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Nta- seriously need to re-evaluate this relationship. He’s abusive and out of touch. You deserve much better.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
Starbucks will take its market saturation to the next level by opening a Starbucks... INSIDE another Starbucks!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
This! I'm so sorry you are going through this. Regardless of your decision (and it is YOUR decision) please seek counseling for your own mental wellbeing.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
Dude, love based on situation is not love. I'm sorry you had to go through your life with your family never truly loving you. I don't believe they truly do now. I hope the partner you speak of marrying loves you properly. I know it may be hard to escape them, but you need to find away to seperate yourself from all of them. That toxic mentality will only continue to suck the happiness away from you.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
If that culture is bigotry, it is garbage. If the bigoted elements of the culture can be removed that is great but upholding bigotry because it is tradition or culture makes you a bigot an an AH.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
I remember if you asked Jeeves personal questions he would respond with "I prefer 'alternative lifestyle.'"	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
That's overweight. The highest ideal BMI for her age is 21.8 because child BMIs are different from adults. She is in the 93rd percentile for BMI for her age, for context the obese category begins at the 95th percentile. A few more pounds, and she's obese.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
If the price bothers you, offer to pay for part of it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I'd phrase that as potential abuse/neglect rather than as being spoiled. I would consider bringing CPS in if parents won't correct this.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
NTA, after letting your twin have it she should have payed attention in rectifying that mistake.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I like posting here the most so we can join together in conversations about happy memories like this. That’s a cherished memory :) hugs	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
NTA - Lock up your stash and tell him that you will each be responsible for your own weed from here on out. There's a significant chance that he will react to this news with less than pleasant opinions. It's also an option to throw away the whole boyfriend...	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Sorry I'm not hep to your jive, cat. Do you lace your boots high, are you fly, are you fly?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
That should show you just how huge McDonald’s marketing influence on kids really was. This why we fat!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
NTA. She agreed to your terms, but now wants to back out when it's inconvenient. If she really wants you to take them for whatever reason, she needs to get them to behave. It's not like you're the only person who can watch them, babysitters exist. Also, does she let them treat her that way? I can't imagine she's putting up with all that spitting and screaming and refusing food on a daily basis	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
13 is not so immature that they dont understand consequences. To do something that drastic at so old just for attention sets off about a million red flags. I mean this in the nicest but also most honest way, you need mental health counseling.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
Lack of planning on his part, does not constitute an emergency on yours	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
This made me remember that My cousin borrowed my sims game a few weeks after I had just got it and never gave it back 😭😭😭😭😭😭 this was like 12 years ago lol.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Let him know it's hurtful, but staying with him means the possibility of being assaulted which is not her duty.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I can kind of understand it. It's really hard to think of your loved ones being cut open without much care even if they're dead. I wouldn't even want to get an autopsy done for the same reason. In grief it's really hard to separate the "you're hurting them" and "they're dead and can't feel anything", usually because reality hasn't set in yet. I'm currently learning the hard way that denial is a huge part of grief.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Is this not basically the exact same situation OP is describing, just a different gender doing it? No, we don't, for virtually the same reasons OP listed. Not all of us are primates.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I used to work for a VERY large company. They had an entire department dedicated to looking for these kinds of things. I shadowed in the department once, very interesting stuff.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
If they leave a box, just take the box back and leave it on their porch. Leave a note that says, "Though we thank you for the thought, we no longer would like to accept your unsolicited kindness. We enjoy shopping for ourselves. Thank you and take care!"	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
We had a teacher that would purposefully make some tests all one letter. Like, they would all be A or C or whatever. He told us if he was feeling particularly evil, he would have all of them the same letter except for a single answer so you would have all A's and one B.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
Totally unrelated to OP’s post, but how does your SO react if you give him/her a loaded apology like that? I mean it’s not even really an apology. That would make me so mad inside. Lol.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I know a fair bit about dissociative disorders and they are not easily medicated, there is no medication that specifically treats dissociation itself. Usually medications treat comorbidities like anxiety or depression but not the actual dissociation. I don't think there is anything wrong with expecting him to pitch in and obviously he is capable but these sorts of comments do make you seem like an AH. You should really research a little more about it before you make comments like this. I hope your husband considers therapy, CBT can be really effective for dissociative disorders.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
Why would you deserve it? You asked where your money was.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
There's a big fucking difference between a person who cannot do life skills without prompting by another human being, cannot communicate their needs or wants by any means (speaking, PECs, ASL) ever, let alone live by themselves even on disabilities and 'you'. And I'm super fucking tried of more able autistics shoving their privilege and thinking what's good for them is good for anyone who is autistic.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
it’s starting to amaze me how many ppl think my mom is absolutely nuts. i honestly just thought everyone’s mom was this controlling. i’m starting to rethink that	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Authority	Not Confident
Its seems scary now but just imagine she will see her mom as a bad ass who doesnt take shit from anyone, man or woman, and she will embody those traits if you instill them in her. You can make sure she grows up and sees what a healthy example of adult relationships look like and wont settle for anything less :) You got this, i believe in you girl!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
>Crazy that even after your ultimatum she wouldn’t talk about it. That would be her defence mechanism kicking in. People double down in those situations. Not saying she's right, but it's kinda expected.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I love how the comments are split between people that loved them and people that were terrified by them lol.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
If you think about it, having empathy and compassion as well as the ability to reason is what separates us from animals. For people with no empathy or compassion, they are one step closer to being an animal.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
All of this is called good parenting, which teenagers don’t always appreciate. Limits and boundaries set with reason and love are healthy and important. Absolutely NTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
They hada mutual agreement that they were both allowed to "snoop" through eachothers phones. Learn some reading comprehension and stop projecting.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
There's the problem. You're NOT acting dignified, you're acting delusional. Nobody is against you, they merely disagree with you and have offered advice on what you should do. You refuse to listen, insisting that everyone is wrong while defending your shit behavior. I stand by my comment.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
lmao this is fake af all y’all responding sincerely are gullible and should feel bad!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Yes this is in no way an overstatement. Sexually deviant behavior for sure.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
It's not so minor though, judging by your comment history. Therapy might be extreme, maybe start with some self help books or whatever	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
omg i spend more time on the phone than i have in years thanks to working from home since April. it feels like junior high again	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
A lot of people don’t realize how bad their behavior is until they’re faced with it themselves. Like toddlers reacting to videos of their tantrums, it’s funny and effective	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Be careful he just isn’t telling you what you want to hear. I can’t see him changing his spending simply that quick.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I have an overwhelming compelling desire to push these buttons	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
INFO: I'm assuming these surprise pocket checks are being carried out by your immediate managers. Are they being compelled to do this by higher up staff? Or is it largely of their own election to enforce this rule?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Authority	Not Confident
To the people who forgot what this subreddit is about: No one asked you who you think did what and why. The OP is trying to figure out how to keep having a relationship with her family and grandkids after an intense situation, that might lead to one of her family members going to jail. Forget your lust for drama and honestly try to help. How would you feel if you were in a similar situation and instead of people helping you, they argue about facts that they don't possess.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
YTA. Pets need to be mutually agreed upon. Like respect needs to be a mutual thing. If you get another cat you are showing both a lack of respect and an increase in selfishness.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
Oh yeah 2 was my favorite with 4 not far behind.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
It’s not an unreasonable request. I’m sure you wouldn’t like if someone hit your car and gave that excuse. Teeth issues are expensive, and OP ruined someone’s perfectly good teeth.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
“Forgiveness is such a profound, emotional, conscious and unconscious state of affairs, we can't actually choose to do it. It has to come to you.” I love this quote/conversation from Hannibal	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
No because if this was flipped it would still be a child getting groomed, and the fact that your condoning a grown man want to fuck a girl he's know since she was little who he watched grow up is sick and you need help	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Purity	Somewhat Confident
Slight problem, they have cameras overhead that watch what your hands do. So its not viable anymore.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
no, you're a moron because that is something some teenage boys do due to being immature and hormonal and acknowledging that doesn't make someone a pedo.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
Take a breath, call the bank and work it out. Dealerships don't want the inventory, especially old inventory. Things happen, people fall behind. Let it be the domino that almost fell, but you fixed	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Taking the central point of both sides is only reasonable if both sides have equal merit.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
This was basically a product to treat headaches, but they didn't want to say that because it was a BS placebo. Fearing legal action from a product that could not back up it's claim, they advertised the product without stating it's purpose. I think it sold very well because people came to their own conclusions on what it did. Plus it also had endless parodies on TV, which brought more attention to the product.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
YTA. Your wife doesn’t need reminders that her disability isn’t a good thing, she’s had it her whole life. Telling her that her and your daughters disability pissed you off was a low blow, and now she knows how little you think of her.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
NTA. But is living with your father a best choice? If he has ways to provide you better and the situation inside your house escalate you should consider talking with him and see your options.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
What is wrong with you? What weird fetish do you have that would inspire you to create this fiction?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
You would be surprised how far being in plain sight and the type of drunken confidence I get can go. Either that, or consuming alcohol gives me an invisibility cloak.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
I sent a towel to daycare with my son that was mine when I was little so, maybe 22 years old. It had a surfing dinosaur on it. Lol After summer, I went to bring it home and they had lost it. Idk why it made me sad but, it did.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
6. The chair wouldn't have broke if you fed him less Karen 7. Call the HOA, because that color on Cindy's shutters is against the bylaws 8. Stop turning the A/C down	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Kinda disappointed how many seem to consider writing to be purely subconscious, like they write entirely freeform without a plan. I've always thought that kinda writing a little boring compared to the opposite, because you know you're not getting a finely tuned story about a specific meaning.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Don’t stay with someone out of fear of not being good enough man. You sound very nice, hardworking, sharing, and empathetic. Lots of people would love to have a partner with those traits.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
So he's going with the sleep shower peeing story eh.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
How are those details irrelevant? They paint her as the spoiled brat she is, and its clear that she is. You must be exactly like the spoiled girl to be defending her like this lmao	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
My nephew had cerebral palsy, pretty bad. But if anyone said that shit to me at his funeral, I would have given them a Glasgow kiss. I’m sorry people were like that to you.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Not Confident
Everyone’s advice is don’t date a racist. You have zero ability to change someone’s opinion. You have 100% ability to change to a decent boyfriend.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
It really is “oddly specific” but, fuck, I’d be lying if I didn’t feel it just because of the picture.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Umm...That's sexual abuse, it doesn't have to involve touching. Can you tell a teacher or school couselor? It seems like if he hasn't tried to touch you yet, he will eventually.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
Did anyone else google Megan Martin to see how she’s faring? I found a producer/writer on IMDb that could be her but no birthdate to match up. Never heard of anything she did but she’s got a few credits. I wonder when she bought her first flatscreen	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Because men ogling are greasy perverts. And women ogling are empowered and independent.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Purity,Equality	Not Confident
Yeah, lol. Think I ate a 10pc nugget & a large fry almost every shift I ever worked. Just grab one or 2 as you walk by. It adds up quick after a few hours. I still miss the tomato & bacon grilled cheese sandwiches I used to make all the time when I worked there.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
OP DMed me with this: “If you’re not gonna actually help and be positive the fuck off hard from my posts.” So that’s the type of person we’re dealing with here, FYI. Good luck to you, OP. You seem hateful and miserable. Please don’t drag other people down with you.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
In WV it's "use without owner's consent." Also a misdemeanor.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
Your claim was that infidelity is mutually exclusive to the capacity to care for children, that's not the same as parental separation and the associated effect on child mental health. Why are you attacking this redditor with derogatory insults for contradicting comments? It's not necessary and you are also contradicting yourself	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care,Loyalty	Not Confident
There isn't as much aid available to people with wealthy parents (determined via FAFSA). The terms will also be worse. The assumption is that their parents can assist due to their wealth.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Proportionality	Not Confident
To you* It doesn't matter to you. Thats fine. Nonone cares what your standards are if you even have any. People have all types of criteria for partners the most common involve views and values.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I still remember going to the magazine section of Walgreens and reading the newest tips and tricks. My mom would never buy it for me so I would bring a pen and paper to scratch down some codes in the back real quick.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Yep. And half the kids would walk back to their desks saying "yessssssss."	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
There was a period of time in my childhood, where we either used an outhouse or kept a bucket of water by the toilet to "flush" when we were done. We also had a makeshift shower stall outside beside the barn that we used until it got too cold. Then I just showered at school after early morning workouts, and again after ball practice. School toilets never bothered me at all.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Things like therapy have limited spots and spaces. They don’t suggest people do them if they don’t believe they will benefit. They don’t just send everyone because then those that need it can’t do it. Korean or not, physical harm is physical harm. You may have your reasons for justifying it, but your daughter obviously doesn’t follow those reasons and it has impacted her. Just because you say “cultural reasons” doesn’t magically protect her from the harm that it’s caused. She deems it abusive, and your cultural reasons aren’t enough to remove that.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
I have vague but intense memories of being scared of this movie.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Obesity is pretty normal in the US. I'm not a major body positivity proponent, but people shouldn't have to be ashamed about being obese. Not that they should be happy with however their body is, but we tend to enforce an excessive level of shame. This isn't about body positivity being inherently toxic. This is about OP's friend's insecurities about her own body, and her lashing out at others instead of dealing with them herself.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
LOL YTA asking was fine being all whiny and demanding a justification was not they don't want to watch your kids why on earth are you acting like they need to justify this to you?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
Pretty sure Jesus said "smoke weed everyday". Or was it Snoop Dog? I forgot. One of the two.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
I think the most important thing in this topic is that we cannot forget or excuse ANYONE of this type of behaviour. However, it is getting harder to talk about women doing inappropriate things because many women will just flip in back to “Men do it far more than women” ... Thanks for the added feedback and your post!	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Equality	Not Confident
The “chrome lady” is what we called it because they were on truckers mud flaps. Anyway, my friend’s brother would go to amateur WWE wrestling events and shine the chrome lady onto the wrestlers, mat, flag during the anthem. We thought it was hilarious.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Some slick psychological marketing ploy against children, probably a combination of the colors and that stupid penguin duck on the cover. I remember having a strange desire to want those things as well	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Bruh, I just looked up an image of Julia and that hairstyle isnt sexual at all. Nit to mention you put all this effort in to do something sweet for him. NTA , seriously, your bf sounds like jealous ass.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Not Confident
I use to live in Hawaii on Oahu and I loved everything about it. Every Wednesday was a half day and so was every other friday. The language was super fun to learn. The music types I got to learn. The culture i was exposed to. All of it was amazing and I thinks it's hilarious you got away with the jamaican accent.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
You need to get your mental health checked man, go see a therapist or a professional so you won't have to abuse/hurt her again, or do something like this to another girl. Good luck on your future endeavours OP.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Care	Somewhat Confident
The bulbs themselves, if I remember correctly, were coated in a plastic (too keep the glass from shattering due to the sudden heat differential) and that coating bubbled and warped from the heat. I really like your description of it, even though I don't think phosphorous was actually involved at all :)	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Don't let anyone judge you my dude. There's no more practical way to defend your virginity!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Purity	Not Confident
honestly this post signifies why the patriarchy and sexism is so prevalent today. if we don't call out other people's sh***** thinking, they're def gonna teach it to their kids and the cycle only continues.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Equality	Somewhat Confident
>No, it does not negatively effect my health. Yes, it does. No amount of lying to yourself will change the fact being overweight is bad for your health. YTA, you're delusional.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Not Confident
Very true. IMO, emotional cheating is worse than purely physical. And to reiterate: SHE TRIED TO KICK YOU OUT. Wtf.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
God I miss those days when albums had something special to them- music and visual art all wrapped into one	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
you can tell him that you're about to lose some weight by dropping him	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
Why does it always seem to be... When you are an academy award nominee... You drop a pill, the lose to Phil, That’s all.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Non-Moral	Confident
What a piece of shit. He knows he’s not a teenager anymore right? What, he reckons he’s gonna go bang some models or some shit? What a douchebag. You married a douchebag. Even if your marriage survives, you’re married to a douchebag.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator00	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident

Nta- seriously need to re-evaluate this relationship. He’s abusive and out of touch. You deserve much better.

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Starbucks will take its market saturation to the next level by opening a Starbucks... INSIDE another Starbucks!

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This! I'm so sorry you are going through this. Regardless of your decision (and it is YOUR decision) please seek counseling for your own mental wellbeing.

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Dude, love based on situation is not love. I'm sorry you had to go through your life with your family never truly loving you. I don't believe they truly do now. I hope the partner you speak of marrying loves you properly. I know it may be hard to escape them, but you need to find away to seperate yourself from all of them. That toxic mentality will only continue to suck the happiness away from you.

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If that culture is bigotry, it is garbage. If the bigoted elements of the culture can be removed that is great but upholding bigotry because it is tradition or culture makes you a bigot an an AH.

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I remember if you asked Jeeves personal questions he would respond with "I prefer 'alternative lifestyle.'"

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That's overweight. The highest ideal BMI for her age is 21.8 because child BMIs are different from adults. She is in the 93rd percentile for BMI for her age, for context the obese category begins at the 95th percentile. A few more pounds, and she's obese.

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If the price bothers you, offer to pay for part of it.

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I'd phrase that as potential abuse/neglect rather than as being spoiled. I would consider bringing CPS in if parents won't correct this.

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NTA, after letting your twin have it she should have payed attention in rectifying that mistake.

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I like posting here the most so we can join together in conversations about happy memories like this. That’s a cherished memory :) hugs

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NTA - Lock up your stash and tell him that you will each be responsible for your own weed from here on out. There's a significant chance that he will react to this news with less than pleasant opinions. It's also an option to throw away the whole boyfriend...

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Sorry I'm not hep to your jive, cat. Do you lace your boots high, are you fly, are you fly?

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That should show you just how huge McDonald’s marketing influence on kids really was. This why we fat!

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NTA. **She agreed to your terms**, but now wants to back out when it's inconvenient. If she really wants you to take them for whatever reason, she needs to get them to behave. It's not like you're the only person who can watch them, babysitters exist. Also, does she let them treat her that way? I can't imagine she's putting up with all that spitting and screaming and refusing food on a daily basis

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13 is not so immature that they dont understand consequences. To do something that drastic at so old just for attention sets off about a million red flags. I mean this in the nicest but also most honest way, you need mental health counseling.

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Lack of planning on his part, does not constitute an emergency on yours

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This made me remember that My cousin borrowed my sims game a few weeks after I had just got it and never gave it back 😭😭😭😭😭😭 this was like 12 years ago lol.

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Let him know it's hurtful, but staying with him means the possibility of being assaulted which is not her duty.

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I can kind of understand it. It's really hard to think of your loved ones being cut open without much care even if they're dead. I wouldn't even want to get an autopsy done for the same reason. In grief it's really hard to separate the "you're hurting them" and "they're dead and can't feel anything", usually because reality hasn't set in yet. I'm currently learning the hard way that denial is a huge part of grief.

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Is this not basically the exact same situation OP is describing, just a different gender doing it? No, we don't, for virtually the same reasons OP listed. Not all of us are primates.

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I used to work for a VERY large company. They had an entire department dedicated to looking for these kinds of things. I shadowed in the department once, very interesting stuff.

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If they leave a box, just take the box back and leave it on their porch. Leave a note that says, "Though we thank you for the thought, we no longer would like to accept your unsolicited kindness. We enjoy shopping for ourselves. Thank you and take care!"

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We had a teacher that would purposefully make some tests all one letter. Like, they would all be A or C or whatever. He told us if he was feeling particularly evil, he would have all of them the same letter except for a single answer so you would have all A's and one B.

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Totally unrelated to OP’s post, but how does your SO react if you give him/her a loaded apology like that? I mean it’s not even really an apology. That would make me so mad inside. Lol.

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I know a fair bit about dissociative disorders and they are not easily medicated, there is no medication that specifically treats dissociation itself. Usually medications treat comorbidities like anxiety or depression but not the actual dissociation. I don't think there is anything wrong with expecting him to pitch in and obviously he is capable but these sorts of comments do make you seem like an AH. You should really research a little more about it before you make comments like this. I hope your husband considers therapy, CBT can be really effective for dissociative disorders.

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Why would you deserve it? You asked where your money was.

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There's a big fucking difference between a person who cannot do life skills without prompting by another human being, cannot communicate their needs or wants by any means (speaking, PECs, ASL) ever, let alone live by themselves even on disabilities and 'you'. And I'm super fucking tried of more able autistics shoving their privilege and thinking what's good for them is good for anyone who is autistic.

AmItheAsshole

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it’s starting to amaze me how many ppl think my mom is absolutely nuts. i honestly just thought everyone’s mom was this controlling. i’m starting to rethink that

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Its seems scary now but just imagine she will see her mom as a bad ass who doesnt take shit from anyone, man or woman, and she will embody those traits if you instill them in her. You can make sure she grows up and sees what a healthy example of adult relationships look like and wont settle for anything less :) You got this, i believe in you girl!

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>Crazy that even after your ultimatum she wouldn’t talk about it. That would be her defence mechanism kicking in. People double down in those situations. Not saying she's right, but it's kinda expected.

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I love how the comments are split between people that loved them and people that were terrified by them lol.

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If you think about it, having empathy and compassion as well as the ability to reason is what separates us from animals. For people with no empathy or compassion, they are one step closer to being an animal.

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All of this is called good parenting, which teenagers don’t always appreciate. Limits and boundaries set with reason and love are healthy and important. Absolutely NTA

AmItheAsshole

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They hada mutual agreement that they were both allowed to "snoop" through eachothers phones. Learn some reading comprehension and stop projecting.

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There's the problem. You're NOT acting dignified, you're acting delusional. Nobody is against you, they merely disagree with you and have offered advice on what you should do. You refuse to listen, insisting that everyone is wrong while defending your shit behavior. I stand by my comment.

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lmao this is fake af all y’all responding sincerely are gullible and should feel bad!

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Yes this is in no way an overstatement. Sexually deviant behavior for sure.

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It's not so minor though, judging by your comment history. Therapy might be extreme, maybe start with some self help books or whatever

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omg i spend more time on the phone than i have in years thanks to working from home since April. it feels like junior high again

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A lot of people don’t realize how bad their behavior is until they’re faced with it themselves. Like toddlers reacting to videos of their tantrums, it’s funny and effective

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Be careful he just isn’t telling you what you want to hear. I can’t see him changing his spending simply that quick.

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I have an overwhelming compelling desire to push these buttons

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INFO: I'm assuming these surprise pocket checks are being carried out by your immediate managers. Are they being compelled to do this by higher up staff? Or is it largely of their own election to enforce this rule?

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To the people who forgot what this subreddit is about: No one asked you who you think did what and why. The OP is trying to figure out how to keep having a relationship with her family and grandkids after an intense situation, that might lead to one of her family members going to jail. Forget your lust for drama and honestly try to help. How would you feel if you were in a similar situation and instead of people helping you, they argue about facts that they don't possess.

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YTA. Pets need to be mutually agreed upon. Like respect needs to be a mutual thing. If you get another cat you are showing both a lack of respect and an increase in selfishness.

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Oh yeah 2 was my favorite with 4 not far behind.

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It’s not an unreasonable request. I’m sure you wouldn’t like if someone hit your car and gave that excuse. Teeth issues are expensive, and OP ruined someone’s perfectly good teeth.

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“Forgiveness is such a profound, emotional, conscious and unconscious state of affairs, we can't actually choose to do it. It has to come to you.” I love this quote/conversation from Hannibal

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No because if this was flipped it would still be a child getting groomed, and the fact that your condoning a grown man want to fuck a girl he's know since she was little who he watched grow up is sick and you need help

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Slight problem, they have cameras overhead that watch what your hands do. So its not viable anymore.

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no, you're a moron because that is something some teenage boys do due to being immature and hormonal and acknowledging that doesn't make someone a pedo.

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Take a breath, call the bank and work it out. Dealerships don't want the inventory, especially old inventory. Things happen, people fall behind. Let it be the domino that almost fell, but you fixed

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Taking the central point of both sides is only reasonable if both sides have equal merit.

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This was basically a product to treat headaches, but they didn't want to say that because it was a BS placebo. Fearing legal action from a product that could not back up it's claim, they advertised the product without stating it's purpose. I think it sold very well because people came to their own conclusions on what it did. Plus it also had endless parodies on TV, which brought more attention to the product.

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YTA. Your wife doesn’t need reminders that her disability isn’t a good thing, she’s had it her whole life. Telling her that her and your daughters disability pissed you off was a low blow, and now she knows how little you think of her.

AmItheAsshole

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NTA. But is living with your father a best choice? If he has ways to provide you better and the situation inside your house escalate you should consider talking with him and see your options.

AmItheAsshole

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What is wrong with you? What weird fetish do you have that would inspire you to create this fiction?

AmItheAsshole

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You would be surprised how far being in plain sight and the type of drunken confidence I get can go. Either that, or consuming alcohol gives me an invisibility cloak.

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I sent a towel to daycare with my son that was mine when I was little so, maybe 22 years old. It had a surfing dinosaur on it. Lol After summer, I went to bring it home and they had lost it. Idk why it made me sad but, it did.

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6. The chair wouldn't have broke if you fed him less Karen 7. Call the HOA, because that color on Cindy's shutters is against the bylaws 8. Stop turning the A/C down

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Kinda disappointed how many seem to consider writing to be purely subconscious, like they write entirely freeform without a plan. I've always thought that kinda writing a little boring compared to the opposite, because you know you're not getting a finely tuned story about a specific meaning.

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Don’t stay with someone out of fear of not being good enough man. You sound very nice, hardworking, sharing, and empathetic. Lots of people would love to have a partner with those traits.

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So he's going with the sleep shower peeing story eh.

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How are those details irrelevant? They paint her as the spoiled brat she is, and its clear that she is. You must be exactly like the spoiled girl to be defending her like this lmao

AmItheAsshole

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My nephew had cerebral palsy, pretty bad. But if anyone said that shit to me at his funeral, I would have given them a Glasgow kiss. I’m sorry people were like that to you.

AmItheAsshole

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Everyone’s advice is don’t date a racist. You have zero ability to change someone’s opinion. You have 100% ability to change to a decent boyfriend.

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It really is “oddly specific” but, fuck, I’d be lying if I didn’t feel it just because of the picture.

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Umm...That's sexual abuse, it doesn't have to involve touching. Can you tell a teacher or school couselor? It seems like if he hasn't tried to touch you yet, he will eventually.

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Did anyone else google Megan Martin to see how she’s faring? I found a producer/writer on IMDb that could be her but no birthdate to match up. Never heard of anything she did but she’s got a few credits. I wonder when she bought her first flatscreen

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Because men ogling are greasy perverts. And women ogling are empowered and independent.

AmItheAsshole

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Yeah, lol. Think I ate a 10pc nugget & a large fry almost every shift I ever worked. Just grab one or 2 as you walk by. It adds up quick after a few hours. I still miss the tomato & bacon grilled cheese sandwiches I used to make all the time when I worked there.

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OP DMed me with this: “If you’re not gonna actually help and be positive the fuck off hard from my posts.” So that’s the type of person we’re dealing with here, FYI. Good luck to you, OP. You seem hateful and miserable. Please don’t drag other people down with you.

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In WV it's "use without owner's consent." Also a misdemeanor.

AmItheAsshole

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Your claim was that infidelity is mutually exclusive to the capacity to care for children, that's not the same as parental separation and the associated effect on child mental health. Why are you attacking this redditor with derogatory insults for contradicting comments? It's not necessary and you are also contradicting yourself

AmItheAsshole

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There isn't as much aid available to people with wealthy parents (determined via FAFSA). The terms will also be worse. The assumption is that their parents can assist due to their wealth.

AmItheAsshole

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To you* It doesn't matter to you. Thats fine. Nonone cares what your standards are if you even have any. People have all types of criteria for partners the most common involve views and values.

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I still remember going to the magazine section of Walgreens and reading the newest tips and tricks. My mom would never buy it for me so I would bring a pen and paper to scratch down some codes in the back real quick.

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Yep. And half the kids would walk back to their desks saying "yessssssss."

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There was a period of time in my childhood, where we either used an outhouse or kept a bucket of water by the toilet to "flush" when we were done. We also had a makeshift shower stall outside beside the barn that we used until it got too cold. Then I just showered at school after early morning workouts, and again after ball practice. School toilets never bothered me at all.

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Things like therapy have limited spots and spaces. They don’t suggest people do them if they don’t believe they will benefit. They don’t just send everyone because then those that need it can’t do it. Korean or not, physical harm is physical harm. You may have your reasons for justifying it, but your daughter obviously doesn’t follow those reasons and it has impacted her. Just because you say “cultural reasons” doesn’t magically protect her from the harm that it’s caused. She deems it abusive, and your cultural reasons aren’t enough to remove that.

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I have vague but intense memories of being scared of this movie.

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Obesity *is* pretty normal in the US. I'm not a major body positivity proponent, but people shouldn't have to be ashamed about being obese. Not that they should be happy with however their body is, but we tend to enforce an excessive level of shame. This isn't about body positivity being inherently toxic. This is about OP's friend's insecurities about her own body, and her lashing out at others instead of dealing with them herself.

AmItheAsshole

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LOL YTA asking was fine being all whiny and demanding a justification was not they don't want to watch your kids why on earth are you acting like they need to justify this to you?

AmItheAsshole

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Pretty sure Jesus said "smoke weed everyday". Or was it Snoop Dog? I forgot. One of the two.

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I think the most important thing in this topic is that we cannot forget or excuse ANYONE of this type of behaviour. However, it is getting harder to talk about women doing inappropriate things because many women will just flip in back to “Men do it far more than women” ... Thanks for the added feedback and your post!

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The “chrome lady” is what we called it because they were on truckers mud flaps. Anyway, my friend’s brother would go to amateur WWE wrestling events and shine the chrome lady onto the wrestlers, mat, flag during the anthem. We thought it was hilarious.

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Some slick psychological marketing ploy against children, probably a combination of the colors and that stupid penguin duck on the cover. I remember having a strange desire to want those things as well

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Bruh, I just looked up an image of Julia and that hairstyle isnt sexual at all. Nit to mention you put all this effort in to do something sweet for him. NTA , seriously, your bf sounds like jealous ass.

AmItheAsshole

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I use to live in Hawaii on Oahu and I loved everything about it. Every Wednesday was a half day and so was every other friday. The language was super fun to learn. The music types I got to learn. The culture i was exposed to. All of it was amazing and I thinks it's hilarious you got away with the jamaican accent.

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You need to get your mental health checked man, go see a therapist or a professional so you won't have to abuse/hurt her again, or do something like this to another girl. Good luck on your future endeavours OP.

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The bulbs themselves, if I remember correctly, were coated in a plastic (too keep the glass from shattering due to the sudden heat differential) and that coating bubbled and warped from the heat. I really like your description of it, even though I don't think phosphorous was actually involved at all :)

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Don't let anyone judge you my dude. There's no more practical way to defend your virginity!

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honestly this post signifies why the patriarchy and sexism is so prevalent today. if we don't call out other people's sh***** thinking, they're def gonna teach it to their kids and the cycle only continues.

AmItheAsshole

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>No, it does not negatively effect my health. Yes, it does. No amount of lying to yourself will change the fact being overweight is bad for your health. YTA, you're delusional.

AmItheAsshole

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Very true. IMO, emotional cheating is worse than purely physical. And to reiterate: SHE TRIED TO KICK YOU OUT. Wtf.

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God I miss those days when albums had something special to them- music and visual art all wrapped into one

nostalgia

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you can tell him that you're about to lose some weight by dropping him

relationship_advice

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Why does it always seem to be... When you are an academy award nominee... You drop a pill, the lose to Phil, That’s all.

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What a piece of shit. He knows he’s not a teenager anymore right? What, he reckons he’s gonna go bang some models or some shit? What a douchebag. You married a douchebag. Even if your marriage survives, you’re married to a douchebag.

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