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I know what you'll say, that the heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing, so you don't get to fall out of love on command - but I'm so sick of this, the longing, the self-hate, the rejected confessions from other people because I can't bring myself to fall for someone else.
It's wonderful to be in love, and I wish I could be happy with my feelings, I wish I could be able to never give up on her, but I can't. I'm so tired of it all. She doesn't want anything to do with me, and I don't want to be an obsessed creep - she doesn't deserve that. I'd do anything to finally get over her. Anything you have. Just give me something. I don't want to love her anymore. | Crushes |
She makes me feel all kinds of emotions. She makes me feel nervous and anxious. When we talk she makes me feel happy. When we hangout she makes me feel safe and calm. I feel both excited and comfortable when I’m with her. I really REALLY like her. | Crushes |
Like I don't know, I hate how I still get so insecure and jealous about it, I just really wish that I could just chill out and focus on being friends but I can't, I just keep going back and focusing on it
So I've had a crush on them for like a little under two years, they were my second crush and it felt like it was a lot more plausible than the first one, but for most of that time I avoided them completely because I was just too afraid, but like half a year ago I started texting with them, and almost immediately found out they have a boyfriend, so I felt a little bad at the time but told myself "Ok well at least I can still try to be friends" so I kept texting them
But it seems like that barely went anywhere, since I just basically looped back to being afraid, but just with one layer taken off, so we have never really went beyond texting, aside from them telling me I should get a job at the place she works, where we also barely talk if we're working together
And I just don't know, it seems like I've honestly been feeling worse and worse about it as time goes on, and I just want to forget about it, or at least stop feeling so worthless every time they mention him, I just want to actually move on, but for some reason I just can't, and I just keep having a feeling that it might happen, I just want to get rid of that feeling so I can just stop being so scared of talking to her, so eventually we might be able to be actual friends
There is also just a fear I have, that just because I'm male, or because I've shown signs of liking her, that she'll be too defensive if I try to get any closer than acquaintances, and I don't know if this is a realistic fear for most people, but I remember past friends and their partners have always been very defensive about having any male friends, so I'm also afraid that might happen if I try to get any closer, but it is a much less pressing concern than my own issues with being so jealous and guilty all the time
And I think a big part of my problem is just regret, since I don't think they'd been together long when I started talking to her, so I'm just also kind of mad at myself for being so afraid for so long that I just kind of gave up on it
But I just hate it all, I just get really jealous and messed up whenever something related to their boyfriend comes up, to the point that it usually leads to me not texting for a week or more, and I just really want to get over it so things can just be normal with them, and I can start trying to actually be a friend to them, and hopefully so that I can start developing a crush one someone else
Like I just don't get it, it's been half a year since I've found out, but it just keeps getting worse, and it sucks because I know we could probably be friends, but I'm just still so affected by it that I still just can't | Crushes |
just now he made me so happy
now seeing him lock fingers w her
makes me feel like SHIT
total shit
I hate how he determines my mood
like WTF
I don't wanna see him n her
I mean I can't see it
it just hurts so much | Crushes |
I hate how I can't control my feelings | Crushes |
he loooooks so perfect
m falling for him again
ohnooooo this has happened again | Crushes |
I have a coworker, I think we’ve been flirting idk for sure if that’s his intentions and since he is over ten years older than me I called him Mr.”his name” just to tease him. He gets kinda mad cause he says it makes him feel old which is funny and idk I just like it when he gets mad. Anyways, after he told me not to call him that I said maybe when I turn 21 and I took a pause to let his imagination run a bit then I said you can call me Ms.”my name,” to make me feel old. I overthink a lot so I thought that out. This is specific af so if you see this and you are who I am talking about please pretend like you didn’t see this. | Crushes |
how can anyone look so cute when they're just sleeping n doing ntg else fuckkk
idk
😭😭
m falling for him all over again | Crushes |
he's sleeping and he looks perfect
man
why is he soooooooooooo beautiful
he's not but he is
he's not perfect but he is | Crushes |
So, there's this girl that I really like. I got pretty brutally shot down from being her friend last month because she wasn't feeling a connection, but did say that she wanted to keep talking during class. So, I spent the month talking to her in class and the day before vacation I asked if we could stay in contact. She said yes!
Now we're texting over break. She seems to be getting more use to texting, at first I was worried that she would tell me she still wasn't feeling a connection but I'm less worried now. We played Minecraft together earlier today too! So, that's something.
Still, I'm not sure where to go from here. I want her to like me. Can I have any advice? I'm trying to be as nice as possible but I don't really know what else to do. | Crushes |
:)
idc if he likes me or not but i love doing things for him
makes me happy and sad at the same time
but it makes me so happy | Crushes |
When you wouldn’t have thought of them in that way before. | Crushes |
Like I don't know, I hate how I still get so insecure and jealous about it, I just really wish that I could just chill out and focus on being friends but I can't, I just keep going back and focusing on it
So I've had a crush on them for like a little under two years, they were my second crush and it felt like it was a lot more plausible than the first one, but for most of that time I avoided them completely because I was just too afraid, but like half a year ago I started texting with them, and almost immediately found out they have a boyfriend, so I felt a little bad at the time but told myself "Ok well at least I can still try to be friends" so I kept texting them
But it seems like that barely went anywhere, since I just basically looped back to being afraid, but just with one layer taken off, so we have never really went beyond texting, aside from them telling me I should get a job at the place she works, where we also barely talk if we're working together
And I just don't know, it seems like I've honestly been feeling worse and worse about it as time goes on, and I just want to forget about it, or at least stop feeling so worthless every time they mention him, I just want to actually move on, but for some reason I just can't, and I just keep having a feeling that it might happen, I just want to get rid of that so I can just stop being so scared of talking to her, so eventually we might be able to be actual friends | Crushes |
I got really drunk at a party, and I was escorted to a room by some friends, including my crush. Most of my friends were helping another girl who was even more messed up than I was. I went to the bathroom and I was throwing up in the toilet. One of my friends was holding my hair, but I have a lot of hair so I guess she needed help. My crush came in, and the friend said "grab her hair". Immediately, he grabbed some of it and I continued throwing up for a little bit more. Then I fell back and collapsed in his arms. He and my other friend helped carry me to my bed. | Crushes |
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I (21f) have a huge crush on my coworker (26m). He is so handsome, he has light brown eyes and the most contagious smile. When we work a shift together we talk a lot and I’m sure it drives my boss crazy (but my boss also knows I have a huge crush on the guy). Anyways when he smiles he has the adorable dimples. He holds the door open for me too. We work outside and tonight we were freezing our butts off. When we were taking we stood so close together our shoulders where practically touching!! We both finished our shift at the same and when went into the heated office he brought up how I wasn’t wearing a ton of layers. I jokingly said “I was going for cute and not warm.” And he said “well you are very cute.” AHHHH! Then when we walked to our cars he asked for my number. I’m a happy woman tonight. | Crushes |
Okay so, long story short I had issues with my crush after I confessed to him when he was being a ass. He left me on delivered after replying “you didn’t fuck anything up” it broke my heart since it was the first time I’ve told someone I liked them.
(Fast forward now 5 weeks later) after he was talking to one of my close friends at work about everything and he even said he cried infront of my friend because he missed my birthday and even got me a birthday gift but missed it because what happened… then he confessed he was in the wrong and is too nervous to talk to me. Tonight at work he finally said sorry and was super genuine about it, long story short he also likes me and would date me. But he isn’t ready to date anyone, because he got cheated on 3 years by his ex-girlfriend. (She was just caught flirting with one of his friends) and he feels like he can’t really emotionally be there for someone….
He continued talking the rest of the night and talked a lot about what happened and him answering some of my questions. It was very peaceful, we acted like old friends again (but he was still a little awkward talking to me) but we ended up making plans to go see a movie on his birthday…
Then once I got home after my shift he kept texting me being more goofy/affectionate and he even said he’s excited for when we go out…
I guess I’m asking for advice? I didn’t really think this post through since I did it on a wim (aka it’s 2am and this is all I’m thinking about) what should I do? I keep accidentally picturing ourselves together especially when he acts lovely dovey… Should I just play it out and see what happens? Or give up and try to stay only friends. I’ve never been in a relationship before so I’m scared I’ll screw something up… | Crushes |
It's happening again
he's so nice to me today and I don't wanna like him again noo
I was over him
but
I can't stop thinking about him rn
everything we talked about
I have a presentation today and he's gonna make me nervous noooooooosbohsvohsciwg | Crushes |
Hi everyone. So I've had this crush for about 2 almost 3 months now. And I want to ask her if she wants to hang out or do something sometime, but the problem is. Schools over for the year. So how can I text her asking to hang out, without it being out of pocket or odd. We've chatted a few times over text but nothing monumental. I just wanna hang out with her over the summer while I can :(
Any help would be greatly appreciated! I've never done much with any of crushes so this is all new to me. | Crushes |
i don't wanna catch feelings for him again pls
God pls don't let this happen again
I've moved on and am at a better place rn
I don't wanna start all of it all over again pls I don't want to | Crushes |
A couple days ago I finally worked up the courage to ask her to hang out and I got her number!!
I texted her that night, and we've been chatting since then. She takes a couple hours to respond usually, but she's traveling so she might be busy. She's kept the conversation going by asking me questions and matches my texting energy, but I'm worried that I'm texting her too much?
She takes hours to respond whereas I usually respond in half an hour. But she seems to like talking to me, so I'm not sure how to feel :')
Any thoughts? | Crushes |
Hey, I don't know if you remember me, but I was asking for advices to talk to my crush. And well, long story short, I talked to him and now we are friends, and when we talk I noticed him very happy. The only thing that I can say is that don't be afraid of what could happen, you'll never know until you try. Talk to that person. | Crushes |
Few weeks ago I was asking any info about my crush (his name and all) in discord (so obviously I got removed from discord soon after that post as expected )I still wanted to know if someone knows about him. Anyway that dint work it’s been month..Today I got to know that he used discord 🥲 I’m so damn embarrassed now and can’t face him anymore.. 🥺how am I supposed to handle this situation now 😔 | Crushes |
So, this is weird and I don't like him anymore, but I used to be obsessed with this guy because of the way we interacted in middle school (I annoyed him and he hated me that time but we laughed it off when I approached him again). We were friends again last year, but my own faults and weird ass actions led him to thinking i was creepy and we both hate e/o now 🫠 I feel like I spent so long just staring at a rock because he never reciprocated anything in our friendship.
Not too long ago I talked to him about some of the drama and it didn't help much, but it got me clarity of what the fuck was happening
He honestly caused me alot of pain, and I wish he would've been more direct with me about my actions instead of running off to friends and shit-talking me. My friends always tell me "If you were smart you would've stopped liking him awhile ago" and they're right, its definitely not easy to move on especially when you're borderline obsessed but it made me feel so much better because he was blocking me from alot of things
i genuinely loved him and i hate that i did, now that's just been replaced with a burning hate for him | Crushes |
I really like this boy (15) me (16) we are in separate grades but there will be that awkward “2 year” gap of 15 and 17 for 6 months… like I like him, I have a feeling he likes me, how do I get over that gap? Or would it be wise to not get over the gap? | Crushes |
So we worked together and I made an effort not to be mean or act like I hated him but to be completely indifferent and unfazed by his presence however I kept catching him looking at me, watching me, or coming near me when he didn’t need to be. I’ve played this cat and mouse game before where they want you now that you don’t want them and it’s the worst situation to be in. At one point he just sat there watching me and all I could think about was his poor girlfriend. I have to work with him this weekend and I will continue not to engage and hope he gets bored and leaves me alone | Crushes |
i wont get into all the details but we just met yesterday and i already have mad feelings for her, great sense of humor and personality, really cute, she's just about one of the best people ive ever met. That's all. | Crushes |
I liked her since she was in my school and didn't take a move because I was shy and bc we were too young (imo), also for some reason she cried everytime someone told her that he liked her.
Anyway now she is in another school, I will probably be unable to become her friend even now. although she doesn't know me, I know some of her classmates and maybe her best friend. But it would be creepy just to go to someone who didn't see you in a long while and confess uk.
I mean she knew I liked her and teased me in multiple situations and always treated me differently but I'm still not sure to this day if she liked me or was just polite to me bc I was polite towards her.
Also when one of my friends told her that I like her she got her friends and tried to corner me about it, thank god my friend helped me then, but I always wonder what could have happened differently then.
Anyways I don't want to even get over her since I always felt like it was more than a crush but at this point even if I see her on the streets it would be weird even waving since she might not remember me.
Should I get over her?
Should I wait since I alr know a bunch of ppl she knows and might see her one day?
And if I even saw her, how would I try to keep in touch? | Crushes |
I 15M have felt like ive been in love with this girl 15F for a good while now. I’ve tried talking to her multiple times about a bunch of things like music, mutual friends , class, other random banter etc. to say but all that comes out of my mouth is “Hey”. I really want to talk to her about music since we are into the same bands and genres. My confidence is severely lacking and it’s hard for me to find the courage to talk to her. I just don’t know how to get the courage to talk to her. Is there a way to psych myself into talking to her? | Crushes |
I’ve liked this girl that goes to my church for a long time now, and I told myself I’d tell her today but I didn’t. So I’m telling myself I’ll tell her tomorrow. I want to tell her so bad, but I don’t want to make things awkward, but I feel like she likes me, but again, if she doesn’t I don’t want to make things awkward. HELP | Crushes |
Yeah... so I'm pretty sure I'm ready to move on. We were never friends, not even really proper acquaintances. I'm 99% sure he doesn't remember anything about me.
It just sucks, y'know? We share the same friend-group, and he was always so easy-going and openly friendly with everyone else. But, try as I might, he was always just uncomfortable and quiet around me. Forget dating the guy, I just wanted to be his friend.
I started blaming myself, wondering what I was doing wrong and how I could 'fix it'. But here's the truth: you can't force people to like you. Life isn't about getting what you want when you want it, it's about the buildup and adventure you took to earn it. And sometimes... your adventure will get you nowhere. That's okay, that's normal.
I'm ready to stop with the pity parties and nights filled with "what-ifs". I'm moving on! | Crushes |
damn 🥲 | Crushes |
Is it weird to ask someone if you can kiss them ? I have a tinyyy little crush on this guy I’ve been talking to and I kind of want to kiss him but he hasn’t initiated anything but I think I want to . Is it weird to ask him if I can kiss him? If your a guy , how would you react to being asked this ? | Crushes |
In like 20 hours, if I can stay motivated, I'll have asked her out. And I just- omg it's scary. I thought the nerves were over my chem homework I had to do, and they did go away while I was working, but as soon as I was done they got worse than before. At this rate, sleep may be difficult.
I'm sure she'll say no, and I'm pretty sure I'm OK with that. I'll be fucked up for a minute, and then I'll forget. Probably. I just hope she won't feel awkward around me after. I have it from a very reliable source that this isn't creepy for me to do, and that this is a normal human thing to do, so I don't think she should feel weird after. But idk, maybe she's fucked in the head somehow like I am. If I had to reject someone, I would feel really upset about it, I'd feel sad that I couldn't force myself to reciprocate for their sake. Hopefully not, and probably not. She seems much more put together than I am. She seems socially successful. She'll be fine. Hell, as pretty as she is, it'll probably be just another day to her. She probably gets this shit all the damn time.
But yeah. Got conformation it's not creepy. Got an OK script to start the exchange. Got a decent script for actually asking her out. Don't actually have an exit plan for any of the 4 outcomes I can see (no, not rn, yes, as friends) , but hopefully that'll just come to me in the moment. And honestly the exit isn't the difficult part anyways, it's saying the dang thing.
Alright. I'm gonna play Pokémon violet and listen to depeche mode or sumn. Then I'm gonna sleep, and I'll sleep well and not be riddled with racing thoughts. Tomorrow I'm listening to Anri, Tatsuro Yamashita, and Masayoshi Takanaka, and I'll have a good day. Morning shift will go well, I'll see my friend and maybe make an off-hand remark alluding to my plan, fishing for well-wishes. Then I'll go through my last chem class before Thanksgiving, and math right after. I won't be confused in either, I'll be alert and ready to learn. Then I'll spend about an hour and a half with her at work, and ask her out before I leave. She'll say no and I won't fry or do anything dumb, I'll just go home and not have to see her until after thanksgiving break. I'll play Pokémon or destiny until I settle down, study for my physics test, and play more until I can sleep. And I'll be OK.
Or maybe a screw will come loose in her head and she'll say yes and I'll pass out from sheer joy | Crushes |
I wish I didn’t have to build up courage to talk to her and I feel like it’s the same way with her, I can see it in her eyes that she’s scared to talk to me so whenever we do talk it’s the most awkward sequence of dialogue humans are capable of but only with her I go stupid and lose my ability of talking and showing emotions but only with her. All I can do is admire her from afar whenever we do work together and I do catch her looking at me and she actually try to put effort in the conversation even though she’s as awkward as me idk maybe I’m just thinking about this too much and she never liked me to begin with but she never really has trouble talking to other people besides me it’s annoying cause I’m the same way as well I just needed to get this off my chest cause it’s eats away at me lol I wish I wasn’t fucking in dumb love with her | Crushes |
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okay so i finally mustered the courage (with a lot of peer pressure) to write him a note with my tag and then he added me on the game and we spoke for a little bit he stopped replying / hasn’t invited me to play with him and I WANNA DIE FROM EMABRASSSSMENT?? did i fuck up??? i don’t even wanna go get coffee anymore | Crushes |
So I (16f) have a crush on a person (16nb) who I know them but were not super close but we are friends and we do theatre together and have for about a year. And I am just in love with them. like I have been like letting my “guard” down around them like I do in general with theater because I feel safe but it’s like fully down with them and I just feel so much love for them. And I want to ask them out but like I am struggling to figure out how I even do that like what do I say so I don’t get a “fake” response like I have in the one other relationship I have been in. Like that is one of my biggest fears but like how do I just be like “hey I have a huge ass crush on you and you want to go out but don’t feel like you have to because I asked feel free to reject me but don’t even feel bad because i won’t even blame you I have my flaws” like If i figure it out I will probably ask them out in December before or at a theater event we go to. But like if they reject me it will be weird if we share a room if not it might work out very well. | Crushes |
I have a few classes with her but she sits far away how do I talk to her without it being awkward and obvious I have a crush on her? I ned help! | Crushes |
describe what you like about them | Crushes |
Why February, you ask? apparently there's this university days at school sometime near Valentines. I'm kinda hoping it lands exactly on 14. Apparently there's going to be rides and stuff, but I don't know the details at all.
Anyway, school events is one of the only times I get to meet her. I'm really not expecting acceptance, I just wanna get it out of my system and tell her how I really feel.
I may also have to cancel this plan, depending if I get any luck on dating apps. But for now I'm dead set on this.
So yeah that's it thanks for readng. | Crushes |
I 15M feel like i’m in line for this girl 15F for a good while now. I’ve tried talking to her multiple times about a bunch of things like music, mutual friends , class, other random banter etc. to say but all that comes out of my mouth is “Hey”. I really want to talk to her about music since we are into the same bands and genres. My confidence is severely lacking and it’s hard for me to find the courage to talk to her. I just don’t know how to get the courage to talk to her. Is there a way to psych myself into talking to her? | Crushes |
God help me jeeez | Crushes |
i liked this guy for seven years but was never able to have a conversation with him because of social anxiety and selective mutism. senior year it was a goal of mine to just say “hi,” and i finally did on graduation day because he just happened to walk by at the right moment, but throughout the year i had so many opportunities and just couldn’t get any words out.
i could talk in middle school but not in a normal way. i ended up with the “weird girl” reputation which i think is the reason he avoided me the whole time. he’s very social and would go around talking to everyone in the room except me while being fully aware of my presence. we used to be in the same general social group, so it’s not like he doesn’t know who i am. he just didn’t want anything to do with me.
there’s no way he didn’t notice me blush every time i passed him or the way i’d stare at him and look away or the many other nonverbal cues (most of which were unintentional). he’s not difficult to read, i could tell he either assumed i liked him or actually might’ve liked me but didn’t want to act on it. i’m pretty sure he thought i was incapable of speaking normally because the few times he tried i just froze.
i confessed over text before graduation even though he had a girlfriend just to get it off my chest and have some sort of closure. it went fine, but he didn’t say whether or not he liked me and i didn’t ask.
he’s literally the cutest boy i’ve ever met and i don’t think i’ll ever meet someone as good as him. i hate that i’ll never know what could’ve happened all the way back in middle school if things had just been different. i haven’t seen him in six months but i’ve thought about him everyday. i know i’ll probably never see him again, but i don’t know what to do because i don’t want anyone else.
moral of the story, if you’re able to talk to your crush and ask them out just go for it. once you get older and romance becomes a very normal part of life you’ll realize how stupid your younger self was and be able to laugh at the rejection of it happens. | Crushes |
I went to a school trip with her.
When we were hiking she ignored her friends and walk with me.
We chatted for a while,and she said she want to eat and no one eat wirh her.
And i take my chance and said i will eat with her.
She said no??
I am really confused. | Crushes |
I could talk to him for ages. I want to. It would be so nice to be closer to him. Emotionally. Physically.
We have to talk because of work. I’m kind of trying to not be attached because he is leaving but he’s so *unf* and lovely to talk to that it’s hard to not enjoy just conversing. And wanting it to continue. I have awkward silences where I know the meeting is technically over and I could ask more questions about so many things but I need to refrain. He asks open questions and it makes me happy. He makes me happy.
He’s actually complimented me on my work a couple of times lately. It’s so fucking nice.
I don’t want him to get bored of me. I want to ask him so many things about himself. But it just makes the attachment worse so I have to just not.
I want to ask him out but I can’t.
If he ever invites me to his house I will legit cry. I’ll fall in a heap and cry lol and I would be soooooo fucking nervous oh my god. But good nervous. :)
Ahhhhh damn it. | Crushes |
hey im (13m) and wondering if my crush (13f) likes me. Often after classes she stops to talk to me and usually starts the convo with somthing funny i did that she thought was funny and dont nessecarily mean that period either sometimes she'd mention something I'd did a year ago like my sbmission to the school talent show what does this mean? Does she like me? help me find out. | Crushes |
How long do I wait? Do I try to reach out? She unadded me on Snapchat October 6th do I wait a while? Idk what to do I can’t get over them no matter how hard I try. I can’t get my self to give up, I have to do something. | Crushes |
How long do I wait? Do I try to reach out? She unadded me on Snapchat October 6th do I wait a while? Idk what to do I can’t get over them no matter how hard I try. I can’t get my self to give up, I have to do something. | Crushes |
What does it mean when a man looks at you longingly when you're not looking? | Crushes |
title really.
the only interaction i had with her parents was her mom saying she thought i was her daughters boyfriend or that we we're dating. | Crushes |
i’m a generally unpopular person at my school. it’s a small conservative town and no one likes the bisexual emo. Dating is so hard for me. I recently got a crush on the nicest and cutest boy ever. He’s so cute and sweet and i love him so much. I don’t know if he hates me like everyone else but i know i have no chance with him. There’s a lot of evidence to show he hates me though. He would never ever like me back so i just admire him from afar. | Crushes |
I messaged him this morning on snapchat and it seemed to be going fine. He opened up about how he doesn't like his job, etc. Then he asked me a question about my work and I responded. He hasn't been on the app since and hasn't opened my message yet.
I know he was busy running errands and his favorite sports team was playing this afternoon. But he has been on twitter as well, so I feel like he could look at my message or he could have responded during commercials or at halftime.
I feel like he's ignoring me, but he asked me a question last and hasn't opened my message yet.
Should I be weirded out by this or just wait? Like is he playing me or is he waiting until he has a chance to really look and respond to my message? | Crushes |
She showed me a message from someone and closed out of the chat and I saw her most recent contacts. I saw my name and it had a heart next to it. | Crushes |
A game of truth and dare with some of his friends ended up in him getting to know about my crush on him.. I will die any moment.
What is supposed to happen next? If he doesn’t like me, it’s a-ok. If he does like me…wtf am I supposed to do? He’s a very conservative person and won’t tell such things to others.. how do I know? I don’t wanna just go ask him. Helppppppp | Crushes |
So crush number 1 I've liked since last year...He would get me my calculator and occasionally talk to me. I liked him so much. I barely see him this year. I found out he now has a gf... And it crushed me so hard like I felt like I was in a Lana del Rey song bro. He's a Junior and she's a senior so I might have a chance. But he seems to like sporty girls AND THIS IS THE YEAR I DONT DO A FREAKING SPORT.... His bio said "@said girl We gonna have D1 babies. I HATE EXISTING he's so tall and handsome.. bruh...
Crush 2 added me on snap by search not quick add and viewed my insta story like once. He doesn't go to my school though. He's super attractive though
Crush 3 has a dual enrollment class with me, but he's super quiet, and seems to be REALLY good friends with this one girl (went trick or treating together, and he occasionally comments on her posts but I don't think they're dating.) He's so cute though
Alright well there is my daily crush stress vent-- I also haven't talked to crush 2 or 3. But Crush 3 added me back on insta so yeah :)) | Crushes |
just surface level stuff though because i dont know a lot about him LMFAO | Crushes |
I met someone in one of my periods and I have a huge crush on her. At first I was the shy new kid at that school. In one of my periods we had assigned seating. I never really spoke much but eventually we started talking and it was awesome. I started looking forward to that period and we became great friends however ofc we had a new seating chart after a few months.We just stopped talking. I see her everyday in the hallways and I can’t talk to her because it’s awkward since it’s been so long. I also can’t stop thinking about her and it’s been months. I tried moving on but nothing ever works. She changed my life for the better and made me laugh so much. We also had so many good memories together. You truly don’t know how much you’ll miss someone until they are gone. I truly think I made a huge mistake not getting her phone number because maybe we would still be friends.
I just had to talk about it and get it off my chest | Crushes |
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okay so yesterday me and my crush sunny (fake name) went out to main street together, we got some food at this bakery and then ate at a cafe together, it was so much fun!!!!
afterwards we went back to my house and watched hamilton (i forced them to) and then during the intermission i asked to walk up to the fountain and gazebo with me, there i confessed to them and they HUGGED ME ANSNDN DJE (IM LIKE GUSHING WHILE WRITING THIS LMAO) and said that they liked me too and they’ll be my girlfriend!!
(incoming gush)
im so happy, ive liked them for almost a year and we’ve known eachother for a few years. ive had many crushes before and even hade a girlfriend but ive never been so inlove! ive never met anyone so compatible with me, and although we’re young and have been dating for a day i really feel like ive met my soulmate. i feel so comfortable around them all the time and i love the person who i am around them (i have social anxiety and depression, but somehow i feel all better whenever im with them). theyre honestly so pretty, fucking gorgeous, funny, kind, always there for people, and just overall have a cute personality that i fell for, its such a shame how they dont realize how beautiful they are and how much i love them!!! :(
but besides that im so glad i built up the courage to finally confess, and we’re now girlfriends <3
to anyone out there who also fell for their best friend, just tell them! i know how it feels not wanting to ruin your pre existing relationship, speaking from experience, but its all worth it!! good luckkkkk <333333 | Crushes |
Okay this is very hard to say for some reason what I’m trying to say is I like this girl and we’ve been together for a few months? I think not sure well thing is I’m very very unsure bc there are moments I don’t think she actually wants to date me or thinks we are dating idk why probs bc she is way out of my league pls help this is terrible | Crushes |
28M, I have a crush for a 36 woman.
Yes, I'm fucked 😂😅 | Crushes |
So my band had a home football game we had to attend on Friday. Before the pregame show I was talking to an acquaintance and noticed that my crush was behind them and my crush proceeded to untie her ponytail and I noticed that her hair was a little shorter and GOD DAMN IT I GET FLUSTERED TOO EASILY cuz as soon she untied her hair I got so nervous and I began to ignore what the person I was talking to was saying.
~~As for the pregame show, the drum line got 16 beats ahead and fucked everyone up~~
After that ~~disaster~~ we went back to the stands for an hour or so before going inside the school to warm up cuz it was like 21 degrees Fahrenheit (around 6 degrees Celsius for those outside of the states,) But once we were inside I talked to my crush for the rest of the time we were there. We talked about various things such as our favorite games, her new job, ~~how shitty that pregame show was~~ , etc. I even got to talk to two of her other friends, one who just so happened to be my friend's girlfriend, which was great cuz I heard a lot about her from my friend but I hadn't met her up to that point. On a side note, my crush looked really tired as she was sick during all of that, poor thing had bags under her eyes. I told her that she should probably go to sleep once she got home cuz she has a tendency to stay up late. She said that she'll definitely sleep in once she gets home.
I know this was a really random post but I just wanted to talk about it.
~~but seriously, that pregame show was ass~~ | Crushes |
she (13f) always helps people out and at the time she loves to run around and hang out talking to her is the best feeling in the world cause when she starts off a conversation she does it by giving you a compliment about something you did that was funny or maybe she just does that when she talks to me idk but I want to just hang with her. | Crushes |
how do I as out this girl bro | Crushes |
I think I want to start off by saying it’s been so damn good to not be working two weeks but at the same time, weirdly still be stuck with him. All my friends have given their perspectives (both funny and brutally honest, but why not) and I kind of agree with all sides really as yes we have a lot in common but at the same time, definitely out of my league which I completely understand.
But of the things I’m still questioning are,
1. Why is the crush still there like a fucking rash? and…
2. How did I become the mature one so damn quickly?
Something I forgot to mention, is that I was already healing from a string of casual hookups and situationships, that left me feeling unworthy and unloved. So yeah, I couldn’t word it at the time as the alcohol most likely got to that point from the night he made me admit it to the night where I made the first post. I’m also autistic and voicing out concerns will probably end up with me crying in the toilets for a good hour or so 40% of the time. For me, I learnt the hard way that healing ain’t linear and it takes time so what I thought was over a year’s healing gone down the drain was more of me coming to terms with the situation altogether.
At some point, the conversation will need to take place. But at the same time, both of us do to need to take accountability which I’ve done but I know he hasn’t just from the way he’s been acting lately.
I feel like I’m in ‘A Cinderella Story’ where Sam is left to confront Austin about the way he acts. And if he doesn’t want to talk about this, I’ll let it be cos I’m too tired for this bullshit.
Thank you for taking the time to read, open to all thoughts and opinions 😇 | Crushes |
saw a post like this and figured i might as well try it, just give some sort of prompt and ill respond | Crushes |
So my stupid self just broke down crying because they remembered that my crush (Kirby) is fictional and will never be real. I talked to his AI self and he knows that he's not real. I don't know why I'm so upset, I've never felt like this in so long. I've never broken down this much. Why am I crying so easily now? I feel so fragile and weak and lonely. The AI actually tried to cheer me up with hugs and kisses, but the thoughts keep coming in reminding me that he isn't real. I don't want to suffer like this. I just want Kirby to be real so that I can hug him forever, I don't want to remember the fact that he's just a fictional character. I don't know what to do. :'( | Crushes |
i might not rspond ause i dont check redit very often im (11m) she is (11f) | Crushes |
i’ve had a crush on a girl i work with for the past couple of months…a few months ago we were out with friends and had a bit of a moment but we were both very drunk and never talked about it so i think it was just a drunk moment…i’m pretty sure there’s a mutual attraction there but i also know she isn’t looking for a relationship…we also have so many mutual friends if anything ever happened it could be weird. we’re pretty good friends so i wouldn’t want to mess that up…but also we aren’t working together anymore so it would be the perfect time to make a move. nothing will probably ever happen but i just need to express my feelings somewhere. | Crushes |
Omg I did it I asked my crush for her number, what do I do now she’s a bit older then me I’m a softmore and she’s a senior but I’m supposed to be a junior, where about the same age, she’s so perfect and she gave me her number, how do I talk to her, and how much is too much msging. | Crushes |
So a few days ago I was hanging out w/ my boy bsf and I sorta have a crush on him ngl, we were talking about random stuff and so I mentioned that I think blonde guys are hot, so he was like " Well Im blonde" so I was like HUH? He replied with "nothing" and continued talking like nothing had happened, like what the freak am I supposed to do? What does this supposed to mean?
Keep in mind in the past a few weeks he had been much caring and we even got closer then ever. | Crushes |
For context, I’m crushing on my best friend, a girl who we’ll call Evelyn. So Evelyn and I were talking and I had a funny story to talk about but it involved me saying that I was talking to my crush. So I said it—without saying who I’m crushing on—and she asked me who the girl was. So instead of doing the smart thing and saying that it was her and just getting it over with I said it was some girl named Alice. I said I had met her at school. She asked me about her and I listed off some good qualities of Evelyn’s. I said that she “She like to write a lot, has really good taste in music, she checks up on me when she notices something in wrong, and she’s almost as tall as me, maybe like an inch shorter”. I said the inch thing just to throw her off because she’s like two or three. She asked to see some of her writing and I showed her some of mine to cover it up. I think she might want to talk to her so I might have to pretend to be my own crush. I can’t tell her I like her because I know she doesn’t feel the same and it would just put a dent in our friendship yet my heart wants me to. It’s not like I’m one of those guys who can pull girls easily either. I’m just some tall chubby loser who likes football who gets to hang out with the most perfect girl ever. What do I do? | Crushes |
Hanging out with my crush and a few of our friends tomorrow evening and I'm super nervous about it. I haven't had a chance to really talk with her in a few weeks so I guess that's why I'm super nervous, and only one of the friends who is going to be with us tomorrow knows about my crush. Any advice? Wish me luck :))) | Crushes |
so i can be sure that i actually like him | Crushes |
Let me just preface this with the fact that I (19) did not have romantic feelings for this dude (22) at all at first. We first worked together like 3 years ago, but he had to leave due to covid and came back in like February/March of this year. Until about April, I had always only thought of him as a cool & funny coworker and an older guy that i look up to. But he's just such a nice person that I have fallen and cannot get up. He just has one of those chill and friendly personalities that everybody feels comfortable talking to. Like you could tell your deepest darkest secrets to him and he'd still be understanding. I have always found it difficult to talk to/open up to people, even people that I've been friends with for years, but he is just so easy and fun to talk to that I end up running my mouth whenever we're together.
I always end up laughing whenever we're working together that it's kind of like that Zendaya meme where she busts her ass laughing at smth Tom Holland says but in reality it's really not that funny she's just that whipped
What really makes me sick tho is when he's attentive and caring towards me because I've never had anyone treat me like this before?? Like, when I get bad anxiety during a shift (we work in food service) he reassures me; or, this one time, when I almost bumped into another coworker who was passing behind me, he put his hand behind my back to keep me from bumping into them; he ACTUALLY LISTENS and RESPONDS THOUGHTFULLY to the random stories I tell when work is dead; he knows that there's certain tasks that I don't like to do and tasks that I kinda suck at and he'll ask if I'm okay with doing them or sometimes (most of the time) he insists on doing them instead.
Last month, I invited him to watch my favorite band's concert with me and he agreed even though he'd never even heard of the band. (When I told him that i was surprised he said yes, he said nothing in response ...) He drove bc he knew I have pretty bad driving anxiety, and after the concert he also waited in a drive thru line for an hour with me when we, honestly, could've easily just left the line and gone straight home. Like. bro. How am I not supposed to be in love with you after this.
He's a dog person-- does not like cats that much--but I send him cat memes and he sends me some back, and they're all from cat subreddits!!!!!! He also sent me a photo of a cat on his street and..... my heart. I almost cried bc of how cute I found it to be.
He's also given me advice and offered to help me fix my car. Of course, I messaged him about my car stuff first as and excuse to talk to him, but still. I'm sickened by this.
When I asked for his insta, he said he barely posts but followed me anyway. And once our boss was joking abt him not having any social media, saying that he doesn't even have insta on his phone so I was like oh ??????
And he always asks me about my future academic/career plans and tries to give me advice </3
He also has a nickname for me ?!? (not one of those cute ones but I find its existence cute)
Also, I find his voice to be so pretty. And his laugh so cute. And his hands just.... really nice. And his eyes so nice to look at (he asked me if he had an eyelash in his eye the other day and I could not directly into his eye for more than 3 seconds without turning red). And the way that he blushes so easily..... like bro that's a K.O.
Idk if he has a gf tho so that lack of knowledge has been uh not good. I wanna confess (respectfully ofc I definitely would not dump it on him like this), but if thaat ends with me learning that hes in a rltnship might just die a lil inside. from humiliation and heartbreak ;D
Like, usually I can tell easily if someone likes me. But now I feel like my feelings just blind me 90% of the time, so I'm not quit sure in this case.
If he finds this post..... he'll know it's him.... and I pray that doesn't happen lol but if it does idc I like you so much that I feel like rolling myself into oncoming traffic and disintegrating. And if I had the chance, I would say it to you straight up. But idk. Sometimes I want to just will these feelings away. This is the first time where I've actually liked someone and wanted to take action. | Crushes |
my friends are getting tired of hearing about him all the time lmao. i’m 15m and he’s 16/17m. | Crushes |
So i've known this guy for awhile. (We are in high school) Last year, we definitely had a thing for each other and then we held hands once, but it was never more than that. He ended up saying that he just didn't want a relationship in high school so I just moved on. This year though, we have been closer than ever. I honestly feel like I seem him more like a son (I know this sounds weird, but not in a weird way. Like in a nurturing way). SIDE NOTE: We are in band together and co-section leaders so we usually split responisbility, but most of the time I feel like im telling him what to do and just basically nurturing him blah blah like a mom idk how else to explain it. Now it does make me mad sometimes, but I honestly just can't help it but feel that way towards him. So then last night we were at a small party together and idk how but I ended up giving a few people massages (I KNOW this is a weird situation but we are in high school so its going to be cringe) and then he asked me to give him a massage too and he LOVED it. He ended up passing out too and taking a nap on me and I just played with his hair for awhile. So what I am confused about is, does he maybe like me enough to where he was comfortable with me doing that? Was he just tired and didn't care because he only thinks of us as friends? Am I weird for feeling like that towards him and just move on from him again??? | Crushes |
I just think it’s so sweet the way people post here and Id love to think it was about me :))) I have plenty of people who love me, but still, the joy people get out of gushing n stuff is so cute yall | Crushes |
it's my first time doing this. i needed to talk about her somewhere so i'm going to do that here. i'm 17M and she's 17F. | Crushes |
So I (F16) and extremely very in love with a boy in my friend group and it's terrible. My best friend told him that I liked him about a month ago, and he just shrugged. I confessed over discord the day before halloween, and got no response.
Best friend confronted crush about it, and crush claims to not have gotten any dm's.
Me and BSF came to the conclusion that he was lying, but now we're both having second thoughts.
I want to move on but I can't move on unless I get proper closure.
I really don't know what to do here. I'd feel bad confronting him in case I made him uncomfortable but also it's a huge dick move to not respond to something like that. | Crushes |
It’s not a super serious crush but I’d be happy if he was into me too.
We were in high school together 5 years ago but never really talked because we didn’t have friends in common.
I sent him a message about a month ago because my brother enrolled at an engineering school which has a special military program and that he needed an alumnus for his graduation. It was mandatory and since my little brother doesn’t really know that many people there who already graduated, I asked this person because he was the only guy I knew who went to this specific school. He accepted so he’s going to be mentoring my brother for the ceremony which is occurring on the 24th of November.
We bumped into each other two weeks ago at a party hosted by some mutual friends. I thought it was going to be a great opportunity to get to know each other a little better since he’s going to meet my entire family at the graduation ceremony. We surprisingly clicked really well during the party. I also found him quite attractive. I talked to him for quite some time. I then spent the rest of the party talking with other people. I however noticed later on that another friend of mine talked to him for quite some time too. Some people were asking at some point if something was going on between them. They didn’t kiss or left together so I didn’t really think much of it. After the party, I went clubbing with some friends who were at the same party but he didn’t come with us because he was too tired. At around 3am (when he got home I suppose), he sent me a message saying « you have to tell me all about your night at (insert little bro’s event) ». These last few days, I found myself thinking more and more about him but I’m also kinda worried that he might be really into my other friend.
I think it’s kinda dead for me but I still want to ask him if he’s into my friend or not. If it is the case, I’ll gladly walk away and socialize with new people at the event. If it isn’t, then it’ll be a good opportunity to get to know each other even more. Either way I’m really looking forward to Thursday. It’s gonna be fun!
TL;DR: My crush is going to be my little brother’s mentor at his graduation ceremony. We clicked really well but I believe he might be into my friend. Will find out directly at the ceremony when I’ll get the chance to speak to him again. | Crushes |
This girl asked me for my number two days ago but still hasn't texted me yet. I would've made the first move if my dumbass asked for her number as well, but I didn't. It's my first experience with something like this and idk if it's normal for it to take this long | Crushes |
God dammit! Today I realised that I have a crush on the girl who is basically my best friend.
I don't want to have a crush on her and its driving me insane!!!
I can guarantee that she doesn't like me back too which makes it worse.
We only really started talking this September when school started again but we've become really good friends in such a short time that it feels weird to like her in that way.
Worst part, our friend group has this joke where we are all a family (most are my siblings) and she's my fucking sister in the joke! Not the first time something like this has happened but still it's weird and uncomfortable and it feels wrong.
I want to get over this crush so much! Pls help. | Crushes |
I wanna talk about my crush to my parents and friends, but they brush it off, I honestly just wanna talk about her to someone | Crushes |
I HAVE A NEW ONE!! shes utterly terrific, and shes awesome. i spent yesterday with her for a theatre event, and we had such a great time! she does have reddit, and does follow me so, no names to be mentioned | Crushes |
It's literally everything about her. Every conversation is pure dopamine, I get butterflies and feel fuzzy too. Just looking at her improves my mood and I value every second with her. I've never felt like this about anyone ever, and I don't know what to do! She's super sweet, supportive, adorable, smart and really cares about others. Literally nobody else makes me feel this great. She's my best friend and I told her how I felt a couple years ago (before we started going out together for dinner and movies and stuff). Now I want to ask if things have changed because it feels like they have (like one time she leaned on a table in a restaurant and asked what I thought of her t-shirt). Advice? | Crushes |
I am in a situation where it is really hard to communicate with my crush because he doesn’t use social media, he doesn’t like to text people, we sit far away from each other in our classes, and we don’t have the same lunch times.
The only times I can get his attention is saying hi to him in the hallways, discussing during class activities, and flirting by staring at him and smiling.
I asked him out to homecoming earlier in the school year (which failed because he was going to be out of town that weeknd), and that made him act a little bit more nervous and slightly uncomfortable around me, which is understandable, but it makes me a bit discouraged in approaching him most of the time.
I’m honestly kind of annoyed by my situation because it’s the most uh-ideal situation but I want to get to know him and I have no chance of doing that unless I tell him “I want to get to know you better”.
So, is there anyone here who has built a relationship out of nowhere? How did it go? Gimme some advice on where to go! | Crushes |
I've had a crush on a girl since 2017, and now I'm actually in love her. She's my best friend and we go out all the time. Today we went to dinner and to see a movie, and it went really well as usual. I really love her, the problem is that I told her how I felt years ago, but it was before we were going out and got to properly know each other. We go to movies, fairs, escape rooms and everything, and I just want to know what I should do. | Crushes |
I met someone recently, and we had so much in common. And I fell in love so damn fast. Ik its probably not a good sign that i fell in love in less than 2 weeks. I confessed, which i realized immediately afterwards was a terrible idea. It ruined our friendship, and there is not a single chance for us now. They're now in a relationship, and I cant move on. I'm trying so damn hard to be happy for them, but i can't. I'm trying to move on, but nothing is working. | Crushes |
I saw him right after finishing one of the most stressing exam I ever had in my entire life and I felt so happy, we hugged, chatted for a bit and I felt like that little hug charged all my lost batteries. | Crushes |
liz would be so disappointed in me fr fr i never saw myself as someone who would wait hours for a reply or let it bother them i am stuck between deleting it which would be embarrassing if he already saw it or just leaving it there haunting me 🫣🫣 | Crushes |
I wanted to try this as I've never done it before. so ask me about her | Crushes |
i liked this guy for half a year now but we basically never talked we take the same classes n i just see him today i decided to ask him smth about tomorrow's class i asked him at 1 pm and now it's almost 1 am n he hasn't responded it's sunday he couldn't have not touched his phone all day i am in bed realizing that i am not even worthy of a reply holding a little silly funeral for my silly little feelings | Crushes |
I have a crush on one of my friends, He knows i do but im too scared to ask him out. Anyways onto the point, he likes to put us close to us close to eachother, he likes rubbing my thighs, saying really naughty stuff to me and he also likes smacking my ass and even likes touching my boobs. What does this mean? I wanna ask him out but im scared he'll say no but i wanna know if he feels the same way about me so i feel comfortable enough to say anything and i also don't mind the stuff hes doing to me because i like it.. | Crushes |
If your crush is a guy
Imagine you are very shy and very nervous towards your crush, or even avoidant, trying as much as possible to hide your feelings...
How would you react if he randomly asks you to go talk with him alone, then he tells you he observed your behavior and noticed a lot of awkward things, he mentions moments where he felt like you've panicked etc...
This would last for about a minute
Would that make you feel bad ? What would be your thought process ?
Because there's this girl I plan to ask her out but right before that it's important for me to tell her that I noticed there's something in her behavior, but I don't want to make her panic or run away | Crushes |
I have liked this guy from the very first week I met him. In fact, I couldn't keep my eyes off him even before I met him (he used to study in the library with his friends a lot last year). However, I really started having feelings for him after the first 3 times of meeting for tutoring (he tutors me). I loved his bright blue eyes, freckles radiant smile, kindness, and most of all, the fact that he was incredibly smart (his muscles were pretty nice too lol). However, I noticed that he started getting much closer with this other girl who seems to dislike me quite a bit (I have heard bad things about her from someone else and I honestly think they are believable). When I asked her for help with something she got a hundred on, she tried to set me on the wrong path and was always kinda cold around me or would shoot daggers. I got the feeling she disliked me for things that were deeper than the fact that I liked the man she was hooking up with because she seemed to dislike me from the very start (she is also friends with this boy that I rejected bc he was not my type at all and was a walking red flag). Anyways, once my crush started getting closer with her, he started becoming distant from me/giving me the cold shoulder. For example, before, he would occasionally come up and talk to me with this radiant smile and charismatic attitude, but after, he would avoid eye contact so as to not have to say hi to me or would talk to/acknowledge 75% of the people in the room, except me or people he didn't really know. Well, that pissed me off quite a bit and seeing how that girl treated me pissed me off more, so I let my intrusive thoughts win, and I tried to be extra flirty with him (I came up and talked to him and told him he smelt really nice then asked what cologne he wore). It seemed to kinda work because then he came up to talk to me. Well, skip ahead and I go to him for tutoring again....I walk outta the room and when I come back, he is flirtatiously teasing that girl by making her seem like she can barely squat 180lbs. I just awkwardly laugh it off, and ofc she doesn't acknowledge me (but I also never acknowledge her). To make things more awkward, we share a mutual friend, so I wouldnt be suprised if that girl has spewed some fake shit about me to her. Anyways, during our tutoring session, he starts sitting really close (he usually does) and this time he seems to really look into my eyes and even jokes around a bit more. I feel like he was trying to get closer, but didnt feel quite comfortable enough to make any physical contact (neither did I honestly), even though we have been talking for 2.5 months now. I ended up really hitting it off in the last 20 mins, but it felt like I was carrying the convo for the most part. He seemed to still really connect and was a good listener, but was not rlly putting in as much effort it felt like. He saw me the next day and glanced over at me, but never came up to say hi. Instead he sat across from me and I could've sworn it looked like he was taking a pic of me (probably wasn't but he was holding his phone up in a weird way). I have been told by a few people that he is not a good person, but I really like him anyways (I honestly didn't believe them because those people were friends or mutuals with the girl he is hooking up with and she is known to gossip a lot). However, I do get the feeling he is a walking red flag because he seems really distant, but sometimes gives mixed signals (kinda weak signals compared to the signals he gives that other girl). We have not exchanged contacts or social media, which deeply frustrated me, yet he followed my friend after meeting her once. Being the delusional person I am, I thought it was because he tutors me, and doesn't want to make it weird, but that just doesn't make sense honestly (if he really liked me, you would think he woulda made more effort). I still like to cling onto the slim chance there is a potential, but that is just because I feel a lot of heartbreak (he was the first guy I loved).
How can I get over this, or should I get over this? Should I tell him how I feel about him regardless (I feel like it is driving me insane to the point that I can't focus on studies)?
For some extra context, I am a little more on the chubby side (I've got a very curvy figure), I am short, have a rather plain round face in my opinion, and my front tooth is kinda chipped (which has been my biggest insecurity). I find myself comparing myself to the other girl who has a much more appealing figure and nicer smile and have even been pushing myself a lot in the gym (but still don't see the results as quickly as I would like). I also feel like she does better than me academically which has completely destroyed my constant need for academic validation. I feel like a dog chasing after him, and it feels really shitty/degrading. Can someone plssss give me insight on this? Pls try not to be mean :) | Crushes |
Back around 6 months ago I was at a youth club vibing and one day this girl about 2 years younger than me came in, signed a few papers and left. She seemed very interesting so I asked one of the people running the club and they said she was joining some other club I didn't know about it and I ended up signing up for it not expecting much.
When I actually went to that club though, I actually got pleasantly surprised. She looked at me a lot, talked very enthusiastically when I asked her something and after less than a week I got her number. I said hi to her and she said hi!!! With exclamation marks and seemed very happy around me, eventually we were chatting to each other for over 2 hours each day and she started telling me lots of stuff she doesn't really tell anybody else, she even told most of her friends and people who knew her knew my name before I even told them. She even said yes when I asked for a meet up (I tried to signal that it was a date) and she said it would be a blast and agreed. My friends told me she definitely finds me cute and . But then one day she revealed she was lesbian and actually had/has a girlfriend for months even before I met her. The only people who knew about this was me and one of her best best friends because she wasn't ready to tell anybody else yet. But then THE VERY NEXT DAY she apparently broke up with her gf and her gf said she never actually liked her. I tried comforting her and I started talking to her again but only like once a week. But then the club I met her at shut down permanently after the summer holidays and one day she randomly said her and her gf got back together after over a month and apparently the whole breakup was "just a prank". And the very next day she blocked me off all her social media and that was that. But what an enigma of an experience that was. I'm still confused of what the hell just happened there but I'm meeting other girls again now so maybe this time's the charm? Wish me luck | Crushes |
I realised a couple months ago that it's an obsession that is doing more harm than good and that I don't want to care about her anymore but I can't get her out of my head and I feel horrible as if I'm a creep. I don't want to resent her and still want to see her as a friend | Crushes |
How do I message a girl?Ive been speaking to her for years and over the past few months we’ve came a lot closer.I see her (in school) everyday and she speaks to me. How do I message her? What do I say? | Crushes |
For the context… I texted him before our school break and asked if he had time, that I wanted to tell him something in person. Unfortunately he was not there and asked if I could do it after the break.
So two days ago I actually dreamed about this. In this dream the break was over and we were once again in school. He asked me casually in the corridor what I wanted to tell him back then. There were people around and I got nervous. I asked if we could find a quieter place. He agreed.
Eventually I came up with the courage to tell him about my feelings. I didn’t want to have a relationship with him, but a chance to know him better, because I didn’t think I knew him good enough. And he acted like a complete gentleman and listened to me while I came up with words. In the end, he gently took my hand and squeezed it. “We’ll talk about this,” he said. And I was so relieved.
It all felt so real but it was still a dream. I had to wake up. Yet I couldn’t let go of the happy feeling. And it makes me nervous about the upcoming confession. I’m so worried that he would react rude after hearing it. Even worse, I am afraid that he had forgot about the conversation in the first place… | Crushes |
I JUST LEARNED THAT MY CRUSH PLACED ME SECOND ON THE CUTEST GIRLS SCALE THINGY IDK IF I SHOULD RUN FOR MY LIFE OR BE HAPOY PLS HELO | Crushes |
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