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Now don't get me wrong. I understand that we're not together so I shouldn't worry because it's her choice. But I do. We're good friends and we're in this friend group. And there are 2 of my friends who basically introduced her to me. And as the time went I've developed a crush on her. We're texting, we hung out 1 on 1 and I've got some kino going on. And I get that she knew them wayy before me and that she's comfortable with them. But whenever she puts her legs over their lap or rests her head on their shoulder I envy as fuck. One of them dudes has a gf and the other looks like a purely platonic friendship (since they're both single, knew each other for a long time and didn't make a move) yet somehow whenever something like that happens I feel incredibly sad. We're not dating. I should not care. I wanna enjoy these parties and don't care what she does to whom. How do you deal with that stuff?
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We had the first kiss on the second date, was weird but like i kissed her :) We was on the bus and i asked her if i could kiss her, she said yes and i said "can we kiss right now?" and she said "Yes" and we kissed, was awkward but was nice. (I never though i would put a success flair)
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I know it's a bit deep but I'm quite curious.
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So, some days ago i (M17) was invited to go out with a few people in my class, and i started to notice that a girl and her friend were making jokes about me pretty prequently, laughing etc, so i suspected something but I didn't know anything yet. After some time we go to her place and when only me and the 2 girls were remaining they say something like: "i'm sure you know it right?" And i answer like "i'm not sure, but does one of you like me? And they say no, so i thought i was wrong. But, today a friend of mine comes to me and asks me: do you like (name)? I answer that I don't, because i don't like her, and although i don't know how she might feel about this and i don't want her to feel bad, i dont want to be with her while not actually liking her just so that things stay "normal". I told my parents about this and they were very mad telling me that this was my occasion and that I should tell her i actually like her, that i'm gonna regret this and that even if I don't like her and because i've never been in a relationship and it's actually normal to be in one with someone you don't like, i should try to be in a relationship with her. For some reason many people in my class think i'm gay, which i'm not, and my parents said that like this i could have proven them wrong, and that by declining her offer people in class might think i'm gay even more, but i don't really like this idea and also the people who think that are just jerks. Do you think they're right? Should I be with her even if I don't like her? To me that's absolutely wrong but to my parents apparently i'm "still a child" and "maybe those classmates are right about me". What do you think i should do? Accept or no?
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Sorry if this is bad I'm on mobile. You can find my old post but basically I confessed and he ran off without rlly saying anything. I decided today to just ask him out properly and he told me he just saw me as a friend. Kind of upsetting but I'm mostly just relieved I can finally stop obsessing over him on false hope. My friend said they'd tell him for me but then got too scared and told me they couldn't do it cause its embarrassing, same as last time which just annoyed me because then I had to embaraa myself again in front of him by asking him out. Anyway that's it for my saga, I barely see him on campus apart from with my shit friends and I'm not gonna hang out with them anymore so I doubt I'll see him again. Luckily I've only got about 2 months left and I'm not going to be in everyday since exams are fast approaching. Although I got rejected, if you're reading this just ask them out. Who knows, they may like you back and be luckier than me loll
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I (18ftm) have this crush on this guy (18m) since November but I'm certain that he doesnt like me that way as he's straight (or probably not into trans men like me). We've been pretty good friends since freshman year but this year we got really close especially with the help of being in model un together. There's also classic me catching himstaring at me for long periods of time eversince freshman year(he also showed signs in freshman and sophomore year but i was in the closest and "female" to everyone). Although we don't have a class together anymore (we used to back in freshman and sophomore year. Now we have same class at different periods of the day) He's been one of the few people who really helped me out when i found out some bad family news and the first person who said im actually oood at debating after i won an award at a mun conference. We also talk a decent amount online and also heard that he talks about me with other people in a good way. He also had some signs But I can't help to feel like this is just a road to disappointment because he's pretty straight and I'm gay. At some point I want to confess since it's only a few months to graduation, but there's also another school dance and prom later on where I might have a chance to make a move but not so sure if it's enough. Only one friend knows about this and she's an online friend so she doesn't know the exact person I'm talking about but she thinks I should keep going since I might have a chance. I'm nervous to tell an irl friend at school because they're all friends with my crush so I don't want to make things worse. Is it about time for me to give up on this hopless crush and move on or should I keep going?
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Well, in class, our teacher told us to gather round. A mutual friend of me and my crush was standing right in front of me. I told that friend to get a bit side since i'm short. My crush was standing right next to him and he said, "let her come forward", and then they both laughed. It was the first time he said anything like that and it is still making my heart flutter lol (it was said in a cute joking way, not rude or mean way so..) aishhhhh helpppp 😭
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How do I differentiate?
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Man just fuck this shit. I need to jump ship asap, this one is sinking faster than titanic. I feel so fucking awful.
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Someone messaged me that they have a crush on me, and I know them for 3 years. I just reacted surprised, didn’t reject, and criticised a few pictures of them(regrets now). It’s been a month now and we texted three times, I created perfect opportunities for him to ask me on a date, but he didn’t. I used to have a crush on him years ago, but now idk since he seems not keen. It’s just in my head and I’m so distracted that I can’t focus on my studies. Should I just ignore everything and assume it never happened?
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How do you deal with that? Do you feel stupid for falling too easy with this beautiful person? Do you ever feel you'll never get a chance, because he's out there just need to point a finger to someone he's interested with and viola, but probably not you.
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I'm in high school and I'm interested in this guy, he's a senior, has a lot of friends. How do I get to know him without looking weird? It's impossible to approach someone randomly without it being extremely strange (it's how it is here). He has a huge hobby of going to the gym, probably due to this is why he's always surrounded by girls. If I make a move I'm afraid the girls will start to get extremely competitive because a new girl will enter their 'territory'. I don't want drama or anything. Should I just give up? Move on?
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Ok this is not one of those “I’m going to confess my feelings” type of deal. I recently discovered on a dating app one of my crushes whom I already have on sm is single but I want to make the conversation casual for now and build up overtime.
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I’ve had a serious crush on this girl for a couple of years now. She’s amazing. Always nice to me. I’m I’ve seen her as more and more good looking as times gone on too. But her smile and laugh and lightheartedness is what really made me like her. I can’t decide if it’s possible for her to like me as well. She goes to a smaller, different school to me, but I see her a few times a week. I want to make some sort of move, but we’re both fairly shy/ quiet, especially me. How do I get closer to her without seeming weird? I’m also going on a camp that she will also be on soon. I know that she doesn’t have many friends going and is a bit unsure/ nervous about it all. What could I do that’s kind and could maybe hint that I’m interested in her without being creepy? We already know each other and chat often in small groups, but I’m still scared of striking up conversation. Even just saying hi is scary. I feel like it’s possible that she likes or has liked me from some of the things she does, but idk and could be imagining it. What should I do?
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So theres this boy who i like very much. I've liked him since January I was pretty confused with my feelings till my friends kept telling me "ur probably in denial" well yeah i was. So I really wanna tell him how I feel but I really dont know when or how. I've had chances to tell him face to face but my fear of rejection stopped me. I've never really confessed to anyone. But I just really wanna make the first move. And he really means alot to me. I really love to buy him things. I love to treat him food and give him candies and sweets. I really like his company and I hope he feels the same. During valentines I got him a letter and gave him a hug(he is my first ever valentine) He thinks he should give me one back but I really don't mind. His company alone is already enough for me. I try to get into the stuff he likes and whenever he would talk about it i would get confused but i try to understand. I try to teach him guitar but Im pretty bad at teaching. Hes done so much for me. He got into my music (rock) which he didnt have to but that was really sweet of him. He sends me goodnight/morning messages which probably doesnt mean much to him but for me it means alot. He tells me he misses me which got me rolling on the ground. And he buys me lunch I wont say how many times because its alot. Ive never had someone who actually cared. I always stop him from buying me stuff. Even the littlest things he does for me like simply carrying my bag warms my heart and asking if im okay whenever i seem off. I really enjoy those times where we hangout just the two of us. Also with friends. I wish he knew how much I worry and care for him. Like that one time he got sick, I was really worried. Now since its summer I wont get to see him alot. And knowing that theres a chance we wont be the same sections next year kinda terrifies me. The thought of that makes me overthink to the point where i kinda cry lmao. I love him, but I dont know how to tell him. SORRY THIS WAS LONG.🏃‍♀️
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At the location I go to, there is this really cute guy around my age, and I’ve been subtly trying to find ways to talk to him outside of the normal check in “ good morning “ when I enter the gym and scan my tag. I know he works out there before his shift, so maybe I could ask him to be my workout buddy? Idk if he’s being nice to me because it’s his job, or because he genuinely likes me back. How would you go about it?
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tell me your story
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Couple things you need to know before I start this story: 1. The boy I have a crush on has a girlfriend currently. 2. He works as a barista at a Starbucks 5 min away from my apartment/which happens to be next door to the "comedy school" we go to/met at. I've had a growing crush on him, since having a dream about him after our mutual classes both ended. I always have thought very highly of him since the end of our classes... And we have mutually supported each other. He's had more shows for me to go to... But he's always verbally supported me... Never the less... I've actually been pretty good about keeping the crush just under control. I haven't gotten his phone #, until today actually, so it's been quite some time since meeting him. Almost a year into knowing him until we exchanged phone #s. Sometimes I think he hides how he really feels. Today, he also encouraged me to come to his job and say hi now and again. Now, I've been avoiding doing that so my crush doesn't grow even more. But it's like a seed planted in my brain now. I can't stop thinking about it. He encouraged me, like as a friend, I presume, but never the less... I've actually done that before. I college about four years or so ago, I used to go to this small business owned coffee shop, and buy a tea to go just to talk to this "friend" that I had a crush on. I would do that all the time. And he knew I had a crush on him, because it was obvious. But he was mean to me, too. He kind of treated me like the unwanted little sister sometimes because the girl he was really interested in was my roommate. And I probably wouldn't have even gotten a crush on him if he wasn't around my apartment all the time, at the time. I dunno. Somewhere in my little brain I am thinking that doting on a boy at a coffee shop is like a recipe for disaster. All he wants is to feel a little important, get some attention, and have his ego stroked. He'll know I'm just coming to see him. While in the past, when I would visit him at his job (my current crush) it was always when I was in the area and happened to be around while he was working. I didn't even buy coffee those times. I sorta am tempted though because it's like something I can offer him that's different from what say other friends of his can offer? Am I like totally over thinking this? What should I do?
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Hi so recently I’ve come to realize he likes me back. The only problem is we never speak and we dont even see each other much. I really like him and I’m quite sure he likes me because of how he acts. school is ending in a month so I need to do something. How do I ask him out?
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Well shit, I'm back on this sub ...theres this guy 😳👉👈 😭😭😭 TL;DR at bottom Ok I've been thinking, the school year is ending soon. Kinda. 2 months is way shorter than it seems ok Anyway lately I've been having an existential crisis about wanting to make the most out of high school even though I'm only in 10th grade, so I thought one of the funny silly googy things I could do was make a move or something on this cute guy in one of my classes. But. I dont wanna have a crush. The last one I had was not very good on my self esteem and it was just a pain in the ass to feel the way I did about him because it was a hallway crush and he did not give a single fuck about me 🤡 Long story short, I was so miserable last time. In fact that's why I'm dealing with this current guy now. I used him as a distraction from my last crush and it worked... a little too well 😭 So... said bad decision is making a move on my "crush" because the harder I fall the more itll hurt, probably This new guy is a lot different from my last crush tho. He doesnt talk like at all in the class I have with him. Kinda understandable tho cuz we usually spend most of the class learning or doing work on our own, but I've only heard his voice a handful of times. He seems shy but I feel like hes wayy more extroverted and loud around his friends (I am too) I've talked to him... once 💀 it was during this group activity the teacher made us do. Honestly it might as well not even count because I'm pretty sure he said a total of like 5 sentences during that group work thing 😭 I make eye contact with him like at least once a day usually... doesnt seem like much (it isnt 💀) but considering the fact I sit kinda far in front of him, that's like... so awkward for me 💀 Anyway that might be all the "important" into to know before voting on this poll. I doubt anybody is actually reading this and just voted to make a move but if you are then slay thank you ur cool TL;DR: I dont want a crush, so if I "make a move," I'll probably fall for him harder cuz I'm a hopeless romantic. But. It would be interesting. And silly. And goofy. But also maybe miserable and a pain in the ass. But also maybe funny. So should I "make a move" and risk screwing myself over or nah? [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/12qcfrt)
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When other people found out, I always used to deny it even though it must have been so obvious because I blush so much when embarrassed.
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Well shit, I'm back on this sub ...theres this guy 😳👉👈 😭😭😭 Ok I've been thinking, the school year is ending soon. Kinda. 2 months is way shorter than it seems ok Anyway lately I've been having an existential crisis about wanting to make the most out of high school even though I'm only in 10th grade, so I thought one of the funny silly googy things I could do was make a move or something on this cute guy in one of my classes. But. I dont wanna have a crush. The last one I had was not very good on my self esteem and it was just a pain in the ass to feel the way I did about him because it was a hallway crush and he did not give a single fuck about me 🤡 Long story short, I was so miserable last time. In fact that's why I'm dealing with this current guy now. I used him as a distraction from my last crush and it worked... a little too well 😭 So... said bad decision is making a move on my "crush" because the harder I fall the more itll hurt, probably This new guy is a lot different from my last crush tho. He doesnt talk like at all in the class I have with him. Kinda understandable tho cuz we usually spend most of the class learning or doing work on our own, but I've only heard his voice a handful of times. He seems shy but I feel like hes wayy more extroverted and loud around his friends (I am too) I've talked to him... once 💀 it was during this group activity the teacher made us do. Honestly it might as well not even count because I'm pretty sure he said a total of like 5 sentences during that group work thing 😭 I make eye contact with him like at least once a day usually... doesnt seem like much (it isnt 💀) but considering the fact I sit kinda far in front of him, that's like... so awkward for me 💀 Anyway that might be all the "important" into to know before voting on this poll. I doubt anybody is actually reading this and just voted to make a move but if you are then slay thank you ur cool TL;DR: I dont want a crush, so if I "make a move," I'll probably fall for him harder cuz I'm a hopeless romantic. But. It would be interesting. And silly. And goofy. But also maybe miserable and a pain in the ass. But also maybe funny. So should I "make a move" and risk screwing myself over or nah?
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I asked her out and it's was a "No". This hurts too much and I feel that maybe I'll never find someone worthwhile lol.
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So there’s this one guy that I didn’t really notice until one time before COVID when I was mistakenly leaving P.E. the wrong way from everyone else, but he was the only one that followed me lol. I went the wrong direction bc I thought P.E. was over and I was trying to get to my next class, but we were actually supposed to wait till the period ended. That was the first time I kinda noticed him. When we returned from COVID, I kind of noticed him a lot more bc of that interaction despite barely having ever talked to him. He’s in one of my classes now, and I often find him looking at me (though that could be bc I’m looking more at him). We sat next to each other once bc of the random seating, and he tried to talk to me several times, but I answered kinda bluntly bc I’m socially anxious af and tend to drive people away due to my emotional walls. Am I being delusional? I really can’t tell lol
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He’s so perfect he’s honestly way out of my league I can’t really see someone like him dating me so I might as well give up but omg. How is he this fine. The thought of other people wanting him makes me wanna cry but realistically there’s probably a bunch of girls crushing on him. Although I’m not going to make a move on him because Im too afraid of rejection. I love him so much I don’t care if he’s a little short or has horrible style I love him.
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Whenever I find one I JUST WANNA EAT THEM UP With cuteness, because of How Cute And Adorable as I think of them As my lil snack... 🥺 It's like I wanna HUG THEM till they squeeze out of cuteness.. I would keep hugging their waist, to make them comfortable I would sometimes leave him alone for his comfort and alone time Idk how I got attracted to one...I'm just dreaming about one I WANNA HUG THEM 😭?
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So me and my crush (both males in high school, same age) are really good friends. Or at least I think we still are. We became friends a little over a year ago through some mutual people we knew. A few months ago, I started liking him, and set up this whole elaborate scheme to ask him out. I gave him little gum wrapper hearts and he took them and never said anything about it, good or bad. Eventually, I asked him out through giving him a letter in his locker. He put one in my locker responding, and he said that he wasn't ready to date. I feel like he was just letting me down east though, as recently, we have been hanging out less. I'll ask to hang out, and he'll say that he would check if he could. Then nothing happens. Things have also gotten a bit more stale. We talked about me asking him out in the past once, and he was fine with it, saying that he actually liked me giving him the hearts. I just don't know what to think.
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I like this girl in one of my classes and i think she likes me back. The school year is ending in about a month and I want to get her phone number before it ends. I am a nervous wreck and i always chicken out of talking to her. I want to talk to her but idk what to say, any ideas? (Btw the situation is a little more complicated than what I typed but I just need some basic things to say)
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okayokayokay this will be long so bear with me i have a crush on a guy that i met through boxing, stopped going to boxing cuz of the winter weather/need to focus on other hobbies, he has also stopped going for his own reasons that im not sure of okay cool before that he has personally shown me both where he works at and his car, which isnt far from boxing and the street is a local favorite of mine to drive through in general so i pass by his work sometimes this is important for me to say before i continue especially to kinda understand my situation i already confessed by letter that i left under his window wipers, why that? because i havent been seeing him when i DO go to boxing, i refuse to corner him at his job, and pretty sure he has no social media cuz i tried searching for him when i decided to confess so the letter was the last resort another thing for me to explain is that due to how often i do go down the street he works on, i pass by and sometimes see where hes parked which i learned is two spots: behind the building or the side. i decided to leave the letter when he was parked on the side so that id have less chance of him/his coworkers seeing me ever since i left the letter, he has stayed parked at the side of the building EVERYTIME i drive down his road, which is often im not gonna 100% take this as a sign that he may return my feelings but its also my main evidence if he does cuz im very oblivious when it comes to others and if they have feeling for me, i dont want to psychoanalyze and try to dig up "evidence" when it may not be evidence at all, my main thing is to not make him uncomfortable cuz i do honestly care about him my main question is, should i just go ahead, leave another letter but with my number in it on his car, just so that i could have further closure on this? i made it a point to say he doesnt have to respond if he doesnt want to cuz no answer still means no and i respect that, so technically he doesnt have to text me no if there is no feelings on his end i didnt leave my number in the letter stupidly, but i also didnt because what if he doesnt want to give his number to m incase he actually doesnt have feelings and that im being delusional yknow? hes a chef so when i pick up food from there hes not with customers, hes in the kitchen and again i dont want to corner him at his job thank you!!!
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There is this boy that lives far away. I first met him a couple of months ago, and we immediately talked a little bit on social media afterwards. I became friendly with both him and his friend. I recently saw them again in person for the first time since I met them. It was for a learning event, so we didn’t have a horrible amount of free time, but during the event we made eye contact across the room at least 30 times. The event probably lasted around 17 hours over a couple of days for context. I think that some of the times when he looked at me and I looked back he started smiling and laughing, but it wasn’t clear if he was looking at me. Even when I looked away he would keep looking. During most of our breaks we would talk in person, but nothing too deep and there were always other people around. Sometimes when he texts me he sends me pictures of himself with text layered on top, but he is never the one to start the conversation. His friend has texted me first a couple of times, but only when they’re together and i’m messaging him and they’re both messaging me back. They’re also friends with my friend and my friend and I do this too. I don’t know if he likes me or if we’re just friendly acquaintances or if we’re friends. I need help. He’s gone home now, and we messaged a bit the day he went home but haven’t since.
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I'm currently finishing Middle School, already got accepted into my favorite high school and I'm just excited about the next year. However, I recently got this crush on one girl in some of my classes, I decided to ignore my insecurities and talk to her. Day after day I talked to her non-stop, but it all stopped when I learned that she's going to a completely different high school. Before that I heard that long-distance relationships don't last that long, I don't wish to continue trying to get with her if in the end we'll just forget each other. My response was to stop talking to her, attempt to suppress all my feelings towards her and just move on with my life. All these suppression attempts failed and I can't stop thinking about her, everytime I dream about her I wish I was dead, every night I think about us living a happy life but reminding myself right after that it would never happen. I feel like my mental state is sliding down a mountain rn but it is probably just an overreaction or attention seeking. I really don't know what to do right now and so the only option I see is posting my problem on reddit, never done that before so mb if I posted to wrong r/. I would be happy to get any advice on how to stop thinking about her or what should I do in this situation.
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My crush who sits next to me is a quiet type. We have barely ever talked, we talked about our enjoyment in books, I gave her candy with a ribbon in valentines, and asked her to go to prom ( I asked her too late, so she already had plans with her friend and didn’t want to leave her alone but said if anything then she’ll see), and I at least say hi to her everyday. Our high school has days that give us an 1 hour long lunch. I want to ask her if she’ll like to hangout during that lunch but I don’t want it to be weird for her or anything should I ask her or no? If so, what’s the shortest way I can tell her cuz I get really nervous.
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The guy that I’m crushing on is extremely quiet (can’t hear him in a room with others talking at a normal volume) and introverted as far as I know. I’ve talked to him like 3 times (maybe?) I annoyed him the last time we talked because I’d asked him a lot of questions during study hall. Since then I hadn’t talked to him for a couple of days because I don’t want to scare him away by me annoying him. I don’t know what to talk about with him but I really want to talk to him again, asking questions is what I normally do to try and start a conversation. What I do know about him isn’t enough for me to start conversation without asking questions and I don’t want to make him feel like I’m interrogating him. I just want to become friends with my crush and stay friends with him for a couple of years to hopefully see some of his true colors before I decide to ask him out.
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I made 2 posts i put effort into yet noone comments. Out of my 2 posts there is only 1 comment. Does my wall of text dcare people away? I really wish someone would read it and help me out
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We have multiple college classes together this semester, so we have seen each other often during the week. He used to tutor me after my night class when I asked about the homework in our groupme chat. Then he also started a conversation first with me several times when we were alone. I want to do something since this is his last semester. Are those the signs he gave me, or is he just friendly and am I delusional 😂? Also, because I am a very shy girl so what are good ways to drop hints or flirt?
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guy i used to have a huge mega crush on... those feelings kind of subdued. prom was coming up, i asked him he agreed. this past weekend was really really fun. i had a great time...we went to an arcade for the day activity and we got to know eachother really well to the point that i was really comfortable with him, its kind of weird how comfortable we became in a matter of a few hours. then he insisted on driving to my house to pick me up for pics and dinner, which is while away from my school. he bought me a corsage he was really gentlemanike he was just overall very sweet. during the dance a lot of ppl came up to us and said how nice I looked and stuff. he just smiled and everything and introduced me to his friends and acquaintances. it all seemed good. today in class though he was overtly obnoxious did not say a word to me...and overall was very very weird. i wonder if someone asked him if we were dating and then he got upset...but even if someone did who cares...you shouldn't be cold just because of that. my feelings for him have kind of come back. not as much as before at all. but i know him so much better now I dont know why we cant just be friends for the rest of the year. what do you guys think?
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I had a crush on this guy for like 5-6 months who used to come in my tution. He used to go for like private classes in my tution so many times i did not see him for like days and days. But when our exams were around the corner he also started coming in batches. Thereon we had some conversation and some moments i would call them moments because in my mind i thought they were. Like this one time he sent me a link for an exam application and all so yeah. Then one day he replied to my story on Instagram and there we started talking and all. All of this was very low-key nothing too much. So after the exams got over he posted a story and i replied to it and he stared flirting with me . It was unexpected because suddenly he started flirting with me but all my friends told me not to higher my expectations. But in the next few days everything happened and shouldn't have. He confessed to me saying he also liked me and all and he also has a crush on me since he has been coming in batches to study. I was very happy like really because my crush likes me back who wouldn't be right ? My parents are orthodox and they don't support talking and hanging out with boys. One time my crush asked me that can we call i had to sadly refuse him saying my parents will come to know and i don't want to put you and me in trouble. To hangout with him i made a plan saying my friends and i are going to mall because obviously my mom would not allow me to go alone with you then you can join me later and my friends will hangout separately and we can go our own way. Initially he agreed to the plan but one day before we had to go he said that he is going out of station and he ain't coming. I was ok with it because what we can do right but then I saw his snapchat location and he was still in town. I was kind hurted i know i know i have no right to be hurt because we weren't exclusive but he lied to me. Intially he was all exacted to hangout with me and then he lied because he didn't wanna come. Now one day i asked him if he wants to call because see my mum went out for like a couple of hours so i thought we can talk on phone for that time and also he asked before if we can talk on call and i had to refuse so i asked him so he agreed. He told me that before calling him i should text him before so i did and he didn't reply for like straight 3-4 hours. one of my friends is following him on Instagram she told me that he is out with his cousins and family and he posted pictures on his story. My crush hided his story from me because I was not able to see any story. I unsended that text of me asking can i call you. I was very hurt by now because why was he lying again and again. If he could have told me that YK i am out with my friends or whatever rn i can't call you rn that would have been so much better rather than hiding shit from me. Now i know you may think that we are not in relationship but still i was upfront about him to everything and he just lied to me again and again. I started doubting like wether he really likes me or not or all of this is just you know fun and all for him because I really really liked him. So i confronted him and asked him all about this that why did you do that yesterday and told him i am feeling like a fool rn that you did this i mean i like you man and you say you do too but I dont think so. So yeah i texted him all this. To which he responded that he knew i texted him and he has the notification saver app and all he said that he slept that's why he was not able to reply and all. He further said that he likes me but we don't vibe together and also that my parents are very strict and we barely talk with eachother. The amount of times i have texted him is insane and he has not replied to me is insane and he was saying that we don't vibe together and all. We talked for like 10 days maximum and he was like what do we talk about in a day and i don't know what to say to you what to talk about. He didn't give us time to talk much and vibe and all so how can he say that ? I said that we should give it another chance YK and also moreover it's been only 10 days but he simply denied that no i can't it will all be forced and it should come naturally.. So now i am here heartbroken and shit because I was so happy that he likes me and all a while ago everything was sunshine and rainbows and suddenly everything went downhill. A very big rant but yeah. So what do you guys think like is it my fault that YK my parents are strict and all. See i agree with that completely but i did try also to find ways for us to hangout and get to know each other very well like when I went to mall with my friends and when I asked him if we can talk on call. But both times he was the one who ruined it. Some parents are chill some are not. But i did try to make things work. I feel so hopeless and sad rn. He said to me that he likes me more than I like him but when I asked him to give this another shot he totally said no. I am doubting him because if he really liked me also claimed that he likes me more than i like him then he wouldn't have lied to me and done all this with me. Then what happened is also very bizzare. He said that we should end all of this and move on because we are not meant to be. Then i unfollowed him on all socials like Snapchat Spotify and Instagram but he BLOCKED ME on all of them. And also all of my friends and my mother and sister. Bro- you were the one who ruined everything and you are acting as if it was my fault. And how did he find Instagram ID of my mom and sister God knows but yeah now i am blocked. And even on Spotify who blocks on Spotify 😭 Guys was all this my fault that my parents are strict and all or was his fault that he lied to me 2 times about what was really going on ? And why did he block me like boy really what did i do ?? ( This post may have a lot of grammatical errors and alot of typos so please bear it with me i have written all this in a rush )
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Heyo! So yea, basically I (16m) have a crush on this girl (17f) in my class. I've talked to her a little, like we've done a little bit of like group project work together, but not a whole lot of just friendly getting-to-know-you kinda talk, farthest I've gotten is one time she awkwardly pointed at a book on my desk and gave me a thumbs up once, shes overheard me say dumb shit to my friends and laughed, and the other day I had a funny video on my computer and we were watching it and then she helped me play scribble.io (we sit next to each other in one class as of like a week ago) So, yea. Any advice is welcome, thanks for reading if you did cc:
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So I think this is so weird but hear me out. I started thinking that maybe I do to much. Maybe I should stop flirting with this girl who doesn’t seem to see me the same way I see her. Remind you I’ve been kind of love bombing her since last year in June btw when I first fell in love with her. Anyways recently I stopped, I tried to give her own space and stopped sacrificing my own well-being for her(for example: a few weeks ago we had a fun day at school and I saw her being by herself but then I saw my other friend and hung out only with her for the whole day. I felt bad but the thing is is that my crush doesn’t talk to much and I wanted a fun day not caring about anything.But you see… as soon as I stopped she started being more open with me. Like I asked her a month or two ago about being my date to prom. She said yes but, that she wasn’t sure she was going to go. I kept kinda pushing her to go w/ me. But eventually I told myself that it was not rght for me to do that. Now she’s like “are you going to prom still” and like asking “are you going to do anything on the 27th”, remind you she has never asked me out b4 and it’s honestly so annoying and I can’t tell if she’s into me or not. Ughhh. I’m not going to do anything yet bc I honestly did my best to “rizz” her up but she didn’t reciprocate my feelings and I’m honestly tired of trying. If she wants something, anything more than a friendship she has to say it.
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This is very embarrassing to speak of, but like... I sometimes feel so warm and like I think of my crush... I imagined a whole deep scenario and I've had those imaginative thoughts for a bit now, but they just struck again tonight and I know it's dirty or weird, how do I stop imagining that or more importantly what do I even do about them. I like to think of him in the cute wholesome manner I always do, he's adorable so it's easy, these thoughts are kind of like really embarrassing for me, imagine I talk to him and those thoughts happen? Yikes, I'd have to leave or I'd act stupid, if he'd ask what's wrong I'd just say "oh yeah I'm having suggestive thoughts😋" no! Ew!.. I just don't know man
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So she thought I just wanted to hangout despite me mentioning going out and "date" multiple times. And she's not interested in a relationship rn. Kind of disappointed because we basically had a date planned that I was excited for but now I have more gym motivation I guess.
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I was just about to talk to her. I was fully ready to go up and strike up a conversation. She wasn’t there the rest of the week. Then it was a week vacation, and today she wasn’t there either. I haven’t seen her since and I have no idea what happened. Maybe I haven’t been able to recognize her, and I’m a little afraid that if so, I won’t like her in a different outfit because I’ve never talked to her. TL;DR: I was about to talk to my crush but I haven’t seen her since.
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I will eventually end up telling him how I feel. It is so difficult to hold it in these days, and I am just looking for the timing. He will give me sweet and kind rejection. He is going to be happy and successful in his life because he is such a smart and sweet person. He will be with someone as sweet and beautiful as he is and I will end up watching. Hope my time comes too. Need to work on myself more.
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obligatory warning: sorry for any grammatical or writing errors since english isn't my native language, and it's pretty late here so i'm kinda sleepy rn was having an argument with my crush today because some of her friends and her older brother hates me for some reason, and i ended up saying "look, being completely honest with you: i don't think we are doing great so maybe it's time we go our separate ways, and by the look of things it seems that you don't even care about it anymore and being completely honest i can't really judge you from not wanting to be my friend anymore" (i assumed she didn't want to talk to me or liked me cuz it's not really rare that we have arguments) and then she said "no, i think you are misunderstanding things. that's the exact opposite of what i want. what i really want is that we get closer to each other." and tbh i don't really know what to do with that information, since it's the first time someone says that to me so i don't really know how to interpret it.
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So I have a crush on this girl in my class and I sometime would catch her glancing at me in class and I would too and one day we played uno together in class with her friend and we had a fun time we both was playful with each other Then one day the teacher moved our seats and she moved her behind me and from that day it felt like everything clicked me and her had many if the same interest and we both had a great conversations and some days she would move in closer to me when we would answer questions together I gave her compliments but not to many I stared into her eyes and was checking her out but not for a long time and I tried touching her hand subtly to look at her nails and she didn’t even move her hands back and for that whole week we clicked she would wave at me some days and playfully hit my book bag and say “your just mad I beat you at uno” we both had great vibes Then coming near to the end of the week she kinda stopped doing those things she’s single by the way and with me I try not to seem desperate chasing a girl but she followed me on instagram and added me to her close friend list and I also did the same to her Then over spring back I replied to her story which led to a conversation from her from Sunday to Tuesday we didn’t text a lot I only sent her like 3-5 text over the span of those days because I was working but I made her laugh and she was responding with the same energy I was then I waited to Saturday to reply to one of her story again and told her I need my uno rematch and she said I’ll get it once the opportunity presents itself and I was like IDK I’m about to graduate and may never see you again and then she text me and said oh no you’ll see me I’m getting that rematch an she said something about hunting me down but this time I tried flirting with her after the conversation got deeper and she was laughing again then I called her freaky in a playful way and she text back saying “smhh I ain’t freaky your just bad with words✋” and I told her my fault for saying that and that I knew she wasn’t like that because I’m not like that either and she left me on delivered When spring back ended on Monday today we got new seats in class and she sits at another desks beside me in a diagonal way and the whole time we would glance at each but we didn’t say a word to each other the whole class time it felt kinda awkward I just need help on what to do next I’m very interested in this girl because she doesn’t act like these other girls around me and she’s also very attractive
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So there is this girl in My school, she goes one year down from me and i want to talk to her and ask her name but i don't know how to introduce myself without being wierd, most of the time she isnt alone si it's very dificult, i wanna find a moment and just talk to her
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I (F15) have a crush on a cute senior (M17) while I'm still a freshman, and we're in some of the same classes/clubs, and we've become friends over the past few months. I know this is probably just hormones and shit but he's really kind to me, and we genuinely do have a fun time together when we hang out in school. We hang out over call and just play some lighthearted games on weekends, and we just hung out for several days on a trip with other friends and I think I developed feelings and it's messing with me. I know he has no gf (if that matters at all)- I know like I'm overthinking this and way over my head. I'd love to be in a platonic, nonsexual relationship with him cause he's really fun to hang around with, but also age difference and the fact that he's going to college is something my head knows that I shouldn't deal with. Any advice to get rid of these feelings but also not ruin the friendship? Or should I speak up? TLDR; got a crush on a senior two years older who's going to college in 12 weeks and I wish I could get in a relationship but I know it's not gonna happen- how do I deal with feelings without jinxing the friendship and maybe some tips on how to stay in touch to keep being friends?
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The girl I posted about a couple weeks ago started talking to my roommate and now they're dating. Not feeling great and I don't want to go home anymore because I've come home a couple times to hear them doing stuff in the bedroom.
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She's absolutely amazing and I have no idea if we will ever end up together. I haven't ever felt this way before about someone. It's magical yet painful. It's magical because it's the most beautiful feeling on earth. It's painful because I don't think she'll ever feel the same way about me and I don't know if we'll ever end up together. She's beautiful, intelligent, caring, and has a great sense of humour. She's amazing. I don't know when or if I'll get to meet with her next. I can only hope I get to spend more time with her. Even if we never end up together, I wish her all the happiness on earth. She deserves everything good.
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So, there's this guy in one of my classes I've had a crush on for about a month or so now, and last week I decided to ask him if he wanted to hang out, outside of school. He said yes. On our hang out, we bonded a lot more and there were some moments where I wondered if he likes me back, such as us sharing a drink, him cracking jokes, him smiling the whole time, him telling me a lot about himself, him kind of flexing about some of his achievements, and more. I've picked on little things in class too, like how he'd ask for my opinion on the things we're assigned to do in our groups or him joking. With the post, it seems like he totally has a crush on me, but I don't know if he's being friendly or just sees me as a friend. He sometimes takes a while to text me back, and doesn't always try to talk to me, and some of this could be interpreted as friends and maybe he thought the hang out wasn't a date. I thought it was. How do I progress? I'd like him to ask me out next time, he said he had fun this time, but it has been me making the moves first usually like texting him or asking him out. Any advice? And do you think he actually likes me, or just sees me as a friend? Am I looking too much into it?
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I like this girl in one of my classes and I want to talk to her before the school year ends, which is in a little over a month, but I have no idea what I would say. I also always chicken out and get too nervous to go up to her. What makes it even harder is my friends always get in my way and I cant really get to her alone.
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The other day I went to an amusement park with the girl I like (for privacy sake I’ll call her Jane). It was originally supposed to be for a class trip, and I had invited her along, however my class cancelled due to the prices. We decided to go nevertheless, just the two of us. It was a three hour drive from where we live, so we had to leave at 6am; which meant I only ended up getting around 5-6 hours of sleep the night before. I was wide awake though, and the drive there was easy. We talked for a bit, but for the most part I just listened to music while she tried to get some sleep. When we got there around 9:30 we were greeted by a park employee who took our photo and popped the question, “I have to ask, are you two dating?” I shook my head. I was too caught off guard to notice Jane’s reaction. Was not expecting such a question to just come out of nowhere. It didn’t seem to have any effect though. It didn’t make things awkward, or at least I hope it didn’t on her behalf. Fast forward, we rode a few rides and then while waiting for another we ran into my friend Katie from work who’d been wanting to meet Jane. She introduced herself and then exclaimed to her friends that, “Guys, this is (OP)’s little girlfriend, Jane.” I corrected her, Jane didn’t really react to her comment or say anything of it. A minute later Katie gave me a side eyed smirk and said aloud, “You were right, she is pretty.” Again, I didn’t make anything out of Jane’s reaction, not that I was paying attention to it, but I nodded to what she had said. Much like the photographer, the comments didn’t have any effect on myself. It didn’t make things awkward, and I quickly forgot about them. You ever wish you could know what someone was thinking? Cause I’d really kill to know what Jane was thinking at the time. Maybe it’s best I don’t know. If it made things awkward for her I’d probably just feel bad. That was only like the first two hours though. The rest of the day just got better and better. We got lunch, then shared some dippin dots (you would too if you saw the prices). Afterwards we walked around the park so our food could digest; I’d say we did that for like an hour considering how often we ended up sitting in shade. We were able to ride a bunch of rides throughout the day, and then eventually we made the commitment to a 2 hour wait line. It was hard, but we pushed through it and were able to keep ourselves somewhat entertained. We weren’t supposed to bring loose items so she left all her stuff in a locker, so I let her entertain herself with whatever she could find on my phone. The wait was worth it though since we got the front seat. One ride later and we ended up leaving around 7pm. I had been yawning approximately every ten minutes throughout the day so she had offered to drive if I needed her to. I took her up on the offer so I could get some rest, but I really only planned on letting her drive like an hour or so. I had no luck at sleeping. We stopped for Bojangles about an hour in to the drive home and ate in a comfortable silence. I told her I could drive the rest of the way but she insisted I get some rest, so I did. I told her to wake me up if she ever wanted to switch. And I’ll never forget, there was this one moment while I was resting my head against the center console. I had been trying to sleep but I just couldn’t, so I opened my eyes and just kind of looked up at her as she was driving. I remember all I could think was that this was what I wanted. I want to be next to her all the time. I felt so comfortable right there and I’ve always felt this comfortable when I’m with her. Something about her presence in that moment just hit me. And after that moment I slept the rest of the ride home. She never bothered to wake me up so we could switch. She just let me sleep. Maybe I fell in love with her in that moment, who knows, but my heart aches to feel that sense of comfort again, and that’s all I know for sure.
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Ok so I (15f), liked this guy (15m) in 1st grade. He was my first crush that I remember and he was always really sweet to me and VERY attractive but I left the school in 2nd grade and hadn’t seen him since. I went to a party with a bunch of kids from the school because I did keep in touch with some of them. The guy was there and just as handsome and sweet as i remember. Apparently he moved to Europe after middle school and was back for the party because he and his family are moving back here this summer! I was able to talk to him at the party a bunch but the music was so loud I barely heard anything. After the party, I DM’d him on instagram and we didn’t talk much but I was somehow forming a crush on him again. This morning he asked for my Snapchat and that was kind of a sign that he liked me at least a little. He snapped me back a few hours ago and I couldn’t believe he snapped his face (snapping your face isn’t actually a big deal but seeing his face was lol) and he looked even better then I remembered. So anyway, I’m wondering whether you guys think he actually likes me or he’s just being nice? Also, how do I go about keeping the conversation going, because in Snapchat, it’s almost awkward to have a conversation.
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Ok so I (15f), liked this guy (15m) in 1st grade. He was my first crush that I remember and he was always really sweet to me and VERY attractive but I left the school in 2nd grade and hadn’t seen him since. I went to a party with a bunch of kids from the school because I did keep in touch with some of them. The guy was there and just as handsome and sweet as i remember. Apparently he moved to Europe after middle school and was back for the party because he and his family are moving back here this summer! I was able to talk to him at the party a bunch but the music was so loud I barely heard anything. After the party, I DM’d him on instagram and we didn’t talk much but I was somehow forming a crush on him again. This morning he asked for my Snapchat and that was kind of a sign that he liked me at least a little. He snapped me back a few hours ago and I couldn’t believe he snapped his face (snapping your face isn’t actually a big deal but seeing his face was lol) and he looked even better then I remembered. So anyway, I’m wondering whether you guys think he actually likes me or he’s just being nice? Also, how do I go about keeping the conversation going, because in Snapchat, it’s almost awkward to have a conversation.
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this boy and i started talking about two months ago. we immediately had a strong connection, had a ton of similar hobbies and a near identical personality. we made it very obvious we both liked each other. we would always talk to each other like a normal dating couple would even though we weren't official. eventually, about a month or so in, he asked me to make it official and i obviously said yes (as i really liked him as a person and really cared about him and everything). literally a few days later he broke it off stating he wasn't ready for a relationship. im not one to get angry or upset over things like that, especially with people who i really care about, so i tried to not let it bother me. i knew he had to do whatever he thought was right for him, and i respected that. while we didn't talk for a few days, i eventually tried to help build the bridge again (by being how i usually was with him during the first few weeks, joking, etc.). he seemingly got comfortable with it all again, however maybe a bit too comfortable. he made it seem as if he was still really into me (like he did during the first few weeks, always going on about how pretty i was and how much he liked things about me, etc.). things then got weirder. he wanted to take things to a "dirtier" level. i didn't want that at all, even if i was actually in a relationship with him. i never spoke "dirty" to him prior to this, so it isn't like it was normal for us. i expressed my discomfort with it, and it immediately seemed like he was upset or something. maybe he wasn't, but it surely seemed like he was. moving forward a little bit, i continued to try and talk to him like normal. he continued to be flirtatious, and ill admit, i was a little flirty back, but nothing excessive. literally out of no where he turned a cold shoulder to me. it seemed like the conversation entirely depended on me or else it would just fall and we wouldn't talk. that's what happened as i didn't have the energy to force words out of him. so basically at that point i was 99% sure he had just decided to move on to another girl because why else out of literally no where would he start acting like he didn't even know me? it was really strange especially because not even two days earlier he had been his flirtatious self with me. i didn't and still don't understand. anyways, a few days later i decided to unadd him on snap (what we mainly spoke on). honestly it was petty of me. i just didn't want to see his name there anymore and be reminded every time i saw his name that i was being dropped most likely. before i unadded him i told him some lame excuse and if he ever felt like talking to dm me on instagram. it's been a few days, and like i expected, he hasn't dmed me. i feel happy that we aren't talking and that im trying to move on from whatever we had about 75% of the time. the other 15% of the time is me sulking about how he could potentially be treating someone else the same way he did me. i honestly doubt much of this made sense as i am not that good at writing so forgive me for that. but yeah ig there isn't much for me to do. i miss him. i miss what him and i had during the first few weeks of knowing each other because honestly during those weeks talking to him made me the happiest person on earth. but it's whatever. im trying not to be bothered by it or feel anger towards him because i shouldn't and i still really care about him and hope he's always alright. but yeah that's it idk what the point of this was
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:p
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im straight and have never had a crush on a girl before.. but i dont know if i like her that way or as a friend but i feel so happy around her, not like how i feel with my other friends. she’s bisexual and likes our other friend idk what to do
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I texted him and said sorry if me liking him made him uncomfortable, and he said meh, it’s whatever, he’s trying to figure some things out before anything (by ‘anything’ I’m assuming he means getting into a relationship) and then said hopefully you don’t take it the wrong way. I don’t understand what he means by that but it feels pretty clear to me that I should just try and move on and give up on anything happening.
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So today I heard a rumor that my crush has a girlfriend. But this rumor was never confirmed because it was left off with I think. But in my interactions with my crush it feels weird. It feels like they want my attention. I remember once they looked behind them making sure I was paying attention. When they see me looking at them they smile. And sometimes I notice them staring at me when I’m talking to my friends. Even sometimes when I’m not with my friends. Today I was in gym and I as I was getting onto the bleachers I noticed he was sitting next to my friend who I sit next to a lot. I sat somewhere else and he moved to a place where we could see me. I even noticed him glance at me(maybe my vision poor). I thought maybe they wanted to sit next to a friend but the person I saw him sit next to I’ve never seen them hangout or even talk to each other. I thought maybe he was following that friend and wanted to talk to her. But a few minutes later I saw her move and came and sat near me. I was confused. I’ve also had time where he has waited for me and I he once caught me looking at him and his face turn red. I’m really confused about him and I want to confess soon. Does he like me cause it seems like it to me.
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SO I like this guy that basically half our grade likes because he'sreally so sweet and reaally good looking but he's reserved and dry asf. He's pretty emotionally detached but he has a lot of morality which I like about him. So my ways of flirting are as follows I zipped his friend's bag up asked his friend's questions made eye contact followed him with my spam and main etc. We had three convos he started two and he liked my posts views my stories held eye contact etc etc. Well I had my friend ask something to get a better and she told him someone liked him. Since hes crude he lied about being taken first whcih, he literally admitted to her earlier that he was single. After a while he randomly said wait i have a guess and said "this is gonna be weird if im wrong" AND GUESSED ME!!! Remember a LOT of girls like him but idk if all i did was really THAT obvious. She told him e was wrong and he was like "what did she say about me etc etc" I avoided eye contact after that for two says and today I peeked over a few times and caught him looking once maybe?! I dont know what he thinks about me and how to go about this. HELP!!!
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I followed a guy I like on insta and he followed me back. He and I have known each other since we were little because we have gone to the same church but we’ve only had one on one conversations a few times, but not too long ago (like a week ago) he came up to me and we had a good conversation. Would it be weird to dm him? What would be a good thing to say without sounding awkward or creepy? Like should I say hey or should I have a topic in mind? Any ideas? Thanks
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About a month or two ago, we were choosing our classes for next school year. I was going to ask the teacher something, (she sits really close to her desk) and she asked me which math class I was going to take. I told her I wasn’t sure, but she said she wanted to take algebra. We are both smart, and have A’s and B’s in advanced classes. We are both in advanced math class and he also has an algebra class. She might have wanted to know if I chose algebra so we could be in the same math class. I chose algebra because I wanted to (and maybe a little cause of her <3)
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today i was telling her this guy who has a crush on me said something that made me a bit uncomfy, and she says if he touches you i’m beating his ass so i told her i wouldn’t let her because she’s a straight A student and fighting someone would ruin her perfect transcript and stuff and she says fuck my future if he touches you were fighting !!! 🤭🤭 we’re both girls btw if this was confusing
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Hype me up!
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Title! I did this a few weeks ago, and it was fun! So, I'm doin it again because I'm bored. But yeah! I'll also try to respond as quickly as possible, but might have late responses due to time zone differences.
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Im not sure, but it seems like she looks at me and (not in a weird way) I am looking at her and she notices me and looks back at something else. Ive also seen her face is more flushed or red then usual.
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we currently live a hundred miles apart. we would check each other often and catch up. she already knew long time ago that I used to have a crush on her; and I remember confessing again, and again. Finally, I tried to ask her out. And told her I will be back home soon. she said she is not ready and wanted us to be friends. I was hurt, I thought that was a lowkey rejection, but isn’t it? I just agreed and am glad we are okay. The thing is the more we talk, the more I get attached. She would tell me about other guys trying to catch her, but she would let me know that she is not interested with them. I thought that was kinda cute, at least, she’s honest with me. I see myself falling in love with her everyday, but I don’t want to put her in a complicated situation. the deeper (my love for her) it grows, the more I feel the pain, The pain of not being able to make her mine. Right now, we are still friends. And I guess that is okay. What should I do now? We are getting old It would be nice to be someone’s someone…
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So there’s this guy I’m into (23M) and I (23F) don’t know if he is into me or not so I’m just gonna lay everything out and let you guys interpret it because he’s hard to read 😂 First of all, we’ve known each other since September. We’re both in teachers college. We’ve been put in a few group projects together and have become pretty close friends. However, we don’t talk all the time. He reacts to my BeReals quite often and has flirted with me a little bit in the comments of my BeReals. He had a bunch of people over from the Ed program so I went to his house. When I was there, he helped me play pool (helped guide my stick from the back) and he made me play him a song on the piano and said I was really good. He also commented on my new glasses saying how nice they look on me. It seems like we just have these little flirty moments but it’s hard to tell what he is thinking. I initiated a few text conversations as I haven’t seen him in a few weeks but he’s really bad at texting back. I can’t tell if he’s just a bad texter or just not into me 😂 please help
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I love to go in the caf where he always is during the breaks to watch him with my friend, and he always notices me too. But the problem is I do want to start talking to him but he seems to avoid me? And he's either with his friends or has airpods and it annoys me cause I feel it'll go nowhere. It's hard to find a moment where he's free from people and music lol (even in our bus). Still don't know if he likes me or just thinks I'm a weirdo. But then he was already staring at me when I either avoided his eyes or just didn't know he actually looked at me :/ idk
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It's kind of a long story, but a few weeks ago, there was a school performance. Both me (15F) and my crush (16M) are on the backstage team (I'm sound, he's lights so we're quite close and often hang out at the interval) and are really close friends. I was told there was nothing really I could do to help (long story, but the reason why this is doesn't really matter), so I went and sat at the edge of the sound stage, feeling a little depressed. My crush must've seen me, and came to sit with me. After he saw how sad I looked, he put his arm around my shoulder. At first, I was a little hesitant but he ended up pulling me in to lean against his shoulder. We talked a little, and I opened up to him quite a bit. He told me that he cares about me and I saw him looking down at me quite a few times with a smile (I think, I never looked up at him but I wish I had). At some point, he started stroking the shoulder he had put his arm around. We stayed like this for a good fifteen minutes, the only thing that stopped it really was that the performance was about to start. tl;dr: I was sad, he put his arm around my shoulder and pulled me in so I was leaning into you and told me that he cares about me, and at some point started stroking my shoulder
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I'm aroace but now I'm not sure anymore. I met a guy a while ago and we just clicked. We have so much things in common that I feel like he's my twin. He acts like me, same interests as me, same hobbies too. When I'm around him I feel like I'm in heaven and I get butterflies. He has never done a single thing wrong. He's the sweetest, though he doesn't like to admit it. He is somehow always there for me at the right time too and so this is why our friendship feels magical to me. He's just always here for me and is fun to talk too and makes me laugh all the time. But the haunting fact I realize I've developed a crush. My first crush. What hurts is I feel like I don't deserve him. And that's what pushes me away from him. I don't think he'd love someone like me back.
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i was talking with my friend (who is also my crush) this morning and i keep going over our conversation. we were talking about me going to this women's ministry thing with our church and i said that there were no women my age there. and then he said that there's only one woman that's my age and i asked who it was. he said her name but i don't know who she is. and then he said that she sits all the way in the back. and i asked if she is the one that sits next to him and he said yes. but then he questioned why i said it the way i did, as if she can't sit next to him. i didn't answer the question i think i just forgot about it and asked if she is his friend. he said yes and then said that he's not dating anyone, just flowing (whatever that means). i said ok. now i feel bad because im thinking maybe i should've explained myself. i didn't mean it in that way or think anything of them sitting by each other. i just didn't know her but i knew he sat next to a girl so i was basically seeing if that was her. hours have passed but it still bothers me that maybe he thinks i am crazy or something. he is not my boyfriend so i don't feel possessive or jealous over him. i was just curious. should i text him to explain, or should i just forget about it? we continued talking and that was basically the end of that conversation. everything else went smoothly as normal. but since then it's just been on my mind that i didn't make it clear. maybe he thinks i am a jealous type now and that bothers me... even though i am a jealous type. but that's why i will stay single.
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Every time I think about him, my heart feels like it's about to burst with happiness. His cute smile, the way his hair falls just perfectly, and the way it sounds when he laughs - it's all just perfect. Today, when we called and I heard his voice and his laugh, I felt a warmth spread through my chest that I can't even describe. It's like his energy and happiness are contagious, and just hearing him talk can instantly brighten my day. Even just thinking about him now, I can't help but smile and feel grateful that he's in my life. I know I may sound VERY biased (he even says so himself, that I'm heavily biased) , but to me, he truly is the cutest thing ever. From the way he dresses to the way he talks, everything about him just screams adorable. And even when he's not trying to be cute, he just has this natural charm that's impossible to resist. But above all, what makes him truly special to me is just how good of a person he is. He's always there to listen, to support, and to make me feel loved, even on my worst days. He never judges or criticizes, but instead encourages and uplifts me in everything I do. And that's something that's incredibly rare and special, especially in a world where people can often be selfish and unkind. So to me, he's not just cute or charming – he's the best person I know. And every moment we spend together, whether it's talking on the phone or just being in each other's company, feels like a gift. I know I'm lucky to have him in my life, and I'll always cherish him and the love we share.
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Ok so the church i go at hosts every Sunday this,i can say q&a were they vring ppl from allover the world.After the talking is done we can stay until 8 there to play al sort of sports.This girl i really like was a mutual friend with my gay friend (im not transphobic but its for context).The 3 if us really like taking walks and chatting,so we jumped some fences to get to a river.As we got there we started talking and laughing,the usual.The subject of crushers came and the girl sayd that me and my friend look good together.The common friend sayd its the same for me and her and she started blushing and punching him.Thats the only sign I have she might like me back.There arr many more little signs but its usually weird because,for example:she calls me buff even tho i always wear hobbies and im scrawny as hell.If anyone hase any advice PLEASE let me know.And btw we have common music taste,both live anime and walks.
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So her (f18) and me (m18) have been very close friends since the start of the year and have gone out to do stuff together multiple times over the span of the last year (see 1 or 2 in previous posts). Suddenly today when we were walking to the train station from college we were talking about school stuff and what we were planning to do in the upcoming holiday from college when she suddenly got a bit shy and told me that she was planning on going to a Hockey Match in 2 months and didn't really know who to bring but her parents (it was a birthday present from her parents), she suddenly looked up to me and said: "Would you like to go with me to the Hockey Match, since well..." and I just responded with a "Yes that sounds like fun!". (the weirdest thing was that she is never shy at all but all of a sudden she was acting shy when asking this) She then tried to tell me that she'll pay for my ticket and that I dont have to worry about anything but I kindly said she doesn't have to since it was meant as her birthday present. She did insist that she would pay my tickets so eventually we made a compromise that I would buy her a gift (which I had promised a week ago already) and in return she would pay my tickets. Now we keep messaging each other funny memes, images, what we're up to and continue to chat and sorta plan out the day. tl;dr, My crush invites me over to a hockey match and I said I'd love to go with her.
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So there’s this guy who I’ve never exchanged a word with (literally have never talked to him all year) but occasionally I’ll see him looking at me and then quickly looking down/away. HOWEVER, recently he has been texting me a lot. Like he texts me asking about how many day was and about other things. He also always states how he really likes talking to me and how we should talk more in person etc. WTF IS GOING ON
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“so i work in a coffee shop and since someone at my workplace left there’s sometimes different ppl who come to cover for the closing shift w me. there’s a guy who’s covered w me a couple of times now. when i first met him i couldn’t bring myself to make eye contact cos i was shy but now i make eye contact w him all the time and he smiles at me and i really like working w him. he’s like very chill and has this like vibe of confidence but not in an arrogant way. i feel so sad for the days that go by and i don’t see him as crazy as that sounds. like all i think at the moment in my spare time or like in bed is scenarios of us or things that have already happened. also im pretty sure he’s at least somewhat interested in me too. he’s really nice to me and gives me extra breaks, he does cute things like he’ll be walking in front of me, open the door for me and then let me walk past first or like reassure me that i’m doing a good job. he asks me personal questions and tells me to ask him for help if i ever need it and he’ll help me if i ask or if i say something he’ll ask what i said if he was doing something else. like my heart fcking stopped cos we went to the dishwasher and he went to get some stuff out and then replaced the tray for a different one even when i said it was fine and then basically said he knew that i like it that way/ using the other tray. it doesn’t sound cute over writing but i’m telling u i was like wtf just happened. he’s reached for something and then been like ‘oh i was just flexing my height’ and there was this customer who said she loved him (?) and he was like ‘oh she must be overly nice or something’ and i said as a joke like ‘oh she’s nice huh?’ and he said he didn’t mean it like that. plus he respects my boundaries because i feel kinda weird about physical touch and i say sry when i walk past and he’s started doing the same and idk if he’s mirororing me? i ended up getting his number under the pretext of telling him the feedback for our closing shift. but we were low-key beating round the bush cos he wanted to hear the feedback and i was like ‘how should i let i know? give me ur number’ and i kinda wish he had asked me idk ?? anyways, first he accidentally sent his location 2 mins after i sent my number and when i texted him about the work feedback at almost 10pm he replied instantly. but we literally just talked about work and then he left me on read. then i text him again about something work related but i left him on delivered cos i felt awkward idk. like i don’t think i’m the only one interested but i don’t wanna come off as desperate. but genuinely all i want is to be put on shift w him and talk or whatever or know if he likes me. and now it’s too late to text. i’m like how do ppl cope not talking to someone for so long? i’m like wondering if he misses me too ?? ok missing is a bit of an exaggeration but ygm. like i want something to happen between us but i don’t wanna keep making the first move it’s kinda a pride thing. is he just waiting for me to feel comfortable idk ? do i have to ask him out? also i kinda worry he might be like this for fun or that’s how he is w everyone he works w but idk because i’ve never seen it… does he even like me lmaooo ????” so based on this i thought he liked me or was attracted to me at the very least. but then i didn’t reply to him for 5 days and i kind of fucked it up. so then he started taking days to reply to me and yh it’s my fault but then i said to him i was like ‘it sucks we’re not working together’ and all he said was like ‘oh i think we’re gonna work together soon, i think’ and it was really anticlimactic. like i think atp he’s moved on or idk he’s playing it safe or maybe he’s just a nice guy or a player. but low-key i’m kinda confused like i’m trying to reply to him within the same day but i’ve kind of mentally moved on. i still kind of want to have hope but i’m totally ok moving on or just being friends. but have i been friendzoned?
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i really like this guy in my school, he plays an instrument, is smart, kind, and also is sporty, like what more could you want in a guy?! we literally have the same personality and my friends ship us. >< today during school, i told my friend (lets call him apple) about this guy, lets call my crush lemon. lemon calls me annoying yet sweet nicknames. when i told apple about my crush, he said something about lemon liking me, this is what he said, no joke! apple: so you like lemon? i thought lemon liked you? or vice versa? he said something about liking someone... me: wait what? apple: nevermind... before spring break, i had natural brown hair, when he talked to me a bit, now 2 weeks ago, the end of spring break, i got highlights (BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER), then he started being shy and being quiet. does he like me as before? is my friend right? i really like this guy, please help!! **should i confess? i mean he still talks to me and calls me nicknames. OR should i play it safe, and just get his number?**
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I know this question is very common but I think a guy who I work with and for context he is a manager and I’m not and he has a girlfriend, I believe he has an interest in me. I can tell the difference for the most part but with him it’s different. He always waves and says hi to me but I notice he doesn’t do it to others and if he does it’s very dry. He always has enthusiasm when he says hi to me. He always makes eye contact with me and he sometimes gets awkward around me and tells me things that I know he wouldn’t tell others. Not private stuff just that his shoes got wet or that he notices I’m working at earlier times. One example I can mention is that one time he did get me a little upset and I talked to him about it and he apologized profusely, when he’s leaving he often only would say bye to me regardless of how many people are in room. Another example is when I was crying and he stood there to console me and walked me over to a more private place and continued to try and make me feel better before leaving. The thing is since I’m not around him 24/7 and I don’t know how he acts entirely with others or outside of work I can’t tell. But based on this, does he or is he being nice?
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Okay so when I started working in the new office a complicated situationship ended and it really helped me getting over the flaws of my (now) ex by comparing his das to day behavior to my colleague. This led to an INTENSE daydream/crush on my colleague (I have Adhd so intense is undermining it). I still find my crush very attractive and we definitely have some chemistry but I don’t know what to do because 1. we have an age gap (we both once talked about age not playing a role when dating) 2. I don’t know if asking him out is worth the office drama (we don’t have corporate rules) 3 I am unsure if my crush is natural 4.!! Worst of all: he is „hot“ 7/10 times, giggles with me, sends me videos etc. but he sometimes LEAVES a conversation when i am joining, doesn’t really talk to me… I do initiate our encounters 90% of the times tho what should I dooo ahhhhh
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hi everyone ,look ,i like this girl at school,we never talked,i was with her and a group friday at a school trip,she is very cute,and i want to show her interest,what can i do?
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Recently a new co-worker, joined the company. However, this co-worker can sometimes behave rather weird to me. She is single, seems to be very independent and going around relatively quiet/reserved in life. Regularly when we are in groups hanging out at work she seems more responsive to all others relative to me and even seems to ignore me somewhat (at least that's my feeling in this). I even have the impression that she might try to avoid me at times, like potentially even not entering the room when I am already there or heading out when I am talking with another colleague. She never initiates conservation with me when not organized (as in meetings/work related) Whereas she seems okay to talk, laugh, albeit reserved, and likes to surround herself briefly with others. If she sits around me (rarely) during lunch she is also relatively more quiet than with others. Yet, during regular meetings regarding work on a one-on-one basis she does responds very well to me being friendly and all. The same goes for when she does approach me by herself when having a work related question. However, she still seems to always be somewhat nervous and also starts to touch/fidget with her necklace, clothes or touching her mouth/lips and moving around her hair. Furthermore, she has the tendency to not shy away from eye contact, but only when we are alone (in groups of people she avoids it actually with me that is). I myself usually do not engage so much in eye contact, but I have had moments where we would look into eachother's eyes, sometimes not even saying much, for over more than 5 seconds (actually felt quite intense to me). I actually started to feel uncomfortable and would break it off. She has this pokerface/strained/nervous/flat facial expression during these moments. This happened already multiple times throughout the last 4 months or so. Moreover, even though I try to talk at the end of the meeting a bit on non work related topics, she seems reluctant to have a full conservation with me, though when the topic is more to do with me (previous employment etc), she does ask questions. Also, during lunch I have somewhat caught her looking at me when she was sitting a bit further away. Can someone make any sense out of this behaviour? I often wonder whether she actually fancies/crushes me or just totally dislikes me (no explicit reason, as nothing ever happened). This especially, because our relationship at work within the team seems to be the most difficult/challenging one at times literally already from day 1 when she joined the company. Can someone reflect on these observations? I understand that I can ask her, but I would rather not, because that might also be non-productive and cause even more distancing etc at work. For those that are into MBTI, I expect her to be ISTJ, whereas I am INFJ.
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Please dm me!! Other crushes welcomed!
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CONTEXT: so basically our school building is divided into 2 completely different schools. let's say school 1 is on floor 1 and school 2 is on floor 2. there's a girl i really like, but there's one problem (which starts a chain and tree of a million other problems); she goes to school 2 and I go to school 1. SITUATION: you might be wondering "what's the problem here?", well, there's a lot of strict policies, restrictions and teachers that don't let the two schools interact with each other in any way. (in the building, atleast) now, your next question is "why don't you go and talk to her outside school?". that's because i act really weird and shy around her, and that's when I meet her (met her about 2 times in the span of 6 months). onto the next suggestion and problem: "message her on social media!". i only have her instagram account, and it's private. i've requested follower access, but she is ignoring me and has not accepted it. that's quite understandable when you have photos about yourself and someone you don't even know is trying to get access to them. my last option was to send her a post mail, but i didn't have to think long before i realized her parents would see it before her, and even if they don't read it, they would suspect something. if i encode the message, it will look weird and they may see it as a threat/abuse. i also didn't want help from any of her friends or my friends because i wanted to keep this as a secret for a bit, avoid the misinformation spreading and atleast confess alone. i also noticed multiple signs of her liking me, but i don't have any pictures or anything on instagram because i don't brag about my looks, so i just think she didn't recognize me. what are your suggestions?
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1 made me suicidal. Almost did it. She didn’t like the distance that we had. 1 Just replaced me. With my friend of a friend… 1 just rejected me normally. It’s okay. 1 rejected normally too. It’s was okay as well. This new girl said ”you’ll find someone special eventually!”. i did say to her that i was hoping she was the one. She understood it. now we are just hanging around.
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Nothing really works. She makes her way to talk to and spend time with anyone, but me. I'm such a fool. We study in the same group, so next 4 years are gonna be hell, I guess. Thank you, N., but I can't no more. Bye.
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They are two best friends, been friends for years even travel together. I got caught up between them. First woman started to try to get my attention but was too shy to talk first. She is usually a very dominant woman and confident but she could not approach me. She made deep eye contact with me, every time she sees me she would stare into my eyes, she could not take her eyes off me, caught her multiple times checking me out. She tried to give me chances to talk to her first. I did one day and she was super shy but tried to keep the conversation going. I gave her a snack and she said she loved it. ​ Second woman I had to talk to her multiple times since we were on same projects, she had a hard time looking into my eyes. She would smile and act shy too and her voice changes. After I made a move on the first woman she started to show more signs of interest. She would try to be funny, lean very close towards me from the back when I am sitting for no reason, she does not do that with other people. Since we teamed up on many projects, I bought her coffee. After that every time we meet at the hallway she would stare into my eyes and does not look away and try to talk to me first. ​ I am not sure whats going on. Is the second woman flirting too? Is the first woman interested? I hate to admit it but I am interested in both of them.
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So there's this boy i had a crush on when i was 12 ( i am sixteen now) he used to sit behind me and we used to talk a lot and flirted a little then in eight grade our classes changed and he wasn't in my class anymore. I told a few friends that i have a crush on him( wrong peope) and the secret spread like a wildfire because eight graders don't really have anything else going on. So my friend told me that he knew that i like him and he still did nothing. He used to stare at me a like a lot but no convo nada. Then the lock down happened i talked to him a little on snapchat and sent him snaps like constantly and he stopped opening them suddenly and its like he cut me off. I know this is incredibly stupid thing to think about right now but it just struck me and i keep thinking back to all those times and i feel so stupid like he has some kind of hold over me when we weren't even dating to begin with. I keep wanting to delete his number or remove him from my snapchat but i just cant bring myself to do it. Its not like i am completely hung up i think about him like once a month but it just bothers me soo much like am i too clingy or is there a quality about me that is so worse. Feel free to talk some sense into me.
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anyone else feel they’re losing feeling after they start liking you back?
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Hey guys! So, I have this hallway crush and I followed him on Instagram. I also talked to him one time in school and he asked me a lot of questions about myself but that was it. We haven't really interacted face to face after that. My friends convinced me to text him on insta so I did. I just asked how he was and if he remembered me. He replied and we had a pretty good chat. He even sent me pictures of himself and asked me for pics of me. But lately he takes about a day to respond. And I feel like I made it pretty obvious that I like him and want to get to know him. Even though I didn't explicitly say that. Do you guys think I'm just an option? I feel if he liked me, even if he were busy, he'd make time to text me back. And I feel like since I made it obvious that I like him, if he also felt the same way he would ask me to hang out in person or at least text me more you know. What do ya'll think? Should I stop texting him? Should I ask him why he takes that long? Should I be upfront and tell him that I want to get to know him more and if he feels the same? Or am I taking things too fast and expecting too much out of someone who I guess barely knows me? Should I just move on and not tell him anything?
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ig that’s the end of the story 😭 Anyway, thank you guys for the past few months! I’ll be deleting my account very soon and maybe we’ll see each other again one day! Good luck with ur crushes!
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hey everyone! so I (20M) have noticed that I'm beginning to develop feelings for my co-worker (20F). We're extremely friendly with each other, and I am not exaggerating when I tell you that she is one of the sweetest people I have ever known. We don't have a ton in common, but her welcoming smile, warm and grounding presence, and kind-hearted nature are what I find most attractive about her. Whenever we have shifts together, we end up spending a decent amount of time in each other's company. Yesterday, something just clicked in me when I did her a small favour, and she said, "Thank you for all your help, and also for [the favour]!" It was a small thing, but I found it really attractive. Here's the thing, I am hesitant to pursue anything with her for a few reasons: 1) I have some mental health issues that have caused me to be toxic in previous relationships. I've done a lot of work on myself since my last relationship, but I'm still scared that I might subconsciously engage in these behaviours again. 2) She is one of the sweetest and most pure-hearted people I've ever met. I would never forgive myself if I ever did anything to hurt her. Of course, I would never intentionally hurt her, but again, I'm scared because of how I used to be. 3) Being completely honest, she is way out of my league. She's very, very beautiful, and I've been dealing with hair loss since 10th grade, so yeah. 4) Saved the most obvious for last, but we're co-workers in the same department. If something did happen between us and it went south, then things would be awkward and unpleasant for the both of us. I'm worried it would even be that way if she rejected me (I'm not bad at handling rejections, I just don't know how she would feel working and interacting with a guy whose feelings she doesn't reciprocate). I don't want to make a mess of things, but I acknowledge that these feelings are there. How would you recommend moving forward in this situation?
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I like a girl who lives off campus and no longer shares any classes with me. We spoke a few times last semester but now summer is almost here and I'm spiraling. I have her on Instagram but I don't know what to say. :(
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Person 1: I laugh a lot when I’m around her (even if her jokes are a bit mid) I always get cheered up around her I think about her all the time I get mad if someone says bad stuff about her I get nervous around her I want to know her better Person 2: My heart beats extra fast when I’m around him He always manages to cheer me up I had a dream once about dating him but it ended with us deciding to be friends instead I think about him a lot I want to know him better
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So, on Wednesday; I was returning from uni with my crush. It is about 30km from the main city, and I told her I’d drop her home. We sort of talk, sometimes, and since her birthday was coming up, she told me we could go get some food and roam around, and I hesitated at first, but then I said yes. As her birthday treat we had some fries, and poutine, then we got some dessert, and we sat at the local square talking about stuff, she told me about her personal life; how her sister and her were so close, about her parents. She trusts me enough that she spilled some of her secrets with me. Since then, I haven’t talked to her; because I’ve been busy. What should I do?
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I asked him if he wanted to play then he said alr he’ll download the game n I told him to tell me when he sets it up he said ight n it’s been 3d even though at the beginning of the convo he was cool
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So I'm a 17 year old female, turning 18 in seven months. We met over 3 months ago when we both started at the same school. I confessed to him about 2 weeks ago (when I was drunk and brave enough), and - freely translated from Finnish to English - he said something along the lines, "You are a really nice person" and "I haven't thought about dating anyone for a while" (because he recently broke up with his girlfriend). And the reason someone may or may not judge is that he's 23 years old. But the thing that bothers me is that he didn't really say how he feels. He didn't say, "I like you only as a friend" or anything, but he also didn't say that he does like me. And I'm thinking that maybe he's trying to spare my feelings because I'm 5 years younger than him. He is a trustworthy person, I know who is and who isn't. I have gotten to know him in these three months, and want to learn more still. I can feel my heart beat when I think of him, I have trouble falling asleep because of the butterflies in my stomach, I crave his presence and the hugs. I'm just want to keep him in my life.
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So the story is that I met a girl online (on ome.tv) who lives quite far away from me, about a 2-hour drive. In the beginning, when we first texted, I learned a lot from various mentors like Hamza and Dre Drexler..., so I had a lot of knowledge about how to become a real man and how to flirt with pick-up lines, polarizing, etc. Initially, I replied to her stories, and then we started talking and getting to know each other. I considered myself quite humorous, so our texting was very enjoyable, and I also applied what I had learned to text her. There was a time when I felt very clear that she also had feelings for me... we even had 3-4 video calls. But after about a month since we started texting, I felt like she wasn't as enthusiastic anymore. Sometimes she took a long time to reply to my messages... As for me, I mostly initiated the conversation and messaged her every day. Sometimes I would ignore her to see if she would message me first. At first, when we still had feelings, she would message me first, but later when I tried ignoring her, she wouldn't message me first anymore. I felt like we were no longer as close as we used to be, so I decided not to message her anymore. After 4-5 days, I couldn't bear it anymore and asked, "Do you like me?" She said she used to like me but found it increasingly weird later on. When I asked what was weird, she replied that she didn't know. I ended everything with a thank you. I'm very sad that she rejected me, but what's even sadder is that I don't know what was weird about me... It could also be because she once thought I was stalking her... idk. Sorry for my broken English grammar... I am not a native speaker. Anyway, thank you guys for reading my story. After writing these down I feel very relieved. Thank you for creating this community too <3
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HOLY SHIT!!!!!! I did not think this would be happening but I confessed to them! It just like bubbles over and I had to I was like “yeah there’s this person I like and I was wondering what you think I should do”—“it’s kinda bubbling over and I really want to tell them” Then I just described my friend(the crush) and explained all the worries I had about confessing to them and how it could mess up our relationship Then they told me “CMON TELL THEM”, so then I said that I told them and basically explained how I had framed the entire conversation as the way that I told the (fake) crush I thought they were just being really oblivious (they usually are), and then I just outright told them They were acting dumb! They knew about half way through! And finally……… THEY OFFERED TO GO ON A DATE AND SEE HOW IT GOES They put my worries to rest and told me that if it goes bad it won’t negatively impact our relationship Literally on cloud 9 right now
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