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You're right, I should tell him. It's not going to be fun lol.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
"Mr Bean". Would always turn that on to annoy my sister. Then crank it up to "Damon Hill" when I played.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
Aaand this sentiment is why so many keep their abuse quiet. How would you possibly know how bad someone's abuse was. And who cares, child abuse is child abuse no matter how bad it is, and it in most cases affects people for their whole life.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
Your friend is going to kill someone, possibly herself. You’re literally hoping she has comparatively minor consequences for her excessively reckless criminal behavior. NTA
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care
Confident
That's exactly right. Others should not be forced to witness something like this because not only is it disturbing, it's a graphic, traumatic image that might scar people or reopen the wounds of people who went through something like this. It's something that just doesn't belong on social media.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
How does it feel to be anti science and pro “mUh FeElInGs AnD bElIeFs”? > Maybe you should reframe your way of thinking The irony here is astounding.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I will never understand people who are rude to the people making their drinks or food.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Care,Equality
Confident
You’re very correct, it’s very much a two way street. A company is looking for loyalty, but they must also look after their staff properly and provide an environment that encourages them to stay.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
Its a baggle dude just tell them and apologize or buy them new ones
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
You want sympathy? Look in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Arranged marriages are always a bad idea. Seek therapy or counseling. Maybe separation is a good idea.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Equality,Care,Authority
Confident
You're right that vegetarianism on its own doesn't imply an unwillingness to use leather, but a lot of people choose to be vegetarian because they don't think that it's right to kill animals to feed them. For those people, it could make a lot of sense to also avoid leather, another product that animals had to die for. Animals are hurt in the egg/dairy industry, but it's not something inherent to the product, it's possible to produce without harming them, although finding producers that do may be challenging. Still, there's a difference between just harming and killing.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I used to love going into Borders and just sitting and reading for a while, usually I wouldn’t even buy anything. I wonder why they shut down.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Only 2 days ago I was telling a work mate about my first crush and how she could turn into liquid but he couldn't remember it and I couldn't remember the name of the show. I thought it was lost forever. Lol. So thanks for this.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Im not religious by any means but this is solid advice.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
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Booooooop boo be boo boo be boo boop Beep beep beep beep beeeeeepkkassshhhhhh eehhheerrreehhhhksshhhhhhhhhhhhh..... WELCOME! YOU GOT MAIL!
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
i can still hear it and feel it. that squeaking noise makes me want to off myself.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Definitely wanted that room, and his family and friends too lol. So supportive in him being whoever he wanted to be but yet also guiding him to become a good person in general. Great show.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Equality
Confident
The real nostalgia is in the comments. Damn that’s accurate
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
That's Master Splinter, dog. Put some respeck on his name.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I can still hear the jingle now: *Don't Spill the Beans, Don't Break the Ice, Ants in the Pants, and Cooties!*
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
I mean, I had a co-worker take a handful of candy from my candy bowl like twice a day. Its 70kcal for a fun size kit kat. If she's eating 5 kit kats everyday, every two weeks (or 10 business days), she'd be gaining a pound. So in a year (52 weeks, but there's holidays) she'd probably gain like 25lb.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Non-Moral
Somewhat Confident
That’s all you can do. Count yourself lucky and be glad you learned your lesson without harming yourself or others.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Never seen a more appropriate use of that expression, well done.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
NTA - Your parents deserve your anger and I sincerely hope your brother and SIL inform your parents that they will be cutting contact until they come to their senses. I'm sorry your parents are treating their only grandchild in this way. That is just pure selfishness and cruel. Good for you for sticking up for your brother's family.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
Truly this era of the internet was a strange time.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
NTA. No one should offend people due to race, and a person's race doesn't give them authority to do so.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Equality,Proportionality,Authority
Confident
Definitely NTA, I get if you and your brother agreed for you to pay a small portion of rent while you stay, however he should not be charging you the full amount. If he cares about family so much he wouldnt guilt trip you or insult you over the money. Your brother is TA.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
YTA - Like your mother said, "respect people's choices" and "quit \[your\] judgemental crap" You are being unreasonable. Edit - a word because I can't think today
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
You got proof? Otherwise there’s a chance it might be true. Tell me which is worse, falling for someone’s creative karma farming or ignoring someone in trouble?
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
Thats kinda gatekeeping how someone perceives nostalgia. Its all a person to person basis.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
INFO: what would your aim be in sending him such a letter? Are you legitimately concerned that he's still berating students like that? Do you want him to know that he hurt you specifically and apologize?
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
Awn, I'm sorry my friend, may he rest in peace! And you're welcome ☺️
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
My cousin worked at her call center. They had a different script every day that they very slightly modified for each caller depending on the details the callers shared.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Non-Moral
Somewhat Confident
It can be highly traumatic and most people keep trauma to themselves and to the people closest to them. Imagine the pressure and attention that could come with announcing a miscarriage? Of course there shouldn't be any stigma or shame associated with it. And most people would want to be supportive. But sometimes you don't want everyone knowing your personal business, feeling sorry for you, have to walk on eggshells around you, etc.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Care
Confident
While beating up on people isn’t okay, that’s also somewhat the sibling lifestyle. Have you ever heard anyone say “no one can ____ my brother/sister except me?” Having a sibling is a love-hate relationship where you guys will beat up on each other, but you’d still give your arm for each other too. I don’t have details, but it sounds like you’re far from having abused your sister. Don’t sweat it and move forward with life. Keep working to build your relationship with her also. Siblings can be an amazing friend through life.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Equality
Somewhat Confident
Kurt Loder had a gift for being stone-faced and sarcastic-as-fuck all at once.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
As someone who was also bullied throughout school, I completely agree. Apologies don’t erase the pain that I or anyone else experienced while being bullied. I understand if bullies feel remorseful, but it’s not mine or anyone else’s problem, it’s theirs. They have to learn to deal with it.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Care
Confident
I used one for a while at work cuz I had an iPod and aux cords weren't really as popular
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Non-Moral
Confident
There was a chick at my high school that wore these.... her bush would pop out all the time.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Good thing you're not letting your kids see their grandpa. Wouldn't want kids to grow up around people with garbage morals...
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Depends on the format. Some cards are “reserved” as in they will never be printed again. Those cards can often be a few hundred dollars to a few thousand dollars depending on when they were printed. Since the reserved list cards are no longer being printed, scarcity is a factor on top of the cards being very good. Other cards are just very good and/or are basically required for a deck and the artificial scarcity increases the price.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
Adventure and growing They take pride in knowing To fight for what's right.in whatever they do. Gummi beaaaars!
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Call the national domestic abuse hotline 1-800-799-7233 They can guide you to resources to help you leave.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Authority
Confident
Once that suspension goes out that system is going to vibrate like hell and maps will never load
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I dont think it would make me any less uncomfortable,or any more uncomfortable. To me, it all falls into the same box of, "NOPE NOP NOPE".
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Op said they aren’t spoiling it. They’re explaining the history that isn’t explained in the show. I had no idea what the dark saber was or who Thrawn and Gideon were because I had never seen clone wars or rebels.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
The only reason you both agreed to mutually break-up despite his indiscretions would be if you considered yourself equally at fault (see: guilty). Since you moved on quickly, or rather to pursue a different relationship, I’d say this is correct. Now your current relationship is coming to an end and you’re doing what you did all those years ago, immediately withdrawing and searching for comfort/validation. You’re seeking stability and you won’t find that if you emotionally withdraw and withhold yourself. For your sake, don’t cheat again.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Equality
Confident
This is the part of these situations that I wish more people understood. My (gay) mom married my dad because it was what everyone in her life told her she should do -- being attracted to woman was a choice, and she just had to overcome those feelings, put her faith in God, and marry a good man.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Welcome to every normal healthy relationship :) The honeymoon eventually ends, and you get to learn if you still make each other happy when being together is normal and not exciting anymore.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Somewhat Confident
I just go by the assumption they're telling the truth. Otherwise you get 50 comments each speculating on what op is lying about and every single one is most likely wrong.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Larger expenses could be committing more to 401k, savings, or paying off debt. Expense don’t mean you are blowing money.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
Yea the friend does need help it’s just sad that the one person who is helping the friend gets thrown under the bus because the friend doesn’t wanna admit she’s afraid. OP you’re going out of your way for this friend and you’re being treated like shit by that friend and their family. Stop coming over and helping.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Care,Loyalty
Confident
I always just shoveled the entire packet in my mouth
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
You sexually assaulted her and you only felt bad because you thought you were going to jail. You are disgusting and you need help.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Purity
Confident
Aaaaand I'll shut you down right here. This isn't about the "happiness of the kid" and OP's thoughts about religion. If her child starts to internalize that a woman's worth depends on her purity/virginity it can have longer lasting impacts than not going to a dance. NTA.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
YTA, there's a reason this kid doesn't respect you and calls you these things, I suspect that you have never truly treated him with respect, kindness or love. Compounded by the fact that he sees the way you treat your bio child. The term "wicked stepmother" exists for a reason.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
Same thing I came to comment. You just *know* she called the kids “sugar” and would hum beautifully while serving.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
how was it perfect if 6 months in she was in some other guy bed? It was never perfect you just didnt have enough back bone to end it there and then.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I sleep naked, hubby is used to seeing me naked. 11 years together, just being naked isn’t something special. The sexy undies is bow chika wow wow.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Wow dude. And a simple search within your humanity should tell you that OP has probably suffered years of gaslighting and manipulation at the hands of the one person who she should be able to trust above all else. She is fucking 18. How old are you? How long have you been going to school to obtain that basic information?
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
Please go seek some professional help or therapy. This is a traumatic, serious thing and I believe therapy could help you process some of this.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Care,Authority
Confident
If the top comment on this thread wasnt exactly this, I was going to lose my god damn mind and faith in the human race.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
NTA - you have obviously been a great mum and put all of your kids first. Now it’s time for you to be happy!
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care
Confident
Everyone mad at this poor guy for pirating. I want to say I'm proud of you. They've made everything so that only the elite or upper class can afford them. We peasants can't afford to pay these exorbitant prices.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality,Loyalty
Confident
You think assuming all men wanting "pure" women is just a *preference*? Bro. I realize you're inexperienced but... come on. You're allowed to have a preference but acting like women need to be *pure* is so fucking sexist and *gross.*
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
Oh my. It must be so scary to not be sure whether or not it’s happening. Video is a good idea. But if you are not having hallucinations, this is a bad situation. He’s trying to use your mental illness against you. If you have someone else confirm the video, leave ASAP.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care,Equality
Confident
Yeah, I guess I can't fault people for siding with nostalgia on r/nostalgia.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
Sounds like a great guy who tries his best. Keep him OP.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
You see the curve of the design affects the barrel pressure and ink displacement. Actually I have no fuckin idea
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
You mean the action-figure umbrellas? That’s what I used mine for haha
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Non-Moral
Confident
Her drives sounds like mine. In all likely you guys are sexually incompatible (edit) Try to see if you can make end meet. Otherwise end it amicably.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I got mad at her for touching my stuff even tho she didn't take anything or mess up my notes
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
"diseased vermin" lol, will remember that one. I was thinking insane deceptive ahole.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
You are too immature for a relationship. Focus on some self growth. This but she did it first attitude is middle school. Break up and grow up.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
This is extremely vague yet I know exactly what you're talking about.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
As a pregnant lady, this isn't weird! Honestly, a lot of my male coworkers want to touch my belly. They are always like "There's a baby in there?! Omg!" I find it cute tbh (x so no its not weird! Youre fine (: Edit: Yes I have an onlyfans. Ive had an onlyfans for a year! Bills/baby's dont pay themselves. Its just something I do on the side. There is a kink for everything (; And omg thank you for the reward kind stranger (:
confession
Everyday Morality
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Confident
Exactly!! Who the fuck gets Thanksgiving gifts?? Didn't even know that that was a thing. OP needs to stop being a mama's boy and grow up. He seems to take more actions towards his mother than his wife and daughter.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Honestly, you both sound like you’re pretty bad at communicating, but he takes it a step further by being actively hurtful towards you. I think you could both benefit immensely by ending this relationship.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
YTA. Pushing him into religion when he’s not interested, plus punishing him, is going to have the opposite effect of what you’re going for. All it’s leading to is him rejecting it more firmly and resenting you. And you signed him up to learn about “what he wishes to argue against,” yet you’re punishing him for doing just that.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Care,Equality
null
NAH You went to a naturopath. What did you expect. I mean I don't think you'd be the AH if you did say something, but it's not like you went to an actual medical doctor and they fucked up. You went to a quack-doc and got quack-results, not sure what you can really do other than don't go back. I'm sure that naturopath fully believes in what they do so they probably don't care what you have to say anyway
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Meat past its due date is still safe for consumption. It's just sometimes unpalatable to humans. Like it might taste fine but may have turned grey for example.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Non-Moral
Somewhat Confident
Oh my god, I really hope you find the appreciation you deserve. NTA at all
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality,Care
Confident
[Ultra throw back](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rJNpY1ByvY) 3 Daily Show corespondents as contestants from the Craig Kilburn days.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
NTA, eat what you want. Doesn't matter if she's vegan or muslim. If you don't try to force it down their throats then it is respectful enough.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Equality
Confident
It also sounds like Christmas is at Nan's house. She should be able to invite or not invite whoever she wants.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
A phrase I have returned to many times as a parent.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Authority
Confident
Nobody is denying attraction. It's the maturity level that is concerning. If a middle-aged person is close enough to the maturity level of a college-aged kid to engage in a serious relationship, there's some emotional stunting going on. Gender is irrelevant.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality,Care
Confident
Pleasant company, at least? Doesn't leave messes or make a lot of noise at night. Not much of a cook, though.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Just was inspired to make an interactive version of fold-in hearing about Al Jaffee's retirement: https://thomaspark.co/2020/06/the-mad-magazine-fold-in-effect-in-css/
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Moe, Larry, and Curly or Moe, Larry, and Shemp. No others. Also, today's kids grow up with minimal exposure to The Stooges and Looney Tunes, which is sad.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
NTA. Do not reinforce behavior that you want to extinguish.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
Lol. It as down in the outer Banks. We were walking on this path by the water and it had somehow got on the sidewalk right next to the water.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Non-Moral
Somewhat Confident
You can decide if they're an arsehole, you can't decide who their family is.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Proportionality
Confident
No, it is not subjective LOL- it’s stealing and wrong.
confession
Everyday Morality
annotator04
Thin Morality
Confident
I don’t think it’s cool that you stole from real people but stealing from a big conglomerate or enterprise like Tesco’s or Walmart or whatever is hardly a moral crime, they bring in so much money it doesn’t matter and you don’t have to feel guilty because it’s coming out of some rich guys pocket
confession
Everyday Morality
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null
Right, thank you for this. I have no experience whatsoever with the Wiccan/Pagan community, but it seems to boil down to the same as any other group of humans. Some believe themselves more important/powerful/enlightened, but most are good people.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Please disregard everything I am about to say - Thank you. Growtopia is an awful game that barely works, ruining the game for him probably got him to stop playing and do something more productive with his life - watching paint dry or grass grow as two prime examples of things that are more productive than the awful game that is Growtopia You may now regard what I say from here on out: Do not hack accounts, it's bad. Good that you learned your lesson!
confession
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did you notice he says "she ignored me" when he meant "she didn't do how I planned"? i don't wanna nitpick, but hey. I do. "it was alright until" while his gf has cramps and bleeding in a public space with no bathroom. alright for him, maybe.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
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I'm sorry you have parents that made you hurt your own self because a replaceable item was broken. For your sake, I'm glad you avoided having to deal with them.
confession
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