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They are being used. Not fast enough for him, which I suspect is part of his issue.
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came here to say this. i would blow my nose with loose leaf
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You know it’s weird for me personally because I like to work in my garden and the sun would always shine through the logo and I’d see it on my screen.
But I kinda miss it.
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annotator03
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I know I should’ve specified that my step dad kept my Christmas letters lol.
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annotator03
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They’re going to be uncomfortable because it’s an inappropriate age gap for a romantic relationship. There’s not much to do about that other than not date children.
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relationship_advice
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annotator03
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ESH. All of you are equally immature for your age.
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AmItheAsshole
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annotator03
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Lots of gays and lesbians give bi people a rough time. Just stick those key words into YouTube and stand back as the bile pours out.
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annotator03
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Equality
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He invited you to the wedding as his guest but told you to figure it out when it comes to your accommodations. Doesn’t actually sound like he wants you there. I wouldn’t go if I was being treated like that.
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And never threaten to get rid of him again. He needs to feel safe and secure in your home if he’s ever going to fully trust you.
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annotator03
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yes abuse every avenue you can to make life go smoother for ours truly, only.
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annotator03
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Ugh. Sexual frustration is hard to talk about, but I’d hope people would realize they need to have that conversation if they’re actually considering adultery
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He's not emotionally deep in your relationship. He's love bombing you and manipulating you....because you're 17 and don't know any better. He's a predator.
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Because 95% of the people on this subreddit are bitter lonely fucking man haters who read one side of a story and jump to conclusions like the judgmental self righteous fucks they are. It’s nothing surprising, reddit is filled with people with zero tolerance and shit social skills who think they will always know better than you.
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This is the closest thing my SO and I have found to the greasy, deliciousness that was served in the elementary school cafeteria at breakfast time back in the 90s/early 2000s. We get it at Wegmans!
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Having a difference in opinion is okay for things like...pizza toppings. Not racism.
If you're okay with your friends being dicks to Asians or black people or whatever race, then you're racist too. You don't get to disconnect from that, like "oh but they attended the KKK rally at *lunch* but I'm meeting them for *dinner*."
Remember those bullying PSAs from elementary school? If you don't speak up against the bullies, you're being complicit. The same applies here.
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annotator03
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I’m in my mid 20s and the fact that this is nostalgic to teenagers now makes me feel old ffs.
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Exactly - she wants a *foster*, not an adoption. I bet she plans to step in and take this child back at some point, not even realising that that's not actually how adoption works.
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I bet it's broken every time you want to make one
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Paying your fair portion of tax lmao
This money was taxed when it was earned, taxed when it was given and will be taxed when it is spent. Yikes
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Karl Malone knocked up a 13 year old while in college. Fuck Karl Malone
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I just received my new one in the mail today.
Edit: mine finally crapped out after years of use. They're still handy!! Especially for my pos older car
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It's not your place to decide what his brother might think. They are brothers, all he has to do is say something like "How was your school work the other night?" Or the younger brother casually mentions playing board games.
And none of my female friends sewed during high school. Some of my friends, of any gender, have picked it up, others haven't.
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He means he has his so he doesn't care about all the uninsured people in America and people who go broke from medical care costs.
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Care
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Omg you haven’t heard?? Well from what I understand someone made an unsubstantiated bullshit comment on Reddit and now here we are! Don’t tell.
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They would let you cheat. Depending on the game, it would give you unlimited lives, invincibility, extra abilities etc.
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That’s ok, but this is more about him knowing she is straight and not telling her about his pre op and second talking about kids with her and not disclosing what that really meant is so wrong...
Deceit and betrayal hurts more them anything else and people giving him pass just because he is trans is not ok...
He did something very wrong to someone who clearly likes him and that is despicable....
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It's not purely a "women"-thing. Men do it too. It's what insecure people do, because they like the affection without the commitment.
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Oh for god’s sake. Is this helpful? Or is this more shitty manipulation to “win” an argument?
If your wife remains in a relationship with you when she comes out of the hospital, you absolutely should seek therapy. This incident shows you have some work to do around empathy.
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YTA. Even if they don't do their share, that doesn't excuse you from doing yours. If you don't want to contribute, find your own place.
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It's not your fault, and your mum is a horrible parent. She was supposed to protect you, when you were a child. Counseling, yes, but talk to your dad, tell him you are still traumatized , and could you stay with him, 'til you get your life in order. Your mum needs to be in jail. So sorry, hope you can find a parent, that cares for you !
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If we stopped using the word "prank" and started calling these things what they are, "socially sanctioned assaults that the victim is expected not to retaliate over" them this would be closer to the mark. This girl is trying to damage you socially and psychologically. If your friends got caught up in it and didn't realize how bad this was then maybe, just maybe, you might want them back in your life. Me? I'd cut the lot out of my life. Hell, I've hospitalised people for doing less and not lost a moment's sleep over it.
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Your comment(s) violate [rule 3](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/index#wiki_3._accept_your_judgement). Please review this rule, and be aware that further violations will result in you no longer being able to participate in your thread.
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annotator03
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Tell them they csn do whatever, but leave you out of it.
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relationship_advice
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It’s no longer 1995, but I’ll still take you to Weinerville ;)
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Yes, because I politely avoid people who are rude to me I'm unlikeable. It's far classier to go into someone's home knowing they're nasty to you and looking for a fight.
People are far more likely to avoid confrontational people. No one expects you to actively interact with someone so nasty to you.
serious question, are you OPs alt??
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Hahaha Kanye? That cracked me up. It’d be so funny if it was Kanye. 😂😭
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I loved Kablam especially Action League Now! Meltman with the power to.....MELT!!!!!
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annotator03
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the Hey Dude episode where they say that the intruders dug in from below the floor fucked me up
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How is this even remotely slut-shaming?
IDGAF if she had multiple partners. But cheating and lying about it for 5 decades should preclude her from making sweeping moral judgments.
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My mom gave me $5 every year. I could by anything except Captain Underpants. Bought that shit every year.
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I'm a child of the 80s and I don't have any memory of Bob with black hair. The things you block out.
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you’re being downvoted because you’re original comment and the following comments were entirely unnecessary and irrelevant. you have some vendetta against western society or something..???
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But if you’re my dad,,,, and you’re his dad... we’re an Alabama family?
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I think my parents still have these. No scent, of course.
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No I'm a real human. I think let me check....
Yep still human still flesh and bones.
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Any experienced man learns the hard way that promiscuous women don’t pair bond well.
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Dick move dude. I don’t know why this is a confession though. Your “friends” know you did it, you know you did it, and I’m sure a shit ton of other people you did it too. Well we know now at least...
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annotator03
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This. Driving is a privilege, not a right, and if you can't do it without endangering others don't so it at all.
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Care
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15 minutes could save you 15% or more on car insurance.
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annotator03
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Fucking EW.
Hes sexually harassing a woman who is two decades younger than him.
Hes acting like a predator.
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AmItheAsshole
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annotator03
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I know the name means something to you but just think about your child’s future. They might not always live in Scandinavia. What if they want to do exchanges or work overseas?
There are studies about how names affect our perception of people and with a name like Lucifer they will be judged and maybe even bullied.
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Their scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should
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I did some googling; 2008 seems to be the year.
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Well, shocker, you don't deserve it. Listen to the overwhelming amount of people calling you an AH and get a reality check.
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Depression can be so difficult to battle, you just need to find what works for you to help you be functional when you’re having depressive spells, because the world doesn’t just stop for you. I know it’s tough, but it’s necessary for you to put in the work to battle mental illnesses and do your best to get physically well too.
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I absolutely despised these commercials, and the Sonic Guys. I'm nostalgic for my hate for them right now.
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Don't get another dog... who tf thinks I'll just kill him with an axe?! GOD DAMN!
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8000? I feel like thats a robbery, my god.
This stkry is amazing
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Putting it out of its misery was the humane thing to do. Wouldn’t want to extend its suffering.
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The dad had no arms or legs and his name was Bob. That's a classic joke right there.
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I will never eat liver and onions simply because of this episode.
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Did everyone else's school collect the mouse balls after class because kids kept stealing them?
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That would absolutely be a correct interpretation, though, wouldn't it?
The idea that mothers always need to be 100% caring and open and warm all the time is absolutely 'poisonous femininity.' If you were trying to make me disagree with you you did a bad job, lmfao
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NTA. Invisible disabilities are real and only your daughter's family and medical practitioners need to know the situation. I'm sure it's stressful to deal with that and no one say what the 'appropriate' way to react is, beyond not causing physical harm or some other kind of crime.
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Ren and Stimpy is amazing no matter how old you are you uncultured swine.
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I hate how you’d cut the flapjacks, and it’d make that horrible squeaking noise ...
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I'm sad Roger left, he was actually my favorite and who I would have wanted to work with if those guys were all working on my house.
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I mean, speaking as an American, I would never be romantically involved with someone who identifies as a conservative. Today’s Republican Party is so full of hate and divisiveness that I could never be with someone who supports it.
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They used Azodicarbonamide, which whitens the bread and improves its elasticity. Almost all hot dog buns and burger buns you buy in a supermarket contain this. It's also still used by most major fast food companies. I'm not arguing that it's good, but it's weird that subway was singled out
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Door wedge is a great idea. And please try not to get drunk around her. She can't be trusted to not assault you.
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annotator03
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More like "You showed my logic to be fallacious so you disrespect me."
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Oh dude, I totally know about ALL of that radical stuff!
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Never had any but I remember seeing those awesome ads for them everyday and wanting one so bad!!!
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Calm down it’s just a quote from Better Call Saul don’t take an internet comment too seriously
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Also it was lucky it was just soda. My sister’s ex had a pattern of punching walls and doors when he was angry at her, and then it escalated to throwing water in her face. Eventually he threw a pot of boiling water at her because it was the thing he had in hand. No one can say OP’s husband wouldn’t have thrown a hot coffee on her if that was what was available. He’s abusive and extremely unstable and there is no telling how he might escalate the abuse.
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Your parents are arseholes. That bullshit favouritism is disgusting. Never feel bad. Ever.
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The lifelong conditioning can help explain her behavior, but as an adult she has a choice to make different actions.
This is like saying a child abuse victim will go on to abuse more children because he was conditioned his whole life this way. This is entirely too simplistic for real life, as we know plenty of abuse victims who grow up to be exactly the opposite of what they grew up under.
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This is why we ask, “where are my car keyS?”
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If her friends continue to message you, gently remind them that their friend is the cheater. Then I’d invite the friend over to bone.
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Uhh that’s nonsensical. If people voluntarily torture animals there will be some level of enjoyment/compulsion to do it again. Nobody who tortured animals hated the act otherwise they wouldn’t do it.
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Munchausen by proxy syndrome is super interesting! And there are a lot of different cases of it too. If your interested, look up the infamous Gypsy Rose case. There’s also another one (can’t really remember the name atm) but this mom was on Facebook talking about her sons medical issues when the state took the child away and accused the mom of MBPS. If I remember correctly, the mom was found innocent of MBPS, but was found guilty of attempted murder.
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In California you can let someone go for no/any reason (as long as it isn't specifically prohibited) but that person would be eligible for unemployment. The more workers from a company get unemployment, the more that company's unemployment taxes are.
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Apologize for what? I'm ok with the gifts (who doesn't love gifts?) but there's nothing for him to apologize for.
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NTA
You are never obligated to lie or keep damaging secrets. Of course she feels pissed, she's lost her job and a source of illegitimate income/merchandise.
You're hurt, because you never knew how little she valued you and your family.
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if you want to durability test something, give it to some kids, they’ll find a way to break or lose it. If it survives the. You know it’ll last forever.
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When your kink violates another person’s boundaries you absolutely deserve to be shamed for it. That is completely unacceptable.
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Honestly, I've *never* enjoyed Crunch bars. I always felt as though the novelty of the crisped rice is supposed to distract you from the subpar chocolate.
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You don't get that your dad abandoning him might've been hurtful too? Plus - he's right, this belongs to him as an heir to your dad's estate, it was never yours or your sister's in the first place.
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I am sorry for what you've been through, but please don't speak for other survivors. Some of us do move on and stop being haunted, which I think takes considerable effort and work, not to mention time and help, and I think it's insulting to say "you never move on from sexual assault."
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Wow I really wasn't expecting all this support. Thanks for your support man, really appreciated. Hope you stay strong as well.
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The OP didn't state their gender, and since it's dealing with a name change post divorce it is much more likely that OP is a "she"
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I really thought this was gonna be a sad one.
Fuck you, stop flexing your love and happiness on the rest of us lonely folks.
No advice for you, live in the darkness. Lmao
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Have you had your testosterone levels checked? Even people as young as you can have low T levels. It may also be a sign of something else wrong - like testicular cancer. Before you question your psychological state, please see a physician and get checked out. If you don't already, please do a [testicular exam](https://www.webmd.com/men/testicular-exam#1) right now.
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Sure I get it. Just dont rape. But that's not what I was asking. I was asking if some people are just condemned forever because of one mistake. If that's the case, might as well give them the death sentence?
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Going by their logic, OP has every right to respond with “and I’m entitled to a hygienic bf”.
Smh some people...
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ESH - it’s not your child and you knew her mother was against it. It’s not your place to make those decisions for other people’s children and considering you’ve 100% shown you don’t respect her I don’t blame her at all for not trusting you with her child again. I do think her mothers stance is unreasonable though - kids are cruel.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator03
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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Thank you lol.
Holy shit where do these ignorant people on Reddit with their dumb definitions of gaslighting keep popping up from???
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator03
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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My parents said they loved me but they let me eat these
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator03
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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That's awesome! I've worked with Specialisterne before, might be worth reaching out to them too in case they're not already on your list.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator03
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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OP needs to leave before telling them she's breaking the lease. Her boyfriend *will* get violent if they talk to him about the situation. She needs to take her dog and personal documents and get out.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator03
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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