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You know how to make the fudge crunch from scratch?! You wield the power of the gods!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Sorry you were exposed to it so early on. It sounds to me you're pretty demotivated at the moment. Maybe joining the marines or being a firefighter will give you a more meaning to life than sex?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Yeah I ruined the movie for myself by googling this once and I can never watch it again. It's disgusting that it was allowed in the first place.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity	Confident
It is one technically. Humans are supposed too at the primal level procreate. Wishing too be a diffrent gender limits that. Thus the brain is not 100% normal.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
>Living in someone’s home does not mean you have to abide them saying horrible things about other human beings. Idealism vs realpolitik. Of course under normal circumstances it would be great if people called out their families on bullshit, but let's face it, not in a pandemic without an alternative place to crash.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Omg I don’t know why but this made me sob. What a beautiful heart you have! Definite YWNBTA. It sounds like they both would enjoy sharing their obvious love for her cooking. Her love language for him sounds like food, and that is a special connection you could all share. Agreed with other comments that maybe you could casually suggest you could help with groceries every once in a while, like a “you cooked, so I’m happy to contribute something!” Kind of deal. The world needs more awesome and open hearted foster parents. Good job being an awesome human.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You live together? To me it seems like he might be thinking about the future. Imagine 5 years from now how much you’d be making compared to him and you’re both living together. He might see it as he’ll have to spend more money supporting both of you because you don’t make enough. I thought like this. I make $40+/hr and my ex made like $11/hr. I was thinking about our future and I wouldn’t want her making that pay when we live together.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
No. No it’s not. Obsessive compulsive disorder is actually what it is called... a disorder that wrecks lives. That’s it. Just something to be mindful of. Or not lol be a jackass.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I wish they still did this more. It might be silly, but I am still into the design.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Rewatched this as an adult recently, never realized how much death and suicidal undertones there are in this movie A fact made that much darker when you realize that the author of the original book later committed suicide	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
No, I wouldn't say that sort of shit in front of my partner or her friends. It's disrespectful.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
There are plenty of cities that don't have the resources to feed and house all of their homeless. "Waiting for food and shelter" isn't always an option.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Wow, whatever happened to calling someone out and fighting them? You younger people blow me away with your spiteful vindictive bullshit.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Kenan! Loved him in All That, Kenan and Kel, Might Ducks 2, and now on SNL. I’ll be sad if he ever retires.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
>if they can't deal with it, than punish them Ah yes this will surely work.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Had a similar situation with my sister who was 17 as well. She literally could not be forced committed because she was considered an adult despite being 17. So OP is likely already fucked	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
They also don’t keep grandkids away on a whim. Something is fishy.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
So curious why this pic exists but I love it	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Urghhhh...the feeling of the scrape makes my teeth hurt for some reason...	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Confident
Yeah today's algorithms and the way people create content (for advertising money) have completely ruined the YouTube that I knew and loved. All these small creators with non-existent budgets would never survive in today's YouTube age. With the masterful production, expensive equipment, and millions of other YouTubers, as well as the broken suggestion algorithms and copyright system, it's pretty much impossible. "Broadcast Yourself"... What a joke...	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
My cousin has had a divorce, best father ever even better than me but even so court favors moms and he only gets to see his kid every other weekend. I pray that doesn’t happen to me	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Good to know there are people with class and taste here.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I think if it’s uploaded without consent, then it’s illegal. Sharing a public nude is not. Using it for blackmail, maybe, but don’t quote me on that.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Authority	Confident
If that were true, women would be asking men's mom for a blessing, too.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
As a person who was in high-school in the 90's, pickle races on windows is a lot more fun than it sounds, you can make trebuchets with a rubber band and utensils, and its easier to precisely bend and paper to use with rubber band when wrapped in a few layers of paper, then snip the ends even. Stink bombs, Stun guns, and pepper spray were also loads of fun in the halls.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Wait, they do the eye test with no glasses and fail you even if you have glasses to correct your vision? WTF! And what does a restricted licence mean? I've got such bad eyesight I can't even read the single biggest letter but I have contacts and glasses so it's a non issue and it was when I took my test. If they'd have made me take them off I'd have never been allowed behind the wheel, but that would be stupid.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I think you (as well as a lot of Reddit users, it seems) lack basic empathy.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
I can't ever think of her without thinking of [this.](https://youtu.be/7_fg_D1noOY)	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
- do do, do do, DO do - do do, do do do, do DO do - do do repeat.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I will never understand why people who cannot support a family insist on having children.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Somewhat Confident
No kidding. This kid should feel safe with her and she's participating.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
Hypochondria can feel extremely horrifying. If she really is a hypochondriac, it's likely she actually believes she's seriously ill. You're NTA but your sister needs a therapist rather than another visit to the ER.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Or he really is bipolar and it's interfering with his normal reasoning - this can unfortunately happen, he could even be having some kind of psychosis. I'm just bringing it up because it sounds like more than one doctor thinks he may be bipolar. I am also bipolar and I've seen and heard of people doing all sorts of things that make no sense and put people in harm's way. If this is the problem it's highly treatable. I agree he need a mental health evaluation immediately. Whatever is going on isn't good.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Authority	Confident
My nieces’ school was fortunately really cool about our snow storm this year and gave the kids a snow day even though they have online learning capabilities.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Somewhat Confident
Get help for your depression Pick one thing to start at. Maybe that’s rising off your dishes. Or putting your clothes in the hamper. Or it could be more of a weekly task like wiping down the mirror in the bathroom Just pick one thing to start with What’s it feel like to always be the one cleaning? Like you have a toddler	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Authority	Confident
'Oh I wonder what quirky antics JD will get up to this week..... oh god no! why am I crying!! Why!!!'	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Who the fuck cares? Stop being as insecure as OP's fiance. I dated plenty of women before I met my gf and even chose to hang out with them because I barely knew her. Shit like this is totally normal. Imagine your best friend and a colleague asking you to hang out. You say yes to the best friend but decline the other dude. Then bf has to cancel, so you ask the other dude. Fucking hell, people are pathetic	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I mean shit happens. For instance, I have been working away from home for the past year and only talked to one buddy regularly because we play Xbox together. I came back home and moved into a new place yesterday and my girlfriend couldn’t lift the couch, so I called a buddy I hadn’t talked to in almost a year on a Saturday at 9 AM and he moved my couch for me, drank a beer, and went back home and he’s still one of my best friends. Tl;Dr: a real friend will help you move.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You shouldn’t have apologized. It’s not so much what she did, it’s her lack of guilt/sorrow and her refusal to accept what she did was wrong.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Uhh, don’t you mean “Butterfly hair clips, the only thing worse than stepping on a Lego.”	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
You know what?! I hope you are a troll. If not, I hope you notice how stupid you sound. Like really fucking stupid.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You need to kick him out. He's an adult, he has been violating your wife and you can't allow him to continue, and you can't allow it to escalate. I think, unfortunately, you will have to tell your parents as otherwise there will be drama about kicking him out, and frankly, he needs to experience consequences for these actions.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
They absolutely will. And yeah, sjes very spoiled and pampered.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I'm sorry that you feel sad because I called out your toxic behavior. But if you care about your relationship with your daughter, you will listen to that advice. It does not matter that she is 27. She is your daughter, not your therapist.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Lol yeah I make 600 after two weeks of full time	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The real tragedy is that public transport could be free if companies would pay their taxes.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Idk, you bought a current year sports car despite having no savings. You didn't buy anything for her, and she's living with you. Imagine if she won the lottery and got 1 million and bought herself tons of nice stuff and gave you nothing... I'm sure you'd feel like shit. &#x200B; I think if you were saving the money or wisely investing it that would be one thing but no you're blowing it on vacations and nice cars in the first year.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Having your child beat up is a little shitty? Jfc	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Now you need to try to get it back and tell us if it's still there. This is important.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Alicia Keys singing the “Gummy Bears” theme song was a treat.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
The idea that people don’t judge on appearance is simply not true. Most people saying yes or no to a date is making a snap judgment and for biological ( desirable reproductive traits) as well as personal preferences . That’s how those decisions are initially made and it’s not 100% conscious. It is however important intellectually to give people a chance and be willing to open your mind and horizons . That takes time time and a willingness to risk.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Same principle. Asking for instructions (where to feed) rather than giving instructions.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
i love this game bc i just got to put my head down for like thirty mins. no effort on my part whatsoever.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
I don’t know if I’d go as far as to call OP racist. The closest he gets to mentioning race at all is calling a bad neighborhood “the hood”, which doesn’t mean much as we don’t know where OP lives, his Racial makeup, or the area’s racial makeup.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Authority	Confident
One I saw on reddit some time ago was "I'll poop on a log, I'll poop on a rock, but I'll be damned, If I poop off the clock"	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
> she has a family member in prison, and she was sharing with him the personal things from his underage victims’ lives and even sent him pictures of them a couple times without their knowledge. This needs to be reported to authorities. Immediately. Contact whomever prosecuted that case and find out how to make sure it is legally admissable. Print copies of those emails ASAP, in case she figures anything out and gets a chance to delete them.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
Hmmm, nope never heard of it. I assume it doesn't have any tragically sad scenes in it that will scar my young soul for life right? Right??	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Purity	Confident
Bro they're legos. That was the closest thing to crack back before I discovered actual crack. The smell of the Danish plastic. That clean rip that the plastic baggies made when you rip them open. The cool touch of the instructions as you begin to find order in all that block chaos. And then finally, some hours later, the noise has coalesced into a solitary note, the completed set, and there's that moment marvel, watching starry eyed, awe-struck, smitten. Few things compare to the thrill, the challenge of a new lego set.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
Dude I have a project car this is NOT the perfect time.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
I saw on one of those antique tv shows (American Pickers, pawn stars, or one of copycats) that in good condition these maps are super expensive collectors items! Especially ones with USSR and eastern bloc country names	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
I don’t know I’m confused if she’s loaned him $3000 and he STILL owes her $3000 then he hasn’t paid back anything. Says he’s paid $400 a month but if he had paid back anything there would be some sort of dent in what he owes her. YTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
This is not a good relationship. Good relationships are built on mutual respect and affection, and her actions are incompatible with those ideas. Cuddles and movies are not enough for an adult relationship to thrive off. Make no mistake, you deserve a warmer, happier, kinder love than what she is giving you. Shit, her actions are outrivht abusive. (And yeah kissing someone when they're angry is a bad idea but don't beat yourself up too bad for that; pop culture has dangerously painted it as this sexy-romantic move for decades)	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Of course it’s okay to cry in front of your children- it’s okay to cry for less upsetting things than death as well- it’s OKAY to express emotions and it’s healthy to model that for your kids especially if you want them to grow up as well-adjusted, compassionate and sensitive humans.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
It still only helps so much if you don't also brush your tongue. You'd be amazed how many people never do that.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
When they brought it back i was disappointed . It wasn’t as good as i remembered it being.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Thin Morality	Confident
What if the taste you enjoy isn't the cereal, what if the taste you crave is of your own hard palate being slowly grated over your taste buds ? Cannibal confetti.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Purity	Not Confident
Would you tell the truth in this situation, knowing there’s no way they can prove otherwise, and that it will cost you ~$20k?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
Yep, this! That was a big ask even leaving aside the fact that OP had made it clear from the start that it was a total no-go for cultural reasons.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
I'm concerned he's been hanging on to the relationship so that he can get his hands on OPs inheritance money. He's clearly been spending the money in his head and thinking about how he can benefit from it for a while. OP--That inheritance was the last thing your mother will ever be able to do for you. Guard it like a lion. Be smart with it. And if you should start dating something new, DO NOT mention that you have that money until the relationship is let's-get-married serious. It's not dishonest to say you have your salary and "some savings."	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Authority	Confident
You sure showed me, Very compelling argument. But have you ever considered your antiquated unscientific views on gender are lame?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
Y'all remember the episode where they tackled prejudice and racism?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Equality	Somewhat Confident
That’s theft. Or fraud. I’d say something and take care of it ASAP	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful response. You’ve given me a lot to think about and discuss with him.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Hell yeah! That’s some hardcore nostalgia right there god DAMN.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
you are an inspiration - thank you! I hope other guys take note of this comment.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
That is at ridiculous. Mindless middle management genuinely thinks he's making something out of his life, nitpicking how some poor schmuck cuts bread for a sandwich. Head so far up a corporation's ass that he only cares about as long as he's wearing the mandatory polo shirt. I'd like you make me a sandwich however you want to cut it. Oh and happy cakeday, ya filthy animal.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
It used to taste like a subway smells. It still smells that way, but it doesn't taste that way anymore.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
This doesn't seem all that uncommon from what I've seen. I don't really RP, but I doubt you're alone in this.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Loyalty	Confident
It sounds like you are a really respectful and loving parent, and you should take pride in the relationship you have with your kids.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care,Authority	null
I feel like you were trying to justify it but stealing $500 is worse than a 9 year old acting cocky, etc.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
There are STIs that are symptom free but can cause serious consequences like infertility.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Purity	Confident
Tell her immediately. I understand that it is scary and difficult cutting ties with your family, but your family have proven themselves to be TERRIBLE people by protecting this creep. Tell her right now, and never look back.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Loyalty	Confident
My Good Sir, I would like to offer my utmost sincere apologies. It appears as though I have come across as quite aggressive, rather then assertive. My language also measures up to that of a busty bar wench, and quite frankly I am appalled by my very own response. I must say, I do rather appreciate you bringing this to my attention, my good man. I hope this response finds you well. Cheers xx	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
I think it might depend on how bad the bullying was and what type of actions the bully took. I have had a few bullies apologize to me, but looking back they weren’t that bad and it was mostly for petty teasing kind of stuff. Meanwhile I have two bullies I would punch in the face the minute I recognized them and would refuse to talk to them at all because what they did crossed the line from bullying to sexual harassment.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Somewhat Confident
Nerds were a trope before Family Matters. And Urkel was actually a very popular character.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
hahaha chill. no one cares and you dodged a bullet. the relativ " harm" you caused is laughable. let it be a lesson and a good story to laugh about it. no need for guilt or shame. Edit: oh, by the way... you made your moma proud. good job. keep it up	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
The FOG is a powerful tool, especially coming from the people who raised you. Older brother has just now broken free and I applaude him for that. It's a hard thing to do, cutting people out.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Loyalty	Confident
Honestly can't help without knowing what went down but my biggest advice would be to apologize and admit wrong.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
YTA because it seems like (based on your replies) she hasn't given you any reason not to trust her. Don't punish her because of your ex. Can you imagine how hurt you would be if she treated you this way? Can you imagine how horrible you'll feel if you make her do this alone and then find out it was your baby and you missed it all? I would be absolutely livid if my husband treated me this way.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care,Loyalty	Confident
>havent said anything to her since I'm not supposed to invade her privacy like this... any advice on my situation? You are married. That is not an invasion of privacy. There should not be that level of privacy in a marriage. Both parties should be 100% transparent with each other.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care,Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
I think you should avoid it like the black plague, this will NOT build your confidence, it will only lead to worries and regret, i would only understand this if this was something you both did together (threesome) but if it's alone and away from each other, it'll come to be problematic later on when this "free pass" is used and you start wanting it again, same can go for her, she may end up seeing someone more then once and it'll probably not be good for either of you.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Way to knock this person’s confession. I may not be a fan of people, but I’m willing to give them the benefit of the doubt.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Cheap nachos, sweat and feet. Perhaps just a touch of mold. Maybe a hint of formaldehyde from cheap building materials.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
Youre the kind of person who makes women feel scared to leave their own homes ffs. Do NOT tell her, and since you’ve deleted it you need to reflect on your actions because that’s a horrible decision. You’re still young though , just understand that that is extremely uncomfortable and a violation of a woman	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
Just putting this out there, if you’re feeling scared to leave and also not wanting him to meet your friends because quite frankly you’re protecting those friendships, well then I gotta break it to you but “That’s Not Love” not even close.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Not Confident
This seems like a “bob forgot Linda’s wedding anniversary” gift.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident
It sounds like your only qualm with this activity is the legalities of it. This is why people think you need therapy. If there were no laws against it, it sounds like you would continue your actions. Please get help before you harm someone, or someone harms you.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Care	Confident
>Why was OP not summarily removed due to absurdity of Possible Assholism I kept reading possible alcoholism and I was very confused	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Authority	Confident
So you can accept her apology enough not to punish her professionally, but not enough not to punish her personally?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Oh man. I got my Silver pants from Wet Seal. And yes I loved The Smashing Pumpkins thank you!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator01	Non-Moral	Confident

You know how to make the fudge crunch from scratch?! You wield the power of the gods!

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Sorry you were exposed to it so early on. It sounds to me you're pretty demotivated at the moment. Maybe joining the marines or being a firefighter will give you a more meaning to life than sex?

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Yeah I ruined the movie for myself by googling this once and I can never watch it again. It's disgusting that it was allowed in the first place.

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It is one technically. Humans are supposed too at the primal level procreate. Wishing too be a diffrent gender limits that. Thus the brain is not 100% normal.

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>Living in someone’s home does not mean you have to abide them saying horrible things about other human beings. Idealism vs realpolitik. Of course under normal circumstances it would be great if people called out their families on bullshit, but let's face it, not in a pandemic without an alternative place to crash.

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Omg I don’t know why but this made me sob. What a beautiful heart you have! Definite YWNBTA. It sounds like they both would enjoy sharing their obvious love for her cooking. Her love language for him sounds like food, and that is a special connection you could all share. Agreed with other comments that maybe you could casually suggest you could help with groceries every once in a while, like a “you cooked, so I’m happy to contribute something!” Kind of deal. The world needs more awesome and open hearted foster parents. Good job being an awesome human.

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You live together? To me it seems like he might be thinking about the future. Imagine 5 years from now how much you’d be making compared to him and you’re both living together. He might see it as he’ll have to spend more money supporting both of you because you don’t make enough. I thought like this. I make $40+/hr and my ex made like $11/hr. I was thinking about our future and I wouldn’t want her making that pay when we live together.

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No. No it’s not. Obsessive compulsive disorder is actually what it is called... a *disorder* that wrecks lives. That’s it. Just something to be mindful of. Or not lol be a jackass.

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I wish they still did this more. It might be silly, but I am still into the design.

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Rewatched this as an adult recently, never realized how much death and suicidal undertones there are in this movie A fact made that much darker when you realize that the author of the original book later committed suicide

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No, I wouldn't say that sort of shit in front of my partner or her friends. It's disrespectful.

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There are plenty of cities that don't have the resources to feed and house all of their homeless. "Waiting for food and shelter" isn't always an option.

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Wow, whatever happened to calling someone out and fighting them? You younger people blow me away with your spiteful vindictive bullshit.

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Kenan! Loved him in All That, Kenan and Kel, Might Ducks 2, and now on SNL. I’ll be sad if he ever retires.

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>if they can't deal with it, than punish them Ah yes this will surely work.

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Had a similar situation with my sister who was 17 as well. She literally could not be forced committed because she was considered an adult despite being 17. So OP is likely already fucked

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They also don’t keep grandkids away on a whim. Something is fishy.

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So curious why this pic exists but I love it

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Urghhhh...the feeling of the scrape makes my teeth hurt for some reason...

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Yeah today's algorithms and the way people create content (for advertising money) have completely ruined the YouTube that I knew and loved. All these small creators with non-existent budgets would never survive in today's YouTube age. With the masterful production, expensive equipment, and millions of other YouTubers, as well as the broken suggestion algorithms and copyright system, it's pretty much impossible. "Broadcast Yourself"... What a joke...

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

My cousin has had a divorce, best father ever even better than me but even so court favors moms and he only gets to see his kid every other weekend. I pray that doesn’t happen to me

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident

Good to know there are people with class and taste here.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

I think if it’s uploaded without consent, then it’s illegal. Sharing a public nude is not. Using it for blackmail, maybe, but don’t quote me on that.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Proportionality,Authority

Confident

If that were true, women would be asking men's mom for a blessing, too.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident

As a person who was in high-school in the 90's, pickle races on windows is a lot more fun than it sounds, you can make trebuchets with a rubber band and utensils, and its easier to precisely bend and paper to use with rubber band when wrapped in a few layers of paper, then snip the ends even. Stink bombs, Stun guns, and pepper spray were also loads of fun in the halls.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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Wait, they do the eye test with no glasses and fail you even if you have glasses to correct your vision? WTF! And what does a restricted licence mean? I've got such bad eyesight I can't even read the single biggest letter but I have contacts and glasses so it's a non issue and it was when I took my test. If they'd have made me take them off I'd have never been allowed behind the wheel, but that would be stupid.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

I think you (as well as a lot of Reddit users, it seems) lack basic empathy.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

I can't ever think of her without thinking of [this.](https://youtu.be/7_fg_D1noOY)

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

- do do, do do, DO do - do do, do do do, do DO do - do do repeat.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

I will never understand why people who cannot support a family insist on having children.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Proportionality,Care

Somewhat Confident

No kidding. This kid should feel safe with her and she's participating.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Proportionality

Somewhat Confident

Hypochondria can feel extremely horrifying. If she really is a hypochondriac, it's likely she actually believes she's seriously ill. You're NTA but your sister needs a therapist rather than another visit to the ER.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Care,Loyalty

Confident

Or he really is bipolar and it's interfering with his normal reasoning - this can unfortunately happen, he could even be having some kind of psychosis. I'm just bringing it up because it sounds like more than one doctor thinks he may be bipolar. I am also bipolar and I've seen and heard of people doing all sorts of things that make no sense and put people in harm's way. If this is the problem it's highly treatable. I agree he need a mental health evaluation immediately. Whatever is going on isn't good.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care,Authority

Confident

My nieces’ school was fortunately really cool about our snow storm this year and gave the kids a snow day even though they have online learning capabilities.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Care

Somewhat Confident

Get help for your depression Pick one thing to start at. Maybe that’s rising off your dishes. Or putting your clothes in the hamper. Or it could be more of a weekly task like wiping down the mirror in the bathroom Just pick one thing to start with What’s it feel like to always be the one cleaning? Like you have a toddler

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care,Authority

Confident

'Oh I wonder what quirky antics JD will get up to this week..... oh god no! why am I crying!! Why!!!'

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Who the fuck cares? Stop being as insecure as OP's fiance. I dated plenty of women before I met my gf and even chose to hang out with them because I barely knew her. Shit like this is totally normal. Imagine your best friend and a colleague asking you to hang out. You say yes to the best friend but decline the other dude. Then bf has to cancel, so you ask the other dude. Fucking hell, people are pathetic

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

I mean shit happens. For instance, I have been working away from home for the past year and only talked to one buddy regularly because we play Xbox together. I came back home and moved into a new place yesterday and my girlfriend couldn’t lift the couch, so I called a buddy I hadn’t talked to in almost a year on a Saturday at 9 AM and he moved my couch for me, drank a beer, and went back home and he’s still one of my best friends. Tl;Dr: a real friend will help you move.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

You shouldn’t have apologized. It’s not so much what she did, it’s her lack of guilt/sorrow and her refusal to accept what she did was wrong.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Proportionality

Confident

Uhh, don’t you mean “Butterfly hair clips, the only thing worse than stepping on a Lego.”

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

You know what?! I hope you are a troll. If not, I hope you notice how stupid you sound. Like really fucking stupid.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

You need to kick him out. He's an adult, he has been violating your wife and you can't allow him to continue, and you can't allow it to escalate. I think, unfortunately, you will have to tell your parents as otherwise there will be drama about kicking him out, and frankly, he needs to experience consequences for these actions.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Proportionality,Care,Equality

Confident

They absolutely will. And yeah, sjes very spoiled and pampered.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

I'm sorry that you feel sad because I called out your toxic behavior. But if you care about your relationship with your daughter, you will listen to that advice. It does not matter that she is 27. She is your daughter, not your therapist.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Proportionality,Care

Confident

Lol yeah I make 600 after two weeks of full time

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

The real tragedy is that public transport could be free if companies would pay their taxes.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Idk, you bought a current year sports car despite having no savings. You didn't buy anything for her, and she's living with you. Imagine if she won the lottery and got 1 million and bought herself tons of nice stuff and gave you nothing... I'm sure you'd feel like shit. &#x200B; I think if you were saving the money or wisely investing it that would be one thing but no you're blowing it on vacations and nice cars in the first year.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care

Confident

Having your child beat up is a little shitty? Jfc

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

Now you need to try to get it back and tell us if it's still there. This is important.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Confident

Alicia Keys singing the “Gummy Bears” theme song was a treat.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator04

Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

The idea that people don’t judge on appearance is simply not true. Most people saying yes or no to a date is making a snap judgment and for biological ( desirable reproductive traits) as well as personal preferences . That’s how those decisions are initially made and it’s not 100% conscious. It is however important intellectually to give people a chance and be willing to open your mind and horizons . That takes time time and a willingness to risk.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

Same principle. Asking for instructions (where to feed) rather than giving instructions.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

i love this game bc i just got to put my head down for like thirty mins. no effort on my part whatsoever.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

I don’t know if I’d go as far as to call OP racist. The closest he gets to mentioning race at all is calling a bad neighborhood “the hood”, which doesn’t mean much as we don’t know where OP lives, his Racial makeup, or the area’s racial makeup.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Authority

Confident

One I saw on reddit some time ago was "I'll poop on a log, I'll poop on a rock, but I'll be damned, If I poop off the clock"

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

> she has a family member in prison, and she was sharing with him the personal things from his underage victims’ lives and even sent him pictures of them a couple times without their knowledge. This needs to be reported to authorities. Immediately. Contact whomever prosecuted that case and find out how to make sure it is legally admissable. Print copies of those emails ASAP, in case she figures anything out and gets a chance to delete them.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

Hmmm, nope never heard of it. I assume it doesn't have any tragically sad scenes in it that will scar my young soul for life right? Right??

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Purity

Confident

Bro they're legos. That was the closest thing to crack back before I discovered actual crack. The smell of the Danish plastic. That clean rip that the plastic baggies made when you rip them open. The cool touch of the instructions as you begin to find order in all that block chaos. And then finally, some hours later, the noise has coalesced into a solitary note, the completed set, and there's that moment marvel, watching starry eyed, awe-struck, smitten. Few things compare to the thrill, the challenge of a new lego set.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

Dude I have a project car this is NOT the perfect time.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

I saw on one of those antique tv shows (American Pickers, pawn stars, or one of copycats) that in good condition these maps are super expensive collectors items! Especially ones with USSR and eastern bloc country names

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

I don’t know I’m confused if she’s loaned him $3000 and he STILL owes her $3000 then he hasn’t paid back anything. Says he’s paid $400 a month but if he had paid back anything there would be some sort of dent in what he owes her. YTA

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

This is not a good relationship. Good relationships are built on mutual respect and affection, and her actions are *incompatible with those ideas*. Cuddles and movies are not enough for an adult relationship to thrive off. Make no mistake, you deserve a warmer, happier, kinder love than what she is giving you. Shit, her actions are outrivht abusive. (And yeah kissing someone when they're angry is a bad idea but don't beat yourself up too bad for that; pop culture has dangerously painted it as this sexy-romantic move for decades)

relationship_advice

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Care

Confident

Of course it’s okay to cry in front of your children- it’s okay to cry for less upsetting things than death as well- it’s OKAY to express emotions and it’s healthy to model that for your kids especially if you want them to grow up as well-adjusted, compassionate and sensitive humans.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

It still only helps so much if you don't also brush your tongue. You'd be amazed how many people never do that.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

When they brought it back i was disappointed . It wasn’t as good as i remembered it being.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

What if the taste you enjoy isn't the cereal, what if the taste you crave is of your own hard palate being slowly grated over your taste buds ? Cannibal confetti.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Purity

Not Confident

Would you tell the truth in this situation, knowing there’s no way they can prove otherwise, and that it will cost you ~$20k?

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

Yep, this! That was a big ask even leaving aside the fact that OP had made it clear from the start that it was a total no-go for cultural reasons.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

I'm concerned he's been hanging on to the relationship so that he can get his hands on OPs inheritance money. He's clearly been spending the money in his head and thinking about how he can benefit from it for a while. OP--That inheritance was the last thing your mother will ever be able to do for you. Guard it like a lion. Be smart with it. And if you should start dating something new, DO NOT mention that you have that money until the relationship is let's-get-married serious. It's not dishonest to say you have your salary and "some savings."

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Authority

Confident

You sure showed me, Very compelling argument. But have you ever considered your antiquated unscientific views on gender are lame?

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

Y'all remember the episode where they tackled prejudice and racism?

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Equality

Somewhat Confident

That’s theft. Or fraud. I’d say something and take care of it ASAP

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful response. You’ve given me a lot to think about and discuss with him.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

Hell yeah! That’s some hardcore nostalgia right there god DAMN.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

you are an inspiration - thank you! I hope other guys take note of this comment.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

That is at ridiculous. Mindless middle management genuinely thinks he's making something out of his life, nitpicking how some poor schmuck cuts bread for a sandwich. Head so far up a corporation's ass that he only cares about as long as he's wearing the mandatory polo shirt. I'd like you make me a sandwich however you want to cut it. Oh and happy cakeday, ya filthy animal.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

It used to taste like a subway smells. It still smells that way, but it doesn't taste that way anymore.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

This doesn't seem all that uncommon from what I've seen. I don't really RP, but I doubt you're alone in this.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Loyalty

Confident

It sounds like you are a really respectful and loving parent, and you should take pride in the relationship you have with your kids.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care,Authority

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I feel like you were trying to justify it but stealing $500 is worse than a 9 year old acting cocky, etc.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

There are STIs that are symptom free but can cause serious consequences like infertility.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Purity

Confident

Tell her immediately. I understand that it is scary and difficult cutting ties with your family, but your family have proven themselves to be TERRIBLE people by protecting this creep. Tell her right now, and never look back.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Loyalty

Confident

My Good Sir, I would like to offer my utmost sincere apologies. It appears as though I have come across as quite aggressive, rather then assertive. My language also measures up to that of a busty bar wench, and quite frankly I am appalled by my very own response. I must say, I do rather appreciate you bringing this to my attention, my good man. I hope this response finds you well. Cheers xx

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

I think it might depend on how bad the bullying was and what type of actions the bully took. I have had a few bullies apologize to me, but looking back they weren’t that bad and it was mostly for petty teasing kind of stuff. Meanwhile I have two bullies I would punch in the face the minute I recognized them and would refuse to talk to them at all because what they did crossed the line from bullying to sexual harassment.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Somewhat Confident

Nerds were a trope before Family Matters. And Urkel was actually a very popular character.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

hahaha chill. no one cares and you dodged a bullet. the relativ " harm" you caused is laughable. let it be a lesson and a good story to laugh about it. no need for guilt or shame. Edit: oh, by the way... you made your moma proud. good job. keep it up

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

The FOG is a powerful tool, especially coming from the people who raised you. Older brother has just now broken free and I applaude him for that. It's a hard thing to do, cutting people out.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Loyalty

Confident

Honestly can't help without knowing what went down but my biggest advice would be to apologize and admit wrong.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

YTA because it seems like (based on your replies) she hasn't given you any reason not to trust her. Don't punish her because of your ex. Can you imagine how hurt you would be if she treated you this way? Can you imagine how horrible you'll feel if you make her do this alone and then find out it was your baby and you missed it all? I would be absolutely livid if my husband treated me this way.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care,Loyalty

Confident

>havent said anything to her since I'm not supposed to invade her privacy like this... any advice on my situation? You are married. That is not an invasion of privacy. There should not be that level of privacy in a marriage. Both parties should be 100% transparent with each other.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care,Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

I think you should avoid it like the black plague, this will NOT build your confidence, it will only lead to worries and regret, i would only understand this if this was something you both did together (threesome) but if it's alone and away from each other, it'll come to be problematic later on when this "free pass" is used and you start wanting it again, same can go for her, she may end up seeing someone more then once and it'll probably not be good for either of you.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

Way to knock this person’s confession. I may not be a fan of people, but I’m willing to give them the benefit of the doubt.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

Cheap nachos, sweat and feet. Perhaps just a touch of mold. Maybe a hint of formaldehyde from cheap building materials.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

Youre the kind of person who makes women feel scared to leave their own homes ffs. Do NOT tell her, and since you’ve deleted it you need to reflect on your actions because that’s a horrible decision. You’re still young though , just understand that that is extremely uncomfortable and a violation of a woman

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

Just putting this out there, if you’re feeling scared to leave and also not wanting him to meet your friends because quite frankly you’re protecting those friendships, well then I gotta break it to you but “That’s Not Love” not even close.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Not Confident

This seems like a “bob forgot Linda’s wedding anniversary” gift.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident

It sounds like your only qualm with this activity is the legalities of it. This is why people think you need therapy. If there were no laws against it, it sounds like you would continue your actions. Please get help before you harm someone, or someone harms you.

confession

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Care

Confident

>Why was OP not summarily removed due to absurdity of Possible Assholism I kept reading possible alcoholism and I was very confused

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Authority

Confident

So you can accept her apology enough not to punish her professionally, but not enough not to punish her personally?

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

Oh man. I got my Silver pants from Wet Seal. And yes I loved The Smashing Pumpkins thank you!

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

annotator01

Non-Moral

Confident