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So fun fact, Nickelodeon weren't the only ones to use orange tapes. Let's just say that thanks to a parental figure's carelessness, I got a very early lesson in sex education...	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I was looking for this exact comment before I said anything. My gut tells me she’s met someone else and she feels shit about it. Zero contact for two weeks means the other person doesn’t know she’s engaged etc and she’s deciding if she wants to give it a go with them. Hope I’m wrong OP.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Idk why they haven’t like came out with something similar.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
start the argument. There is nothing wrong with advocating for yourself. Also, how you approach it matters. "Hey, I saw the comments you left. I want you to talk to me like that. Tonight. Bring your A game." is very different from "Why the fuck can't you talk to me like that. Why does a random internet stranger get that from you, but not your fucking wife?" He may not know you want him to be like that.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
There are several people telling you that she's acting like a mental patient. You should listen. But otherwise, enjoy getting cockroaches because she's keeping dirty dishes in her backpack because being an adult is too hard.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
What word you use doesn’t matter. He showed you that he is willing to ignore your comfort for his pleasure. If I were you, I would probably leave him	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
We had not only a big ass TV like this but an even bigger stereo/record player that matched too.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
They gouge anyway. It’s like a modern Robinhood without the tendies.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
stolen credit card? let's see what the police have to say about this!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority	Confident
I wonder if she can divorce him before starting her job back to avoid this. This man deserves nothing from her. Edit. Since this blew up I’d like to say that I’m not usually a supporter of such underhanded behavior, but by what OP has described she is being financially abused and I find it repulsive that someone would owe an abuser anything!	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Honestly I know you did wrong but I think it's kind of screwed up that she called you out like that in front of everyone. I feel like she should have taken you outside. Also the fact that you aced it the second time is pretty telling	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
fix your habit. habitually wanking at work is not only creepy it’s just plain disgusting. save that shit for when you’re at home. what a weird thing to do.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
"You said you'd bring me sausages, where are my sausages? I want sausages, I want sausages, I WANT SAUSAGES, I WANT SAUSAGES!!!!"	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
True, but it still had nothing to do with her appearance, it was a shot at her attitude. OP turned it into something else. She was also an asshole, but OP’s question wasn’t about her. OP asked if she was an asshole. And the answer is yes.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Same! 1999 honda accord. Its actually kind of annoying haha.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Yes! A little less roll off the tongue, but this might be the compromise.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Idk how to do the cut outs but “she’s not behaving safely” ?? What the actual fuck is that supposed to mean? She’s INSIDE HER OWN HOME. Is she supposed to act like she KNOWS she has a peeping creep next door and never shower or change her clothing? What the actual fuck is wrong with you? You sound like rape culture central, get help	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
I loved this show when I was younger. Nick Jr. in the 90s was everything!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I don't think you understand how actual kinky sex works. Respect and trust is still required, just like with any other intimate experience. If a sex act makes you _actually_ lose respect for your partner, either don't do it at all, or work on your issues until you can separate the sexual fantasy from reality.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty,Equality	Confident
Because she’s non-confrontational!!!1!1!1!! Seriously, though, I understand being scared by your brother, but not saying anything and tolerating his behaviour isn’t gonna change a thing for you, OP. It just paints a picture that your brother is nothing but a good, honest man when he’s nothing of the sort.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Teen Titans Go was Cartoon Network’s cause of death. Worst of all it has the audacity to taint Teen Titan’s iconic legacy. Absolute scourge of a “show”.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
NTA. Are there any adults there you can depend on to support you?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Loyalty	Confident
Jesus Christ. What is with some men who think because they are a decent human being in their interactions with women that it means their effort should be rewarded with sex and/or a romantic relationship. Women don’t owe you anything.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Ah! Well, again, that was less than discreet of FIL but it doesn’t change the fact that you did nothing wrong. If your stepbrother’s business idea is so brilliant, he can find other investors. When you read stories about how some people started their now successful businesses, they had to pound the pavement and beat the bushes to get even one investor to say yes. Stepbrother can do that, too.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
No wonder we're all such carb whores. Look at what we grew up on.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The employees most likely knew! I work in a small office and we usually have coffee and water out for clients. Homeless people would come in and ask questions about (my job related stuff) and usually have a cup of coffee or two! Especially on chilly mornings. We never mind as long as you’re being nice!	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It's amazing seeing such blasé attitudes towards sexual assault in action like this.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This ^ Instead of communicating the issue, she resorted to DRUGGING OP without his consent. Despicable.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
I would fantasize about this while eating breakfast, bc they would have these contests on the back of the cereal boxes....my older siblings would map out their strategies if they won....	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
YTA. Sorry but that chicks gonna realize she deserves better than your judgment.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
No, I don't get paid. As far as I know, I don't get credited either.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Leave him alone bro. He's ducking you, no reason to keep trying... have some self respect.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
I’m officially stepping from social media for my confidence. Nobody else is control of how I feel about myself, not the commenters or my boyfriend. The reminders idea is lovely, thank you I’ll consider therapy after I see how the break makes me feel.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This shit is either fake or you’re the dumbest mother fucker alive	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
lol. There's no way anyone would respond with such equilibrium in a midst of a committed relationship.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This is hilarious and deviant. Kudos on losing the weight and having a sense of humor while doing so.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
AMEN! Respect yourself more than he is. You DESERVE someone to treat you!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Equality	Confident
Sexist incel using big boy words to feign intelligence, trust me girl he's not in a position to even HAVE a relationship	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Bad advice from your psychologist. You can be friends with opposite sex people. What about people that are non binary, asexual, or transgendered?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
>(meaning documentary/sociology type shows) This is a very generous way to describe Maury.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I loved the Rudolph/Godfather claymation called the Reinfather I believe. Great skit.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
lol - now i'm embarrased remembering when my mom made me do my own laundry.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Idk dude, I'm christian and I raised having good principles and a good relationships with everybody. There are a lot of christians who think that they are the center of the world and almost as holy as God Himself but nope, they are not what they are preaching and it's kinda sad.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The bugs! It's for the bugs... well if you spend a long time on the interstate... but you need to feel you are protecting your investment! Or pretend your car is worthy of protecting haha	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I love Hamilton. I've listened to the cast recording a million times and I was counting down the days till it would come onto Disney+ I love singing and would've loved to watch the show and sing along, but my boyfriend was seeing it for the first time. He has listened to the cast recording maybe once before and kindly requested I don't sing because he wanted to experience it fresh and without me singing along. So I didn't sing. YTA.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I believe they meant it more in the sense of "condoms not feeling good is a bullshit excuse", which is absolutely true. Your partner's health (not to mention pregnancies risk which affects you both) > your small loss in sensation. It's the bigger picture here.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
That's a fancy-shmancy sheet there. I mostly recall just black and white dittos on the transparent sheets, and then the teacher would write on them with erasable markers.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
Yes YTA but that's hardly surprising because your mother is also an asshole so apples and trees.....	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
quality suggestion. we could also try to loudly belch/fart or maybe start asking them if they’ve accepted christ as their savior. something nice and unsexy like that.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
NTA OMFG Plagiarism is not a fucking joke this could cost him sO much.... yknow... you can maybe try suing him if this costed you? but yea NTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
NTA-go over to his place with some of your friends or your dad and demand your stuff back. He an his friends should all be blocked as well, why are they saying you should get back together and in the same breath insulting you? I feel sorry for their romantic partners!	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Oh I bet. A lot of people hate their jobs at Walmart, especially salary management so they are just waiting for stuff like this to happen to make them feel validated.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Equality	Confident
They are not religious a true Christian speaks to God in prayer they wouldn’t use prayer as a tool to offend someone at the dinner table.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity	Confident
Holy shit.. if i only knew back then lol. I would pretend I was very passionately looking at tooth brushes to throw them off lmao	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The wiki doesn't specify the amount, but since they literally use "buying a bag of marijuana" I have to assume it wasn't any actual weight.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I think it depends on your bf, and you know him better than us. Every bf of mine that I bought flowers for has loved the gesture. Although some of them loved receiving baked goods or homemade plushies just as much. I think a lot of men aren't used to being pampered so some love it and others dont know how to appreciate it because they're not used to it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Lmao. What. All this time I thought shel silverstein was a women.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Bro she didn’t get a chance to grow up all wild n free, she may want to experience more and doesn’t even know it herself. Which is why she is doing what she is doing and not ending things with you. Divorce her man. After ten years and three kids I got divorced, she left me, I got the kids full time run a business and life couldn’t be better. You may very well see that the grass is greener with hard work. My ex and I were together since 15 so I know what you are saying	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
It's the parents who perpetuate this shit, not the kids. The kids are innocent and don't understand how to use words yet. It's the parents who say shit like, "He must like you!" and shit. It's disgusting and is normalizing that hitting is another form of affection	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity,Proportionality	Confident
I seriously have to wonder if this is a troll. It's so terrible. I know there are terrible people and bad parents, but... fuck.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
YTA You seem to think attractiveness is the only measurable quality to "get women", so this pretty much lines up with the stereotypical chad-bro-fratboy mentality.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
At 18, my father instructed me : when you order a drink, just say “ill have a ...” instead of “can I please have a ...” There’s a sense of authority that some people won’t question.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Authority	Confident
This is why Chinas right about the one child law	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Rodents revenge!! I was so dumb as a kid I never realized when you trapped a cat your reward was cheese thought when the cats were trapped they became urine because they were nervous and pissed themselves lol.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It’s disgusting that you care more about the bureaucratic process than the victims getting any semblance of justice. Grow some empathy. It’s not always about you and your feelings.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity,Care,Equality	Confident
I let my bacon loving kid try a Beggin’ Strip (bacon-y dog treat) once bc he LOVES bacon and was curious. Go for it, kiddo. Turns out it didn’t taste nearly as good as he had hoped. 😂 “Dirt and ashes” is how he described it iirc.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I think counseling for you both and some sessions together would be a great idea but you sound like you aren’t being treated the way you should be. He needs to be better	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Authority	Confident
Is this a joke? I mean, not that it would be any better if it was since it's painfully overused, but nonetheless	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I remember this, for some reason the art scared me.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Shill farms. From what I've seen, people that run shill farma(posting propaganda, and narrative driven content) are willing to buy an account with a high amount of karma and decent creation date as a way to "legitimize" the poster. Thats why if you ever see anything political and you check the OP's posting history. You'll likely find a 2+ year old account, decent amount of karma that has "become active" 3-8ish months ago(account was scrubbed) Ita ALLLLL over the reddit front page right now. The sub politicalhumor is the absolute worst. Politics, conservatives, and libertarian are not far behind.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You grasp the written world well. My sister’s deaf and she leaves words out of sentences. Edit: lol, being downvoted. I wasn’t making fun of my sister’s handicap, just pointing out a quirk	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
Legacy of Goku was my jam back in the day. Played it all the time when I was visiting my grandparents. Good times Damn, I need to put some more gba games on my vita	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Yes just make sure to roll down your window and share some with any kids nearby.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Ahh, the 90s. When wild shapes roamed the land, the neon harvest was bountiful, and you couldn't turn around without stepping in ooze (Lord help you if it turned out to be mutagenic).	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Sounds like you weren't the submissive minimized fantasy of Asian women he was accustomed to. I wouldn't feel bad he died. Just hope his wife is lonely now.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
What kind of seriously pathetic person re posts someone elses OC pretending its theirs ?!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
No, they had pretty clear instructions. No one's confused on the proper way to use them. Just the contacts were often times not very responsive so a lot of pressure was necessary, causing discomfort. Judging by the votes, if you didn't experience this it's safe to assume that your experience was not the norm.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Women only have one vulva. Maybe you’re confusing it with labia? (Although technically each woman has 4 labia: 2 majora and 2 minora)	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
The microtears are from shoving a dick in an asshole not the lubricant involved. Also the concern from micro tears is that they increase the risk of transmitting std's....so go to a damn clinic and get some free condoms, most also have free lube. You don't need to be a shitty person to have gay sex, you just happen to be a shitty person who has gay sex.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Support her, because she’s a human who needs support. Your relationship will be what it will be, even if you move apart. Look at it this way: you like who she is right now, but she’s pretending to be someone else. She deserves to not pretend, but you also deserve to not feel bad if that changes how you feel.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
NTA You’re demonstrating to your children that just because someone gives you something doesn’t mean you have to accept it or grovel with gratitude, ESPECIALLY if it makes you uncomfortable. Your SO was embarrassed that you were direct to mommy dearest, and your MIL is incensed because you called her garish behavior. Your kids feelings are valid and your actions are showing them how to handle situations where someone likely did something purposefully to make them uncomfortable.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Right! Assuming she's still alive, there may be very many "unpeaceful" moments thinking about her son dying on a park bench alone and in the cold.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
If your mom had to force you to work and you were constantly told you were missing spots the idea that you're lazy and bad at your job isnt too far off.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Women give birth to living babies that are addicted to meth or heroin from the womb. Drinking during pregnancy causes fetal alcohol syndrome where the baby is born alive but with developmental disabilities. My point is that one night of drinking did not cause you to miscarry. If it was that 'easy' to end a pregnancy, there wouldn't be any need for abortions. Give yourself the permission to heal from this very traumatic experience. I'm sorry for your loss.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
NTA. You’re telling the truth, so there should be nothing to feel bad about. If you Sister feels bad, that’s because she’s embarrassed that she has publicly been found out and is not going to be able to get what she wants. Best of luck in court.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
I have to assume this is a troll. Cornell is an Ivy League university.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
CREEPY CRAWLERS! I had one of these, but never broke into the edible ones. That oven got hot as fuck.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Do we know his name? I bet he's got an interview floating somewhere on YouTube.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
She’s not responsible for managing his behavior, she’s just expected to not defend him whenever he acts unprofessionally and to call him out instead.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Yeah depression is no excuse for the nasty and repulsive stuff you did and I’m not sure why you think anyone would think otherwise or sympathize with you. If you had some type of STD or disease you know you could have given it to them right? Like you legit could have transferred HIV if you had it and you expect what? People to coddle you and not want to insult you? And the fact you’re using depression as a cop out makes it even worse. Thank god you’re getting help.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Why is an unreasonable demand? Everyone is like "he's like a son to the father!!" And she isn't THEIR DAUGHTER? So they knew him since he was twelve, but they knew her first? It's not extreme to ask them to choose her on a messy situation. Father didn't, because he thought she would be the bigger person an forgive him "because he is her father". But in this situation, be chose someone else, who isn't even blood.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I honestly really do not understand HOA's or why people would want to live on neighborhoods with them.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Nah Americans can be quite emotional when it comes to which professional criminal or warlord they want ruining their country.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Name calling and setting the bar of what is morally acceptable based on what you have done and your experience? Do you think that's ok? At least op is reflecting and trying to grasp her situation. It would do you and others who are condemning her a world of good to look in the mirror.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
While I dont always agree with some of the other viewpoints on "promiscuity" I do absolutely agree that nobody deserves to be disrespected, belittled, and projected on. Good job! Hope you can find someone in the future that you not only match with from a sexual expectations perspective but also someone who can be a truly loving and respectful partner.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Kinda makes me sad...everything is so conglomoratized and verticalized that of course an independently operated vending machine just isn’t a thing any more. In the grand scheme, who cares about that, but it’s representative of what happened to our economy and by extension our livelihoods over the past 40 years.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I don’t blame you, because it’s just the nature of playfully talking shit that sometimes you cross lines by accident. But you do realize this hurt him. It’s kinda on you, but you can’t do it yourself. He needs to be willing to listen, and god forbid appreciate the fact that you picked him.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
Seriously. Don't drink and drive. Your ins. may go up this time but next time could be you, your friends, a family someone's child, or several that end up dead. Don't be this person.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It's actually a very popular mall still. That and Stonebriar are two of the best malls I've ever been to.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It only gives it a bad name if he talks about it. Right now it sounds like he just has one very happy client. A dude rubbing his side chick sugar mama’s feet	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident

So fun fact, Nickelodeon weren't the only ones to use orange tapes. Let's just say that thanks to a parental figure's carelessness, I got a very early lesson in sex education...

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I was looking for this exact comment before I said anything. My gut tells me she’s met someone else and she feels shit about it. Zero contact for two weeks means the other person doesn’t know she’s engaged etc and she’s deciding if she wants to give it a go with them. Hope I’m wrong OP.

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Idk why they haven’t like came out with something similar.

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start the argument. There is nothing wrong with advocating for yourself. Also, how you approach it matters. "Hey, I saw the comments you left. I want you to talk to me like that. Tonight. Bring your A game." is very different from "Why the fuck can't you talk to me like that. Why does a random internet stranger get that from you, but not your fucking wife?" He may not know you want him to be like that.

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There are several people telling you that she's acting like a mental patient. You should listen. But otherwise, enjoy getting cockroaches because she's keeping dirty dishes in her backpack because being an adult is too hard.

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What word you use doesn’t matter. He showed you that he is willing to ignore your comfort for his pleasure. If I were you, I would probably leave him

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We had not only a big ass TV like this but an even bigger stereo/record player that matched too.

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They gouge anyway. It’s like a modern Robinhood without the tendies.

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stolen credit card? let's see what the police have to say about this!

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I wonder if she can divorce him before starting her job back to avoid this. This man deserves nothing from her. Edit. Since this blew up I’d like to say that I’m not usually a supporter of such underhanded behavior, but by what OP has described she is being financially abused and I find it repulsive that someone would owe an abuser anything!

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Honestly I know you did wrong but I think it's kind of screwed up that she called you out like that in front of everyone. I feel like she should have taken you outside. Also the fact that you aced it the second time is pretty telling

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fix your habit. habitually wanking at work is not only creepy it’s just plain disgusting. save that shit for when you’re at home. what a weird thing to do.

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"You said you'd bring me sausages, where are my sausages? I want sausages, I want sausages, I WANT SAUSAGES, I WANT SAUSAGES!!!!"

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True, but it still had nothing to do with her appearance, it was a shot at her attitude. OP turned it into something else. She was also an asshole, but OP’s question wasn’t about her. OP asked if *she* was an asshole. And the answer is yes.

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Same! 1999 honda accord. Its actually kind of annoying haha.

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Yes! A little less roll off the tongue, but this might be the compromise.

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Idk how to do the cut outs but “she’s not behaving safely” ?? What the actual fuck is that supposed to mean? She’s INSIDE HER OWN HOME. Is she supposed to act like she KNOWS she has a peeping creep next door and never shower or change her clothing? What the actual fuck is wrong with you? You sound like rape culture central, get help

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I loved this show when I was younger. Nick Jr. in the 90s was everything!

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I don't think you understand how actual kinky sex works. Respect and trust is still required, just like with any other intimate experience. If a sex act makes you _actually_ lose respect for your partner, either don't do it at all, or work on your issues until you can separate the sexual fantasy from reality.

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Because she’s non-confrontational!!!1!1!1!! Seriously, though, I understand being scared by your brother, but not saying anything and tolerating his behaviour isn’t gonna change a thing for you, OP. It just paints a picture that your brother is nothing but a good, honest man when he’s nothing of the sort.

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Teen Titans Go was Cartoon Network’s cause of death. Worst of all it has the audacity to taint Teen Titan’s iconic legacy. Absolute scourge of a “show”.

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NTA. Are there any adults there you can depend on to support you?

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Jesus Christ. What is with some men who think because they are a decent human being in their interactions with women that it means their effort should be rewarded with sex and/or a romantic relationship. Women don’t owe you anything.

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Ah! Well, again, that was less than discreet of FIL but it doesn’t change the fact that you did nothing wrong. If your stepbrother’s business idea is so brilliant, he can find other investors. When you read stories about how some people started their now successful businesses, they had to pound the pavement and beat the bushes to get even one investor to say yes. Stepbrother can do that, too.

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No wonder we're all such carb whores. Look at what we grew up on.

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The employees most likely knew! I work in a small office and we usually have coffee and water out for clients. Homeless people would come in and ask questions about (my job related stuff) and usually have a cup of coffee or two! Especially on chilly mornings. We never mind as long as you’re being nice!

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It's amazing seeing such blasé attitudes towards sexual assault in action like this.

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This ^ Instead of communicating the issue, she resorted to DRUGGING OP without his consent. Despicable.

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I would fantasize about this while eating breakfast, bc they would have these contests on the back of the cereal boxes....my older siblings would map out their strategies if they won....

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YTA. Sorry but that chicks gonna realize she deserves better than your judgment.

AmItheAsshole

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No, I don't get paid. As far as I know, I don't get credited either.

AmItheAsshole

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Leave him alone bro. He's ducking you, no reason to keep trying... have some self respect.

relationship_advice

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I’m officially stepping from social media for my confidence. Nobody else is control of how I feel about myself, not the commenters or my boyfriend. The reminders idea is lovely, thank you I’ll consider therapy after I see how the break makes me feel.

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This shit is either fake or you’re the dumbest mother fucker alive

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lol. There's no way anyone would respond with such equilibrium in a midst of a committed relationship.

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This is hilarious and deviant. Kudos on losing the weight and having a sense of humor while doing so.

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AMEN! Respect yourself more than he is. You DESERVE someone to treat you!

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Sexist incel using big boy words to feign intelligence, trust me girl he's not in a position to even HAVE a relationship

relationship_advice

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Bad advice from your psychologist. You can be friends with opposite sex people. What about people that are non binary, asexual, or transgendered?

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>(meaning documentary/sociology type shows) This is a very generous way to describe Maury.

AmItheAsshole

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I loved the Rudolph/Godfather claymation called the Reinfather I believe. Great skit.

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lol - now i'm embarrased remembering when my mom made me do my own laundry.

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Idk dude, I'm christian and I raised having good principles and a good relationships with everybody. There are a lot of christians who think that they are the center of the world and almost as holy as God Himself but nope, they are not what they are preaching and it's kinda sad.

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The bugs! It's for the bugs... well if you spend a long time on the interstate... but you need to feel you are protecting your investment! Or pretend your car is worthy of protecting haha

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I love Hamilton. I've listened to the cast recording a million times and I was counting down the days till it would come onto Disney+ I love singing and would've loved to watch the show and sing along, but my boyfriend was seeing it for the first time. He has listened to the cast recording maybe once before and kindly requested I don't sing because he wanted to experience it fresh and without me singing along. So I didn't sing. YTA.

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I believe they meant it more in the sense of "condoms not feeling good is a bullshit *excuse*", which is absolutely true. Your partner's health (not to mention pregnancies risk which affects you both) > your small loss in sensation. It's the bigger picture here.

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That's a fancy-shmancy sheet there. I mostly recall just black and white dittos on the transparent sheets, and then the teacher would write on them with erasable markers.

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Yes YTA but that's hardly surprising because your mother is also an asshole so apples and trees.....

AmItheAsshole

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quality suggestion. we could also try to loudly belch/fart or maybe start asking them if they’ve accepted christ as their savior. something nice and unsexy like that.

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NTA OMFG Plagiarism is not a fucking joke this could cost him sO much.... yknow... you can maybe try suing him if this costed you? but yea NTA

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NTA-go over to his place with some of your friends or your dad and demand your stuff back. He an his friends should all be blocked as well, why are they saying you should get back together and in the same breath insulting you? I feel sorry for their romantic partners!

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Oh I bet. A lot of people hate their jobs at Walmart, especially salary management so they are just waiting for stuff like this to happen to make them feel validated.

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They are not religious a true Christian speaks to God in prayer they wouldn’t use prayer as a tool to offend someone at the dinner table.

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Holy shit.. if i only knew back then lol. I would pretend I was very passionately looking at tooth brushes to throw them off lmao

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The wiki doesn't specify the amount, but since they literally use "buying a bag of marijuana" I have to assume it wasn't any actual weight.

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I think it depends on your bf, and you know him better than us. Every bf of mine that I bought flowers for has loved the gesture. Although some of them loved receiving baked goods or homemade plushies just as much. I think a lot of men aren't used to being pampered so some love it and others dont know how to appreciate it because they're not used to it.

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Lmao. What. All this time I thought shel silverstein was a women.

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Bro she didn’t get a chance to grow up all wild n free, she may want to experience more and doesn’t even know it herself. Which is why she is doing what she is doing and not ending things with you. Divorce her man. After ten years and three kids I got divorced, she left me, I got the kids full time run a business and life couldn’t be better. You may very well see that the grass is greener with hard work. My ex and I were together since 15 so I know what you are saying

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It's the parents who perpetuate this shit, not the kids. The kids are innocent and don't understand how to use words yet. It's the parents who say shit like, "He must like you!" and shit. It's disgusting and is normalizing that hitting is another form of affection

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I seriously have to wonder if this is a troll. It's so terrible. I know there are terrible people and bad parents, but... fuck.

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YTA You seem to think attractiveness is the only measurable quality to "get women", so this pretty much lines up with the stereotypical chad-bro-fratboy mentality.

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At 18, my father instructed me : when you order a drink, just say “ill have a ...” instead of “can I please have a ...” There’s a sense of authority that some people won’t question.

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This is why Chinas right about the one child law

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Rodents revenge!! I was so dumb as a kid I never realized when you trapped a cat your reward was cheese thought when the cats were trapped they became urine because they were nervous and pissed themselves lol.

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It’s disgusting that you care more about the bureaucratic process than the victims getting any semblance of justice. Grow some empathy. It’s not always about you and your feelings.

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I let my bacon loving kid try a Beggin’ Strip (bacon-y dog treat) once bc he LOVES bacon and was curious. Go for it, kiddo. Turns out it didn’t taste nearly as good as he had hoped. 😂 “Dirt and ashes” is how he described it iirc.

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I think counseling for you both and some sessions together would be a great idea but you sound like you aren’t being treated the way you should be. He needs to be better

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Is this a joke? I mean, not that it would be any better if it was since it's painfully overused, but nonetheless

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I remember this, for some reason the art scared me.

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Shill farms. From what I've seen, people that run shill farma(posting propaganda, and narrative driven content) are willing to buy an account with a high amount of karma and decent creation date as a way to "legitimize" the poster. Thats why if you ever see anything political and you check the OP's posting history. You'll likely find a 2+ year old account, decent amount of karma that has "become active" 3-8ish months ago(account was scrubbed) Ita ALLLLL over the reddit front page right now. The sub politicalhumor is the absolute worst. Politics, conservatives, and libertarian are not far behind.

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You grasp the written world well. My sister’s deaf and she leaves words out of sentences. Edit: lol, being downvoted. I wasn’t making fun of my sister’s handicap, just pointing out a quirk

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Legacy of Goku was my jam back in the day. Played it all the time when I was visiting my grandparents. Good times Damn, I need to put some more gba games on my vita

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Yes just make sure to roll down your window and share some with any kids nearby.

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Ahh, the 90s. When wild shapes roamed the land, the neon harvest was bountiful, and you couldn't turn around without stepping in ooze (Lord help you if it turned out to be mutagenic).

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Sounds like you weren't the submissive minimized fantasy of Asian women he was accustomed to. I wouldn't feel bad he died. Just hope his wife is lonely now.

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What kind of seriously pathetic person re posts someone elses OC pretending its theirs ?!

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No, they had pretty clear instructions. No one's confused on the proper way to use them. Just the contacts were often times not very responsive so a lot of pressure was necessary, causing discomfort. Judging by the votes, if you didn't experience this it's safe to assume that your experience was not the norm.

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Women only have one vulva. Maybe you’re confusing it with labia? (Although technically each woman has 4 labia: 2 majora and 2 minora)

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The microtears are from shoving a dick in an asshole not the lubricant involved. Also the concern from micro tears is that they increase the risk of transmitting std's....so go to a damn clinic and get some free condoms, most also have free lube. You don't need to be a shitty person to have gay sex, you just happen to be a shitty person who has gay sex.

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Support her, because she’s a human who needs support. Your relationship will be what it will be, even if you move apart. Look at it this way: you like who she is right now, but she’s pretending to be someone else. She deserves to not pretend, but you also deserve to not feel bad if that changes how you feel.

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NTA You’re demonstrating to your children that just because someone gives you something doesn’t mean you have to accept it or grovel with gratitude, ESPECIALLY if it makes you uncomfortable. Your SO was embarrassed that you were direct to mommy dearest, and your MIL is incensed because you called her garish behavior. Your kids feelings are valid and your actions are showing them how to handle situations where someone likely did something purposefully to make them uncomfortable.

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Right! Assuming she's still alive, there may be very many "unpeaceful" moments thinking about her son dying on a park bench alone and in the cold.

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If your mom had to force you to work and you were constantly told you were missing spots the idea that you're lazy and bad at your job isnt too far off.

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Women give birth to living babies that are addicted to meth or heroin from the womb. Drinking during pregnancy causes fetal alcohol syndrome where the baby is born alive but with developmental disabilities. My point is that one night of drinking did not cause you to miscarry. If it was that 'easy' to end a pregnancy, there wouldn't be any need for abortions. Give yourself the permission to heal from this very traumatic experience. I'm sorry for your loss.

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NTA. You’re telling the truth, so there should be nothing to feel bad about. If you Sister feels bad, that’s because she’s embarrassed that she has publicly been found out and is not going to be able to get what she wants. Best of luck in court.

AmItheAsshole

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I have to assume this is a troll. Cornell is an Ivy League university.

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CREEPY CRAWLERS! I had one of these, but never broke into the edible ones. That oven got hot as fuck.

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Do we know his name? I bet he's got an interview floating somewhere on YouTube.

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She’s not responsible for managing his behavior, she’s just expected to not defend him whenever he acts unprofessionally and to call him out instead.

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Yeah depression is no excuse for the nasty and repulsive stuff you did and I’m not sure why you think anyone would think otherwise or sympathize with you. If you had some type of STD or disease you know you could have given it to them right? Like you legit could have transferred HIV if you had it and you expect what? People to coddle you and not want to insult you? And the fact you’re using depression as a cop out makes it even worse. Thank god you’re getting help.

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Why is an unreasonable demand? Everyone is like "he's like a son to the father!!" And she isn't THEIR DAUGHTER? So they knew him since he was twelve, but they knew her first? It's not extreme to ask them to choose her on a messy situation. Father didn't, because he thought she would be the bigger person an forgive him "because he is her father". But in this situation, be chose someone else, who isn't even blood.

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I honestly really do not understand HOA's or why people would want to live on neighborhoods with them.

AmItheAsshole

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Nah Americans can be quite emotional when it comes to which professional criminal or warlord they want ruining their country.

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Name calling and setting the bar of what is morally acceptable based on what you have done and your experience? Do you think that's ok? At least op is reflecting and trying to grasp her situation. It would do you and others who are condemning her a world of good to look in the mirror.

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While I dont always agree with some of the other viewpoints on "promiscuity" I do absolutely agree that nobody deserves to be disrespected, belittled, and projected on. Good job! Hope you can find someone in the future that you not only match with from a sexual expectations perspective but also someone who can be a truly loving and respectful partner.

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Kinda makes me sad...everything is so conglomoratized and verticalized that *of course* an independently operated vending machine just isn’t a thing any more. In the grand scheme, who cares about that, but it’s representative of what happened to our economy and by extension our livelihoods over the past 40 years.

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I don’t blame you, because it’s just the nature of playfully talking shit that sometimes you cross lines by accident. But you do realize this hurt him. It’s *kinda* on you, but you can’t do it yourself. He needs to be willing to listen, and god forbid appreciate the fact that you picked him.

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Seriously. Don't drink and drive. Your ins. may go up this time but next time could be you, your friends, a family someone's child, or several that end up dead. Don't be this person.

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It's actually a very popular mall still. That and Stonebriar are two of the best malls I've ever been to.

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It only gives it a bad name if he talks about it. Right now it sounds like he just has one very happy client. A dude rubbing his side chick sugar mama’s feet

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