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I was really looking forward to seeing her again after Christmas break. I even had some things I wanted to talk with her about. But she didn't come. I didn't saw her at the lockers where we usually see each other. So I waited to see if she would be in the class we share on Monday to see if I just missed her by chance, but she wasn't there.
This lowkey really sucks :( | Crushes |
Yep, i want to stop. Its not working out. It would've never worked out i know that. We just aren't meant to be. This fucking thing ended the second we said goodbye and tbh i am okay with it. I am willing to move on but for some damn reason i cant. I just cant stop thinking about her cant stop sending her snaps and i need help with that. | Crushes |
Well, I posted a vent on Friday expecting to pack up and leave right then, but I’m clearly not ready to. There’s only one person who knows about this and I feel like I need some second opinions, but I just can’t find it in me to tell anyone else.
The biggest issue in this situation right now is texting. Texting is the only way we’re going to be able to talk to each other for a while, given that he’s stepping away from our local theater group out of busyness. I find it so difficult to text him because of how nerve-racking it is- on average it probably takes me fifteen minutes to hit “send” and it’s me just endlessly telling myself “he’s your friend, what’s the worst that can happen” “just do it” “this won’t matter in five years” etc etc etc. It’s often not worth it in the end, I sometimes don’t get a response at all. There’s probably some sort of reason why, but it just makes it more difficult for me to send anything because I don’t know if I’ll be responded to at all.
The thing is, it’s completely different in person. It’s not really on my end, I still find it nerve racking to talk to him, but he clearly does go out of his way to talk to me. Almost a week ago I got a surprise chance to talk to him in person again, and we really did talk, probably the first time we’ve had a conversation like that in a while. It’s like every time I talk to him the nervousness just steadily dies down, yet still renews the next time I see him for seemingly no reason at all.
At the end of November I mustered up the courage to ask if I could hang out with him sometime, and he agreed. However, NOTHING has happened yet at all. It’s either I wait for him to say something about it and accept the risks that holds, or build up the courage to text him myself. But I just can’t, my courage just keeps getting lower with every failed attempt at a text conversation. If I can’t get my shit together, this situation completely blows out of control. But I just don’t know how to do that when the texting anxiety is this bad.
So, to anyone who would like to answer, what are your thoughts and how do you suppose I should handle this situation? | Crushes |
Ask me about him 🥹 plz I love feeling all gushy and mushy 🥰 | Crushes |
Hi !
So It’s been around 9 months since I have a crush on this guy but until then I have never dared to take the first step and talk to him. We don't really know each other and we don't have any friends in common it’s really just a guy I see often at school and I find him REALLY cute he has a beautiful smile, amazing ginger hairs and his voice my god ! I really can’t stop thinking about him all day and night…The problem is that recently I often see him with this girl they laugh together , tease and all that shit, he seems to like her pretty much (which obviously makes me feel, as stupid as it sounds, an immense jealousy) and I can't help but hate her for that I feel so pathetic it's ridiculous but as soon as I see her I get furious… I have the feeling that it won't work with him even if I'm really interested I'm afraid of just hurting myself for nothing knowing that he's potentially already attracted to someone else... | Crushes |
We've both confessed to each other but decided that we should both take it slow, nowadays we try to talk more but still act like best friends. But I like him so much I wanna say everything I feel about him.
I think telling him all about my feelings is super out of character for me since I always follow up my genuine thoughts with the phrase "I was just kidding".
Would he be uncomfortable with me telling him my feelings about him? If you place yourself in his shoes what would you guys feel? Please help a girl out, I think I might self explode hahah | Crushes |
So I like a boy that lives in my town but goes to a different school, he plays hockey (goalie) that team just recently had a tournament and won, today at school two of his teammates we’re talking bad about him, saying he’s a horrible goalie (they won every game 1-0) and other rude stuff
I feel like i should tell him but we stopped talking right before the new year, me and him would send face pics and mirror pics before, my friend went on my phone and added him and started messaging him trying to start stuff (I apologized multiple times during that) and he was talking to me like he was enjoying the conversation that we had somedays he seems interested others he doesn’t, the only thing said since we stopped talking was me asking if he even wanted to be friends, he said yeah but has been ignoring me for the past 2 days whenever i send a chat it gets opened and responded to
I feel like he will be mad if i tell him but i dont want him getting picked on | Crushes |
I came into work expecting to have a nice, peaceful shift, but he's working. I clock in at 3 and it's about 2:45 and I don't wanna clock in! I don't know how long he's gonna be working. Maybe only till 3, since that's when the next shift gets here? But what if he stays till the store closes?
And what's funny is that last week I decided I'd move on, which means I was gonna try to not talk to him or look at him at all. But I just know that if he talks to me, I'm going to forget that I was supposed to be moving on. 🥲 | Crushes |
This is the second time I've been losing sleep thinking about him... I've fallen so deep I can't stop giggling to myself and imagining scenarios of him and me WAAAAAHAHHHGGG AHHHHHHHHH I CANT WAIT TO MEET HIM!!! AHHHAHAH ❤️❤️ I look like a tomato 😢 I LIKE HIM SO MUCH I CANT HELP IT AAAAAAHHHHHAAAAAAA | Crushes |
So, it has been about a month since my last post. A LOT has happened since then so here is an update.
*after the christmas party*
In my last post I told the story of the work Christmas party where I thought I was getting somewhere with my crush. apparently it was just the wine or he thought better of it or something, because the Monday after the party he barely wanted to say hi. we didn't really talk that week, but what happened was that I saw him one day deep in talk with a girl he's pals with at work. it really looked like he was talking about his problem(s) and she was listening sympathetically. I wasn't exactly eavesdropping so I only caught "at the workplace" from what he said. I know it could have been about anything, but I have a tiny secret idea that it was about me. idk.
AND THEN he got sick or was on holiday. I don't know which. but I didn't see him for the last two weeks of the year.
*meanwhile at home*
believe it or not, all throughout this whole "crush on the IT guy" thing I've been thinking a lot about what to do about my actual boyfriend. our relationship had gotten steadily worse or more exactly uninteresting. I will admit to correlation, but not causation. I developed a crush because the relationship wasn't the best and my crush didn't help while trying to work on the relationship. this is not the place to go into many details, so long story short I ended up telling my boyfriend that I had a crush on someone, and he ended up moving out on the 21st of December. there was talk about trying to fix it and his coming back, but he said and did some things and I realized that I'm not in love with him anymore and I want to pursue my crush. the decision to break it off completely with my boyfriend was influenced by my having this crush but also by some other things.
so, I guess I've left my relationship in 2022 and my crush has come with me into 2023. Stuff happened on NYE which I'll post about later.
anyone who has been worried about my morality concerning my boyfriend can chill out. I was honest with him in the end, and I was honest with myself, and my boyfriend is now my ex. it's been a bit of a shock to the system so I'll be here being crazy posting about my crush from now. | Crushes |
I (M18) have a huge crush on my co worker(M18). We work at an indoor theme park for kids and he sometimes comes to my post at the lasergame to chat while the kids are inside playing.
*CONTEXT*
He's so stupid and adorable and we've been texting all week sending each other songs and stuff we like. We might be going to a local punk bar tomorrow and I'm so so excited and I really want to kiss him but this is the first time I have a full time job and idk if its appropriate to kiss a co-worker.
I also don't know if he's gay or has a girlfriend but he has been pretty flirty with me.
*END OF CONTEXT*
I don't want to come off too strong so I'm trying to not text him too much but I'm filled with so much energy and I don't know where to put that. I have ADHD and im also autistic lol so dealing with feelings isnt always easy. Does anyone have experience with this? What can i do to help?? Aaaaah | Crushes |
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i’ve been talking to a guy i’ve know since high school, (a bit in kindergarten but i moved schools after 1 year, then came back in grade 7) we never spoke a lot in hs but now we been graduated and he just came in my dms to talk about my cats. So, we went from there and i imagined he would have gotten bored and leave me on read or liked but he didn’t, we still kept talking. often, he asks me for “fit pics” which is just my outfit for the day. Usually, no guys ask me for this. but i was bullied a lot in high school for my looks and now everyone says nothing but good things about me. It’s a bit upsetting, because now i doubt my attractiveness to guys and don’t even bother pursuing them. i’m trying really hard, but my faith is flickering.
he takes a long time to respond, like really long. my text to him has been left on sent for 15 hours. god, i feel so dumb. I tried leaving him on seen to see if he wouldn’t push the conversation but he did. I just don’t know if he’s interested, and if he is, is he just not a phone guy? i barely see anyone i knew since hs now. i imagine hes a lot different than before. | Crushes |
I have liked this boy for ages but I am 95% that he is straight but also I am pretty good friends with him thats what makes it complex because I do not want to mess that friendship up
Advice please ! | Crushes |
how did it go? im planning on asking one of mine soon, and id love any advice and some stories :) | Crushes |
So I really like this girl in my year, and I want to make my move and talk to her during break or lunch but I keep overthinking it even though I'm trying not to. Some advice would be much appreciated. | Crushes |
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long story short, this is taking place in 2017, im \[17M\]. the lady i like \[16f\] let's call her "Rosa" for privacy reasons. i get to know Rosa by accident, we become friends but we're too young and not close enough to meet in person yet.
fast forward to October of last year, im 22 and studying abroad, i've had feelings for Rosa for about 3 months now even though i never met her. i'm in the middle of a boring math lecture and my mind is wandering, i decide this is it, this is the day i'll let her know. i don't want a relationship rn beacause broke and even if i did long distance wont work, but i want to tell her anyway to be honest as a friend and to just get it out of my chest.
She's a good friend and a kind person, even if she rejects me she'll be nice about it. i let her know, my heartbeat is increasing and im thinking about it the whole time, Rosa replies a couple of hours later. long sentimental message about how flattered she is and how much of a great man i am blah blah and i get the feeling she doesn't have the heart to say she's not interested.
couple of weeks later i try to pull it out of her, she says she had feelings for me about 2 years ago but she doesn't now, i understand and we never bring it up again, i want to ask about the details cause i was suprised but it feels kinda pathetic for some reason so i leave it, when we talk i still get the feeling Rosa's into me for some reason but doesn't want to say and i dont ask cause it also feels somehow weird. | Crushes |
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So earlier today I went with her to a mall, for context we are great friends for around 2 months, and she told me she has a crush on one of my close friends, who ironically offered that he will be my wingman. The rest of our trip I was silent. How do I quickly get over her? | Crushes |
I (16M) have been really close friends with this girl (16F) for about a year and a half. Just gotten over another girl and I'm starting to catch feelings for her but I'm not sure if she feels the same way.
She's shy but whenever I'm with her I feel like she's her true self and full of energy and cute weirdness. Whenever we hang out we flirt, and we always find each other close together in the group. Just recently I happened to see her at her workplace and I caught her staring at me and all I could do was smile and stare back and she did the same. So does she like me? | Crushes |
YESYESYESYES I FINALLY GOT THE NAME OF THE GUY I LIKED BC I DIDNT PAY ATTENTION IN CLASS WHICH I REGRET BUT LESSGO AND HE LOOKED IN MY DIRECTION A FEW TIMES WOOO (lmao ok but i lowkey feel that he noticed me looking at him so he was creeped out or something like that..)NOT GONNA BURST MY BUBBLE YET | Crushes |
She stays in my apartment and I'm not able to approach her | Crushes |
Yes | Crushes |
I've been hiding my true feelings for my crush from everyone AND him, I just want to let it all out here | Crushes |
We didnt fight or nothing bad happened between us. We just dont talk as much and it makes me so upset. Im literally the worst at starting convos.
Can u guys help me with some conversation starters? He is my friend so nothing flirty, just something that you would ask a friend? | Crushes |
Has having a crush on someone last for years? Like you haven't seen the person for years but when you finally see each other again you got butterflies in your stomach. | Crushes |
There is this girl that I like from work before I left but I still come by to see her and talk too. But there were instances I would say that she may have interest on me but I'm not sure.
1. She offered me food that she made during time I was working with her.
2. She ask if I'm still on a relationship though I was never in a relationship before.
3. She is easily impressed when I learn how to speak her language.
4. Whenever she hears or sees me she comes to my direction to talk to me.
5. When she was feeling down to work I manage to cheer her up easily and after she finished my order she made this long eye contact while she was smiling towards me. ( I actually don't know what to respond because I got really nervous.)
6. She is super grateful to me even though I only did a very small stuff for her.
7. Before I leave the country for vacation she overheard immediately she completely stop what she was doing and when she was supposed to say something she was cut off by another coworker. But when I asked if she wanted anything for souvenir she just said nothing she was okay. ( She was fidgeting her hands I'm not sure what it means.)
I just need to a perspective or help on this one because if she is interested in me. I not really good on signs myself and I'm also planning to ask her out ones I'm done my vacation. | Crushes |
So there is this person at golf that I feel mix about. I only see them once a week, we are both are really into planes and becoming a pilot. I like and enjoy being with them and talking. I really like the vibe we have, they are pretty chill and I like that. I think of them often, especially while listening to music, but rarely imagine us romantically. I been talking them for like 3 months. Is this a crush or other.
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Like rn I wanna hang out with him and cuddle. We've cuddle before, twice actually and it was pretty fun. My favourite was the 1st time where I really got to snuggle into him. The 2nd time I wanted to have romantic feelings or something anything like a massive voice in my head telling me I ws in love with him. But it wasn't there. But now I just wanna snuggle with him again. I wanna Bury my head in his chest and breath in his smell because I love it. It's not even sexual I just love the way he smells. Sometimes I think about he's really the only one who'd take care of me when we would kiss. We never have but I've thought about it. But when I look at his body, I'm not all that physically attracted to him. I'm not sure if that means I'm dumb or something or if I don't like him. Aren't you supposed t be attracted to someone you like? Ig now id ask if we can do this again but I think I've fucked up my only chance. Another thing is: I'm ftm and I haven't told him and I'm pretty sure he's not gay and probably wouldn't like me anymore (he told me he has a crush on me) I mean it shouldn't matter to me but sometimes I think about if he would still have a crush on me if I came out. I also don't wanna just use him for cuddling if that's what I'm doing. Wtf tf do I do?? Please help?? | Crushes |
Hi. So basically she has been recommended to me a lot and two people who follow me are already following her.
We are in the same form class at school
Would it be weird?
I already follow loads of people from school on insta,
My mum said it would be stalker-ish but I can't see where she is coming from. | Crushes |
So I am now 3 years together with my GF \[24/F\] and we are pretty great.
I work in the IT and one day I had to change a coworkers PC. She was next to me while doing that and we chatted a little bit. We really hit it off amazingly and have way more in common than we thought.
After I was done, she Emailed me the next 2 days and we wrote each other back, just a tiny amount. (She gave me her selfmade cookies and I mentioned how good they were and she told me next time she'd bring me a whole box of cookies only for myself).
After that she went on vacation for 1 week. I haven't spoken to her since and also didn't ask for her number and such since I am already taken and also didn't want to extend our little E-Mail chat.
For the past week and a half, there was not a single day that I didn't think about her. Even today I'm anxious since she is back at work and I catch myself waiting for her to write me..
It is really affecting my life right now since I even think about her during sex with my GF.
I won't initiate contact since I'm in a relationship and I don't cheat, but I would lie if I didn't fantasise about it.
What's the matter with me?.. I don't know if I really have feelings for this girl or it's just that I haven't really spoken like this to a girl since 3 years. (except my GF of course)
It's really hard to put up with these feelings. | Crushes |
I want to do it in person, but how do I even ask this girl to go somewhere with me? We're friends, I went to her birthday a few days ago and tbh, I feel that if I don't take my shot now I will lose any chance I have, if I have any at all, because on the day of her birthday she took a guy with her (to clarify, they're not dating). She showed signs of liking me in the past, I hope it's not too late for me and I also hope that I didn't screw everything up. I should have told her I liked her sooner, had literally so many chances, but was way too scared to do so.
Has anyone got any advice? | Crushes |
Well my crush and I are good friends and he just told me he likes someone else, I am happy for him but I dont know what to do, what to feel, I dont feel angry, I can’t blame him for liking someone else, maybe I just feel sad that that someone else could not be me :) | Crushes |
Hellos! I’m going on my first ever first date soon and I got a few questions:
1) after the first date, if it goes well, can I, as a girl, text him to say that it went well and look forward to see him again first or do I wait for his response?
- cause I’ve seen some videos saying girls shouldn’t text first after a date so I’m not sure about it
2) linking to question 1, if he doesn’t text me right away after the date, how long do I have to wait before texting him first?
3) if the first date does go well, around when would be appropriate to go on a second date, keeping in mind that we both got university and we live 3 hours apart
Any tips for first dates would also be highly appreciated 😁 | Crushes |
Okay! So i was driving to the mall when j stopped by the traffuc and saw this gus im currently crushing on. It was the 31st December and from 1st January, i started feeling so motivated and became a lot more productive.
I mean, i hadnt done any studying or working the past year, in a whole, and suddenly after seeing him i felt this urge to do more and do better.. i havent seen him since but i must say what all i gained in these 9 or so days, i didnt gain in past year.
My new year began really well just coz of this n i have no words to explain what im feeling.. its just different and even i dont understand whats happening to me LOL. I really hope to see him again someday. Fingers crossed. | Crushes |
I just confessed to my crush saying I like her for a very long time. Lately she also responded me that he also likes me for a very long time however only on pure admiration. She's saying things like she only likes me when she sees me, sometimes she doesn't wants me to be clingy, sometimes she doesn't want to. I tried to make an effort virtually but she said she wants it personally. So I tried to do it personally, she wants to however her parents are strict so she can't. At the moment, she said that she's still confused about her feelings so she concluded that she wants us to be friends with her first. What are your thoughts about this guys? Do I have a chance at all? Do I still have to keep showing her my interest by keeping in check occasionally or otherwise? | Crushes |
idk if anyone recognizes my user here, this will be a vent post
I used to post literally everyday about my crush and was crazy obsessed over him. It wasn’t like a one sided thing where I’m just observing but we were friends. Emphasis on were.
I really liked how he was so caring for me and generally just a really nice dude, he really brought out my feminine side which is honestly hard to get out of me. We texted nearly everyday for months. But as months passed I got more and more upset with him in how he would randomly ghost me in conversations without explanation while posting on social media at some dorm parties. It just made me feel like I’m not important and this was during a time where my self esteem was extremely low, and I even told him that multiple times.
I gained confidence over time and started taking initiatives with him but he seemed so dead and uninterested in speaking with me once that happened so I gave up on talking to him at all. He was late to something I organized and invited him to by 2 hours too (it only lasted 2 hours). It made me wonder how did he go from excited to see me and caring to almost avoiding being alone with me?
My self esteem is much higher today and I’ve met new people, new guys and all that. They treat me like my crush did — caring and checking in — but I don’t feel anything for them even when they do things better than my crush did such as communication (saying sorry for late reply and all that).
I don’t think I like him anymore, but after one of his posts, I feel like I did something wrong even if I wasn’t indirectly mentioned in the caption. He mentioned having a rough year and thanked everyone who ever spoke to him even once this 2022. Which was actually something I was going to put in my new year’s post as well to include him, but he posted first and I posted nothing in the end.
I just feel like maybe I hurt him for not wanting to talk to him anymore, or if I have even the smallest of feelings left for him. If we had only met when I wasn’t in such a self-loathing period of my life I think we would at least still be friends.
I know we’re gonna graduate college together, but I doubt we will talk to each other to at least say congrats. (same department)
TLDR: I used to be friends with crush. Stopped talking to him because I thought he annoyed with me, started ignoring him. I feel a bit sad if I ever was the cause of his rough 2022 as mentioned in his new year post. | Crushes |
irl or text? like intentionally replying late to them? or seeing them but intentionally ignoring them..not making an eye contact, despite texting them all day? | Crushes |
I've been working with a colleague for almost 5 years now, and into the 4th year I realised I'd started to develop feelings for him. I told him in November how I felt, and he replied and said "I don't want things to be awkward between us". I took that as a sign that he is not interested. He's seeing someone at the moment, so I left it at that.
Well, today has confused me.
I standing across from him at work sanitising something that a client had touched, and the hand sanitizer shot across the desk and onto the side of my hand. I sort of held my hand up and looked at it in horror and he smiled and said "Well, it popped in your hand".
Then I sighed and said "Well, I obviously missed sanitising the XYZ". So I use it again but the sanitizer must have been blocked at the spout and it shot towards him. Then he leaned forward, and pretended to catch it with his mouth and then he smirked at me. | Crushes |
Hello people of this sub so I have been Planning a confession to my crush this February 24 on the last friday of the next month but recently when I try to ask him questions on where he is going to eat or ask his opinion on things it takes a while or evn ignore me so I have been having second thoughts on Whether I should Stick to my plan on confessing to him or just let it go and not tell him my feelings. (btw Im male 16). | Crushes |
We were talking about birthdays and she casually mentioned our birth numbers are same and we are ought to have similar personalities and traits.
Is this normal or i am thinking too much because of me having a crush on her ?
Background: [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/yyr231/how_to_tell_if_a_girlfriend_of_mine_knows_i_am/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) | Crushes |
Every day I'm like, "if he does xyz, he must like me" and then he does xyz, and then I'm like "ok so he was just being nice obviously"
I can see how stupid I am but I can't bring myself to think he likes me too it seems unreal | Crushes |
Any girl on this sub will be by gf.... | Crushes |
If he doesn’t show up to school I will be so sad, he’s often the highlight of my school day. | Crushes |
I must have told you too much, it seems like you're pursuing me hard the past few times I saw you. I've told you too much because you're pursuing me in a new way that's working. Either that or you just know me so well. We got along well, I don't know why I never paid you any attention but I'm perplexed by your mannerisms. You want to get close to me alone but what is it that you want from me. We do fit well together but I'm usually the first to realize this however you've beat me to the punch anyways and doubled down aggressively. I have a feeling that we'll end up more than friends if I come over, I think you want that, but I think I only have one sliver left of heart, is it safe to use it in you?
P.S. Why do you have to work at the same company? ): | Crushes |
Please 🙏 | Crushes |
I recently confessed to a crush who I just now recently found out asked for a way to politely decline. I crushed over her for so long and so strongly I thought my emotions would push fate itself to turn everything into a reality. She's so funny, so sweet, and so kind, but most importantly I never forgot how she never broke eye contact when she would be in conversation with you. She held her gaze as though she wanted to pierce through everything you were feeling no matter how casual, formal, or important the conversation was. It didn't help that she held the most beautiful gaze and I longed for her eye contact more than the intensity of the colors behind a setting sun upon the horizon.
I understand that crushes are crushes for a reason and that these feelings we have for people should never define who we are, but I'm so tired. I'm legitimately exhausted. They say "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take", but I feel like I was cursed to miss every shot I took regardless. I understand that if patterns within our lives are continuous then it is up to us to change and break the cycle, but I'm starting to wonder if these patterns are rendered unbreakable in their tenacity.
I apologize also to those reading this for how incessantly poetic, unrealistic, and illusionary these ramblings are, but I think I'm just trying to cope from the reality I'm being dealt with. I hope some of you can sympathize with how painful these experiences can feel.
Crushes are exhausting because they make us feel so strongly about the outcomes that we desire, the fantasies of the "what ifs", and then if everything fails we wake up from a dream we never wanted to wake up from. | Crushes |
I was planning on asking my crush for his Snapchat when I see him at school again, but my friend just gave it to me and I'm not sure whether or not it would seem weird for me to just like?? Randomly add a guy on Snap and be like "hey my friend gave me your username" IS THAT WEIRD I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD GET IT DIRECTLY FROM HIM | Crushes |
So to put it short I kinda messed things up between me and this girl by being awkward and other stuff not too bad but I wanna ask her to start over, how should I/what should I say?????? | Crushes |
She asked me out! I'm sorta conflicted but in gonna give it a shot.
(Check my last post and the post before <3) | Crushes |
I find myself maintaining better hygiene and appearance. I work harder so I can have more opportunities to spend time with him. He’s had such a positive impact on my life and doesn’t even know yet. I hope someday we can become friends and I can tell him how much he’s helped me become a better person! | Crushes |
I'm crushing hard-core on my roommate's best friend and haven't told anyone, even my therapist.
For context, I have lived with my roommate for a year in March, and then working with her for a year and a half. My roommate and her BFF tried dating in the past, but came to find they aren't compatible romanticly and wanted to stay friends. They do have sexual chemistry, so they have a FWB type situation, with friendship coming first. We are all polyamorous and queer identifying.
My roommate's BFF has been over a bunch of times but I didn't start feeling any romantic or sexual feelings until this past Thanksgiving when our household held a friendsgiving party. We were alone outside just talking and catching up. Then we sat next to one another during game time throughout the entire night, occasionally sharing our vape pens with one another (real romantic for stoners, I know).
After that night, she requested to follow me on Instagram. Since then we've very casually have liked and commented on each other's stories, but we always watch each other's. My roommate has told me that her BFF has mentioned me coming on a trip of theirs together.
I found her on okcupid, but felt torn whether to swipe on her considering my roommate and I's friendship. My roommate has mentioned before that right now she doesn't want to get want to get involved with someone I'm seeing for the sake of our friendship and the fact we live and work together. So I ended up swiping left because I too value that.
Everytime I see her I get butterfly now and I try not to make it too obvious I have a crush on her. I'm now torn between trying to move on from this crush or try to shoot my shot in a more long-game type of situation. I can't tell if I have an actual shot or not and I wouldn't want to ruin my friendship and relationship with my roommate.
Ahhhhhhh any suggestions or advice?? Appreciated in advance. | Crushes |
So I mentioned to him recently that I have Tuesdays available if he’d want to do something together, and he said he should be available too. We didn’t make concrete plans, but I think we’re both still interested in doing it.
I feel anxious because I haven’t updated since then and he hasn’t updated since then. I feel anxious because I keep getting second thoughts about whether or not I truly like him or if it’s just convenient that he likes me back. I keep thinking too far ahead and I feel like we’re too different and won’t get along well. I don’t just want to settle because I’m in my mid-20s. I’m afraid I’m going to go through my last relationship again and it wasn’t good. I feel like I’m going to upset my crush by not updating on things, but I also think it’s stupid to feel like I have to walk on eggshells because of anxiety. I’m afraid of upsetting people and tend to lean toward people-pleasing to alleviate it.
Is it worth trying or should I just give up on pursuing him? Y’all be pessimistic though lol. | Crushes |
Soo over the past 1-2 months at work there’s been a girl I like but ima be honest I get a little shy and freeze up when I see her so I don’t say nothin too her but I wanna get to know her and ima introvert so I’m very quiet but if anyone can help me out someway plz I would love it | Crushes |
hello! I (15+ F) currently am crushing on this guy (15+ M) and I was wondering if and when I should shoot my shot. I get vibes that he doesn't really like me but he's also very socially awkward. He's always been polite to me but nothing really significant. We also don't really talk much at all but we both know of each other's existence and have a bunch of mutual friends. Should I ask him out?
tldr: shoot my shot or nah? | Crushes |
My school crushes used to be the popular guys who were emotionally distant and cold. I didn’t notice until recently how crushing on them felt so unrewarding and neglectful to myself, let alone a unreciprocated waste of time. Instead of holding onto scraps or hints of affection, now I really want someone who won’t hold back when showing their care, love and affection for me. | Crushes |
Ion know if he likes me or not.....fr reply to this if you are able to help me and ill tell yall abt our interactions and our relationship to see if he likes me or not | Crushes |
I’ve had this crush on this guy and he has no friends and is super introverted. I’ve posted and spoken to him in the past but no big convo. But, one day, I decided to follow him on insta cuz I was bored. I Follower shim for 3 days but then stopped following him cuz he wasn’t gonna follow me back. A week later, I find out he’s in the same math class as my friend and sits infront of her. And I’m the president of a club and we were having a party at our meeting and she asked him if he wanted to come and he said yes!!
When he came ofc he was really quiet but I ended up talking to him a bit. He was nice and chill and that’s a while other story another time. Anyway, he actually brought cookies to my meeting (it was a potluck and it was optional) and I dmd him on insta which made me follow him again. I basically just texted saying hey thanks for the cookies sorry I didn’t say that earlier. And he responded something nice and normal. I ended up leaving my follow for 3 weeks until recently I remembered and decided to unfollow cuz even then he still didn’t follow me back (this was 4 days ago).
Fast forward two days, my friends account got hacked and I posted on my story a picture of my cat and said “hey guys— told me tell you guys she got hacked so beware🕵️♂️” and I forgot about it. Later, I just got bored and checked who viewed it. And low and behold he viewed it? We’re not even mutuals… and he didn’t follow me back even tho all my friends sfolloeed hum the day before I did and he followed them back right away. My friends think he purposely didn’t follow me back for some weird reason (I thought he hated me lol that’s why he didn’t follow me) and that he’s stalking me.
I know I’m thinking way too deeply about this but I really am super curious. My insta only has ab 50 followers (all my friends) and I don’t have any posts besides having two separate highlight folders with stuff in them | Crushes |
Went okay they didn’t like me back but were chill about it which is honestly all I was expecting. ON TO THE NEXT PERSON IN MY CRUSH LIST!!!! | Crushes |
I've been going through some internal issues about my friend/maybe crush | Crushes |
So we were casually snapping last night and he sent a snap I open it 5mins after he sent it and as soon as I do he sends another one so I open that one and send one snap and he snaps back saying "I'm too speedy"...... what do you think this means? | Crushes |
I like him so much, i know he doesn’t like me and I feel bad thinking about him in a romantic light but I just can’t help it. He’s so kind to everyone and even though we don’t talk anymore I miss him m. He has the prettiest eyes i’ve ever seen in my life, they are so amazing I just want to look into them for hours and get lost. The passion he has for the things he likes is so admirable and he always does his best and I find it so refreshing. He was one of the only people who actually wanted to talk to me and I really appreciate him for that. I want to hold his hand and compare the sizes of both of our hands, I want to hug him and I want him to hug me back. I want him to hold me in his arms while I play on my nintendo switch or Ds. I want to go to every single one of his games to show how much I support him and how much I care about him. I want to ice skate hand in hand, I want to drink tea with him, I want to go on hikes together and play his favorite sports together even if i suck because I know if we were together that wouldnt matter. I want him to look at me the way i look at him. I want a pure love with just romance and little things like sharing food and baking together and staying up late into the nights during sleepovers just to bask in each others presence. It makes me sad knowing this will never happen as he moved away but you can always rely on your dreams, only sometimes i wish it were real. | Crushes |
So I've been wanting to go to Europe for years, and I met this great guy at a summer camp we worked at last summer. He lives in Europe, and we're thinking of meeting up in Budapest this summer. He said "we'll figure it out/we have a lot of time to summer" and we haven't talked about it much recently.
I know it depends if he still wants to do it, he seems enthusiastic about it generally. But if he still does, I need some way to talk about the sleeping arrangements. I have a crush on him, I'm not sure if he likes me back but I know for sure he cares about me as a friend. i just want the conversation to be as not embarrassing as possible.
And he does want me to come, I was talking about going to Germany by myself but then I had the idea that I should just come see him in his city, because he's there and it's still in Europe with all the european vibes and culture if you know what I mean. Then he kept 'liking' my messages about it on insta and encourages me to come (but he also encourages me to go wherever I want lol). We've been talking for 7 months now, and gotten closer as friends. | Crushes |
Feel free to ask me any questions regarding my crush 🥰. | Crushes |
So there is this Girl that I have really fallen for for the last like 2-3 months, but I do not know if she likes me back? We’re constantly doing stuff together with and without friends. She has One of my hoodies now as Well and wants some of my clothes that dont fit me anymore. We both really love Music and its something we Bond over and my favorite Song has recently become her favorite as Well and tells me it reminds her of me… | Crushes |
This is my first Reddit post ever so I might not know some hidden rules or smth like that...
Context:
I (17M) have such a massive crush on this guy (17M) but I don't know how to approach him at all. I study in England as a transfer student from Hongkong and he's a transfer student from Germany. He only joined at the start of this school year and he's in a different boarding house than mine.
So far I've gifted him stuff and hung out with him in town once. I also went to the sauna with him once at a resort. (it sounds weird but it was like a school trip for exeat)
I text him sometimes and he responds sometimes but not very responsive generally. (Idk if he just doesn't use his phone much or if he can't be bothered to reply) He's also a bit shy and he's got such a dumb sense of humour Idk if he's just german or not, like 😭😭
I want to ask him out but I want to make good impressions first before I do it, but I'm so stupid and inexperienced Idk what to do. I also don't even know if he's gay or not so I'm just dying...
(I'm not publicly out yet but I don't mind telling people)
Please help me, Idk how to approach him or what to do to make any progress at all...... feel free to ask me for more info | Crushes |
as the title reads but i think it’ll be the best decision for me possibly even the both of us | Crushes |
Did they do something cute? Say something funny? I’m curious to know :) | Crushes |
Do boys like it when girls put their hair up or down? | Crushes |
We became friends in November and there was this party. I had anxiety and I told her I couldn’t go because of it and she offered to go with me and stay around me so I wouldn’t be scared. There was also when she ate with me alone because I was too anxious to go to the dining hall. We spoke quite a lot but I noticed that during our break she’s suddenly stopped texting me and it’s making me worry. Idek if she likes me but what do I do? | Crushes |
Ask away! | Crushes |
I (13M) have a crush on my friend (13M) and I don't know how to actually talk to him because I have social anxiety and we got a bit distant when he got friends in high school we still talk but it's always him who starts the conversations and when I try to I get to flustered and just decide not to but I want to get closer to him to try and hopefully get the courage to ask him out
TLDR:I have a crush on my friend but I have social anxiety and get really flustered around him and I need advice on how to talk to him | Crushes |
I’ve had this crush on this guy and he has no friends and is super introverted. I’ve posted and spoken to him in the past but no big convo. But, one day, I decided to follow him on insta cuz I was bored. I Follower shim for 3 days but then stopped following him cuz he wasn’t gonna follow me back. A week later, I find out he’s in the same math class as my friend and sits infront of her. And I’m the president of a club and we were having a party at our meeting and she asked him if he wanted to come and he said yes!!
When he came ofc he was really quiet but I ended up talking to him a bit. He was nice and chill and that’s a while other story another time. Anyway, he actually brought cookies to my meeting (it was a potluck and it was optional) and I dmd him on insta which made me follow him again. I basically just texted saying hey thanks for the cookies sorry I didn’t say that earlier. And he responded something nice and normal. I ended up leaving my follow for 3 weeks until recently I remembered and decided to unfollow cuz even then he still didn’t follow me back (this was 4 days ago).
Fast forward two day, my friends account got hacked and I posted on my story a picture of my cat and said “hey guys— told me tell you guys she got hacked so beware🕵️♂️” and I forgot about it. Later, I just got bored and checked who viewed it. And low and behold he viewed it? We’re not even mutuals… and he didn’t follow me back even tho all my friends sfolloeed hum the day before I did and he followed them back right away. My friends think he purposely didn’t follow me back for some weird reason (I thought he hated me lol that’s why he didn’t follow me) and that he’s stalking me.
I know I’m thinking way too deeply about this but I really am super curious. My insta only has ab 50 followers (all my friends) and I don’t have any posts besides having two separate highlight folders with stuff in them | Crushes |
Okay for what I think is the **4th time** I will try to confess that I like my crush, Laura (fake name). After this weekend and being introduced to songs that relate to my crush on Laura, I have been getting crafty to tell her and came up with something. I'll play one of the 3 songs I been introduced to (I'll list then here):
• Out of My League (Fitz and the Tantrums)
• Looking Out for You (Joy Again)
• I Like You (Ben Rector)
So I'll ask to talk to her about something causal, give her one of my earbuds and as I talk to her, it will play whatever song I play and then ask her how she liked it and drop the bomb saying that's how I feel about her. I'll try to talk it out to make sure no to minimal damage is caused.
Yes, it will probably be corny to do it. But I don't care if I do it, feels kinda natural for me. In all my confessions, I never verbally tell them I like them. Another reason I'm doing this is because I think I'm gonna stutter if I verbally speak.
(To me) It should be an easy plan but all I have to trust is my confidence and momentum to do it. I pray to God this goes well. Plan is to do it this week so wish me luck! | Crushes |
My story may be different.
We are from different countries. I am an international student here. And here is her home.
We had a common course. My background is complicated, and I'm definitely older than her. 10+ years older I guess? Cuz I made a detour in studying in my youth age for some complicated reasons.
I worked for a few years, then started a company, made some money, and went back to school. Fortunately, I have accumulated some resources and customers for years, which support me to study without any worries.
I think I am good to those around me and I always try to give them the best I can. Strictly speaking, Although there are many people around me, I have been alone for the past many years. So it's hard for me to have feelings for a girl!
She is one of the few friends I know here. She is very kind and hardworking. She works to support herself and her academy. (I was a confused teenager when I was her age). She showed up with a very kind gesture, which really touched me. I felt an unprecedented comfort and I enjoyed talking to her despite my poor language skills. I may look younger. I don't know how to express it clearly and I'm afraid she would feel stressed. So I didn't tell her about my experience.
I care about her very much, I don't know if my feelings for her are friendship or one-sided like. But it doesn't matter, I don't want to figure it out. Because I don't think I'm good enough for her in any way (Age, language, background, etc). She is so young, I believe she will have a bright, wonderful, and colorful future!
Even though I have some work experience and two companies, I'm in better finance than her and I live in my own house. But I'm an idiot in relationships. For a while, I felt that she might like me back. We texted well. It was really nice to have someone in my heart. Although I was happy, it made me feel very guilty. I decided to try to tell her experiences step by step because I should be honest with her despite being a friend. I edited a long text, telling why I came to school here, and what stories I had experienced in the past. I sent it to her.
The next day, she replied to me. I want to know if she was scared by my story. She never answered that. But I can feel that our relationship has become distant. Maybe it's because I don't dare to get too close, or I said something wrong. I don't know!
I am used to the fact that many people come and go in my life, but this time I secretly told God, I don't want to lose her as a friend, I can always be a good friend if she would like! | Crushes |
Iam thinking about asking her out but before i do i wanna hear everyone elses experiences - and im also trying to fill this text out so i can post this | Crushes |
I’ve (25m) had a crush on one of my coworkers (21f) for a couple months now. I try not to really flirt with her because she does have a boyfriend, but I’ve always been told that I have a bit of a “flirty personality” so sometimes it happens. Very recently, I feel like she may possibly be flirting with me but I’m not totally sure?
We tend to tease and joke around with each other. But it’s not so much what we say, it’s the tone in which we say it. Just very lighthearted and jokingly. I’m not sure how else to describe it. We also sometimes tend to gravitate towards each other when we’re both at work it seems like.
There was a day where I was off before her, and before I left she said, “I see, you just don’t wanna work with me.” She said it in a way that I knew she was teasing, but there was also a shyness to it. Quiet tone, head down, pretending to be overly focused on what she was doing.
There was another time where she said to me “if I were to ever cheat on my boyfriend, it would be with a mixed boy.” And I am in fact.. a mixed boy.
We were joking around about something about a week ago, and I said we could fight if she wanted to. She said “I’ve been looking for a reason to fight somebody”. To which I replied, “I’ll give you a million and one reasons to fight me.” After that, for the rest of the night, it almost felt like we were following each other around just talking and bullshitting. She ended up staying around for maybe 15-20 mins after she had clocked out and we continued talking and kinda goofing around a little while I worked.
Recently, she has voluntarily stayed late when I’m working, despite the fact that she honestly isn’t much of a worker and normally likes to be sent home as soon as she can be.
Not long ago, on her day off, she texted me early in the afternoon and asked if I was working that day because she was thinking about coming up there. I told her to come up after the rush had died down around 8-8:30. She never responded to my text, but she was there at 8 on the dot. I tried talking to her, but everyone ended up migrating up front to talk to her as well. When I tried speaking over a couple people to say something to her, she said “what? Come here.” I got kinda nervous and just repeated myself instead. After that we didn’t talk a whole lot, simply due to the fact that everyone talking at once was very overstimulating to me. She was up at our work for about two hours.
Like I said, she does have a boyfriend and she does mention him in conversation, though not always in a positive way. We are not friends on any social media. I did try adding her on something recently, but she never added me back nor said anything about it. We don’t normally text either, unless about work. Some days it seems like we could possibly be flirting, and other days not so much. I don’t intend to pursue her while she is with someone. But I am curious as to what you guys think? I don’t feel like it’s appropriate to ask her directly, as I don’t want to make things weird between us. And if I’m wrong, I don’t want her to think that I’m a creep or something lol | Crushes |
For some backstory I (M15) and my crush (M15) have been friends for about 10-11ish years and I have been crushing for like 5-6 years
Last night we were playing video games and we both got bored so I asked him what he wanted to play and he said “I don’t know, all I want is for you to be happy”
I’m freaking out and I just needed to tell anyone!!!!!! | Crushes |
I (19F) have developed a crush on my friend(18F). We've been friends for almost 3 months (yeah that's REALLY short) but we're like.. very open to each other and it feels like we've been friends for way longer than that. We have a special bond, even our friends keep telling us that we look like a couple.
Well, the thing is that yesterday she told me that she feels the safest around me and she's jealous whenever i'm with someone else and called me a coward for not confessing to her. It was the moment when i was 100% sure that i love her more than just a friend and i've been in denial for a while
I really feel like i do want to confess to her rn, like not asking her to be my gf or anything, just telling her how i actually feel
No matter how stupid this whole situation sounds, recommendations would be much appreciated<3 | Crushes |
You are the most handsome guy I have ever met, and im not saying that because i like you. You only see me as a friend, but i had feelings for you from the moment i saw you.
You are very kind to me, you always try to make me laugh, care about me. You are a very serious and mature person. Sometimes you act childish, you tickle me and I admit it sometimes it annoys me, you notice it. Sometimes we have small arguments, but after that you always make sure that Im not mad at you. How could I ever stay mad at you? Maybe I like you because I never had anybody care about me, or maybe it’s the way you show me your childish side when you are serious with everyone else.
But that is what we will ever be, friends. You probably think im too ugly to be with you, and I would understand. There is no doubt that you are out of my league. Why would you choose me when there are girls that look like real life princesses with perfect bodies.
You have a girlfriend, I wish I was her. When you first told me it was long distance, I admit I hoped it would end. I never saw her, but Im sure she is great and pretty enough to deserve a guy like you.
I would give anything to kiss you once. When I have trouble sleeping, I imagine myself sleeping in your arms, it calms me down. I go to sleep thinking about you, I dream about you. Even being close to you in my dreams give me butterflies.
I know you could never see me this way so I will never tell you. I will just keep on dreaming. I love you. | Crushes |
ok so i’m probably overthinking this but i don’t want him to get sus. basically he texted me saying “we should watch something” (we were talking abt anime before this). does he mean like we should watch together or on our own?? he means together right?? right?? 😭😭😭 | Crushes |
Hi I’m a sophomore in hs and I like this girl but we don’t talk too often. We have 2 classes together but I end up talking to my other friend usually and she talks to hers. How do I start talking to her more where it doesn’t look desperate? | Crushes |
Does anyone have any advice on what I should say to them? | Crushes |
I've had a crush on her for 3 months now, but have known her for a year. She's really shy has no friends (in our school), since she changed schools last year. I often just go to her if i want to talk, she either doesn't care, that i'm there, or leads the entire conversation, that's the problem i have...
Depending on her mood, she either talk non-stop, or doesn't want to talk at all. I tried asking her why, but she isn't open for direct conversation. I'm literally the only person at school, who is talking to her, but she doesn't seem to care about me, even though i sacrificed a lot.
So basically i can either have the best day, when she is in a good mood, or the worst day, when she wastes my time...
Help! Should i give up on talking to her? | Crushes |
she started laughing at me and called me emo 💀(in a lighthearted way she isn't an asshole dw) | Crushes |
Hello. I'll try and be brief.
We're both 17 and in the same class. She's very shy, and I've tried my best to approach her and make her comfortable with me, but try as I might, she's never come to me, not even a single time in 2 years.
I know I cannot expect people to be my BFF just because we talked some times, but although I have to admit that my attemps at talking to her were, in general, not particularly good, I can't shake off this feeling that I've done everything in my power and that at this point we should be at least friends. It saddens me, because I'm almost certain she likes me. But, for example, when it was her birthday I made her a very personalized birthday card as a surprise (which I don't even know if she liked because she said nothing), then my birthday came and she didn't even say happy b-day to me despite her knowing it was my bday. Thinking that despite everything that I've tried, we're not even at the point that she congratulates me makes me feel like it's all been for nothing. I want to give up. She prolly wants me to give up, as well. But you know, it hurts.
Tomorrow our holidays end, and it's the last 5 moths we'll see each other, which also makes me quite sad. I really do want to give up, but perhaps a bit of advice from you guys could be good/encouraging/whatever.
Thank you. Please refer to me as Max and her as Nora, not our real names. | Crushes |
After all the stuff with the pandemic and the blue that life has been for the past few years, it's almost like a new feeling to crush on someone.
I'd forgotten how it felt to get butterflies when they're around you. How time flies faster when you're with them, and the feeling of longing when you haven't seen them in a while.
I am a person who was hit with depression and lack of motivation when the pandemic started. Unfortunately, it was also right in the middle of my post graduate studies. Deprived of new human interactions and loss of motivation in academia, I was on a downward trend. It wasn't sudden but, bit by bit I picked up myself and pushed onward. Reminding myself every now and then the reason I'd set off on my academic journey. My friends and family did whatever they could from where they were. Mind you, this is all happening after I moved out of my home country to pursue university.
Out comes this person from buttfuck nowhere at a friend's dinner and starts making an impression on me. They're impressed by whatever I do (I was the one who was cooking for the said dinner), laugh at my jokes and are attentive to what I'm saying. I get sick and cancel on a future dinner plan with the same group of friends. They're the first one to regularly check up on me about my health. I spilled a little bit of my experience with depression and they're the ones telling me that "I can do it"; that they believe in me. I'm not a person who is very touchy or hugs people, but they managed to invade my personal space within 2-3 interactions lol.
The first time I interacted with them was back in September 22. At that time, I was still struggling with my final thesis, in uni, broke and a ton of debt. Fast forward to today, I've graduated from uni, working a decent paying job, found motivation in my hobbies and overall in such a better mental state.
I've never felt so much gratitude towards a person in such a short time but I can't seem to express it. I guess I still have some pieces to pick up. But I really want to be with them and be there for them like they were (knowingly or unknowingly) for me. Whenever we talk, I do feel like there's a spark in our conversations. When we hug, it always seems that the hug lasted for a second longer than it should have. In a group, we always look at each other while laughing or when in surprise. They also have invited me to hang out with their group of friends with whom they share their native language with while I was an alien who only spoke English.
Here's where I am confused though. They rarely ever text me first or reply days later. In contrast, I've seen them reply to texts immediately when they're around me. They've made it known that they have a preference towards a person who speaks the same native language as them. Also, they like people who are sporty and naive while I would describe myself as someone completely opposite to that.
I really want to confess to them but I'm scared that it might sour our relationship. I don't know what to make of all these signals. Which is where I realised that I'd forgotten how it felt to be crushing on someone. This is a post I wrote to just arrange my thoughts in words. Let me know if anyone of you can make sense of this or can relate to this.
Happy Living! | Crushes |
So my crush is a huge Harry Potter fan (and so am, because I got into it due to her). My mom recently bought two tickets for a concert featuring music from the Half-Blood Prince. I know my mom wouldn’t mind me going with somebody else so I’d like to ask my crush if she wants to go with me. It wouldn’t be a date or anything, just having some fun and hopefully getting to know her more.
The reason I doubt if I should is because she might interpret it as a date. We’re also not super close together socially. Do you guys think I should ask her to go? | Crushes |
So this guy smiles at me really big and makes eye contact. Stands really close to me whenever I’m in his vicinity. The other day he saw me standing like 10 ft away and he made his way over to me under the guise of doing something. He comes up really close like shoulders touching and will talking to me quietly. And yesterday he saw me made eye contact and smiled even tho he was talking with someone. He stopped in front of me his friend continued walking. He just stared leaned in and smiled it felt like forever and I couldn’t look away I just smiled back and leaned in. I wanted to touch him. And then I remembered where I was said hi and walked off quickly. I have no idea it’s been a long time since I’ve had a crush like this. Is this positive? | Crushes |
You ever have this feeling? Where you just want the “rumor” that you like her to be told to her by someone so you can just listen to her response and see what she says? | Crushes |
So here's the kicker...after a couple of years crushing over you, I now work for you...Ironic....hmmmm?!? Anyways, I've enjoyed getting to know you better and really seeing who you are, aside from a distance across the room look, or a quick glance over your sunglasses. I now find it harder to not show my interest vs. prior to working for you. I know deep down that nothing will happen between us....or will it? Inquiring minds wants to know 🤔 LOL Either way, I'm still smitten to see you every day, even if you're not mine, you're still a beautiful distraction. | Crushes |
she is a girl! and 12. Im boy | Crushes |
So i go to a musical theatre group, I’m a theatre kid.
I have this rly good friend there, C, and him and I do the dance part together. We can dance together and we’re good at improv because we understand what each other are doing.
Today seemed different though. We were told to do an improv part to a dance and our hands we’re together and stuff and we were dancing and it wasn’t bad for improv. But on the last run through of that dance, he tilted my chin up sorta if that makes sense and then we separated so we could do the actual dance.
Now idk where else to put this, but that was pretty fun and I do not have a crush on C, however in that moment I would’ve kissed him.
Yk that feeling? Bc that’s the one I got. Idk where else I’d post this. | Crushes |
TikTok has an option where you can see who viewed your profile, as long as the people viewing it also have that setting on.
It so happens to be the guy I have a crush on. I know, funny how that works. It was multiple people viewing my profile more than once, whether I know them or not, and he’s one of them. He doesn’t follow me, but I counted six times (I started counting the third time he did it. I counted for the other people who view my profile).
I think it’s strange. I start wondering if he likes me back, but that’s just overthinking. I don’t know if it’s that, he’s judging me and/or showing people, or some other reason. What do you guys think? Either he already knows I like him or is under the impression that I used to like him, and he isn’t interested in me. I’m really confused as to why he’s doing this. | Crushes |
This is gonna be kinda long because a lot has happened.
If you look at my other crush related posts you'll see that it seems like he likes me back a lot, but Im not sure for multiple reasons. One, he knows I like him and didn't say anything back he just kept acting the exact same. Two, he makes jokes about me being cute with his brother, his youngest brother is my age and the middle brother is one year older, hes 2 1/2 years older than me. Three, it just seems more like hes just flirting for fun Rather than actually liking me. Anyways, other than that some other semi related drama is that his dad apparently told his middle brother that I have a crush on him(he is cute but I don't like him like that). Now his whole family(mom,dad,youngest brother,him and the middle brother) all think I like the middle brother, oh and also now my entire B block class(second period, idk how you would say it) also thinks I like him thanks to his youngest brother. Its funny but also really stressful because noone in my class knows its a 'joke' and somehow neither does his mom, dad and the guy I supposedly like. I'm not sure what to do about that but whatever. Anyways thats my little update | Crushes |
I'm just sitting and waiting for an answer that I'll probably get tomorrow or never.... | Crushes |
I like this guy. Let's call him "L". L is my classmate, and he doesn't talk at all; he only talks when someone asks him questions. I've tried taking it to him, but every time I stand in front of him I just can't talk at all. Ykwim? So a week ago he asked for my discord and I was so happy because for the past few weeks I've been trying to talk to him, but now he's the one who initiated the convo. I added him on Discord and we chatted for at least 40 minutes. He changed his status to "IJWTLYKTYVB". I didn't know who it was for, but I put a question mark in my status. Then he replaced his status to "Did you figure it out?" and then that only means that he's trying to talk to me using his status. Now it's been 2 days since that happened and I'm still very happy. Do you think I have a chance with him? | Crushes |
I was forced by my friends to confess because they said she gave the green light from the start (I did thought so too). We definitely had chemistry on chat but but her studying abroad basically making me 'unknown' and she is no where seem to return home anytime soon, I knew it would be a false hope. | Crushes |
I unknowingly embarrassed myself in front of my crush today it was so bad and i turned my head and he was watching me and it was at something he’s really good at helpp 😭
(probably the most specific i will ever get on this sub out of fear of being discovered loL) | Crushes |
and how would she react if I asked for her number/snap thing/ anything else ? | Crushes |
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