USC-MOLA-Lab/MFRC · Datasets at Hugging Face

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Yeees! I kind of want to write to that address just to see who it belongs to now.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
What’s so embarrassing about that? I’m sorry, I just don’t understand.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
I feel like its projecting or he needs a therapist. Either or is not gonna be a good time and should be sorted out asap to figure out what lies in the future for the children	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
I'm not arguing that they don't. I'm arguing that heathy eating and exercise is not a guarantee for not being a burden on the medical system. Shit can happen. Obesity is a major reason American healthcare is fucked up. I'm arguing that there is no inherent superiority, which was what you initially said.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
People will ask, "Where did he come from? Where did he go? Where did you come from Cotton Eye Joe?"	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
Because they are being responsible?? "Why don't you trust me?" protects you against 0% of STIs.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
If you are in a relationship, everything is 50/50 regardless of who pays. You are not a parent/child, or landlord/tenant. Thinking like this is abusive	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Proportionality,Care	Confident
NTA - And its clear to see why he has no help. People don't quit jobs, they quit bosses. Fuck him, he can deal with his own mess.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
yeah thats what a lot of bullies are doesnt mean they're right	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Thin Morality	Confident
It's not your responsibility to take care of obligations of another adult, especially when you're barely friends. His fault, not yours. Don't sweat it, girl! Being stoned is no excuse to being irresponsible.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Thin Morality	Confident
Intrusive thoughts are specifically thoughts you do not want. They are usually graphic/violent, and do not actually reflect what one wants. The person is almost always disgusted, frightened, or some sort of negative emotion that signals that they want to avoid those kinds of thoughts.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
As a fellow white passing mixed race human.. fuck them! those aren’t friends! I can’t imagine the level of entitlement and ignorance to go tell your employer that your a liar when you are entirely truthful!!!!	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Thin Morality	Confident
Why aren’t you answering the follow up question? What did you ask for and how much was it??	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
People that downvoted you on this are scared of the truth. Only reason why he would stay with her if her personality isn't the best. This fun does eventually run out.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
I absolutely loved that show. That and Guts. It’s funny how the hosts/captains seemed so much old to me but really they themselves were kids.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
I mean, you could really let that show ruin pillows for you, if you so choose.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator03	Non-Moral	Confident
I'm a 5'2" woman but I volunteer to kick Rick's ass.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Oh I so hope this isn't a drill because my 31 year old ass will be buying these and taking them to work if I see them back on store shelves.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Always wish I had Arnold’s room when I was little.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You’re likely still thinking about it because it was wrong. I get the temptation. But you had a chance to show kindness and humanity. Instead, you just exploited someone else’s misfortune.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Introducing species without the authority or permits would be considered an Ecological Crime. Would highly recommend not introducing anything additional. Let nature takes it course. Stop playing god. 2¢ 🤷‍♂️	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I like that their thought process went from "Hey this guy is really great, he always does his work" to "There's no way this woman is doing her job right". Like you've had no issues so far, but once you realize you're working with a woman you think they're a bad employee?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Although I share your views, don’t really find this to be the place to insult someone’s religion with idioms.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
No love for cyber chase? Got to be one of my all time favorites.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Actually you are pathetically wrong. In tough times, intimacy is often the ONLY thing that keeps us sane and together to fight life’s battles. The dearth or death of intimacy in a relationship - especially one that is rolling on a rough and rocky road - is generally the end of it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
NTA. She's being irresponsible with the money she is getting, and suffering the consequences.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Inability to take responsibility for his own fuck up + Catastrophizing as if something is ruined when t wasn’t + Temper Tantrum + Buying a gun = TIME TO GO	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
"My fellow americans, i did not have sexual relations with that woman... I DID however go to ifreeclub.com".....	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
You’re an awful parent. I feel sorry for ALL of your children. YTA massively.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Authority	Confident
But the deep frier kills all the germs and stuff?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Only wanting to have sex once or twice a month isn't "normal". See what I did there? Man's sexually frustrated because his wife won't even meet him half way. Yeah it probably is a problem but she isn't helping is she? Want him to just bottle it all up (not literally) and just become resentful?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This is one of my greatest fears in life that a male friend or acquaintance is secretly being a creep and violating my privacy	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
Nope. Rabbits are considered pests in many places they are not native. Since they breed, you know, like rabbits, lots of farmers have had to put out traps like you would for rats and mice just to control the population. That is where the source for the feet come from.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Lmaooo same here, its a shame that Cartoon Network will never be this good again.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
He was being gaslighted and manipulated. Before you go about preaching to him, try to go through an abusive and straining relationship, yourself. Trust me, even the prettiest, purest, kindest person will wither in relationships with a person like that. (his ex) There's no way to be with someone toxic and not end up poisoned, unless you leave them fast enough.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity,Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
I do this with all my fresh produce. There's only one employee at the local supermarket that cares and tries to catch people out	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
I’m sorry to hear this mate, can’t have been easy. As for solutions going forward, the leading cause of ED in young men is porn addiction. Is this a factor here?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Because he ain’t shit. Don’t feel stupid or humiliated be happy your not dating & not in a relationship with him. You clearly have respect & deserves much more. If anything tell the girlfriend. So she’s not the one lookin stupid.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Drunk words are sober thoughts. He sounds like he’s good at hiding his racism and sexism until he’s drunk. Edit: no he’s not good at hiding it either. He’s outwardly racist and sexist with his friends and you’re excusing his behavior.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
I completely empathise with American kids and fearing being shot up in school of all God damn places, but Do Not threaten people with knives! You're going to end up being arrested and accused of being what you so fear.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority,Care,Equality	Confident
Can lead a horse to water... If you decide to stay with him, accept the madness that you described here.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Ben Stein has a house in my town, super nice guy Sold him a landline in like 2015	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
A lot of the 90's cartoons were weird as fuck, but that's what made them good! Ren and Stimpy, Rocko's Modern Life, Aaahh!!! Real Monsters	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Dude. I wouldnt tell friends or family, but i'd go to a therapist ASAP	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Authority	Confident
Doing bad things means you should become a slave??? Fuck that. Its especially sickening for non-violent offenses such as just having weed	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Another fun fact, that feeling is called "astringency" and is caused by tannins https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astringent	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Celiac is probably on the list because it impacts bowel/bathroom issues and that can sometimes be a major source of workplace discrimination. It's amazing how many managers think they should be micromanaging their employees restroom usage.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Isn’t this what you have to explain to small children, when you have to explain that lying is bad but planning a surprise party isn’t. And they generally get it pretty quickly	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Healthcare providers can share things about mutual patients amongst each other. HIPAA is intended to prevent misuse of PHI (personal health information) and does not apply to PHI shared for treatment purposes, which includes gathering a patient's medical history. Also, I guarantee whatever privacy policy patients sign before receiving treatment at any provider's office would give consent to share information between providers for treatment purposes.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
NTA they sound like they’re either 500 lbs and don’t know how much food they need to eat or narcs that just want to gaslight you.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Yeah I still rock one... it’s not even that old	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
When I'm with a woman I'm not attracted to anyone else but her. Some people are like that.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
[Pepper ann](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYV1k67W8-Y) and [The Weekenders](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSgy8Loi1c8) had bangers for saturday morning cartoon intros.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The hysteria over wtf a j balvin meal is instead of the morality of the confession. 😂	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
You should be ashamed of yourself. Thief. From your own mother.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity,Loyalty,Authority	Confident
Begged my mom for these. So disappointed when we got them. Begged for more.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Russian here. I always hate saying that, but I see so much shit spilled on russian people, so that drives me crazy. Noone in my childhood taught me to hate people with different skin colour, noone said that being a gay is wrong, that bullying is OK and etc. None of my friends are racists or gay haters. So I would say that this is an individual case, and not a cultural thing. If I were him, I would keep boundaries but definitely maintain the conversation.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
hey, don't use the R slur. it's possible to speak on toxic masculinity without being a bigot yourself.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
NTA Consent is not just for sex. If you do not want someone to touch you they should respect that. If this is such a huge problem for you then you really need to go see a doctor and see if there is anything they can offer to help. Your personal boundaries do need to be respected but this is an extreme case of not wanting physical contact past the norm of personal preference.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
What did y’all imagine it tasted like? For me it was the sugar frosting on cakes like you would buy at the grocery store.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
>What the actual fuck, how is the 19 year old the brattiest of all the children in your home? Best guess is that parents never curbed it when younger. Of course some people are just like that regardless, but I know in my family that was the issue. No one told certain favored sibling that acting a certain way was unacceptable and now shes a bratty adult. When they're really used to getting their way they don't understand you dont get to call all the shots in the house	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
That sounds impractical at first, but there's disposable "guest towels" which are just fancy thick paper towels you can place on a towel rack for washing hands and face for guests. So get those and keep your cloth towels in your room until you're ready to use them.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I’ve heard of people becoming so obsessed with porn that real life doesn’t excite them anymore	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
> so I didn't come down right away Here OP admits that she was aware eating was happening, but she didn't participate out of choice.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Banned from my house after I ruined the carpet. As a 31 year old I finally can see my mom’s point of view.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Authority,Equality	Confident
What actually is that thing. I think we might be born knowing how to draw that	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Honestly, I don't think you can move on from this. What he did was disrespectful and way uncalled for. Fighting and venting to friends is normal but every couple has these private secrets which should not be discussed beyond the relationship. He violated that, even if he was drunk or pissed off, he is an adult. I think I can assume this is definitely not the first time he got drunk and lost control over himself.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority,Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Im sorry you went through that, I really don't get why some of us think we can do shit like that. Hopefully he realized how fucked that was and didnt do it again. Wish I got my ass kicked tho, I deserved it 100000% but I'll probably get my due eventually	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
You are not stupid!! You shouldn’t have to even think about any of this.. I’m sorry	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
Dude should have blown up at them that they have an employee committing casual petty theft on her co-workers daily and the problem is what he eats for lunch.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Yes! My back is itching right now thinking about it.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
The points would equal the discount you would receive and one day I remember I paid a dime for a new pair of sperrys 🥸	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Hey, so the thing I've noticed when I drink alcohol is that it way increases my anxiety. I listened to the audiobook of This Naked Mind and it's been life changing. I don't even want to drink anymore. This may just be the wake up call that you need.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
We were still best mates afterwards. We still talk from time to time and have a laugh about it.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Loyalty	Confident
You can’t unring a bell. BF should leave you, he doesn’t deserve it and your lack on understanding of the motive is irrelevant. Did you try to justify your actions to your BF the way you did here with the family issues and lack of intimacy, not that it really matters because that would probably just make him mad.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Fabricating some price increase to just reduce costs and increase net profit. Basic.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
All women do not feel as your sister feels. Don't patronise women by making uneducated assumptions and then describing them as 'the truth' and a 'harsh reality'.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
That's not your fault nor your responsibility. Your own well being comes first.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
please promise me you'll get out. for your own sake.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Thats awesome! I'm happy to hear any story about good bosses :) I find them so wholesome	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Drug testing and discriminating against cannabis users is why the Feds can't hire competent cyber security experts.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Damn! I was not expecting that. Showed it to my daughter. You could see the surprise physically when he switched voices. Genuine shock.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I'm a woman, but you're completely right. I tried looking her up on facebook tonight but I cant find her. I tried looking up her old best friend too but no luck. It's been 10+ years so I really dont know what I could do at this point. I'm not a hero, I just wanted to tell someone. She left that day and I havent seen her since. I've also never bullied anyone since so maybe that's something. I don't think it makes up for bullying her though.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Well you chose to marry her as she is not for what she was. It sounds like you just don’t want to be with her and this was a convenient excuse. Do yourself both a favor and end it so you can find people who are better suited for you.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
For real though, Melvil Dewey was a racist, anti-Semitic dickhead who couldn't keep his creepy hands off the women who worked for him.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
NTA. But please do profusely thank your sister for both NOT snooping and for telling you. Good sis you’ve got there.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Come back and try again after you have kids. You have no idea what you’re talking about.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
NTA. One day you'll be ready to change that room to something else. But you're not ready yet and no-one else gets to force you. The fact that they are badgering you incessantly shows a sense of entitlement and lack of care and respect for you. I doubt they'd be respectful guests. Sorry for your loss.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
That is not normal and if he does notice, I'm sure he finds the behaviour odd.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Wait, they let you board a bus and plane barefoot?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Eighths are $20 now, where the hell are you guys from?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Never understood the desire to eat liver, the oil filter of the body. So gross. But onions, that’s the staple of any quality dish.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
“Ahhhh, nooo! It’s dripping funny smelling water all over me!!” -Lisa Simpson	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Not Confident
This is a key question... seeing as how gays are in the minority and you didn’t explain whether he was gay or not in your post.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
little fucker deserved it, but yeah probably not the best reaction. i might’ve done the same as you tho	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Well Mom should have just gotten in her car headed to evil sis’ home to take care of grandchildren.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Our dentist puts a gold coin (token) in the bag with with toothbrush, toothpaste, floss. Coin goes in the vending machine in the waiting room. This is still a thing.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Contact your parents and tell them the whole story. Ask them to talk to her and push her to get help, because she's being really irrational now. For a start, he would have been 15 at the time, which doesn't prevent him from raping someone, but makes it highly unlikely that he was at a party with people of her age. He also probably would have looked quite different. Right now the critical thinking part of her brain isn't in control where you are concerned, so someone else needs to take the lead in getting her sorted out.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I think you should post this on r/AmITheAsshole for moral judgement	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Answer the question. Did you blame your brother for being raped because you are cold? Or did you blame him for being raped because you are dumb?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident

Yeees! I kind of want to write to that address just to see who it belongs to now.

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What’s so embarrassing about that? I’m sorry, I just don’t understand.

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I feel like its projecting or he needs a therapist. Either or is not gonna be a good time and should be sorted out asap to figure out what lies in the future for the children

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I'm not arguing that they don't. I'm arguing that heathy eating and exercise is not a guarantee for not being a burden on the medical system. Shit can happen. Obesity is a major reason American healthcare is fucked up. I'm arguing that there is no inherent superiority, which was what you initially said.

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People will ask, "Where did he come from? Where did he go? Where did you come from Cotton Eye Joe?"

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Because they are being responsible?? "Why don't you trust me?" protects you against 0% of STIs.

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If you are in a relationship, everything is 50/50 regardless of who pays. You are not a parent/child, or landlord/tenant. Thinking like this is abusive

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NTA - And its clear to see why he has no help. People don't quit jobs, they quit bosses. Fuck him, he can deal with his own mess.

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yeah thats what a lot of bullies are doesnt mean they're right

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It's not your responsibility to take care of obligations of another adult, especially when you're barely friends. His fault, not yours. Don't sweat it, girl! Being stoned is no excuse to being irresponsible.

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Intrusive thoughts are specifically thoughts you do not want. They are usually graphic/violent, and do not actually reflect what one wants. The person is almost always disgusted, frightened, or some sort of negative emotion that signals that they want to avoid those kinds of thoughts.

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As a fellow white passing mixed race human.. fuck them! those aren’t friends! I can’t imagine the level of entitlement and ignorance to go tell your employer that your a liar when you are entirely truthful!!!!

AmItheAsshole

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Why aren’t you answering the follow up question? What did you ask for and how much was it??

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People that downvoted you on this are scared of the truth. Only reason why he would stay with her if her personality isn't the best. This fun does eventually run out.

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I absolutely loved that show. That and Guts. It’s funny how the hosts/captains seemed so much old to me but really they themselves were kids.

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I mean, you could really let that show ruin pillows for you, if you so choose.

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I'm a 5'2" woman but I volunteer to kick Rick's ass.

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Oh I so hope this isn't a drill because my 31 year old ass *will* be buying these and taking them to work if I see them back on store shelves.

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Always wish I had Arnold’s room when I was little.

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You’re likely still thinking about it because it was wrong. I get the temptation. But you had a chance to show kindness and humanity. Instead, you just exploited someone else’s misfortune.

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Introducing species without the authority or permits would be considered an Ecological Crime. Would highly recommend not introducing anything additional. Let nature takes it course. Stop playing god. 2¢ 🤷‍♂️

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I like that their thought process went from "Hey this guy is really great, he always does his work" to "There's no way this woman is doing her job right". Like you've had no issues so far, but once you realize you're working with a woman you think they're a bad employee?

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Although I share your views, don’t really find this to be the place to insult someone’s religion with idioms.

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No love for cyber chase? Got to be one of my all time favorites.

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Actually you are pathetically wrong. In tough times, intimacy is often the ONLY thing that keeps us sane and together to fight life’s battles. The dearth or death of intimacy in a relationship - especially one that is rolling on a rough and rocky road - is generally the end of it.

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NTA. She's being irresponsible with the money she is getting, and suffering the consequences.

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Inability to take responsibility for his own fuck up + Catastrophizing as if something is ruined when t wasn’t + Temper Tantrum + Buying a gun = TIME TO GO

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"My fellow americans, i did not have sexual relations with that woman... I DID however go to ifreeclub.com".....

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You’re an awful parent. I feel sorry for ALL of your children. YTA massively.

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But the deep frier kills all the germs and stuff?

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Only wanting to have sex once or twice a month isn't "normal". See what I did there? Man's sexually frustrated because his wife won't even meet him half way. Yeah it probably is a problem but she isn't helping is she? Want him to just bottle it all up (not literally) and just become resentful?

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This is one of my greatest fears in life that a male friend or acquaintance is secretly being a creep and violating my privacy

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Nope. Rabbits are considered pests in many places they are not native. Since they breed, you know, like rabbits, lots of farmers have had to put out traps like you would for rats and mice just to control the population. That is where the source for the feet come from.

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Lmaooo same here, its a shame that Cartoon Network will never be this good again.

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He was being gaslighted and manipulated. Before you go about preaching to him, try to go through an abusive and straining relationship, yourself. Trust me, even the prettiest, purest, kindest person will wither in relationships with a person like that. (his ex) There's no way to be with someone toxic and not end up poisoned, unless you leave them fast enough.

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I do this with all my fresh produce. There's only one employee at the local supermarket that cares and tries to catch people out

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I’m sorry to hear this mate, can’t have been easy. As for solutions going forward, the leading cause of ED in young men is porn addiction. Is this a factor here?

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Because he ain’t shit. Don’t feel stupid or humiliated be happy your not dating & not in a relationship with him. You clearly have respect & deserves much more. If anything tell the girlfriend. So she’s not the one lookin stupid.

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Drunk words are sober thoughts. He sounds like he’s good at hiding his racism and sexism until he’s drunk. Edit: no he’s not good at hiding it either. He’s outwardly racist and sexist with his friends and you’re excusing his behavior.

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I completely empathise with American kids and fearing being shot up in school of all God damn places, but *Do Not* threaten people with knives! You're going to end up being arrested and accused of being what you so fear.

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Can lead a horse to water... If you decide to stay with him, accept the madness that you described here.

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Ben Stein has a house in my town, super nice guy Sold him a landline in like 2015

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A lot of the 90's cartoons were weird as fuck, but that's what made them good! Ren and Stimpy, Rocko's Modern Life, Aaahh!!! Real Monsters

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Dude. I wouldnt tell friends or family, but i'd go to a therapist ASAP

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Doing bad things means you should become a slave??? Fuck that. Its especially sickening for non-violent offenses such as just having weed

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Another fun fact, that feeling is called "astringency" and is caused by tannins https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astringent

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Celiac is probably on the list because it impacts bowel/bathroom issues and that can sometimes be a major source of workplace discrimination. It's amazing how many managers think they should be micromanaging their employees restroom usage.

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Isn’t this what you have to explain to small children, when you have to explain that lying is bad but planning a surprise party isn’t. And they generally get it pretty quickly

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Healthcare providers can share things about mutual patients amongst each other. HIPAA is intended to prevent misuse of PHI (personal health information) and does not apply to PHI shared for treatment purposes, which includes gathering a patient's medical history. Also, I guarantee whatever privacy policy patients sign before receiving treatment at any provider's office would give consent to share information between providers for treatment purposes.

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NTA they sound like they’re either 500 lbs and don’t know how much food they need to eat or narcs that just want to gaslight you.

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Yeah I still rock one... it’s not even that old

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When I'm with a woman I'm not attracted to anyone else but her. Some people are like that.

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[Pepper ann](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYV1k67W8-Y) and [The Weekenders](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSgy8Loi1c8) had bangers for saturday morning cartoon intros.

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The hysteria over wtf a j balvin meal is instead of the morality of the confession. 😂

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You should be ashamed of yourself. Thief. From your own mother.

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Begged my mom for these. So disappointed when we got them. Begged for more.

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Russian here. I always hate saying that, but I see so much shit spilled on russian people, so that drives me crazy. Noone in my childhood taught me to hate people with different skin colour, noone said that being a gay is wrong, that bullying is OK and etc. None of my friends are racists or gay haters. So I would say that this is an individual case, and not a cultural thing. If I were him, I would keep boundaries but definitely maintain the conversation.

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hey, don't use the R slur. it's possible to speak on toxic masculinity without being a bigot yourself.

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NTA Consent is not just for sex. If you do not want someone to touch you they should respect that. If this is such a huge problem for you then you really need to go see a doctor and see if there is anything they can offer to help. Your personal boundaries do need to be respected but this is an extreme case of not wanting physical contact past the norm of personal preference.

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What did y’all imagine it tasted like? For me it was the sugar frosting on cakes like you would buy at the grocery store.

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>What the actual fuck, how is the 19 year old the brattiest of all the children in your home? Best guess is that parents never curbed it when younger. Of course some people are just like that regardless, but I know in my family that was the issue. No one told certain favored sibling that acting a certain way was unacceptable and now shes a bratty adult. When they're really used to getting their way they don't understand you dont get to call all the shots in the house

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That sounds impractical at first, but there's disposable "guest towels" which are just fancy thick paper towels you can place on a towel rack for washing hands and face for guests. So get those and keep your cloth towels in your room until you're ready to use them.

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I’ve heard of people becoming so obsessed with porn that real life doesn’t excite them anymore

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> so I didn't come down right away Here OP admits that she was aware eating was happening, but she didn't participate out of choice.

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Banned from my house after I ruined the carpet. As a 31 year old I finally can see my mom’s point of view.

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What actually is that thing. I think we might be born knowing how to draw that

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Honestly, I don't think you can move on from this. What he did was disrespectful and way uncalled for. Fighting and venting to friends is normal but every couple has these private secrets which should not be discussed beyond the relationship. He violated that, even if he was drunk or pissed off, he is an adult. I think I can assume this is definitely not the first time he got drunk and lost control over himself.

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Im sorry you went through that, I really don't get why some of us think we can do shit like that. Hopefully he realized how fucked that was and didnt do it again. Wish I got my ass kicked tho, I deserved it 100000% but I'll probably get my due eventually

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You are not stupid!! You shouldn’t have to even think about any of this.. I’m sorry

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Dude should have blown up at them that they have an employee committing casual petty theft on her co-workers daily and the problem is what he eats for lunch.

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Yes! My back is itching right now thinking about it.

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The points would equal the discount you would receive and one day I remember I paid a dime for a new pair of sperrys 🥸

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Hey, so the thing I've noticed when I drink alcohol is that it way increases my anxiety. I listened to the audiobook of This Naked Mind and it's been life changing. I don't even want to drink anymore. This may just be the wake up call that you need.

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We were still best mates afterwards. We still talk from time to time and have a laugh about it.

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You can’t unring a bell. BF should leave you, he doesn’t deserve it and your lack on understanding of the motive is irrelevant. Did you try to justify your actions to your BF the way you did here with the family issues and lack of intimacy, not that it really matters because that would probably just make him mad.

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Fabricating some price increase to just reduce costs and increase net profit. Basic.

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All women do not feel as your sister feels. Don't patronise women by making uneducated assumptions and then describing them as 'the truth' and a 'harsh reality'.

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That's not your fault nor your responsibility. Your own well being comes first.

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please promise me you'll get out. for your own sake.

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Thats awesome! I'm happy to hear any story about good bosses :) I find them so wholesome

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Drug testing and discriminating against cannabis users is why the Feds can't hire competent cyber security experts.

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Damn! I was not expecting that. Showed it to my daughter. You could see the surprise physically when he switched voices. Genuine shock.

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I'm a woman, but you're completely right. I tried looking her up on facebook tonight but I cant find her. I tried looking up her old best friend too but no luck. It's been 10+ years so I really dont know what I could do at this point. I'm not a hero, I just wanted to tell someone. She left that day and I havent seen her since. I've also never bullied anyone since so maybe that's something. I don't think it makes up for bullying her though.

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Well you chose to marry her as she is not for what she was. It sounds like you just don’t want to be with her and this was a convenient excuse. Do yourself both a favor and end it so you can find people who are better suited for you.

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For real though, Melvil Dewey was a racist, anti-Semitic dickhead who couldn't keep his creepy hands off the women who worked for him.

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NTA. But please do profusely thank your sister for both NOT snooping and for telling you. Good sis you’ve got there.

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Come back and try again after you have kids. You have no idea what you’re talking about.

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NTA. One day you'll be ready to change that room to something else. But you're not ready yet and no-one else gets to force you. The fact that they are badgering you incessantly shows a sense of entitlement and lack of care and respect for you. I doubt they'd be respectful guests. Sorry for your loss.

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That is not normal and if he does notice, I'm sure he finds the behaviour odd.

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Wait, they let you board a bus and plane barefoot?

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Eighths are $20 now, where the hell are you guys from?

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Never understood the desire to eat liver, the oil filter of the body. So gross. But onions, that’s the staple of any quality dish.

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“Ahhhh, nooo! It’s dripping funny smelling water all over me!!” -Lisa Simpson

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This is a key question... seeing as how gays are in the minority and you didn’t explain whether he was gay or not in your post.

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little fucker deserved it, but yeah probably not the best reaction. i might’ve done the same as you tho

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Well Mom should have just gotten in her car headed to evil sis’ home to take care of grandchildren.

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Our dentist puts a gold coin (token) in the bag with with toothbrush, toothpaste, floss. Coin goes in the vending machine in the waiting room. This is still a thing.

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Contact your parents and tell them the whole story. Ask them to talk to her and push her to get help, because she's being really irrational now. For a start, he would have been 15 at the time, which doesn't prevent him from raping someone, but makes it highly unlikely that he was at a party with people of her age. He also probably would have looked quite different. Right now the critical thinking part of her brain isn't in control where you are concerned, so someone else needs to take the lead in getting her sorted out.

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I think you should post this on r/AmITheAsshole for moral judgement

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Answer the question. Did you blame your brother for being raped because you are cold? Or did you blame him for being raped because you are dumb?

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