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I have vivid memories of walking the mall with my mom and running ahead to look at as many toys as I could at the entrance until she caught up and we'd have to keep walking.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
NTA not your responsibility to put him up. He chose to move to a different country fron his own child. He needs to sort his own accommodation. Your stepchild should be the priority over him. Will he still come? If he won't that shows his priorities. How does your son feel?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
same..liked xena for 2 seconds and was like.. hold on: the little blonde has got abs and all, hello there	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
A 27 year old having her boyfriend screamed at and threatened over consensual sex with her doesn't have a leg to stand to on?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
I blame them for my irrational anger towards inanimate objects not cooperating with me.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Uh... yea? She groomed the kid, he wasn’t even an adult when she first had sex with him. How could a mid 30s person have sex with someone half their age who is barely even legal... she absolutely should not be around kids.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
You owe it to your child to not have your child unless your absolutely sure it's future is stable	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
That’s kind of cruel...no one should have to expect put-downs from the person who’s supposed to love and support them, and he’s communicated these insecurities to his wife but she continues to treat him poorly.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty,Equality	Confident
I love NCIS, that is worst show of all time and it fascinates me. It seems like it's making fun of american culture, but its deadly serious.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I trdn ut jsrttttt frnnneee. I don’t think it blernde by dabag. 🎈	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Not Confident
Can’t even do that anymore. In my high school when you put in your ID your school picture comes up. If you need food they have to get it for you.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
He could also just be a regular foster and not foster to adopt, though, in which case the sister's behaviour is inappropriate.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I'm so curious why Aaah Real Monsters appears to be in a different language	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
My family has 3 senior babies and they are our whole world.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty	Confident
NTA Your mom just told you she doesn’t care how you feel and how she makes you feel and she will continue to do things that hurt you because it’s all about her. She’s a big A-H! Is staying with your dad an option?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Step 1 is to apologize and acknowledge what you did wrong and not pass the blame over or try to dismiss it under the guise of "doing it for good reasons." Actions that have good intentions but still do harm does not mean that you are absolved of apologizing. Apologize and acknowledge that YOU made a bad decision in handling this. I swear to god don't do the whole, "I only did this because YOU... etc." It sounds and IS the most immature thing you can do as a parent.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Almost like you’re paying them to live there (not directly but indirectly)	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Shining Time Station! Schemer was always up to some sort of mischief.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
That’s a great perspective. I wish I could make amends to her but it’s not possible. Thanks for your comment!	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
What kind of inpatient psych nurse would eat food from a patient ? Much less let them bake?!?!	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Something's up if she set it to insta delete, but that could just be my trust issues talking. I hate snapchat	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
These chairs changed the course of some of yalls sex lives, with those chairs pinchin ya bum.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This will sound weird if you weren't watching it when it was airing, but it really did appear progressive at the time. Susan and Carol's wedding was one of the first gay weddings on TV and they had an enduring healthy relationship. When I watch it now I am reminded how many homophobic punch lines there are, but as a gay adolescent, I remember really appreciating the existence of Susan and Carol.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
All this time I thought he didn't know and I felt so guilty for lying to him, but he did know yet didn't acknowledge it in fear of me stopping him.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Loyalty	Confident
If you don’t wanna suck your lady blood out of stuff, hydrogen peroxide works well...	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Is it true people will take a big item like a lawn mower, remove it as if they were setting up a display, and fill the box with other crap and just buy the "lawnmower". Obviously they would choose a less expensive item	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I would relent in regards to her coming over as banning her is just going to cause issues between you and your friend. Having been someone who has lived pay-cheque to pay-cheque I completely understand your upset and panic. Even if you had plenty of money it is still so disrespectful. I would tell your friend you have no issues with her coming over if she immediately repurchases exactly what she threw away with her own money as you now have no more money budgeted for food.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
NTA, it’s unfortunate that the clothes don’t fit her anymore but it’s quite unfair that she demand no one get gifts just because they don’t fit her. Isn’t thanksgivings all about giving and being thankful?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Equality	Confident
Because he clearly doesn't respect her and her happiness is not his priority	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
It's suspicious to me that all of OP's full siblings want out the second they turn 18. I think mom and husband may have handled this blending of families like crap.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Can't tell whether this is sarcasm or you're actually gatekeeping stealing lmao	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Dude fuck your sister and your parents for not discipling her.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Authority	Confident
It’s hard but we deserve forgiveness just as much as anyone else :) good luck	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Equality	Confident
NTA. misogyny and double standards are disgusting. why should you respect two adult men who like to prey on underage children with utttter disrespect. my god. I'd file a complaint and try to get them fired. especially as an employee BEING IN his place of work that is disgusting and vile talk	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Yes! In grade school we used brown paper grocery store bags and cut them into vests and then crinkled them up and made them soft for a fake-looking leather vest.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
This went on for years. Not just a one time slip up. I stand by my statement..... you suck.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Let me put it this way, how would you like it if the roommate came over to YOUR apartment whenever she felt like and slept over 15 days of the ~~week~~ month?! Jesus fucking christ... &#x200B; Edit: Also, most rental agreements have some pretty FIRM limitations on how many days someone can stay a month. Here's a hint, they usually are not HALF.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I think Opie did the best thing, honestly. My household used to have an abundance of healthy food, but by the time my brother tour through it with his insatiable hunger, there was nothing left. There was just no way to keep the amount of healthy food needed in the house unless my mom also bought a bunch of calorie-dense foods that my brother could just scarfed down. I ended up doing the same thing, I've had cabinets in my room where I keep food	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
“You think you hate it now, but wait’ll you drive it!”	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I remember my parents early 90s Ford Taurus had a pop out cupholder/change holder in the front lol.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Confident
So you won’t be part of your child’s life if you are the father? And your family wouldn’t either?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty	Confident
you have seriously inspired me to do some dumbassery in the workplace	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Sexual "obsession" wouldn't even exist were it not for the repression.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
He's gotta get a hard copy of everything. Send her an email saying it's hard to talk in person, and you just need to know the facts. Boom. Paper trail if she responds. Will make it easier for OPs lawyer	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I love this idea! I think it would also give your son time to process that you know and are accepting and then hopefully will get the courage to tell you. Whatever happens good luck!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Although I have minimal written evidence I would like to state that life's research has indicated that these had an average life expectancy of 8 minutes.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
High caffeine and sugar. Helps you stay up but the crash was horrible.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I feel sorry for both the sisters. Unless Alex takes after her dad in terms of a complete lack of self-awareness, empathy and overall non-assholishness behavior, the dad may have just destroyed her relationship with her sister forever. Or at least tainted it to the point that Alex will never be able to celebrate her own achievements without a severe amount of resentment from Mary.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Uhhh sorry but why would the health of your child not be priority 1? Get the dogs rehomed or moved outside. I understand your husband's older child being upset, but they should be able to understand. Get your husband to go with you to the allergist so the doc could tell him why this is a big deal.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty	Confident
They should definitely discuss this with a therapist. Repressing it could only lead to compounded feelings of self loathing, guilt, and shame and lead to depression or other mental disorders that could impair their ability to control their urges. OP needs to learn coping skills to work through these feelings so he can help himself and continue not hurting others	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Authority	Confident
Yes, that is a common, weak rationalization in this context.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
While I of course don’t know your exact situation.. as someone who works in dentistry, your dentist can most certainly tell	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority	Confident
Right? Totally forgot this existed til I saw this post! Crazy!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Confident
The other students are paying to get an education that you are denying them by doing this. It's honestly really fucked up.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
As someone that works in a grocery store, I concur. People annihilate public restrooms. There have been times I've walked into the bathroom at work and went "you know what, I can hold it for six more hours..."	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
For the record, they’re not all aggressive and yippy. My Chihuahua is friendly to people and people find her charming. She only barks when someone knocks on the door.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Get on google maps and figure it out. Ask your friends if they remember. Look up old bank/credit card transactions. Put some damn effort into this. Then make it right. You'll feel a lot better.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I don't think there is a timeline on being in shock and violated. You have nothing to be sorry for. YOU were the victim. Shame on that disgusting pig of a man and your friends mother. Your friend too if she is OK settling for that. She was no friend to you.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity,Care,Loyalty	Confident
We moved into a house many years ago. The snails were insane they were everywhere. I was chatting with my neighbor one day and asked if she had a snail issue. She laughed and said she didn’t like the previous owner and put snail repellent in her yard. They all moved to my yard after that. We had a good laugh and then I went out and bought snail repellent. Not sure where they went but we didn’t have any issues after that.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I mean headphones in, no conversation :) my own personal silence	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
uhhh... what happens when some other guy strolls along, starts hitting on her, not knowing she has a boyfriend (like you did), and then she decides she likes him more than you? it sounds like she doesn't even have a reason for breaking up with him, other than she found you. this sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This is only second to fruit stripe for lasting flavor (lack there of)	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Understood. Maybe the family needs a break from him for awhile.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Ugh burn the whole system. Women in that country seriously need to revolt.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Equality,Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Authority	Confident
lol wut why would she discipline you for that thats weird	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
they’re not going to forgive them though. universities don’t play around with cheating or plagiarism because it could jeopardize their credibility.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Equality,Proportionality,Authority	Confident
If it makes you feel any better I probably would've done the same.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Really depends on how the rest of the relationship is	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Yeah we surprise each other quite often. This isn't the first time I've talked to his boss about some time off for a surprise either and he's done the same for me.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Why do you feel like this is all you deserve from a relationship?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
He's not a fuckin meth dealer lol have you ever met a stoner before?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It would depend on why they were regularly sleeping at their mom’s place. Is their mom lonely? Does she have medical issues or a disability? Does my SO need a break from me?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Holy fuck. This makes OP TA forever. How fucking awful.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
OP...do not play the lottery. It's how the poor get poorer.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
>but he's still only 18 Isnt that like an adult now He can drive, vote and join the military But he can't help but feel jealous of a baby	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
>As a firm atheist What does that mean? I think most atheists are of the "I don't believe there is a god" camp, not "there is no god." If hard evidence of the proof of god won't sway you, your beliefs are similarly dogmatic to religion. > he believes you are a complete idiot, for believing in a non existent god. Speak for yourself. I do not think all religious people are idiots. Humans are complex. Smart people can still hold contradictory beliefs.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
I always try to explain the food fight scene as my dream food, most people don’t understand.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Oh my god I’m so sorry this happened to you. Your teacher should have absolute put a stop to it and dealt out some punishment. He did not deserve to be teaching. I hope your doing well now.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
that right there is a woman who has beaten her husband with a rolling pin	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
I would just pull him aside and let him know that he can’t be using that word around you. You could just say your cousin is gay or some shit and you don’t appreciate it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity,Care,Equality	Confident
YTA for 2 reasons: 1. Questioning someone’s faith and 2. What if I told you there’s born Hindus in South Asia who are genetically related to ancestors who migrated from the Caucauses (aka white people). Just like how there’s white muslims. Sounds like you have a limited view of race and ethnicites. Might want to educate yourself before you judge others.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
i don’t thinks she’s trying to control him. i think she’s trying to please him, bc the book makes her think that’s the behavior that men like. he just needs to communicate that it’s actually turning him off, and im sure she’ll stop.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
YTA - You are angry at a man and insult his wife and his children who have not done anything to harm you. This is pitiful.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
I don’t really know what to say to you about what should you do. But what I know it’s that I would never allow someone talking to my dad like that. Not even my boyfriend. For what you’ve said he sounds like an asshole, he’s showing you how disrespectful he can be. It’s very likely that at some point he is gonna talk to you like that. Unless he acknowledges his mistake and says sorry to your dad I wouldn’t bring him to that house again.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
I guess. As soon as he offered the raise and you wouldn't bite, you should have politely declined. Just don't get the mileage you gained out of pushing this conversation further. Congrats on your new job however.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You can hear the spiders and snakes in the background too...	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Confident
And when she got upset? That’s when he should have figured it out	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
This is sexual assault. Btw a wet vagina doesn’t mean consent	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
First and foremost: You sound absolutely amazing. I’m a 23 American female, and I have zero doubt that my mother would feel the same, however id still be afraid to admit such transgressions. Being a child from such a loving, forgiving, perfect family sometimes makes mistakes harder to admit - because inside of it all, you feel like you have no good reason to commit your crimes. You were absolutely right to suggest therapy to OP- I can say at least that it’s helped me.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Authority	Confident
Utter nonsense. You are describing how an abuser organises their family to benefit them. Spoilers: it’s you, you’re the abuser.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The Frighteners is by far my favorite movie of his. So incredibly underrated. Must watch. 12/10. Such an immensely talented actor and human	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I'm not necessarily paranoid about leeching, but glass for some reason always has better flavor.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Its because they think they have to escalate the situation and act very angry in order to get what they want. I blame corporations for bending over backwards for customers like this.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
ah all the hot emo girls back in the day.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I read this far to find this. If you’re going to give, give. Not giving money is not going to magically sober someone up, or show them the error of their ways. Addiction doesn’t work like that. It’s not a moral issue. Makes me crazy- you can’t give, and then make demands about how your gift gets used. If you’re uncomfortable speaking or interacting with homeless people or even people who you perceive to be homeless, remember that they were somebody’s baby, potentially someone’s momma, a brother, an aunt, they are a person and they deserve human respect.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
> and looks over at you like you’re hideous This is a big factor that wasn't in the OP. Also, as a guy that has all of the social privileges that being a guy comes with, if I went to a party with a bunch of dudes in suits while I was wearing jeans and a button up or even a tshirt, I have a hard time feeling like I'd give one fuck. Whether the guys looked at my like I was under dressed or not.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Equality	Confident
Thanks man, I appreciate it. Not that I ever hope to make that same mistake, but hearing other peoples stories makes me feel a little better in regards to my own stupidity.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Lol I only learn things from making these mistakes. It sucks.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
A lot of times they actually make you pay the “resale” or “list” price of an item due to theft. I used to assist with Loss Prevention. Though it was never a “pay this or we’ll call the cops”. The cops got called anyway AND you have to pay the resale value.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority	Somewhat Confident
If you take 1-2$ from every other client you can make a good amount of extra money	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident

I have vivid memories of walking the mall with my mom and running ahead to look at as many toys as I could at the entrance until she caught up and we'd have to keep walking.

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NTA not your responsibility to put him up. He chose to move to a different country fron his own child. He needs to sort his own accommodation. Your stepchild should be the priority over him. Will he still come? If he won't that shows his priorities. How does your son feel?

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same..liked xena for 2 seconds and was like.. hold on: the little blonde has got abs and all, hello there

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A 27 year old having her boyfriend screamed at and threatened over consensual sex with her doesn't have a leg to stand to on?

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I blame them for my irrational anger towards inanimate objects not cooperating with me.

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Uh... yea? She groomed the kid, he wasn’t even an adult when she first had sex with him. How could a mid 30s person have sex with someone half their age who is barely even legal... she absolutely should not be around kids.

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You owe it to your child to not have your child unless your absolutely sure it's future is stable

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That’s kind of cruel...no one should have to expect put-downs from the person who’s supposed to love and support them, and he’s communicated these insecurities to his wife but she continues to treat him poorly.

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I love NCIS, that is worst show of all time and it fascinates me. It seems like it's making fun of american culture, but its deadly serious.

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I trdn ut jsrttttt frnnneee. I don’t think it blernde by dabag. 🎈

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Can’t even do that anymore. In my high school when you put in your ID your school picture comes up. If you need food they have to get it for you.

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He could also just be a regular foster and not foster to adopt, though, in which case the sister's behaviour is inappropriate.

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I'm so curious why Aaah Real Monsters appears to be in a different language

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My family has 3 senior babies and they are our whole world.

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NTA Your mom just told you she doesn’t care how you feel and how she makes you feel and she will continue to do things that hurt you because it’s all about her. She’s a big A-H! Is staying with your dad an option?

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Step 1 is to apologize and acknowledge what you did wrong and not pass the blame over or try to dismiss it under the guise of "doing it for good reasons." Actions that have good intentions but still do harm does not mean that you are absolved of apologizing. Apologize and acknowledge that YOU made a bad decision in handling this. I swear to god don't do the whole, "I only did this because YOU... etc." It sounds and IS the most immature thing you can do as a parent.

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Almost like you’re paying them to live there (not directly but indirectly)

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Shining Time Station! Schemer was always up to some sort of mischief.

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That’s a great perspective. I wish I could make amends to her but it’s not possible. Thanks for your comment!

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What kind of inpatient psych nurse would eat food from a patient ? Much less let them bake?!?!

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Something's up if she set it to insta delete, but that could just be my trust issues talking. I hate snapchat

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These chairs changed the course of some of yalls sex lives, with those chairs pinchin ya bum.

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This will sound weird if you weren't watching it when it was airing, but it really did appear progressive at the time. Susan and Carol's wedding was one of the first gay weddings on TV and they had an enduring healthy relationship. When I watch it now I am reminded how many homophobic punch lines there are, but as a gay adolescent, I remember really appreciating the existence of Susan and Carol.

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All this time I thought he didn't know and I felt so guilty for lying to him, but he did know yet didn't acknowledge it in fear of me stopping him.

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If you don’t wanna suck your lady blood out of stuff, hydrogen peroxide works well...

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Is it true people will take a big item like a lawn mower, remove it as if they were setting up a display, and fill the box with other crap and just buy the "lawnmower". Obviously they would choose a less expensive item

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I would relent in regards to her coming over as banning her is just going to cause issues between you and your friend. Having been someone who has lived pay-cheque to pay-cheque I completely understand your upset and panic. Even if you had plenty of money it is still so disrespectful. I would tell your friend you have no issues with her coming over if she immediately repurchases exactly what she threw away with her own money as you now have no more money budgeted for food.

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NTA, it’s unfortunate that the clothes don’t fit her anymore but it’s quite unfair that she demand no one get gifts just because they don’t fit her. Isn’t thanksgivings all about giving and being thankful?

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality

Confident

Because he clearly doesn't respect her and her happiness is not his priority

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Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care,Equality

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It's suspicious to me that all of OP's full siblings want out the second they turn 18. I think mom and husband may have handled this blending of families like crap.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Can't tell whether this is sarcasm or you're actually gatekeeping stealing lmao

confession

Everyday Morality

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Dude fuck your sister and your parents for not discipling her.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Authority

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It’s hard but we deserve forgiveness just as much as anyone else :) good luck

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Equality

Confident

NTA. misogyny and double standards are disgusting. why should you respect two adult men who like to prey on underage children with utttter disrespect. my god. I'd file a complaint and try to get them fired. especially as an employee BEING IN his place of work that is disgusting and vile talk

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care,Equality

Confident

Yes! In grade school we used brown paper grocery store bags and cut them into vests and then crinkled them up and made them soft for a fake-looking leather vest.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

This went on for years. Not just a one time slip up. I stand by my statement..... you suck.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Let me put it this way, how would you like it if the roommate came over to YOUR apartment whenever she felt like and slept over 15 days of the ~~week~~ month?! Jesus fucking christ... &#x200B; Edit: Also, most rental agreements have some pretty FIRM limitations on how many days someone can stay a month. Here's a hint, they usually are not HALF.

relationship_advice

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I think Opie did the best thing, honestly. My household used to have an abundance of healthy food, but by the time my brother tour through it with his insatiable hunger, there was nothing left. There was just no way to keep the amount of healthy food needed in the house unless my mom also bought a bunch of calorie-dense foods that my brother could just scarfed down. I ended up doing the same thing, I've had cabinets in my room where I keep food

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

“You think you hate it now, but wait’ll you drive it!”

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

I remember my parents early 90s Ford Taurus had a pop out cupholder/change holder in the front lol.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

So you won’t be part of your child’s life if you are the father? And your family wouldn’t either?

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care,Loyalty

Confident

you have seriously inspired me to do some dumbassery in the workplace

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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Sexual "obsession" wouldn't even exist were it not for the repression.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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He's gotta get a hard copy of everything. Send her an email saying it's hard to talk in person, and you just need to know the facts. Boom. Paper trail if she responds. Will make it easier for OPs lawyer

relationship_advice

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I love this idea! I think it would also give your son time to process that you know and are accepting and then hopefully will get the courage to tell you. Whatever happens good luck!

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care

Confident

Although I have minimal written evidence I would like to state that life's research has indicated that these had an average life expectancy of 8 minutes.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

High caffeine and sugar. Helps you stay up but the crash was horrible.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

I feel sorry for both the sisters. Unless Alex takes after her dad in terms of a complete lack of self-awareness, empathy and overall non-assholishness behavior, the dad may have just destroyed her relationship with her sister forever. Or at least tainted it to the point that Alex will never be able to celebrate her own achievements without a severe amount of resentment from Mary.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care,Equality

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Uhhh sorry but why would the health of your child not be priority 1? Get the dogs rehomed or moved outside. I understand your husband's older child being upset, but they should be able to understand. Get your husband to go with you to the allergist so the doc could tell him why this is a big deal.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care,Loyalty

Confident

They should definitely discuss this with a therapist. Repressing it could only lead to compounded feelings of self loathing, guilt, and shame and lead to depression or other mental disorders that could impair their ability to control their urges. OP needs to learn coping skills to work through these feelings so he can help himself and continue not hurting others

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care,Authority

Confident

Yes, that is a common, weak rationalization in this context.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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While I of course don’t know your exact situation.. as someone who works in dentistry, your dentist can most certainly tell

confession

Everyday Morality

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Right? Totally forgot this existed til I saw this post! Crazy!

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

The other students are paying to get an education that you are denying them by doing this. It's honestly really fucked up.

confession

Everyday Morality

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As someone that works in a grocery store, I concur. People annihilate public restrooms. There have been times I've walked into the bathroom at work and went "you know what, I can hold it for six more hours..."

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

For the record, they’re not all aggressive and yippy. My Chihuahua is friendly to people and people find her charming. She only barks when someone knocks on the door.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Get on google maps and figure it out. Ask your friends if they remember. Look up old bank/credit card transactions. Put some damn effort into this. Then make it right. You'll feel a lot better.

confession

Everyday Morality

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I don't think there is a timeline on being in shock and violated. You have nothing to be sorry for. YOU were the victim. Shame on that disgusting pig of a man and your friends mother. Your friend too if she is OK settling for that. She was no friend to you.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Purity,Care,Loyalty

Confident

We moved into a house many years ago. The snails were insane they were everywhere. I was chatting with my neighbor one day and asked if she had a snail issue. She laughed and said she didn’t like the previous owner and put snail repellent in her yard. They all moved to my yard after that. We had a good laugh and then I went out and bought snail repellent. Not sure where they went but we didn’t have any issues after that.

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Everyday Morality

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I mean headphones in, no conversation :) my own personal silence

relationship_advice

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Somewhat Confident

uhhh... what happens when some other guy strolls along, starts hitting on her, not knowing she has a boyfriend (like you did), and then she decides she likes him more than you? it sounds like she doesn't even have a reason for breaking up with him, other than she found you. this sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.

relationship_advice

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Thin Morality

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This is only second to fruit stripe for lasting flavor (lack there of)

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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Understood. Maybe the family needs a break from him for awhile.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

Ugh burn the whole system. Women in that country seriously need to revolt.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Authority

Confident

lol wut why would she discipline you for that thats weird

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident

they’re not going to forgive them though. universities don’t play around with cheating or plagiarism because it could jeopardize their credibility.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Proportionality,Authority

Confident

If it makes you feel any better I probably would've done the same.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care

Confident

Really depends on how the rest of the relationship is

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident

Yeah we surprise each other quite often. This isn't the first time I've talked to his boss about some time off for a surprise either and he's done the same for me.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Why do you feel like this is all you deserve from a relationship?

relationship_advice

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Proportionality,Care

Confident

He's not a fuckin meth dealer lol have you ever met a stoner before?

relationship_advice

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It would depend on why they were regularly sleeping at their mom’s place. Is their mom lonely? Does she have medical issues or a disability? Does my SO need a break from me?

relationship_advice

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Proportionality

Confident

Holy fuck. This makes OP TA forever. How fucking awful.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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OP...do not play the lottery. It's how the poor get poorer.

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>but he's still only 18 Isnt that like an adult now He can drive, vote and join the military But he can't help but feel jealous of a baby

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Confident

>As a firm atheist What does that mean? I think most atheists are of the "I don't believe there is a god" camp, not "there is no god." If hard evidence of the proof of god won't sway you, your beliefs are similarly dogmatic to religion. > he believes you are a complete idiot, for believing in a non existent god. Speak for yourself. I do not think all religious people are idiots. Humans are complex. Smart people can still hold contradictory beliefs.

relationship_advice

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I always try to explain the food fight scene as my dream food, most people don’t understand.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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Oh my god I’m so sorry this happened to you. Your teacher should have absolute put a stop to it and dealt out some punishment. He did not deserve to be teaching. I hope your doing well now.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care

Confident

that right there is a woman who has beaten her husband with a rolling pin

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Care,Equality

Confident

I would just pull him aside and let him know that he can’t be using that word around you. You could just say your cousin is gay or some shit and you don’t appreciate it.

relationship_advice

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Confident

YTA for 2 reasons: 1. Questioning someone’s faith and 2. What if I told you there’s born Hindus in South Asia who are genetically related to ancestors who migrated from the Caucauses (aka white people). Just like how there’s white muslims. Sounds like you have a limited view of race and ethnicites. Might want to educate yourself before you judge others.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care,Equality

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i don’t thinks she’s trying to control him. i think she’s trying to *please* him, bc the book makes her think that’s the behavior that men like. he just needs to communicate that it’s actually turning him off, and im sure she’ll stop.

relationship_advice

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Thin Morality

Confident

YTA - You are angry at a man and insult his wife and his children who have not done anything to harm you. This is pitiful.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Care,Equality

Confident

I don’t really know what to say to you about what should you do. But what I know it’s that I would never allow someone talking to my dad like that. Not even my boyfriend. For what you’ve said he sounds like an asshole, he’s showing you how disrespectful he can be. It’s very likely that at some point he is gonna talk to you like that. Unless he acknowledges his mistake and says sorry to your dad I wouldn’t bring him to that house again.

relationship_advice

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I guess. As soon as he offered the raise and you wouldn't bite, you should have politely declined. Just don't get the mileage you gained out of pushing this conversation further. Congrats on your new job however.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

You can hear the spiders and snakes in the background too...

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Confident

And when she got upset? That’s when he should have figured it out

AmItheAsshole

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Somewhat Confident

This is sexual assault. Btw a wet vagina doesn’t mean consent

confession

Everyday Morality

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First and foremost: You sound absolutely amazing. I’m a 23 American female, and I have zero doubt that my mother would feel the same, however id still be afraid to admit such transgressions. Being a child from such a loving, forgiving, perfect family sometimes makes mistakes harder to admit - because inside of it all, you feel like you have no good reason to commit your crimes. You were absolutely right to suggest therapy to OP- I can say at least that it’s helped me.

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Everyday Morality

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Utter nonsense. You are describing how an abuser organises their family to benefit them. Spoilers: it’s you, you’re the abuser.

relationship_advice

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Thin Morality

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The Frighteners is by far my favorite movie of his. So incredibly underrated. Must watch. 12/10. Such an immensely talented actor and human

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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I'm not necessarily paranoid about leeching, but glass for some reason always has better flavor.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident

Its because they think they have to escalate the situation and act very angry in order to get what they want. I blame corporations for bending over backwards for customers like this.

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ah all the hot emo girls back in the day.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

I read this far to find this. If you’re going to give, give. Not giving money is not going to magically sober someone up, or show them the error of their ways. Addiction doesn’t work like that. It’s not a moral issue. Makes me crazy- you can’t give, and then make demands about how your gift gets used. If you’re uncomfortable speaking or interacting with homeless people or even people who you perceive to be homeless, remember that they were somebody’s baby, potentially someone’s momma, a brother, an aunt, they are a person and they deserve human respect.

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> and looks over at you like you’re hideous This is a big factor that wasn't in the OP. Also, as a guy that has all of the social privileges that being a guy comes with, if I went to a party with a bunch of dudes in suits while I was wearing jeans and a button up or even a tshirt, I have a hard time feeling like I'd give one fuck. Whether the guys looked at my like I was under dressed or not.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Equality

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Thanks man, I appreciate it. Not that I ever hope to make that same mistake, but hearing other peoples stories makes me feel a little better in regards to my own stupidity.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

Lol I only learn things from making these mistakes. It sucks.

AmItheAsshole

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A lot of times they actually make you pay the “resale” or “list” price of an item due to theft. I used to assist with Loss Prevention. Though it was never a “pay this or we’ll call the cops”. The cops got called anyway AND you have to pay the resale value.

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Authority

Somewhat Confident

If you take 1-2$ from every other client you can make a good amount of extra money

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