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Spring break is coming up and I don’t want to come off too strong. Any sort of advice is fine, preferably through dm
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So… There is this girl from my theater class, right? I had like a small crush on her during the first week of the course, but not like a big deal. So, last Friday I went to a theater by myself to see a play and, guess what, she went to see the same play also alone. We end up seeing together. And I live in a city with 2.7 million people. Crazy coincidence. And today on the theater class we got paired up on a class with other 60 people on a exercise we had to hold hands and look at each other eyes. I mean, suddenly the universe is being my wing man I guess? So, great start, very excited, now is up to me to make a move and see what happens, wish me luck
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Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom. Our school guidance counselor will be a chaperone at prom.
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I met a boy through a club and this semester we are in the same class. Told him I would never make the first move and now we are datingggg!!!!! Im so happy hehe
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I had a biggest crush on this guy from my past school because simply he is very ideal. He is kind, funny, confident, smart, friendly, family-oriented, and dedicated person. He got that clean undercut perfect for his square face with glasses on. I told him I like him through a secret love letter but after a year I told him that it was me, through a chat. He told me he can still remember the letter I gave him and thanked me then nothing else, well that's okay for me. He didn't gatekeep me to talk with him and so I want to talk to him not so often because I don't want to bother him. I really like him that I even make a playlist for him. But as soon as I got transferred to another school, I met this guy who sat beside me and I was shock that was the guy I find look-alike of my biggest crush. His voice and face resembles to the guy I very liked. I guess I adore him those times because he also seems friendly and funny but not as smart as my biggest crush. We kinda became close but I was shy so we didn't end up being friends. I also made the biggest mistake and that was I tried him to ship with my friend, I think he got offended. But I guess my friend and him got a little chemistry. Then the time has come, I heard him sang the song I gave for my biggest crush. That was the song I was listening over and over while making my secret love letter to my biggest crush. So now everytime I hear the song I remember him and my biggest crush.
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This is not a happy post at all. I just had to inform on of my close friends that A person I've fallen in love with and had my heart broken by since we'll they had a gf We both liked im gonna call "may" I had fallen inlove over may it was real live but Infact it was almost one sided they were the most kindest brightest most beautiful amazing person I've ever met and Well I was talking to them one day and I heard may and their girlfriend Saying babe to each other and To let you know we never really say are relationship stuats so this is why it all happened back to the story. And I popped the question are you guys dating? And they both said yes. You didn't know? And All that love and happiness and everything just got dull. I wanted to cry and die so badly right their and then and now I'm having to relive all those emotions right now by having to explain to my close friend of mine and Mays that Their already taken. Why.
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I’m gonna ask her in person to hang out this weekend and I hope it goes well. So last week I was texting her about mcas and she said she had a lot of work and then I asked her to hang out and she said no, I have a lot of work because it’s the end of the term, and I haven’t said anything in response to that. It’s not a rejection though, today I saw her and she said hi to me so she’s not ignoring me, but she’s not chasing me by saying hi to me either. But tomorrow, I’ll run into her in the halls and I think I’ll try and make eye contact , smile, wave then try and say hi to her. I also will have the same lunch as her so I’ll try and sit next to her and talk to her because I’ve talked to her a couple times before and she seemed interested in talking to me. She remembered some things I dmed her and she tried keeping the conversation going, then this one time she looked at me, smiled and said bye to me but that’s not even a sign. When I talk to her, I’ll try and start off by talking about how this week is gonna be easy and that we’re not gonna have that much homework. I don’t wanna bring the hangout texts up right away but hopefully she’ll bring them up and then I can ask her about this weekend and if she’ll be free.
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I am a freshman in high school and there is this sophomore that I really like. 2 years ago we were TIGHT friends but idk why our relationship died, maybe because our friend group split up. Another thing I had a huge glow up since then. She is a 11/10, honestly the most perfect girl I know. Idk why but I know for a fact she liked me when we were friends, reflecting on it now. Thing is since then I’ve went from a highly extroverted person to a kinda introvert. On to the point. She was 100% flirting with me around 3 weeks ago but I didn’t know how to respond so I kinda didn’t flirt back. FF to today and yesterday, where a boy similar to me has been making her laugh and she looks at him in a special manner, idk like a good friend manner or you know what manner. Sorry for talking for long but how do I slightly flirt with her to figure out if she likes me? Notes: we have no classes together but we do both do track and field. She is also the principles daughter so I can’t be forward or direct. Also she is definitely the person to go on personality. Help?
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I’ve been hurt recently by a guy! And well I found another guy, I thought was cute in one of my classes in uni Anyway I would message him! As I mean the year is over and we are having different lectures next year, so I won’t see him I mean he follows me and likes me pictures, so that’s a start right? But I mean I would message him! I mean I was gonna ask about the essays not being returned back to us, as they was supposed to and ask him if he had his? But then again I don’t wanna seem like a weirdo or anything, and just get blocked to feel even worse than I do now, cause of the other dude
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Hello again y'all, I am here with an update on my crush. (I am the poem/I gave her my phone number girl) So, long story short, turns out she's 30 years old and I turn 20 in August. And that's WAY above my age preference, so I believe it's time to close this particular chapter of my life lol and move on.
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So basically there’s that girl that I (17m) consider the best girl I’ve met, she’s just wonderful. I’ve known her for 3 years now and we aren’t talking to each other anymore. Since I met her, whenever someone asked if there’s a girl I like I said no because she was so out of my reach that I think my brain didn’t even consider her as an option just like if she was some kind of celebrity. But yesterday I had about her where she confessed to me her love and I felt something I’ve never experienced before. Its like I can’t remember the dream the feeling it procured me is crystal clear. I really do believe that physically I have my chance with her I am 6 “3, and pretty fit and I know her type. But the thing is that I don’t have the personality she’s searching for. When I think of it this simple barrier was so strong that my brain couldn’t even consider that I got a shot with her. Now the thing is that want to get closer to her but it’s the end of the year and I fear it’s too late. I’ve been thinking to give her gift just so that she has it. I don’t care what she does with it, I just want her to have it. But I don’t know if it is creepy.
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- we are good friends. -we went on a school trip today. -we haven’t been talking to each other for the past month for some reason So today they literally sat on my shoulders and squished my head between their upper thighs for like 5 mins while playing with (braiding) my hair and then like 30 mins later sat in my lap for like 10 mins when the bench i was sitting on had an empty seat beside me. Not even like the hovering sit at the edge of my legs/on my knees. Full on settled in, sat on my thighs, their back reclined and glued to my chest, my chin on their shoulder. They weren’t even talking to me though. They were just sitting in my lap, talking to someone else and completely ignoring me, so after a few seconds i kinda just wrapped my arms in front of them and continued reading on my phone over their shoulder. After abt 10 mins one of their friends wanted to jjoin us and then sat on their lap. Then more people joined and we anded up with like 4 people sitting on each others lap on me, and then everyone fell over bc it was lopsided a little. Then their friends all left and they stayed for like a few more minutes, then also left to look for someone. Then when we were on the bus, they were sleepy, but refused to lean on my shoulder to sleep? (We were sitting beside each other on the bus and they had the window seat.) Like what? They opted to sleep with their head curled in an extremely uncomfortable position, then complained about it every time they woke up. Then when we got off the bus they completely ignored me for the rest of the day, only distractedly asking if i was gonna be cold wearing shorts and walking home and saying bye when i left to walk home.
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So the past two times I went to the store I didn’t see the guy that I’m interested in. I don’t know if he’s off or if he doesn’t work there anymore. Of course it’s his life and he can decide to do whatever he wants but the thought of him not working there anymore scares me. I let fear hold me back and not approach him. I really hope I get to see him again. If I see him again, regardless of the out come, I will tell him that I think he’s really handsome and would like to get to know him more
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So basically there’s that girl that I (17m) consider the best girl I’ve met, she’s just wonderful. I’ve known her for 3 years now and we aren’t talking to each other anymore. Since I met her, whenever someone asked if there’s a girl I like I said no because she was so out of my reach that I think my brain didn’t even consider her as an option just like if she was some kind of celebrity. But yesterday I had about her where she confessed to me her love and I felt something I’ve never experienced before. Its like I can’t remember the dream the feeling it procured me is crystal clear. I really do believe that physically I have my chance with her I am 6 “3, and pretty fit and I know her type. But the thing is that I don’t have the personality she’s searching for. When I think of it this simple barrier was so strong that my brain couldn’t even consider that I got a shot with her. Now the thing is that want to get closer to her but it’s the end of the year and I fear it’s too late.
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I am a guy need help and advice confessing to my gay best friend
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I’ve liked this girl since 10th grade, and while I did confess to her early into that year, she hadn’t reciprocated and those feelings quickly drifted off allowing us to remain friends. We’re now both in 11th grade and I just can’t get away from liking her again. We were fortunate this year to have shared a Forensics class together, and that allowed us to grow closer throughout the semester. We share some common interests, and overall I find her to be the most comforting person in my life to be around. From what I’d learned early on into knowing her, I knew she wasn’t really interested in dating, or at least she didn’t prioritize it. I kept that in mind, and so I always tell myself not to rush anything, and to be okay with the likely possibility that nothing will happen. I’ve always been fine with that thought, and often times I even wish I could just know how she felt so I could pull the plug and remain friends. However, not knowing her feelings keeps me going, and I just don’t want to give up without knowing for sure. Ever since first semester we haven’t gotten the chance to see each other much, even whilst in school. We’re both busy people, but we’ve had the chance to hang out a few times. We’ve gone bowling a few times, and even driven an hour a way to visit a cat cafe one time. The last time we hung out was just the other night. We went to our schools talent show and then afterwards she asked me if I wanted to go get dinner with her. I hadn’t expected that; I’d always been the one asking her to go places, so her invitation meant more to me than it may have to most. She took me to a local burger joint and we talked for an hour and a half. She started asking about me, wanting to know more about me. We ended up learning a lot about one another. Perhaps she’s nothing more than a great friend, but that night actually gave me some hope in her reciprocating in any way. Later this month we’re even going to prom together. Whether anything happens or not, I’d be happy with one dance. That’s all I could ever bring myself to ask of her. To wrap this up, I understand the simplest thing to do would be to just tell her how I feel, but I don’t want to give her the impression that I’ve only been friends with her cause of those feelings. After all I already confessed once, wouldn’t I seem obsessive to do it a second time, even if we’re 10x closer than we were the first time? I do really like this girl, and I’d love it if she felt the same way, but as of now why rush anything. We have one more year before we graduate, who knows what could happen :)
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HOLY SHIT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH I REALLY DO
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So I (23f) met this guy (22) last summer through some mutual friends. We hung out a few times towards the end of the summer as I was home from college. We flirted a lot and snuggled few times during movie nights, and we kissed once. We really hit it off and I formed a massive crush. We traded numbers and added each other on Snapchat. We kept in contact from a few weeks after I went back to school but we both got busy and it just stopped. I’m graduating next month and I’m moving back to my hometown. And I still really like this guy, I know he’s still single from what our mutual friends say. Problem is I’m kinda awkward when I comes to guys, I’ve hardly dating in college and only had one boyfriend in high school. So how do I approach reaching out to him again? Should I text him, snap him? If so what do I say? How do i tell him that I like him and maybe want to date when I move home?
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I’ve been talking to a girl who I’ve had a huge crush on. I’ve talked to her about 4 times. She doesn’t seem all that interested in me right now, but she’s really friendly. I’ve seen a lot of people here pretty much say that if she’s not into you on the first few interactions, abandon ship immediately. I don’t really think that’s the right way to look at things. Feelings can develop, and who knows, if we get to know each other well enough, she might develop feelings for me like I have for her. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I’m not going to give up talking to my crush just because she doesn’t seem interested in the first few interactions. I want to show her that she’s more to me than an object, and I want to get to know her better than that.
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I slid into his dms and we were talking for a while. We were getting along super well. When out of nowhere he told me he’s talking a break off social media to focus on the last stretch of the semester (he’s super studious). I didn’t ask for his number or any other social media so I have no contact to him. It’s been a month since he deleted his ig and I wish I told him that I liked him before he deleted it. I have found his Facebook so I could text him there if I wanted but that’s just creepy lol. So should I wait for him to come back or text him on Facebook so I can get rejected and move on lol. IDK WHAT TO DO HELP
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Share yours! (I flopped so hard on mine lol)
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Tomorrow, we will have an early release, and I think I'm gonna go talk to her after school. I asked her to hang out last week over text, and she said she was busy with homework, and I think she might be telling the truth because it is the end of the term. I think we'll have the same lunch, so I'm gonna go talk to her even though my friends told me it's all over because they say she "rejected me", but I know I have one shot and then I'm done. She didn't ignore me when she walked past me yesterday, but today I was creeping a little. I was basically trailing behind her in the halls but my class was just coincidentally in the same direction as hers so I'll just say it's the same way to that class and I'll joke and say "So, I can't go to class now?". At lunch, I'll try and talk to her about whatever then if she brings up the texts, I'll know she's into me and I can plan the hangout. I think I'll try to bring up how last week was hard and how this week should be shorter and easier, and that we could do something over the weekend if you're down.
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Before i start typing this out I’m not some inbred hillbilly. I 16M am very much attracted to my fathers girlfriends daughter 17F for about 2 months now. I don’t even know why I’m in love with her. We have almost nothing in common i myself live out in the country with my mother and step dad and she lives my with my father and his girlfriend in the city. I guess it might be because its the first time my dads dated a girl with a daughter that close to my age. I guess it’s because sometimes we joke around a little about school things and such, but she smiles and gets this look in her eyes that just drives me wild. Now being that she lives in the city, her mother doesn’t send her out on her own so sometimes just in case she gets kidnapped or things as such I’m like her personal body guard. I sometimes wish that my dad and gf would break up so i could go after her but i don’t that to happen because I love her family too much, I just don’t want things to seem incest-esq. before i go further yes I’m a virgin, I’ve never had a crush or any love for a girl. Ive thought about confronting her 1 on 1 should I express my love or figure how to suppress the love feelings (i have no clue how to suppress the feelings ). Sometimes to ease the pain of being away from her i put in my earbuds and blare her favorite song “Hotel California” and just think about what a good life we could have together. What do you think I should do because I’ve had people comment on how they notice i seem depressed and pre occupied and i myself have noticed that life seems bleak without her. So after telling you that, what should i do.
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I am talking to this girl who I've been close for more than half a year now. She tells me that she does not like anyone and she is not ready for relationship because of fear. I also am afraid to be in a relationship so I told her that I'm the same. Now her and I have been very close. She says that she trusts me and she can depend on me emotionally and she only trusts me and her bestfriend. She is very careful with who she is close with since she is introvert too. Whenever we meet, I hold her hands, give her back hugs, we cuddle and I play with her hair sometimes. She invited me for sleepover when her bestfriend was there so we all slept together in the same room. We go out for night drive and sometimes she'd call me and fall asleep with me on the phone. She has back problems so I have given her back massage too. I don't know if she has feelings towards me or she is just doing it because she feels comfortable with me and trusts me as a friend. She doesn't do this with other people but she has been doing it with me only since she keeps her circle very small and she tells me how ever since she met me, I have helped her a lot whenever she'd go through really difficult times since I'm always there to listen to her and give her advice. I like what I have now but I just wonder if she has feelings for me or if she just feels comfortable with me as friends. We don't kiss or do anything sexual but just lot of affection when I am with her and she does not refuse and just lets me do whatever. How do I know if she has feelings for me or not?
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Well, I told him and unfortunately, he doesn't feel the same. He says I am a really kind person, but he does not see me as more than just a friend. I'm not upset about it because rejection happens. I'm honestly just happy I did it anyways and got it off my chest entirely. Now I can move on and stop overthinking the "what if."
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Hey guys. I usually don't like posting this sort of stuff but here goes nothing. I've liked a girl for about 8 months now and we've sat in multiple classes together. I've made it very apparent I like her, to the point where I'm sure all my classmates know I like her. I think she used to like me as well, but eventually those feelings died out because I never made a move. These days we still sit together so we talk sometimes but it just isn't the same anymore especially with her blatantly ignoring me at times. I messed up a couple of times and again, I never made a clear move. I'm pretty sure she dislikes me because of this. I've been so confused these past few months so tomorrow after school I'm going to tell her I like her. I just wanted to make this post so I actually go through with it and not chicken out last second. It's gonna require a lot of courage and I'm scared just thinking about it lmao. But yeah, it has to be done. After school on Wednesday tomorrow I'm going to catch up with her while she's walking home and confess. And I'll make sure to update you guys when I get home on whether she said yes or not. If you're curious that is. If she rejects me I'll just try to smoothen out our relationship so at least we can get through the rest of the highschool year without hating each other and at least being friends. Wish me luck, hopefully I don't die! ​ ​ THERES NO WAY I CAN CHICKEN OUT NOW. I HAVE TO ASK HER OUT TOMORROW NO MATTER WHAT! WISH ME LUCK! I GOT THIS!
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i have been having a lot of dreams about her and idk if it means anything
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2 days ago at work my crush asked for my insta or number, but he still hasn’t added me. Could this mean he’s forgotten or not interested, help pls😭!
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I really want to ask for my crush's number, in a not-really obvious way. Like, he's in my French class and we're doing this project for it, I want to ask him if I could get a picture of his project; he most likely wouldn't have a picture on hand so I want to ask if he can send it to me. I'm pretty confident he would agree to give me his number, he's a really nice guy who always lends me/shows me his work for French( he's pretty smart too \^-\^). But, I'm scared af of his friends, cause unlike him, who's pretty kind, quiet, and studious, his friends are the really popular kids in HS. The popular kids scare me because I heard how some of his friends talk and I'm scared that I'm gonna get made fun of or something. Should I continue with my really awesome, bulletproof, non-anxious plan?< --- btw that was sarcasm, I know I'm not funny.
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So I finally pulled my crush we went to a movie and made out then after that we began talking for a month and we were in this situationship and I thought things were going super well. But now she got back with her ex and idk it just fucking hurts I just wanted to share this somewhere.
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So recently I’ve been friends with this boy and we only text since we are kinda awkward with each other. So we’ve been kinda flirty for a short time. For example he would reply to my stories ever since I told him that one story was for him only. Sometimes he sends me funny videos and I would react to them. I posted on my street I wanted to watch a movie and he asked how much it cost for tickets. One time he left early and I asked him where he was at and he said were you looking for me and I said I was and he replied with a sad emoji and we texted for a while. Then I posted that I wanted a flower bouquet and he replied with 🤭 but for 3 days now he’s been replying back hours later or the next day. I wanna ask him if he’s interested in me or whatever. I wanna talk to him but I feel like I’m bothering him instead. What should I do?
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So last year in Spanish I sat next to this boy called Luca, and a few other friends were sat near me because that was the seating plan the teacher made. He was always so funny and chatty and everyone else around me was, so I just really enjoyed Spanish just because of the people. I started to have a crush on Luca half way through the year, then from there I started him more and more. Then it was the summer break, and I was starting to get over him, but at the start of the new school year I saw him, and my feelings came back. I was literally heartbroken when the Spanish teacher changed the seating plan on the first lesson back after the summer holidays. He is now sat in the other side of the room. This academic year we’ve literally become strangers again. We’ve exchanged a few words here and there, but that’s it. I want to speak to him so bad but I literally have no reason to. Anyway, I go to a triathlon club outside of school and there is a boy my age there called Luca and my god is he handsome.I haven’t spoken to him since Christmas time because in swimming he moved up groups. Hes also super nice and chatty. I prefer Luca from my Spanish class but still have a crush on triathlon Luca.
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I had a crush on this girl at one point so I asked her out, she told me that she just got into a relationship but she was cool with being friends. I said okay and that I was cool with that as but in reality, that’s not really what I wanted so I just stopped talking to her. A few months have passed and we didn’t really talk but out of nowhere a few days ago she started replying to and liking my instagram stories and viewing them faster, she added me to her close friends story and just started giving me a lot of attention. We’ve been texting pretty often and I even invited her to come swimming at my house once our pool is done being built and she said that it sounded cool with her to do that so I’m assuming she may have broken up with her partner and could be seeking me out but I’m too afraid to ask. How do I find out for sure?
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Basically last year there was a guy who wanted me all year but i couldnt care less about him. This year he gave up on me but i started to hacr feelings for him, and now im sure i want him to be mine. But if he wanted me in the past, and im not sure about now. Can they come back if i ask him out?
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Asked out my crush unfortunately I got rejected. She told me I was a good guy and she enjoyed talking to me, but she just wanted to be friends. At least i built the courage to ask her, but it still hurts damnnn.
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So there is this girl in my class that I really like since September (start of the year so) and we were talking a lot before but I found out she had a bf so I start talking less and less with her (my choice) we were still friends and she didn't know anything about my feeling (i guess) but I restarted talking as much as before bcz you know... And today she seemed sad, so I text here and everything, but I'm the funny guy yk and not really her best friends, so without really asking if she was ok I did. And she said "yeah I was a bit sad but don't worry". I said "if you say don't worry i'm not forcing more, but keep smiling Ü" And when she was going to bed she told me good night and thanked me for caring. But I think I should still say something like you can talk to me If you want, but that's kinda awkward for me since I'm not here best friends and maybe she only thinks I'm the funny guy even if we are really great friends... So please tell me a good thing to say without being toto much or idk Hope you understand I'm French so yeah
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Me and my crush don't communicate at all a part from look at each other once or twice. but once I saw her sat next to me after other people in my class took her spot in assembly she did look at me but I was acting wierd around her. I almost got the chance to sit next to her in science class but the girl she sat next to brought her friend to take her spot so I can't get a chance to talk to her at all.
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So not that long ago I met this girl online. We became very good friends, she has a boyfriend whom I also hangout with a lot and we are good friends as well. I enjoy spending time with them, especially her. We get along so well and have many common interests. Lately tho I’ve really gotten a crush on her and developed feelings beyond our friendship. We joke around a lot and sometimes that also goes as far as flirting quite intimately. While I enjoy it in a way I feel bad to. On one side I want their relationship to go well and be happy together because I’m their friend. But I’m also jealous and want to be with her. It’s so confusing, for now I’m just keeping quite. Maybe waiting it out and just hoping that we can stay good friends.
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This is my first time posting on reddit, I hope someone can help me! Well, I’ve liked a guy for a long time, about 9 months. This summer, we became friends at the gym, but due to some factors, I had to live the gym and focus on something else. We had a great relationship but then we drifted apart, indeed now we talk less or we just say hello when we meet each other. Now, that I’ve rejoined the gym, I’m trying to talk to him again, but it’s hard to me! I’m also aware that I like him so I’m a bit scared of talk to him (today he saw me at the gym, for the first time after my break, and he was nice as always to me but I was too shy to continue the conversation). Idk what to do/say to him, do you have any tips? 🫶🏻
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What the fuck does that even mean? How do you go from talking to someone every day then like nothing? We have a date this weekend and now I’m afraid I’m being ghosted. Feeling more insecure than ever right now. This is my first time dating in 10 years and it’s the most anxiety producing thing I’ve ever been through.
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on one hand we talk and we talk alot and for a long time and flirt when we do, but on the other hand i end up getting left on delivered for hours while they are active,
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Basically what the title says, but in these dreams I’m really good friends with her and we are hanging out a lot. Can someone tell me what this might mean?
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh And idk if I wanna text him cause I’m bored or cause I like him jesus what du my Life
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I've been wanting to tell my crush of a few years that I liked him. I don't think he likes me back but I just wanna get this off my chest and finally move on. How do I do it? I prefer doing it face-to-face over text/voice call/e-mail. Should I let him know prior to telling him as it is something serious? Did both of you know the other person's sexual/romantic orientations and whether they matched or not? What words should I use? Please help a man out asap :)
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Ok lemme summarise a extremely long story. I like girl she say no, we stay friends (happens 3 times T_T). She now act like she want me. Talking, incy wincy bit of flirting. If I try “rizz” her up she doesnt shut me down with a “ew” or “no” like she used 2. Im even her wallpaper. The thing is tho, ive liked her for 2 years. And now i cant even escape liking her i love her so much. But i jus want 2 not think about her every second of the day. It got to the point where how I am feeling is based on my last interaction with her. I feel like trash if we didnt speak or it wasnt as good as last time. I NEED HELP BUT I DONT WANNA LET HER GO NOT YET. I GOT 1 MORE YEAR OF SCHOOL WID HER.
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I promised myself not to come to this subreddit with a crush to talk about, but here I am. I've been having a crush on a boy of my class, who literally seats next to me in class, we are really good friends, however one day completely out of the blue I started to have feelings for him, I like this boy a lot, he makes me laugh and it's really relaxing to talk to, most of the times our arms touch when we're in class (our desk posintioning doesn't act as an obstacle to that) and he always seems not to be bothered by it, other times he was the one who started touching my arm with his arm, or leg with leg. Problem being he's heterosexual, it's frustrating, he is always so nice and sometimes I get my hopes up but in the end I know that it's simply not possible, he only knows i'm bi but he doesn't know I like him. I hate all this.
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For context I met this person on a lgbtq dating app and we started talking 3 days ago. When we started talking, we talked for like the whole day and the next day we fell asleep on the phone together. The morning after I texted them and they just dryly responded. When literally the day before they were saying how much they liked me and things like that. I asked them what was wrong and they told me they were threatened by their ex. I tried to comfort them the best i could and they seemed to be ok. But now, they just seem really distant and idk know what to say. I can't tell if its me or if something wrong with them. Like literally 2 days ago they were how badly they wanted to talk to me and all that but now I'm only texting them like once a day. I don't know what to do. Should I just give them space or talk to them about it?
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is this really too much to ask for?
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It's cliché and kinda weird that I even wrote it in the first place and it's probably pretty badly done cause I've never written a poem before, no one I know is ever going to see it cause it's so embarrassing but I need to get it out of my system as an alternative to ranting about him for hours on ends to either my friends, family or hell even myself. If you guys want to see I'll edit this post later and add it, might as well get some criticism cause I actually want to carry on writing poetry.
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Context.. I’m the kind of person to miss a lot of social queues and I tense up in random situations so I just regularly stick to my friend group and don’t have many friends outside this friend group. But at the end of my first semester I was sitting in one of my classes with a friend and this really cute girl walked in to grab her things and leave and in my 3 years of attending this school have never seen her before. I brushed it off and forgot about her over the break between the first and second semester and about 2 weeks into my second semester I’m hanging out with my group of friends during lunch and there she is again and I’m blown away. This never usually happens as I don’t ever just look at someone and instantly get blown away. but she just seems so perfect. But the only problem I don’t know any of her friends, she’s not friends with any of mine, I have no classes with her AND I HAVE NEVER INTERACTED WITH HER! And I feel as if I’m in a position where I’m stuck. And since I miss social queues regularly I’m not even sure how to approach this situation. I know her instagram but not even sure if I follow her if she’ll follow back. She doesn’t know I exist and I don’t know how to change that.. worst thing is she might have a boyfriend or be talking to someone else and I would never know. I think this is what most would call a dead-end. If anyone has any idea what I should do about this moving forward pleaseeeeee help : )
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Idfk it's so obvious we both like each other but we both too nervous and dumb to admit it LOL. I love him so much. Aaaaa
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So basically my last crush lasted 5years and it was immense like i was soo invested and i was in highschool. I was a good friend of his and we were in same friend group and it was crush at first sight or we can say he was my first love who I was never brave to confess to. I really liked him and we talked everyday on chat . Many people said that he liked me but i never gave heat to that as i knew my position. SKIP to 4years he ghosted me in some kind and we dont talk anymore. It was difficult for me to get over him and in the course of 5years it was hard to be attracted to someone else. SKIP to present i am over him but it seems like i am having a crush on someone else and i dont want this feeling as i am in one of the critical stages of my life and cant afford liking someone. But i cant seem to get him over my mind as its been long i experienced also it just been 2 days i started talking to him. How should I train my mind to deviate from this? i also having trusting problems with this new guy.
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For context: https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/11rp4dv/do_these_signs_mean_anything/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb I posted some signs and asked you if she is into me. Now I am pretty confused. I finally realised that I am the only one that starts conversations. On that pinterest account, she is saving some stuff that says men should do all the texting, calling and plan all the dating but I don't think this is the case. I think that she isn't interested in me. She sits next to one of my friends and when the teacher said that she wants to move him, my crush said that she wants him next to her. I already know that she starts conversations with him and that they are pretty close. (They are friends for more than 6 years) I think that I should stop texting her for some time and see how things go. What do you say?
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It's been days since I received a response from her. The lack of communication has happened once before, and at that time, I thought she wanted to be alone, so I gave her space. When she returned after a week, she was crying and expressed how lonely she felt and that she believed no one cared for her. I comforted her. This time, I'm not sure what's going on. It's one of the worst feelings, being concerned about someone but scared of bothering them. It hurts not to know what's best for her and feeling helpless, even possibly forgotten by her. She had assured me, long time ago, that she would always come back, even if she was busy, and make time for me. However, people change, and I'm unsure if that still holds true. Since our last meeting, I've been feeling this heartache, wondering if she hates me, wants to be alone, or if she's going through a tough time. Oh, what a complex person she is.
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Well I (24F) have this crush for a guy (late 20's,early 30's? ) at my office. We don't work together but I really would like to talk to him. I won't be going to the office for the next two months, so tomorrow will be my last day. That's the reason why I want to talk to him, get his number maybe. When I first saw him we stared for a little while. He was in his office and I was sitting with the IT person that was installing some programs on my computer, so it took like 20 mins. During that time he got out of his office and said 'I'll greet everyone at the office now' and gave everyone in the workstation I was sitting at a handshake or a kiss. After he greeted me he left again to go to his office. I honestly think he might also like me. Next time I saw him he was talking to someone and I went to get coffee, he said 'hi, how are you?' but didn't give me a kiss like that other time. We see each other like every two weeks or so because we get to work from home too. So, a few weeks passed by and I didn't see him, and after exiting a meeting I saw him! I have to leave my computer at my desk but I quickly when to grab coffee as an excuse. Sadly there was no coffee lol. I went there a couple hours later and was leaving my water bottle in the kitchen counter to go to the bathroom and he was exiting the bathroom. He walked by like he didn't see me at first, but then he turned back and said 'oh, hello, how are you?' I said the same thing at the same time so neither really answer. I left to go to the bathroom and when I was refilling my bottle he was there talking to someone, I think we stared for a few seconds, and then I left. The last time we greeted each other was when I was coming back from my locker where I have to pass by his office. Well, actually he said, hi, I was saying hi to another person, i don't know if he noticed. I tried to go for coffee often as everytime we met was in that area, but most of the time we don't see each other. I have seen him in his office when I leave my things in the locker but usually don't look at him because I hate walking through there, there's too many people, so I avoid eye contact lol. Sorry for making this long, just to show how hard it is to get a chance of seeing him and even worse to talk to him! So I would gladly receive some advice on this. Sorry for my English and formatting.
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You’ve probably seen a lot of my posts lately. 3 days ago I asked for his number and he said yes, and yesterday I posted about how I felt he was losing interest. Today he completely ignored me. He is so perfect and I probably won’t be over this for a good couple of days even though it only lasted two weeks, but I’m so grateful for him. He is really mature and I’m glad I got to be friends with him.
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So i want to talk to her but dont want anyone i know to see it so i need a way to talk to her if you have questions just ask them :)
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soooo we were studying in the library today and when we were going back home it was just me and him and it was soooo gooood although we didn't talk much, we were walking together And it was cuteeeeeeeeeeeebwhqhuwjqqj I just love it when its just us Idk it was late at night, no one else were ther just us walking Ik these things don't really matter to him but they matter to me and idk he's sooooooo gooooooddddddddsds I wish we could walk back home everyday But i don't think this day will come ever again 😭 I'm praying for more exams everyday ( lmfao no everyone's dead ) but if i get to spend more time w him bcz of exams then I'm okay w it😭😭 He was feeling low and not in his everyday mood and energy but it was still him I felt like i was in a movie Imagine actually us dating and going back home together everyday 😭💖 These little things mean a lot to me They fucking mean a lot to me
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So I realized it quite later that what I did could've been offensive. Please let me know what you guys think.
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first - english isn't my native language, sorry for any errors. so I'm in this weird situation where I (23f) see the same guy (20+?m) every morning on the train since we both commute to the same college. we've been commuting "together" for two years now. some time last year I started to actively notice him around and I've observed he lives in the same city and visits the same college as me, we got the same stops and everything. I have to admit I have this habit of staring at people that I find attractive or interesting for whatever reason and I did the same to him. I've tried to do it secretly of course but he's caught me too many times at this point that I'm pretty sure he realized what's going on. At some point he reciprocated? like he stared back, he started sitting on the same spot every morning (always two seats away from me, always same wagon). I've sat down elsewhere before and noticed he followed. He's held the door open for me before when we were trying to catch a connecting train. I've thanked him for that but that's all, we never spoke to each other up to this day. I'm too chicken to make a move. well two weeks ago we've seen each other again on the train after a 5 week semester break and even tho he sat down on the same spot he looked at me blankly, turned away and kinda ignored me. which isn't weird, since he's basically a stranger, right? but idk I got kinda sad anyway. during the past two years we'd part ways at the train station and walk different directions cuz even though we're attending the same college we had classes in different buildings. this year my classes moved to his building so on the first day I walked the same way behind him. I wasn't like right behind him or something, I kept my distance. but when he noticed he crossed the street to walk on the other side walk. there was a whole ass construction site on it though but he refused to move back to my side walk and instead walked around the construction site, on the street?? after I passed by him I noticed he came back and was walking far behind me. I really can't tell what happened. ironically I was thinking of walking up to him before he crossed the street but he had no way of knowing since I didn't physically move yet?? I'm not sure if approaching him is a good idea anymore at this point. on Tuesday, Wednesday and today he still sat at the same spot on the train but we didn't walk to the college building at the same time cuz I went and grabbed breakfast before my classes started. I know it's not productive but I'm assuming he either got fed up with my ambivalent behavior and me not stepping up to talk to him, he realized I got interested in him and doesn't reciprocate/ he got a gf at this point and is trying to "let me know". I'm really not trying to play any games, I'm just genuinely too chicken to talk to him. thoughts?
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I(20M) saw her today for the first time in seven months, and I immediately got butterflies in my stomach. Unfortunately she's taken. I have her insta and I don't want to unfollow her because a part of me still feels that we can talk again, but that's probably unlikely. My low self esteem was the biggest reason why I didn't get to know her better when she approached me two years ago. And now I'm doing nothing but beating myself up for it.
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So surprise surprise I have a crush and she’s a bit of an introvert and is slow to start conversation. When we do talk it’s usually just me asking a question she answers, we discuss it a bit and than more questions. Is this good? Is there a better way?
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I learned that my crush used to like me and now sees me as a friend a couple a months ago and I still haven’t recovered.
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pls need desperate help rn. she's rlly sad and i dont know if and how i can help
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It's not him who's avoiding me, it's me avoiding him. He's fine when I confess to him and we both agreed that we should be friends but that was like two weeks ago. I don't know what to do now. Can anyone give me advice to encourage me please?
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everything Fucking sucks af
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idc if they're just friends or not but it still fucking sucks af Ahh i sound so toxic now wtfffff But i hate this shit
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i mean i just hate tf wtf
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Great, this is my third throwaway account I made for reddit. If this problem doesn't get solved, google might start marking my phonenumber as suspicious. jk I, a 18 years old cis female, senior in high school, has a crush on a 15 years old Male, sophmore in my school. We are in the same club afterschool and at first I just found him cute, like the 20 something underclassmen I have "taken into my care" (my school has a middle school departnment and as a socially awkward freshman I made a lot of friends in 6/7 grade who are now freshman and sophmores). He just transferred this school year. We shared the same study hall and so I have spent like the first two weeks of school peaking at him behind my laptop pretending to read nuclear fission articles. (My school rarely have high school transfer students so we all kind of give them some attention) And then I switched schedules, so no more weird stalking. And then I realized that we are in the same afterschool club. A pretty nice kid, he is. and I so I made an attempt to get close to him through his classmates whom I have previously spent time with. (Not very easy, he got adopted by the friendgroup that dislike me... big sad) Yesterday we had our first intermural handball tournement. We were in the same team and as the Senior leader I got to assign everyone. At first I did not want to put him on court because I thought my own classmates (senior boys) have an advantage of size and experiences. Sadly, one of our star Player got COVID and was quarantined. The first game he played as the goalie, did very well, and so I put him on court again in the third game. The weather was concerning hot, so he took off of his mask. HOLY... and now I am staring at his profile (a cat dancing) for hours trying to think of ways to talk to him.... Please give me some advice, I have never dated in my life or had such a hige crush on someone. My friends called me pedophile because i am 18 and he is eventually still a child (he turns 16 in November)
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I mean he's not here and i wonder what he's doing alone I hope he's okay I hope he's not feeling low I wish I could cheer him up I'm afraid I'm might cross the boundaries I'm afraid i might be annoying him I wish.....
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We somewhat recently became friends and hung out today. He was sitting behind me and his face was kinda close to my back and then he asked if i showered before coming. I said no and asked why and then he told me i smell really good. Is that some sort of friendly compliment or flirting?
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So long story short we have been talking for less than a week and we started talking bc I left him a anonymous note and my friend told him I sent it so we had never spoken in person. Day 3 into talking I ask him if he’d be interested in going roller skating with me and he said yes and yesterday a few minutes after I arrived at the rink he shows up. I started physically shaking bc of how nervous I was he was so tall and cute and I felt so small 😭💖. So we introduce ourselves since it’s our first time in person and we start skating. He had only been skating once so he kept falling but he just laughed it off and we continued. It was so magical!!! I then went to go to the food court to get a Pepsi bc my ass was thirsty lmao then he comes over and orders one after he saw me get one. We sat down together at lil bar stools and talked for so long! He sat facing me the entire time and listened to everything I said. Once I had to leave I texted him saying how much fun I had and he went on about how much he enjoyed it! He also said we should start hanging out more and or calling each other if it was ok with me! Then my friend texted me saying that my crush kept telling him how much he liked talking to me multiple times! So yeah it was really magical I can’t stop thinking about it ahhhhh 💖💖💖💖
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I met this guy in physics he was a pretty sweet dude ngl, my heart was racing so fast when he spoke to me, we spoke pretty much all lesson and now and again in different classes I know it’s stupid but a couple weeks later I realised he had a girlfriend, seeing them together kinda hurts I’ve never actually felt so attached to one person and it all feels so weird
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15f 1AJNUNSUNSJNSIJISJISJISJX i was racing with another girl around the football field and around the 3rd round i was out of breath so i clung to her arm and she said that we could walk around and hold hands. we pretty much did that for the next half an hour until we got split up and i played basketball with my friend and she went to play football. we kept having eye contact because i would look over to her and she would quickly turn back or the other way round. screaming rn
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NOTE: I do not hate the LGBTQ+ community. Theres this really cute girl at school and im so in love with her, the only problem is that shes bisexual and she was apart of a class competition that gave her a punishment and that punishment is to go near your crush. Now i was expecting a boy or even me to be picked but it was a girl, we do chat sometimes but i think it doesnt help the fact that she likes girls. I really want to stop thinking about her since it looks like im running straight to a brick wall, should i atleast try to win her or stop while i still have time? EDIT: shes bisexual
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so like, my crush literally asked me if i have a crush. i seriously don't know what to say 🥲 maybe you guys can give me some suggestions. i can't just tell him that he is my crush ಥ‿ಥ
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So I have a crush on this girl and she sits right across from me in my 6th period. I want to ask her to the homecoming dance but if she says no I feel it may get awkward, what should I do?
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It wasn’t even a conversation I just asked a one awnser question but that counts as talking I think
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He usually just says he likes me but this time he actually asked me out. I decided to give it a shot and now we're dating! So why do I feel so scared like I might mess things up?
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What does it means? For example if I send her a message on 7:47 she will reply exactly at 8:47.Its not always the case ofc but it happened way too much for it to be a coincidence
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Found out from my friend that he isn’t interested so this is it I guess. See you at the next one.
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I finally asked her out and she said yes!! We called about it after school and she said it was “A dream come true” to date me!!
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I had a crush on her for a long time but I never really confessed just because I was feared of rejection and now she is dating another guy and I am jealous 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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My crush and I have already been holding hands and we already cuddled. The thing is he initiated everything, cause I am one scared person and this is my first relationship. He knows that and I think that's why we've been taking things slow. The next move would probably be the kiss. But I've also never kissed anyone before, I don't know how to do it or initiate things. I wanna be the one who makes the next move because for me it feels like he is doing everything and always giving while I am just receiving. I wanna make everything right and not make it seem like a one sided relationship.
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So I've decided that I'm gonna ask my crush to homecoming, but I don't know if it's a good time because she's really overworked from school, so I need to get a little advice, is this a good time to ask or should I wait for a little and see if her workload goes down?
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so it’s a little bit of a long story. i confessed to my crush, who from now on will be known as andy, last friday. i told him in person, and i didn’t exactly “expect” anything at all. the only thing i expected was that i would feel better after i told him. while he did say he “never really saw me that way, but still really want to be friends”, i left that room feeling so ridiculously powerful and strong. i know i should’ve been sad, but at this point i was just so proud of myself for finally doing something about my problems. i was sick of being sad about something i had every ability to take action on. this is something i never would’ve been able to do just two months ago. anyway, i expected to move forward with my life and with our friendship by just letting things play out. i was still gonna like him, because i can’t simply turn it off, but i wasn’t gonna make any more moves on him, and i wasn’t gonna expect anything or make him feel bad. however, if for whatever reason he asked if i still felt that way, i’d tell the truth and say yes. i’m not gonna lie about my feelings anymore. sounds like a pretty solid plan right? well then i got some advice from my mom and two close friends, and it all went off the rails emotionally. typical. my mom was the certified It Girl of her high school and literally everyone is in love with her and calls her pretty, and the other one i talked to (who’s name will be tate now) is both my cousin and andy’s long time friend and wingman—they met in 5th grade. some pretty credible advice if you ask me. anyway, they both told me not to give up on him. my mom said “people like people that like them” and tate said that andy is very indecisive, and is really good at seeming sure of himself when he really has no idea what he’s feeling. i thought this was just harmful optimism, but im starting to think maybe it’s not. this is just the premise of the story. saturday— so we saw each other at a stagecraft thing on saturday, the day after i confessed. it was great! we smiled at each other, laughed and talked, i even caught him looking at me a few times and he made such direct eye contact. monday— it’s wednesday now. on monday, i was thrilled to see him in the hall and smile at him. my heart was over the moon just to know that i was at least still friends with him. he was looking at me the entire time we were at rehearsal. we even talked about minecraft over text later that night. and then tuesday happened. tuesday— i could tell something was off. he wasn’t his normal self. we also saw each other in the halls, and i looked at him and smiled. he looked away and then back probably three times, and i could tell he was trying to smile, but it wouldn’t work. this was the beginning of the day, so i didn’t know something was wrong. i thought he just didn’t wanna see me. he even intentionally took a different route that day so he didn’t have to walk past my friends and i at lunch. he avoided eye contact all day. i’m not proud of it, but i took it personally. it wasn’t until later that i noticed something was up. he wasn’t laughing at all the directors jokes, wasn’t smiling, and was being very short with some of the stagecraft crew. he never gets mad like that. i asked another friend who knows him very well, and she said she noticed the same thing. as we were talking about it, i started crying at just the thought of him upset. so, i texted him later that night and told him he didn’t seem like himself and asked if he was okay. he said he was upset because a girl he confessed to at the end of the last year said no because she wouldn’t have the time for a relationship, but recently got in a relationship with another boy. he felt lied to. this broke me. not about his past crush, but how he “felt lied to”. i wish that i was able to say everything i was thinking. tell him how amazing he is, how he didn’t do anything wrong and he didn’t deserve to be lied to, how worthwhile he is. but i couldn’t. i couldn’t do anything to help him other than let him know i was there for him always and that i understand how tough love often is, and that it’s okay to be upset. he’s been so stressed recently for so many reasons. so yeah. tuesday was a suffer in silence kind of day for us both. wednesday— this was today. it’s now 11 pm. at school today, we didn’t look at or talk to each other at all until the end of rehearsal, when he was working on a prop with his past crushes (who we’ll call samantha) current boyfriend (who we’ll call alex). the whole day, he had to hang around both samantha and alex. i asked alex if he was in stagecraft now, and andy said “he is now” and we both looked at each other and laughed. then alex said he was “dating one of the cast members, so may as well be a part of stagecraft”. i didn’t respond to this. i just looked at andy, who was trying to hide how down he was, but failing to hide it from me, and left to practice my choreography. we didn’t talk the rest of the day but were hanging out around each other and looking at each other every now and then. at least this time he didn’t take a different route for lunch lol. *so here’s the shorter but more complicated part* my friends think that he’s catching feelings for me after i told him and he had the thought in his head, which is why he’s seemingly avoiding me. he’s so stressed out these days, and not the type to want to confront or think about difficult emotions. he’s also been hurt quite a bit, and is probably scared that that’s gonna happen again. so he’s trying not to like me. at first, i though this was just wishful thinking, but four people who both knew him well and had phenomenal relationship advice confirmed that this was probably the case. they think that he does have feelings, but didn’t notice it until i put the idea out there. but again, he is impossible to read considering all the signs in the past that made it seem like he was into me, and i could be wrong. i need some advice there. my cousin and his longtime friend and wingman said “he’s not the best with women, but please wait for him.” i will wait for him. i’m not desperate, he’s just worth waiting for. i love him.
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Idk if they're dating or not Doesn't look like they're dating but i still feel fucking jealous of that girl. M soooo done Wish i was closer to him Feels like shit
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I wasn’t entirely sure if my crush liked me back since he never directly said anything but he just sent me a cryptic text so I googled a translator and he confessed in the most sweetest way he literally just melted my heart T~T I really really like him but I’m not good at long distance relationship he’s not the type of person I wanna mess with if I’m with him I wanna do it right and I can’t do that right now so what do I do if he asks me out I cant bring myself to say no cuz I do like him but I don’t wanna hurt him, that’s all I ever do in relationship someone always gets hurt.
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I can see how low he's feeling I just can't see him like that Breaks my heart
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Tomorrow is the last day of school and I am here to ask what to do or say seeing as it will be a while before I get to see my crush again.
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Hey all, just a head up, I was rejected by my old high school crush that I liked in middle school 3 years ago and was humiliated by her then boyfriend. I was also bullied so badly, and because of that, I made a promise to not develop any feelings of sort for my new crush(es) out of fear of being rejected and humiliated. I was also at my lowest at that point, which affected my mental health. Idk who to tell this to (including my parents) because I don't want them to worry about me :( Update: I still haven't forgotten it entirely, and it still haunts me to this day. I just wanna cry out for help but I can't.
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She was one of my best friends. I made the mistake of catching feelings and deciding to act on them. She led me on for months only to “friendzone” me but then stopped talking to me altogether after moving to my city. Now she talks with all my friends and completely abandoned me, like we were never close to begin with. I’m questioning if she was ever genuine. I just want her out of my life and out of my head, but now she has so many connections with my main friend group that’s nearly impossible unless I move away and start fresh. Can’t believe I let this girl fuck up my life so bad. I’m such an idiot.
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She rejected me, I lost her friendship of years and now she ignores me as if she didn't care, I have her almost every day in front of me because we go in the same classroom and I feel worse and worse, how do I forget her?
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i love seeing him happy ik he told me not to cry and keep laughing and smiling always but i do cry,i cry for him , because of him then i see our texts him saying me to not stop laughing and then i stop crying:)
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He's perfect the way he is , even with this imperfections, he is His imperfections make him who he is and he is PERFECT 💖
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I thought i could never fall in love I thought i was selfish I thought i would never do anything for others I thought i only cared for myself I thought i would never care about making others happy I thought I'd neverrrrr care for anyone this much He proved me wrong
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Today in English class I was answering a question and my teacher started asking me another to question but I had answered it. I just got scared to tell her that and then when I got quiet she said, “you don’t know?” Then another student answered correctly even though I had already. I almost cried and then my crush stood up for me and said that I did in fact answer it. My crush was in my English class last year, when I was a lot more “shy” than I am now. I still am bad with talking to people. He might’ve known since we were in the same class last year or he was just trying to be nice. Either way I’m really happy. I wish I could find some way to repay him but I’m scared to speak to him because I’m so awkward.
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If this isn’t the right sub for this then lmk. But six guys in total liked me last school year. Three of them asked me out (which I rejected all three) and two of them confessed in which I told them I didn’t like them back. The sixth guy asked me out this school year who also happened to be my crush so I said yes. He’s currently my boyfriend. But why am I attracting so many people? Is that a bad thing?
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