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Well it’s been a week still haven’t approached or talked to her I had multiple chances I’ve walked past her and besides her I’ve glanced at her so many times ( WHY DO I DO THIS TO MYSELF ) and when I sat behind her I saw her talking to another guy 😀 anyways the last like 2-3 days she’s just been ignoring my existence so I think it’s time to give up and not bother starting something that’ll just end in embarrassment ☹️. | Crushes |
So this one girl has a crush on me, its obvious. Is she just playing some hot and cold stuff? or did i piss her off? I'm really confused!!! | Crushes |
So there is a girl best friend of mine who asked to go to a nearby store with me.
So we went and the next day comes. Later a boy ask us where we going said yesterday and why are hang out often and she says that she got bored yesterday and she had to get some school supplies that's why she called me...
Like I am mad now like I am some kind of free type of person whom you can whenever you need to make you free from boredom. | Crushes |
i plan on (HOPEFULLY) confessing to him on sunday.. i need advice on how to go about it like how should i go about expressing my feelings for him..?
how would i deal with rejection..? | Crushes |
- Case 143 by Stray Kids
https://open.spotify.com/track/3O8G8eVrhfXTGttyQ1xVuq?si=auF5jDpOQgK-NPpZVNdfHQ&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%3A37i9dQZF1DX9tPFwDMOaN1
- Always on my mind by Elvis Presley
https://open.spotify.com/track/1B5Tp2Ml9nLlmTSJx8xVfI?si=76gmfHdZSoe39koKyxpN-w&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%3A37i9dQZF1DWTyQKmHU6FcW
- Heart attack by Chuu of Loona
https://open.spotify.com/track/6SSC9KZQaxBdyipKRigrFC?si=IJVXYBMoRECI1-EW3x5eiQ
- What is love? by Twice https://open.spotify.com/track/3zhbXKFjUDw40pTYyCgt1Y?si=8u7fRjoeRdWCtHlobH010g
- OMG by NewJeans
https://open.spotify.com/track/65FftemJ1DbbZ45DUfHJXE?si=wxoa0SeQTgecC-1mr4Mgsw
- Playing with fire by Blackpink https://open.spotify.com/track/7qmvLmX9tyaTiBAVNI6YEn?si=qSHIHsy5Riuj9iS8JdI3uA
- I can't help falling in love by Elvis Presley
https://open.spotify.com/track/44AyOl4qVkzS48vBsbNXaC?si=F3EAhPMLQaW01yrLRbhTGA&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%3A37i9dQZF1DXdwmD5Q7Gxah | Crushes |
Had to come to Reddit. Semester started 3 days ago and me and her began our friendship through other friends during our breaks. I got her Snapchat and we clicked so well we hung out after class in the clubhouse playing pool table tennis etc. she doesn’t like honey mustard so I mixed it with regular mustard and she went insane but it was so cute. One of the clumsy dudes spilled water on me and she jumped up and ran to find wipes tissues and stuff. The last three days I’ve been hanging out with her doing homework and basically enjoying her presence. She had lab yesterday for 3hrs and after lab we went to the social hall and she just layed on me on the couches. Today we decided to join a club because why not. I told her I’d stay till around 2:30 because I wanted to go home and sleep and watch basketball but sleep. I ended up staying with her and our friend group until 7:30…. That’s right I’ve been up since 5am and this girl has me staying with her,though it was fun because we were playing uno cards and would you rather. Every-time I’d tell her I’m leaving she’d say “don’t leave yet” or “no no no your not leaving yet” or “just sleep on my book bag” or “let’s take a snap for the privates” I even caught her staring a few times before acting like she was on her phone or playing with her hair . Eventually she tired herself out and wanted to go home, she wanted me to walk her to her car. Which I had no problem because it was dark and the campus was empty.We ended up talking for like another 30 minutes before she realized we been here all day and had homework. Idk if she likes me or she’s just being nice or I’m overthinking but y’all let me know..I came to college to get a degree not date but I won’t rule it out…oh and she took my beanie and is claiming she’s never returning it too……🤷♀️ (but definitely let me know what y’all think I’ll definitely go back and forth in the comments too) | Crushes |
I litterally havnt spoken or done anything to them. They act like i did something to tjem. Now i did sometimes feel shaky when my old crushes friends came around me so maybe they’re creeped out by me? but i legit havnt done anything to them. I never interacted with one of them. I have interacted with the other friend but only cuz we were assigned as a group for a assignment.
In science class One of her friends tried to move when i was assigned to sit behind her. I told the teacher to move me somewhere else cuz of her. So i moved successfully. She just tries to get away from me lmfao. I think she also made my friends hate me cuz they don’t talk to me and they’re friends with her .
And today with my old crushes other friend We were walking up the stairs and i ended up behind her so she moved to the other side of the stairs. I tried to get away but i couldn’t cuz there was a bunch of people. Why are they trying to get away from me as if i touched them. My old crush and that friend isn’t even in my classes anymore. Last school year they didn’t try to avoid me so idk what the deal is. My old crush doesn’t try to avoid me i think. I try not to get close to her just incase but one of her friends legit sat a few seats behind me when i moved to another spot | Crushes |
He knew that I have a crush on her. In Orchestra, he’s literally had to show off his perfect work infrount of her! I get really jealous when they talk to each other, because I think they like each other. I don’t know what to do. | Crushes |
So yesterday I was on call with my crush like usual. He was streaming while we were playing Val. One of his followers asks him a question which they didn’t want to say in the chat. From where I heard that he said no she’s not. I guessed that they probably asked him if I was gf or smthg. To where he says yeah we just call cuz I’m bored and have no one to talk too. And that got me upset. I was like WTFFF even his friend chatted how disrespectful that was.
He then goes on to say: right?
And I was like: What?
And he was like: right like that’s why right?
I just said: that question was asked for you not me soooo idk what you want me to say.
He sort of insisted but then dropped it then. I stayed quite the whole time. When we were done playing he asks me if I’m okay and I was like: uh ig and he was like: pls don’t die on me pls don’t! I was just like: I’m fine. BRO IS SO CONFUSING OMGGG. When we first started talking he would tell me how he has so many friends and that he’s in so many servers. Also his friend asked if he could join vc with us and he was like no dont. Thennn whenever we call he sometimes said oh I was in another vc but I left cuz it was dumb. Keep in mind he’s the one that always ask to vc. Also yesterday I was still mad about what he said so when had asked to vc I just kind of left it there and this guy texts me again four times asking if we can call. Soo what does he mean I’m so confused whether he has feelings for me or not. | Crushes |
I (NB)need some help, i have a big a crush on a guy in one of my classes (M) he hangs out with the boys that bully me, but he's really nice when he isn't around them.
He basically doesn't acknowledge me but I really like him.
I've tried to become friends but I'm very socially awkward and I don't know what to talk about with him.
I've toighy about asking my friend about him who is basically besties with him, but I don't 100% trust her T.T
(Idk if this is the right subreddit, please tell me what is if it's not)
Can someone helpz?
(Ages not disclosed for privacy 👍👍👍) | Crushes |
We went on a thrift date for like 2-3 hours and we hugged and made eye contact a lot!! | Crushes |
TL;DR - I want to unblock my ex even though he was the one who didn’t put in the effort in our relationship.
I just got out recently and im the one who broke it off.
Even though it was his fault because Ive asked him to change multiple times and to stop lying but he wouldn’t. I gave him multiple, MULTIPLE second chances but it was never enough.
And now I feel so empty because being with him and spending my time with him was the best thing that happened to me in the past 10 years. It felt like he was my first ever real friend.
Its been 2 days and I feel like already unblocking him. I feel like I should ask him again to change or maybe this time he’ll take me seriously. I dont know. | Crushes |
I just broke it off recently and im the one who did it.
Even though it was his fault because Ive asked him to change multiple times and to stop lying but he wouldn’t. I gave him multiple, MULTIPLE second chances but it was never enough.
And now I feel so empty because being with him and spending my time with him was the best thing that happened to me in the past 10 years. It felt like he was my first ever real friend.
Its been 2 days and I feel like already unblocking him. I feel like I should ask him again to change or maybe this time he’ll take me seriously. I dont know. | Crushes |
So there was this guy whom I have been stalking on Instagram lately. My hands were shivering a while ago because of the cold weather here in our place. While scanning on his IG and still shivering, I accidentally liked one of his old photos from 2017. Like. Holy. Crap. 😳 I immediately unliked the photo as fast as I can while having a mini panic attack. Oh, my God. What an embarrassment if ever that incident popped up in his notifications and he saw it! Praying there was no notification and that he was not on his IG that time. He might think I am a stalker. (Well, I really am, but he's not supposed to know that anymore! Hahaha) I was introduced to him by my cousin few months ago, so he KNEW me. Worse scenario: we are neighbors. 🤣😭 | Crushes |
I developed a crush in my TAKEN coworker. I always keep it professional and honestly don't think I will make any advances due to 1) respect for his relationship and 2) professionalism. But one thing I do is to over analyze every small interaction we have.
To have some context, we are both introverted, especially him. I don't feel like he has any crush on me but I keep over analyzing small details and my brain forces things that are likely not there.
A few examples of how my brain works and the probable logical explanation for things:
* "*Hey \[OP\], do you have lunch with you?*" - omg he was going to grab lunch and asked if I wanted \[he probably would ask anyone the same question\]
* I go to grab lunch and am waiting for the elevator, he comes 1 minute and we catch the elevator together - omg, he did that on purpose and now I will ask if we can grab lunch together \[it was a coincidence and it just so happens I got to the elevator before him\]
* *"Hey \[crush\] I liked the song you put on last day, could you give me the name of it?"*; he gives me the name of the song and band, and proceeds to give me another song recommendation from another band - omg, the song is love themed, omg omg this is a sign \[he was just recommending a song, it is not that deep\]
And these are just some examples of how my brain tries to feed my feelings with stuff that it is exaggerating. And it is driving me nuts. I just want these feelings to go away so I can focus on my job but the more I try the more they come back. Help me please. | Crushes |
I want to ask out this girl who sits in front of me in my english class, but I am held back by the fact that she sits in front of me and if she says no, things could get awkward.
There’s a chance she likes me: she keeps putting her shoes on top of mine under the table, and she smiles a lot when she sees me. I want her so bad, but the potential awkwardness if she says no keeps preventing me from taking action.
Any Advice? | Crushes |
Why does this girl keep sending me photos of her with other boys, and keep me updated about her and the guys in her life? | Crushes |
Wanted to see what others think | Crushes |
not really notice me but how do i get a nice conversation with him?
so um 20F here and i like this guy from a different course in my univ, i met him through a common friend! the first time we met i introduced myself to him in a flirty-joking manner tho he went with it. then when i was able to text him days later, IT WENT GOOD BUT a few days later it kinda felt off and it felt like i was kinda bothering him so.. uh help please send any cheesy tagline i swear i appreciate it! | Crushes |
context.. i hope he doesn't come across this somehow but uh if it is you,, you're just hallucinating.
anyways SO--
I deactivated my main instagram account once before because I just wanted to distance myself from people I knew for a little while.
Just for fun, I decided to go and see my crushes account on one of my extra unused accounts but noticed that he deactivated too. (He followed the account that I deactivated)
Literally about a couple of hours after I deactivated mine.
And back when I deleted all my photos to stay less visible online, he deleted all the photos that he had posted too not long after I did it.
Now.. call me an overthinker but that can't be an ordinary coincidence.
Even recently I deactivated my account again early this week and he had his account deactivated about a week ago meaning that if he wanted to deactivate it again then he'd have to wait for another week (which is this week)
And the moment that time limit finished, he deactivated it again.
On the same week I decided to deactivate.
???????
And when took my photo out of my profile he did the same too.
You can't tell me this mf isn't doing this on legitimate purpose 😭
Extra info : He knows I like him and I've confessed to him before last year (didn't get rejected, just the both of us focusing on studies right now because this is the most important year for school)
But like,, give me your opinion on it.
Do you reckon he likes me?
Or am I just reaching.
Because the time intervals are way too close for it to be a coincidence.
And the fact that he never did those things for the longest time until I decided to.
???
This is such modern generation bs and I'm well aware but like,, tell me,, i'm not just reaching right??? | Crushes |
was feeling confident and asked my friend if he wanted to be friends w benefits (because we’ve texted each other frisky things before) and i was rejected i’m so embarrassed please omg someone help wtf i knew i shouldn’t of even asked fck my life | Crushes |
So a little backstory to the situation, I've known her since the 7th grade and she used to be a close friend. I sort of developed a crush on her in the 8th grade and I told her about it, to which she responded by saying that she doesn't have feelings for me. It took me a few years for my feelings to go away and we just stayed as best friends. We've now graduated high school and I moved 564 miles away from her for uni.
About a month ago, she replied to an IG story I posted, asking me how I've been and all that. I was assuming the conversation to end in a day or two bc I remember her being a dry texter. But to my surprise, we've been texting on a daily basis since then and she has been initiating the conversation every day. It feels like we've just gone back to being close friends but about two weeks ago, she started being a little more flirty, sending me hearts & selfies, and calling me luv or bubz or hun. Im not sure if she developed feelings for me or if I'm just overthinking things.
The worst part of this situation is that my feelings for her are starting to come back and I hate the feeling of being uncertain of the situation. I won't be able to ask her face to face until March bc of uni and I've only been interacting with her via text, calls, and facetime. Im not sure how I should approach the situation and I need a different perspective on this, | Crushes |
Vent/ Advice needed
I indirectly confessed to my crush and he reciprocated. I indirectly asked him to be mine and he said “let’s see how much fun we have on our date then I’ll be 100% down”. Yesterday he told me he’s catching the feeling of love and ever since I confessed, he’s more expressive, open and flirty. I know he wants me and I want him (he said it explicitly)but why do I get the feeling that he’s just playing with my feelings? Rationally, I know that’s likely not and he’s genuinely saying what he’s feeling and expressing but I can’t stop thinking about this feeling. Maybe it’s cause I was the one to play the big moves and that he haven’t done any big moves (although, idk how big of a move this is, but he’s giving me his hoodie and indirectly told me he’s starting to love me (love..more than like)). Maybe I just need reassurance? Cause we’re meeting tomorrow, I kinda don’t wanna dim the happy mood down. But either way, how do I ask for reassurance? | Crushes |
so i’ve been talking to my crush for a few months already and it’s been great. the thing is i’m not an open person, it’s hard for me to express my emotions and i don’t like to talk about my personal problems. lately though i have gotten comfortable to open up to them. i suffer from a depressive disorder and sometimes i want to talk about it but every time when i do open up they never respond to it or they change the topic. i don’t know if its because they genuine don’t know what to say and they’re scared to say the wrong thing but i sort of feel hurt that they don’t say anything. i actually got comfortable with that person and want to be vulnerable but they seem to not get the idea? what do y’all think? do y’all think they care about me or they just don’t know how to comfort me? | Crushes |
idk my friend told me that she likes my crush and was able to say hi and wave to him he knows her bc he spent time w a group that she was in during the first few days i was really happy for her when she interacted with him but i can’t help but feel this horrible feeling
i want to support my friend’s feelings but it just hurts mine when i try to and the fact that my other friend said “i ship (friends name) and (crush name) so muchh they’re so cute together” makes it worse but i cant hate my friend she’s sort of like me but better. and like the person i am i’m not able to admit my feelings at all i’ve already learnt that i shouldn’t keep those feelings in from before and i was gonna admit it soon but before i did my friend said that she liked him
and anyways i don’t think he even knows me. like he interacted with her before but not me i’m not even sure if he knows me i don’t know what to do but i think i might give up on him for her | Crushes |
How do I make it obvious enough to the dude who I know for sure likes me that I line him back without being the first one to confess? | Crushes |
she has been acting weird lately and I love it
- was huddled with a group of girls giggling, called me over asking my zodiac sign (she already knew it, we’re opposites and highly compatible personalities)
- her friends would not stop smiling at me and watching my behavior whenever I was around her
- stood very close to me and made hand gesture around her chest and watched my eye movement
- we went off to the side for me to apologize to her about something and she got really nervous and blushy
- acted really surprised when she saw me drinking coffee as if that isn’t a normal human thing (still not sure what this one means… coffee date?) | Crushes |
I have a crush on this guy, but how do you know if you’re meant to be with them? How do you know if they’re your soulmate or twin flame? | Crushes |
Background:
Both are on a graduate programme and placed in the same department for a year. After September we will be going our separate ways. I want to say I am a black dark skin woman he is a white guy not saying that race dictates love but as a black woman I tend to question it a lot more as we are not seen as desirable in society. Yes, I know I am beautiful!
I don't know if after my placement I should ask him out.
We work in the same directorate but in two separate sub-teams so we do not work directly together but occasionally sit in the same place.
Now I will list a few things objectively and want to know people's opinions on whether or not he likes me.
1. He always starts the conversation on Microsoft Teams
2. He calls me bro - a bit too much where I will probably tell him to stop
3. If I present or do anything in front of the team he will private message me to compliment
4. When I complain about my manager he offered to talk to my manager (not sure why as it wasn't that serious) and is always there to support and listen
5. Always asks me for help with work tasks
6. He saw my profile pop up in a team call he smiles and then messaged me privately “long time no see” after being on annual leave for two weeks.
7. he talked to me about these girls he was trying to get and how when he is trying to sleep around with girls they get attached.
8. He laughs a lot at the things I say I am funny but at times I'm confused but flattered
9. If in the office together he walks over to come to talk to me
Anyways that's all I got happy to answer any query I guess I do like him but just don't know how to test the waters to see if it's worth it for me to put myself out there after my placement. | Crushes |
My (18F) crush(19M) and I met in college this semester and quickly became great friends. I mentioned to him that I enjoy sending and receiving letters, so he sent me one. He always gave me mixed signals over time. I had planned to ask him out next week, but after reading his letter, I'm at a loss. Is it possible that I've been friend-zoned? Should I ask him out?
This is his letter-
*My dear panda, you are one of the best friends I have ever had. Did you ever consider which goddess you would have been if you had been a goddess? I'll say you would have been the goddess of love. You are such a great person, charming, beautiful, and daring; these are the qualities that draw people to you and make them fall in love with you; this is the impression you leave on people, and I am afraid that I will fall in love with you as well.*
*Well, there is never a day that I don't think about you or remember you, and when I listen to a song, you are the first to come to mind. You are becoming the heart of my college life; I feel as if I come to college solely for you. You already gained a place in my heart. You became my best friend in about 2 weeks, you got as close as my other best friends and now closer than them, I have never had such a close friend in years, some times I wonder why I did not meet you much earlier in my life, but now I have you.*
*You will live on in my memory for the rest of my life. You are the most amazing girl I have ever met in my life. You'll always have me at your side, and I'll always have you in my heart. That's all I've got to say you.*
TLDR Crush wrote me a letter and I think I'm friend-zoned. | Crushes |
I was talking to a friend about how my crush who about a month ago told me she reciprocated feelings for me had asked me to be her boyfriend like 2 days ago, and my friend was saying that I should tell my parents and make sure they were on board with it so that I wouldn’t just have a secret girlfriend and accidentally have my parents find out in like a year and have them not trust me. So I talked to my girlfriend about it and she said that she had already told her parents and they were cool with it and was surprised that I hadn’t told mine yet lol, so last night before I went to bed I had my parents sit down so I could tell them, and it was really awkward for me but they’re fine with it as long as I don’t act like an idiot and screw it up lol | Crushes |
🥲💖 cuz I do, I don't remember if I told him the thing in passing or not(but pretty sure I did, I just don't remember the situation)but he remembers.
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/10mf8xi) | Crushes |
I (20F) once confessed to my friend (21M) that I had feelings for him. He rejected me. I didn't call back. Last December on my birthday, he called me. I thought it would be just wishing me. But no, we talked for approx 2.5 hours that day.
He previously contacted me too (After the confession) and we talked for more than an hour. This is really confusing to me because I still have some feelings regarding him and him calling me still is preventing me from healing and moving on. What should I do? | Crushes |
His response times aren't fantastic but we have actually had conversations! I'm really trying hard to not be extremely obvious but I don't think he's noticed. I've offered to buy him coffee to stay in a class with me, I've sent him pictures of notes in that class, told him what lesson we were doing, put extra papers in his binder while he was absent, etc etc.
This semester I only have 1 class with him instead of having 3 like I did last semester. I'm clinging onto the last class for dear life but he says he's trying to drop it because his friend isn't there anymore.
Me fighting the urge to say "I'll keep you company" knowing full well I'd puke from anxiety by the time I even sat down next to him. | Crushes |
I know the title makes me sound delusional, But trust me im not. My crush which has liked me back for almost 2 months now is trying to play mind games with me, He claims that he talks to other people ( Which he does obviously but their literally all his friends and their all platonic conversations, Not romantic which he claims they are ) And he also claims that he never liked me, by saying stuff and hinting at it like “I’ve never liked anyone” in conversations, or “Ive never had a non-platonic relationship” Which literally contradicts himself because he’s always bragging about how he likes someone… I know he does this because he’s just trying to play hard to get, I’ve already consulted his friends and they said that he likes me back, and that he’s just scared. He also tells me he loves me every night before we sleep, and he texts me good-morning. Not to mention we also text all day ( and i mean literally all day ) but it hurts me that he’s trying to play mind games with me, And even though their mind-games they still hurt me for some reason. He also leaves me on delivered for 20 minutes to an hour, But he doesn’t do this to anyone else. And i know he’s not busy or away because it shows his status as online every few minutes, and his snapscore rises as-well, This is another mind game he plays. Does anyone else have a crush like this? And should i reconsider making a move and dating him if he’s already acting like this? | Crushes |
I had a huge crush on this amazing person during my first year of college and I even posted about it here. Coincidentally, one fine night after we went cafe hopping, we were both locked out of our houses because our flatmates were bar hopping that night and didn’t expect us to come home. And for some reason, both of us didn’t have keys.
Long story short, we confessed to each other and turns out I was also his crush for a long time. But, we went for cafe hopping to celebrate his acceptance in a college for his masters, on the other side of the world. So we decided that it would not be a good idea to start things off in a long distance and we agreed to be friends but eventually I started seeing someone and he did too and we lost contact.
6 years later, I have been in a relationship with an amazing woman for more than a year and I love her a lot. Yesterday when we were out in a cafe, the old crush walked in with his friend. We sat and ate together and talked alot. My girlfriend also knows about this particular crush.
But when I saw him, I started getting butterflies and if I think about last evening, I still do. I love my girlfriend so much and I cannot think of being with anyone else because this feels right and amazing. But I’ve never felt this way, the butterflies and tingles…
Is this normal?? | Crushes |
This bothers me but I have to at least do something…
I’ve been crushing for almost a full year on this one girl in my grade. This is my 2nd year of high school and I haven’t found my chance to confess. We barely talk and I get major anxiety when I pass by her, when I’m in the same room with her, or even doing a group project… I have no classes with her, and I only see her after my first class and maybe around campus. I really want to confess and I’ve only told one of her friends that I liked her but she hasn’t said anything to her. So, it’s basicly on me to make the move while I still have the chance, or if I have a chance.
Any advice that you guys want to give me???? | Crushes |
So to provide context, I got a HARD crush on a friend of mine a little of three years ago. During the first year, she got a boyfriend before I gathered my courage to do anything. So I sat around a little sad but continued on with life. The following year she broke up and then I admitted my feelings for her. I got role-modelzoned which wasn't very suprising tbh. A month later she got into another relationship which lasted up until now. I just found out they broke up and I feel like these deep seeded feelings I have been holding to have resurfaced and have got me contemplating. I wish I could explain more about how I feel and what the situation is like but it would take several pages worth. So I leave it here for whoever to interpret and make sense of.
I should move on...but I can't stop seeing her everywhere. | Crushes |
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We’re not that close yet but this’ll be the first time I get to see them outside of class. I really hope I can keep a steady conversation going especially about things besides math. | Crushes |
My ex crush and I both liked each other, but my ex crush started being a hoe and his brother helped me with the situation. I think i might catch feelings for my ex crush's brother. Is that okay? | Crushes |
Is it annoying to be messaged often by someone? At what point does it become annoying in your experience? | Crushes |
So basically my “friend” asked my crush out, and they said that they dont know. I was worried that they might get back together because its their ex. They told me they liked me back in December and we “dated” (our relationship wasn’t really defined because they had just broken up with their ex a month ago) for a bit, but their parents found out and we had to shut it down. Today we were walking to the bus and they didnt look at me and they just went “just so you know, me and \_\_\_ aren’t together. I just thought you should know,” and I was so stunned i didnt say anything but “okay,” And yesterday we were in 7th period, and they started to like stare into my eyes a lot and we would just sit there.. although everytime I ask them about them and their ex (they are friends; im not that much of a jerk,) they just say “I kinda still have feelings“ and stuff like that. Yet they frequently talk bad about them occasionally (only when the “friend” does really stupid sh\*t) I still am confused weither they like me or not. I need another opinion. As of myself, im not sure I want a relationship just yet. They feel the same way about not wanting to date anyone right now (they broke up with their ex in November), and our parents are really mad at us because were a part of the lgbtq+ community. (I‘m pansexual & demigirl and they are non-binary & bisexual.) I’m not sure if I want to risk a bunch just to date them, but im in love.
(My crush & my “friend” are non-binary so please use they/them if you reply about either of them) | Crushes |
How do you confess to someone properly? i know she likes me, she told her friends and they directly told me and want me to admit my feelings. we lock eyes for 5-10 seconds at a time then we break and she gets really red (so cute) and i cant help but grin real big. i just wanna know what to say and what to expect cuz im really new to this and dont wanna mess it up cuz i really do love her. | Crushes |
So I have a hallway crush. Turns out Ive had her added on snap for a while. She asks what I like, i sent a pic of me with chad face, and then she sents 2 pics of herself. The convo goes for a while, and then we go back to streaks. Now Im getting full face streaks. But, Ive been delivered for like 12 hours now. I am sp confused cause i though i rizzed up. | Crushes |
Bro why is it so cute when she looks up at me with her eyebrow raised? It’s a thing we do to each other but it’s so cute cuz I’m like 6 inches taller than her so she has to look up. | Crushes |
Second time a girl I had a crush on blocked me I’m gonna turn gay if this shit keeps happening | Crushes |
I been getting to work a little late and I just realized this girl from my part time job has been waiting for me it seems in the parking lot, then when I get in and to my cubicle she comes in about 5 min after me, even though when I drive in she was already here and car was parked. I thought I was over thinking but then it happened again today that's the third time, then walks in through the door by my desk just to walk past me and look at me when she thinks I'm not looking. The other day she was walking up the stairs and I was in breakroom and she tells me she thought I was here, I smelled you from down the stairs, complimenting me on my Cologne. Is she obsessed with me or am I over thinking things well then this happened? So yesterday I finally confessed and told her that I like her via work chat and then asked if she was single. She then chats back and tells me that indeed she's is in a relationship, yea I was a little confused as she's been showing sooo much interest and even caught her waiting for me to arrive and depart from work like the other week she left work early and I was leaving and I saw her a cross the street in her car parking lot watching me, it was the same car make and model and looked like her in there, so I thought for sure she was into me. Anyway, so today I come in and I notice she did that thing were she waits outside in the parking lot until I arrive and go in then comes in 5 mins after, despite her already being here, she's doing this on purpose for sure now. Then later she starts to walk past me a lot and doing things to walk by only this time I stopped looking at her basically stopped showing her all signs of interest since she confirmed she has a boyfriend, but she still steals glances and continues to take the long way to see me. So what's happening, why is she like this she told me she has a boyfriend and I backed off why is she still showing strong signs of interest to the point she's even waiting for me to arrive/depart to watch me? | Crushes |
He makes me speechless. I can't think of any type of words to describe how amazing of a person he is. He lights up my day. He's my best friend and honestly the best person I've met. He talks bad about himself sometimes and I try to cheer him up the best I can. When I start to think about him I act like a puppy who just seen their owner again. I get excited and wonder how he's been doing. We don't get to see each other as much anymore because of different schools but we still speak to each other at least four times a week. I'm normally a rational person but when I see him or think of him my thoughts go out the window. He's an honest person and we get along great. We talk to each other as normal people and can understand each other's opinions. He's generous and shy. He doesn't like to speak out loud most of the time which is understandable. When he does speak loudly he has a big smile on his face but he covers it. It's adorable how he tries to cover it with his hand. I'm obsessed with his laugh and how he gets embarrassed about his smile. He wore a suit one day to school before he moved and when everyone was questioning him about it I accidentally blurted out that he looked handsome. His smile was something I can't forget. Just making him smile was enough to put me in a good mood for the day. I'm pretty sure he thought I was joking when I wasn't. He looked handsome to me and he kept looking embarrassed about it. I had to reassure him that I was serious, but now I think he took it off as a friendly gesture.
I honestly want to tell him how I feel, but I'm 80% sure that he's straight. If anyone mentions the idea of him dating a guy he would look at them confused. I would never want to pressure him into anything so I'm not telling him my feelings unless he himself tells me that he likes men and women. I want him happy so I'm willing to put my feelings aside to keep him comfortable. He's an amazing person that I fell in love with. Being able to be his best friend is an award to me. Whoever he falls in love with will be lucky. I want this future person to know that whoever you are, you're one of the luckiest people I've ever seen. He's a kind hearted person who's been hurt too many times. Don't hurt him he's a really great man when you get to know him. He puts others before himself even when he deserves to be put first. He fidgets on certain occasions especially when he's nervous. He'll probably be tapping his fingers or interlocking them. He's an understanding person that is willing to hear most people on what they have to say. He's too forgiving for his own good but that's what makes him an even better person. Whoever this future person is if you ever finds this and regonize me, I'm happy for the two of you. | Crushes |
I am 22 and a senior in college and have never had a boyfriend and have never been kissed. I used to be obese but since lost weight and am now getting boy attention, but I am very picky about who I like, and am also awkward and sort of immature when it comes to boys.
Anyway, I was beginning to worry that I am asexual, because boys ask me out but I always say no because I don't like them, and I honestly don't have many sexual feelings.
Then, last week, I met a boy in college who is so funny. It takes a lot to make me laugh, but this boy does it. I also find him extremely good-looking and smart, and am attracted to him. We have been hanging out ever since.
I have also been obsessively thinking about him! I can't stop thinking about him! Whenever he texts me I smile. He always asks me to hang out, and wants to give me tae-kwon-doe lessons.
But then yesterday, we were hanging out and his girlfriend called!!!
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I don't know what to do. Does this mean he never liked me and just thought of me as a friend? I swear that we were flirting (play fighting, etc.) But maybe I was wrong?? What do I do? How do I get over this? Please help! | Crushes |
My Dm for my D and D group. She is cool and cute. I have had a crush on her since I met her actually. She is single currently because her BF broke up with her a few weeks ago. I would love to swoop in and take her on a date, even just as friends. I have been down this road before and it did not work out I had a "friend" and I found out she was single and looking and I asked her out and she said yes but then she ghosted me and sent a half hearted message saying "I cant anymore I am too busy". I am just scarred the same thing will happen. Also I think she mentioned last session that she is flirting with a girl currently (?). Oh god why am I like this? | Crushes |
So I’ve been dating this guy for a little bit. Let’s call him A. So A and I have been together for a week today and I like him a lot. Like a lot a lot. But for a few days he’s been saying “I love you” and I know I don’t love him yet. After my last relationship I promised myself I would never say “I love you” before I actually do. It made me feel fake. But I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I’ve been being able to get by because whenever he sends “I love you” he uses a lot of emojis and I’ll just use the last one he used.
For example:
A: I love you🥰
Me:🥰
But I know I can’t get by doing that forever. I don’t want to break the promise to myself or hurt him so what should I say.
Tl;dr: My bf says he loves me but I don’t love him yet so what should I say? | Crushes |
Hehehehhehehe I’m so excited :) | Crushes |
Has anyone ever got rejected because she was dating someone but you decided to try again cause they broke up. Totally not asking cause im in this situation | Crushes |
I’d love to hear any success stories people in this sub have had! Also happy Friday :) | Crushes |
I’m a teenage girl and recently have developed a crush on this guy. Lately whenever I sneak quick glances at him he’s already looking at me and we end up make eye contact. Another time I had a nosebleed in class and I was raising my hand to go to the nurse for a long time. He asked me if my hand was tired or if it hurt. He’s been sending some other signals too but I’m scared because what if I confess and end up embarrassing myself 💀💀
I’m a really shy person in general and I’ve never had a crush possibly like me back. Pls help 🥲 | Crushes |
There is this attractive girl, she caugth me off guard as i noticed many signs from her that she is attracted to me.
She seems shy im also a “shy guy” so what would be a good way to approach her without ruining my chance?
I know that if i don’t approach her its likely i will just miss the chance…
She works at my local supermarket she gives glances but looks away as soon as i look at her, she dosen’t give make eye contact when up close but looks at me from distance etc…
So how should i approach her in a way that won’t make me seem like a creep or make things weird?
And any other advises as im a noob at this?
We are both in our early 20’s | Crushes |
He'sy bf, i confessed today because of my sister and my friend. They asked him if he liked me and he saod yes and then i texted him saying I like you in morse code and he said it back | Crushes |
So I feel kind of lame posting here with all the high schooler's reddit posts (no offense guys) and either i'm immature or the 20 somethings don't post too often. Well, here we are lol
I guess for any kids >\_> reading this ...please dont lol But if you are, ask out your crush while you are young! you always have the excuse " i was only 15"
For the actual adults, having a crush sucks man. I'm in a tight spot where I can't say anything due to working together. I know I need to get out more but I have all these excuses and a growing infatuation. not healthy.. | Crushes |
This may be a bit long so sorry!
I need with becoming less awkward around my crush and actually coming up with topics to talk to him about… I don’t know too much about him but I’ve known him since August. I kinda plan on asking him out but first I gotta be able to talk to him😭😭
Backstory:
So me and my crush go to school together and in the begging of the year when I met him I instantly fell in love, except he didn’t know and thought I hated him, he tried to ask me out a few times but I ended up rejecting him because I was struggling with my mental health at the time and didn’t wanna bring him down with me. Well I later found out he actually has liked me since then? It’s been 8 months…
Well he got into 1 serious relationship + was talking to 1 girl since he asked me out and i just didn’t know how to feel about that but I thought he had totally moved on from me… Well he started flirting with me abt 2 months ago and one of my friends told him I liked him… He’s been acting really flirty around me and has just been making it really clear that he likes me and I just don’t know what to do cuz I really like him but I’m an introvert and I find it so awkward and hard to come up with topics to talk to him about and I’m scared he’ll loose interest. | Crushes |
I have a crush on this boy and I took a picture of him the picture got to him and he found out that I got a picture of him and he said that he was going to report it to the office and I have a class with him and I don't know what to do please help | Crushes |
Whilst I was in sixth form, I liked a guy, he was super hot! I mean his style was nothing I’d ever seen before irl and he seemed so intelligent. However me being me, I was too scared to speak to him, so didn’t and ended up not doing so, we still live in the same area, but I’m in uni and I think he works now.
However I would just hit him up, as I mean I can’t stop thinking about him and I’ve never found a guy hot as him. The thing is, he barely knows me and his socials are super private, he only accepts people he knows and will question who you are, if he don’t know you! Like when my friend added him randomly, he was like do I know you?
I know he’s had a few online trolls and weirdos catfishing him, so that’s why he’s private and questions everyone that adds him, unless he knows them! I found that out as that’s what he told my friend when she randomly added him!
So I feel if I randomly add him, he will decline or say that to me! Plus I haven’t got a good excuse, I can’t tell him I think he’s super hot, that seem so creepy or that I know him well
I can’t stop thinking about him! It’s not like I can even see him irl to strike up as a conversation | Crushes |
I'm a Muslim woman with big tits. I always found men hungry for me and want to fuck me. I always enjoy this feeling that men stare on my big boobs and try to impress me to fuck me. But after my arrange marriage I found on my wedding night that my husband cock is very small and doesn't even get errect. He never get hard on bed my pussy always get hungry for cock. I didn't get my pussy fucked by my husband till now. What should I do? | Crushes |
So I’ve been kinda flirty with this one boy and he’s been flirty back. We were texting about something and I said “you could be mine” with a flirty emoji and he replied with 🙂 what does this mean? | Crushes |
So yesterday we got into a fight, it started out with me complaining for her dry texting and then (may have fucked up here) told her she isn't above everyone and can't just respond like that. Then she said "I am about everyone" and she was serious. And then I may have left her on read for ~24h. I wanna tell her that's a fucked up thing to say and to calm the situation down but idk how | Crushes |
We were hanging with our friends and everyone was really drunk, we were making out a lot from what we remember and our friends confirmed this. We aren’t a couple, we agreed it felt wrong kissing drunk but we both like each other and now that it’s out in the open we might try hang out more and see what happens.
His friends keep texting me saying how much he’s been talking about me ! | Crushes |
Im tall, strong, rich, funny and etc but im mumbling during speaking. When i was little i was speaking russian and because of it im mumbling in my national language, georgian. I have a funny accent and i cant same some words correctly. I tried going to speech theraphist but no luck. I can speak english and russian without mumbling but i mumble in my national language. I guess i dont have chance to talk to my crush. | Crushes |
The feeling is mutual. I hit my deadline to say something and went into it fully expecting a rejection. I was shocked to not get one. For so many reasons I’ve never felt more lucky in my life. | Crushes |
So, there is a person that I like but I have never mentioned anything to them nor have I ever acted weird around them. Everytime we text, they tell me something like "wish you were here" etc. Before all these, they also asked me out but since they were laughing, I thought they might be joking.
But this is not the confusing part. The problem is that I'm always texting them and they rarely text me themselves. I know that person is busy blah blah, so am I, but if they like me back, wouldn't they text me more often?
Lemme know what you all thing. Thanks in advance. | Crushes |
Another Friday night. This is probably the loneliest time of the week. The thought of just the small things, like doing tacos, goofying around, teasing each other about what we have in them (I want to know if he has pineapple with tacos, how his pronunciation of guacamole is, allergies, etc.), going from the worst kind of playlist, to Prince's "Kiss" and then slowing it down to some 60's Etta James... The thought of it almost makes my heart burst I want it that much.
How amazing wouldn't it be to snuggle up in the sofa, the smell of popcorn and a blanket that now wouldn't cover one but two? Putting on a movie, the long struggle of which to pick and him laughingly rejecting each of my lovey-dovey suggestions, me burying my scrunched up face in his shoulder with a "nooo come on" by the sight of his gory picks, but both then switching sides voting for the other's category. I win (duuuh) and we watch Alien (which is actually a comedy so we end up crying from laughter). Then, to get even, we continue to his choice, Notting Hill, into past midnight and he tries, but fails, to hide his crying at the "just a girl" scene.
Next morning realizing it was actually not some dream, but him being there and removing a loose eyelash from my cheek, blowing short puffs of air through a smile my half-awake self can almost hear, and brushing a strand of hair from my face, with a soft "good morning" as I peek at him. And oh. He's even cuter than I remember. (I do not thank SKAM for setting this level of relationship expectations). We just lie in bed for what could well enough be forever, please let it be forever, and talk about everything and nothing.
Oh you think I seem lonely? Not. At. All.
Just to sort out any misunderstanding, none of above has happened. Just my hopeless fantasies. So, as you maybe, just maybe, have guessed, there's this guy (21M), we're in the same uni class, (yes, I'm (23F) in uni but write like a love-sick 12 yo) and we've talked a few times. And I might like him. Ok, not "might", more like he's adorable and yes, I like him. But that's the thing, for a long time I didn't even want to admit to myself that there's a crush but have finally had to come to terms with it (see first three paragraphs). But the thing is that girls like me don't get a partner. I'm not the funny kind, not the pretty kind, definitely not the sexy kind. But I'm the kind that has just so much love to give. So much it's becoming almost unbearable. Volunteering and doing good deeds only gets you so far. Most people try to offer "give it time" and "love yourself", but I don't want to wait. And I do love myself, or at least I did. Before it got harder and harder to rebut the increasingly obvious revelation that I seem to be unworthy of unconditional love from another human being. How does one find a crush and just assume there's any chance of them liking you? When he said he like talking to me my only thoughts were; he's either being polite, he says things like that to everyone or he's making fun of me. Don't want to come off as a creep and the thought of putting out my heart for someone's taking is terrifying. How on earth does mutual love even happen?
And yes, I know the obvious answer is to put myself out there and admit. Walk towards rejection (and it's tiny buddy called "hope") with open arms as if greeting a long lost friend. But how does one do that? Advice and success (read rejection as success as well) stories please :) As the title says, there's the issue of social anxiety. It's getting better but I'm faaar behind and it's not as if things are getting any easier. Is there anybody else with sa who managed to confess to their crush in a not all too earth-shattering way and if so how? And if you're like me, having a hard time even making friends, did you still manage to believe that there might be someone for you?
Listened recently to an audiobook where the main character concludes that she needs to be rejected, in the same way one needs a flu shot. I think that's the case for me now. | Crushes |
Me(18M) and friend ‘Kyle’(18M) have a weird relationship. We met back in sophomore year during covid and became close quickly because of shared interests. I’m gay, but I am not one to fall for straight dudes, or anybody for that matter…but something about him makes me feel like i can be myself around him, he’s been the only person on my mind since then. He told me he was questioning his sexaulity back then, but took it back and said he was straight. He flirts with me, A LOT. We cuddle, hold hands, and tons of other flirty things, but nothing more than that. He knows how I feel, maybe not to the extent that I really do, but it’s been so confusing. I don’t want to ruin our friendship, but I can’t take it anymore. I know he feels the same about me, everybody around me sees it, but he wont admit it and i don’t know why. He talks about girls and even dated 2 during our friendship, but they never did more than kiss. I normally am not bother but i’ve been getting so jealous whenever he makes these comments, especially right after we are flirting and cuddling… it’s so strange.. What should I do? | Crushes |
Ask me abt her, and I'll answer your question in return 🫰🩷 | Crushes |
1. The way her voice sounds irl (ngl she has a sweet voice irl)
2. Her new black hoodie she started wearing (she reminds me of a night sky)
3. The way she smiles (she looks so cute when she smiles)
4. Don't forget her the brown eyes ☕️🩷 (they remind me of a Starbucks Frappuccino)
5. Her ripped jeans that she wears sometimes (THOSE DRIVE ME INSANE 💞💞)
6. She sometimes reminds me of big sister who used to attend my school
7. Trust me, the way her hair looks is A M A Z I N G 💇♀️
8. She has a really sweet personality 💕
9. Not to mention, I gotta love her brown hair 💇♀️🥂
And number 10
10. She's my most favorite person ever 💓💓 | Crushes |
Gonna be teaching her how to get good at fortnite, may seem cringey but oh well | Crushes |
He just text me mind u at 8pm saying he’s on his way to this nightclub to see a gig what am I supposed to do with this information. | Crushes |
My boss told me that she told her that she wants to go to prom with me. I'm confident that she doesn't like me romantically, but I still have a shot to take her to prom as a friend. I've never asked anyone out, and I don't know how to. I'm also a little disappointed that it's probably gonna be just as friends, but I'm till happy that I get to take her at all. How do I ask her? And do you think I should just accept that we're going as friends or should I try to aim higher? | Crushes |
Yesterday me and my classmates were going to an assembly and then my crush started chasing me there as I was trying to run away from her. After the assembly, we got sent back to 5th period to get our stuff, and started walking to 6th period. I noticed her and ran away from her again, then she started chasing me again. I love her sm LOL 🩷🩷🩷 | Crushes |
I recently met a girl in driving school and I really liked her from her appereance, but we never really talked to each other. I wanted to ask her for her number after the last lesson, but her parents were taking her home and I was too shy to ask her in front of her parents.
Somehow I found her Instagram and now I want to text her and maybe ask her for her number.
Do you know how I should approach this, or do you think it would be weird to just text her via Instagram even though we never really talked to each other? | Crushes |
I just saw this guy performing 5 days ago and thought that he looked not bad to me. Then 2days later, I saw him performing again and I just had that moment for him. It was like a crush moment. Then I went to find his ig and follow him, he followed back and I texted him first.
We have been continuing our long thread of convo for over 3 days so far, but I am the one asking qn abt him mostly. He seems to reply to all my questions and he uses a lot of hahaha and errr. He only asked a qn in return to me.
Is there still hope? Or what should I do? | Crushes |
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I've liked them for years MY INNER VOICE IS ON MAXIMUM VOLUME | Crushes |
I said hey I wanna tell you something then an hour later she responded and said yea?? Then I said sorry I didn’t see the message I fell asleep. I’m waiting for school to end so I can text her | Crushes |
IM GOING TO SEE THE SUPER MARIO BROS MOVIE W HER IN THEATERS TOMORROW AND IDK WHAT TO WEAR OR HOW TO ACT HELP ITS MY FIRST MOVIE DATE GIVE ME ADVICE | Crushes |
Our 6 month anniversiry is coming up soon. I need cheap gift ideas- I feel bad saying cheap but I'm poor as fuck.
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She REALLY likes Kuromi and Sanrio in general.
She also really likes Slipknot. | Crushes |
Because of how personal this is, I'm using a throw away account. It is necessary for me to give a little background to contextualize why I'm feeling this way. For pretty much the first 25 years of my life I've been severely bullied and ostracized. For example, in grade school literally everyone bullied me. Pretty much all the students and all the faculty. I was regularly yelled at everyday, in detention everyday, teachers constantly threw away my home work and tests. One day a kid broke my collarbone in 3 places, and that's when my parents pulled me out of public school for my own safety. I had to be home schooled. I don't want to literally give my life story, but I just want to give you an idea for the kinds of things I've had to struggle with. Extreme abuse from my peers.
This whole time almost everyone I've met has treated me like shit. The only advice I've ever gotten was, if everyone around you seem horrible, then you are the asshole. When I've sought out help people tell me I must be a horrible person.
Eventually, I get the low level job I have now. Suddenly everyone says I'm super nice and hardworking. Co-workers aren't treating me like shit. I wouldn't say I've made any friends per-say. I'm often in situations where I have to work by myself, because any help would actually slow me down. I'm often referred to as an all-star employee. If you are like me, and you have faced a lot of psychological abuse your entire life, then any compliments are at best bittersweet and at worse extremely painful.
My manager is a year or two younger than me. I believe she mentioned once that she didn't really want kids, because she has a large family already. One time when I was picking up my paycheck, my manager's sister had brought her nephew with her. I got to see my manager act in a very feminine and motherly way for once. That's kind of a soft spot for me. It's difficult for me to explain. There is a certain kind of tenderness, compassion, and kindness that only women have. That's one of the things that I'm just really attracted to.
I'm pretty positive she mentioned having had a boyfriend for 5 years. I don't know if she is still in that relationship, or what's going on. I don't want to know. I don't want to needlessly complicate anything by asking those kind of questions. It's not really my business anyway.
I have kind of a timid personality sometimes. What's been making things worse lately, is that whenever I talk to her, she gives me this sort of doe eyed look. I know she's looking at me in kind of a pitiful way. I know she feels a little bad because I work so hard. This isn't any sign that she thinks anything of me. There is no reason to think it's anything other than pity. It still stirs those feelings inside of me, because of all the abuse I've faced my whole life. I'm a little bit of a messed up person. I'm having to deal with a lot of painful emotions lately. I know I'm being irrational. I just wanted to get this off my chest. | Crushes |
Okay so basically there was this guy from like middle of last year. Basically we met on this subreddit and eventually we started sort of dating but not really? Idk how to explain it. Anyways we did the whole long distance thing for a bit. I introduced my friends to him and they all got along which was good.
I ended things with the guy, we stayed friends for a while but it was too awkward to me so we stopped being friends. However, I only found out like 10-15 minutes ago that one of my good friends apparently had a crush on this guy. The only thing that maddens me is that I didn’t find out from her… I found out from the guy I haven’t spoken to in like half a year.
My friend knows the whole situation I had with this guy but in all honesty, i feel betrayed. I mean she’s practically getting together with my ex without at least telling me about it. Apparently she’s had a crush on him for months or smth and I only find out from chat on reddit where he is asking if I think it is okay that he has a crush on my friend. At least he had the decency to do that.
All in all, I’m mad and I don’t care if the guy can see this post. Let him know. | Crushes |
I've seen this girl for the first time few months ago and since then i cannot get her off my mind , how is it possible if we didn't even talk before? Why our brains send us so strong chemicals related to certain persons , she is attractive but not insanely beautiful like i would choose her over world class models when she is probably a 7 at best. Is it me or happens to everyone? | Crushes |
I (18f) asked my friend (18f) to ask my crush (18m) if he has a crush on me over lunch, before I got there.
Since I don't have a chance to talk to my friend for the rest of the day, I asked her to give me a sign whether he likes me or not. Wink her left eye for no, and her right for yes.
She winked with her left. I don't know any details besides that, like if it was a hard no or more unsure.
I still really enjoy his company as a friend, but I'm a little depressed about this news. I obviously won't be asking him out anytime soon, but do you think there's still a chance for something in the future? | Crushes |
I was stalking her insta (sadly she's private) and now, there is a half-naked guy in her profile picture, she's putting her arm over him. She probably got a boyfriend.
I saw her first time on the train, but only noticed how good she looked when I saw her only after a few times. She goes to the same school as me, and we saw each other sometimes. She often made eye-contact, her friends also looked at me. On the train, it also seemed like she took photos of me, but maybe that's my imagination. I wanted to talk to her, but she had a nervous expression, which lead me to believe that the conversation would go awkward, and I waited for the perfect opportunity to introduce. But now, I don't really see her in school, but I Ithought that maybe she liked me. One of her friends even added me on Facebook.
I wish I acted faster. Final exams will be in a few months but I can't study. A girl invited me to go with her to the gym, and I agreed, but ever since my crush's new pfp, I just want to stay at home and do nothing. I cancelled the gym session with the girl.
Ever since her new pfp, I just can't do anything. I can't study, despite the fact that final exams are in a month, I don't want to play videogames, don't want to watch a series, only listen to songs and scroll memes. I still enjoy going to school and talking with others, and I still do jokes and funny stuff (at least try to) so I don't have depression, but I still feel bad. I mean, if she really liked me like I thought, she would have talked with me and not get together with another guy? I don't know. | Crushes |
I like this girl a lot. Let's call her L. We've been texting since the middle of Feb. It was going really well, she seemed really interested as she asked me a ton of questions every time we texted. Last week was the easter break and we didn't text during the holiday because I wanted to give her space I guess. I decided to text her after the break ended and she hasn't opened it for 2 days now. I also saw her yesterday at a party, and we just made eye contact a couple of times throughout the party. I wanted her to approach me but I think she was either shy or just wanted to avoid me. Any advice on what I can do? Should I go up to her and ask her why she is being distant? | Crushes |
Basically, my friend saw my crush talking to someone else at the locker today. He often talks to this other girl and it just makes me lose hope.
They have really good conversations and they often sit somewhere near eachother. Although this girl also talks to almost every other boy in my class, she’s probably interested in my crush too..
I sometimes talk to my crush, but it’s really short. I’ve noticed him looking at me a lot sometimes tho, and often when he sits in front or back of me he is always awkward and nervous. I even wished him goodluck today during a test, but he was busy writing but did like react to it, but didn’t reply or anything like that.
It’s always a toss up, some days he talks so much to the girl but sometimes it feels like he pays alot of attention to me
I just don’t know if I should continue or not if he likes someone else or doesn’t even like me and I’ve been delusional all along | Crushes |
I’m trying everything. Trying to journal, watch my favorite tv shows, focus on hobbies think about other things, focus on other things and NOTHING is working. He is still in the back of my mind and I am suffering 24/7. Why can’t I seem to get him out of my head no matter what I do??? I’m literally trying everything to distract myself. This is hell. | Crushes |
Context: We use to be classmate from grade 4th to 6th and I start having crush on her but never talk to her about it . I barely talk to her , she even don't know i exist . In 6th standard my friends were talking about who they have crush on ,every one has then spill the tea by telling name and I took her name . Those were the best days of my life.
Never told her that I like her and then in 7th grade we got seperated she was in D section and I was in E section. I could see her occasionally during breaks but not like being near her ,just from far i use to look at her.
So, after 8th grade my family shifted,and It result of that I have to change school. I use to think about her all the time she was my first love and she still hold that place in my heart.
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For 2-3 day I start to miss her a lot so, I start searching her name on social media but couldn't find her any way. But yesterday I searched again and I founded her Twitter and then there she was . I founded her Instagram and send her a request and after 20 min she accepted it . So I message hi! But She don't remember me at all, after sending her our school photo she remembers me. So we talk about school and is she in touch with any of our classmates (she is not ) and after talking I felt so overjoyed and happy.
Okay so here is the part , I think she has a boyfriend and she is happy with him. So, I should not make any move or conversation that make them uncomfortable. I decided to be as it is and try to move on rather than think of her. I should respect their boundaries .
What do you guy think ? | Crushes |
She's been acting strange around me for 4 months that at this point it's a dead giveaway, and she has no reason to act strange around me since we barely interact... (I legit have a list of all of the weird behaviours she displays around me)
I got friendzoned when I confessed, out of curiosity I asked her about the staring and looking away thing that she's been doing, and told her that it's basically the reason i developed a liking to her, and she basically denied it ever happened...
But it did happen though... She's been doing it for 4 months and even her friend noticed... The next day I could tell she was trying alot harder to make sure her staring at me isn't noticeable...
I never knew it would be possible for somebody to be too shy to tell you they like you after you confess, I thought she would be excited and tell me that she liked me back after that... I mean she was excited... all of her messages were in caps...
If she just isn't ready for a relationship, I thought she was already interested in a relationship... or atleast tell me that she liked me back because she kept making excuses to talk to me the time we briefly got seated together, and she was pretty brave for doing that because she blushed so hard everytime she did, she never noticed that she was blushing. And she kept trying to know more about me and trying to see what I'm up to..
I don't get it. Is it my fault for confessing over text?
Will she lose feelings for me over the summer? I can doubt her losing feelings for me over the summer because after we had a 3 week break and she never lost feelings for me, she couldn't stop staring at me after we returned to school, was she excited to see me? was she not able to wait to see me again? lol.
But what if we don't get in the same class next school year? That's my biggest fear right now :( Should I text her and give her one last chance to tell me the truth about the staring? (I mean, she already denied it, I should probably stop because I texted her for a few more days after I confessed) I've talked to multiple people about this and all of them said that she definetly has a crush on me :( . What do I do :( | Crushes |
There's this girl I really like who I chat with a lot especially in the past week. We literally spent an hour talking with each other on dms but then the next day in school, it's like we don't know eachother. What does this mean? | Crushes |
Ive been waiting for the right moment to watch 'the Last of Us' series. However, Im that type of person who gets scared but still watches for the plot. And damn, my courage finally kicked in after 4 months since the series was released. The day before yesterday, I started watching the first 3 episode and i was hooked for the plot.
We were informed later that day that we were having an oral recitation in our General Biology, talking about the levels of classificationa and stuff. This topic really intrigued me and i made a promise to myself to memorize all of the phylums since it sound prty cool. However, later that night, my mind halted and found the Last of Us series much more intriguing. I reasoned out that maybe i can learn more about fungi since its kind of related with our topic. I FINISHED THE SERIES AND IT FELT GOOD. The day after, I spent my morning reading fanfics about it. And lo and behold, the recitation came and it will be done by group.
Suprisingly, I was teamed up with her and one other member. She is a academically inclined student, always aiming for the highest grade but still humble. And I was jammed up to answer the questions. But... my mind went blank. I WAS NOT ABLE TO STUDY T-T AND THE QUESTIONS WITH BIG POINTS WAS ABOUT THE PHYLUM. She was able to answer half of them but if i were able to study or memorize that night, i would have helped T-T I was only able to help with two questions out of 50!! Way to ruin a shot.
i dont know how she feels after that encounter.
we ended up being 5th place out of 10 groups which is quite bad.
i felt right there that that was really 'the Last of Us'. (pun intended)
anyways, now im more inspired to study becoz of that embarrassing moment.
dear reddit, haha what do u say?
Ive been waiting for the right moment to watch 'the Last of Us' series. However, Im that type of person who gets scared but still watches for the plot. And damn, my courage finally kicked in after 4 months since the series was released. The day before yesterday, I started watching the first 3 episode and i was hooked for the plot.
We were informed later that day that we were having an oral recitation in our General Biology, talking about the levels of classificationa and stuff. This topic really intrigued me and i made a promise to myself to memorize all of the phylums since it sound prty cool. However, later that night, my mind halted and found the Last of Us series much more intriguing. I reasoned out that maybe i can learn more about fungi since its kind of related with our topic. I FINISHED THE SERIES AND IT FELT GOOD. The day after, I spent my morning reading fanfics about it. And lo and behold, the recitation came and it will be done by group.
Suprisingly, I was teamed up with her and one other member. She is a academically inclined student, always aiming for the highest grade but still humble. And I was jammed up to answer the questions. But... my mind went blank. I WAS NOT ABLE TO STUDY T-T AND THE QUESTIONS WITH BIG POINTS WAS ABOUT THE PHYLUM. She was able to answer half of them but if i were able to study or memorize that night, i would have helped T-T I was only able to help with two questions out of 50!! Way to ruin a shot.
i dont know how she feels after that encounter.
we ended up being 5th place out of 10 groups which is quite bad.
i felt right there that that was really 'the Last of Us'. (pun intended)
anyways, now im more inspired to study becoz of that embarrassing moment.
dear reddit, haha what do u say? | Crushes |
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Too bad she ghosted me after I told her I like her.
I got over it in spring break but then came this dream and it made me sad again.
I just want to talk this out with her. She is my classmate so I have opportunity to talk with her but I don’t know if I should | Crushes |
I already feel like I'm getting too far back into the habit of posting too much about my crush but I have to talk about this.
**The first dream** was the night before last after several days of not thinking that much about her during the Easter break. I was having lunch at school with my friends when one of her friends came and sat at our table. After a while she mentioned something about my crush to me before leaving, only to come back with my crush and another of their friends who sat down with us. Both of us were too nervous to even say hi and eventually they all left and sat at another table. I feel like this represents my fear of missing my chances with her.
**The second dream** was last night. We apparently had a class together and we were sitting next to each other, talking and being very close to each other. At one point she asked me about something and I apparently gave some amazing advice because then we just embraced each other, stood up and basically started dancing around the classroom (idfk lol) and she told me how she already liked me but now she was falling completely for me. 'twas great ngl.
**The third and fourth dreams** were both half dreams as I was waking up or falling back asleep this morning. Both were text conversations, one group chat and one that was just us. I don't remember any details but in both she sent something and I replied and immediately regretted what I had written before waking up.
**The fifth dream** barely included her except for the end where I passed her sitting with friends in a school corridor. We did not have eye contact. It is worth noting, however, that all the school dreams have taken place in my old primary school as opposed to the secondary school that me and my crush both attend.
Anyway, thank you for reading, feel free to discuss what you think these dreams might mean with me :) | Crushes |
I just really want to talk about this and get this off my chest 😭
Ok so weeks ago i (F18) started taking a class at this foreign language school, and the teacher sat me beside this guy (M17). At first it was really awkward and stuff but eventually we started talking (not too much though because he doesn't speak much english) . Now I'm like so into him its crazy, like his personality is one i've never seen before. Anyways i've been getting subtle signs that he might be into me, like he asked for my instagram and he gave me his main account and his spam, which only has his friends from his country so its rly private yk. This was when we barely talked. Recently he's been asking about my interests and stuff. His face gets all red when we talk, and he looks at me when I talk even though I can't keep eye contact. He constantly makes jokes when we're working together, but hey, he's a funny guy. Every time i seem confused in class he'll go on and ask if I'm okay, whenever I answer a question he starts clapping. He tucks my chair in for me, stuff like that. I'm a huge over thinker so i went online and apparently body language is a big thing. Like he sits way closer to me, i think he mirrors my body language (or i might just be delusional), and he leans in when I talk to him( I might just be quite). That other day I posted a pic on my story and he ended up liking it while he was sitting beside me and i kinda gave him a look and we both laughed but idk maybe he just liked the song I put with the pic, or he just did it because I was sitting beside him. Yesterday I was like I should text him so i asked him how he thought he did on the test we had earlier that day and we talked a bit and he mentioned he was playing fornite, so i said I play with my sister sometimes and he asked if I wanted to play with him today (but i feel like he just asked because he had nothing else to say). But like I texted him like 7 hours ago bcs I had a question and he hasn't replied but it ok i'm not going to think about that. So yeah like idk its weird, like I wouldn't say we're friends or anything but I can't tell if he's just really nice with everybody (he is) and I'm just reading into it way too much. But like there are times when we don't talk at all.
idkidkidk ahhhhhh
**tl;dr** I seriously like this guy and I can't tell if he might like me or if he's just being nice.
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ok so im a freshman and honestly i literally can't find anyone in my grade cz theyre lowkey 🤢🤢🤢🤮 but about like 2 months ago i was sitting in the bus and this majestic ass man came in and i was like omf he's so fine.. i didnt know his name nor his age at all but he's so attractive so i kinda had to find out on my own.. i eventually found out he was a sophomore and i found out his name too and this sucks cz idk how to talk to him because i literally only see him in the bus and the hallways and i've literally never talked to him in my life. we made a few awkward eye contact moments but thats it... i rlly dont know what to do tbh but honestly i'm ok with the way things r bc my last relationship ended rly badly and i'm far frm ready to date rn... i just like to admire him from afar <3 i would love to b friends w him tho
HOWEVER omg i think it was yesterday but i got to sit nxt to him in the bus!!!,, it was rly crowded and he got a seat somewhere and so i like tried discreetly budging my way through to the part he was sitting at. i was standing and i held onto the railing and i was eyeing the empty seat. he had his backpack on the seat so i obviously couldnt sit down but i think he saw me eyeing it and he moved his backpack on his lap so i sat down. omg that was so aaaaaaaaah ofc he eventually got off but like i enjoyed those 5-10 minutes i was sitting there. 😭😭😭
i'm so delulu help | Crushes |
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