage to do since I usually don’t go far out of my comfort zone. We’ve known each other since September of last year and have sat beside each other for every lecture every day since. I developed a crush on him, and decided to ask someone out for the very first time in my life. I’m a naturally awkward person so I didn’t ask him out very smoothly but he didn’t reject me regardless. He agreed and said he’s free to go out anytime. I’ve texted him a few times since and based on our conversations, he doesn’t seem interested in talking to me at all.
Every time I’ve texted him, he abruptly ends the conversations we have. This started in September, but it’s gotten more frequent recently. Everything would be going alright and all of a sudden the replies stop and he’s left me on read. I’m pretty sure I’m not being dry so I’m not sure what’s wrong. I’m also always the one that texts first. If I don’t text, weeks go by without a single notification from him.
This has made me doubt whether I should even go on with this date. Recently all conversations end up with me on read. I don’t want to bore him and I didn’t want to force him to accept my date invitation. I didn’t explicitly say that I wouldn’t be hurt if he rejects me, that it’s up to him, and that I’m not forcing him to do anything, but I assumed that that was obvious. If he didn’t want this date I would’ve rather him reject me bluntly so I can know how he truly feels. Places like Quora and other online forums say that being left on read means your crush just isn’t interested in you, and doesn’t value time spent with you, which I hope isn’t the case here. I find it so nerve wracking that he now knows that I like him and I hope I didn’t scare him off.
I don’t want this first date to be awkward, boring and tedious for him. After all, a date is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties. Reminder that this is my very first time ever planning/going on a date with **anyone** so I’m unsure how to proceed.
Maybe this is me overthinking like usual but honestly, my doubt has clouded my decision making.
I’d love to have a second opinion on this. Thanks!
Feel free to ask questions.
TLDR: I asked a guy out about two weeks ago and I’m not sure if he’s actually interested in me as he constantly leaves me on read. Any advice? | Crushes |
(17F) I have 2 answers for this, kind of. My first *technically* was in year 2 (6 - 7 years old) when I would draw pictures of me and this boy together and ask him out like... almost every day (I was so bold). I don't know if that counts due to how young I was - can you even experience romantic feelings at that age?
Well, anyway, the next year - in year 3 (7 - 8 y/o) - I had feelings for this boy who I spoke to all the time to the point of getting told off in class. At first I didn't know what I was feeling. This was my first ever proper crush. He reciprocated. All the teachers made fun of us because of how obvious it was. Nothing ever came of it though because neither of us did anything about it. I still have a soft spot for him honestly... | Crushes |
I have a crush but I have a feeling I'm becoming too obsessive. I don't know how I'll act normal when I try to talk to him at this point. What's worse is, we haven't talked before and I have quite severe social anxiety.
PLEASE, please, please someone give me advice on all of this! I'm desperate. Much appreciated :D | Crushes |
I don't know why I thought she ever had any liking for me. I guess not. | Crushes |
I need to get this off my chest. I started a new job in the middle of last year, and I worked a good 2 months before laying eyes on my crush; he worked the afternoon shift and I worked the day shift, and we had never run into each other until I worked overtime one day. Our first meeting was insignificant; we didn't speak, and it was just a brief encounter until about a month later, when I walked into work and found out he was now on day shift and we were working together. Our work is process and warehouse work, and it's very boring and repetitive. The supervisor in charge of our area doesn't really like us talking and working unless it's about the job, and for the first month working alongside each other, we hardly spoke, and when we did, it was about the work at hand. Then, out of nowhere, my work crush started making an effort to do nice things and help me out. At first, I was a little taken back and annoyed, as I didn't want him helping me when I didn't need it, but overtime, I got used to it and accepted it, as it felt nice to have someone to talk to at times. I'm an Australian, and he's Filipino. He's in his mid- to late-twenties, and I'm in my early thirties. He only moved to Australia five years ago, and his English isn't the best. We often laugh because I have no idea what he's trying to say. He's definitely a shy kind of guy, but very goofy and funny. We have inside work jokes about other colleges and he would often walk past and touch me on the shoulder and pretend he didn't and smile, and then one day I noticed he would stare at me when I wasn't looking and I could see from the corner of my eyes, and sometimes I would look up at him and ask what was wrong, and he would just smile and say nothing, and then I noticed he started to get jealous when I talked to another male colleague in particular. He would often make comments like, "Why don't you have lunch with him?" and walk off annoyed. We go through phases of talking and flirting, with me ignoring him, and him trying to get me jealous, and then we are back to flirting, staring, and smiling at each other. It's tiring and annoying, but it also makes the days more fun in a boring job. Then late last year, I left work one day and I couldn't get him off my mind, so I Facebook searched him and found him, and I was surprised to see he was married; he never once brought up his wife, but I had never mentioned that I was in a long-term relationship and a mother to a 10-year-old child either. A few days after I Facebook stalked him, I asked him if he was in a relationship, and he said he was married. He then asked if I was in a relationship, and I told him I was and that I was a mother. Our flirting died down after that for a little bit, and I tried to bring up his wife and ask what she did for work, etc., and I could tell he was really not into talking about his wife, and he seemed annoyed. So anyway, not long after that, we moved to different departments, and I thought it would be a good time to distance myself from him, but working on different sides of a busy warehouse, I would find him smiling and staring at me all the time, so it just seemed to make it more intense. We would often bump into each other in the lunch room and have a quick chat, and it always seemed to be tense and awkward and between us; I just can't explain it. A few weeks ago, after he walked past me and said he wanted to take me to the Philippines, I jokingly said, "Ok, sure, I'll go home and pack my bags," and he said, " Don't joke, I'm serious," and I laughed and walked away. And I just knew right then and there that I wasn't crazy or bored, making things up in my head. I decided from that moment forward to not look at or talk to him anymore, and that's easy to do as we are working on different jobs in a busy warehouse. It's been hard as I can feel his eyes on me, and he has tried to talk to me a few times, but I just say a quick hi and keep walking, or I do awkward sh*t and act like I can't see him or pretend to do my shoe up or anything to not look at him. Everything has been good, but today I found out we are rostered to work together next week on a small job that should only last 2 weeks at most. I'm honestly not looking forward to working with him, and I've considered asking to be taken off the job. I've finally started to enjoy working and not worrying about him, and I don't want to go back to our flirting and games again. Please offer some advice. I really would never cheat on my partner, and I'm happily in love; I just don't know what it is about him that makes me crazy inside. I've actually considered telling my partner about him as I feel that guilty about the whole situation, but I'm hoping over time I will just get over this stupid work crush and it will be something I look back on and think, "WTF was I thinking?" Anyone been in a situation like this? | Crushes |
I like this boy and idk how to tell if he likes me. Are there any signs that I can pick up on to help me? | Crushes |
Okay so I have this friend of mine who's been acting weird lately and she asks me a lot of questions regarding my plans for Valentine's day but in a very insisting way. Tbh I feel like she's into me and... I'm not. It's not even because we're both girls since I'm bi, I'm just not attracted to her and I already have a crush on someone (she doesn't know about it tho). I'd like to make her understand that I'm not interested without telling her I'm not interested but I have no idea how to do that without breaking her heart and losing her as a friend.
I'm also at fault because I asked her is she had views on someone but I did it because I wanted to talk to her about my crush. I'd be more comfortable to talk about him with someone who is also in a crushing state that's why I asked. I'm afraid she misinterpreted it... | Crushes |
I added this girl back on snapchat months later bc I had no clue who she was and then found out she was a friend of someone I know.
We started snapping, which I guess I had like a instant attraction towards her for some reason. Her eyes like mesmerized me for a second.
Then after snapping a couple of times, I started thinking about scenarios with her!! Wtf
I started getting that butterflies in your stomach feeling. Then I tried intiating a converstion asking if she was ready for school tmr. Then we literally talked basically non-stop for several hours till we said goodnight to each other. I just kinda wished I would ask more questions about her but I was too afraid.
Then I also found out I share a class with her... yeah I'm definitely probably going to end up having a crush on her... I just hope it goes well, like at least being good friends. If not, well that's okay, I can handle it. | Crushes |
She would leave me on delivered for days on end and I would often have to double snap her for a response. I tried asking her about the homework in our class recently and she never opened it so I decided to just give up on her. Was this the right move? | Crushes |
Of course not during mid conversation unless you had to go do something which I'd apologize and explain myself, then go right back to the conversation.
But when like saying goodnight to each other. Then snapping them back when I wake up?
This is probably a dumb question and post, but just want to make sure | Crushes |
My crush called me bro. It's doomed guys | Crushes |
Hi everyone, I'm a Uni Student 19M and am an introvert. I joined a dance club and I was surprised to see a classmate from high school there. She, F19, and I used to talk during high school but was ghosted by her. (Il make another post elaborating on it if you guys want). Anyway, I still had a crush on her so I was a bit nervous and kept my distance even though I look completely different from my high school self(want to keep this short so I won't elaborate too much just know that I was not that good looking back then ). She somehow recognizes me and started talking to me. At first, I thought she was just being nice or maybe even nervous on the first day of the meeting but throughout the entire dance session, she kept talking to me. Of course, me being an introvert gave her boring one-liners because I don't know how to interact with others lol. One of the questions she asked baffled me. After staring at me for a solid minute she asked if I had a nose job(I didn't ) and told me it looked good. What does that mean??? Am I over thinking or is she flirting w me cuz she's interested ??? I know nothing about interactions so pls give me ur opinion on this. | Crushes |
I think this girl in one of my education classes is cute. Lets call her "Emma" she is short cute and mousy. I talked to her at an event last week and I saw her in class today, she is so cute!! I think she is 18 and I am older than that. I would love to take her out to dinner and a movie sometime!! She is not hot hot but really cute IMO. We will see what happens. | Crushes |
This one's a doozy, a long story, and not a happy ending. I'll start from the beginning; Here I am(M), in my final class for the day in the very first month of school, and I see her(Sally, not her real name) the one I would be head over heals for for the rest of the year. From then, I had an easy time talking to Sally since we had a few mutual friends in this class, and it wouldn't be long until I felt that she liked me back. Unfortunately, I don't actually ask her out yet, I figured I would wait a bit longer bc I figured everything would happen naturally(first time I actually liked someone like this btw). We talked enough, and were close enough where even the people around us thought we were dating and we might as well have been but of course, I was a coward and still hadn't asked her out. It's the second to last month of school and Sally says to our group of friends that a 'Jack'(not his real name) had asked her to go somewhere with her and of course I wasn't worried bc people can hang out with whoever, but then next week I hear that jack and her started to date. For the last month of school I had sat there listening to her rambling about how good they are together, and obviously I was really bummed out with this news but I only had a few weeks till we got out of school and figured it wouldn't be long until i got over her during the summer. School ends, and over the summer I worked my butt off and started to forget about her through working. But then the next school year came and in my first hour, there I stand, looking at the seating chart, and there he was, I had to go the full semester sitting next to Jack. Now, throughout the semester I had seen Sally through the halls and she just ignored me, and gave me the cold shoulder. Now, I would've been, and should've been happy for her, but honestly I was devastated at this point. Jack and I would end up having to partner up a few times and honestly, he's not a bad guy, but I didn't think it was appropriate for us to be friends given the situation last year. The semester went by, nothing too notable happened until the next semester. Again, there he was in my first hour, the constant reminder of my failures, Jack. He even chose to sit next to me for semester. But, in my second to last class, Sally walks in. Again, she ignored me the first day, but the next, I make a joke at the class, dumb stuff, and idk how this works, but the one who ignores me the whole year, and given me the cold shoulder had laughed at it. This actually upset me, weirdly. Since then I haven't tried to interact with her, but Jack and I have teamed up on projects so far. This is where I am now. Let me explain my feelings right now because I left stuff out to make this shorter(yes, it would've been way longer), I shouldve been happy for her but I wasn't really. I shouldn't have despised Jack so much, but I did, slowly started liking him, but didn't wanna be friends.
But now I started to forget my feelings, until now, where I feel confused, and like some spirit is giving me some sort of sign or purgatory. I don't know, but I wanted to get this out here, and was seeking some advice. Thank you for your time, I appreciate you reading(if you got this far). | Crushes |
As the title says, I’m curious.
Guess I’ll go first. I realized that it’s not just infatuation 2 months into talking to my crush (now boyfriend) when the intense feelings I have for him simmered down yet the butterflies are still there, although not as strong as before. I still catch myself smiling and giggling when I chat with him; whenever I get a notification from him, my world seems to light up. But the nail in the coffin was when we first video called and he started singing “fly me to the moon”. He turned to look at me and a wide smile popped onto his face which was quickly followed by a cute giggle. That’s when I realized I genuinely like him and it’s not just infatuation.
So, when was the moment you realized? | Crushes |
Our school has an event where you could give an anonymous card. I really want to but he doesn't like me because last year at school we played truth or dare, and I was asked who I like and I said I liked him but he didn't say anything. Would it be weird if I still gave him? I've had a crush on him for 2 years, how do I move on :( | Crushes |
i (17m) started talking to a girl (17f) about a couple months ago…we have gotten a lot closer within this short time period so much so that our classmates consider us to be in a relationship. she states that she has never got this close this quick with someone else before and could never see me as a brother to her…she says that she hopes to get into the same clg with me…i have developed feelings for her and recently confessed..when asked abt what she feels she said she was unsure…me having feelings has not affected our friendship at all but i still crave for having them reciprocated…any advice? :) | Crushes |
Long story short I (m21) have only one parka for winter. I wear it everywhere, outdoor, city, parties you name it.
I put it on when I was going out with her (we're good friends) and a couple of friends thinking it's still ok. For context it's all black so light stuff like dust, plaster, dirt is quite easily spotted. That was before I noticed stuff like this kinda all over it. I mean it was not dirty dirty but like lighter spots here and there.
Nevertheless when you greet each other and the first thing she tells you is "Honey, you really should have that cleaned".
Now ofc this makes me a dirty crap who can't take care of themselves. I mean she might have just mention that not thinking much about it but it still makes me feel like shit. Just another mark on my flaws.
Is it really that bad or am I overthinking it? | Crushes |
so there's this guy in my class that i have a massive crush on, although we never talk i wish he'd ask me out. he's really extroverted and social and i'm the opposite so i doubt he likes me. i wonder if we could ever end up together how nice would that be. i literally can't stop looking in his direction. how could i make it so we end up together? | Crushes |
And nearly 6 weeks since i sent him a long ass email. No reply is a reply.
I don’t think about him all day every day.
It’s getting easier and easier.
I miss him so much but I will always want more. So I will always be in pain if he is around.
Stupid heart. | Crushes |
I'm curious because many people seem to dislike it when the person they like / person that they're in a relationship with has a best friend of the opposite gender. Some even go out of their way to deem it as a red flag.
I find it to be an odd generalization because I myself have a guy best friend and I don't understand why I shouldn't. He's always very supportive of me and my crush and even keeps a good amount of distance from me whenever my crush is around because he doesn't want to upset them lol.
But isn't it a matter of integrity at the end of the day? If someone's loyal then there won't be any issue regardless of the fact that they have a best friend of the opposite gender.
I don't know, what's your input? | Crushes |
So me and my crush very often play volleyball together during breaks (not just the 2 of us). She hasn’t been really looking at me, but I have a feeling that she’s starting to take a notice of me (maybe it was just a coincidence though). This week I had a 30-second small talk with her and her classmate, for which I’m very proud of myself, although I was primarily speaking only with her classmate. I really want to continue in these small talks, but 14th Feb is approaching and I’m not sure if sending her a valentine note is the best idea. I don’t think I want to write my name on it, I was thinking more like a hidden message or something creative with no name on it.
PS: I really don’t know her personality very well so I don’t know how her reaction would look like. | Crushes |
basically when I asked my crush to be my valentine, he said yes, but that he wasn’t looking for anything super serious. I’ve gotten different messages from my friends on what this means (5 guys are convinced im being an idiot and he likes me & 1 person says they’re confused about how they feel), i would ask them if they definitely have feelings for me but that’s kinda awkward to bring up…any insight? | Crushes |
so my crush is now my valentine (yay!) - i was just wondering if anyone has tips for what to do on Valentine’s Day. our school is online and we don’t live close together, so that rules out all in person activities (we have met before lol that seems to be a common concern). was wondering if anyone had any cute ideas, so far I’m probably gonna send a virtual rose (our school does those) but I’m open to suggestions | Crushes |
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