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I’m so sorry that you actually have to parent your child and make sure they go to school. Truly such an undue burden on you.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Somewhat Confident
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I worked as a supervisor and sat in on a lot asset protection apprehensions for a system just like this. As long as you steal under $80 they don’t call the cops but they take your license down and take away your privileges but they most definitely know you’re doing it, they watch people using that very carefully and will even zoom on on your phone screen. If you do it, don’t do it to many items, maybe like 3 or 4 items a trip and you can blame it on technical difficulties but of corse at your own risk
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Says the loser who still post food pics. Let people enjoy what they like you self righteous prick
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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NTA, as a childfree aunt, she isolated herself. I'm not a fan of young children and as much as I love my younger cousins, they're exhausting. That is absolutely not an excuse to completely ignore them for 15 years until they're tolerable. I still play with and talk to my young cousins, and I love them dearly because they're my family.
What your aunt/uncle did is shitty, and it's okay to not want a relationship with them.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Loyalty
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Confident
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YTA - If it weren't allowed than a lifeguard / someone who's in charge of the pool area would have told her to cover up.
Also, you asked her to leave? You have no right to do that. And the "This is America" comment is just ridiculous
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Is this some sort of like zen Buddha murder ritual or did you mean premeditated?
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Thanks dude. I was just so so touched out. Constantly humans on me. It helped me maintain the slightest bit of sanity here and there.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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Both my step dad and my bio dad are older than her husband (my dad is nearing 70 and my step dad is 70+) and they would never think anything like her husband has. Granted my mother and step mother would slap the crap out of each of them and yeet them to the andromeda galaxy if they were turkey enough to even breathe such a suggestion. But my point still stands.
He’s not old fashioned, he’s not a relic from a previous era. He is an abusive controlling man.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Authority
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Confident
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NTA. They have no say in what you do with your own house. Not only did they not inform you of their intentions, but you didn't even know your deceased neighbors. You're not under any obligation to performatively mourn people you didn't know, just because other people are doing it. This year sucks, let people have holiday lights.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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A) we don’t know that, he might have a job.
B) The mom didn’t even really register how much he was baking according to his comments. How did a mother spend two years not knowing what her kid was up to? And how did she not realize all her ingredients were disappearing if she wasn’t using them? I don’t think they were hers.
- edit: he said in a comment that he bought the ingredients
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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I was bullied every day of my entire school life, I promise you if you message her and genuinely apologise it’ll give you both such a sense of relief, I had a few girls apologise to me and I not only feel better, but I respect them for being mature :)
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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Probably great confession of today i am happy that you are atleast aware of your dullness
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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He should be very grateful he didny kill his kids because its all his fault. What a dick.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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Cool. Well, he's "tainted" because of his idiotic, shaming opinions. So that makes you even.
Why are you with someone who despises you?
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care,Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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Omg I got my wires crossed, thank you. I'll edit
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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I can barely follow instructions on mac and cheese. Following a recipe actually takes skill
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Especially secondary education, you’re not being forced to be there, you’re literally paying to be there and destroy property
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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NANOSAUR! THANK YOU! My sister and I have been trying to remember the name of this game for years.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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I’m assuming no one wants anything to do with you because you insult people for attention. I wouldn’t want to talk to someone like that either lmao.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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Depends on the gun. A quality hunting rifle will hold most of its value. An AR15 is hardly worth the melt value of the steel.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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This picture is definitely mid to late '90s. I see N64 cartridges.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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YTA And so is she. Pregnancy isn't making her jealous of the cat, that's just her excuse to do something abusive to her partner. Tell him the truth.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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I was scrolling to see if anyone else mentioned how this thing smelled. My familys' ones did have specific smells. I guess the material..
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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NTA. Not sure why you married her if she has no respect
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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Your sister cared, she felt embarrassed and probably ashamed if your parents blamed her. She definitely cared. I’ve had similar things happen to me in young teen years and brushed them off because it was so embarrassing and I didn’t want to seem “crazy.” Ditch this friend and try to talk to your sister, tell her you’re sorry this happened to her and it wasn’t her fault, it was his and he should not have done that.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care,Loyalty
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Confident
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> only true if your body has alcohol dependency
OP said "alcoholic for 2 years" which puts him in the category where that's a serious possibility.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Yeah I don’t I wow what to vote on this one. This makes me uncomfortable. I understand being particular over temperament, but pointy ears vs floppy ears? Extremely shallow and kind of gross. Dogs are not replaceable and they are not furniture.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Purity
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Confident
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If he's uncomfortable with it don't force him to do it, simple. If you're uncomfortable doing it tell him, he will respect it. Just because you enjoy something he doesn't have to do the same, let the man be.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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I am looking for something. But I just feel bad because he’s really angry about it. He’s threatening to just use one at school (yes school is in person here).
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Somewhat Confident
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She clearly thinks it is true. That's indication of mental illness.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Purity
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Confident
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This isn't the playground. There are no take backsies nor do overs. They're and ADULT and should know better. Freedom of speech is not free from consequences. The trash took itself out. NTA
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Proportionality
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Confident
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Don't feel bad about this. You protect yourself. What you should start thinking about is why you feel this way. I have done this in the past, and I feel upon reflection of my own experience that I felt that way because I didn't like myself and couldn't imagine anyone else liking me. I still am insecure and find myself self-loathing, but letting people in is important. Be careful and cautious, but when you find special people, they are the ones who lift you up out of self hate.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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American cheese on white bread, I believe was the alternative
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Former tech here. He should have ran you a dedicated line regardless if it drops below a certain level, and if its shitty signal the 9/10 its below said level. But people always used to bribe me for stuff that I was going to do anyway, lmao. If your neighbors complain enough then they will get enough trouble calls and come replace line anyway. Wish I would have gotten free weed tho :(
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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At the very least, delay the wedding - indefinitely. NTA
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Damn these illustrators dont get paid enough for thos amazing work
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Proportionality
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Confident
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Man, you need to seek help. We are not joking when we say this is depraved.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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Who cares? Apparently the person whose stuff was stolen. By the way, you do realize how unfortunate it is to have YOUR possessions stolen, right? I don’t think it was right for some thief to take your things from you either.
Just because you can deal with things being stolen doesn’t necessarily mean that whatever was taken away from someone else doesn’t affect them anymore. We don’t know their financial situation and we don’t know how they live their life. Stop being self centered, this isn’t about you. Get your head out of your tuckus!!!
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator01
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Care
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Confident
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"I regret it." I hope your reason for regret isn't this boyfriend "virgin-shaming" you. Ask him to f* off. Doesn't matter the years you've invested. You're 20, if this the demo of the rest of your life, it's just not worth it.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Not Confident
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Always in Boys Life. Mom wouldn’t let me make one. I’ve always wondered if it did in fact work.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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It’s not really the chemistry that interests me. I just started as I saw it to be an easy way to make money(I know, I prob should’ve got a job, but I have one now). I plan on studying aerospace engineering in college.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Don't forget to add sexual predator of minors into that mix of self descriptions.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Not Confident
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NTA. You don’t have a partner, you have a dependent. If she doesn’t want to pay rent to you and contribute to household expenses, perhaps it’s time she move out and pay rent to someone else.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Proportionality
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Not Confident
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I don't think this was an actual episode of the show. If I remember correctly, it's just a roundtable reunion special talking about the making of the show.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Maybe some of us don't want to track down an old book and spend several hours reading it just to know why it traumatized people in their childhood.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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So someone posts an actual confession and the sub shits on them?
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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I love that Dell advertisers were like “you know what? Kind of feeling this stoner dude. We should hire him.”
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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The little things are the most memorable. Really helps paint the whole picture.
Edit: A word
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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it's called gender affirmation, not a sex change. also, what was the underlying theme of the movie? THINGS ARE DIFFERENT NOW THAT YOU'RE BACK FROM SPACE. and hey, guess what, one of those different things is that LGBT people are no longer forced to hide who they are for fear of retribution. the bigheads are married. why does a straight couple get to be represented in a cartoon but a trans person doesn't? by your logic, why have visual storytelling medium at all if no one needs to see themself on a screen?
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Equality
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Not Confident
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It was the Cuckoo Clock one basically, but I went through more than a few and it was always similar. I do love the cover bumps!
The show with RL intro also got me laughing "Hi I'm the one that writes the books"
Are you afraid of the dark? was spookier too, especially on Halloween.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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They probably think he is mentally ill and fallen on hard times. They pity him and don’t want to make him feel like the shits.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Not Confident
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Man totally. Now days especially taco bell, I feel like I shouldn't need to dive as deep as I have to in order to find the same 4 items I've ordered since I was 16.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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He loved her and if she cheated on him she took that love and threw it in the toilet and flushed it. Everything WAS great until she was unfaithful. To try and deflect to the guy that was cheated on is pretty disgusting. That is, if it turns out she did in fact cheat.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Purity,Loyalty
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Not Confident
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Fun fact:
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My mom worked at the LifeSavers factory in Hamilton, On when I was a kid. When it was a foggy day, we'd smell the fruit flavoured ones. It would carry fairly far. But the problem was when my mom would come home after a day of making butterscotch. She would literally smell of dog shit. It was the worst smell you could imagine, especially from a candy so good as that. Butter Rum was fine...just that friggin' butterscotch.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Wanting to fuck someone is completely different from knowing basic life skills?? Every person should learn basic life skills so they’re not completely incompetent and useless
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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I always had this feeling that moronic bullies with no sense of empathy are a huge catalyst for these shootings. I am glad you got the help you needed, and we need more awareness for these kinds of things.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Not Confident
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Yea, I definitely think the first step would be to stop referring to herself as a cripple.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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It’s normal to assume people don’t have feelings for someone unless they tell otherwise.
Why would it be normal to assume she had feelings for him? Do you assume that for every friendship?
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Yes! And they all had some basic form of this movement
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Wow, That’s pretty heartless. That child didn’t ask to be conceived. Why should he/she be punished for your carelessness? Is it because she has a 3 year old child?
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Not Confident
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My mom had a ton of those Yogos dispensers that you got for free from cereal boxes. I used to like them!
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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YTA, it’s not even your money! You’re gonna need to be a lot more reasonable if your situation of him paying for you is gonna work, surely?
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Proportionality
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Not Confident
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If it's anything like their current orange drink, it's more like an artificially-flavored and -colored sugary drink tasting vaguely of orange.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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I worked at the Shack when these were around. Sold out of them every year I was there.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Just cuz something is illegal doesn't always mean it's the wrong thing to do... Legality shouldn't equal morality
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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> have female friends who have had similar encounters like this one and they felt so uncomfortable and unsafe that they dropped the class it happened in.
That is so awful, I was shocked at how brazen and shameless he was. It seemed beyond simply a "doesn't think before speaking" problem. Is this really that common for young adults to do in front of an entire class? (I'm not that much older than the undergrad age group myself and I don't think I ever saw anything nearly this bad in a public setting.)
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Not Confident
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that’s a good thing you did. destroying them is so wasteful.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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NTA. She publically lied about you, the consequences of that should be public too. You totally did the right thing.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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NTA. It's entirely different caring for and supporting someone in a professional role than it is your own parent. Besides that like you said, shaving someone pubic area isn't something that you'd do at work.
Maybe speak to your mum and ask if she'd be willing to pay for someone to give her a tidy up down there, someone who knows what they're doing and does it for a living?
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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If she's the one providing the table, she knows you're not a pro
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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Autism doesn't show up on any scans or any blood work, so there's no way to know prior to having a child, that they will be Autistic. She didn't have to choose, she wanted her son.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Right. I saw that and was like "What did I just read? And he's still asking if she cheated?"
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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But now it will cost your child a fortune to get an education. Student debt can rack up so fast. You said yourself that they’ve kicked students out for their sexuality before (which alone, is fucking unacceptable). Which means there’s a chance she COULDN’T have even gone there. If i was in your shoes i’d take whatever steps i had to in order to pay for the school SHE chooses. And if she chooses to cut contact with you after this i wouldn’t blame her. You don’t deserve to have a child.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Not Confident
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Instead of making room at the table for people who are typically excluded, it's like some of us try to force them to dance on top of the table.
(- sincerely, someone who has had to get over having the best of intentions)
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Authority
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Not Confident
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Yeah, I understand. Well, my suggestion is to break up with this guy. And then adopt a new baby and love the crap out of it
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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she wasnt giving you your basic needs, mental and emotional health are basic needs too
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Somewhat Confident
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Can you really not comprehend that people view sex differently? It’s not just men with that view btw.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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Actually I wouldn't be surprised if husband and his parents thought that was something you seriously shouldn't ever do. Racism against Asians isn't taken nearly as seriously and is much more casually joked about. I don't really get how a lot of people don't get that just because one race is more outspoken about racism that being racist to other races still isn't okay.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Equality
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Somewhat Confident
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As a customer, I disagree. I'd rather eat floor food than wait. But I'm also gross in general so I certainly don't speak for everyone
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Purity
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Not Confident
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NTA this sounds like some low level manipulation. Don’t allow others to dictate what you do.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Authority
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Not Confident
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People don't think you're a creep, people know you're a creep. Your own actions regardless of guilt portray that. If you weren't a creep you wouldn't have been able to morally justify taking that picture.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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I’ve got a hedgehog I’m willing to consider letting you adopt if it helps.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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That’s a bit shitty. I had a similar number to the local cinema for years so I used to print out the timings each week and keep them by the phone because I quite enjoyed helping and sometimes it was quicker than a confused conversation about what number they called vs what they should have called.
It’s not nice to be mean to people. It’s not like they didn’t it on purpose.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Not Confident
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You’re an immature fool for all the reasons listed. YTA.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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[All the stories are that Tommy Lee Jones HATED working with Carrey.](https://youtu.be/E78l8JX5d54)
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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NTA my mother does this as well, to tell me pointless things and its irritating because i need privacy.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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NTA. If you were the injured party in the initial breakup, I don't see why you should feel obligated to speak to your ex.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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You guys sure did love to argue about them late fees though.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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That was exactly my thinking. As a Ece teacher-these types of parents are the absolute worst. Always thinking their kid is holier than thou
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Not Confident
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It may not make sense to you, but it's clearly relevant now.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Getting any pet and ‘surprise’ should never coexist in the same sentence! Pets are not good presents.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Obviously it makes you feel better to vilify the person you stole from. In your twisted mind they somehow deserved it and you don't feel as bad for committing a crime.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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He’s probably using that headset to call someone a homophobic slur on Fortnite
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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I didn't take it as a red flag for him because he's always asked for consent before doing anything to me but I'm worried. If he thinks age is an excuse for doing bad things, what has he done or will do and excuse himself for?
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Thin Morality
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Not Confident
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I always loved his room until i realized that how bright itd be every single morning when the sun came up
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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A modern take on the late 90’s iBooks would probably do pretty well too..
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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She is putting what she sees as a real child ahead of the (please excuse me, OP) defective one, and not even "real" family.
In truth, the one that needs help comes first over an unborn, who will neither know nor care if the nursery is up to Home Beautiful standards.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Care
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Not Confident
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Highly underrated comedian. His work on SCTV was great.
[Taxi Driver - SCTV](https://youtu.be/LZE6yHtw0k8)
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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This sounds like something my husband would do! I actually worked as a collections specialist so if you need me just hollaaaaa!!
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Some people around me actually had snowdays this year even though it is online learning.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator00
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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