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Like the title says | Crushes |
my crush is on my bus always stares at me at the same time on the school bus. every time one of us gets on or when i get off she always stares at me. for the last few weeks i noticed and watched and i noticed that before my stop she puts her phone away and looks out the window for a minute until my stop and then stares at me as i get off. she does this every day. and its not even a death stare either, its more of a half daydreaming half admiring face. | Crushes |
so we have english class and in that class shes up front of me she looks at me sometimes but instantly look back and she like always avoiding me like i do to her and today i was looking at outside from class window and shes like directly looks at me from outside,does she like me | Crushes |
Write anything about them. | Crushes |
I'm really happy | Crushes |
I've set a time limit of three months for myself to confess but I want to be closer to them like a good friend or something like that because right now we're friends but not close ones we text occasionally but we don't really talk irl that much and I want to change that but I'm not sure how can I have some advice | Crushes |
I have a crush on this girl from school and I want to make the first move, cause we are kind of looking at each other from time to time. She’s from the next class and we don’t know each other, but we follow each other on ig. I was thinking about texting her, but i think it will be much better to do it in person (when the right moment comes). Of course, I’ll start with: “Hi, my name is… Nice to meet you”, but what next? It may seem stupid, but i have no idea what to say and i don’t wanna mess up. Is sth school related a good topic? Please help! | Crushes |
I hate having a crush on a straight girl, but I can't get over her, every time we talk I feel like she's fucking perfect in every way and I wanna be with her so bad
Looks ✔️ she's a 50/10
Personality ✔️ handcrafted by God
Vibe ✔️
But she's straight which is just so ugh. Like, I get it, she can't help who she is, but ugh, and even if she weren't, my family would hate her, because apparently a 21 can't date someone who's 30 years older than them, which by the way, is total bullshit, I know people say it's weird to have that big an age gap, but she doesn't even act 51, not to mention she's so hot, like SO hot
So any tips on how I can hit the off switch on this so I can go back to not wanting to date my friend and just be... normal? Any feedback would be welcomed | Crushes |
…make the first move but without being too obvious yk help a girl out😭 | Crushes |
So I’ve been crushing on this coworker who unfortunately has a boyfriend. I’ve had feelings for her since I met her and I thought time would remove my feelings for her but it has been a year and I still feel something inside for her despite my best efforts to move on.
It seems like every other time we have a shift together she compliments something about me and just the other day she asked me randomly what the longest relationship I’ve been in was and if I ever had troubles communicating in a relationship. Safe to say I was surprised by the suddenness of the question and answered honestly. She also randomly stood next to me and patted me on the back last week for no reason at all. I wish I knew what was going on in her mind.
Just to clarify, I do respect her relationship and I always have and always will. Deep down I’m happy she is probably happy and that is enough for me though it hurts sometimes. I guess I just wanted to rant a bit to the void. | Crushes |
idk does that make sense? so like yk when u walk in a room and ppl will look at u bc curiosity of what’s happening , how do I know if someone is looking at me bcos of something more ?
bc I’ve made eye contact with him a few times but idk if it’s just bc he’s looking at something behind me, and our teacher stands in the middle of our view so he’s prob looking at her but I feel his eyes on me bcos I’m that direction 😭 I don’t wanna get delusional and I always feel a tension near him but idk if that can be one sided 💔 | Crushes |
I've had a crush on this girl for at least a year and I never confessed to her about it, this is the first crush I've ever had btw even though I'm 18 years old, I would confess to her but the nerves are holding me back and I'm a really shy person, anytime I talk to her my face goes red my friends would tell me my face went red but idk If she takes notice to it or doesn't want to tell me, anyway I want to tell her and get it off my chest but as the days go on without telling her it gets stressful because I Can't confess to her but it's also the fear of rejection that's holding me back
Anyway I'll stop with the big speech lol, should I tell her soon or wait and try to build a stronger connection? | Crushes |
I've known him for almost three months but it feels like I've known him for a long time since we are taking the same classes and we would always hang out on campus between classes. I want to tell him that I have feelings for him and that I see him as more than a friend but I don't know how. Any bits of advice? | Crushes |
Here are some signs he's giving me:
\- We went to an arcade together and we won a monkey plushie as a prize, he told me that that was our monkey and he’s gonna cherish it. After the arcade, when we separated ways, I honestly didn’t expect to get a message from him but he was like “Thanks for today I had so much fun” and he sent me a selfie of him with the stuffed toy and he named the stuffed toy too because I told him to. We continued chatting and he kept saying how that hangout was so fun, and that we should go to a hockey game (he mentioned this at the arcade when I was with him but I didn't think he would invite me like I just thought he said I should try watching a hockey game) if he finds a cheap ticket but it has been months and he still hasn’t invited me to the hockey game.
\- I saw a stuffed toy I showed him to him and I said “omg this looks so cute” and he agreed too then I saw there was this surprise stuffed toy bag wherein you buy it and you don’t know what’s inside not unless you open it and he told me he was down to get matching plushies so we both got one. Then when we got home he sent a photo of the stuffed toy that we got from our first hang with the second stuffed toy that we got together with the emojis “❤️🤞🏻😭”. And then after that hangout, he started teasing me a little bit and we started bullying each other in a friendly way ofc.
\- He also knows how much I love Taylor Swift and I’ve been trying to convince him to listen to midnights. Days after we went out he listened to the whole midnights album without skipping and he sent me a dm telling me that he listened to it and asked me what my favorite songs are from that album.
\- We went on window shopping, and I saw a cute cargo pants which I thought he would like so I showed it to him and told him it was cute then he tried them on and bought it. After a few days, he wore it to school and I saw it so I said "hey I like your jeans" in front of my friend as a joke like how hey I remember those jeans you got them with me and his expression was just neutral like he just smiled and nodded.
\- I am a very clumsy person. Sometimes when I'm being clumsy when I eat, I see him looking and he is smiling or something.
\- Whenever I am with my friends and he is there, my friends would roast me and my friends would see him smile.
\- One time, we were talking about music and he asked for my Spotify account. When I followed him back, I saw that his followings were his homies and I am the only girl he was following.
Honestly, sometimes it feels like he likes me back but there are also times when I feel like he is just being too friendly without noticing it cause he never had a relationship back in high school until now since he was socially awkward with girls. There are also times when he is hot and cold to me like everything was going well and then suddenly I am back to square one with him. | Crushes |
Should i make him jealous or not he will lose feelings or not i dont know what to do😭 | Crushes |
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my crush is my childhood friend but today me and my friend in class saw him dancing , i turned my head and my friend started laughing , he saw her and told her ' please don't tell anyone' she said ok , but when i tried to talk to him he started to ignore me .....he have been doing this for a while should i be concerned | Crushes |
I have a crush on this one girl in a different class, I'm kind of a shy guy but I decided to add her on facebook since that's the only app I think she has an account and we talked for a little bit but I felt like she is uninterested but she told me to "greet her when I see her next time" but I decided it's best that I stop texting her and move on with my life, Whenever I see her in school I catch her sometimes staring at me but I always ignore it, I want some advice and I usually don't ask people for stuff but like but I seriously don't know what to do. | Crushes |
so basically crush from a different city is extra rich and has dated alot of super hot people im not that hot if im honest im very mid and he's very very hot. he shows no interest in me. literally no interest im still very interested though i dont know i thibk whenever i tell him i like him he thinks im joking and i know if i really go ahead and tell him its not a joke he's going to reject me this is killing me literally i dont know what to do | Crushes |
This is surreal, I didn't have plans to start getting feelings today, but here I am...
So, I'm 15M very shy when talking with girls (This is a very important fact), I would say my attractiveness is between low and average, but my friends says I'm kinda above average (I guess my self esteem is below average haha). Well just 2 hours before I was walking as always towards my high school (Kinda late may I accept), while walking I always encounter with some strangers but I don't even notice, I'm always thinking about philosophical matters (Not something common for someone of my age, I must say), but this time something catches my attention, there's this girl, probably 14-15, that looks at me with a big and pretty smile, I just look at her, with my serious face, and rapidly continue my way. After some seconds I thought to my self "That girl had such a pretty smile" and as I continued thinking about it, unexpectedly I felt something, like if she was someone special to me. Probably I'm overreacting, she's a completely stranger and was just happy and smiling, but it was almost instantaneous, like love at first sight.
I should say, I wouldn't like to complicate my life trying to have a relationship with someone I don't know when I haven't even got the chance to have a relationship with someone who I previously knew, it is double difficulty, first time trying to have a conversation with a girl, who I only see for some seconds every day, and who I don't know anything about her. An extremely difficult challenge for myself but also it could be very rewarding.
Well, I think I have a plan, which I hope my nerves and shyness do not stop me from doing it. I will try to say hello, try to ask for a minute of conversation, try to explain her somehow that she catched my attention (In this part I need some help) and maybe even ask her phone so we can hang out and know each other better and having more time for a longer conversation.
I need as many tips and tricks you can give me, as much motivation as you can and I really need help for knowing how to rapidly introduce myself and try to get her number or something. Some months ago I had a chance you talk with a girl from my class but my shyness won, I won't let it happen again.
Just to end this I want to point out that my Spanish (I'm from Spain), to explain it the best I can is very good with a very wide and cultural vocabulary, even I would say it is poetic, but maybe that's too exaggerated and I'm a very funny guy so I could use both as an advantage for a good first impression.
Thank you very much for reading this whole text and thank you for helping a shy guy!!! | Crushes |
I have a crush on school who’s lowkey but both handsome and cute. Whenever i see him a greet him or pat him, i act cool for him not to notice that i have crush on him. But, I’m curious if he feel the same way> <
It’s so hard to know people feelings and thoughts, what if he find me annoying
> < im afraid. | Crushes |
He didnt mean it because he didnt say it straight forward, he said something like go there to be with (her name). He was supposed to whisper it was loud and she was close so most likely she heard him. She got super awkward and then left (we were playing volleyball). Anyway I am super angry with him and idk what to do. Any suggestions to deal with the situation right now? I do love her a lot, like a lot and I wanted at least my friendship with her to last because i enjoy it a lot | Crushes |
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Wish me luck, but I’m confident that the answer will be yes. | Crushes |
I finally properly confessed to a former ultra-crush (face to face) after bombing a previous attempt (over text, encrypted message ewww) during the height of the pandemic and even if it ended in rejection, it was ok that I liked them still 💪
Now, I just really need to cool it and refocus. None of the many crushes I have in school have told me that they feel the same way lmao and I've already been outright rejected by two of my ultra-crushes 😭 I want to internalize na I'm worthy of love, even without partners, and that I complete myself, and maybe then I'll stop being so "everybody crazy"...
Tuloy parin ang awit ng buhay nating lahat ✊ | Crushes |
Wish me luck, but I’m almost certain the answer will be yes. | Crushes |
Today I came to school and normally we talk a bit before class but today she just greeted me and went to talk to someone else, these moments make me believe she just sees me as a friend. She also went home after class without letting me now, normally we text eachother that we can't make it to the next class in time or come in general
Damn I really hope tomorrow gets better and that we talk more | Crushes |
so turns out the guy i’ve been crushing on is going out with the girl that everyone told me not to worry about. they’ve been going out for the past few weeks apparently. but just last week he was flirting with me and practically chased after me but got disappointed when i said i wasn’t walking home?!? part of me doesn’t believe he actually does go out with her but i’m just biast i think | Crushes |
Exactly what the title says. How did your confession go?
For me it actually started raining when I did like as if on cue. I was dropping her back off home and I was feeling incredibly nervous about it but at her door I finally told her and she looked really happy. It was also kinda funny to me how obvious it was stat she was nervous and could barely say anything but did state that she felt the same way and later texted me sorry that she barely said anything but she could barely even stand to look at me in the eye so she had a hard time saying it in person but she said plenty over text.
How did it go in yours? Tell me about it | Crushes |
so basically today i was having an discussion about people cheating with their friends bf/gf and how that was the ultimate asshole move, and then suddenly my crush appears and just says "yeah i did once that with my brother"
quick PS: her brother is like 3y or 4y older than her and we both are teens (me and my crush) so yeah make your own conclusions.
then for obvious reasons i started arguing with her and we start point fingers at each other until, she fucking just closes her hand and tries touching me and when i try to get away because that was creepy asf THAT BITCH TRIES TO HOLD ME BY MY NECK!
i had basically had to punch her so she would stop trying to touch me and i just went to the school bathroom and ended up throwing up because i was by all that happened.
idk if i should try to make her apologize tomorrow for everything that happened or if i should just change schools if i'm being honest. | Crushes |
Hey all!
I calmed down after that exciting but terrifying reconnection with him. I understand that he must have been taken aback after I apologised for not keeping in touch with him for so long so I decided to tone things down a little for a day.
But moving on, is it okay to post more Whatsapp statuses of my happenings in hopes of getting him to reply to them? I know it isn't the most reliable way but it does allow us to have a conversation topic.
I did post some statuses today but he only read them without replying... Should I be concerned over this? Is there any other way to get to talk to him more?
I also want to meet up with him one day, which shouldn't be too much of a problem because we just finished our college entrance exams and we are both quite free. But I keep thinking about whether I should take a shy approach and talk about how I want to go to an event but it's awkward to go alone, or just take a straight-forward approach and ask him to hang out and have lunch.
I'm so anxious and excited haiz. I still can't believe I have feelings for a childhood friend. | Crushes |
Hey all!
I calmed down after that exciting but terrifying reconnection with him. I understand that he must have been taken aback after I apologised for not keeping in touch with him for so long so I decided to tone things down a little for a day.
But moving on, is it okay to post more Whatsapp statuses of my happenings in hopes of getting him to reply to them? I know it isn't the most reliable way but it does allow us to have a conversation topic.
I did post some statuses today but he only read them without replying... Should I be concerned over this? Is there any other way to get to talk to him more?
I also want to meet up with him one day, which shouldn't be too much of a problem because we just finished our college entrance exams and we are both quite free. But I keep thinking about whether I should take a shy approach and talk about how I want to go to an event but it's awkward to go alone, or just take a straight-forward approach and ask him to hang out and have lunch.
I'm so anxious and excited haiz. I still can't believe I have feelings for a childhood friend. | Crushes |
Didn’t ask her out yet as i didn’t get the opportunity to. Had some nice convos with her and her friends though | Crushes |
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i’m into this guy but i don’t wanna date him, it’s more of a fling type thing and we’re both on the same page w that except we have history and on top of that he recently got out of a relationship (almost a month ago) and rn he’s texting me a lot and basically asking if i’m giving him the green light to go for it. idk what i can say to him to let him know i’m not easy or desperate enough to be his rebound but without getting him to back off completely lol help | Crushes |
It’s pissing me off.
That stupid look on his face
That stupid smile
The way he kicks his feet around
The way he walks
The way he always tries to talk to me
The way he plays the piano
The way he gets exited about the things we have in common
It’s annoying | Crushes |
idk anymore my life is in shambles and I don't even know who will tell the truth. I AM A FUCKING MESS I JUST WANT TO KILL MYSELF | Crushes |
I used to hang out with this guy 5 years ago a couple of times but I wasn’t into him at that time. I was friends with him on FB and I moved abroad for a few years and came back. I think my crush still lives in the same city.
Three years ago he contacted me on FB through messenger and he had no profile pic and he had one fb friend I didn’t reply because I thought it was someone else. I haven’t heard from him since.
Lately I’ve been thinking of reaching out to him on messenger but I’m not his fb friend and I feel like if I reach out to him he might think I’m weird because he might wonder how I found him on messenger.
I really want to talk to him again but don’t know if he would be interested in me. I heard that he had a gf 3 years ago I don’t know if he is still with her. | Crushes |
HOLLA | Crushes |
So I already posted here and said that my crush doesn't have social media, but his friend just gave me his instagram.
I noticed that he has a tokyo ghoul profile picture.
I'm a huge fan of Tokyo ghoul, I have all the Mangas and I watched it 3 times at least.
Maybe I could start a conversation when he accepts my follower request but I'm not sure how to approach him without looking too weird or too pushy.
Does anyone have an idea about how to say hi and tell him that I also like that show?
Any advice will be welcome😅 | Crushes |
Basically two years ago I had a small crush on this sweet introverted guy I had uni preparation classes with that year (we sat together :)). Time kinda went on with nothing happening but we enrolled into the same university! I kinda forgot about him because I brushed off any chances of anything happening between us (he never gave signs). Well… two weeks ago (out of the blue) he asked me out and we had been on four amazing dates. Right now I’m finding myself falling in love with him which I’ve never expected in my wildest dreams to happen at this moment in my life. | Crushes |
it's been almost two months since i started having a crush on this girl in my class. we're close friends and we hang out and talk sometimes, but when we are talking in a group of people, she only talks to the other people in the group and rarely to me. She only talks to me when we're alone. Also she likes to tease other guys by touching them slightly, but she never does that to me. (I'm not saying that i want her to do that to me, but by doing this she recognize their existence while she ignores me sometimes) what could it mean?
but at the same time, i think i have chances with her because she said she finds me cute, funny and kind. she often smiles when she looks at me, we make eye contact often and she easily laughs at 'jokes' or remarks i say. once a common friend told her that me and her would go well together, and she said 'why not...?' in a little hesitating way but she seemed ok with it. so what do you think of this? do i actually have chances with her?
and finally, she considers me as a close friend, but does that mean she can't change her mind or she could see me as more than a friend? i'm planning to tell her soon and i need some advice. thanks! | Crushes |
I learned from my friend that one of his friend told him that the girl i like isn’t interested in me romantically (she still likes me platonically, and she also knew that i have feelings for her). That’s completely fine and i totally understand it.
So with that in mind should i just move on which i have no problem with or keep being interested in her so maybe she changes her mind. I also still want to be friends with her.
I think the first option is the best, but i’m curious what others have to say about it
(Throwaway account) | Crushes |
so the other day i saw my crush and it was really nice, though I was really nervous I was very happy. Throughout the day (we were doing something for an extracurricular, don’t wanna say what it is because i feel like that may be revealing) we talked a lot and I picked up on some behavior from him. :)
While we were waiting around to do something, i went to join a conversation he and some others were having because I had nothing better to do and I’m friends with them all. When I came over everyone was sort of greeting me and he was kinda like “omg hiiii 😱” to me in a joking manner. And after I joined the conversation most of it was just me and him talking (which happens a lot when we are in a group setting… it usually feels very one-on-one). He sort of just paid attention to me the most. And he laughs with me the most :) not to say he doesn’t laugh around others, but I don’t see other people making him laugh to the extent I can
Later, i went back to talk to my other friends and while we were waiting around the entire time he was angled in my direction even from like 10 yards away and im pretty sure staring at me. It seemed like he was looking at me the entire time and I caught his eye once (and then I got nervous and looked away). He also waved to my dad when he saw him for some reason lmaoo
On the bus ride back from where we were he also just seemed very attentive of me. He talked to some other people, but it was mostly a sort of one-on-one. He paid attention to me a lot and we talked a ton.
So anyway does this seem like it means something? Of course he talks to others and laughs with them, but it’s usually when he’s with me when he laughs the most and cares/pays attention the most. | Crushes |
One day I start talking to this quiet but nice guy at school and eventually I started having a crush on him. He wouldn’t really make much effort to start any talks with me but since he’s shy I appreciated that he seemed to enjoy talking with me when I initiated things first. Even though it seems he was not interested at all ,sometimes he would say or do things that confused me or make me think I had a chance. I hated that because I would tell myself to move on but then he would do something that made me want to keep trying. Nothing really happened in the end and it’s been 1 and a half year since I’ve seen him but I recently thought about him and I still am interested. Maybe just to see how he is doing and catch up. We were not good friends before and we haven’t talked over a year and a half so I think it is a little weird to say something out of the blue. I also am nervous he might be in a relationship and this could turn awkward. Is there anyway to start up the conversation?? | Crushes |
I had this crush who really liked me but i just couldn't make a move on him.He stopped approuching me because he though i was not interested in him.In the end i couldn't even express my feelings as i wanted to because i was scared.I don't even know what am i so afraid of.Why didn't tell him properly? Is it my fear of rejection?but i knew that he would be happy if i told him my feelengs so why didn't i? | Crushes |
i (19f) have a crush on a guy at uni, we have a class together but we’re kinda strictly class acquaintances and don’t talk much. i have his # and we talk abt the class sometimes
i wanted to text him after finals just sharing my feelings but in a way that is casual and not expecting anything to come out of it (purely to let him know) esp since i don’t think he’s interested in me. he’s def more of an introverted (shy?) person. what should i say? preferably something short n sweet | Crushes |
oh God pls I really hate liking him pls
idk why but I keep feeling shitty everytime i see them hold hands and touch each other
I saw him keep touching her and idk I hate that feeling
it makes me feel like SHIT
like idk why but I really hate myself sm for liking him and not being able to move on
looking at him smile made me so happy today
but sad at the same time
my heart almost skipped a beat when our eyes met and he smiled at me
I mean the way he smiled at me today was different
looked like he was tired
idk
I hope he's doing alright
I really hope he's doing fine | Crushes |
We used to see each other 3 times a week for sports but because either I am or he is or I am busy I’ve only seen him twice in the past three weeks. We also haven’t been texting as much lately.
I miss him :( | Crushes |
So, long story kind of short, it was my last day of grade 8 today, and my science teacher was uninterested in teaching us, so he gave the few of us that showed up to the next door teacher. That was teaching my crush’s class. It’s a catholic school, so we did a liturgy, then a thing called ‘affirmations’. We had to write nice things about the other people in the class, then put them in a basket and they were distributed to the people. I received quite a few, but one stood out as on the front it had my name drawn in a love heart. I read it, and it spoke about the person admiring my talents (mainly based from things I’m involved with at school, such as robotics). It was signed with her name, and I could recognise her handwriting. Next to her name was a small love heart and a winking face. As I read it, I caught her looking at me, but swiftly look away when I noticed her. WTF DO I DO?! | Crushes |
Throwaway because my friends know my reddit.
I (16m) currently have 2 crushes(kinda normal for me)and i focus on one more than the other.one is my age and one is a bit older(few months) and lets call the one my age E and the one older F.Both with E and F i only talk a few hrs a week with and i reached with both of them the point of becoming normal friends.rn i more focus on E and try to compliment her and give her advice and talk to her whenever i really can but the problem with both of em is that i dont really know alot about their personal life and group circles(E especilly has alooot of close friends)and its a really high possability that they problly like someone else out of the many friends they have outside of our meetings.aside from the fact that either one of us have sent major signs that we like eachother is also off putting.what can i do?its not like i can learn about all of their friends and know my chances. | Crushes |
So, if you're new here, just know that I like to give one piece of candy each day to my crush as a way of helping him to not fall asleep during certain classes. He knows i'm the one who places it under his table everyday and he knows I like him because i've confessed and we both plan to focus on our studies for our final year.
Got the gist of it? Good
You see, I was kind of planning on not giving him his usual piece of candy because one, a friend of mine that i'm not inherently close with per se but still communicate with every now and then, had asked me if I ever considered that my crush would get sick of getting candy from me.
She even goes on to say that I shouldn't be so overboard and that I should stop being so obvious or else he'll just get sick of me and think i'm some weirdo who doesn't use their time for more important things.
(Which by the way, I do. It takes less than a second to place one piece of candy under his table and then for the rest of the day, I just carry on with my life as per usual, what's so drastic about that addition in my life?)
Now, honestly speaking, I don't think that he's that kind of person.
But I do have a lingering fear at the back of my mind that's basically just me wondering if he hates the fact that I do this often.
But yes, I decided that I wouldn't give him anything today and that i'd stop showing any signs of being fond of him.
But well-- how am I supoosed to resist when he seemed so out of it this morning? He hardly said a word to any of his friends and throughout the other periods, he just seemed quiet and unhappy.
You have to understand, I couldn't possibly not give him a piece of candy when he looked so down.
And so I did, when he went to the bathroom, I placed a piece of candy on his desk.
It was only after that did I see him actually start interacting with his friends and only then did he seem a little bit more lively.
Was it because of the candy? I don't know. But he just-- seemed more normal after that.
Today kind of served a lesson on how I can't stand seeing someone I care for looking down and blue and how no matter how hard I try to stop my newfound hobby of giving him candy each day, it just never works out the way I want it to. | Crushes |
Im a shy person. My crush and i have been interacting several times before. Im absolutely in love. However, he went out with my classmates last friday without inviting me and i have been thinking about it. Not very sure how am i supposed to feel about it. Perhaps im overthinking things? | Crushes |
We were texting and talking about traveling, and he said “Maybe we can travel together”. We’re just friends because we are coworkers, and we both wanna keep it professional but I can’t help but have a teensy crush on him. He’s very handsome. Idk to think that he had the thought of traveling with ME makes me a-little giddy. | Crushes |
I (18M) had a few dates with a chick (18F). She was the one who approached me first and all of that, then I started to like her and the things flow. But, the problem is that I'm more of an introvert guy, I would say, and she is the other way around. She likes to party every weekend, has a lot friends, and especially, with the opposite gender. Despite all of this, she was very sweet with me and when we passed time together I liked it. But, here comes the "trust issues", when I saw her on her stories partying with friends or whatever, I felt like she could be doing "things" in my back. I didn't or don't have any prove of it, but that's just how I feel. I hinted her a couple a times about my dislike toward having parties too late at night and giving certain confidence to male friends, but she continued to the same things. I don't like to be to repetitive about this things, because I'm not her parents nor God to demand her to change her way of being. I don't like to mess with anybody's business. I didn't want to seem like a dictator. So, I decided to end it. I told her what I didn't like, and she was very understanding. Although, I feel we both are still and love, but we have very different lifestyles, so that sucks. Did I did it wrong, do I have to be more trusting, or did she give me enough reasons to distrust her? | Crushes |
My school for some reason has an extra year for middle school. I remember my crush told me that relationships in middle school don’t matter and only ones after that matter. We have gotten close and we talk together without getting nervous, hell I even became her #1 best friend on snapchat. I want to wait and not rush as she has rejected me before (she knows i have changed since then.) Everyone else I know thinks we should date but I want to respect boundaries. Give me advice on how we can get closer before the next year. | Crushes |
every time they hug me or cuddle with me or hold me it's so nice I can't get enough, like at parties we're always next to each other and they always end up cuddling me
and it's not like I ask or tell them to it's always them initiating, and it just feels so nice | Crushes |
Before I explain what the deal is here are some facts:
\-Currently in grade 9 (14 years old)
\-Straight Male
\-Currently/only ever been single :(
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# Grade 7 2020
Okay It all started in my first year of middle school (grade 7) when my class merged with another which introduced me to a girl named Kiko whom I eventually developed a massive crush. Before I developed any intimate feelings I was introduced to discord and joined my classes server I occasionally talked to her but very rarely.
Throughout grade seven Kiko texted and had many discord calls with my best friend named Toby. It was kinda clear that Kiko had a crush on Toby but, at one point she just stopped texting Toby losing her feelings for him (I’d assume). It's worth noting that I found her cute and said to myself that she was one of the two people I had a crush on. Looking back on it at that time I didn’t have a crush on anyone, I feel like I just told myself that I had a crush on the most likely people to have crushes on me. The only reason I thought that she was likely to have a crush on me is that she had the type of personality that it seemed like she had a crush on every boy.
During the rest of the school Toby, Kiko, Some other friends, and I frequently had discord calls a lot of the time trying to stay up all night (never being successful though lol). Those times were fun I remember hearing Kiko's laughter all the time. One thing is that she laughed at my jokes a lot of the time. by that point, it was the end of the school year.
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# Summer 2021
During the summer I saw Kiko rarely while going swimming with friends other than that not much happened.
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# Grade 8 2021/2022
During grade eight we had basically the exact same class as before so it was nice to build upon friendships and bond with my peers. This was also the year that I started hanging out at school after school with my class. Fast Forward to like spring: there was this specific time I was hanging out with Kiko, Toby, and others. I was playing the card game called speed/snap with Kiko and I was really bad at it, so she and I were both laughing together and I just felt this connection. After the game, there was a moment where it was just me, Kiko, and Jared (a classmate). Jared asked Kiko if would she ever date me and she said something like "uhhh ummm hmmmm uhhhhhhh?" acting kinda nervous so I interrupted because it sounded like she was drowning. That night I couldn’t stop thinking about Kiko and basically got no sleep. The rest of the school year literally all I could think about was Kiko.
I remember there were a few discord calls that I was on with Toby, Kiko, and others and the calls ended with just me and Kiko talking and laughing together. Just like the other time I couldn’t sleep just thinking about Kiko and just going through our entire conversation in my head.
She started to consume my life, all my brain could think of is KIKO! As the school year started to come to an end I got scared knowing that Kiko and I would be going to different high schools (I got into a cool Art School). I started to get scared. It all ended when I got sick during the last three days of school not getting to say goodbye to anyone.
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# Summer 2022
At the end of grade eight, I knew that I would never be able to walk up to Kiko and tell her how I felt since I'm pretty shy when it comes to stuff like that. It was so hard to end grade eight with no conclusion so after it ended I did the most unthinkable thing (to myself since I'm shy like that) I messaged her on discord about how I felt and all of my feelings that I had to let out. I remember listing to music late at night with my finger shaking over the send button for like an hour. Eventually, I clicked the button and I was so surprised that I did it yet at the same time revealed and proud of myself for doing it. During this time (at the beginning of the summer) I had tennis camp and I remember constantly checking to see if she replied. It got to a point where I had to search to see how long it takes until you’ve been ghosted. Long story short she still hasn't responded to this day. I got ghosted.
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# Grade 9 (present-day)
I still think about her a lot and It's made it impossible for me to have even the slightest attraction to any girl.
I'm talking with this girl on discord but I just feel bad cause I think she’s a cool person but I think likes me in a different way the I like her. Anyways I just don't know what to do like if I have to forget about Kiko or whatever. Please I need guidance!!
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I'm bad at telling stories so if you need any explanation just send a comment. | Crushes |
It's pretty much impossible to figure out, especially when you can't read someone's tone. But I'll just list a few things and conversations we've said to each other that might lean toward flirty/romantic vibes:
when I apologized for my part in an awkward work situation, he took it to heart and we've been talking like normal friends and starting over. I said "I hope we can start over and be friends," and he said "I hope so too."
at work, he tried to help me when I was struggling with my other coworker, but our boss wouldn't let us two work together instead. The night before I left the job (it was a summer camp), he asked me to talk about what happened and we spent like an hour sitting outside at night just talking about it. *He came up to me* and wanted to talk about it. I was angry and depressed and lost trust in a lot of people I thought were good coworkers, if not friends. So I was kind of mean to everybody after that, even him. But he still wanted to talk to me. The conversation helped so much, and we're friends now that I've apologized and it's been a long time since it all went down.
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* . He kept checking up on me while I was there, asking me how things were going and what job i was doing because the bosses switched me to three different positions by the time i left.
* He congratulated me and said "I deserve it" when I told him I got a new job
* he called me "dear" when he sent me a happy birthday text. Like "happy birthday dear"
I realized that he's been such a good cheerleader for me when I tell him about my jobs, interviews, and school. He always tries to encourage me. He knows I have a learning disability, but he still encourages me.
i've been wanting to go on a european trip, and it occured to me that I could just go to the country where he lives, because why not? Any european country is fine with me! he said "I was welcome anytime" and i think he means it. He told me to tell me when i'm coming so that we can work out where I'll stay. I think he's serious about it, actually. | Crushes |
weve been texting eachother almost daily... today he gave me a very cute cat sticker which i put on my phone, then he found my tiktok account where i thirst over my fav characters erm 😱 im so happy though other then being embarrassed, i plan on making crochet cats based on his own cats 4 him!! idk much ab crocheting but i wanna make him something 4 christmas... hm... | Crushes |
I have covid and today as I was watching the class through Zoom I randomly noticed a classmate. We’re sort of friends so I could recognize him (bad lighting and the camera being really high up made it a tiny bit hard, plus the fact that I wasn’t trying to. I literally just glanced at the screen) and while I was patting myself on the back about that my heart randomly started beating really hard and i was lik eeeeeeee
I’m at the stage where I will literally fall in love with a sentient rock but I swear I don’t have a crush on this dude and I was just left there like WTF DID I JUST WITNESS LMFAO
This didn’t even happen with my actual crush so yeah idk what was going on | Crushes |
Ive had some interactions with her and they’ve been pleasant so far, we share the same humor and she seems nice. How can I get to know them better? we share one class and we’re on opposite ends. just hey hows it going? | Crushes |
I watch you out of the corner of my eye. I take it all in. Your arms. Your wide and strong back. Your focused face and when you bit your lip during a rep. Adorable. I admire you. I feel giddy around you. I’m going to try to talk you. So please be gentle.
But you like her. It’s so obvious and hurts because I want to talk to you. | Crushes |
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Some time ago i went to met her, she looks as beautiful as always, and she is one of the reasons i want to change of city, the main one is my profesional practices that made me travel to her city and stay there for a while to take a job interview which i realized i did amazing.
Today i realized that she wants to be with someone else, and i had left some chocolates with her cousin to give her, hoping she loves my gift, however her cousin could not give those chocolates because he had to travel to see his girlfriend, so my gift are in his house.
Despite my finding i´ve decided to keep the main plan and see what´s happen next, if she tells me that is imposible to me have someting romantic with her, im going to understand and accept it ,but if maybe i misunderstand her feelings and she really does not love anyone else, and maybe i could have a chance, that would be my victory.
if the first one is the result, i going to be so bad, but im not going yo give up in love, i´ll find someone else, so smart, so beautiful, so curious and so funny like her, that does not mean that im going to become in a simp or let that every women in my way take advantage of me, im not stupid, i just dont give up in loving. | Crushes |
So I was friends with this guy for 8 months for then him to turn around and say “he’s not ready for a commitment” but never once did I say anything about a relationship, he constantly did, even though he was telling me he was sleeping other girls, which honestly I felt confused as into why he would feel the need to tell me that. In the end I said to him “I never said anything about commitment you did” and ghosted him, because I got tired of his mind games, however everyday he still watched my stories, reacted to them and liked my photos, but last month he blocked me on all social medias, however my friend then sent me a tiktok he made saying “how to get over her” but we was never together. He told me he didn’t believe in love when he asked me if I did, I said, “no” which he replied the same thing. I’m so confused I thought we was friends, but then he blocked me out of no where
I’m so confused, did I do something wrong? | Crushes |
I was 99.9% sure she was into me. We would talk 24/7 until she fell asleep. We would cuddle. She would hold my hand. She always said seeing my name pop up on her phone made her the happiest. We would flirt. She wanted us to get a dog together.
So I went for it and told her how I felt. She told me she doesn’t see me as anything more than a friend.
It just goes to show that you can never know how someone feels unless you ask them. | Crushes |
Just want to know some signs!!! :) | Crushes |
hello! maybe a rant maybe an thoughts would be nice im just so confused.
i (23F) recently made a friend(22M), it's been really fun and we have a lot of fun interests in common like video games anime etc, i like to listen to any music they share with me and anytime they explain stuff i already know i just feel very comforted and enjoy hearing them feel like they discovered something!.. they're a few months younger than me and i've been trying to put it off for a bit but, i think i've developed a pretty hefty crush..
We both live in the same general area i found out, and seem to have some of the same ideas in mind of things we want to do/places to visit, but i met them gaming and as such don't know their real name nor what they look like, which isn't a problem for me but i feel bad in the context of i hope they wouldn't think i don't like them for who they are...? i'm not sure how to describe it
I think we've spent every day or nearly every day playing games together for at least the past 2-3 months now and before it was insane hours but now it's essentially before and/or after they go to work but every day nonetheless.. i'm not sure if it's just the extreme amount of time spent that caused it but they always make me laugh and they always match the energy ie once i mentioned wanting to learn the yoshi noise and they did a really pretty bad yoshi impression but i couldn't help but laugh for a good chunk of time that they didn't even think twice about doing it it made me just happy to be spending time w them.
I think more recently it's developing as a crush esp after a few times they got mad in my place over stuff i felt timid about, and hearing how they feel about things is always so nice i could listen to them go on for hours .. but i'm not sure if i could ever confess, all i can think is if it's one sided as it usually ends up being for me i'll lose someone who i just think is an amazing friend who i love spending time with. I would hate to lose him over me having more romantic feelings but in some ways i now feel like i'm being dishonest about spending time together. i usually buy is games bc he's the only one who'll try games i want to play and recently he actually sent me one as well and i know it's something friends do i just guess im giddy, we've watched anime together for hours, we've played games non stop, we've talked about irl stuff without our real names or anything, i just at a base level think he's a really interesting, tough, and still gentle individual and in some ways i want to get over my feelings ? I think someone would be so insanely lucky to date him and ofc id love it to be me but also i'm too afraid to put myself out there and value him too much and honestly think maybe he's just really really nice and i might've misunderstood and developed a crush so i'm AAAAH .. just not sure how to proceed 😅 | Crushes |
He knows I have a huge crush on her, it started a few weeks ago when his best friend and him got into a argument and they split off, (they always go back again, happened at least 3-4 times) the places i go to after my crush and I get out of school are suddenly occupied by him and is constantly waiting for us. And as the title says, he always tries to flirt or get close to her. :( I don’t know what to do. | Crushes |
It actually started raining when I did like as if on cue. I was dropping her back off home and I was feeling incredibly nervous about it but at her door I finally told her and she looked really happy. It was also kinda funny to me how obvious it was stat she was nervous and could barely say anything but did state that she felt the same way and later texted me sorry that she barely said anything but she could barely even stand to look at me in the eye so she had a hard time saying it in person but she said plenty over text.
How did it go in yours? Tell me about it | Crushes |
I have had this crush for almost 7 months and there is a rumour that I like them. I don't want them to think that after my experiences with crushes. One of my friends said that and now some people believe her.
I'm not on good terms with my crush but i can still talk to them. We don't have things like social media so i cant contact them.
I dont want them to think i like them. | Crushes |
I have never posted on reddit before, but I’m on the fence about something and I think I’m going absolutely insane, so if someone could clarify wether or not i’m going crazy that would be amazing. Here is some context:
5 months ago i developed a MASSIVE crush on a boy a year above me, Nathan. We didn’t have any classes together obviously, but we were in the same house at school so therefore he was a hallway crush. We’d make eye contact every now and then and i absolutely cherished every second of it, and one day finally gathered the courage to ask for his snapchat. He said he didn’t have snapchat and I was already super scared so I said “oh alr” and walked away. A month ago, I decided I needed his number before he went to another campus and I wouldn’t see him for 2 years. I asked for it, and he said sure. All his friends started hanging shit on him and yelling “Oooo Nathan~” and stuff but he didn’t even care at all, which was really surprising because he’s usually super introverted and shy and quite, I thought he’d definitely cave under all that but he didn’t:) His friend then came up to me and said “Do you have a crush on Nathan?” to which I replied “Well possibly. I mean I am getting his number right?” Before Nathan stood infront of me and, very confidently, told his friend to fuck off. He said it really firmly and seriously, he was angry. He friend walked off and Nathan bought me to his twin brother Ryan because he’d forgotten his number and couldn’t find it on his phone. All of his friends and his brother are the type to hang shit on his for something like this btw. Ryan gave me nathan’s number and I thanked him and left.
That night, I texted him, thanking him for his number. An hour later I received a response, exposing that he only gave me his number to “not make a feel bad” and apologising “for the misunderstanding” and asking to remove his number. I was fucking broken, until I put the peices together.
Nathan caves under pressure a lot, and all of his friends hang shit on people in my year level. His friends were surrounding us while this all happened, and his very competitive twin brother (who’s always been “better” than him) was watching the whole time. His entire social like would have made him send that and he would have caved because why would the plan all along be to give me his number to not hurt my feelings before hurting my feelings 10x worse that night? Something made him change his number somewhere along the line.
Today I got into a fight with my friend, who was saying that my entire explanation behind the text was all made up in my head and he doesn’t like me or anything.
Please help, he’s at the new campus now and i need a way to break the ice over text without freaking him out. | Crushes |
What is the easiest way to get girls crushing on me at the gym not to like me? I don't like them back, and it's annoying when they're trying to talk to me. | Crushes |
I finally introduced myself 2 weeks ago today. He was nice, receptive and asked me questions about myself. It was cool to chat with him. Haven’t seen him since between the holidays and our usual gym schedule.
Low key I’m kinda sad 🥲 thought I would see him tonight…
How long have you gone without seeing your gym crush? Need some encouragement lol.. | Crushes |
So, now the post I made about “if she likes me or not” is on the “she likes me” spectrum, I want to know how should I ask her out?
Imma try and keep this short. There are some days when me, her and my friend meet up somewhere in public and edit the film we all made, my friend is the director and we discuss what’s right or wrong about the editing, and my crush (hate using that word) is there just to help us if anything.
I want to ask her in person because it’s better, however, I don’t know when or how, because my friend is there and don’t know how to set it up. Should I maybe tell her to meet up early? | Crushes |
I’ve never had a crush on someone haven’t talked to. Something about you. Mysterious. Charming. So focused. Idk even know. They way your eyes glisten even when you just looking at a weight. You have a strong presence that can’t be ignored by me. So many girls like you there. And guys. If you don’t want to get to know me then let me down easy. | Crushes |
Since Christmas is coming up I wanted to get my crush something. We’re practically dating at this point and it’s not official. I decided that I wanted to get a hoodie and paint something on it and then sow my initials on the sleeve. Since we’re not technically dating I’m worried this might be too much. | Crushes |
I 21(M) have had feelings towards this girl for awhile. The thing is I recently found out she is gay. Still I for some reason I hold on to hope that she might be into me as she gives lots of signs that I won’t get into right now. The thing that really threw me off was that I danced with her at a bar the other day. And this wasn’t exactly a clean dance, she was pretty much grinding and twerking on me the entire time. And she wasn’t particularly drunk or anything like that either. I just thought gay women wouldn’t really dance sexually with guys like that. Also, up until this point we’ve just been friends so it really threw me off that she wanted to dance with me like that. Any thoughts? | Crushes |
I feel like its a subjective thing so | Crushes |
I have a good coworker and we have been good friends both in and out of the workplace. He is my go to for a lot of work related questions and brainstorming and is genuinely a fun person to be around. We have always talked about a variety of topics and we have been at each others houses for friend activities. I’ve been to his place once alone but only because our other coworker bailed last minute so we just hung out. For the most part, texting is via group chats unless specific topics. We live near each other within walking distance.
I have been in my own relationship with my bf for over 5 years and this year we had a particularly rough year and finally are on a break now for a few months.
My coworker noticed that my bfs car has not been around after a few weeks and came by one day with treats from my fav bakery to discuss random topics but ultimately to inquire what’s up. I shared generally what happened and that we were still together but on a break. Since then, he has started texting me more individually outside the group texts, not necessarily about anything specific, but generally making conversation. He will ask things like “how is adjusting to living alone been” or other more private questions (though not necessarily creepy), and will sometimes text twice in a row. He stops by more frequently to invite me on walks or just to chat and didn’t seem concerned when I caught covid for a while.
He is not American so I attribute a lot of his mannerisms to cultural differences. He often compliments me on my outfit or that it’s fun to talk to me and always has even pre-break.
I don’t know if this is just his way of showing concern and making sure I know there is an open door to talk about my problems (I got the sense that he was sad I didn’t feel we were close enough to talk about this with him, which to my defense there was porn use so I didn’t feel it was appropriate to discuss with a coworker) or if he is trying to tell me something else. He is very nice but I’m not really looking for a relationship, especially not with a coworker right now. | Crushes |
Hey all!
I calmed down after that exciting but terrifying reconnection with him. I understand that he must have been taken aback after I apologised for not keeping in touch with him for so long so I decided to tone things down a little for a day.
But moving on, is it okay to post more Whatsapp statuses of my happenings in hopes of getting him to reply to them? I know it isn't the most reliable way but it does allow us to have a conversation topic.
I also want to meet up with him one day, which shouldn't be too much of a problem because we just finished our college entrance exams and we are both quite free. But I keep thinking about whether I should take a shy approach and talk about how I want to go to an event but it's awkward to go alone, or just take a straight-forward approach and ask him to hang out and have lunch.
I'm so anxious and excited haiz. I still can't believe I have feelings for a childhood friend. | Crushes |
I (14 year old female) have the biggest crush on a girl (14 year old female) and I am so in love. I just had to say that. Shes so pretty and I just want to be with her all the time and talk with her all the time. :D (Please no hate because I like a girl)
Let me know if you guys want updates on how our relationship is going! 💕 | Crushes |
So would it be mean if I were to post another guy on my snap story because now I have a small feeling maybe my crush likes me and if he does maybe posting someone else might let them know that I won’t always wait for them maybe? Or am I doing over doing it? | Crushes |
So there is this girl that sits next to me in econ. I have talked to her a couple of times, and she always smiles and makes good eye contact aswell as not giving one word answers. The thing I am worried is that she never initiates a conversation. I can also tell that she seems introverted, so that might be a factor. Sorry if this was like an information blob lol | Crushes |
okay I hate this feeling | Crushes |
Im talking with this very shy girl(17yrs) and when she opened up with me, she started changing her picture on whatsapp and started to post lots of instagram stories, what should i think?
We talk everyday | Crushes |
the best thing about her is her personality and yet that isn’t who she really is | Crushes |
I've kinda been trying to get over my crush since I know she doesn't like me at all, but it has been over a month, and I still have a huge crush on her! Idk how to get over her. | Crushes |
kinda happy I'll get to see him after 3days
I'll get to hear him say my name and as he always says whatsup
fuck
okay
m done
m over him
I shouldn't be letting him play w my feelings
I shud stop smiling around him
I will try to look at him in the eye today | Crushes |
I’ve never had a crush on someone haven’t talked to. Something about you. Mysterious. Charming. So focused. Idk even know. They way your eyes glisten even when you just looking at a weight. You have a strong presence that can’t be ignored by me. So many girls like you there. And guys. If you don’t want to get to know me then let me down easy. | Crushes |
I've known him for like 4-6 months, and I decided to confess to him even though I knew I had no chance (he told me the day before that he liked someone else). I obvi got rejected which like yeah ok I think it was better that way because my mental health and sleep schedule was TANKING due to the amount of time I spent calling/msgng him and his friends (keep in mind I barely talked to him irl). Anyway, as soon as I confessed we stopped msgng immediately which was kind of expected. A week later, I learned that he started talking to my other friend (who I am somewhat close to) A LOT (like every day for 30+ mins), so I was like DAMN ok I kind of feel jealous and sad, but there's not much I can do because they aren't doing anything wrong. Since then, I stopped msgng him and not really avoiding him but not going out of my way to look for him in the hallways or "accidentally" bump into him. But I feel like shit. Every time he messages me for school related subjects, I feel like a house of cards ready to blow and I return to my sad phase. I don't know what to do. Any suggestions on how to completely get over him and not feel so aware of his existence? Also, how do I stop thinking about what could have been like I keep thinking "would our relationship had been any different if I had done this or that?"
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tl;dr: I'm trying to get over a guy, but I feel even more aware of his existence, and I want to think of him as nothing more than a friend and not spend my limited time sulking over what could have been and such. | Crushes |
**I’m going through a rough patch right now. I just turned 30, not sure where my life is going, and about 4 months ago I accidentally discovered this YouTuber (F / late 20s) who speaks a language I’ve been trying to learn. And I just instantly fell for her. I’ve never fallen for someone I didn’t know irl before and I’m pretty embarrassed about it to be honest. She makes videos around a particularly large fandom and she’s just so freakin’ cute. Idk if love at first sight is valid over YouTube, but that’s what it felt like. And because she’s also on some other platforms like twitch, insta, Facebook, and sometimes Discord… I just willingly fell into the parasocial trap. I used to think this would never happen to me. It’s been quite a humbling experience.
So anyway, it’s slowly become apparent to me that she has a boyfriend already, which is fine. Not like I was ever gonna get to meet her anyway. But it’s hit me like a ton of bricks all the same. So I wrote the below stream of consciousness as a letter to myself. Just to try to cope with the situation. Figured I might as well share it here. It’s not poetry, but it’s helped to get it all out.
Doesn’t feel right to use a pseudonym so I just blanked out her name.
Please be kind. I can’t talk to anyone about this IRL, but I could use some words of comfort if anyone has any. Thanks in advance.
And if you’re reading this because you’re in a similar situation, just know that you’re not alone. We can ride the struggle bus together 😢😭**
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I’m in love with a woman named ______. I’ve never met her. She barely knows I’m a real person outside of my profile picture. I’ve spoken to her a couple of times, but nothing crazy. Just some comments I’ve left on her channels, that she’s replied to. Her replies are always so sweet and kind. But for all intents and purposes, I don’t exist to her.
I desperately wish we could be friends. At least friends. I really think we would be close, in another life. Our personalities are so similar.
I’m trying to learn her language. I have a hard time understanding what she says sometimes. But I’m getting there, and unbeknownst to her, she’s been helping me learn quite a lot.
I would do absolutely anything in the world to make her feel happy. She’s a beautiful soul. She’s kind, passionate about what she loves, down to earth, and genuine. I wish I could be there for her. To cheer her up when she’s down. To be a shoulder to cry on if she ever needed it. I know I’ll never be hers. It doesn’t matter. I just wish I could let her know. She doesn’t even have to know it’s me. I just want her to know that she is loved. Without reservation or expectation. Just as she is.
I know she’s not perfect. She has flaws. She’s just another person trying to do her best. Same as me. Same as everyone. She’s just another person, and I can see that. But I also see someone unique and special.
She’s already with someone though. So I guess someone else loves her, and I hope he tells her every single day. It seems like they’ve been together for years. I don’t know much, and I’m not going to pry. But I hope he knows how unbelievably lucky he is, and I hope she feels loved.
Because this hurts. I’m really, really crushed. I know I never stood a chance. What with the distance and the inability to talk to her, or even introduce myself properly.
I just wish someone would or could love me back for once. I have so much love to give.
I want ______ to be happy. Just knowing that she’s out there in the world, somewhere, living her life, following her dreams, being her wonderful self… it makes me smile. Who am I to ask for more? As long as she’s with someone who makes her happy, it’s enough for me.
I hope her life is full of joy. And I wish the same for whomever she loves. | Crushes |
My crush and I are friends and talk quite a bit, im confident, and ready to tell her what I feel but im not certain what to say. Should I go for something like "Hey wanna hang out sometime", should I strait up say "I really like you etc...", should I ask for her number, or should I do a mix?
Any suggestions would help! | Crushes |
My crush and I talk quite a bit, im ready to tell her what I feel but im not certain what to say. Should I go for something like "Hey wanna hang out sometime", should I strait up say "I really like you etc...", should I ask for her number, or should I do a mix?
Any suggestions would help! | Crushes |
I've liked the for a while now and never got the balls to approach them I'm running out of time and only have 3 more school days left to talk what do I do? | Crushes |
Is consistent eye contact enough to assume a guy is attracted to you?
I have this crush on a co worker who I see once a week. We both work at a supermarket, I work in the grocery department and he’s in the drinks. The only time I’ve interacted with him is to ask for help looking for something. In the very few shifts we’ve had together, we’ve made eye contact/ looked in each other’s direction several times. Sometimes it could be accidental, but there’s other times he’s looking right at me and in the eyes. Is this enough to assume he’s attracted?
Should I go and talk to him? If so, what should I say? | Crushes |
Being cautious hoping he likes me too while I feel insecure and worry about other friends at church. Everyone is basically single, am friendly with everyone. If months go by and developments happen idk what it will be or if I can handle it. In the meantime my heart feels doki doki and I want to watch romance anime again cuz I feel the same in them as I do thinking about my crush but maybe it might make me feel more. Feeling more constitutes more slow brewing feelings of pain a crush makes... when I just want to flirt with him. Be safe my heart these coming months. | Crushes |
So I’ve known this girl for about 10 years now. We’ve always been very close friends and even though we don’t see each other often because we both work now and are always busy, we still stay in touch through text. Almost daily we text each other.
Anyway, last time I saw her (over a year ago), I realized she could be the one. I just knew that I wanted us to be more than friends. I made it my plan to let her know how I felt the next time I saw her, but as I said we have both been busy starting our adult lives and haven’t had the time to meet up yet. So obviously I have not had the chance to tell her anything.
I know the adult and respectful thing to do is to tell her in person, but I’m now at a point where I’m scared that I’m waiting too long to say something.
So now to my question. Do I keep waiting until I can tell her in person or do I just get it over with and tell her over text? | Crushes |
Now this might be a strange question, and it’s one I’ve never seen on here. It’s super random Ik
Recently I’ve began to start enjoying cooking, my parents were going away for a week so I figured I’d start practicing make food for me and my sister while they were gone. And I kinda fell in love with the whole process of seeing a dish come together. I tried all sorts of stuff from breakfast foods to some deserts and they all turned out fairly ok. With some being delicious.
But I have this girl I wanna ask out. We’re great friends so I know she’d feel comfortable coming over one day soon. And I want to offer to cook, I’ve never cooked for anyone outside my family so I don’t know what’d she think.
Do you guys like when guys can cook, or like too cook? I don’t know how she’ll feel about it but I know what her favorite meal is and I want to try to make it for her | Crushes |
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