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So I have had a crush on neighbor for a little bit now. I have reason to believe she may like me back. But she’s moving to Texas and her mom is really over protective because I’m 2 years older (her birthday is a day before mine). I’m not sure what to do. I have a different crush on a classmate/friend. I have no clue what to do… | Crushes |
Last year beginning of the school year I met S I had a total crush on him everyone knew my 2 friends in class H and C I had a suspicion C liked S even tho I told her at the beginning of the year I liked him and he told me he liked me he didn't wanna choose because he also liked C and he didn't wanna have a label summer break months later I ask him to be my bf 2 days before my birthday he I can't explain but he confesses he hasn't liked me he only liked me as a friend only a friend and that he said he liked me so I would protect him and defend him because he was scared of my friend group and I started sobbing going off on him yelling angry tears and a while later I wanna be friends we are now friends but I still have feelings for him and I know it's bad because him and C should be together but I still really like him and the school year starts in 2 days idk what to do because I still like him and it will be akward | Crushes |
I will hang out with my crush in a few days. We are both a lil bit introverted (she is more) and I need advices on where should we go and how should I behave and what should we do | Crushes |
“i would love to be able to call you my girlfriend” + “well i would love to be your girlfriend” = a loving relationship | Crushes |
I'm curious to hear answers from others.
I'm trying to work on this myself because I can't help but think if my crush doesnt text back for a while likes days that they are intentionally sitting by their phone just not responding even though logistically I know this is likely not the case everyone has their own stuff. | Crushes |
Mention if it is irl or over text | Crushes |
M(14) ....can my crush take the initiative?she knows that i like her and she flirts alot...can she ask me out or will I have to do it | Crushes |
I (22f) have feelings for this dude who's already seeing someone. I didn't know that when we met. We used to text quite a lot. And even when we met the time we spent seemed very date like. But its evident that he doesn't like me like that. I want to get over this feeling and I keep telling myself I he's dating but I can't seem to internalize it. Help! | Crushes |
So i've been texting with this guy since the beginning of the summer break (mid-june) and we've had amazing conversations. I was the one who texted first because i've been seeing him in school and developed a crush on him. Also i think it's probable that he's got some feelings toward me. The issue is we never met in person since we started texting and we're going back to school on September where we'll probably meet which is amazing! Except i'm a really shy person (he's not) and i really don't know how to approach him or how to behave around him.
I'm afraid to turn him off with my shyness because i've been displaying a lot of confidence through text.
Do you guys have any advice on how I should behave around him? | Crushes |
The situation with me crush is that we see each other a lot when meeting up with our friend and we share one class and some free periods in school. All of our friends say we would fit together and I didn’t even tell it anyone. I’m not really good in reading possible signs she gives me, but maybe she could actually like me because all of our friends ship us. The thing is that we talk the most with each other when hanging out with the friends and I often realize that we sticking together a lot and we stand next to each other.
Sometimes we text, mostly at the evenings/nights after we hung out and even though I text her first in many cases, she texted me first multiple times. However the last time she texted me first was on Saturday when we went to a festival. She already left and texted me when she got home that she saw us on a bouncy house, because I wore a pretty eye catching shirt. As we waited to be picked up to go home too I immediately texted her back and we chatted a bit till she didn’t answer. I assumed that she fell asleep which is very likely since it was pretty late already.
She hadn’t read some of my answers yet, but the next day she left me on delivered and today she opened my messages. She didn’t write anything back and all of this made me feel a bit upset. I mean my texts weren’t texts you would have to answer two days later because I just told her that I would be hung out the next day and shit like that. The only explanation I have is that she already told me that she would have to do a lot of school work he next day which could be why she didn’t opened the texts and when she opened the we were in school and they weren’t really necessary to be answered.
So what do you think about all this? Is it a sign that she doesn’t like me at all or am I compl overthinking? | Crushes |
My crush saved my message on Snapchat when I mentioned a trip me and my friends wanted to do in the next few years, but she hasn’t saved any other chats or messages. She doesn’t reply that quickly at all so am I reading to much into this and also why would she save it | Crushes |
I, a stupid girl, developed a crush on my friend of 10 years and I don't know why I started having feelings for him now. Back then, he was just a dumb boy doing dumb things.
But now, he's gotten so handsome and charming that everytime I glance at his face, I find myself feeling like flying through the skies. And the way his voice changed too! I used to get annoyed at his high-pitched voice, but now every time he says something it makes my stomach all weird and figgly.
My chest tightens every time he asks me how my day went, if I ate already, or if I slept early. He would always ask me if we could watch a movie together on discord (to which I undoubtedly always say yes). He would help me with school related stuff that I have difficulty with (especially math). I get angry at the fact that rather than focusing on his explanations, I lean towards more on how attractive he is because he is so smart.
He's so funny too! And he always laughs at my jokes. Yes, his laugh is also attractive. I just really want to deny all these feelings but it's too overwhelming that I have no choice but to accept it. I really, really like him and I'm head over heels for him. Which made me think that maybe he likes me too.
There is a deep love within me and I wanted to share it with him. But before I even confessed, he already found someone else, so that sucks doesn't it? Hahaha.
I'm glad he's happy right now cause I can tell the admiration he has whenever he talks about her.
On the other hand, I'm quite sad that his love for me isn't the love I felt for him.
Luckily, my feelings are slowly fading away. And although it hurt so so much, I had a fun time crushing on him.
So... i have no regrets, i guess? Hahaha | Crushes |
She said that she wants some time to think about it help what do I do now??
Is that good or bad | Crushes |
I really like this girl and my friends already try to help me by going to a poetry slam together and other things. And during these activities, we do talk, but a bit awkwardly and I think she's just as nervous as I always am. When she's talking to other people, she seems way calmer, even with people she knows just as well as me. In School, it is hard to talk to her because she is often surrounded by friends I have hardly ever spoken to and it's hard to talk to her properly. But sometimes, like today, she seems to avoid me when I'm near her. At the same time I feel like she enjoys our conversations at least a bit (for example telling me that she is surprised that although being around many strangers that day, she is still very calm).
Do I have the right to feel like this when I seem to do similar things and does someone has experience with this, either doing it yourself or experiencing it with a crush? | Crushes |
So I have a crush on this boy… One day in class, my teacher was having a discussion and she mentioned: "You know, they say some persons need to get out of their comfort zones." My friend said "Yes, People like: (crushes name) and (my name) need to get out of their comfort zones." What does it mean? He is a good friend of my crush. My crush was also in the same class when he said this. Does my friend know that my crush likes me? My friend and crush are also friends. | Crushes |
What does it mean if my friend says: People like (crushes name) and (my name) need to get out of their comfort zone? We were in class when he said this. He is a good friend of my crush. My crush was also in the same class when he said this. | Crushes |
so i (22M Argentinian) have a huge crush in one of my closes friends (22M Argentinian) and he said when i met him that he only likes girls, but some times i feel that he likes me and he never refert hisself has a straight guy again. Yesterday we had one of the most memorable nights, we stayed up till 6 listening to music and we all get drunk, play cards and watch the best super bowl presentations. in one moment he invited me to sit by his side and i rest over his chest, also he started stroking my hair when we were watching katy perry´s video clip. after all, i tuck everyones home and he was the last one of the ride, he put so deam music SO DEAM GOOD MUSIC. When he was enter is home i told him that i want to send him a song that reminded me of him, so I did. Today he responded "oh yea, i already known that song". I think that he don't get it. | Crushes |
Hey, I'm going to put this out here because I really need a different perspective, I'm a HUGE overthinker.
I'm a 15 year old female and I like my friend- also 15 yr old female.
She told me she's pan, and I ( after like 5 months of being confused ) realised and accepted that I'm bi. Thing IS, looking back I never really came out to her, but I think she probably kinda guessed? Thing is, homosexual relationships are SO CONFUSING. like..are we just friends...or...wtf is going on...
Anyway.
Some things that make me think she might like me are that I always make flower crowns in pe and she always takes then and looks after them as if they're gold crowns, but idk, maybe she just likes flowers?
And once in RE she put her leg on my lap and kinda looked at me as if to see what I'd do?
And also she was holding a white rose that she'd picked off of a rose bush near our school out to me and I was very confused and didn't know if I should take it or not and I just stood there for the longest moment and then she ran off a bit embarrassed.
And one time I was crying and she put her hand around my waist and kinda pinned me against the wall? *butterflies* and also
once (she's like an inch taller than me) I was talking to her, then I looked the other way and looked back and she was looking at my chest? And I am VERY confused?
Because she always seems so awkward when we're changing for pe, and we always kinda brush knees and sit with out legs pressed against each other? Like ALL THE TIME. Basically with our legs are tangled together.
And once i was humming a song and she started singing it with me?And she drew my eye when she thought I wasn't looking ( she's EXTREMELY good at art ) and I met her eyes and I think she blushed?
And I AM SO CONFUSED!!!! VERY MUCH CONFUSED!! BECAUSE! Because she told me about her crush on a guy, but like I also said I have a crush on a guy rn to evade her do you have a crush questions before? So? What if she's just doing that? Or like???
But also on the last day of term her friend told my friend who told me that my crush likes me and that her friends ship us two....but as that info came through 2 ppl I can't really trust it... also as its the holidays I can't see her and I'm getting even more confused..
Looking back I only talked about physical contact but we talk a lot about random deep stuff... also she started learning morse code because I know it..
Well basically my 4 concerns are
1. She said she likes a guy
2. she doesn't know I'm bi so she probably thinks we're just friends
3. Even though she texts back in detail, I nearly always text first((
4. I'm probably over analysing everything that is just normal stuff friends do...((( | Crushes |
I'm just feeling a bit hopeless about finding a partner who i could actually be with and who'd accept me. I'm non-binary and asexual, so finding someone who also isn't interested in sex and who'd respect my gender identity seems like a difficult task. also I'm possibly (very likely) autistic, so finding people i click with is really difficult (so far three people), and idk how i feel about physical contact with a partner (since the main thing i dislike is how intimate it feels). idk just how I'm supposed to just get to know someone that | Crushes |
basically what it says | Crushes |
Another average crush story, that probably no one wants to hear. Except, this is the r/Crushes subreddit and most people here do want to listen to yet another teenager ramble on about one of her inevitable crushes and who desperately wants to know what the hell is going on in the godforsaken place of a man's mind.
This is going to be long so anyone who doesn't have the time or patience to read this, you might as well stop now :)
So, as you've probably figured, there's a guy. A guy I've known for 8+ years, 5 of those in which I have liked him romantically. If you're wondering why the hell I haven't told him that yet, its because we have an amazing friendship which I'm terrified of ruining as I cherish this friendship so, so much.
Considering that we've known each other for this long, you'd think that we'd have at least an acceptable level of communication between us, but we don't. Heck, the way we communicate with each other makes the level of communication in the 1500s look industrialised.
What I'm trying to say is that this guy gives mixed signals so. friggin. much.
Let me give you an example.
Around 4 months ago, there was a dinner at a family friends house. Both of us were invited, as well as a few other families we didn't know that well. Might seem like an ordinary thing to you but let me tell you this, that was one of the best days of my life, just thinking about it now makes me feel all weird and smiley. He didn't leave my side. Not once. When we sat down our legs were up against each other, when we were standing our shoulders were brushing and oh god the eye contact. Don't get me started on the eye contact. It was fucking surreal, all of it.
Yeah, that was one of the better times of my life.
Now for the more...bothersome side of my example.
Fast forward a week. **Just a week.** Another family friend gathering, except this time it was at my house and the people we were inviting knew my crush's family quite well. A family friend party, if you will. Everyone knew everyone. Now, we (the 'kids') were all watching a movie in my room. My room is laid out so my bed is facing the TV and there is a gap between the bed and the TV so people can walk through.
[https://www.dogtas.com/tv-in-bedroom-ideas](https://www.dogtas.com/tv-in-bedroom-ideas) (because I'm bad at explaining and you have no idea what I'm talking about, here's an image that kinda describes what I'm talking about.)
As there were 7 of us, I let the youngest 4 sit on my comfy bed (like the awesome human being I am) and that left me, him, and another girl sat on the floor leaning against the bed and facing the TV. (Surprise, surprise, there's another girl in the equation.)
We sat down so that my crush was in between both of us girls. Probably should've stopped that from happening, but oh well. Anyway this girl was around 2 years older than my crush (I'll call him 'X' from now on) and was - so I thought - the one obstacle getting in the way of me and X. I didn't think much about them sitting next to each other, but oh boy, was the night memorable.
And not the good kind of memorable.
The **entire time** the two were flirting. The entire time. Her head was on his shoulder, his arm around her back, and me sitting awkwardly next to them. When the girl went downstairs to get a drink and everyone on the bed was talking to each other I turned to him to start a conversation. And he ignored me. Just blatantly looked away and started talking animatedly to the other people. After that, the girl came back, I turned the movie back on and they continued flirting. Fun.
A couple days later he turned back to normal, and he started to fucking talk to me again. To this day, I have no idea what I did in the span of a week for him to turn from playful to stone cold.
**And this is only one example.** I could give you a ton more, but sadly reddit's word limit restricts me from doing so.
If at the beginning of this post you didn't understand what I meant by our communication levels being abysmally low, hopefully you do now.
Anyway, that's it for now. Peace.
P.S - That girl I was talking about? I just recently found out she's been in a relationship with someone for 2 years. | Crushes |
There is this guy in my class that sat at my table the first day and him and his friend were sooooo nice to me. They made conversation so easily and I never met guys at my school that actually treated a shy person with respect like omggg all the guys at my school are so rude. Anyways, after a few days of that class I kept noticing he would always look at me. Like from the corner of my eye I could see him looking up at me when I was working on a paper. And then whenever he would make a joke he would keep looking at me to see if I would laugh. Sometimes he teases me by throwing small little paper balls towards me and we would both laugh. And he always takes my paper to turn in with his. BUT MY QUESTION IS: IS HE THIS FRIENDLY WITH EVERYONE ELSE!? I kinda noticed he has a lot of friends and I keep thinking “maybe he’s just being nice” ITS SO CONFUSING!! 😩 (this is just a vent btw ughhh) | Crushes |
I while ago i was hanging out at my friend's buildings roof and was drinking an energy drink, so i thought it would be nice to leave my mark on that roof by carving my name into the drink's can and just left it somewhere random but seen, so i have returned to that roof today and i saw next to that can was another energy drink but a bigger size, it didn't have any marks on it or anything but it had a strip connecting it with my can (i have some people i suspect did that as a romantic gesture that live in that building) but im not sure if im overlooking it | Crushes |
Hi Lois,
I dont think you will see this but I have been thinking about you alot. Its kinda crazy how I cant stop thinking about you. To be honest, I am really happy getting to know you. I want to call you up but Im afraid it might be a bother. But I have miss and think about you during the day and in the dreams I had. I miss when you rest on my shoulder and I miss your voice and pretty manner. You are so beautiful, words alone can not describe how beautiful you are. I have been day dreaming about having you with me, I want to let the world knows how I felt about you. I want to go up Arthur’s seat and tell the entire city about my feeling for you. I want to belong to you, I want to delicate my time and effort to you. You are the sweetest thing that came into my life and I dont think I can let go so easily. The thoughts of belonging to you makes me insane. I really want to know what you think and maybe if you felt the same. I want to embrace you and never let go. I wish that the time I had with you will last forever. I want to give you my all and delicate every moment to you. I want to write a letter to you everyday about how special you are. I’m not sure if you remember that night, all the words I said was true and I meant every words I said. I want to belong to you, I love you Lois.
ps : and yes the songs I frequently posted on my stories is a message for you as well.
-T | Crushes |
So... Hi. I used to post here regularly when I went through a crush, and this is the first time in a while, and I wanted to share my experience. Because honestly, just thinking things through has made me realise I came out of this better than I've ever been, mental-health wise.
To be frank, I've been hurt a lot, bullying trauma, going seperate ways with friends and souring family relationships kinda made me cut myself off from opening up to people while putting up walls to defend myself from, and I don't have much experiences with "Crushes" (Kinda on the Asexuality spectrum, so that stuff doesn't happen often. So when someone is pretty kind, willing to talk and even listen to me when I'm a wreck, and keeps secrets I don't really trust, I grew really fond of them, questioning "Oh shit am I crushing on them???". It did match with the few examples I had previously, feelings-wise, so I was believing it, and kinda let myself bask in the romantacism. As silly as it may seem, I just liked feeling that way. Plus, along the way, it did help me certify the whole Ace spectrum question, and I came out to what I'd consider those I feel safe around.
But as time passed, things started to settle, and I realised his wasn't a crush, I was just excited to find a friend who I could talk to and be open with. They're still as cool as I thought they were, I'm just not crushing on them anymore.
And I'm glad I went through that experience, I've opened up and came out of my shell more since and honestly accepted myself for the better, warts and all. I'm opening up to people and making friends again, I'm ready to let people into my life without fear of being hurt, and I'm strong enough to stand up to those who mistreated me and realise my worth. I don't think I'd have done that if I hadn't been through that crush gauntlet, I'll probably never tell them, but they helped me in more ways then they know, I'm eternally greatful for that. And I'm especially glad I didn't confess, because they're a good friend, and I'd hate to lose them.
So... Yeah, just wanted to share. Hope you're all having a good evening, and may your hearts be fulfilled. | Crushes |
well, it's not that I'm scared or anything(actually I am), but after she said she felt the same way for me, it started to get a bit less like we are close. I mean I talk to other girls and all and compared to them she is a bit emotionless. not many emojis, not many reactions and it always feels like I'm leading the conversation. she said she wanted to wait till we are adults and all but still, I'm scared that I may lose her before that happens. please help. I love her too much to let her go and now that she feels the same way I would never do so. but I just want to know if she actually likes me or if I'm just dumb.
Please guys, you know how frustrating it is right. some advise that's all I want | Crushes |
For some reason those two are seen as red flags 😅
I’m not really sure honestly, I just thought it was a little funny :) | Crushes |
As the title suggest, i want to ask her out. But is it weird since we last met 3 years ago and we rarely communicate? I dont know what to do | Crushes |
We are really good friends and still are, and i thought she was really interested in me. But then im gone for one day, i come back and now i feel like somethings changed... She acts exactly the same, still maintains eye contact, still loves to joke around, but for some reason i feel like something bad has happened and she doesnt like me anymore. So... wtf happened? | Crushes |
my crush and i share the same school bus and live on the same street, and today the bus driver completely drove past our neighborhood, so i got to be on the bus with him longer! | Crushes |
I've liked her for 3 months now and I can't get my mind off her i dont feel like there anyone to talk to it about. I feel like theres something wrong with, am i mentally ill? Shes 23, an adult and im 15! I can't bring myself to stop liking her, or like anybody else. I feel like i horrible person, because i have been trying to force this feeling out and shooting my shot with other girls. Rejected, by every single one, and I don't even care, my mind keeps coming back to her. What do I do?? | Crushes |
Okay so I have had this huge crush on this guy for over a year now. I genuinely just find him really interesting and sweet and also super handsome.
anyways it was about 3 months ago that I finally built up the courage to give him my number and that’s when I found out he was taken 😭
I am not interested in breaking up a happy home and we never went any further in our relationship and we still are nice and talk when we see each other
I do so good when I don’t see him but it’s like as soon as I do I can’t help but get the butterflies and literally can’t breathe
I need any advice possible I literally am willing to try anything to get over him :( | Crushes |
i js need to talk abt him lmao | Crushes |
I recently befriended my crush, and we’ve been mutually messaging each other for a bit. I’m usually very enthusiastic in conversations, and I love giving compliments (I’m this way around all of my friends). At school I’m usually the one to approach him (he’s shy so it makes sense). I drew his favorite vtuber for him, and I’m contemplating when I should give it to him. I do feel as though I’m bombarding him with questions, compliments, and gifts. I don’t think he’s annoyed? But it can be hard to tell.
Is my behavior flattering or obnoxious? | Crushes |
I just placed bottom of my class for something and now I feel like she thinks I'm a loser. My life sucks so bad I have no friends because of stupid social anxiety, every opportunity I get is ruined because of it. I regret everything I have ever done. I only developed a crush on her because she wanted to talk to me but I ruined it. My social life isn't the only thing, I suck at everything. I am good at nothing except being a lazy piece of shit and a loser who doesn't talk at all. I feel like I'm losing at life and I just want to die. I wish I could just not exist. | Crushes |
I (19F) like a guy (17M) who is a junior in high school. I took a gap year due to mental health issues and I’m now in my first year of junior college. We met when I was 17 and he was 15. I like him, but I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with him for reasons not about the age/grade gap. I’d probably just do casual things with him like going on dates. What do you think of the age and grade gap? Any advice? | Crushes |
i know theres probably lots of posts with this same thing over and over again but this is probably the first crush ive had in years where i feel so much emotions at the same time. i hate him, wanna hug him, would text him for hours, etc simultaneously. sm time could pass but i’d still think abt the time i got his number, the time we would talk abt what we were reading, the times i swore he looked at me and the time we just stared at each other goofing off a little. i feel crazy for thinking about him so much but im sure everyone else does the same thing | Crushes |
I have a crush on this girl that I have assigned seat with we sit next to each other and I get scared of making myself look like a fool and I try my best to not be obvious cuz I really don't wanna scare her off but idk it's just I wanna try to be more calm and try to be normal/cool while talking to her without looking like a creep or weirdo😞 | Crushes |
First a bit of backstory.
Me (13m) and my crush (13f, new girl) both are in the same grade (7th) and class. Lots of rumors have been going around about me (mainly positive I think. Haven’t gotten TOO much insight.). One of the first things was that my crush like me (no one to this moment knows 100% I like her without making a 50/50 guess (I OBVIOUSLY DO). I thought she liked me, BEFORE the rumor got to me, but then she stated that she never liked and doesn’t like me. (I tried to find 100% certainty that she was saying that to get rid of embarrassment, but I never could COMPLETELY convince myself. Anyway, the main factor that gave me conscience a chance thinking she still liked me was the constant Mixed Signals.
Now to the question : Does she like me?
My crush is a lot more open towards me I feel, but I’m not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing, as being more could mean less awkwardness for her (doesn’t like me), or it means she wants to hang out, talk, and have fun (she like’s me).
I’m not sure, so I posted it here for your opinions | Crushes |
So I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks, vibes nice. We've hung out a few times at her house/ walks, she knows how I feel...since I'm not the subtle type(smh).She works a lot so we don't get to meet much. I'm thinking of getting her like a coffee/donuts or pastries in general and leave them at her door every once in a while since she doesn't get much time to eat breakfast or anything in general ( healthcare workers man smh). Anyway, we all know going to someone's house unannounced is weird but she's the type to not accept any help or anybody going out of their way for her. Lmk...is this ok? I don't want to meet her at the door at like 7am and look like a stalker or seem like I'm trying too much/ coming off too strong. | Crushes |
Whenever I stop talking or thinking about anything, my mind immediately goes back to him. If I’m not actively doing something, I’m thinking about him. If he’s not at school I’ll keep telling my friends how much I miss him.
If I pursue him it could actually work out, but I think I want to become better friends with him first. Gahhh he’s so cute! | Crushes |
there's a girl i like so much but i don't know hotw to talk to her she's in eleventh grade(me too). there are no mutual friends between us.Also whenever i am in hallways and see her she's already looking at me(like always) im pretty ugly so I don't think so but still.does this mean anything??pls ignore my English | Crushes |
He has started talking to me again after not talking/seeing eachother since 4th grade. He would constantly make eye contact and when he did break it he would always seem nervous. He would come up to me and make conversation but leave if I don't answer or ask all of my friends but only look at me for an answer. A few weeks ago he asked me and my friends "Can I have a dollar?" but ignored them when they offered but got overly happy when I gave him one. In the past (like few months) he has done dumb things like that to get my attention. If we are in a group or near eachother he will always look at me or sit near me. He can be 5 feet away but as soon as I start walking away he will gradually get closer to me. He would let me go infront of him but won't let other people do that or smile at me and no one else (except his friends of course) He has never done any of this matter of fact we had only talked like 2-3 times before he started doing these things. He's always been very kind to me and sort of like protective? (not sure how to explain it but back when we used to have a bully in our class he would stand up for me specifically and no one else.) Also his friends used to think I was extremely weird last semester but as soon as he started talking to me again they have been so much nicer? His friend used to look at me in disgust and curse me out but now all of a sudden he's smiling at me. they are all looking at me and joking around with me?? Very confused on what's happening and if he likes me lmao any ideas? | Crushes |
I really don’t know how else to stress this, but i see so many posts here or in general about how being called bro means you’re in the friend zone, but it DOES NOT. I call everyone bro (if anything more the people i like) if you are worried because she am called you bro, don’t be. I promise you, you are overthinking this. | Crushes |
This is not a joke, but mine is Esther Winchester because something about her screams sexy, especially in her sausage form. I am not a furry, but I feel oddly sensual whenever I see her sausage form. She is one hot dog! Get it? Ok, I will stop. Tell me yours, folks! ;) | Crushes |
For me it’s right person wrong time | Crushes |
Found out she has a bf☹️. Thankful for apathy keeping me emotionless lately but I still wanna take I nice bath with the toaster oven. I’ll feel better and get over it soon hopefully. | Crushes |
Today i went up to my crush and asked him if he liked me, at first he said no but then he looked at me in the eyes and !KISSED! me!!!! then i asked him if he would maybe like to date me and he said YESSSSSSSSSSS THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE.3>>>>>> | Crushes |
well basically ive been friend zoned because he says im just too out of his league.. compliment ig? well hes a cer close friend to me we gym together, work together. maybe our relationship is more of siblings but i cant help it my dumbass fell for him.. hes very caring and sweet and i love his personality. however, im about his height and little older :/ and im gonna assume thats the reason. sucks bc i do still really like him, he said he would date me if he was more stable and over his last relationship. he says he cant really tell the future so it can be possible but imo thats just some sugarcoating to make me feel comforted because like i said hes super caring and im happy hes in my life even after confessing.. after i confessed he held me and kissed me. idk if he was testing if he felt something? idk but i wish i coukd have that moment again. any tips? at all? is there any chance he will like me back so i have to fight for it? or just let it go.. | Crushes |
I know that he doesn’t like me, and our whole situation is like super complicated, but it really means so much to me that he showed up. It was only my service, so it was super boring. It was just him and 8 of my closest girlfriends (2 of which he is also friends with) but he even came to dinner after and he sat next to me and we spoke a lot, but at the end he just like stopped talking and got super awkward | Crushes |
so i’ve always suffered from social anxiety. i find it hard to start a conversation with someone i know and it’s really annoying cause i’ve got all these things i wanna tell them but i just can’t. it’s super confusing and ugh it absolutely sucks when you’re crushing on someone.
so back at the start of my year, i was eating my lunch alone cause all my friends ditched me and this boy came up to me, he was in my class. and he said “where’s your friends?” and i just said “mm, idk.” he would always say hi to me and fistbump me and it really cheered me up but overtime i think he just thought i was annoyed by this because i would always answer with a laugh or a smile. i soon developed a crush on him cause he was so nice to me :)
so fast forward to this week, yesterday we had science class and he had to switch seats and by any chance he sat infront of me, and i was just minding my business, paying attention to class when my friend said “omg ##### he’s looking at you!!” she already knew that i liked him. and i just looked to his direction and we locked eye contact for a single second- 😃😃 AHH MY GOD. i literally looked back at my friend with a confused look as if i had no idea why she said that and went back to looking at the board ommgggg i was literally shaking cause i hadn’t had him really look at me for long enough with no context. you could also tell he was embarrassed cause at the corner at my eye i just saw him look back up at the board.
we had just finished with our work and we had to use highlighters and because i was bored i went and started to fling my highlighter up and down. and then my crush said “oh yes ####” and then he started to fling his highlighter 😃 i probably was so red at the moment - one thing which i see every now and then i’d him turning back and looking at me 😭😭
what do you think? does he like me or is it just coincidence x also in break time he doesn’t really look at me at all 🥲🥲 | Crushes |
I’m not sure what’s up with her. She has asked a bunch of questions nobody I just met would ask. She asked if I felt the emotion of love, she asked if I was gay, and a bit more.
My friends that introduced her to me were asking her why she was asking me more questions than she did to them.
So I’m just confused why she would ask me those questions
Dose anyone get why she would do this? Has this happen to you? | Crushes |
my crush is so weird and dumb (/lh + /hj) it makes me giggle. oooh i can feel him staring at me across the room he aint that sly (atleast i think thats him staring or im imagining things). we don't talk a lot but when we did i remember how he smiled omg he was so cute, and how he teased me. grr he's just so grr. Mans so weird to man flexed right in front of me and i had 0 clue how to react and asking if im impressed. AND during assembly man was sitting in front of me in the bleachers, looked at me, then leaned on my legs. and when he used to sit behind me and blew on my hair actin like he didn't done it. AGHH i can't tell if it likes me or not cause we barely talk. If that man came from mcdonalds he fr be a boy toy cause damn, | Crushes |
It's cause I'm friends with this girl and I think that I might have a crush on her, but I'm not sure whether I do or not.
I really enjoy spending time with her and talking and stuff and I wanna maybe ask her out, but I'm scared about it because what if I was just confused about my feelings for her and I end up ruining the friendship or I end up in a relationship with someone I don't have feelings for? | Crushes |
I recently added her on insta and she did back and whatever. Is there a good way to maybe see if she's interested in me without blatantly asking? or better yet a good way to start a conversation? I don't see her around much because we're in different majors so please don't tell me to just talk to her in person, I would if I saw her in public. | Crushes |
I'd like to say that this whole situation is lgbt+, so if you don't like that, just skip this and keep the hate.
A couple of weeks ago me and a group of around 40 classmates of mine organised a "get together" to party and have a great time. I had a crush on this one guy for some time at that point. I didn't understand why I was attracted to him, I just felt like he was a great person but I haven't really ever talked to him. He was quite handsome and what I would consider kind of my type. Fast forward to the "party" and somehow we ended up in a conversation, which he initiated. We talked about many things and amongst other things, we agreed to live together if we end up in the same place when we go to university. Over the evening we interacted many times. He even asked me what my sexuality was, which surprised me but what surprised me even more was that when I reversed the question, he claimed to be straight (I thought he was asking so that he could tell me he was gay too since it is kinda obvious with me😁). We played some childish games, which got very flirty and hot at times...we would stare into one anothers eyes for tens of seconds and I really thought that he may be "on the same wavelength" as me haha. Later on we went dancing and at one point as he was passing me by and took his hoodie off, I saw that he was wearing a very beautiful T-shirt and I told him so. He whispered to me that it was very nice and cute of me to say that. Also while dancing, he sent me air kisses and I just couldn't really believe it. There was some other stuff but I don't want to reveal everything (nothing more, stuff like this, it just happened a couple times more). I have to say that all throughout this we were drinking, but we weren't drunk. The next morning, as he was leaving, I was helping with the cleaning and just had that weird feeling like when someone is staring at you or something. I looked back and there he was, waiting to say good bye, in a very friendly manner let's say. After that I followed him on social media and we texted a bit but after some time I started to feel like I was the one who wanted to keep going while he just wanted to be left alone. Sometimes tho, he looked genuinely interested and this confused the hell outta me. A couple weeks later (around the new years) I didn't text him much 'cause I wanted to see whether or not he wanted to talk. Even if he was, for some reason, hesitant to text me after a longer period of time there was the possibility of just texting happy new year which would definetely turn into a normal conversation, but that didn't happen. When we came back to school he seemed to ignore me to the point where he would look the other way when we were passing eachother in the hall. In the last days tho, when I tried my best at ignoring him, he started saying hi and stuff like that again. I'm saying this in the most respectful way possible, but he is a person that just has queer vibes...anyone you ask says the same, that he has queer vibes. What's more important tho is the info that he probably has a girlfriend and if he does he definetely had when all this happened, making it very uncool to play with my emotions like this. So that's why I am all confused and I don't really know if this was a question or just wanted to put it out there. What do you think, is it just a nice straight friend or can it be that he feels something but maybe wants to supress it as he hasn't accepted that part of himself yet? Anyways, thanks for reading this far<33
Have a nice day! | Crushes |
Hi so I need advice on a situation I have right now but I feel like there needs to be a lot of context so be warned this might be very long.
I (15f) have a crush on a guy (16m) from my drama class. I think we’re pretty good friends, I don’t know him as well as some of the others in the class I see outside of those walls as well but we know each other pretty well. We always hang out in group settings. Before our Christmas break the “school” we go to drama in had a kinda start of break thing, he didn’t come so I sent him a message on Snapchat wishing him a nice break and hoped he enjoyed the snow. His reply seemed very grateful and not long after we started texting about a movie I’d watched. He sent me a selfie and I sent one back. It continued like that for about a week with casual pictures several times a day. I was shopping for a Christmas dress with my mom and when I came home and had tried it on so my sister could see it I saw he had sent me a snap. The dress is pink and strapless. I really love it. I didn’t think about it so I just sent him a snap back. I clearly remember being able to see the top of the dress in the picture. He didn’t respond even though I could see he had opened it about an hour after I’d sent it. It hurt me a little and made me question if I did something wrong. I convinced myself I was overthinking it and he was probably just busy and forgot to send anything back. I wished him a happy Christmas on Christmas and he wished it back. Then nothing. I also wished him a happy new year and because I was proud of my makeup that day I decided to snap him instead of a message since I spent new years with my parents and it felt good to send him a picture like we used to do. He send one back and I replied, and he sent one back and I responded then nothing. Christmas break is over and I’ve had two drama classes (it’s once a week) and he hasn’t been there. I don’t think any of the others in my class have heard from him. I thought about messaging him, just to check up. Ask him how he’s doing but maybe it feels like I’m pushing it when he’s already not responded or said anything since news years day. I really think I like him and he’s in no way a malicious or petty person. He has mentioned this summer how busy he’s been with school and I get it. Honestly it might just be me making a big deal out of nothing but I’d really like some advice, thank you. | Crushes |
So there's a woman I work with 26 I'm M/32 im management and she is just a part time employee. We've worked together for a few months and over the last couple months I'd say I've developed a crush on her and we talk alot at work and she seems really engaged in the conversation she complements me alot at work and is always appreciative when I tell her how much she's improved at work and it really seems like she might have a crush on me at work. We text a little bit but it's always me initiating the conversation and she's not short with her answers but usually takes some time to get back and will usually just stop responding till i start conversation again. I understand she's busy with her main career and other things going on in her life so I'm just trying to figure out is she just being nice at work or also maybe have a crush and maybe just doesn't like texting? | Crushes |
could we have become a thing? | Crushes |
There's this guy i sit with at my math class. I started crushing on him because he would tell funny but not offensive jokes and seemed gentle/kind. Then we stopped sitting at the same table and i found out from my friends he's kinda self-absorbed but i tried to ignore that. Then today we got assigned to sit at the same table and i was excited until we were talking and he said "lol ur so slow...how r u even graduating next year?" Then he looked me up and down and said "u look like a 3rd grader too💀" i know he was joking but...it really hurts because ive been struggling with eating for years and i know ive lost my chest and height in the process. I absolutely hate being short and i despise barely having any curves. I guess its so hard to move on because i can't stop hoping that his nice self is still there. We're gonna be sitting together for a while and my mixed feelings are still there and i wanna keep having those fuzzy feelings of crushing on someone. When i first sat with him we sat with good people and he was a good guy, now we sit with people with childish senses of humor and he's different now. I really don't know what to do | Crushes |
I’ve now come to the reality it’ll never happen. There are bigger things at play.
I wish him nothing but happiness and just hope it all works out for him.
Now to focus on me and see what becomes of my future. | Crushes |
I have a friend I've liked for 3 years now. They are the kindest, most compassionate person I know of and we are just so similar in alot of areas of our lives. I have had crushes before but none were this long lasting or intense. I've been in relationships, and so were they, in the time period I've liked them, and yet my feelings never really went away. Now we're both single, and I've felt like they might return my feelings to some degree for a while now, but they're also a very friendly person with everyone and it's really frustrating and hard to tell. I'm very afraid of ruining our friendship by confessing but every day I consider it more. They're pretty much everything I'd ever want in a partner but I really appreciate them as a friend too. What do you think I should do, reddit? :( | Crushes |
If you have read the first story you will also understand this that is happening.
Practically today during **gym** time since I don’t really like this matter the pro f asked us to run I at that time I made a face a little sad, then he said "**we start when Sofia smiles"** so if I don’t smile nobody runs.
He never takes his eye away from me, he always looks at me and sometimes he makes sentences in which I have to understand what he means.
When everyone started to play, I was playing volleyball with my two friends next to the teacher, at some point he winks at me and says: **"Sofia you wanted to tell me not to do gym?**
I: **No, I have to do it because it is an important subject like the others.**
He: **You don’t like gym.**
I: **Ninth, the stuff I don’t like is math.**
He: **I don’t like math either.**
At the end of the English lesson so after gym, I met the teacher in the hallway and he asked me whose armbands was, he tells me this armbands is from your classmate, he said it in a strange way because there were people who came out and there were also the janitors who looked at us he did not want to exaggerate.
He’s always trying to meet me and talk to me. | Crushes |
Okokok so…I was talking to him about my food obsession and here’s what he said next:
E (my crush): I know what my next obsession will be
Me: oh? What will it be?
E: I’m thinking it’ll be you
Me: ooooh ☺️
E: hehe. I think I’m already catching something
Me: catching what?
E: Love…
(End of convo)
JSJSKAJSHXHSISI WHAT?! LOVE?! I CANNOT PROCESS THIS AHHHH | Crushes |
Alrighty, so my crush has a birthday in a month or two and I decided I would not turn on my phone or ANY device that day, and act like I'm dead, because if I'll be online he'll see it and I'm FOR SURE not planning on wishing him a "Happy Birthday". If he'll ask (Which I doubt) why I didn't text him that day my excuse will be my dad, since the day my crush' birthday after that day is my dad's soo... | Crushes |
I (18f) have liked this girl (18f) for over a year. She's bi. We talked a lot early-mid last year, and I thought I might slowly be getting somewhere, but she's very busy and we kind of fell out of touch. I started talking to her more again recently, and found out shortly after that she now has a boyfriend (I know for a fact she didn't last year). Keep in mind, we share mutual friends, and we never hung out with any assumption it was anything but platonic. I'd consider her a friend before anything else. But I'm not really sure what to do, because I really like her, as a friend and as more, but if I continue talking to her there's no chance of me getting over her and I'll just be torturing myself. But it'll also be torture knowing I could be talking to her and actively choosing not to, plus I don't want her to wonder why I'd suddenly phase her out. So I'm kind of stuck. | Crushes |
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About A year ago, I confessed. It went okay, but I got rejected. Sometimes it upsets me to see other guys hanging out with her. I’m someone who tries not to get jealous but sometimes it upsets me. It upsets me that I can’t interact with her. I always just hate having to pretend like we’re strangers. I wish I could just talk to her sometimes, but I know it’s best that we don’t talk or interact. What’s more frustrating is her talking to people that are friends. Obviously, I don’t hate her. I don’t hate anyone she talks to either, but it does upset me deep down sometimes. | Crushes |
I hate how he's the only one who csn make me smile and laugh when m feeling shitty
when m having panic attacks and him just saying my name makes it better
him giving that cute lil hand punch
him asking me if m okay
him asking me why m sad
him asking me if i cried
him asking why m smiling
him asking what's so funny
oh fuck why is it him
like WHY
I wasn't even looking for anyone
I was happy alone
I loved my life and didn't need someone like him | Crushes |
Some context: I am positive that she likes me back, and we have known eachother for a few months now
Basically, I've told my crush that I have a crush. Everytime she wants to know more about this crush, I literally just tell her details about herself. One day, after about a week of this, I plan on telling her that she is the crush and all that jazz.
What do yall think? | Crushes |
There’s a girl I’ve liked for nearly a year now and I’ve been feeling a huge variety of emotions because of it. I don’t talk to or see her often, but I really do like her personality and the type of person she is and think she’s absolutely beautiful. When I do summon up courage to text her, it’s the usual “hey, how are you” type of conversation. I’m scared to tell her how I feel because I don’t want to mess up whatever friendship we have and on top of that, I don’t feel like I’d be good enough for her, I don’t feel like she’s interested in being in a relationship now, and I really do think she doesn’t like me like that. If I have to wait, I’ll wait however long I have to, since I’m not in a huge rush to have a girlfriend, but I’d really like to have a relationship with her specifically and would do just about anything for it. What I typed out here barely scratches the surface of what I’ve been feeling for her these past months; if I tell her how I *really* feel about her, it’d be very embarrassing for me (some of it’s probably a bit cheesy) :D I want to tell her but I’m just really scared, so I’ve been quiet. The only people I’ve talked to about this are two of my close friends and two of my cousins. I’d like to talk about it more openly with people I know but I get scared. She’s my first crush so this means a lot to me. Sound off in the comments :) | Crushes |
ik he'll never look at me like that
the way I look at him
the way he looks at her | Crushes |
So after our class together she usually stand by the door with her friend, but today the friend wasn’t here so I would likely have been able to go up and talk to her, but my nerves made me need to take a shit so I did AND IT TOOK SO LONG THAT I MISSED THE CHANCE I got back and class was over. Been trying to start conversations but it’s really hard when I never get the chance to talk to her. Sorry about the rant lol | Crushes |
\[19M\] I had some really good chemistry with an \[18F\] who's the same major as me. She gave me her contacts and I got really excited. Unfortunately things went south real fast since she always takes exceptionally long to respond to respond to my messages. At first I was coping and thought she's just playing games but honestly, she just doesn't like me. It really bums me out since I haven't liked someone this much since my ex but I really don't have the time or energy to even try at this point. I don't know how other STEM majors have the time to love. | Crushes |
In mid November I started talking to a guy who lives away from my hometown (we met through the internet in a random app and since then we talk on insta almost everyday). At first I was okay with it, I thought that we just talked but as the time passes I am crushing on him very hard. I like the attention I get and most of the times he's super sweet to me, but I have a lot going on rn and I was very moody towards him. He rightfully tried to keep a distance for a while but I told him I was going through a phase and I'm not on my best mood. In reality I get into depressive episodes every once in a while and this was one of these periods of time, but I didn't want to tell him that, I was feeling a bit embarassed to tell him. The biggest problem is that I feel really attached to him rn and I don't want to screw this up, we were planning on meeting in a couple months bc I'm planning vacation with my friends and I really want to see him but on the other hand I am so freaked out because I think he doesn't feel the same way for me. I want to be with him but the distance is a big problem, he doesn't want anything serious at the moment (he has much going on in his working enviornment) and I am embarassed to tell him my actual feelings because I fear rejection. He told me he liked me but I am not sure how much. I don't want to mess up what we have rn. A few nights ago I cried thinking that he might leave me and never speak to me again. I really fear rejection. I don't want to lose whatever we have, even if that's just talking. I know it's a short period of time, but we literally talk almost everyday so crushing on him was something unavoidable.
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Any advice would be helpful. | Crushes |
I'm a teenager (15F) and I've just recently found out I might be bi. But I'm not at all sure if I actually am.
I see some signs that I probably am bisexual but I keep telling myself I'm probably wrong and I'm probably just a normal kid.
So when the virus started and we were on lockdown, I started to hang out with one of my friends more often and she slowly started to become my best friend. But last year me and my family moved to the US for a year not sure if we'd stay there or not. and since I'm not really good at making conversation in text and the time zone difference beteen my country and the US are 8:30 hours, we started chatting way less than we used to and our friendship started to go back to just being distant friends.
But last summer we moved back to my country and we started going to a track class during the summer together.
We started to become a bit closer after that and it was during that time I also started to think I might be bisexual.
I'm not sure how to put this the right way but I started imagining stuff with her. I imagined holding her hand, hugging her, and even kissing her.
She also did stuff that felt like were hints. Like she would hold my waist and go a bit higher up and say "its so thin" afterwards, or she would touch my ears and look at me in the eye and say something like "I like your earrings" or something. She would hug me from the back and when we were walking next to each other and our hands touched it felt different from when it happened with other people.
But at the same time, it felt like she didn't have as much fun spending time with me than with other people. It would feel awkward and quiet when we were alone.
And now for the last 2 months, we've had our midterm exams right after our semester ones and we both haven't been able to come to track class to be able to study and I feel like we've grown even more apart than what it used to be. ( we also don't go to the same school anymore so I don't see her there).
And so now I'm just wondering if I actually have a crush on her and if she has the same feelings towards me, or if I'm just feeling like this cause I'm a teenager and know nothing about this stuff and were just normal friends.
What should I do? | Crushes |
My crush kind of flirted with me and I can't sleep. Is this normal??
He gave me a compliment earlier, booped my cheeks and some parts of my back and sides?????? While being near me?? (Our friend group was in the room but there was only the two of us in the table)
Just a few days ago I thought he was avoiding me now I can't stop thinking about it pls help what is happening | Crushes |
why do I even like someone who doesn't like me
why do I like him even after seeing how much he loves her
even after seeing him do things for her which I do for him
even after seeing him smile everytime he looks at her
this is just so fucking hard atp
hate how he looks at her the way I look at him
don't really hate her tbh
just hate the fact that we met
I wish I never met him
I'd be better | Crushes |
Good news is I (22F) found out my crush likes me back, bad news is he's married. We've been texting nonstop all week, and he eventually guessed that he was my current crush after I said something about how this other married guy that wanted to smash got annoyed that I wouldn't stop gushing about my crush, and admitted there was some attraction on his end too. For me the physical comes second, I've dealt with a lot of bad men and he was the first one to make me feel safe in a long time. After I confessed I joked about running away from my emotions and he said "Why run from your emotions" and questioned if I weren't gonna be into him anymore now that he knew. This is before I knew of the wife...I found out when he asked why I would turn down the other married guy but still like him, and that's when I asked if he was and he said yes. He questioned what my motive was and whether it was to smash, and I told him in that case we could just keep things on friendly terms since guys like him are rare. He wanted a actual answer so I was honest and told "Maybe at some point later down the road" and how I've only dated females so doing anything sexual with a man would be a first for me. The idea of being my first seemed to stroke his ego, but either way when he asked what was stopping me from being a "sneaky link" I told him I wouldn't disrespect his wife like that because I have morals and that if all parties involved were okay with it that'd be a different story. He was curious as to what that meant exactly (as if it weren't obvious), so I told him that while as a satanist I believe in sexual freedom, I also believe in treating other people I'd like to be treated and if I wouldn't want it done to me why do it to someone else. He said he appreciated the fact that I'd choose him as my first and how it sucks that we couldn't go through with it, but he seemed to like that answer. The conversation shifted to my satanic beliefs because he seemed genuinely interested in why I'd not keep pursuing him at least sexually when anyone else in our workplace probably would've. At some point my secret back tattoo got brought up and he said I should show him sometime irl if it's cool, and my online guy bestie agreed that could possibly imply he wants to do something sexually or as my friend put it "hit it from the back". At the time I didn't think too much of it, but he seemed really interested in my back tat. The convo went on like normal after that though. One thing that bothers me is how he'd agree to keep things friendly, but continue to text me religiously all day instead of spending time with his wife, and then proceed to avoid me all day at work as if he's mad at me or something (He could've been genuinely busy and I'm overthinking it). He says we're cool and nothing has to change, but I'm quite curious as to why he wouldn't want me to run from my emotions or bury them until they withered. Like if he's married and there's zero chances of us happening, what else was he expecting me to do with them? Clearly we can't explore these feelings...I kinda want him to clarify, but that might make things worse because as they say "curiosity killed the cat". Either way he's a pretty chill guy and I probably should've kept my feelings to myself...How long until the awkwardness goes away so we can get back to our scheduled program? | Crushes |
We only see one another in the halls, he’s a year older | Crushes |
I got rejected by my best friend, but I got my other friend send me a text saying that it was only a dare, and then I sent the screenshot of it to him after he rejected me HAHAHAHAHAAHA I know it's not nice and by doing what I did, I just added more trust issues or something that could be a negative factor when he date or like someone someday. Nonetheless, I've seen him grow. Been observing his behavior and way of moving on—I forgot the psychological term I learned on tiktok—but it's when instead of displacing their stress on someone, they just play games or do something fun for them. From that, I believe he's doing just fine, but still I want your comment on this guys. I actually played him with a confession before this and he recalled it back in our conversation saying that he believes that my feelings were actually true because of that and maybe that's the reason why he actually stop messaging me first but he do answer when I send him message and has been doing at his very best to give me cold shoulders when we're in face to face which is not his best armor cause he's just too soft for everyone. | Crushes |
I love her more than anything. I love her smile, her voice, her eyes, her hair, her beautiful face, her personality everything. She's so cute, smart, funny, I can't describe it. I have never had a crush on anyone but her, and even now I think Im dangeruosly in love with a girl I can't have. We're friends, but it stills feels like she's way closer to everyone else in my class BUT me. I want her to know how I feel, I wang her to accept me and I want us to be together... but I'm.a coward. I'm a coward who can't face up to his fears because I'm scared of the consequences. This feels like a prison more than anything. I love her so much but I can't tell her because of my fears. The whole reason I developed a crush on her was because I suspected she had one on me but it doesn't seem that way anymore. Part of me wants to confess already to get it out of my chest, but I also think I should try to develop a closer relationship with her first. In the end, I do neither and just give in to my fears. If anyone actually reads this wall of text, please help me. This girl is the only person in thw world who can make me this happy and I'm afraid I'll lose her because I'm a coward. Please help me | Crushes |
(English isn't my first language so my apologies in advance if there's a grammatical error)
We're both 8, we go to the same school, and we're classmates.
I really don't see why had a crush on him when we're in 3rd grade, we've never even interacted before.
He's always quiet and so do I, I guess he's more of an introvert while I'm a Shy quiet kid.
He doesn't really smile that often but he's really kind. I just like it when I'm admiring him from afar, he looks so peaceful:D
unfortunately he found out about it bcus my seatmate don't know the word privacy. I was so embarrassed at that time I had to pretend to sleep the whole day in making me have stiff neck lol.
Eventually he started approaching me and we became close. I really wouldn't consider myself as his 'friend' bcus I don't think he does.
He just talk to me about random topics. And it just went on until we reached 4th grade. We're classmates again😃
He became my seatmate and that when we became more closer. I remember when he became my dance partner for PE two times!!
I still remember my hands that got so cold and numb when our teacher said he'll became my partner
But it was so much fun. Probably the first time I had so much fun without feeling embarrassed and shy. He never said a word about it but he's really reassuring
After finishing 4th grade he wasn't my classmate anymore. We lost contact with each other.
And then fast forward after the quarantine became over after 2 years the government announced the f2f classes(face to face)
It was 2022 and I met him again, I've never thought I will but I did see him. In feel weird feelings in my stomach and my heartbeat started to go faster.
I know this might sound so fiction. I know, I won't believe myself too, but it really did. Suddenly I have a crush on him again
Everytime I walk into the hallway, I always look for him then gave him a blank stare when I saw him... Idk what is wrong with me
I've been denying since 4th grade that I still have a crush on him but every time I do I feel uneasy
Then 2023 came and christmas vacation is over now. I saw one of my classmate (who apparently knows him) teases him about his 'Girlfriend' then he just told them to f off
I don't know if it's just coincidence or he's just trying to rub it in my face and act all cocky, bcus he knows that im hearing what their saying or I'm just delusional lol (obviously I am🥴)
For some reason I don't feel hurt or jealous at all, I've always had a crush on him for almost 6 years but it feels nothing at all. I feel so blank(?) Idk
After that, everytime I walk pass by him I feel nothing anymore. It's not the same as before.
I don't feel the same thing anymore just the like what I felt for him when I first saw him 6 years ago
But it doesn't saddened me at all. I actually feel so free and remembering the all past memories I have with him feels so nostalgic. I feel so free and happy.
I have no Idea if that gf is really true but if he really have one, then I hope the both of them the best.
And im always thankful for him for making good memories with me. | Crushes |
I have a girl in my dm
We both have been chatting for a while now it's been almost a year
So one day with no bad intention i tried to be cheeky wit her
I randomly said "i was waiting for ur reply "
She replied " Bro y u waiting for my reply *
Since that day i have seen a decline in our conversation
Dat was the day she called me bro
Contxt I had called her bro earlier in our conversation
So have she bro zoned me or what
Explaination needed | Crushes |
Sooo last week my friendship group and I were drinking, and I got VERY drunk and my crush was tipsy and when my crush was sitting next to me on the sofa in my accommodation, I rested my head on his shoulder and held his arm. We also held hands (both hands at same time even) and he was caressing my hair and apparently kissed my forehead. He told me he likes me and asked how I’ve never had a bf, and he said “i could be your 1st bf and first kiss” and I was so drunk I don’t remember my response, but I think I said I like him too. His face kept turning red and its cute cuz he’s not usually this type of person. His best friend messaged me saying the next day he was giggling like a child about the whole scenario. So I saw him the next day cuz there was this restaurant event with a society at uni, and for a particular reason, we had to act like nothing happened the previous day, so we avoided eye contact and it was awkward. After a couple days he messaged me saying about us meeting, so we decided on Thursday (today) later cuz there’s a fire pit event at my accommodation. There’s a whole plan my friend and my crush’s best friend made, where they’ll leave me and my crush in my room to “talk”… I wonder if he’ll ask me to be his girlfriend properly? | Crushes |
that’s all | Crushes |
\*\*throwaway for reasons
ok so yesterday, my class had to sit outside for some tryouts for our sports day (ofc, he ran, and looked hot as hell while doing it) and when his tryouts were done he came to the side, where my friends and i were sitting.
for context, my friends are in the same "popular" friend group as him and know him well, but he's not *my* friend.
ok so one of my best friends who is close to him accidentally pushed him and he FELL ON ME???? HE LITERALLY FELL HALF IN MY LAP AND THEN SLID OFF RIGHT NEXT TO ME AND ALL OF MY FRIENDS WERE LAUGHING AND GIVING ME LOOKS (they know i like him).
i was blushing like hell and my best friend (sitting on the other side of me) whispered "haha i dont think this is what you meant when you said you wanted him to fall for you". i was literally dying, i could feel my face turning red and i think he saw it too, but he didnt say anything to me, he just got up, gave the friend who pushed him a gentle shove, and laughed at her expression.
ugh but he's so hottt and it's not like he's going to like me anyways, he has atleast 7 girls crushing on him rn. this whole thing was just extremely awkward and pointless.
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tl;dr - my friend accidentally pushed my crush onto me, he fell half into my lap, slid off, got up and laughed it off. | Crushes |
He's my classmate and oh boy have I fallen for him.He's a british twink essentially and yea I'm a guy (bisexual) and I really adore the little guy he's really helped me through the worst of the worst and I wanna confess my love to him except he might be straight and I'm very scared, how do I do it? | Crushes |
We've been really close for a few weeks now but she dosent really give any hints that she might like me and i genuinely really really like her. Is there any way I could make us be even closer at least? | Crushes |
He’s never met me. He started to view my stories without even following me. Then I sent him him a follow request. Since that he’s viewed all of my stories within half hour of me posting them.
is he stalking me for his friend? | Crushes |
So I asked a guy to go on a date and he turned me down. He said he was talking with someone rn. But what’s weird is that he gave me his number after he forgot to contact me when I gave him mine. I asked his friend if he ever talked with girls or had a girlfriend but his friend said no. Is he lying? | Crushes |
We’ve been flirting quite intensely for around 2 months and I see him almost every day. I think that we have both made it clear multiple times how we feel about each other, but it doesn’t really seem to be progressing beyond harmless flirting.
I’m not sure if this is all just a bit of fun for him or whether he actually wants something to happen. Should I just make a move or should I keep waiting? | Crushes |
I'm F17 and he's M17, we've been part of the same friend group since last year.
Around April-May of 2022 I started to like him a little bit but I didn't think much of it until one day he randomly came up to me and hugged me. I hugged him back.
Fast forward to today, I can't get him out of my head. I asked an online friend about what I should do and he told me to make the first step, but everytime i made the first step I got "played", it didn't end up well, I always got heartbroken.
I grew up overweight so it was always hard for me to form relationships, now that I lost a significant amount of weight it's easier but I'm still inexperienced, I don't know what to do.
Today, I was tired of wearing baggy clothes and hoodies all the time so I decided to wear something a little more revealing. A v-neck, pretty tight, it accentuated all of my curves, paired with some cargo pants that weren't too baggy.
So I was pacing around the classroom talking to my friends then he came in, I was going back to my desk (my desk is behind his) and I kid you not, he stopped and looked at me for like 15 seconds. I didn't say anything, I pretty much wore this to see his reaction and confirm my suspicious, because I do think he likes me at least a little bit, but I'm not sure.
Throughout the whole day he kept turning and looking at me and he talked to me more, I can't understand what he's saying though, I think he's not used to talking so much so he doesn't pronounce words correctly, that happened to me as well.
I really like this guy, he told me a while ago that he likes the way I think (I'm spiritual and I'm into conspiracy theories), I wish I could lay down with him and listen to what he has to say. Some people may not find him attractive but I think he's cute. I really don't care about looks, I had a crush on a guy in 9th grade and you could say he was... facially challenged... but I didn't care at all. It's all about the vibes for me, I'm drawn to him, it has to mean something.
Do y'all think he likes me? | Crushes |
"Just be yourself" she says. Idek how to respond | Crushes |
Me(F) and my ex gf (F) broke up after we've been together for over an year; the reason isn't important, but we ended it well and decided to stay friends , although for a few months now she's been really defensive and stopped talking to me(i didn't try to stop her and i just let her be). Now about my crush. For like a month now i started liking this girl.( I have to mention that she's one of my ex's classmates, but they're not that close. ) We've gotten really close in the past weeks and we hang out a few times a week. But this week she told me that my ex started asking her if im talking to her, and when she said yes my ex's face instantly dropped. Since then everytime i hang out with her my ex comes and starts talking to her and holding her hand in a ,,friend way" and kissing her cheek. It's bothering me ofc, but I'm trying not to be too affected by it since my crush can talk to anybody she wants, i don't wanna control her in any way. I'm guessing that my ex is jealous, cuz she found out i like my crush from a mutual friend and had a full on melt down about it for moving on so fast. I don't care that she's jealous either but i just think it's it's messed up to try and get so close to my crush just after she saw were close. | Crushes |
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This post will make me feel like a scumbag, but I have no-one to talk to about this and it has been clouding my head, so I want to get it out off my chest
I am a college senior who has been with my girlfriend for a year. We have had many ups and downs mostly stemming from her living 7 mins away at home but going to school 3 hours away in the same state. I love her sooo much, she is beautiful, smart, kind, caring, compassionate, quirky and goofy (in a good way), we have similar interests such as anime, gym, video games, and if I pick up a new hobby she tries to learn about it as well. makes me feel like luckiest man in the world, but with the long distance it feels hard to love someone through a screen and keeping the spark alive, especially when I’m only able to talk to her at night because I am busy with class, work, gym, student orgs etc.
However, I work in the university’s gym and I have this coworker who I initially meant to just to be a work friend (she knows I have a gf). After working a lot of shifts together, I have learned she shares the same major as me (kinesiology) and this semester is in almost all of my classes and we sit next to each other each class and crack jokes to make the time go faster. This being said lately I have found myself to develop a crush on her because she is smart, kind, trusting, beautiful, fit, really nice eyes, has similar interests to me, and seems to value being around me. We hang out a lot outside of class because she holds me accountable for holding me to not skip the gym on leg day and going to class, and we study together, and sometimes grab food, but whenever I am around her, I can’t help but feel butterflies and feel romantic tension building between us. I fantasize of taking her on dates, cuddling and watching movies together, and I’ve dreamt of her a few times. However, this is her last semester taking classes, and she is moving back to her hometown in the same state 5 hours away and is planning on doing an internship up there, and I have a feeling she isn’t into the more niche interests I have such as anime and video games, which I have stated I liked but we haven’t had any explicit conversations about it.
I know I am not going to act on this crush because I don’t ruin the friendship with my coworker or my relationship with my girlfriend, and I think I am just developing this crush bc of proximity and I am around my coworker 5-8 hours a day, 5 days a week. I know can more than likely revive the intimacy in my current romantic relationship by putting more effort in because I don’t believe I can find someone who loves and makes me feel safe like my girlfriend does, she feels like home to me and in the end, I know I’ll always choose her. | Crushes |
He stares at me a lot thinking I don’t notice things, what does it mean (yes I like him) | Crushes |
I've liked this person since the first semester of college and I thought it would go away after winter break but nope, come spring sem and still find them attractive. This is probably just another infatuation and my mind is bored but it's eating me away. I always find myself thinking about them or trying to spot them during classes. I'm really introverted so making the first move is like a big nono in my book but I would love to be acquittanced with them unfortunately we're in those auditorium classes so small talk is hard and finding a sit next to each other is harder.
I'm not really looking for any specific advice, just wanted to get it off my chest :,) I hope this post doesn't sound creepy, if it does please let me know and I'll stop. | Crushes |
Me and my crush only text like once a week even though we don’t see each other in person. I’m scared to initiate more than once because I don’t want to bother or annoy him (he’s never even implied I bother him but I’m still scared)😭😭. Also if I initiated text every single time I wanted to talk to him he would never hear the end of me talking, so my big fat crush would become really really obvious 😀
Also idk if it’s important but we don’t see each other anymore because his college is like 3 hours away, so we can only talk through text (other than when he comes back for holidays). That’s why I try to text him weekly.
(btw I always initiate every text because he for some reason doesn’t text ANYBODY first (he literally told me that)) | Crushes |
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