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My father was a surgeon. He has said on more than one occasion that scrubs is probably the most accurate medical show on television. Not perfect, but a much more realistic representation of working in a hospital.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Oooof. She's not respecting you and that's really messed up. I'm sure she's a lovely person and all, but what she's doing is not okay. It sounds like it could be a self esteem thing. Where she needs others to validate that she's desirable? I'm sorry dude.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
They’d find a fix elsewhere either way...But it’s never too late to volunteer with addiction management organizations if that feels like some sort of atonement	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
i love everyone freaking out here like this isnt the confessions subreddit. not all confessions are cute or validated by circumstances.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
You're going to get bored with this. Maybe you already are and that's why you posted.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
funny you should say that i’m 6’1 and i gave a person a ride once >:o	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It takes two. Do you also not trust your wife? Because that's a bigger problem than your brother not being able to keep it in his pants.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Loyalty	Confident
Alas, many AITA commenters root for everyone to cut off everyone that does anything bad toward them. Compromise and forgiveness are not exactly valued on this sub.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Pauly Shore and Rudy dug up caveman Brendan Frasier and they went to high school together. Everything about that is endearing.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Ok, no judgment. From your post it sounds like you had your son with some doubts and those doubts were confirmed after he was born. I am glad you know what you do and don't want. I'm just trying to figure out what might be going through your husband's mind. I also don't think he would abandon your child, so I commented. I don't think you would either. I don't know how you work this out. Whatever you do, don't have another child to "save" your marriage, that won't work, especially because you know how your feeling.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
This show helped a generation of kids not be racists	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
I’m 56(m) and have been like that all of my life... I fake confidence... always have...	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Gotta love those posts that treat 5 years ago like the good old days.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
What if Jacob is rich now and you simply taking that off his mind gets you some cash	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
NTA. I cannot fathom the resistance to this kind gesture.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Unless it is an enthusiastic and clear yes it is sex without consent. I don’t necessarily agree with the people saying report him to police, etc. But claim of “middle ground” is ridiculous. If you don’t have consent it is legally and morally rape.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority,Care,Equality	Confident
You’re an abuse survivor. I think it’s completely normal that you don’t show affection to your abuser.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
It’s not over the top though. This normalising of infidelity just perpetuates people doing it. If there are no consequences then, for many, there’s no reason not to do it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Loyalty	Confident
But it still matters to her. It’s so horrible when adults completely invalidate children’s feelings because they’re young. It’s important to validate them and treat them better than just laughing over something important to them.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Ten bucks says that if he made an ultimatum about one of her friends she wouldn’t stand for it Edit: this is my first award... thank you kind redditor	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Please be careful for the future now OP. Once you start blacking out, it becomes much more frequent and easier to do	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Why does everything have to be an ego trap? But damn, yes, these are awesome.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Info, why are you with this person? You say you love him but doesn't sound like he treats you or others with respect, kindness or decency. I admit I'm biased here though because manners are a massive deal to me and I really can't stand a lack of them. They cost nothing after all. You're only 16, you've got a whole life ahead of you with better relationships where you are treated how you deserve. Trying to change a person rarely works, so if he's not compatible with you, consider ending the relationship.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
But also pressing charges doesn't necessarily mean ul secure a conviction and more people need to be aware of this. The system is a set up to protect perpetrators. My family know this from our own experience.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Authority	Confident
NTA. You don’t own that toxic prick a damn thing.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
He wasn't poly because you're not his GF just a FWB that somehow didn't realize it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
I'd wager pedophiles don't have an exceptionally high sex drive unless they are also sex addicts. So it comes down to choosing wether to have sex or not with someone, and in so many cases, forcefully. Thoses who do it are just pure scum.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
You kind of need to remember that all of these issues effected your ex too. They’re allowed to not be willing to jump back into it, and they’re allowed to resent the fact that it took a break up for anything to change.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Equality	Confident
This should be on AITA, you’re using a client for sexual pleasure without her knowledge, AND going behind your gf’s back. Wtf	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
My friends used to live in a weird apartment building that was owned by a cop and they couldn’t have any guests. It was really weird but it was also like 10’ from campus and cheap so it was convenient enough that they dealt with it.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Ah, finally somebody who isn’t soft. I swear most of these questions here wouldn’t be asked if people didn’t act like such doormats.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Responsibly rehoming an animal you can no longer provide for doesn’t make you an asshole. Things change in our lives, and sometimes the best way to care for them is to find someone with better suited conditions. But I don’t think the behaviours you’re describing means she’s unhappy- sounds like she was poorly socialized through no fault of your own. Feral kittens can be difficult to manage well into their adulthood. If you want to keep her, try looking up some management techniques for feral kittens.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
I curse you wherever you are, for the rest of your life. May you never find happiness	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
It seems you are scared of rejection young man. If she is sending these messages and she doesn't actually happen to be interested then she is in the wrong. You would have nothing to be embarrassed about.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Let me lay it out for you, then. This isn't the kind of charge that goes away even if the victim or her mother don't want to press charges. The state will press charges. If anyone at all goes to the authorities about this, you're fucked. Chesters don't do well in prison.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Authority	Confident
When i was a kid we use to call it Gimp. Not sure if that helps 😊	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Confident
Yip. You did the worst thing possible that you could do. He doesn't bring gifts to other family because you made him worry about getting accused of sexual harassment Leave him alone.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Porn messes with your sexual arousal and can huge impacts on your subconscious reaction to women.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
The funny thing is they sell a version of this still, I bought it for my kid- exact same concept but slightly different look and it’s absolutely noisy as fuck. Thing sounds like a chain saw. So it made me laugh that apparently the old one was too.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
How can you support racist policies but not be racist?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
On your edit: there is no greater disrespect for a profession than trying to prevent someone from from entering it.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Gender dysphoria is a real diagnosis though. Our noggins are more complex than we think, and gender isn't concrete (even sex can be varied). The hypocrisy of TERFs is that as feminists they're against women being objectified for their bodies and genitalia, yet they define themselves and their identies around their bodies and genitalia. There's more to womanhood than periods and birth.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
Sooooo does that mean Spaceballs 2, the Quest for more money is FINALLY going to happen?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
Isn’t dwarfism a specific condition, as opposed to just being a little person?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
People who consider themselves the leader or king in a group, are usually just assholes.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
It is one thing to max out one credit card with no intention of paying but to do this repeatedly and willingly is fraudulent. Be careful	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Wrong. Relationship is all about support, you can’t just send him to therapist because it’s HIS problem. OP, I don’t recomend you listening to this comment. Talk more, tell him how good of a man he is, to boost his self esteem. If you choose to be ignorant, then your relationship won’t last.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Loyalty,Equality	Confident
> I'm trying to accept their values You can be accepting of their values without making them your own	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
i’m not a pothead (don’t smoke at all) but i’d still be stoked for 1.5-2 grams of weed for free. that’s like $15-$20 worth where i’m at	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I think the fact that you still feel bad about it many years later, shows you know it was wrong. And I'm guessing you wouldn't do something like that again. We all make dumb choices when we're kids and sometimes mistakes need to be made to learn. I give you my pass to forgive yourself lol	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
These things should never happen, but the sad truth is that they do. Thank you for sharing your experience. You are loved and appreciated.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
But OP wrote that the school's warden was present for the tutoring sessions, and all necessary permissions were acquired before any tutoring began. Everything was done by the book and approved. How was the OP in the wrong?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
I remember the line that would start at the begining of every assignment handed out, as we all tried to avoid working by sharpening our pencil for way longer than we needed to.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
YTA — I’m almost certainly going to get downvoted for this, but it’s pretty damn creepy that you married a woman half your age (just a couple years older than your daughter) whom you easily could have fathered. The entire rest of this story is fallout from that extremely questionable decision on your part.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
> it’s the fact that there was 1000 ppl there and he thinks I’m gonna get corona And truth is you most likely will if you keep going to protests. Masks are not horribly effective unless everyone is wearing them	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Why? I can only assume it's better than the disgraces of human beings he's living with currently	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Also I recommend a big gift for the whole family this christmas to try and forget that your ex tried to ruin your life by coming into it again. Have fun with your wife and kids Drive around visit places out of town (with proper measures) and enjoy christmas as much as you can (while protecting yourself and others)	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
I don't think so. The fact that we're increasingly more aware of our actions is a good thing.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Man, those were good. I read that they can cause a fissured tongue though.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Because anyone can use any pronoun they want to? Why should only enbies & trans people be allowed to use different pronouns?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
You’ll be fine. It doesn’t take a genius for her to see what the charges were and know who did it. She’s probably overlooking it. Given that you’re a juvenile, you’ll be fine.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Only thing i can say is make her take a pregant test in front of you, in a few days. You could get lucky and she is not pregnant	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
For real. When I was 17 I started going on family trips with my best friend's extended family. When the situations called for it, we helped tend to the little cousins. It wasn't even a question.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I've never been to wendy's, but this picture makes me extremely nostalgic for some reason	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I don’t think you understand why this bothers me haha, I have 0 concern that anything is actually going to happen,’my husband would never be attracted to a child and I’d never want to scare a child with hormones and that’s not what happened here.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
When your leg goes in between the plastic parts, and you go to pull them out. OUCH!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Thanks so much for the advice. I did exactly what you said just now and am really hoping the company does not verify dates!	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Thank you so much. “Life is unpredictably hard” would be a great slogan for any number of different products, campaigns, or religious movements.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
So to be clear- you paid her 350$ of solid profit, then an additional 150$ so she got paid 500$ which became her pure profit since she didn't have to cover the alcohol? And she still wanted more?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Jesus. NTA. Maybe if she packed your stuff from communal areas but like, actually going into your room and touching your things? Not even asking? What. The. Fuck.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Yep, this is decades of mother-daughter enmeshment. Even if OPs wife recognized the issue and WANTED to change may take a long time. It is the wife's problem, but she probably can't even see the enormity of the issue and how badly it is affecting her and her marriage. Hopefully this will open her eyes. She'll need to unravel this ball of bullshit and manipulation in individual therapy.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
You’re right. I hate him so much and I hate myself more.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
They are quarantining but they were the first to have it here so I am sure they spread it for a day or so before they developed symptoms or realised they were sick?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Uh, yes, yes it is. I'm not OP, I can completely debate your ruling. And about OP paying for the vast majority of her kid's college fund, any comments on that?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Good for you! Hope everything works out. I was in one years ago, if you need someone to talk lmk.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
Losing his mom doesn't give him an excuse to be a nasty human.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Not sure how it works in other countries but for Canada we have theft under $5000 and theft over $5000. So 'd you're going to steal $5k you might as well steal $100k	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Well it sucks to hear, but it doesn't sound like he's that great a person to be with anyways. Especially if he's giving you an ultimatum and an illegal one at that. Threatening to end your relationship if you don't incriminate yourself for his benefit. Nah fuck that	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care	Confident
That's not stealing, that's using them as they should be used.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
Ahh that’s a shame. My parents are pro choice and don’t have any problem with sex or abortions but my sister preferred not to tell them I think mainly because of personal privacy. How are you feeling right now?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Equality	Confident
That's called sexual assault. It's a stunning lack of respect and a really scary future to your relationship.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality,Care,Equality	Confident
It will always be hard to hear things like that from your own mother but people like that never change. Regardless of what happens in your life she will always have something “more important” that is happening to her so it’s probably best to limit contact with her to stop her from being able to do this to you.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
those corporations are made of people exactly like OP, greedy, justifying their lack of moral, and ruthless	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I had a panic attack from laughing so hard at the very first on in my school library as a kid. Everyone was staring at me as I couldn't hold it together cause Garfield got slammed in a screen door and said.. Ow.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care	Confident
No need. Even if she wasn't on meds women have a waaay harder time passing it on. That's why it spread so rampantly through the gay community. It's best spread anally. If she's on meds it's basically impossible for her to give HIV to anyone.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
NO. just no. He should have known better and not taken advantage of your situation and vulnerability. The end.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
No lease? No problem. Leave. Go anywhere. Even to a woman's shelter. Just get the hell out of that shithole and stop playing mom for these entitled men-babies. You must have a girlfriend or a relative who would take you in?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
You should talk to a doctor. There are certain illnesses or medications that can cause acquired color blindness.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Authority	Confident
I like how you're harassing strangers and yet still, 22 years later, trying to paint them as the bad guy. You were a prick. Not sure that's changed.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I’ve never worked in an office for environment but this movie resonated with me anyways. They seem to totally nail the monotony of the job, amongst other things.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I remember I saved up for a cute white cardigan and when I got it I was so disappointed on how cheaply made it was!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
And? That doesn’t change the fact that clothes of any type are for humans of any gender.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Care,Equality	Confident
Continue to be civil yet frosty. If anyone asks what’s up, say “oh nothing. Hubert is just abandoning his terminally ill wife (there are statistics about men leaving sick partners. They aren’t good.) and kids and moving in with the woman he’s been cheating on them with. He thinks I and his kids should feel sorry for him.”	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Loyalty,Equality	Confident
tbh I'm a little tired of reading about women having to be their partners' mommies and give them chores and punishments. A partner is supposed to be an equal. When I read something like "if OP lets him do such and such" that just sets off all kinds of alarm bells to me. That's terminology you use when raising children or training dogs, it shouldn't apply to grown-ass men.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Proportionality	Confident
[First season First episode of Pepper Ann.](https://youtu.be/G-4hBxOMl34) Better then I remember actually	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
Uh, against the grain I guess, but YTA for being friends with someone like that in the first place. Jesus ever loving Christ.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Purity	Confident
I don't think it's possible to get over resentment when the reasons for that resentment are current, ongoing and justifiable. From your description, the biggest problem in your marriage is your husband's current attitude and behavior, rather than how his part behavior has made you feel.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Confident
I always wondered if any other show other than the Simpsons used this Ident? If so I've never seen one.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
\> When you deceive a financial institution to profit, you’re committing bank fraud under U.S Code Title 18 U.S.C 1344. And I'm pretty sure most States $9000 crosses into the felony line. If you're saying "they gave up" than I call shenanigans.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Well I have to be honest based on OP’s responses I suspect we’re being trolled.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator04	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident

My father was a surgeon. He has said on more than one occasion that scrubs is probably the most accurate medical show on television. Not perfect, but a much more realistic representation of working in a hospital.

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Oooof. She's not respecting you and that's really messed up. I'm sure she's a lovely person and all, but what she's doing is not okay. It sounds like it could be a self esteem thing. Where she needs others to validate that she's desirable? I'm sorry dude.

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They’d find a fix elsewhere either way...But it’s never too late to volunteer with addiction management organizations if that feels like some sort of atonement

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i love everyone freaking out here like this isnt the confessions subreddit. not all confessions are cute or validated by circumstances.

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You're going to get bored with this. Maybe you already are and that's why you posted.

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funny you should say that i’m 6’1 and i gave a person a ride once >:o

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It takes two. Do you also not trust your wife? Because that's a bigger problem than your brother not being able to keep it in his pants.

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Alas, many AITA commenters root for everyone to cut off everyone that does anything bad toward them. Compromise and forgiveness are not exactly valued on this sub.

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Pauly Shore and Rudy dug up caveman Brendan Frasier and they went to high school together. Everything about that is endearing.

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Ok, no judgment. From your post it sounds like you had your son with some doubts and those doubts were confirmed after he was born. I am glad you know what you do and don't want. I'm just trying to figure out what might be going through your husband's mind. I also don't think he would abandon your child, so I commented. I don't think you would either. I don't know how you work this out. Whatever you do, don't have another child to "save" your marriage, that won't work, especially because you know how your feeling.

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This show helped a generation of kids not be racists

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I’m 56(m) and have been like that all of my life... I fake confidence... always have...

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Gotta love those posts that treat 5 years ago like the good old days.

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What if Jacob is rich now and you simply taking that off his mind gets you some cash

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NTA. I cannot fathom the resistance to this kind gesture.

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Unless it is an enthusiastic and clear yes it is sex without consent. I don’t necessarily agree with the people saying report him to police, etc. But claim of “middle ground” is ridiculous. If you don’t have consent it is legally and morally rape.

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You’re an abuse survivor. I think it’s completely normal that you don’t show affection to your abuser.

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It’s not over the top though. This normalising of infidelity just perpetuates people doing it. If there are no consequences then, for many, there’s no reason not to do it.

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But it still matters to her. It’s so horrible when adults completely invalidate children’s feelings because they’re young. It’s important to validate them and treat them better than just laughing over something important to them.

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Ten bucks says that if he made an ultimatum about one of her friends she wouldn’t stand for it Edit: this is my first award... thank you kind redditor

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Please be careful for the future now OP. Once you start blacking out, it becomes much more frequent and easier to do

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Why does everything have to be an ego trap? But damn, yes, these are awesome.

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Info, why are you with this person? You say you love him but doesn't sound like he treats you or others with respect, kindness or decency. I admit I'm biased here though because manners are a massive deal to me and I really can't stand a lack of them. They cost nothing after all. You're only 16, you've got a whole life ahead of you with better relationships where you are treated how you deserve. Trying to change a person rarely works, so if he's not compatible with you, consider ending the relationship.

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But also pressing charges doesn't necessarily mean ul secure a conviction and more people need to be aware of this. The system is a set up to protect perpetrators. My family know this from our own experience.

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NTA. You don’t own that toxic prick a damn thing.

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He wasn't poly because you're not his GF just a FWB that somehow didn't realize it.

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I'd wager pedophiles don't have an exceptionally high sex drive unless they are also sex addicts. So it comes down to choosing wether to have sex or not with someone, and in so many cases, forcefully. Thoses who do it are just pure scum.

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You kind of need to remember that all of these issues effected your ex too. They’re allowed to not be willing to jump back into it, and they’re allowed to resent the fact that it took a break up for anything to change.

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This should be on AITA, you’re using a client for sexual pleasure without her knowledge, AND going behind your gf’s back. Wtf

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My friends used to live in a weird apartment building that was owned by a cop and they couldn’t have *any* guests. It was really weird but it was also like 10’ from campus and cheap so it was convenient enough that they dealt with it.

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Ah, finally somebody who isn’t soft. I swear most of these questions here wouldn’t be asked if people didn’t act like such doormats.

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Responsibly rehoming an animal you can no longer provide for doesn’t make you an asshole. Things change in our lives, and sometimes the best way to care for them is to find someone with better suited conditions. But I don’t think the behaviours you’re describing means she’s unhappy- sounds like she was poorly socialized through no fault of your own. Feral kittens can be difficult to manage well into their adulthood. If you want to keep her, try looking up some management techniques for feral kittens.

AmItheAsshole

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I curse you wherever you are, for the rest of your life. May you never find happiness

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It seems you are scared of rejection young man. If she is sending these messages and she doesn't actually happen to be interested then she is in the wrong. You would have nothing to be embarrassed about.

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Let me lay it out for you, then. This isn't the kind of charge that goes away even if the victim or her mother don't want to press charges. The state will press charges. If anyone at all goes to the authorities about this, you're fucked. Chesters don't do well in prison.

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When i was a kid we use to call it Gimp. Not sure if that helps 😊

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Yip. You did the worst thing possible that you could do. He doesn't bring gifts to other family because you made him worry about getting accused of sexual harassment Leave him alone.

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Porn messes with your sexual arousal and can huge impacts on your subconscious reaction to women.

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The funny thing is they sell a version of this still, I bought it for my kid- exact same concept but slightly different look and it’s absolutely noisy as fuck. Thing sounds like a chain saw. So it made me laugh that apparently the old one was too.

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How can you support racist policies but not be racist?

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On your edit: there is no greater disrespect for a profession than trying to prevent someone from from entering it.

AmItheAsshole

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Gender dysphoria is a real diagnosis though. Our noggins are more complex than we think, and gender isn't concrete (even sex can be varied). The hypocrisy of TERFs is that as feminists they're against women being objectified for their bodies and genitalia, yet they define themselves and their identies around their bodies and genitalia. There's more to womanhood than periods and birth.

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Sooooo does that mean Spaceballs 2, the Quest for more money is FINALLY going to happen?

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Isn’t dwarfism a specific condition, as opposed to just being a little person?

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People who consider themselves the leader or king in a group, are usually just assholes.

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It is one thing to max out one credit card with no intention of paying but to do this repeatedly and willingly is fraudulent. Be careful

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Wrong. Relationship is all about support, you can’t just send him to therapist because it’s HIS problem. OP, I don’t recomend you listening to this comment. Talk more, tell him how good of a man he is, to boost his self esteem. If you choose to be ignorant, then your relationship won’t last.

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> I'm trying to accept their values You can be accepting of their values without making them your own

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i’m not a pothead (don’t smoke at all) but i’d still be stoked for 1.5-2 grams of weed for free. that’s like $15-$20 worth where i’m at

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I think the fact that you still feel bad about it many years later, shows you know it was wrong. And I'm guessing you wouldn't do something like that again. We all make dumb choices when we're kids and sometimes mistakes need to be made to learn. I give you my pass to forgive yourself lol

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These things should never happen, but the sad truth is that they do. Thank you for sharing your experience. You are loved and appreciated.

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But OP wrote that the school's warden was present for the tutoring sessions, and all necessary permissions were acquired before any tutoring began. Everything was done by the book and approved. How was the OP in the wrong?

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I remember the line that would start at the begining of every assignment handed out, as we all tried to avoid working by sharpening our pencil for way longer than we needed to.

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YTA — I’m almost certainly going to get downvoted for this, but it’s pretty damn creepy that you married a woman half your age (just a couple years older than your daughter) whom you easily could have fathered. The entire rest of this story is fallout from that extremely questionable decision on your part.

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> it’s the fact that there was 1000 ppl there and he thinks I’m gonna get corona And truth is you most likely will if you keep going to protests. Masks are not horribly effective unless everyone is wearing them

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Why? I can only assume it's better than the disgraces of human beings he's living with currently

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Also I recommend a big gift for the whole family this christmas to try and forget that your ex tried to ruin your life by coming into it again. Have fun with your wife and kids Drive around visit places out of town (with proper measures) and enjoy christmas as much as you can (while protecting yourself and others)

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I don't think so. The fact that we're increasingly more aware of our actions is a good thing.

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Man, those were good. I read that they can cause a fissured tongue though.

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Because anyone can use any pronoun they want to? Why should only enbies & trans people be allowed to use different pronouns?

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You’ll be fine. It doesn’t take a genius for her to see what the charges were and know who did it. She’s probably overlooking it. Given that you’re a juvenile, you’ll be fine.

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Only thing i can say is make her take a pregant test in front of you, in a few days. You could get lucky and she is not pregnant

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For real. When I was 17 I started going on family trips with my best friend's extended family. When the situations called for it, we helped tend to the little cousins. It wasn't even a question.

AmItheAsshole

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I've never been to wendy's, but this picture makes me extremely nostalgic for some reason

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I don’t think you understand why this bothers me haha, I have 0 concern that anything is actually going to happen,’my husband would never be attracted to a child and I’d never want to scare a child with hormones and that’s not what happened here.

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When your leg goes in between the plastic parts, and you go to pull them out. OUCH!

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Thanks so much for the advice. I did exactly what you said just now and am really hoping the company does not verify dates!

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Thank you so much. “Life is unpredictably hard” would be a great slogan for any number of different products, campaigns, or religious movements.

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So to be clear- you paid her 350$ of solid profit, then an additional 150$ so she got paid 500$ which became her pure profit since she didn't have to cover the alcohol? And she still wanted more?

AmItheAsshole

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Jesus. NTA. Maybe if she packed your stuff from communal areas but like, actually going into your room and touching your things? Not even asking? What. The. Fuck.

AmItheAsshole

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Yep, this is decades of mother-daughter enmeshment. Even if OPs wife recognized the issue and WANTED to change may take a long time. It is the wife's problem, but she probably can't even see the enormity of the issue and how badly it is affecting her and her marriage. Hopefully this will open her eyes. She'll need to unravel this ball of bullshit and manipulation in individual therapy.

AmItheAsshole

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You’re right. I hate him so much and I hate myself more.

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They are quarantining but they were the first to have it here so I am sure they spread it for a day or so before they developed symptoms or realised they were sick?

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Uh, yes, yes it is. I'm not OP, I can completely debate your ruling. And about OP paying for the vast majority of her kid's college fund, any comments on that?

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Good for you! Hope everything works out. I was in one years ago, if you need someone to talk lmk.

AmItheAsshole

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Losing his mom doesn't give him an excuse to be a nasty human.

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Not sure how it works in other countries but for Canada we have theft under $5000 and theft over $5000. So 'd you're going to steal $5k you might as well steal $100k

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Well it sucks to hear, but it doesn't sound like he's that great a person to be with anyways. Especially if he's giving you an ultimatum and an illegal one at that. Threatening to end your relationship if you don't incriminate yourself for his benefit. Nah fuck that

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That's not stealing, that's using them as they should be used.

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Ahh that’s a shame. My parents are pro choice and don’t have any problem with sex or abortions but my sister preferred not to tell them I think mainly because of personal privacy. How are you feeling right now?

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That's called sexual assault. It's a stunning lack of respect and a really scary future to your relationship.

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It will always be hard to hear things like that from your own mother but people like that never change. Regardless of what happens in your life she will always have something “more important” that is happening to her so it’s probably best to limit contact with her to stop her from being able to do this to you.

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those corporations are made of people exactly like OP, greedy, justifying their lack of moral, and ruthless

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I had a panic attack from laughing so hard at the very first on in my school library as a kid. Everyone was staring at me as I couldn't hold it together cause Garfield got slammed in a screen door and said.. Ow.

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No need. Even if she wasn't on meds women have a waaay harder time passing it on. That's why it spread so rampantly through the gay community. It's best spread anally. If she's on meds it's basically impossible for her to give HIV to anyone.

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NO. just no. He should have known better and not taken advantage of your situation and vulnerability. The end.

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No lease? No problem. Leave. Go anywhere. Even to a woman's shelter. Just get the hell out of that shithole and stop playing mom for these entitled men-babies. You must have a girlfriend or a relative who would take you in?

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You should talk to a doctor. There are certain illnesses or medications that can cause acquired color blindness.

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I like how you're harassing strangers and yet still, 22 years later, trying to paint them as the bad guy. You were a prick. Not sure that's changed.

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I’ve never worked in an office for environment but this movie resonated with me anyways. They seem to totally nail the monotony of the job, amongst other things.

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I remember I saved up for a cute white cardigan and when I got it I was so disappointed on how cheaply made it was!

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And? That doesn’t change the fact that clothes of any type are for humans of any gender.

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Continue to be civil yet frosty. If anyone asks what’s up, say “oh nothing. Hubert is just abandoning his terminally ill wife (there are statistics about men leaving sick partners. They aren’t good.) and kids and moving in with the woman he’s been cheating on them with. He thinks I and his kids should feel sorry for him.”

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tbh I'm a little tired of reading about women having to be their partners' mommies and give them chores and punishments. A partner is supposed to be an equal. When I read something like "if OP lets him do such and such" that just sets off all kinds of alarm bells to me. That's terminology you use when raising children or training dogs, it shouldn't apply to grown-ass men.

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[First season First episode of Pepper Ann.](https://youtu.be/G-4hBxOMl34) Better then I remember actually

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Uh, against the grain I guess, but YTA for being friends with someone like that in the first place. Jesus ever loving Christ.

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I don't think it's possible to get over resentment when the reasons for that resentment are current, ongoing and justifiable. From your description, the biggest problem in your marriage is your husband's current attitude and behavior, rather than how his part behavior has made you feel.

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I always wondered if any other show other than the Simpsons used this Ident? If so I've never seen one.

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\> When you deceive a financial institution to profit, you’re committing bank fraud under U.S Code Title 18 U.S.C 1344. And I'm pretty sure most States $9000 crosses into the felony line. If you're saying "they gave up" than I call shenanigans.

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Well I have to be honest based on OP’s responses I suspect we’re being trolled.

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